WEBVTT - Sh*t We’re Getting Done In 2025 (And Everything We Didn’t Last Year)

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<v Speaker 1>We acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land we're recording

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<v Speaker 1>on today.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope this is going to be bad.

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<v Speaker 1>I can just tell by the way you're doing your

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<v Speaker 1>evil smile.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not even putting it on my list. It is

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<v Speaker 2>just no, I'm just gonna be setting myself up for foil.

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<v Speaker 2>You're fuck cut that.

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<v Speaker 3>On the list again.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, Hello, welcome back, shit It Oh Happy twenty twenty five.

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<v Speaker 2>It is a brand spanking new year and a brand

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<v Speaker 2>spanking new season of your all time favorite podcast, Eat, Sleep, Shit, Repeat,

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<v Speaker 2>the unhinged podcast about the madness that is motherhood and

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<v Speaker 2>everything in between. I'm Kelly McCarran.

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<v Speaker 1>Way to break the vibes, I'm Ki Resells, and to

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<v Speaker 1>kick things off for the year, We're talking goals.

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<v Speaker 2>Baby, indeed we are, and we want to know what

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<v Speaker 2>your goals are for the year, So let us know

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<v Speaker 2>in the Facebook group because I'm very no and I

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<v Speaker 2>want to know everyone's I want to know everything about

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<v Speaker 2>everyone all the time. But like, I love goals, and

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<v Speaker 2>I just love our enthusiasm every January. It's kind of

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<v Speaker 2>nice that we start off every with such gung honess,

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<v Speaker 2>like you never lost our spark or yeah, even before

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<v Speaker 2>we were doing it, I was always doing my goals,

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<v Speaker 2>and I just I have such gumption in January. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>we want to believe that the year is going to

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<v Speaker 2>be better than the last. But as it progresses, we

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<v Speaker 2>get more and more unhinged. And before we.

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<v Speaker 1>Start on our twenty twenty five goals, Curl wants us

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<v Speaker 1>to check.

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<v Speaker 2>In on our twenty twenty four goals to see how

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<v Speaker 2>we went. I will say, technically you wanted to do

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<v Speaker 2>a check in in November last year. I thought it

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<v Speaker 2>might be fun, and I realized now that was a

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<v Speaker 2>big mistake because I think you achieved more.

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<v Speaker 3>I actually did one more than you out of your goals.

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<v Speaker 2>One more counts. Yeah, but it's when you get to them. Wait,

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<v Speaker 2>so you have looked at the script? No, I haven't.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh, but you told me you're like, suck it.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually achieved three and you're on in a chief

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<v Speaker 2>two So the worst person.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh dear me.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So to start off with key, so I

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<v Speaker 2>haven't let her look at my little script where I

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<v Speaker 2>put in what our.

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<v Speaker 1>Goals were last year, A very secret.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, you just prepare what your goals are

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<v Speaker 2>for the upcoming year because we need to have a

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<v Speaker 2>bit of a giggle. I was just having such a laugh.

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<v Speaker 2>But to summarize what you did achieve, oh larting under higher, like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>you finished that, you're pregnant with your second baby, You're

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<v Speaker 2>in a great place in your relationship, you launched a

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<v Speaker 2>second podcast, and you traveled Europe with a toddler for

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<v Speaker 2>over a month. Go me. I think that that is

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<v Speaker 2>so impressive. Yeah, that is, thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>And two of those things were on your list.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh great. So you wanted to be in a really

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<v Speaker 2>great place in your relationship supporting Charlie because you felt

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<v Speaker 2>like maybe last year he supported you, like it wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>as as equal. And I think that you've done a

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<v Speaker 2>really great job with that. And you also wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>nail told the parenting. And I know that you don't

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<v Speaker 2>feel like you are, but I think you're doing a

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<v Speaker 2>pretty damn good job. Thank you, doing the best that

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<v Speaker 2>you can.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a little bit niche to nail toddler parenting

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<v Speaker 1>while also pregnant.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's like, so just nailing told the parenting.

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<v Speaker 1>Is hard to throw in.

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<v Speaker 2>Very very lack of resilience and tolerance.

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<v Speaker 3>You've just had a bit of a fuse.

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<v Speaker 2>You had a bit of a year last year as well,

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't It wasn't an easy ride.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So I know this.

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<v Speaker 2>Is going to be bad.

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<v Speaker 1>I can just tell by the way you're doing your

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<v Speaker 1>evil smile. But it's not an evil I can't wait

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<v Speaker 1>to tell her how shit she's also been.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, that's a funny choice of words, because one of

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<v Speaker 2>your big goals for the you don't was to get

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<v Speaker 2>your digestive track sorted shut up.

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<v Speaker 1>That was not one of my goals.

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<v Speaker 2>And to poop every day that was not a goal,

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<v Speaker 2>surely not. So I would just like to know how

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<v Speaker 2>that went.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, a big fat fail.

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<v Speaker 2>It did not go to the rescue because I'm full of.

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<v Speaker 1>Ship, I really am, and was full of.

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<v Speaker 2>Shit, id isn't it. When I was listening to this audio,

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<v Speaker 2>I had tears. Oh Hans, I'd like to poop every day?

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<v Speaker 3>Well how did that?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh gosh? I just couldn't have gone any worse.

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<v Speaker 3>It actually could not have gone worse.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, being admitted to hospital and people trying to actively

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<v Speaker 1>get you to ship.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not a good no time. No.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, failed.

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<v Speaker 2>Now this one I'm unsure of because I think you

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<v Speaker 2>like half did it. I'm not sure how you feel

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<v Speaker 2>about it, though, So you wanted to get a handle

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<v Speaker 2>on the whole freelance thing. You did start a second podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>I did.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, I actually made the equivalent of what I would

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<v Speaker 1>have made had I stayed on four days of work

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<v Speaker 1>in like a nine to five job.

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<v Speaker 2>So that was a that is a goal huge.

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<v Speaker 1>It's funny because my account was like, you had a

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<v Speaker 1>very good year, and I was.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, I did.

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<v Speaker 3>I did not know.

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<v Speaker 2>I did not think that.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I feel like we're a little bit harsh on ourselves.

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<v Speaker 3>So congratulations, that's great.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I broke even of what I would have made,

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<v Speaker 1>which is great. I do wish I had have gone

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<v Speaker 1>above and beyond, but I think I did what I

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<v Speaker 1>was capable of.

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<v Speaker 2>Given the year that you can have had. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>for sure that next year, even with a newborn.

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<v Speaker 1>Even with a newborn, maybe you can soar even a higher.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that you will.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you find a hobby? Hell? Is your pottery going lottery? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you have any tales to tell or some work

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<v Speaker 2>to maybe show us?

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<v Speaker 1>There was no throwing of the of the pots, the

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<v Speaker 1>claim the clay. There was no throwing of the cla.

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<v Speaker 1>There was no carving, there was no killing as well.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like, well it's called I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there wasn't much time for a hobby. I tell

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<v Speaker 1>you what what I did pick.

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<v Speaker 2>Up though, Do you think that's a bit of an excuse.

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<v Speaker 2>I think my.

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<v Speaker 1>Hobby was complaining about being pregnant. I think you laid

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<v Speaker 1>by the way.

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<v Speaker 2>You absolutely nailed that one, and also maybe in a

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<v Speaker 2>series of many, many unfortunate events like being full of shit. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>there wasn't enough room for a hobby because the ship

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<v Speaker 2>was taken up all my energy. And how are the

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<v Speaker 2>stand up classes going? Because mine aren't going well.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even think I googled them. I did continue

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<v Speaker 1>to think about it throughout the year, like I've got

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<v Speaker 1>to do that stand up with girl but.

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<v Speaker 2>No, Yeah, epic fail on that one too. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 2>seems like the hobby hobby.

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<v Speaker 1>Kind of ones aren't great for us.

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<v Speaker 2>Speak for yourself. Oh, apologies, I'm waiting to hear your

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<v Speaker 2>list of war of nailed Why I didn't say any hobbies.

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<v Speaker 2>To be fair, I've got enough if I don't need it anymore. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you're like the Queen of hobbies. It's quite annoying.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just also so dorky.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but it fits the bill, you know. All right,

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<v Speaker 2>this is another one. I was unsure of how you

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<v Speaker 2>felt about it. Have you been a good friend?

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<v Speaker 3>You did have a bit on.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't been the greatest friend, No, but I have

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<v Speaker 1>been honest.

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<v Speaker 3>Could even just checking your messages to be fair?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, well it's cool being depressed.

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<v Speaker 2>Cow.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I don't think I had the capacity to be

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<v Speaker 1>like a stellar, above and beyond friend. But I did

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<v Speaker 1>what I could, and I showed up when I could.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I don't think you're a bad friend at all.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I was a bad friend, but I

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<v Speaker 1>felt like I wanted to probably be there more. But

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<v Speaker 1>I was very conscious of the fact that I just

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't actually coping.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm sure if someone needed you, you would have been,

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<v Speaker 2>but maybe you couldn't reach out to figure out if

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<v Speaker 2>someone was okay in the same capacity that maybe you

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<v Speaker 2>usually would. But if someone came to and said, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not like you just don't respond or for sure,

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<v Speaker 2>I think that it was just more like I couldn't

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<v Speaker 2>go above and beyond in a friendship. I think I

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<v Speaker 2>was just very insular. Yeah, I'm going to be completely honest,

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<v Speaker 2>and I need this advice to myself. I actually don't

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<v Speaker 2>think it's possible to be an above and beyond friend

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<v Speaker 2>when you've got really little kids. And I'm not just

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<v Speaker 2>saying that that sounds like a bit of a pop out,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's just they take up so much of your energy. No.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's a really good point because I remember when

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<v Speaker 1>I saw Dolly Alderton live last year. She obviously doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>have any kids, but she said a lot a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of her friends have gone on to have kids, and

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<v Speaker 1>she said it was like such a weird transition in

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<v Speaker 1>your thirties that no one really talks about. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>either you have kids or you don't have kids, and

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<v Speaker 1>she said it was a really tough time to navigate.

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<v Speaker 2>But what the beautiful thing was about it is that

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<v Speaker 2>as the kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Get older and you don't have to worry about them

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<v Speaker 1>as much or be there as they get older, essentially

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<v Speaker 1>those friendships become even deeper because there is time there

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<v Speaker 1>for them to be invested in.

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<v Speaker 2>Again.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and she's like, it's just holding space for those

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<v Speaker 1>friendships during that time, and I was like, that's actually

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<v Speaker 1>really true.

