1 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:06,800 Speaker 1: Welcome to the kick Your Expert led podcast, helping you 2 00:00:06,880 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 1: explore and learn everything about getting pregnancy, birth, and becoming 3 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:11,680 Speaker 1: a parent. 4 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 2: On the podcast and our online pregnancy program grow My Baby, 5 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:18,960 Speaker 2: we share my experience of helping more than four thousand 6 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:20,120 Speaker 2: babies to be born. 7 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 1: And our experience of running a women's health clinic and 8 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:23,960 Speaker 1: parenting four boys. 9 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 2: We're here to help everyone to feel empowered in pregnancy 10 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:35,479 Speaker 2: and birth with real life, practical information. Of this is 11 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 2: Dr Patam here with Bridget and today it's bleeding in 12 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 2: early pregnancy. Bleeding and spotting in early pregnancy can be 13 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 2: really frightening. We've got our own experience of Bridget having 14 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 2: a big bleed when she was seven weeks pregnant, and 15 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 2: it came at such a shock, and I remember feeling 16 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:54,279 Speaker 2: anxious and thinking we'd lost the baby, and even with 17 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 2: my expert knowledge, being really scared. This episode is about 18 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 2: giving you the knowledge so you know what to ignore 19 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 2: and what to have investigated, and to help give you 20 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:06,319 Speaker 2: that sense of calm as you try and navigate the 21 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:07,679 Speaker 2: waters of early pregnancy. 22 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:12,039 Speaker 1: So Dr Pat this week, have you got any little titbits. 23 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:13,959 Speaker 2: For us some more good news? This week two of 24 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 2: my patients who've been having ovulation induction got pregnant this week. 25 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:19,560 Speaker 1: Oh that's very exciting. 26 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 2: That's great. So these are both women with polcistic ovarian 27 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 2: syndrome who have needed some medication to help them get pregnant, 28 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 2: and as we've covered in a previous podcast, it can 29 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 2: be triggered to get the dose right. We want enough 30 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:37,320 Speaker 2: to get pregnant and not enough to have twins. That's 31 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 2: the ideal amount of ovulation induction medication to give twin. 32 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 2: Pregnancies can be very happy and very normal, but they 33 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 2: can also be a little complex, and the right way 34 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 2: to go with ovulation induction is to try and get 35 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 2: people pregnant one baby at a time. So we've knowed 36 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 2: that twice this week. I'm pretty happy about that. 37 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 1: That's good. And coincidentally, these women don't know each other, 38 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 1: do they No, No, But in in the waiting room, 39 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 1: like have they sort of keep going, how you going? Yeah? 40 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 2: I don't know what people talk about in the waiting room. 41 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 2: I'm never in there, but I do know. I mean, 42 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 2: I guess the pregnant women who can tell that the 43 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 2: other woman's pregnant would always stay low and ask where 44 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 2: you're up to I don't know. Maybe I don't know 45 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 2: what the guyny patients talk about or the people when 46 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 2: I'm pregnant, ye talk about them. I'm never out there. 47 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So all of you who are listening and 48 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 1: you're wondering about ovulation, I would suggest you pop back 49 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 1: to episode two where we talk about what is ovulation 50 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 1: and what is opulation induction? Anyway, So here we are. 51 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:34,800 Speaker 1: We are talking about bleeding in early pregnancy, which is 52 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 1: a really anxious time when you have a spot or 53 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 1: you might have a bright red bleed or you know, 54 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:43,919 Speaker 1: there's so many variations that you get. You know, there's 55 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 1: a lot of discharge, isn't there when you're in early pregnancy. 56 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:51,240 Speaker 1: So Patty, I'm going to talk about what a woman 57 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 1: might experience her periods late. She's had her pe on 58 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:58,359 Speaker 1: a stick and it's come back positive, but she's got 59 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:01,080 Speaker 1: some spotting. What's going on there. 