WEBVTT - Cath's New Dating Coach Doesn't Have A Pulse

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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to I'm I'm a mea podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, and welcome to Unleashed, a podcast for gen X

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<v Speaker 2>women who need a laugh. If you can remember the

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<v Speaker 2>way your strawberry shortcake doll's head smelt, you can't remember

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<v Speaker 2>blue frosted eye shadow badly, and if you genuinely in

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<v Speaker 3>Come.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, who is on the sofa today?

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<v Speaker 4>How people? It's Grace fam fashion stylist.

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<v Speaker 5>H Hi, I'm Mary Kustis, I'm an actress writer.

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<v Speaker 2>Ginny Men's book, I'm a JP and I'm Kasmahon, your comedian.

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<v Speaker 2>Wherever you're listening and clenching, you'r clench your pelvic floor

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<v Speaker 2>and get ready to UNLEASHO.

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<v Speaker 1>Great to see your ladies. What have we got this week?

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<v Speaker 6>Before we get started, Kath, last week you admitted that

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<v Speaker 6>you're using AI to be your relationship coach, and one

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<v Speaker 6>of us is not happy, and she's not here, she's

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<v Speaker 6>not dead, but she's in Melbourne and her name's Sally Hepworth.

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<v Speaker 5>And this is what she has to say about you

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<v Speaker 5>and Claude.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh guys, it's Sally.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I'm alive, unlike your new dating coach, Kath. And look,

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<v Speaker 3>I've got to say, I'm a little offended.

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<v Speaker 8>Claude is your relationship guru.

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<v Speaker 3>It's hurtful because I have obviously been offering premium dating

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<v Speaker 3>advice along with mons to you for quite some time,

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<v Speaker 3>and I, unlike Claude, have a pulse and also, more importantly,

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<v Speaker 3>the ability to share gossip. So I just want to

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<v Speaker 3>point out a few reasons why I am superior to

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<v Speaker 3>Claude as a dating coach. Obviously, Number one, I'm human,

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<v Speaker 3>actually had relationships, not great ones. But point number two,

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<v Speaker 3>Claude probably understands attachment theory.

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<v Speaker 4>Good for him.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what I understand vibes. Vibes are ninety nine

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<v Speaker 3>percent of dating, and we all know that's true. Number three,

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<v Speaker 3>Claude might be able to tell you what a man

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<v Speaker 3>might mean when.

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<v Speaker 4>He says it's a busy week.

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<v Speaker 3>He is guessing, you know what, I'm basing it on

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<v Speaker 3>punctuation response time, whether he's watched his Instagram story. I

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<v Speaker 3>am doing my due diligence. What the fuck is Claude

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<v Speaker 3>doing like a sweep of what he can find online.

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<v Speaker 3>That's bullshit. Mine's personalized number four And I think this

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<v Speaker 3>is the most important. Claude has never once poured you

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<v Speaker 3>a drink and said respectfully. This man is a red flag.

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<v Speaker 3>So saying, enjoy your robot boyfriend whisperer cap But when

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<v Speaker 3>it starts to fall apart, I'm just saying I'm going

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<v Speaker 3>to be here.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to be.

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<v Speaker 3>Here with emotional support, with mild bias, always in your favor,

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<v Speaker 3>an unqualified confidence that I would like to share.

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<v Speaker 4>So stop going to Claude. You've got a team.

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<v Speaker 3>Of women very bad advice right on the couch with you.

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<v Speaker 3>No Claude, stick with unleashed bye.

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<v Speaker 1>Love it.

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<v Speaker 4>I love how miss Sally is so competitive of Claude.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I would like to say to Sally, who will

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<v Speaker 2>be listening because she's not.

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<v Speaker 1>It's still not.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that I do go to her like I go

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<v Speaker 2>to her first. But you know, she's a busy mum,

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<v Speaker 2>she's got three kids, she'd be writing another best seller

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<v Speaker 2>as we speak. She's got hot Dan that she'll be

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<v Speaker 2>having some you know, love time with, and she's just

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<v Speaker 2>moved into a new house that she's you know, wrecking

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<v Speaker 2>one room at a time if you watch your Instagram stories.

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<v Speaker 2>So I just think I hear you, Sally, but I can't.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to be that needy friend.

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<v Speaker 8>And Claude gave good advice. I thought Claude's advice was like,

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<v Speaker 8>bang on.

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<v Speaker 4>And sadly is not twenty four hours you know exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, here's what.

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<v Speaker 6>I find about chat just on a loose generic level.

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<v Speaker 6>They're very American. Yes, it's all very positive, and it's

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<v Speaker 6>all very generic, and they talk us up like it

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<v Speaker 6>tells me I'm a genius, and it tells me you're

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<v Speaker 6>terrific and you're marvelous.

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<v Speaker 5>And I love that idea.

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<v Speaker 6>And this isn't going to be like anything else ever

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<v Speaker 6>seen before on the planet. And I sometimes think it

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<v Speaker 6>plays to our ego.

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<v Speaker 2>Claude and he was very much like he has not

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<v Speaker 2>tried to reschedule since he canceled at six thirty seven

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<v Speaker 2>am in the morning. You're meant to see him at

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<v Speaker 2>ten am because he'd had a bender with his mates.

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<v Speaker 2>And Claude was like, do not reach out under any circumstance.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, what about a DM on Instagram? No, no,

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<v Speaker 2>what'sapp No, no telegram, no pigeon.

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<v Speaker 1>No, you're better than that. So that's so.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I had my back he did. But I

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<v Speaker 2>do agree, you do. Yeah, they are quite you know.

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<v Speaker 2>They do puff you up a bit, they do.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, I think that's enough about me and my

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<v Speaker 2>my nondescript love life. Let's talk about something else. The

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<v Speaker 2>stirrup pant, the stirrup legging. Annalise, who is one of

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<v Speaker 2>the writers at Mama Maa, did a fantastic piece on

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<v Speaker 2>the new job per stirrup trousers. She wore them for

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<v Speaker 2>an entire week to work. I also saw them at

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<v Speaker 2>Marks and Spencer's and Kmart. Really, Gray Slam, Are they

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<v Speaker 2>coming back? What are we doing with them?

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely not bin them?

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<v Speaker 7>Well?

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<v Speaker 4>Would I want to look like Borret? You know?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what it.

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<v Speaker 4>Reminds me of. It doesn't matter whether you're Cando Jenna

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<v Speaker 4>or you're like Cindy Crawford who is like six foot weather.

