1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:01,680 Speaker 1: I don't think there's right time for anything, not with kids, 2 00:00:01,680 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: not with business, not with like talking to your friends 3 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 1: about certain things. It's just do things and try things 4 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:08,799 Speaker 1: and then a lot of the things won't work out, 5 00:00:08,840 --> 00:00:11,040 Speaker 1: and a lot of things will work out. But you've 6 00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: got to do so many things. If you don't have 7 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:16,439 Speaker 1: the foundations, you cannot take risks. You should be a 8 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:19,280 Speaker 1: risk taker only when you've got the foundation sorted. If 9 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 1: you follow what the market wants and know what you want, 10 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 1: you will be successful. If you follow what you want 11 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:26,720 Speaker 1: and not what the market wants, you won't be successful. 12 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: And that's the truth. 13 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:30,240 Speaker 2: Welcome to the Sees the Yay Podcast. 14 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 3: Busy and happy are not the same thing. We too 15 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 3: rarely question what makes the heart seeing. We work, then 16 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 3: we rest, but rarely we play and often don't realize 17 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:43,200 Speaker 3: there's more than one way. So this is a platform 18 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:45,559 Speaker 3: to hear and explore the stories of. 19 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 1: Those who found lives. 20 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:48,840 Speaker 3: They adore, the good, bad and ugly. 21 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:51,839 Speaker 2: The best and worst day will bear all the facets 22 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 2: of seizing your yay. I'm Sarah Davidson or a spoonful 23 00:00:56,640 --> 00:01:00,040 Speaker 2: of Sarah, a lawyer turned funentrepreneurshos wapped the Suits and 24 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 2: Heels to co found matcha Maiden and matcha Milk bar 25 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 2: CZA is a series of conversations on finding a life 26 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 2: you love and exploring the self doubt, challenge, joy and 27 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:16,760 Speaker 2: fulfillment along the way. Welcome back, Lovely neighborhood. I hope 28 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 2: the new financial year is treating you well so far, 29 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:21,120 Speaker 2: which might sound like a weird thing to say, but 30 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 2: since many of you have likedly been drawn to this 31 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 2: episode because you're business owners, I think it does actually 32 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:28,680 Speaker 2: make a lot of sense. I'm so excited to share 33 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 2: today's episode with you, not only because our guest is 34 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 2: infinitely knowledgeable and a delight to chat with, but also 35 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 2: because it ended. 36 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:37,040 Speaker 1: Up a little different to usual. 37 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:40,080 Speaker 2: Anita Saka and I have been mutually found girling for 38 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 2: many years now, doing a product partnership, doing speaking gigs together, 39 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:47,319 Speaker 2: plus living in different states in both being mums. It's 40 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 2: taken us a while to make this happen. But one 41 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:51,520 Speaker 2: of the many things I love about her is her 42 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 2: insatiable curiosity. Because of that, she not only didn't really 43 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 2: want to spend time on the parts of her origin 44 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 2: story or pathier that have been exhaustively covered elsewhere, which 45 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 2: you know, is something I also think about a lot. 46 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 2: But she also asked me more questions back than any 47 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 2: guest has before, which made for a slightly chaotic, very tangential, 48 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 2: surprisingly vulnerable, but extremely enjoyable conversation that possibly reveals more 49 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:20,239 Speaker 2: about both of us as people than our normal structure 50 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:23,720 Speaker 2: ever could have. But her path yay is incredibly inspiring, 51 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 2: interesting and impressive, so I have to quickly give you 52 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 2: a rundown so you know the genius that you're dealing with. 53 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 2: Born in India as the daughter of a doctor, Anita 54 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:34,800 Speaker 2: started out on your typical high achieving pathway at KPMG 55 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:39,919 Speaker 2: before quickly realizing her yay lay elsewhere after multiple different 56 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:43,640 Speaker 2: business experiments. Early on elucidating that endless curiosity, we spoke 57 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:47,920 Speaker 2: about touching on a makeup, photography and customized leather goods. 58 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 2: She co founded Hero Packaging from her dining table, which 59 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 2: has now grown to be a global supplier of over 60 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:59,360 Speaker 2: thirty million combustible mailers. Addressing plastic usage in shipping, This 61 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:05,400 Speaker 2: incredible b corporation makes compostible, custom and ready to ship mailers, boxes, labels, 62 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:06,240 Speaker 2: and tissue paper. 63 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 1: And if you think you've heard of them, before. 64 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 2: That's because CZA is just one of her seventy three 65 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 2: thousand happy customers. You may also know Anita as the 66 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:20,640 Speaker 2: brains behind sell Anything Online, a bustling community, the banner 67 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 2: under which she's published two amazing books and the Ultimate 68 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 2: Evolving playbook on the wild world of e commerce. She 69 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 2: has mastered the art of building brands, telling stories, and 70 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:34,639 Speaker 2: continually reinventing yourself. And we're so lucky that she shared 71 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 2: so many practical tips in between our yapping today. I 72 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 2: was furiously taking notes, and I'm sure most of you 73 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 2: will as well. 74 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:42,320 Speaker 1: Somehow. 75 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 2: She's also a mum of three in between all of 76 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 2: this and building a brand new business at the moment. 77 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 2: So if you're after a dose of inspiration, Anita is it. 78 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 2: I hope you enjoy this one as much as I did. Anita, Hi, 79 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 2: Welcome to Cca. 80 00:03:56,880 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 1: Thank you for having me. I'm so excited. 81 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 2: We have been trying to make this happen for it's 82 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:02,720 Speaker 2: been six months. 83 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 1: Can I can I come? Now? Can I come? And 84 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 1: like we can't make this work? 85 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 2: I'm glad I'm here though, and you're actually in person, 86 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 2: in the best so exciting, Oh my gosh, Well, thank 87 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 2: you so much. 88 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 1: For being here. 89 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:18,480 Speaker 2: I feel like anything worth doing takes at least seventy 90 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 2: five reschedules in this day and age, and it just 91 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 2: makes it all the more special when it does happen. 92 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 1: But I mean, we've got to manage the work schedules. 93 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:29,280 Speaker 1: And then also you're obviously in Melbourne, I'm in Sydney. 94 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 1: The kids, like, there's just so many variables, so to 95 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:36,119 Speaker 1: make it is a miracle. It's actually a miracle. Actually, 96 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:38,039 Speaker 1: that's a big celebration to be had. 97 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 2: I'm really really proud of us making it today, and 98 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 2: because I mean we've been mutually fan girling each other 99 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 2: for many many years now. So I actually was really 100 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 2: overwhelmed last night trying to work out what I wanted 101 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 2: to concentrate on, because I mean, you have two incredible books, 102 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 2: you have so much content across so many platforms and 103 00:04:57,560 --> 00:04:59,320 Speaker 2: as such a fountain of knowledge that I was like, 104 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:00,720 Speaker 2: I only have an hour, like I need to do 105 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:04,279 Speaker 2: on Anita mini series to just get out everything that 106 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 2: I want to get out. So it was really hard 107 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:09,160 Speaker 2: to kind of choose where to go. And for that reason, 108 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:12,839 Speaker 2: I think a lot of people listening will already follow 109 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 2: you and might know your origin story. Founding Hero, which 110 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 2: is actually your second business and actually not your second project. 111 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 2: There have been many along the way, so I don't 112 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:23,920 Speaker 2: want to spend too long. I think we discussed this 113 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:26,360 Speaker 2: off air, not spending too long on all the steps, 114 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 2: because you can hear that elsewhere. But I think it's 115 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:30,239 Speaker 2: important to touch on a few of the dot points 116 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:33,040 Speaker 2: just to give context. Okay, so maybe let's start there, 117 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 2: because the path ya to the life that you live 118 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:39,160 Speaker 2: now is the bit that doesn't get as much airtime. 119 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:41,719 Speaker 2: It's the bit that I think is reassuring to people 120 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 2: who are earlier on in their journey because we meet 121 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 2: you now, you're a CEO, You're incredibly successful and have 122 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 2: so much knowledge. 123 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 1: Oh, I will stop you there, because it's like the 124 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 1: incredibly successful thing is such a that's what you see 125 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 1: on social media and stuff. So I will stop you because, okay, 126 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 1: let me give you some context of like how this happened? Yes, 127 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 1: and I am here. And it's so funny because when 128 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 1: people ask me questions, first of all, they're always like, 129 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 1: how did you start Hero Packaging? But actually that's such 130 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 1: a bye the bye, Like there's so much else that 131 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:13,480 Speaker 1: has brought me to Hero Packaging. But I don't know 132 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:14,680 Speaker 1: how far you want me to go back. We can 133 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:16,559 Speaker 1: go back to nineteen eighty seven. 134 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 2: I was born in nineteen eighty seven, okay, so I 135 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 2: want to go back to good arright India and a 136 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 2: research girl, a research okay, a research So I want 137 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 2: to go back that far because I think, like you said, 138 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:33,159 Speaker 2: like everyone focuses on how did you found Hero? Because 139 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:35,919 Speaker 2: that's the chapter we walk in on now, and that 140 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:38,599 Speaker 2: we think is started when like I think people assume 141 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 2: you fell onto the planet and started Hero. Well, I 142 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 2: love on this show is the context from your childhood. 143 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 2: It is, like I mean, even the fact that you're 144 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:50,799 Speaker 2: the daughter of a doctor and there's a lot. 145 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:54,239 Speaker 1: Of pressure on you to interpret success and chase. 146 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:56,480 Speaker 2: A certain kind of success and you didn't do that, 147 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:58,599 Speaker 2: and so there's many people who face those pressures in 148 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:01,719 Speaker 2: finding their pathway. I love that you're the daughter of 149 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:03,839 Speaker 2: a doctor and it wasn't your dad who was the doctor, 150 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:05,039 Speaker 2: it's your mum who's the doctor. 151 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 1: Of that in itself is really unique. And it's even 152 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 1: more unique that my dad was a musician. Yeah, and 153 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:13,320 Speaker 1: like my mum was his groupie and she was the 154 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 1: one studying and he's really smart, like he did PhD 155 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:18,960 Speaker 1: of mathematics and stuff, but his whole life is like 156 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 1: music and being on stage. And so I saw them 157 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 1: as really high achievers growing up, and they were like, 158 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 1: you know, obviously came from India, and we were just 159 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:31,760 Speaker 1: trying to like fucking survive, like you know, going to 160 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 1: all these little different vegetable shops and being like this 161 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 1: carrot is cheaper here. Then, you know, like all that stuff. 162 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 1: And every Saturday night I would see my dad perform 163 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 1: at different people's houses so that he could make friends. 164 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 1: And then that's how they kind of got their family friends. 165 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 1: Like he would sing for people and then other people 166 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 1: would invite him over and we would just go. And 167 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 1: I remember like, because I was little, I would sleep 168 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 1: on his lap on stay at the front, and he'd 169 00:07:58,760 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 1: sing for people. And then and like I remember the 170 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 1: adoration that people had for him, and I was like, 171 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:06,040 Speaker 1: I really want that. I didn't think about it consciously, 172 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:08,760 Speaker 1: it was really subconscious, but I really want that recognition. 173 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 1: And then my mom being a doctor. She I don't 174 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 1: know if you know Sydney very well, but she's a 175 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 1: doctor in Paramatta and Sydney which is like western suburbs 176 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 1: and a lot of Indian people live in Paramatta and 177 00:08:19,280 --> 00:08:22,600 Speaker 1: Harris Park, so she became like the doctor to go 178 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 1: to if you're Indian and so, and then the adoration 179 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 1: for her was so extreme too. And like once we 180 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 1: went to Egypt and you know, someone at Egypt airport 181 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 1: was like, are you doctor Pollu No, and like it 182 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 1: happens all the time, and then they'll go and they'll 183 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:40,560 Speaker 1: see my dad and like I grew up with like, yes, 184 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 1: it was like a struggle financially, la la la. But 185 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 1: I actually grew up seeing them as like like people 186 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 1: like worship them, That's what I thought, and they recognized 187 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 1: them and stuff, and I was like, I don't know 188 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:54,240 Speaker 1: if I could ever be that person. I never what 189 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:56,200 Speaker 1: am I going to do? And so I had I 190 00:08:56,240 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 1: grew up wanting that, and then I took the good 191 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 1: girl pathway, like the pathway, you know, that's what you 192 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 1: have to do. But I wasn't getting the recognition. And 193 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:08,079 Speaker 1: I remember thinking like, well, I quit my accounting job. 194 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:09,800 Speaker 1: Then I tried media and I quit that. Then I 195 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:11,920 Speaker 1: went into marketing and I quit that and I actually 196 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 1: literally could not figure out for the life of me 197 00:09:13,840 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 1: while I was quitting because the people are so nice, Like, yes, 198 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:21,000 Speaker 1: accounting sucks, but other than that, marketing was great. Went 199 00:09:21,040 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 1: to nice lunches in media, like the people were amazing, 200 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:25,679 Speaker 1: the culture is so good. And I'm quitting all the time, 201 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:27,959 Speaker 1: quitting within ten months and I couldn't figure it out. 202 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 1: And I realized only recently that I love recognition. And 203 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 1: that's such a bad thing to say, because it sounds 204 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:39,679 Speaker 1: really selfishous, like saying I like money, you know what 205 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:41,719 Speaker 1: I mean. But I've come to realize that. I think 206 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 1: growing up, I saw my parents really want like have that, 207 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 1: and all I really wanted was recognition, and I wanted 208 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 1: them to say like, wow, I'm so proud of you. 209 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:52,720 Speaker 1: And one day I'd like to be like they would 210 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 1: be my parents, not me being their daughter, if that 211 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:57,320 Speaker 1: makes sense. When I went out in public, so anyway, 212 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:00,200 Speaker 1: that's what I decided to do, like I quit every thing. 