1 00:00:11,104 --> 00:00:11,424 Speaker 1: So much. 2 00:00:11,464 --> 00:00:16,064 Speaker 2: You're listening to a Mamma Mia podcast. Mamma Mia acknowledges 3 00:00:16,144 --> 00:00:19,624 Speaker 2: the traditional owners of land and borders that this podcast 4 00:00:19,744 --> 00:00:20,544 Speaker 2: is recorded on. 5 00:00:25,224 --> 00:00:28,184 Speaker 1: From Mamma Mia. Welcome to The Spill, your daily pop 6 00:00:28,224 --> 00:00:31,704 Speaker 1: culture fix. I'm m Vernon and I'm Laura Brodnick, and 7 00:00:31,824 --> 00:00:35,144 Speaker 1: on today's show, we are talking about Liam Payne, a 8 00:00:35,184 --> 00:00:37,584 Speaker 1: former member of one of the biggest boy bands in 9 00:00:37,584 --> 00:00:40,344 Speaker 1: the world. He has tragically died and we're going to 10 00:00:40,344 --> 00:00:43,464 Speaker 1: be getting into his career, the fandom behind One Direction 11 00:00:43,544 --> 00:00:46,064 Speaker 1: and his music, as well as the complicated legacy he 12 00:00:46,184 --> 00:00:50,344 Speaker 1: left behind. So he reportedly passed away after falling from 13 00:00:50,384 --> 00:00:54,144 Speaker 1: the third floor of a hotel balcony in Buenos Aires, Argentina. 14 00:00:54,704 --> 00:00:56,824 Speaker 1: He was thirty one years old, and it's been reported 15 00:00:56,864 --> 00:01:00,224 Speaker 1: that the police were there after responding to an emergency 16 00:01:00,264 --> 00:01:03,304 Speaker 1: called that described an aggressive man who could be under 17 00:01:03,304 --> 00:01:06,824 Speaker 1: the effects of drugs and alcohol. Liam is survived by 18 00:01:06,824 --> 00:01:09,544 Speaker 1: his parents' sisters and his son Bear Pain that he 19 00:01:09,624 --> 00:01:13,664 Speaker 1: shares would sing as Sheryl Cole. When this news broke, 20 00:01:13,984 --> 00:01:18,264 Speaker 1: I think every single one of my group chats immediately 21 00:01:18,344 --> 00:01:20,584 Speaker 1: started blowing up, like I heard it from my friends 22 00:01:20,624 --> 00:01:23,464 Speaker 1: before I heard it from work, which is actually quite 23 00:01:23,504 --> 00:01:26,384 Speaker 1: new because we break news here wearing news room. But 24 00:01:26,624 --> 00:01:29,064 Speaker 1: I personally wasn't a fan of One Direction, but it 25 00:01:29,104 --> 00:01:32,624 Speaker 1: was definitely my generation, like my immediate friends grew up 26 00:01:32,704 --> 00:01:35,224 Speaker 1: with One Direction and they were kind of that band 27 00:01:35,264 --> 00:01:38,584 Speaker 1: that everyone had merched for when they came to Australia. 28 00:01:38,624 --> 00:01:41,304 Speaker 1: It was like the biggest deal ever. Everyone had their 29 00:01:41,344 --> 00:01:44,064 Speaker 1: favorite member and it was just one of those things 30 00:01:44,104 --> 00:01:46,104 Speaker 1: that I feel like, how would I liken that too, 31 00:01:46,104 --> 00:01:48,704 Speaker 1: like a millennial group band? Would it be like n Sync? 32 00:01:48,944 --> 00:01:51,584 Speaker 2: I don't even think you can really underestimate the whole 33 00:01:51,704 --> 00:01:55,544 Speaker 2: that One Direction and the band members had on not 34 00:01:55,624 --> 00:01:57,704 Speaker 2: just teen girls, but I guess that to an extent, 35 00:01:57,864 --> 00:02:01,184 Speaker 2: but just at the height of their popularity, it was 36 00:02:01,184 --> 00:02:03,464 Speaker 2: something that people had described that they hadn't seen since 37 00:02:03,504 --> 00:02:05,304 Speaker 2: the Beatles, and I feel like that is a throwaway 38 00:02:05,304 --> 00:02:07,144 Speaker 2: comment for some people, but even if you just look 39 00:02:07,144 --> 00:02:12,024 Speaker 2: at the impact of when they came to and seeing 40 00:02:12,064 --> 00:02:14,904 Speaker 2: people lining the streets, like it's pretty much kind of 41 00:02:14,904 --> 00:02:16,824 Speaker 2: almost what we saw with Taylor Swifts coming to Sydney, 42 00:02:16,864 --> 00:02:19,384 Speaker 2: yeah this year, in terms of people lying the streets, 43 00:02:19,424 --> 00:02:21,664 Speaker 2: trying to get into the airport, having parts of the 44 00:02:21,704 --> 00:02:23,824 Speaker 2: city shut down because it was announced they were going 45 00:02:23,864 --> 00:02:26,944 Speaker 2: to be performing somewhere. Like the love that people had 46 00:02:26,944 --> 00:02:29,624 Speaker 2: for this band, I think you can't underestimate it. And 47 00:02:29,624 --> 00:02:32,424 Speaker 2: I think also especially for a lot of young teen 48 00:02:32,504 --> 00:02:35,504 Speaker 2: girls who really fell in love with them when they 49 00:02:35,624 --> 00:02:38,504 Speaker 2: started back on X Factor in twenty ten, Like they 50 00:02:38,544 --> 00:02:42,704 Speaker 2: didn't win the show, but when they were all paired together, Harry, Zane, Nile, 51 00:02:42,784 --> 00:02:44,104 Speaker 2: and Louis, when they were all paired. 52 00:02:43,864 --> 00:02:47,264 Speaker 1: Together, they were like sixteen to seventy years young. 53 00:02:47,304 --> 00:02:49,264 Speaker 2: They weren't going to make it through those initial rounds. 54 00:02:49,344 --> 00:02:52,144 Speaker 2: And Liam had auditioned previously and then come back, and 55 00:02:52,184 --> 00:02:53,704 Speaker 2: then when he had it made it through, he was 56 00:02:53,784 --> 00:02:56,544 Speaker 2: teamed up with these other boys, and even though they 57 00:02:56,584 --> 00:02:59,984 Speaker 2: didn't win the show, they went on to sell millions 58 00:02:59,984 --> 00:03:02,544 Speaker 2: of records and have this like worldwide tour. And I 59 00:03:02,544 --> 00:03:04,424 Speaker 2: think for a lot of young women in particular and 60 00:03:04,424 --> 00:03:06,344 Speaker 2: boys I supposed to an extent too, this was the 61 00:03:06,344 --> 00:03:09,064 Speaker 2: first time they felt that sort of fandom where they 62 00:03:09,144 --> 00:03:11,144 Speaker 2: felt a part of this kind of movement and they 63 00:03:11,224 --> 00:03:13,184 Speaker 2: joined fan clubs and they bought merch. 64 00:03:13,064 --> 00:03:14,024 Speaker 1: They made fan fiction. 