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<v Speaker 4>It just doesn't look good to me. Like it does

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<v Speaker 4>not look good. It reminds me of when I had

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<v Speaker 4>braces when I was nine years old, with elastic band.

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<v Speaker 4>When I open my mouth, yes, it's just like that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>And I don't want to see people dressing like boret

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<v Speaker 4>every day.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's a lot of vagina.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just not cool.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>I think I'm scarred because I remember it was a

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<v Speaker 6>big thing with women to wear those stirrup pants tight.

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<v Speaker 5>And I do remember a bit of camel.

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<v Speaker 6>Toe, a bit sort of pulling down but cutting up

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<v Speaker 6>at the same time.

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<v Speaker 5>So the big w was always on show with those pants.

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<v Speaker 1>I had them in black and I had them in thorn.

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<v Speaker 2>Base literally like a job per, like I was about

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<v Speaker 2>to get on some Jim Karner and.

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<v Speaker 1>They weren't good the first time round. So I'm saying no.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, just because it appears on the catwalk doesn't

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<v Speaker 4>mean that we all have to jump into it.

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<v Speaker 9>You know.

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<v Speaker 4>I am in the middle of doing my master cast

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<v Speaker 4>a jewel as an online thing, and I'm teaching people

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<v Speaker 4>not to follow tramp because sometimes when it's trendy, people

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<v Speaker 4>just jump into it.

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<v Speaker 3>No.

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<v Speaker 4>Not in my book, I have.

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<v Speaker 8>Never heard of a stirrup pant. Wow, I am the

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<v Speaker 8>last person on the planet you would ever discuss fashion with.

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<v Speaker 8>I've got absolutely no clue. I'm going to play the

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<v Speaker 8>feet on everything to do with fashion.

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<v Speaker 1>These were the eighties, weren't they the first time round?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah? Is that right?

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<v Speaker 5>Yep?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, come on, people, let's not go there. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>if they're going to bring that back, then I much

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<v Speaker 4>rather have the big shoulder pads come on. At least

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<v Speaker 4>I can like wear them so people don't touch me,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, with their germs and stuff. I would love

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<v Speaker 4>that bring back the shoulder pads that.

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<v Speaker 5>Never left me.

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<v Speaker 6>If he wears a lot of shoulder pads, yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 6>not the boxy jacket like from Working Girl. It's more

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<v Speaker 6>cinched at the waist so you look like a bit

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<v Speaker 6>of a superhero.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't mind a shoulder pad very pro Hats.

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<v Speaker 8>Off to whoever invented shoulder pads. I think that was

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<v Speaker 8>a really brilliant thing, and I hope they have absolutely

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<v Speaker 8>cleaned up. I don't know about you guys, but I

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<v Speaker 8>always think that I have come up with the latest

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<v Speaker 8>greatest invention and that I'm going to clean up. And

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<v Speaker 8>one recent hike that I did, I was desperate for

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<v Speaker 8>a weei and what I thought was, wouldn't it be

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<v Speaker 8>great and Grace You'd be so into this if there

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<v Speaker 8>was like an app where you could be told not

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<v Speaker 8>only the nearest toilet, but like where people get to

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<v Speaker 8>rate it, like trip Advisor, and so you actually get

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<v Speaker 8>to know like is their toilet paper? Is there a

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<v Speaker 8>toilet seat, which in Europe is quite frequently absent. I

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<v Speaker 8>think that kind of thing would be very useful information,

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<v Speaker 8>Like you know, you get a four point nine out

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<v Speaker 8>of five.

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<v Speaker 4>And so I decided that.

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<v Speaker 8>I would call my invention AIRWINP and I had it

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<v Speaker 8>all worked out, and I went home and found out

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<v Speaker 8>that there are already five of those inventions in existence,

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<v Speaker 8>and so you know, my Telstra Business Award kind of

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<v Speaker 8>fantasy just fizzed, going up in flames. Guys, are you

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<v Speaker 8>constantly inventing things that you find out somebody else has

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<v Speaker 8>actually already beaten into it?

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<v Speaker 6>I am a big fan of items that help give

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<v Speaker 6>you confidence, Like that's what the shoulder pad was about, right,

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<v Speaker 6>makes you feel powerful. There's just so many of those

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<v Speaker 6>things because I think society in general is just trying

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<v Speaker 6>to rob us about confidence, yes constantly, especially as women.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh you got to use this cream in order for

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<v Speaker 6>you to look beautiful, and you got to wear your

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<v Speaker 6>hair like this, and your body's got to be looking

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<v Speaker 6>like that and I was thinking.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, what about men.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, men don't have a lot to choose from

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<v Speaker 6>in terms of what gives them confidence. Like they have pants,

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<v Speaker 6>a singlet if they're built and they've got guns and

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<v Speaker 6>their body confident, a shirt, a jacket, maybe an ugly

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<v Speaker 6>pair of shorts.

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<v Speaker 5>That's it.

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<v Speaker 6>They don't have the options that we have when it

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<v Speaker 6>comes to fashion. So I was thinking, how could a

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<v Speaker 6>man feel more confident? And then I was thinking about balls, Men's.

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<v Speaker 8>Nuts, you know, confidence boosters.

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<v Speaker 1>Right there exactly.

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<v Speaker 6>They're just a factory, aren't they. They just do all

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<v Speaker 6>the work. And I was thinking about their boys boobs.

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<v Speaker 6>They're like our boobs, except they're.

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<v Speaker 5>In their pants.

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<v Speaker 8>No one they look at them.

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<v Speaker 5>And no one wants to see them.

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<v Speaker 6>And then I thought, what if they those balls deserved

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<v Speaker 6>to have their moment. Maybe we need a ball bra,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, with straps that you can shorten or lengthen,

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<v Speaker 6>depending on what you're doing that day. Say you're wearing,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, a tightish pair of pants and you want

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<v Speaker 6>to feel confident, you tighten the straps and the balls

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<v Speaker 6>come up, and then you're at home and you want

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<v Speaker 6>to relax and you are where it tracks her or

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<v Speaker 6>something like that. You release the straps and they you know,

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<v Speaker 6>they flump around, they hang and go command ask a question.

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<v Speaker 8>I seriously do not know the answer to this. If

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<v Speaker 8>men run, particularly if they have large balls, do their

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<v Speaker 8>balls hurt? Like you know, how a woman needs a

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<v Speaker 8>sports br a man? Does a man need a sports

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<v Speaker 8>ball bra?