213 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:02,600 Speaker 1: And when I realized that for myself, and I started 214 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:04,720 Speaker 1: a business and then I started to do little bits 215 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 1: of content and I saw people on social and then 216 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:10,080 Speaker 1: out on the street and stuff who would say like, 217 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 1: I really like your content. I was like, oh my god, 218 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 1: I'm getting I'm getting recognition. It sounds petty, though, right, 219 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 1: like when you say something like that, like why do 220 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 1: you care what other people think? It's just something that 221 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:23,760 Speaker 1: I have grown up with and it's just something I 222 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 1: always wanted. And so now when you say, like, oh 223 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:30,240 Speaker 1: my god, I researched you to me, the girl who 224 00:10:30,360 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 1: I look up to has researched, I know it sounds bad, 225 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:36,080 Speaker 1: but it's like, it doesn't sound matter. It's just so 226 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 1: nice to hear that, Like you knew that I was 227 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 1: born in Goodrath in India. That's so fucking wile that 228 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:47,240 Speaker 1: you researched me and so interesting. But it's so nice 229 00:10:47,280 --> 00:10:49,440 Speaker 1: to feel like, oh my god, have I made it 230 00:10:49,480 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 1: like Sarah fucking Davidson. 231 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 2: Nose where I was born Sarah. And you know what's 232 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 2: really interesting is that that honesty is quite rare. 233 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 1: I think the self reflection. 234 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 2: You must have done to have worked out through the many, 235 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:08,959 Speaker 2: many chapters that you've had that that is part of 236 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 2: what gives you fulfillment is so important because I think 237 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 2: the common threat in everyone's path Yay on the show 238 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:18,559 Speaker 2: and otherwise, is that we spend a long time chasing 239 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:21,240 Speaker 2: lots of different things and figuring out what the things 240 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 2: are worth chasing. 241 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 1: That actually matter to us. 242 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 2: And I think that where people go awry is where 243 00:11:26,800 --> 00:11:28,680 Speaker 2: they chase things that matter to other people and they 244 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 2: don't figure out what actually matters to them. So true, 245 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:33,719 Speaker 2: and there is definitely a bit of a negative connotation 246 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:36,280 Speaker 2: with seeking external validation. 247 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:37,720 Speaker 1: I think there's so much around. 248 00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:39,320 Speaker 2: I don't do it for other people. I do it 249 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:43,600 Speaker 2: for myself. But it's actually okay to acknowledge that that 250 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:47,440 Speaker 2: adoration and that kind of external reinforcement is something that 251 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:49,480 Speaker 2: makes you feel really good and when you're not getting it, 252 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:52,680 Speaker 2: you aren't fulfilled. It's actually okay to acknowledge the jigsaw 253 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 2: puzzle pieces that were missing for you and how good 254 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 2: it felt when you found them. 255 00:11:56,559 --> 00:11:59,000 Speaker 1: It's so right, like I think, because everyone tells you've 256 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:01,600 Speaker 1: got to find that within your and I do. There 257 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:03,400 Speaker 1: is a lot of that that you have to but 258 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 1: it is nice to recognize that that's what I need 259 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 1: in my life too. I need a little bit more recognition, 260 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:10,640 Speaker 1: and so when I realize that I can actually create 261 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 1: a pathway that gets me that sort of stuff, as 262 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:17,000 Speaker 1: well as having the stability, Like I am happy at home, 263 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:19,120 Speaker 1: I've got a nice family, and I'm also happy inside, 264 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:21,520 Speaker 1: but I also get that recognition too makes me happy 265 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 1: on all fronts. 266 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:25,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think one of the most worthy thing 267 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 2: that anyone can do is look at all the buckets 268 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:32,080 Speaker 2: of different kinds of success. I think this is where, yeah, 269 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 2: things get really complicated, is that we worship particular kinds 270 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 2: of success, but look at all of them and then 271 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:42,080 Speaker 2: match up yourself and your decisions based on the ones 272 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 2: that suit you, because they're not all going to look 273 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:45,760 Speaker 2: the same. And I think, yeah, we spend too much 274 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 2: time chasing titles, finances, stability, parents, expectations. Yeah, not realizing 275 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:56,560 Speaker 2: it's okay. If your definition of success is different. 276 00:12:56,440 --> 00:12:57,040 Speaker 1: It's yours. 277 00:12:57,040 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 2: And I love that. That's a really great question, and 278 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:03,439 Speaker 2: I haven't had to articulate it in a little while. 279 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 2: I would say it's changed a lot over the past 280 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:09,440 Speaker 2: for ten months, and if anything, I think I'm now 281 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:12,480 Speaker 2: in a chapter where i've my answer is very confused 282 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:17,440 Speaker 2: because I think before parenthood, let's take parenthood out of it. 283 00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:23,680 Speaker 2: Oh see, that's why it's so hard to answer. It's 284 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:26,560 Speaker 2: similar to you in that it's it is more external 285 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:31,679 Speaker 2: than I probably have acknowledged before. It's the I think 286 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:34,200 Speaker 2: I would define it by impact. It's not so much 287 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 2: the fame recognition of it. It's the verbalization of someone 288 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 2: having been impacted positively by something that I said, or 289 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:46,680 Speaker 2: did or put out there. So that's why I do. 290 00:13:46,880 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 2: I love podcasting, but I find that unless I can 291 00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:52,439 Speaker 2: meet the listeners and hear that it has been worth 292 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 2: it for them, then my measure of success numbers alone 293 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:58,680 Speaker 2: or downloads alone in the abstract is not enough. I 294 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:02,520 Speaker 2: need to yeah, yeah, and not in a recognition sense, 295 00:14:02,520 --> 00:14:05,480 Speaker 2: but more in a I want And I hate this 296 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 2: phrase so much, but I can't think of a better one. 297 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 2: I want to know that something I did move the 298 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:13,080 Speaker 2: dial for someone else along their pathway and hearing that 299 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:18,200 Speaker 2: to me, I don't think I did when I was 300 00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 2: doing Matro made and I think that that's maybe why 301 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 2: I wanted to sell in the end, because the metrics 302 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:28,720 Speaker 2: in business for me personally were very much focused around 303 00:14:29,440 --> 00:14:34,000 Speaker 2: revenue and growth year on year, profitability, you know that 304 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:37,360 Speaker 2: kind of like sales figures and the shells were on 305 00:14:37,440 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 2: and I was like, that doesn't show me impact. I 306 00:14:40,440 --> 00:14:42,960 Speaker 2: don't get to meet enough customers, and the bigger the 307 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 2: business gets, the less I spend time in that role 308 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 2: interacting with people on the ground. Whereas doing content you 309 00:14:50,160 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 2: get dams back of all the time that particular piece 310 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:54,480 Speaker 2: of content was useful for me because blah, and I 311 00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:57,920 Speaker 2: think it's yeah similar, I realized the business helped me 312 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:00,800 Speaker 2: take one step out of corporate, but I needed to 313 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:04,520 Speaker 2: take a further step towards I need the people facing 314 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 2: and I wasn't getting that. Yeah, And that was my 315 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:10,800 Speaker 2: yet lesson of Okay, this success. I'm getting lots of success, 316 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 2: but not the kind that I need. And so let's 317 00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 2: pivot a little bit just to give you clarity. 318 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:16,800 Speaker 1: From my point of view, you have given me a 319 00:15:16,840 --> 00:15:20,000 Speaker 1: lot of impact, like, and you've impacted also my friends. 320 00:15:20,040 --> 00:15:22,400 Speaker 1: I'll tell you a little story. So one of my 321 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:25,120 Speaker 1: really good friends is Claire from l Row Jewelry, and 322 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:27,040 Speaker 1: you collaborated with them love come. 323 00:15:27,400 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 324 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:30,920 Speaker 1: So the stuff that she said about you was just 325 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:33,120 Speaker 1: so like it was probably one of their best that 326 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:35,600 Speaker 1: they've ever done. Like they restocked your stuff one hundred 327 00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:38,360 Speaker 1: times over, and like do they just love you? And 328 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 1: I love you, like you actually have had impact on people, 329 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:47,000 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? And me, thank you. I 330 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:48,880 Speaker 1: just want to say that just so like you have 331 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:51,000 Speaker 1: that from my point of view as well. 332 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:53,280 Speaker 2: Oh, that's really kind, and that was such a lovely 333 00:15:53,360 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 2: question because I haven't reflected on that in a little while, 334 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 2: and I think I will come to this because this 335 00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:00,200 Speaker 2: is a question I wanted to ask you about out 336 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:04,880 Speaker 2: from a macro perspective. So firstly, I'm going all over 337 00:16:04,920 --> 00:16:06,880 Speaker 2: the place here. My brain's just way too excited for 338 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:09,120 Speaker 2: anyone listening who wants to hear more about the actual 339 00:16:09,160 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 2: chronology of Anita's journey. You did an incredible episode recently 340 00:16:12,840 --> 00:16:16,720 Speaker 2: of The Payoff with Sylvia Jeffery Yes, and an episode 341 00:16:16,720 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 2: with Mark Buris on The Mentor, and you kind of 342 00:16:20,320 --> 00:16:23,200 Speaker 2: go through the chronological process of the different businesses you've 343 00:16:23,200 --> 00:16:26,360 Speaker 2: found leaving KPMG, the different businesses you've founded first exiting 344 00:16:26,400 --> 00:16:29,360 Speaker 2: Olivia and co starting Hero and if anyone wants more 345 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:31,440 Speaker 2: detail there, please go and listen to those episodes. It 346 00:16:31,480 --> 00:16:34,080 Speaker 2: was brilliantly done. But from a macro perspective, what I 347 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:38,360 Speaker 2: wanted to ask you is you have done makeup photography, 348 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:42,120 Speaker 2: a packaging business, a content you're people facing. 349 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:43,360 Speaker 1: Now you've got your personal brand. 350 00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:46,160 Speaker 2: You've just started a new business called Future Memories, and 351 00:16:46,200 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 2: I wanted to ask you about the art of reinvention 352 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:52,720 Speaker 2: because I think you have been brilliant at knowing when 353 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:56,280 Speaker 2: is the time for the next chapter. And all of 354 00:16:56,280 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 2: the chapters have been very different from each other. They're 355 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:01,120 Speaker 2: never just copy and pasting the same thing. You've gone 356 00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:04,359 Speaker 2: from B to B to you're the brand like your product. 357 00:17:04,520 --> 00:17:06,080 Speaker 2: You've got a product business. And then if you're a 358 00:17:06,080 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 2: business where you're the product, how do you know when 359 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 2: it's time for a new chapter? 360 00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 1: How do you choose what that chapter? There's no planning. 361 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:17,280 Speaker 1: I would love to know your process because you have 362 00:17:17,440 --> 00:17:20,720 Speaker 1: done planning. Like I just think, yolo, that's how That's 363 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:23,360 Speaker 1: how I live my life. Like I am like, I 364 00:17:23,440 --> 00:17:26,480 Speaker 1: just feel like we only get this one life. And 365 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:28,679 Speaker 1: if someone is like personal brand is the next thing, 366 00:17:28,720 --> 00:17:30,479 Speaker 1: I'm like, I want to do it too. Like if 367 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:32,040 Speaker 1: someone is saying to me like, oh, I've got this 368 00:17:32,119 --> 00:17:34,439 Speaker 1: business idea, like do you want to help me to 369 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:36,879 Speaker 1: do xoz, I'll be like, let's go. If someone says 370 00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:40,040 Speaker 1: like go to Adelaide and like speak on stage about plants, 371 00:17:40,080 --> 00:17:42,959 Speaker 1: I'll be like, let's go. I just I and then 372 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:45,439 Speaker 1: if I like it, I'll start building a business or 373 00:17:45,480 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 1: content around that. And like there's no plan or structure 374 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:51,600 Speaker 1: in this world. For me, it's just there's no right 375 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:53,479 Speaker 1: timing or anything, and I don't think there's right time 376 00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:55,119 Speaker 1: for anything, not with kids, not with business, not with 377 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:57,639 Speaker 1: like talking to your friends about certain things. It's just 378 00:17:58,080 --> 00:18:00,560 Speaker 1: you just do things and try things, and then a 379 00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:02,360 Speaker 1: lot of the things won't work out, and a lot 380 00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:04,640 Speaker 1: of things will work out, but you've got to do 381 00:18:04,760 --> 00:18:07,159 Speaker 1: so many things, Like I love that, I love that 382 00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:09,800 Speaker 1: I've probably got how old am I'm thirty seven, so 383 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:13,800 Speaker 1: maybe like another fifty years or something to do everything 384 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:16,120 Speaker 1: that I can possibly do. So I'm trying it all. 385 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 1: And why not? Is it an itch that you get? 386 00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:21,000 Speaker 2: Because I posted something last night saying that I personally 387 00:18:21,040 --> 00:18:23,120 Speaker 2: feel like I've reached a stage where I have big 388 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:26,760 Speaker 2: new chapter energy, yes, but not enough time or brain 389 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:28,359 Speaker 2: space to work out what that chapter. 390 00:18:28,600 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 1: It's also because you're really looking after Teddy at the moment. 391 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:34,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I've got the itch, but I don't have the 392 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:35,439 Speaker 2: space to create. 