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Speaker 1: I'm in Vernon and I'm Laura Brodnick coming on on

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Speaker 1: the show today. It is Friday, so we're very sexy

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Speaker 1: We're going to be talking about the sex scenes that

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Speaker 1: changed TV in movies. It's gonna get raunchy, it's gonna

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Speaker 2: But first we have insight into the upcoming Gladiator film.

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Speaker 2: And by inside I mean photos of Paul Mescal looking

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Speaker 1: That boy ever picture without a cigarette recently because there

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Speaker 2: Profess Marlborough, haven't jumped on there.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's why it's smoking has been taken out of

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Speaker 1: wanted to have a sexy cigarette. And this is having

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Speaker 1: Mum. You know what's not sexy taking a puff of

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Speaker 1: because every time I've tried it, that's exactly what happens

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Speaker 2: So coming back to Gladiators, the film is a sequel

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Speaker 2: two thousand, starring Russell Crowe. In Gladiator to Paul will

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Speaker 1: That would be a fireable offense not knowing. So you're

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Speaker 2: Then? Because I haven't seen any.

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Speaker 1: See, this is the thing, Like we've talked about Paul

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Speaker 1: It's all very whimsical, which I think whimsicalness has a place.

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Speaker 2: But it's realistic.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I have one that is probably the

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Speaker 2: first sex scene I've watched as a teenage girl that

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Speaker 2: It was in the film The Spectacular Now I've seen it, Yes, yes,

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Speaker 2: remember either when I was young, I'd either watch like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. Oh, the in between is such a hard

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Speaker 2: More So, I definitely know what I'm doing tonight, and

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Speaker 1: I think of me the whole.

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Speaker 2: could please give us a five star rating review five

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Speaker 2: stars only, please, five stars only. You can catch us

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Speaker 2: back here in your feed at three pm on Monday.

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Speaker 2: See here.

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Speaker 1: Bye