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Speaker 2: Sarah Davidson or a spoonful of Sarah, a lawyer turned

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to Eas of our Lives, Lovely yighborhood. Thank

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Speaker 2: you so so much for joining us for part two

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Speaker 2: of our anonymous Q and a episode of Eyas of

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Speaker 2: our Lives and is back at our home. She's been

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Speaker 2: staying over and hasn't left and new element to this

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Speaker 2: and is on Instagram posting about us being on TikTok

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Speaker 2: It's so liberating. You know, you can just bebe you

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Speaker 3: No, I've always loved TikTok. You know this, so you've been.

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Speaker 2: So we have like what's it called any theft? Identity theft?

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Speaker 3: Well, and what does it say about you? It's like thirty.

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Speaker 2: TikTok a couple of people ask for like a minivlog

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Speaker 3: So that just went out.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, cool, what nationality is Nick?

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Speaker 2: Can you guys guess Nick's nationality? Because no one can

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Speaker 3: We should have done it for dried July.

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Speaker 2: I just decided it's going to be awkward no matter what.

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Speaker 2: I think the biggest trouble I probably got in was,

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Speaker 2: trouble trouble. She'd just be like, I'm really disappointed in you.

445
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Speaker 2: But I mean, like the amount of times where I

446
00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:04,360
Speaker 2: can genuinely thank the heavens or whoever is looking down

447
00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:06,639
Speaker 2: on me that I didn't die, like just being drunk

448
00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:10,040
Speaker 2: on the street as a teenager, Like like there's been

449
00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:14,960
Speaker 2: some hairy, hairy moments. Yeah, I don't know if you

450
00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:18,080
Speaker 2: mean like life trouble or disciplined, disciplined trouble, but both

451
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Speaker 2: pretty hairy. I can't think of any that were like.

452
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Speaker 3: I couldn't imagine Rizzy being like real disciplined.

453
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Speaker 2: No, she doesn't yell, but she gets like I'm disappointed

454
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Speaker 2: in ya because she's it's so much worse. Yeah, I mean,

455
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Speaker 2: I don't even know what the worst thing is like. Yeah,

456
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Speaker 2: I don't know, but lots of terrible things that I'm

457
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Speaker 2: not really pleased to admit.

458
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Speaker 3: Worst food you've ever eaten?

459
00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:44,720
Speaker 2: Okay, stinky tofu in Taiwan, I love it.

460
00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:46,320
Speaker 3: I hate it. I love it. I hate it.

461
00:20:46,320 --> 00:20:50,879
Speaker 2: It's I can't smell taste. I can't distinguish the taste

462
00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:52,640
Speaker 2: from the like it smells like a toilet.

463
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Speaker 3: Durian stinky tofu Durian's fine.

464
00:20:56,320 --> 00:20:59,240
Speaker 2: Stinky tofu is like it literally smells like garbage, and

465
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Speaker 2: then you feel like you're in garbage animail, no.

466
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Speaker 3: Gross, or someone just said, is that her kid? Yes?

467
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Speaker 2: This is my child?

468
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Speaker 3: Who said this is my kid? Two are king? Oh

469
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Speaker 3: sweet cool?

470
00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:20,919
Speaker 2: No, it's not my it's my my pseudo little sisters

471
00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:22,719
Speaker 2: best friend. I know, I love it.

472
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Speaker 3: Okay, Oh no, here we go, get ready, everybody, do

473
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Speaker 3: you speak French? Well?

474
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Speaker 2: We never I think French is my best language of

475
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Speaker 2: my foreign language to speaking very well. Yeah, I mean

476
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Speaker 2: I think because I lived there, so I did part

477
00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:43,439
Speaker 2: of my degree over there, but not just language classes.

478
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Speaker 2: I actually had to do some of my law subjects

479
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Speaker 2: in French, and that I cried for three months and

480
00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:51,320
Speaker 2: didn't understand anything, and then the last six months, the

481
00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:54,919
Speaker 2: last three months, it like clicked. And because I know

482
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Speaker 2: proper French, I think I don't think I'm very good

483
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Speaker 2: because I compare it to like a Nate like all

484
00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:02,479
Speaker 2: my friends who are over there, who I studied with.

485
00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:04,520
Speaker 2: So I don't think I speak incredibly well because I've

486
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Speaker 2: forgotten everything. But then I guess by the standard of

487
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Speaker 2: people who just did it UNI or something. Because I

488
00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:13,520
Speaker 2: had to do law in that language, it forced me

489
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Speaker 2: to get get more fluent than I would have.

490
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Speaker 4: On I think we went to dinner the other night

491
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Speaker 4: and there was a lady and she was French, like

492
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Speaker 4: she had the real French accent. And then you guys

493
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Speaker 4: went into a full spell of like speaking French, and

494
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Speaker 4: I love it. I think it's awesome, but I forget

495
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Speaker 4: how fluent you are in French to be able to

496
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Speaker 4: speak to a native tongue French person so easily.

497
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Speaker 2: It's just such a beautiful language.

498
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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're welcome. Would you like to say things to

499
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Speaker 3: our French? Say leave this week's nugget.

500
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Speaker 2: I'm really shy about speaking other languages because I feel

501
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Speaker 2: like if there's a native one there, they'll be like.

502
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Speaker 3: No, I think you should say this week's nugget is.

503
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Speaker 2: What is nugget? I don't know what easter egg would

504
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Speaker 2: be luscre Colon Vallet said on an episode The sets

505
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Speaker 2: A men a.

506
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Speaker 3: Is your favorite French food? Oh so that's the nugget.

507
00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:18,360
Speaker 2: They have to and like what I say. So there's

508
00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:21,080
Speaker 2: lots of word for food. It would be like plat

509
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:23,800
Speaker 2: which is played, or like nu which is like food,

510
00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:30,840
Speaker 2: or like cuisine Cuisine Francais preferre a mine or this

511
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Speaker 2: this like cuisine Francais preferre plus a if for if

512
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Speaker 2: for new deal. Don't comments comments on asta clam What else.

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Speaker 3: Do I say?

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Speaker 5: That's yeah to live say kiyo equits once more messy perfect.

515
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Speaker 3: That sounded very accurate. I can't check that pressure. I'm like,

516
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Speaker 3: I can give you a very hard thing to say.

517
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Speaker 2: I feel okay, what languages are fluent in not English,

518
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:20,760
Speaker 2: a little bit French. I would say the only two

519
00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 2: languages I could even say are fluent English and French.

520
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:30,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, but you know enough to converse in Italian, Spanish, Mandarin, Russian.

521
00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:33,159
Speaker 2: Not Russian nowhere near fluence. I just can say a

522
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Speaker 2: few things.

523
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:34,920
Speaker 3: I love languages.

524
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:38,439
Speaker 2: There was a few more, some random ones I did

525
00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:43,840
Speaker 2: Japanese and Chinese, Kina, Rwanda. I learned a whole nursery

526
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 2: rhyme when we were in Rwanda.

527
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:51,560
Speaker 3: They're like, can you say anything, and you're.

528
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 2: Like singing the I was like, hello, that's all I

529
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 2: can say. I never remember shoulders and to.

530
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Speaker 3: Shoulders.

531
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Speaker 2: Anyway. I do love languages, and I find once you

532
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:05,439
Speaker 2: learn one, particularly study, you can see the patterns in others.

