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Speaker 1: These are the yays of our lives.

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Speaker 2: Busy and happy are not the same thing. We too

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Speaker 2: rarely question what makes the heart seeing. We work, then

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Speaker 2: we rest, but rarely we play and often don't realize

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Speaker 2: there's more than one way. So this is the platform

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Speaker 2: to hear and explore the stories of those who found lives.

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Speaker 2: They adore the good, bad and ugly.

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Speaker 3: The best and worst day will bear all the facets

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Speaker 3: of seizing your Yea. I'm Sarah Davidson or Spoonful of Sarah,

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Speaker 3: a lawyer turned funentrepreneur who swapped the suits and heels

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Speaker 3: to co found Matcha Maiden and matcha Milk Bark Sees

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Speaker 3: The Ya is a series of conversations on finding a

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Speaker 3: life you love and exploring the self doubt, challenge, joy

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Speaker 3: and fulfillment along the way. Hi Bim, Third time lucky?

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Speaker 4: Hi Bim? What what do you raw? A chicken with

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Speaker 1: Jiggers is a salad?

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Speaker 4: Oh? You know to get it?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, I was there when you heard it the

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Speaker 1: first time.

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Speaker 4: I find a better one. Now hold up? What Okay?

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Speaker 4: I don't have one. I'll think of one by the.

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 1: I was so funny my father didn't.

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Speaker 5: Coming times, I couldn't say, oh, I farted like all

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Speaker 5: the other six times and started playing.

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Speaker 3: We've had severe internet issues today and every time, and

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Speaker 3: just managed to conjure up some kind of bowel related

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Speaker 1: I've got glad that you didn't. You weren't able to

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Speaker 5: We were late because I actually had a scheduled prove

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Speaker 5: at nine eight am, remember, and women stat at night.

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Speaker 5: And I was like, this is not.

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Speaker 6: Going to work because I genuinely would probably be bringing

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Speaker 6: you to the toilet and I can't really mute those

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Speaker 6: kind of things, you know, So I didn't want to

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Speaker 6: make it a bit of an R rated podcast, So

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Speaker 6: and then I farted.

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Speaker 4: And then.

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Speaker 1: For the folks, oh my god, this is what you've

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Speaker 1: done to my brand. You've obviously brought.

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Speaker 3: A lot of ya a lot of like laughs to

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Speaker 3: the show, but you've also made us the target of

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Speaker 3: all pooh memes, but not only poo memes, but like

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Speaker 3: boo scientific explanations because people now think that we're like

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Speaker 3: the Poo duo, And I'm like, whoa. I've spent so

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Speaker 3: much time working hard to not be that person, and

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Speaker 3: now I'm like the go to Pooh gal?

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Speaker 4: Do you mean sometimes I do find Pooh weird?

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Speaker 5: But then I forgot it so much that I'm like, well, it's.

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Speaker 4: Your own fault. And had two thoughts this morning.

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Speaker 5: One was does anyone else make themselves late to most

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Speaker 5: things because of their bowels? And then two, I think

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Speaker 5: my phone's listening to me because the other day my

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Speaker 5: TikTok was showing me account called Poologist.

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Speaker 3: Don't you think though, that's because you always talk about Pooh, Like,

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Speaker 4: Making they're listening to me?

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Speaker 5: No, they are, And it was like, what happens to Pooh?

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Speaker 4: It's actually quite it's actually quite.

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Speaker 5: An interesting fact. Actually, let me tell you. Did you

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Speaker 5: know the poo that goes into the sewer system. Sewage

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Speaker 1: Sorts of stuff, and they were turn it into what compost?

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Speaker 3: Also, I'm going to steer this conversation right away from

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Speaker 5: People, people haven't talked about birds and the bees.

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Speaker 4: This should be part of it.

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Speaker 4: Ever. No, I can't find that contract. Oh I can't

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Speaker 7: Now?

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Speaker 1: Do I need to fire you from this position?

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Speaker 4: Well? I think the audience can speak to that.

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Speaker 7: We'll throw it out to the audience of too go

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Speaker 7: out and last Nick and Elizabeth. No, but no, we

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Speaker 3: I don't actually expect anyone's actually going to do it,

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Speaker 4: You wouldn't realize.

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Speaker 5: Like how can't you be physically able to run four

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00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:08,480
Speaker 5: into commerce and then a couple of weeks later just

443
00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:12,040
Speaker 5: struggle to run four. It baffles me, But yeah, I

444
00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:14,879
Speaker 5: think it's testament to how much it is a mental game.

445
00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:18,800
Speaker 5: In a lot of sport, and it's particularly solo sport.

446
00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:20,919
Speaker 5: But if you had to choose a sport, it's like,

447
00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:24,960
Speaker 5: if you could be any professional sports person in the whole.

448
00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:26,919
Speaker 4: World, what sport would that be?

449
00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:27,520
Speaker 1: Connect four?

450
00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:37,400
Speaker 5: Well, lucky you, because I was going to say, guess

451
00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:38,320
Speaker 5: I reckon.

452
00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:42,000
Speaker 3: Like part of me would like the discipline and intensity

453
00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:45,560
Speaker 3: of an individual sport, but I love like I'm so

454
00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:48,320
Speaker 3: I bounce off the energy of other people. If I

455
00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:53,520
Speaker 3: am in a negative rut of for example, in the tennis,

456
00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:56,000
Speaker 3: if I was like two sets down, I'd be like,

457
00:20:56,040 --> 00:20:58,320
Speaker 3: oh my god, it's all over. Whereas if I was,

458
00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:00,720
Speaker 3: you know, in a team environment, I feel like everyone's

459
00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:03,439
Speaker 3: energy together and shit Like I love sharing things. I

460
00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:05,840
Speaker 3: don't really feel like something's really happened until I've shared

461
00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:08,679
Speaker 3: it with someone. So I feel like a team sport

462
00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:11,960
Speaker 3: would be the go, But I don't know what team sport.

463
00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:14,000
Speaker 3: I love lots of different sports. I can't say I'm

464
00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:16,439
Speaker 3: like great at any of them, but I don't know.

465
00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:18,680
Speaker 3: I don't know what it would be. What about you?

466
00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:19,359
Speaker 3: What would you do?

467
00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:24,560
Speaker 4: Excuse me? You're good at ducem? I hate people?

468
00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:27,240
Speaker 1: You love people? Oh my god?

469
00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:31,720
Speaker 4: I hate people. So I would choose clay shooting.

470
00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:36,520
Speaker 3: You pretend that you're all jaded and like anti people,

471
00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:38,920
Speaker 3: but you're like a ten years too young for that

472
00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:40,920
Speaker 3: and be obsessed with humans.