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<v Speaker 2>It's good advice. And I think anyone that does get frustrated,

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<v Speaker 2>and I know how frustrating it would be when your

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<v Speaker 2>friends aren't there in the capacity that you need them

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<v Speaker 2>to be. Yeah, But as long as you just hold

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<v Speaker 2>space through different periods, I think so.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know, we have to.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes people cannot show up the way that we want

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<v Speaker 2>them to all the time, and I think it's that

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<v Speaker 2>we put our expectations onto other people. Yeah. I have

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<v Speaker 2>a girlfriend who was recently talking to me about this,

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<v Speaker 2>and she's like, I just feel like people don't put

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<v Speaker 2>the same effort with me as I do with them.

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<v Speaker 2>And then she goes, I feel like such a silk

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<v Speaker 2>saying that, and I said, oh my gosh, you are

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<v Speaker 2>so like entitled and valid with your feelings, and it's

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<v Speaker 2>so good that you can express them. But the problem is,

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<v Speaker 2>and I've even said this to my sister before when

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<v Speaker 2>she's been winging about like something her husband ditch. He

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't put thought into his presence. Just because you do

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<v Speaker 2>something a certain way, you can't have an expectation that

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<v Speaker 2>other people do it like that. Everyone has like a

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<v Speaker 2>different love language and the exactly way of showing up

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<v Speaker 2>for sure, And I.

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<v Speaker 1>Think that's a really good reminder. In fact, like it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't always come as naturally to different people, different ways

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<v Speaker 1>of you know, connecting or making an effort. Like everyone's

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<v Speaker 1>got their own way of doing things. Doesn't mean that

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<v Speaker 1>they don't love your care any less. But the same

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<v Speaker 1>way in which you give love is not necessarily how

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<v Speaker 1>you are going to be able to receive that love

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<v Speaker 1>from someone else exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>And depending on what point we are in our lives,

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<v Speaker 2>we have different ways of being a good friend. Like

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have that much time, yeah for weekends away

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<v Speaker 2>and you know, weekly dinners out and that sort of thing,

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<v Speaker 2>but I know that when I am with someone they

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<v Speaker 2>will get my undivided attention totally. Yeah, And I'm a

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<v Speaker 2>very good listener, which is probably a little bit surprising

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<v Speaker 2>because I talk over people. But you also do get

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<v Speaker 2>this thing when your eyes got glazed, tell me if

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a bit bored, but like I usually wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 2>bored hopefully when talking to someone that happens alone on

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<v Speaker 2>this okaytics, Okay, so those were yours.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that wasn't too bad.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just funny the ones that you deal. It's not

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<v Speaker 2>like you failed your relationship or yourddler. Yeah, in that

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<v Speaker 2>case you would have been welles Now going back, I

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<v Speaker 2>guess no, that was quite nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for kind of presenting it in that way too,

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<v Speaker 1>of relativity, bit of encouragement, enthusiasm and the lulls of course.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, what can we do you now? Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 2>let's start off with the fails. Oh we're going backwards.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, love it.

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<v Speaker 3>How do you think my year of health? Take two went?

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<v Speaker 1>Third times a charm?

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<v Speaker 2>It went terribly.

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<v Speaker 1>Take two was not look at me, to be fair,

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<v Speaker 1>you did have like kind of a misdiagnosis that kind of.

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<v Speaker 2>Listed brain aneurysm that wasn't a brain aneurysm.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I think that fucked you up, like mentally.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that was a lot of stress to be

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<v Speaker 1>carrying around for what was it, six months? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I really feel for you on that.

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<v Speaker 2>And then like a proper diagnosis of pots. But that

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<v Speaker 2>isn't really a real thing at the salt thing, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like, but that actually is because like I still

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<v Speaker 2>do get really giddy and sometimes we almost a giddy

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<v Speaker 2>Oh shit, gotta have some salt, Gotta have some salt.

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<v Speaker 2>It also explains why I've always. I always just thought

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<v Speaker 2>I was lazy. But why I hated being upside down? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>like I hate being doing bear crawls and that.

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<v Speaker 3>Sort of thing at the gym.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I like just avoid it. But it's actually

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<v Speaker 2>because of the pots.

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<v Speaker 3>It makes me so dizzy.

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<v Speaker 1>The pots are so funny. It's funny that it's even

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<v Speaker 1>cooled that.

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<v Speaker 3>I know my sister will be like pots. But anyway, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>so the year of hell far did not go well.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, can I actually flip that?

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<v Speaker 1>And the fact that you don't have a brain aneurysm,

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<v Speaker 1>that's oh.

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<v Speaker 2>My god, Yes, okay, it's great.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it was.

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<v Speaker 2>Pretty scary for a moment. Then remember when you announced

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<v Speaker 2>that you have a brain aneurysm and how upset you were.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, will I die?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, exactly, and then you got the no, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>going to die.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I had a panic attack. I was going

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<v Speaker 3>to get very fit.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, but you haven't going to the gym a little bit?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I have not.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Trying to make you feel better.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not helping. My goal was to start swimming once

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<v Speaker 2>a week. No, I have not swum once. Barley cout

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<v Speaker 2>no like laps It's funny because, like the other day,

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<v Speaker 2>I actually found my spade o's and my goggles and

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<v Speaker 2>my yeah that I purchased yeah last year, well sorry

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<v Speaker 2>two years ago now in an attempt to get my

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<v Speaker 2>swimming back on track. That might have been an easy

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<v Speaker 2>one too. I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we needed to like a quarterly check out

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<v Speaker 1>goals and remind us.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just asked, Okay, how did our eat, sleepshit, repeat,

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<v Speaker 2>launch with like meat and greet go the event that

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<v Speaker 2>we've talked about for years.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's happening this year, so I guess that's pretty good.

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<v Speaker 3>That's our goal for the year.

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<v Speaker 2>Well we just moved it shuffle five. Yeah, well that

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't our fault was a little bit. Did my news

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<v Speaker 2>let her make her comeback? Absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 1>You've got to do that, although I know that it

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<v Speaker 1>is a lot of work. I think you should do

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<v Speaker 1>like a monthly one.

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<v Speaker 3>Did I get my leg veins removed?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>But can we do that together once this baby's out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't like to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>You won't be able to wear your breastfeeding, although I

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<v Speaker 2>think winter is probably a great time to do it. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>my sister in law got it done though, and she

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<v Speaker 2>did have the most amazing things to say.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel like the technology is way different to

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<v Speaker 1>what it used to be, Like when my nana got.

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<v Speaker 2>It done, I didn't even want to think about that. Nailed,

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<v Speaker 2>so nailed, moving onto nailed so as I smugly said,

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<v Speaker 2>I did reach three okay, but like one of them

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<v Speaker 2>is a bit like, oh, okay, cal we went on

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<v Speaker 2>a holiday. That was one of my big goals. I

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<v Speaker 2>love that. Financially, I was like, I think I had

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<v Speaker 2>a goal financially, there you did, and then you made

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<v Speaker 2>me not say what the figure was, So then I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, fox sake, key, what was the bloody figure?

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<v Speaker 3>But I know that, like.

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<v Speaker 2>Our mortgage has been reduced so significantly that we are

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<v Speaker 2>looking at houses.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's exciting.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's very exciting.

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<v Speaker 2>And guess how much this place has increasing value in

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<v Speaker 2>three esma three.

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<v Speaker 1>Hundred thousand dollars one hundred thousand a year filipp An Egg.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, that's really good, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're going to sell this and buy something else potentially.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I did do my four seasons of nipple.

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<v Speaker 2>I missed like two games all year.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you were really consistent with that, and that's fuckingpic.

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<v Speaker 2>I miss so many other things because I'm like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I am committed to.

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<v Speaker 1>My Yeah, you really were committed.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I love it. So I can't wait for it

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<v Speaker 2>to start again this year. That's so exciting. Okay, moving

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<v Speaker 2>on to our twenty twenty five goals. All right, ky Reese,

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<v Speaker 2>kick things off. Did you categorize yours again? I did? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I did. My categories for twenty twenty five goals are

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<v Speaker 1>career as follows, are as, follows, Korea, businesses, relationship, parent, friend,

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<v Speaker 1>and personal. Oh so there's a few there, but I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like it's they're not unreachable goals, which is what

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like. I've become a bit.

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<v Speaker 2>More realistic and my approach to these goals. The feedback

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<v Speaker 2>that I gave you last year that you didn't ask for,

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<v Speaker 2>was it. They need to be somewhat realistic. Yeah, and tangible,

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<v Speaker 2>not just totally. You know, they need to be I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going to get fit. It needs to be like I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going to do pilateis three times a week type thing?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, exactly. Okay, So let's start with Korea, my

0:16:54.320 --> 0:16:56.400
<v Speaker 1>personal career, nothing to do with the podcast. I've kept

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<v Speaker 1>them separate by the end of twenty twenty five, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to have had a gig by myself, not as

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<v Speaker 1>like a duo, even though we're posting.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's a different it's a different thing. I want

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<v Speaker 2>to do a brand shoot, like a proper brand shoot.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to do one panel, and I want to

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<v Speaker 2>try to increase my income by twenty percent.

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<v Speaker 1>That is a big, sloppy goal.

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<v Speaker 2>They are amazing, really excited for them because I think

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<v Speaker 2>that like the year, I think they're very doable. Oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god, I love those I want to steal those ones.

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<v Speaker 2>They're really good. I don't want to be on a panel.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeh do it. Fantastic goals. It look quite good.

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<v Speaker 1>Like three things that I haven't done before.

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<v Speaker 3>We've done a brand show.

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<v Speaker 1>Well when you and oh that's true. Yeah, but more

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<v Speaker 1>so like a brand that I work with, Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>do work.

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<v Speaker 2>You're a sad company every week I do.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really true, but something like me because.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh not with Yeah. We decided that that wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I didn't like a general yeah us.

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<v Speaker 2>Because the money you could probably increase your income by

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<v Speaker 2>two hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 3>If you want to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll link that episode in the show notes. If you

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<v Speaker 1>want to revisit the money, then you can make businesses.

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<v Speaker 2>So my businesses are the two podcasts that I have,

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<v Speaker 2>my One with You my Mom with Lucy, so sponsored

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<v Speaker 2>fifty percent of the time, so two out of four

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<v Speaker 2>weeks a month.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's a healthy goal. I think that's great relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>So are you on the one business goal? Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I just thought i'd start with sponsorship. No meat or great.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, the meet and greets on there, but that's

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<v Speaker 2>a definitely happening thing. Okay, it's not even a goal. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll put.

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<v Speaker 1>It on there. Relationship so scheduled time with Charlie and

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<v Speaker 1>I to connect and hang so, okay, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>hang out with him.

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<v Speaker 2>Scheduled sex huh No, not scheduled sex. But I actually

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<v Speaker 2>got this.

