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Speaker 1: You're listening to a mom and mea podcast. Mama Mea

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Speaker 2: I couldn't be more excited, like about what are you

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Speaker 3: Hello, and welcome to No Filter. I'm Kate lane Brook

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Speaker 3: and today, oh this is so great. We're talking about

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Speaker 3: a love story that no one saw coming. Sarah Todd

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Speaker 3: and Declan Cleary met in one of the most high

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Speaker 3: pressure kitchens in Australia, Master Chief Back to Win, and

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Speaker 3: they were supposed to be competitors, not soul mates. But

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Speaker 3: somewhere between the pressure tests, the plating and the late

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Speaker 1: Else began to simmer.

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Speaker 3: Sarah is a chef, a restaurateur and TV personality who's

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Speaker 3: made a global name for herself, and Declan is a

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Speaker 3: his talent and warmth. And together they've gone from competitors

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Speaker 3: to partners, from a shared kitchen to a shared home,

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Speaker 3: and now they have got some very very very big

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Speaker 3: news to share. This is a story of how a

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Speaker 3: reality competition turned into reality a real life love story,

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Speaker 3: and how Sarah and Declan are about to embark on

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Speaker 3: their most exciting chapter yet. Sarah Todd Declan Cleary, Welcome

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Speaker 3: to No Filter.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: I've been so looking forward to meeting you too, although

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Speaker 1: We'll get to that. How delightful to have you two here.

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Speaker 5: It's special to be here.

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Speaker 2: It's good to be back in Melbourne because I feel

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Speaker 6: You know, we've had a really busy schedule and then

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Speaker 6: you know, we've wanted to enjoy these past few months

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Speaker 1: Just yeah until.

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Speaker 5: Now, Yes, until yesterday.

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Speaker 3: And I said to you, you too, love a pressure test.

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Speaker 3: You have really jumped headfirst into really everything good that

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Speaker 1: Who was it more unexpected for?

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Speaker 2: I think I can speak for the both of us

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Speaker 1: Master Chef is not a dating show.

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Speaker 2: Fact.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if there have been any other Master

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Speaker 5: I think, yeah, I think that.

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Speaker 3: We know of you know, because it's one thing. You know,

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Speaker 6: We're both very passionate about what we do, and I

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Speaker 6: think we went into Master Chef wanting to win the show,

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Speaker 1: So how long? How long was the filming?

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Speaker 6: So we started wow December last year, and you know,

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Speaker 3: I of yees yes, and find someone because in those

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Speaker 3: and so you two struck up a friendship pretty early.

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Speaker 2: I think straight away, I think for Sarah's third time

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Speaker 1: Like what's the setup for that?

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Speaker 3: and it's one of the many differences between you, aside

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Speaker 4: I'm a country girl.

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Speaker 6: I'm from a small town two thousand people called Scrubby

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Speaker 6: I have just not only my immediate family unit, but

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Speaker 6: the cultural makeup of your family Australian? Yeah, so I think,

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Speaker 6: And as soon as I was, you know, made aware

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Speaker 6: and I just you know, totally immersed myself into Indian

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Speaker 1: And you take Phoenix back there, you're yeah, he.

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Speaker 6: You know, I think it's my responsibility to do that.

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Speaker 4: Be opened up to this whole new world and.

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Speaker 1: Decline your background Australian.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, growing up in fresh water run on Sydney's northern beaches.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, just full full lossie and traveling lots as

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Mum and dad met in television and now.

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Speaker 5: I'm a build a carpenter by trade and kind.

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Speaker 3: Of again very handy. You don't want a soft handed

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Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly when he definitely does that.

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Speaker 2: So so much like Sarah, like just a really close family,

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Speaker 3: And you like to tilt and win mills, so you

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Speaker 5: Yeah. In regards to work and cooking, yeah, definitely.

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Speaker 5: It was very similar.

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Speaker 2: I never thought I'd get Top three on Master Chef

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Speaker 3: And then when you were both invited back, yeah, for

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Speaker 3: Can you remember the moment when you first saw Sarah.

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Speaker 3: So and you were both emotionally unencumbered when you came

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Speaker 2: And I think, you know the foundations of our relationship

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Speaker 5: But I didn't have.

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Speaker 3: Well you know, I know, of course I can I

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Speaker 1: Always was that no intention? Because you were like, I

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Speaker 2: No, I just in the scheme of life, and I

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Speaker 6: Remember the first time, you know, really no seeing Declan

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Speaker 6: I loved seeing that. I think there's you know, there's

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Speaker 3: Well because I sent a message to Pose, I was

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Speaker 4: I think everybody did.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, like you know, we we didn't hide hanging out.

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Speaker 5: It's.

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Speaker 3: It's funny, but were all, this is a producer's dream.

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Speaker 3: So when Declan went out, which I think was week

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Speaker 4: It was really funny.

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Speaker 5: Because I was like, you know, I.

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Speaker 2: You know, we're we're like spending staying living with each

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Speaker 3: And also I think things like Declan leaving, then you

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Speaker 5: I was with her right?

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Speaker 6: Then my dad came down, took turns, and then there

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Speaker 5: I don't have to come now because they did like.

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Speaker 3: Oh, he's a nice boy.

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Speaker 2: Mum was there for six weeks and then she helped

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Speaker 4: And it evolved over time. So we were hanging out.

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Speaker 3: And then so you Declan had the chance to show

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Speaker 2: I was very empathetic as to how he might be feeling.

447
00:24:11,445 --> 00:24:14,845
Speaker 2: And you know, as always, like i'd always just go

448
00:24:15,125 --> 00:24:18,405
Speaker 2: to Sarah and just say, I'm guided by you on

449
00:24:18,525 --> 00:24:20,805
Speaker 2: how you want to do this, Like I love being

450
00:24:21,165 --> 00:24:24,405
Speaker 2: the decision maker and making decisions, but with this kind

451
00:24:24,405 --> 00:24:27,725
Speaker 2: of stuff, you know, it's it's your professional career. I've

452
00:24:27,765 --> 00:24:30,085
Speaker 2: been in this industry for two three years. Sarah has

453
00:24:30,125 --> 00:24:32,125
Speaker 2: been in it for you know, well over a decade.

454
00:24:33,005 --> 00:24:37,125
Speaker 2: It's your professional career, it's your son, it's it's your

455
00:24:37,605 --> 00:24:41,005
Speaker 2: you know, I'm guided by you. I want you to

456
00:24:41,605 --> 00:24:44,365
Speaker 2: be comfortable with however you want to go about this

457
00:24:44,565 --> 00:24:45,045
Speaker 2: kind of thing.

458
00:24:45,165 --> 00:24:47,605
Speaker 6: So yeah, and you know, even though it may look

459
00:24:47,725 --> 00:24:52,285
Speaker 6: like it's fast, it's been very thought out.

460
00:24:52,485 --> 00:24:54,925
Speaker 4: You know, each step that we take and everything that we.

461
00:24:55,005 --> 00:24:58,405
Speaker 6: Do and decision we make, we've talked about it endlessly

462
00:24:58,965 --> 00:25:00,005
Speaker 6: and thought about it.

463
00:25:00,085 --> 00:25:02,365
Speaker 4: And even this you know, slow.

464
00:25:02,165 --> 00:25:06,125
Speaker 6: Transitions with Phoenix and you know that essence that's all

465
00:25:06,165 --> 00:25:09,325
Speaker 6: been spoken about before you know, making any decisions.

466
00:25:09,405 --> 00:25:11,565
Speaker 4: So everyone's comfortable. And he is a smart boy.

467
00:25:11,605 --> 00:25:17,445
Speaker 6: He's really intelligent, both intelligence but also emotionally and he

468
00:25:17,685 --> 00:25:19,565
Speaker 6: you know, you do have to be delicate with that.

469
00:25:19,765 --> 00:25:22,165
Speaker 4: He's fourteen year old boy, and.

470
00:25:22,125 --> 00:25:24,565
Speaker 6: I don't want to be bringing people in his lives

471
00:25:24,925 --> 00:25:25,645
Speaker 6: in his life.

472
00:25:25,445 --> 00:25:27,085
Speaker 1: And taking itching them away.

473
00:25:27,245 --> 00:25:28,205
Speaker 4: He doesn't deserve that.

474
00:25:28,525 --> 00:25:31,125
Speaker 6: Yeah, so, you know, I think there's been a lot

475
00:25:31,165 --> 00:25:33,005
Speaker 6: of thought that's gone into all of it.

476
00:25:33,605 --> 00:25:39,565
Speaker 3: So you've left, but you're immeshed in the family. You're

477
00:25:39,605 --> 00:25:44,245
Speaker 3: continuing to cook. You're continuing to cook astoundingly by the way,

478
00:25:44,365 --> 00:25:47,845
Speaker 3: oh thank you, and looking beautiful while you do it,

479
00:25:48,085 --> 00:25:52,725
Speaker 3: which is not necessarily important, but it is television and

480
00:25:52,965 --> 00:25:56,325
Speaker 3: very beautiful to watch, Like, I've never seen anyone run

481
00:25:56,365 --> 00:25:57,925
Speaker 3: to a pantry and look graceful.

482
00:25:59,205 --> 00:26:00,045
Speaker 1: Sort of did.

483
00:26:00,725 --> 00:26:06,645
Speaker 3: Amazing to make these extraordinary to take these risks with

484
00:26:06,845 --> 00:26:10,925
Speaker 3: food when you do you think that part of the

485
00:26:10,965 --> 00:26:15,885
Speaker 3: reason that you were so alive in the show was

486
00:26:15,925 --> 00:26:20,245
Speaker 3: because you had the extra wind beneath your wings.

487
00:26:20,405 --> 00:26:25,365
Speaker 6: Oh absolutely, I think that I am, even though I

488
00:26:25,365 --> 00:26:28,925
Speaker 6: don't often show it. I'm a highly emotional person and

489
00:26:29,405 --> 00:26:32,525
Speaker 6: for me, that balance needs to be there in order

490
00:26:32,565 --> 00:26:35,165
Speaker 6: for me to perform and to do these crazy things.