473
00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:47,000
Speaker 4: No, I don't hate people. I love people.

474
00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:52,000
Speaker 5: But my sport, upon deep reflection, would be.

475
00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:55,359
Speaker 3: Volleyball, which I feel like teleikua. Our other guest, the

476
00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:59,760
Speaker 3: Olympian beach volleyball player, she owes you a text to

477
00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:01,840
Speaker 3: be like, dude, come back to the sport.

478
00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:08,920
Speaker 4: Please. How are your expectations, she texted me four days ago.

479
00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:11,080
Speaker 1: We need you back in the sport.

480
00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:13,240
Speaker 4: Don't come to the sport.

481
00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:23,520
Speaker 1: Oh my god, see you guys.

482
00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:26,960
Speaker 3: We're still absolutely one scattered as we were last week,

483
00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:28,880
Speaker 3: just a little bit less email about it.

484
00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:31,960
Speaker 1: So we're getting there.

485
00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:38,040
Speaker 5: It's so true.

486
00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:39,520
Speaker 4: We were like we feel ship.

487
00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:42,720
Speaker 1: You feel ship, I feel I hear you and I

488
00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:47,359
Speaker 1: fallowed it. You're feeling shit. I wonder if Mazy because

489
00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:51,000
Speaker 1: he felt shit. So I'm really.

490
00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:56,960
Speaker 3: And I'm so excited about Oh my god, Oh my god.

491
00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,600
Speaker 3: I saw another meme today that was like I heard

492
00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:02,840
Speaker 3: someone all a mental breakdown and mentib and I'm totally

493
00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 3: going to use that right now. I was like, why

494
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:09,600
Speaker 3: do I resonate so much we're having a mentib.

495
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:13,680
Speaker 5: We're can you know what, We're gonna lose any ability

496
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 5: to be art to do it and imagine us in

497
00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:18,639
Speaker 5: a formal interview one day, my god, and my favorite

498
00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:19,399
Speaker 5: quote from.

499
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 3: It was, if you're having a mentibe, just keep going,

500
00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:26,080
Speaker 3: don't worry about the MENTIV.

501
00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:28,920
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Like it's it's so bad.

502
00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 3: I actually so, we have a really exciting few episodes

503
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:35,000
Speaker 3: coming and I had to re record, like, and I

504
00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:37,200
Speaker 3: haven't done this in years, but like, because done is

505
00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:39,640
Speaker 3: better than perfect, and I kind of, you know, stopped

506
00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:43,119
Speaker 3: re editing every single you know, question that I ever asked.

507
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:45,479
Speaker 3: But in the last two episodes, the guests have been

508
00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:48,199
Speaker 3: extraordinary and I can't wait to share them. But I

509
00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:50,200
Speaker 3: have had to rerecord a few of my questions because

510
00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:52,920
Speaker 3: I'm I literally said in one of them, oh my god,

511
00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:54,960
Speaker 3: I don't even know what I'm saying, but at least

512
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:56,560
Speaker 3: do you get what like, do you get what I'm saying?

513
00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:57,880
Speaker 3: And she was like, yeah, I get what you're saying.

514
00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:01,199
Speaker 3: And I'm like, oh my god, that's so terrible. So

515
00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:02,919
Speaker 3: I had to record the whole question.

516
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:08,119
Speaker 1: The worst with my brain cells are just like gone,

517
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:09,800
Speaker 1: a well, I don't even know what's happening.

518
00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:14,439
Speaker 3: But quick question, quick time time related. We don't we

519
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 3: usually do like quite evergreen content, but more timely related.

520
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Speaker 4: For you.

521
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 3: It is lunar New Year for you, how are you

522
00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 3: going to celebrate? Tell us about lunary?

523
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:24,320
Speaker 1: Yea, it is the year of the.

524
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Speaker 5: Tig.

525
00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:30,679
Speaker 4: Guy? Is that this year? Yeah? The tiger? Yeah? Today

526
00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:35,360
Speaker 4: is Lar Eve New Year's Eve for us.

527
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Speaker 5: And as I've grown older, I think I've grown a

528
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:40,520
Speaker 5: greater appreciation for my culture.

529
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Speaker 4: And I'm really not a religious person, but I appreciate

530
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Speaker 4: so much how much my parents.

531
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Speaker 5: They're not like overly religious, but we grew up Buddhists,

532
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:51,080
Speaker 5: so we went to temples and there's like an altar

533
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:52,880
Speaker 5: at home and things like that. But there's so many

534
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:57,240
Speaker 5: traditions in the Buddhist Vietnamese culture that I've grown to

535
00:24:57,280 --> 00:25:00,199
Speaker 5: want to know more about and continue to hold on too,

536
00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 5: And one of which is celebrating the lunar New Year

537
00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:06,040
Speaker 5: with all its festivities and traditions.

538
00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 4: So for us.

539
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:10,280
Speaker 5: Culturally, and I'm sure every family will do different things.

540
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 5: So in Vietnamese culture, it's different to what you know

541
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,920
Speaker 5: if you go to say Singapore or China or other

542
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:20,200
Speaker 5: people may experience, but very much is celebrated the same calendar,

543
00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 5: which a lunar calendar.

544
00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:22,400
Speaker 4: That's why it called lunar New Year.

545
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:25,359
Speaker 5: But tonight we will be having a really big feast,

546
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Speaker 5: and what my norma does, we'll go to our parents'

547
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:33,439
Speaker 5: place and have that. And what we normally do is,

548
00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:36,720
Speaker 5: actually they do a lot of praying. So at twelve

549
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 5: will normally burn the incense and invite our ancestors down

550
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 5: to eat. This is all figure of figur but figurative

551
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:50,280
Speaker 5: obviously goodness may too much a messic cuzzy, Mazi cuzzy.

552
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:51,240
Speaker 4: Now I can't talk.

553
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:54,000
Speaker 8: So what we do is we burn incense, and that

554
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:57,199
Speaker 8: incense smoke goes up, and while the incent is burning,

555
00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:01,720
Speaker 8: we say a prayer or send out invitation in.

556
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 4: Front of the altar. And that's actually how we'd call.

557
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:06,320
Speaker 5: The ancestors down to join us for the meal for

558
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 5: the night. And sometimes we used to burn paper clothes

559
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 5: and that smoke going up would be gifting them clothes.

