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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Seize the Yay Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Busy and happy are not the same thing. We too

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Speaker 2: rarely question what makes the heart seeing. We work, then

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Speaker 2: we rest, but rarely we play and often don't realize

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Speaker 2: there's more than one way. So this is a platform

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Speaker 2: to hear and explore the stories of those who found

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Speaker 2: lives They adore, the good, bad and ugly, the best

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Speaker 2: and worst day will bear all the facets of Seizing

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Speaker 2: your Yea. I'm Sarah Davidson or a spoonful of Sarah,

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Speaker 2: a lawyer turned funentrepreneur who swapped the suits and heels

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Speaker 2: to co found Matcha Maiden and matcha Milk Bar.

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Speaker 1: Ses the ya is.

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Speaker 3: A series of conversations on finding a life you love

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Speaker 3: and exploring the self doubt, challenge, joy and fulfillment along

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Speaker 3: the way.

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Speaker 1: Hi, Bim, this is our last episode of you, Oh

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Speaker 1: My God, before the.

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Speaker 4: Bob, before the baby comes.

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Speaker 1: That is so weird. So the only reason we know

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Speaker 1: that is because and just going overseas. I think we've

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Speaker 1: spoken about this and like.

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Speaker 5: It's obviously I'm very excited to go overseas, but I

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Speaker 5: was like, I need to be here for the birthing.

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Speaker 4: I need to be delivered with the baby.

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Speaker 1: I know you need to visit here, you need to

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Speaker 1: catch I need to be ready to catch the baby's.

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Speaker 5: I speak about this so selfishly, about being like the

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Speaker 5: stress of having to manage this holiday, and so I

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Speaker 5: was like, I'm with you pushing out a child.

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Speaker 1: So she arrived like an hour ago, and the first

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Speaker 1: hour was just imprinting. She's like talking to the belly, like, buddy,

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Speaker 1: I might not be here, but I'm Auntie Anne.

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Speaker 4: She was laughing around it.

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Speaker 1: Don't forget my voice. Don't forget you're our cultural liaison.

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Speaker 1: Have we spoken about cultural li aison?

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Speaker 4: I don't think so, but I'm sure people have thought

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Speaker 4: about it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So obviously, guys, given that I am adopted and

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Speaker 1: Nick's mum is adopted, our overall Asian heritage like has

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Speaker 1: not feel through to our upbringing culturally, because of course

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Speaker 1: we don't have Asian parents who have grown up teaching

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Speaker 1: us about any kind of well, in my case it

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Speaker 1: would obviously be Korean, and in next case he's my

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Speaker 1: miss Singaporean and like my mother in law's generation are

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Speaker 1: the same as my parents being Caucasian and adopting an

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Speaker 1: Asian child, so they didn't pass anything down to her,

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Speaker 1: which means she passed nothing down to Nick and my

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Speaker 1: parents past nothing down to me. So we're like, who's

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Speaker 1: going to be this little three quarter Asian baby is

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Speaker 1: going to have no cultural awareness of like learning New Year.

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Speaker 4: Like I had to bring my own chop sticks to

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Speaker 4: your house when we first started being friends. Like I

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Speaker 4: was like, there's no why is there no chopstick section

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Speaker 4: of the cutlery drawl?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you were like, I can't eat with this fork,

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Speaker 1: Like what do you mean?

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Speaker 5: Even at our share house, you know, you know you've

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Speaker 5: got the sections the spoons. Growing up, we had one whole,

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Speaker 5: the long one on the side was so that's what

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Speaker 5: the sharehouse has, just a whole daddy is needed side

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Speaker 5: for chop six where.

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Speaker 1: As I come to your house, No, you know we

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Speaker 1: have one now yeah, but it's like because you forced us.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's like, oh, you know that the cutlery

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Speaker 4: that you only use the special occasions, it's that, or

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Speaker 4: it's the takeaways single so chopsticks it is.

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Speaker 1: And like the little soy sauces that come in the.

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Speaker 4: Fish no proper fish sauce.

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Speaker 1: We don't have fish sauce. No fish sauce, no fish sauce,

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Speaker 1: Like you've got to teach him everything.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: So we always joked about this though before the baby

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Speaker 5: was here, about how there's a lot of cultural things,

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Speaker 5: like you know, even learning New Year.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I had no idea. I never even knew what

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Speaker 1: it was. Yeah, And I.

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Speaker 5: Think every culture is differently, and we celebrated differently to

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I know you were an Ali. Yes we do.

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Speaker 1: And then we get the red pockets and then you

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Speaker 1: get read we give it rich Are you going to

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Speaker 1: give our little boy red pockets?

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Speaker 4: Well, technically you only give it to him if you're married.

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Speaker 1: If you're married, I'm married. Is that because you're considered

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Speaker 5: Yeah, But so now I'm just never get married, so

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Speaker 5: I don't give money anyone. He's so, why are you

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Speaker 5: get married? It's more financially, It's a financial decision. But yeah,

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Speaker 5: so very exciting. But I'm sad I miss the last two.

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Speaker 4: Weeks of growing well because it could just happen any

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Speaker 1: But are you sad? Because I also feel like it's

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Speaker 1: become the most Like I feel like I've been so

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Speaker 1: lucky that I have had a few aches and pains,

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Speaker 1: but I've been relatively mobile and able to like, if

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Speaker 1: you guys are following on along on socials, you know,

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Speaker 1: I worked up to like quite late on my feed

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Speaker 1: doing you know, long kind of days of people facing

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Speaker 1: amazing fun jobs at Fashion Week and International Women's Day,

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Speaker 1: and that was longer than I expected. But I have

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Speaker 1: just crossed over into oh, I understand what every pregnant

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Speaker 1: lady's been talking about. You're going to miss that two

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Speaker 1: weeks of me just complaining and making noises.

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Speaker 5: No, that's the best time because then I can just

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Speaker 5: come over and I know you'd be here no matter what.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because I can't anywhere else.

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Speaker 4: So what new snacks you have in your pantry?

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Speaker 1: And then you'll hear me go, Okay, hold on, I'm coming.

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Speaker 1: Let me show you this whole morning.

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Speaker 5: This whole morning was me talking to the baby, so

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Speaker 5: going every time, every time I kicked on me.