533
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:07,320
Speaker 2: So it's a lot once you get your brain in

534
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 2: that kind of phase.

535
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Speaker 3: Yeah. Favorite movie slash TV series.

536
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:13,359
Speaker 1: Oh that is so hard.

537
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 3: Well, you guys all know I love war.

538
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:19,439
Speaker 2: Movies, so I'm very niche so like cock Down in

539
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:23,359
Speaker 2: my favorite movie ever, Zero Dark thirty. But recently like

540
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:26,280
Speaker 2: TV shows that I love. I fricking love Shit's Creek.

541
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:30,400
Speaker 2: It's like the feel good, most happiest, hilarious movie friends

542
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:35,120
Speaker 2: always Brooklyn nine nine. I love also all crime movies.

543
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:37,360
Speaker 2: I just watched The Terminal List, which I love. It's

544
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 2: a new Jack Car with Chris Pratt in it. It's

545
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:43,399
Speaker 2: a very like Navy teams, like the teams, you know,

546
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:46,640
Speaker 2: I love watching movies about the teams.

547
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:48,440
Speaker 3: But yeah, those shows. I love. What else?

548
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:50,399
Speaker 2: I just like, I love a lot of television. We

549
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:53,880
Speaker 2: watch a lot of television a lot in the background.

550
00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 2: Sense eight on Netflix was so my favorites. I love

551
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Speaker 2: that you watched that, did.

552
00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 3: You know like feel? It was a hard pert It

553
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 3: was amazing.

554
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:05,600
Speaker 2: One of the movies I love, like a lot of classics,

555
00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:09,600
Speaker 2: like Forrest Gump, Titanic, but I kind of love everything

556
00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:12,560
Speaker 2: like Cash movie Can. I love Leonardo Leonardo da Vinci,

557
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:16,080
Speaker 2: Leonardo DiCaprio movies I love. I love the Leonardo Divincion,

558
00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:19,120
Speaker 2: the Da Vinci Code, I love that movie. I've loved

559
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:22,320
Speaker 2: lots of random things. Oh, Harry Potter, obviously, I mean

560
00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:26,119
Speaker 2: obviously Harry Potter. What else? There's been so many good

561
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 2: things on Netflix recently. One I loved recently was Orthodox. Unorthodox.

562
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 3: Didn't end up watching that. It was The Messiah was

563
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:35,880
Speaker 3: really good.

564
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 2: There's a lot of like mini series, lots of British

565
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 2: TV Line of Duty amazing, The Bodyguard amazing, like crime

566
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:48,600
Speaker 2: cop kind of shows. I'm all over the shop really

567
00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:50,359
Speaker 2: with TV and movie. You know, my taste is like

568
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:53,520
Speaker 2: so bizarre, but there's like The blind Side is one

569
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:54,680
Speaker 2: of my favorite movies of all time.

570
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 3: Feel good.

571
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:57,399
Speaker 2: I love feel good and I love the opposite of

572
00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:06,080
Speaker 2: feel good, like War like No, I can Candrized No

573
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 2: really like saving Private Ryan, like I love all those

574
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 2: more about like the Pianist, Yeah, I love the pianists.

575
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 3: That's very very Yeah.

576
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:17,160
Speaker 2: I don't know. I just can't like I just leave Naesan. Yeah,

577
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 2: you don't have a very special set of skills, but

578
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 2: you don't like taking. I like taking, yeah, but I

579
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:24,920
Speaker 2: just can't not make fun of it.

580
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:27,360
Speaker 3: I love the Born movies. I love all the Born movies.

581
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 2: The Accountant, Love the Accountant.

582
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 3: You love it? Did you Shooter? Yeah? I love Shooter.

583
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:36,119
Speaker 3: That's good. Love Shooter.

584
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 2: I need to know the genre like King's Convenience, like

585
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:46,639
Speaker 2: love some Wreck. That kind of vibe everything every TV

586
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:48,879
Speaker 2: show in every genre. I feel really sorry for the

587
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:50,880
Speaker 2: five people who have been so loyal and stayed here.

588
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:56,440
Speaker 3: I Eat Duty. Favorite guests on the podcast, Oh.

589
00:27:57,080 --> 00:28:01,400
Speaker 2: Very very difficult, in fact pretty much impossible. So many

590
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:03,520
Speaker 2: favorites for different reasons, and I think that's why I

591
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 2: love the show, because the guests are so different. But

592
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 2: you guys all know, the one that stands out so

593
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:11,640
Speaker 2: much to me is doctor Richard Harris, who's the twenty

594
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:15,679
Speaker 2: nineteen CO Australian of the Year and rescued the boys

595
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:18,639
Speaker 2: from the Thai cave. So his story is incredible and

596
00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:23,280
Speaker 2: the episode was so amazing because we've all heard about

597
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 2: that disaster in the news, but the detail of what

598
00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,960
Speaker 2: actually happened and what it took to rescue them is insane.

599
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:34,360
Speaker 2: And you all know that. My jam is that everyone's

600
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 2: yay is going to be someone else's absolute nightmare. But

601
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 2: you need to stick with whatever combination of joy makes

602
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:43,240
Speaker 2: sense to you because one day someone out there will

603
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 2: want exactly what you have. And he was a or

604
00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 2: he is and anethotist by trade and a technical cave

605
00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 2: diver by hobby. They don't make sense to each other.

606
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 2: They have no connection. One doesn't further the other. But

607
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:56,920
Speaker 2: on that occasion, the only person in the world who

608
00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 2: could do the dive that was so technical, a Navy

609
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 2: seal diver, died and sedate the children. At the other end,

610
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 2: he was the only one in the world, so like,

611
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 2: if he had for one minute let go of that

612
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 2: combination of yay because he thought it was weird, then

613
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:11,240
Speaker 2: no one would have been able to save them.

614
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 3: So it blows my mind.

615
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 4: Favorite you have to watch The Rescue on Amazon, really

616
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:20,080
Speaker 4: really really really really red.

617
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:26,320
Speaker 2: Recent favorite Harry Garside again outside the box, like people

618
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:31,240
Speaker 2: who push your understanding of humanity. He's our first Olympic

619
00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 2: medalist boxer in over thirty years for Australia. But he

620
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:38,080
Speaker 2: is breaking down the traditional stereotypes of masculinity. He wears

621
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 2: now polish, he likes to wear skirts, but he is

622
00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 2: also the epitome of masculinity and strength. It's like he's

623
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 2: so articulate, isn't it like twenty six or something? Absolute legend.

624
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:48,840
Speaker 2: And then Gary Vee was just the one that I

625
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:50,640
Speaker 2: was like as if he ever said yes to be

626
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:51,640
Speaker 2: on the show and it was amazing.

627
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, Gary Vaynerchell, he's good. Favorite podcasts to recommend.

