WEBVTT - These Sex Scenes Changed Everything 0:00:11.104 --> 0:00:15.024 So much. You're listening to a Mamma Mia podcast. Mamma 0:00:15.144 --> 0:00:18.824 Mia acknowledges the traditional owners of land and borders that 0:00:18.904 --> 0:00:20.624 this podcast is recorded on. 0:00:21.144 --> 0:00:24.304 Just letting you know that this episode discusses sex scene. 0:00:24.424 --> 0:00:27.264 So if you have little years around, maybe save this 0:00:27.344 --> 0:00:35.264 for when they're not from MoMA Maa. Welcome to the 0:00:35.304 --> 0:00:37.344 Spill your daily pop culture fix. 0:00:37.544 --> 0:00:40.024 I'm in Vernon and I'm Laura Brodnick coming on on 0:00:40.104 --> 0:00:43.184 the show today. It is Friday, so we're very sexy 0:00:43.184 --> 0:00:45.464 show for you. We do have popped off a very 0:00:45.504 --> 0:00:48.904 sexy scene that was released in britgetwn on Netflix last night. 0:00:48.984 --> 0:00:51.104 We're going to be talking about the sex scenes that 0:00:51.344 --> 0:00:54.144 changed TV in movies. It's gonna get raunchy, it's gonna 0:00:54.144 --> 0:00:55.904 get sad, and then we have Weekend Watch. 0:00:56.104 --> 0:01:00.144 But first we have insight into the upcoming Gladiator film. 0:01:00.424 --> 0:01:04.024 And by inside I mean photos of Paul Mescal looking 0:01:04.264 --> 0:01:05.944 very good with a cigarette in his mouth. 0:01:06.184 --> 0:01:08.584 That boy ever picture without a cigarette recently because there 0:01:08.624 --> 0:01:11.304 was a nowly Portman cigarette photo. There's the photos of 0:01:11.344 --> 0:01:13.544 him walking through London with a cigarette just like hanging 0:01:13.544 --> 0:01:15.984 out of his mouth. I know smoking is really bad 0:01:15.984 --> 0:01:17.784 for you, which is why you're not allowed to glimse it. 0:01:17.824 --> 0:01:19.504 Profess Marlborough, haven't jumped on there. 0:01:20.824 --> 0:01:23.024 Well, that's why it's smoking has been taken out of 0:01:23.024 --> 0:01:24.944 movies and TV shows, like there's rules around what you 0:01:24.984 --> 0:01:27.864 can show because it was overly glamorizing it and everyone 0:01:27.864 --> 0:01:30.224 wanted to have a sexy cigarette. And this is having 0:01:30.264 --> 0:01:31.824 the same effect on you because this morning you were 0:01:31.824 --> 0:01:33.424 look at his photos and m's like, I think I 0:01:33.464 --> 0:01:34.584 want to take up some moking. 0:01:34.624 --> 0:01:35.784 Do you think I want to take up smoking for 0:01:35.824 --> 0:01:37.184 the first time in my life as a twenty eight 0:01:37.224 --> 0:01:40.544 year old woman, which I won't because I have really 0:01:40.584 --> 0:01:40.984 bad ass. 0:01:41.064 --> 0:01:44.344 Mum. You know what's not sexy taking a puff of 0:01:44.424 --> 0:01:47.104 a cigarette and then like convulsing on the floor and coughs, 0:01:47.144 --> 0:01:49.624 because every time I've tried it, that's exactly what happens 0:01:49.704 --> 0:01:51.464 until someone takes it off. Well, there you go. Don't 0:01:51.504 --> 0:01:54.144 smoke kids. It's only sexy when Paul does it, not 0:01:54.144 --> 0:01:54.904 for the rest of us. 0:01:55.024 --> 0:01:58.064 So coming back to Gladiators, the film is a sequel 0:01:58.064 --> 0:02:00.264 to the original Gladiator that came out in the year 0:02:00.264 --> 0:02:03.784 two thousand, starring Russell Crowe. In Gladiator to Paul will 0:02:03.824 --> 0:02:06.744 be playing the grown up version of Lucis and The 0:02:06.784 --> 0:02:10.024 film also stars Denzel Washington and Pedro Pascal, who I 0:02:10.064 --> 0:02:12.504 feel like I didn't know about. I think they've been 0:02:12.624 --> 0:02:14.904 washed over by the Paul Mascal ness of it all. 0:02:14.984 --> 0:02:16.624 Oh I think we say you didn't know who Pedro 0:02:16.704 --> 0:02:20.664 Pascal was, and I was like, yeah, imagine i'd be 0:02:20.784 --> 0:02:23.584 That would be a fireable offense not knowing. So you're 0:02:23.624 --> 0:02:25.704 a big, poor fan? Is this because which of his 0:02:25.824 --> 0:02:27.944 work to you? I'm leading into something. I'm gonna yell 0:02:27.984 --> 0:02:29.824 at you about which of his past works do you 0:02:29.864 --> 0:02:30.424 most admire? 