393 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 1: Of course it is. 394 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 2: Do you get an itch? So for everyone listening, Anita 395 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:42,920 Speaker 2: had Olivia and Co. Was your first business? Yes, and 396 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:45,880 Speaker 2: that was a monogramming leather goods and accessories business. You've 397 00:18:45,920 --> 00:18:50,600 Speaker 2: since exited that, then the packaging plastic issue in that 398 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 2: business led to Hero Packaging, Yes, and that has now 399 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:56,920 Speaker 2: got seventy three thousand customers. It is a multi billion 400 00:18:57,000 --> 00:19:00,440 Speaker 2: dollar business. But then you've since got how to sell 401 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:03,880 Speaker 2: anything online. Like do you get itchy point in time? 402 00:19:04,040 --> 00:19:04,880 Speaker 2: Is it curiosity? 403 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:07,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's curiosity. That's exactly what it is. Okay, It's 404 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:10,359 Speaker 1: like I want to see if I can do it, Okay, yeah, 405 00:19:10,560 --> 00:19:13,440 Speaker 1: Like it's so fun. Also, I'm not doing that many things, 406 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 1: I don't think. You don't think. I feel like it's 407 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:18,199 Speaker 1: a lot of different things. I don't think. So like 408 00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:20,960 Speaker 1: you could argue that about everybody and like all their 409 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:22,840 Speaker 1: hobbies and what they want to do and stuff. I 410 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:25,679 Speaker 1: am really picking the things that I really want to 411 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:28,320 Speaker 1: do in my life. But I have to say as well, 412 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:31,800 Speaker 1: I have the privilege of, like I have a husband 413 00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:34,040 Speaker 1: who does a lot of the parenting too, So like 414 00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 1: I think we should just like be really clear about that, 415 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:39,040 Speaker 1: because if I was doing the majority of the parenting, 416 00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 1: there's absolutely no way you can like run like multiple 417 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:45,320 Speaker 1: businesses and go traveling and do this and like speak 418 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:47,040 Speaker 1: on stage and then go into state for this and 419 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:50,240 Speaker 1: da da da. It's not possible. So there is a 420 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 1: privilege there, and I think a lot of if we're 421 00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:55,359 Speaker 1: speaking to women, a lot of women don't have the 422 00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:57,760 Speaker 1: same opportunity. So I don't want to be like, just 423 00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:01,360 Speaker 1: do it, it's easy. Yeah, it's not easy. And when 424 00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:04,560 Speaker 1: I am parenting and I find myself on my phone 425 00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:06,639 Speaker 1: and when the kids are around and I'm just like 426 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:09,400 Speaker 1: doing things, and then I catch myself and like, this 427 00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:12,080 Speaker 1: is not work time. So I think when you don't 428 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:13,919 Speaker 1: have the space, you don't have the space. But if 429 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:16,520 Speaker 1: you've got the itch, I think the question is kind 430 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:17,880 Speaker 1: of like if you've got the each where you don't 431 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 1: have the space, like or the time, what do you do? 432 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:22,679 Speaker 1: I think you can have the building blocks to understand 433 00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:24,879 Speaker 1: what to do when you do have time and space, 434 00:20:25,040 --> 00:20:27,639 Speaker 1: because one of the biggest things about doing something is 435 00:20:27,760 --> 00:20:31,639 Speaker 1: planning for it. So, for example, on a really small scale, 436 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 1: if I want to create like thirty pieces of content, right, 437 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:36,760 Speaker 1: I know that I don't have the time and the 438 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:38,680 Speaker 1: space if I've got the kids or I'm doing something 439 00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:40,439 Speaker 1: and I'm busy. So what I'll do when I have 440 00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:43,560 Speaker 1: even five minutes is make a plan of everything that 441 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:45,600 Speaker 1: I need to create. And so when it comes time 442 00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:48,439 Speaker 1: where I do have ten minutes free time, that's the 443 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:50,960 Speaker 1: time where I've gone create it. So same thing with 444 00:20:51,080 --> 00:20:53,639 Speaker 1: everything else. Like if you want to, for example, I 445 00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:56,560 Speaker 1: don't know, like write a book, you need to plan 446 00:20:56,600 --> 00:20:58,720 Speaker 1: it out, write out all the chapters, like the titles, 447 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:00,480 Speaker 1: and then go and write when you have the time, 448 00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:02,800 Speaker 1: not think about it at that time, because thinking and 449 00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:06,320 Speaker 1: executing at the same time is impossible. I love that. 450 00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:08,360 Speaker 2: But that's so fascinating that you do do so much 451 00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:10,400 Speaker 2: planning for your ideas once you have them. 452 00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:13,520 Speaker 1: But at a macro level you don't think about your chundry. 453 00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:17,840 Speaker 1: Is that such a contrary? I just say yes, yes, yes, yeah, interesting, 454 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:19,720 Speaker 1: figure it out, okay. 455 00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:21,240 Speaker 2: So one of the things I've read that you've said, 456 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:23,840 Speaker 2: so maybe for anyone who has tuned into this because 457 00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:26,400 Speaker 2: they want to start a business, have started a business, 458 00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 2: or have reached that really difficult part in business where 459 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:31,760 Speaker 2: the starting isn't actually as hard as growing it. Like 460 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:33,959 Speaker 2: I feel like launching a business, you get a lot 461 00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:36,760 Speaker 2: of momentum from novelty. It's then after that it gets 462 00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:38,640 Speaker 2: a little bit hard to grow it. But I feel 463 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:40,080 Speaker 2: like a lot of people will have tuned in, you know, 464 00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:42,040 Speaker 2: at any of those stages because they're interested in business. 465 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:44,120 Speaker 2: One of the things that I have always said, which 466 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:46,560 Speaker 2: I now scale back, is find a gap in the 467 00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:49,760 Speaker 2: market where you're the consumer and follow your passion. And 468 00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:52,920 Speaker 2: I loved reading from you that you recommend the opposite 469 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:55,680 Speaker 2: that you can't just go and do what you want 470 00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:57,960 Speaker 2: to do. You have to do what the market wants 471 00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:01,560 Speaker 2: you to do. So start there, maybe, Yeah, tell us 472 00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:04,359 Speaker 2: about when you do have a new idea, how do 473 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:07,240 Speaker 2: you reverse engineer what you're going to do with it. 474 00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:10,040 Speaker 2: Because I stumbled into Matcher, I wasn't like the market 475 00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:10,600 Speaker 2: needs a Matcher. 476 00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:12,680 Speaker 1: I was like, I want Matcher. Yes, I mean that's 477 00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:15,280 Speaker 1: great and it worked so the the time. I don't 478 00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:18,040 Speaker 1: know about now. Well, ideally you have something that you 479 00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:19,760 Speaker 1: love and then also what the market wants, and then 480 00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:21,320 Speaker 1: you make a lot of money off of that, because 481 00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:24,639 Speaker 1: that is just perfect. But if you have to choose 482 00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 1: between what you want and what the market wants, you 483 00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:28,160 Speaker 1: have to go with the market. I believe I will 484 00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:31,040 Speaker 1: always I will die on that hill like I and 485 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:33,560 Speaker 1: a lot of people. When I said that on the 486 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:36,560 Speaker 1: other podcast, a lot of people kind of got a 487 00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:38,919 Speaker 1: little angry at me, and they were saying you know, 488 00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:41,920 Speaker 1: follow your passion, like I followed mine and I'm successful, 489 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:45,040 Speaker 1: and I think that's amazing for you. But what you've 490 00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:47,119 Speaker 1: actually done is followed your passion and you've found what 491 00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:49,919 Speaker 1: the market wants. You haven't just followed your passion. The 492 00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:53,240 Speaker 1: market wants it, and therefore you're successful. So, for example, 493 00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 1: if you follow what the market wants and not what 494 00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:58,399 Speaker 1: you want, you will be successful. If you follow what 495 00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:00,199 Speaker 1: you want and not what the market wants, you want 496 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:03,240 Speaker 1: be successful. And that's the truth. Yeah, it's really hard 497 00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:06,520 Speaker 1: to figure out what that is. I want to ask 498 00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:09,040 Speaker 1: you a question though, right, Yeah, because like you speak 499 00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 1: all the time, you've got this podcast, you've tried a business. 500 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:16,520 Speaker 1: So when you say you've got the itch, like, are 501 00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:19,520 Speaker 1: you wanting to start something for you something that you've 502 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:22,360 Speaker 1: been passionate about, or is it because like you've seen 503 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:23,600 Speaker 1: a gap in the market. Yeah. 504 00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:26,240 Speaker 2: So this is actually why this is selfishly a really 505 00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:29,199 Speaker 2: good time for me to talk to you, is because 506 00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:32,359 Speaker 2: when we started Match Maiden, it was very much I 507 00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:34,240 Speaker 2: saw a gap in the market because I was in 508 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:36,520 Speaker 2: the gap. So it's like what I was passionate about 509 00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:39,679 Speaker 2: and what the gap in the market was aligned and 510 00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:42,960 Speaker 2: timing aligned. Everything was like all these divine circumstances aligned. 511 00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:48,000 Speaker 2: Plus I was itchy to find something beyond my corporate pathway. 512 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:49,960 Speaker 1: Now it's a little bit different. 513 00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:52,680 Speaker 2: I don't have the idea, and that's very unusual because 514 00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:54,639 Speaker 2: normally I have the idea and then I make space 515 00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:58,040 Speaker 2: for it. Now I've got the itch for the next 516 00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:00,480 Speaker 2: project and not the idea. So that was my question 517 00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:02,760 Speaker 2: for you. Is I always used to say, like, if 518 00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:05,119 Speaker 2: you want to start a business, don't reverse engineer the idea. 519 00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:08,439 Speaker 2: Wait until you've got something that you are intimately familiar with, 520 00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:10,280 Speaker 2: or that's in your wheelhouse, or that you've got some 521 00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:13,720 Speaker 2: connection to. But hearing you say the opposite advice was 522 00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:15,560 Speaker 2: really interesting to me because I was like, actually, you 523 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:19,040 Speaker 2: can reverse engineer an idea. Like speaking to, you know, 524 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:21,160 Speaker 2: the founders of July recently, they were like, we have 525 00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:23,880 Speaker 2: no idea about suitcases, Like we're not suitcase experts. 526 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:25,240 Speaker 1: We just realized that there was a gap. 527 00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:28,800 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, maybe you should reverse engineer the 528 00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:32,400 Speaker 2: idea by looking at what gaps are available to exploit, 529 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:34,040 Speaker 2: even if you don't have a connection with that. 530 00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:36,280 Speaker 1: I was like, maybe I was doing it all wrong. 531 00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:38,360 Speaker 1: I don't think you're doing it wrong. I think it's 532 00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:40,480 Speaker 1: more like I actually don't think there are that many 533 00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:42,720 Speaker 1: gaps anymore in the market. There are thousands of businesses 534 00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 1: starting every single day trying to fill gaps, and there's 535 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:48,400 Speaker 1: no more gap. So everything is competitive, everything is commoditized, 536 00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:50,800 Speaker 1: Everything looks the same to everybody. What you need to 537 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,639 Speaker 1: do is find something that you really think that you 538 00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:55,760 Speaker 1: can do well in. So like something maybe that is 539 00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:58,000 Speaker 1: a passion point for you, and then look at all 540 00:24:58,040 --> 00:24:59,800 Speaker 1: the businesses that are doing it and look where they're 541 00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:02,399 Speaker 1: going wrong, like look at all their bad reviews, and 542 00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:05,440 Speaker 1: look at lists, do some social listening, and type into 543 00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:08,119 Speaker 1: TikTok for example, whatever the industry that you want to 544 00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:10,120 Speaker 1: go into, type that in, see what customers are saying 545 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,880 Speaker 1: about current brands, see where they're going wrong, and then 546 00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,919 Speaker 1: that's your gap. So that can be your specialty. I 547 00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:18,160 Speaker 1: don't necessarily think you can find a gap and it's 548 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:19,960 Speaker 1: going to be perfect for the market. And then you 549 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:23,080 Speaker 1: solve a problem. Every single problem I reckon has been solved. Yeah, 550 00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:25,480 Speaker 1: just solve it in a different way. Solve it in 551 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:28,240 Speaker 1: a different way, and you could have your own spin 552 00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:30,840 Speaker 1: on things. And it's something that you are passionate about. 553 00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:32,520 Speaker 1: It's something that you might not be passionate about. But 554 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:34,960 Speaker 1: if you're starting a business and you think I don't 555 00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:37,280 Speaker 1: know what to start it in, really think about like 556 00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:39,239 Speaker 1: the industries you would love to go into, and then 557 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:40,880 Speaker 1: just look at the brands that are doing it, look 558 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:42,800 Speaker 1: at the bad stuff, and then create something that makes 559 00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:45,680 Speaker 1: that part of it better. And that's your advantage. Oh 560 00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:46,560 Speaker 1: I love that. 561 00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:48,520 Speaker 2: That was another piece of advice I took from this book. 562 00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:51,439 Speaker 2: So your latest book, How to Sell Anything Online, is 563 00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:55,479 Speaker 2: incredibly practical. It's almost like it's own funnel, funneling you 564 00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:57,120 Speaker 2: through all the other funnels that you should go through 565 00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:59,600 Speaker 2: when you do start a business. And one thing I 566 00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:03,679 Speaker 2: found interesting was looking at your competitors bad reviews, because 567 00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:05,679 Speaker 2: people don't often think of that. I don't think that's 568 00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:07,960 Speaker 2: like an intuitive thing you would think. 569 00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:10,960 Speaker 1: Of, Oh, you don't stalk your competitors bad reviews. No. 570 00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:13,440 Speaker 2: I never did, but that's because we started in such 571 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:15,960 Speaker 2: a different climate. There weren't any competitors, whereas now, of 572 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:18,479 Speaker 2: course I would be doing that. So anyone listening, that's 573 00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:20,760 Speaker 2: a really good tip. I also think, God, I'm so 574 00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:22,199 Speaker 2: all over the place, takes I have so many things 575 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:24,119 Speaker 2: to ask you. I also think another thing that I 576 00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:27,240 Speaker 2: found really interesting about the way you've done things is 577 00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:30,120 Speaker 2: you have two very different streams of business for yourself. 