628
00:29:57,280 --> 00:30:02,720
Speaker 2: Oh well again, I have had this weird experience in

629
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 2: my life where I like to listen to nonfiction and

630
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 2: read nonfiction. But to me, that is not resting I

631
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 2: used to use it as rest because I was like, oh,

632
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 2: I'm reading a book, where then I'd be reading a

633
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:15,480
Speaker 2: finance book and I wouldn't switch off. So most of

634
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 2: mine are not related to self development or the news

635
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 2: or anything current. They're more true crime, which is my

636
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:28,480
Speaker 2: favorites are serial. The Teacher's Trial going on at the

637
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 2: moment is fascinating. If you'd listen to the Teacher's Pet

638
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:34,880
Speaker 2: anything Headley Thomas from The Australian is amazing. He also

639
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:40,560
Speaker 2: did the night Driver Shandy story. They're Melissa cattck One

640
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 2: was fascinating. There's so many amazing crime podcasts out there.

641
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 2: I love Shameless all time, like they're just brilliant and

642
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 2: so unique and so.

643
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 3: Good at what they do.

644
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 2: I love listening to them for something that is a

645
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 2: little bit more intellectual or makes you really reflect on

646
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 2: things that are happening quite up to date in society.

647
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 2: The Briefing. I love the briefing and the weekend briefing.

648
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 2: Jamilla Resview is just a star. Gosh, there are so many.

649
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 2: Oh and my favorite favorite favorite at the moment is SmartLess,

650
00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 2: which is Jason Bateman and Sean Hayes and they started

651
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:22,720
Speaker 2: it in Lockdown and they are just so funny. They're

652
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 2: all comedians, but they each bring a really famous guest

653
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:28,120
Speaker 2: each week that the other three don't know is coming on,

654
00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 2: like Will Ferrell, Ricky Gervais. It's hilarious if you want

655
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 2: to just laugh and feel great about life at the end,

656
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 2: just brainless. It's amazing.

657
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 3: Next Sume Seas Holiday.

658
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 2: We have a wedding in Italy in a couple of

659
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:46,040
Speaker 2: weeks and we had just come back from Egypt and

660
00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 2: we're like, we can't do it. It's just too extravagant

661
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Speaker 2: and silly. But we also were like, we haven't been

662
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 2: able to travel for three years, and you know, it's

663
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 2: a wedding. It's so beautiful, what an occasion. And we

664
00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:58,560
Speaker 2: want to have kids soon, as you guys know from

665
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:01,960
Speaker 2: the last episode, so if we can do anything spontaneous,

666
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:03,040
Speaker 2: it's now, so you know.

667
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:09,560
Speaker 3: C z A A Desert Island, Desert Island Picks, Desert

668
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:12,880
Speaker 3: Island Picks five three. I have no idea.

669
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:15,680
Speaker 2: Also, I think this question said Desert Island discs. I'm like,

670
00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:17,440
Speaker 2: you mean like the CDs I would take with me?

671
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 2: Because girls, no, I think they meant.

672
00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 3: I don't I have as in like the TV show.

673
00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 2: I think they mean picks of things. I would take

674
00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:32,920
Speaker 2: SPF fifty plus always. I thought, Okay, my phone, I

675
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:35,080
Speaker 2: assumed that it came with signal and stuff because like

676
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 2: I kind of flog that ship.

677
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 3: What if you get on to choose five ths?

678
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 2: Okay, so s P fifty plus wow, okay, okay, Wellest Island, Okay,

679
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 2: you know I just had needling skin, Like would you

680
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 2: say water like a You're allowed to say.

681
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:50,600
Speaker 3: That because of whatever you want. I'd assume you can

682
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:52,160
Speaker 3: also show it to your own water and on the

683
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:52,800
Speaker 3: Desert Island.

684
00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 2: Okay, So filtration tablots so I can change sure, okay,

685
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 2: ajarraffine butter. Yeah, Paul, Okay, I mean I should.

686
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 3: Nick, Okay, cool, it sounds like sounds like you SPF

687
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:19,960
Speaker 3: boring five people, Nick, And what was the other one?

688
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:22,960
Speaker 2: Something around my phone?

689
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 3: No, you didn't see your phone? And no you no

690
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 3: you had five.

691
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 2: Peu butter because like, no, I always have dry lips,

692
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:40,800
Speaker 2: so like lip gloss, most you know, balm, whatever.

693
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 3: Gosh, favorite ninja, favorite ninja turtle.

694
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 2: This was the weirdest question and I thought it was

695
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:49,760
Speaker 2: Nick and it wasn't. I'm gonna have to say, Michael Angelo,

696
00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 2: because he's one I remember mainly I don't really watch it,

697
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:52,720
Speaker 2: but there's.

698
00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 3: Like Raphae Yellow, yeah, Donald Tello.

699
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 2: Even I don't know what they do. So Michael Angelo, yeah,

700
00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,120
Speaker 2: the blue one is the leader who's here?

701
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:01,479
Speaker 3: Not mich Angela.

702
00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, Idea Picasso, No, No, I don't know.

703
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 3: I don't know anyway.

704
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:12,359
Speaker 2: Okay, however asked, I'm like, Nick, that's a different age group.

705
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:13,959
Speaker 3: Tell me a funny joke.

706
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:18,319
Speaker 2: Someone wrote a funny joke. A skeleton walks into a bar,

707
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:21,320
Speaker 2: took our king. Can you please tell us what the

708
00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 2: actual part orders a beer and a mop and then

709
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:25,839
Speaker 2: he didn't finish the joke.

710
00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:28,400
Speaker 3: I get it.

711
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:29,480
Speaker 2: That's the joke.

712
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 3: Because they they get to mop it up. I'm the

713
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 3: next question.

714
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:44,240
Speaker 4: I'm the funny joke, just the walking top three favorite

715
00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:45,280
Speaker 4: jobs or clients.

716
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:48,000
Speaker 3: That's okay.

717
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:53,960
Speaker 2: That's really hard, Lorrel because I get to work with

718
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 2: them across the business unit and all the things they're doing.

719
00:34:57,080 --> 00:34:59,840
Speaker 2: They're doing this amazing sustainability project in the Great Barrier,

720
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:03,879
Speaker 2: if like beyond their products. I love being part of that,

721
00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:06,800
Speaker 2: and they do this amazing for women in Science program

722
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:09,759
Speaker 2: where they I actually got to produce a podcast last

723
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:11,840
Speaker 2: year on some of the fellows that won that award.

724
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 2: Because scientists are the core of creating their beauty products.

725
00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 2: They put some money into this Iranian battery engineer like

726
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:22,040
Speaker 2: these incredible, incredible women. But then also to be able

727
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 2: to see, you know, the they own so many different

728
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:28,320
Speaker 2: products and to see what goes into when they decide

729
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:30,480
Speaker 2: they want to reduce plastic, like how that happens.

730
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:32,680
Speaker 3: That is just a joy.

731
00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:35,080
Speaker 2: Because I once said when I was a lawyer, if

732
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:36,440
Speaker 2: I could ever do anything, I'd want to be a

733
00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:38,200
Speaker 2: lawyer in house at Laoreal And I never thought I

734
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:40,000
Speaker 2: would get to work with them in such a different way.

735
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:43,359
Speaker 2: But that connection has been really cool, and that they're

736
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:46,560
Speaker 2: you know, French and one day hopefully get to go

737
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 2: and visit the office in this so so cool so

738
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Speaker 2: many heritage brands. What's another one? I just I'm so

739
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 2: privileged to work with the coolest companies. Intrepid is another one,

740
00:35:57,600 --> 00:36:01,239
Speaker 2: Like obviously we just did our honeymoon and to get

741
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 2: to see a company that was just founded by two

742
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:06,160
Speaker 2: people with a vision. It's an Australian business and now

743
00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 2: it's all over the world and they've got Bee Corp

744
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:11,319
Speaker 2: certification and they do. They I don't know that they

745
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:12,400
Speaker 2: are carbon neutral.

