1 00:00:11,064 --> 00:00:11,424 Speaker 1: So much. 2 00:00:11,424 --> 00:00:16,024 Speaker 2: You're listening to a Muma Mia podcast. Mamma Mia acknowledges 3 00:00:16,104 --> 00:00:19,584 Speaker 2: the traditional owners of land and borders that this podcast 4 00:00:19,704 --> 00:00:20,584 Speaker 2: is recorded on. 5 00:00:25,224 --> 00:00:25,904 Speaker 1: From Mamma Mia. 6 00:00:26,024 --> 00:00:28,464 Speaker 3: Welcome to the Spill, your daily pop culture fix. 7 00:00:28,704 --> 00:00:31,744 Speaker 1: I'm m Burnham and I'm Laura Brodnick. And today on. 8 00:00:31,744 --> 00:00:35,344 Speaker 3: The show, we are talking about a very exclusive interview 9 00:00:35,464 --> 00:00:39,104 Speaker 3: between Armie Hammer and Louis Thureaux. A lot happened in 10 00:00:39,104 --> 00:00:42,144 Speaker 3: that interview and I'm just going to recap what my 11 00:00:42,664 --> 00:00:46,144 Speaker 3: best moments were during it. We're also talking about a 12 00:00:46,224 --> 00:00:49,384 Speaker 3: math's contestant and her edit, whether she got a villain 13 00:00:49,544 --> 00:00:51,304 Speaker 3: edit or what's truth and what's not? 14 00:00:51,784 --> 00:00:54,104 Speaker 1: But first, but first. 15 00:00:53,824 --> 00:00:57,464 Speaker 2: So Asap Rocky, whose real name is Rickey Mayers obviously 16 00:00:57,504 --> 00:01:00,424 Speaker 2: an incredible musician, but we have a big soft spot 17 00:01:00,464 --> 00:01:02,664 Speaker 2: for him for being the partner of Rihanna and the 18 00:01:02,744 --> 00:01:05,784 Speaker 2: two cute kids together and we've been very enamored by 19 00:01:05,824 --> 00:01:06,544 Speaker 2: their love story. 20 00:01:06,744 --> 00:01:07,344 Speaker 1: Yeah. 21 00:01:07,384 --> 00:01:09,744 Speaker 2: Well, our cute little family has had a bit of 22 00:01:09,744 --> 00:01:12,424 Speaker 2: a rocky time recently. Actually didn't mean to make that 23 00:01:12,424 --> 00:01:15,744 Speaker 2: asyprock time and Acep Brockie time, if you will, because 24 00:01:16,104 --> 00:01:18,424 Speaker 2: he was charged. This is back in two thousand and 25 00:01:18,464 --> 00:01:21,504 Speaker 2: two with two counts of assault with a semi automatic 26 00:01:21,544 --> 00:01:25,064 Speaker 2: firearm for allegedly firing a handgun in the direction of 27 00:01:25,144 --> 00:01:29,584 Speaker 2: Terrell Ephron, whose professional name is acep Rerelly during a confrontation. 28 00:01:30,384 --> 00:01:33,184 Speaker 2: So acep Brocky in the court case pleaded not guilty, 29 00:01:33,224 --> 00:01:34,984 Speaker 2: but if he had been found guilty, he would have 30 00:01:35,024 --> 00:01:37,584 Speaker 2: faced up to twenty four years in prison if convicted, 31 00:01:37,624 --> 00:01:39,784 Speaker 2: so the stakes have been really high. There's been a 32 00:01:39,824 --> 00:01:42,304 Speaker 2: lot of media attention around the case. So both he 33 00:01:42,424 --> 00:01:45,024 Speaker 2: and Rihanna have been in the court room and there's 34 00:01:45,024 --> 00:01:46,944 Speaker 2: been a lot of photographers outside following. 35 00:01:46,784 --> 00:01:49,584 Speaker 3: So many photos of Rihanna like walking in and out of. 36 00:01:49,504 --> 00:01:51,744 Speaker 2: The oh, I mean exactly like and she's obviously trying 37 00:01:51,784 --> 00:01:53,384 Speaker 2: to hep her head down, trying to stay out of 38 00:01:53,384 --> 00:01:56,224 Speaker 2: the photos, but there's no way to avoid the media speculation. 39 00:01:56,704 --> 00:01:59,664 Speaker 2: But just this week he was found not guilty of 40 00:01:59,744 --> 00:02:03,864 Speaker 2: all the felony assault charges, and the videos from inside 41 00:02:03,864 --> 00:02:06,704 Speaker 2: the court room, and if you've seen them, are quite intense. 42 00:02:06,744 --> 00:02:09,104 Speaker 2: So there's that moment he's standing up, he's waiting for 43 00:02:09,144 --> 00:02:11,544 Speaker 2: the verdict, and the video is been taken from behind, 44 00:02:11,584 --> 00:02:13,664 Speaker 2: so you can just see obviously, like the tension in his. 45 00:02:13,664 --> 00:02:15,024 Speaker 1: Shoulders, his head is down. 46 00:02:15,304 --> 00:02:18,624 Speaker 2: Twenty four years in prison is obviously like a huge 47 00:02:18,664 --> 00:02:21,024 Speaker 2: thing to be facing. And when the jury read out 48 00:02:21,024 --> 00:02:23,624 Speaker 2: the first not guilty verdict, he jumps up. He starts 49 00:02:23,704 --> 00:02:27,144 Speaker 2: hugging people behind him who or his family and his team, 50 00:02:27,504 --> 00:02:29,824 Speaker 2: and then he runs over and hugs Rihanna and like 51 00:02:29,904 --> 00:02:32,344 Speaker 2: nearly pretty much like falls to the floor on top 52 00:02:32,384 --> 00:02:33,664 Speaker 2: of her. And in the background you can hear the 53 00:02:33,704 --> 00:02:35,184 Speaker 2: judge and like the people in the court yelling like 54 00:02:35,224 --> 00:02:36,904 Speaker 2: come back up, like you're not allowed to do that, 55 00:02:36,944 --> 00:02:39,864 Speaker 2: Like everyone be quiet, stop yelling, And then they came 56 00:02:39,904 --> 00:02:42,024 Speaker 2: forward and he was not guilty of all charges. 57 00:02:42,864 --> 00:02:45,104 Speaker 3: The story was actually took me by surprise because I 58 00:02:45,144 --> 00:02:48,184 Speaker 3: felt like we didn't hear much of it as it 59 00:02:48,264 --> 00:02:50,824 Speaker 3: was happening, like in the beginning, while the court proceedings 60 00:02:50,824 --> 00:02:54,344 Speaker 3: were happening, even like I remember we briefly heard when 61 00:02:54,584 --> 00:02:59,344 Speaker 3: he was being charged for allegedly firing the firearm, but 62 00:02:59,384 --> 00:03:01,784 Speaker 3: then nothing after that, not much during the court and 63 00:03:01,824 --> 00:03:04,864 Speaker 3: then only now as like proven not guilty. I think 64 00:03:05,224 --> 00:03:07,384 Speaker 3: it's so weird. It felt like it happened like so 65 00:03:07,584 --> 00:03:11,704 Speaker 3: close to Alec Baldwin, like that whole situation, and it 66 00:03:11,864 --> 00:03:14,504 Speaker 3: just seems so like just wild to me, like just 67 00:03:14,544 --> 00:03:15,264 Speaker 3: a weird time. 68 00:03:15,584 --> 00:03:18,464 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. So asap Rockie didn't do like any big 69 00:03:18,464 --> 00:03:20,624 Speaker 2: interviews outside the courtroom or anything like that. I'm sure 70 00:03:20,624 --> 00:03:22,544 Speaker 2: he just wanted to get home, but he did briefly 71 00:03:22,584 --> 00:03:24,264 Speaker 2: address the crowd. 72 00:03:26,024 --> 00:03:28,104 Speaker 1: They really wanted to think the jury coming in a 73 00:03:28,144 --> 00:03:29,064 Speaker 1: right decision, you know. 74 00:03:29,304 --> 00:03:32,184 Speaker 4: And I'm just so thankful. This is crazy right now, 75 00:03:32,464 --> 00:03:35,184 Speaker 4: this whole experience has been crazy for the past four years. 76 00:03:35,224 --> 00:03:36,024 Speaker 4: But I'm thankful. 77 00:03:36,384 --> 00:03:39,424 Speaker 2: Nonetheless, I'm thankful and it's blessed to be here right. 78 00:03:39,304 --> 00:03:41,304 Speaker 3: Now, to be a free man talking to guy, thank 79 00:03:41,344 --> 00:03:41,704 Speaker 3: you all. 80 00:03:46,744 --> 00:03:47,264 Speaker 4: Get your life. 81 00:03:47,304 --> 00:03:50,824 Speaker 2: That the lawyer mostly spoke kind of just like thanking 82 00:03:50,864 --> 00:03:53,984 Speaker 2: the jury, thanking the team, and like saying to Asap 83 00:03:53,984 --> 00:03:56,064 Speaker 2: Brocky and Rihanna who was staying there. And the whole time, 84 00:03:56,104 --> 00:03:58,424 Speaker 2: it's so cute. Rohan has got her arm around him, 85 00:03:58,424 --> 00:04:00,264 Speaker 2: and she keeps like leaning over and like patting his 86 00:04:00,384 --> 00:04:02,464 Speaker 2: arm and like kissing his shoulder and stuff, because obviously 87 00:04:02,504 --> 00:04:05,064 Speaker 2: they're so relieved with their two little kids at home 88 00:04:05,104 --> 00:04:07,264 Speaker 2: and everything. And then the lawyer starts saying like he 89 00:04:07,304 --> 00:04:08,944 Speaker 2: was so happy to help this family and they've been 90 00:04:08,944 --> 00:04:10,984 Speaker 2: friends for a long time and then a Rockie got 91 00:04:11,024 --> 00:04:13,344 Speaker 2: like quite emotional. So yeah, huge thing, but lovely for 92 00:04:13,384 --> 00:04:14,624 Speaker 2: them that the court case is over. 93 00:04:16,664 --> 00:04:21,544 Speaker 3: So earlier this week, Louis Thurreau, who is, I want 94 00:04:21,544 --> 00:04:24,104 Speaker 3: to say, one of the best interviewers ever. He's also 95 00:04:24,344 --> 00:04:27,384 Speaker 3: really well known documentary maker. He sat down on his 96 00:04:27,424 --> 00:04:29,584 Speaker 3: podcast with Army Hammer. 97 00:04:29,864 --> 00:04:31,464 Speaker 4: I have a theory on human nature that I call 98 00:04:31,504 --> 00:04:34,304 Speaker 4: my beach ball theory that every human being is a 99 00:04:34,344 --> 00:04:36,784 Speaker 4: beach ball. And your beach ball, the size of it, 100 00:04:36,864 --> 00:04:39,104 Speaker 4: how much air is in it, is what makes all 101 00:04:39,144 --> 00:04:42,904 Speaker 4: of us individual and unique. And that beach ball is 102 00:04:42,944 --> 00:04:44,864 Speaker 4: how much you like to sleep at night, how much 103 00:04:44,904 --> 00:04:47,304 Speaker 4: you like to drink, how much you like to have sex, 104 00:04:47,344 --> 00:04:49,064 Speaker 4: what kind of sex you like to have, any of 105 00:04:49,064 --> 00:04:52,104 Speaker 4: those sort of desires that we have. That's your beach ball. 106 00:04:52,504 --> 00:04:55,184 Speaker 4: And you can take your beach ball and you can 107 00:04:55,224 --> 00:04:59,064 Speaker 4: push it underwater for a person or a religious institution, 108 00:04:59,424 --> 00:05:01,984 Speaker 4: or a job, whatever it is that you need to 109 00:05:01,984 --> 00:05:04,784 Speaker 4: do to repress that beach ball. You can push it underwater. 110 00:05:05,344 --> 00:05:07,784 Speaker 4: But the further underwater you push it and the longer 111 00:05:07,824 --> 00:05:09,944 Speaker 4: you hold it there are, the more potential energy it builds. 