65 00:03:14,384 --> 00:03:16,664 Speaker 2: Yeah, and there's nothing like that feeling. I think as 66 00:03:16,704 --> 00:03:20,384 Speaker 2: a teena atween when you first really begin to love 67 00:03:20,424 --> 00:03:23,944 Speaker 2: something and your whole personality forms around it. And so 68 00:03:24,024 --> 00:03:26,024 Speaker 2: I think now, even though there were you know, some 69 00:03:26,104 --> 00:03:29,464 Speaker 2: difficult parts with his level of fame that came later on, 70 00:03:29,664 --> 00:03:32,024 Speaker 2: I think a lot of people today are grieving not 71 00:03:32,144 --> 00:03:34,344 Speaker 2: just his life and obviously thinking of his family and 72 00:03:34,344 --> 00:03:37,424 Speaker 2: his friends, but also just grieving the loss of that 73 00:03:37,544 --> 00:03:38,704 Speaker 2: moment that they had like. 74 00:03:38,704 --> 00:03:41,784 Speaker 1: Their childhood xactly, because I think the general consensus is 75 00:03:41,904 --> 00:03:46,664 Speaker 1: everyone is so heartbroken, not necessarily of like being fans 76 00:03:46,704 --> 00:03:49,464 Speaker 1: of him now as like a solo artist, but more 77 00:03:49,624 --> 00:03:53,984 Speaker 1: just like seeing the tragedy of that like wholesome group image, 78 00:03:54,024 --> 00:03:55,504 Speaker 1: like just coming apart completely. 79 00:03:55,624 --> 00:03:57,824 Speaker 2: Oh absolutely, And they were one of the biggest boy 80 00:03:57,864 --> 00:03:59,784 Speaker 2: bands in history, but also one of the biggest bands. 81 00:03:59,824 --> 00:04:03,344 Speaker 2: I mean, they had four very highly successful studio albums, 82 00:04:03,384 --> 00:04:06,264 Speaker 2: They had a global fan base, and then Liam Payne 83 00:04:06,304 --> 00:04:08,504 Speaker 2: was like a co writer on songs like Midnight Memories, 84 00:04:08,544 --> 00:04:11,624 Speaker 2: No Controls, Still My Girl, Night Chain. That all happened 85 00:04:11,664 --> 00:04:15,344 Speaker 2: before Zaye Malick left the band in twenty fifteen, which 86 00:04:15,424 --> 00:04:18,224 Speaker 2: I think that date is forever, you know, a scar 87 00:04:18,384 --> 00:04:21,024 Speaker 2: on the hearts of so many people, because that really 88 00:04:21,024 --> 00:04:23,104 Speaker 2: did kind of break up the band, and even though 89 00:04:23,144 --> 00:04:26,264 Speaker 2: the remaining members went on to release their final album 90 00:04:26,464 --> 00:04:29,544 Speaker 2: Made in the Am without Zay Mallick, they announced in 91 00:04:29,584 --> 00:04:32,584 Speaker 2: twenty sixteen they would be going in their separate directions. 92 00:04:32,624 --> 00:04:35,504 Speaker 2: They called it a hiatus at the time, and I 93 00:04:35,504 --> 00:04:38,344 Speaker 2: guess there always was this real hope by fans that 94 00:04:38,384 --> 00:04:41,304 Speaker 2: they would come back together, and all of the band members, 95 00:04:41,344 --> 00:04:44,864 Speaker 2: you know, Harry Styles or Zane or niall when asked 96 00:04:44,904 --> 00:04:47,064 Speaker 2: about that. I think over the last few years their 97 00:04:47,104 --> 00:04:49,704 Speaker 2: responsors have changed a bit where they would kind of say, oh, 98 00:04:49,744 --> 00:04:51,824 Speaker 2: you know, maybe, or I can't see us not doing that. 99 00:04:52,344 --> 00:04:54,544 Speaker 2: And so I think too that people were really holding 100 00:04:54,584 --> 00:04:57,264 Speaker 2: on hope that, as the boys kind of say, the 101 00:04:57,264 --> 00:05:00,304 Speaker 2: boys are all men now that they were you know, older, 102 00:05:00,344 --> 00:05:01,944 Speaker 2: and they'd been in the public eye for longer, that 103 00:05:01,984 --> 00:05:04,104 Speaker 2: they would be able to put any differences aside and 104 00:05:04,224 --> 00:05:06,664 Speaker 2: come back together as a band, which is obviously another 105 00:05:06,704 --> 00:05:08,384 Speaker 2: loss that people are thinking about today. 106 00:05:08,784 --> 00:05:10,784 Speaker 1: Yeah. I'm not sure if you saw their but there 107 00:05:10,944 --> 00:05:15,184 Speaker 1: was a video quite recently of Liam Payne dancing at 108 00:05:15,184 --> 00:05:18,224 Speaker 1: one of Nile's concerts. I don't know how to explain it. 109 00:05:18,224 --> 00:05:21,184 Speaker 1: It just felt fun and it felt like that they 110 00:05:21,184 --> 00:05:24,224 Speaker 1: were all friends and like supporting each other and getting 111 00:05:24,264 --> 00:05:26,624 Speaker 1: around to it, because there have been a lot of 112 00:05:26,744 --> 00:05:28,864 Speaker 1: rumors and not even rumors like some of them have 113 00:05:28,904 --> 00:05:31,184 Speaker 1: been like seid it on podcasts and things like that, 114 00:05:31,184 --> 00:05:33,704 Speaker 1: that there is tension within the group, like they're not 115 00:05:33,744 --> 00:05:36,504 Speaker 1: all like best mates anymore, which is so disheartening for 116 00:05:36,544 --> 00:05:39,464 Speaker 1: fans to hear. But kind of seeing these little glimpses 117 00:05:39,584 --> 00:05:42,264 Speaker 1: of each other in each other's lives kind of made 118 00:05:42,344 --> 00:05:44,304 Speaker 1: it feel like what you were saying, that there could 119 00:05:44,344 --> 00:05:48,064 Speaker 1: be a possibility of a reunion I don't think that 120 00:05:48,144 --> 00:05:51,504 Speaker 1: will happen now. It might happen like later on. We 121 00:05:51,544 --> 00:05:53,584 Speaker 1: have seen in the past of like bands of paying 122 00:05:53,584 --> 00:05:56,184 Speaker 1: tributes to members who have passed away much later on, 123 00:05:56,624 --> 00:05:58,664 Speaker 1: But it just feels just so fresh to even think 124 00:05:58,704 --> 00:05:59,984 Speaker 1: of that right now exactly. 125 00:06:00,064 --> 00:06:01,944 Speaker 2: And we should say, at the time of recording, none 126 00:06:02,024 --> 00:06:05,264 Speaker 2: of the members of One Direction have released any statements 127 00:06:05,384 --> 00:06:07,624 Speaker 2: or tributes to Liam, which I think is fair. I 128 00:06:07,704 --> 00:06:09,624 Speaker 2: always think when this happens, when someone who's in the 129 00:06:09,624 --> 00:06:13,584 Speaker 2: public eye passes away, especially quite suddenly, all of a sudden, 130 00:06:13,784 --> 00:06:16,384 Speaker 2: people really start handing some of the people who knew 131 00:06:16,424 --> 00:06:18,624 Speaker 2: them to like instantly put up their feelings and I 132 00:06:18,704 --> 00:06:21,184 Speaker 2: just think that would not be your first thought when 133 00:06:21,224 --> 00:06:23,304 Speaker 2: you're hearing the news and processing it. You have to 134 00:06:23,304 --> 00:06:25,464 Speaker 2: mourn privately before you more on public exactly. I know 135 00:06:25,544 --> 00:06:27,704 Speaker 2: some other celebrities have sort of put up tributes, but 136 00:06:27,744 --> 00:06:30,064 Speaker 2: they're people who like Paris Hilton, who was like I've 137 00:06:30,104 --> 00:06:31,864 Speaker 2: met him once or twice but doesn't have that and 138 00:06:31,944 --> 00:06:34,304 Speaker 2: saying like, I'm so sad about this. But I think 139 00:06:34,344 --> 00:06:36,584 Speaker 2: if you're expecting the run Direction people like on the 140 00:06:36,664 --> 00:06:38,784 Speaker 2: day it's announced, to go through old photos and write 141 00:06:38,784 --> 00:06:41,344 Speaker 2: a big statement and put their feelings together, That's just 142 00:06:41,464 --> 00:06:43,984 Speaker 2: not like you have to have your own grief behind 143 00:06:44,064 --> 00:06:46,984 Speaker 2: closed doors before you share a public tribute, is my thoughts. 