560
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 5: So it's quite spiritual. I'd say, this whole process. So

561
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:21,159
Speaker 5: we'll do a lot of cooking. Mom will do a

562
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:22,879
Speaker 5: lot of cooking tonight. The other thing she does is

563
00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:27,200
Speaker 5: like a lot of superstitious things, so cleaning their house

564
00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:30,240
Speaker 5: and then sweeping dust out of the house at midnight

565
00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:32,879
Speaker 5: to like sweep away last year's woes or whatever and

566
00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 5: then start the new year fresh. Yeah, really cool cultural

567
00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 5: things like that. So that'd be tonight and then tomorrow

568
00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:42,040
Speaker 5: is Near's Day, and then normally what we do for

569
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:44,359
Speaker 5: that is we would wear our yi, which is a

570
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Speaker 5: bit in me stress, and we will wish each of

571
00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:52,160
Speaker 5: our parents and our grandmas well, which is for the year,

572
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:54,680
Speaker 5: and that's when we receive our red pockets.

573
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Speaker 1: Oh she's going to be rich.

574
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Speaker 4: Yeah. When you when you were kids, we were bully.

575
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 5: We'd be like, now it's like five days here and there,

576
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 5: thanks for your contributions.

577
00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, when you see at the school, did we see

578
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:12,720
Speaker 4: like thousands of dollars?

579
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:15,200
Speaker 5: I was like, you're not because you go to your

580
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 5: parents and then you go to Gramdmar's and your uncles

581
00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:19,880
Speaker 5: and your aunties and it's the whole like they dish

582
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:21,920
Speaker 5: it all out. But anyone that gets married then has

583
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 5: to start giving we call it lisy and once to

584
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:26,720
Speaker 5: get married, yeah, you have to wish.

585
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 4: It's quite formal, so you got.

586
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 5: To do the whole like crossing her hands and formal

587
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:31,679
Speaker 5: wish for the year, and then you receive it with

588
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 5: two hands and they sit on the sofa and you

589
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 5: stand in front of them like it's a formal hello,

590
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:39,399
Speaker 5: I wish you this. But obviously we suck and we

591
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 5: always make it a joke. Like last year, I was like,

592
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:43,919
Speaker 5: I wish you have a great year and you live

593
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 5: to one hundred and you find a boyfriend. Thank you,

594
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:48,879
Speaker 5: and but I was like losing it. She was laughing

595
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 5: so much. But it's just all tradition. And then normally

596
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:53,639
Speaker 5: what we do for the rest of the day, but

597
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:57,480
Speaker 5: we've obviously all got work now is we'd visit temples

598
00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 5: throughout the day and continue the wish is in the

599
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 5: for the year across all the temples, as many temples

600
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:06,679
Speaker 5: as Mulling Day can get to in the day around Melbourne.

601
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:08,240
Speaker 5: So we used to do like seven temples in the day,

602
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 5: which was really a long day.

603
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Speaker 4: Whoa, there's a lot of free food and a lot

604
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Speaker 4: of festivities. Yeah. Yeah.

605
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 5: When I was a kid, I used to just find

606
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:19,440
Speaker 5: it just such an arduous thing to have to continue

607
00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 5: to do every year. As I've grown older, I've realized

608
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 5: one of the importance of it, not just to my parents,

609
00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:28,719
Speaker 5: but in terms of holding culture as a second generation

610
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Speaker 5: vien Mees person in.

611
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 4: A different country.

612
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Speaker 5: I have value it so much because what I would

613
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 5: hate is for it to stop with me. Yeah, so yeah, tomorrow,

614
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:40,840
Speaker 5: I won't take work off, but we will all come

615
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:43,240
Speaker 5: home tomorrow after work and do our wishes in the

616
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:47,320
Speaker 5: evening and have another dinner. So it's really fun and

617
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 5: really special. It's very different. It's not a party vibes

618
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 5: like in Western culture, where it's very like celebratory. It's

619
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:58,720
Speaker 5: much more like formal and I guess superstitious and spiritual, which.

620
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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's really cool.

621
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 5: I'll probably document a lot of it on Instagram tonight because.

622
00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:07,440
Speaker 4: I realized that our culture or how.

623
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Speaker 5: I've grown up is so different to people around me.

624
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Speaker 1: So yeah, I love that it's and just cultural lessons.

625
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 1: We haven't had one of those on your allies for

626
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 1: a little while, so I really like that. And I

627
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Speaker 1: also think that if anyone has been like us and

628
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 1: has been having like a bit of a clunky start

629
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Speaker 1: to the year, that we can all adopt Lunar New

630
00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:24,520
Speaker 1: Year this year and just think of it as like

631
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 1: our year officially starts tomorrow. That's how I'm doing it anyway.

632
00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:32,360
Speaker 1: I'm like January was a writer. Flex, screw the whole

633
00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 1: start of the year. Year, I'll start again. Clear the slide,

634
00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 1: let's begin again tomorrow.

635
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 4: Or just like it's a writer the work. Just choose

636
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 4: another random calendar of the world.

637
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Speaker 5: Like I'm pretty sure Nepal is in nineteen I mean

638
00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 5: two thousand and seventy five or something.

639
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 1: What what do you mean They're up to twenty and

640
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 1: seventy five.

641
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 5: In their calendar is calendar? Yeah, they're like really far ahead.

642
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:56,440
Speaker 1: I really like our tip information.

643
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 5: At the minute.

644
00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 1: What I don't understand.

645
00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, I remember well because I was when I was

646
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 5: there and I did that trek all those years ago.

647
00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 5: I remember they had this big banner and that said

648
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 5: like happy New Year, two thousand and opened in two

649
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 5: thousand and like thirty and I was like, guys, it's

650
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:13,880
Speaker 5: twenty and fifteen.

651
00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:14,960
Speaker 4: Hum.

652
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:19,000
Speaker 5: And then my Shirpa, my guide was like, no, like

653
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 5: we in the Nepalese calendar, we're actually up to like

654
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:23,200
Speaker 5: two thousand and seventy odd.

655
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Speaker 1: I want to wait.

656
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Speaker 4: So that one was so cool.

657
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Speaker 3: So like there was a sign that said open in

658
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Speaker 3: two thousand and thirty yeah.

659
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:30,560
Speaker 4: It was like two thirty something.

660
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Speaker 5: It was like for a town and I had this

661
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Speaker 5: big banner they hadn't taken down and said, you know,

662
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:37,840
Speaker 5: opening dates, opening ceremony it had.

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Speaker 4: Two thousand and thirty. Was oh my god, like sharing

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Speaker 4: this is wrong.

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Speaker 5: Well, like we're on in twenty fifteen.

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Speaker 4: He's like, no, no, no, we use a different calendar.

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Speaker 5: And so I because I remember asking him what his

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Speaker 5: when his birthday was, because I was like, oh, maybe

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Speaker 5: it's soon, like we can celeberate together, and he was like,

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I was like, what do you mean.

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Speaker 5: He goes, oh, I don't because he was going for

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Speaker 5: the Nepalese calendar.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: He couldn't. I don't think he could do it. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: but obviously they use watch our.