60 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:05,240 Speaker 2: So that's a really common situation that we see at 61 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 2: work a lot, and it's an anxious time for the 62 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:12,240 Speaker 2: couple because one of the possibilities is early miscarriage, and 63 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 2: that's where my mind goes to first. Thankfully, most of 64 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:17,640 Speaker 2: the time, when there's bleeding in early pregnancy. It's not 65 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:20,959 Speaker 2: a miscarriage, actually, but we need to keep an eye 66 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 2: on that situation until we can reliably reassure that woman 67 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:29,920 Speaker 2: that things are fine. So some of the possibilities are 68 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:34,360 Speaker 2: that it's something called an implantation bled which is, remember 69 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 2: the egg comes out of the ovary, it's picked up 70 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 2: by the trumpet end of the fallopian tube, and about 71 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 2: halfway down the tube it meets up with the sperm 72 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:48,040 Speaker 2: coming up the other way. Fertilization, where the sperm penetrates 73 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 2: the egg, happens in the tube and then the tube 74 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 2: will push the fertilized egg down back into the body 75 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 2: of the uterus where it implants, and all of that 76 00:03:57,160 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 2: takes time. So somewhere around that sort of four to 77 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 2: five week mark in early pregnancy, four to five weeks 78 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 2: since the last period, the fertilzed egg is literally implanting 79 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:09,119 Speaker 2: into the lining of the uterus which has got all 80 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 2: thick to be ready to receive it. And that process 81 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 2: can cause bleeding, and sometimes that's all the bleeding is. 82 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 1: And what you know, we get a bit obsessed with 83 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:23,480 Speaker 1: the type of bleeding. So is that just like brown spotting, 84 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:26,280 Speaker 1: or is it like bright red or what should a 85 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 1: woman expect from implantation bleeding. 86 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:32,799 Speaker 2: That's usually pink spotting pink. Yeah, but any bleeding needs 87 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 2: some attention because we just don't know whether it's a 88 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:39,279 Speaker 2: miscarriage with an implantation bleed or nothing or what have you. 89 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:42,840 Speaker 2: So the appropriate things to do is to catch up 90 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 2: with your local dock or you might be seen in 91 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 2: the hospital emergency department after ours and they'll check you 92 00:04:48,279 --> 00:04:50,680 Speaker 2: over and make sure that you're basically well, and then 93 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:53,360 Speaker 2: it's to work out what's going on with the pregnancy. 94 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:56,400 Speaker 2: And of course the appropriate test is ultrasound. If the 95 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 2: ultrasound shows a pregnancy that's in the uterus with the 96 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 2: heart beating, regardless of the cause of the bleed, we 97 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 2: know things are fine. Yeah, And if it shows an 98 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:08,159 Speaker 2: empty uterus, or if the woman's very unwell with pain, 99 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:12,360 Speaker 2: or a dozen different possible scenarios, then each of those 100 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 2: has got their appropriate further testing and investigation. 101 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:18,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. I love that image that you've just put in 102 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 1: my mind of the egg, you know, on its journey 103 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 1: down the fallopian tube, and you know, everything being pulsed 104 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 1: towards to meet the sperm, and you know, even the 105 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 1: image of the fertilized egg sort of burrowing in to 106 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 1: the uterus lining like that. You know, it's just such 107 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:35,279 Speaker 1: beautiful imagery. 108 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 2: It's a beautiful thought. 109 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, And sometimes though it doesn't quite go to 110 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:43,599 Speaker 1: plants it and the fertilized egg might just hang around 111 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 1: too long in the Filippian. 112 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:47,599 Speaker 2: Tube and try and implant it, try and plant in 113 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:50,280 Speaker 2: the Floppian tube. And that's an ectopic pregnancy. And that's 114 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 2: one of the things that needs to be seriously considered 115 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 2: in when there's bleeding in early pregnancy. So with a 116 00:05:55,680 --> 00:06:00,120 Speaker 2: combination of ultrasounds and some quantitative beater hCG levels and 117 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:02,840 Speaker 2: that gives the number the blood test, we can work 118 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 2: it out. 119 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:07,360 Speaker 1: So the blood test will tell us whether it's an ectopic. 