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot claim it. I got this idea off one

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<v Speaker 1>of my girlfriends. Her and her husband told us that

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<v Speaker 1>they were doing it, and I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>this is genius. So three Friday mornings a month, We're

0:19:00.160 --> 0:19:02.920
<v Speaker 1>actually gonna hire a nanny for the morning. So next

0:19:03.040 --> 0:19:06.840
<v Speaker 1>year my work week will be Monday to Thursday working.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll still have the baby for some of it, and

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<v Speaker 1>then on the Friday, I'll have both kids, so we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get a nanny from the morning from like nine

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<v Speaker 1>till twelve that morning. Charlie and I are gonna do

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<v Speaker 1>things that we did before we had kids, that we

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<v Speaker 1>loved and we just can't do now. So go for

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<v Speaker 1>a run together, get brecky. I love that, like really

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<v Speaker 1>simple things that you just don't get to do.

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<v Speaker 2>And it will just become your routine. And it's not

0:19:30.960 --> 0:19:33.760
<v Speaker 2>like it can get interrupted because well, I mean unless

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<v Speaker 2>the nanny sick.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah exactly, which was just fine. She can come the

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<v Speaker 1>week after. Yeah, it'll be quite flexible, but it'll mean

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<v Speaker 1>that like he'll get into work a little bit later

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<v Speaker 1>that day, but I might still have like.

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<v Speaker 2>An hour and a half get a message that plate

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<v Speaker 2>class or something just.

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<v Speaker 1>For exactly, and we don't have to go for a

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<v Speaker 1>run together, like one of us could do a class

0:19:51.600 --> 0:19:53.639
<v Speaker 1>and then we'd come meet up for breakfast. But just

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<v Speaker 1>like having some one on one time that isn't on

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<v Speaker 1>a weekend or in the evening, like in the day time.

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<v Speaker 2>I think we've really been missing.

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<v Speaker 1>Making sure that we do one like Friday Saturday night

0:20:07.119 --> 0:20:09.560
<v Speaker 1>a month, like going out to dinner together.

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<v Speaker 3>A lot of time together.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but we spend so much time together, but Rhu's

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<v Speaker 1>always there.

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<v Speaker 2>Ah, yes, so we're trying to remove her from these

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<v Speaker 2>the equation and then he actually suggested this one. So

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<v Speaker 2>that was like a date. Yeah, but just a day

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<v Speaker 2>something that we're really scheduling. Yeah, that's actually a non

0:20:26.840 --> 0:20:27.919
<v Speaker 2>negotiable once. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that instead of just kind of add hoc

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<v Speaker 1>here and there, like actually having something and alternating who organizes?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I used to do that, So you plan something.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't have to be like, it could just be

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<v Speaker 1>whatever those summer movies are. You know, I've got outdoor

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<v Speaker 1>cinema like something like that, or go bowling, like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it can be a bit knaf, but just something fun

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<v Speaker 1>that we don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Get to do. The outdoor cinema.

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<v Speaker 1>No, the outdoor cinema isn't naf bowling it hate. I

0:20:52.200 --> 0:20:53.159
<v Speaker 1>like bowling, I'm good at it.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you like karaoke? Oh? How many lines are I hat?

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<v Speaker 1>If I've had a whole bottle of shamp Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god, you could give me ten bottles of champagne

0:21:02.800 --> 0:21:04.520
<v Speaker 2>and still find it painful as anything.

0:21:04.600 --> 0:21:06.920
<v Speaker 1>I do think that I should have been discovered as

0:21:06.920 --> 0:21:09.600
<v Speaker 1>a singer and performer. So that's what happens.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that they own alcohol, goes in and comes up. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>there you go.

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<v Speaker 1>He actually suggested this one. He was like, should we

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<v Speaker 1>train for like the NUSA try or like a half

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<v Speaker 1>marathon because we've always wanted to. I've actually done a

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<v Speaker 1>half marathon, but he hasn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, in DC it was a Nike Woman's half marathon.

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<v Speaker 2>It was really cute.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, yeah, babe, that would be so

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<v Speaker 1>much fun.

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<v Speaker 3>How many kilometers is a half twenty.

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<v Speaker 1>One point one kilometers? Yeah, half, that's half. Yeah, A

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<v Speaker 1>four marathon's forty two point two. It would be obviously.

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<v Speaker 2>I just don't I love that, Like, it is just

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<v Speaker 2>such a mid to late thirties thing to do. I know.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like so many of my friends that are

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<v Speaker 2>like former party people. I still like to party, but

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<v Speaker 2>now they're trained for their marathons. Yeah, you know good.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it. I love it too, And look he

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<v Speaker 2>suggested it, so I was like, babe, yeah, I love

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<v Speaker 2>doing something.

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<v Speaker 1>I can do that together, and I think it will

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<v Speaker 1>help us get back into a good rhythm with running.

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<v Speaker 1>So then it becomes like an everyday thing in our

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<v Speaker 1>lives again that we make time for or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>every second day whatever, and then buy a house, which

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<v Speaker 1>we are quite close to doing so I know I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't told you yet because well we're not quite close,

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<v Speaker 1>but like it's going to happen, and I honestly thought

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<v Speaker 1>it would never happen. I just never thought I would

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<v Speaker 1>own a house. And when I say house, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>extremely expensive unit in Sydney. Anyone who doesn't live in Sydney, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>please pity me because it's pretty bleak out there. But

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<v Speaker 1>it'll be ours and I can put a whole week.

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<v Speaker 2>Board house if you wanted to move a little bit further.

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<v Speaker 1>That is true. Yeah, that's what my sister in law says.

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<v Speaker 1>She always sends me links to houses near her.

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<v Speaker 2>Yay, this looks through. It's just like as someone who

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<v Speaker 2>used to be I don't want to live through we

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<v Speaker 2>now I have to join the committee of people that go, well,

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<v Speaker 2>you could, you could, You could if you will willing

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<v Speaker 2>to live a little bit further away from the beach,

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<v Speaker 2>which I also understand though is a non negotiable for

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<v Speaker 2>you guys, I know.

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<v Speaker 3>Non negotiable, but something you really want, so well, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Think living in Sydney. It's just like, if we're not

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<v Speaker 1>going to live at the beach, we would live in Brisbane.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I get it because that's the whole thing,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like having that beach but also major city

0:23:19.800 --> 0:23:21.800
<v Speaker 1>lifestyle that you can have like a good job with

0:23:21.840 --> 0:23:26.919
<v Speaker 1>a good salary, but also Sydney's expensive. Af parent Now,

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<v Speaker 1>I kept this one really short and sweet. I would

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<v Speaker 1>like to just enjoy them. I feel like in twenty

0:23:33.600 --> 0:23:36.679
<v Speaker 1>twenty four, and I don't think it was rude, but

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<v Speaker 1>I think I've really struggled with grief and pregnancy and

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<v Speaker 1>I found it hard to find joy in toddler life.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that's pretty normal. So yeah, I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to enjoy them. I want to be present and

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<v Speaker 1>I want to play more. I feel like life is

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<v Speaker 1>so busy that sometimes I forget to play and more

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<v Speaker 1>tea parties, more, I don't know, mum and baby, more hospital.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, when they're like you're sick, lay here, I'll

0:24:03.000 --> 0:24:05.800
<v Speaker 1>be like, alright, can you bring mummy or drink?

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, I just wanted to keep that really easy

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<v Speaker 2>because parenting enough is by itself is already quite stressful

0:24:13.280 --> 0:24:16.120
<v Speaker 2>and a lot of pressure. So just to enjoy it

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<v Speaker 2>more friends see my friends more.

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<v Speaker 1>So, like in the same way as I'm booking something

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<v Speaker 1>with Charlie once a month, having something once a month

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<v Speaker 1>where I'm seeing a certain group of friends just so

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I am a person away from everything else.

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<v Speaker 1>Have one to two catch ups in the calendar each month,

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<v Speaker 1>and do weekday dinners because.

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<v Speaker 2>They are the day dinners at the best. They're great

0:24:41.240 --> 0:24:43.359
<v Speaker 2>and like I feel like get out of bath in

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<v Speaker 2>bed totally. Charlie's so into that.

0:24:46.440 --> 0:24:49.040
<v Speaker 1>He's like, yeah, I can come home do that and

0:24:49.080 --> 0:24:50.760
<v Speaker 1>then get back online because it means I can work

0:24:50.840 --> 0:24:53.440
<v Speaker 1>until you get home. Like yeah, he loves that. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>once you catch ups in the calendar a month with

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<v Speaker 1>my gfs personal.

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<v Speaker 2>You're gonna kill me.

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<v Speaker 1>Get into exercise now. I don't know what it's going

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<v Speaker 1>to look like after I have this baby, so I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what type of exercise I'm going to be

0:25:07.640 --> 0:25:10.520
<v Speaker 1>motivated to do, but I just want to try and

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<v Speaker 1>do something each day. So I'm going to start like

0:25:13.040 --> 0:25:15.000
<v Speaker 1>with the walk each day, half an hour walk, which

0:25:15.000 --> 0:25:17.359
<v Speaker 1>is how I kind of got back into exercise on

0:25:17.400 --> 0:25:19.600
<v Speaker 1>the tail end of this pregnant see you for this one.

0:25:19.640 --> 0:25:21.800
<v Speaker 1>Because you were like, you've got to be specific about

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<v Speaker 1>your exercise, but.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that you don't know what you're like, Yeah,

0:25:26.520 --> 0:25:29.200
<v Speaker 2>it might be like a walk, though, I think as

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<v Speaker 2>a starting goal every day, yeah is firstly achievable. I

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<v Speaker 2>would recommend a daily walk to absolutely every new mum

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<v Speaker 2>or person with a newborn.

0:25:37.760 --> 0:25:38.280
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a good way to get out of the house,

0:25:39.600 --> 0:25:43.040
<v Speaker 2>get some fresh air the body. Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm going to do that and then read more.

0:25:47.359 --> 0:25:49.080
<v Speaker 1>And I have just said to myself, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>make this really easy for you. Key four books this year.

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<v Speaker 1>That's one a quarter, one every three months. Okay, you

0:25:56.400 --> 0:25:58.280
<v Speaker 1>can do that. You can find the time.

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<v Speaker 2>To do that. I can give you your book and a

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<v Speaker 2>recorder and be like, this is your book to read.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you know what happens with me, right is that

0:26:04.560 --> 0:26:07.200
<v Speaker 1>I hate not finishing a book so often if it's shit,

0:26:07.359 --> 0:26:09.760
<v Speaker 1>I'll just struggle, struggle, struggle, and then it'll just sit

0:26:10.040 --> 0:26:12.040
<v Speaker 1>collecting dust until I go, I'm not going to read

0:26:12.040 --> 0:26:12.880
<v Speaker 1>that book because it's shit.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So what I want you to do. I think

0:26:15.160 --> 0:26:17.760
<v Speaker 2>that a really easy way to combat that. If you

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<v Speaker 2>are one of those painful people that have to finish

0:26:20.040 --> 0:26:23.040
<v Speaker 2>something that you start or I do. Don't see your point.