0:02:30.944 --> 0:02:32.624 Then? Because I haven't seen any. 0:02:33.544 --> 0:02:35.544 See, this is the thing, Like we've talked about Paul 0:02:35.744 --> 0:02:36.664 so many times. 0:02:36.704 --> 0:02:38.264 How can I tell me about to give me a lesson? 0:02:38.264 --> 0:02:39.824 You start off with, well, this is the thing. 0:02:41.064 --> 0:02:43.344 I'm trying not to be condescending to you. It's not 0:02:43.424 --> 0:02:45.664 about that. I'm just saying you're a massive fan of 0:02:45.664 --> 0:02:48.504 this man, but only from pictures of him, and like 0:02:48.544 --> 0:02:52.024 he's an okay looking guy, but his true sexyess comes 0:02:52.424 --> 0:02:54.664 from his role in normal people. That's why people are 0:02:54.664 --> 0:02:56.784 obsessed with him. If it wasn't for his on screen 0:02:56.864 --> 0:02:59.184 and off screen chemistry with Daisy ed Good Jones and 0:02:59.224 --> 0:03:00.784 normal people and how sexy he was. 0:03:00.824 --> 0:03:01.704 There was a whole. 0:03:01.664 --> 0:03:04.624 Instagram and social media accounts dedicated to the necklace he 0:03:04.664 --> 0:03:07.024 wore in that movie because people found it so sexy. 0:03:07.264 --> 0:03:09.944 And you skipped over all of that stuff, and your 0:03:09.984 --> 0:03:12.384 only liking him from photos and in photos, he's just 0:03:12.424 --> 0:03:15.344 another white, nondescript man walking around with a cigarette hanging out 0:03:15.344 --> 0:03:17.824 of his mouth. He's only sexy because of normal people. 0:03:18.304 --> 0:03:19.464 Will agree to disagree. 0:03:20.264 --> 0:03:21.584 A couple of even see normal people. 0:03:21.664 --> 0:03:23.624 He doesn't have the beard and normal people which are 0:03:23.824 --> 0:03:25.424 not on board with Okay. 0:03:25.184 --> 0:03:27.304 Well, I just feel like all about conversations about Paul, 0:03:27.344 --> 0:03:28.864 we've had so many. 0:03:28.704 --> 0:03:30.984 So many Well anyway, over the years. The Gladiator Too 0:03:31.104 --> 0:03:34.624 is apparently coming out later this year, and I think hopefully, 0:03:34.664 --> 0:03:37.104 since seeing these photos, a trailer is on the way. 0:03:37.264 --> 0:03:38.984 Stay tuned, I'll give you an update. 0:03:47.544 --> 0:03:50.064 So the second part of British In Season three came 0:03:50.104 --> 0:03:50.824 out last night. 0:03:51.864 --> 0:03:54.584 I haven't watched, no spoilers except for this one spoiler 0:03:54.584 --> 0:03:54.824 your back. 0:03:54.904 --> 0:03:56.664 Well, there's going to be a very mild spoiler here, 0:03:56.664 --> 0:03:59.104 but I think most people know that Part one ended 0:03:59.304 --> 0:04:02.504 with Colin and Penelope having a bit of sexy time 0:04:02.584 --> 0:04:05.344 in the carriage and getting engaged. So it should go 0:04:05.424 --> 0:04:07.264 without saying that this next part of their story has 0:04:07.264 --> 0:04:10.304 some sexy scenes in it, and there's one particular sex scene, 0:04:10.464 --> 0:04:13.024 not getting in any spoilery details, but the way it 0:04:13.104 --> 0:04:16.464 was shot I found really refreshing and just as realistic 0:04:16.464 --> 0:04:18.584 as a TV sex scene can be in a way, 0:04:18.944 --> 0:04:21.664 especially when it's in a show that's known for like 0:04:22.104 --> 0:04:25.624 this regency fantasy series, and like a lot of the time, 0:04:25.704 --> 0:04:28.424 the sex scenes are very much like a beautiful kiss 0:04:28.424 --> 0:04:30.664 and they fall into the bed and everyone's orgasming just 0:04:30.664 --> 0:04:31.944 by touching and you know what I mean. 0:04:32.344 --> 0:04:35.304 Erl panned to a vase on the table, Yeah, exactly. 