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Speaker 1: Calendar, the Gregorian calendar or something or something.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, yeah, it definitely starts. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a silent m there's a silent Batman's there

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Speaker 3: as well.

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Speaker 4: Maybe it's what.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's close close.

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Speaker 4: In two thousand and seventy.

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Speaker 1: You know another random tidbit.

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Speaker 3: I love our random tips because I also learned so much,

686
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Speaker 3: like during these episodes. So in the Korean culture, your

687
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Speaker 3: time I have to remember this correctly. So from the

688
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Speaker 3: time you're born to I think it's on January one,

689
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Speaker 3: So just say, like you're born, I'm born on March

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Speaker 3: twenty fourth, so in Western culture that starts the clock

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Speaker 3: at zero, and then next March twenty fourth I turned one.

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Speaker 3: In the Korean culture, I'm zero, but then Onmber thirty

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Speaker 3: first to January first, I turned one then and then

694
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Speaker 3: I would turn two on March twenty fourth, So the

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Speaker 3: calendar year clocks you over a year.

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Speaker 1: I think that's how it works. All you're born at

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Speaker 1: one one or the other, but.

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Speaker 3: Often your Korean age is like one to two years

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Speaker 3: older than your Western age, which again like so interesting

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Speaker 3: that different cultures actually date people from different times.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so same in Vietna's culture.

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Speaker 5: So when you're your date starts when you're in the

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Speaker 5: so that's like zero.

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Speaker 4: So when you're born, I'm pretty sure you're one.

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Speaker 1: By the would you be like nine months?

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Speaker 4: No, I think they just I don't know when they started.

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Speaker 5: But because studying on jennifers is way too hard to calculate, so.

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Speaker 4: They are not for Korean and always come on, goodness me, you.

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Speaker 1: Learned that last week? Oh my God, you learned that

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Speaker 1: Bougie came from last week. We are so smart.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, we are smart. Mrt y. It's anyway.

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Speaker 5: Mom and Dad always say when I was like seventeen,

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Speaker 5: they're like, you're already eighteen. You readian Ada and I

714
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Speaker 5: was like what And then always remember, in these age

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Speaker 5: you're actually already eighteen. So it's a mix of following

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Speaker 5: the lunar calendar and the fact that you're like already

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Speaker 5: an age when you when you're born. O.

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Speaker 4: That complicates all sorts of things.

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Speaker 1: It's so complicated, but cute. I love that we've learnt

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Speaker 1: so much amazing, so cute.

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Speaker 5: Okay, so yeah, so happy in newsic happy a.

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Speaker 1: Year, bimb do over. Let's all start again tomorrow.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: In the meantime, cute yeahborhood watch things that you found

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Speaker 3: this week include.

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Speaker 5: Go oh no, you're starting You sent me all that stuff?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, so one that I just okay. Everyone who

728
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Speaker 3: listened last week will know that we are obsessed with

729
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 3: the train Guy, and I've shared some of the videos

730
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 3: on the Instagram page so that you can be introduced

731
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Speaker 3: to his absolute joyful life. And the Joe Jonas video

732
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:55,520
Speaker 3: is also on there. He's just the most yay field

733
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Speaker 3: Like watching that guy get excited about a train honking

734
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Speaker 3: its horn at him just you can't not feel happy.

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Speaker 3: He is so amazing and I really want to get

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Speaker 3: him on the podcast. So anyone who knows, anyone who

737
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Speaker 3: knows him, please let us know, because we want the

738
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Speaker 3: train Guy on the show. Francis Bourgeois in a similar

739
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Speaker 3: kind of vein to him. This week's equivalent of the

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Speaker 3: train Guy are the tap dancing guys. I don't know

741
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Speaker 3: if you followed the Gardener brothers yet, Bim, have you

742
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Speaker 3: seen them?

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Speaker 4: Nu?

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Speaker 1: So there, I'll have to send you the video. It's

745
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Speaker 1: so cute.

746
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Speaker 3: There's five time world champion Irish dancers. So they're Irish

747
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Speaker 3: dancers and they have taps on their shoes so they

748
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Speaker 3: do Irish dancing, but super happy. I'm super synchronized. They

749
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Speaker 3: do it everywhere, like they got a request. They've got

750
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Speaker 3: like six hundred thousand followers. They got a request to

751
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Speaker 3: do it in front of Buckingham Palace, so they did

752
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Speaker 3: this routine in front of Buckingham Palace. They're like, I

753
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 3: think they're brothers that yeah, are just incredibly synchronized. They're

754
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:49,800
Speaker 3: tap dancing is insane. They're so in time, the beat

755
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 3: is insane, but they're so happy and just wholesome. So

756
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Speaker 3: that was to me when I found them this week.

757
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Speaker 3: I saw them like maybe I don't know a month ago,

758
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Speaker 3: but they've kept popping up in my feed and I.

759
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Speaker 1: Was like, oh my god. Oh they're like the tap

760
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:03,680
Speaker 1: dancing version of the train guy. They're just so happy.

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Speaker 4: I do know that.

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Speaker 9: The cool thing about TikTok, It's brought like all of

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Speaker 9: these like little niches to the forefront, like tap dancing

764
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Speaker 9: and train watching and all these really awesome things that

765
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Speaker 9: otherwise I would say, potentially you.

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Speaker 5: Would be bullied for or yeah, you know, like it

767
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:24,399
Speaker 5: was such a like if you did that in high school,

768
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Speaker 5: people like, oh, like tap dancing or like train watching.

769
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Speaker 4: But now it's this is why I like TikTok.

770
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Speaker 5: It just brings out people's joy.

771
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Speaker 4: For things and then makes really happy. So I didn't

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Speaker 4: actually know of the tap dancers.

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Speaker 3: I love them so much, and I've like started to

774
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:43,360
Speaker 3: love getting on TikTok, even though most of my tiktoks

775
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:45,880
Speaker 3: are laughing about being a thirty year old on TikTok

776
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Speaker 3: and not understanding anything that's going on as a consumer

777
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Speaker 3: of TikTok as opposed to posting on it.

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Speaker 1: I love that too. It's just joy.

779
00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 3: It's just things that make people laugh or things that

780
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:59,360
Speaker 3: you know are funny. There's no hectic curation of feeds

781
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:01,200
Speaker 3: or anything. It's just so much fun. I've found so

782
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Speaker 3: many things on there. And another one that I found

783
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Speaker 3: on TikTok as well was a surfer.

784
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Speaker 1: Like even just the fact that.

785
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Speaker 3: Good news can circulate so quickly, I think is so beautiful.