0:26:23.560 --> 0:26:25.960
<v Speaker 2>Look it up on Spotify and listen to the rest

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<v Speaker 2>of it on one point two speed. Just breathe through it.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you have the same problem that a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of people that want to be readers have.

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<v Speaker 1>What is it the terrible taste in books?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, you try too hide Like that was just.

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<v Speaker 1>At my local books or they have all of the

0:26:42.359 --> 0:26:44.120
<v Speaker 1>reviews from the people that work there.

0:26:44.440 --> 0:26:46.280
<v Speaker 2>They're like, this is hilarious, and I'm like, I don't

0:26:46.280 --> 0:26:48.760
<v Speaker 2>ever trust them. They'll say that they love it even

0:26:48.800 --> 0:26:54.040
<v Speaker 2>if they hated it. You need to read for best sellers, Yeah,

0:26:54.080 --> 0:26:56.840
<v Speaker 2>I just need the basic bluff. You know what you need?

0:26:56.960 --> 0:26:59.919
<v Speaker 2>You need Colleen Hoover. Colleen Hoover, I know I do.

0:27:00.280 --> 0:27:01.200
<v Speaker 3>That's what you need.

0:27:01.400 --> 0:27:06.000
<v Speaker 2>You need Harry Potter, Colleen Hoover like really easy books.

0:27:06.200 --> 0:27:08.720
<v Speaker 1>Actually, Lucy just read one that she's gonna give me

0:27:09.320 --> 0:27:10.040
<v Speaker 1>funny Story.

0:27:10.080 --> 0:27:11.840
<v Speaker 2>Have you read that? She said it was just like

0:27:11.920 --> 0:27:13.719
<v Speaker 2>light and fluffy, because I think it was after that

0:27:13.760 --> 0:27:15.840
<v Speaker 2>Bunny book. Her book club was like, we need something

0:27:16.440 --> 0:27:18.159
<v Speaker 2>to up, like lift our spirits up.

0:27:18.240 --> 0:27:19.200
<v Speaker 3>Bunny Story.

0:27:20.119 --> 0:27:22.280
<v Speaker 1>It's about a husband that cheats on a wife, and

0:27:22.320 --> 0:27:25.120
<v Speaker 1>then a wife moves into a house with the husband

0:27:25.119 --> 0:27:26.840
<v Speaker 1>of the chick that had the affair with her husband.

0:27:26.920 --> 0:27:32.680
<v Speaker 2>That is the perfect like easy, holiday, fun, cute read.

0:27:33.080 --> 0:27:35.879
<v Speaker 2>That's what I want. There's nothing okay, to be fair,

0:27:36.000 --> 0:27:38.679
<v Speaker 2>I am not a big Colleen Hoofer fan, but I

0:27:38.720 --> 0:27:40.840
<v Speaker 2>do think there's a place for her. And I also

0:27:40.920 --> 0:27:44.200
<v Speaker 2>think people are just so wanky these days with book time.

0:27:44.840 --> 0:27:48.560
<v Speaker 1>I know, I want, no I know, And that's the thing.

0:27:48.600 --> 0:27:48.880
<v Speaker 2>I do.

0:27:48.960 --> 0:27:52.199
<v Speaker 1>Really try to choose books that I think I'm gonna like.

0:27:52.400 --> 0:27:55.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't have any like qualms around like what I read.

0:27:55.600 --> 0:27:58.800
<v Speaker 2>I honestly listen to your friends though that read a lot,

0:27:59.160 --> 0:28:01.840
<v Speaker 2>not your friends that read a couple of times a year,

0:28:01.840 --> 0:28:04.640
<v Speaker 2>because they probably don't have good, good recommendations because they're

0:28:04.640 --> 0:28:07.080
<v Speaker 2>not reading enough to give you the good stuff. Like

0:28:07.160 --> 0:28:09.840
<v Speaker 2>if you think every book that I would post on

0:28:09.880 --> 0:28:13.320
<v Speaker 2>Instagram and say this was great, loved it, easy read, whatnot,

0:28:13.920 --> 0:28:17.320
<v Speaker 2>there's a couple of books that are absolute duds that

0:28:17.520 --> 0:28:20.960
<v Speaker 2>haven't been like I finished them because they were fine. Yeah,

0:28:21.359 --> 0:28:24.000
<v Speaker 2>but do you know what I mean? Like, you've got

0:28:24.040 --> 0:28:28.080
<v Speaker 2>to trust people that read a lot, except people that

0:28:28.119 --> 0:28:31.160
<v Speaker 2>work at bookstores. Because it's like people that work at

0:28:31.200 --> 0:28:34.080
<v Speaker 2>like an indie cinema or something.

0:28:34.480 --> 0:28:37.160
<v Speaker 1>Buster back in the day.

0:28:37.359 --> 0:28:39.960
<v Speaker 2>Like they'll be like, oh, human Centipede is a great

0:28:39.960 --> 0:28:46.200
<v Speaker 2>horror movie because of the you know, it's about gluttony

0:28:46.280 --> 0:28:49.440
<v Speaker 2>and society, and they'll start talking about and it's like, know.

0:28:49.720 --> 0:28:51.760
<v Speaker 1>Just like seigny.

0:28:52.000 --> 0:28:56.320
<v Speaker 2>Teachers assholes are quite funny, but gross. Gross. Yeah.

0:28:56.400 --> 0:29:00.000
<v Speaker 1>So I've tried to keep it, you know, manageable, achievable.

0:29:00.760 --> 0:29:03.040
<v Speaker 2>I love those. Yeah, I'm pretty proud of them, to

0:29:03.080 --> 0:29:12.600
<v Speaker 2>be honest. So under the category of health, you might think,

0:29:12.840 --> 0:29:17.560
<v Speaker 2>are you going for three's the charm of health? No? Oh,

0:29:18.000 --> 0:29:21.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm not even putting it on my list. Okay, but

0:29:22.760 --> 0:29:26.640
<v Speaker 2>it is just No, I'm clearly not a healthy person

0:29:27.280 --> 0:29:29.400
<v Speaker 2>and I'm just going to be setting myself up for

0:29:29.400 --> 0:29:31.800
<v Speaker 2>foil put that on the list again. What I do

0:29:31.920 --> 0:29:34.840
<v Speaker 2>have on my list is to reduce my sugar addiction

0:29:34.960 --> 0:29:35.840
<v Speaker 2>and sugar intake.

0:29:36.120 --> 0:29:38.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean you do eat a lot of lollies,

0:29:38.240 --> 0:29:39.000
<v Speaker 1>you say, so.

0:29:39.160 --> 0:29:41.760
<v Speaker 2>We witnessed it when we used to have that lowly

0:29:41.840 --> 0:29:43.960
<v Speaker 2>jar And you'd be like, is that from the last

0:29:44.000 --> 0:29:46.480
<v Speaker 2>week or did Luke and Lenny also, I'm like, no,

0:29:46.480 --> 0:29:48.760
<v Speaker 2>they're not allowed. It's just like which and then we

0:29:48.800 --> 0:29:51.120
<v Speaker 2>realized that equated to one packet per day.

0:29:52.160 --> 0:29:55.120
<v Speaker 1>That's a good healthy health goal.

0:29:56.480 --> 0:30:00.000
<v Speaker 2>But it's like, let's reduce it a little bit. Yeah,

0:30:00.040 --> 0:30:04.120
<v Speaker 2>And I think in that regard. Also, I was listening

0:30:04.200 --> 0:30:07.760
<v Speaker 2>to this really interesting podcast at the end of last

0:30:07.840 --> 0:30:10.240
<v Speaker 2>year when I was sort of thinking about all of this,

0:30:10.560 --> 0:30:14.120
<v Speaker 2>and it's just about the obesity epidemic. Yeah, he was

0:30:14.120 --> 0:30:17.760
<v Speaker 2>talking about the long term health implications, and they were

0:30:17.760 --> 0:30:21.280
<v Speaker 2>talking about statistics that come out of Japan in terms

0:30:21.320 --> 0:30:22.840
<v Speaker 2>of their lifespan and the.

0:30:22.840 --> 0:30:23.720
<v Speaker 3>Lack of disease.

0:30:24.000 --> 0:30:27.000
<v Speaker 2>And it's because they just eat so well.

0:30:27.200 --> 0:30:32.720
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, eat fresh like non processed, non pesticide foods.

0:30:32.600 --> 0:30:35.360
<v Speaker 3>And I'm so unhealthy in every way.

0:30:35.640 --> 0:30:40.160
<v Speaker 1>It's also quite a luxury to be healthy bioorganic, and

0:30:40.520 --> 0:30:41.840
<v Speaker 1>it's too far.

0:30:41.760 --> 0:30:44.880
<v Speaker 2>Too far. I'm talking about like just like less packaged

0:30:44.960 --> 0:30:48.040
<v Speaker 2>processed foods. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get that, less salt,

0:30:48.120 --> 0:30:51.479
<v Speaker 2>less sugar. Not for me, sorry, sorry, sorry, not for me,

0:30:51.600 --> 0:30:54.960
<v Speaker 2>for Len he has so much salt because I need it, Yeah,

0:30:55.000 --> 0:30:58.440
<v Speaker 2>and then he just ends up having a lot too. Yeah.

0:30:58.480 --> 0:31:01.720
<v Speaker 1>So I think like whenever I don't put salt on

0:31:01.760 --> 0:31:03.520
<v Speaker 1>something and give it to Roote, she doesn't want to

0:31:03.800 --> 0:31:06.360
<v Speaker 1>eat it like she likes things that tastes good too.

0:31:06.400 --> 0:31:08.800
<v Speaker 2>I don't put a lot on hers, but like, yeah,

0:31:08.800 --> 0:31:10.520
<v Speaker 2>I think it's more the hidden salts. I don't have

0:31:10.520 --> 0:31:12.680
<v Speaker 2>a problem with actually putting a little bit of salt.

0:31:12.440 --> 0:31:14.000
<v Speaker 1>On it controlling it as well.

0:31:14.240 --> 0:31:17.640
<v Speaker 2>When you look at the label and it's like sodium

0:31:17.840 --> 0:31:20.840
<v Speaker 2>sodium crazy and you just think, oh, my very.

0:31:20.640 --> 0:31:23.680
<v Speaker 3>Word, like that is just not good.

0:31:23.960 --> 0:31:26.959
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, of course, like not all the time, but yeah, yeah,

0:31:27.000 --> 0:31:29.560
<v Speaker 2>not a health goal, but just like a better eating

0:31:29.720 --> 0:31:31.000
<v Speaker 2>sort of goal.

0:31:31.320 --> 0:31:32.480
<v Speaker 3>I used to be so good.