0:04:35.384 --> 0:04:38.344 It's all very whimsical, which I think whimsicalness has a place. 0:04:38.424 --> 0:04:40.104 You can't be watching a realistic sex scene in. 0:04:40.104 --> 0:04:43.224 Every movie, watching it with your parents. Yeah, I'm grateful 0:04:43.304 --> 0:04:43.904 for the whimsical. 0:04:44.184 --> 0:04:45.944 But this I thought was done in a very sweet 0:04:45.944 --> 0:04:49.184 way because it's Penelope's first time having sex, and obviously 0:04:49.184 --> 0:04:51.664 the character of Colin is a lot more experienced and 0:04:52.344 --> 0:04:55.224 very very experience, and they talk about that in the 0:04:55.264 --> 0:04:58.784 sex scene, which I thought was interesting. Obviously is set 0:04:59.104 --> 0:05:01.784 hundreds of years ago, but it felt like a conversation 0:05:01.904 --> 0:05:04.624 you'd almost be having now in modern times about like 0:05:04.704 --> 0:05:06.504 there's a lot of consent in it, of him saying 0:05:06.504 --> 0:05:09.024 like I'm about to do this. Is this okay? Is 0:05:09.024 --> 0:05:11.304 this okay? They both ask each other like is it 0:05:11.304 --> 0:05:12.904 okay if I touchy there? Is it okay if I 0:05:12.944 --> 0:05:15.464 touchy here? And it doesn't take away from any of 0:05:15.464 --> 0:05:17.664 the sexiness of the scene, which I feel like is 0:05:17.704 --> 0:05:20.544 a big criticism A lot of the time when there's 0:05:20.624 --> 0:05:23.464 sex scenes without that sort of consent taught people like, oh, 0:05:23.504 --> 0:05:26.304 but that's so boring and it'll take away from the romance. 0:05:26.344 --> 0:05:28.504 But in this case, I thought it really added to it. 0:05:29.064 --> 0:05:30.904 You can kind of explained to her what's going to happen. 0:05:32.664 --> 0:05:36.944 I cannot help that I promised me should only be 0:05:37.064 --> 0:05:37.664 this first time. 0:05:38.184 --> 0:05:40.744 Just felt like exactly like two people having their first 0:05:40.784 --> 0:05:43.424 time together and her having like a bit of pain 0:05:43.464 --> 0:05:47.104 and discomfort when they first start having sex. And you know, 0:05:47.144 --> 0:05:49.144 it's still very kind of wrapped up in a bit 0:05:49.224 --> 0:05:51.424 of lush romance. 0:05:51.064 --> 0:05:52.024 But it's realistic. 0:05:52.464 --> 0:05:54.224 Yeah. So, as I was watching it, it got me 0:05:54.264 --> 0:05:57.704 thinking about how much sex scenes have changed on TV 0:05:57.944 --> 0:06:00.824 and in movies over the last couple of years. I feel, 0:06:00.864 --> 0:06:03.064 particularly in the last like five years or so, there's 0:06:03.104 --> 0:06:05.624 been a big change, But really it's been the last 0:06:05.664 --> 0:06:08.584 decade where the way they're filmed, what they're allowed to show, 0:06:08.704 --> 0:06:11.024 the conversations around them have changed. So we wanted to 0:06:11.024 --> 0:06:13.464 talk through a few of our little favorite pop culture 0:06:13.504 --> 0:06:14.984 altering sex scene moments. 0:06:15.144 --> 0:06:18.064 Oh my god, I have one that is probably the 0:06:18.104 --> 0:06:21.504 first sex scene I've watched as a teenage girl that 0:06:21.584 --> 0:06:25.144 I was like, oh my god, this is exactly how 0:06:25.224 --> 0:06:27.544 I felt when I had sex for the first time. 0:06:27.664 --> 0:06:31.984 It was in the film The Spectacular Now I've seen it, Yes, yes, 0:06:32.064 --> 0:06:35.304 it stars Miles Teller and Shalne Woodley, and it's kind 0:06:35.304 --> 0:06:39.584 of like a coming of age, first relationship, teenage drama, 0:06:39.744 --> 0:06:43.584 I want to say so. Shalleene plays Amy, who has 0:06:43.624 --> 0:06:46.144 her first boyfriend, which is Mars Teller, great boyfriend to have, 0:06:46.824 --> 0:06:51.104 and their sex scene was just so real and raw, 0:06:51.264 --> 0:06:53.704 like there wasn't any music. It was in I think 0:06:53.744 --> 0:06:56.944 her parents' house, in her