491
00:26:35,205 --> 00:26:39,045
Speaker 6: And there was days where it sucks so much creative

492
00:26:39,165 --> 00:26:42,445
Speaker 6: energy and emotional energy out of me that I did

493
00:26:42,605 --> 00:26:45,485
Speaker 6: need to refuel and walk back into the kitchen and

494
00:26:45,765 --> 00:26:48,525
Speaker 6: I'd come home and it was it was like walking

495
00:26:48,565 --> 00:26:51,245
Speaker 6: even though it is my home. It was walking into

496
00:26:51,765 --> 00:26:54,965
Speaker 6: a home where it felt like, you know, it was

497
00:26:55,205 --> 00:26:57,885
Speaker 6: full and it was really beautiful. It was Decline, it

498
00:26:57,965 --> 00:27:01,285
Speaker 6: was sol the dog. It was Phoenix, it was dog.

499
00:27:03,005 --> 00:27:03,205
Speaker 2: Yeah.

500
00:27:03,845 --> 00:27:07,485
Speaker 1: From I was like, what sort of dog.

501
00:27:07,845 --> 00:27:09,485
Speaker 5: Here's a Hungarian vislock.

502
00:27:09,605 --> 00:27:14,245
Speaker 3: Really hunting dog, pointing.

503
00:27:13,565 --> 00:27:16,645
Speaker 5: Yeah, right, yes, but it was yeah, like I was.

504
00:27:17,045 --> 00:27:19,085
Speaker 2: I was there to drop Sarah off on set in

505
00:27:19,125 --> 00:27:21,285
Speaker 2: the mornings, you know, so she could get all the

506
00:27:21,325 --> 00:27:23,405
Speaker 2: makeup done in the car on the way and we're

507
00:27:23,485 --> 00:27:25,525
Speaker 2: up the bay, so it was it's about an hour

508
00:27:25,645 --> 00:27:28,725
Speaker 2: drive on a good day to get to the studio.

509
00:27:29,845 --> 00:27:32,765
Speaker 2: So you know, like Sarah leave it saying getting there

510
00:27:32,765 --> 00:27:34,525
Speaker 2: at seven, you know, you'd leave at six in the

511
00:27:34,565 --> 00:27:37,525
Speaker 2: morning and then coming home at nine at night, but

512
00:27:37,565 --> 00:27:40,085
Speaker 2: there've been food there, like, you know, so she can

513
00:27:40,165 --> 00:27:44,845
Speaker 2: refuel or like you know, brainstorming ideas and staying up

514
00:27:44,925 --> 00:27:47,845
Speaker 2: to all hours of the night like helping her you know,

515
00:27:48,005 --> 00:27:51,085
Speaker 2: think or practice like I remember us, you know, making

516
00:27:51,125 --> 00:27:53,765
Speaker 2: buddy milk buttons at eleven pm at night, which you know,

517
00:27:53,805 --> 00:27:56,325
Speaker 2: I like just and it was that and I just knew,

518
00:27:56,365 --> 00:27:58,485
Speaker 2: I'm like this, this is only for a short period,

519
00:27:58,565 --> 00:28:01,605
Speaker 2: Like it doesn't matter if I'm burning myself to the

520
00:28:01,645 --> 00:28:04,765
Speaker 2: absolute end. I know the grand finale date is on

521
00:28:04,805 --> 00:28:07,765
Speaker 2: this date, whether she's in it or not, Like I can,

522
00:28:07,965 --> 00:28:11,805
Speaker 2: you know, I can absolutely drive her to the end.

523
00:28:12,005 --> 00:28:16,925
Speaker 3: This is interesting because you've had such you know, as

524
00:28:16,925 --> 00:28:20,965
Speaker 3: Declan said, you had a very established life, but a

525
00:28:20,965 --> 00:28:22,085
Speaker 3: lot of it you had.

526
00:28:21,885 --> 00:28:23,245
Speaker 1: Done on your own.

527
00:28:25,085 --> 00:28:27,845
Speaker 3: Was how did it feel and what was the point

528
00:28:27,885 --> 00:28:29,925
Speaker 3: at which you went? You know that a part of

529
00:28:29,965 --> 00:28:33,605
Speaker 3: you can relax into the fact that there's someone there

530
00:28:33,645 --> 00:28:37,525
Speaker 3: that is solid and stable and there for you.

531
00:28:37,725 --> 00:28:38,805
Speaker 1: Was there a moment.

532
00:28:38,525 --> 00:28:42,805
Speaker 3: Where you where you just felt the ease of that.

533
00:28:43,325 --> 00:28:45,165
Speaker 4: I think there's kind of two sides to it.

534
00:28:45,205 --> 00:28:48,525
Speaker 6: I feel like that was very hard for me to

535
00:28:48,565 --> 00:28:52,965
Speaker 6: do because I have always done everything and managed everything

536
00:28:53,085 --> 00:28:55,845
Speaker 6: and found a way, no matter what it did to

537
00:28:55,885 --> 00:28:59,165
Speaker 6: me physically emotionally, I'd always get up and you know,

538
00:28:59,325 --> 00:29:02,205
Speaker 6: put the pieces back together. And there was the other

539
00:29:02,285 --> 00:29:05,725
Speaker 6: side where it was like, you know, I felt like

540
00:29:05,885 --> 00:29:10,165
Speaker 6: this was just so real and it was like it

541
00:29:10,445 --> 00:29:12,685
Speaker 6: was this kind of one side trying to let go

542
00:29:12,845 --> 00:29:16,125
Speaker 6: and relax into it. But the other side just going no,

543
00:29:16,725 --> 00:29:19,845
Speaker 6: I can't, I can't let myself do that because I've

544
00:29:19,885 --> 00:29:23,525
Speaker 6: never done it before and it was really nice, and

545
00:29:23,565 --> 00:29:26,885
Speaker 6: it's it's like probably still happening now.

546
00:29:26,845 --> 00:29:27,805
Speaker 5: Like like.

547
00:29:29,645 --> 00:29:32,805
Speaker 3: That that a relationship takes a kind of surrender.

548
00:29:33,045 --> 00:29:33,725
Speaker 4: Yeah, it does.

549
00:29:34,205 --> 00:29:41,205
Speaker 3: And if you're someone who's been fiercely independent, that requires

550
00:29:41,245 --> 00:29:42,805
Speaker 3: a different set of muscles.

551
00:29:42,925 --> 00:29:43,245
Speaker 5: Yeah.

552
00:29:43,285 --> 00:29:44,645
Speaker 4: Absolutely, And in.

553
00:29:44,525 --> 00:29:47,925
Speaker 1: What way were you resisting that, do you think? Oh?

554
00:29:48,325 --> 00:29:49,445
Speaker 4: Probably in every way.

555
00:29:49,685 --> 00:29:54,085
Speaker 6: Like I think just like letting him just make the dinner,

556
00:29:54,685 --> 00:29:57,725
Speaker 6: you know who, like even as small things, and then

557
00:29:58,365 --> 00:30:01,485
Speaker 6: for him to you know, pick Phoenix up from you know,

558
00:30:02,005 --> 00:30:05,725
Speaker 6: from school. I was like, I've never I've never asked

559
00:30:05,765 --> 00:30:07,925
Speaker 6: anybody to do that before other than you know, my

560
00:30:08,045 --> 00:30:11,685
Speaker 6: mom or my dad. That's the only people I've ever asked.

561
00:30:11,725 --> 00:30:15,765
Speaker 6: I've never had babysitters or anything. You know, it's kind

562
00:30:15,765 --> 00:30:17,885
Speaker 6: of in Australian blood to just go you have to

563
00:30:17,885 --> 00:30:20,405
Speaker 6: do it all yourself, you know, it's not only just

564
00:30:20,485 --> 00:30:24,565
Speaker 6: being single, it's an independent it's also our makeup. Yeah,

565
00:30:24,605 --> 00:30:29,045
Speaker 6: so I think, yeah, like it's still kind of happening.

566
00:30:28,805 --> 00:30:33,805
Speaker 3: And so Declan strikes me as being quite patient. Yeah,

567
00:30:34,045 --> 00:30:36,565
Speaker 3: or did he move things along in that regard.

568
00:30:37,765 --> 00:30:40,845
Speaker 6: Look, he's just I think that everything that Declan does,

569
00:30:40,925 --> 00:30:43,885
Speaker 6: he does it without expecting anything in return.

570
00:30:44,285 --> 00:30:45,405
Speaker 4: He just genuinely and.

571
00:30:45,365 --> 00:30:46,965
Speaker 6: It's not just for me. I see it with all

572
00:30:47,005 --> 00:30:49,685
Speaker 6: of his friends, his family. You know, he'll give his

573
00:30:49,805 --> 00:30:52,725
Speaker 6: time and he'll do these small things, whether it's you know,

574
00:30:52,805 --> 00:30:56,925
Speaker 6: a little message in the morning to you know, brighten

575
00:30:56,925 --> 00:31:00,365
Speaker 6: your day, or something extra for his family, Like, he'll

576
00:31:00,365 --> 00:31:01,965
Speaker 6: always go out of his way to do that.

577
00:31:02,885 --> 00:31:03,685
Speaker 5: A lot more would so.

578
00:31:05,445 --> 00:31:09,325
Speaker 3: He gets a special Yeah, because you said something really

579
00:31:09,445 --> 00:31:14,765
Speaker 3: lovely in the episode where Declan left, and that was

580
00:31:14,845 --> 00:31:17,485
Speaker 3: interesting as well, that the only person that they asked.

581
00:31:17,525 --> 00:31:20,845
Speaker 3: I mean, obviously probably it was edited that way, but

582
00:31:20,925 --> 00:31:21,845
Speaker 3: they left your.

583
00:31:21,725 --> 00:31:24,605
Speaker 1: Commenting and I wrote it down. I didn't get a word.