0:31:32.520 --> 0:31:34.560
<v Speaker 2>Do you remember when we worked at shopo together and

0:31:34.560 --> 0:31:36.280
<v Speaker 2>I had a green smoothie every single day.

0:31:36.440 --> 0:31:38.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that was very off brand for you, but it

0:31:38.600 --> 0:31:39.320
<v Speaker 1>was a great time.

0:31:39.480 --> 0:31:42.600
<v Speaker 2>It was a great time to be my insides. It's

0:31:42.640 --> 0:31:44.280
<v Speaker 2>not like I was overly healthy though, Like I used

0:31:44.280 --> 0:31:46.320
<v Speaker 2>to still get sick all the time. I think it

0:31:46.400 --> 0:31:48.800
<v Speaker 2>was just probably because I was drunk half the time

0:31:48.880 --> 0:31:50.120
<v Speaker 2>the other half of the time.

0:31:50.120 --> 0:31:52.959
<v Speaker 1>Well, also going out more. And yeah, like now if

0:31:53.000 --> 0:31:54.960
<v Speaker 1>you're sick, you kind of stay away from people, but

0:31:55.000 --> 0:31:58.920
<v Speaker 1>back then you'd be like taking like pseudo and stuff to.

0:31:59.000 --> 0:32:03.840
<v Speaker 2>At your desktop. Coming through it exactly under like Finance

0:32:03.960 --> 0:32:04.880
<v Speaker 2>Buy House.

0:32:05.520 --> 0:32:07.640
<v Speaker 1>We're both are the same, Well, you already own a house,

0:32:07.680 --> 0:32:09.480
<v Speaker 1>but to buy a new house.

0:32:09.280 --> 0:32:12.440
<v Speaker 2>To buy a big, big, big house, so we've I

0:32:12.440 --> 0:32:16.200
<v Speaker 2>don't know. It's very bittersweet though, because I don't want

0:32:16.200 --> 0:32:16.760
<v Speaker 2>to sell this.

0:32:17.400 --> 0:32:19.560
<v Speaker 1>I was going to ask you before when you said, yeah,

0:32:19.880 --> 0:32:22.680
<v Speaker 1>you were going to sell because obviously it was your nanny.

0:32:23.080 --> 0:32:26.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Well it's still in my mind like the Rose Garden, Yeah,

0:32:26.560 --> 0:32:27.680
<v Speaker 2>all of those parts.

0:32:27.760 --> 0:32:31.000
<v Speaker 3>But it's just too small.

0:32:31.280 --> 0:32:33.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if I want to work at home and also

0:32:33.920 --> 0:32:36.680
<v Speaker 2>have a crazy toddler running around like he's just got

0:32:37.560 --> 0:32:43.040
<v Speaker 2>no space to run, and I'm constantly overwhelmed because there's

0:32:43.120 --> 0:32:45.080
<v Speaker 2>nowhere for me to escape in my own home.

0:32:45.480 --> 0:32:48.600
<v Speaker 3>I just have a breathing in an apartment. Totally get it, Like.

0:32:49.520 --> 0:32:52.200
<v Speaker 1>You have to really have not a lot of stuff

0:32:52.280 --> 0:32:55.240
<v Speaker 1>to feel sane in a small space, and it simply

0:32:55.400 --> 0:32:58.480
<v Speaker 1>isn't actually possible when you have a kid and work

0:32:58.520 --> 0:32:59.440
<v Speaker 1>from home, and.

0:32:59.320 --> 0:33:02.560
<v Speaker 2>With my job, wellah, like an influx of stuff coming

0:33:02.600 --> 0:33:05.080
<v Speaker 2>into the South even just see everything.

0:33:05.200 --> 0:33:06.520
<v Speaker 1>It's too much.

0:33:06.560 --> 0:33:07.360
<v Speaker 3>It's impossible.

0:33:07.440 --> 0:33:10.480
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, so I don't even want to really think

0:33:10.480 --> 0:33:14.080
<v Speaker 2>about the actual act of selling it, but we have

0:33:14.200 --> 0:33:19.160
<v Speaker 2>to because we need to sell this for a deposit

0:33:19.240 --> 0:33:22.000
<v Speaker 2>for the next house so that it wouldn't be too stressful.

0:33:22.040 --> 0:33:23.600
<v Speaker 1>I think it's a smart thing to do. You don't

0:33:23.600 --> 0:33:25.760
<v Speaker 1>want to like go into so much debt.

0:33:25.600 --> 0:33:30.120
<v Speaker 2>Anyway, exactly, And like, honestly, these houses that we're looking.

0:33:29.880 --> 0:33:31.240
<v Speaker 1>At, I did see.

0:33:31.280 --> 0:33:31.440
<v Speaker 2>You know.

0:33:31.480 --> 0:33:33.520
<v Speaker 1>What's so funny is like when I did a arrive,

0:33:33.640 --> 0:33:35.800
<v Speaker 1>I saw like a real estate pamphlet on the thing,

0:33:35.840 --> 0:33:38.120
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, huh, because there was a time

0:33:38.160 --> 0:33:39.480
<v Speaker 1>when we were talking about.

0:33:39.240 --> 0:33:41.560
<v Speaker 2>You potentially yeah, yeah, and you were like, no, we're

0:33:41.600 --> 0:33:44.040
<v Speaker 2>not doing that anymore, like because you wanted to, but

0:33:44.120 --> 0:33:46.560
<v Speaker 2>Luke didn't, but it sounds like you want to, yeah,

0:33:46.600 --> 0:33:47.760
<v Speaker 2>And then I saw it on the thing and I

0:33:47.760 --> 0:33:49.920
<v Speaker 2>was like, oh, yes. And we've had two different estate

0:33:49.960 --> 0:33:53.760
<v Speaker 2>agents come over to like value the house. Yeah, talk

0:33:53.800 --> 0:33:57.000
<v Speaker 2>to us about everything, and that is really exciting, Cairl.

0:33:57.240 --> 0:33:58.760
<v Speaker 1>And also just the new things that you've done to

0:33:58.800 --> 0:34:00.640
<v Speaker 1>the house and how much that would add the value too,

0:34:00.800 --> 0:34:04.080
<v Speaker 1>Like great, So I mean it's adding value to my

0:34:04.120 --> 0:34:05.520
<v Speaker 1>life every Wednesday. That's duck to there.

0:34:06.240 --> 0:34:08.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm giving so much shit to Luke for everything that

0:34:08.680 --> 0:34:12.279
<v Speaker 2>he's done. They're actually like, oh, wow, this is so

0:34:12.440 --> 0:34:17.160
<v Speaker 2>good blah blah blah. The laundry Wow, and I'm like, oh, look,

0:34:17.160 --> 0:34:20.520
<v Speaker 2>it's just sitting there like sound a little louder to her.

0:34:21.719 --> 0:34:23.560
<v Speaker 2>He was never around when he was a new book

0:34:23.560 --> 0:34:26.960
<v Speaker 2>because he was doing renews. It's like, yeah, now we're

0:34:27.000 --> 0:34:30.560
<v Speaker 2>in a pretty good financial spot thanks to relationships. This

0:34:30.640 --> 0:34:33.319
<v Speaker 2>is just all my relationships. I want to be more

0:34:33.440 --> 0:34:35.880
<v Speaker 2>organized and better with birthdays. I suck.

0:34:36.640 --> 0:34:40.400
<v Speaker 1>I've got a tip for you. Yeah, my godmother, Sue.

0:34:40.640 --> 0:34:43.680
<v Speaker 1>That's actually a very Dutch thing to do. Is that

0:34:43.719 --> 0:34:45.640
<v Speaker 1>you have a birthday calendar on the back door of

0:34:45.640 --> 0:34:48.680
<v Speaker 1>your toilet, and it only has birthdays in it, so

0:34:48.760 --> 0:34:51.200
<v Speaker 1>that you know you're frequently using the toilet, so you're

0:34:51.239 --> 0:34:54.320
<v Speaker 1>constantly reminded this person's birthday's coming, this person's birthday is coming,

0:34:54.680 --> 0:34:56.120
<v Speaker 1>so you actually act on it.

0:34:56.239 --> 0:34:57.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to have a calendar in the toilet

0:34:57.840 --> 0:34:59.680
<v Speaker 2>though it's just on the back door. No one sees it.

0:34:59.680 --> 0:35:02.040
<v Speaker 1>It's just like a little flip one. It's totally fine.

0:35:02.160 --> 0:35:05.040
<v Speaker 2>Okay, that is a great idea. It's a great idea

0:35:05.080 --> 0:35:06.520
<v Speaker 2>because because it's still well and good for me to

0:35:06.520 --> 0:35:08.440
<v Speaker 2>have it written down somewhere or in a calendar. But

0:35:08.440 --> 0:35:10.600
<v Speaker 2>if I don't check it that day, I don't.

0:35:10.400 --> 0:35:14.920
<v Speaker 1>Know exactly, So I think it's actually really good that idea.

0:35:15.040 --> 0:35:17.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like I messaged a really close friend a couple

0:35:17.640 --> 0:35:20.440
<v Speaker 2>of weeks ago and said, hey, is your birthday on

0:35:20.560 --> 0:35:21.600
<v Speaker 2>Monday or Tuesday?

0:35:22.200 --> 0:35:23.600
<v Speaker 3>She goes, it was yesterday.

0:35:24.280 --> 0:35:27.160
<v Speaker 2>Fuck, I'm really shit with my friend's kids as well.

0:35:27.239 --> 0:35:28.880
<v Speaker 2>I just have no idea. I know.

0:35:29.320 --> 0:35:32.279
<v Speaker 1>Actually one of my girlfriends did us spreadsheet with all of.

0:35:32.239 --> 0:35:34.120
<v Speaker 2>The kids' birthday, isn't it. The thing is is that

0:35:34.160 --> 0:35:36.279
<v Speaker 2>I've always been like, oh, I can't keep it until

0:35:36.440 --> 0:35:39.520
<v Speaker 2>the moon can't bite on Lenny's birthday.

0:35:39.560 --> 0:35:42.080
<v Speaker 3>If people forgot, I'd be so annoyed.

0:35:42.640 --> 0:35:44.040
<v Speaker 2>And also, can I do a tip for you for

0:35:44.080 --> 0:35:47.839
<v Speaker 2>the kid's presence? Not necessarily a present. I'm not saying

0:35:47.840 --> 0:35:50.960
<v Speaker 2>a present is necessary, oh but just remembering, just remembering

0:35:51.000 --> 0:35:53.600
<v Speaker 2>to say, hey, give someone to a cuddle for me.

0:35:54.160 --> 0:35:55.920
<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, Well if you do want to send a present,

0:35:55.920 --> 0:35:56.839
<v Speaker 1>I've got a tip for that.

0:35:57.239 --> 0:35:57.680
<v Speaker 3>Amazon.