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<v Speaker 4>Is that a thing?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never heard of it, but I don't you first

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<v Speaker 1>we pat it?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I just thought of.

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<v Speaker 6>It on stage when I was doing a show a

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<v Speaker 6>couple of weeks ago, and a guy told me he

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<v Speaker 6>worked for Bonds. He designed underwear for Bonds, And I said, well,

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<v Speaker 6>that's already been done, has it? How many times can

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<v Speaker 6>you design a g stream or a brief or a

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<v Speaker 6>box a short? And I said, what you should be?

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<v Speaker 6>And I hadn't thought about this until that moment. You

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<v Speaker 6>should be designing a ball bra. And I pitched him there,

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<v Speaker 6>and then the ball bra for Bonds?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, why would they not take it?

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<v Speaker 8>Exactly natural?

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<v Speaker 2>It's got to be a thing, right, So this hasn't Actually,

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<v Speaker 2>this is not a thing yet. So I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>market unleashed, except maybe it would be more leashed.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think that's a great idea. One of us uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 6>We're uncomfortable all the time. I remember today how I

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<v Speaker 6>used to do up my mum's girdle when I.

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<v Speaker 1>Was a child.

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<v Speaker 5>Respects wow, and the poor thing.

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<v Speaker 6>I had to pour all and meat into the back

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<v Speaker 6>there and then push with all my light.

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<v Speaker 5>Sometimes I'd have to get my brother involved. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 5>that's tubes in the seventies.

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<v Speaker 4>Katha, honey, Yeah, sure. Invention.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I thought it was going to be my invention,

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<v Speaker 2>but apparently it's already out there. I was like, as

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<v Speaker 2>a you know, eternally single person, I just thought, there

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<v Speaker 2>must be so many times that I walk past someone

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<v Speaker 2>else who's single that I don't know. And what if

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<v Speaker 2>there was an app we could put your details on

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<v Speaker 2>to say I'm single and I'm interested and this is

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm into and you pinged when you walked past.

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<v Speaker 1>It was called happen and it's already been out Was

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<v Speaker 1>it any good?

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<v Speaker 3>Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Maybe we should redo one.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, be like find my phone, except find my day

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<v Speaker 6>or my person.

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<v Speaker 1>This is great, We're on. That's what we'll call it.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, like how they say when you go to

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<v Speaker 6>the supermarket, like there are all these signs to say

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<v Speaker 6>you're single, Like if you put your bananas on the

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<v Speaker 6>top thing and you do it like that, maybe we

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<v Speaker 6>need to wear not a yellow carnation, because you know,

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<v Speaker 6>I wouldn't trust anyone that wore a yellow carnation, but

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<v Speaker 6>some sort of fashion item that singled you out in

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<v Speaker 6>some way to say, you know, I'm open to meeting

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<v Speaker 6>someone great. And it was something that you wore that

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<v Speaker 6>maybe only single people knew about.

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<v Speaker 1>Ma'am.

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<v Speaker 4>What is the banana and a trolley thing?

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<v Speaker 6>There was some talk that at Woolli's or Coals, I

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<v Speaker 6>don't even remember which one that on certain times of

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<v Speaker 6>maybe early evening when you're going home, you would stop

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<v Speaker 6>at the supermarket and if you were single, I think

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<v Speaker 6>it was you put them in the top part. Remember

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<v Speaker 6>you know how there's that top section in a trolley

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<v Speaker 6>and they'd have them up right.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, yeah, had to face them up. That meant you

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<v Speaker 8>were single.

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<v Speaker 5>That meant you were single.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, that's so funny.

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<v Speaker 2>Now I've heard that. It's definitely a thing tried. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>I've always got bananas in my trolley, but nobody is

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<v Speaker 2>approaching me in the cold dial. To be honest, there

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<v Speaker 2>was a guy on my street that I kind of

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<v Speaker 2>I sat on the bench and he was coming out

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<v Speaker 2>top of my street and doesn't have a ring on

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<v Speaker 2>right age. I tried to smile a bit but couldn't

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<v Speaker 2>get his attention, and I really nearly put like a

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<v Speaker 2>note on his windscreen.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh but I just thought that was exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>But how else you want to meet people, I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to ask Claude. Yeah, actually, well, I think sporting events.

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<v Speaker 2>My son is obviously nowaday age where he's seventeen, so

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<v Speaker 2>every weekend I have to schlep to another sporting event,

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<v Speaker 2>and a lot of them on Saturday are with schools.

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<v Speaker 2>He's seventeen, so he is like peak age of other

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<v Speaker 2>kids his age having parents who.

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<v Speaker 1>Were divorced or divorced.

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<v Speaker 2>So I would just like to do a thing at

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<v Speaker 2>halftime where it's like all the single people would like

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<v Speaker 2>to come on the field just offer themselves to the

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<v Speaker 2>other single people.

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<v Speaker 1>Would be great because there's got to be people out there.

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<v Speaker 2>And if I've got to watch rugby in the rain

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<v Speaker 2>for eighty minutes, like at least the data out of

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<v Speaker 2>the end of it, I like it. Kav.

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<v Speaker 8>That is your invention, football Spade diating, I don't think

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<v Speaker 8>it's been done yet.

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<v Speaker 2>And we don't need an app, we don't need a

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<v Speaker 2>tect build, we don't need startup phase.

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<v Speaker 8>We could do it.

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<v Speaker 1>You just need a megaphone.

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<v Speaker 4>So, ladies, something crazy happened to me recently. I got

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<v Speaker 4>invited to Parliament House camera by the Health Minister, whoa

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<v Speaker 4>quite a surreal moment because they were launching the first

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<v Speaker 4>ever perimenopause campaign in Australia and they invited me and

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<v Speaker 4>some of our lovely listeners might not know that I

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<v Speaker 4>advocate a lot for perimenopause because I want to break

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<v Speaker 4>the stigma. I want to normalize this conversation. And I

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<v Speaker 4>also want to show people that perimenopause a woman, a

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<v Speaker 4>menopause woman, we are fabulous and cool and very fashion.

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<v Speaker 4>And then when I got to Canberra and on the

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<v Speaker 4>way there, I had a lovely uber driver who's also

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<v Speaker 4>an immigrant and we exchanged stories and what was so

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<v Speaker 4>amazing was he was asking me so many questions about

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<v Speaker 4>perimenopause because he's suspecting his wife is going through it.

