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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Seize the Yay podcast. Busy and happy

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Speaker 1: are not the same thing. We too rarely question what

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Speaker 1: makes the heart seeing. We work, then we rest, but

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Speaker 1: rarely we play and often don't realize there's more than

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Speaker 1: one way. So this is a platform to hear and

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Speaker 1: explore the stories of those who found lives. They adore,

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Speaker 1: the good, bad and ugly, The best and worst day

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Speaker 1: will bear all the facets of seizing your Yea. I'm

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Speaker 1: Sarah Davidson or a spoonful of Sarah, a lawyer turned

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Speaker 1: fu entrepreneur who swapped the suits and heels to co

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Speaker 1: found Matcha Maiden and matcha Milk Bar. Seize the ya

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Speaker 1: is a series of conversations on finding a life you

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Speaker 1: love and exploring the self doubt, challenge, joy and fulfillment

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Speaker 1: along the way. Hello, lovely yighborhood, Welcome back to Yeay's

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Speaker 1: of our Lives. We have spontaneously started recording as normal

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Speaker 1: and gone live on our Instagram and the Facebook page,

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Speaker 1: which I neglect so badly.

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Speaker 2: Don't worry, We've got one whole viewer on Really, how

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Speaker 2: do you even see it? Says one viewer?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, is that me?

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Speaker 2: Is it me?

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Speaker 1: Because but our beautiful Facebook yighborhood have been joining. Everyone's joining.

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Speaker 1: This is so lovely, Bim, how are you?

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Speaker 2: I forgot my outfit? I've made a pact to you

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Speaker 2: that wear a new item of garment every session.

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Speaker 1: Whose Sunnys are they? I don't know this on the table,

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Speaker 1: They're definitely Servo Sunny's.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, I'm good. We just had a breakfast, a really

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Speaker 2: fun breakfast this morning.

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Speaker 1: So we had a lovely yay Field morning with one

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Speaker 1: of our regular guests. Now, Doctor Brandy, who is the

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Speaker 1: incredible doctor for the Matildas who are in Melbourne to play,

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Speaker 1: was Pekistan tonight and she has I mean, if you

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Speaker 1: guys have listened to part one and part two, we've

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Speaker 1: also planned part three and four around the Olympics, which

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Speaker 1: will be very exciting. Oh yes, but if you've listened

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Speaker 1: to those episodes, you know she has no spare time.

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Speaker 1: And I don't know how we got a breakfast with her,

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Speaker 2: Yes, fin speaking of is anyone going to the game tonight?

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Speaker 1: Anyone going? I feel like there are lots of Tilly's

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Speaker 1: Fever is happening in Melbourne City. We were in the

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Speaker 2: Well, it sold out, like I went, I hadn't. Finally,

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Speaker 2: I've watched every single game but not gotten a jersey

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Speaker 2: because when during fever, it just sold out super quickly.

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Speaker 2: And then I just like in the in the that meantime,

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Speaker 2: this morning, and probably like every other person that didn't

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Speaker 2: have one, everyone was in the city getting the same thing,

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Speaker 2: like dads, moms, kids, travelers. They had to sell it

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Speaker 2: from behind the desk that Tilly's jerseys because they were

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Speaker 2: just so popular. Again. Oh, it was like it's so

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Speaker 2: great and it's sold out tonight.

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Speaker 1: It's so wholesome, so it'd be really fun. I also

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Speaker 1: Dr Brand Doctor Brandy has logged into.

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Speaker 2: The chat and said I'm going.

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Speaker 1: We thought you might be there, guys, we love her

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Speaker 1: so much, And we were sitting at Hardware Society and

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Speaker 1: there was this massive queue forming outside and we were like,

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Speaker 1: this is definitely for doctor Brandy to sign.

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Speaker 2: It actually was like we came out and like paparazzi. No, seriously,

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Speaker 2: there was like a hundred of them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then someone even came up to our table.

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Speaker 2: Yeah anyway, so it was Nick, Nick from upstairs.

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Speaker 1: Nick from upstairs, thanks for joining. We did already have

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Speaker 1: we did not plan the structure of so many questions.

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Speaker 1: But Foodie g asked what we had for breakfast, So

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Speaker 1: we were at Hardware Society.

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Speaker 2: Tell us a lot about a person, it.

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Speaker 1: Does, but it's not your normal breakfast menu. So we

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Speaker 1: went to Hardware Society, who were one of our very

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Speaker 1: are Aussie's but moved to Paris and then brought the

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Speaker 1: It's like the longest standing hospitality institution in Melbourne and

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Speaker 2: the chat chat, Nick said, long time listening my first

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Speaker 1: So the menu is very French, very gourmet, so delicious.

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Speaker 2: I had? Well, okay, so sometimes I do have breakfast

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Speaker 2: And sometimes i'm really really basic breakfast eater, Like I

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Speaker 1: When you had the green counter when you're a food blogger. Guys,

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Speaker 2: of tritza, which I didn't realize chirrizzo.

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Speaker 1: What was it? Cherisozza?

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Speaker 2: No, it surely is churizzo.

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Speaker 1: is it cheriso or charrizzo? And also another question for

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Speaker 2: Do you say, and it's just now having our own conversation.

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Speaker 2: It's been great, guys, but I have to do some

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Speaker 2: work because it's got a big game tonight.

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Speaker 1: And also you spent five hours of this morning with

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Speaker 1: So first, the CEO that this or that? Yea voting?

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Speaker 1: Is it Cheriza or Chirizzo? Second, do you you say

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Speaker 1: I Beeza or I Betha? And if you say I

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Speaker 1: Beetha because you're cultured, do you say Bartholona or Barcelona?

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Speaker 1: Because I think a lot of people say I Betha,

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Speaker 2: It's I've only ever calledizzozzo.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, guys, vote vote now or hold on?

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Speaker 2: Oh I agree with Sarah.

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Speaker 1: Shanney agrees with me. Okay, Shanny, whatsfications do you bring

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Speaker 2: Surely doesn't sound very promising.

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Speaker 1: It's not the confidence we would like. Okay, hold on?

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Speaker 2: What else?

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Speaker 1: Good timing? Oh my god, we need to stop pausing.

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Speaker 2: Great, I'm like it's so far away that I'm like

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Speaker 2: how do you spell breki?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah? Is it b r e kk y b

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Speaker 1: multiple truths.

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Speaker 2: We should never have done this, We will.