0:35:57.880 --> 0:36:00.440
<v Speaker 1>Amazon sending a gift like because you can say is

0:36:00.440 --> 0:36:01.759
<v Speaker 1>this a gift and you can send it to them.

0:36:01.760 --> 0:36:04.040
<v Speaker 1>It comes in a gift box and with a little card.

0:36:04.480 --> 0:36:06.399
<v Speaker 1>I mean, they're not expensive gifts. I think I got

0:36:06.440 --> 0:36:09.080
<v Speaker 1>my godson like a lego Matt and a duke plo

0:36:09.200 --> 0:36:12.280
<v Speaker 1>set like I don't know, twenty five thirty bucks or whatever.

0:36:12.560 --> 0:36:13.800
<v Speaker 2>It's a gift wrapping free.

0:36:14.239 --> 0:36:14.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:36:14.800 --> 0:36:17.400
<v Speaker 2>Oh, it's like a little Amazon gift like it's a

0:36:17.440 --> 0:36:19.920
<v Speaker 2>stair box, but it's got like balloons or like confetti

0:36:20.000 --> 0:36:20.839
<v Speaker 2>or something on it. You know.

0:36:21.200 --> 0:36:22.680
<v Speaker 1>But it makes it a lot easier and then you

0:36:22.719 --> 0:36:24.239
<v Speaker 1>can just have it sent to their house and you

0:36:24.280 --> 0:36:25.600
<v Speaker 1>don't have to worry about anything else.

0:36:26.440 --> 0:36:27.560
<v Speaker 2>That is such a good tip.

0:36:27.600 --> 0:36:31.040
<v Speaker 1>It's a really good tip, really really good tip.

0:36:31.040 --> 0:36:32.520
<v Speaker 2>For like, so you did all out what you want

0:36:32.560 --> 0:36:33.960
<v Speaker 2>it to say on the card as well, Yeah.

0:36:33.800 --> 0:36:35.840
<v Speaker 1>Exactly, and it comes into the little thing like that.

0:36:35.880 --> 0:36:38.960
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, it's so good, bloody bezos. He's a clever man. Yeah,

0:36:39.000 --> 0:36:42.680
<v Speaker 2>I mean, make Fridays more fun for Lynn and stop

0:36:42.719 --> 0:36:44.520
<v Speaker 2>being so anxious about his nap.

0:36:45.360 --> 0:36:47.960
<v Speaker 3>Oh, his nap still controls my life.

0:36:48.080 --> 0:36:48.920
<v Speaker 1>I've just dropped.

0:36:49.480 --> 0:36:52.719
<v Speaker 2>I'm so annoying further my friends because I'll be like, oh, no,

0:36:53.000 --> 0:36:56.000
<v Speaker 2>you'll have to leave by lunchtime, or we have to

0:36:56.000 --> 0:36:58.200
<v Speaker 2>do this time or that time, or you can come over,

0:36:58.239 --> 0:37:01.600
<v Speaker 2>but don't come to laughter three like so irritating, and

0:37:01.600 --> 0:37:04.160
<v Speaker 2>it just controls so much of our Friday. Fine, what

0:37:04.200 --> 0:37:05.680
<v Speaker 2>time is he going to bed at night? Though?

0:37:05.840 --> 0:37:07.799
<v Speaker 3>Like eight thirty two nine, way too late.

0:37:08.160 --> 0:37:09.839
<v Speaker 2>She drop his nap. I think you need to drop

0:37:09.880 --> 0:37:12.160
<v Speaker 2>the nap because I think you'd have an earlier He

0:37:12.280 --> 0:37:15.960
<v Speaker 2>needs that day nap still, But the thing is he doesn't.

0:37:16.080 --> 0:37:17.840
<v Speaker 1>He just needs to be trained to stay up a

0:37:17.880 --> 0:37:18.680
<v Speaker 1>little bit later and then he.

0:37:18.680 --> 0:37:22.719
<v Speaker 2>Can go to bed earlier. I'm like seven seven, I know,

0:37:22.840 --> 0:37:26.440
<v Speaker 2>I just don't seven poll.

0:37:26.960 --> 0:37:29.560
<v Speaker 1>Because he's fucking tired, and he's like literally he'll be

0:37:29.600 --> 0:37:31.479
<v Speaker 1>like bed, mummy, bed, and You're like bed.

0:37:31.719 --> 0:37:32.920
<v Speaker 3>Do you keep them up?

0:37:33.360 --> 0:37:35.680
<v Speaker 2>You have to do activities with them, right, You have

0:37:35.719 --> 0:37:36.920
<v Speaker 2>to do stuff that you have to get out of

0:37:36.920 --> 0:37:37.160
<v Speaker 2>the house.

0:37:37.160 --> 0:37:39.280
<v Speaker 1>That's why you always like you're so good with Rue

0:37:39.320 --> 0:37:42.080
<v Speaker 1>doing stuff. And I'm like, yeah, the walls are fucking

0:37:42.080 --> 0:37:43.520
<v Speaker 1>going to crolose in on me if we sit at

0:37:43.520 --> 0:37:45.239
<v Speaker 1>home all day, Like I'm getting her out, I'm getting

0:37:45.280 --> 0:37:46.000
<v Speaker 1>her tired.

0:37:46.239 --> 0:37:48.520
<v Speaker 2>We do stuff. But in the morning and then in

0:37:48.520 --> 0:37:50.200
<v Speaker 2>the afternoon, Oh.

0:37:50.600 --> 0:37:51.720
<v Speaker 1>Go out for the whole day.

0:37:51.960 --> 0:37:53.000
<v Speaker 2>But he'll just fall asleep.

0:37:53.120 --> 0:37:56.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, wake him up, but then he'll yell at me.

0:37:57.280 --> 0:37:59.120
<v Speaker 1>If it is in the car, I'll be like, well

0:37:59.280 --> 0:38:01.840
<v Speaker 1>do you fall into sleep? And She'll be like no,

0:38:02.640 --> 0:38:03.160
<v Speaker 1>and I'm.

0:38:03.000 --> 0:38:05.120
<v Speaker 2>Like, don't you do it. We're really close to home,

0:38:05.239 --> 0:38:08.120
<v Speaker 2>you stay away. Oh yeah, sometimes I do that to Lem,

0:38:08.200 --> 0:38:10.640
<v Speaker 2>but then he ends up just passing out and I'll

0:38:10.680 --> 0:38:13.640
<v Speaker 2>be shaking seat and screaming and up but the music blasting,

0:38:13.640 --> 0:38:17.560
<v Speaker 2>the windows down, and he's just like, well, yeah, my

0:38:17.760 --> 0:38:19.800
<v Speaker 2>kid got his father's sleep habits.

0:38:19.800 --> 0:38:20.760
<v Speaker 3>He can sleep.

0:38:20.880 --> 0:38:24.000
<v Speaker 1>Rue will occasionally still have a day app or whatever, and.

0:38:24.080 --> 0:38:25.239
<v Speaker 3>She's never not had one.

0:38:25.560 --> 0:38:27.279
<v Speaker 2>Well, I think just keep trying.

0:38:28.040 --> 0:38:31.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because like it took three weeks of nine pm

0:38:31.080 --> 0:38:33.480
<v Speaker 1>bedtimes with Rue and we were like, we're cutting the

0:38:33.520 --> 0:38:33.920
<v Speaker 1>daye oup.

0:38:34.560 --> 0:38:36.359
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, kind of works for us.

0:38:36.400 --> 0:38:39.600
<v Speaker 2>Though to be fair, no way would he be ready

0:38:39.600 --> 0:38:41.440
<v Speaker 2>to go to bed at seven like he would. Though

0:38:41.840 --> 0:38:44.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm saying, we don't like even have dinner till seven

0:38:44.200 --> 0:38:44.720
<v Speaker 2>a lot.

0:38:44.760 --> 0:38:48.120
<v Speaker 1>The whole the whole time needs. So now I wash

0:38:48.200 --> 0:38:50.319
<v Speaker 1>Rou as soon as we get home. So it's like

0:38:50.480 --> 0:38:53.439
<v Speaker 1>she comes to the door, I'm like toilet, hands hop

0:38:53.440 --> 0:38:56.480
<v Speaker 1>in the shower, and she's washed, and then I feed

0:38:56.520 --> 0:38:58.640
<v Speaker 1>her and then because I just think that order for

0:38:58.640 --> 0:39:02.200
<v Speaker 1>some reason helps speed up everything, because dinner can drag out.

0:39:02.080 --> 0:39:04.080
<v Speaker 2>Dinner can really drag and then my child likes to

0:39:04.120 --> 0:39:06.440
<v Speaker 2>really drag out the bath time as well, exactly. But

0:39:06.440 --> 0:39:09.880
<v Speaker 2>if you get the bath time straight from school, I

0:39:09.880 --> 0:39:11.680
<v Speaker 2>don't know, there's something a bit quicker about it, because

0:39:11.680 --> 0:39:13.239
<v Speaker 2>then that are like I don't want to be in here.

0:39:13.360 --> 0:39:15.560
<v Speaker 2>I wanted to end with they're hungry as well. Yeah,

0:39:15.760 --> 0:39:18.440
<v Speaker 2>and then quiet time, okay, eat, they're full.

0:39:18.960 --> 0:39:20.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, let's read books, go to sleep.

0:39:21.200 --> 0:39:23.279
<v Speaker 2>I was even thinking more so along the lines of

0:39:23.400 --> 0:39:26.759
<v Speaker 2>just not worrying, so trying to just be like, hey,

0:39:26.760 --> 0:39:28.680
<v Speaker 2>we're going out for the date. If you fall asleep

0:39:29.000 --> 0:39:31.240
<v Speaker 2>in the car, that's fine.

0:39:31.480 --> 0:39:33.120
<v Speaker 1>Car sleeps are great at this age.

0:39:34.000 --> 0:39:35.480
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's more so.

0:39:37.280 --> 0:39:40.479
<v Speaker 1>I need to like, yeah, but just go park someone

0:39:40.520 --> 0:39:41.360
<v Speaker 1>with the air cone on.

0:39:41.640 --> 0:39:43.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, just not worry.

0:39:43.680 --> 0:39:45.799
<v Speaker 2>Oh we have to be home at this time, so no,

0:39:46.200 --> 0:39:48.080
<v Speaker 2>it stuff's up the whole day, and then we can't

0:39:48.160 --> 0:39:51.160
<v Speaker 2>really do like super fun stuff. And then I need

0:39:51.200 --> 0:39:53.160
<v Speaker 2>to make more of an effort to have date nights

0:39:53.160 --> 0:39:57.560
<v Speaker 2>with Luke. Yes, and like to actually work them in.