786
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Speaker 3: A surfer has been writing names of people's lost loved

787
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Speaker 3: ones on his surfboard so that they can ride one

788
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:18,520
Speaker 3: last wave. So he writes them on his surfboard. He'll

789
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 3: get messages submitted for people who, like family members who

790
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:24,320
Speaker 3: might not be able to actually surf, but who's who's

791
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 3: lost loved one never got their one last wave. He'll

792
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 3: write their name and a message on his surfboard and

793
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:32,719
Speaker 3: then send them the video of him surfing it with

794
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Speaker 3: their name on the board.

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Speaker 1: I was like, that is just so beautiful, Dan Fisher,

796
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:39,440
Speaker 1: It's so sweet.

797
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 3: Like just the fact that people think up that stuff,

798
00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:43,840
Speaker 3: you know, when they do it for strangers, and I

799
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:47,239
Speaker 3: feel like we do get really pummeled with example like

800
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 3: the worst examples of humanity, and then people like, oh,

801
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:51,920
Speaker 3: what's happened to the world. But I feel like if

802
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 3: we gave an equal amount of time to strangers who

803
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 3: do amazing things, it wouldn't feel so bleak because there's

804
00:36:58,239 --> 00:36:59,839
Speaker 3: so many examples of that out there, we just don't

805
00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:00,799
Speaker 3: hear about them as much.

806
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Speaker 1: So beautiful.

807
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Speaker 5: Yeah, you sent me like five screenshots those guys did

808
00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:06,200
Speaker 5: the Teddy bear donations?

809
00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:10,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, but did you watch the video this time? Like

810
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 3: the videos watching it this time? Last week we did

811
00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 3: a thing of fans throwing Teddy Bears onto the ice

812
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:18,400
Speaker 3: to donate to kids who don't have toys, and it

813
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 3: was a soccer club.

814
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Speaker 1: This time. It was an ice hockey club who did it.

815
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Speaker 3: And the video of watching toys just like get thrown

816
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:27,760
Speaker 3: on and cover the entire ice rink.

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Speaker 1: It's just like it just you just it stops my heart.

818
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:33,239
Speaker 3: It's so beautiful, the generosity and the thought and just

819
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:35,839
Speaker 3: even seeing that many plush toys together in itself is

820
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 3: so cute.

821
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Speaker 1: But that was, Yeah, I found that. I don't even

822
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Speaker 1: know where I found that.

823
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Speaker 4: That reminds me that inter of soccer.

824
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Speaker 5: There was a video of a player and it was

825
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:48,279
Speaker 5: really big player. I'm gonna have to find it and

826
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 5: then when you post it, send it to you. But

827
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Speaker 5: he may just kid with cancer. And then the kid he.

828
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Speaker 4: Says in Spanish for something.

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Speaker 5: I think he's like, if you score a goal, please

830
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Speaker 5: do this dance, and it does this special dance thing,

831
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Speaker 5: and then they flip over to when this player scores

832
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:06,320
Speaker 5: his next go and then he actually does the dance

833
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 5: for the kid and it is like I've it always

834
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:11,280
Speaker 5: pops up every now and then, and I just cry

835
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 5: because the soccer fans that know no and they stiff

836
00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 5: this together and be like and they flush back to

837
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:17,880
Speaker 5: the original video of the kid.

838
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Speaker 4: Being like if you do this, can you please do

839
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:22,799
Speaker 4: this dance? And they like all all the plays did

840
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:24,160
Speaker 4: it together. It was the cutest thing.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love that.

842
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 4: But I have to find it and send it to you.

843
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we'll post it on the page. And guys,

844
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 3: also please keep your eye outfit. So what I'm going

845
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:35,320
Speaker 3: to do and I did a little poll on social

846
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 3: media last week was as well as all the quotes

847
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:41,120
Speaker 3: on the CZA page, do people want like more good

848
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 3: news stories and like designed into obviously a little CZA thing,

849
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 3: so that there's a news element too in our continued

850
00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:48,960
Speaker 3: protest against the negativity of the new cycle.

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Speaker 1: So if you do see.

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00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:52,640
Speaker 3: Any good news stories, I would love to actually share

853
00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:54,239
Speaker 3: them and turn them around so you know, turn them

854
00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:55,880
Speaker 3: into a post so we can keep sharing them. So

855
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:58,080
Speaker 3: if you hear of anything like this, please do flick

856
00:38:58,080 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 3: them over to us. Another one that on an environmental

857
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 3: level that I think is amazing is California, which is

858
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:05,880
Speaker 3: not an obscure state right, It's like one of the

859
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 3: biggest states. So the impact of this legal change is huge.

860
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:12,440
Speaker 3: Now requires grocery stores and food suppliers to donate all

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00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:15,000
Speaker 3: their edible food waste to a food rescue or food bank,

862
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:18,799
Speaker 3: which I think is extraordinary because it's outrageous when you

863
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:21,960
Speaker 3: think about it. That's so much food it gets thrown

864
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:24,399
Speaker 3: out just because it doesn't look like like apples don't

865
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:28,399
Speaker 3: look like a circle. Like how ridiculous is it that

866
00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:30,480
Speaker 3: we're so discerning that it's like, oh, it looks a

867
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:32,399
Speaker 3: bit funny, like the ugly fruit gets thrown out.

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00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 4: Do you know what?

869
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Speaker 5: I actually speaking of sustainability and food waste, I'm not

870
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 5: really one to have resolutions, but I was trying to

871
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:44,839
Speaker 5: set goals and things, and I really wanted to be

872
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:48,320
Speaker 5: a lot more conscious this year in terms of plastic

873
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:53,200
Speaker 5: and food waste, and laws love her to be so

874
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:57,000
Speaker 5: she is just so good with this stuff, and I

875
00:39:57,040 --> 00:39:59,600
Speaker 5: was like, oh, I was going to be like you anyway.

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Speaker 5: I did a for like a week and I was like, yeah,

877
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Speaker 5: I'm not a roll and then then I forgot So

878
00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:07,359
Speaker 5: now that you've reminded me, I was like, damn, I.

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00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:10,640
Speaker 4: Got to get this kitchen caddy, Like I have the

880
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:11,760
Speaker 4: council center.

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Speaker 5: This kitchen caddy thing, and I was like, yeah, you

882
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Speaker 5: gotta do it, Like did it for a week, have

883
00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:17,239
Speaker 5: mango peels and a stuff. I was like so proud

884
00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:19,400
Speaker 5: of myself my green bin out there with like leaves

885
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:23,080
Speaker 5: and this food. And then now it's like my kitchen

886
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 5: caddy's been sitting out in the body backyard and I haven't.

887
00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:28,480
Speaker 5: So thank you for the reminder because I feel like

888
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:31,719
Speaker 5: this week's challenge for me all this next two weeks

889
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 5: challenge for me is every day is not putting a

890
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:37,239
Speaker 5: single piece of food in the general wat spin.