120 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 2: Will it not all by itself, But it's about building 121 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:13,279 Speaker 2: a picture where we say, okay, what can we see 122 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:15,920 Speaker 2: on ultrasound? What's the blood test telling us? And there's 123 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:18,279 Speaker 2: almost a flow chart that helps you work the answer out. 124 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:22,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, And if we're investigating an ectopic pregnancy, is there 125 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 1: a prime time for an ectopic. 126 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 2: Well, an ectopic pregnancy will usually only come to light 127 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 2: when it either bursts out of the tube. It it's 128 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:34,599 Speaker 2: implant in the tube and it's got too big and 129 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 2: it bursts out, and that might happen at seven, eight 130 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 2: or nine weeks pregnancy, or when it's trying to implant 131 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 2: somewhere where it shouldn't implant. It causes bleeding, and the 132 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 2: bleeding tracks down through the cavity. 133 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:48,840 Speaker 1: And out the vagina, and that could be it, I 134 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 1: don't know, six or seven weeks, yes. 135 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 2: Exactly, Yeah, and that might happen so early, even before 136 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 2: the ectopic pregnancy has got an obvious appearance on ultrasounds. 137 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:02,600 Speaker 1: Okay, So if you have had a suspected ectopic pregnancy, 138 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 1: how is that treated? 139 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 2: Well? Briefly, if an ectopic pregnancy has been proven, there 140 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 2: are a couple of different types. There might be a 141 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 2: pregnancy that's sitting in the fallopian tube and it's known 142 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:15,560 Speaker 2: to be there through the testing, but it hasn't burst 143 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 2: out the tube, and they can often be treated. Sometimes 144 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 2: they will miscarry by themselves, and sometimes that's a process 145 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 2: that just needs to be observed and the blood hormone 146 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 2: levels followed back to zero. They can be treated with 147 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 2: medication these days, a medication that works a little bit 148 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 2: like chemotherapy and goes in there and dissolves the cells, 149 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 2: and that can avoid an operation in some situations. But 150 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 2: if the ectopic pregnancy has burst out of the tube 151 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 2: and it's bleeding and the woman is very un well, 152 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 2: then obviously that needs to be treated with an emergency 153 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 2: keyhole operation to go in through the belly button and 154 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:57,239 Speaker 2: fix the bleeding and often remove the tube. 155 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:00,120 Speaker 1: It's dreadful. We've had a very good friend who who 156 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 1: has had antopic pregnancy and she looked dreadful. It's obvious, 157 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:07,239 Speaker 1: isn't it if you've got a burst. 158 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. Most people with a burst ectopic look very unwell. 159 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. 160 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's a hospital emergency department type scenario. 161 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, and over sort of what period of time if 162 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 1: you feel like symptoms are coming along, where are you 163 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 1: feeling those symptoms. 164 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 2: Of an ectopic of eruption deec topic? Yeah, well, I 165 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 2: think that that needs to be considered by patients and 166 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 2: by doctors of anyone who's known to be pregnant and 167 00:08:28,400 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 2: has a bleeding and severe perfect pain. 168 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 1: Okay, so it's not specifically one sided or no, its 169 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 1: just incredible pain. 170 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:40,760 Speaker 2: So pain, bleeding and known to be pregnant. Yeah, and 171 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:41,680 Speaker 2: we got to look into that. 172 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:44,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. So there's lots of reasons why somebody might bleed 173 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: that doesn't lead to a miscarriage, But what are some 174 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 1: of those reasons. 