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<v Speaker 4>He took out a notebook he was going to write notes.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, don't do that. You're driving, let me, let

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<v Speaker 4>me write everything safe anyway, and when I entered the building,

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<v Speaker 4>everyone was like, oh my god, who's this girl. First

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<v Speaker 4>of all, I don't dress like a politician, so I

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<v Speaker 4>wore like a pin striped suit, like a gray suit

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<v Speaker 4>from a Melbourne designer best and inside I wore a

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<v Speaker 4>bright red turtleneck because people keep telling me it's really

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<v Speaker 4>cold in camera. And I wore a rough old dress

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<v Speaker 4>underneath so you can see it through my suits, high

0:16:09.634 --> 0:16:14.354
<v Speaker 4>heeled fun Pokado socks and then my Chanel bag. So

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<v Speaker 4>the minute I walked into Parliament House, everyone knew I'm

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<v Speaker 4>not a politician because they were not dressed like that, right.

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<v Speaker 4>And I deliberately didn't tell my mom because I just

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to surprise her. So I sent her a picture

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<v Speaker 4>of me doing a selfie in front of Parliament House.

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<v Speaker 4>Her reaction was like.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it ai? And I was like, oh, man, come on.

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<v Speaker 4>So I went into Parliament House. So, first of all,

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<v Speaker 4>the outside of the building it's quite spectacular and the

0:16:42.354 --> 0:16:44.714
<v Speaker 4>energy that is very strong. I had a bit of

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<v Speaker 4>out of body experience and I didn't know what was

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<v Speaker 4>going on because I just everything was so overwhelming, because

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<v Speaker 4>it was quite strange to be there as an immigrant,

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<v Speaker 4>and everyone there were super friendly, supersed But it was

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<v Speaker 4>just a moment for me to remember for the rest

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<v Speaker 4>of my life, and I thought if I was really

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<v Speaker 4>scared of doing something, nothing ever happened like that.

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<v Speaker 8>Right, Did you made elbow the Prime Minister?

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<v Speaker 4>No, I didn't. However, he was in the same room

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<v Speaker 4>as us, honking the mic because we were supposed to

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<v Speaker 4>get on in front of the news, and he took

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<v Speaker 4>so long because we was speaking a long time. Fun fact,

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<v Speaker 4>the Assistant Health Minister is a fan of Unleash, so

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<v Speaker 4>she listened to us because when I told her, she goes, oh, no, no,

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<v Speaker 4>I listened to you on Unleashed.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, obviously it's so good for her heart health to

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<v Speaker 8>be laughing along with us.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because she's quite a gentle person. Actually, she speaks

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<v Speaker 4>very gently. But it was such an amazing experience for

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<v Speaker 4>me because I left Hong Kong based on fear because

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<v Speaker 4>of the social unrest and it was very unsafe. I

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<v Speaker 4>left there and I went to Perth. Didn't know anyone,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm not very close to my husband's family, so

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't know what was happening, and I didn't know

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<v Speaker 4>what's going to happen to my life or my career. Nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>And then when I was in Parliament House, I thought,

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<v Speaker 4>how does this happen? It's so strange to me that

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<v Speaker 4>all I did was just talk about menopause because I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't want people to typecast us. I want to make

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<v Speaker 4>sure the message is out there that we're still fabulous

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<v Speaker 4>and fun and cool. And then suddenly I'm in this

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<v Speaker 4>place with all these people and it was quite a

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<v Speaker 4>surreal moment. And my message here is at fifty three young,

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like, oh my god, fear doesn't face me

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<v Speaker 4>at all. So what I want to know is, why

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<v Speaker 4>have you done that's completely fearless? Doctor Ginny.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh, I've got imposter syndrome all the time, and I

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<v Speaker 8>always am full of fear. I always think that somebody's

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<v Speaker 8>going to rip off the mask and actually reveal that

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<v Speaker 8>I'm just a bit of a screw up.

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<v Speaker 4>But no.

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<v Speaker 8>But I think often we are our own worst critics,

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<v Speaker 8>and we don't see any achievements that we've ever done,

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<v Speaker 8>and you look at other people, like when we started

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<v Speaker 8>doing Unleashed, and I realized that I was going to

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<v Speaker 8>be sitting with the fee from my childhood and my

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<v Speaker 8>teenage years in my twenties, I was like, I was

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<v Speaker 8>so in awe and for all of you, all of

0:19:06.314 --> 0:19:08.674
<v Speaker 8>you guys have done so much, and every one of us,

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<v Speaker 8>I think probably thinks how am I sitting in this

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<v Speaker 8>room with everybody else?

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't.

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<v Speaker 8>But no, I think. I think a lot of women

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<v Speaker 8>are constrained by maybe imposter syndrome, maybe by fear.

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<v Speaker 2>Hang on a minute, you've built a skincare empire. Come on,

0:19:27.754 --> 0:19:28.954
<v Speaker 2>you've got to be a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>You're very fearless.

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<v Speaker 8>I think the thing that so many women have when

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<v Speaker 8>we talk about fear is that new languages can feel

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<v Speaker 8>really overwhelming, and finance is one of those languages. Like

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<v Speaker 8>you can look at a balance sheet or a profit

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<v Speaker 8>and loss statement or an income statement and go, I

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<v Speaker 8>don't even know what this means. And realizing for myself,

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<v Speaker 8>I had always thought that I was absolutely clueless, couldn't

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<v Speaker 8>manage a spreadsheet, did not know one end of a

0:19:57.994 --> 0:20:00.394
<v Speaker 8>checkbook from another. And it turns out I'm actually not

0:20:00.434 --> 0:20:05.234
<v Speaker 8>bad at doing finance, but I still can't reconcile that

0:20:05.594 --> 0:20:08.474
<v Speaker 8>with who I know. I am like that I always think,

0:20:08.554 --> 0:20:10.954
<v Speaker 8>like I don't know anything. I'm going to take advice

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<v Speaker 8>from everyone.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what I love about doctor Jeanie. And this

0:20:14.474 --> 0:20:18.553
<v Speaker 4>is a fact that a lot of clever people or

0:20:18.834 --> 0:20:22.394
<v Speaker 4>high achiever they never think they're clever enough or done enough.

0:20:22.594 --> 0:20:25.314
<v Speaker 4>And there's all those assholes that pretend to have done

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<v Speaker 4>so much that they bs their way out right. So

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<v Speaker 4>I think this is a really nice trait that you have.