584
00:31:24,445 --> 00:31:26,645
Speaker 3: For word, but it was so beautiful what you said

585
00:31:27,485 --> 00:31:30,845
Speaker 3: when they asked you to discuss what Declan had meant

586
00:31:31,005 --> 00:31:33,725
Speaker 3: to the show, and you said, he's a light for

587
00:31:33,845 --> 00:31:37,365
Speaker 3: everyone in the room and he lifts everyone up. Yeah,

588
00:31:37,405 --> 00:31:41,565
Speaker 3: that's such like I find this quite moving. Your that

589
00:31:41,725 --> 00:31:44,405
Speaker 3: surrendering thing I think is very hard for women who

590
00:31:44,445 --> 00:31:48,165
Speaker 3: have been stoic and used to doing things.

591
00:31:47,925 --> 00:31:51,565
Speaker 5: On their own. Yeah, definitely and I see.

592
00:31:52,125 --> 00:31:55,605
Speaker 2: I'm aware that how hard that is for Sarah because

593
00:31:55,605 --> 00:31:57,805
Speaker 2: I can see it at times, you know, her wanting

594
00:31:57,845 --> 00:32:00,485
Speaker 2: to do everything. And I've come from a family with

595
00:32:00,605 --> 00:32:04,765
Speaker 2: three fiercely and independent women as well, so I think

596
00:32:04,845 --> 00:32:07,445
Speaker 2: that's kind of helped me adjust to that. And I

597
00:32:07,525 --> 00:32:10,525
Speaker 2: let her do things like and then you know when

598
00:32:11,245 --> 00:32:15,165
Speaker 2: when she see I let her see herself exhausting herself

599
00:32:15,205 --> 00:32:17,685
Speaker 2: that little bit more, maybe in a way where I

600
00:32:17,765 --> 00:32:19,525
Speaker 2: could have helped, and then she's like, oh no, I

601
00:32:19,605 --> 00:32:22,885
Speaker 2: might let deck do that, or I might ask just

602
00:32:22,925 --> 00:32:25,005
Speaker 2: once and say I'll do this, and if she says no,

603
00:32:25,125 --> 00:32:27,245
Speaker 2: like I respect that, but then she might come to

604
00:32:27,285 --> 00:32:28,965
Speaker 2: me the next week and be like, oh, maybe you

605
00:32:29,005 --> 00:32:29,525
Speaker 2: can do that.

606
00:32:30,165 --> 00:32:31,405
Speaker 5: Like I don't want to be.

607
00:32:31,685 --> 00:32:35,125
Speaker 2: Controlling in any way whatsoever, but I feel like, you know,

608
00:32:35,245 --> 00:32:38,085
Speaker 2: like Sarah said, we're still figuring all this out, yes,

609
00:32:38,205 --> 00:32:42,285
Speaker 2: and I think it's like we, you know, we really

610
00:32:42,365 --> 00:32:44,205
Speaker 2: just threw ourself into the thick of it.

611
00:32:47,125 --> 00:32:49,725
Speaker 3: Don't go anywhere. Sarah and Declan have plenty more to

612
00:32:49,805 --> 00:32:57,765
Speaker 3: share right after this. So then the show finished, You're

613
00:32:59,005 --> 00:33:02,445
Speaker 3: obviously on this path now. I mean, you've gone to Factor,

614
00:33:03,405 --> 00:33:05,925
Speaker 3: You've gone to Factory and then.

615
00:33:05,845 --> 00:33:07,165
Speaker 1: You go overseas together.

616
00:33:07,685 --> 00:33:10,965
Speaker 5: Yeah, we move in, we go oversee And what was.

617
00:33:10,885 --> 00:33:14,045
Speaker 3: The trip originally? Was it a trip that was that

618
00:33:14,085 --> 00:33:16,605
Speaker 3: you had planned together? Was a trip you were originally

619
00:33:16,645 --> 00:33:18,565
Speaker 3: going to have or how did that work?

620
00:33:19,685 --> 00:33:19,805
Speaker 1: Well?

621
00:33:19,885 --> 00:33:20,325
Speaker 2: How many.

622
00:33:22,045 --> 00:33:23,165
Speaker 1: Of Paris? I know?

623
00:33:23,285 --> 00:33:25,925
Speaker 5: Paris, Europe, Dubai, India.

624
00:33:26,565 --> 00:33:30,005
Speaker 2: We've just spent three weeks on the road driving around Australia.

625
00:33:30,845 --> 00:33:33,085
Speaker 6: We've kept the first trip was actually a work trip

626
00:33:33,125 --> 00:33:37,925
Speaker 6: of mine, and then it was to India. And I

627
00:33:37,965 --> 00:33:42,045
Speaker 6: was like, you need to come and experience India because it.

628
00:33:41,725 --> 00:33:46,245
Speaker 3: So because you're massive, because Master she is a huge

629
00:33:46,485 --> 00:33:49,245
Speaker 3: India and you're huge in India.

630
00:33:50,965 --> 00:33:55,845
Speaker 6: Wells, yeah, I mean I have a big, long career

631
00:33:55,885 --> 00:33:58,965
Speaker 6: in India. And it was nice to I think that

632
00:33:59,085 --> 00:34:01,445
Speaker 6: I have such a love of India and I've been

633
00:34:01,485 --> 00:34:03,445
Speaker 6: seeing it through my eyes for so long. It was

634
00:34:03,525 --> 00:34:06,805
Speaker 6: really beautiful to show decline and to see it for

635
00:34:06,845 --> 00:34:09,885
Speaker 6: the first time through his eyes. And just I think

636
00:34:09,925 --> 00:34:13,645
Speaker 6: that we had the most beautiful trip and the places

637
00:34:13,645 --> 00:34:14,845
Speaker 6: that have become familiar to me.

638
00:34:14,925 --> 00:34:15,925
Speaker 4: And what do they.

639
00:34:15,845 --> 00:34:21,525
Speaker 2: Call us again, the jujiuji as husband of a sister.

640
00:34:21,805 --> 00:34:24,725
Speaker 6: Yeah, so I'm they calling me a sister of India.

641
00:34:24,845 --> 00:34:28,405
Speaker 6: And him like, you know my husband, which is I

642
00:34:28,565 --> 00:34:31,045
Speaker 6: was like, oh my gosh, well that was kind of

643
00:34:31,085 --> 00:34:34,205
Speaker 6: a moment for me to realize that India is calling

644
00:34:34,245 --> 00:34:37,685
Speaker 6: me a sister. Yeah, I feel and they're like, oh,

645
00:34:37,765 --> 00:34:40,725
Speaker 6: you know, it's like, you know, I've been there always,

646
00:34:40,805 --> 00:34:44,405
Speaker 6: and I think that the food scene I've been you know,

647
00:34:44,485 --> 00:34:47,805
Speaker 6: speckled through it for the last eleven twelve years and

648
00:34:48,165 --> 00:34:51,565
Speaker 6: it was nice to yeah, to kind of just see

649
00:34:52,045 --> 00:34:58,365
Speaker 6: the response of Declan coming to India and yeah, and

650
00:34:58,405 --> 00:35:01,245
Speaker 6: it was beautiful, Like I think it was really well

651
00:35:01,285 --> 00:35:05,325
Speaker 6: received also by the media and and you know, everyone

652
00:35:05,405 --> 00:35:07,445
Speaker 6: reaching out to us while we're there.

653
00:35:07,565 --> 00:35:09,125
Speaker 4: It felt really special.

654
00:35:10,125 --> 00:35:14,605
Speaker 3: And because you know, sometimes I think relationships that have

655
00:35:14,725 --> 00:35:18,965
Speaker 3: started in a covert sort of way because you know,

656
00:35:19,085 --> 00:35:22,045
Speaker 3: it wasn't for public consumption at that time, sometimes when

657
00:35:22,045 --> 00:35:25,045
Speaker 3: they step into the open, the nature of the relationship

658
00:35:25,165 --> 00:35:29,285
Speaker 3: changes because the secrecy has added an extra little fits

659
00:35:29,485 --> 00:35:33,045
Speaker 3: on to it, and when you are walking in the light,

660
00:35:34,125 --> 00:35:36,685
Speaker 3: it can change a little bit. Did you have any

661
00:35:36,805 --> 00:35:41,405
Speaker 3: moments where you were like or you were like, oh,

662
00:35:41,525 --> 00:35:44,405
Speaker 3: this is an unexpected aspect of this person.

663
00:35:45,525 --> 00:35:48,325
Speaker 2: I think that's the special thing is from the moment

664
00:35:48,405 --> 00:35:51,885
Speaker 2: I met Sarah we were just in sync and that

665
00:35:52,045 --> 00:35:56,125
Speaker 2: we obviously have differences, but you know, whether it's our values,

666
00:35:56,165 --> 00:35:59,525
Speaker 2: our morals, like her speaking of what I do in

667
00:35:59,565 --> 00:36:01,765
Speaker 2: the morning, she does it as well. And she is

668
00:36:01,845 --> 00:36:05,925
Speaker 2: such a fiercely independent woman. I feel lucky that you

669
00:36:05,965 --> 00:36:08,045
Speaker 2: and I've swept off her feet and I've.

670
00:36:08,085 --> 00:36:08,925
Speaker 5: Ended up with her.

671
00:36:09,525 --> 00:36:14,645
Speaker 2: But it's just like it's it's honestly so special to

672
00:36:15,445 --> 00:36:19,405
Speaker 2: have met someone that is so on the same page

673
00:36:19,445 --> 00:36:23,685
Speaker 2: with me with morals of life, with values, which I

674
00:36:23,685 --> 00:36:26,485
Speaker 2: think is really important in the cause of a relationship,

675
00:36:28,205 --> 00:36:31,445
Speaker 2: Like is you know you want to be best friends?

676
00:36:31,445 --> 00:36:34,285
Speaker 5: And I can call herm a best friend. Like it's like,

677
00:36:35,085 --> 00:36:35,725
Speaker 5: you know, we do.