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Speaker 1: This, okay, So get your votes in for those this

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Speaker 1: year that ye are questions. In the meantime, there's a

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Speaker 1: you have known a new life season is coming and

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Speaker 1: what what to do to gain clarity on what that

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Speaker 1: looks like. Great question, and I actually talk about this

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Speaker 1: often when I'm not unhinged with you. It's about how

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Speaker 1: Live season is coming, right, yes, yes, yes, And we

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Speaker 1: and start you and I get we call it itchy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: We'll start to and you'll know because one of us

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Speaker 1: I did like a PhD, I'm like, moved to Afghanistan. Like,

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Speaker 1: you'll just suddenly be sure ideas and things that aren't

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And the thing that you taught me was the

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Speaker 2: sign that's the first sign of feeling that you might

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Speaker 2: start actioning the change is if in two months time

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Speaker 2: you still feel the same way.

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Speaker 1: Yes, So we do that. We'll check in with each

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Speaker 1: also circling back to Sharni. You said what her qualifications

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Speaker 2: We have just said a link to that.

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Speaker 1: So in the show notes, which we keep saying, we'll

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Speaker 2: Go fatty chatty daddy, jaddy daddy.

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Speaker 1: Like you fast slow fast, Oh my god, it's so funny. Okay, oh,

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Speaker 1: Shannie again. This is such wholesome content, all of life's

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Speaker 1: big questions, right, well, right, we're just here for the

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Speaker 1: joy as usual.

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Speaker 2: Quite chaotic. But you didn't actually finish what you ordered

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Speaker 2: for breakfast?

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Speaker 1: Oh I didn't. Sorry, guys. This is why we don't

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Speaker 1: go live normally, because we can't stick to an agenda anyway.

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Speaker 1: And it's so on the table of content.

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Speaker 2: So I had baked eggs.

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Speaker 1: Which is a very traditional French dish, and it was,

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Speaker 1: eggs hard potions that have soft in like what they

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Speaker 1: had like this beautiful aoli with like these big broad beans.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it'll be very on brand for you to have

438
00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:28,280
Speaker 2: that happen and have it turn around very quickly.

439
00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:33,199
Speaker 1: Someone asked a little while ago, Helena or Helena, you

440
00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:36,040
Speaker 1: two are so joyful. What is something completely random that

441
00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:39,280
Speaker 1: brings you joy? So we were telling doctor Brandy about

442
00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:45,000
Speaker 1: this this morning, that one of them is spontaneity and

443
00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:46,639
Speaker 1: doing things we've never done before.

444
00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:50,600
Speaker 2: Yes, and we're all very random, and we I feel

445
00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:53,000
Speaker 2: like it's really easy to get to a point in

446
00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:56,280
Speaker 2: life or in age or whatever where you're like we're

447
00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:58,000
Speaker 2: past that now, Like we don't do that anymore. We

448
00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:00,399
Speaker 2: don't have time. But we really prioritize if if I

449
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:02,480
Speaker 2: say this here, you need to book out this day.

450
00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 2: There's no questions asked. Usually it's a round a birthday period.

451
00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:10,159
Speaker 2: But because we don't do it often we're like, Okay,

452
00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:13,520
Speaker 2: I'll block it out and then like Sarah will block

453
00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:15,000
Speaker 2: out the whole day. I'll be liked, there needs to

454
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 2: be a half day or whatever. And how we normally

455
00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:20,720
Speaker 2: the only thing you know is like apparel. Yeah, the

456
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:23,239
Speaker 2: only thing you allowed to know is apparel. And then

457
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:26,520
Speaker 2: the rest is like the trans even like everything's organized,

458
00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:28,080
Speaker 2: like I'll pick you up and the rest will be

459
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:31,120
Speaker 2: whatever comes that day you just have to do. Yeah.

460
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:34,199
Speaker 2: So yeah, we're reminiscing on all the random things that

461
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:36,919
Speaker 2: we've done. But it does bring like because it's like,

462
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:40,359
Speaker 2: so last year we went tough thing, I still haven't

463
00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:43,240
Speaker 2: picked it up. By the way. Then we've done surrummings,

464
00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:46,360
Speaker 2: we've done adult gymnastics. Mum's calling.

465
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:54,160
Speaker 1: Sorry guys, that was Mama Holloway just calling me, and

466
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:56,000
Speaker 1: I forgot to put my phone on. Do not just

467
00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 1: a rookie? Oh I love her.

468
00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:03,920
Speaker 2: I think that brings us joy and also for you also,

469
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:05,920
Speaker 2: I think we've got two questions in two comments.

470
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Facebook, how do I see the Facebook? Oh

471
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:12,400
Speaker 1: my god, I'm so inadequate in this situation.

472
00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:14,960
Speaker 2: The other thing I realized for you brings you joy

473
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,240
Speaker 2: is Nick and said, I do this crazy thing where

474
00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:21,560
Speaker 2: instead of just scrolling TikTok the YouTube, they YouTube search

475
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:25,159
Speaker 2: every night like TikTok compilations of funny videos and they

476
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:27,760
Speaker 2: watch that for like an hour and they just.

477
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:30,639
Speaker 1: Laugh, laugh, just for joy. And like we also do

478
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:35,920
Speaker 1: this thing called curate where Nick will curate or through

479
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:39,920
Speaker 1: the day his favorite memes that he thinks and he'll

480
00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:41,880
Speaker 1: put them in order as well of what he thinks

481
00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:43,640
Speaker 1: would make me laugh at the end of the day,

482
00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:45,840
Speaker 1: and then I'm not allowed to watch them during the day.

483
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:48,720
Speaker 1: I have to watch them like with him, so he

484
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:54,840
Speaker 1: can witness my joy through and it's actually so cute.

485
00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:56,280
Speaker 1: At the end of every day there's like a little

486
00:24:56,320 --> 00:25:00,280
Speaker 1: curated feed for me. But yeah, I think both those

487
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:04,639
Speaker 1: are really nice because they're so pointless to our you know,

488
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:07,920
Speaker 1: careers or development and like you know, everyone's like you

489
00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 1: need to get off your devices and not scroll so much,

490
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:11,960
Speaker 1: and it's like, yeah, but it's all for joy, and

491
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:15,880
Speaker 1: it's all really light hearted and wholesome. And with our

492
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 1: activities together, what I love is that like you don't

493
00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:20,440
Speaker 1: ever have to do that activity again. And it's really

494
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:23,280
Speaker 1: hard for people who are very motivated and driven to

495
00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 1: do an activity and not try and be really good

496
00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 1: at it, Like we're like when we did gymnastics for

497
00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 1: that time, we wanted to like really excel and become

498
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:33,360
Speaker 1: Like it's hard for us to not try and make

499
00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:36,639
Speaker 1: it a career or a business. But because we allow

500
00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 1: ourselves to be just newbies and not necessarily we never

501
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:44,240
Speaker 1: even need to go back. Like if you don't like ceramics,

502
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:46,320
Speaker 1: you never have to go again. But how do you

503
00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 1: know if you like it or not unless you go once? Yeah,

504
00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 1: And it's so like it's very cliche, eat, pray, Love,

505
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 1: but we kind of have committed, Like on the show

506
00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:59,080
Speaker 1: we talk about playta and like be you know, never

507
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,320
Speaker 1: let that child like sense of joy and want to go.