112 00:05:10,344 --> 00:05:13,024 Speaker 4: And eventually one day you're going to lose grip of 113 00:05:13,064 --> 00:05:15,344 Speaker 4: that beach ball, and it's not going to gently rise 114 00:05:15,384 --> 00:05:18,424 Speaker 4: to the surface. It's going to go and shoot way 115 00:05:18,504 --> 00:05:21,624 Speaker 4: up in the air. But my theory, and I've seen 116 00:05:21,664 --> 00:05:23,424 Speaker 4: it now in my life, is that just like it 117 00:05:23,424 --> 00:05:25,624 Speaker 4: doesn't belong underwater, it doesn't belong up in the air. 118 00:05:25,704 --> 00:05:27,104 Speaker 4: And if it shoots up in the air and it 119 00:05:27,144 --> 00:05:30,184 Speaker 4: doesn't pop, it's going to fall and land on the surface. 120 00:05:30,584 --> 00:05:34,384 Speaker 4: And so I would say that that affair was me 121 00:05:34,584 --> 00:05:36,584 Speaker 4: losing grip on my beach ball. 122 00:05:36,864 --> 00:05:39,584 Speaker 3: We've talked about Armie Hammer in the past. The most 123 00:05:39,624 --> 00:05:42,584 Speaker 3: recent thing we talked about him was all those really 124 00:05:42,624 --> 00:05:45,944 Speaker 3: horrific allegations that were made against him. We read out 125 00:05:45,984 --> 00:05:48,744 Speaker 3: some of the text messages. We also talked about how 126 00:05:48,824 --> 00:05:51,264 Speaker 3: the biggest thing everyone was taking out of this was 127 00:05:51,864 --> 00:05:54,584 Speaker 3: is he a cannibal or not? And we dove into 128 00:05:54,624 --> 00:05:57,104 Speaker 3: how like, actually, when you look at it, that's actually 129 00:05:57,144 --> 00:05:59,344 Speaker 3: not even the biggest thing that like, some of the 130 00:05:59,384 --> 00:06:02,104 Speaker 3: alleged stuff that he did to women were absolutely horrific. 131 00:06:02,384 --> 00:06:04,704 Speaker 3: We will put that episode in our show notes because 132 00:06:04,704 --> 00:06:07,504 Speaker 3: I think it's really important for context. So this whole 133 00:06:07,504 --> 00:06:11,064 Speaker 3: interview was set up in a way of Luis asking 134 00:06:11,464 --> 00:06:15,664 Speaker 3: Army everything about that entire situation. Not much was talked 135 00:06:15,664 --> 00:06:18,864 Speaker 3: about his actual career in acting. He mentioned like a 136 00:06:18,904 --> 00:06:22,504 Speaker 3: few like movies and TV shows he did, but everything 137 00:06:22,624 --> 00:06:26,904 Speaker 3: was just focused on this one massive situation. And he 138 00:06:26,944 --> 00:06:30,104 Speaker 3: even told Army during the interview, saying, there will be 139 00:06:30,144 --> 00:06:33,384 Speaker 3: people out there going why would you interview this person? 140 00:06:33,464 --> 00:06:36,024 Speaker 3: So I do need to ask you these questions. So 141 00:06:36,104 --> 00:06:40,184 Speaker 3: I listened to this interview over the weekend, and yes, 142 00:06:40,264 --> 00:06:43,344 Speaker 3: they do touch on some of those horrific allegations. And 143 00:06:43,424 --> 00:06:46,304 Speaker 3: I encourage everyone to listen to the whole interview because 144 00:06:46,304 --> 00:06:48,064 Speaker 3: it was brilliant. We'll link it in our show notes. 145 00:06:48,584 --> 00:06:52,424 Speaker 3: But I couldn't help but laughing at some of his answers. 146 00:06:52,864 --> 00:06:55,184 Speaker 3: Armie Hamma, I don't know much about him, but he 147 00:06:55,384 --> 00:06:59,984 Speaker 3: genuinely just feels like this bro who's come off like 148 00:07:00,064 --> 00:07:02,104 Speaker 3: from a beach and is just sitting there and he 149 00:07:02,504 --> 00:07:07,824 Speaker 3: has no idea about how awful some of the allegations 150 00:07:07,904 --> 00:07:11,144 Speaker 3: really are. Like he doesn't even want to kind of 151 00:07:11,464 --> 00:07:15,224 Speaker 3: repent for his mistakes or say sorry because he doesn't 152 00:07:15,264 --> 00:07:17,504 Speaker 3: want to give in and like say that, yes, this 153 00:07:17,664 --> 00:07:20,384 Speaker 3: was like a shitty thing to do. And some of 154 00:07:20,424 --> 00:07:23,464 Speaker 3: his answers were just so wild, and if you do 155 00:07:23,744 --> 00:07:26,024 Speaker 3: listen on Spotify, encourage you to also watch the video 156 00:07:26,104 --> 00:07:29,984 Speaker 3: because Louis's reactions to some of his answers are so funny. 157 00:07:30,024 --> 00:07:31,624 Speaker 3: There was his point where he just kind of like 158 00:07:32,304 --> 00:07:34,984 Speaker 3: did this whole thing. He was just like and then 159 00:07:34,984 --> 00:07:36,464 Speaker 3: he just like put his hand in his head and 160 00:07:36,544 --> 00:07:38,304 Speaker 3: just like shook his head for like a full minute 161 00:07:38,344 --> 00:07:39,504 Speaker 3: and then got back into the interview. 162 00:07:39,624 --> 00:07:41,424 Speaker 2: Louis throw was one of a few interviewers where I 163 00:07:41,424 --> 00:07:43,704 Speaker 2: always watch his videos, Like, normally I'm more of an 164 00:07:43,704 --> 00:07:45,824 Speaker 2: audio girl. I like to listen to it while I'm walking, 165 00:07:45,864 --> 00:07:48,424 Speaker 2: but I always watch his videos because when he looks 166 00:07:48,424 --> 00:07:51,504 Speaker 2: like just a disappointed dad, when he just can't believe 167 00:07:51,504 --> 00:07:53,264 Speaker 2: what's come out of your mouth, those are my favorite 168 00:07:53,264 --> 00:07:54,024 Speaker 2: interview moments. 169 00:07:54,224 --> 00:07:56,984 Speaker 3: And it wasn't just Army that was kind of funny 170 00:07:56,984 --> 00:07:59,464 Speaker 3: in this interview, it was also Louis. Like It's like 171 00:07:59,744 --> 00:08:01,664 Speaker 3: you could tell in Louis's faces, like I can't believe 172 00:08:01,744 --> 00:08:04,384 Speaker 3: how absurd this interview is and some of the questions 173 00:08:04,464 --> 00:08:07,384 Speaker 3: I have to ask because obviously with Army, like you're 174 00:08:07,504 --> 00:08:10,144 Speaker 3: being asked about these horrific things that you've allegedly done, 175 00:08:10,184 --> 00:08:11,904 Speaker 3: and you get a bit defensive, so then you kind 176 00:08:11,904 --> 00:08:13,264 Speaker 3: of spin it and try to put it back on 177 00:08:13,304 --> 00:08:16,544 Speaker 3: the interviewer. It was a bit chaotic, but it was 178 00:08:16,824 --> 00:08:19,384 Speaker 3: really really well done. So what I found I was 179 00:08:19,424 --> 00:08:21,264 Speaker 3: doing during the weekend when I was listening to it 180 00:08:21,304 --> 00:08:23,664 Speaker 3: was I was sending my friends in our group chat 181 00:08:23,744 --> 00:08:25,704 Speaker 3: live recaps of like. 182 00:08:25,704 --> 00:08:27,424 Speaker 2: I'm just going to skate right past the fact that 183 00:08:27,464 --> 00:08:28,424 Speaker 2: I'm not in that group chat. 184 00:08:28,464 --> 00:08:30,224 Speaker 3: Sorry, I'll add you so you can read it, but 185 00:08:30,264 --> 00:08:33,144 Speaker 3: I'm going to give you all the messages. I So 186 00:08:33,424 --> 00:08:35,184 Speaker 3: this is going to be spoilers. This is going to 187 00:08:35,264 --> 00:08:37,184 Speaker 3: not really be a brutally honest review. 188 00:08:37,584 --> 00:08:38,504 Speaker 1: It's more just like one. 189 00:08:38,464 --> 00:08:40,184 Speaker 3: Of those recaps that I try to do. We did 190 00:08:40,224 --> 00:08:43,184 Speaker 3: it with the Gladiator, Yeah, yeah, trailer. This is just 191 00:08:43,304 --> 00:08:47,424 Speaker 3: like the best quotes I found in this entire podcast, 192 00:08:47,504 --> 00:08:49,264 Speaker 3: and I'm going to try to do it in chronological 193 00:08:49,384 --> 00:08:52,424 Speaker 3: or Okay, so no context, Okay, Armie. 194 00:08:52,984 --> 00:08:54,144 Speaker 1: If I had a dollar. 195 00:08:53,904 --> 00:08:56,104 Speaker 3: For every time someone told me I needed to write 196 00:08:56,104 --> 00:08:58,584 Speaker 3: a book or do a podcast over the last four years, 197 00:08:58,704 --> 00:09:00,864 Speaker 3: I wouldn't have to do a podcast or write a book. 198 00:09:01,424 --> 00:09:06,264 Speaker 3: Oh lord, Louis, I'm giving you a chance to explain. 199 00:09:07,064 --> 00:09:12,024 Speaker 3: Are you a cannibal, Army. I guess to actually be 200 00:09:12,104 --> 00:09:15,304 Speaker 3: a cannibal, you have to actually eat human flesh. 201 00:09:15,624 --> 00:09:21,464 Speaker 1: So no, Louis, did you I'm jumping over a bit. 202 00:09:21,944 --> 00:09:24,304 Speaker 2: No, I'm not lining up, but it doesn't make sense 203 00:09:24,424 --> 00:09:27,704 Speaker 2: following exactly what you're saying. I know exactly what's happening, Louis. 204 00:09:28,224 --> 00:09:30,424 Speaker 3: Do you cut the heart out of an animal and 205 00:09:30,464 --> 00:09:32,144 Speaker 3: eat it while it's still warm? 206 00:09:32,344 --> 00:09:34,184 Speaker 2: These are the questions he has to ask. It's not 207 00:09:34,224 --> 00:09:37,104 Speaker 2: Louis Throw's fault that this man is behaving this way. 208 00:09:37,904 --> 00:09:38,144 Speaker 3: Army. 209 00:09:38,784 --> 00:09:41,944 Speaker 2: No, you don't eat the whole heart, because that would 210 00:09:41,984 --> 00:09:44,624 Speaker 2: be crazy. That's pretty much his face. 211 00:09:44,664 --> 00:09:46,784 Speaker 3: It's like, as you'd ask me that you take a 212 00:09:46,864 --> 00:09:49,064 Speaker 3: bite out of the heart, and you got all your 213 00:09:49,064 --> 00:09:51,704 Speaker 3: buddies around you and they're goading you on. It's sort 214 00:09:51,744 --> 00:09:54,344 Speaker 3: of like an overly charged male ride of passage when 215 00:09:54,384 --> 00:09:56,824 Speaker 3: you go hunting for the first time. Everyone I know 216 00:09:56,864 --> 00:09:58,784 Speaker 3: who went hunting for the first time had to do 217 00:09:58,824 --> 00:09:59,584 Speaker 3: something similar. 218 00:09:59,624 --> 00:10:02,104 Speaker 2: So eating the raw heart of an animal, you've just 219 00:10:02,184 --> 00:10:04,624 Speaker 2: killed a bite, not the whole heart. Sorry, sorry bite. 220 00:10:04,664 --> 00:10:06,144 Speaker 2: My apologies to Armie Hammer. 221 00:10:06,144 --> 00:10:10,024 Speaker 5: Courtney Vuskovich has sort of contended that, oh he bit 222 00:10:10,144 --> 00:10:12,304 Speaker 5: me and at the time, and she I think she 223 00:10:12,344 --> 00:10:14,584 Speaker 5: put there was a picture of the bite marks that 224 00:10:14,624 --> 00:10:15,904 Speaker 5: you left on her shoulders. 225 00:10:15,944 --> 00:10:18,384 Speaker 4: Does that see she did, Yeah, she did put she 226 00:10:18,464 --> 00:10:20,944 Speaker 4: did allege that there were bite marks that I left 227 00:10:20,984 --> 00:10:23,464 Speaker 4: on her. They were even in the documentary. 