144 00:06:47,024 --> 00:06:48,904 Speaker 2: So I'm just I'm already seen the comments pop up 145 00:06:48,904 --> 00:06:51,024 Speaker 2: on their various social media feeds saying like are you 146 00:06:51,064 --> 00:06:53,224 Speaker 2: going to speak on this? And from that, I just 147 00:06:53,264 --> 00:06:56,984 Speaker 2: think it just happened to. 148 00:07:00,224 --> 00:07:01,864 Speaker 1: Time your face again. 149 00:07:04,904 --> 00:07:07,304 Speaker 2: So after it was announced that One Direction would be 150 00:07:07,384 --> 00:07:11,344 Speaker 2: breaking up in twenty sixteen, lim Kick starfarded his solo 151 00:07:11,504 --> 00:07:15,184 Speaker 2: singer rapper career actually in twenty seventeen, and I don't 152 00:07:15,184 --> 00:07:17,024 Speaker 2: have it lightly because like the fans were, they were 153 00:07:17,144 --> 00:07:19,384 Speaker 2: dying for this music from him, and the other band members. 154 00:07:19,424 --> 00:07:21,984 Speaker 2: It's like if they couldn't be together, they at least 155 00:07:21,984 --> 00:07:24,384 Speaker 2: wanted to, you know, consume the content they were putting 156 00:07:24,384 --> 00:07:26,184 Speaker 2: out and consume the music with the hope that one 157 00:07:26,224 --> 00:07:29,024 Speaker 2: day they would come back together. His first track, strip 158 00:07:29,024 --> 00:07:31,944 Speaker 2: It Down, had over a billion streams on Spotify. He 159 00:07:32,024 --> 00:07:35,304 Speaker 2: released his first solo EP, First Time in twenty eighteen, 160 00:07:35,744 --> 00:07:38,904 Speaker 2: and then his first and only studio album, LP One 161 00:07:38,984 --> 00:07:41,984 Speaker 2: the following year, and was always talking about wanting to 162 00:07:42,024 --> 00:07:45,064 Speaker 2: sort of make more music and really stay in that space, 163 00:07:45,504 --> 00:07:48,264 Speaker 2: but was kind of battling a lot of things on 164 00:07:48,344 --> 00:07:50,664 Speaker 2: the side of that. But one thing that was like 165 00:07:50,704 --> 00:07:54,704 Speaker 2: a really huge part of his story was his relationship 166 00:07:54,704 --> 00:07:56,184 Speaker 2: with Cheryl Cole. Yes. 167 00:07:56,624 --> 00:07:59,784 Speaker 1: I kind of forgot about this because she was much 168 00:07:59,904 --> 00:08:02,704 Speaker 1: older than him at the time they met. I think 169 00:08:02,744 --> 00:08:05,584 Speaker 1: she was one of the judges on X Factor. 170 00:08:06,104 --> 00:08:08,624 Speaker 2: Yes, So it's quite a cute love story. So their 171 00:08:08,664 --> 00:08:11,184 Speaker 2: love story became very infamous because it was it was 172 00:08:11,224 --> 00:08:13,584 Speaker 2: happening at the same time as one direction in his 173 00:08:13,664 --> 00:08:16,784 Speaker 2: personal fame was really taking off. So Liam and Cheryl 174 00:08:16,864 --> 00:08:19,464 Speaker 2: first met back in two thousand and eight. He was 175 00:08:19,504 --> 00:08:22,064 Speaker 2: then just fourteen years old, and he auditioned for the 176 00:08:22,064 --> 00:08:25,144 Speaker 2: British version of X Factor for the first time. And 177 00:08:25,304 --> 00:08:28,704 Speaker 2: during that audition, and there's clips of this everywhere, Cheryl Cole, 178 00:08:28,784 --> 00:08:31,024 Speaker 2: who was, you know, a former singer of Girls Allowed, 179 00:08:31,104 --> 00:08:33,264 Speaker 2: said I like you. I think you're really cute. I 180 00:08:33,264 --> 00:08:35,664 Speaker 2: think you've got charisma, and you give us that little 181 00:08:35,784 --> 00:08:37,704 Speaker 2: cheeky wink and then he gave her a wink and 182 00:08:37,744 --> 00:08:41,824 Speaker 2: everyone was like wow because he was very cute, cute 183 00:08:41,984 --> 00:08:44,304 Speaker 2: fourteen year old boy. He didn't make it past the 184 00:08:44,384 --> 00:08:47,104 Speaker 2: judges in that round, but he returned two years later 185 00:08:47,624 --> 00:08:49,944 Speaker 2: a manly sixteen year old to give it another go 186 00:08:50,144 --> 00:08:52,544 Speaker 2: and another wink yeah, and a little wink, and Cheryl 187 00:08:52,624 --> 00:08:55,024 Speaker 2: was back on the judging panel. This is in twenty ten, 188 00:08:55,504 --> 00:08:57,504 Speaker 2: and at the time she was the one who was 189 00:08:57,504 --> 00:09:00,504 Speaker 2: like really championing him in the audition process and said, 190 00:09:00,784 --> 00:09:03,104 Speaker 2: you've definitely got it whatever it is, you've got it 191 00:09:03,504 --> 00:09:06,184 Speaker 2: and your voice is really really powerful. And then it 192 00:09:06,224 --> 00:09:09,704 Speaker 2: wasn't until five years later. So then Liam is twenty 193 00:09:09,744 --> 00:09:12,384 Speaker 2: two and Cheryl is thirty two, and that's when the 194 00:09:12,504 --> 00:09:16,744 Speaker 2: romance rumors started because people like resurfacing clips and they 195 00:09:16,784 --> 00:09:19,144 Speaker 2: were seeing in events being a little bit flirty. And 196 00:09:19,144 --> 00:09:22,584 Speaker 2: then three months later, They confirmed their relationship on Instagram, 197 00:09:23,144 --> 00:09:26,224 Speaker 2: and Liam had since talked about how he and Cheryl 198 00:09:26,264 --> 00:09:28,664 Speaker 2: got together. He said he actually went to Simon Cow's 199 00:09:28,664 --> 00:09:31,584 Speaker 2: house and made a joke about how hot Cheryl was, 200 00:09:31,984 --> 00:09:33,864 Speaker 2: and he said Simon was joking being like, oh god, 201 00:09:33,904 --> 00:09:35,424 Speaker 2: she's going to be the next missus Paine. I can 202 00:09:35,504 --> 00:09:38,064 Speaker 2: see it now. And then they were at a bar 203 00:09:38,184 --> 00:09:41,264 Speaker 2: later and Nile, also a member of Run Direction, told 204 00:09:41,344 --> 00:09:43,704 Speaker 2: Liam that he had heard that this is so high school, 205 00:09:43,704 --> 00:09:45,664 Speaker 2: but I quite like it that he had heard that 206 00:09:45,784 --> 00:09:47,344 Speaker 2: Cheryl really fancied. 