508
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,680
Speaker 1: But we then make ourselves stay accountable to it by

509
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:08,439
Speaker 1: booking in really childlike or not childlike, but like activities

510
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:12,399
Speaker 1: that are just for fun, like yeah, ceramics and like

511
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 1: we've got a ring making class, Like we're never going

512
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:16,639
Speaker 1: to become silversmiths, but like we just think it's really

513
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 1: fun to just try stuff, and.

514
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 2: We don't do it as a means of like we

515
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:23,400
Speaker 2: don't it's all we put in our calendar and say

516
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 2: we need to be spontaneous today or like it just happens.

517
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:30,200
Speaker 2: We're both you know how you have that friend where

518
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:32,399
Speaker 2: you're like can get them to do anything, they'll just

519
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:35,720
Speaker 2: do it. It's kind of like that where we if

520
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 2: we say each other, if we ever request for each

521
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:40,360
Speaker 2: other to block out a whole day, it's not it's

522
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:43,359
Speaker 2: worth it often so it's never like we'd waste each

523
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:46,239
Speaker 2: other's time or in any way. But yeah, we've had

524
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:50,159
Speaker 2: some funny as things. Yeah, I had one plan for

525
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 2: you by we never want to do it, but you

526
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:53,359
Speaker 2: want me to tell you now or not.

527
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 1: No, don't tell me because there's still a chance we

528
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 1: could do it. So, like the only restriction recently was

529
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:02,720
Speaker 1: like this birthday and this Christmas, I was pregnant, so

530
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:06,080
Speaker 1: we couldn't like we physically weren't allowed to do because

531
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 1: we do a mix of like tactile arts and crafts things,

532
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:13,159
Speaker 1: but then physical activities as well, like gymnastics, and I can't.

533
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 2: Do a lot of them. Yeah, the physical.

534
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:18,680
Speaker 1: Suddenly and was like we're very limited this year incredibly because.

535
00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 2: There's nothing else. Well, if anyone has any suggestions, we've

536
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:24,000
Speaker 2: kind of run out of all the things that we

537
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:28,359
Speaker 2: possibly could do from a like we've we've even't gone felting.

538
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, we did dry felting for Christmas.

539
00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 2: Cut what Elena said? What or Helen? I sorry and

540
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 2: said what Dr Brandy said is trapeze peace.

541
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:42,680
Speaker 1: See I would definitely not be like right now.

542
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:45,720
Speaker 2: But after after the Brandy had said that as well,

543
00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:48,280
Speaker 2: when we said that we did we had done gymnastics. Okay,

544
00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 2: that's a good one on the list.

545
00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 1: We should do a seize the a when we go

546
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 1: back to doing neighborhood events, we should do a gymnastic

547
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 1: session profile. So we started once as one of the

548
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 1: surprise birthday events was and organized with like an actual

549
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 1: gymnast who's an athlete, competitive athlete to run us through

550
00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:12,680
Speaker 1: and let us literally use proper gymnt like Olympic gymnastics,

551
00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 1: double like parallel bars, uneven bars like proper equipment, and

552
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 1: teachers how to backflip and stuff. And then we just

553
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:22,359
Speaker 1: loved it so much that Nick engine I kept going

554
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 1: back like this weekly until COVID, which is when we stopped.

555
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:26,800
Speaker 2: We had like a prime we had paid for.

556
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 1: Private lessons and each was so much fun, really fun

557
00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 1: because you don't ever throw your body around that like that.

558
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 2: And it's safe. It's so safe there, but it's also

559
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 2: like these we had to use the the whore thing

560
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 2: and the ring.

561
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:42,920
Speaker 1: I just think we should get that video footage back

562
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 1: out because it's so often because it's so bad.

563
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 2: I'm so it's so bad, and you're so like you're

564
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 2: sporty whatever whatever, and I was like, yeah, but I'm like,

565
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 2: my legs don't move very far away from each other,

566
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 2: Like what do you mean They're not flexible.

567
00:28:57,800 --> 00:29:01,719
Speaker 1: Like like like they don't like you can't separate your

568
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 1: feet in the split.

569
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, like so I couldn't do a lot of like

570
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:07,400
Speaker 2: getting my legs over the uneven bars.

571
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 1: Oh yeah. Yeah. So it was really interesting because Nick

572
00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:15,160
Speaker 1: and and I all have really different strengths physically, and

573
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 1: so like we'd all just nail certain activities and the

574
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 1: other two would just be the one definitely got competitive

575
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 1: you and Nick got real intent.

576
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:28,720
Speaker 2: No, then I just surrendered to the fact that I

577
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:30,320
Speaker 2: was never going to win this game.

578
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 1: But yeah, that was so much fun. So there's some

579
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 1: random things that bring us joy.

580
00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 2: Well, can I listen the things that we have done,

581
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 2: because I do need public support or help in finding

582
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 2: the next activity because I'm really stuck as your birthday

583
00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 2: is coming up.

584
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I also can't do any act.

585
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 2: That's why we need the masses to help brains. So

586
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 2: we've done paint and sip, ceramics. We've won paintings in

587
00:29:54,000 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 2: a lot, ceramics, tufting, felting, gymnastics, Yeah, metal work, you've

588
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:04,200
Speaker 2: booked in ring making.

589
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 1: Other years.

590
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:12,040
Speaker 2: What else we've done. We're doing a lot of manicuring.

591
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 1: That's oh, yes, so many manicures.

592
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 2: We've done that. We've had a couple's massag.

593
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, well we chatted them. We did a couple's massage.

594
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 2: We've done a few of them.

595
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 1: Remember we did them like quite regularly, and then they

596
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 1: were the cheeks were like can you stop chatting? Because

597
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 1: just talking the entire time everything. So we've done heaps

598
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 1: of nail sessions where they don't know that you're Vietnamese,

599
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:36,760
Speaker 1: and they've happened to be at Vietnamese salon's where they

600
00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:39,040
Speaker 1: talk about us, and then at the end you're like, hi,

601
00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 1: I think they're like, we haven't done a cooking class.

602
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:46,120
Speaker 2: We haven't done cooking. I didn't think about that too.