228 00:10:23,664 --> 00:10:26,384 Speaker 5: That's right, there was a documentary House of Hammer on Discovery. 229 00:10:26,704 --> 00:10:29,384 Speaker 4: But by the way, the picture, the pictures that she 230 00:10:29,504 --> 00:10:32,384 Speaker 4: put of my bitemark were later traced back to Pinterest 231 00:10:32,664 --> 00:10:36,104 Speaker 4: where they were the picture of a young child who 232 00:10:36,224 --> 00:10:38,904 Speaker 4: bit their parents, and the young child died and the 233 00:10:38,984 --> 00:10:42,944 Speaker 4: parents got that bite mark tattooed on themselves. So the 234 00:10:43,224 --> 00:10:46,504 Speaker 4: alleged bite mark that she showed wasn't even of me. 235 00:10:46,784 --> 00:10:48,744 Speaker 4: And I mean that that you can check that yourself. 236 00:10:48,984 --> 00:10:50,464 Speaker 5: Okay, that's interesting. 237 00:10:50,864 --> 00:10:54,104 Speaker 4: Yeah. Oh, by the way, producer Jerry just showed me 238 00:10:54,184 --> 00:10:57,864 Speaker 4: something that says House of Hammer Army Hammer docuseries to 239 00:10:57,904 --> 00:11:02,304 Speaker 4: remove image of alleged bite mark after validity is questioned. So, 240 00:11:02,344 --> 00:11:03,864 Speaker 4: I mean that was even taken out of the doctor. 241 00:11:03,944 --> 00:11:07,304 Speaker 5: Interesting. So did you bite her? 242 00:11:08,744 --> 00:11:11,264 Speaker 4: Sure? I'm sure I did. Yeah, I'm sure. I like 243 00:11:11,304 --> 00:11:15,104 Speaker 4: to bite. I like sexually like I like to bite. 244 00:11:15,264 --> 00:11:17,264 Speaker 4: It has nothing to do with being a cannibal. But 245 00:11:17,384 --> 00:11:20,544 Speaker 4: like yeah, it's one of the things that I enjoy doing. 246 00:11:20,544 --> 00:11:22,344 Speaker 4: I don't do it to a partner who doesn't enjoy it. 247 00:11:22,424 --> 00:11:25,224 Speaker 2: Okay, obviously not judging him for eating meat, because we 248 00:11:25,264 --> 00:11:27,824 Speaker 2: all eat meat. It's the act that he's doing of 249 00:11:27,984 --> 00:11:30,224 Speaker 2: like killing the animal and pulling it. I'm assuming, like 250 00:11:30,304 --> 00:11:32,824 Speaker 2: still beating heart from its body and eating it the 251 00:11:32,864 --> 00:11:34,664 Speaker 2: biggest thing. I feel like that's how you get food 252 00:11:34,664 --> 00:11:35,504 Speaker 2: poisoning and diary. 253 00:11:35,624 --> 00:11:36,104 Speaker 1: Yeah. 254 00:11:36,184 --> 00:11:38,384 Speaker 3: Yeah, but remember everyone has to do it when they 255 00:11:38,424 --> 00:11:38,944 Speaker 3: go hunting. 256 00:11:38,984 --> 00:11:41,944 Speaker 2: Sure, so I haven't personally been hunting, so I didn't, 257 00:11:41,984 --> 00:11:42,424 Speaker 2: so you don't know. 258 00:11:42,504 --> 00:11:42,664 Speaker 4: Yeah. 259 00:11:42,704 --> 00:11:46,504 Speaker 2: Yeah, but as soon as I do reach into the now, 260 00:11:46,584 --> 00:11:48,264 Speaker 2: we know he's given us context for when we go 261 00:11:48,304 --> 00:11:48,944 Speaker 2: for our first hunt. 262 00:11:49,024 --> 00:11:52,104 Speaker 1: Well, I wouldn't want to look silly. That's that's good. Armie. 263 00:11:52,584 --> 00:11:57,904 Speaker 3: Do you watch pornography, Louis? Have I watched it? 264 00:11:58,224 --> 00:11:58,464 Speaker 1: Yes? 265 00:11:58,864 --> 00:12:00,864 Speaker 3: Okay, I don't mean to be sassy about it. No 266 00:12:00,904 --> 00:12:05,344 Speaker 3: one needs the image of me watching pornography in their head, Armie. Listen, bro, 267 00:12:05,744 --> 00:12:08,504 Speaker 3: no one needs the image of me eating flesh in 268 00:12:08,544 --> 00:12:10,544 Speaker 3: their head. So if we're going to do this, we're 269 00:12:10,544 --> 00:12:12,184 Speaker 3: going to meet on equal playing fields. 270 00:12:12,224 --> 00:12:14,144 Speaker 2: Oh, don't do that, Army, he's trying to be the 271 00:12:14,184 --> 00:12:17,104 Speaker 2: cool lie, but it just doesn't work for his entire personality. 272 00:12:17,424 --> 00:12:20,464 Speaker 3: Army, and this is confirmed exclusive Army. There's not a 273 00:12:20,464 --> 00:12:22,344 Speaker 3: part of me that gets a thrill out of the 274 00:12:22,384 --> 00:12:28,384 Speaker 3: idea of actually eating someone, Louis. I appreciate people's right 275 00:12:28,464 --> 00:12:31,144 Speaker 3: to consent to things that I might not enjoy. That's 276 00:12:31,184 --> 00:12:35,104 Speaker 3: the basis of freedom and living in a free society. Nevertheless, 277 00:12:35,264 --> 00:12:40,104 Speaker 3: I have no interest in BDSM. There's not how much 278 00:12:40,224 --> 00:12:41,304 Speaker 3: joy you're getting out of this? 279 00:12:41,864 --> 00:12:42,184 Speaker 1: Okay? 280 00:12:42,704 --> 00:12:43,904 Speaker 4: Do you watch pornography? 281 00:12:46,424 --> 00:12:47,184 Speaker 5: Have I watched it? 282 00:12:47,304 --> 00:12:47,584 Speaker 4: Yes? 283 00:12:47,944 --> 00:12:49,944 Speaker 5: Okay, I don't mean to associate about it and trying. 284 00:12:49,984 --> 00:12:52,224 Speaker 5: No onely needs the image of me watching pornography in 285 00:12:52,264 --> 00:12:52,664 Speaker 5: their head. 286 00:12:53,104 --> 00:12:54,904 Speaker 4: Listen, bro, no one needs the image of me eating 287 00:12:54,944 --> 00:12:57,264 Speaker 4: flesh in their heads. So we're if we're gonna do this, 288 00:12:57,304 --> 00:13:00,064 Speaker 4: we're gonna meet on equal playing fields. So okay. So, 289 00:13:00,864 --> 00:13:04,064 Speaker 4: probably the first time that you looked at pornography, a 290 00:13:04,144 --> 00:13:07,224 Speaker 4: picture of a woman in a brazier was enough to 291 00:13:07,304 --> 00:13:10,904 Speaker 4: make you go whoa. You got that dopaminehit, you got 292 00:13:10,944 --> 00:13:13,424 Speaker 4: that rush. But then maybe the next time you wanted 293 00:13:13,464 --> 00:13:15,384 Speaker 4: a little bit more. And then maybe the next time 294 00:13:15,464 --> 00:13:17,504 Speaker 4: you wanted a little bit more and maybe there was 295 00:13:17,544 --> 00:13:19,624 Speaker 4: a period in your life at some point where you 296 00:13:19,664 --> 00:13:22,144 Speaker 4: didn't have much to do and you spent an hour 297 00:13:22,504 --> 00:13:26,424 Speaker 4: straight looking at pornography on the internet. Where you start 298 00:13:26,504 --> 00:13:29,824 Speaker 4: that hour and where you end that hour are usually 299 00:13:30,424 --> 00:13:31,544 Speaker 4: very different places. 300 00:13:31,624 --> 00:13:33,864 Speaker 5: Because I'll pushed back very gently on that in the 301 00:13:33,944 --> 00:13:35,984 Speaker 5: sense that, uh, you know. 302 00:13:36,264 --> 00:13:39,144 Speaker 4: Would it help if I said the generic you not specifically? 303 00:13:39,144 --> 00:13:40,824 Speaker 5: No, No, it's not so much about me. Okay, you know, 304 00:13:40,904 --> 00:13:43,544 Speaker 5: I appreciate people's right to consent to things that I 305 00:13:43,624 --> 00:13:47,584 Speaker 5: might not enjoy, like that's the basis of freedom and 306 00:13:47,624 --> 00:13:50,184 Speaker 5: living in a free society. Nevertheless, I have no interest. 307 00:13:50,304 --> 00:13:53,944 Speaker 3: So just not bad for Louis through ARMI maybe for you, 308 00:13:53,984 --> 00:13:59,424 Speaker 3: going to an extreme would be I watched the threesome video. Louis, 309 00:13:59,784 --> 00:14:01,984 Speaker 3: you were taking a lot of drugs and drinking quite 310 00:14:01,984 --> 00:14:06,824 Speaker 3: a lot at the time. What were you consuming, Army? 311 00:14:07,224 --> 00:14:11,144 Speaker 3: What was I consuming life? Just the whole as much 312 00:14:11,184 --> 00:14:13,904 Speaker 3: as I could. And then they did this whole thing 313 00:14:14,104 --> 00:14:16,504 Speaker 3: about the bitemark's allegation. 314 00:14:16,784 --> 00:14:21,384 Speaker 2: Yes, Armie Hammer has really leant into that I'm not 315 00:14:21,424 --> 00:14:23,944 Speaker 2: a cannibal thing, and because obviously that was the biggest 316 00:14:23,984 --> 00:14:26,424 Speaker 2: like news takeaway at the time, But as We've always 317 00:14:26,424 --> 00:14:29,344 Speaker 2: said all of his representation didn't drop him, he didn't 318 00:14:29,344 --> 00:14:32,904 Speaker 2: lose all his movie roles over the cannibal allegations. Even 319 00:14:32,904 --> 00:14:34,904 Speaker 2: though it was a big news story. He lost all 320 00:14:34,904 --> 00:14:37,304 Speaker 2: of that and lost his job and his wife broke 321 00:14:37,384 --> 00:14:39,264 Speaker 2: up with him and all that sort of stuff because 322 00:14:39,304 --> 00:14:43,144 Speaker 2: of the numerous allegations of sexual assault and sexual violence. 323 00:14:43,184 --> 00:14:44,864 Speaker 2: And yes, they didn't go to court because it's a 324 00:14:44,984 --> 00:14:47,664 Speaker 2: very hard thing to prove, and we're not saying he's guilty, 325 00:14:47,784 --> 00:14:50,624 Speaker 2: but it was the more serious side of it, yeah, 326 00:14:50,664 --> 00:14:53,504 Speaker 2: than him texting someone I'd love to eat your. 327 00:14:53,424 --> 00:14:56,784 Speaker 3: Flesh literally, And Louis does bring all of that up 328 00:14:56,824 --> 00:14:59,664 Speaker 3: in the podcast. I've skimmed over it because it's not 329 00:14:59,784 --> 00:15:03,024 Speaker 3: funny at all. It's quite serious, but he does talk 330 00:15:03,064 --> 00:15:07,344 Speaker 3: about all of those allegations. It's such violent allegation. It's 331 00:15:07,384 --> 00:15:10,224 Speaker 3: been extremely dangerous, and they did talk about it. 332 00:15:10,504 --> 00:15:12,304 Speaker 1: But then the last quote. 333 00:15:12,024 --> 00:15:14,544 Speaker 3: That I wanted to say was like after they spoke 334 00:15:14,584 --> 00:15:17,464 Speaker 3: about all of that, where Army said, hell, hath no 335 00:15:17,624 --> 00:15:21,584 Speaker 3: fury like a woman scorned and I was like, that's 336 00:15:21,744 --> 00:15:23,304 Speaker 3: the last thing I want to come out of that 337 00:15:23,304 --> 00:15:23,864 Speaker 3: man's mouth. 338 00:15:24,024 --> 00:15:25,104 Speaker 1: I never want to hear anything else. 339 00:15:25,144 --> 00:15:27,104 Speaker 2: Well, that's the thing, because I feel like Armie Hammer 340 00:15:27,184 --> 00:15:30,264 Speaker 2: has just so misjudged this situation, Like he actually could 341 00:15:30,304 --> 00:15:32,584 Speaker 2: have come back from this because he wasn't found guilty. 