WEBVTT - Mummy, Why Can't That Lady Walk? 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:03.080 We acknowledged the traditional custodians of the land we're recording 0:00:03.120 --> 0:00:07.120 on today, Like. 0:00:07.080 --> 0:00:11.480 I really hoped in the future people don't see disability 0:00:11.880 --> 0:00:15.200 as a tragedy or as a negative thing, because from 0:00:15.280 --> 0:00:19.400 my perspective, I had no control over it. So it's 0:00:19.520 --> 0:00:23.720 really hard when people think it's a tragedy. And this 0:00:23.880 --> 0:00:25.200 is just the way I was bored. 0:00:26.680 --> 0:00:31.520 Welcome back to Eat, Sleep, Shit, Repeat the Wildly Unhinged 0:00:31.560 --> 0:00:35.159 Podcast for your Face. I'm Kelly Lee mccaren. You just 0:00:35.200 --> 0:00:36.440 got your podcast mixed up. 0:00:36.479 --> 0:00:39.000 You just said the Wildly Unhinged Podcast for your face. 0:00:40.000 --> 0:00:42.159 I believe that might be a certain beauty podcast that 0:00:42.200 --> 0:00:46.560 you were on. This is the Unhinged podcast all about 0:00:46.560 --> 0:00:49.040 the madness that his mother and atween er. 0:00:49.400 --> 0:00:52.360 Wow. Wow, can you tell I've been on holidays? Yes, 0:00:52.440 --> 0:00:55.440 I Darlet's what's your name? 0:00:55.600 --> 0:00:58.760 My name is Kirie Searles. And I was just gonna 0:00:58.760 --> 0:01:00.440 say unhinged a bit of an understan now, but I 0:01:00.440 --> 0:01:01.640 don't even think I need to say it because I 0:01:01.640 --> 0:01:02.120 think we just. 0:01:02.080 --> 0:01:04.760 Prove proved it. Whereas I'm like, I've got no idea 0:01:04.800 --> 0:01:07.640 what podcast recorday is it? In case you missed it. 0:01:07.720 --> 0:01:11.360 Last week, we spoke about toxic diet culture and the 0:01:11.400 --> 0:01:15.479 fact that we grew up possibly daly fucked time we did, 0:01:15.560 --> 0:01:16.639 and now we're trying to parent. 0:01:17.200 --> 0:01:18.360 Oh so we. 0:01:18.360 --> 0:01:21.800 Talked about that. I really loved that episode. Did same 0:01:22.120 --> 0:01:24.400 quick shout out just to rate and review us so 0:01:24.440 --> 0:01:26.080 we can grow the pod even more. 0:01:26.280 --> 0:01:28.120 I feel like I requested that last week and I 0:01:28.200 --> 0:01:29.720 got like one, So I. 0:01:29.640 --> 0:01:31.839 Know that's not lovely, Like we love that person. 0:01:32.160 --> 0:01:35.520 Listen, don't say that I'm ungrateful. I love that person, but. 0:01:36.640 --> 0:01:38.360 We'd like maybe five to ten more of those. That 0:01:38.400 --> 0:01:38.959 would be great. 0:01:38.959 --> 0:01:40.840 Thank you, because we know that. 0:01:40.800 --> 0:01:43.400 You love it because you churning in each week exactly. 0:01:44.000 --> 0:01:47.160 Later on in the episode, we have such an important 0:01:47.520 --> 0:01:51.920 conversation coming up that we have wanted to have probably 0:01:51.960 --> 0:01:54.040 for a year. We actually spoke to our guest about 0:01:54.080 --> 0:01:57.840 it about a year ago. She is incredible. But first, 0:01:58.160 --> 0:02:00.320 I'm up for Peak and Pit. Yeah you are, duh, 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:05.440 and it's Bali edition. Woo my pitch. Shall I kick 0:02:05.480 --> 0:02:08.080 it off to pitch? My year of health isn't going well. 0:02:08.320 --> 0:02:09.200 It is November. 0:02:10.320 --> 0:02:12.000 Yeah, shit, we've got two months left of the year. 0:02:12.400 --> 0:02:17.480 Oh no, So I picked up something in the hospital. Surprise, surprise, 0:02:18.080 --> 0:02:20.520 six weeks ago or two months ago, whenever that was. 0:02:20.960 --> 0:02:24.080 That's right, because before you left six hours yeah, yeah, 0:02:24.120 --> 0:02:24.799 five or six. 0:02:24.680 --> 0:02:28.000 Weeks ago, and it turned into a really bad chest 0:02:28.000 --> 0:02:32.120 infection that I, to be honest, still haven't completely shaken. 