bedroom in the middle of 0:06:56.984 --> 0:06:59.384 the day, which is I feel like how most teenagers 0:06:59.384 --> 0:07:01.664 have sex for the first time and they're just like 0:07:01.704 --> 0:07:05.184 giggling and then they're like clumsily like taking their clothes off, 0:07:05.744 --> 0:07:09.264 and he's like asking if like she's okay, and you 0:07:09.304 --> 0:07:11.464 can tell like she's a bit of pain or like 0:07:11.704 --> 0:07:14.064 discomfort at first, and then she gets really into it, 0:07:14.224 --> 0:07:16.944 and I'm so glad they didn't show her like climaxing, 0:07:16.944 --> 0:07:18.984 which I feel like they've always showed when I was 0:07:19.024 --> 0:07:21.464 younger in those kind of movies. And then they just 0:07:21.504 --> 0:07:22.984 have it once and then they like wake up in 0:07:23.024 --> 0:07:24.544 the middle of the nine and they just like start talking, 0:07:24.584 --> 0:07:26.824 and I'm like, this is what it's all about. Yeah, exactly. 0:07:26.944 --> 0:07:30.104 I do like sometimes when you see these very over dramatized, 0:07:30.544 --> 0:07:32.784 very fancy like sex scenes, because that's kind of what 0:07:32.784 --> 0:07:34.664 we look for movies too. We look to them for 0:07:34.704 --> 0:07:36.984 these very elevated moments. But I think if that's all 0:07:37.064 --> 0:07:39.384 you're seeing, it can make it a bit difficult. Like 0:07:39.424 --> 0:07:41.944 for some reason, so many movies I watched, I guess 0:07:41.944 --> 0:07:44.064 it was like the early two thousands and nineties when 0:07:44.104 --> 0:07:45.784 I was a kid, and so they were like no 0:07:46.024 --> 0:07:47.864 Wars and no one was watching Bluey or watching like 0:07:47.864 --> 0:07:50.384 pretty Women, dirty Dancing, all that sort of stuff. So 0:07:50.424 --> 0:07:52.104 many sex scenes there, and you know, even all like 0:07:52.184 --> 0:07:54.624 rom comsad sex scenes and stuff, and you would always 0:07:54.704 --> 0:07:56.824 just see this like very passionate kissing and they'd fall 0:07:56.824 --> 0:07:58.464 into bed and they'd be under the covers, and like 0:07:58.464 --> 0:07:59.664 I didn't know what they were doing under there, but 0:07:59.664 --> 0:08:01.264 I thought you just kind of rolled around, and that's 0:08:01.744 --> 0:08:04.104 that was kind of sex. And like you also see 0:08:04.384 --> 0:08:08.064 women like orgasman really intently, just from like the moment 0:08:08.104 --> 0:08:10.704 a man touches them on the bed. You know, That's 0:08:10.704 --> 0:08:12.744 why people had so much criticism around like the idea 0:08:12.744 --> 0:08:15.864 of you. The criticism came from you in particular about 0:08:15.864 --> 0:08:18.744 women orgasming like so quickly and making that seem like 0:08:18.744 --> 0:08:20.264 a thing. But at least in the idea of you, 0:08:20.664 --> 0:08:23.424 it was through like not just penetration. But still I 0:08:23.464 --> 0:08:24.944 know that kind of fantasy element. 0:08:25.024 --> 0:08:27.584 And I also feel like with these like films like 0:08:27.624 --> 0:08:31.464 The Spectacular now it is for a younger audience, so 0:08:31.704 --> 0:08:34.344 they have that responsibility to be realistic because I do 0:08:34.384 --> 0:08:37.344 remember either when I was young, I'd either watch like 0:08:37.384 --> 0:08:39.424 the films that you were describing, like really whimsical, but 0:08:39.464 --> 0:08:42.144 also the complete opposite where it felt really scary. Like 0:08:42.184 --> 0:08:45.184 I remember Degrassy the Next Generation, and it made me 0:08:45.264 --> 0:08:47.744 so scared of sex. There's always these like horror scenes 0:08:47.784 --> 0:08:51.104 of girls suddenly getting pregnant or like girls in really 0:08:51.104 --> 0:08:54.664 like unfortunate positions, and it was just like I never 0:08:54.704 --> 0:08:55.624 got the in between. 