578 00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:31,720 Speaker 1: You have Hero, which is a product. 579 00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:34,040 Speaker 2: Business, and then you have how to sell anything online, 580 00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 2: which you have decided not to monetize. So that's also 581 00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:39,520 Speaker 2: kind of a contrasting. Decision to make one thing your 582 00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:42,879 Speaker 2: big monetizer and then you've kept one thing is kind. 583 00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:46,320 Speaker 1: Of actually libor let me tell you. Yeah, so explain, explain, 584 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:49,119 Speaker 1: Explain the money side of it. Okay, So here at packaging, 585 00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:52,560 Speaker 1: it's an amazing business sometimes and sometimes I am like, 586 00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:55,040 Speaker 1: how will we survive this? And so there have been 587 00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:58,000 Speaker 1: times where we've like really really screwed up and we 588 00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:00,000 Speaker 1: have had no money. And the first thing that happens 589 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,280 Speaker 1: is I check my revenue every single minute of the 590 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,960 Speaker 1: day because I'm so worried that it's not going to come. 591 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:09,199 Speaker 1: And so like when we are struggling with Hero and 592 00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:11,359 Speaker 1: those months where you think we didn't make a profit. 593 00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:14,840 Speaker 1: The reason I have created a personal brand is it's 594 00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:18,760 Speaker 1: my plan B for life because I'm so scared that 595 00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:21,520 Speaker 1: I will not succeed, and my husband is in the 596 00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:23,960 Speaker 1: business as well. And so if it doesn't do well, 597 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:26,359 Speaker 1: when we stop paying ourselves, I have to have money 598 00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:28,600 Speaker 1: coming in from somewhere else. So when I say I've 599 00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:31,520 Speaker 1: stopped monetizing it, I've stopped monetizing it for the everyday 600 00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:34,600 Speaker 1: person who listens to me. But I monetize it through brands, 601 00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:37,680 Speaker 1: bigger brands who pay me to make content. But I'm 602 00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:39,960 Speaker 1: not doing coaching. I'm not doing like one on one 603 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 1: cause I'm not having like a course or anything like that. 604 00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:44,960 Speaker 1: I just need to make sure that I have enough 605 00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:46,840 Speaker 1: money coming in there so that when I go to 606 00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:49,560 Speaker 1: Woolies and I can put down my card and not 607 00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:53,159 Speaker 1: worry that today Hero hasn't given me enough money. And 608 00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:55,640 Speaker 1: that's the truth. Like this is it happens all the time. 609 00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:58,040 Speaker 1: There was a day like about a year ago or 610 00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:00,159 Speaker 1: maybe a year and a half, and was with my 611 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,600 Speaker 1: girls at Wooli's and I tried to pay and it 612 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:05,920 Speaker 1: was like no, like it got declined, and I looked 613 00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:07,639 Speaker 1: in the bank account and it was like a negative 614 00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:09,720 Speaker 1: thirty one dollars or something. And then people say, oh, 615 00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:11,960 Speaker 1: that you're so successful, la la la. It's not the 616 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:15,160 Speaker 1: case like when you're in business every day is so different, 617 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:18,320 Speaker 1: and so I think that's just something I really want 618 00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:20,320 Speaker 1: to say. Is like, the reason I have a personal 619 00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 1: brand is actually my plan being in life's so if 620 00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:26,040 Speaker 1: you're hedging your best literally, so I will build an 621 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:30,080 Speaker 1: audience that is so strong that no matter what I start, 622 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,119 Speaker 1: they can some of them will follow me there and 623 00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,919 Speaker 1: I can monetize that in that way. And it's I 624 00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:37,920 Speaker 1: love creating content. It is I love marketing. I love 625 00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:39,880 Speaker 1: e commerce so much and I'm happy to be able 626 00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 1: to do that. But in all honesty, it is a 627 00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:45,680 Speaker 1: plan B. It's a money thing for me to know why. 628 00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:48,800 Speaker 2: I mean, I love that you even own up to that, 629 00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:52,320 Speaker 2: because I think that most people wouldn't actually vocalize that, 630 00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:54,800 Speaker 2: and because there is pressure to say here, I is 631 00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:57,600 Speaker 2: doing so well, like to have that external perception that 632 00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:01,680 Speaker 2: it's bulletproof and that you do your personal branding on 633 00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 2: the side, because it's so scary. 634 00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:06,200 Speaker 1: It's scary to be in business, Like it's not easy. 635 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:08,640 Speaker 1: You could be at like thirty million dollars and be 636 00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:10,840 Speaker 1: scared every day. Yeah, you know you've got like the 637 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:13,200 Speaker 1: Jane Lues who are at a hundred million dollars and 638 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:16,040 Speaker 1: you know she's doing really well, and that's fine, but 639 00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:18,680 Speaker 1: we're not talking about that. We're talking about like my 640 00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:22,040 Speaker 1: size business and smaller and the struggles at the moment 641 00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:26,720 Speaker 1: with small business owners who are trying so hard to 642 00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:28,720 Speaker 1: like pay the next bill and then they get the 643 00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:31,760 Speaker 1: ATO debt and they're like, they're just they don't know 644 00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:34,080 Speaker 1: where to go. I just want them to see that 645 00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:36,360 Speaker 1: even though I've been in business for seven years with 646 00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:40,320 Speaker 1: Hero Packaging and people think it's super successful, there are 647 00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:42,680 Speaker 1: days where I'm really struggling to and I just want 648 00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:45,520 Speaker 1: I need everyone to know that it's like they're not 649 00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:46,200 Speaker 1: alone in that. 650 00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:48,920 Speaker 2: I love that you are really open about that on 651 00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:52,719 Speaker 2: all of your channels, because I also felt that every 652 00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 2: single day of matromaidan high or low, But even on 653 00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:58,960 Speaker 2: the really high days of a big win, I did 654 00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:02,280 Speaker 2: always have this overshadowing like when is it. 655 00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:02,920 Speaker 1: Or goanna run out? 656 00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:08,320 Speaker 2: I never relaxed into the success, and I don't know 657 00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:10,440 Speaker 2: what level of success it would have taken for me 658 00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:12,960 Speaker 2: to relax into that. And there was a part of me. 659 00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:15,440 Speaker 2: I'm not sure if I've ever vocalized this like this, 660 00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:18,600 Speaker 2: but there was a part of me that I didn't 661 00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:21,760 Speaker 2: ever want to go back to law for what I 662 00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:22,880 Speaker 2: had to do day to day. 663 00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:24,440 Speaker 1: In that role. Like I did love parts of it. 664 00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:26,760 Speaker 2: I never thought about going back because I missed the 665 00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:29,520 Speaker 2: kind of work I was doing, but it almost by comparison, 666 00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:32,200 Speaker 2: felt a bit lazy. I was a bit lazy in 667 00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:34,240 Speaker 2: that job. I wasn't lazy. I worked very hard, but 668 00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:35,920 Speaker 2: I was lazy in that I just got to sit 669 00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:38,360 Speaker 2: and chill and just turn up and do my job. 670 00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:41,720 Speaker 2: But leaving on a float was not my role. And 671 00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:45,520 Speaker 2: now I always think about that, that relevance trap of 672 00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:48,120 Speaker 2: like I need to stay relevant so much so that 673 00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:51,400 Speaker 2: you don't enjoy the high moments because you're so worried 674 00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:52,240 Speaker 2: they'll be taken away. 675 00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:55,960 Speaker 1: I think we don't talk about that much, and I'm 676 00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:58,640 Speaker 1: worried all the time. Yeah, Like I will check sales 677 00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:00,800 Speaker 1: and if it's not a certain amount, and then even 678 00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:02,080 Speaker 1: if it is at a certain amount, I'm like, I 679 00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:02,920 Speaker 1: bet you tomorrow's going to be. 680 00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:03,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. 681 00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:05,320 Speaker 1: You can never just relax into it. 682 00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:07,120 Speaker 2: And I think you do have to have the kind 683 00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:10,480 Speaker 2: of personality that can cope with that, because for some 684 00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:12,320 Speaker 2: people it would be so consuming that you. 685 00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 1: Actually, like I love the last page of this book 686 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:16,960 Speaker 1: was your mum asking you. Are you enjoying your business? 687 00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:20,080 Speaker 2: And if you can't have the duality of enjoying and 688 00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:21,760 Speaker 2: being scared, then it's not worth it. 689 00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:22,320 Speaker 1: If it's going to. 690 00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:26,360 Speaker 2: Cost you your entire joy of your life, yes, then 691 00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:27,480 Speaker 2: maybe it's not for you. 692 00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:30,240 Speaker 1: But if you can have both, then it is. I 693 00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:33,560 Speaker 1: think you can also train yourself to learn to have 694 00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:37,080 Speaker 1: the thinker skin. Yeah, you can learn that. But people 695 00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:38,719 Speaker 1: go into a thinking business is the amazing thing. I'm 696 00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:40,000 Speaker 1: going to earn so much money? Yeah? 697 00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:44,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I do wonder if there would have been 698 00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:47,400 Speaker 2: a level if I'd ever just enjoyed the stability of it, 699 00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:50,800 Speaker 2: because you can create your own stability. Issh. But the 700 00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:53,560 Speaker 2: world seems to be moving faster and faster every year, 701 00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:54,680 Speaker 2: so I'm like, can you. 702 00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:58,560 Speaker 1: My advice to this is like, create yourself the backup plans. Yes, 703 00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:00,920 Speaker 1: have your plan Yes, have the Plan B. Have the 704 00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:03,560 Speaker 1: Plan C. So my Plan B is personal brand. My 705 00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:06,400 Speaker 1: Plan C is any money that I get I invest 706 00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:10,400 Speaker 1: into property, like that is my Plan C. It's my savings. 707 00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:13,640 Speaker 1: So while I'm cash poor, I am so cash poor, right, 708 00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:17,280 Speaker 1: but I put everything I can into property, so that 709 00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:19,720 Speaker 1: that's my savings. So that's my plan C. Yeah, that's 710 00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:22,040 Speaker 1: my advice to everyone. Don't put every single thing you 711 00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:24,600 Speaker 1: have into this business that you're starting. Don't do it. 712 00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:27,720 Speaker 1: It's so risky. It's not even about oh, you could fail, 713 00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:30,720 Speaker 1: it's just you need to make sure that at times 714 00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:33,520 Speaker 1: when business goes low, which it will, you've got all 715 00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:36,040 Speaker 1: this other stuff and you feel okay in your life 716 00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:38,480 Speaker 1: because even if that's low, you've got other stuff that 717 00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:40,160 Speaker 1: you're looking after, and it's looking after you too. 718 00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:44,760 Speaker 2: It's so interesting for someone who describes herself as very 719 00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:47,760 Speaker 2: like a high risk tolerance, like I've read you say 720 00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:50,920 Speaker 2: that you love risk, but you're also very you're hedged 721 00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 2: against it at the same time. 722 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:56,040 Speaker 1: So you have to have that foundation where like the 723 00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:59,360 Speaker 1: foundation is solid, that's no risk. That is like the 724 00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:02,480 Speaker 1: solid building. An audience is solid, and you know that 725 00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:04,400 Speaker 1: will serve you in the future. That's a future thing, 726 00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:06,880 Speaker 1: not a current thing. The current thing is to just like, 727 00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,040 Speaker 1: you know, spend all your money now and like just 728 00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:10,920 Speaker 1: do whatever you want and whatever. If you don't have 729 00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:14,440 Speaker 1: the foundations, you cannot take risks. You should be a 730 00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:17,480 Speaker 1: risk taker only when you've got the foundation sorted. That's 731 00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:18,120 Speaker 1: what I believe. 732 00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:21,520 Speaker 2: Yes, oh, my gosh, this is going all kinds of directions. 733 00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:24,920 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I know it's great. It is so interesting, 734 00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:26,760 Speaker 2: and I've reflected a lot more than I was expecting 735 00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:31,240 Speaker 2: to about times in our businesses. But I do want 736 00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:33,400 Speaker 2: to get to picking your brain on what you are 737 00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:39,240 Speaker 2: truly brilliant at, and that's distilling an enormous amount of confusing, conflicting, 738 00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:42,880 Speaker 2: ever changing information about the land of e commerce into 739 00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:47,040 Speaker 2: really digestible snippets of actionable things people can do in 740 00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:49,800 Speaker 2: their businesses today. And I think that is why your 741 00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:52,920 Speaker 2: platforms have grown so fast, because you are just such 742 00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:56,520 Speaker 2: a clear voice of authority in a really approachable, accessible way. 743 00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:58,600 Speaker 2: So I'd love to ask you about what you think 744 00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:02,880 Speaker 2: are the three most important things right now for an 745 00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:06,040 Speaker 2: eco business. What are the things to grow, to grow, 746 00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:12,760 Speaker 2: to hedge, to flourish, just to generally safeguard themselves while growing. 747 00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:15,279 Speaker 2: I think if you were doing like a you know, 748 00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:18,160 Speaker 2: a health check on any kind of econ business right now, 749 00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:20,840 Speaker 2: everyone's main objective is to grow, but it's also to 750 00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:23,800 Speaker 2: kind of safeguard themselves for the future. It's also to 751 00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:25,800 Speaker 2: be able to weather the storm. It's to do marketing 752 00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:28,399 Speaker 2: and pr it's to enjoy the ride along the way. 753 00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:31,640 Speaker 2: On an overall level, what are the kind of three 754 00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:32,680 Speaker 2: things that you look for? 755 00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:35,480 Speaker 1: Okay, Number one, you need to have newness in your 756 00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:37,719 Speaker 1: business and you need to innovate or you'll die. And 757 00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:41,200 Speaker 1: that's the truth. So in this market, consumers, their share 758 00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:43,839 Speaker 1: of wallet is like it's not what it used to be. 759 00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:46,800 Speaker 1: People are spending less, and it's not even between competitors. 