678
00:36:36,525 --> 00:36:39,365
Speaker 2: We're we've thrown ourselves in the deep end where we're

679
00:36:39,365 --> 00:36:42,365
Speaker 2: working together, we're living together, we did the show together,

680
00:36:42,845 --> 00:36:46,125
Speaker 2: we're traveling together. Like there's not not and you know,

681
00:36:46,205 --> 00:36:48,605
Speaker 2: don't get me wrong, I'm sure I drive her up

682
00:36:48,645 --> 00:36:50,005
Speaker 2: the bloody wall sometimes.

683
00:36:50,805 --> 00:36:53,565
Speaker 3: I did see in one of yours you're saying him,

684
00:36:53,605 --> 00:36:54,445
Speaker 3: don't be lazy.

685
00:36:56,325 --> 00:36:59,205
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's just banter.

686
00:36:59,485 --> 00:37:02,285
Speaker 2: And it's like we have such a such a good friendship,

687
00:37:02,645 --> 00:37:05,605
Speaker 2: which I think is something I haven't had in the past,

688
00:37:06,045 --> 00:37:10,165
Speaker 2: and it's going into Master Chef without those intentions to

689
00:37:10,205 --> 00:37:12,605
Speaker 2: find someone, and I was kind of on a journey

690
00:37:13,525 --> 00:37:15,845
Speaker 2: of like not wanting to be in a relationship for

691
00:37:15,925 --> 00:37:16,525
Speaker 2: a little while.

692
00:37:16,605 --> 00:37:18,805
Speaker 5: I was like, all right, and then and then.

693
00:37:18,725 --> 00:37:21,205
Speaker 1: Sarah, and just focus on the bistro dream.

694
00:37:21,365 --> 00:37:23,085
Speaker 5: Yeah that, but just focus you know.

695
00:37:23,205 --> 00:37:27,165
Speaker 2: I absolutely love building, and it's like I just didn't

696
00:37:27,165 --> 00:37:31,605
Speaker 2: want I went on Master Chef and then I'm like sweet, Like,

697
00:37:31,725 --> 00:37:33,405
Speaker 2: you know, if I win this, I can really get

698
00:37:33,445 --> 00:37:36,925
Speaker 2: a quarter of a meal behind myself to capitalize on that.

699
00:37:37,005 --> 00:37:40,925
Speaker 2: But my goal is to you know, have a portfolio

700
00:37:40,925 --> 00:37:43,845
Speaker 2: on build my homes and like you know, build a

701
00:37:43,885 --> 00:37:47,565
Speaker 2: family and stuff like that. And it's you know, I'm

702
00:37:47,925 --> 00:37:51,485
Speaker 2: I'm just so grateful for the opportunity to be on

703
00:37:51,605 --> 00:37:52,325
Speaker 2: Master Chef.

704
00:37:53,765 --> 00:37:56,445
Speaker 5: This is my first podcast I've ever been on as well.

705
00:37:57,245 --> 00:37:59,725
Speaker 5: I've never done anything like this before. But I come

706
00:37:59,765 --> 00:38:01,205
Speaker 5: in here with a couple of butterflies.

707
00:38:03,045 --> 00:38:07,645
Speaker 2: Holy shit, much like Sarah, like never never spoken so

708
00:38:07,885 --> 00:38:10,925
Speaker 2: personally about my life, which I think this is this

709
00:38:10,965 --> 00:38:12,565
Speaker 2: is a big step for us.

710
00:38:12,805 --> 00:38:17,165
Speaker 3: When you were saying before the things that you've shared together, yeah,

711
00:38:17,285 --> 00:38:21,685
Speaker 3: you left something out. Yeah, When I said, hell, are

712
00:38:21,725 --> 00:38:25,165
Speaker 3: you too? When you walked in, yeah, that was not

713
00:38:25,325 --> 00:38:27,885
Speaker 3: strictly true.

714
00:38:27,285 --> 00:38:31,165
Speaker 5: No, I couldn't be more excited, like and.

715
00:38:31,485 --> 00:38:32,245
Speaker 4: About what.

716
00:38:34,085 --> 00:38:35,965
Speaker 1: Are you excited.

717
00:38:35,565 --> 00:38:36,925
Speaker 5: About having a baby?

718
00:38:38,525 --> 00:38:42,485
Speaker 2: But like the buns in the ovens and it's it's

719
00:38:42,605 --> 00:38:45,765
Speaker 2: kind of it's all that I've ever wanted in life,

720
00:38:45,885 --> 00:38:49,645
Speaker 2: and I can just see an endless future with Sarah

721
00:38:49,845 --> 00:38:54,205
Speaker 2: and us growing together and starting this beautiful family together.

722
00:38:54,885 --> 00:39:00,765
Speaker 3: Was this intentional int well, that was the pregnancy, do

723
00:39:00,765 --> 00:39:02,885
Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Were you like, let's let's

724
00:39:02,925 --> 00:39:06,045
Speaker 3: make a baby or do happen? And it was it

725
00:39:06,125 --> 00:39:07,045
Speaker 3: a happy accident.

726
00:39:07,285 --> 00:39:10,925
Speaker 6: We've spoken about everything, and I think we spoke about

727
00:39:11,125 --> 00:39:14,925
Speaker 6: you know, obviously you mentioned age as well, and you know,

728
00:39:14,965 --> 00:39:18,645
Speaker 6: if we start this journey together in a relationship, and

729
00:39:18,845 --> 00:39:22,565
Speaker 6: you know we obviously Declan wants to build a family

730
00:39:22,605 --> 00:39:25,325
Speaker 6: and I, you know, I know how beautiful it is

731
00:39:25,325 --> 00:39:27,605
Speaker 6: having my son, and I've always wanted more children, and

732
00:39:27,885 --> 00:39:30,045
Speaker 6: we spoke about all aspects and you know.

733
00:39:30,045 --> 00:39:32,645
Speaker 5: I think from an early stage, yeah, and.

734
00:39:33,085 --> 00:39:34,685
Speaker 4: You know, it was really beautiful.

735
00:39:34,725 --> 00:39:37,165
Speaker 6: Like Declan also said, like, we spoke about the options

736
00:39:37,165 --> 00:39:40,645
Speaker 6: if I couldn't as well, and you know there was

737
00:39:40,685 --> 00:39:44,245
Speaker 6: both sides, so we we really did speak about everything,

738
00:39:44,325 --> 00:39:46,485
Speaker 6: and you know, we knew this is what we wanted.

739
00:39:46,565 --> 00:39:48,965
Speaker 3: Well, it's interesting because your age difference is similar to

740
00:39:49,005 --> 00:39:51,045
Speaker 3: me and my husband, so I do believe.

741
00:39:51,485 --> 00:39:52,045
Speaker 5: I don't know.

742
00:39:52,325 --> 00:39:55,205
Speaker 3: For me, it's really kind of a non issue. But

743
00:39:55,245 --> 00:39:58,885
Speaker 3: when we first meet, we were in such different stages

744
00:39:58,925 --> 00:40:01,245
Speaker 3: of our life. I just started working in television and

745
00:40:01,525 --> 00:40:04,245
Speaker 3: he was working in a cafe and he was really

746
00:40:04,325 --> 00:40:05,405
Speaker 3: clucky at this.

747
00:40:05,765 --> 00:40:08,285
Speaker 4: He really sounds very simil.

748
00:40:09,525 --> 00:40:11,605
Speaker 3: And I was frond him in a vague yeah one

749
00:40:11,725 --> 00:40:13,725
Speaker 3: day and then now.

750
00:40:13,565 --> 00:40:15,365
Speaker 4: We've got four children, amazing.

751
00:40:15,605 --> 00:40:18,405
Speaker 3: But it was because there was a driver of us

752
00:40:19,005 --> 00:40:22,445
Speaker 3: and Peter was very similar to Declan in background as well,

753
00:40:22,485 --> 00:40:25,205
Speaker 3: really in that he was like, this is what life

754
00:40:25,285 --> 00:40:25,725
Speaker 3: is about.

755
00:40:25,925 --> 00:40:29,165
Speaker 6: Yeah, and that's exactly what Declan says. And I believe

756
00:40:29,205 --> 00:40:31,965
Speaker 6: it as well. And you know, I think the you know,

757
00:40:32,205 --> 00:40:33,365
Speaker 6: family is everything.

758
00:40:33,405 --> 00:40:34,845
Speaker 1: And who did you tell first?

759
00:40:35,525 --> 00:40:36,805
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, who did me?

760
00:40:36,885 --> 00:40:38,125
Speaker 5: I think my mum?

761
00:40:38,205 --> 00:40:42,005
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, And that was a big moment as well.

762
00:40:42,045 --> 00:40:45,285
Speaker 6: I think, you know, I think we have been so

763
00:40:45,365 --> 00:40:50,085
Speaker 6: overwhelmed with how how many beautiful messages from our family

764
00:40:50,125 --> 00:40:52,885
Speaker 6: and friends and how happy everyone is for us. But

765
00:40:53,005 --> 00:40:56,525
Speaker 6: it's like it's such a big thing and it's a lot,

766
00:40:56,885 --> 00:40:58,805
Speaker 6: you know, again like going back to the fact that,

767
00:40:59,245 --> 00:41:01,845
Speaker 6: like I'm sure you know, I'm a very close person.

768
00:41:01,845 --> 00:41:04,605
Speaker 6: I don't share a lot of my personal life and

769
00:41:04,605 --> 00:41:06,845
Speaker 6: and you know this is all new to us to

770
00:41:07,285 --> 00:41:09,685
Speaker 6: now be sharing it all, and there's so many people

771
00:41:09,765 --> 00:41:11,325
Speaker 6: to share, so.

772
00:41:11,205 --> 00:41:14,285
Speaker 3: Many people are invested in it, which is beautiful. And

773
00:41:14,325 --> 00:41:16,925
Speaker 3: also because the story of you two, I mean, you're

774
00:41:16,965 --> 00:41:22,765
Speaker 3: so Yin and Yang, You're so the the energy is

775
00:41:22,845 --> 00:41:24,565
Speaker 3: so male and so female.