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Speaker 1: Was like, ah, he's just started because he's big enough.

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Speaker 1: Now the kicks have gone from like these really cute

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Speaker 1: little wiggles and it's like, oh little Bobby to like

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Speaker 1: when he kicks, he like interrupts an orghum or like

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Speaker 1: a fully well, like push so hard on a nerve

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Speaker 1: or I was telling Angele, you guys know I'm a

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Speaker 1: massive oversharer, so apologies in advance. But it literally overnight,

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Speaker 1: he must have grown a certain percentile and it went

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Speaker 1: to we to like twelve but like I'm talking like

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Speaker 1: one week in twelve installments because there's just not enough room,

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Speaker 1: I'm bust get all the way up, which takes fifteen

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Speaker 1: minutes to get out the pregnancy pillow. So poor Nick's

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Speaker 1: just hearing me go trying to get up to get

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Speaker 1: just put it in and just take it out in

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Speaker 1: like a month. But it's logistically difficult now like twelve

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Speaker 4: Yeah, non idea, not idea.

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Speaker 5: Although it's great that it's perfect time that you've moved

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Speaker 1: And that he's finished all the rain. Yes, did you

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Speaker 1: see the laundry.

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Speaker 5: I've seen the laundry video, but haven't. I've been two

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Speaker 5: hours yet to see. Unfortunately, I don't come to Peel's

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Speaker 5: houses and walk straight to the laundry.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 1: But normally what happens, as you guys probably know if

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Speaker 1: you've been listening for a while, is the minute Andrew

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Speaker 1: Ris we do show and Tell true every single thing

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Speaker 1: that's happened. We present to her everything. This is the

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Speaker 1: last time you were here, and it's Nick and I

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Speaker 1: fighting for who is going to get to do their

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Speaker 1: show and tell first. All we kind of do one

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Speaker 4: Sometimes your mom gets in, Your mom gets so yeah.

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Speaker 1: She does, yeah, if she's around. The yoda was the

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, babyda Yeah, she got a baby ooda for

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Speaker 1: Christmas once, that like the really realistic one where you

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Speaker 1: But remember she couldn't activate it properly, so she'd be

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Speaker 4: Theories been like, oh, it's because he's not on flat surface.

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Speaker 5: She's holding on a palm of her hairt in the

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Speaker 1: The wind is going westward. It's just not working. Speaking

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Speaker 1: of Rizzy, how she feels. Oh, she's so excited. It's

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Speaker 1: her first grandchild.

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Speaker 4: No, she's been nervous. She said she'd rather sit outside.

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Speaker 1: She's a bit nervous about well, because she's never had

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Speaker 1: a childbirth experience, and she's never been in the theater

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Speaker 1: for anyone else's childbirth either. It's her first time. And

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Speaker 1: on top of that, I think the people who care

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Speaker 1: in distress, and it's something that like in their classes

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Speaker 1: we've done so far, we have spoken about the fact

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Speaker 1: that no one has ever seen you look that distressed

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Speaker 1: or look that much in pain. But it's actually a

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Speaker 1: natural pain. So it's you've got to train your brain

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Speaker 1: not to think, oh my god, she's dying, because that's

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Speaker 4: I'd have that sympathy pain. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well, so I was getting kicked before and every time

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Speaker 1: I'd go and you go, oh, I'm like, you're not

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Speaker 1: getting kicked. But yeah, I think mm will probably be

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Speaker 5: I feel would probably need because because he loves.

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Speaker 4: You so much and just be this.

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Speaker 5: This is stress, the stress of seeing you in that

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Speaker 1: I will be calming them down. Just get out, just

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Speaker 1: get out of my way. I got you to do.

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Speaker 1: And Nick doesn't like, like it's so interesting because he's

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Speaker 1: so you know, grew up in country, tassy, big, Like

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Speaker 1: he'd get you know, a huge cut from a sauce

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Speaker 1: something when he's on a building site and he's like

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Speaker 1: totally fine with that. And he can watch gory movies,

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Speaker 1: but like when it's in real life and it's blood

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Speaker 1: and guts of someone he loves, like even a needle,

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Speaker 1: he can't watch it. Like if I have to get

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Speaker 1: an epidurol, he willn't. He'll have to leave, yes, or

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Speaker 1: he'll faint, or someone will have to have Alan's Red

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Speaker 1: Frogs on standby to give him sugar. So we get

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Speaker 1: mom together. Yeah, so he doesn't get upset. Yeah, like

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Speaker 1: I think it'll be. And I think a lot of

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Speaker 1: people who've sort of shared their birth experiences with us

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Speaker 1: have said that it is actually quite challenging for the

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Speaker 1: husband because they also can't do anything to help the

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Speaker 1: pain either, so they just have to watch you and

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Speaker 1: support you, but not be able to make it better.

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Speaker 4: Have you got your pain reducing strategies? Do you have yours? Yes?

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Speaker 1: So we've been doing birth classes with our incredible Dula

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Speaker 1: Sarah from Nurtured Birth, who you guys have seen. We've

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Speaker 1: been also doing acupuncture and osteo and massage and all

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Speaker 1: the things that have I definitely credit them for allowing

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Speaker 1: me to work kind of as long as I have

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Speaker 1: been able to. And she's been amazing at like teaching

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Speaker 1: us about the cycle of hormones that happens in labor,

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Speaker 1: so how you go from oxytocin and you need to

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Speaker 1: But even things like that, it's like you don't know

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Speaker 5: You pack an outfit for the next day or do

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Speaker 5: you stay in the hospital gown.

440
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Speaker 1: So apparently for a lot of the time when you're

441
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Speaker 1: so I'm going to Cabrini and it's a private hospital,

442
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Speaker 1: so I think we have four days or five days afterwards,

443
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Speaker 1: and for a lot of that time, you're kind of

444
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Speaker 1: in the disposable like pull up the mollies, the undies. Yeah,

445
00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:27,119
Speaker 1: because you do it, you bleed for like quite a while,

446
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Speaker 1: and then you have a nursing bra and then like

447
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Speaker 1: you bring a robe or a throwover kind of gown

448
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Speaker 1: so you can walk around the ward once you start walking.