603
00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 2: We went to the tennis, done tennis.

604
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:50,720
Speaker 1: We did tennis. We've been to have we been to

605
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:52,800
Speaker 1: the MSO together.

606
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 2: Oh, yes, and we've done Candle Light.

607
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:56,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, we did Candlelight concerts.

608
00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 2: Concerts we did. We have done MSO.

609
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 1: We went Harry Potter and we did MSO. When the

610
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 1: Melbourn Symphony Orchestra does these incredible, incredible performances where a

611
00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: live orchestra plays the entire score of a movie. And

612
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 1: it's even if you're not like, we're both really nerdy musos.

613
00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 1: At our school we both played in like orchestra and

614
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 1: all the bands and like play multiple instruments and love it,

615
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:26,400
Speaker 1: and so we froth like orchestras. But Nick is not

616
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:29,240
Speaker 1: a big orchestra person, and he's we've started getting him

617
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 1: to go to them like Star Wars Indiana Jones, And

618
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 1: it's magical to just see a live orchestra play the score,

619
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:38,600
Speaker 1: not just the score, but all the sound effects in

620
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 1: a movie.

621
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was really cool.

622
00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:41,200
Speaker 1: You know.

623
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:43,560
Speaker 2: So if anyone has any ideas of where I could

624
00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 2: take store for a birthday.

625
00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:50,840
Speaker 1: They privately see them because I can see your suggestions, yeah.

626
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 2: Or put it in whatever she can know. I'll make

627
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:56,240
Speaker 2: the final call on where we go. Oh, we've even

628
00:31:56,280 --> 00:32:01,520
Speaker 2: gone swimming with the Seals. Oh my, we've done so much.

629
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 1: We went to Sorrento. We went swimming with the Seals.

630
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 1: I had a bowel event. Yeah, that was stressful on

631
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 1: the way and we had to stop and we were late,

632
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 1: and then we nearly didn't make it to the boat

633
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 1: and it was just like but I.

634
00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 2: Said, I'm coming with spoonful of starah. They're like, oh,

635
00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:17,479
Speaker 2: hold the boat whatever.

636
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, swing with the Seals was amazing. We took you

637
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:26,480
Speaker 1: to that weird airbnb, the Forest and the Stars, one

638
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 1: Forest in the heavens. It's really good done.

639
00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 2: Oh we've done unyoked that like little Oh.

640
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, we did a tiny house.

641
00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 2: Tiny house. We've done a lot.

642
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 1: Of vacations island. What instruments did you play? So I played.

643
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:49,719
Speaker 2: Wait wait before wait, before we answer, what instrument does

644
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:51,840
Speaker 2: sah look like she would have played?

645
00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:58,240
Speaker 1: So I only so I learned one like officially two,

646
00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 1: I learned two officially. Actually I learned three officially, and

647
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:06,480
Speaker 1: then I self taught a few others and by self taught.

648
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 1: Your sister taught me them.

649
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 2: Well, the guitar, the drum, the one drum beat.

650
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:15,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, so I officially did piano.

651
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:17,240
Speaker 2: Someone said you look like a violinist.

652
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:19,680
Speaker 1: People say that, but I never did violin I never

653
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:24,920
Speaker 1: did strings. So I did piano. That's very flute.

654
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 2: Of you, very Asian of you.

655
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 1: Flute. No, but this is my white parents.

656
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 2: So pianoedg tuba. That's amazing. So and me's like.

657
00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:43,640
Speaker 1: Edge the triangle. I RECOGNI I'd pick you for a

658
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:44,480
Speaker 1: triangle player.

659
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 2: I would say I would pick you as a violinist,

660
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 2: like one of those like at the front, like but

661
00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 2: first violinists, like at the front the solo.

662
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 1: I never did strings. I did piano. This is one

663
00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 1: will surprise you. Piano classes, flute in hei in primary

664
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 1: school and then in high school drums, trumpet. Do you

665
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 1: remember Gone Troll?

666
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 2: Yes, because that because I was in.

667
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:10,920
Speaker 1: The brass ensemble. Okay, well i've only but I also

668
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:14,160
Speaker 1: learned drums drums, and I did, and I was in

669
00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 1: chamber voices, so I did singing.

670
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:17,520
Speaker 2: Oh, chamber of voices. See, that's why she should be

671
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:23,879
Speaker 2: a violinist. I had only learned one formally, and as

672
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 2: all high chambers do, trumpet. But did you have gone Trol? Yeah?

673
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:34,880
Speaker 1: We both had the same hectic Russian. But he was

674
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 1: the best teacher. It was so funny, and he no,

675
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 1: he just gave up with me that.

676
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:45,239
Speaker 2: He was like saying, well, I could like own the

677
00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:47,880
Speaker 2: only sheet music I could ever ever read was just

678
00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:50,560
Speaker 2: trumpet music. If you ask me to trumpet music, still

679
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:52,759
Speaker 2: can't like just so and then, But if you tried

680
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 2: to give me the same, hidna, If you tried to

681
00:34:55,719 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 2: give me the same, it's music, Dana. Oh sorry, Dana.

682
00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:02,960
Speaker 2: If you gave me the same sheet music that was

683
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:06,360
Speaker 2: like piano, you can compute it. I think I only

684
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 2: mashed it with the positions. That's the only way I

685
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:10,720
Speaker 2: could like read it anyway.

686
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:14,319
Speaker 1: So I hired did you own a trumpet or did

687
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:15,960
Speaker 1: you use one of the schools? I used the schools,

688
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:19,480
Speaker 1: but by the end, just have it, okay, So I

689
00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:22,360
Speaker 1: used the schools as well. You probably use mine. But

690
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 1: he knew because I stored it at the school how

691
00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:28,799
Speaker 1: often that I didn't take it home because he's like,

692
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:30,279
Speaker 1: it was in the cover. It's like if you've done

693
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 1: all your scales and stuff. And I was like yep,

694
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:34,480
Speaker 1: and he's like, well, how because your trumpet was here

695
00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 1: for like two months.

696
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:39,200
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, I was so bad. Trumpet was

697
00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:40,440
Speaker 2: the only thing that could work with me because it's

698
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:41,919
Speaker 2: like you can only feel one note at a time.

699
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, but then like my note would be allocated in

700
00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:47,880
Speaker 1: the like sheet music, and I would pretend that I

701
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:50,120
Speaker 1: was playing it, and then like he couldn't hear it.

702
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 1: So he's like, Sarah, Yeah, that's why I don't know

703
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 1: what I was.

704
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 2: That's why I played No. I played third trumpet for

705
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 2: a week.