776
00:41:24,725 --> 00:41:27,565
Speaker 1: It's so lady in the tramp, do you know what

777
00:41:27,565 --> 00:41:30,925
Speaker 1: I mean? Yeah, sharing that.

778
00:41:32,605 --> 00:41:37,885
Speaker 3: That beautiful thing that it's a very beautiful story that

779
00:41:38,005 --> 00:41:40,165
Speaker 3: a lot of people, like I said, are invested in.

780
00:41:40,845 --> 00:41:44,165
Speaker 2: I think neither of us expected that we'd come into

781
00:41:44,245 --> 00:41:48,605
Speaker 2: each other's lives. And it goes back to the part

782
00:41:48,645 --> 00:41:53,765
Speaker 2: where you know, we've created this friendship before even you know,

783
00:41:53,885 --> 00:41:56,445
Speaker 2: having a kiss or something. Ca Serah goes into an

784
00:41:56,485 --> 00:41:58,885
Speaker 2: elimination and then I'm like, ship, this could be the

785
00:41:58,965 --> 00:41:59,925
Speaker 2: last time I see her.

786
00:42:00,525 --> 00:42:02,045
Speaker 5: I just got to bite the bullet and do this.

787
00:42:02,085 --> 00:42:04,085
Speaker 2: And I'm walking in, I'm walking in, She's walking in

788
00:42:04,085 --> 00:42:07,165
Speaker 2: front of me, and I'm like, do this, let's do it, let's.

789
00:42:06,925 --> 00:42:09,005
Speaker 1: Do it, And what did you say?

790
00:42:09,085 --> 00:42:11,325
Speaker 2: And just tap her on the shoulder and I'm like, like,

791
00:42:11,525 --> 00:42:14,405
Speaker 2: we're walking in a group of twenty thirty and then

792
00:42:14,405 --> 00:42:18,525
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, I'm like Sarah, I'm like I just

793
00:42:18,525 --> 00:42:20,005
Speaker 2: want to ask you, like, you know, in case you

794
00:42:20,005 --> 00:42:21,645
Speaker 2: get eliminated today, did you maybe want to go on

795
00:42:21,685 --> 00:42:22,245
Speaker 2: a date with me?

796
00:42:24,485 --> 00:42:26,845
Speaker 5: And then she just looks at me and she's like

797
00:42:27,605 --> 00:42:28,925
Speaker 5: she's like what. And I'm like, you want to go

798
00:42:28,965 --> 00:42:33,085
Speaker 5: on a date with me? And she's like you're an idiot?

799
00:42:33,245 --> 00:42:35,885
Speaker 5: Like you ready to go in for it?

800
00:42:36,325 --> 00:42:37,485
Speaker 1: Why was he an idiot?

801
00:42:37,845 --> 00:42:40,925
Speaker 6: Well, it was just like it's like thirty seconds before

802
00:42:40,965 --> 00:42:42,285
Speaker 6: I'm about to get eliminated.

803
00:42:42,325 --> 00:42:45,725
Speaker 1: I was like this, yeah, and that.

804
00:42:45,765 --> 00:42:49,085
Speaker 2: Was there's like people side by side, and once you

805
00:42:49,085 --> 00:42:51,605
Speaker 2: get eliminated, you're out the door, you pack your bags

806
00:42:51,765 --> 00:42:52,605
Speaker 2: and you go yeah.

807
00:42:52,445 --> 00:42:57,605
Speaker 1: And Sarah and you're taking Phoenix to school. This was yeah.

808
00:42:57,805 --> 00:42:58,045
Speaker 3: Good.

809
00:42:59,365 --> 00:43:02,405
Speaker 2: So this was you know, very early, and I'm like,

810
00:43:02,485 --> 00:43:05,565
Speaker 2: I can't skip on this opportunity. And I'm like I

811
00:43:06,045 --> 00:43:08,125
Speaker 2: always my whole life have told myself, do you just

812
00:43:08,165 --> 00:43:11,005
Speaker 2: need twenty seconds of curry with whatever it is you're doing,

813
00:43:11,045 --> 00:43:14,485
Speaker 2: whether it's applying for that job, quitting that job, you know,

814
00:43:14,645 --> 00:43:17,445
Speaker 2: asking someone on a day to Kis. So you know,

815
00:43:17,605 --> 00:43:19,725
Speaker 2: all it is is just shut out everything in your

816
00:43:19,765 --> 00:43:22,725
Speaker 2: life and just have twenty seconds of courage to do it.

817
00:43:23,565 --> 00:43:26,285
Speaker 5: And I had that twenty seconds of courage and she.

818
00:43:26,325 --> 00:43:30,205
Speaker 2: Left me, you know, yeah, and then I went back

819
00:43:30,245 --> 00:43:32,485
Speaker 2: that night because she didn't give me an answer, and

820
00:43:32,565 --> 00:43:34,245
Speaker 2: I was up all night and I was just laying

821
00:43:34,245 --> 00:43:37,045
Speaker 2: in bed staring at the roof, like laughing at myself, like, wow,

822
00:43:37,085 --> 00:43:40,085
Speaker 2: I just asked Sarah Sarah Todd on a date and

823
00:43:40,125 --> 00:43:41,325
Speaker 2: she laughed at me, got me.

824
00:43:41,805 --> 00:43:43,405
Speaker 5: And then it wasn't until.

825
00:43:43,165 --> 00:43:47,765
Speaker 3: Like uncomfortable like situation, And then how was that night

826
00:43:47,845 --> 00:43:48,205
Speaker 3: for you?

827
00:43:48,285 --> 00:43:49,445
Speaker 1: What was going for your mind?

828
00:43:49,485 --> 00:43:49,645
Speaker 2: Oh?

829
00:43:49,845 --> 00:43:53,365
Speaker 6: Like you know, I was still kind of yeah, I

830
00:43:53,405 --> 00:43:55,325
Speaker 6: was still like is that what he meant?

831
00:43:55,685 --> 00:43:58,005
Speaker 4: You know, I was kind of like, is it a date?

832
00:43:58,125 --> 00:43:58,325
Speaker 2: Date?

833
00:43:58,445 --> 00:43:58,685
Speaker 1: Yes?

834
00:43:58,765 --> 00:44:02,405
Speaker 6: He was like really okay, you know, because I feel like,

835
00:44:02,645 --> 00:44:05,485
Speaker 6: you know, we had become friends, but obviously, you know,

836
00:44:05,565 --> 00:44:08,165
Speaker 6: we had moments where I like, I was excited for

837
00:44:08,245 --> 00:44:11,285
Speaker 6: him to be there, you know, doing something, and he

838
00:44:11,325 --> 00:44:13,445
Speaker 6: walks in the room and you know, I knew that

839
00:44:13,445 --> 00:44:15,165
Speaker 6: the spark was there, so.

840
00:44:15,885 --> 00:44:17,765
Speaker 1: He knew that you had those feelings.

841
00:44:17,845 --> 00:44:21,725
Speaker 6: Yeah, definitely, it wasn't just a mate. Yeah, exactly. You know,

842
00:44:21,925 --> 00:44:24,725
Speaker 6: you don't know where that might go, or you know.

843
00:44:24,685 --> 00:44:26,965
Speaker 3: When did you get back to him? When did you

844
00:44:27,005 --> 00:44:28,045
Speaker 3: get back to the idiot?

845
00:44:30,845 --> 00:44:32,325
Speaker 4: I don't know exactly when, but.

846
00:44:33,605 --> 00:44:39,405
Speaker 5: Yeah, just two days later, vividly remember two days later.

847
00:44:39,605 --> 00:44:41,605
Speaker 2: But it was like, you know, I just I sent

848
00:44:41,645 --> 00:44:45,245
Speaker 2: her a message and I was like, I apologize, like

849
00:44:45,325 --> 00:44:47,885
Speaker 2: if it was very forward. She obviously didn't get eliminated,

850
00:44:47,925 --> 00:44:50,565
Speaker 2: and we had to spend you know, the next indefinitely

851
00:44:50,685 --> 00:44:53,485
Speaker 2: seeing each other, like I don't want to make you

852
00:44:53,525 --> 00:44:57,165
Speaker 2: feel uncomfortable, and I hope you know, I just want

853
00:44:57,205 --> 00:45:00,445
Speaker 2: to remain your friend. I'm sorry if I was an idiot.

854
00:45:00,645 --> 00:45:03,565
Speaker 2: And then she come up to me and she's Sarah's

855
00:45:03,605 --> 00:45:05,765
Speaker 2: like she's like, oh, no, what you asked me the

856
00:45:05,765 --> 00:45:07,685
Speaker 2: other day? Like, yeah, I'd love to go on a

857
00:45:07,725 --> 00:45:09,325
Speaker 2: date with you.

858
00:45:09,485 --> 00:45:10,445
Speaker 5: And then and then you.

859
00:45:10,405 --> 00:45:13,845
Speaker 1: Had to plan a date, yeah, which was so.

860
00:45:13,885 --> 00:45:16,165
Speaker 2: I drove my car down from Sydney to be on

861
00:45:16,205 --> 00:45:18,525
Speaker 2: the show and packed it with all my knickknacks and

862
00:45:18,565 --> 00:45:21,645
Speaker 2: my books and my posters and made my room feel

863
00:45:21,765 --> 00:45:24,085
Speaker 2: like a home, not wanting to live out of a

864
00:45:24,085 --> 00:45:25,485
Speaker 2: suitcase for six months.

865
00:45:25,565 --> 00:45:28,565
Speaker 5: And then so I had my car and I was

866
00:45:28,765 --> 00:45:29,125
Speaker 5: had a.