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<v Speaker 8>I think you're always aware of the things you don't know,

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<v Speaker 8>like I think women are always very focused on the

0:20:37.074 --> 0:20:39.634
<v Speaker 8>things that they don't know. Your gaps in your knowledge,

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<v Speaker 8>the things that you have failed at, the things that

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<v Speaker 8>you have not achieved that you might have thought you

0:20:43.594 --> 0:20:46.394
<v Speaker 8>could have achieved. That's where our heads go to. And

0:20:46.434 --> 0:20:48.794
<v Speaker 8>you never see yourself. Sometimes it's really nice to see

0:20:48.794 --> 0:20:52.994
<v Speaker 8>yourself reflected in somebody else's vision of you, because it's like, oh,

0:20:53.154 --> 0:20:55.874
<v Speaker 8>I didn't really think that about myself, But I think

0:20:55.914 --> 0:20:58.874
<v Speaker 8>you can end up. There are so many women I

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<v Speaker 8>know who don't step into their power because I don't

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<v Speaker 8>even see the.

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<v Speaker 1>Power they have.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, mah, I've had my own parliament House experience. One

0:21:06.274 --> 0:21:08.834
<v Speaker 6>of the biggest core jobs you can do in the

0:21:08.954 --> 0:21:12.634
<v Speaker 6>entertainment industries to do the mid Winter Ball, and that

0:21:12.794 --> 0:21:15.793
<v Speaker 6>is when all political parties put away their differences for

0:21:15.834 --> 0:21:19.114
<v Speaker 6>a night and it's run by the Press Gallery, and

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<v Speaker 6>you know, it's a lot of fun.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a very beautiful event.

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<v Speaker 6>Everyone dresses up and the room looks spectacular and I've

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<v Speaker 6>had the pleasure of hosting it twice.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and I felt the same grace.

0:21:32.674 --> 0:21:35.274
<v Speaker 6>I felt like, you know, what were the chances of

0:21:35.314 --> 0:21:37.434
<v Speaker 6>the child of an immigrant in my case, you know,

0:21:37.674 --> 0:21:40.314
<v Speaker 6>my parents came out here in the fifties for their

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<v Speaker 6>daughter to be performing for the Prime minister in front

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<v Speaker 6>of the most powerful press in the country and all

0:21:46.194 --> 0:21:47.034
<v Speaker 6>the politicians.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a really good feeling.

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<v Speaker 6>And I think it needs to be something that is

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<v Speaker 6>more accessible to more people, not just as a tourist

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<v Speaker 6>to turn up to and look at, but to realize

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<v Speaker 6>the power that we have as a population and as

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<v Speaker 6>individuals to make a difference. And sometimes you just need

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<v Speaker 6>to push for what you believe is right enough for

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<v Speaker 6>it to make a difference to me more people than

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<v Speaker 6>just us. And I felt that night that I was

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<v Speaker 6>representing a lot of people like me that would think,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, I'll never get to be in that rarefied

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<v Speaker 6>space or talk to people. And I do a lot

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<v Speaker 6>of research before I do my jobs. And Malcolm Farr

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<v Speaker 6>was a big political writer at the time, and I

0:22:25.714 --> 0:22:28.033
<v Speaker 6>spoke to him at length, and then I spoke to

0:22:28.074 --> 0:22:30.274
<v Speaker 6>the head of the press gallery, and then I wrote

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<v Speaker 6>a monologue for the evening and they thought it was

0:22:33.194 --> 0:22:36.474
<v Speaker 6>written by Malcolm and it wasn't. I just did a

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<v Speaker 6>lot of research and I put Effie at the Efie

0:22:39.914 --> 0:22:42.674
<v Speaker 6>Center in Australian Politics for a night and it felt

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<v Speaker 6>really good. Yeah, So congrats, Grace. We're really really proud

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<v Speaker 6>of what.

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<v Speaker 1>You've done for all women. Grace Mary.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you guys saying that we should do an unleashed

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<v Speaker 2>show live at Parliament House?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, now that me and a health mins are besties,

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<v Speaker 4>maybe I'll just tell them, well.

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<v Speaker 2>We can't all be galli hunting to Canberra, miss Grace Lamb.

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<v Speaker 2>Some of us are firmly planted on our sofa. It's winter,

0:23:05.834 --> 0:23:08.634
<v Speaker 2>it's cold, it's dark at five pm. No one wants

0:23:08.634 --> 0:23:11.154
<v Speaker 2>to leave the house. So for those listening who are

0:23:11.274 --> 0:23:12.474
<v Speaker 2>family planted on their.

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<v Speaker 1>Sofa, put this show on your X list right away.

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<v Speaker 2>It's called Rivals, okay, and it's not hated rivalry.

0:23:20.594 --> 0:23:22.793
<v Speaker 1>No. You can see there's a theme isn't there with

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<v Speaker 1>the shows that I like.

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<v Speaker 2>But before you go all judgey, let me just say

0:23:26.874 --> 0:23:29.154
<v Speaker 2>there is two seasons of this TV show. It is

0:23:29.194 --> 0:23:33.154
<v Speaker 2>based on Jilly Cooper, or Dame Jilly Cooper's book Rivals,

0:23:33.154 --> 0:23:35.714
<v Speaker 2>that was, you know, one of the paperbacks in the eighties.

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<v Speaker 1>Two seasons.

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<v Speaker 2>Season one ninety five percent Rotten Tomatoes, Season two one

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<v Speaker 2>hundred percent tomatoes. It was Disney's number one drama in

0:23:47.714 --> 0:23:53.074
<v Speaker 2>twenty twenty four and The Guardian gave it ten thousand stars.

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<v Speaker 1>Way now you're interested on it? Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, what's so good about it?

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<v Speaker 2>It's so good because it is right up our gen

0:24:01.474 --> 0:24:04.474
<v Speaker 2>x Alli ladies, because it is set in the eighties.

0:24:04.594 --> 0:24:08.394
<v Speaker 2>The very first scene from season one is two people

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<v Speaker 2>bonking on Concord. Do you think of anything more Eighties

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<v Speaker 2>than Concord?

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<v Speaker 1>It's fabulous.