449
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Speaker 1: But yeah, apparently a lot of people don't wear You

450
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Speaker 1: don't wear like out and about clothes, just a lot

451
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Speaker 1: of it. You just kind of like skin on skin

452
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Speaker 1: with the baby and you know, rocking around in your undies.

453
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Speaker 1: And then you have a going home outfit, which is

454
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Speaker 1: what you would leave the hospital in.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So what I just want to know what your

456
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Speaker 5: outfit of the day.

457
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Speaker 1: Appropriately to ground reveal. Now, I chucked in a few

458
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Speaker 1: different things I think I put in? What did I

459
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Speaker 1: put in? I've just got like a really loose, stretchy,

460
00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:09,960
Speaker 1: comfy maxi from Lego Nice, which is an amazing maternity brand,

461
00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:12,959
Speaker 1: and then if it's a bit cooler, I've got like

462
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Speaker 1: a thicker long sleeve again just straight over the head dress,

463
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Speaker 1: assuming I won't want any pants, you know, just obstructing

464
00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:25,240
Speaker 1: from Bay. The label, which is like a really nice

465
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Speaker 1: crochet just easy and everything now is like nursing friendly.

466
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Speaker 1: They all have like buttons. It was down their b

467
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Speaker 1: and yeah, that's all I've packed.

468
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Speaker 4: And then speaking of nursing, so many questions I have

469
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Speaker 4: for you is going to be a baby. I'm really

470
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Speaker 4: intrigued because this is the last time i've seen you before.

471
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Speaker 4: Maybe I've been guys.

472
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Speaker 5: I have been praying to all sorts of things for

473
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Speaker 5: these babies. So I come up on the twenty ninth,

474
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Speaker 5: which is already pushing it.

475
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Speaker 1: And is gunning no, but he's doing.

476
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Speaker 5: He's doing on the fourth, So like, yeah, but given

477
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Speaker 5: your g D and stuff, you know, it's true. It

478
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Speaker 5: was kind of pushing it. And also the gold date

479
00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:03,600
Speaker 5: you wanted actually it was April April first, Yeah, so

480
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Speaker 5: I was like, it could happen in any minute now,

481
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:08,440
Speaker 5: and so I was like, if anything happens and you

482
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Speaker 5: do get a choice to think about that, you know,

483
00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:13,920
Speaker 5: how beautiful just rolls off your tongue. Twenty ninth, just rolls.

484
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Speaker 1: But it needs to be like one post post eleven

485
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Speaker 1: thirty plane.

486
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Speaker 4: Lands, Yeah, like maybe three people.

487
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Speaker 1: So if it starts at eleven thirty, just don't push the.

488
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Speaker 4: House fishes us out nine months. I'm like, so if

489
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Speaker 4: you could just.

490
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Speaker 5: Do it so I can get lunch, Yeah, because I

491
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Speaker 5: need to need to have some fuel so that I'm

492
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Speaker 5: ready for the excitement.

493
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Speaker 4: And in cases are delaying the flight, so six pm.

494
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Speaker 2: I need.

495
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Speaker 1: Because it's not that I'll be in the room.

496
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Speaker 5: But I will be outside the hospital with signs obviously,

497
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Speaker 5: so and you'll have streamers.

498
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Speaker 1: Oh my god. So one of my favorite things about

499
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Speaker 1: these episodes is often like, Ange and I don't do

500
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Speaker 1: our catch up before we start recording. Yes, so that No,

501
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Speaker 1: it's good. It's so that when you ask questions, it's

502
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Speaker 1: actually what you would have asked me.

503
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Speaker 4: Yes, so not recording.

504
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Speaker 1: Why are you asking me so many baby questions?

505
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Speaker 4: Well, because increasingly I realized you are pregnant.

506
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Speaker 1: Nine I am nine months pregnant at this point.

507
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:18,840
Speaker 5: Recently it in my brain I've decided you are now

508
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Speaker 5: certainly pregnant.

509
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Speaker 1: Do you know what? Though me too, say until this week.

510
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Speaker 5: I feel like like whatever, should you read your message?

511
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Speaker 1: Excuse me?

512
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:31,000
Speaker 3: Like what.

513
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 5: I have known that you know you are by the

514
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Speaker 5: word pregnant, but feeling deeply impregnant in my brain.

515
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Speaker 4: That didn't happen until probably today today.

516
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Speaker 1: And then I reckon it was the other day when

517
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Speaker 1: you were like hold on, It was.

518
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Speaker 5: Like, well, because that PayPal when you were Friday, Yeah, yeah, okay,

519
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:54,639
Speaker 5: so Friday, which was what I was thirty six and

520
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Speaker 5: a half weeks, so the eighth of March, like literally

521
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Speaker 5: last the month away mark, so definitely happening in less

522
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Speaker 5: than three weeks and something any minute or not definitely,

523
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Speaker 5: but you know, around that, I get this text out

524
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Speaker 5: of the.

525
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Speaker 1: Blue, what the fuck, what the fuck? What the fuck?

526
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Speaker 1: It's only just kicking into me in capitals, I can't believe,

527
00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:23,760
Speaker 1: what the fuck? Like a stringer message, another what the fuck?

528
00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:27,000
Speaker 1: I can't believe it literally just shimmy, what the fuck?

529
00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:30,679
Speaker 1: Like you are just so stressed out that day I'm.

530
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Speaker 5: Told you, and increasingly has occurred to me that you

531
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Speaker 5: are most certainly progrinant.

532
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Speaker 1: And now I don't even know what to say to you.

533
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Speaker 5: I was like, yes, confuse every single week, like I've

534
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Speaker 5: since and you've watched the bump.

535
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Speaker 1: Gross, it's not like you've told me seen me five weeks.

536
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Speaker 1: I told you like the Daily tried and I was like, yep,

537
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Speaker 1: tried down.

538
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Speaker 4: But I only until this week.

539
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Speaker 5: I feel maybe it's because I'm like, by the time

540
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Speaker 5: I come back, there could be a baby.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's true. And now like you're quite physically a

542
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Speaker 4: lot bigger.

543
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Speaker 1: What are you saying?

544
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Speaker 4: Well, you know, but you still you must anyway, good.

545
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Speaker 1: She cut herself off at the right time.

546
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Speaker 4: Anyway, My question was, Nicholas.

547
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Speaker 1: Is here, Nicholas is here?