867
00:45:29,085 --> 00:45:32,925
Speaker 2: Weekend booked in at the Grampians, and then so I'm like, oh,

868
00:45:33,565 --> 00:45:38,325
Speaker 2: I'm actually going to the Grampians this weekend. Do you

869
00:45:38,365 --> 00:45:40,205
Speaker 2: want to jump in the car and just come for

870
00:45:40,245 --> 00:45:42,765
Speaker 2: the ride? And then and then we went away for

871
00:45:42,805 --> 00:45:45,405
Speaker 2: two nights and stayed in the lodge in the middle

872
00:45:45,405 --> 00:45:46,325
Speaker 2: of the Grampis.

873
00:45:48,085 --> 00:45:50,285
Speaker 5: Yeah, and then it was history from there.

874
00:45:50,445 --> 00:45:53,685
Speaker 3: Okay, So you you've shared with us that you're expecting

875
00:45:53,685 --> 00:45:54,205
Speaker 3: a baby.

876
00:45:54,365 --> 00:46:01,245
Speaker 1: Yeah, what was the moment when you did? You obviously, first.

877
00:46:03,405 --> 00:46:05,445
Speaker 2: You're the one trying to squeeze into it dress and

878
00:46:05,605 --> 00:46:08,085
Speaker 2: bloody boobs first.

879
00:46:07,845 --> 00:46:11,525
Speaker 6: Of all, bos so before you did a teaste, Yeah,

880
00:46:11,565 --> 00:46:13,845
Speaker 6: my boobs grew. But I had to go over for

881
00:46:13,925 --> 00:46:17,125
Speaker 6: a trip, a work trip to India, and then we

882
00:46:17,125 --> 00:46:20,685
Speaker 6: were meeting in cans for like a trip at the

883
00:46:20,765 --> 00:46:25,965
Speaker 6: end of my India trip, and I'm going through customs

884
00:46:26,005 --> 00:46:30,045
Speaker 6: in the airport and out of nowhere, I just vomit

885
00:46:30,125 --> 00:46:32,365
Speaker 6: in a binh.

886
00:46:34,965 --> 00:46:37,365
Speaker 1: Like, is this coviding?

887
00:46:38,565 --> 00:46:41,565
Speaker 6: And so that was kind of yeah, the moment where

888
00:46:41,685 --> 00:46:43,845
Speaker 6: I was like, oh gosh, I just vomited in a bin.

889
00:46:44,045 --> 00:46:44,965
Speaker 1: So at this point you.

890
00:46:44,925 --> 00:46:49,405
Speaker 2: Were coming back to cans I was there waiting up

891
00:46:49,445 --> 00:46:53,405
Speaker 2: in cans, and I'm like, I'll go to the pharmacy.

892
00:46:53,445 --> 00:46:55,365
Speaker 2: I'll buy one of those bloody tests and.

893
00:46:55,805 --> 00:46:58,045
Speaker 6: Really fancy one with like the weeks on it and

894
00:46:58,085 --> 00:47:00,725
Speaker 6: everything up the toilet.

895
00:47:01,005 --> 00:47:08,965
Speaker 5: And then she comes out of that at the yeah, pregnant,

896
00:47:09,565 --> 00:47:10,205
Speaker 5: holy ship.

897
00:47:10,285 --> 00:47:12,405
Speaker 2: Well would you jump on the water skis because we're

898
00:47:12,445 --> 00:47:13,925
Speaker 2: meant to go water yeah?

899
00:47:14,685 --> 00:47:14,925
Speaker 1: Yeah.

900
00:47:15,085 --> 00:47:17,165
Speaker 4: And we're there with friends like Rhianna and everything.

901
00:47:17,245 --> 00:47:19,285
Speaker 6: We've just figured out this news and we've gone there

902
00:47:19,285 --> 00:47:20,725
Speaker 6: to go waterskiing.

903
00:47:20,685 --> 00:47:23,805
Speaker 4: Right, and so I go straight on the water.

904
00:47:23,605 --> 00:47:26,765
Speaker 6: Ski and then it like I fall back and it

905
00:47:26,965 --> 00:47:29,765
Speaker 6: just scrapes all the way in between my legs.

906
00:47:29,405 --> 00:47:30,405
Speaker 4: And I've got these.

907
00:47:30,285 --> 00:47:32,925
Speaker 6: Gigantic like dashes.

908
00:47:32,405 --> 00:47:33,725
Speaker 5: On my Maybe we shouldn't do that.

909
00:47:33,845 --> 00:47:35,645
Speaker 4: Yeah, just hold off on this now.

910
00:47:36,085 --> 00:47:38,325
Speaker 1: Wow? And then when did you share? Did you share

911
00:47:38,365 --> 00:47:39,285
Speaker 1: it with them on that trip?

912
00:47:40,445 --> 00:47:44,125
Speaker 5: I kept it. It was really between family, you know.

913
00:47:44,525 --> 00:47:46,525
Speaker 4: A little was one of the first people we told.

914
00:47:48,285 --> 00:47:51,165
Speaker 1: How was she so excited?

915
00:47:51,685 --> 00:47:53,045
Speaker 5: Everyone, it's so beautiful.

916
00:47:53,045 --> 00:47:56,045
Speaker 2: Everyone's been so excited and it's been such a nice response,

917
00:47:56,085 --> 00:47:59,485
Speaker 2: and I'm so excited for all the little moments, you know,

918
00:47:59,565 --> 00:48:02,005
Speaker 2: the late night feeds, you know, getting up with sair

919
00:48:02,125 --> 00:48:02,725
Speaker 2: even now.

920
00:48:02,845 --> 00:48:05,685
Speaker 4: The leg eggs and all of that started. I slipped

921
00:48:05,685 --> 00:48:09,525
Speaker 4: about two hours last night as well. The sleepless I

922
00:48:09,685 --> 00:48:10,085
Speaker 4: just kicked.

923
00:48:10,765 --> 00:48:16,485
Speaker 3: That's so cruel, it's so so weird. And that's nature preparing.

924
00:48:17,805 --> 00:48:20,205
Speaker 3: Why can't nature prepare?

925
00:48:20,245 --> 00:48:22,005
Speaker 1: Yeah, getting good sleep?

926
00:48:22,285 --> 00:48:25,285
Speaker 5: Yeah, so no, it's I'm so excited for it all.

927
00:48:27,245 --> 00:48:27,845
Speaker 1: Coming up.

928
00:48:28,325 --> 00:48:31,525
Speaker 3: Sarah and Declan reveal how they went from Master Chef

929
00:48:31,685 --> 00:48:40,005
Speaker 3: rivals to building a family together and so like, geographically

930
00:48:41,085 --> 00:48:44,805
Speaker 3: now you're going to be a family, where are you

931
00:48:44,885 --> 00:48:46,485
Speaker 3: going to be based to Melbourne?

932
00:48:46,765 --> 00:48:46,885
Speaker 7: Right?

933
00:48:47,045 --> 00:48:51,845
Speaker 6: Yeah, so we're bayside and yeah we've got a bigger

934
00:48:51,845 --> 00:48:54,685
Speaker 6: house now and everyone settled in.

935
00:48:55,165 --> 00:48:57,965
Speaker 2: But every every day honestly just feels like a dream

936
00:48:58,325 --> 00:48:59,645
Speaker 2: and a dream come true.

937
00:48:59,805 --> 00:49:01,765
Speaker 5: Like it's so it's so special.

938
00:49:01,765 --> 00:49:05,405
Speaker 2: We've got you know, we we bit the bullet and

939
00:49:05,445 --> 00:49:07,565
Speaker 2: got a bigger house together. And you know, I moved

940
00:49:07,565 --> 00:49:10,885
Speaker 2: from Sydney to Melbourne and is in school in Melbourne.

941
00:49:10,965 --> 00:49:14,805
Speaker 2: So I'm prepared to stay here for you know, until

942
00:49:14,805 --> 00:49:18,445
Speaker 2: he finishes his school certificate, but you know, I'd love

943
00:49:18,525 --> 00:49:22,285
Speaker 2: to love to move eventually. And you know then now

944
00:49:22,285 --> 00:49:25,285
Speaker 2: I've got another little one on the way, like I think,

945
00:49:25,365 --> 00:49:29,125
Speaker 2: you know, having them experience the rest of the world

946
00:49:29,245 --> 00:49:33,325
Speaker 2: or the rest of the country. It's the opportunities are endless.

947
00:49:33,325 --> 00:49:36,725
Speaker 2: But we're both also open to change, which is really nice.

948
00:49:36,725 --> 00:49:38,885
Speaker 2: And this is obviously the biggest change in both our

949
00:49:38,925 --> 00:49:41,565
Speaker 2: life is trying to merge our families together.

950
00:49:42,045 --> 00:49:45,045
Speaker 6: And people think our lifestyle is crazy, but we're very

951
00:49:45,045 --> 00:49:46,725
Speaker 6: similar and we love it and I.

952
00:49:46,645 --> 00:49:47,805
Speaker 4: Think it's so nice.

953
00:49:48,045 --> 00:49:51,845
Speaker 6: We both love the small things in life. Yeah, those

954
00:49:51,925 --> 00:49:55,645
Speaker 6: little in between moments, and I feel like it's, yeah,

955
00:49:55,645 --> 00:49:58,725
Speaker 6: we've we're very like minded in that sense. So we

956
00:49:58,765 --> 00:50:02,445
Speaker 6: can do totally different holidays if it's a campavan or

957
00:50:02,765 --> 00:50:06,485
Speaker 6: something like that. You know, it's it's been really special

958
00:50:06,525 --> 00:50:10,285
Speaker 6: and I think, yeah, we've had a really fun jam

959
00:50:10,365 --> 00:50:10,805
Speaker 6: packed ye.

960
00:50:11,205 --> 00:50:14,005
Speaker 3: I mean, obviously you've got a massive project coming up.

961
00:50:14,125 --> 00:50:17,245
Speaker 3: How far off, by the way, roughly when it wins

962
00:50:17,285 --> 00:50:18,525
Speaker 3: your baby.

963
00:50:20,925 --> 00:50:22,965
Speaker 1: A summer a summer baby.

964
00:50:22,725 --> 00:50:25,725
Speaker 6: Yeah, around around the end of the year, right around

965
00:50:25,845 --> 00:50:27,125
Speaker 6: like early early next year.