0:24:16.674 --> 0:24:19.434
<v Speaker 2>It's got David tennant In, it's got Aiden Turner, it's

0:24:19.474 --> 0:24:22.874
<v Speaker 2>got Danny Dyer. It's got Catherine Parkinson who won a

0:24:22.874 --> 0:24:26.394
<v Speaker 2>BAFTA for the IT crowd. It is launchy, it's a

0:24:26.434 --> 0:24:29.314
<v Speaker 2>bonk fest. There are shoulder pads coming out of your

0:24:29.354 --> 0:24:33.274
<v Speaker 2>shoulder pads. If it's smelt, it would be deal poison

0:24:33.394 --> 0:24:38.674
<v Speaker 2>coming out on all Links Africa. It is all of

0:24:38.714 --> 0:24:39.434
<v Speaker 2>the things you want.

0:24:39.474 --> 0:24:41.874
<v Speaker 1>It's so joyful. You need to watch that.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to watch it.

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<v Speaker 2>You can watch it on Disney or I think through Apple,

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<v Speaker 2>but truly, like it is so joyful.

0:24:51.394 --> 0:24:53.754
<v Speaker 1>It takes you so back, you know the way we talked.

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<v Speaker 2>A couple of EEPs ago about the Kilimano Dooco that's

0:24:56.434 --> 0:24:57.074
<v Speaker 2>on Netflix.

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<v Speaker 1>It takes you right back. It's the eighties. The last

0:25:00.594 --> 0:25:01.474
<v Speaker 1>episode I watched.

0:25:01.474 --> 0:25:03.954
<v Speaker 2>It starts with in the Jungle, the Mighty Jungle. The

0:25:03.994 --> 0:25:06.714
<v Speaker 2>line he's driving like with his top down, and I

0:25:06.754 --> 0:25:09.234
<v Speaker 2>was like, go, oh my god, followed.

0:25:08.874 --> 0:25:11.514
<v Speaker 1>By Banana Arma, followed by Duran, Duran.

0:25:11.954 --> 0:25:15.434
<v Speaker 2>It's so good. Lots of sex, lots of all the

0:25:15.474 --> 0:25:16.074
<v Speaker 2>things you want.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, I love.

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<v Speaker 8>From you's so good because you are so passionate when

0:25:22.874 --> 0:25:25.274
<v Speaker 8>you give a reco I love it like you really

0:25:25.314 --> 0:25:27.874
<v Speaker 8>give things your heart. So yeah, thank you for that

0:25:27.994 --> 0:25:30.754
<v Speaker 8>and your your reco. Enough is enough for me to

0:25:30.794 --> 0:25:31.353
<v Speaker 8>download this.

0:25:31.594 --> 0:25:34.553
<v Speaker 2>It's so good. It's so in a world of not

0:25:34.634 --> 0:25:39.354
<v Speaker 2>always happy. It's just a show. It's wonderful. It's wonderful.

0:25:39.674 --> 0:25:41.594
<v Speaker 2>That's all I've got to say. Thank you for coming

0:25:41.634 --> 0:25:42.114
<v Speaker 2>to my show.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, cap I love the eighties.

0:25:57.114 --> 0:25:58.554
<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, to do we.

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<v Speaker 6>Get enough of that stuff? Which brings me to this question.

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<v Speaker 6>I've been thinking about this a lot. Can you girls

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<v Speaker 6>remember the first ever are film you saw, either you

0:26:09.074 --> 0:26:12.793
<v Speaker 6>snuck into or you saw that left a mark on

0:26:12.834 --> 0:26:14.794
<v Speaker 6>your mind and warped the way you looked at the

0:26:14.834 --> 0:26:15.434
<v Speaker 6>world forever.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh okay, I My first ever R rated movie was

0:26:20.994 --> 0:26:24.394
<v Speaker 8>at a friend's house whose parents were never ever home,

0:26:24.434 --> 0:26:26.474
<v Speaker 8>so we were allowed to just run riot there. I

0:26:26.514 --> 0:26:29.594
<v Speaker 8>think I was in year seven and we watched Christian

0:26:29.914 --> 0:26:33.754
<v Speaker 8>f Do you remember that movie? It was from Berlin.

0:26:34.594 --> 0:26:37.794
<v Speaker 8>It actually had subtitles, but was really really popular. It

0:26:37.834 --> 0:26:39.914
<v Speaker 8>was cult when I was at high school, but it

0:26:39.994 --> 0:26:43.514
<v Speaker 8>was about a high school girl like us who got

0:26:43.634 --> 0:26:47.314
<v Speaker 8>drawn into the world of drugs and heroin and crime.

0:26:47.554 --> 0:26:51.114
<v Speaker 8>Once you became an addict, it was terrifying. There was

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<v Speaker 8>actual scenes of people injecting heroin.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god.

0:26:54.154 --> 0:26:58.954
<v Speaker 8>But I remember just thinking I couldn't understand before then

0:26:59.554 --> 0:27:02.714
<v Speaker 8>why anybody would inject heroin. And I don't know whether

0:27:02.754 --> 0:27:05.354
<v Speaker 8>this happened in your families, but my mom would say, like,

0:27:05.394 --> 0:27:07.154
<v Speaker 8>if you go to the movies, don't sit on the

0:27:07.474 --> 0:27:09.674
<v Speaker 8>because there are heroin pushes who go and inject you

0:27:09.674 --> 0:27:12.353
<v Speaker 8>with heroin and then you're you're hooked for life. And

0:27:12.394 --> 0:27:14.954
<v Speaker 8>I was like, was in terror of ever going to

0:27:14.954 --> 0:27:16.714
<v Speaker 8>the movies with a group of friends and Meg stuck

0:27:16.714 --> 0:27:21.793
<v Speaker 8>on the end. So this was actually a really amazing

0:27:22.154 --> 0:27:26.954
<v Speaker 8>way segue into understanding drug addiction that was so huge

0:27:26.994 --> 0:27:29.274
<v Speaker 8>in the seventies. It was set in the seventies. It's

0:27:29.354 --> 0:27:33.234
<v Speaker 8>a beautiful, beautiful movie. And I think that's how I

0:27:33.394 --> 0:27:37.194
<v Speaker 8>ended up eventually for so long doing drug and alcohol

0:27:37.234 --> 0:27:40.434
<v Speaker 8>medicine prescribing method owned for heroin addicts. I think my

0:27:40.594 --> 0:27:43.874
<v Speaker 8>first my first interest in it was kindled by that movie.

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<v Speaker 4>No Way, That's crazy.