342 00:15:32,904 --> 00:15:34,224 Speaker 2: Like I hate to say it, but like you know, 343 00:15:34,344 --> 00:15:37,824 Speaker 2: powerful white men in Hollywood, as we've seen so many times. 344 00:15:37,504 --> 00:15:40,584 Speaker 3: So many people have allegedly asked him to make a podcast, 345 00:15:40,664 --> 00:15:42,024 Speaker 3: yeah exactly, get a pass. 346 00:15:42,064 --> 00:15:43,984 Speaker 2: So he actually could have come back from this. The 347 00:15:44,064 --> 00:15:46,664 Speaker 2: reason he hasn't is that he has so badly misjudged 348 00:15:46,704 --> 00:15:49,904 Speaker 2: the situation. And so much of that comes from his upbringing. 349 00:15:50,024 --> 00:15:52,504 Speaker 2: So he comes from a very very rich family, so 350 00:15:52,584 --> 00:15:55,064 Speaker 2: he's always been like in a position of power, and 351 00:15:55,144 --> 00:15:57,824 Speaker 2: he's always you know, had a big safety net. And 352 00:15:58,024 --> 00:16:02,064 Speaker 2: also for some reason, Hollywood, in the Hollywood studios just 353 00:16:02,224 --> 00:16:06,704 Speaker 2: were always very protective of him. Before these allegations came out. 354 00:16:06,944 --> 00:16:09,344 Speaker 2: He wasn't a very bankable start, Like all of his 355 00:16:09,424 --> 00:16:12,704 Speaker 2: big budget movie kept tanking and kept tanking, and there 356 00:16:12,784 --> 00:16:15,584 Speaker 2: wasn't this huge public interest in him, Like people really 357 00:16:15,664 --> 00:16:17,664 Speaker 2: liked him. People thought he was attractive. I don't know how, 358 00:16:17,704 --> 00:16:20,144 Speaker 2: but if that's what you think, that's fine. But he 359 00:16:20,264 --> 00:16:22,144 Speaker 2: kept sort of being put in the same league as 360 00:16:22,144 --> 00:16:25,504 Speaker 2: all these big bankable Hollywood stars who are just knowing 361 00:16:25,544 --> 00:16:27,104 Speaker 2: that you put their name on the poster and they 362 00:16:27,144 --> 00:16:30,224 Speaker 2: bring money in. And I can't imagine why all these 363 00:16:30,264 --> 00:16:33,624 Speaker 2: studios kept giving him all these chances. Every time they 364 00:16:33,664 --> 00:16:36,624 Speaker 2: set him up to lead a franchise and it tanked, 365 00:16:36,624 --> 00:16:38,384 Speaker 2: and they'd be like, here's another one. Here's another one, 366 00:16:38,464 --> 00:16:41,144 Speaker 2: here's another one, Like similar things have happened to stars 367 00:16:41,184 --> 00:16:43,144 Speaker 2: like a Ben Affleck. But also they had a good 368 00:16:43,184 --> 00:16:46,704 Speaker 2: track record of very bankable, critically acclaimed movies, so when 369 00:16:46,744 --> 00:16:48,984 Speaker 2: they have a bad run, they have that to fall 370 00:16:49,024 --> 00:16:51,704 Speaker 2: back on. But Armie Hamma didn't have that. So he 371 00:16:51,784 --> 00:16:53,984 Speaker 2: was so used to like coming from this safety net 372 00:16:54,024 --> 00:16:57,304 Speaker 2: of his family wealth and like you know, generational wealth 373 00:16:57,344 --> 00:16:59,704 Speaker 2: and all that sort of thing, to this weird Hollywood 374 00:16:59,704 --> 00:17:02,424 Speaker 2: safety net that no one else gets where for some reason, 375 00:17:02,464 --> 00:17:04,784 Speaker 2: all the studios were so focused on making him a 376 00:17:04,864 --> 00:17:07,064 Speaker 2: leading man. And if you go back to like, well 377 00:17:07,104 --> 00:17:10,704 Speaker 2: before the allegations, there's so many articles someone that went 378 00:17:10,784 --> 00:17:13,624 Speaker 2: so viral of like why is Hollywood so invested in 379 00:17:13,664 --> 00:17:16,624 Speaker 2: making Army Hammer happen? And then now you see how 380 00:17:16,624 --> 00:17:18,504 Speaker 2: he's dealing with this, and he's trying to play this 381 00:17:18,624 --> 00:17:19,544 Speaker 2: like every man and. 382 00:17:19,504 --> 00:17:21,824 Speaker 3: He still doesn't get it, Like even he doesn't remember 383 00:17:21,824 --> 00:17:23,744 Speaker 3: when we talked about how he was he moved to 384 00:17:23,784 --> 00:17:26,424 Speaker 3: real estate and he was like selling apartment blocks on 385 00:17:26,464 --> 00:17:27,384 Speaker 3: the Canaan Islands. 386 00:17:27,744 --> 00:17:29,344 Speaker 1: He still doesn't understand like. 387 00:17:29,504 --> 00:17:32,544 Speaker 3: How easy he had it his whole career, because he 388 00:17:32,624 --> 00:17:35,384 Speaker 3: was saying how he had to leave because he couldn't 389 00:17:35,424 --> 00:17:37,504 Speaker 3: get his visa for the Canaan Islands and he tried 390 00:17:37,544 --> 00:17:39,424 Speaker 3: and applied and applied, and like he couldn't get it. 391 00:17:39,464 --> 00:17:41,584 Speaker 3: And he was like, I didn't know why because like 392 00:17:41,824 --> 00:17:44,304 Speaker 3: my ancestry is like from the Canaan Islands and my 393 00:17:44,384 --> 00:17:46,784 Speaker 3: dad invested so much money into the Canaan Islands. 394 00:17:46,784 --> 00:17:49,424 Speaker 2: And I'm like, what do you not get like and 395 00:17:49,504 --> 00:17:51,464 Speaker 2: what do you not be so used to money buying 396 00:17:51,504 --> 00:17:53,824 Speaker 2: him out of stuff even before this whole thing happened. 397 00:17:53,904 --> 00:17:55,984 Speaker 2: This is like shows how out of touch he is 398 00:17:56,064 --> 00:17:58,424 Speaker 2: with the like general public. What about when he posted 399 00:17:58,424 --> 00:18:01,064 Speaker 2: that video from his truck? Do you remember that? No? 400 00:18:01,344 --> 00:18:04,624 Speaker 2: Oh my god, Okay, oh my god? What he posted 401 00:18:04,624 --> 00:18:06,864 Speaker 2: a video from his truck last year? I think it 402 00:18:06,984 --> 00:18:09,184 Speaker 2: was And I feel like when we talk about that, 403 00:18:09,584 --> 00:18:12,744 Speaker 2: did I forgot talking about how he had to sell 404 00:18:12,824 --> 00:18:13,704 Speaker 2: the truck. 405 00:18:13,944 --> 00:18:18,104 Speaker 1: Because because he had no money. 406 00:18:18,144 --> 00:18:20,064 Speaker 2: And if I think he really thought, you know, he's 407 00:18:20,104 --> 00:18:22,344 Speaker 2: sitting in the truck, he's got his little phone, he's 408 00:18:22,424 --> 00:18:24,064 Speaker 2: checked his face to make sure it's a good angle, 409 00:18:24,184 --> 00:18:25,544 Speaker 2: and he's like, you know, what's really going to get 410 00:18:25,544 --> 00:18:28,464 Speaker 2: the public on my side? Telling that I can't afford 411 00:18:28,464 --> 00:18:30,944 Speaker 2: this truck that I brought my children home in the hospital, 412 00:18:31,264 --> 00:18:33,024 Speaker 2: that I had so many good memories. And then he's 413 00:18:33,064 --> 00:18:36,504 Speaker 2: talking about having to downgrade to another car, which sounded very, 414 00:18:36,584 --> 00:18:39,184 Speaker 2: very expensive because he just said he's not working at 415 00:18:39,184 --> 00:18:42,184 Speaker 2: the moment. He just cannot afford the gas for his huge, 416 00:18:42,224 --> 00:18:44,304 Speaker 2: big truck that he brought his children home from the 417 00:18:44,304 --> 00:18:47,864 Speaker 2: hospital and probably bit a few women in there, and 418 00:18:47,904 --> 00:18:49,744 Speaker 2: I think he thought that would be He's like, it's 419 00:18:49,824 --> 00:18:51,904 Speaker 2: kind of this big, like gotcha moment, Like you guys 420 00:18:51,944 --> 00:18:54,824 Speaker 2: are all calling me to me what you did to me? Yeah, 421 00:18:54,864 --> 00:18:56,784 Speaker 2: it was meant. And also, to be fair to him, 422 00:18:56,864 --> 00:18:59,704 Speaker 2: some people were very much on his side. They're like, oh, sorry, Armie, 423 00:18:59,944 --> 00:19:02,424 Speaker 2: I can't afford groceries. I know exactly how you feel. 424 00:19:02,464 --> 00:19:06,304 Speaker 2: I'm like, do not put him into I'm just. 425 00:19:06,224 --> 00:19:10,024 Speaker 6: Like, yeah, not being able to put fuel in his 426 00:19:10,944 --> 00:19:14,464 Speaker 6: gas guzzling true he had to get a hybrid, which 427 00:19:14,584 --> 00:19:17,344 Speaker 6: obviously he was like, I hate this, but that's what 428 00:19:17,464 --> 00:19:17,664 Speaker 6: I mean. 429 00:19:17,704 --> 00:19:20,024 Speaker 2: He keeps misjudging the situation because he thinks there's going 430 00:19:20,104 --> 00:19:22,864 Speaker 2: to be this moment. He's probably watched all those moments where, 431 00:19:22,904 --> 00:19:25,824 Speaker 2: like mostly with women, how the public turns against them 432 00:19:25,864 --> 00:19:27,584 Speaker 2: and all of a sudden there's this big reckoning where 433 00:19:27,584 --> 00:19:30,264 Speaker 2: we're like, oh, no, no, no, we judged you so unfairly. 434 00:19:30,664 --> 00:19:32,984 Speaker 2: Like he thinks that moment is coming for him, and 435 00:19:33,024 --> 00:19:35,304 Speaker 2: someone needs to tell him. It's not like he's not 436 00:19:35,304 --> 00:19:37,664 Speaker 2: getting in Britney Spears moment. He's not getting an Anne 437 00:19:37,664 --> 00:19:39,784 Speaker 2: Hathaway moment. Not that those two women should be like 438 00:19:39,824 --> 00:19:41,864 Speaker 2: in the same thing as Armie Hammer, but talking about 439 00:19:41,864 --> 00:19:44,704 Speaker 2: you know, women who have been like publicly dragged and 440 00:19:44,744 --> 00:19:46,744 Speaker 2: the whole world is like, wait, it was society that 441 00:19:46,784 --> 00:19:49,144 Speaker 2: was wrong. He's waiting for that moment for himself. 442 00:19:49,224 --> 00:19:50,024 Speaker 1: It's never gonna come. 443 00:19:50,024 --> 00:19:52,264 Speaker 3: He thought it would be this interview because the interview 444 00:19:52,304 --> 00:19:56,704 Speaker 3: did end like quite pleasantly. He did say to Louis, 445 00:19:56,704 --> 00:19:58,624 Speaker 3: because Louis asked, is there anything else you want to add? 446 00:19:58,664 --> 00:20:00,424 Speaker 3: And he's like, if I'm being perfectly honest, I didn't 447 00:20:00,504 --> 00:20:03,104 Speaker 3: like how the interview started, which is I think a 448 00:20:03,144 --> 00:20:05,784 Speaker 3: social clip that's gone absolutely viral the interview. 