0:08:56.064 --> 0:08:58.104 Yeah, exactly. Oh, the in between is such a hard 0:08:58.104 --> 0:08:59.984 thing to find exactly what you're saying is so important 0:09:00.024 --> 0:09:02.184 of and maybe it's almost why maybe now you're saying 0:09:02.184 --> 0:09:03.864 that it's putting words around why. I kind of liked 0:09:03.904 --> 0:09:07.664 Bridgington because it was that in between a little bit. 0:09:07.944 --> 0:09:10.184 This is gonna be uncomfortable and weird and it's gonna hurt, 0:09:10.184 --> 0:09:12.424 but also it's a little bit sexy and nice like 0:09:12.464 --> 0:09:14.664 that in between Exactly it is so nice. Well, I 0:09:14.664 --> 0:09:17.784 mean we're just getting started here, coming up next scene 0:09:17.864 --> 0:09:31.784 talk more sex. So really to think about my first example, 0:09:31.824 --> 0:09:33.504 because there's so many sex scenes that you know, in 0:09:33.544 --> 0:09:36.064 TV and movies and TV shows that I think have 0:09:36.184 --> 0:09:38.584 really changed the bar. But one I kept coming back 0:09:38.584 --> 0:09:40.304 to because it was the first time I was aware 0:09:40.344 --> 0:09:43.384 of this kind of conversation is Blue Valentine, which came 0:09:43.424 --> 0:09:46.424 out way back in two thousand and scene Valentine, Oh 0:09:46.464 --> 0:09:48.824 you should watch. I mean, it'll destroy your soul, but 0:09:48.864 --> 0:09:52.944 it's a beautiful movie, that old chestnut. So it's ryan 0:09:52.984 --> 0:09:56.384 Gosling and Michelle Williams together and it's about their relationship 0:09:56.464 --> 0:09:58.104 from like there's moments where they're really in love the 0:09:58.184 --> 0:10:00.904 moments where theyre having this this terrible breakup. But why 0:10:00.984 --> 0:10:04.144 that movie made headlines so much at the time despite 0:10:04.184 --> 0:10:06.104 the fact it was a bit of a sexy drama 0:10:06.104 --> 0:10:09.024 between Ryan Gosling Michelle Williams who everyone loves, is that 0:10:09.064 --> 0:10:13.104 there's a scene where Ryan Goslin's character Dean is performing 0:10:13.304 --> 0:10:16.664 oral sex on Michelle Williams's character Cindy. I never now 0:10:16.664 --> 0:10:18.664 that they're performing oral sex. That's like the way they say. 0:10:18.544 --> 0:10:18.944 In the movies. 0:10:18.984 --> 0:10:20.184 I never not the word I way to say it. 0:10:20.744 --> 0:10:22.264 You know what I'm talking. He's going down on her, 0:10:22.344 --> 0:10:24.384 He's going down on her. I'm saying that's the movie 0:10:24.504 --> 0:10:28.064 term they use performing oral sex. And because they shot 0:10:28.104 --> 0:10:30.904 this scene of his character, like there's a whole thing 0:10:30.944 --> 0:10:33.024 of him moving her underwear and like between her legs, 0:10:33.024 --> 0:10:35.624 and you can see the whole thing happening taking place, 0:10:35.664 --> 0:10:37.824 like they'd never moved the camera away. But it's also 0:10:37.944 --> 0:10:40.224 very centered on like her emotion and her pleasure and 0:10:40.264 --> 0:10:42.584 her reaction all that sort of stuff. And because of 0:10:42.624 --> 0:10:44.504 that one oral sex scene. Because it was on a 0:10:44.504 --> 0:10:46.664 woman and not on a man, it was deemed to 0:10:46.704 --> 0:10:51.144 be more inappropriate, more scandalous, like something that people couldn't see. 0:10:51.144 --> 0:10:54.384 And so the movie initially got an NC seventeen rating, 0:10:54.904 --> 0:10:57.424 which is just crazy because it just cuts out who 0:10:57.424 --> 0:10:59.624 can watch it, which cinema is it can be a distribution. 