966
00:50:27,285 --> 00:50:32,085
Speaker 3: Yeah, right, yeah, And so what have you envisaged what

967
00:50:33,045 --> 00:50:35,965
Speaker 3: you know, what you'll be like when you're hunkered down

968
00:50:36,045 --> 00:50:38,405
Speaker 3: for that or is are you going to hit the

969
00:50:38,525 --> 00:50:41,765
Speaker 3: road with with the with the whole circus.

970
00:50:42,885 --> 00:50:46,725
Speaker 6: Yeah, I think for us, we we definitely like I'm

971
00:50:46,965 --> 00:50:50,525
Speaker 6: a person that trusts my intuition and I'm not going

972
00:50:50,565 --> 00:50:53,005
Speaker 6: to set anything in stone in terms of what we're

973
00:50:53,045 --> 00:50:54,885
Speaker 6: going to do. Who knows what it might look like

974
00:50:55,445 --> 00:50:58,045
Speaker 6: at that moment. So I think we're both open to

975
00:50:58,685 --> 00:51:03,085
Speaker 6: whatever might come our way. But in saying that, you know,

976
00:51:03,325 --> 00:51:06,965
Speaker 6: we we obviously have, you know, different things that we

977
00:51:07,045 --> 00:51:10,805
Speaker 6: want to do and what we think and prefer, yeah, professionally,

978
00:51:11,605 --> 00:51:14,485
Speaker 6: what we would like to kind of get back into

979
00:51:14,565 --> 00:51:17,485
Speaker 6: and you know, worked out in a way that you know,

980
00:51:17,485 --> 00:51:20,805
Speaker 6: if it's Decklan's work, that we all go together and

981
00:51:20,845 --> 00:51:23,645
Speaker 6: he does his work or vice versa, so to manage

982
00:51:23,645 --> 00:51:25,525
Speaker 6: it in that way that we'll be doing it as

983
00:51:25,565 --> 00:51:26,085
Speaker 6: a family.

984
00:51:26,165 --> 00:51:28,805
Speaker 3: And how has the pregnancy been, by the way, because

985
00:51:29,445 --> 00:51:33,405
Speaker 3: the experience, so it's fourteen years ago, Yeah, how is

986
00:51:33,445 --> 00:51:34,085
Speaker 3: it this time?

987
00:51:34,165 --> 00:51:34,605
Speaker 1: Oh?

988
00:51:34,645 --> 00:51:35,685
Speaker 4: Definitely different.

989
00:51:35,965 --> 00:51:41,445
Speaker 6: I think I was we were driving below the Eiffel

990
00:51:41,525 --> 00:51:42,645
Speaker 6: Tower and I'm puking in.

991
00:51:42,605 --> 00:51:47,245
Speaker 4: The gutter in all sorts of places.

992
00:51:47,325 --> 00:51:50,405
Speaker 6: So I've definitely got a lot of mourning sickness this time.

993
00:51:51,085 --> 00:51:57,125
Speaker 6: And yeah, like just different, Like it's definitely Also I

994
00:51:57,125 --> 00:52:00,245
Speaker 6: feel like you probably know this after the first baby.

995
00:52:00,245 --> 00:52:02,685
Speaker 6: You only remember the good stuff. I don't remember any well,

996
00:52:02,725 --> 00:52:03,645
Speaker 6: otherwise no one would.

997
00:52:03,845 --> 00:52:05,285
Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly.

998
00:52:05,485 --> 00:52:09,485
Speaker 3: So it's a remarkable thing about the human psyche. It's

999
00:52:09,485 --> 00:52:12,205
Speaker 3: a really brilliant thing that we only remember the book.

1000
00:52:12,285 --> 00:52:13,845
Speaker 6: Yeah, so I think back I was like, oh, I

1001
00:52:13,885 --> 00:52:15,005
Speaker 6: had a beautiful pregnancy.

1002
00:52:15,085 --> 00:52:15,325
Speaker 1: Nothing.

1003
00:52:15,685 --> 00:52:18,365
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, maybe it did, I just can't remember now.

1004
00:52:18,485 --> 00:52:21,645
Speaker 6: So there's definitely been ups and downs with how I've

1005
00:52:21,645 --> 00:52:24,525
Speaker 6: been feeling. But I, you know, just surrender my body

1006
00:52:24,565 --> 00:52:28,445
Speaker 6: to it and whatever happens and needs to happen. I

1007
00:52:28,485 --> 00:52:30,685
Speaker 6: know my body will kick in and do what it

1008
00:52:30,725 --> 00:52:33,045
Speaker 6: has to. So just letting that happen.

1009
00:52:32,845 --> 00:52:34,485
Speaker 5: And doing such a good job.

1010
00:52:35,005 --> 00:52:37,325
Speaker 1: And what are you thinking about being a dad?

1011
00:52:37,885 --> 00:52:43,885
Speaker 2: I'm so excited, especially, you know, being a parent with Sarah.

1012
00:52:44,005 --> 00:52:48,925
Speaker 2: I think it's I've never envisioned it to be like this,

1013
00:52:49,125 --> 00:52:51,965
Speaker 2: and it is. It's all I've kind of ever wanted.

1014
00:52:52,165 --> 00:52:55,285
Speaker 2: And this baby is already coming into a house that's

1015
00:52:55,325 --> 00:52:56,205
Speaker 2: so full of love.

1016
00:52:56,485 --> 00:52:57,485
Speaker 4: There's so much love.

1017
00:52:58,005 --> 00:52:58,205
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1018
00:52:59,205 --> 00:53:01,805
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I feel like Sarah is already such a

1019
00:53:01,805 --> 00:53:05,925
Speaker 2: great parent, and she's it's only going to become a

1020
00:53:05,925 --> 00:53:08,885
Speaker 2: better parent day by day. But I think, you know,

1021
00:53:08,925 --> 00:53:12,165
Speaker 2: I look at things that I put my parents through

1022
00:53:12,165 --> 00:53:14,205
Speaker 2: and it makes me a little bit nervous of you.

1023
00:53:14,205 --> 00:53:17,005
Speaker 1: Know what, it's not straight.

1024
00:53:17,285 --> 00:53:20,365
Speaker 5: No, I'm so.

1025
00:53:20,325 --> 00:53:23,645
Speaker 2: Excited for you know, just like having a little baby

1026
00:53:23,685 --> 00:53:27,165
Speaker 2: in my arm and you know, being being able. I

1027
00:53:27,165 --> 00:53:29,205
Speaker 2: think Sarah is a bit a bit nervous she's not

1028
00:53:29,245 --> 00:53:35,285
Speaker 2: going to get enough time. Yeah, it's it's so beautiful

1029
00:53:35,325 --> 00:53:37,685
Speaker 2: and I couldn't imagine doing it with anyone else other

1030
00:53:37,685 --> 00:53:38,205
Speaker 2: than Sarah.

1031
00:53:38,245 --> 00:53:40,325
Speaker 1: And I just who was the first person that said

1032
00:53:40,365 --> 00:53:46,525
Speaker 1: I love you? Have you not said it every day?

1033
00:53:46,485 --> 00:53:49,605
Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, I went with that moment that.

1034
00:53:49,725 --> 00:53:55,845
Speaker 2: Was Sarah went were laying in bed and and she's like,

1035
00:53:55,925 --> 00:53:58,245
Speaker 2: I love you, and I'm like it hit me and

1036
00:53:58,365 --> 00:54:04,565
Speaker 2: it's like I just say you idiot, but I just said,

1037
00:54:04,605 --> 00:54:06,765
Speaker 2: I'm like it's I don't want you to say this,

1038
00:54:06,845 --> 00:54:10,485
Speaker 2: and it's like it's got a lot of power. Mind it,

1039
00:54:09,965 --> 00:54:13,005
Speaker 2: and Cheese like you're an idiot. I love you And

1040
00:54:13,085 --> 00:54:16,165
Speaker 2: I'm like I love you too. And you know, we

1041
00:54:16,165 --> 00:54:18,365
Speaker 2: we say it, you know, all day every day to

1042
00:54:18,405 --> 00:54:20,885
Speaker 2: each other, and we just remind each other like, you know,

1043
00:54:21,805 --> 00:54:24,045
Speaker 2: it doesn't matter how many times I say I love

1044
00:54:24,085 --> 00:54:27,245
Speaker 2: you or how many times I say you beautiful, I

1045
00:54:27,285 --> 00:54:30,005
Speaker 2: always will mean it, Like I never want it to

1046
00:54:30,085 --> 00:54:33,285
Speaker 2: just become something you say out of habit. I want

1047
00:54:33,325 --> 00:54:35,445
Speaker 2: you to know that every time I look at you

1048
00:54:35,485 --> 00:54:37,965
Speaker 2: and I say you're gordgeous, you're beautiful, I love you.

1049
00:54:38,085 --> 00:54:39,525
Speaker 2: I mean it from the bottom of my heart.

1050
00:54:40,685 --> 00:54:43,645
Speaker 6: And I think it's you know, for me, obviously the

1051
00:54:43,685 --> 00:54:47,325
Speaker 6: words mean a huge amount, but it's mostly actions for.

1052
00:54:47,325 --> 00:54:48,885
Speaker 4: Me and feeling it.

1053
00:54:48,965 --> 00:54:51,405
Speaker 6: And I feel it, and I feel that love in

1054
00:54:51,445 --> 00:54:53,565
Speaker 6: our house and from Declan, and.

1055
00:54:53,845 --> 00:54:55,605
Speaker 4: It's yeah, it's really beautiful.

1056
00:54:56,245 --> 00:55:02,605
Speaker 3: How extraordinary that both of you went looking for something

1057
00:55:03,325 --> 00:55:07,525
Speaker 3: and ended up with something completely different and yet exactly

1058
00:55:07,565 --> 00:55:08,605
Speaker 3: what was meant for you.