207 00:09:46,944 --> 00:09:49,784 Speaker 1: Him, fancied Liam, or fancy Nle. 208 00:09:49,744 --> 00:09:52,144 Speaker 2: Fancied Liam, like it was like a setup of your like, 209 00:09:52,144 --> 00:09:54,104 Speaker 2: you know, I'll tell my friend to say that you're hot. 210 00:09:54,584 --> 00:09:58,744 Speaker 2: And so they kind of hooked up from there, and 211 00:09:58,904 --> 00:10:00,824 Speaker 2: so many people, just like Simon Cowes said of them, 212 00:10:00,864 --> 00:10:02,544 Speaker 2: like whenever he was around them, he was like they 213 00:10:02,544 --> 00:10:06,344 Speaker 2: were just absolutely madly in love. And they did really 214 00:10:06,384 --> 00:10:09,024 Speaker 2: appear like that on red carpets. And then in March 215 00:10:09,024 --> 00:10:12,704 Speaker 2: twenty seventeen, welcomed their first child together, a little boy 216 00:10:12,784 --> 00:10:13,344 Speaker 2: named Bear. 217 00:10:13,664 --> 00:10:14,944 Speaker 1: He would have been so young, he would have been 218 00:10:14,944 --> 00:10:15,584 Speaker 1: like twenty three. 219 00:10:15,984 --> 00:10:18,624 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's interesting because he's talked quite a bit about that, 220 00:10:19,104 --> 00:10:21,544 Speaker 2: saying that I had my son at a young age, 221 00:10:21,584 --> 00:10:23,704 Speaker 2: and you think it will be a magical thing that 222 00:10:23,704 --> 00:10:25,384 Speaker 2: you're going to grow up one day into this person 223 00:10:25,424 --> 00:10:27,264 Speaker 2: you're supposed to be. This was an interview with People 224 00:10:27,304 --> 00:10:29,664 Speaker 2: magazine at the time, but he said it took a 225 00:10:29,664 --> 00:10:32,224 Speaker 2: lot to find my footing. I thought, dads take care 226 00:10:32,264 --> 00:10:34,544 Speaker 2: of everyone, that's what you do. What he's sort of 227 00:10:34,544 --> 00:10:36,304 Speaker 2: saying is like he liked the idea of being a dad, 228 00:10:36,344 --> 00:10:38,704 Speaker 2: he wanted to be a young dad, but the reality 229 00:10:38,784 --> 00:10:42,424 Speaker 2: of it was something that he quite struggled with, especially 230 00:10:42,424 --> 00:10:44,144 Speaker 2: being in your early twenties. Like I think that is 231 00:10:44,184 --> 00:10:45,744 Speaker 2: I know a lot of people have kids at that time, 232 00:10:45,784 --> 00:10:48,024 Speaker 2: and like everyone's different than some people find it. You 233 00:10:48,064 --> 00:10:50,184 Speaker 2: know that they take to it easier. But he said 234 00:10:50,224 --> 00:10:52,744 Speaker 2: he had to really learn to be a parent over time. 235 00:10:52,864 --> 00:10:55,024 Speaker 2: And it wasn't that long after that that he and 236 00:10:55,104 --> 00:10:57,264 Speaker 2: Cheryl announced that they were breaking up but were still 237 00:10:57,304 --> 00:10:58,464 Speaker 2: going to co parent little Bear. 238 00:10:59,584 --> 00:11:01,504 Speaker 1: I have seen a lot of quotes from him as well, 239 00:11:01,624 --> 00:11:04,544 Speaker 1: saying how much like he loves being a father and 240 00:11:04,584 --> 00:11:06,744 Speaker 1: that when he is like with Bear, like that's his 241 00:11:06,824 --> 00:11:11,144 Speaker 1: number one priority. He's talked so fondly of kid, which 242 00:11:11,224 --> 00:11:14,344 Speaker 1: is so beautiful. But I forgot how young he was 243 00:11:14,344 --> 00:11:17,304 Speaker 1: when he actually had him, because now like he's passed away, 244 00:11:17,704 --> 00:11:20,464 Speaker 1: thirty one is so young to pass away, absolutely, but 245 00:11:20,544 --> 00:11:23,144 Speaker 1: his kid would be like eight or nine years old now, 246 00:11:23,264 --> 00:11:26,784 Speaker 1: which is such like I feel firstly, losing a parent 247 00:11:26,904 --> 00:11:29,624 Speaker 1: at any age, it's horrible, but that's that age where 248 00:11:30,264 --> 00:11:32,664 Speaker 1: you know but you don't know, like it's hard to 249 00:11:32,744 --> 00:11:36,744 Speaker 1: fully grasp and I can't even imagine like how him 250 00:11:36,904 --> 00:11:40,944 Speaker 1: and like his parents, his child, his sisters Cheryl will 251 00:11:40,984 --> 00:11:43,664 Speaker 1: be dealing with all of that and like speaking to 252 00:11:43,704 --> 00:11:44,624 Speaker 1: their kids about it. 253 00:11:45,024 --> 00:11:46,824 Speaker 2: And I think another thing that was really part of 254 00:11:46,864 --> 00:11:49,944 Speaker 2: his story was how openly he talked from the moment 255 00:11:49,984 --> 00:11:53,224 Speaker 2: he had this really intense global superstarted with One Direction, 256 00:11:53,984 --> 00:11:57,424 Speaker 2: was talking about how badly the fame had affected both 257 00:11:57,464 --> 00:12:00,304 Speaker 2: his mental health and his personal life. And I think 258 00:12:00,544 --> 00:12:03,184 Speaker 2: over the years we saw that really manifest in different ways. 259 00:12:03,384 --> 00:12:05,464 Speaker 2: And it's interesting because it's something that we saw We've 260 00:12:05,464 --> 00:12:08,024 Speaker 2: heard all the One Direction boys talk about at one 261 00:12:08,064 --> 00:12:11,744 Speaker 2: point or another. And I think also that became a 262 00:12:11,864 --> 00:12:14,184 Speaker 2: huge talking point around when they broke up as well, 263 00:12:14,184 --> 00:12:17,224 Speaker 2: like people felt this illusion had been shattered because along 264 00:12:17,264 --> 00:12:19,904 Speaker 2: with their music, people really felt like they'd been sold 265 00:12:19,904 --> 00:12:22,584 Speaker 2: this idea that these boys like best friends, they're like brothers, 266 00:12:22,984 --> 00:12:25,984 Speaker 2: they came together and now that it's all a lie. 267 00:12:26,144 --> 00:12:27,504 Speaker 2: But I don't think it was ever that. I think 268 00:12:27,624 --> 00:12:30,264 Speaker 2: like they obviously would have had good times. Like Harry 269 00:12:30,264 --> 00:12:32,904 Speaker 2: Styles was only talking recently about his best memory from 