760 00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:48,719 Speaker 1: They're even just choosing between like a whole bunch of 761 00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:51,200 Speaker 1: different things, and so they've only got a small amount 762 00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:53,280 Speaker 1: of money to spend. Make sure that you are bringing 763 00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:56,719 Speaker 1: newness to your business all the time, and that's really 764 00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:59,200 Speaker 1: hard because that takes money and time as well. But 765 00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:01,920 Speaker 1: the unique of the offering, So like a new collection 766 00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:03,719 Speaker 1: or a new product all the time, or like a 767 00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:07,200 Speaker 1: limited edition, you know, collaboration with an influencer or some 768 00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:10,080 Speaker 1: bring newness to the business. People love that and people 769 00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:12,520 Speaker 1: enjoy that, and your customers will love that. You have 770 00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:15,000 Speaker 1: to innovate. So the example there is like with Hero, 771 00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:17,759 Speaker 1: we had mailers and that's all we did. We just 772 00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:20,080 Speaker 1: were like selling mailers. And when we went through a 773 00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:23,759 Speaker 1: period where we were going down, I had to take 774 00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:26,839 Speaker 1: a risk. Either it's like close the business, or it's 775 00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:29,840 Speaker 1: to take our personal savings and invest it into a 776 00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:33,000 Speaker 1: newness in the business. And for that it was manufacturing, 777 00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:36,320 Speaker 1: and so we bought our first manufacturing machine and luckily 778 00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:39,160 Speaker 1: that kind of we got to like serve a new 779 00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:41,480 Speaker 1: product to the same people and new product to new people. 780 00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:44,000 Speaker 1: So we grew through innovation, and I think everyone should 781 00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:46,960 Speaker 1: do that. The second thing I would say is I 782 00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:48,680 Speaker 1: could come into any business and I could save you 783 00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:52,040 Speaker 1: money because everyone is wasting so much money on so 784 00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:54,200 Speaker 1: much shit, because there's so much advice out there, like 785 00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:56,239 Speaker 1: this is the perfect tech stack for your business. This 786 00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:57,520 Speaker 1: is the perfect thing that you need to do, and 787 00:35:57,560 --> 00:35:58,839 Speaker 1: you need to invest in l D L H DA 788 00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:01,440 Speaker 1: da DA. I reckon, I could all that shit out. Yes, 789 00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:03,759 Speaker 1: you don't need so much of that, right, Like you 790 00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:06,400 Speaker 1: just need you your face, You need a few ads running, 791 00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:10,319 Speaker 1: like you can make money profitably. And all I want 792 00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:12,799 Speaker 1: is to see your bank account. So do you have 793 00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:15,080 Speaker 1: a cash runway of three months so that if all 794 00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:18,480 Speaker 1: of your expenses, like if you don't make revenue for 795 00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:21,040 Speaker 1: three months, for example, can you survive for three months? 796 00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:24,080 Speaker 1: That is something that I would absolutely say cash first, 797 00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:27,279 Speaker 1: not even profit it's like cash, profit revenue. That's what 798 00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:29,120 Speaker 1: you need to think about. That's the second thing, and 799 00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:31,560 Speaker 1: the third thing to grow your business is you're going 800 00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:34,400 Speaker 1: to need to invest into ads unfortunately. So like the 801 00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:37,480 Speaker 1: biggest thing is are you good at creating content? If not, 802 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:40,200 Speaker 1: go learn how to do that and use that content, 803 00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:42,680 Speaker 1: the best performing organic content, and put it into your 804 00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:45,880 Speaker 1: paid spend and do it in a really economical way. So, 805 00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:48,920 Speaker 1: for example, if you know that people are searching for 806 00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:53,040 Speaker 1: marcher or like you know, pineapple marcher and they are 807 00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:56,520 Speaker 1: actively searching for on Google and you see, okay, seven 808 00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:59,680 Speaker 1: hundred people are searching for this keyword, run Google ads 809 00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:02,520 Speaker 1: to it. Like, actually run the Google ads forget Facebook 810 00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:05,719 Speaker 1: ads and run Google ads. That's my option. Other than that, 811 00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:07,279 Speaker 1: if they're not searching for it and you just want 812 00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:09,160 Speaker 1: to kind of go, oh, this is a really pretty product, 813 00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:11,600 Speaker 1: go onto Facebook ads. But those are my three things. 814 00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:14,640 Speaker 1: Like you need the newness, you need to focus on cash, 815 00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:17,000 Speaker 1: and then you need to spend money on ads in 816 00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:18,680 Speaker 1: order to be everywhere all at once. 817 00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:21,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my gosh, I think that being everywhere thing, 818 00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:23,680 Speaker 2: like the fact that there are I was reading one 819 00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:25,799 Speaker 2: of the case studies of I think it was LFKD 820 00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:28,719 Speaker 2: maybe of you talking about how it's like eight to 821 00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:31,560 Speaker 2: ten touch points in your face before you make a purchase. 822 00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:34,120 Speaker 1: I think it was Stacks and like, yes, it's so true, 823 00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:36,080 Speaker 1: Like you need to be everywhere, all at once, and 824 00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:38,000 Speaker 1: one of the easiest ways to do that is through 825 00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:41,279 Speaker 1: content strategy on all platforms. Like two platforms that you 826 00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:44,560 Speaker 1: are absolutely comfortable with, So like for you, it's probably 827 00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:46,400 Speaker 1: Instagram and are you on TikTok? 828 00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:46,719 Speaker 2: Yeah? 829 00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:48,480 Speaker 1: Yeah? Are you on LinkedIn as well? Do you do 830 00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:51,319 Speaker 1: a lot bitt so like that, I would recommend that 831 00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:54,759 Speaker 1: as often as you post on Instagram and tito you 832 00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:57,520 Speaker 1: post on LinkedIn. I'm not even joking. So like one 833 00:37:57,520 --> 00:37:59,920 Speaker 1: platform that you're super uncomfortable with because you don't know 834 00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:03,359 Speaker 1: who's watching and it's got reach, Like why wouldn't you 835 00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:05,839 Speaker 1: do it? I know for what? For what reason? No one? 836 00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:08,640 Speaker 2: Like I think it is because you're scared of looking silly. 837 00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:10,520 Speaker 2: You're scared of it little flop. But I love that 838 00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:12,520 Speaker 2: you were saying two platforms you're familiar with too that 839 00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:16,399 Speaker 2: you're not And like, for example, right now, where are 840 00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:19,400 Speaker 2: you running ads? Are you like running something on everywhere? 841 00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:21,160 Speaker 2: Or are you putting all your money into one. 842 00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:23,920 Speaker 1: Are you like the major that AD spend is on 843 00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:27,320 Speaker 1: Google because we need to acquire new customers all the time, 844 00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:30,400 Speaker 1: and so people are typing in sustainable packaging. Where can 845 00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:33,560 Speaker 1: I get sustainable all of that stuff? Is there are ads? 846 00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:36,840 Speaker 1: I think about sixty five percent, if not seventy percent 847 00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:40,960 Speaker 1: of our AD spent is Google and then Facebook after that. 848 00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:44,160 Speaker 1: And I've actually reduced Facebook because packaging is something that 849 00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:45,719 Speaker 1: people think about and they only buy it when they 850 00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:48,520 Speaker 1: need it, as opposed to I can't just it's disturb 851 00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:50,520 Speaker 1: their feet and be like, oh I need a compostible 852 00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:52,759 Speaker 1: mailer today, Like it's not like that. So Google is 853 00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:53,840 Speaker 1: where I spend everything. 854 00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:56,839 Speaker 2: Yeah. Interesting, And there's a couple of tips that were 855 00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:58,680 Speaker 2: in the books that I found really useful that were like, 856 00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:02,399 Speaker 2: how do you even like, I don't think a lot 857 00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:04,719 Speaker 2: of business owners would even know where to look for 858 00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:07,319 Speaker 2: what people are searching for? Like, if you do need 859 00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:09,000 Speaker 2: to grow your business, what are some of the hacks 860 00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:10,640 Speaker 2: of Like you should know what people are. 861 00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:11,560 Speaker 1: Searching for in your industry. 862 00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:14,319 Speaker 2: You should be looking at your competitors bad reviews and 863 00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:16,239 Speaker 2: improving on those things. Like what are the things you 864 00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:19,719 Speaker 2: would tell people to go and do for instant improvers. 865 00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:23,440 Speaker 2: Oh my god, go to Google keyword Planner, which is free, 866 00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:26,960 Speaker 2: and then type in what you think people are searching for. 867 00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:29,160 Speaker 2: It will not only spit out what you think people 868 00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:31,319 Speaker 2: are searching for, but also the related searches that people 869 00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:34,160 Speaker 2: are actually searching for, and it'll tell you how many 870 00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:36,920 Speaker 2: people are searching it for it per month in Australia 871 00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:38,880 Speaker 2: and also how much it'll cost you. 872 00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:41,640 Speaker 1: Per click too. Oh my god, that's like the easiest 873 00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:43,560 Speaker 1: thing that you can do. It's really interesting. 874 00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:46,400 Speaker 2: You have distilled it all in a way that sounds 875 00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:49,360 Speaker 2: so simple, and I'm sure in your brain the matrix 876 00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:52,319 Speaker 2: is really simple. But I think it's so overwhelming for 877 00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:54,920 Speaker 2: people who are in especially small businesses, who don't have 878 00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:57,399 Speaker 2: the resources to kind of throw at all the platforms 879 00:39:58,000 --> 00:40:01,080 Speaker 2: and you know, you want to all of them at once. 880 00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:03,120 Speaker 2: But even for me, who's like native to quite a 881 00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:04,960 Speaker 2: lot of these platforms, still find some of them like 882 00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:06,520 Speaker 2: I have no idea what to post on LinkedIn. I 883 00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:10,600 Speaker 2: don't know about length, duration, time of day, format, Like 884 00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:14,160 Speaker 2: you're overthinking it whatever. 885 00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:17,680 Speaker 1: I think everyone is everyone. I'm saying it to everyone. 886 00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:22,520 Speaker 1: You yeah, plural, yeah, you plural are overthinking it. And 887 00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:24,520 Speaker 1: I think if you can like let go of the 888 00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:27,080 Speaker 1: what like what time you know that? What time do 889 00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:29,279 Speaker 1: I post on Instagram? Is that still a thing? No, 890 00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:31,680 Speaker 1: it's not still a thing? Is posted? Good content will 891 00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:35,000 Speaker 1: perform regardless of the time, regardless of like the little 892 00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:37,160 Speaker 1: caption that you put in there, right, If it's good content, 893 00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:40,440 Speaker 1: it will perform. And I'm also uncomfortable posting on LinkedIn 894 00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,520 Speaker 1: because I've got a lot of like professionals, you know, 895 00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:46,240 Speaker 1: and so I found it really hard. But when I did, 896 00:40:46,640 --> 00:40:48,480 Speaker 1: it got picked up in a news story and then 897 00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:50,360 Speaker 1: it got like, you know, I just spoke about a 898 00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:52,680 Speaker 1: hero went through a bad time. Da da dad, you know, 899 00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:54,880 Speaker 1: I told the whole story, had a little video in there. 900 00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:58,120 Speaker 1: Then I also had another one where Uniclo like used 901 00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:00,160 Speaker 1: our tissue paper and they became a client of So 902 00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:02,080 Speaker 1: I posted that on LinkedIn and there was a weird 903 00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:04,080 Speaker 1: video like it was me going to Uniklo and like 904 00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:06,480 Speaker 1: walking down a red carpet or a tissue paper. And 905 00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:10,359 Speaker 1: then like the news people picked it up. 906 00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:13,120 Speaker 2: From LinkedIn and it was just amazing, like you don't 907 00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:15,640 Speaker 2: know who's watching, Like you've got to be everywhere and 908 00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:16,840 Speaker 2: if you're a small business. 909 00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:19,440 Speaker 1: Okay, content is your best friend because it's free, and 910 00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:22,120 Speaker 1: SEO is your best friend because it's free. But content, 911 00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:24,279 Speaker 1: the best thing about it is when you don't know 912 00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:26,839 Speaker 1: who's watching, So then that content could get you onto 913 00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:30,680 Speaker 1: like articles and news stories and free pr as well. 914 00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:33,200 Speaker 1: And then also people could like tag other people and 915 00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:35,960 Speaker 1: especially on LinkedIn if someone comments, all their network sees 916 00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:38,600 Speaker 1: it too. So to be everywhere all at once, you've 917 00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:41,840 Speaker 1: got to put yourself in that really uncomfortable position. Yeah. 918 00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:43,520 Speaker 2: So do you think, and this is a question I 919 00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:46,279 Speaker 2: get all the time, do you think that founders do 920 00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:50,200 Speaker 2: have to have their personal brand, like their face out 921 00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:51,000 Speaker 2: as well? 922 00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:53,680 Speaker 1: No? I don't think so. If you're not comfortable with it, 923 00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:55,760 Speaker 1: don't do it. Like you can have a good product 924 00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:58,960 Speaker 1: and have great advertising and you spend a lot on 925 00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:00,440 Speaker 1: ads and stuff and you can and it may have 926 00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:03,920 Speaker 1: a very successful business. If you look at LSKD Jason, 927 00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:06,920 Speaker 1: he wasn't like the face face of it. He grew 928 00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:09,719 Speaker 1: a business without his face and he was able to 929 00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:11,960 Speaker 1: do that why because he spent a lot of money 930 00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:15,160 Speaker 1: on ads And that's the truth. He's like, you've got 931 00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:17,279 Speaker 1: to either do the founder content be there and all 932 00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:19,160 Speaker 1: the time, and you get out there that way and 933 00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:21,040 Speaker 1: it's free, but you've got to spend a lot of 934 00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:22,720 Speaker 1: time in it, or you pay a lot of money 935 00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:24,960 Speaker 1: to get other platforms to do the work for you. Yeah, 936 00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:27,000 Speaker 1: that's interesting. Yeah, so you don't need to do it, 937 00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:28,520 Speaker 1: but if you don't do it, you have to kind 938 00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:30,800 Speaker 1: of have a Yeah. Yeah, that's interesting. 