746
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:12,719
Speaker 4: Wow.

747
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 2: And they literally cut out parts of their itineries now

748
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 2: that don't they can't control the animal welfare standards. And

749
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:23,359
Speaker 2: they don't give you any booklets or anything because they

750
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 2: don't want to, you know, they give it all virtually

751
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:26,840
Speaker 2: because they don't want you to have paper or plastic.

752
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:29,680
Speaker 2: You can't use plastic water bottles. Like, there's so many

753
00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 2: cool things. We drove one leg because they don't. You

754
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:35,319
Speaker 2: could do a flight, but they don't want to do,

755
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:37,239
Speaker 2: you know, they don't want to increase.

756
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 3: Their carbon footprint. Like I love that.

757
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:41,760
Speaker 2: And the locals are paid so well, and the transparency

758
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:44,080
Speaker 2: of it being able to travel again and do it

759
00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:45,480
Speaker 2: consciously is really really cool.

760
00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 3: Like that's such privilege.

761
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:48,880
Speaker 2: There's so many businesses I get to work with that

762
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 2: I just love, and I think that's something I think

763
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:52,439
Speaker 2: I'm really lucky about.

764
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:52,879
Speaker 3: It's hard.

765
00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:55,120
Speaker 2: The fact that I find it hard to pick about

766
00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:57,080
Speaker 2: the coolest clients and jobs is amazing.

767
00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 3: The best thing about living where you live, I was gonna.

768
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 2: Say share, Yeah, people know where I Live's amazing just

769
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:10,399
Speaker 2: because I've actually lived in Zera my whole life. And

770
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:13,800
Speaker 2: there's a big park. It's so dog friendly, it's family friendly.

771
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 2: There's lots of cafes and a lot going on that.

772
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:22,120
Speaker 2: It's very fitness conscious, so there's cool studios. It's yeah,

773
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:24,120
Speaker 2: a very privileged, beautiful place to live.

774
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:24,439
Speaker 4: City.

775
00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:26,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, close to the city, but not too far from

776
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 2: the beach. We're very, very lucky. But Paul mainly he.

777
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 3: Just loves it.

778
00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:31,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, he just loves his life.

779
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 3: Love my little.

780
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:35,920
Speaker 4: Doggie, Loving your hair. What did you ask for the song?

781
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 4: That's so nice?

782
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 2: So I didn't die my hair for ten years maybe more,

783
00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:42,800
Speaker 2: and I just it was like, seriously, because I'm lazy.

784
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:45,399
Speaker 2: I was like, I can't regrows on dark Asian hair

785
00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 2: is too obvious, can't be bothered with the upkeep upkeep.

786
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:51,480
Speaker 2: And then one day Sarah from Organagha, who is has

787
00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:54,360
Speaker 2: been my head dresser forever, is incredible, and she was like,

788
00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:56,640
Speaker 2: I just want to try, Like you always want more

789
00:37:56,719 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 2: volume and more depth, and it's you need like a

790
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:02,799
Speaker 2: little bit of highlights, and she's like, just just let

791
00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:05,520
Speaker 2: me do it. And I didn't ask for anything. She

792
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:07,440
Speaker 2: literally just did it in a way that my regrowth

793
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:10,440
Speaker 2: doesn't show. But when I do curls and stuff, you

794
00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:14,120
Speaker 2: can actually see volume. Yeah, and I don't even know.

795
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:17,360
Speaker 2: I literally just quite a few people have just shown

796
00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:20,200
Speaker 2: their headresses the photo of my hair because she just did.

797
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:22,319
Speaker 2: I don't know what she did. She did it amazingly

798
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:23,839
Speaker 2: and I'm so happy with it.

799
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:26,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like, move that photo of you as kipper.

800
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:29,279
Speaker 2: You've got those like my banana streaks that I used

801
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 2: to have. I've got so embarrassing.

802
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:33,440
Speaker 3: So answer to that. She didn't ask for anything.

803
00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:35,600
Speaker 2: It was just I wish I should try and get

804
00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 2: the colors for you. I will try. But she did

805
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:40,359
Speaker 2: just the way that they do it underneath. It's all

806
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:42,800
Speaker 2: underneath so that you can't see the regrowth. It's amazing.

807
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:45,360
Speaker 2: Thirty six men's I know, and we're on late.

808
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 3: Question two, No lifestyle now, I dont want to finish

809
00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:49,720
Speaker 3: all the lifestyle.

810
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 2: Sure, I'll try and do them as quick fire, okay,

811
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:54,719
Speaker 2: and if there's any really long ones, I might go

812
00:38:54,840 --> 00:39:00,239
Speaker 2: back to doing the story essay text on Instagram because oh,

813
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:02,719
Speaker 2: easier to kind of be articulate without taking up your

814
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:03,280
Speaker 2: ear holes.

815
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 3: How often do you work out weekly? And what's the schedule?

816
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:06,800
Speaker 1: Like?

817
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 2: Interesting question changes a lot. I'm very phasey, you know,

818
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:13,399
Speaker 2: I'm very phazy. I go through like phases of all

819
00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:16,960
Speaker 2: running and then all yoga and then all pilates. But lately,

820
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:20,360
Speaker 2: for maybe the last year, since it's been back open

821
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:22,319
Speaker 2: in lockdown, obviously it was a lot of running because

822
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:24,360
Speaker 2: that's all we could do, and I used to be

823
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:26,440
Speaker 2: a non runner, couldn't run more than a kilometer. And

824
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:29,920
Speaker 2: then through Nike, we were able to prove to ourselves

825
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:31,560
Speaker 2: that we could build up to a half marathon, which

826
00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:34,320
Speaker 2: was just insane. I still can't believe that happened. But

827
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:36,680
Speaker 2: I really got into the joy of running, so I

828
00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 2: love that you can do that anywhere. I still run

829
00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:41,719
Speaker 2: much shorter distances now, but I love running. But the

830
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:45,359
Speaker 2: most amazing workout I've been doing lately is strong, which

831
00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:48,600
Speaker 2: is there's a TikTok about it about like what it involves.

832
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 2: It's a reformer bed but with a roller on the end,

833
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 2: and so it's intense. It's so hard. But for someone

834
00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:59,319
Speaker 2: who I don't, I used to work out every day

835
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 2: and it burnt me out. My body doesn't like working

836
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:04,960
Speaker 2: out every day. I've learnt to just listen to what

837
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:07,319
Speaker 2: it's telling me. I actually prefer to do a much

838
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:09,759
Speaker 2: more intense workout but only two to three times a week,

839
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:12,359
Speaker 2: and so in those classes it's like forty five minutes

840
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 2: to an hour, and it's really intense cardio with really

841
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:16,960
Speaker 2: intense strength, so you get a bit of everything. It

842
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 2: kind of ticks all the boxes. And I only need

843
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 2: to do it like twice a week, and then I

844
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:24,640
Speaker 2: walk the dog and go for walks, and I like

845
00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:26,960
Speaker 2: to do yoga sometimes, but I haven't done it. I'm

846
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:29,960
Speaker 2: not doing it enough, but really like twice a week

847
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:33,200
Speaker 2: most of the time, and that keeps me pretty fit.