0:02:32.240 --> 0:02:34.000 Like I'm still coughing a fair bit, even though I've 0:02:34.000 --> 0:02:37.760 done full course of antibody. Yeah, I've had that many 0:02:37.919 --> 0:02:42.440 cough syrups and blah blah blah. Question. Last night, my 0:02:42.480 --> 0:02:45.000 back hurts so much from all of the coffee. Yeah, 0:02:45.000 --> 0:02:47.120 that I had to pull out the big guns with 0:02:47.160 --> 0:02:47.920 the pain meds. 0:02:48.080 --> 0:02:48.919 It packs a punch. 0:02:48.960 --> 0:02:51.359 It packs a punch. Do they go off because they 0:02:51.360 --> 0:02:53.800 say that they expired? But it's like, how could a 0:02:53.840 --> 0:02:56.519 hard capsule really expire? 0:02:56.680 --> 0:02:59.800 Does it just expirey or like best before used by? 0:03:00.200 --> 0:03:03.079 I think it says expiry Maybe just means it won't 0:03:03.120 --> 0:03:03.799 be as effective. 0:03:03.840 --> 0:03:07.720 Yeah, I think that'd probably it was it affected No, Yeah. 0:03:07.440 --> 0:03:09.960 Anyway, So I've just been in a lot of pain. 0:03:10.120 --> 0:03:12.679 It's awful being the coughing person because you do not 0:03:12.760 --> 0:03:13.919 want to be the coughing person. 0:03:14.320 --> 0:03:14.519 Yeah. 0:03:14.680 --> 0:03:17.080 So for weeks before I was leaving, I had to 0:03:17.120 --> 0:03:20.400 go into Muma Mia to record, Like I don't want 0:03:20.440 --> 0:03:22.560 to sit in a studio coughing all over someone because 0:03:22.639 --> 0:03:25.000 I feel so anxious if someone does that to me. 0:03:25.320 --> 0:03:28.160 But I could not scream it from the rooftops loud enough. 0:03:28.760 --> 0:03:31.200 I was not contagious. It's just that I could not 0:03:31.240 --> 0:03:34.000 get rid of this cough and then being on the 0:03:34.000 --> 0:03:37.080 plane having the cough. Oh my god. Out at restaurants 0:03:37.080 --> 0:03:39.720 in Balley, like people just oh the looks fair enough. 0:03:39.760 --> 0:03:41.640 I would look at someone like that totally. 0:03:41.760 --> 0:03:43.360 It's just like you need to wear like a little 0:03:43.440 --> 0:03:45.680 name time. I've got a chest infection. 0:03:45.880 --> 0:03:49.920 I'm not contagious everyone. So I was just feeling a 0:03:50.000 --> 0:03:53.440 little bit under the weather because of that. Just very 0:03:53.560 --> 0:03:56.440 sore and sick of coughing. I took my puffer though 0:03:56.480 --> 0:03:59.360 that actually did help. I was so tired. I slept 0:03:59.400 --> 0:04:02.520 for ten hours minimum every night, plus an app with 0:04:02.640 --> 0:04:04.920 Lenny most days. What is that? 0:04:05.040 --> 0:04:07.400 Just the heat though, because I do get sometimes on holidays, 0:04:07.400 --> 0:04:08.560 and the humidity. 0:04:08.120 --> 0:04:11.360 It just whacks you. I was absolutely whacked because it 0:04:11.400 --> 0:04:15.240 was wet, season y, so hot. In our mind, we 0:04:15.240 --> 0:04:17.200 were like, oh my gosh, after Len goes to bed 0:04:17.240 --> 0:04:19.960 every night, we'll like go out to the pool, Yeah, 0:04:20.240 --> 0:04:24.240 have some sex, maybe try to get back on the horse. 0:04:24.760 --> 0:04:25.560 I was asleep. 0:04:27.200 --> 0:04:28.080 You were not on the horse. 0:04:28.160 --> 0:04:30.880 I was not on the horse. I also think I 0:04:30.920 --> 0:04:35.400 have badger miss or whatever that's vagines mess, like my vagina. 0:04:35.640 --> 0:04:37.599 We did try to have the sex a few times, 0:04:38.000 --> 0:04:38.640 didn't work. 0:04:39.040 --> 0:04:41.400 It does make sense because that is a result of trauma, 0:04:41.520 --> 0:04:43.200 and I feel like if you've had. 0:04:43.120 --> 0:04:45.279 And then when I went to my energy healer, oh 0:04:45.320 --> 0:04:48.200 oh you went back. I did would She was, well, 0:04:48.279 --> 0:04:51.400 that's a whole other tail. But she was saying, oh, 0:04:51.440 --> 0:04:53.760 you've got a lot of trauma. She was dealing with 0:04:53.760 --> 0:04:55.440 my womb. And then she was trying to get me 0:04:55.440 --> 0:04:58.160 to do these flutters with my thighs and I didn't 0:04:58.160 --> 0:05:02.320 even realize, but like I actually clenched them voluntary. I 0:05:02.320 --> 0:05:04.159 don't even realize that I'm doing it. Like everything down 0:05:04.160 --> 0:05:07.000 there is very tense. So yeah, I don't know. I've 0:05:07.000 --> 0:05:08.520 got to figure that out at some point. And now 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:10.480 I've got bloody thrush, I think because it's very itchy 0:05:10.680 --> 0:05:12.160 even though I didn't have the sex, but I was 0:05:12.200 --> 0:05:14.239 in the wet swimmers and on the antibiotics. 