175 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 2: Well, in the early pregnancy, what's happening is that a 176 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 2: million little blood vessels are connecting up between the pregnancy 177 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 2: and the lining of the mother's uterus and the and 178 00:08:59,120 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 2: it's miraclet on all the time. It probably does bleed 179 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:04,640 Speaker 2: all the time, and we just don't see most of them, 180 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 2: so a lot of that bleeding is harmless. An ultrasound 181 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:11,079 Speaker 2: can be used in that setting to show people that 182 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 2: the pregnancy is carrying on fine, that the source of 183 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 2: the bleeding can't be seen, there's not enough blood to 184 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 2: show up on ultrasound, and that the baby is fine. 185 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 2: And that's what usually happens if a woman presents to 186 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:25,439 Speaker 2: a hospital emergency department with bleeding and early pregnancy. And 187 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:27,080 Speaker 2: it's one of the reasons why we like to have 188 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 2: a scanner in the department so we can scan people 189 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 2: on the spot. 190 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:33,200 Speaker 1: And so you're fine, yeah, to go home. Yea, I 191 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 1: know this because you know we're in the same household. 192 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:39,719 Speaker 1: But you do get some questions, some phone calls at 193 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 1: different times of the day and night, where someone's had 194 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:45,319 Speaker 1: a bright red bleed after sex. 195 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:48,959 Speaker 2: Yep, So, bleeding after sex in pregnancy worries people as 196 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:53,520 Speaker 2: well because they again think it's a miscarriage. It's usually not. 197 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:57,600 Speaker 2: It might be so bleeding after sex in pregnancy needs 198 00:09:57,600 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 2: an ultrasound to investigate see how the pregnant is going, 199 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:04,680 Speaker 2: and if everything's fine, then we usually advise those couples 200 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:06,680 Speaker 2: to stick clear of sex for a couple of weeks, 201 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:10,760 Speaker 2: wait for everything to settle down, and then reintroduce sex 202 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 2: again and see how we go. 203 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:14,200 Speaker 1: And you know, we do play the blame game a 204 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:16,560 Speaker 1: little bit. If by chance we do then go on 205 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:18,559 Speaker 1: and have a miscarriage, we look back on all those 206 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:22,280 Speaker 1: things that caused miscarriage. Do you think that sex does 207 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:23,440 Speaker 1: cause miscarriage? 208 00:10:23,480 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 2: No? No, I think that's very clear that it doesn't. 209 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:29,319 Speaker 2: We don't know what causes a lot of miscarriages, but 210 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 2: we do know that it's usually got something to do 211 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:35,960 Speaker 2: with the sperm and the egg not coming together properly 212 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 2: in the first place. So if we think about the 213 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 2: all the DNA from the sperm and all the DNA 214 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 2: from the egg, they have to come together and be 215 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 2: connected up like a giant zip and as that zip 216 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:53,080 Speaker 2: goes up, mistakes can happen. The wrong bits of DNA 217 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 2: hook up with the wrong bits of DNA, and we 218 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:58,800 Speaker 2: wind up with a with an early pregnancy that's capable 219 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:01,480 Speaker 2: of surviving until five or six or seven weeks, but 220 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:05,360 Speaker 2: not beyond that. And that's the cause of most early 221 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 2: pregnancy loss. And whilst it's very sad, there's nothing that 222 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 2: can nothing that can really be done to prevent those ones. 223 00:11:12,400 --> 00:11:14,960 Speaker 1: And I think that's really important point to make because 224 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:17,719 Speaker 1: a lot of women sort of blame themselves or their 225 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:20,840 Speaker 1: situation or their stress at work or whatever it might be, 226 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 1: but actually, you know, there's no control over how that 227 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 1: DNA might zip up. That's a really good analogy. I 228 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 1: like that idea. 229 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:30,199 Speaker 2: That's right, and there is no control over that. And 230 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:33,640 Speaker 2: I think it's super important that people understand that miscarriage 231 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:37,040 Speaker 2: isn't their fault. I saw this beautiful thing on in 232 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:39,840 Speaker 2: the internet somewhere once. It just a woman holding up 233 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 2: a sign that's said, presumably to her caregivers, thank you 234 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 2: for saying that the miscarriage wasn't my fault. And she 235 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:51,720 Speaker 2: just needed to be told that because we're human beings 236 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 2: and we tend to blame ourselves for things. 237 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:56,400 Speaker 1: And look for causes, and look for causes, that's right. 238 00:11:56,559 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 2: It can be very frustrating to people when a clear 239 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 2: cause of their presence loss isn't found, so then they 240 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 2: start saying, well, it must have been something I did 241 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 2: or didn't do. 242 00:12:05,760 --> 00:12:08,520 Speaker 1: That's right. And miscarriage is pretty common, isn't it. 243 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:12,560 Speaker 2: Absolutely so, a first timemester, pregnancy loss is extremely common. 