848
00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, was the other day.

849
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:38,640
Speaker 4: We our friendship didn't revolve around gym, but we did

850
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 4: a lot of gimming together, like.

851
00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 3: Literally every day. I'd say, yeah, we made up.

852
00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:46,040
Speaker 4: For a session and then just work together. But we

853
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 4: were obsessed with like wanting to make each other vomit.

854
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:51,120
Speaker 4: And now we're just like, it's really not a vibe.

855
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 4: It's not fun anymore, and it's not Yeah.

856
00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:55,759
Speaker 3: It doesn't help longevity.

857
00:40:56,719 --> 00:41:00,600
Speaker 2: I think every one, dude, you could just get it.

858
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:02,239
Speaker 2: It's a lot, and we were tired and saw all

859
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 2: the time, and I think everyone goes through that phase

860
00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:07,239
Speaker 2: that relationship with exercise where you don't actually listen to

861
00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:08,960
Speaker 2: your body. You just do what you think you should do,

862
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:10,360
Speaker 2: or you do it out of habit, or you do

863
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 2: it because you think you need to do it seven

864
00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 2: days a week. And I've just found this sweet spot,

865
00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:18,319
Speaker 2: which is I have a very fast metabolism. So some

866
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 2: people do need to work out, you know, more regularly

867
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 2: or for heart reasons or whatever. Mentally, I find that

868
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:27,280
Speaker 2: sometimes I work out much more for the emotional release

869
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:30,359
Speaker 2: than I do for the physical. But two to three

870
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:32,720
Speaker 2: times if strong is perfect for me. I can recover

871
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:35,840
Speaker 2: in between, like I'm learning to listen to my body.

872
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:38,880
Speaker 4: Second question to that is any suggestions for those who

873
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:40,520
Speaker 4: are trying to run a small business but have a

874
00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:45,360
Speaker 4: balanced life. Help's help and want a balanced, healthy social lifestyle.

875
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:50,359
Speaker 2: Really hard one, and definitely there are the early years

876
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:52,600
Speaker 2: of your business where that balance is a lot harder,

877
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 2: and probably you're not necessarily meant to be able to

878
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 2: have the balance because the business will be it's like

879
00:41:56,560 --> 00:41:58,919
Speaker 2: a baby, It needs a lot more time and energy

880
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:02,440
Speaker 2: at the start. But I think also exercise is like

881
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:04,759
Speaker 2: what fifteen minutes, thirty minutes and an hour out of

882
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 2: your day. Nothing can't wait that long. So for your

883
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 2: mental and physical health, you do probably have to start

884
00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:16,279
Speaker 2: practicing early, just making time for it. It doesn't have

885
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 2: to be every day, but you won't actually make You

886
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:20,839
Speaker 2: won't make the distance with the business if you're not

887
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:24,880
Speaker 2: keeping yourself getting fresh air and moving your blood and

888
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 2: getting fresh ideas. You know. I feel like you need

889
00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:29,600
Speaker 2: to schedule it in and treat it like a priority,

890
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:31,239
Speaker 2: which is hard to do.

891
00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 4: What would you say to someone with the fear of

892
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 4: commitment and pushes the good away?

893
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:36,800
Speaker 3: We spoke about this before.

894
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:42,560
Speaker 2: That's a hard, deep question, honestly. I think therapy. I'm

895
00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:45,319
Speaker 2: a big fan of having a psychologist. I've had one

896
00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:48,640
Speaker 2: for twenty years and for different reasons, different ones at

897
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:51,279
Speaker 2: different times. And I think if you have something deep

898
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:53,920
Speaker 2: in your psyche that is preventing you from being who

899
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:57,360
Speaker 2: you want to be, having an expert talking through it

900
00:42:57,400 --> 00:43:02,439
Speaker 2: and give you some proper tools is immeasurable valuable. I think,

901
00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:04,880
Speaker 2: especially with something like commitment, if it's a pattern and

902
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:09,359
Speaker 2: it's ruining your ability to develop deep relationships, therapy, if

903
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:13,440
Speaker 2: you can afford it and access it, is really really valuable.

904
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 2: But also I think you can do a lot of

905
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:18,840
Speaker 2: self reflection and self work. Why are you scared of commitment?

906
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:20,560
Speaker 2: Is it because you're scared that it will go wrong.

907
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:22,759
Speaker 2: Is it because you don't like what commitment feels like?

908
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 2: Or is it because you just haven't found the thing

909
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:27,279
Speaker 2: or the right person that actually like. Is it a

910
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:28,719
Speaker 2: fear of commitment or is it just that you've never

911
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:31,279
Speaker 2: found something that suits. So I think a lot of

912
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:34,920
Speaker 2: self work, reflection journaling that can really help you figure

913
00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:38,480
Speaker 2: what you're actually feeling and does so much journaling and

914
00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:40,799
Speaker 2: that helps you sort out what you are feeling and

915
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:44,400
Speaker 2: how to work through it, talking to friends, talking to

916
00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:47,760
Speaker 2: other people, listen to podcasts because there's so much information

917
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:51,919
Speaker 2: from people who suffer those exact same things who can

918
00:43:52,400 --> 00:43:55,439
Speaker 2: talk about how they work through it. But I think

919
00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:57,560
Speaker 2: be gentle on yourself if you do have a deep

920
00:43:57,600 --> 00:44:01,920
Speaker 2: fear of anything, It takes time, time to undo unhelpful

921
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:04,080
Speaker 2: neural pathways. It doesn't happen overnight.

922
00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:07,640
Speaker 4: Hi, Sarah, I love heart. Can you please jolve deeper

923
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 4: to your experience on living overseas? Any tips and do

924
00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:13,200
Speaker 4: you think the pros and cons of these had a

925
00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:14,880
Speaker 4: lot to do with shaping you as an adult?

926
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:15,160
Speaker 1: Oh?

927
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:19,040
Speaker 2: I am. I think because I've always loved languages and

928
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:20,759
Speaker 2: other cultures and most of you have spoken to me

929
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:23,160
Speaker 2: about this, heard me speak about this before. I think

930
00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:28,800
Speaker 2: travel is the most transformative way to grow. It's obviously

931
00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:32,120
Speaker 2: a huge privilege to be able to travel, and I

932
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 2: have always prioritized travel over clothes, shopping, drinking, going out, food,

933
00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:39,400
Speaker 2: everything Like UNI, I would go destitute just to go

934
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:41,759
Speaker 2: in exchange, because I have always felt like that's where

935
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:44,239
Speaker 2: you stretch your brain in a way that you can

936
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:45,000
Speaker 2: never go back.

937
00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 3: Like.

938
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 2: You just learn new things, you get fresh ideas, you

939
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 2: just see everything differently, and you become a more well

940
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:56,920
Speaker 2: rounded person. Living overseas is an incredible experience. It's incredibly scary,

941
00:44:57,000 --> 00:45:00,440
Speaker 2: it's so hard, it can be so lonely, but I

942
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 2: think it forces you out of your comfort zone in

943
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:04,839
Speaker 2: a way that is it will change you forever. You'll

944
00:45:04,880 --> 00:45:10,000
Speaker 2: make contacts and experiences that will never not be useful

945
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:12,440
Speaker 2: in some way. So I think if you do get

946
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:14,439
Speaker 2: the opportunity to do it, you can always come home.