706
00:35:57,120 --> 00:35:58,759
Speaker 1: I was like, so it was they were like five

707
00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 1: and I was like six. It was like the voluntary

708
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 1: Everyone was like just crotch it.

709
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:10,400
Speaker 2: So it's like spur. I haven't heard the word crotch it.

710
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 2: Crotch it in so long. Yeah, semi quavers. But you

711
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 2: self taught guitar as well. Yeah, I'm probably more proficient

712
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:23,920
Speaker 2: at guitar than they're really good at guitar trumpet, I am.

713
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 1: My best instrument is probably piano. Like, but I can't

714
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:28,719
Speaker 1: read cheat music. So I can listen to a song

715
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:30,960
Speaker 1: and play it, yeah, but I can't read it and

716
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:31,360
Speaker 1: play it.

717
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:36,319
Speaker 2: Yeah. No, Yeah, piano has my brain. I think Mum

718
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 2: tried to get us in early and as disgraceful Vietnamese

719
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 2: daughter as we did, and we weren't very good. Although

720
00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 2: Katherine is very actually much more innately musical than we are,

721
00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:47,840
Speaker 2: but at the same time we are. I feel like

722
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 2: I feel like we're called a musical family.

723
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 1: So people who still to this day ask how we

724
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:58,320
Speaker 1: know each other just a little recap, even though I

725
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 1: feel like we need a business card or our points.

726
00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:08,920
Speaker 1: So I was really close with and his elder sister.

727
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:10,960
Speaker 1: We were in the same year at high school, so

728
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 1: we were really really close and hiding and as Catherine's

729
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 1: youngest sister, and like literally since you were a baby,

730
00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 1: I've known who you were because of Catherine, and knew

731
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:25,480
Speaker 1: your family and your parents and everything. And anyway, Catherine

732
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:28,799
Speaker 1: and I were in a band a school and.

733
00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:29,640
Speaker 2: We used to fly.

734
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:34,920
Speaker 1: We used to put on concerts like full had amps

735
00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:37,799
Speaker 1: and everything set up with like electric guitars. Like we

736
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:39,719
Speaker 1: would put on a full concert of.

737
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:43,160
Speaker 2: The Undercroft at the Undercroft No in the hall, Oh

738
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:44,719
Speaker 2: my god, how obnoxious.

739
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 1: And we'd get like the full tech guy to like

740
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:49,320
Speaker 1: do the curtains and the lights and we played the

741
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 1: ronicas like we came out and like everyone would come

742
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:54,480
Speaker 1: and there was like a mosh pit. And it was

743
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:56,279
Speaker 1: an all girls school, so it was even weirder that

744
00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:59,120
Speaker 1: we were just like, well, came baby, we.

745
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:02,880
Speaker 2: Can live, but you were the singer. I was the

746
00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 2: drummer and the drummer for a song.

747
00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 1: M and then I got kicked out.

748
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 2: We don't speak about that.

749
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 1: And then I didn't speak to.

750
00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 2: Until she was like, still an elephant in the room.

751
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 1: My sister wants wants to get into business. Can can

752
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:23,120
Speaker 1: we surprise you? And then we surprised Ange and then

753
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:25,800
Speaker 1: and then I was like, oh, I like this sister better. No,

754
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:26,720
Speaker 1: I didn't say that.

755
00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:33,720
Speaker 2: Because I never kicked her out of a band yet. Dana,

756
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 2: Oh yeah.

757
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:38,400
Speaker 1: Also shout out to Dana and Hann who both have

758
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:42,040
Speaker 1: said hello and are both longtime yighborhood members, very active

759
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:45,880
Speaker 1: who we love. Dana has a question, is there anything

760
00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 1: you two can't do aside from playing the trump record

761
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 1: an episode that isn't totally I actually went off topic.

762
00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:57,000
Speaker 2: I was really good at the recorder.

763
00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:00,799
Speaker 1: Has anyone seen Andre's recorder content? And I'm so glad

764
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: you don't have one because you would have done a

765
00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 1: demonstration there are actually so I think one of the

766
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:10,200
Speaker 1: reasons why we're both quite similar is because we'll always

767
00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:12,399
Speaker 1: give something a red hot crack, so it often looks

768
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:15,000
Speaker 1: like we can do a lot of different things we can't.

769
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:19,000
Speaker 1: We just are happy to try them once or twice

770
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:21,800
Speaker 1: and be like very mediocre at them. But it looks

771
00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:25,400
Speaker 1: like we're always doing lots of activities. We just like

772
00:39:26,040 --> 00:39:29,440
Speaker 1: we'll play at tennis rally one day because we're on

773
00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:31,520
Speaker 1: a holiday together on the tennis court, but like none

774
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:33,719
Speaker 1: of us are great at time. Yes, we'll just do

775
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:36,120
Speaker 1: it because it's fun. And then we'll like play mini

776
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:38,920
Speaker 1: golf because there's golf that like, We'll always try things.

777
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 1: I feel we could at those things.

778
00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:44,280
Speaker 2: I feel like I think about this a lot because

779
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:47,400
Speaker 2: I'm like, I do feel like I can do most

780
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:50,279
Speaker 2: things at this at the level that you were talking about,

781
00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 2: like like trades beginner or even like just average. But

782
00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:58,839
Speaker 2: there's nothing that I like, I'm really good at.

783
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:02,200
Speaker 1: I disagree. No, I's plenty you're really good.

784
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 2: No, there's not, because and there's nothing that I'm like

785
00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 2: an elite level at that I would like.

786
00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 1: Is it anything? But would you say that you're actually

787
00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 1: bad at pilates?

788
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 2: On rule about it? It's hard to think on the spot. Yeah,

789
00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:26,239
Speaker 2: there's a say for me when I first started, but

790
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:27,960
Speaker 2: then I had to really all The other thing is

791
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:30,760
Speaker 2: I feel like, I'm quite I love learning makeup.

792
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:31,680
Speaker 1: You're bad at makeup?

793
00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm very bad at makeup, not.

794
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:35,839
Speaker 1: Very bad, You're getting better.

795
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:38,360
Speaker 2: No, I still didn't know where to put the eyeliner

796
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:41,480
Speaker 2: and then yeah, it was like, why are you putting

797
00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:43,279
Speaker 2: your eyeliner? Then I was like, don't you put a

798
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:45,600
Speaker 2: top end bottom? No, you do.

799
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:48,319
Speaker 1: You just were using a pencil that wasn't for your

800
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:53,319
Speaker 1: eyes gothic. I was like, oh, you're getting better at that,

801
00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 1: but yeah, that's not one of But with you.