449 00:20:05,904 --> 00:20:06,304 Speaker 4: Did you have. 450 00:20:06,224 --> 00:20:09,344 Speaker 5: Anything else you wanted to say? I should, I. 451 00:20:09,264 --> 00:20:11,064 Speaker 4: Should know, I mean I don't. I don't love the 452 00:20:11,104 --> 00:20:13,784 Speaker 4: way the interview started. Just to be perfectly honest, I'm 453 00:20:13,824 --> 00:20:18,024 Speaker 4: not crazy about drudging up all of this stuff because 454 00:20:18,064 --> 00:20:20,304 Speaker 4: for me, a lot of these issues have been resolved, 455 00:20:20,424 --> 00:20:24,704 Speaker 4: whether it be legally or within myself, and I feel 456 00:20:24,744 --> 00:20:28,464 Speaker 4: like a lot of those waters have settled. I think 457 00:20:28,544 --> 00:20:33,744 Speaker 4: doing things like that stirs up the water again unnecessarily. 458 00:20:32,984 --> 00:20:33,544 Speaker 1: In my opinion. 459 00:20:33,544 --> 00:20:35,584 Speaker 3: It's like the least interesting part of the interview. Like 460 00:20:35,624 --> 00:20:37,864 Speaker 3: you could see how annoyed he was throughout the whole interview, 461 00:20:38,024 --> 00:20:39,664 Speaker 3: but he was very honest and said it. He didn't 462 00:20:39,664 --> 00:20:40,904 Speaker 3: like how it started, and he didn't want to keep 463 00:20:40,944 --> 00:20:43,264 Speaker 3: talking about this. But the best thing about this is 464 00:20:43,264 --> 00:20:47,064 Speaker 3: because it's Louis the Roe's podcast. After the interview, you 465 00:20:47,144 --> 00:20:49,864 Speaker 3: see Louis sitting at his desk with his team just 466 00:20:49,904 --> 00:20:51,944 Speaker 3: like reflecting on the. 467 00:20:51,944 --> 00:20:52,944 Speaker 1: Interview for us. 468 00:20:53,144 --> 00:20:57,104 Speaker 3: Yeah, and my favorite line he said was talking about army. 469 00:20:57,504 --> 00:21:00,624 Speaker 3: He said, hell, hath no fury like a woman scorned? 470 00:21:00,944 --> 00:21:01,984 Speaker 1: Do you know the source? 471 00:21:02,184 --> 00:21:04,944 Speaker 3: If you said Shakespeare, you'd be wrong. It was actually 472 00:21:05,024 --> 00:21:09,784 Speaker 3: the seventeenth century dramarist William Kngrieve. I will give you context, 473 00:21:09,784 --> 00:21:13,944 Speaker 3: but I can't. He bothered, so he's like, I'm actually 474 00:21:14,024 --> 00:21:15,784 Speaker 3: over this. You can see like his head's in his 475 00:21:15,904 --> 00:21:18,424 Speaker 3: hand and gave him a whole headache. Like you can 476 00:21:18,424 --> 00:21:21,144 Speaker 3: tell he can't believe this man is still going the 477 00:21:21,184 --> 00:21:24,024 Speaker 3: way he's going. And also he's going to be fine. 478 00:21:24,024 --> 00:21:25,664 Speaker 3: He's going to be fine like people. I know he 479 00:21:25,824 --> 00:21:27,704 Speaker 3: is fine because it was like a remote interview. He's 480 00:21:27,744 --> 00:21:31,104 Speaker 3: in this beautiful office. He's got his producer next to 481 00:21:31,184 --> 00:21:33,544 Speaker 3: him because he has a producer, and he's like in 482 00:21:33,584 --> 00:21:37,144 Speaker 3: this like shirt and jeans, no shoes, like chilling, like 483 00:21:37,304 --> 00:21:38,064 Speaker 3: sitting back with it. 484 00:21:38,224 --> 00:21:39,544 Speaker 1: Like he's fine. 485 00:21:39,904 --> 00:21:41,664 Speaker 2: Absolutely, he's going to be fine, and he will get 486 00:21:41,744 --> 00:21:43,904 Speaker 2: more acting. I think he actually has signed a few 487 00:21:43,944 --> 00:21:46,064 Speaker 2: acting roles, like smaller. He said in the interview that 488 00:21:46,064 --> 00:21:47,704 Speaker 2: he's getting so much that he had to turn a 489 00:21:47,704 --> 00:21:49,744 Speaker 2: few down. I'm sure that's what I mean. He's going 490 00:21:49,784 --> 00:21:53,424 Speaker 2: to be absolutely fine, which is a terrible reflection on society, 491 00:21:53,424 --> 00:21:54,384 Speaker 2: but just how things happen. 492 00:21:54,944 --> 00:21:56,784 Speaker 3: We will put a link to the whole interview on 493 00:21:56,824 --> 00:21:58,624 Speaker 3: our show. Notes but we will not be linking to 494 00:21:58,744 --> 00:22:01,264 Speaker 3: his podcast. 495 00:22:01,904 --> 00:22:04,144 Speaker 2: Well, we're on the other side of another crazy week 496 00:22:04,264 --> 00:22:07,304 Speaker 2: of Married at First Sight. Just as a side note, 497 00:22:07,464 --> 00:22:11,184 Speaker 2: the rest of the world just thinks we're insane. Like 498 00:22:11,504 --> 00:22:13,864 Speaker 2: there's a few different iterations of Married at First Sight 499 00:22:13,944 --> 00:22:17,184 Speaker 2: around the world, but nothing hits like the Australian version 500 00:22:17,224 --> 00:22:20,224 Speaker 2: according to so many people, because we are just so 501 00:22:20,304 --> 00:22:22,744 Speaker 2: much crazier if you can believe it thin others. Even so, 502 00:22:22,864 --> 00:22:24,784 Speaker 2: Sharone the other day was saying. 503 00:22:24,744 --> 00:22:27,824 Speaker 3: I was about to like literally bring up that interview 504 00:22:27,824 --> 00:22:30,064 Speaker 3: because I couldn't believe she watched Married at First Sight? 505 00:22:30,384 --> 00:22:33,504 Speaker 3: Was it a with Variety? Yeah, it was with Variety, 506 00:22:33,544 --> 00:22:36,184 Speaker 3: And she's talking about how Married at First Site Australia 507 00:22:36,304 --> 00:22:37,984 Speaker 3: is like the best show ever. And she's like, I 508 00:22:38,024 --> 00:22:39,944 Speaker 3: don't even bother with the other ones because I'm not 509 00:22:39,984 --> 00:22:42,024 Speaker 3: as good as the Australian. She's like, the Australians are 510 00:22:42,024 --> 00:22:43,464 Speaker 3: so rude, they just get right in there. 511 00:22:43,864 --> 00:22:46,104 Speaker 7: Do you have a favorite reality show Married at First 512 00:22:46,184 --> 00:22:49,584 Speaker 7: Sight Australia Because the Aussies are like extra Aussies will 513 00:22:49,624 --> 00:22:53,144 Speaker 7: say it themselves, they're like hectic, they are so hectic, 514 00:22:53,344 --> 00:22:57,384 Speaker 7: like they take it somewhere else so I skipped. I 515 00:22:57,384 --> 00:22:59,584 Speaker 7: don't know if America has married at First Sight. They 516 00:22:59,624 --> 00:23:01,184 Speaker 7: have one in the UK as well, but I've just 517 00:23:01,224 --> 00:23:03,504 Speaker 7: skipped all that and I've gone straight to Australia. 518 00:23:03,544 --> 00:23:05,904 Speaker 1: Do you watch it like and see if they stay together? 519 00:23:06,064 --> 00:23:10,744 Speaker 7: Yeah? None of them do. In the season that I've 520 00:23:10,824 --> 00:23:14,264 Speaker 7: recently watched, I don't think any of them stayed together, 521 00:23:14,584 --> 00:23:18,304 Speaker 7: except for one couple that were actually matched with different 522 00:23:18,344 --> 00:23:22,504 Speaker 7: people and then they started secretly texting oh wow behind 523 00:23:22,504 --> 00:23:25,864 Speaker 7: their partners backs. It's very Australian, very hectic. If I 524 00:23:25,944 --> 00:23:32,504 Speaker 7: met someone promarried at first I would die. I don't 525 00:23:32,544 --> 00:23:35,984 Speaker 7: think they will now. They're too hectic. We're not hectic 526 00:23:36,064 --> 00:23:36,544 Speaker 7: enough for them. 527 00:23:36,744 --> 00:23:39,024 Speaker 2: And there's so many other like big name podcasts and 528 00:23:39,104 --> 00:23:41,744 Speaker 2: authors like Elizabeth Day, who's so invested in marrit at 529 00:23:41,744 --> 00:23:44,544 Speaker 2: First Sight in Australia. It's just the world is watching, 530 00:23:44,824 --> 00:23:47,064 Speaker 2: which is unfortunate for us because it's not painting us 531 00:23:47,104 --> 00:23:47,784 Speaker 2: in the best life. 532 00:23:47,784 --> 00:23:50,944 Speaker 3: It reflects society, does it my society? 533 00:23:51,024 --> 00:23:53,704 Speaker 2: Okay, that's very troubling. You should look into your circle. 534 00:23:53,824 --> 00:23:55,704 Speaker 2: Remember you're the sum of the five people you spend 535 00:23:55,744 --> 00:23:58,144 Speaker 2: the most time with God, which, unfortunately for me now, 536 00:23:58,224 --> 00:23:59,944 Speaker 2: is that to you you would be part. 537 00:23:59,704 --> 00:24:02,424 Speaker 3: Of and our producer Kim like, it's the three of us. 538 00:24:02,744 --> 00:24:03,584 Speaker 1: Two more people. 539 00:24:03,904 --> 00:24:06,224 Speaker 2: That's really stressful, the three of us and your parents, 540 00:24:06,264 --> 00:24:07,544 Speaker 2: who I feel like I might have to take an 541 00:24:07,544 --> 00:24:11,584 Speaker 2: extended vacation after this. So this week, obviously there's been 542 00:24:11,624 --> 00:24:13,864 Speaker 2: a lot of crying, a lot of allegations, a lot 543 00:24:13,944 --> 00:24:17,464 Speaker 2: of men acting badly. But one cast member in particular 544 00:24:17,864 --> 00:24:20,144 Speaker 2: has really been copying a lot of the headlines, a 545 00:24:20,224 --> 00:24:23,424 Speaker 2: lot of the backlash, and that is Jackie No One 546 00:24:23,504 --> 00:24:26,624 Speaker 2: as the woman with crazy eyes, which is not very nice. 547 00:24:26,664 --> 00:24:27,344 Speaker 2: Of course nice. 548 00:24:27,384 --> 00:24:28,584 Speaker 1: It's always a woman, isn't it. 549 00:24:28,904 --> 00:24:31,144 Speaker 2: Well, exactly that's what I wanted to get into obviously, 550 00:24:31,184 --> 00:24:32,944 Speaker 2: like we've married at first sight. A lot of the 551 00:24:32,984 --> 00:24:36,064 Speaker 2: men are often painted as the villains. I'm not even painted. 552 00:24:36,104 --> 00:24:38,264 Speaker 2: It's because they are the villains of the piece. 553 00:24:38,464 --> 00:24:41,264 Speaker 3: But a lot of women they make their brand, yeah, 554 00:24:41,264 --> 00:24:43,184 Speaker 3: but they make it like, yes, I'm the villain of 555 00:24:43,224 --> 00:24:45,264 Speaker 3: the show, and then they go on and do like 556 00:24:45,424 --> 00:24:46,944 Speaker 3: browie things, so they're like. 557 00:24:47,104 --> 00:24:49,504 Speaker 1: I hate women, blah blah blah blah, and then. 558 00:24:49,344 --> 00:24:51,224 Speaker 3: They just make it work for them and then they 559 00:24:51,264 --> 00:24:53,624 Speaker 3: get a huge following and it works. Whereas a women 560 00:24:53,744 --> 00:24:55,464 Speaker 3: come out of the show, and then they get a 561 00:24:55,544 --> 00:24:59,024 Speaker 3: quote unquote bad edit, and then they have to do 562 00:24:59,064 --> 00:25:02,064 Speaker 3: all this unraveling and work to try to get their 563 00:25:02,144 --> 00:25:04,464 Speaker 3: image back to how they wanted it to be when 564 00:25:04,464 --> 00:25:05,624 Speaker 3: they first went on that show. 565 00:25:06,424 --> 00:25:09,504 Speaker 2: Yeah. Absolutely, And again as we know, like you know, 566 00:25:09,624 --> 00:25:12,424 Speaker 2: you can't make someone behave in a certain way, but 567 00:25:12,504 --> 00:25:14,784 Speaker 2: you can put them in situations and you can you know, 568 00:25:15,464 --> 00:25:19,184 Speaker 2: edit their reactions so that sometimes they're really overreacting whereas 569 00:25:19,184 --> 00:25:20,424 Speaker 2: what they're shooting might have been. 570 00:25:20,504 --> 00:25:23,024 Speaker 1: I had a feeling edit as well. 571 00:25:23,064 --> 00:25:26,624 Speaker 2: I guess we talked about multiple times on this podcast. 