891
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 4: I think that's a good, good challenge. Will you do

892
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 4: it with me? Yeah?

893
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:42,200
Speaker 3: That's a good one, absolutely, And I think it's also

894
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 3: good to acknowledge that, like, even with the best intentions,

895
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:48,800
Speaker 3: habit change isn't straightforward, right, Like, it doesn't come even

896
00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:51,839
Speaker 3: if you don't want to be behaving in a particular way.

897
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:54,479
Speaker 3: It's just habit often that you have to break, which

898
00:40:54,520 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 3: is if it were easy, then half the world's businesses

899
00:40:57,239 --> 00:40:59,480
Speaker 3: would go out of business. Like, it's not easy for

900
00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:01,799
Speaker 3: us to change habit. So it's maybe better for you

901
00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 3: to set yourself like a smaller goal that's achievable week

902
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:07,440
Speaker 3: by week and just add to that rather than being like,

903
00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 3: oh my god, I'm going totally plastic free and totally

904
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:12,799
Speaker 3: everything like in one week. Most change isn't sustainable when

905
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:14,000
Speaker 3: you do it that way.

906
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:18,920
Speaker 5: Yes, so she's taught me a lot, she's been awesome

907
00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:21,919
Speaker 5: and that that's actually an easy thing to do. It's

908
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:23,680
Speaker 5: not a drastic change in your life. I think no

909
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:25,880
Speaker 5: plastic is actually really hard because a lot of it

910
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:28,160
Speaker 5: is value. Things are packaged in a way that sometimes

911
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:31,120
Speaker 5: it's really hard to actually avoid that. Whereas putting food

912
00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:35,920
Speaker 5: into a food canny versus a like garbage bin is

913
00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:37,320
Speaker 5: actually just your conscious choice.

914
00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:40,880
Speaker 4: You can decide to do that it's just a lifestyle change.

915
00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:43,000
Speaker 5: And the other thing, you, honest I doing is if

916
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 5: I don't have my keep cup, I'm not allowed to

917
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:48,959
Speaker 5: take away drink.

918
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Speaker 1: That's a good one. Oh my god. I love that.

919
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:53,000
Speaker 1: I need do that too.

920
00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:58,040
Speaker 4: That's amazing because it's just habit and lifestyle changes.

921
00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:00,319
Speaker 5: But I think it's important because I feel like we

922
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 5: and my children and your children's generations are gonna cop

923
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:07,720
Speaker 5: the brunt of it all in terms of climate change

924
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:11,800
Speaker 5: and yeah, all the things environmentally that are happening. So yeah,

925
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:14,439
Speaker 5: our touch space two weeks and we'll update each other.

926
00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 5: That's good accountability. And anyone else that wants to join,

927
00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 5: please feel free too.

928
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:19,840
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's such a good one, Such a

929
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Speaker 1: good one. Vim.

930
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Speaker 3: Well, I have a couple of other things on the list.

931
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Speaker 3: These are all in celebration of women and their achievements.

932
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:30,359
Speaker 3: So history has been made by nineteen year old Zara

933
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:33,560
Speaker 3: rather Fitch. She became the youngest female solo pilot to

934
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 3: circle the planet. Nadia Nadim fled Afghanistan at eleven after

935
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:41,319
Speaker 3: her father was killed by the Taliban. She scored two

936
00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:45,680
Speaker 3: hundred goals for Denmark's national team. Speaks nine languages, juggled

937
00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:48,919
Speaker 3: practice schedule while going to med school and this week

938
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:55,040
Speaker 3: became doctor Nadim. Incredible story, and they're just random ones

939
00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:56,759
Speaker 3: that I came across. And then the one that we've

940
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Speaker 3: spoken about quickly before, our favorite Maya Angelou, who is

941
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Speaker 3: going to be the subject of one of our Yesterday episodes.

942
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:04,680
Speaker 1: I'm just you know, trying that yesterday on.

943
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:08,400
Speaker 3: Phasize she became the first black wool to be featured

944
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Speaker 3: on the US Quarter.

945
00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:12,359
Speaker 1: So there is a.

946
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Speaker 3: US Treasury and US Mint program to honor, you know,

947
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:21,320
Speaker 3: amazing women who have played a big role in America's history,

948
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:26,719
Speaker 3: and I think it's called where is it the American

949
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 3: Women Quarters Program. So it's going to honor eighteen amazing

950
00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 3: women who have contributed to the course of history, and

951
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:37,440
Speaker 3: they'll have custom coins designed that are designed with their story.

952
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:40,120
Speaker 3: You know, I've actually read the story by the designer

953
00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 3: of the Maya Angelou Quarter about how she used the

954
00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:45,759
Speaker 3: negative space to represent certain things and you know, her

955
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:48,799
Speaker 3: arms are raised like wings. It's just there's so much

956
00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:50,719
Speaker 3: thought behind it, but's so cool that they're using their

957
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 3: currency as a way to honor someone who's like had

958
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 3: that much of an impact on their history. So I

959
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:58,440
Speaker 3: thought that was amazing. But there's like a whole program

960
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:00,840
Speaker 3: just for recognizing women, so good.

961
00:44:01,840 --> 00:44:03,280
Speaker 1: What are you even doing?

962
00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:03,799
Speaker 4: I'm just.

963
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 5: You know, I'll be successful people, and I'm here.

964
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:09,880
Speaker 4: Just beauty.

965
00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 1: Godby what are you doing?

966
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Speaker 5: Like comment subscribe?

967
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 3: Tell me about the projects for those listening again, we're

968
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:23,920
Speaker 3: always going to need like visuals. I'm always going to

969
00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:26,400
Speaker 3: refer to visuals because obviously if you listen to the podcast,

970
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:29,160
Speaker 3: you can't see. But I am very sweaty because the

971
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Speaker 3: room that I record in does not I can't have

972
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Speaker 3: air gone on because you can hear everything in the background.

973
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Speaker 3: So I've been patting my face with a makeup brush

974
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Speaker 3: and just picked up a ballpoint.

975
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Speaker 1: Pen and started doing it.

976
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:47,960
Speaker 3: Ielane a tutorial, Oh my god, you idiot, you can't

977
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:49,840
Speaker 3: get their mouth open technique?

978
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Speaker 1: Oh my god?

979
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:53,359
Speaker 3: And the rold eyes what is it about? Okay, your

980
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:55,719
Speaker 3: homework for next week? Figure out why.

981
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:57,960
Speaker 1: Women can't do mascara without their mouth open. I really

982
00:44:57,960 --> 00:44:58,359
Speaker 1: need to know.