802
00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:57,440
Speaker 2: Though, I'm like, yeah, you can also do many things.

803
00:40:57,520 --> 00:41:01,040
Speaker 2: But your greatest strength that you are like above average

804
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:06,600
Speaker 2: at is one learning languages and two. I know it's

805
00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 2: hard to measure, but like the skill like you're presenting

806
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 2: skills is so oh no, but you're so like you

807
00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 2: never trained to do that, and you do it at

808
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:21,920
Speaker 2: a level that a lot of people trained to do it.

809
00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:25,320
Speaker 1: That's really lovely. But my first career was as a lawyer,

810
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:30,279
Speaker 1: so like, incidentally, like I didn't do training, but you

811
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:35,759
Speaker 1: kind of train in the art of presenting when you're

812
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:38,480
Speaker 1: going to be in court. So I kind of started

813
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:41,440
Speaker 1: in an industry where that's part of it. But one

814
00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:45,880
Speaker 1: thing I'm really really bad at a few things, but

815
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:50,360
Speaker 1: they all the same theme is estimation of how long

816
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:53,000
Speaker 1: I'm going to take to get somewhere, how many people

817
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 1: are in a room, how long ago something happened, and

818
00:41:57,040 --> 00:42:00,560
Speaker 1: whether on the angel was there or born at the time.

819
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:02,920
Speaker 2: I love the things that were batter are just like

820
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:09,120
Speaker 2: tiny little characteristics every day activity.

821
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 1: I use that every day I have to say, oh, yeah,

822
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:14,239
Speaker 1: the mum will be like, oh that's lovely. How many

823
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:16,280
Speaker 1: people on the baby shaw I'm like nine hundred.

824
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 2: My partner was I'm a bad driver, but I'm like

825
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:21,319
Speaker 2: just slightly a bit more resticky. I think you're a

826
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:23,240
Speaker 2: little reckless and little risk taking.

827
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 1: Also, when I met you, you had a car, but

828
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:27,000
Speaker 1: you drove once a year, so it was more just

829
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 1: like we were like nervous and I d drove that much.

830
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:32,760
Speaker 2: Because I drive like I'm cycling, which is a very different.

831
00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:35,040
Speaker 1: And you touch drive because your car you don't care

832
00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:38,240
Speaker 1: about it. You're like, oh, just just oh whoops, are touched.

833
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:45,040
Speaker 1: We got on the freeway, I don't remember, I mean

834
00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 1: were like you just kept going and you just tapped

835
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:49,359
Speaker 1: the gun in front of you and you're like, oh,

836
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:53,880
Speaker 1: what we're going? I think we're going to five acres actually,

837
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:56,360
Speaker 1: and yeah, and you just kept driving like really slowly,

838
00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:58,360
Speaker 1: but you just didn't stop, and then you just touched

839
00:42:58,360 --> 00:42:59,800
Speaker 1: the car in front of you and you're like, oh whatever.

840
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:05,279
Speaker 2: I think he knew the French in me. So on

841
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:07,319
Speaker 2: the back of this said is it anything that you

842
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 2: thought you'd be a champ at but was a major flop? Yes,

843
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:14,400
Speaker 2: gymnastics really I actually thought. I was like I have

844
00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:17,279
Speaker 2: the strength and mobility and I got there. It was

845
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:21,399
Speaker 2: very We do have to share the gymnastics video video again. Yeah,

846
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:23,799
Speaker 2: there's this amazing video of us trying to learn the

847
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 2: pommel horse thing, and to learn it you have to

848
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:28,840
Speaker 2: put your foot in a bucket that's attached to a

849
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 2: string and then you kind of try to swing the

850
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 2: bucket around while you're holding onto the horse. Yeah. And

851
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 2: I think when I went second or something and Phil

852
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:38,480
Speaker 2: was like showing us and I was like, oh, that

853
00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:41,840
Speaker 2: makes sense, Like that's the progression into the spot I

854
00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:44,919
Speaker 2: went in. I couldn't even like I actually couldn't move,

855
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:46,920
Speaker 2: and so there's this bit of him pulling me around

856
00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:49,640
Speaker 2: because I couldn't and Sarah goes on and like, does

857
00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:52,320
Speaker 2: it like three rounds by herself. And I was surprised

858
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 2: me though, But that's what I mean. I thought I

859
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:56,960
Speaker 2: was gonna be a lot better, but I was actually

860
00:43:57,000 --> 00:44:00,839
Speaker 2: just yeah, like literally a flop. Yeah.

861
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 1: Oh. One thing I really am not good at is

862
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:04,840
Speaker 1: bike riding. We've already covered this in a few episodes,

863
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:07,480
Speaker 1: but I'm really not and for someone who's like quite coordinated,

864
00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:11,240
Speaker 1: not good at it. But the reverse something I shouldn't

865
00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:14,920
Speaker 1: be good at but I am accidentally good at with

866
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 1: no practice is golf.

867
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:18,440
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, old thing.

868
00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:23,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not like amazing at like height, but it'll

869
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:25,279
Speaker 1: just go in the direction I want it to go,

870
00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:27,759
Speaker 1: even if it's like on the floor. Nick is just

871
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:30,560
Speaker 1: like how the fuck? Like he practices all the time,

872
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:33,960
Speaker 1: and then I'll just randomly play sometimes and I'm just like, oh,

873
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:35,680
Speaker 1: it went where I wanted, And He's like, how did

874
00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:36,239
Speaker 1: you do that?

875
00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:39,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a genetic good at golf.

876
00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:39,600
Speaker 1: I don't know.

877
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:42,960
Speaker 2: The other thing I've realized is diving into a pool.

878
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:45,479
Speaker 1: You're not good at, no, not great.

879
00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:50,319
Speaker 2: It's quite a literal flop. No I need so I

880
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,800
Speaker 2: think I leak so I'll show you content.

881
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:56,959
Speaker 1: So I thought I looked like this, Yeah, like Mermaid.

882
00:44:56,680 --> 00:45:00,360
Speaker 2: And at footy like camp thing this jump in and

883
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:02,359
Speaker 2: putlans from as fast for good, and I thought I

884
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 2: was like really being the most efficient dimer. And the

885
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 2: videos like this sh like I just gravity just takes

886
00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 2: me down as a flat surface.

887
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:15,320
Speaker 1: Oh that's really cute. Someone said, Lena said, wait until

888
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:17,799
Speaker 1: bear is born, your new timeline will be based on

889
00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 1: how old they are. I've been doing that for the

890
00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:22,640
Speaker 1: past ten weeks. Yeah, except that I will be like,

891
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:26,120
Speaker 1: remember when the baby was like five, and it'll be

892
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:27,919
Speaker 1: a memory from like twenty five years ago. Like, I'll

893
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 1: be so bad it's just impossible. Oh that's a belly flop.