572 00:25:26,944 --> 00:25:29,824 Speaker 3: But it sucks, like you really feel shit, and then 573 00:25:30,144 --> 00:25:32,344 Speaker 3: you go through this thing where you're like, was that 574 00:25:32,424 --> 00:25:34,504 Speaker 3: like a really awful thing to say? Like did I 575 00:25:34,544 --> 00:25:36,424 Speaker 3: actually say that? Like it tricks you because you're also 576 00:25:36,424 --> 00:25:37,744 Speaker 3: watching what everyone else is watching. 577 00:25:37,904 --> 00:25:40,304 Speaker 1: You went on like a panel show. I mean you 578 00:25:40,304 --> 00:25:42,904 Speaker 1: can I went now I won't name it because it's like, but. 579 00:25:42,904 --> 00:25:46,744 Speaker 2: They show audiences members having a reaction to it looked 580 00:25:46,744 --> 00:25:48,984 Speaker 2: like they were reacting negatively to you, But they were 581 00:25:48,984 --> 00:25:51,064 Speaker 2: reacting negatively to something that happened later. 582 00:25:50,904 --> 00:25:52,824 Speaker 3: On, to the point where those audience members, some of 583 00:25:52,864 --> 00:25:54,864 Speaker 3: them messaged me saying just sudding. You know, that wasn't 584 00:25:54,904 --> 00:25:56,744 Speaker 3: how I reacted when you were telling your story, Like 585 00:25:56,784 --> 00:25:58,784 Speaker 3: they changed it and I was like, oh, thanks, that's 586 00:25:58,784 --> 00:26:01,784 Speaker 3: really nice. It does make you think that, like, oh 587 00:26:01,864 --> 00:26:04,984 Speaker 3: maybe I am crazy, Maybe this is actually me. Maybe 588 00:26:05,144 --> 00:26:07,904 Speaker 3: that story was really bad, and like people think I'm 589 00:26:07,904 --> 00:26:12,064 Speaker 3: a really bad person. And then until you get clarification, 590 00:26:12,264 --> 00:26:15,664 Speaker 3: which these contestants never do, that's just what you go 591 00:26:15,744 --> 00:26:17,064 Speaker 3: on with your life thinking about. 592 00:26:17,264 --> 00:26:21,024 Speaker 2: Yeah. Absolutely, So we're seeing all eyes on Jackie this 593 00:26:21,064 --> 00:26:24,344 Speaker 2: week as the crazy eyed person as previously said, and 594 00:26:24,424 --> 00:26:27,624 Speaker 2: also because she's just really been crying a lot and 595 00:26:27,864 --> 00:26:28,704 Speaker 2: very very. 596 00:26:28,504 --> 00:26:33,944 Speaker 1: Emotional and she's just married a stranger. Well exactly, I'm 597 00:26:34,064 --> 00:26:35,664 Speaker 1: trying too. That does sound rough. 598 00:26:35,744 --> 00:26:38,864 Speaker 2: So Ryan is her fake husband and she has a 599 00:26:38,904 --> 00:26:40,944 Speaker 2: lot of grievances against him, and we know this. 600 00:26:40,984 --> 00:26:42,984 Speaker 3: And Ryan's the one who calls her crazy eyes just 601 00:26:42,984 --> 00:26:43,824 Speaker 3: in front of all the men. 602 00:26:44,024 --> 00:26:44,264 Speaker 2: Yeah. 603 00:26:44,344 --> 00:26:46,304 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not very nice, is it. 604 00:26:47,224 --> 00:26:48,944 Speaker 2: So we know she has a lot of grievances with 605 00:26:49,064 --> 00:26:50,904 Speaker 2: him because she put them all onto a list and 606 00:26:50,944 --> 00:26:52,904 Speaker 2: read them out. It was very ten things I hate 607 00:26:52,904 --> 00:26:55,104 Speaker 2: about you without the emotional love story at the end. 608 00:26:55,344 --> 00:26:57,784 Speaker 2: So Heath Ledger, no, no, no, Heath Ledger in there 609 00:26:57,824 --> 00:26:59,944 Speaker 2: and they are still kind of together on the show. 610 00:27:00,024 --> 00:27:02,024 Speaker 2: We'll see how that goes. But she read out a 611 00:27:02,024 --> 00:27:04,424 Speaker 2: list of grievances about all the things that she didn't 612 00:27:04,504 --> 00:27:07,064 Speaker 2: like about him or how he was treating her. I'm 613 00:27:07,064 --> 00:27:08,384 Speaker 2: going to read you a few and you can tell 614 00:27:08,384 --> 00:27:10,584 Speaker 2: me if you think these are if these pays her 615 00:27:10,584 --> 00:27:13,224 Speaker 2: as a crazy woman, as we've been led to believe, 616 00:27:13,344 --> 00:27:15,584 Speaker 2: or if she has a valid point. One of the 617 00:27:15,624 --> 00:27:17,704 Speaker 2: things that she called out Ryan for is that she 618 00:27:17,824 --> 00:27:20,624 Speaker 2: got dropped on her head at their wedding, Like when 619 00:27:20,664 --> 00:27:22,344 Speaker 2: they were spinning her around, she dropped in her head. 620 00:27:22,384 --> 00:27:25,464 Speaker 2: Oh sick, smashed and she got taken to a paramedic, 621 00:27:25,504 --> 00:27:28,024 Speaker 2: and she says Ryan didn't even check on her. This 622 00:27:28,064 --> 00:27:29,984 Speaker 2: is a man who likes to say that he protects women. 623 00:27:30,024 --> 00:27:31,104 Speaker 2: That's his big kind of point. 624 00:27:31,224 --> 00:27:32,984 Speaker 3: Oh, you weren't protecting her there? 625 00:27:33,064 --> 00:27:33,984 Speaker 1: What happened to her head? 626 00:27:34,064 --> 00:27:36,584 Speaker 2: Ryan didn't go over and be like, hey, I know 627 00:27:36,824 --> 00:27:38,944 Speaker 2: we're strangers, you just got married, but you've got to 628 00:27:38,944 --> 00:27:41,584 Speaker 2: potentially have a severe head injury and are you okay? 629 00:27:41,744 --> 00:27:43,984 Speaker 3: Yeah, or just like walk past your hamlen to be 630 00:27:44,064 --> 00:27:46,064 Speaker 3: like just checking do you need the water? Do you 631 00:27:46,144 --> 00:27:47,864 Speaker 3: need anything, So he didn't do any of that. 632 00:27:47,984 --> 00:27:48,984 Speaker 1: Yeah, that red flag. 633 00:27:49,104 --> 00:27:52,064 Speaker 2: Yeah. She also said the crazy eyes insults, which we've 634 00:27:52,104 --> 00:27:55,024 Speaker 2: touched on not very nice. His refusal to do any 635 00:27:55,264 --> 00:27:58,064 Speaker 2: like tools around the house or help with the cleaning. Yeah, 636 00:27:58,184 --> 00:27:59,944 Speaker 2: I mean that one could go either way, like how 637 00:28:00,024 --> 00:28:01,344 Speaker 2: much they both cleaning, I don't know. 638 00:28:01,544 --> 00:28:03,944 Speaker 3: Yeah, if she's also not cleaning, and then she's just like, 639 00:28:03,984 --> 00:28:05,384 Speaker 3: hey you should clean. 640 00:28:05,224 --> 00:28:05,624 Speaker 1: I don't know. 641 00:28:05,664 --> 00:28:07,664 Speaker 2: Well, to be fair, and maybe this is to their 642 00:28:07,664 --> 00:28:10,304 Speaker 2: detro math has it included a lot of cleaning storylines 643 00:28:10,384 --> 00:28:12,624 Speaker 2: this year, so we actually they would. 644 00:28:12,384 --> 00:28:13,544 Speaker 1: Get quite good sponsors with that. 645 00:28:13,584 --> 00:28:17,184 Speaker 2: I would think, Yeah, it's the integration in there, get 646 00:28:17,264 --> 00:28:19,184 Speaker 2: us on your mask. She also says he doesn't buy 647 00:28:19,184 --> 00:28:19,864 Speaker 2: her flowers. 648 00:28:20,384 --> 00:28:23,304 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, I have Oh, okay, I have a 649 00:28:23,344 --> 00:28:23,904 Speaker 3: thought about that. 650 00:28:23,944 --> 00:28:25,624 Speaker 2: You really changed tack. Then you would just like I 651 00:28:25,664 --> 00:28:28,064 Speaker 2: don't care. And then you really decided that you didn't care. 652 00:28:28,024 --> 00:28:31,424 Speaker 3: Because I dated someone who never bought me flowers and 653 00:28:31,464 --> 00:28:33,584 Speaker 3: I was like, it's fine, that's fine, you don't have 654 00:28:33,624 --> 00:28:37,104 Speaker 3: to bring me flowers. And then I was like, wait, 655 00:28:37,704 --> 00:28:40,304 Speaker 3: I kind of really like flowers, and I told and 656 00:28:40,344 --> 00:28:42,064 Speaker 3: he was like, oh, but I just think it's a 657 00:28:42,064 --> 00:28:43,424 Speaker 3: waste of money. I'm like, that's fine for you to 658 00:28:43,504 --> 00:28:45,584 Speaker 3: have that opinion, but it's something that I really like. 659 00:28:45,864 --> 00:28:47,184 Speaker 3: So I'd like you to buy me flowers. 660 00:28:47,224 --> 00:28:48,824 Speaker 1: And then it did. Well, that's the thing. 661 00:28:48,824 --> 00:28:50,824 Speaker 2: It depends if flowers are your thing or not, because 662 00:28:50,824 --> 00:28:52,624 Speaker 2: I'm sure a lot of women get handed flowers and 663 00:28:52,664 --> 00:28:54,464 Speaker 2: be like, I don't like flowers. I don't own a 664 00:28:54,544 --> 00:28:57,064 Speaker 2: oas why you're just getting me something generally personal. 665 00:28:57,064 --> 00:28:59,704 Speaker 3: So unless she's had that conversation with him and he's 666 00:28:59,744 --> 00:29:02,984 Speaker 3: still not buying her flowers, I'd be like, hey, come on. 667 00:29:03,504 --> 00:29:05,304 Speaker 3: But if she did another conversation and she's like and 668 00:29:05,384 --> 00:29:07,264 Speaker 3: he's never bought me flowers, yeah, and I'd be like, 669 00:29:07,304 --> 00:29:07,944 Speaker 3: that's I think. 670 00:29:08,544 --> 00:29:10,184 Speaker 2: If you're a flower personal, I love how we're going 671 00:29:10,264 --> 00:29:12,424 Speaker 2: to really into this. Well, just because again I am 672 00:29:12,464 --> 00:29:14,824 Speaker 2: a flower person. I have several vases in my home. 673 00:29:14,864 --> 00:29:16,544 Speaker 2: I go every week and buy my flowers. 674 00:29:16,584 --> 00:29:18,304 Speaker 1: So we buy our own flowers. 675 00:29:18,304 --> 00:29:20,424 Speaker 3: So when someone else buys a floor us, it's really 676 00:29:20,504 --> 00:29:22,624 Speaker 3: nice because it's like them saying, Okay, I see you 677 00:29:22,664 --> 00:29:25,264 Speaker 3: appreciate flowers, so look I've done it for you. 678 00:29:25,704 --> 00:29:27,304 Speaker 2: Oh I wish we could ask Jackie. I'd be like, 679 00:29:27,304 --> 00:29:29,504 Speaker 2: first of all, how much were you cleaning? Second of all, 680 00:29:29,544 --> 00:29:31,344 Speaker 2: I mean also I do believe he wasn't cleaning. Second 681 00:29:31,344 --> 00:29:32,904 Speaker 2: of all, I'd be like, are you a flower person? 