548
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Speaker 4: What are you getting? Guys? The chickens are actually breasts.

549
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Speaker 4: There's a chicken breast, but you know what do you mean? Well,

550
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Speaker 4: there's chicken breasts. Questions, breasts come with nipples.

551
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Speaker 1: Oh, that's a great one.

552
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Speaker 4: Did chickens have nipples? Exactly?

553
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Speaker 1: Did chickens have nipples? Chickens are mammal? Chickens is not

554
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Speaker 1: a mammal? What aren't they? Isn't mammals warm blooded animals?

555
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Speaker 1: Is baby by.

556
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Speaker 4: Confused now too? Chicken is a bird?

557
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Speaker 1: Yeah, but aren't chickens poultry? We are not good at

558
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Speaker 1: animal facts, guys. Do you know that our group message, Nick,

559
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 1: and you and I for how many years now has

560
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:14,520
Speaker 1: been called animal facts because we are so bad. Don't

561
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Speaker 1: mean to this. You are the one who just said,

562
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Speaker 1: do chickens have nipples? Why is your cameo always a

563
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:24,200
Speaker 1: weird animal question? I just put it to guys, this

564
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Speaker 1: ya or that ya? Do you chickens have nipples? This

565
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:34,679
Speaker 1: is the most unhinged cameo ever. Chickens do not have nipples,

566
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Speaker 1: and nipples are almost exclusively exclusive to mammals, with a

567
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Speaker 1: few exceptions, one of which being the platypus, which is

568
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Speaker 1: a nippleless mammal. Guys, you learn something every day that's

569
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Speaker 1: apples mammal? Do you know we learned something valuable from Nick?

570
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Speaker 1: Every time it comes.

571
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Speaker 5: To this shown sometimes I like sometimes I like, Nick,

572
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Speaker 5: surely that's wrong, And then it's like, so.

573
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Speaker 1: Right, okay. Is there anyone else? Just for my own satisfaction,

574
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Speaker 1: is there anyone else listening? And please DM me for

575
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Speaker 1: this is the case? Who also thought that a chicken

576
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 1: might be a mammal because it's warm blooded?

577
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 4: No one would think.

578
00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:14,240
Speaker 1: Why would not? You didn't know? You got confused?

579
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:18,400
Speaker 4: God stress. Then I started thinking about marsupials.

580
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 1: And then you start thinking about the joey and hold

581
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 1: on chicken mammal. I realized that in conclusionships mammals, unraveling

582
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 1: this common misconception. Thank you, it's common.

583
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Speaker 4: Common among primary school students.

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Speaker 1: Okay, hold on. One of the most notable differences between

585
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:46,159
Speaker 1: chickens and mammals is the feathers, not the hair or

586
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Speaker 1: the fur. They lay eggs with hard shells, not a

587
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 1: leathery shell. They are warm blooded. See yeah, but it's

588
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:57,119
Speaker 1: got nothing to do with whether mammal or not.

589
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:58,600
Speaker 4: So what's a chicken a bird?

590
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:03,760
Speaker 1: It's a bird? Remember he just covered ducks could fly.

591
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:06,919
Speaker 1: It's always an animal fact. Do you know instead of

592
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 1: this yeah or that year, it should be animal facts.

593
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:10,560
Speaker 4: Should be can you crazy?

594
00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:13,240
Speaker 5: Engines are on the most basic animal facts.

595
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:16,639
Speaker 1: Why why are we so bad at it? Did he

596
00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:21,719
Speaker 1: just come fash onto the show? Speaking of flatfus? Continue, So,

597
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:26,119
Speaker 1: when they first found a platypus in Australia, like captured one,

598
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:28,920
Speaker 1: they sent it back to the British Museum.

599
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 4: And they thought it was fake.

600
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Speaker 1: I thought it spoke for years. They thought that glued

601
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:35,160
Speaker 1: a duck bill onto the front of an They didn't

602
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 1: believe that it could possibly look that funny. And then

603
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 1: wasn't it like some guy who was vindicated.

604
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 5: By obviously, it's fakes, no nipples, it's it's a nippless mammal.

605
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 4: It's warm blooded.

606
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 1: Oh it must be a bad No, it's not a bit,

607
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 1: it's a mammal.

608
00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 4: Joking, Oh my god.

609
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:57,320
Speaker 1: Okay. Anyway, well that's the end of Nick's cameo for today.

610
00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 4: Okay, that was a good question though, right, because I

611
00:28:59,040 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 4: just saw on the.

612
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Speaker 1: You he said, it's, oh my god, what that was.

613
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:10,160
Speaker 1: It was once I was out of lunch with a

614
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:14,479
Speaker 1: client and some other guy and we're just sitting there

615
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 1: talking about something and.

616
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 4: He goes, oh, is that a bee? Where we're good?

617
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:19,520
Speaker 1: And I didn't say it, No one saw it, and

618
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:21,680
Speaker 1: he just goes speaking of bees, and he told us

619
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Speaker 1: this thing.

620
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Speaker 4: I'm just gone.

621
00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 1: He said, that's amazing talking about beef had befact.

622
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:35,680
Speaker 4: I'm going to do that now speaking of my footballer.

623
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Speaker 1: Was Nick literally just going, hey, chicken, speaking of chicken,

624
00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 1: Speaking of chick We were not talking about chickens. We

625
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:45,960
Speaker 1: were talking about nipples.

626
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 5: Though. Well it's because I read on the menu chicken breast,

627
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Speaker 5: so I'm toasty and I just thought about breasts. We

628
00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 5: were already talking about breasts though, yeah, and so I

629
00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 5: was like, well, the chicken breast have nipples.

630
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 4: You know, when you buy chicken breast when the market

631
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Speaker 4: doesn't come with a nipple.

632
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Speaker 1: You imagine if it came with a nipple on it,

633
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:07,320
Speaker 1: I would never eat chicken again. Like anyway, Just.

634
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 4: Sorry for the but I did truly think about that.

635
00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 1: And you know what, every single time this episode we

636
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 1: record this segment, I'm just like, we are so unhinged.

637
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 4: Every time table of contents. You're on the table of content.

638
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:30,400
Speaker 4: You're so bad. It's gone downhill.

639
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 1: Okay, it's gone downhill, and you're the comment denominator.