894
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:35,960
Speaker 2: Yeah. And I thought I was really elegant.

895
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 1: No, not elegant. And also, what's the bim your swimming

896
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:42,880
Speaker 1: cap and all your hair is out the side?

897
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:45,880
Speaker 2: Well that's the thing. Another. Wow, none of you are

898
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:49,800
Speaker 2: none of you are graceful at all. That's so that's

899
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:50,719
Speaker 2: my answer to that.

900
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:53,440
Speaker 1: I'm going to take one more question because my pelvis

901
00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:55,759
Speaker 1: is starting to get to its part where it doesn't

902
00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:58,560
Speaker 1: want to sit anymore. This is also from Lena. What's

903
00:45:58,560 --> 00:45:59,799
Speaker 1: on the top of your bucket list?

904
00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 2: Great question.

905
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:05,239
Speaker 1: You know what's really interesting about both of us that

906
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:08,400
Speaker 1: we don't really have a long bucket list because we

907
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 1: get very impatient to do the things on it, so

908
00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 1: we kind of do them like we're very I think

909
00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 1: one thing that we continue to bring out in each other,

910
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:24,720
Speaker 1: which is healthy and Nick is the same is don't

911
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:27,719
Speaker 1: wait until you know a lot of people like I'll

912
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 1: be happy when, or I'll do this thing I've always

913
00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:33,440
Speaker 1: wanted to do when like once I've been successful, or

914
00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:35,520
Speaker 1: once I've ticked off all these other things. We're kind

915
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:39,839
Speaker 1: of more like, just do it, like go to Antarctica.

916
00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:42,040
Speaker 2: Which is very lucky for us to be able to

917
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:44,520
Speaker 2: say and do. I realized because I was like, yeah,

918
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:47,440
Speaker 2: the freedom of trouble for us is a real it's

919
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:48,440
Speaker 2: hard for others.

920
00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 1: But I think having said that, we also reallocate a

921
00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:55,520
Speaker 1: lot of resources around, like we prioritize those things over

922
00:46:55,640 --> 00:46:56,440
Speaker 1: other things, like.

923
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:58,880
Speaker 2: I don't drink, Like growing all of my twenties was

924
00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:02,640
Speaker 2: really revolved around travel. I never I never really had

925
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:06,880
Speaker 2: the club scene, I never like drank, and like I

926
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:10,840
Speaker 2: was really all about travel, which I have loved. But

927
00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:13,279
Speaker 2: I'd say the first thing that comes to mind, and

928
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:16,719
Speaker 2: the only thing right now is I've always wanted to

929
00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 2: go on like an awesome like semi off grid road

930
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:26,440
Speaker 2: trip around like Iceland, like north and like Scandinavia side. Yeah,

931
00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:28,319
Speaker 2: not like I didn't I wouldn't even have to see

932
00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:32,080
Speaker 2: the Northern lights per se, but someding that region, because

933
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:33,680
Speaker 2: the last time I did something like that was when

934
00:47:33,800 --> 00:47:36,280
Speaker 2: I went to Jordan and we were just the middle

935
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:40,359
Speaker 2: of the desert and it was this vastness that you're

936
00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:43,719
Speaker 2: so small in this big world type feeling that I

937
00:47:43,760 --> 00:47:46,640
Speaker 2: was like, and we slept under the stars, not even

938
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:49,480
Speaker 2: intense with six randoms I met the day before when

939
00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 2: we saw seven shooting stars like that kind of that kind.

940
00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:55,319
Speaker 1: Of feeling you feel like significant when nature makes you

941
00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:57,040
Speaker 1: feel insignificant is one of my favorite fields.

942
00:47:57,040 --> 00:47:58,319
Speaker 2: But I do feel like I need to be out

943
00:47:58,320 --> 00:48:02,160
Speaker 2: of Australia to truly feel like away.

944
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, like and except you haven't done like deep northern

945
00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:10,560
Speaker 1: territory no no no, So it does also feel that

946
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 1: yeah yeaeah.

947
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:16,320
Speaker 2: Anyway, that's the only thing that's really like really bucket

948
00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:20,839
Speaker 2: list feeling. The rest of your like major goals.

949
00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:25,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't even I think I'm also very lucky

950
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:26,759
Speaker 1: that a lot of the things that have been on

951
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 1: my bucket list, say through my twenties, I was so

952
00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:31,520
Speaker 1: fortunate to be able to work them into things we

953
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:33,920
Speaker 1: did in our thirties. Yeah, so I mean one was

954
00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 1: Antarctica and I actually got to go, which was just

955
00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:40,759
Speaker 1: absolutely mind blowing, and like to take Nick back to

956
00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 1: Korea and to like and also like my rather than big,

957
00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 1: huge goals, my like things I care most about are

958
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 1: actually day to day goals, like spend lots of time

959
00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:55,319
Speaker 1: during the week with my mom, Like they're like my

960
00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:57,720
Speaker 1: favorite things. They make me so happy. So I don't

961
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:03,239
Speaker 1: like my attachment isn't as far into the future. I

962
00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:04,960
Speaker 1: mean there are things I still would love to do

963
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:06,920
Speaker 1: in my lifetime, Like I would love to see the

964
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:12,359
Speaker 1: Northern Lights. I'd love to do Nick did a road

965
00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:14,360
Speaker 1: trip with his family, like they pulled him out of

966
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:17,080
Speaker 1: primary school. Oh and didn't road trip in a caravan

967
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:20,319
Speaker 1: around Australia, and he's still got such strong memories of that.

968
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:22,720
Speaker 1: So that's something I would love to do with our kids,

969
00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 1: is take them around all the places that most Australians

970
00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:29,600
Speaker 1: don't sort of bother doing that kind of domestic travel,

971
00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:32,440
Speaker 1: but you know, like going up the East Coast and

972
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 1: the Dane Tree and like, you know, I feel like

973
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:38,359
Speaker 1: something like that is probably it's something I like to do.

974
00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:40,640
Speaker 1: A Luru was on there and I got to do

975
00:49:40,680 --> 00:49:43,239
Speaker 1: that recently, Like Egypt was one and I got to

976
00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:49,120
Speaker 1: do that. So there's nothing that's really calling me right now.

977
00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:53,439
Speaker 1: My bucket list things are more like have a sign

978
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:55,240
Speaker 1: and it's been done with him, which.