270 00:12:32,944 --> 00:12:36,144 Speaker 2: one direction, and it was when they had just formed 271 00:12:36,144 --> 00:12:37,904 Speaker 2: the band, but they weren't like they were ex factor 272 00:12:37,944 --> 00:12:41,024 Speaker 2: famous but not super super famous yet, and they heard 273 00:12:41,064 --> 00:12:42,424 Speaker 2: that there was going to be a picture in the 274 00:12:42,424 --> 00:12:44,544 Speaker 2: newspaper and they were staying in this little cottage writing 275 00:12:44,584 --> 00:12:47,784 Speaker 2: songs together. So they all woke up really early and 276 00:12:47,984 --> 00:12:49,944 Speaker 2: went down to like the little corner shop when it 277 00:12:49,984 --> 00:12:52,424 Speaker 2: opened to like six am, bought the newspaper, took it 278 00:12:52,464 --> 00:12:54,744 Speaker 2: back to the house, found this photo of them that 279 00:12:54,864 --> 00:12:57,464 Speaker 2: was announcing that they look songwriting, and he's like, we 280 00:12:57,544 --> 00:12:59,384 Speaker 2: just sat around the table all morning looking at this 281 00:12:59,424 --> 00:13:01,544 Speaker 2: picture and every soft and someone would be like open 282 00:13:01,584 --> 00:13:03,264 Speaker 2: it up again, like open it up and look at 283 00:13:03,264 --> 00:13:06,024 Speaker 2: it again, and he was like, you'll never replace that 284 00:13:06,064 --> 00:13:08,504 Speaker 2: feeling that we had as a group of feeling like 285 00:13:08,544 --> 00:13:10,784 Speaker 2: we're on the cusp of something. So I think that 286 00:13:10,824 --> 00:13:13,384 Speaker 2: like for fans like that was real, but obviously you know, 287 00:13:13,584 --> 00:13:14,384 Speaker 2: touring fame. 288 00:13:14,544 --> 00:13:17,144 Speaker 1: Also, they were so young, yeah when this happened, and 289 00:13:17,584 --> 00:13:20,064 Speaker 1: so many people are never friends with the people who 290 00:13:20,344 --> 00:13:22,544 Speaker 1: they've been in situations. Yeah, like there was very much 291 00:13:22,584 --> 00:13:26,104 Speaker 1: a situational friendship that they were actually lucky enough to 292 00:13:26,704 --> 00:13:29,904 Speaker 1: hopefully make that into a full time, like long term friendship. 293 00:13:30,344 --> 00:13:34,264 Speaker 1: But it's weird because we put these like fantasy ideas 294 00:13:34,304 --> 00:13:37,264 Speaker 1: on the celebrities, like assuming that they want to be 295 00:13:37,264 --> 00:13:39,304 Speaker 1: in each other's lives forever and ever, and that just 296 00:13:39,384 --> 00:13:41,064 Speaker 1: doesn't reflect reality at all. 297 00:13:41,424 --> 00:13:43,424 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, And I think it doesn't mean that those 298 00:13:43,464 --> 00:13:45,584 Speaker 2: moments weren't real. It just means that I think it 299 00:13:45,624 --> 00:13:47,824 Speaker 2: was a difficult situation. And you add in that kind 300 00:13:47,864 --> 00:13:50,784 Speaker 2: of like global superstardom, and also I think like a 301 00:13:50,784 --> 00:13:53,184 Speaker 2: bit of ego and stuff like that, is you've been 302 00:13:53,264 --> 00:13:54,824 Speaker 2: told you're the greatest person in the world, you do 303 00:13:54,904 --> 00:13:56,664 Speaker 2: start to think. I'm sure they all were thinking like 304 00:13:57,104 --> 00:13:59,104 Speaker 2: I'm better than this band, I'll be better solo when 305 00:13:59,184 --> 00:14:01,784 Speaker 2: all those kind of like mixed emotions, And that's why 306 00:14:01,824 --> 00:14:03,504 Speaker 2: I think they all talk about it so differently now 307 00:14:03,584 --> 00:14:05,144 Speaker 2: in their thirties, now that they've had like a bit 308 00:14:05,144 --> 00:14:07,664 Speaker 2: of time away from it. But one thing that Liam 309 00:14:07,704 --> 00:14:10,464 Speaker 2: talked about so much, especially in the last couple of years, 310 00:14:11,104 --> 00:14:15,704 Speaker 2: was how much this global superstardom really affected his mental 311 00:14:15,784 --> 00:14:19,064 Speaker 2: health but also his dependency on alcohol. And he actually 312 00:14:19,064 --> 00:14:21,184 Speaker 2: said it was actually an interview with Men's Health Australia 313 00:14:21,224 --> 00:14:24,624 Speaker 2: in twenty nineteen where he said, it's so difficult. You 314 00:14:24,704 --> 00:14:26,784 Speaker 2: had that level of fame that we had in the band, 315 00:14:27,224 --> 00:14:28,704 Speaker 2: and there are a lot of people in trouble with 316 00:14:28,744 --> 00:14:31,224 Speaker 2: mental health and we aren't getting the help that they need. 317 00:14:31,544 --> 00:14:33,104 Speaker 2: He said, I think it's a big problem in our 318 00:14:33,144 --> 00:14:36,304 Speaker 2: industry in particular, and then he said, it's the same shit. 319 00:14:36,344 --> 00:14:38,624 Speaker 2: It happens to everyone. It's been happening since the seventies. 320 00:14:38,704 --> 00:14:40,384 Speaker 2: You know what the traps are, and if you're lucky 321 00:14:40,464 --> 00:14:42,184 Speaker 2: enough like me, you're able to get out of that 322 00:14:42,184 --> 00:14:45,224 Speaker 2: scenario and come back to a sense of normality and 323 00:14:45,304 --> 00:14:47,784 Speaker 2: you just know that you have to sort of continue 324 00:14:47,784 --> 00:14:50,584 Speaker 2: on this. That was back in twenty nineteen. But what 325 00:14:50,624 --> 00:14:52,984 Speaker 2: we do know that he's spoken about is that his 326 00:14:53,064 --> 00:14:58,544 Speaker 2: struggle with alcohol in particular really continued up until his death, 327 00:14:58,704 --> 00:15:01,944 Speaker 2: and in particular, in July twenty twenty three, he said 328 00:15:01,944 --> 00:15:03,824 Speaker 2: that he was six months sober, and he just spent 329 00:15:03,944 --> 00:15:07,264 Speaker 2: over one hundred days in a rehab facility, like his 330 00:15:07,304 --> 00:15:09,144 Speaker 2: words where he really sa video at the time saying 331 00:15:09,184 --> 00:15:10,824 Speaker 2: that he was trying to get like a grip on 332 00:15:10,904 --> 00:15:13,824 Speaker 2: life and so much that had been spurred on. Remember 333 00:15:13,864 --> 00:15:15,384 Speaker 2: he went on Logan Paul's podcast. 334 00:15:15,464 --> 00:15:18,864 Speaker 1: Yes, I do remember that it felt like a big switch. 