640
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:34,480
Speaker 4: My real question.

641
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 1: My nipples actually was.

642
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:41,720
Speaker 4: It was about are you going to be breastfeeding publicly? Oh?

643
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Speaker 1: That is a great question. It's very interesting. I am

644
00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 1: sort of in the middle ground of what I think

645
00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 1: the two camps are on that front. I think some

646
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 1: people are very, very very private and wouldn't separate to

647
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:58,280
Speaker 1: feminism and separate to whether you should be allowed to

648
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Speaker 1: or whether people should be allowed to comment or whatever.

649
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:02,720
Speaker 1: But some of my friends just wouldn't. They just wouldn't.

650
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:05,880
Speaker 1: It's just they're so private and like they wouldn't do

651
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 1: many things in public.

652
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 4: Like they're also nipless platypilty, so.

653
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 1: And then some people are very I will do it

654
00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 1: wherever my baby needs to feed, and this is a natural,

655
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:22,920
Speaker 1: a beautiful part of nature, and no one could comment

656
00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 1: if I was like fully exposed at the table. I'm

657
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Speaker 1: probably somewhere in the middle where I will. I mean,

658
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:32,440
Speaker 1: it's hard to know until it happens, but I think

659
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 1: that it's a beautiful thing to be able to feed

660
00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 1: if you can, and that if you are at at

661
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 1: a cafe and suddenly your baby needs to feed and

662
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 1: they're with you, that you know you should be able

663
00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:43,480
Speaker 1: to do it. But I also think that having like

664
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:46,719
Speaker 1: a modesty swaddle or something just over the top, not

665
00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 1: because I'm anti feminist or not because I think I

666
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 1: don't want to offend anyone else, but I just wouldn't

667
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:58,200
Speaker 1: like flop my boob out generally anyway. Yeah, And I

668
00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:00,120
Speaker 1: don't know where that comes from, Like I'm sure or

669
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:02,720
Speaker 1: there would be some commentary around why that's because of

670
00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 1: the patriarchy or whatever, but I just personally think like

671
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 1: there is a way to do it so that almost

672
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:08,920
Speaker 1: no one at any other table.

673
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 5: Notices yeah, but there's also there's a reason why we

674
00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 5: wear clothes like yeah, yeah, it's like it's yeah, like privacy.

675
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,640
Speaker 1: My personal preference is that, yes, I would do it

676
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 1: in public, but I would take a little cotton or

677
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 1: like a muslin wrap or something and just like drape

678
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:26,960
Speaker 1: it over me, so that probably people will know that

679
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 1: what I'm doing, but they just don't need to like

680
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 1: see the entire thing. Yeah, but that's very personal.

681
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 5: Well then asked because the Chris's first baby, we went

682
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 5: for this walk and it was probably like two comments

683
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:41,280
Speaker 5: away from the house and you started to get a

684
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:43,280
Speaker 5: little bit like restless, and she's like, oh, we got

685
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 5: to get home now because I.

686
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,080
Speaker 4: Got a feed, So why do you just feed here?

687
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 5: Because I've never done that, Like I've never done that before.

688
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 5: And I was like, if you're comfortable, like I just

689
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:53,840
Speaker 5: so I had my jacket and I just draped it

690
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 5: over her and the baby and she was like, oh

691
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:57,520
Speaker 5: my god. And it's like from that moment she was like,

692
00:32:57,760 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 5: that was the first time I ever fed in public.

693
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:01,960
Speaker 5: And I was like, She's like, I usually just make

694
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:03,920
Speaker 5: sure that I can get home, and I was like, yeah,

695
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:06,960
Speaker 5: but if you feel okay about it, no one, like

696
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:11,440
Speaker 5: you're I think, yeah, people can stand you've got a child.

697
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 5: She's like, oh, now I can wonder, and I was like,

698
00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:17,480
Speaker 5: I'm not like I was coercing to do it, but

699
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 5: I was like, it's not as I don't know if

700
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 5: she thought maybe I would feel uncomfortable, and I was like,

701
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:22,440
Speaker 5: I couldn't care less.

702
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 4: I've seen a lot of things at the hospital. Yeah,

703
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 4: beyond it, i'd a bit of your aero.

704
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 1: But you can also do it so that no one

705
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 1: can see anything at the same yeah, yeah, but I

706
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 1: do Also, having said that, if I was doing that

707
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 1: in the corner and then someone had to go at

708
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:38,400
Speaker 1: me about it, and I'd be highly offended and be

709
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:42,640
Speaker 1: like dude totally usually, especially if they couldn't say anything.

710
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:44,760
Speaker 1: If I was likely just pulled my top down and

711
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:46,920
Speaker 1: was like hello, everyone here in my boobs, which, to

712
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 1: be fair, I have been walking around naked a lot.

713
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 4: In your own house at risk.

714
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:56,560
Speaker 1: Of delivery people coming because I'm like nature yay. But

715
00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 1: in a cafe, yeah, I think I think it's like

716
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 1: a private you know, like a modest yeah, but maybe a.

717
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 5: Little bit of old school well yeah yeah. But also

718
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 5: I think Chris was also thought that, and then when

719
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 5: she tried it, she's like, oh, it's actually not. I

720
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:11,080
Speaker 5: feel like I'm just pretty used to like people be.

721
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:18,920
Speaker 1: Having boobs and whatever. Faced Hey, they are people's seven

722
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,200
Speaker 1: hundred and eighty months old. I'm just trying to wean

723
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:22,720
Speaker 1: them off, but like they won't stop.

724
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 4: No, Okay.

725
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 5: So that was the other thing I did when I asked,

726
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:30,359
Speaker 5: because I didn't know what the deal was, was what

727
00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 5: you were thinking?

728
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:31,439
Speaker 4: Yeah?

729
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:34,600
Speaker 5: And then in terms of returning to activity, do you

730
00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:36,440
Speaker 5: have a go Oh you're happy to just like be

731
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 5: doing nothing for a while.

732
00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:40,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's also been a really interesting one because I

733
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:45,440
Speaker 1: am such a person who loves to work. I really,

734
00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:48,319
Speaker 1: as I'm sure you can tell. I love my job,

735
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:52,799
Speaker 1: and I have so enjoyed working later than I thought

736
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 1: because I felt good enough to And it's been a

737
00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:59,880
Speaker 1: really nice way of I don't know, like I'm surprised,

738
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,279
Speaker 1: and it's been a beautiful surprise how many people are

739
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 1: willing to embrace a woman with such a big bump

740
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:07,839
Speaker 1: still doing the same activities that I was doing before.