947
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:16,000
Speaker 2: You can always come home to the best country in

948
00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:19,359
Speaker 2: the world. So if you get the chance, do it,

949
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:21,520
Speaker 2: do it for a short time, just try if you can,

950
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:25,239
Speaker 2: and if that's what you want, I think I think

951
00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 2: it's just so valuable. Most people I know who have

952
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:30,440
Speaker 2: had the chance at an expat stint or a unique

953
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 2: exchange or whatever it is, have just become such better

954
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:35,320
Speaker 2: rounded people.

955
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:38,800
Speaker 3: Yeah. I love travel.

956
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:44,280
Speaker 2: We're very biased, though, Like one of our biggest priorities

957
00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:47,400
Speaker 2: in life is to explore the world and explore its people.

958
00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:50,720
Speaker 3: That's how experienced. Or I learned what all meant today,

959
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 3: like properly, or I like I blew you away? No,

960
00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:58,399
Speaker 3: or you're in all right now.

961
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:03,600
Speaker 4: No. I listened to a podcast about how the Science

962
00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:06,760
Speaker 4: of Happiness and finding awe, and they were defining awe

963
00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 4: to be the feeling of vastness that you can't quite

964
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 4: comprehend at that time Egypt, and I didn't realize that's

965
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 4: what all meant.

966
00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:15,440
Speaker 3: You were saying so much.

967
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:17,880
Speaker 4: I'm all blah blah blah, but in all by definition

968
00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 4: apparently means kind of that vast sense, which is what

969
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 4: I feel when I'm on hills and lights, which I

970
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 4: didn't made sense anyway.

971
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:29,279
Speaker 2: Andrew's yay is being on hills where you can see

972
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:32,200
Speaker 2: the skyline, the vastness at night with all the lights

973
00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 2: like trigger.

974
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:40,240
Speaker 3: Ready Saucy tips on keeping a spicy sex life after

975
00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:44,279
Speaker 3: thirteen years and how do you support a healthy sex life,

976
00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:46,319
Speaker 3: and there's so much travel in your relationship.

977
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:49,280
Speaker 2: This is a really hard question because I'm an open book.

978
00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:50,520
Speaker 2: But as you guys know, as I said in the

979
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:53,600
Speaker 2: last episode, when the question involves someone else, I don't

980
00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 2: want to bring them into it in a way that

981
00:46:57,600 --> 00:47:01,200
Speaker 2: they haven't given me permission. So all I will say

982
00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:05,880
Speaker 2: here is that it's like anything in a relationship, you

983
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 2: just have to talk about it. You have to make

984
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:11,000
Speaker 2: an effort. You have to prioritize these things as a couple,

985
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:17,120
Speaker 2: and most things like that don't just come easily. Like

986
00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:21,400
Speaker 2: most couples after that long, you don't just continue with

987
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:23,480
Speaker 2: ease for your whole lifetime.

988
00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:24,439
Speaker 3: It involves work.

989
00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:27,120
Speaker 2: There are ups and downs, there are rollercoasters in all

990
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:30,000
Speaker 2: kinds of emotions, including your sex life. And I think

991
00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:34,239
Speaker 2: it's yeh, open communication, particularly with travel, when you know

992
00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:35,719
Speaker 2: that you're going to be traveling a lot, you have

993
00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:37,279
Speaker 2: to talk about that stuff. You have to work out

994
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:40,440
Speaker 2: something that works for you. Guys, So open communication and

995
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:43,120
Speaker 2: be willing to work on a relationship. Don't expect your

996
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:44,759
Speaker 2: relationship to just be how you want it to be

997
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 2: without work.

998
00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:47,480
Speaker 3: How did you and Nick Meat?

999
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 2: I will share the link to the episode when we

1000
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 2: talk about that.

1001
00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:52,240
Speaker 3: But nightclub.

1002
00:47:55,000 --> 00:48:02,319
Speaker 2: On the table, how to meet your husband one oh one,

1003
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:04,919
Speaker 2: get on a podium too much?

1004
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 3: When you travel, are you honeymoon? Are they're freebies?

1005
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:12,600
Speaker 4: Or even better, are you getting paid essentially getting paid

1006
00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:14,840
Speaker 4: to have what we see as the best life ever?

1007
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:17,000
Speaker 3: Is that a perk of your platform and outreach at

1008
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:17,560
Speaker 3: the minute.

1009
00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:22,200
Speaker 2: That's a really good question, and it varies. I think

1010
00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:25,520
Speaker 2: it's a really interesting time in the market where people

1011
00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 2: can have careers that involve incredible partnerships. And I totally

1012
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:31,920
Speaker 2: agree every day that I get to do something that

1013
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:35,040
Speaker 2: involves any travel whatsoever, even when I was at law firm,

1014
00:48:35,120 --> 00:48:38,920
Speaker 2: being paid to travel for even for work is the dream.

1015
00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:43,160
Speaker 2: It's what I wanted my entire life. And I am

1016
00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:45,920
Speaker 2: so lucky that some of the partnerships that I have

1017
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 2: had have like Jetstar is one of them, and Intrepid

1018
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 2: is this amazing partnership that's just sort of come out

1019
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:56,319
Speaker 2: of nowhere this year that they do involve traveling and

1020
00:48:56,800 --> 00:48:58,720
Speaker 2: something that I would have done anyway and have always

1021
00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:01,040
Speaker 2: wanted to do, And I think they're the organic partnerships

1022
00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 2: is where you would have done that thing anyway, and

1023
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:05,520
Speaker 2: then you just happen to be introduced to the company

1024
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:07,200
Speaker 2: and then get to do it. Like all the products

1025
00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:10,799
Speaker 2: I use in paid partnerships are ones that usually came

1026
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:13,239
Speaker 2: about because I use them anyway, tag them, and then

1027
00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:16,320
Speaker 2: they reach out. So it's a very beautiful organic development

1028
00:49:16,360 --> 00:49:19,400
Speaker 2: of a relationship. And that does mean, yeah, there have

1029
00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 2: been there are trips that I do where I like

1030
00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:25,680
Speaker 2: there are just trips where I go on them, pay

1031
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:27,959
Speaker 2: for them, totally normal, and then I will often still

1032
00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:31,319
Speaker 2: share and tag because people like to know, you know,

1033
00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:33,279
Speaker 2: if we share something that they're like, where is that

1034
00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:36,520
Speaker 2: is a cool accommodation in blah, and I love tagging

1035
00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:38,520
Speaker 2: and sharing the whole journey. Then there are trips where

1036
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:42,239
Speaker 2: sometimes a destination will say we would love you to

1037
00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:43,840
Speaker 2: come and stay if you can fit it in, or

1038
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 2: you're down this area, we'd love to offer that in

1039
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:50,080
Speaker 2: exchange for you covering it, and so that's free, but

1040
00:49:50,239 --> 00:49:52,640
Speaker 2: also in exchange for what other people would pay for,

1041
00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:55,600
Speaker 2: so it is still being paid for in your work,

1042
00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 2: but yes, in terms of money exchange, it's free. And

1043
00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:00,520
Speaker 2: then there are jobs where you weren't going to do

1044
00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:04,480
Speaker 2: that trip anyway, and obviously when you're away you you

1045
00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:06,440
Speaker 2: can't do other works, so it is still the booking

1046
00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:07,719
Speaker 2: of your time, and you get booked to go on

1047
00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:09,840
Speaker 2: a job, and then that entire time you're expected to

1048
00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 2: do certain deliverables. It's like your time is measured out,

1049
00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:15,960
Speaker 2: not based on what you choose, and you often don't

1050
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:19,279
Speaker 2: choose the destination, which again it's still amazing, but in

1051
00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:21,680
Speaker 2: that structure where you are there to do what they

1052
00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:23,320
Speaker 2: would like you to do and cover it in exactly

1053
00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:24,960
Speaker 2: the way they would like you to do it. That

1054
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:27,080
Speaker 2: is when it is often a paid job where you

1055
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:29,440
Speaker 2: get the trip and you get paid to go on it,

1056
00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:31,880
Speaker 2: which sounds outrageous.