983
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:01,160
Speaker 4: But I don't think it's a s reason. I think

984
00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:02,880
Speaker 4: it might be everyone does.

985
00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:04,719
Speaker 1: Shouldn't there be a scientific reason. I feel like there

986
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 1: should be anyone listening if there's a scientific reason. Can

987
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:07,719
Speaker 1: you please let us know?

988
00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 3: And very last section for today recommendations, Mine is from You,

989
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:20,080
Speaker 3: which we watched together. And it's one of those beautiful

990
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:24,120
Speaker 3: documentaries that taps into a form of YA that you

991
00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:26,279
Speaker 3: don't even have to ever think this is going to

992
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:28,120
Speaker 3: be your form of YA to appreciate, you know how.

993
00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:31,120
Speaker 3: Sometimes well, in every episode, pretty much with a guest,

994
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:34,279
Speaker 3: I dive deep into a niche that I've never heard

995
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:37,560
Speaker 3: about or really known much about. And this movie is

996
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:40,360
Speaker 3: Andrew's favorite movie ever called Free Solo and it's about

997
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:42,600
Speaker 3: free soloing, which I also didn't even know was a

998
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 3: thing called free soloing.

999
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:45,719
Speaker 1: So tell us about it, angeon why we should I

1000
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:46,239
Speaker 1: watch it?

1001
00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 5: It is one of my favorite movies of all time.

1002
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:49,000
Speaker 4: That and Icarus.

1003
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:51,160
Speaker 5: Icarus, those two movies I can watch again and again

1004
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:52,960
Speaker 5: and again, and I always recommend it, and I'm always like,

1005
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:55,960
Speaker 5: I'll watch it with you and then and then I've

1006
00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:58,480
Speaker 5: watched it like a six times. But essentially, Alex Ronald

1007
00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:03,160
Speaker 5: is a He boulders and he climbs rock, so he's

1008
00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:09,040
Speaker 5: rock climber, but he has this amazing want to climb

1009
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:12,279
Speaker 5: our cap which is this huge I think it was

1010
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:17,560
Speaker 5: like five thousand feet awesome, No, anyway, it's very it's

1011
00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:22,080
Speaker 5: huge climb that normally takes people, like sometimes people climb

1012
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:24,880
Speaker 5: a camp on the rock face because it's quite an

1013
00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:28,920
Speaker 5: arduous climb. It's really long and there's lots of different pitches.

1014
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:31,800
Speaker 5: Pictures are kind of segments on it that you climb. Anyway,

1015
00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:34,960
Speaker 5: his goal is to climate free soling, and free solwing

1016
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:38,440
Speaker 5: or solowing is when they do it without any harnesses

1017
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:39,040
Speaker 5: or anything.

1018
00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 4: They're not clipped into anything.

1019
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:45,280
Speaker 5: So he's genuinely climbing without ropes, without a harness, without

1020
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:50,239
Speaker 5: any protective gear. It's just him and it's this incredible

1021
00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:56,560
Speaker 5: feat of human just achievement, and he climbs like obviously

1022
00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:59,200
Speaker 5: you know the result because he's not dead, because essentially,

1023
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 5: if you do one thing wrong, you fall thousands of.

1024
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Speaker 4: Feet and that's it. Like, that's just it.

1025
00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:08,920
Speaker 5: I think it's like a five thousand or three to

1026
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:11,719
Speaker 5: five thousand feet just literally almost like a vertical rock

1027
00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:12,719
Speaker 5: face in Yosemity.

1028
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:13,640
Speaker 1: It's insane.

1029
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:16,240
Speaker 5: And you watch the documentary and he's got these little tiny,

1030
00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:20,000
Speaker 5: little pincer grip rocks that he's holding onto and you're

1031
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 5: just like, and his toe is what's holding him up

1032
00:47:22,239 --> 00:47:24,800
Speaker 5: or and he's climbing through crevices and he's going straight

1033
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:28,640
Speaker 5: up anyway. So you just go through his whole story

1034
00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 5: of how he gets up and how he achieves it,

1035
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 5: and just the training that's involved in the sycrifice that

1036
00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 5: goes behind it, and then you understand the athletic abilities

1037
00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 5: that he has to be able to do that. And

1038
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Speaker 5: the other thing that we really enjoyed, well, we didn't

1039
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:43,560
Speaker 5: really enjoy it, but that was interesting to see was

1040
00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 5: that his really great friends were filming and obviously had

1041
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 5: a lot of moral and a lot of cognitive dissonance

1042
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 5: in terms whether or not to film or not to film,

1043
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:56,720
Speaker 5: because essentially, if he did one wrong move or maneuver,

1044
00:47:57,440 --> 00:47:59,600
Speaker 5: he would fall and die.

1045
00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:02,400
Speaker 4: And they had to accept the fact.

1046
00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:05,240
Speaker 5: That that they may be there and watching and filming

1047
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 5: that all happen. But yeah, watch the movie. It's it's

1048
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:10,719
Speaker 5: one so many awards after it was. I think it

1049
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:13,600
Speaker 5: started as a very independent film and has now won

1050
00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:17,320
Speaker 5: so many awards, and it's even if you've never bolded

1051
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:18,520
Speaker 5: rock climbs anything before.

1052
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 4: It's really worth a watch, so highly recommend.

1053
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:26,760
Speaker 3: I feel like it's similar to the Richard Harris story.

1054
00:48:26,880 --> 00:48:28,959
Speaker 3: The cave Diver, which you guys all know is still

1055
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 3: my favorite episode. You don't have to love or ever

1056
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:34,239
Speaker 3: think you'll go technical cave diving to appreciate what it's

1057
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 3: like to see someone else's yay in that area, And like,

1058
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:41,600
Speaker 3: one of the coolest things from a yay perspective is

1059
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:45,280
Speaker 3: the idea that most people like can't think of anything worse,

1060
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:48,399
Speaker 3: like he's yay, he's pure yea. The thing that he's

1061
00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:50,200
Speaker 3: meant to do and that lights him up the most

1062
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:53,960
Speaker 3: is something that most people have such a stronger version to,

1063
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:56,960
Speaker 3: which is just a reminder that like, no one's meant

1064
00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 3: to be turned on by the same things or turned

1065
00:48:58,560 --> 00:48:59,279
Speaker 3: off by the same thing.

1066
00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:01,719
Speaker 1: So if you and something unusual to.