335 00:15:19,064 --> 00:15:22,384 Speaker 1: I think, especially because like the original One Direction fan 336 00:15:22,464 --> 00:15:24,944 Speaker 1: base I have now also grown up and most of 337 00:15:24,944 --> 00:15:28,384 Speaker 1: them are probably like young adult women right now, and 338 00:15:28,824 --> 00:15:32,784 Speaker 1: it's kind of seeing something like your childhood crush or 339 00:15:32,784 --> 00:15:36,784 Speaker 1: your like childhood hero just completely switch and showing that 340 00:15:36,984 --> 00:15:40,104 Speaker 1: like they display a completely different set of values that 341 00:15:40,144 --> 00:15:42,864 Speaker 1: you originally thought they displayed. And he was kind of 342 00:15:42,904 --> 00:15:45,584 Speaker 1: doing that with like the videos he was putting out there. 343 00:15:45,864 --> 00:15:49,024 Speaker 1: How he was seen publicly going on like Logan Paul's 344 00:15:49,064 --> 00:15:53,144 Speaker 1: podcasts talking about like fights that were happening in the band, 345 00:15:53,224 --> 00:15:55,384 Speaker 1: like saying that he was being held up against a wall, 346 00:15:55,904 --> 00:15:58,544 Speaker 1: talking about like being aggressive towards other people as well. 347 00:15:59,024 --> 00:16:01,584 Speaker 1: That it just it felt like he was going in 348 00:16:01,664 --> 00:16:05,624 Speaker 1: a way that everyone just wanted to ignore and pretend 349 00:16:05,664 --> 00:16:06,424 Speaker 1: it wasn't happening. 350 00:16:06,664 --> 00:16:09,544 Speaker 2: Yeah, because there was a huge public outcry very much 351 00:16:09,584 --> 00:16:12,464 Speaker 2: against him, and that podcast came out, and I guess 352 00:16:12,464 --> 00:16:13,744 Speaker 2: there are a lot of different parts to it. I 353 00:16:13,784 --> 00:16:16,104 Speaker 2: mean a lot of people were saying at the time that, like, 354 00:16:16,504 --> 00:16:18,904 Speaker 2: I mean, there were definitely his words and they were recorded, 355 00:16:18,944 --> 00:16:21,144 Speaker 2: but it also felt like, I don't know, like you're 356 00:16:21,144 --> 00:16:23,064 Speaker 2: on a podcast and there was like drinks flowing and 357 00:16:23,064 --> 00:16:24,704 Speaker 2: they're all talking shit. You know. 358 00:16:24,784 --> 00:16:28,504 Speaker 1: Everyone was like Bro's podcasts that like there's no good 359 00:16:28,504 --> 00:16:29,064 Speaker 1: way to come. 360 00:16:28,944 --> 00:16:30,904 Speaker 2: Out of that. Yeah, exactly. And then like more the 361 00:16:30,904 --> 00:16:33,264 Speaker 2: podcasts went along, everyone said like peacocking a little bit 362 00:16:33,344 --> 00:16:34,584 Speaker 2: being like look at me, I'm going to do this 363 00:16:34,624 --> 00:16:36,584 Speaker 2: and all that sort of stuff. And then it started 364 00:16:36,584 --> 00:16:39,544 Speaker 2: off with Liam saying which I think people were so 365 00:16:39,664 --> 00:16:41,784 Speaker 2: furious about this of the time, but I think also 366 00:16:42,384 --> 00:16:44,624 Speaker 2: it was just the story that he had been told 367 00:16:44,704 --> 00:16:46,704 Speaker 2: and he wanted to put it out there, saying that 368 00:16:46,784 --> 00:16:50,184 Speaker 2: Simon had formed one direction around him and his look, 369 00:16:50,504 --> 00:16:52,864 Speaker 2: and that he had promised him that he would make 370 00:16:52,904 --> 00:16:54,904 Speaker 2: this band for him after didn't get through the first time, 371 00:16:54,944 --> 00:16:55,184 Speaker 2: which is. 372 00:16:55,184 --> 00:16:57,144 Speaker 1: Probably what Simon told every single one of them individually. 373 00:16:57,224 --> 00:16:59,024 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, And the people were digging up old clips 374 00:16:59,024 --> 00:17:02,304 Speaker 2: where they were putting the band together and that didn't 375 00:17:02,304 --> 00:17:04,144 Speaker 2: look like it was the case, but it was more 376 00:17:04,184 --> 00:17:06,984 Speaker 2: so the stuff where he talked about the tension with 377 00:17:07,104 --> 00:17:09,984 Speaker 2: the band, in particular Zayan and Malick, and he told 378 00:17:09,984 --> 00:17:12,184 Speaker 2: this really the infamid story in that podcast where he 379 00:17:12,264 --> 00:17:15,864 Speaker 2: said another member of One Direction once grabbed him around 380 00:17:15,904 --> 00:17:18,744 Speaker 2: the throat pushed him up against a wall, and he's like, 381 00:17:18,784 --> 00:17:20,384 Speaker 2: I just said to him, very calmly, like if you 382 00:17:20,384 --> 00:17:22,424 Speaker 2: don't remove your hands, it's a very good chance you'll 383 00:17:22,424 --> 00:17:25,264 Speaker 2: never use them again. And it's only recently come out 384 00:17:25,304 --> 00:17:27,784 Speaker 2: that he was talking about Zay Malik, who we talked 385 00:17:27,824 --> 00:17:31,344 Speaker 2: a lot about in this podcast as well. And then 386 00:17:31,424 --> 00:17:33,784 Speaker 2: later on he came out on his own YouTube and 387 00:17:33,944 --> 00:17:36,704 Speaker 2: was sort of like talking to the backlash that interview 388 00:17:36,704 --> 00:17:39,664 Speaker 2: had caused, and he said, one of the biggest remarks 389 00:17:39,704 --> 00:17:42,184 Speaker 2: I made was about One Direction, and that was actually 390 00:17:42,224 --> 00:17:44,104 Speaker 2: just a lot of self protection on my part, I 391 00:17:44,144 --> 00:17:46,944 Speaker 2: suppose in that moment more than anything. And he went 392 00:17:46,984 --> 00:17:48,384 Speaker 2: on to say, the rest of the boys in the 393 00:17:48,384 --> 00:17:50,904 Speaker 2: band really stuck by me when I needed them the most. 394 00:17:51,144 --> 00:17:53,904 Speaker 2: They kind of came to the rescue, even Zane as well, 395 00:17:54,224 --> 00:17:56,104 Speaker 2: which is why I did send him a little thank 396 00:17:56,144 --> 00:17:59,224 Speaker 2: you online. It came across as being really big headed, 397 00:17:59,264 --> 00:18:01,224 Speaker 2: didn't it. And he said a lot of what I 398 00:18:01,264 --> 00:18:03,264 Speaker 2: said in that podcast, I said from the wrong place. 399 00:18:03,304 --> 00:18:05,464 Speaker 2: I was so angry about what was going on around me, 400 00:18:05,504 --> 00:18:07,384 Speaker 2: and instead of taking a look inwards, I decided to 401 00:18:07,384 --> 00:18:09,864 Speaker 2: take a look outwards at everybody else. And I just 402 00:18:09,904 --> 00:18:11,824 Speaker 2: think I took it out on everyone else, which was 403 00:18:11,904 --> 00:18:12,744 Speaker 2: really really wrong. 