244 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:17,800 Speaker 2: And when I see people with a sad first semester miscarriage, 245 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 2: they will tell their family and friends, and at that 246 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:22,199 Speaker 2: point their family and friends will go, oh, yeah, that 247 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:26,600 Speaker 2: happened to us as well, And thankfully, most people recover 248 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:30,480 Speaker 2: from it very well. Most people who were in good 249 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 2: psychological health will accept that the pregnancy loss happened. They 250 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 2: will feel very sad about it, in a great sense 251 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 2: of disappointment at the start, but that passes in as 252 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:45,760 Speaker 2: little as two weeks. And I see people two weeks 253 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 2: later for that very reason, because I want to make 254 00:12:47,320 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 2: sure that they're on the right track to emotional recovery, 255 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:53,680 Speaker 2: and people at two weeks are very different. Most people 256 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:59,040 Speaker 2: are improving day by day. They've been able to contextualize 257 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:02,240 Speaker 2: the early prudency loss is something that's very sad, but 258 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:08,240 Speaker 2: they're already hopeful for the future and almost ready to 259 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:09,079 Speaker 2: start trying again. 260 00:13:09,520 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 1: And I've heard you say before you've got a nice 261 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 1: little phrase which is something like you might always remember. 262 00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:18,439 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, what is that again? Well, i'd say, 263 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:20,240 Speaker 2: I just say to people that the pregnancy loss is 264 00:13:20,280 --> 00:13:23,079 Speaker 2: something that will be with you forever. So if you're 265 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 2: an old, if your grandma and your granddaughter has a miscarriage, 266 00:13:26,679 --> 00:13:30,320 Speaker 2: you'll say to her, miscarriage too, So you'll it will 267 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:33,679 Speaker 2: be with you your whole life, but it won't hurt, yeah, 268 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:37,079 Speaker 2: for very long. People are extremely resilient. 269 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:41,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, and those that perhaps do need help, like it 270 00:13:41,040 --> 00:13:43,160 Speaker 1: will be a trigger where they need to sort of 271 00:13:43,160 --> 00:13:45,480 Speaker 1: seek help from a psychologist or you know. 272 00:13:45,720 --> 00:13:48,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, so a certain number of people that might be 273 00:13:48,440 --> 00:13:51,800 Speaker 2: the mental health straw that you know, it goes to 274 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 2: bit too far. And of course we're talking about people 275 00:13:54,360 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 2: with isolated first trumes to pregnancy loss. If you've got 276 00:13:57,440 --> 00:14:01,880 Speaker 2: recurrent pregnancy loss, that's a different scenario and it's very sad. 277 00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:06,080 Speaker 2: It's difficult to treat. But when people have a first trime, 278 00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:09,320 Speaker 2: mister miscarriage, they most people think that they're going to 279 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 2: be that person that it's going to keep on happening 280 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:14,920 Speaker 2: and they'll never have a baby, And of course that's 281 00:14:14,960 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 2: not true for most people. Most people get pridden again 282 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:20,520 Speaker 2: a few months later and they're fine. Yeah, So if 283 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 2: you've had about three miscarriages in a row, or you've 284 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:27,680 Speaker 2: got miscarriage that are miscarriages that are suspicious, like they 285 00:14:27,720 --> 00:14:31,560 Speaker 2: happen really late, then we have to start investigating those 286 00:14:31,600 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 2: people and treating those people. But for most people that 287 00:14:35,360 --> 00:14:41,600 Speaker 2: doesn't need investigational treatment. It's they're not recurrent miscarriers. It's 288 00:14:41,600 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 2: an isolated thing, all right. 289 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 1: So someone's experienced a bleed in pregnancy, every single bleed 290 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 1: needs to be investigated. Is there anything that also happens 291 00:14:50,960 --> 00:14:54,640 Speaker 1: once you have a bleed in terms of their blood grouping. 292 00:14:54,400 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 2: Or Yeah, So blood group's relevant at this point, So 293 00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:00,480 Speaker 2: that if a woman's a negative blood group and has 294 00:15:00,520 --> 00:15:03,040 Speaker 2: some bleeds in pregnancy, then each one of those needs 295 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:05,840 Speaker 2: to be looked at. That's a part of an issue 296 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:09,880 Speaker 2: called recis disease, which we'll cover another day. But sometimes 297 00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:14,160 Speaker 2: a bleeding pregnancy is of a sufficient volume that we 298 00:15:14,200 --> 00:15:16,960 Speaker 2: need to treat the woman with some stuff called anti 299 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 2: d which will neutralize any positive blood cells which might 300 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 2: have escaped from a miscarriage into the mother's system. 