0:39:57.920 --> 0:40:02.200
<v Speaker 2>And we've connect We've got one coming up. Who organized

0:40:02.239 --> 0:40:07.200
<v Speaker 2>it me? We're going to Disolay. Oh that's fun. I

0:40:07.239 --> 0:40:09.560
<v Speaker 2>got us really good seats for his birthday. Oh that's

0:40:09.600 --> 0:40:10.600
<v Speaker 2>cute Onenes's birthday.

0:40:10.760 --> 0:40:11.560
<v Speaker 3>It was in December.

0:40:11.680 --> 0:40:14.200
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yeah yeah, just doing a little belated. December's

0:40:14.239 --> 0:40:15.480
<v Speaker 1>very busy, yeah yeah.

0:40:15.320 --> 0:40:17.560
<v Speaker 2>I didn't want to book something for December. Yeah, so

0:40:17.600 --> 0:40:19.320
<v Speaker 2>it's like at the afternoon one and then we'll go

0:40:19.360 --> 0:40:23.040
<v Speaker 2>out for dinner afterwards. So that'll be nice. I know,

0:40:23.960 --> 0:40:30.080
<v Speaker 2>personal love it, reduce screen time, curb addiction to games.

0:40:33.560 --> 0:40:35.080
<v Speaker 1>It's just so funny how you're a gamer.

0:40:36.120 --> 0:40:38.560
<v Speaker 2>I think just like reducing it a little bit.

0:40:38.840 --> 0:40:40.719
<v Speaker 1>You know, what you should do is combine the two,

0:40:40.760 --> 0:40:43.600
<v Speaker 1>So start making content about gaming like you shit games,

0:40:44.080 --> 0:40:46.480
<v Speaker 1>because honestly, that is game is money too.

0:40:46.760 --> 0:40:47.479
<v Speaker 2>They make money.

0:40:47.480 --> 0:40:49.840
<v Speaker 1>But it's just like another facet of your personality that

0:40:49.920 --> 0:40:52.520
<v Speaker 1>actually is aligned and people will follow.

0:40:52.719 --> 0:40:54.839
<v Speaker 2>It's not like I'm playing Minecraft or one of those

0:40:54.840 --> 0:40:56.280
<v Speaker 2>games that people like to watch.

0:40:56.360 --> 0:40:58.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but if you think about the niche things that

0:40:58.560 --> 0:41:01.560
<v Speaker 1>some people get really excited, like, there are more of

0:41:01.600 --> 0:41:02.360
<v Speaker 1>you out there.

0:41:04.200 --> 0:41:05.880
<v Speaker 2>There are more losers out there like you.

0:41:07.280 --> 0:41:09.239
<v Speaker 1>But seriously, I think you should combine the two because

0:41:09.239 --> 0:41:11.640
<v Speaker 1>it would maybe reduce the screen time if you're I

0:41:11.640 --> 0:41:12.360
<v Speaker 1>don't know, or.

0:41:12.400 --> 0:41:14.680
<v Speaker 2>Make me feel less bad about wasting so much time

0:41:14.719 --> 0:41:15.719
<v Speaker 2>per day exactly.

0:41:15.840 --> 0:41:18.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, turning it into like a content massive form of income,

0:41:19.080 --> 0:41:19.520
<v Speaker 1>if you will.

0:41:19.600 --> 0:41:21.919
<v Speaker 2>If I get paid to play games, now, that would

0:41:22.000 --> 0:41:25.120
<v Speaker 2>be great. This is sort of like to do with

0:41:25.200 --> 0:41:27.440
<v Speaker 2>health and finance, I guess as well. But it's personal.

0:41:27.640 --> 0:41:30.160
<v Speaker 2>I want to a couple of days per week make

0:41:30.239 --> 0:41:33.200
<v Speaker 2>my own coffee. So I just need to figure out

0:41:33.920 --> 0:41:36.680
<v Speaker 2>a really good recipe. So if anyone has an easy,

0:41:37.480 --> 0:41:40.880
<v Speaker 2>delicious iced coffee recipe, I need it to be strong.

0:41:41.520 --> 0:41:44.920
<v Speaker 2>I need it to be yummy, So something to give

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<v Speaker 2>it yummy sugary flavor, some sort of yummy syrup. If

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<v Speaker 2>it had something additional that was good for me in it,

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<v Speaker 2>that would be ding ding ding, like a collagen or

0:41:54.080 --> 0:41:57.040
<v Speaker 2>protein or one of those things. Yeah, but that you

0:41:57.120 --> 0:42:01.840
<v Speaker 2>can't then taste on key residence. Oh my god. People

0:42:01.880 --> 0:42:04.239
<v Speaker 2>that go, oh, this is the best protein. You can't

0:42:04.239 --> 0:42:07.120
<v Speaker 2>tell that it's protein, Yes you can, Yeah, I protoul

0:42:07.280 --> 0:42:10.040
<v Speaker 2>I hate it and I've got no protein my diet,

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<v Speaker 2>So that would be great to increase it. So just

0:42:12.320 --> 0:42:14.640
<v Speaker 2>like a few still get it for myself a bit.

0:42:14.880 --> 0:42:16.640
<v Speaker 2>That's a treat, but it's just it's a lot of

0:42:16.640 --> 0:42:19.799
<v Speaker 2>money per day it is, and it's not good.

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<v Speaker 3>For my own Well, let's have a look up.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's have a look at it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, superficial.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh my gosh, I wish I had this. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a category.

0:42:29.239 --> 0:42:31.720
<v Speaker 2>I want to deal with the sun damage on my chest.

0:42:31.880 --> 0:42:33.800
<v Speaker 1>Okay, laser, it's like laser.

0:42:34.200 --> 0:42:36.120
<v Speaker 2>I don't even know, Like I probably need to try

0:42:36.160 --> 0:42:40.240
<v Speaker 2>harder at home with it, like a pill. Yeah, stuff

0:42:40.280 --> 0:42:41.959
<v Speaker 2>like that. I need to use my LED a little

0:42:41.960 --> 0:42:43.759
<v Speaker 2>bit more on the area. You know, it's really not

0:42:43.840 --> 0:42:45.000
<v Speaker 2>a big deal, but I don't.

0:42:45.160 --> 0:42:47.400
<v Speaker 3>I don't never notice that, no one would.

0:42:47.760 --> 0:42:51.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I put veins back on my list because I

0:42:51.200 --> 0:42:53.120
<v Speaker 2>need to do it. Yeah, I want to do it too.

0:42:53.280 --> 0:42:55.359
<v Speaker 1>Mine is so bad after this pregnancy.

0:42:55.719 --> 0:42:57.680
<v Speaker 2>And also I want to go to a doctor and

0:42:57.719 --> 0:43:00.239
<v Speaker 2>get my hump looked at, because it's like, do I

0:43:00.320 --> 0:43:02.520
<v Speaker 2>keep winging about it and like laughing about it?

0:43:02.560 --> 0:43:04.239
<v Speaker 3>Why don't I just go see if there's anything that

0:43:04.280 --> 0:43:04.960
<v Speaker 3>can be done.

0:43:04.920 --> 0:43:09.080
<v Speaker 2>From a different doctor. Well, I love my adult daughter.

0:43:09.360 --> 0:43:11.920
<v Speaker 2>He's the nicest man. But he kept saying that it

0:43:12.040 --> 0:43:15.600
<v Speaker 2>was fine, and I'm like, okay, fair enough, do you

0:43:15.600 --> 0:43:16.880
<v Speaker 2>know what I mean? Yeah?

0:43:17.080 --> 0:43:17.759
<v Speaker 3>Professional?

0:43:18.480 --> 0:43:22.480
<v Speaker 2>Soessr. It needs to be profitable. Well at the moment,

0:43:22.520 --> 0:43:25.360
<v Speaker 2>it's like not it's not current profitable.

0:43:25.400 --> 0:43:27.440
<v Speaker 1>Yes, it's breaking even basically, but.

0:43:27.400 --> 0:43:29.839
<v Speaker 2>The numbers are there. We just need someone to sell us,

0:43:29.840 --> 0:43:34.319
<v Speaker 2>which we have, so hopefully we just suck at that.

0:43:35.239 --> 0:43:38.600
<v Speaker 2>We don't suck at that way. Yes, people, we're not

0:43:38.680 --> 0:43:40.279
<v Speaker 2>good at sales, so we.

0:43:40.280 --> 0:43:43.320
<v Speaker 3>Never will never signed out to me. Yeah, yeah exactly.

0:43:43.440 --> 0:43:47.040
<v Speaker 2>But like people that are their own business owner type

0:43:47.080 --> 0:43:50.279
<v Speaker 2>thing generally have a little bit of sales savviness, we don't.

0:43:50.520 --> 0:43:54.319
<v Speaker 2>We don't. We don't have the appetite, we don't have

0:43:54.400 --> 0:43:57.160
<v Speaker 2>the We're just here for the content. Yeah, we're just

0:43:57.239 --> 0:44:00.759
<v Speaker 2>content queens. Yeah. And I'm going to be launching substack,

0:44:00.880 --> 0:44:07.200
<v Speaker 2>Sunroom with services, launched bespoke podcast, personalized advice writing that

0:44:07.360 --> 0:44:11.040
<v Speaker 2>is so cool, etc. Because one thing is that I

0:44:11.080 --> 0:44:15.160
<v Speaker 2>want to work more in the service space and providing

0:44:15.200 --> 0:44:20.800
<v Speaker 2>people with services and content rather than stuff. It's funny

0:44:20.800 --> 0:44:25.640
<v Speaker 2>because I've always struggled a lot with subscription methods, I know. Yeah,

0:44:25.680 --> 0:44:28.359
<v Speaker 2>And I'll be like, oh, do they really think that

0:44:28.360 --> 0:44:31.040
<v Speaker 2>they're like bloody Netflix, that they can charge people for

0:44:31.080 --> 0:44:34.880
<v Speaker 2>their content? And it's like, well, yeah, and would you

0:44:35.000 --> 0:44:37.600
<v Speaker 2>rather ete ads of me trying to sell you something

0:44:37.640 --> 0:44:40.759
<v Speaker 2>you probably don't need? Yeah? Yeah, yeah totally. And I

0:44:40.760 --> 0:44:43.200
<v Speaker 2>think my excuse is always oh yeah, but you can

0:44:43.239 --> 0:44:45.799
<v Speaker 2>just skip ahead of ads. But at the end of

0:44:45.920 --> 0:44:49.440
<v Speaker 2>last year, I watched it was a documentary on Netflix.

0:44:49.680 --> 0:44:51.120
<v Speaker 2>I don't know if it's still trending.

0:44:51.160 --> 0:44:52.600
<v Speaker 3>It might be. Did you watch it?