741
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 1: It's been lovely. And there have been lots of women

742
00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 1: actually who have pointed out that when they were kind

743
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:15,480
Speaker 1: of going through the industry. Maybe ten years ago or

744
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 1: even five years ago, like it wasn't as common to

745
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 1: see that. So it's been really, really beautiful, a really

746
00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:25,240
Speaker 1: interesting shift to for the first time in ever really

747
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 1: have to not I've taken time off before, but never

748
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:32,319
Speaker 1: an indefinite amount of time, and never for like such

749
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:36,279
Speaker 1: a big focus change that's not career focus change or

750
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:38,920
Speaker 1: not personal developed like it's personal development focus change, but

751
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:42,279
Speaker 1: it's my personal life, not like to go and learn

752
00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:46,120
Speaker 1: a new skill or advance my vocation in some way.

753
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 1: It has been a bit weird to be like, oh, like,

754
00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:51,840
Speaker 1: I am going to be who I am without you know,

755
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:54,360
Speaker 1: my productivity and my output and my job and my

756
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 1: career and kicking goals and stuff. But weirdly, I think

757
00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:00,799
Speaker 1: sometimes when you're ready for it in the chapter is

758
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:03,399
Speaker 1: upon you and you're kind of not scared of it,

759
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 1: maybe that is a sign that you're ready that I

760
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:07,640
Speaker 1: haven't been that freaked out by it. I've just felt like, Okay,

761
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:09,840
Speaker 1: this is excited, this is where I'm at. I have

762
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:14,160
Speaker 1: spent like a long time hustling. I'm excited. And I

763
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 1: did that knowing that this would be coming, or hoping

764
00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:18,240
Speaker 1: that this would be coming. So now I'm like, Okay,

765
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 1: I've like proven in that chapter that I can be

766
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:24,360
Speaker 1: that person, and now this is this chapter. And this

767
00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 1: to people who work for themselves, you'll understand. For people

768
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 1: who don't, this will sound absolutely stupid and the shortest

769
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:34,240
Speaker 1: amount of time anyone's taken off. But I've like hard

770
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 1: blocked out six weeks, which sounds like nothing, I know,

771
00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 1: but to me, that's like a lot. That's like six

772
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:42,839
Speaker 1: more weeks than I've ever done before, like.

773
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 4: Not even doing a single job, but like.

774
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 1: No, yeah, like blackout let you guys know, on my

775
00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 1: phone all the time, So even if I'm taking it easy,

776
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:52,440
Speaker 1: I can still record a podcast in my house in

777
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 1: my pajamas, Like I'm not doing that kind of stuff.

778
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 1: And at the end of that six weeks, there's nothing

779
00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:59,759
Speaker 1: booked to return. It's just kind of like, well, that's

780
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:03,400
Speaker 1: the like out period to find my feet and like

781
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:07,319
Speaker 1: physically recover and see, you just don't know what kind

782
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:09,840
Speaker 1: of child you're going to have. If he's a good sleeper,

783
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 1: if he you know, isn't, if he has colic, Like

784
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:15,439
Speaker 1: I might get to that six weeks and think, holy shit,

785
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:18,000
Speaker 1: I need like six times this or I might get

786
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:21,839
Speaker 1: to that time and think, the one beautiful part of

787
00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 1: our work is, yes, you don't get maternity leave in

788
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 1: a structured way, but it doesn't mean you can kind

789
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 1: of dip your toe back in. For radio is an

790
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:32,160
Speaker 1: hour a week or an hour a fortnight, and I

791
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 1: don't need to wear makeup or look a certain way.

792
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 1: I can bring the baby with me. So maybe I'll

793
00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:38,920
Speaker 1: start dipping a toe back into like an hour a

794
00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:41,720
Speaker 1: week or two hours a week or one podcast episode

795
00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:45,799
Speaker 1: every you know, Like I think I'll just suss it

796
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:47,880
Speaker 1: out as they go and just feel into what's the

797
00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:50,359
Speaker 1: right balance, which is a huge privilege to be able

798
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:51,320
Speaker 1: to do cool.

799
00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 4: And then do you have anything, Creilter, that you have

800
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:56,640
Speaker 4: to come back for.

801
00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:59,120
Speaker 1: I don't have any big gigs, Like I haven't booked

802
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 1: in any or anything that's quite physically I have to

803
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:07,200
Speaker 1: be somewhere for a block of time, and you know,

804
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 1: in cases like healing complications or whatever. I think the

805
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:12,560
Speaker 1: first thing I do come back to is radio YEP.

806
00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:16,799
Speaker 1: And then same with the TV show. They're both house

807
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 1: of wellness, and they're both a really family supportive environment,

808
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:24,960
Speaker 1: so you can take your child on set and the

809
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:28,040
Speaker 1: sort of child's auntie and the one the child's auntie

810
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 1: one hundred percent, and like neck works of the team

811
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 1: as well, So if he came in, it'd be fine.

812
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:34,840
Speaker 1: So I do have a couple of those things. But

813
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 1: in terms of like the first gig, I think I've

814
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:42,239
Speaker 1: left that until June nice, and then if something comes

815
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:44,279
Speaker 1: up and I am feeling good enough, then maybe I'll

816
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 1: start to bring things back in. But it's just so,

817
00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:51,360
Speaker 1: like I said before, like I've never had such a

818
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 1: an absence of information about what my life is going

819
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:57,480
Speaker 1: to look like, even vaguely look like, from this particular

820
00:38:57,560 --> 00:39:00,400
Speaker 1: date on. Yeah, so I don't want to put anything

821
00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:03,399
Speaker 1: in because my brain now is like four weeks time,

822
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:05,759
Speaker 1: like I'll want to go back to work, but I

823
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 1: know that I probably won't be like that, and I

824
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 1: might just be like this is my new purpose. I

825
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 1: don't want to do anything like, I just have no

826
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:13,400
Speaker 1: idea how I'm going to react, and I want to

827
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 1: allow I know I'm prone to wanting to go back

828
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:21,240
Speaker 1: to work very quickly, but I'm also prone to regretting

829
00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:23,239
Speaker 1: that I did that too quickly later, So I'm kind

830
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:25,480
Speaker 1: of trying to balance that and give myself enough space

831
00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 1: to not think, oh I rush that because they're tiny

832
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:30,399
Speaker 1: for such a short amount of time.