0:11:00.064 --> 0:11:03.344 It really threatened to like overturn this movie, and the 0:11:03.464 --> 0:11:05.984 production team and the actors all fought back against this 0:11:06.184 --> 0:11:08.504 rating because it was going to have such a negative 0:11:08.504 --> 0:11:10.144 effect on the movie. But also it was setting this 0:11:10.744 --> 0:11:13.984 that oral sex from a woman's perspective would always get 0:11:13.984 --> 0:11:16.104 you a higher rating than on a man, which is 0:11:16.144 --> 0:11:20.384 just crazy. So longs and not to make this about 0:11:20.464 --> 0:11:22.584 Ryan Gosling, because I think sometimes men just get so 0:11:22.704 --> 0:11:25.664 much praise for doing so little, but in his case, 0:11:25.704 --> 0:11:27.504 he did come in well. I think they pushed back again, 0:11:27.504 --> 0:11:30.744 said they eventually got given an R rating, and they 0:11:30.744 --> 0:11:32.584 were saying, like all these other movies had come out 0:11:32.584 --> 0:11:34.544 with all these sex scenes of like either women on 0:11:34.624 --> 0:11:37.344 women like Black Swan would get you a lower rating, 0:11:37.464 --> 0:11:39.744 or if it's oral sex being performed on a man, 0:11:39.784 --> 0:11:42.304 the rating would be lower. Ryan Gosling came out and 0:11:42.424 --> 0:11:44.064 was like giving all these interviews about it because he 0:11:44.104 --> 0:11:46.464 was trying to get it overturned, and he was saying, like, 0:11:46.504 --> 0:11:48.504 it's so crazy. He's like, I've been in so many movies, 0:11:48.584 --> 0:11:50.264 or I've seen so many movies where the oral sex 0:11:50.264 --> 0:11:52.904 scene is on a man, and I can't believe that 0:11:52.944 --> 0:11:56.464 because ours is reversed, it's been classified as pawn basically, 0:11:56.784 --> 0:11:59.344 whereas if it was a man would be art house cinema. 0:11:59.384 --> 0:12:01.784 So I remember watching that movie and having such a 0:12:01.864 --> 0:12:03.664 kind of a moment watching it, and now I look 0:12:03.704 --> 0:12:05.744 back and I'm like, oh, it's because I've never seen 0:12:05.744 --> 0:12:08.304 that on screen before, and I feel like it just 0:12:08.424 --> 0:12:09.464 was such a game changer. 0:12:09.904 --> 0:12:12.264 I have a bit of a funny one. 0:12:12.344 --> 0:12:14.504 Okay, No, we love funny sex. Thing should be funny 0:12:14.504 --> 0:12:16.184 as well. It should be funny, It should be all things. 0:12:16.544 --> 0:12:20.464 It is a TV show called Chewing Gum Love. It 0:12:20.504 --> 0:12:23.544 stars Mikayla Cole who plays Tracy, who's a twenty four 0:12:23.624 --> 0:12:26.424 year old and the entire TV show you've seen it right. 0:12:27.344 --> 0:12:32.264 TV show is about Tracy like wanting to lose her virginity, 0:12:32.504 --> 0:12:34.504 Like she wants to have sex so badly, and she 0:12:34.584 --> 0:12:38.264 wants to enter womanhood as she calls it, and like 0:12:38.304 --> 0:12:40.624 the build up of sex throughout the whole series is 0:12:40.664 --> 0:12:42.704 you think it's gonna be like this massive thing that's 0:12:42.744 --> 0:12:45.424 about to happen, and then she just kind of does it. Yeah, 0:12:45.464 --> 0:12:47.704 and it's really quick, and she like sings a song. 0:12:47.744 --> 0:12:51.664 I prepared a song, lassing it and during my dom, 0:12:52.224 --> 0:12:56.104 what will he find? It's the world of Adventure. It's 0:12:56.104 --> 0:13:00.424 the world of adventure. We are I smart, and then 0:13:00.464 --> 0:13:04.304 she cries. I think obviously the actual act of having 0:13:04.344 --> 0:13:06.704 sex is not that realistic for most people who have 0:13:06.704 --> 0:13:08.584 sex for the first time, Like I'm sure not a 0:13:08.624 --> 0:13:12.544 lot of people break out into song I but I 0:13:12.584 --> 0:13:15.984 think what is realistic is like when you're a young woman, 0:13:16.024 --> 0:13:18.304 you build it up so much and then it kind 0:13:18.304 --> 0:13:20.984 of just happens. And in the movies, I think they 0:13:21.024 --> 0:13:23.104 build it up and then it becomes this big thing, 0:13:23.184 --> 0:13:25.424 but chewing gum, they just made it happen like real 0:13:25.464 --> 0:13:27.024 and I was like, this is kind of cool, this 0:13:27.064 --> 0:13:27.704 is kind of cool. 0:13:27.784 --> 0:13:30.064 Oh. My next example