682 00:29:32,944 --> 00:29:34,504 Speaker 2: That's really going to turn me in your favorite? 683 00:29:34,504 --> 00:29:36,624 Speaker 3: Because if she hates flowers, I'm like, well, there you go, babe, 684 00:29:36,624 --> 00:29:37,664 Speaker 3: he's just doing what you want. 685 00:29:39,304 --> 00:29:41,184 Speaker 2: I think he's also been like just quite aggressive and 686 00:29:41,224 --> 00:29:42,944 Speaker 2: nasty to her, which to me is the bigger red 687 00:29:42,944 --> 00:29:45,504 Speaker 2: flag than the flower thing. Anyway, when she was reading 688 00:29:45,584 --> 00:29:49,264 Speaker 2: all this out, Ryan ended up storming out because she 689 00:29:49,464 --> 00:29:51,824 Speaker 2: says that he didn't offer to pay for breakfast on 690 00:29:51,824 --> 00:29:52,504 Speaker 2: their first date. 691 00:29:53,344 --> 00:29:55,904 Speaker 3: God, which obviously this is why we need a dating 692 00:29:55,944 --> 00:29:58,904 Speaker 3: podcast LB, because I just take so many lessons here. 693 00:29:59,344 --> 00:30:00,864 Speaker 2: I know, but how do you feel when a guy 694 00:30:01,064 --> 00:30:03,064 Speaker 2: doesn't offer to pay on the first date? Because I'm 695 00:30:03,104 --> 00:30:04,584 Speaker 2: a little bit like, I don't want to be I'm 696 00:30:04,824 --> 00:30:07,344 Speaker 2: old fashioned or anything like that. I am like a 697 00:30:07,504 --> 00:30:09,584 Speaker 2: modern woman who pays for her own things. But it 698 00:30:09,704 --> 00:30:13,344 Speaker 2: is nice she if they too. Yeah, it's nice to ask. 699 00:30:13,184 --> 00:30:15,144 Speaker 3: To out because if I ask someone out on a 700 00:30:15,184 --> 00:30:18,504 Speaker 3: first date, fulling like I offer to pay, I'm like, 701 00:30:18,584 --> 00:30:20,224 Speaker 3: I asked you, thank you for coming. 702 00:30:20,984 --> 00:30:21,624 Speaker 1: I'm going to pay. 703 00:30:22,104 --> 00:30:25,344 Speaker 3: If he asked me, I would expect him to also offer, 704 00:30:25,544 --> 00:30:27,544 Speaker 3: but I'd also be prepared to split it. 705 00:30:27,944 --> 00:30:28,104 Speaker 7: Yeah. 706 00:30:28,144 --> 00:30:31,264 Speaker 2: I always offer, But if they're very much no, no, no, no, 707 00:30:31,384 --> 00:30:32,864 Speaker 2: like I asked you at it's on me, then you 708 00:30:33,264 --> 00:30:36,544 Speaker 2: very elegantly like, oh, thank you so much, drink it. 709 00:30:36,584 --> 00:30:38,904 Speaker 1: The list, I'm like, I think that is like, oh 710 00:30:38,944 --> 00:30:39,904 Speaker 1: you don't want to see me again? 711 00:30:40,864 --> 00:30:41,104 Speaker 5: Yeah. 712 00:30:41,384 --> 00:30:44,224 Speaker 2: Well, the only time I really really push on splitting 713 00:30:44,304 --> 00:30:45,584 Speaker 2: and is if you don't want to see them a 714 00:30:45,704 --> 00:30:47,304 Speaker 2: hundred percent. I don't want them to poor me. I 715 00:30:47,344 --> 00:30:49,624 Speaker 2: don't want anything. I owe you anything, Yeah, exactly. 716 00:30:49,744 --> 00:30:51,184 Speaker 1: Sometimes I pay the full bill, just so. 717 00:30:53,024 --> 00:30:55,144 Speaker 2: Close to nothing. Nothing. 718 00:30:55,224 --> 00:31:00,184 Speaker 3: I think we need to sit her down together and 719 00:31:00,344 --> 00:31:01,584 Speaker 3: just like go through that whole list. 720 00:31:01,624 --> 00:31:02,784 Speaker 1: I need more information and be. 721 00:31:02,864 --> 00:31:05,424 Speaker 3: Like, let's fix all these problems. Yeah yeah, Ryan, you 722 00:31:05,504 --> 00:31:07,064 Speaker 3: stay there, We'll come to you. 723 00:31:07,464 --> 00:31:10,464 Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll get your side. My only note on this 724 00:31:10,624 --> 00:31:11,984 Speaker 2: is like, shouldn't the show pay? 725 00:31:14,264 --> 00:31:14,864 Speaker 7: Is it true? 726 00:31:15,344 --> 00:31:15,944 Speaker 4: What's the show? 727 00:31:16,144 --> 00:31:18,024 Speaker 2: The show is just like go with that cafe the 728 00:31:18,144 --> 00:31:20,264 Speaker 2: camera manner was seeing there. They're probably both sitting there 729 00:31:20,344 --> 00:31:22,824 Speaker 2: being like, well, surely we're not paying for this. Maybe 730 00:31:22,944 --> 00:31:24,064 Speaker 2: Ryan was like, oh, the. 731 00:31:24,064 --> 00:31:26,824 Speaker 3: Guys are paying, and then she was like, dear Diary, 732 00:31:27,304 --> 00:31:28,704 Speaker 3: I didn't pay for breakfast. 733 00:31:28,784 --> 00:31:29,984 Speaker 1: He made the cameraman pay. 734 00:31:30,584 --> 00:31:33,784 Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot of questions there, and so basically from 735 00:31:33,864 --> 00:31:35,904 Speaker 2: then on, you've seen like Jackie b one of the 736 00:31:35,944 --> 00:31:38,664 Speaker 2: more emotional people on the show, to the point where 737 00:31:38,784 --> 00:31:40,384 Speaker 2: they had the intruder wedding this week. 738 00:31:40,944 --> 00:31:42,944 Speaker 1: You see them, Oh, is that where newbies come in? 739 00:31:43,144 --> 00:31:45,584 Speaker 2: Yeah, new poor people came in and got married to 740 00:31:45,664 --> 00:31:48,504 Speaker 2: strangers and all the current contestants whore in the first 741 00:31:48,584 --> 00:31:50,664 Speaker 2: round had to go to the wedding, and all through 742 00:31:50,744 --> 00:31:53,624 Speaker 2: the wedding, Jackie is seeing crying again. It's hard to 743 00:31:53,664 --> 00:31:56,024 Speaker 2: sort of tell, like it looks like she's been like 744 00:31:56,304 --> 00:31:58,744 Speaker 2: crying hysterically at different parts of the sea. 745 00:31:58,624 --> 00:32:01,744 Speaker 3: Because she was so emotionally driven with the wedding over. 746 00:32:01,664 --> 00:32:03,824 Speaker 2: Just the situation with her and Ryan and what was happening. 747 00:32:03,864 --> 00:32:06,904 Speaker 2: But she's a lot of contestants, Yeah, we're calling her 748 00:32:06,944 --> 00:32:09,144 Speaker 2: out and being like, it's not your wedding, Like stop crying. 749 00:32:09,184 --> 00:32:10,944 Speaker 2: But again it's hard to tell like how much that's 750 00:32:10,984 --> 00:32:12,824 Speaker 2: been chopped up, and also what was said to her 751 00:32:12,904 --> 00:32:15,544 Speaker 2: off camera, all those sorts of things. But basically people 752 00:32:15,584 --> 00:32:19,304 Speaker 2: were saying she's too emotional, she's too dramatic, she's been 753 00:32:19,424 --> 00:32:21,824 Speaker 2: too hard on him. She is crazy, a lot of 754 00:32:21,824 --> 00:32:23,824 Speaker 2: people are saying, and also that she ruined these other 755 00:32:23,904 --> 00:32:27,024 Speaker 2: stranger's wedding by making their wedding reception about them. To that, 756 00:32:27,144 --> 00:32:29,264 Speaker 2: I would say, these people chose to get married or 757 00:32:29,264 --> 00:32:31,224 Speaker 2: married at first site, so they would expect that a crazy. 758 00:32:33,384 --> 00:32:35,024 Speaker 3: My god, there would be one of you doing that, 759 00:32:35,224 --> 00:32:38,464 Speaker 3: even Jackie, because she said that she genuinely wanted to 760 00:32:38,544 --> 00:32:41,544 Speaker 3: take part in this as like she genuinely wanted to 761 00:32:41,784 --> 00:32:43,784 Speaker 3: get married and find a husband and find the lover 762 00:32:43,824 --> 00:32:46,024 Speaker 3: of her life, and she wanted married to First Sight 763 00:32:46,104 --> 00:32:49,144 Speaker 3: to be more like a documentary style than this, And 764 00:32:49,224 --> 00:32:52,544 Speaker 3: I was like, just watch it, Just watch the show, 765 00:32:52,704 --> 00:32:55,144 Speaker 3: and you would know that there's no universe that would 766 00:32:55,144 --> 00:32:56,024 Speaker 3: have ever happened. 767 00:32:56,304 --> 00:32:57,424 Speaker 1: I know the hard thing. 768 00:32:57,504 --> 00:32:59,584 Speaker 2: I mean again not to defend people at the stage 769 00:32:59,624 --> 00:33:01,064 Speaker 2: of the game, because you should know what married at 770 00:33:01,104 --> 00:33:05,064 Speaker 2: first Sight is, But there are a sprinkling of couples 771 00:33:05,104 --> 00:33:07,424 Speaker 2: who find their person and get married to them, and 772 00:33:07,464 --> 00:33:09,024 Speaker 2: I think a lot of people go in thinking like 773 00:33:09,184 --> 00:33:11,104 Speaker 2: I'm going to be that one, Like I'm going to 774 00:33:11,144 --> 00:33:13,344 Speaker 2: be the one who gets matched with someone who I 775 00:33:13,504 --> 00:33:15,744 Speaker 2: have like a great relationship with like I think a 776 00:33:15,784 --> 00:33:17,464 Speaker 2: few of the people on the show do have that 777 00:33:17,584 --> 00:33:20,144 Speaker 2: in the back of their mind. So the other interesting 778 00:33:20,184 --> 00:33:22,264 Speaker 2: thing about Jackie is that she went rogue on her 779 00:33:22,384 --> 00:33:24,264 Speaker 2: Instagram the other day and did a Q and A 780 00:33:24,984 --> 00:33:29,984 Speaker 2: and was that no. So I'm sure she got in trouble, 781 00:33:30,024 --> 00:33:32,304 Speaker 2: but she was like, I'm just gonna push forward and 782 00:33:32,384 --> 00:33:34,664 Speaker 2: do this to answer a lot of questions. Obviously, this 783 00:33:34,824 --> 00:33:37,424 Speaker 2: was filmed such a long time ago, and now you're 784 00:33:37,464 --> 00:33:39,744 Speaker 2: watching it back and you're seeing how the public's reacting, 785 00:33:39,824 --> 00:33:40,504 Speaker 2: and you're watching. 786 00:33:40,384 --> 00:33:42,944 Speaker 3: Everyone belittle you and call you name yeah, and. 787 00:33:44,464 --> 00:33:46,784 Speaker 1: Being like, I know, I've had an experience. 788 00:33:48,104 --> 00:33:49,824 Speaker 2: You and Jackie should form a club. Oh my god, 789 00:33:49,904 --> 00:33:55,184 Speaker 2: women who like flowers and TV. So a few of 790 00:33:55,224 --> 00:33:57,064 Speaker 2: the questions she answered that I thought were really important 791 00:33:57,064 --> 00:33:58,944 Speaker 2: to bring up here, just to get her perspective on 792 00:33:58,984 --> 00:34:01,824 Speaker 2: a few things, is that she got asked if her 793 00:34:01,944 --> 00:34:04,504 Speaker 2: crying is real. So the constant crying we're seeing on TV, 794 00:34:04,584 --> 00:34:05,744 Speaker 2: and that's the big thing I can. 795 00:34:05,664 --> 00:34:07,624 Speaker 1: Tell you, there's no way to fake that. 796 00:34:08,104 --> 00:34:09,624 Speaker 2: Well, that's what she's saying. She said, if I had 797 00:34:09,664 --> 00:34:11,944 Speaker 2: a dollar for every time someone her an army hammer, 798 00:34:15,944 --> 00:34:17,224 Speaker 2: they're both having dollars thrown. 