0:27:45.754 --> 0:27:49.033
<v Speaker 6>I remember at school reading a book called Go Ask Alice,

0:27:49.034 --> 0:27:52.274
<v Speaker 6>Do you remember, Yes, it was The Personality Disorder, Yeah,

0:27:52.274 --> 0:27:54.474
<v Speaker 6>And it was a diary of a heroin addict. And

0:27:54.514 --> 0:27:56.914
<v Speaker 6>then I remember writing in my own diary that I

0:27:56.994 --> 0:27:58.994
<v Speaker 6>was scared that someone was going to inject me.

0:27:59.234 --> 0:27:59.754
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't end up becoming a doctor or a heroin addict, which.

0:28:03.154 --> 0:28:04.914
<v Speaker 1>Is good, which is good, which is good to use.

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<v Speaker 6>The first R rated film I watched was The Exorcist.

0:28:11.314 --> 0:28:15.194
<v Speaker 6>People in those days, there was nothing more horrific. I

0:28:15.314 --> 0:28:19.114
<v Speaker 6>knew relatives and family friends that started sleeping in the

0:28:19.154 --> 0:28:20.234
<v Speaker 6>bed with their parents.

0:28:20.034 --> 0:28:21.474
<v Speaker 5>After watching that for months.

0:28:21.994 --> 0:28:24.714
<v Speaker 6>It was so so scary, and she I think the

0:28:24.754 --> 0:28:27.474
<v Speaker 6>priest is Greek in it, so you hear a bit

0:28:27.514 --> 0:28:31.474
<v Speaker 6>of Greek language about her head turning around and all

0:28:31.514 --> 0:28:34.834
<v Speaker 6>of the Greek vomit tongues and the green vomit. That

0:28:35.114 --> 0:28:37.354
<v Speaker 6>was a film that changed everything. And then later on

0:28:37.434 --> 0:28:39.274
<v Speaker 6>it was Jaws, but that was the first film I

0:28:39.314 --> 0:28:41.074
<v Speaker 6>remember being terrorized by.

0:28:42.074 --> 0:28:45.314
<v Speaker 2>You bring up a few for me, Jaws, The Exorcist

0:28:45.634 --> 0:28:49.114
<v Speaker 2>and Nightmare in Elm Street. Oh, that was one of

0:28:49.114 --> 0:28:51.434
<v Speaker 2>my I can't watch horror for films now, can you?

0:28:51.434 --> 0:28:53.074
<v Speaker 5>No time?

0:28:53.074 --> 0:28:55.554
<v Speaker 6>I mean, this wasn't an R rated film. But I

0:28:55.634 --> 0:28:58.634
<v Speaker 6>remember when I was little there was a television show

0:28:58.834 --> 0:29:01.274
<v Speaker 6>that was They used the front of an apartment building

0:29:01.274 --> 0:29:03.914
<v Speaker 6>in Mulara in Sydney, and it was called Number ninety

0:29:03.954 --> 0:29:07.514
<v Speaker 6>six and it was really ahead of its time. There

0:29:07.634 --> 0:29:10.114
<v Speaker 6>was a gay guy and there was a raunchy blonde chick,

0:29:10.394 --> 0:29:14.474
<v Speaker 6>and I remember hearing on the grapevine that the blonde actress,

0:29:14.514 --> 0:29:17.994
<v Speaker 6>Abigail was her name, was going to do full frontal.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, I was so excited. It was like

0:29:21.794 --> 0:29:24.394
<v Speaker 5>my Christmas is at coming once? How was I going

0:29:24.434 --> 0:29:25.274
<v Speaker 5>to get to see this?

0:29:25.834 --> 0:29:28.034
<v Speaker 6>Like? So, I remember it was on and all of

0:29:28.034 --> 0:29:29.954
<v Speaker 6>Australia was, you know, because we only had a couple

0:29:29.994 --> 0:29:34.114
<v Speaker 6>of channels back then, maybe three four. Max knew that

0:29:34.234 --> 0:29:36.194
<v Speaker 6>this was the night that Abergil was going to do

0:29:36.234 --> 0:29:39.194
<v Speaker 6>a full front and I'm sure my parents were parked

0:29:39.194 --> 0:29:40.954
<v Speaker 6>in front of the telly and I kept pretending I

0:29:40.994 --> 0:29:43.634
<v Speaker 6>was sick and I needed a glass of water because

0:29:43.634 --> 0:29:45.634
<v Speaker 6>I was so horny and excited.

0:29:45.794 --> 0:29:48.034
<v Speaker 5>I was like, oh my god, I have to see this.

0:29:48.354 --> 0:29:51.674
<v Speaker 4>So my first film where the first film I ever

0:29:51.714 --> 0:29:55.554
<v Speaker 4>saw people kissing or any sex scene was Seeing Amma's Fire.

0:29:57.674 --> 0:29:59.594
<v Speaker 4>So I was in UK boarding school and we have

0:29:59.674 --> 0:30:02.354
<v Speaker 4>a TV common room and it was the first film

0:30:02.394 --> 0:30:05.394
<v Speaker 4>that they have a show to all the girls in

0:30:05.554 --> 0:30:08.954
<v Speaker 4>one big room. I didn't know what it was. And

0:30:08.994 --> 0:30:11.474
<v Speaker 4>when I saw them kissing, I mean, it was such

0:30:11.514 --> 0:30:13.514
<v Speaker 4>a cool film. You know. I was a big fan

0:30:13.554 --> 0:30:14.194
<v Speaker 4>of Roblow.

0:30:14.354 --> 0:30:16.194
<v Speaker 1>I lovedro Blow more.

0:30:16.994 --> 0:30:23.154
<v Speaker 4>She was so gorgeous, still gorgeous. Yeah. And then Andrew mccarthury, Yeah,

0:30:22.994 --> 0:30:25.434
<v Speaker 4>oh my god, he was so hot. I actually like

0:30:25.514 --> 0:30:29.114
<v Speaker 4>him more so that film changed everything for me because

0:30:29.114 --> 0:30:31.434
<v Speaker 4>I thought, wow, a bunch of people living together, they're

0:30:31.474 --> 0:30:34.314
<v Speaker 4>really good friends as they're so cool and they're like young,

0:30:34.834 --> 0:30:38.394
<v Speaker 4>you know, all that beautiful. That was my first introduction

0:30:38.594 --> 0:30:39.634
<v Speaker 4>of like our rage of film.

0:30:39.914 --> 0:30:42.594
<v Speaker 8>Do you remember the movie When a Stranger Calls? It

0:30:42.634 --> 0:30:45.914
<v Speaker 8>was from nineteen seventy nine and it's about a girl.