is kind of similar because it 0:13:30.104 --> 0:13:31.944 was the whole thing of just like it's a simple moment, 0:13:32.024 --> 0:13:34.344 but it becomes grain breaking because of how simple it is. 0:13:34.824 --> 0:13:37.744 And so I know, saying sex education. This conversation is 0:13:37.744 --> 0:13:39.544 a bit like, of course, like the whole point of 0:13:39.544 --> 0:13:41.464 that TV show was to change how we see sex 0:13:41.464 --> 0:13:43.384 scenes on TV, and they did, and they did. I 0:13:43.424 --> 0:13:45.544 just think that there's so many moments to call out. 0:13:45.544 --> 0:13:47.104 But as I was kind of going through and being like, 0:13:47.144 --> 0:13:49.984 which moment from the show really changed the game for 0:13:50.064 --> 0:13:52.464 sex scenes on TV? And I think it was the 0:13:52.504 --> 0:13:55.464 scene where you have George Robinson who played the character Isaac, 0:13:55.584 --> 0:13:58.344 and Emma McKay who played Maye, where he's in a 0:13:58.384 --> 0:14:01.304 wheelchair and he's a quadriplegic in real life, and they 0:14:01.384 --> 0:14:04.344 have that scene where it's interesting because it's wrapped up 0:14:04.344 --> 0:14:06.584 in like talks around like consent and like where we 0:14:06.624 --> 0:14:08.464 can touch each other and where we can sit, and 0:14:08.504 --> 0:14:11.224 also her asking him like, well, what can you actually 0:14:11.304 --> 0:14:13.624 do because of this disability? And then you have this 0:14:14.224 --> 0:14:17.704 really sexy scene that plays outs so hot in the 0:14:17.744 --> 0:14:19.544 way they did it with like cursing in his lap 0:14:19.624 --> 0:14:21.664 on the wheelchair and how it was mapped out. And 0:14:21.744 --> 0:14:24.144 I thought why that was so interesting is that usually 0:14:24.464 --> 0:14:26.464 any character with a disability, well, first of all, they 0:14:26.464 --> 0:14:28.904 don't really exist in TV and film, and like there's 0:14:28.944 --> 0:14:32.064 all these starts around like only three percent of fictional 0:14:32.144 --> 0:14:35.104 characters and scripted TV shows over the years have a disability, 0:14:35.264 --> 0:14:37.904 but they're usually in the background. They're like the tragic character, 0:14:38.264 --> 0:14:40.544 they're the side character. Al they're there to like give 0:14:40.584 --> 0:14:42.664 a bit of a moral compass the character like they 0:14:42.744 --> 0:14:45.624 never have, Yeah, they never have their own kind of 0:14:45.704 --> 0:14:47.704 love stories and sex scene. So kind of just seeing 0:14:47.704 --> 0:14:49.624 this sex scene play out and having it be like 0:14:50.144 --> 0:14:51.344 so hot and so. 0:14:51.504 --> 0:14:52.864 You know, the two main characters. 0:14:52.864 --> 0:14:55.624 But yeah, exactly, I just thought that was groundbreaking. He 0:14:55.744 --> 0:14:57.904 wasn't this moral compass where he was there like teach 0:14:57.944 --> 0:14:59.664 may of a lesson and make her better, Like he's 0:14:59.744 --> 0:15:02.904 jealous and he deletes, yeah, and all that sort of stuff. 0:15:02.944 --> 0:15:05.064 But every time I just was rewatching that clip before 0:15:05.064 --> 0:15:06.384 and I was like, God, this is hot, and this 0:15:06.504 --> 0:15:08.384 is exactly the kind of thing we need to see 0:15:08.424 --> 0:15:08.744 on TV. 0:15:08.864 --> 0:15:12.064 More So, I definitely know what I'm doing tonight, and 0:15:12.104 --> 0:15:13.704 it's not what you're thinking. It's watching bridgeton. 0:15:14.304 --> 0:15:16.304 I mean, I don't want to get into your personal life. 0:15:20.784 --> 0:15:24.544 It's a weekend watch, a. 0:15:24.424 --> 0:15:26.864 Turn away from the sexiness. But you know, we need 0:15:26.944 --> 0:15:29.464 light and shade on this podcast. What I'm recommending for 0:15:29.504 --> 0:15:32.784 weekend Watch this week is a new eight episode drama 0:15:32.944 --> 0:15:36.144 limited series called Under the Bridge, based on a true 0:15:36.144 --> 0:15:38.504 crime story. I found it very difficult to watch, and 0:15:38.544 --> 0:15:41.624 I'm not usually a big fan of crime TV shows. 