0:44:52.600 --> 0:44:56.040
<v Speaker 2>It's called by Now No Listen. It was nothing new

0:44:56.160 --> 0:44:58.560
<v Speaker 2>or revolutionary or that we didn't know. But I think

0:44:58.560 --> 0:45:01.560
<v Speaker 2>when you're witnessing something in front of your face and

0:45:01.600 --> 0:45:04.040
<v Speaker 2>you're like, holy, it's not just words in your ears.

0:45:04.440 --> 0:45:09.360
<v Speaker 2>You're seeing the devastation that the consumption crisis is causing,

0:45:10.640 --> 0:45:13.520
<v Speaker 2>Hearing about like from people that have worked for these

0:45:13.680 --> 0:45:17.919
<v Speaker 2>big companies, it really does just make you go, fucking hell,

0:45:17.920 --> 0:45:20.719
<v Speaker 2>what am I encouraging? Yeah, And like I've always sort

0:45:20.760 --> 0:45:22.919
<v Speaker 2>of said and been, you know, if I'm talking about

0:45:22.960 --> 0:45:24.600
<v Speaker 2>a mascara, I'm not saying that you need to buy

0:45:24.600 --> 0:45:27.600
<v Speaker 2>this mesca if you've already got six. I'm saying, if

0:45:27.640 --> 0:45:29.960
<v Speaker 2>you need a new mascara in your routine, and no

0:45:30.000 --> 0:45:32.520
<v Speaker 2>one needs a miscas, this is a great one. Yeah,

0:45:32.640 --> 0:45:36.240
<v Speaker 2>you don't need seven mascaras, or you shouldn't have seven mascaras.

0:45:36.600 --> 0:45:39.680
<v Speaker 2>I never want to like encourage over consumption. And so

0:45:39.840 --> 0:45:42.240
<v Speaker 2>I was sort of thinking about that and then also,

0:45:42.480 --> 0:45:44.719
<v Speaker 2>I was having a conversation with a girlfriend of mine

0:45:44.719 --> 0:45:46.920
<v Speaker 2>and we were talking about how I think I mentioned

0:45:46.960 --> 0:45:50.239
<v Speaker 2>this to you, about how her son really loves that

0:45:50.360 --> 0:45:53.680
<v Speaker 2>app that he's learnt so much from. Oh, but the

0:45:53.840 --> 0:45:56.839
<v Speaker 2>subscription notification came up for her on the ipadtern it

0:45:56.880 --> 0:45:59.480
<v Speaker 2>said renew for forty nine to ninety ninety year, and

0:45:59.520 --> 0:46:03.880
<v Speaker 2>she went, oh, oh, my goodness, like fifty bucks for

0:46:03.920 --> 0:46:07.160
<v Speaker 2>a stupid app to use, Like so stupid. And then

0:46:07.200 --> 0:46:10.040
<v Speaker 2>she's like, wait, I'd easily going to came out spend

0:46:10.040 --> 0:46:13.520
<v Speaker 2>fifty bucks without thinking shit, that we don't even need,

0:46:14.320 --> 0:46:16.720
<v Speaker 2>but because it's like a tangible item, we just feel

0:46:16.719 --> 0:46:19.919
<v Speaker 2>better about it for some reason in our head, rather

0:46:20.000 --> 0:46:23.840
<v Speaker 2>than this service that isn't impacting on the environment in

0:46:23.880 --> 0:46:27.280
<v Speaker 2>the same capacity. Yes, something that's.

0:46:27.120 --> 0:46:29.600
<v Speaker 1>Actually beneficial, beneficial.

0:46:29.080 --> 0:46:30.560
<v Speaker 3>In so many different regards.

0:46:30.600 --> 0:46:35.280
<v Speaker 2>So just trying to concentrate more on and I don't

0:46:35.400 --> 0:46:37.560
<v Speaker 2>exactly know what it's going to look like yet to

0:46:37.600 --> 0:46:40.920
<v Speaker 2>a full capacity, but not so much selling stuff as

0:46:41.000 --> 0:46:42.160
<v Speaker 2>just like offering.

0:46:41.840 --> 0:46:43.120
<v Speaker 3>Up different services.

0:46:43.239 --> 0:46:46.000
<v Speaker 2>I love that content and just being like, well, you

0:46:46.040 --> 0:46:47.239
<v Speaker 2>know what, guys, if you don't want to pay for it,

0:46:47.239 --> 0:46:50.000
<v Speaker 2>don't pay for it. Yeah, but I think follow someone

0:46:50.000 --> 0:46:52.680
<v Speaker 2>that wants to sell you more teeth whitening. Yeah, yeah,

0:46:52.719 --> 0:46:54.160
<v Speaker 2>I mean I'm not saying I'm never going to be

0:46:54.160 --> 0:46:57.640
<v Speaker 2>doing spawn or talking about products, but just.

0:46:57.000 --> 0:46:59.640
<v Speaker 1>Just getting like a little bit savvy and having longevity.

0:46:59.680 --> 0:47:01.400
<v Speaker 2>And yeah, it sounds like you're.

0:47:01.239 --> 0:47:04.839
<v Speaker 1>Creating like a product, like your own product to sell now.

0:47:04.880 --> 0:47:07.279
<v Speaker 3>Thing that people will be holding in their hands.

0:47:07.000 --> 0:47:11.360
<v Speaker 2>No no knowledge inside, and no one needs more stuff

0:47:11.400 --> 0:47:15.840
<v Speaker 2>and no one needs another small business owner buying stuff

0:47:15.840 --> 0:47:17.880
<v Speaker 2>off Alley Express and then trying to market up and

0:47:17.880 --> 0:47:20.640
<v Speaker 2>sell it everyone. It's just not what the world needs

0:47:21.360 --> 0:47:24.600
<v Speaker 2>and making more of an effort with TikTok and affiliate

0:47:24.640 --> 0:47:28.479
<v Speaker 2>linking when I do promote product because I'm so bad

0:47:28.480 --> 0:47:30.600
<v Speaker 2>with it and you can make so much money off

0:47:30.640 --> 0:47:31.520
<v Speaker 2>you can't work it out.

0:47:31.600 --> 0:47:32.440
<v Speaker 1>I honestly can't work.

0:47:32.440 --> 0:47:33.680
<v Speaker 3>It's really time consuming.

0:47:33.719 --> 0:47:35.360
<v Speaker 2>And I see people you're doing it so much, and

0:47:35.400 --> 0:47:38.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, how do you have the time to find

0:47:38.239 --> 0:47:40.840
<v Speaker 2>that many affiliate links? Yeah? I don't get it, Like

0:47:40.880 --> 0:47:43.600
<v Speaker 2>it adds five minutes every time you're looking for an affiliate. Also,

0:47:43.640 --> 0:47:45.839
<v Speaker 2>all the stuff I like doesn't have a link, I'm

0:47:45.920 --> 0:47:49.080
<v Speaker 2>likely annoying and I only want to put things up

0:47:49.080 --> 0:47:51.719
<v Speaker 2>that I've used all stuff you like, not just like

0:47:51.760 --> 0:47:54.200
<v Speaker 2>a random top yeah, exactly.

0:47:54.760 --> 0:47:58.440
<v Speaker 3>Anyway, those are my goals. So we just ended up

0:47:58.480 --> 0:47:59.960
<v Speaker 3>going on so many different tangents.

0:48:00.400 --> 0:48:02.600
<v Speaker 2>But that's such a good conversation starter, and I think

0:48:02.640 --> 0:48:06.040
<v Speaker 2>people listening it might spark a goal for them something

0:48:06.040 --> 0:48:07.239
<v Speaker 2>that we've talked about or touched on.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's great. Welcome to twenty twenty five.

0:48:09.280 --> 0:48:11.160
<v Speaker 2>We're xactly and like we said at the top of

0:48:11.160 --> 0:48:15.320
<v Speaker 2>the show, we really want to know what your are. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

0:48:15.320 --> 0:48:17.320
<v Speaker 2>but thank you so much for joining us today. And

0:48:17.400 --> 0:48:20.399
<v Speaker 2>a little note about the format of the show, so

0:48:20.440 --> 0:48:23.080
<v Speaker 2>we know how shit is absolutely adore the peak and

0:48:23.160 --> 0:48:26.720
<v Speaker 2>picks yes element. But we've sort of recorded this season

0:48:26.760 --> 0:48:29.800
<v Speaker 2>all over the shop, like episode eight for this season

0:48:29.880 --> 0:48:31.960
<v Speaker 2>might have been recorded in December, and it like it's

0:48:32.320 --> 0:48:33.120
<v Speaker 2>all over the shop.

0:48:33.200 --> 0:48:36.399
<v Speaker 1>We're trying basically to get ahead to cover a little

0:48:36.400 --> 0:48:37.360
<v Speaker 1>bit of my Matt Lee.

0:48:37.400 --> 0:48:39.719
<v Speaker 3>He is having a little bit of a change.

0:48:39.480 --> 0:48:42.000
<v Speaker 1>And we're trying here we will have some sort of

0:48:42.000 --> 0:48:45.080
<v Speaker 1>a break or be less frequent, but we're trying.

0:48:44.840 --> 0:48:47.279
<v Speaker 2>To reduce the number of shows that will lose, So

0:48:47.280 --> 0:48:50.080
<v Speaker 2>we're trying to basically bulk record in order to see

0:48:50.080 --> 0:48:52.880
<v Speaker 2>you through because he's potentially even given birth right now,

0:48:53.239 --> 0:48:55.720
<v Speaker 2>and that segment kind of needs to be topical otherwise,

0:48:55.800 --> 0:48:56.160
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

0:48:56.239 --> 0:48:58.080
<v Speaker 3>I just don't want to talk about.

0:48:57.840 --> 0:48:59.480
<v Speaker 2>That happens last month.

0:48:59.360 --> 0:49:01.720
<v Speaker 1>Winding about being pregnant and in your life. I actually

0:49:01.840 --> 0:49:04.000
<v Speaker 1>saw your Instagram and you're happy and you've got your baby, and.

0:49:04.040 --> 0:49:05.520
<v Speaker 3>You've also your nipples are about fall off.

0:49:05.520 --> 0:49:06.919
<v Speaker 2>That's actually your peers for the week.

0:49:07.360 --> 0:49:08.480
<v Speaker 3>You've got massive titis.

0:49:09.719 --> 0:49:12.239
<v Speaker 2>But we promise that we will reintroduce that part of

0:49:12.280 --> 0:49:14.000
<v Speaker 2>the show because we know how much everyone loves it

0:49:14.040 --> 0:49:17.040
<v Speaker 2>when he is back from maternity leave and we're recording

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<v Speaker 2>weekly again.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes, yes. This episode of Eat, Sleep, Shit Repeat

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<v Speaker 1>was produced by us Kelly McCarron and Key re Searles,

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<v Speaker 1>with autio production by the amazing, wonderful, lovely Madeline Joanno.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks for being here, Bye bye