833
00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 4: That's why I need to be buck. Yeah, make sure

834
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:34,720
Speaker 4: it comes out safely.

835
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:36,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, little Bobby.

836
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 5: I'm so excited. More honestly, I'm so excited. I am

837
00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 5: already envisioning my life. And I'm already mad at you

838
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:45,239
Speaker 5: for declining my baby sitting office because I know that

839
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:45,680
Speaker 5: you will.

840
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:46,799
Speaker 1: I don't know about that.

841
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:49,640
Speaker 4: I feel like because I was lasking where you'd.

842
00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:50,800
Speaker 5: Be for the first six weeks, so I said that

843
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:52,400
Speaker 5: I would know where you would be so that I

844
00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:54,080
Speaker 5: know where the baby.

845
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:56,960
Speaker 4: Would be at. So I just wanted to make sure

846
00:39:57,040 --> 00:39:57,840
Speaker 4: everyone knows that.

847
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,000
Speaker 1: One of the questions I got, like I don't know

848
00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:05,279
Speaker 1: in week ten or no, like maybe a week after

849
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:08,440
Speaker 1: we'd announced, was like, so well, anshbie babysitting, Like it

850
00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 1: was so like, what role will you be playing in

851
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:14,400
Speaker 1: the baby's life. I was like, statement, sure, best friends forever.

852
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:16,800
Speaker 4: Surely will be so we'll go on.

853
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:18,520
Speaker 1: Like a car seat in your own car, like you'll

854
00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:19,280
Speaker 1: have one of everything.

855
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:20,799
Speaker 4: I'm more excited to see what it looks like. I

856
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:24,160
Speaker 4: just couldn't. I can't. I can't really figure out what

857
00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 4: it would look like there's no one, no reference points

858
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:26,920
Speaker 4: I know.

859
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:30,920
Speaker 1: And that's even weirder, like because we've not ever had like,

860
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:35,760
Speaker 1: no one has any pictures of like baby boys on

861
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:39,360
Speaker 1: my genetic side, so there's no map for that at all.

862
00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:43,000
Speaker 1: And then obviously we have Nick when he was little,

863
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:47,439
Speaker 1: but he's half Asian, Like we just have no no

864
00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 1: blueprint at all. It's like such a mystery.

865
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:51,640
Speaker 4: Is he going to look like your mom?

866
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 1: I reckon, I'll be that person who's like, mummy has

867
00:40:56,239 --> 00:41:01,359
Speaker 1: your nose walk. She'll be like he does. Oh my god,

868
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:05,080
Speaker 1: look great grandfather blah blah blah, like limbs or whatever.

869
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:07,640
Speaker 4: I always forget that you're adopted all the time.

870
00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:09,759
Speaker 1: We do that, like even with temperament.

871
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:10,279
Speaker 4: We do that.

872
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:15,879
Speaker 1: Like my brother is exactly my grandfather and they didn't meet.

873
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 1: My grandfather had passed away by the time Alex was born.

874
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 1: But there are so many mannerisms and personality traits that

875
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:27,720
Speaker 1: like they're identical. It's so weird, so cool, And Mum's

876
00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:30,480
Speaker 1: always like, oh he got it from his grandfather. Yep,

877
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:33,920
Speaker 1: they didn't meet, and they are not related. Well I

878
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:36,000
Speaker 1: mean they're related, but yeah.

879
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 5: They were My all my questions and I had to

880
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:42,360
Speaker 5: ask before I depart and never see you again the

881
00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:44,839
Speaker 5: drama or maybe for ten lays.

882
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:46,919
Speaker 4: Oh she's so melodramatic.

883
00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:49,759
Speaker 1: But I feel the same, Like I wake up every

884
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:52,759
Speaker 1: day and I'm like, I know. I'm like, logically, I know,

885
00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:54,799
Speaker 1: I know it's been this long.

886
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:55,080
Speaker 5: I know.

887
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:57,239
Speaker 1: I look down, I'm like, there's a massive belly and

888
00:41:57,320 --> 00:42:01,240
Speaker 1: he's so defined now that you can see which limb

889
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:03,480
Speaker 1: is moving, Like I know that that's a baby, But

890
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 1: like in my brain, I'm like, what he's going to

891
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:08,240
Speaker 1: come out and be a human?

892
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:13,759
Speaker 5: Like how Like, what do you mean you need to

893
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 5: have really choppy checks because shopping Bobby. But it means

894
00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:21,080
Speaker 5: that the next episode we have is probably going to

895
00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 5: be the birth story.

896
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:25,160
Speaker 1: Yes. So that was the other thing is someone asked

897
00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 1: when I put up our little question box yesterday, what

898
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:30,239
Speaker 1: is your plan for the podcast? Because I was really cute.

899
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:32,239
Speaker 1: They're like, we're going to miss the regular episodes, and

900
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 1: I was like, normally I have some kind of idea

901
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:36,319
Speaker 1: and we never stick to it, but I at least

902
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:38,560
Speaker 1: haven't vague idea of how many weeks we're taking off.

903
00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 1: I don't know I'm taking.

904
00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:43,040
Speaker 4: Zero weeks off because I will be doing a monologue

905
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:43,560
Speaker 4: every week.

906
00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:46,840
Speaker 1: Actually not please just do a little.

907
00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 4: Check just checking in. Everyone's a live, I'm alive. Thank

908
00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 4: you for listener.

909
00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:52,319
Speaker 1: But even if you just did like a little ten

910
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 1: minute like the and Files, that would be really fun

911
00:42:56,160 --> 00:42:58,800
Speaker 1: about what I don't know, what is this about?

912
00:42:59,040 --> 00:43:03,880
Speaker 5: Hello, I can bounce off you, but now I'm to

913
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:04,680
Speaker 5: talk to myself.