0:15:41.624 --> 0:15:43.424 I don't listen to any podcasts like that. But I 0:15:43.424 --> 0:15:46.464 love Lily Gladstone so much it kills the flower Moon 0:15:46.624 --> 0:15:48.344 was like wanting her to win an Oscar. So I 0:15:48.384 --> 0:15:50.824 was like, I'll just watch anything Lily's in. And it's 0:15:50.864 --> 0:15:54.264 Lily playing opposite Riley Keo who after Daisy Jones and 0:15:54.304 --> 0:15:56.584 the six I'm super on board with her as leading lady. 0:15:56.704 --> 0:15:58.064 So I did it for the I did it for 0:15:58.104 --> 0:16:01.304 my two girls, so I sat through it. So Under 0:16:01.344 --> 0:16:03.984 the Bridge is an adaptation of a book that came 0:16:03.984 --> 0:16:05.744 out in two thousand and five the same name. It's 0:16:05.744 --> 0:16:08.624 a non fiction and it was about the murder of 0:16:08.744 --> 0:16:12.024 a teenage girl in Canada in nineteen ninety seven called 0:16:12.104 --> 0:16:15.064 Reena Vik and it was a huge news story at 0:16:15.104 --> 0:16:17.344 the time. She was a fourteen year old Canadian girl 0:16:17.424 --> 0:16:20.664 who was killed by a group of teenagers in Canada 0:16:20.704 --> 0:16:23.784 and her hometown. These six teenage involved were all tried 0:16:24.104 --> 0:16:27.384 and convicted for their participation her death started this huge 0:16:27.384 --> 0:16:29.984 conversation about bullying in high schools and where it can 0:16:30.064 --> 0:16:32.664 lead and like teenagers being isolated. There were so many 0:16:32.664 --> 0:16:35.424 things around. It's just a horrific story. So this is 0:16:35.544 --> 0:16:39.504 a drama based on that. So Riley Keo plays Rebecca 0:16:39.584 --> 0:16:42.304 and she returns to her small childhood home in Canada 0:16:42.304 --> 0:16:44.224 where something horrific happened to her that's going to come 0:16:44.264 --> 0:16:46.704 out later. She's there to write a novel, and then 0:16:46.984 --> 0:16:50.984 Rena's disappearance happens, and Lily Gladstone plays Cam So she's 0:16:51.024 --> 0:16:54.144 a local police officer, so she's investigating what happened to 0:16:54.144 --> 0:16:56.984 this girl, and then Rebecca, who's there to write a book, 0:16:57.024 --> 0:17:00.664 starts infiltrating this group of teenagers who you know are 0:17:00.664 --> 0:17:03.824 trying to like hide what happened under the bridge, but 0:17:03.944 --> 0:17:06.144 also start telling her, and so it's kind of like 0:17:06.184 --> 0:17:09.024 a murder mystery. It's a little bit clunky in subparts, 0:17:09.024 --> 0:17:10.984 and it's super hard to watch. Like I would say, 0:17:10.984 --> 0:17:13.424 there's eight episodes out now if you're like me and 0:17:13.464 --> 0:17:16.584 you kind of need to just take a break, just 0:17:16.624 --> 0:17:19.664 watch one episode at a time. But they're very aware 0:17:19.784 --> 0:17:22.584 as they're telling it about how much it can be 0:17:22.784 --> 0:17:25.584 difficult to take someone's story and make it your own, 0:17:25.784 --> 0:17:28.424 and take someone's murder and how you retell that and 0:17:28.504 --> 0:17:30.464 how much dignity should people have us to death and 0:17:30.504 --> 0:17:32.464 all that sort of stuff, And then it's also just 0:17:32.504 --> 0:17:35.704 a bit of a dark murder mystery drama. So Under 0:17:35.704 --> 0:17:38.664 the Bridge on Disney Plus. The cast is amazing, the 0:17:38.744 --> 0:17:41.544 story is devastating, but I think it's worth watching. 0:17:42.024 --> 0:17:47.024 I also have a Disney Plus recommendation. It's called Queenie 0:17:47.104 --> 0:17:51.704 and it's also a limited series episode episode show. So 0:17:51.944 --> 0:17:55.584 it's a book adaptation of a Carti Williams novel. It 0:17:55.704 --> 0:17:58.944