301 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 1: I'm very for me with having my anti D shot 302 00:15:27,240 --> 00:15:30,760 Speaker 1: a recess negative. So you know, many anti D shots 303 00:15:30,800 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 1: along the sixteen years of having babies. It sounds like 304 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:36,720 Speaker 1: I've got a lot, but there's only four in there, 305 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:41,800 Speaker 1: all right. So a woman's had a bleed, what's the 306 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 1: next step? 307 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:45,360 Speaker 2: I think the next step is for her to be 308 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:50,640 Speaker 2: assessed by her doctor, for an ultrasound to be done 309 00:15:50,720 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 2: to look at the wellness of the pregnancy, and if 310 00:15:54,240 --> 00:15:57,000 Speaker 2: she's a negative group, for that to be taken into 311 00:15:57,000 --> 00:15:58,040 Speaker 2: consideration as well. 312 00:15:58,720 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 1: And there's a pregnancy, it's all going well. She goes 313 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:05,480 Speaker 1: home and she just carries on, yeah, her life. But 314 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:08,000 Speaker 1: the doctor thinks that she's had a miscarriage. So what 315 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 1: are the next steps? 316 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:11,920 Speaker 2: Okay, So if we know it's a miscarriage, and we 317 00:16:12,000 --> 00:16:15,520 Speaker 2: know that for sure, then there are a few different possibilities. 318 00:16:16,200 --> 00:16:18,920 Speaker 2: It may be that the pregnancy ends by itself and 319 00:16:19,040 --> 00:16:22,160 Speaker 2: comes out by itself, and that can take time, but 320 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:25,440 Speaker 2: it's certainly a nature's way of just emptying the uterus, 321 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:28,960 Speaker 2: and some people are happy to wait for that to happen. 322 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:31,960 Speaker 2: There are other situations where the bleeding might be very 323 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:35,280 Speaker 2: heavy or painful, or the miscarriages happened a bit later 324 00:16:35,280 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 2: in the first trimester and there's a lot of material 325 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 2: from the pregnancy to come out, and in that situation 326 00:16:40,120 --> 00:16:42,520 Speaker 2: a curete can be a better thing to do. A 327 00:16:42,560 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 2: little operation to train the contents of the uterus using. 328 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:48,600 Speaker 1: Suction, and someone's under general anesthetic. 329 00:16:48,280 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 2: Under a general anesthetic, yeah yeah, And which of those 330 00:16:51,520 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 2: is appropriate is a matterphor discussion with the dog based 331 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 2: on the clinical scenario and how unwell the woman is 332 00:16:58,320 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 2: and and what her preferences are. 333 00:17:00,960 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 1: Well. Everyone, I know that this has been a very 334 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:07,600 Speaker 1: heavy topic. It's normal to feel anxious listening to issues 335 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:11,159 Speaker 1: around early pregnancy and feeling like, well, what if this 336 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:14,560 Speaker 1: happens to me? But if you feel like this anxiety 337 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 1: is really causing a change to your daily life and 338 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:21,480 Speaker 1: impacting on how happy you feel during your daily life, 339 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:23,399 Speaker 1: then I think it's time for you to seek some 340 00:17:23,440 --> 00:17:27,640 Speaker 1: more help. And first stop is probably the Perinatal Anxiety 341 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:31,960 Speaker 1: and Depression Australia website. It's Panda dot org dot ayu 342 00:17:32,600 --> 00:17:35,399 Speaker 1: and they've got a really great mental health checklist and 343 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:37,480 Speaker 1: you can do this checklist just to see whether it's 344 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:39,639 Speaker 1: time for you to seek some help. All right, everyone, 345 00:17:40,040 --> 00:17:43,560 Speaker 1: thank you so much for tuning in to our podcast. 346 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 1: We love putting them together for you. If you've really 347 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:49,000 Speaker 1: enjoyed this episode or any other episode, please share it 348 00:17:49,040 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 1: with a friend who's either pregnant or thinking of being pregnant. 349 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:56,160 Speaker 1: That's how the message gets spread, and that's how more 350 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 1: people can be educated, just like you. So well done 351 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:01,960 Speaker 1: for being informed during your pregnancy. 352 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:03,680 Speaker 2: Thanks for listening, everybody. 353 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:09,320 Speaker 1: Thanks everybody. Bye for now. I just need to remind 354 00:18:09,359 --> 00:18:13,800 Speaker 1: you that this podcast is for informational purposes only. We 355 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:17,320 Speaker 1: share lots of medical insights and experience, but everything we 356 00:18:17,359 --> 00:18:20,560 Speaker 1: talk about is general in nature and may not apply 357 00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 1: to your specific situation. Please always consult with your own 358 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:28,720 Speaker 1: healthcare provider for your individual medical advice. When you grow 359 00:18:28,760 --> 00:18:29,280 Speaker 1: your baby,