0:30:45.994 --> 0:30:48.474
<v Speaker 8>It's a horror film rated R and she gets a

0:30:48.514 --> 0:30:51.874
<v Speaker 8>phone call. Have you checked the children? Oh yeah, And

0:30:51.914 --> 0:30:55.474
<v Speaker 8>it's about being a babysitter. And this was in plumb

0:30:55.514 --> 0:30:58.434
<v Speaker 8>Age where we were all doing babysitting, and it was

0:30:58.674 --> 0:31:03.354
<v Speaker 8>just the most terrifying, like blood curdling movie ever.

0:31:03.794 --> 0:31:07.434
<v Speaker 9>It's like Exorcist level bad. And so yeah, that mean

0:31:07.554 --> 0:31:11.554
<v Speaker 9>really scared to be a babysitter. Amateurville horror remember that

0:31:11.954 --> 0:31:16.874
<v Speaker 9>we love And it's the seventies in America, wasn't it.

0:31:16.794 --> 0:31:19.554
<v Speaker 2>It was always just yeah, you're right though. It was

0:31:19.594 --> 0:31:22.034
<v Speaker 2>when I was old enough to babysit my brother and sister,

0:31:22.514 --> 0:31:24.834
<v Speaker 2>So you'd want to watch these films and then as

0:31:24.874 --> 0:31:26.874
<v Speaker 2>soon as you'd finish, you were just terrified.

0:31:27.114 --> 0:31:29.354
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I often slept with like a knife by my bed.

0:31:29.994 --> 0:31:34.394
<v Speaker 6>Weirdo, that is weird, But I remember sunces were really

0:31:35.914 --> 0:31:38.074
<v Speaker 6>we'd go over to a family friend's house and the

0:31:38.194 --> 0:31:39.674
<v Speaker 6>you know, the adults had been at one end of

0:31:39.674 --> 0:31:41.474
<v Speaker 6>the house and we'd set up a Wiji board.

0:31:41.674 --> 0:31:45.194
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, talk to dead spirits. And I remember I was

0:31:45.274 --> 0:31:46.914
<v Speaker 5>always the one pushing.

0:31:46.554 --> 0:31:50.194
<v Speaker 6>It, and we always saw that there was like you know,

0:31:50.394 --> 0:31:52.514
<v Speaker 6>frosty misty bit, yes, you know, in.

0:31:52.474 --> 0:31:54.834
<v Speaker 5>The corner of the room, and we just loved being

0:31:54.914 --> 0:31:56.634
<v Speaker 5>scared chill.

0:31:56.954 --> 0:32:02.794
<v Speaker 2>Maybe that was the original claude as my kids are

0:32:02.794 --> 0:32:05.434
<v Speaker 2>so old now, but seriously, our sounds has gone, and

0:32:05.514 --> 0:32:07.114
<v Speaker 2>your kids not do that anymore.

0:32:08.074 --> 0:32:08.794
<v Speaker 1>You don't hear much.

0:32:09.274 --> 0:32:11.354
<v Speaker 5>We expect everyone to do everything for them.

0:32:11.514 --> 0:32:13.914
<v Speaker 6>And I'm not just talking about on a parenting level,

0:32:14.074 --> 0:32:16.874
<v Speaker 6>but why would they try to scare each other when someone,

0:32:16.914 --> 0:32:19.274
<v Speaker 6>a great filmmaker can do it for them. We would,

0:32:19.354 --> 0:32:22.754
<v Speaker 6>you know, we weren't watching those films enough because we're

0:32:22.754 --> 0:32:25.594
<v Speaker 6>at the mercy of television programmers. We couldn't just find

0:32:25.594 --> 0:32:27.314
<v Speaker 6>them on a Netflix or you know.

0:32:27.634 --> 0:32:29.834
<v Speaker 2>You've got to Blockbuster and you get like the video

0:32:29.914 --> 0:32:34.874
<v Speaker 2>cover and you'd be like this out, do you remember, No,

0:32:34.994 --> 0:32:35.394
<v Speaker 2>it's out.

0:32:35.954 --> 0:32:39.594
<v Speaker 1>It's devastated kids these days, Yeah, they will never know

0:32:39.674 --> 0:32:40.074
<v Speaker 1>the pain.

0:32:40.274 --> 0:32:42.354
<v Speaker 4>We want to know from our listeners what our rate

0:32:42.394 --> 0:32:44.994
<v Speaker 4>of film that you've watched and dm us on Instagram

0:32:45.034 --> 0:32:46.834
<v Speaker 4>and leased doc show is it right?

0:32:47.074 --> 0:32:47.314
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:32:47.434 --> 0:32:49.514
<v Speaker 4>And we want to know everything what you've watched and

0:32:49.554 --> 0:32:52.034
<v Speaker 4>did it permanently warp your brain after watching that?

0:32:53.994 --> 0:32:56.474
<v Speaker 2>Well, now we're all remembering how scarred we were back

0:32:56.514 --> 0:32:59.474
<v Speaker 2>in the eighties. I think that's all we've got time for, ladies.

0:33:00.394 --> 0:33:04.594
<v Speaker 2>I know another app over. Big shout out to all

0:33:04.634 --> 0:33:09.194
<v Speaker 2>of our listeners who love reaching out to us, including Chanelle.

0:33:10.034 --> 0:33:13.994
<v Speaker 7>I'm not a genixa, I am City three, but it

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<v Speaker 7>is such a joy to listen to you every Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 7>When you laugh at something, I laugh. And when you cry,

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<v Speaker 7>that's something I cry. So I always say to my

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<v Speaker 7>husband on a Tuesday when the show comes on, I say, my.

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<v Speaker 4>Programs coming on.

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<v Speaker 1>I've got to listen to my program.

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<v Speaker 7>So thank you guys for being my regular program and podcast.

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<v Speaker 7>Could listen to you all day.

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<v Speaker 1>More of those play ladies.

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<v Speaker 2>dm US anytime at Unleashed Dot show on Instagram. We

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<v Speaker 2>read everything, don't we lay absolutely everything? And if you've

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<v Speaker 2>got a friend that you think might like to listen

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<v Speaker 2>we like to say, Ladies, Tuesday Tuesday and until next week,

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<v Speaker 2>Stay unfiltered, stay unreasonable, Stay on Bye.

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<v Speaker 1>Mamma.

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<v Speaker 2>Mia acknowledges the traditional owners of land and waters that

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