404 00:18:13,264 --> 00:18:15,504 Speaker 1: This just reads as like someone who's struggling. 405 00:18:15,824 --> 00:18:17,864 Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's all in the public eye. 406 00:18:17,624 --> 00:18:19,424 Speaker 1: And we talk about this all the time. When you 407 00:18:19,464 --> 00:18:22,904 Speaker 1: read something from a different lens, it just is so 408 00:18:23,744 --> 00:18:27,144 Speaker 1: upsetting because he was like made into a meme for this, 409 00:18:27,504 --> 00:18:29,824 Speaker 1: like talking about what was it like you won't be 410 00:18:29,904 --> 00:18:31,784 Speaker 1: able to use his hands again? Yeah, that was turned 411 00:18:31,824 --> 00:18:33,824 Speaker 1: into a meme. Like the way he dances was turned 412 00:18:33,824 --> 00:18:36,704 Speaker 1: into a meme recently at Nile's concert, that's been a 413 00:18:36,744 --> 00:18:39,224 Speaker 1: meme him, like asking people to sing lyrics and no 414 00:18:39,264 --> 00:18:42,344 Speaker 1: one knows the lyrics me And I'm like, that would 415 00:18:42,344 --> 00:18:45,864 Speaker 1: have taken the biggest toll on him. And it's only 416 00:18:45,904 --> 00:18:47,904 Speaker 1: when you look at things in a different lens that 417 00:18:47,984 --> 00:18:50,344 Speaker 1: you're kind of like, that's actually quite icky that everyone 418 00:18:50,384 --> 00:18:53,464 Speaker 1: did this and now he's passed away. But It's also 419 00:18:53,504 --> 00:18:56,824 Speaker 1: important to remember what has actually also happened with the 420 00:18:56,864 --> 00:19:01,024 Speaker 1: people in his lives leading up to his death. So 421 00:19:01,264 --> 00:19:06,144 Speaker 1: this is probably the most unfortunate timing. But Liam Payne's 422 00:19:06,144 --> 00:19:10,664 Speaker 1: ex fiance, Maya Henry claimed that he allegedly for her 423 00:19:10,744 --> 00:19:13,584 Speaker 1: to get an abortion at nineteen years old. She wanted 424 00:19:13,624 --> 00:19:16,024 Speaker 1: to get in the hospital, but he wanted her to 425 00:19:16,064 --> 00:19:20,424 Speaker 1: do it at home, so really awful, awful allegations. Because 426 00:19:20,424 --> 00:19:23,264 Speaker 1: of the timing of this, she has been getting so 427 00:19:23,384 --> 00:19:28,424 Speaker 1: many abusive messages online and I can't even imagine what 428 00:19:28,464 --> 00:19:30,144 Speaker 1: she's going through right now with all of this. 429 00:19:30,664 --> 00:19:32,664 Speaker 2: Yeah. Absolutely, And that's why we wanted to touch on 430 00:19:32,664 --> 00:19:34,424 Speaker 2: this in this episode because as much as it's a 431 00:19:34,464 --> 00:19:38,664 Speaker 2: story about celebrating a legacy and a person whose family 432 00:19:38,704 --> 00:19:41,664 Speaker 2: and friends are mourning them and you know, talking about 433 00:19:41,784 --> 00:19:44,784 Speaker 2: the tragedy that has occurred, the other important story here 434 00:19:44,904 --> 00:19:46,424 Speaker 2: is that there's a young woman at the center of 435 00:19:46,424 --> 00:19:49,904 Speaker 2: it who is being absolutely attacked at the moment by 436 00:19:50,224 --> 00:19:52,424 Speaker 2: I guess one direction, fans or people that are blaming 437 00:19:52,464 --> 00:19:54,944 Speaker 2: her for what's happened. And that's why I think it's 438 00:19:55,064 --> 00:19:57,744 Speaker 2: important to have this information out there too, because these 439 00:19:57,784 --> 00:20:00,904 Speaker 2: two stories are gonna really play out side by side 440 00:20:01,024 --> 00:20:02,784 Speaker 2: and they can both exist in the same time one 441 00:20:03,584 --> 00:20:06,304 Speaker 2: hundred percent. So Maya Henry, who is a model and 442 00:20:06,424 --> 00:20:10,144 Speaker 2: author and many other things, was engaged to Liam, and 443 00:20:10,184 --> 00:20:11,544 Speaker 2: you know, they were very much in the public eye. 444 00:20:11,544 --> 00:20:14,304 Speaker 2: I read carpets, events on each other's socials and their 445 00:20:14,344 --> 00:20:18,704 Speaker 2: relationship ended in twenty twenty two. And in October, she 446 00:20:18,864 --> 00:20:22,344 Speaker 2: shared a TikTok where she was talking about some of 447 00:20:22,384 --> 00:20:25,704 Speaker 2: the issues that she'd had with Liam, making allegations saying 448 00:20:25,704 --> 00:20:28,384 Speaker 2: that he would call her basically that he was harassing 449 00:20:28,384 --> 00:20:30,464 Speaker 2: her before. This is like around the same time that 450 00:20:30,544 --> 00:20:33,424 Speaker 2: her legal team sent him a cease and desist for 451 00:20:33,504 --> 00:20:36,104 Speaker 2: this behavior. So what she was saying was that Liam 452 00:20:36,104 --> 00:20:38,944 Speaker 2: would call her from different numbers and she would never know, 453 00:20:39,184 --> 00:20:40,624 Speaker 2: like anytime she'd be up the phone if it was 454 00:20:40,624 --> 00:20:42,944 Speaker 2: going to be him. She claimed that he would send 455 00:20:42,984 --> 00:20:45,424 Speaker 2: her different emails and when she would block him, he 456 00:20:45,464 --> 00:20:48,304 Speaker 2: would blow up her mum's phone. These are the allegations 457 00:20:48,304 --> 00:20:50,744 Speaker 2: that she's putting forward. She said that he would message 458 00:20:50,744 --> 00:20:54,424 Speaker 2: her friends, and she also alleged that Liam Payne weaponized 459 00:20:54,464 --> 00:20:58,424 Speaker 2: one direction fans against her, saying that he prays on 460 00:20:58,424 --> 00:21:01,264 Speaker 2: one direction fans because they were always be loyal to him, 461 00:21:01,344 --> 00:21:03,984 Speaker 2: and they'll essentially like do what he wants her to 462 00:21:04,024 --> 00:21:05,864 Speaker 2: do so and that's just sort of the start of 463 00:21:05,864 --> 00:21:08,824 Speaker 2: some of the allegations around this behavior that came with 464 00:21:09,024 --> 00:21:10,304 Speaker 2: the legal letters that were shared. 