939 00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:35,280 Speaker 2: Okay, what about I see you often do amazing roundups 940 00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:37,440 Speaker 2: of what you've seen in the business space in the 941 00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:39,600 Speaker 2: last week, or I think you do it every week. Yeah, 942 00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:41,640 Speaker 2: what are some of the best strategies that you're seeing 943 00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:43,719 Speaker 2: around and some of them I like that you call 944 00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:46,680 Speaker 2: some of them unethical but incredibly effective. 945 00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:48,000 Speaker 1: What are some of the. 946 00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:51,640 Speaker 2: Things that you've seen done really well that you would recommend. 947 00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:54,839 Speaker 1: I just think you've got to do gorilla marketing as 948 00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:57,480 Speaker 1: a small business. So do you know the brand? Girls 949 00:42:57,520 --> 00:43:00,560 Speaker 1: get off? So I love what she does. She and 950 00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:03,120 Speaker 1: it's it's mortifying to watch because you can't I can't 951 00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:05,120 Speaker 1: watch it if my parents are around. I can't watch 952 00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:06,919 Speaker 1: it if you know, like my kids are around, even 953 00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:09,920 Speaker 1: my husband, I'm like, ah, sorry. She dressed as a 954 00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:12,759 Speaker 1: vagina and went to Bondai beach or something, and like 955 00:43:13,080 --> 00:43:15,400 Speaker 1: she made people dance in front of her or do 956 00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:18,480 Speaker 1: a sexy dance to get a free vibrator. Right, did 957 00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:20,440 Speaker 1: that get her a lot of sales from those people? 958 00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:22,279 Speaker 1: I don't think so. But what it did was it 959 00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:24,920 Speaker 1: stretched out her content for the next six months. Like 960 00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:27,440 Speaker 1: you can stretch that out, you can put that into it. Well, 961 00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:29,239 Speaker 1: she can't put into ads, but you can put that 962 00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:31,720 Speaker 1: into like anywhere you want on your website. It becomes 963 00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:35,480 Speaker 1: funny and taggable and shareable and savable and it's free 964 00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:38,040 Speaker 1: except for the vagina costume. May have to buy it. 965 00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:39,520 Speaker 1: I mean you've probably made that. 966 00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:41,560 Speaker 2: She could make you know, tutorials on how to make 967 00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:42,360 Speaker 2: a vagina costume. 968 00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:44,960 Speaker 1: This is the thing that and like people take photos 969 00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:48,080 Speaker 1: of it and like tag them, and it just makes 970 00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:53,080 Speaker 1: you stand out when like there's so much competition for vibrators, 971 00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:55,640 Speaker 1: for example, So I think if you can do goerrilla marketing. 972 00:43:55,680 --> 00:43:58,800 Speaker 1: Another one was Apparol. Did you see the one where Aparol, 973 00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:00,719 Speaker 1: Like they've got a hundred people to walk around the 974 00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:05,400 Speaker 1: CBD with fake Apparol like cocktails and everyone was just 975 00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:08,520 Speaker 1: talking about Apparol and like all the tags or apparol, 976 00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:11,400 Speaker 1: like the clothes, the trays, the drinks, everything, and it 977 00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:14,600 Speaker 1: was just like a sea of people walking around. And yes, 978 00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:16,160 Speaker 1: you have to hire one hundred people, but if you've 979 00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:19,680 Speaker 1: got friends, like you walk around in like full on merche, 980 00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:21,279 Speaker 1: or you can dress up and just walk around the 981 00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:23,279 Speaker 1: city and like talk about the brand or like show something. 982 00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:26,279 Speaker 1: And I just feel like the gorilla marketing side of 983 00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:28,839 Speaker 1: things is not only good for brand awareness, but then 984 00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:32,279 Speaker 1: it's good for you because it stretches your content and 985 00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:35,160 Speaker 1: puts less pressure on you every day to create something 986 00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:37,600 Speaker 1: new because you've got this wild event that you did 987 00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:40,600 Speaker 1: that you can like pull pieces from and do that. Similarly, 988 00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:43,880 Speaker 1: like if I'm on this podcast and we've got this video, 989 00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:46,759 Speaker 1: like I can pull ten pieces of that and like 990 00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:48,520 Speaker 1: stretch it out. So you've got to do the thing 991 00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:51,279 Speaker 1: that you can use for content and stretch it. So 992 00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:53,040 Speaker 1: that's what I would say, Like I love all the 993 00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:57,040 Speaker 1: gorilla marketing stuff. What's working for brands right now is 994 00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:02,680 Speaker 1: it's really high. It's really really hard to stay interesting, 995 00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:06,920 Speaker 1: I will say, and I'll come back to the innovating 996 00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:12,359 Speaker 1: of product. I think limited addition, using someone with influence 997 00:45:12,840 --> 00:45:16,279 Speaker 1: to co like create a product with you and using 998 00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:19,360 Speaker 1: their audience to sell is one of the best ways 999 00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:21,880 Speaker 1: to grow to this day. Worked ten years ago and 1000 00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:24,160 Speaker 1: it works to this day. But you've got to pick 1001 00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:27,279 Speaker 1: the right person of influence, yes, because like I have 1002 00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:31,200 Speaker 1: used an influencer in the past two million followers and 1003 00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:34,359 Speaker 1: I got nothing from it. Yeah, but I realized if 1004 00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:37,600 Speaker 1: you find the right people, their audience can do so much. 1005 00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:40,680 Speaker 1: You know, one of my friends who has a mascara brand, 1006 00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:44,480 Speaker 1: gave the mascara to Abby Chatfield. Abby Chatfield posted about 1007 00:45:44,520 --> 00:45:47,160 Speaker 1: it on her stories, like one story, and this girl 1008 00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:49,400 Speaker 1: sold like four hundred mascaras. You've got to pick the 1009 00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:51,920 Speaker 1: right people with the right influence. But I think that's 1010 00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:53,200 Speaker 1: working really well. Yeah. 1011 00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:55,880 Speaker 2: So influencer marketing is always a topic that gets so 1012 00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:57,759 Speaker 2: many questions, and I think there is a bit and 1013 00:45:57,800 --> 00:45:59,279 Speaker 2: you mentioned this in the book, that there is a 1014 00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:03,200 Speaker 2: beer bit of a negative connotation kind of starting to 1015 00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:05,359 Speaker 2: come out that influencer marketing is dead. But I think 1016 00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:07,840 Speaker 2: it's it's just evolved. It's a little bit different to 1017 00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:09,120 Speaker 2: how it used to be. But do you think it's 1018 00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:11,160 Speaker 2: still really powerful? And I don't think it in. 1019 00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:14,680 Speaker 1: That what you like, you can't just hold up a product. Yeah, 1020 00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:17,399 Speaker 1: but I do think that if you collaborate with them 1021 00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:20,040 Speaker 1: and they like are really invested in it. So like, 1022 00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:24,120 Speaker 1: look what happened with for example, Booth Rachel Wild and 1023 00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:28,279 Speaker 1: they are with Indie Clinton is Indie Clinton, and so 1024 00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:31,880 Speaker 1: because she's got such a strong following and she is 1025 00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:34,400 Speaker 1: invested in the brand, like you can just see that 1026 00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:36,440 Speaker 1: her audience is super invested in the brand too, and 1027 00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:39,640 Speaker 1: it's making booth They sold twenty thousand units in two 1028 00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:42,160 Speaker 1: weeks now, so you know what I mean? Like, I 1029 00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:45,280 Speaker 1: think influencer marketing done right by picking the right influence 1030 00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:48,880 Speaker 1: that was not influence that person who has influence, and 1031 00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:52,920 Speaker 1: actually collaborating with them on the product itself. I like 1032 00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:55,520 Speaker 1: it for a limited edition piece because I think you 1033 00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:57,440 Speaker 1: get the word out there, but you don't it's like 1034 00:46:57,480 --> 00:46:59,600 Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be an ongoing thing. Yeah. Yeah, 1035 00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:01,480 Speaker 1: what about for B to B. 1036 00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:03,520 Speaker 2: I had a couple of questions because you do have 1037 00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:08,360 Speaker 2: a unique challenge with Hero being you're selling to businesses 1038 00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:10,040 Speaker 2: more than you're selling to a direct consumer. Do you 1039 00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:12,240 Speaker 2: still find influencer marketing useful? 1040 00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:15,200 Speaker 1: Well? Yeah, I mean I don't use it as much anymore. 1041 00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:19,319 Speaker 1: I think that B to B is less about influencer 1042 00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:23,040 Speaker 1: marketing and it's more about can you look interesting in 1043 00:47:23,480 --> 00:47:26,480 Speaker 1: a boring space. That's how I find B to B 1044 00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:29,120 Speaker 1: marketing needs to move down. I think I had a 1045 00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:31,799 Speaker 1: question when I was speaking on stage about a month ago, 1046 00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:34,120 Speaker 1: and they were like, I'm trying to get these new, 1047 00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:37,319 Speaker 1: big corporate clients. How do I like, I don't want 1048 00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:40,560 Speaker 1: to create content that looks silly or fun because they're 1049 00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:43,680 Speaker 1: not going to take me seriously. I said, that's your 1050 00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:47,319 Speaker 1: first mistake, because you're not speaking to a business as 1051 00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:49,839 Speaker 1: a whole. You're speaking to the marketing manager, who could 1052 00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:52,160 Speaker 1: be gen Z. You could be speaking to, you know, 1053 00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:54,840 Speaker 1: the e com person, the warehouse person. They're all people 1054 00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:56,440 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, and they all want 1055 00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:58,359 Speaker 1: to be entertained. They all want to do like they 1056 00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:01,360 Speaker 1: all want to feel connected to something. And so for 1057 00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:03,839 Speaker 1: me with Hero, the way that we stand out more 1058 00:48:03,880 --> 00:48:06,600 Speaker 1: than anything else is that when we get a big 1059 00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:09,600 Speaker 1: brand on board, I'll make a bunch of silly videos 1060 00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:14,000 Speaker 1: around it, like absolutely ridiculous. And like when we got Disney, 1061 00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:16,440 Speaker 1: you know, like we dressed as Disney princesses and we 1062 00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:18,799 Speaker 1: were like, you know, printing the orders and stuff like that, 1063 00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:21,359 Speaker 1: and then other brands are like, oh my god, they've 1064 00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:23,520 Speaker 1: got Disney, but no one is like, oh my god, 1065 00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:27,400 Speaker 1: they look so silly. They're meant to be professional. You know, 1066 00:48:28,120 --> 00:48:29,759 Speaker 1: we announce it in a way that's interesting because if 1067 00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:31,120 Speaker 1: I just said, oh, we got Disney as a client, 1068 00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:33,080 Speaker 1: I'd get three likes for that. I don't want three likes. 1069 00:48:33,080 --> 00:48:34,120 Speaker 1: I want eight hundred likes. 1070 00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:34,480 Speaker 2: You know. 1071 00:48:35,120 --> 00:48:37,160 Speaker 1: That's the difference. So if you're in B to B, 1072 00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:39,840 Speaker 1: be more interesting than what you think you need to 1073 00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:41,960 Speaker 1: be and don't be afraid to have the B two 1074 00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:44,400 Speaker 1: C approach when you're targeting B to B clients. 1075 00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:47,480 Speaker 2: And then if you're B two C and in eCOM, 1076 00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:49,960 Speaker 2: do you think that that need to be across Influencer 1077 00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:50,960 Speaker 2: marketing is still there. 1078 00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:54,160 Speaker 1: It's still really powerful, only if you can collaborate properly 1079 00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:56,960 Speaker 1: with the right influencer. It has to be the right one, 1080 00:48:57,040 --> 00:49:00,719 Speaker 1: and there's not many. There's really not many people. It's 1081 00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:02,879 Speaker 1: so surprising, but there are really not that many people 1082 00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:06,200 Speaker 1: who have influence in a certain category. If you're going 1083 00:49:06,239 --> 00:49:08,680 Speaker 1: to get a generalized influencer who's known for fashion and 1084 00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:11,000 Speaker 1: sport and travel and this and that, and then on 1085 00:49:11,000 --> 00:49:13,120 Speaker 1: one hundred things, it's going to be really hard. But 1086 00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:16,600 Speaker 1: if say, for example, someone is constantly traveling and they're 1087 00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:19,560 Speaker 1: just known for it, they've got five kids, they travel 1088 00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:21,279 Speaker 1: all the time, and they have all the hacks, and 1089 00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:23,719 Speaker 1: you're a parent brand, that influencer is going to do 1090 00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:26,400 Speaker 1: so well for you co create a parenting backpack to 1091 00:49:26,480 --> 00:49:29,120 Speaker 1: go traveling with them and like go all out because 1092 00:49:29,120 --> 00:49:30,040 Speaker 1: I reckon that would work. 1093 00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:32,560 Speaker 2: It's actually so funny you said parent backpack because one 1094 00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:34,640 Speaker 2: of the brands that submitted a question for you was 1095 00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:37,760 Speaker 2: how to build customer trust when you're a new brand. 1096 00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:40,040 Speaker 2: And this is a new parent backpack who I've actually 1097 00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:43,360 Speaker 2: done a partnership with recently because we are traveling constantly 1098 00:49:43,480 --> 00:49:46,000 Speaker 2: as new parents. But the price point is quite high 1099 00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:48,760 Speaker 2: because it is such a high performance product, is waterproof, 1100 00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:52,400 Speaker 2: it's got recyclable materials, it's got fifty five million pockets, 1101 00:49:52,440 --> 00:49:56,040 Speaker 2: it addresses all of the difficulties with bottomless pit like 1102 00:49:56,200 --> 00:49:59,479 Speaker 2: big storage. It has a side opening access. But it's new. 1103 00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:03,799 Speaker 2: So how do you build customer loyalty and trust when 1104 00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:06,480 Speaker 2: you're brand new and they are parting with quite a 1105 00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:07,399 Speaker 2: lot of money per unit? 1106 00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:09,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I think you need to think about it. 1107 00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:12,120 Speaker 1: If you are the customer, what do you look for first? 