1057
00:50:32,239 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 3: It is outrageous.

1058
00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:38,719
Speaker 2: It is so incredible, but it does definitely come with expectations,

1059
00:50:38,800 --> 00:50:40,359
Speaker 2: report deliverables.

1060
00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 4: You have to do full reports, like you have to

1061
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:47,200
Speaker 4: be It's it's all like, obviously it's an awesome thing,

1062
00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:49,319
Speaker 4: but you forget that it's not a trip that you

1063
00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:52,320
Speaker 4: can just if you want to laser around today. You

1064
00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:54,759
Speaker 4: can't really laze around, Yeah, exactly, You've got to be

1065
00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:56,280
Speaker 4: on which is still really fun.

1066
00:50:56,360 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's that and you're filming the entire team. Yeah, yeah,

1067
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:02,520
Speaker 2: you're not like I mean again, I would be formuled

1068
00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:04,960
Speaker 2: out the entire time anyway. I'm not saying that it's hard,

1069
00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:08,319
Speaker 2: but you do start the day with a very full

1070
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:10,400
Speaker 2: itinery of things that are on your list and you

1071
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:11,839
Speaker 2: have to cover them, and then you have to like

1072
00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:13,440
Speaker 2: spend most of the night editing it so it's up

1073
00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:15,680
Speaker 2: at the right time, and then the whole trip is

1074
00:51:15,719 --> 00:51:19,520
Speaker 2: consumed by the deliverables you're supposed to deliver by the

1075
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:22,200
Speaker 2: time you get back, and you can't do any most

1076
00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:23,439
Speaker 2: of the time, you can't do any other work while

1077
00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 2: you're there, just because you're so busy. But again, hinge

1078
00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:28,880
Speaker 2: myself that that's a job. It's like get away presented.

1079
00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:31,839
Speaker 2: They're working. You wouldn't expect them to do that for free,

1080
00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:34,839
Speaker 2: but they still get to travel for work and it's insane.

1081
00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:39,280
Speaker 2: So yeah, there's a lot of different ways, but we're

1082
00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:41,719
Speaker 2: sort of like we still travel and pay for it

1083
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:44,200
Speaker 2: normally and don't kind of go, oh, we're going to X.

1084
00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:46,000
Speaker 2: Can we try and line something up. We'll still just

1085
00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:49,239
Speaker 2: go yeah, and then if something comes up as well,

1086
00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:51,359
Speaker 2: we'll do that as well. It's yeah, but we're very

1087
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:54,680
Speaker 2: very lucky. It's an incredible, incredible work development.

1088
00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:56,359
Speaker 3: You would hard for it.

1089
00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:58,600
Speaker 2: Those just yeah, drive, Yeah.

1090
00:51:58,360 --> 00:52:02,280
Speaker 3: That's nice. What is your net worth? Okay?

1091
00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:06,400
Speaker 2: That is a I did open to other questions. I

1092
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:08,640
Speaker 2: actually don't know how do you? I don't even know

1093
00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:10,359
Speaker 2: how you work that out, So I couldn't even answer

1094
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:12,640
Speaker 2: if I wanted to how I wouldn't share that. But

1095
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Speaker 2: I don't even know one dollar. I don't actually think

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Speaker 2: that I'm at the stage where I would have a networth,

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Speaker 2: you know how, like do you only people who are

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Speaker 2: bajillionaires actually have a net worth? Like I think it's calculus.

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Speaker 2: I don't even know who even knows that.

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Speaker 3: How are your assets and finance distributed?

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Speaker 4: Oh as in shares, crypto, property, business, et cetera.

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Speaker 3: Would love to another woman and what they're doing, thank you?

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Speaker 2: So yeah, okay, So I have a very very small

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Speaker 2: share portfolio. I'm not very good at shares and don't

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Speaker 2: give it the tension and time it needs. And for

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Speaker 2: that reason, I don't have any crypto either. You love it,

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Speaker 2: I'm not crypto. I literally have like a very tiny

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Speaker 2: amount of shares that I got when I bought them

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Speaker 2: when I thought I was going to get into the

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Speaker 2: shares when I was a lawyer. Actually, and I haven't

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Speaker 2: done easy with them, like literally less than five hundred

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Speaker 2: dollars worth of shares, so it's only the business. It's

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Speaker 2: business and assets. And yeah, and.

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Speaker 4: Very financially responsible though, like you have a broad account

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Speaker 4: like as in savings account.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, go way too and you're tune with that.

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Speaker 2: Yes, thereas clear percentages of like x amount goes obviously

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Speaker 2: straight to tax because we're not poag, we're not employed

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Speaker 2: by someone, so we have to take our tax out.

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Speaker 2: First we take out GST, then you take out your

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00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:29,719
Speaker 2: income tax. Then I take a massive chunk and it

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00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:31,759
Speaker 2: goes straight to savings and I don't touch it, and

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Speaker 2: then the rest is some for personal expenses, and then

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00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:37,680
Speaker 2: some goes in the business account for business expenses. But

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Speaker 2: we're like, we're pretty budget. We budget pretty you're pretty

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Speaker 2: like I'm very like breadsheety, very school.

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Speaker 3: Can you do mine? Absolutely? Nicks, because I'm terrible.

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Speaker 2: I've always been like that.

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Speaker 3: I I kind of.

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Speaker 4: Know what's happening with it, but I can't sit down

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Speaker 4: and tell you even.

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Speaker 3: A UNI people like how are you affording to travel?

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Speaker 2: Even though of course we were like doing it very cheap,

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00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 2: but people would be like, how could you afford to

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Speaker 2: do a couple of exchanges if your parents aren't giving

1136
00:54:04,360 --> 00:54:08,360
Speaker 2: you money. And I was like, because I literally spreadsheet everything.

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Speaker 2: When I know I'm traveling or I know I want

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00:54:10,760 --> 00:54:13,080
Speaker 2: to go on a trip, I just wouldn't buy a

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Speaker 2: new dress.

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Speaker 3: I'd wear the same dress like for a.