465 00:21:11,264 --> 00:21:14,224 Speaker 1: It's really hard to talk about it as well, because 466 00:21:14,944 --> 00:21:17,944 Speaker 1: on one hand, like he's tragically died in like such 467 00:21:17,984 --> 00:21:20,584 Speaker 1: an awful way, but on the other hand, like just 468 00:21:20,584 --> 00:21:22,744 Speaker 1: because someone's died doesn't mean that they were like the 469 00:21:22,784 --> 00:21:24,864 Speaker 1: best person in the world. Like you have to kind 470 00:21:24,864 --> 00:21:27,344 Speaker 1: of look at everything that's happening. And I feel like 471 00:21:27,464 --> 00:21:30,624 Speaker 1: we look at death in this lens where like it's 472 00:21:30,664 --> 00:21:34,064 Speaker 1: always a good person, and what we retaliate is that 473 00:21:34,144 --> 00:21:37,824 Speaker 1: everyone who goes against that they deserve to be punished, 474 00:21:38,144 --> 00:21:39,904 Speaker 1: which is what it feels like everyone's doing. To my 475 00:21:40,064 --> 00:21:42,824 Speaker 1: it feels like everyone wants to punish her, blaming her 476 00:21:42,864 --> 00:21:45,664 Speaker 1: for his death, like saying awful, awful things, like it's 477 00:21:45,744 --> 00:21:48,304 Speaker 1: all over Twitter, like there's so much that there's no 478 00:21:48,424 --> 00:21:50,864 Speaker 1: way you can like avoid seeing that stuff. 479 00:21:51,064 --> 00:21:53,944 Speaker 2: Oh absolutely, And I think too, because there are statements 480 00:21:53,984 --> 00:21:56,664 Speaker 2: that have come out from anonymous sources today but are 481 00:21:56,664 --> 00:21:59,344 Speaker 2: linked back to Liam's family and friends that have been 482 00:21:59,344 --> 00:22:02,664 Speaker 2: reported by places like people who have been saying that 483 00:22:03,104 --> 00:22:06,104 Speaker 2: since all this legal stuff with Maya blew up in public, 484 00:22:06,184 --> 00:22:08,304 Speaker 2: and since the cease and desists that he got from 485 00:22:08,344 --> 00:22:11,344 Speaker 2: her lawyers, that it pushed him into an erratic state 486 00:22:11,384 --> 00:22:13,784 Speaker 2: and he was very upset and very worried and very 487 00:22:13,824 --> 00:22:16,264 Speaker 2: overwhelmed as the word they keep using. And I think 488 00:22:16,264 --> 00:22:19,104 Speaker 2: also that's been linked to allegations that have come from 489 00:22:19,144 --> 00:22:21,504 Speaker 2: the hotel he was staying at where he ultimately died, 490 00:22:22,064 --> 00:22:24,744 Speaker 2: saying that people reporting on his behavior saying that he 491 00:22:24,784 --> 00:22:27,184 Speaker 2: was a radical, he was breaking things and this sort 492 00:22:27,224 --> 00:22:29,664 Speaker 2: of stuff, and instead of just waiting to have the 493 00:22:29,744 --> 00:22:32,104 Speaker 2: facts and just taking a step back, what a lot 494 00:22:32,104 --> 00:22:35,064 Speaker 2: of people are doing are conflating all of these different stories. 495 00:22:35,384 --> 00:22:36,984 Speaker 2: Some are from like, you know, the police who put 496 00:22:37,024 --> 00:22:39,184 Speaker 2: out a statement, or like his team, but a lot 497 00:22:39,224 --> 00:22:40,744 Speaker 2: of them are just from people who say they were there, 498 00:22:40,744 --> 00:22:43,544 Speaker 2: which are unverified accounts, and a lot of those have 499 00:22:43,584 --> 00:22:48,064 Speaker 2: been conflated together to form this narrative that Maya because 500 00:22:48,104 --> 00:22:50,104 Speaker 2: she sent a legal letter in because she spoke publicly 501 00:22:50,144 --> 00:22:53,344 Speaker 2: about his behavior and basically said like she wasn't asking 502 00:22:53,344 --> 00:22:54,984 Speaker 2: anyone to go after him. In any of her videos 503 00:22:54,984 --> 00:22:57,064 Speaker 2: and letters, she was like this is what's happening. I 504 00:22:57,144 --> 00:22:59,384 Speaker 2: just wish everyone would leave me alone, especially his fans, 505 00:22:59,384 --> 00:23:02,744 Speaker 2: and stop contacting me. And that's been taken to look 506 00:23:02,824 --> 00:23:05,224 Speaker 2: like she pushed this like young man and this young 507 00:23:05,304 --> 00:23:08,704 Speaker 2: father to hurt himself in some way, which is just 508 00:23:08,784 --> 00:23:11,744 Speaker 2: all allegations. In some point, I feel like, especially in 509 00:23:11,744 --> 00:23:13,344 Speaker 2: a case like these, people just feel like they need 510 00:23:13,344 --> 00:23:15,784 Speaker 2: someone to blame and it's all being blamed on her. 511 00:23:16,584 --> 00:23:18,704 Speaker 2: So what we know about how this situation is playing 512 00:23:18,744 --> 00:23:21,664 Speaker 2: out is that Maya Henry retained some lawyers and they 513 00:23:22,104 --> 00:23:24,704 Speaker 2: supplied a statement to Mail Online when asked about it, 514 00:23:24,904 --> 00:23:27,184 Speaker 2: saying that she had sent the cease and desist to 515 00:23:27,264 --> 00:23:31,104 Speaker 2: Liam Payne following the emergence of new and concerning information. 516 00:23:31,224 --> 00:23:33,304 Speaker 2: Now we don't know exactly to the extent of what 517 00:23:33,344 --> 00:23:36,104 Speaker 2: that new and concerning information is. It looks like it 518 00:23:36,184 --> 00:23:38,544 Speaker 2: is different to what she was saying in her videos 519 00:23:38,584 --> 00:23:41,384 Speaker 2: about him constantly contacting her. And only know at this 520 00:23:41,464 --> 00:23:44,424 Speaker 2: time is that she's retained some attorneys to represent her 521 00:23:44,664 --> 00:23:46,384 Speaker 2: and that was going to be her only comment at 522 00:23:46,384 --> 00:23:48,624 Speaker 2: the time, but it was going to be an ongoing issue. 523 00:23:48,664 --> 00:23:51,224 Speaker 1: And like we said before, like these two things can 524 00:23:51,344 --> 00:23:54,624 Speaker 1: exist on the same timeline. So if you were a 525 00:23:54,664 --> 00:23:56,784 Speaker 1: One Direction fan or even a fan of lie In 526 00:23:56,864 --> 00:23:59,264 Speaker 1: Payne and his music, you're still allowed to be that, 527 00:23:59,384 --> 00:24:00,064 Speaker 1: and you're still. 528 00:23:59,864 --> 00:24:02,304 Speaker 2: Allowed to be feeling great today, But. 529 00:24:02,904 --> 00:24:05,624 Speaker 1: It doesn't give anyone the right to also bully a 530 00:24:05,624 --> 00:24:10,144 Speaker 1: woman who has allegedly gone through an extremely abusive relationship. 531 00:24:10,504 --> 00:24:14,024 Speaker 1: And obviously the story is still unfolding, like we've obviously 532 00:24:14,064 --> 00:24:16,784 Speaker 1: recorded it at a time where no statements from other 533 00:24:16,864 --> 00:24:19,504 Speaker 1: celebrities or One Direction has come out, but I'm sure 534 00:24:19,504 --> 00:24:20,464 Speaker 1: there definitely will be. 535 00:24:20,784 --> 00:24:23,224 Speaker 2: Well. 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