914
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:06,759
Speaker 1: It's oh my god. It'd be so funny if you

915
00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:09,800
Speaker 1: did a little segment like my Matt Leave segment. You're like,

916
00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:11,280
Speaker 1: I'm just a Matte Leave cover.

917
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:14,359
Speaker 4: So I'm going to be talking about topics in the.

918
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 1: News or like this is asmr of me eating so

919
00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:24,400
Speaker 1: barbecue crisps that I discovered he's my muck bang. Seriously, though,

920
00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 1: I actually don't have a plan, and I'm already so

921
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:29,759
Speaker 1: grateful that everyone's been so flexible with even the last

922
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 1: couple of weeks. We've just been releasing it episodes whenever

923
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:36,200
Speaker 1: we've been able to record. But I mean, because we

924
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:39,120
Speaker 1: can do it at home, and it's I think like

925
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 1: we'll probably be back for like a short episode.

926
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:45,400
Speaker 4: I can just a little spontaneous check in with yourself. Yeah,

927
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:45,920
Speaker 4: and then.

928
00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 1: Like Sarah, how you going, I'm fine? Yeah, And what else,

929
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 1: I'm really tired and what else. Yeah, I'm really happy, okay.

930
00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 4: Bye, happy and busy and the same.

931
00:43:55,719 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 1: I might have to change the song.

932
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:00,640
Speaker 4: Anyway.

933
00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 1: Okay, so you're going to Vietnam and then you go

934
00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 1: to Amsdam.

935
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:08,760
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, but that's not the priority of this this talk.

936
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:11,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, forty six minutes and it's clearly not the prior.

937
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:13,720
Speaker 1: I just figured I should ask you something.

938
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 5: Vietnam next week, aunt, Oh yeah, I'm very cute.

939
00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 4: You have to pop in every now and then to

940
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:23,080
Speaker 4: see it.

941
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:28,520
Speaker 5: And then I'm racing back so I can be home

942
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 5: for the baby, and then they come for two weeks

943
00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:33,840
Speaker 5: so I can hang with the Bob, and then I

944
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:37,120
Speaker 5: go again to Amstam for work, but also then limited

945
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 5: by not limited, sorry, but I don't want to be

946
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 5: there too long because then Christina from seven is due

947
00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:47,200
Speaker 5: May fourth.

948
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:50,400
Speaker 1: Did you just hear best.

949
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:51,120
Speaker 4: I said from year seven?

950
00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 5: Okay, oh my god, by melodrama.

951
00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:01,080
Speaker 1: The baby heard it?

952
00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:04,920
Speaker 5: And then yeah, so it's very baby central and travel,

953
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 5: a lot of travel and a.

954
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:06,720
Speaker 4: Lot of babies.

955
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:08,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, travel, baby travel baby.

956
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:11,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, in the next two months. But it's very exciting

957
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:12,800
Speaker 4: because then I come back to two.

958
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 1: Fresh Oh my god, boo, your winter is just all

959
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 1: going to be baby, that's what I want. So cozy,

960
00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:21,680
Speaker 1: so many, so cozy.

961
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:24,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, it gon buy so many clothes.

962
00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:27,759
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm so excited. Well, you've already bought

963
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:30,759
Speaker 1: the baby some cute little shoes which he's not going

964
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:32,200
Speaker 1: to be able to walk in for a long time.

965
00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:34,320
Speaker 4: I already planned it, and he can walk into the summer.

966
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:38,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, so it's but yeah, so my life is revolved

967
00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:41,600
Speaker 5: around my best friend's giving birth and that's about it.

968
00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:44,239
Speaker 1: Best friends plural? Is that what you?

969
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:46,440
Speaker 4: My best friend's possession?

970
00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:55,759
Speaker 1: My best friend com position comma best friend's birth? Oh

971
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 1: my god. Okay, well I can't believe. Like, next time

972
00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 1: we record what I'm gonna liter, there's going to be

973
00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:06,120
Speaker 1: a child. This is when we need to end it.

974
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:10,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god, there's gonna be little baby noises in

975
00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:11,080
Speaker 1: the back.

976
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:12,479
Speaker 4: It's going to be a whole baby.

977
00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:17,239
Speaker 1: But the show, this will be a physical physical I

978
00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:17,719
Speaker 1: cannot go.

979
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:22,640
Speaker 4: Just like I've just realized you're pregnant any time.

980
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 1: It's like I just did the announcement to you, like

981
00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:30,319
Speaker 1: yes you, Oh my god, hey, surprise, who's got hair?

982
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:34,399
Speaker 1: I wasn't getting that all right, guys, Well, we will

983
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 1: be back in TVC.

984
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:39,480
Speaker 4: Say yeah, and also just save your questions and ask

985
00:46:39,560 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 4: us when we put up the next question box so

986
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:43,480
Speaker 4: then we can answer it post.

987
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 1: But yeah, oh my god, postpartum. Yeah, and you know

988
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 1: I won't hold back, so you can ask all they

989
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:50,560
Speaker 1: things because I actually want to hit. When I listen

990
00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:52,760
Speaker 1: to other people's pregnanty episodes, I want to know that stuff.

991
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:56,759
Speaker 1: And if you don't, I'm sorry because I'll be.

992
00:46:56,840 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 4: Long here anyway. It's outside around I'll be doing street talk.

993
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:05,160
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

994
00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:07,320
Speaker 1: Box, so o BI, do you mind just having a

995
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:07,879
Speaker 1: quick voice?

996
00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:09,239
Speaker 4: So how is she going?

997
00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 1: I want to mix? Gives me, sergeant, I want to

998
00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:15,320
Speaker 1: mic up the obstitution. Sorry, just hold right? Can you

999
00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:15,759
Speaker 1: repeat that?

1000
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:16,040
Speaker 3: So?

1001
00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:17,000
Speaker 4: Can you hold that angle?

1002
00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 1: That's really good?

1003
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:20,239
Speaker 4: The lighting is really good for the light ahead coming out.

1004
00:47:20,160 --> 00:47:22,920
Speaker 1: Of the Yeah, I'm just gonna like five times soon

1005
00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:24,680
Speaker 1: on my nue iPhone fifteen.

1006
00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:25,319
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

1007
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:28,640
Speaker 1: Anyway, I'm cutting us off. Thanks guys, see you on

1008
00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:29,680
Speaker 1: the other side.