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00:54:15,120 --> 00:54:17,680
Speaker 2: Whole year every time I went out, and I wouldn't

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00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:20,040
Speaker 2: like for my formal I didn't get my makeup and

1143
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:22,279
Speaker 2: hair done. I did my own makeup and I made

1144
00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:24,120
Speaker 2: a dress, you know, things like that, because I knew

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00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:26,480
Speaker 2: that I wanted to travel, So I've always been good

1146
00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:27,480
Speaker 2: at like rejigging.

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Speaker 4: There's two last questions, which two off which I feel

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00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:32,840
Speaker 4: like you've answered in various ways in other podcasts and

1149
00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:35,440
Speaker 4: or in videos. But one is skin Scare routine and

1150
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:36,239
Speaker 4: the other's Day in a.

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00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:40,239
Speaker 2: Life skincare routine. Day in the Life. Yeah, and I

1152
00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:42,440
Speaker 2: also feel like I probably need to do them as

1153
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:42,880
Speaker 2: a video.

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Speaker 3: I agree.

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00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:47,440
Speaker 2: But Day in the Life I did, what I think

1156
00:54:47,560 --> 00:54:49,560
Speaker 2: is a really funny one on TikTok on a day

1157
00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:50,920
Speaker 2: where I didn't get to choose, because you know when

1158
00:54:50,960 --> 00:54:52,160
Speaker 2: people do day in the Life and they pick the

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00:54:52,160 --> 00:54:53,759
Speaker 2: coolest day of it, which I'm sure I've done in

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00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:55,920
Speaker 2: my life. But I was like, I'm going to do

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00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:57,560
Speaker 2: it today because I didn't get to choose, I had

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00:54:57,600 --> 00:54:59,640
Speaker 2: no makeup on I woke up, sat in bed, sat

1163
00:54:59,680 --> 00:55:03,160
Speaker 2: on my life top. Ten hours later, I was still there.

1164
00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:06,799
Speaker 2: So that's one type of day in my life. But

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00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:09,480
Speaker 2: I'll try and do one. But they're so different, you know,

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Speaker 2: my day's never the same.

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Speaker 3: No, That's why I was like, that'd be hard for you.

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Speaker 3: You couldn't even if you chose six days. Went.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll try and like maybe write out a few

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00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:21,839
Speaker 2: common things and I'll put that on Instagram. And same

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Speaker 2: with skincare routine. There's like a lot of products I

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00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:27,280
Speaker 2: like to try a lot of different things you probably noticed,

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00:55:28,040 --> 00:55:30,399
Speaker 2: but I have a few favorites that are like ride

1174
00:55:30,480 --> 00:55:32,960
Speaker 2: or dies for skincare, and needling is this new thing

1175
00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:35,080
Speaker 2: as well. So there's a lot of layers to the

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00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:38,239
Speaker 2: same care routine. But I went from like, obviously, you

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Speaker 2: guys know I'm Korean by heritage but adopted, so I

1178
00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:43,760
Speaker 2: don't I'm not like I don't have a twelve step

1179
00:55:43,840 --> 00:55:46,759
Speaker 2: Korean skincare routine. I'm getting there, though. I went from

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00:55:46,760 --> 00:55:49,160
Speaker 2: like one step to like maybe five now, so I'm

1181
00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:49,719
Speaker 2: getting there.

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Speaker 3: That was the end of the questions.

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00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:55,800
Speaker 2: Oh, thank you guys so much that an almos q

1184
00:55:55,880 --> 00:55:59,279
Speaker 2: and a was so friendly. But they're so lovely. Something

1185
00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:00,759
Speaker 2: really hard time.

1186
00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:02,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you get fun questions.

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00:56:02,400 --> 00:56:07,080
Speaker 2: That's the nicest. Anyway. I feel like that's probably enough

1188
00:56:07,160 --> 00:56:11,160
Speaker 2: because it's fifty five minutes. So we will do Egypt

1189
00:56:11,200 --> 00:56:15,520
Speaker 2: and our neighborhood watch items one of which there's so

1190
00:56:15,600 --> 00:56:17,680
Speaker 2: many I think we'll just we'll do it next week.

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Speaker 2: But thank you guys so much for the beautiful questions.

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00:56:19,800 --> 00:56:20,680
Speaker 2: Anything else we want to add?

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Speaker 3: Bim No, thanks for joining in TikTok.

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Speaker 2: You're joining Tiki tok is And also thank you so

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Speaker 2: much to Judy. Mama Bears here Rizzy, No, not my

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00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:33,640
Speaker 2: actual ma. Mama Bear is the loveliest. She's been on

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Speaker 2: a few lives as well, and came from should.

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Speaker 3: We always do these lives? It's the situation now, Oh

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Speaker 3: my god, that would be really fae. I don't know

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Speaker 3: we're doing this. We sat down and.

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Speaker 2: Live and I was like, oh, okay, I just thought

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00:56:44,400 --> 00:56:46,839
Speaker 2: that it would be Hi, Mama Bear. I just thought

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00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:49,000
Speaker 2: it'd be nice because I've only started getting on the

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00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:51,799
Speaker 2: TikTok Live bandwagon. No, Yeah, it's just now like this

1205
00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:54,279
Speaker 2: is the second I think this. I did one on

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00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:56,080
Speaker 2: Carns and then one on mine, so this is my

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Speaker 2: second one on this page.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, people, and it's kind of fun. We have been

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00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:02,759
Speaker 3: wanting a live event, which we will do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I think this is a fun way to

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00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:08,400
Speaker 2: Like that means every episode we can do some anonymous

1212
00:57:08,440 --> 00:57:10,360
Speaker 2: Q and A, but not anonymous, we can do TikTok

1213
00:57:10,400 --> 00:57:12,279
Speaker 2: Q and A, so you guys can ask questions while

1214
00:57:12,280 --> 00:57:12,680
Speaker 2: we record.

1215
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Speaker 3: We can just do it live.

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00:57:15,200 --> 00:57:18,040
Speaker 2: Thank you guys so much for joining. Mama Bear, Judy

1217
00:57:18,280 --> 00:57:20,920
Speaker 2: and Daisy who pretty much stayed the whole time. You

1218
00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:23,640
Speaker 2: guys are the actual greatest, the greatest of all time.

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00:57:24,120 --> 00:57:26,120
Speaker 2: Our three people who tuned in, although we did get

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00:57:26,160 --> 00:57:29,240
Speaker 2: three and a half thousand mics. That's so cool. This

1221
00:57:29,360 --> 00:57:32,680
Speaker 2: is just a beast. TikTok is crazy, crazy, amazing. I'm

1222
00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:36,600
Speaker 2: learning so much. Anyway, thank you guys so much for joining.

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Speaker 2: We will post this episode well they don't need to

1224
00:57:39,200 --> 00:57:42,160
Speaker 2: listen to because've already listened to it sometime this week.

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00:57:42,480 --> 00:57:44,320
Speaker 3: Awesome, And if you guys have anything.

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00:57:44,040 --> 00:57:45,800
Speaker 2: You want to talk about on our Next Days of

1227
00:57:45,800 --> 00:57:49,120
Speaker 2: Our Lives episode next week, maybe we should do anonymous

1228
00:57:49,160 --> 00:57:49,760
Speaker 2: Q and a for, and.

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Speaker 3: I'd happy to do. That's going to be our topic.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, thank you so much.

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Speaker 3: Guys.

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Speaker 2: If you're seeing a yay bye bye m