1108 00:50:12,320 --> 00:50:15,200 Speaker 1: Because a lot of new parents, when you've got more 1109 00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:17,279 Speaker 1: than one kid, you don't give a shit about the bag, 1110 00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:22,200 Speaker 1: brack anyone you're like, just you're targeting. They are specifically 1111 00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:25,160 Speaker 1: targeting new parents because new parents spend more on their 1112 00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:27,759 Speaker 1: first kid. And so I think the first thing to 1113 00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:31,120 Speaker 1: do is like, go, okay, okay. The question is influencer 1114 00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:33,560 Speaker 1: marketing with this? I don't know, So I don't know how, 1115 00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:36,520 Speaker 1: Like obviously you would work, but it's there's not many 1116 00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:39,040 Speaker 1: people who are going to work for them. I think 1117 00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:41,080 Speaker 1: like if you put your name to it, if you 1118 00:50:41,120 --> 00:50:43,600 Speaker 1: said this was designed by you based on your needs, 1119 00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:46,440 Speaker 1: I reckon it would do even better. Like I loved 1120 00:50:46,480 --> 00:50:49,880 Speaker 1: the co collaboration of a product itself and not just 1121 00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:52,040 Speaker 1: the posting about it, because the posting about it sometimes 1122 00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:54,239 Speaker 1: it works. Sometimes it doesn't. Right when people realize that 1123 00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:55,920 Speaker 1: you're posting about it because it's Brandon, it may it 1124 00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:58,279 Speaker 1: might not work, But I like that co collaboration and 1125 00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:00,000 Speaker 1: stuff for them. How do you get trust? You need 1126 00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:02,800 Speaker 1: to have a shit ton of reviews. So the first 1127 00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:05,799 Speaker 1: thing you need to do is go and incentivize like 1128 00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:08,960 Speaker 1: five thousand people to leave you a review on this thing, 1129 00:51:09,480 --> 00:51:11,319 Speaker 1: and so that means you might need to send free 1130 00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:13,640 Speaker 1: products to people. Might mean that you stand on the 1131 00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:16,120 Speaker 1: street at Bondi Beach and say like, hey, can you 1132 00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:17,960 Speaker 1: in front of me review this backpack and tell me 1133 00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:19,879 Speaker 1: what you like about it? Take that what they say 1134 00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:21,520 Speaker 1: and put it as a review on your website or 1135 00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:23,640 Speaker 1: on social media. You can take a clip of that 1136 00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:26,080 Speaker 1: and put that anywhere you want. I think that customer 1137 00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:28,880 Speaker 1: trust will only come from other customers who've tried it 1138 00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:31,160 Speaker 1: and love it. And then if they type into whatever 1139 00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:33,240 Speaker 1: the brand is called, if they type that into TikTok, 1140 00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:36,359 Speaker 1: or they type in baby backpack into TikTok, and they 1141 00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:38,640 Speaker 1: can see that the first four videos are of people 1142 00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:41,920 Speaker 1: talking about that brand, that's customer trust. I honestly think 1143 00:51:41,960 --> 00:51:43,879 Speaker 1: it's just comes down to how many times you see 1144 00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:45,799 Speaker 1: it from different people, and it cannot come from the 1145 00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:49,600 Speaker 1: brand itself. So like the reviews, the tags, the mentions, 1146 00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:52,000 Speaker 1: are they getting enough of that? And if not, can 1147 00:51:52,040 --> 00:51:54,399 Speaker 1: they kind of manufacture that a little bit? 1148 00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:57,600 Speaker 2: What about that search in TikTok makes me think of 1149 00:51:57,840 --> 00:52:00,319 Speaker 2: a video you did recently on what you called an 1150 00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:02,840 Speaker 2: unethical strategy for witch Hazel. 1151 00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:06,319 Speaker 1: It's for so many brands. All good, yeah, tell us 1152 00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:09,480 Speaker 1: about this, okay. So what I noticed was like, there's 1153 00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:11,640 Speaker 1: this trend on TikTok where someone is just like lying 1154 00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:13,279 Speaker 1: in bed and they just looking at the camera, and 1155 00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:15,480 Speaker 1: the text on screen is tell me the most unethical 1156 00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:18,560 Speaker 1: or like unhinged way you've done this, or what product 1157 00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:20,279 Speaker 1: made you lose a lot of weight or give you 1158 00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:23,000 Speaker 1: the best skin of your life. And then in the 1159 00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:25,480 Speaker 1: comment section there's like forty thousand comments right of all 1160 00:52:25,520 --> 00:52:29,160 Speaker 1: these videos, and you'll start to notice like one brand 1161 00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:31,920 Speaker 1: keep coming up, and so other people will just be 1162 00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:33,759 Speaker 1: commenting other stuff. But then all of a sudden, like 1163 00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:37,120 Speaker 1: for this one particular video, it was like witch Hazel. 1164 00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:38,920 Speaker 1: And then someone's like I just tried witch Hazel, And 1165 00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:40,759 Speaker 1: someone was like, does a witch has actually work? 1166 00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:41,160 Speaker 3: A da da? 1167 00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:44,719 Speaker 1: And I just saw that, and I thought, is this 1168 00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:48,160 Speaker 1: Witch Hazel getting bots and just buying the comments section 1169 00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:50,360 Speaker 1: so that people buy it? Because even I was like 1170 00:52:50,400 --> 00:52:51,880 Speaker 1: I want to buy witch Hazel. I don't know what 1171 00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:55,040 Speaker 1: it does. The number of times I've seen Sarah Vey 1172 00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:58,000 Speaker 1: or however you pronounce it coming up in the comments. 1173 00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:00,680 Speaker 1: There the Blue comment and then people talking about them. 1174 00:53:00,680 --> 00:53:04,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, have they bought class? Yes? Have they? Is 1175 00:53:04,960 --> 00:53:07,720 Speaker 1: that what it is? Of course? I think so, because 1176 00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:10,120 Speaker 1: how can it be? How can it be? That's like 1177 00:53:10,520 --> 00:53:14,000 Speaker 1: thousands and thousands saying the same thing if it was organic. 1178 00:53:14,239 --> 00:53:16,160 Speaker 1: There are so many products in this world that people 1179 00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:19,879 Speaker 1: would recommend. Why are those ones constantly coming up? It's 1180 00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:22,799 Speaker 1: what happened with the Amber Heard and Johnny deppcase you know, 1181 00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:25,600 Speaker 1: they manufactured the bots to make you think a certain way. 1182 00:53:25,719 --> 00:53:28,360 Speaker 1: Same thing with Blake Lively and that other guy like it. 1183 00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:31,080 Speaker 1: They manufacture the bots to make you go a certain way. 1184 00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:33,440 Speaker 1: This has been happening for years and years, but I 1185 00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:36,080 Speaker 1: think brands are now doing it so that even if 1186 00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:38,400 Speaker 1: like they don't are not mentioned in the video itself, 1187 00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:40,839 Speaker 1: no one's talking about that, but in the comment section, 1188 00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:43,840 Speaker 1: which is where everyone runs to anyway, and their brands 1189 00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:46,440 Speaker 1: are there. Like, I mean, it's pretty brilliant. It is 1190 00:53:46,560 --> 00:53:49,480 Speaker 1: really ethical, and it is because obviously it's an ad 1191 00:53:49,680 --> 00:53:54,959 Speaker 1: or like they bought that undisclosed form of while there's 1192 00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:57,080 Speaker 1: no kind of like law stuff around. 1193 00:53:57,280 --> 00:53:59,960 Speaker 2: Are you constantly looking at stuff like that and thinking 1194 00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:00,759 Speaker 2: how can I? 1195 00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:02,759 Speaker 1: Well, I don't do it for myself, but I like 1196 00:54:02,840 --> 00:54:05,800 Speaker 1: recognizing it and telling everyone else about it. Yeah. Interesting. 1197 00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:09,160 Speaker 2: Is there anything that you see businesses constantly doing? Like, so, 1198 00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:12,000 Speaker 2: on the one hand, you're always highlighting businesses that are 1199 00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:14,560 Speaker 2: doing really amazing marketing campaigns. Is there anything that you 1200 00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:16,160 Speaker 2: see constantly that people are doing wrong? 1201 00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:18,480 Speaker 1: You spend so much time on a piece of content 1202 00:54:18,560 --> 00:54:20,760 Speaker 1: to get five likes, don't do that piece of content, 1203 00:54:21,000 --> 00:54:24,440 Speaker 1: like there's no point, just pivot. You gotta like ultimately, 1204 00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:26,239 Speaker 1: what you want out of everything that you do is 1205 00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:29,440 Speaker 1: you're going to get the maximum juice from that squeeze. 1206 00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:32,919 Speaker 1: And so if you are like doing this so like say, 1207 00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:34,799 Speaker 1: for example, I've got your what would you call it, 1208 00:54:34,840 --> 00:54:37,200 Speaker 1: not a notebook but a flipbook, a flipbook, Like I've 1209 00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:38,960 Speaker 1: got your flipbook here and stuff. And if you just 1210 00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:41,520 Speaker 1: were like you've took a photo of it and like, 1211 00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:43,279 Speaker 1: or you've got a model to hold it up and 1212 00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:45,399 Speaker 1: you did a photo shoot around it or whatever, that's 1213 00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:48,880 Speaker 1: never going to do well July Suitcase like they do 1214 00:54:49,040 --> 00:54:52,600 Speaker 1: okay with their professional shoots, I guarantee you, and I've 1215 00:54:52,600 --> 00:54:55,480 Speaker 1: seen it when the founders get on there and they're interviewed. 1216 00:54:55,680 --> 00:54:58,640 Speaker 1: Of course, the reach is much higher. All that stuff 1217 00:54:58,760 --> 00:55:01,280 Speaker 1: is like for me, it's like the raw ugly stuff 1218 00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:03,840 Speaker 1: was always going to work. If you want your engagement 1219 00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:07,000 Speaker 1: ugly stuff, the raw ugly stuff, if you want. No 1220 00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:11,360 Speaker 1: one wants the pretty stuff, No one different shit about it. Yeah, 1221 00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:13,520 Speaker 1: So the stuff that I think I still see happening 1222 00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:16,480 Speaker 1: even though everyone's talked about this like forever and ever. Like, 1223 00:55:16,520 --> 00:55:19,240 Speaker 1: if you're still doing all of your really pretty stuff 1224 00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:21,839 Speaker 1: and you spend so much time on good content and 1225 00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:25,440 Speaker 1: you're getting five likes for it, you're wasting your time 1226 00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:29,279 Speaker 1: and you're wasting your money, and you're wasting everyone else's time. 1227 00:55:29,800 --> 00:55:32,239 Speaker 1: So like you need to start going, Okay, well that's 1228 00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:35,040 Speaker 1: not working. What can I do that's better? And you 1229 00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:37,120 Speaker 1: need to look at other people who are getting really 1230 00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:39,879 Speaker 1: high engagement, and then you need to see what they're 1231 00:55:39,880 --> 00:55:42,279 Speaker 1: doing and copy and not copy like word for word, 1232 00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:44,840 Speaker 1: I mean copy like take their idea, look at their hook, 1233 00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:46,400 Speaker 1: look at the time of their video, look at the 1234 00:55:46,719 --> 00:55:48,400 Speaker 1: like if it's a twelve second long video, you do 1235 00:55:48,440 --> 00:55:50,920 Speaker 1: a twelve second video. You do what they did in 1236 00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:52,640 Speaker 1: your own way and put your own spin on it. 1237 00:55:52,719 --> 00:55:54,920 Speaker 1: Like I want people to think, if I'm going to 1238 00:55:55,000 --> 00:55:57,200 Speaker 1: run an ad and I'm like, it's not performing, well, 1239 00:55:57,360 --> 00:56:00,640 Speaker 1: you're not going to keep that changing, change the changed, 1240 00:56:00,719 --> 00:56:03,440 Speaker 1: like the creative around it. Maybe it's like you're spending 1241 00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:05,880 Speaker 1: too little, maybe you're spending too much. But everything that 1242 00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:08,120 Speaker 1: you do as a small business, it needs to generate 1243 00:56:08,200 --> 00:56:10,839 Speaker 1: more than the effort you're putting in. Yes, and that's 1244 00:56:10,880 --> 00:56:13,360 Speaker 1: really hard to know how to do that. But people 1245 00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:16,520 Speaker 1: aren't willing to test things enough in order to get 1246 00:56:16,520 --> 00:56:18,319 Speaker 1: the best results. They just do the same thing over 1247 00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:21,000 Speaker 1: and over because they're uncomfortable with like trying something new. 1248 00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:24,040 Speaker 2: I love your emphasis on test and learn, test and learn, 1249 00:56:24,080 --> 00:56:26,600 Speaker 2: and always be like, yeah, if it's not working, change it, 1250 00:56:27,040 --> 00:56:29,759 Speaker 2: try it again, try something else again. Are you ever 1251 00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:32,200 Speaker 2: running betads? Like are you running one one way and 1252 00:56:32,239 --> 00:56:33,560 Speaker 2: one the other and seeing which is doing better? 1253 00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:36,080 Speaker 1: Yeah? So the way that the ad campaign works is 1254 00:56:36,080 --> 00:56:38,400 Speaker 1: that you set up the campaign, then you choose an audience, 1255 00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:40,440 Speaker 1: which now they're not allowing you to do anymore. But 1256 00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:43,400 Speaker 1: in one campaign you can have multiple ads, so you 1257 00:56:43,440 --> 00:56:45,600 Speaker 1: can have like, say, for example, if it's a coffee cup, 1258 00:56:45,719 --> 00:56:47,279 Speaker 1: you can have an image of a coffee cup. Then 1259 00:56:47,280 --> 00:56:49,120 Speaker 1: you can have a video of Sarah drinking from the 1260 00:56:49,120 --> 00:56:51,600 Speaker 1: coffee cup, and then you can have perhaps like you 1261 00:56:51,719 --> 00:56:53,840 Speaker 1: passing it to someone, then you can have a carousel 1262 00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:56,440 Speaker 1: of the coffee cup. So it's the same thing but 1263 00:56:56,600 --> 00:57:00,239 Speaker 1: in different formats, and meta will essentially choose where the 1264 00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:03,120 Speaker 1: budget goes, so obviously if you're testing it, and then 1265 00:57:03,120 --> 00:57:05,640 Speaker 1: it'll automatically put more money towards what's working for the 1266 00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:06,080 Speaker 1: better one. 1267 00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:09,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, and for anyone who does feel like this whole 1268 00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:11,239 Speaker 2: world of ads, I mean one of the biggest things 1269 00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:13,080 Speaker 2: that I get from your content all the time is 1270 00:57:13,120 --> 00:57:14,880 Speaker 2: you need to be investing in ads like that is 1271 00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:16,200 Speaker 2: you just need to in business? 1272 00:57:16,240 --> 00:57:16,560 Speaker 1: I think. 1273 00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:19,760 Speaker 2: So it is such an overwhelming place. Is it recommended 1274 00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:22,600 Speaker 2: to do it yourself and learn more and try and 1275 00:57:22,720 --> 00:57:24,440 Speaker 2: learn how to do it? Do you get an agency? 1276 00:57:24,880 --> 00:57:26,000 Speaker 2: Like what is your kind? 1277 00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:29,200 Speaker 1: Don't get an agency? That's silly, really, no, that's silly. 1278 00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:32,080 Speaker 2: I think people feel so disempowered about how. 1279 00:57:32,200 --> 00:57:33,800 Speaker 1: Why would you Why would you get an agency if 1280 00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:35,240 Speaker 1: you don't even know how to do it yourself. So 1281 00:57:35,480 --> 00:57:37,480 Speaker 1: you can get an agency as you scale and have 1282 00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:40,080 Speaker 1: no more time to do it yourself because you understand 1283 00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:41,840 Speaker 1: what to ask for and look for when they're doing 1284 00:57:41,840 --> 00:57:45,240 Speaker 1: the war, I love it. You're passing on work that 1285 00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:46,720 Speaker 1: you don't know how to do. How do you know 1286 00:57:46,720 --> 00:57:48,080 Speaker 1: if they're going to do a good job. Most of 1287 00:57:48,120 --> 00:57:51,000 Speaker 1: the time they won't anyway, So you're not going to 1288 00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:54,120 Speaker 1: give two thousand dollars a month to something and then 1289 00:57:54,440 --> 00:57:58,080 Speaker 1: on top of the ad spend as well. That's ridiculous. 1290 00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:02,040 Speaker 1: Put that cash. Keep the cash. Learn it yourself over 1291 00:58:02,120 --> 00:58:04,200 Speaker 1: one day. I guarantee you if you learn. If you 1292 00:58:04,240 --> 00:58:07,040 Speaker 1: go to YouTube and type in like meta ads for 1293 00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:10,360 Speaker 1: beginners like start from scratch, take a day, set it 1294 00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:13,200 Speaker 1: up forever, you will. What do they say about the 1295 00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:15,440 Speaker 1: fishermen fish thing? You know, you catch your fish or 1296 00:58:15,440 --> 00:58:20,280 Speaker 1: whatever you learn whatever that thing, learn how to fish. 1297 00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:23,760 Speaker 2: There's actually another quote that I really loved from this 1298 00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:26,479 Speaker 2: book from Gudarat in India, which was that it takes 1299 00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:28,640 Speaker 2: a thousand hours to be an expert in something. Yeah, 1300 00:58:28,680 --> 00:58:30,520 Speaker 2: which one thousand hours is a lot of hours, but 1301 00:58:30,560 --> 00:58:33,000 Speaker 2: it's like you can actually master a lot of different things. 1302 00:58:33,000 --> 00:58:36,480 Speaker 2: Actually a five days days yeah, okay, So but like 1303 00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:39,160 Speaker 2: the point is we often spend two days and then 1304 00:58:39,200 --> 00:58:40,680 Speaker 2: we're like I can do it, and it's like, well 1305 00:58:40,720 --> 00:58:42,800 Speaker 2: you gave it two days, Like give it a give 1306 00:58:42,800 --> 00:58:44,600 Speaker 2: it more tott longer, You're not going to learn how 1307 00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:45,520 Speaker 2: to fly violin and to. 1308 00:58:45,520 --> 00:58:48,680 Speaker 1: Always say like, if you want to go viral, create 1309 00:58:48,720 --> 00:58:51,200 Speaker 1: fifty videos today and one of them will go viral. 1310 00:58:51,520 --> 00:58:54,160 Speaker 1: Like I believe that you create fifty videos and post 1311 00:58:54,200 --> 00:58:56,120 Speaker 1: fifty videos today and I guarantee you one of them 1312 00:58:56,120 --> 00:58:56,720 Speaker 1: will go viral. 1313 00:58:56,760 --> 00:58:58,480 Speaker 2: And it was interesting you also said it took you 1314 00:58:58,560 --> 00:59:00,600 Speaker 2: like ten years or something before your first video got 1315 00:59:00,640 --> 00:59:03,120 Speaker 2: like two hundred thousand views, like you've been creating content 1316 00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:07,360 Speaker 2: for so long before like the first one you got 1317 00:59:07,480 --> 00:59:09,360 Speaker 2: not the secret source, but you kind of you know, 1318 00:59:09,480 --> 00:59:11,280 Speaker 2: you do actually have to try for quite a long 1319 00:59:11,280 --> 00:59:12,840 Speaker 2: time before you work out your sisters. 