799 00:34:17,384 --> 00:34:18,464 Speaker 1: A lot of dollars going around. 800 00:34:18,864 --> 00:34:20,744 Speaker 2: If I had a dollar for every time someone thought 801 00:34:20,824 --> 00:34:22,944 Speaker 2: my crying was fake, i'd be a millionaire right now. 802 00:34:23,264 --> 00:34:25,184 Speaker 2: But she said, I'm a cry baby. I cry all 803 00:34:25,224 --> 00:34:26,424 Speaker 2: the time. I just cry a lot. 804 00:34:26,544 --> 00:34:30,264 Speaker 1: That's it, And that's absolutely funny. Work in women's media. 805 00:34:30,744 --> 00:34:33,504 Speaker 1: Think it's a profession all the time. It's a professional workplace. 806 00:34:33,584 --> 00:34:35,904 Speaker 1: We're all crying all the time. And it could be crying. 807 00:34:35,944 --> 00:34:37,584 Speaker 2: Could be they put the wrong milk in my coffee 808 00:34:37,584 --> 00:34:39,024 Speaker 2: and I saw someone cry by that the other day. 809 00:34:39,504 --> 00:34:41,184 Speaker 2: Someone took my lunch out of the fridge, saw someone 810 00:34:41,224 --> 00:34:43,784 Speaker 2: cry about that. Me this morning, where is my hand sanitizer? 811 00:34:43,864 --> 00:34:44,464 Speaker 1: Couldn't find it. 812 00:34:46,344 --> 00:34:48,544 Speaker 2: We're all very emotional, and you know what, that's okay fine. 813 00:34:48,944 --> 00:34:50,744 Speaker 2: The other thing she was getting called out for was 814 00:34:50,784 --> 00:34:53,904 Speaker 2: wearing a blue dress to her fake wedding, because I would. 815 00:34:53,664 --> 00:34:54,144 Speaker 1: Like her dress. 816 00:34:54,144 --> 00:34:55,624 Speaker 3: I was actually just going to about to say, my 817 00:34:55,704 --> 00:34:57,184 Speaker 3: favorite part about their wedding was. 818 00:34:57,184 --> 00:34:59,504 Speaker 2: Actually a lot of people like, was she trying to 819 00:34:59,584 --> 00:35:01,624 Speaker 2: stand out, She's trying to be quirky, She's trying to 820 00:35:01,664 --> 00:35:03,144 Speaker 2: do this and that, like all these others. 821 00:35:03,384 --> 00:35:05,424 Speaker 3: There's a blue dress to their wedding to stand out. 822 00:35:05,624 --> 00:35:07,264 Speaker 3: That's the whole purpose of the white dress. 823 00:35:08,024 --> 00:35:09,784 Speaker 2: Well, she just said she tried on a bunch of 824 00:35:09,824 --> 00:35:12,904 Speaker 2: white wedding dresses and then this is actually really sad, 825 00:35:12,944 --> 00:35:15,624 Speaker 2: and I think really good context for how she's feeling 826 00:35:15,664 --> 00:35:17,744 Speaker 2: on the show is that she was trying on wedding dresses. 827 00:35:18,184 --> 00:35:21,104 Speaker 2: She said she started crying because she felt really sad, 828 00:35:21,824 --> 00:35:23,784 Speaker 2: and then she said, I didn't want it to feel 829 00:35:23,864 --> 00:35:26,264 Speaker 2: like my actual wedding because I knew it was a 830 00:35:26,304 --> 00:35:30,064 Speaker 2: TV wedding. So even now she's further ahead than previous contestants, 831 00:35:30,304 --> 00:35:31,944 Speaker 2: she's like, I knew it was a TV wedding, and 832 00:35:32,024 --> 00:35:33,944 Speaker 2: I thought, how can I make this really fun? And 833 00:35:33,984 --> 00:35:35,824 Speaker 2: so I thought, let's wear a different color dress so 834 00:35:35,864 --> 00:35:38,424 Speaker 2: it doesn't feel real, which I think is that kind 835 00:35:38,424 --> 00:35:41,264 Speaker 2: of makes sense. That's also very just like mentally safe 836 00:35:41,304 --> 00:35:43,264 Speaker 2: and self away toy, like this isn't a real thing. 837 00:35:43,344 --> 00:35:45,864 Speaker 2: I'm going to like protect myself, but also just I 838 00:35:45,904 --> 00:35:48,824 Speaker 2: think very indicative of her emotional state where she's still 839 00:35:48,904 --> 00:35:51,624 Speaker 2: really dreaming about that big, real wedding day and she 840 00:35:51,704 --> 00:35:54,704 Speaker 2: didn't want this experience to taint that in any way. 841 00:35:55,064 --> 00:35:57,744 Speaker 1: Yeah, the other thing I'm sad. 842 00:35:58,144 --> 00:36:00,144 Speaker 2: The other thing I found this really interesting is like, 843 00:36:00,304 --> 00:36:02,584 Speaker 2: on one hand, if this edit had been shown a 844 00:36:02,624 --> 00:36:05,384 Speaker 2: few years ago, I think of the quote unquote like 845 00:36:05,464 --> 00:36:07,944 Speaker 2: crazy woman, people would have just jumped on her and 846 00:36:08,064 --> 00:36:09,704 Speaker 2: attacked her and she would have been a meme. 847 00:36:09,984 --> 00:36:11,664 Speaker 1: And we saw that with Avi Chatfield. 848 00:36:11,744 --> 00:36:14,024 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, the crazy woman. It's happened to so many 849 00:36:14,104 --> 00:36:16,744 Speaker 2: MATHS contestants in the past, and this time that's happening 850 00:36:16,824 --> 00:36:19,744 Speaker 2: to an extent, but not as much where some people 851 00:36:19,824 --> 00:36:21,904 Speaker 2: are being like, let's take a second, let's think about 852 00:36:21,904 --> 00:36:23,784 Speaker 2: the edit. Let's think about what this woman's going through 853 00:36:23,944 --> 00:36:26,744 Speaker 2: and not like drag her across the cold so being crazy. 854 00:36:27,264 --> 00:36:30,744 Speaker 2: But the other thing is so many people, particularly on TikTok, 855 00:36:31,144 --> 00:36:34,344 Speaker 2: have diagnosed her as being on the autism spectrum. 856 00:36:34,704 --> 00:36:36,024 Speaker 1: You can't do that, no, I know. 857 00:36:36,224 --> 00:36:38,304 Speaker 2: And the thing is like I understand some people are 858 00:36:38,384 --> 00:36:40,184 Speaker 2: trying to like do it from a good place and 859 00:36:40,264 --> 00:36:42,064 Speaker 2: not excusing it at all, But I think some people 860 00:36:42,104 --> 00:36:43,904 Speaker 2: saying like, let's take a moment and just think, like, 861 00:36:44,104 --> 00:36:46,264 Speaker 2: you know, many people are on the spectrum in different ways. 862 00:36:46,344 --> 00:36:47,744 Speaker 2: A lot of people have spent a lot of time 863 00:36:47,984 --> 00:36:51,904 Speaker 2: educating the community with their diagnosis about how their behavior 864 00:36:51,984 --> 00:36:54,224 Speaker 2: might be different, or how like their way of speaking 865 00:36:54,344 --> 00:36:56,904 Speaker 2: or interacting with people might be different because they're on 866 00:36:56,984 --> 00:36:59,264 Speaker 2: the spectrum. And I think it's very good to be aware, 867 00:36:59,344 --> 00:37:01,504 Speaker 2: like because previously with people on the autism spectrum, a 868 00:37:01,544 --> 00:37:03,344 Speaker 2: lot of the time they would just be written off 869 00:37:03,384 --> 00:37:06,264 Speaker 2: as like, oh, they can't interact with people, or they're crazy, 870 00:37:06,344 --> 00:37:07,744 Speaker 2: all that sort of stuff. So I think there's that 871 00:37:07,984 --> 00:37:11,544 Speaker 2: level of awareness just because someone acting differently doesn't mean 872 00:37:11,584 --> 00:37:12,544 Speaker 2: that they're a bad person. 873 00:37:13,024 --> 00:37:15,184 Speaker 1: But also pretty. 874 00:37:15,504 --> 00:37:18,504 Speaker 2: Intense to put a whole diagnosis on a woman who 875 00:37:18,584 --> 00:37:22,424 Speaker 2: has never said that she is going to talk about 876 00:37:22,424 --> 00:37:24,104 Speaker 2: that or hasard anyway. So she addressed that in the 877 00:37:24,184 --> 00:37:26,464 Speaker 2: Q and A, and she said, personally, I don't think 878 00:37:26,464 --> 00:37:29,624 Speaker 2: I'm autistic. I've never been diagnosed. Then she said, maybe 879 00:37:29,664 --> 00:37:31,864 Speaker 2: I'm autistic, maybe I'm undiagnosed. 880 00:37:31,904 --> 00:37:32,304 Speaker 1: I don't know. 881 00:37:32,784 --> 00:37:34,264 Speaker 3: The fact that she even had to address that is 882 00:37:34,344 --> 00:37:37,904 Speaker 3: so sad because even though it is reality TV, it's 883 00:37:37,944 --> 00:37:41,024 Speaker 3: still a show, like there's still production, they're still editing, 884 00:37:41,184 --> 00:37:45,104 Speaker 3: Like so much goes into that that you're essentially diagnosing 885 00:37:45,224 --> 00:37:47,584 Speaker 3: a character of a person you're not actually. 886 00:37:47,264 --> 00:37:51,184 Speaker 2: At that you're saying, I think that I've seen it 887 00:37:51,224 --> 00:37:52,784 Speaker 2: on and I get it in a nice way. I've 888 00:37:52,784 --> 00:37:55,064 Speaker 2: seen some people be especially on TikTok and stuff, which 889 00:37:55,064 --> 00:37:57,824 Speaker 2: obviously isn't the place we making these assumptions. But I've 890 00:37:57,824 --> 00:38:00,384 Speaker 2: seen people say like, hey, just give this woman a break, 891 00:38:00,544 --> 00:38:03,664 Speaker 2: like she's obviously on the spectrum, she's autistic, we need 892 00:38:03,744 --> 00:38:05,424 Speaker 2: to give her space. And while I think that that's 893 00:38:05,424 --> 00:38:07,864 Speaker 2: a general nice way of thinking to just be giving 894 00:38:07,944 --> 00:38:08,904 Speaker 2: people space. 895 00:38:08,744 --> 00:38:10,944 Speaker 1: Leave the autistic part out, it's not true. 896 00:38:11,144 --> 00:38:13,224 Speaker 2: It's a lot to say this woman is autistic when 897 00:38:13,264 --> 00:38:15,904 Speaker 2: she has never said that, and now that story has 898 00:38:15,984 --> 00:38:17,704 Speaker 2: kind of run away and people are just assuming it. 899 00:38:17,824 --> 00:38:20,224 Speaker 2: So I also think that's a bit to get troubling. 900 00:38:20,304 --> 00:38:22,704 Speaker 2: Like good to be good, to be like mindful of others, 901 00:38:22,824 --> 00:38:24,984 Speaker 2: but putting a label on someone when they haven't said 902 00:38:25,024 --> 00:38:26,984 Speaker 2: it themselves maybe not great. 903 00:38:27,424 --> 00:38:29,944 Speaker 3: Thank you so much for listening to The Spill today. 904 00:38:30,184 --> 00:38:32,224 Speaker 3: If you want more content from us, you can always 905 00:38:32,264 --> 00:38:34,984 Speaker 3: follow us on Instagram at The Spill Podcast. 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