1067
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:04,400
Speaker 3: Be aya, that that's like we're built that way and

1068
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:06,879
Speaker 3: not and literally built that way. So my favorite part

1069
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:10,040
Speaker 3: of the whole show was the medical Like there's a

1070
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:13,200
Speaker 3: lot of He's obviously has some injuries, but also he's

1071
00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:15,560
Speaker 3: become the subject of a lot of studies of like

1072
00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:18,719
Speaker 3: why can he do this? Why is he so much

1073
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 3: better than other people? And if you've done a lot

1074
00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 3: of work, you know, anything into any research into kind

1075
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:26,960
Speaker 3: of neurology or neuroscience, the amygdala is the part of

1076
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 3: the brain responsible for fear and stress, and so all

1077
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:33,759
Speaker 3: that self doubt and risk aversion lives in the amygdala.

1078
00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:36,680
Speaker 3: And there's a standard test that you can do where

1079
00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:39,160
Speaker 3: you kind of get shown like a shark and you

1080
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:43,200
Speaker 3: get shown really fear provoking pictures and they measure your

1081
00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 3: brain with an MRA to see what kind of activity

1082
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:46,640
Speaker 3: is going on in your brain, and they can actually

1083
00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:49,719
Speaker 3: see that the average person has like a certain level

1084
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 3: of red activity and the amigdala because the fear in

1085
00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:58,319
Speaker 3: juicy pictures, Alex had nothing like actually no activity of

1086
00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:02,960
Speaker 3: fear whatsoever. He was literally built and born to have

1087
00:50:03,040 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 3: a higher threshold of fear than the average person, which

1088
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 3: means he's perfectly suited to this kind of activity because

1089
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Speaker 3: his brain actually doesn't register the fear like someone else.

1090
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Speaker 3: And that just for me, in a as a CZA

1091
00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:18,800
Speaker 3: focused person, was like, that's the key, right, We're all

1092
00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:22,359
Speaker 3: built for a different for different ingredients of stuff, and

1093
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:24,759
Speaker 3: so why do we keep this narrative of like I

1094
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 3: have to do what everyone else likes and I have

1095
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:28,440
Speaker 3: to hate what everyone else hates. It just blows my

1096
00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:31,800
Speaker 3: mind that that's still something we all kind of assume.

1097
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Speaker 5: Yeah, I think it's a mix of he was born

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Speaker 5: with a different sense of fear, but also he was

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Speaker 5: primed in that way. Also, he had been bordering since

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Speaker 5: he was a kid, a really young kid, and he.

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Speaker 4: Continued that for a very long time.

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Speaker 5: Like if we look at when we were kids and

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Speaker 5: the types of risks that we were taking, and you know,

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00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:53,920
Speaker 5: we were jumping off things, we all stopped doing that

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Speaker 5: at one point, whereas he never stopped. He kept climbing

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Speaker 5: all throughout his adult life. He lives in a van,

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00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:01,719
Speaker 5: and he was out of abound new climbs, rocks. He

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Speaker 5: does it without harnesses. He has continued to do so.

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Speaker 5: So his threshold for fear and what he needs to

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Speaker 5: kind of get that part of his brain responsive is,

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Speaker 5: like you said, a lot high.

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Speaker 4: In his much higher first sholder. So perhaps so that

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00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:17,680
Speaker 4: we just all need to we can all be a

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Speaker 4: little bit more childlike.

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Speaker 5: A bit more to be able to be more fearless

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Speaker 5: in life.

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Speaker 1: More playa interest, return to the childlike sense of wow.

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Speaker 4: Wow product placement.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, thank you so much for him for joining

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Speaker 1: me for another years of our lives. And guys, if.

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Speaker 3: You do have any suggestions to add to our massy

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00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 3: Couzy and his cares.

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Speaker 1: We will get on too.

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Speaker 3: We're kind of just still nutting out the structure of

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00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:50,759
Speaker 3: these historical episodes, but also let us know what you

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00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:54,480
Speaker 3: think of Yesterday as a name, but especially yeah, anyone

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00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:57,839
Speaker 3: that you would like us to do a little deep

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Speaker 3: dive into. I think they should be structured kind of

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00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:02,040
Speaker 3: sim lead to the normal episodes as if we got

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Speaker 3: to have that person on the show, but also maybe yeah,

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00:52:04,760 --> 00:52:06,759
Speaker 3: pull out a quote or something that they're really well

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00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:09,239
Speaker 3: known for. And my Angelou also definitely on there. I

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Speaker 3: don't know what my Angelou's nice abbreviation should be, like

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Speaker 3: mas Maya.

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Speaker 1: Angie power. How did not pick that?

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Speaker 4: That is?

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Speaker 1: So do you know?

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Speaker 3: I'm still really proud that your episode of CZ, like

1139
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Speaker 3: your very first actual interview episode.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:35,040
Speaker 3: Also, I forgot so many people asked how did we meet?

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00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:37,880
Speaker 3: I'm like, dude, We've told this story like so many times,

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00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:39,399
Speaker 3: but we can leave that for next time.

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00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:41,600
Speaker 4: I don't remember yes so many.

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Speaker 3: Times the very first episode firstly, but also when it

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00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:47,319
Speaker 3: was your interview episode, which I'm still so proud I

1147
00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:58,759
Speaker 3: called changing the game. Please do yes, we get two

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00:52:58,840 --> 00:52:59,680
Speaker 3: quotes of the age day.

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Speaker 5: I found the coat that I was Yeah, I found

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Speaker 5: the we met with the whole acc Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Everyone does things in their own time. Okay, so please

1152
00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:08,839
Speaker 4: que the oscars music.

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Speaker 3: Also, just quickly, I am thinking about adding music. Should

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00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:13,759
Speaker 3: I have music like dramatic music?

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00:53:14,080 --> 00:53:14,360
Speaker 5: Why not?

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Speaker 1: Anyway, just something to think about.

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00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:18,520
Speaker 4: Keep going sound effects and sound effects.

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Speaker 1: Okay, cool, cool cool?

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00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:23,320
Speaker 5: Okay, so in post production, please cue dramatic music.

1160
00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:27,400
Speaker 4: Okay. Someone graduated at twenty one.

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00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:29,520
Speaker 5: But it waited six years to get a good job.

1162
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:32,799
Speaker 5: Someone had no education but was a millionaire at twenty one.

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00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:35,839
Speaker 5: Someone got married at twenty but divorced five years later.

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00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:38,640
Speaker 5: And someone got married at thirty but found everlasting love.

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Speaker 5: You're not late, you're not early, You're just on time.

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Speaker 1: Oh been. That's such a good one. I love it,

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Speaker 1: Mike Drap mic Drop, I love that one. We're all

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Speaker 1: just on our own timeline. That's such a good reminder, guys.

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Speaker 3: And yeah, if you're not feeling like New Year is

1170
00:53:57,160 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 3: tonight and news days tomorrow, that's absolutely fine.

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Speaker 1: Just keep going on your own time. And thank you

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Speaker 1: guys all so much for joining