1320 00:59:12,520 --> 00:59:14,440 Speaker 1: And actually have a question for you. Do you care 1321 00:59:14,480 --> 00:59:17,360 Speaker 1: about how your content performs ndred percent? Do you look 1322 00:59:17,400 --> 00:59:19,240 Speaker 1: at it and like all the to worried about it? 1323 00:59:19,280 --> 00:59:21,080 Speaker 2: And so I love that you asked me this question 1324 00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:23,040 Speaker 2: because a couple of weeks ago I had a massive 1325 00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:27,160 Speaker 2: spiral about like I feel like, because there's no transparency 1326 00:59:27,280 --> 00:59:30,840 Speaker 2: around the algorithms on any of the platforms, that there 1327 00:59:30,920 --> 00:59:34,360 Speaker 2: are times where you have really high engagement and also 1328 00:59:34,600 --> 00:59:36,600 Speaker 2: it could correspond with your content being really good. But 1329 00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:39,800 Speaker 2: then there's times where the content is similar level quality 1330 00:59:40,440 --> 00:59:42,919 Speaker 2: and your habits haven't changed, and it's just flat. There's 1331 00:59:42,960 --> 00:59:45,960 Speaker 2: just times where I also think it's affected by what 1332 00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:48,560 Speaker 2: brands are running ads on your accounts as well, But 1333 00:59:48,600 --> 00:59:51,200 Speaker 2: who knows. I mean, we're all just guessing. If I'm 1334 00:59:51,240 --> 00:59:55,240 Speaker 2: in a down spiral one hundred percent. I'm like, I'm irrelevant. 1335 00:59:55,240 --> 00:59:57,080 Speaker 2: That relevance game that I asked you about in the beginning, 1336 00:59:57,120 --> 00:59:58,840 Speaker 2: I'm like, it's and what is my plan being? 1337 00:59:59,120 --> 01:00:01,320 Speaker 1: I don't know what do I reckon? Sometimes we feel 1338 01:00:01,360 --> 01:00:03,600 Speaker 1: like our value is just wholly related to how many 1339 01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:06,880 Speaker 1: likes you get? Is my God, tell people all the 1340 01:00:06,920 --> 01:00:10,080 Speaker 1: time you're worthy? Is not your engagement on Instagram? 1341 01:00:10,600 --> 01:00:14,439 Speaker 2: And then I'm literally having a breakdown about how like, yeah, 1342 01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:16,439 Speaker 2: my reel didn't get the same views as the last one. 1343 01:00:16,480 --> 01:00:19,160 Speaker 1: I am constantly looking at my analytics and it's so bad, 1344 01:00:19,240 --> 01:00:22,200 Speaker 1: isn't it. Social media works in so many complicated ways, 1345 01:00:22,280 --> 01:00:23,960 Speaker 1: not just when you're looking at someone and you're like, oh, 1346 01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:25,600 Speaker 1: she's so pretty and I'm not. And then also when 1347 01:00:25,640 --> 01:00:28,080 Speaker 1: you post something and it doesn't do as well. Yeah mood, 1348 01:00:28,280 --> 01:00:32,480 Speaker 1: my mood, Yeah I'm yeah, I'll say to big I'm 1349 01:00:32,480 --> 01:00:37,200 Speaker 1: feeling really sad and he's like why. I'm like, cause, my. 1350 01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:38,760 Speaker 2: God, nix, I put it down and he can tell 1351 01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:41,720 Speaker 2: because I'll rewatch it over and over to like overthink it. 1352 01:00:41,760 --> 01:00:44,240 Speaker 1: And he's like, I can hear the audio you're slon 1353 01:00:44,400 --> 01:00:47,040 Speaker 1: going like, I send it, send it to VIC so 1354 01:00:47,080 --> 01:00:49,720 Speaker 1: that it's got engagement. And then I'm like, you're saying 1355 01:00:49,720 --> 01:00:59,440 Speaker 1: it recently. I was like, going on this post it 1356 01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:01,240 Speaker 1: was for a break. Pump is like, what can I 1357 01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:05,880 Speaker 1: even say? You didn't know you. I send it to 1358 01:01:05,960 --> 01:01:09,280 Speaker 1: vic secret account, so I get a secret lie. Oh 1359 01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:09,680 Speaker 1: my god. 1360 01:01:09,760 --> 01:01:11,880 Speaker 2: So when my friends are like this one isn't doing well, 1361 01:01:11,920 --> 01:01:14,080 Speaker 2: I go on from the CZA account, I'm like, gal, 1362 01:01:14,160 --> 01:01:15,000 Speaker 2: I gotcha. 1363 01:01:15,680 --> 01:01:18,080 Speaker 1: Send it to my safe I watch it twelve times 1364 01:01:18,120 --> 01:01:19,920 Speaker 1: to make sure it goes. We should have done a 1365 01:01:19,960 --> 01:01:20,720 Speaker 1: whole episode on this. 1366 01:01:21,160 --> 01:01:23,920 Speaker 2: I feel like, generally it's the side that logically my 1367 01:01:24,040 --> 01:01:26,960 Speaker 2: brain knows my worth is not measured by Yes, it's 1368 01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:28,760 Speaker 2: not a popularity contest, blah blah blah. I'm like, it 1369 01:01:28,840 --> 01:01:32,840 Speaker 2: is literally a popularity context is the Internet is a 1370 01:01:32,880 --> 01:01:34,200 Speaker 2: popularity contest. 1371 01:01:33,920 --> 01:01:35,640 Speaker 1: A game, and you've got to win, and that's how 1372 01:01:35,640 --> 01:01:36,320 Speaker 1: it feels. 1373 01:01:36,520 --> 01:01:39,400 Speaker 2: And it is actually based on the input you give 1374 01:01:39,480 --> 01:01:42,360 Speaker 2: it that is based on what you thought was good, 1375 01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:46,479 Speaker 2: and then it doesn't. When it flops, it's like, I'm shit, 1376 01:01:47,960 --> 01:01:53,640 Speaker 2: it's so true. So so do you unravel your identity 1377 01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:56,800 Speaker 2: from this, especially now that like my plan B what 1378 01:01:57,000 --> 01:01:59,400 Speaker 2: I had hedge. I had a product, business and a 1379 01:01:59,440 --> 01:02:02,040 Speaker 2: personal profile. We sold the business, I had a baby. 1380 01:02:02,280 --> 01:02:05,800 Speaker 2: I don't have another business. So all of my eggs 1381 01:02:05,800 --> 01:02:08,160 Speaker 2: are in the content basket at the moment, and it 1382 01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:08,600 Speaker 2: does well. 1383 01:02:08,680 --> 01:02:11,160 Speaker 1: It's not though you do public speaking that you get 1384 01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:14,480 Speaker 1: paid for. You're get em seeing like that's your money maker. 1385 01:02:14,640 --> 01:02:17,000 Speaker 2: But I am the product in all of those buckets, 1386 01:02:17,400 --> 01:02:19,960 Speaker 2: if that makes sense. So I'm less hedged than when 1387 01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:24,400 Speaker 2: I had stood two categories of project and I feel 1388 01:02:24,400 --> 01:02:28,040 Speaker 2: like that does make it very hard for someone who's 1389 01:02:28,760 --> 01:02:32,440 Speaker 2: initial fora into the professional world was that my brain 1390 01:02:33,000 --> 01:02:35,720 Speaker 2: was and the output of my work was what validated me. 1391 01:02:35,960 --> 01:02:38,120 Speaker 2: Now it is literally who I am as a person 1392 01:02:38,480 --> 01:02:40,520 Speaker 2: and the content that I'm putting out, which I love doing, 1393 01:02:40,560 --> 01:02:43,120 Speaker 2: and I feel like the stupid funny reels that I 1394 01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:45,360 Speaker 2: get so much joy from that aren't sponsored, that don't 1395 01:02:45,360 --> 01:02:52,360 Speaker 2: promote anything except laughter. Has been my strategy for enjoying 1396 01:02:52,640 --> 01:02:55,920 Speaker 2: the platform and taking it less seriously because I was 1397 01:02:56,000 --> 01:02:58,960 Speaker 2: just like, oh my god, and like way too consumed 1398 01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:01,160 Speaker 2: by it all the time. Still, it's just like I 1399 01:03:01,160 --> 01:03:04,160 Speaker 2: will posts sometimes because I'm like, of course, shit, I 1400 01:03:04,200 --> 01:03:05,680 Speaker 2: don't want anyone to see that, and no one will 1401 01:03:05,720 --> 01:03:07,800 Speaker 2: see it because it was shit. So it was because 1402 01:03:07,800 --> 01:03:10,160 Speaker 2: I took it down because I left it there. 1403 01:03:10,440 --> 01:03:13,920 Speaker 1: I just like my advice to everyone is always just like, 1404 01:03:14,160 --> 01:03:16,800 Speaker 1: leave it, no, babe, I'll tell you why. But i'll 1405 01:03:16,800 --> 01:03:20,120 Speaker 1: tell you why no, not about that. It's because by 1406 01:03:20,200 --> 01:03:22,840 Speaker 1: you posting, you're already ahead of like the ninety nine 1407 01:03:22,840 --> 01:03:25,480 Speaker 1: percent of people who delete. Yeah, and also, I'm so 1408 01:03:25,600 --> 01:03:28,040 Speaker 1: scared if you can just leave it there and realize 1409 01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:29,919 Speaker 1: that no one's going to your profile and looking at 1410 01:03:29,960 --> 01:03:32,120 Speaker 1: like the stuff. They're just seeing it for what it 1411 01:03:32,160 --> 01:03:34,040 Speaker 1: is and moving on with their day. Yeah, they're not 1412 01:03:34,080 --> 01:03:37,640 Speaker 1: looking at like the last six posts. Let me come 1413 01:03:37,760 --> 01:03:39,560 Speaker 1: for that as I am. 1414 01:03:39,680 --> 01:03:39,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1415 01:03:40,040 --> 01:03:43,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's crazy. It's really bad, and I hope this 1416 01:03:44,040 --> 01:03:47,840 Speaker 1: normalizes it for everyone listening, because I think everyone does it. 1417 01:03:47,960 --> 01:03:50,240 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I don't do enough. I don't like it 1418 01:03:50,280 --> 01:03:52,120 Speaker 1: when people are like I don't care about my LIGs. 1419 01:03:52,120 --> 01:03:54,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, yes, you do. I know, I think everyone 1420 01:03:54,800 --> 01:03:57,320 Speaker 1: does because it's a form of validation one hundred percent. 1421 01:03:57,360 --> 01:04:00,120 Speaker 2: And I feel like sometimes I am liberated from it, 1422 01:04:00,200 --> 01:04:03,400 Speaker 2: Like sometimes I'm not as worried about it when I, 1423 01:04:03,480 --> 01:04:06,439 Speaker 2: for example, on TikTok if I'm doing I care less 1424 01:04:06,440 --> 01:04:08,360 Speaker 2: about TikTok than Instagram because it's not my. 1425 01:04:08,240 --> 01:04:09,760 Speaker 1: Book Instagram, it's your community. 1426 01:04:09,960 --> 01:04:11,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, And so I feel like a little bit more 1427 01:04:11,880 --> 01:04:14,120 Speaker 2: liberated from it there. And if that's something doesn't go well, 1428 01:04:14,120 --> 01:04:15,640 Speaker 2: I'm like, well, I know you guys don't really know 1429 01:04:15,680 --> 01:04:18,560 Speaker 2: me anyway, so like whatever. But when it goes well, 1430 01:04:18,600 --> 01:04:21,000 Speaker 2: I am like, ah, I'm so cool right now, I 1431 01:04:21,040 --> 01:04:24,360 Speaker 2: went if something goes viral, I'm in the best mood. 1432 01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:25,600 Speaker 1: But it is. 1433 01:04:25,680 --> 01:04:28,640 Speaker 2: It is funny how much it does, And especially since 1434 01:04:28,640 --> 01:04:30,240 Speaker 2: I've had Teddy. Now I'm like, I need to care 1435 01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:33,960 Speaker 2: less about this because my real world life is amazing 1436 01:04:34,320 --> 01:04:36,840 Speaker 2: and I can't let this affect my mood. Even though 1437 01:04:36,880 --> 01:04:38,880 Speaker 2: it is like where I leave I live on the internet. 1438 01:04:38,920 --> 01:04:40,720 Speaker 1: It's my career. Like it's hard, I know, and that's 1439 01:04:40,760 --> 01:04:43,080 Speaker 1: the hardest part for so many people. You start a 1440 01:04:43,120 --> 01:04:45,440 Speaker 1: business and then I'm like, create content, run ads, like 1441 01:04:45,560 --> 01:04:48,320 Speaker 1: they all have to perform and that's part of the 1442 01:04:48,320 --> 01:04:51,080 Speaker 1: success of your brand. Yeah, that's really hard. 1443 01:04:51,240 --> 01:04:53,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's also there are also so many good 1444 01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:55,680 Speaker 2: parts of it as well. It's just like you've got 1445 01:04:55,680 --> 01:04:59,120 Speaker 2: to choose, Like we talked about it at the very beginning, 1446 01:04:59,200 --> 01:05:02,600 Speaker 2: like full circle, what your definition of success and fulfillment 1447 01:05:02,640 --> 01:05:05,680 Speaker 2: and joy is, Like know your risk areas where you 1448 01:05:05,720 --> 01:05:07,440 Speaker 2: can get out of control, and put in boundaries to 1449 01:05:07,520 --> 01:05:10,160 Speaker 2: like protect you from that. Know the things that make 1450 01:05:10,200 --> 01:05:12,160 Speaker 2: you feel good and that feel and how to avoid 1451 01:05:12,160 --> 01:05:14,400 Speaker 2: the things that don't or minimize those things. 1452 01:05:14,920 --> 01:05:17,360 Speaker 1: And sometimes it is just like put the phone away, 1453 01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:20,880 Speaker 1: you're spiraling, Like put it away, yeah, and play pickaball 1454 01:05:20,960 --> 01:05:25,840 Speaker 1: and love Pickaball in your spare time. That's literally like 1455 01:05:25,960 --> 01:05:28,320 Speaker 1: my last is it because it's like what do you 1456 01:05:28,320 --> 01:05:32,160 Speaker 1: do for joy? What do you do for you? Like 1457 01:05:32,160 --> 01:05:37,360 Speaker 1: that's you have to play. Discovered it in December and 1458 01:05:37,560 --> 01:05:41,040 Speaker 1: it's June, so I've been playing it for seven months. 1459 01:05:41,480 --> 01:05:43,160 Speaker 1: But it is the best thing that's ever happened to 1460 01:05:43,200 --> 01:05:43,880 Speaker 1: me other than that kid. 1461 01:05:43,920 --> 01:05:46,960 Speaker 2: Sorry and my husband, Oh my god, we did never 1462 01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:48,120 Speaker 2: get into the juggle hol shit. 1463 01:05:48,160 --> 01:05:50,040 Speaker 1: I have had so many questions to ask you. 1464 01:05:49,920 --> 01:05:52,400 Speaker 2: This is my problem when I get really excited about 1465 01:05:52,440 --> 01:05:55,520 Speaker 2: a particular person. I actually do worse interviews, but. 1466 01:05:55,480 --> 01:05:58,880 Speaker 1: I gcause I'm more contributed to this because I'm like, 1467 01:05:59,280 --> 01:06:02,040 Speaker 1: what about you, Like, let's talk about us? 1468 01:06:02,080 --> 01:06:05,080 Speaker 2: So interesting, But it means, like I think, I struggle 1469 01:06:05,080 --> 01:06:06,840 Speaker 2: when i've read someone's book as well, because then I 1470 01:06:06,840 --> 01:06:08,840 Speaker 2: know too many dot points. Yeah, like I want to 1471 01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:12,440 Speaker 2: cover everything, but then sometimes I'm like, just stay on. 1472 01:06:12,720 --> 01:06:15,360 Speaker 1: But yeah, I can't think is a good way to 1473 01:06:15,440 --> 01:06:18,000 Speaker 1: kind of bring it all together because it's like the 1474 01:06:18,040 --> 01:06:20,080 Speaker 1: things that I'm choosing to do in my life. I'm like, 1475 01:06:20,200 --> 01:06:22,520 Speaker 1: the things that I'm so excited about. One is the 1476 01:06:22,600 --> 01:06:24,919 Speaker 1: kids and the families. Let's start there number one. Okay, 1477 01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:28,280 Speaker 1: love the three kids, and I love that they're girls 1478 01:06:28,320 --> 01:06:32,240 Speaker 1: and that they're older and the eldest like packs the lunches. 1479 01:06:32,280 --> 01:06:35,320 Speaker 1: For I love to see that I'm raising good people. 1480 01:06:35,520 --> 01:06:38,520 Speaker 1: I actually don't care about I care about their schooling, 1481 01:06:38,560 --> 01:06:40,840 Speaker 1: but I don't care so much about their academics because 1482 01:06:40,840 --> 01:06:42,320 Speaker 1: I was I don't know if it was the same 1483 01:06:42,320 --> 01:06:45,320 Speaker 1: with you, but I was brought up just academics, academics, academics. 1484 01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:47,120 Speaker 1: For me, I'm just trying to raise them to really 1485 01:06:47,200 --> 01:06:51,200 Speaker 1: nice and good individuals who can talk to anybody and 1486 01:06:51,600 --> 01:06:53,800 Speaker 1: can see me on stage. And now my eldest who's 1487 01:06:53,880 --> 01:06:56,080 Speaker 1: very shy, all she wants to do is like public 1488 01:06:56,080 --> 01:06:58,400 Speaker 1: speaking and do drama. But she's never been like that. 1489 01:06:58,440 --> 01:07:00,640 Speaker 1: And I think I helped it that and I can 1490 01:07:00,680 --> 01:07:03,480 Speaker 1: see development as a parent. It's the coolest thing in 1491 01:07:03,520 --> 01:07:06,280 Speaker 1: the entire world to see what you've taught them they're 1492 01:07:06,320 --> 01:07:09,840 Speaker 1: displaying in their acts. And I'm like, that's amazing. Like 1493 01:07:09,880 --> 01:07:14,360 Speaker 1: it's anyway, so pride and joy and enjoy. Let's leave 1494 01:07:14,360 --> 01:07:19,960 Speaker 1: that there. Pickootball is another thing that I found joy in, 1495 01:07:20,200 --> 01:07:22,680 Speaker 1: simply because I've never played sport in my life. I've 1496 01:07:22,720 --> 01:07:25,960 Speaker 1: never been a sporty person because Indian friends are like, no, 1497 01:07:27,960 --> 01:07:31,480 Speaker 1: just immediately just watch you watch cricket or you like 1498 01:07:31,560 --> 01:07:34,600 Speaker 1: do tutoring. There's no like then you don't play sport. 1499 01:07:35,120 --> 01:07:37,120 Speaker 1: And so when I found it, I realized that not 1500 01:07:37,160 --> 01:07:39,160 Speaker 1: many people played it, and I found a thing that 1501 01:07:39,240 --> 01:07:42,240 Speaker 1: I could enjoy. And everyone is really good attendnis and 1502 01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:44,120 Speaker 1: really good at basketball and soccer and whatever. I'm not, 1503 01:07:44,360 --> 01:07:46,800 Speaker 1: but I found something that I really enjoy. And my 1504 01:07:46,880 --> 01:07:48,880 Speaker 1: husband loves sports. We played together and I got my 1505 01:07:48,920 --> 01:07:51,720 Speaker 1: friends into it. We play every Sunday, and it just 1506 01:07:52,120 --> 01:07:55,200 Speaker 1: feels good to do the thing that I love and 1507 01:07:55,240 --> 01:07:57,400 Speaker 1: I hate going to the gym because I don't understand it. 1508 01:07:57,760 --> 01:07:59,160 Speaker 1: So if I can get fit in a way that 1509 01:07:59,240 --> 01:08:03,080 Speaker 1: I just genuine LUs, then I am going to get fit. 1510 01:08:03,400 --> 01:08:05,320 Speaker 1: And then I've got my businesses and I choose to 1511 01:08:05,360 --> 01:08:07,600 Speaker 1: do that, and I as much of the bad stuff 1512 01:08:07,640 --> 01:08:09,919 Speaker 1: that I'm telling you about, like there is no place 1513 01:08:09,960 --> 01:08:12,840 Speaker 1: I'd rather be than in business failure or not. Like 1514 01:08:12,880 --> 01:08:15,479 Speaker 1: I would start again and I would do it again, 1515 01:08:15,520 --> 01:08:16,960 Speaker 1: and I would do it again and do it again. 1516 01:08:17,280 --> 01:08:20,519 Speaker 1: And then also speaking on stage and creating content is 1517 01:08:20,600 --> 01:08:23,000 Speaker 1: like I just know that that is the thing I 1518 01:08:23,040 --> 01:08:24,640 Speaker 1: want to do for the rest of my life. So 1519 01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:26,720 Speaker 1: there's like not so many things, but the things I'm 1520 01:08:26,760 --> 01:08:29,960 Speaker 1: choosing to do is like I just you really love it. 1521 01:08:31,160 --> 01:08:34,280 Speaker 2: Oh, I love that. That's the essence of CZA. It's 1522 01:08:34,320 --> 01:08:38,200 Speaker 2: finding what your unique combination of YA is. And for 1523 01:08:38,280 --> 01:08:41,439 Speaker 2: some people that's one job and one personal life. Yeah, 1524 01:08:41,520 --> 01:08:43,519 Speaker 2: some people that's a blend of all of it. For 1525 01:08:43,560 --> 01:08:46,160 Speaker 2: some people that's four things, for some it's seven things. 1526 01:08:46,760 --> 01:08:49,240 Speaker 2: And I think above all it's like giving yourself permission 1527 01:08:49,280 --> 01:08:51,120 Speaker 2: to work out what it is and then do it. 1528 01:08:51,479 --> 01:08:53,519 Speaker 2: And if you do try something and it's not for you, 1529 01:08:53,600 --> 01:08:55,080 Speaker 2: it's okay to like change your mind. 1530 01:08:55,280 --> 01:08:56,440 Speaker 1: Change yeah. 1531 01:08:56,640 --> 01:09:01,599 Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh my gosh, oh, I wish I had so 1532 01:09:01,720 --> 01:09:03,559 Speaker 2: much more time with you. I have so many more questions. 1533 01:09:03,600 --> 01:09:07,480 Speaker 2: But thank you so much, Anita for like the lovely conversation. 1534 01:09:08,200 --> 01:09:10,439 Speaker 2: People don't usually ask me questions back, and I've had 1535 01:09:10,439 --> 01:09:12,480 Speaker 2: a lot of reflection time in this episode. 1536 01:09:12,120 --> 01:09:15,280 Speaker 1: So ye, I feel like you have to. It's been great. 1537 01:09:15,560 --> 01:09:18,120 Speaker 1: I really enjoyed it. Thank you for having me well. 1538 01:09:18,240 --> 01:09:21,040 Speaker 2: I mean, that was not just a very entertaining yapp 1539 01:09:21,160 --> 01:09:23,920 Speaker 2: but basically a free one on one business coaching session 1540 01:09:24,000 --> 01:09:24,439 Speaker 2: for you all. 1541 01:09:24,520 --> 01:09:25,679 Speaker 1: Anita is such. 1542 01:09:25,520 --> 01:09:28,519 Speaker 2: A powerhouse and if you enjoyed or learned anything from this, 1543 01:09:28,760 --> 01:09:31,799 Speaker 2: please do share the episode, tagging at to sell anything 1544 01:09:31,800 --> 01:09:35,439 Speaker 2: online to thank her for her time and wisdom. I'll 1545 01:09:35,439 --> 01:09:38,479 Speaker 2: of course include links to all Anita's pages, books, and 1546 01:09:38,520 --> 01:09:40,800 Speaker 2: other links in the show notes and highly recommend that 1547 01:09:40,840 --> 01:09:42,080 Speaker 2: you go and have a look and give her a 1548 01:09:42,120 --> 01:09:46,840 Speaker 2: follow Coming up, we have the very hotly awaited Azio 1549 01:09:46,880 --> 01:09:49,759 Speaker 2: episode with a real life spy that I've been editing 1550 01:09:49,760 --> 01:09:52,559 Speaker 2: away in the background and cannot wait to share with 1551 01:09:52,600 --> 01:09:55,400 Speaker 2: you all. In the meantime, I hope you're having an 1552 01:09:55,439 --> 01:10:03,799 Speaker 2: amazing week and are seizing your yay. Potent father mment 1553 01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:07,599 Speaker 2: s Patman from Nan humanly remaining