1059
00:55:08,805 --> 00:55:09,045
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1060
00:55:09,325 --> 00:55:12,485
Speaker 2: I think it's just a reminder, you know, to everyone,

1061
00:55:12,605 --> 00:55:16,085
Speaker 2: you can't put yourself on time limits, or you can't

1062
00:55:16,165 --> 00:55:18,445
Speaker 2: tell yourself you have to do this by this age

1063
00:55:18,565 --> 00:55:18,925
Speaker 2: or have.

1064
00:55:18,925 --> 00:55:21,005
Speaker 5: This accomplished in your life by now.

1065
00:55:21,405 --> 00:55:24,365
Speaker 2: I think just like everyone needs to chill out a

1066
00:55:24,365 --> 00:55:27,765
Speaker 2: bit and just enjoy the little things, because you know,

1067
00:55:27,805 --> 00:55:33,685
Speaker 2: we've all lost friends, we've all lost family, we've all experienced.

1068
00:55:33,085 --> 00:55:34,405
Speaker 1: You know, times are tough.

1069
00:55:34,565 --> 00:55:37,285
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's like what, you can't wake up every

1070
00:55:37,405 --> 00:55:39,045
Speaker 2: day and be moaning and groaning.

1071
00:55:39,085 --> 00:55:42,045
Speaker 5: You need to wake up every day and just be.

1072
00:55:42,005 --> 00:55:44,005
Speaker 2: Grateful that you know, our feed are on the floor,

1073
00:55:44,405 --> 00:55:47,565
Speaker 2: we've got roof over our head hopefully, and food on

1074
00:55:47,605 --> 00:55:51,245
Speaker 2: the table. And I think, you know, we're both very

1075
00:55:51,485 --> 00:55:55,405
Speaker 2: driven with our work ethics, and you know, there'll never

1076
00:55:55,445 --> 00:55:59,085
Speaker 2: be a moment where I wouldn't provide that for my family.

1077
00:55:59,525 --> 00:56:02,325
Speaker 1: I love it. You just such a delight. I'm very

1078
00:56:02,365 --> 00:56:03,645
Speaker 1: happy for your happiness.

1079
00:56:03,725 --> 00:56:04,325
Speaker 5: Thank you to you.

1080
00:56:05,005 --> 00:56:08,485
Speaker 3: So do you disagree on things? Oh, definitely, of course,

1081
00:56:09,445 --> 00:56:11,605
Speaker 3: like micro macro.

1082
00:56:11,925 --> 00:56:14,005
Speaker 6: Oh, it could be everything. You know, We've got a

1083
00:56:14,045 --> 00:56:17,245
Speaker 6: lot kind of going on. But yeah, Declin is a

1084
00:56:17,245 --> 00:56:23,085
Speaker 6: good communicator, and I think that I'm a very probably

1085
00:56:23,405 --> 00:56:27,125
Speaker 6: I don't know, quite diplomatic. I suppose I like to

1086
00:56:27,165 --> 00:56:30,365
Speaker 6: look at all situations and sides of the story, and

1087
00:56:30,405 --> 00:56:31,285
Speaker 6: I think we just talk.

1088
00:56:31,525 --> 00:56:32,365
Speaker 5: Yeah, we're just talking.

1089
00:56:32,445 --> 00:56:37,445
Speaker 2: I think communication is key and and and well that's it.

1090
00:56:37,445 --> 00:56:40,725
Speaker 3: It's interesting watching you two. Neither of you really seem

1091
00:56:40,765 --> 00:56:45,085
Speaker 3: to have a temper. Yeah, that's interesting because some people

1092
00:56:45,125 --> 00:56:47,445
Speaker 3: are very reactive.

1093
00:56:48,325 --> 00:56:50,165
Speaker 1: But yeah, both of you seem to be quite sort

1094
00:56:50,205 --> 00:56:50,845
Speaker 1: of considered.

1095
00:56:51,205 --> 00:56:51,525
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1096
00:56:51,605 --> 00:56:55,525
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I've like since becoming a man, like

1097
00:56:55,605 --> 00:56:59,525
Speaker 2: I used to be very angry person and a very

1098
00:57:00,525 --> 00:57:04,525
Speaker 2: rattled young man, and I've put so much effort into

1099
00:57:05,205 --> 00:57:06,805
Speaker 2: becoming the man I am today.

1100
00:57:07,005 --> 00:57:09,285
Speaker 5: I've certainly had to, you know practice.

1101
00:57:09,325 --> 00:57:11,685
Speaker 1: Do you think that anger was to do with the family,

1102
00:57:11,885 --> 00:57:12,645
Speaker 1: and that the.

1103
00:57:13,365 --> 00:57:16,205
Speaker 2: Definitely I think, you know, as a as a young

1104
00:57:16,325 --> 00:57:19,525
Speaker 2: hormonal fourteen year old boy, thirteen year old boy that

1105
00:57:19,565 --> 00:57:21,845
Speaker 2: I was when I went through that, you know, could

1106
00:57:21,925 --> 00:57:26,005
Speaker 2: jumping back and forth from homes and you know, having

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Speaker 2: one parent say one thing about the other and just

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Speaker 2: being a middleman at that age, Like I think, you know,

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Speaker 2: having sisters you wanted to.

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Speaker 5: Look after, and I think all of it.

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Speaker 2: But I think, you know, I've really put so much

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Speaker 2: effort into self development and you know, physical emotional empathy,

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Speaker 2: and you know, Mum always just instilled that in me,

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Speaker 2: like you know, look up empathy, look up humility, and

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Speaker 2: that's what I'll be saying to you know, my kids

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Speaker 2: in the future.

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Speaker 5: And you know what gets thrown around the house is.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I was probably the opposite.

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Speaker 6: I was very quiet, bottle it all up and deal

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Speaker 6: with it myself and find a way to kind of

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Speaker 6: figure things out. And I guess I realized that that's

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Speaker 6: not a good way to be. You need to just

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Speaker 6: hit problems head on, sort it out, communicate, you know,

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Speaker 6: if one of us is feeling a little bit you know,

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Speaker 6: maybe hurt or you know, you don't want to say

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Speaker 6: something in frustration and anger that you can't take back.

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Speaker 6: So I'm always the one to kind of say, you know, well,

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Speaker 6: let's take a breath and have a think about what

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Speaker 6: we really want to say to each other and what we.

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Speaker 4: Mean, yeah, and then talk about it and you know,

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Speaker 4: get to the bottom of it.

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Speaker 2: And I think, you know, living together, holidaying together, doing

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Speaker 2: business together, and there's certainly big things to come in

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Speaker 2: the future, you know, outside of our personal life, going

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Speaker 2: into work and stuff like that. Like, I think you're

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Speaker 2: always going to come across hurdles and it's just how

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Speaker 2: you deal with it.

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Speaker 5: And there's there's no point in being.

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Speaker 2: Speaking from anger or speaking from a place of hurt

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Speaker 2: or anything like that.

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Speaker 6: And I think life has very high eighths and very

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Speaker 6: low lows, and it's okay to feel really really low.

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Speaker 6: And I think, you know, we don't force each other

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Speaker 6: to instantly just be happy.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's a big thing.

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Speaker 3: And also I think in relationships, I mean, everyone's good

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Speaker 3: when it's good times. Yeah, it's how you navigate the

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Speaker 3: bag exactly. And when there's a challenge how you rise

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Speaker 3: to meet the other person and you.

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Speaker 4: Have to deal with it.

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Speaker 6: You can't just you know, fight it out, or you

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Speaker 6: can't just push it under the rug. You have to

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Speaker 6: feel low, you have to feel frustrated, work on it,

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Speaker 6: see what the problem is, and find a way out

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Speaker 6: of it.

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Speaker 4: And that makes you take time.

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Speaker 6: But I think we both also have really spoken about

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Speaker 6: that a lot, that we want to work through the

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Speaker 6: hard times.

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Speaker 4: We don't want to run away when it's difficult.

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Speaker 6: We want to make sure that we both understand that

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Speaker 6: relationships take work and that we will hit hurdles and

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Speaker 6: that will be you know, days where things happen that

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Speaker 6: you know, are really hard to cope with, and we're

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Speaker 6: going to try our best to just hit it head

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Speaker 6: on and figure it out.

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Speaker 5: So many good days.

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Speaker 2: I think you know why I'm so attracted that to

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Speaker 2: Sarah is her ethos on life and it and it

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Speaker 2: resonates with mine.

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Speaker 5: And and yes, I can't wait to spend the rest

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Speaker 5: of my life ford.

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Speaker 4: Back at you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's probably people saying all there's probably people throwing up, but.

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Speaker 1: You know, everyone loves love.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and you've both been just so exquisite to.

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Speaker 1: Witness.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: We appreciate it, and we appreciate the support from you know,

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Speaker 2: our following.

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Speaker 5: I think it's so beautiful.

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Speaker 2: But we've both lived very interesting lives and and and

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Speaker 2: here we are. We've found each other and and we're

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Speaker 2: creating a family together, and it's it's a beautiful period

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Speaker 2: of our life.

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Speaker 1: Congratulations. I can't wait to see.

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Speaker 4: We're so excited.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So that was Sarah Todd and Decklan Cleary, two people

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Speaker 3: who thought they were signing up for a cooking competition

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Speaker 3: and ended up finding a whole new life together, from

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Speaker 3: the Master Chef kitchen to a blended family and now

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Speaker 3: with a baby on the way. It's clear that for

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Speaker 3: Sarah and Declan, timing really was everything.

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Speaker 1: And it's so.

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Speaker 3: Lovely to feel nothing but happiness for other people whose

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Speaker 3: happiness is infectious. Thank you so much for listening to

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Speaker 3: No Filter. The executive producer of No Filter is Nama Brown.

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Speaker 3: The senior producer is Breed Player. Audio production is by

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Speaker 3: Jacob Brown and video editing is by Josh Green. This

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Speaker 3: episode was recorded at Session in Progress Studios, and I

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Speaker 3: am your host.

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Speaker 1: Kateline Brook.

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Speaker 3: Thank you again for sharing this with us.