979
00:49:55,040 --> 00:50:01,040
Speaker 2: Is really lovely. And these are just shamans try out

980
00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:04,280
Speaker 2: w a see the wilderness or northern territory both actually

981
00:50:04,280 --> 00:50:09,480
Speaker 2: really want to do. And someone had also said Iceland

982
00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:13,160
Speaker 2: is really I've heard really awesome things about how like

983
00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:17,600
Speaker 2: mountainous Iceland is so like for that reason, I've always

984
00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 2: wanted to go. But yes, we you your crampy plus

985
00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:26,840
Speaker 2: plus and we've had some such nice questions. This was

986
00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:30,120
Speaker 2: really fun to our Facebook people that we neglected because

987
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:35,120
Speaker 2: we just couldn't figure out how to answer zero viewers twos.

988
00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:38,040
Speaker 1: Oh, so was it you and I going? How do

989
00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:40,040
Speaker 1: we do we do this?

990
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:43,799
Speaker 2: Anyway, if anyone does have questions in the future, though,

991
00:50:43,840 --> 00:50:48,240
Speaker 2: we always love answering them. Yeah, so send them through

992
00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:49,040
Speaker 2: as you do.

993
00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:51,719
Speaker 1: We obviously don't hold back on our answers. I feel

994
00:50:51,760 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 1: like people are very polite. We would answer much worse,

995
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 1: more invasive questions, and people are so polite.

996
00:50:57,200 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 2: They are way too polite. Every time we say it's

997
00:50:59,920 --> 00:51:02,520
Speaker 2: an open book and try to emphasize the open book,

998
00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:05,440
Speaker 2: everyone's like, so, why did you switch jobs?

999
00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:07,840
Speaker 1: I know, I'm like, guys, I'm about to literally squeeze

1000
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:09,880
Speaker 1: hum in my vagina and I would have answered anything

1001
00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:12,520
Speaker 1: about that, but like, people are so polite. It's so nice.

1002
00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:16,879
Speaker 2: Thanks to the founder edit for joining and everyone else

1003
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:17,319
Speaker 2: as well.

1004
00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:19,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, Girdh and Sarah.

1005
00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:24,319
Speaker 2: My mum loved your book. That's oh, I.

1006
00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:25,120
Speaker 1: Haven't read it yet.

1007
00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:28,399
Speaker 2: I know you've still only read how much seventy I've

1008
00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:30,800
Speaker 2: read that one page? Read on your bucket list? To finish,

1009
00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:33,319
Speaker 2: to finish on your bucket listen not on.

1010
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:36,520
Speaker 1: I Oh, you know what's on my bucke list? To

1011
00:51:36,600 --> 00:51:40,600
Speaker 1: write a children's book? That talking about that for a

1012
00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:43,200
Speaker 1: long time. Yeah about Paul. I think our little girl.

1013
00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:44,200
Speaker 2: That will be super cute.

1014
00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:47,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, anyway, we'll cut ourselves off right now. And I

1015
00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:49,839
Speaker 1: feel like maybe we should do this again because it's

1016
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:51,160
Speaker 1: really fun every fortnight.

1017
00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:57,360
Speaker 2: Perhaps, yeah, actually we should. We can't commit to anything

1018
00:51:58,040 --> 00:52:00,480
Speaker 2: regular regularly. Do you know what I I remember the

1019
00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:00,879
Speaker 2: other day.

1020
00:52:01,160 --> 00:52:03,040
Speaker 1: Remember I was going to do a historical Yays of

1021
00:52:03,040 --> 00:52:05,319
Speaker 1: All Lives, Yeah, I remember, and I still want to

1022
00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:07,440
Speaker 1: do it because I'm like the guests who I would

1023
00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:08,720
Speaker 1: love to you know how.

1024
00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:10,400
Speaker 2: Cecilia's like, bye, stop talking.

1025
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:13,399
Speaker 1: It's like we've said we are John Farnham. We say

1026
00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 1: goodbye and do our farewell tour like eighty five times,

1027
00:52:16,840 --> 00:52:19,560
Speaker 1: so we we're going to do this segment. And I

1028
00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:22,319
Speaker 1: still actually really want to do it because sometimes the

1029
00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:25,359
Speaker 1: timing with actual guests doesn't line up, and I wanted

1030
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:27,279
Speaker 1: to alternate like Yays of Our Lives guests yeas of

1031
00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:30,800
Speaker 1: Ollive's guest and for those times where you couldn't get someone.

1032
00:52:31,239 --> 00:52:34,960
Speaker 1: People always ask that dinner party question, who alive or

1033
00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 1: dead would you invite to a dinner party if you

1034
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:39,200
Speaker 1: could have dinner with anyone? And I was like, I

1035
00:52:39,640 --> 00:52:42,839
Speaker 1: want to do like who could would you interview in

1036
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 1: the past if you could do a historical episode with anyone?

1037
00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:48,680
Speaker 1: Because there are so many people's stories who aren't around,

1038
00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:51,920
Speaker 1: but who are so inspiring and so interesting that we

1039
00:52:52,400 --> 00:52:56,080
Speaker 1: I wanted to do like a historical like let's look

1040
00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:58,640
Speaker 1: at Mari Curriy and what she did for her yay,

1041
00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:00,240
Speaker 1: and like Jonavan.

1042
00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:08,840
Speaker 2: The pronunciation is Marie Claire Champann Fatty Jenny.

1043
00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:11,520
Speaker 1: Anyway, I still think I want to do that at

1044
00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 1: some point, but that was like two years ago when

1045
00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:14,759
Speaker 1: I first had the idea, and I sil haven't done it,

1046
00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:16,800
Speaker 1: so sorry, guys, well.

1047
00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 2: We can still do it. We can still do.

1048
00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:23,360
Speaker 1: It, and like even like Princess Die, like people's stories,

1049
00:53:23,440 --> 00:53:26,920
Speaker 1: who you know. When we have really well known guests on,

1050
00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:29,040
Speaker 1: my favorite thing is speaking about all the things they

1051
00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:31,040
Speaker 1: don't normally get interviewed about. It would be the same

1052
00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:33,319
Speaker 1: for historical guests, stuff you don't read as much about,

1053
00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:34,680
Speaker 1: although obviously they can't answer.

1054
00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:37,200
Speaker 2: Well now that you've said it to the public, I

1055
00:53:37,239 --> 00:53:38,960
Speaker 2: think it's a it's a go to.

1056
00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:41,279
Speaker 1: The grand public of like the five people who have

1057
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:43,320
Speaker 1: stayed because we said goodbye like eight hours and the

1058
00:53:44,040 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 1: zero viewers still said bye. Guys, have an amazing day.

1059
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:51,439
Speaker 2: Bye,