0:05:14.680 --> 0:05:17.960 Fuck, yeah, the thrush gets here, doesn't want itchy? Yeah good, 0:05:18.040 --> 0:05:20.719 it's not good. You just got to get a little pesrie. 0:05:21.360 --> 0:05:22.240 I've got some in the bathroom. 0:05:23.760 --> 0:05:25.760 It's very uncomfortable, but it works with trees. 0:05:26.200 --> 0:05:28.280 This is just a bit of a moan session basically 0:05:28.320 --> 0:05:31.080 at this point. And then at the end, I kid 0:05:31.080 --> 0:05:35.600 you not. So Night four, we ate out at a 0:05:35.680 --> 0:05:40.360 nice restaurant but outside the resort, and Luke got Bali belly. 0:05:41.360 --> 0:05:45.440 And I was like absolutely roasting him for the next 0:05:45.920 --> 0:05:49.280 few days because I just I'm such a bitch. Sometimes. 0:05:49.520 --> 0:05:52.960 I was like, you've just got a really weak stomach, 0:05:53.080 --> 0:05:54.760 don't you because you get sick a lot. 0:05:54.920 --> 0:05:55.840 It's violent. 0:05:56.120 --> 0:06:00.560 It's violent. I'd never been sea overseas. Then, you know, 0:06:00.600 --> 0:06:03.600 I'm just saying all of this stuff. Well, Karma had 0:06:03.680 --> 0:06:07.279 some ideas. No, So the next time we decided to 0:06:07.520 --> 0:06:11.680 eat outside of the resort, who got Barlei belly? Kelly Le, 0:06:12.400 --> 0:06:13.159 Kelly Lee. 0:06:13.560 --> 0:06:15.080 On a scale of one to ten, it. 0:06:15.000 --> 0:06:18.200 Wasn't actually that bad because Luke recognized the signs. And 0:06:18.200 --> 0:06:21.200 then they called shout out Bali Mandeira. If you're looking 0:06:21.200 --> 0:06:25.120 for a family friendly resort in Bali, so good, pretty 0:06:25.120 --> 0:06:29.000 reasonably priced. Yeah, the medical came to the room and 0:06:29.040 --> 0:06:32.240 then they were like, listen, your blood pressures eighty over 0:06:32.279 --> 0:06:35.400 sixty and you're really dehydrated. We're going to IVU and 0:06:35.440 --> 0:06:38.200 then also give you the needles to stop everything. 0:06:38.480 --> 0:06:39.920 Yeah, and I was. 0:06:39.880 --> 0:06:41.719 Like, kind of gashtro stop vibes. 0:06:41.800 --> 0:06:44.839 It's the anti noisy, anti cramping, anti vomiting. 0:06:44.880 --> 0:06:46.559 Oh wow, okay, that's good. 0:06:47.240 --> 0:06:50.720 Yeah, I don't know exactly what it was. I said, oh, 0:06:51.080 --> 0:06:53.400 I'm not sure I would advise trying to go for 0:06:53.440 --> 0:06:57.080 the veins. Yeah, it's the needles. And then in my mind, 0:06:57.120 --> 0:07:01.920 I'm thinking the last time you were in the hospital, 0:07:02.080 --> 0:07:04.039 my goodness, and then I start spiraling about that. But 0:07:04.080 --> 0:07:06.599 then I was doing my breath work that my energy 0:07:06.640 --> 0:07:09.280 healer had taught me. So Luke and LENNI are outside 0:07:09.720 --> 0:07:12.000 in the pool and they can just hear me inside 0:07:12.040 --> 0:07:25.200 going practicing my breath work. Wown into a chicken and 0:07:25.240 --> 0:07:27.480 then they're looking around for a vein. They're like, you've 0:07:27.480 --> 0:07:30.120 got nothing. I said, I'm aware, and I'm also dehydrated 0:07:30.120 --> 0:07:32.120 with the low broad plassure you said, so have fun 0:07:32.560 --> 0:07:34.600 sled up and then they said, oh, we found one 0:07:34.600 --> 0:07:37.560 in your hand. I said, oh, good luck. Really wouldn't 0:07:37.560 --> 0:07:41.040 advise it, but go for gold. And they're putting it 0:07:41.080 --> 0:07:45.080 in there and I'm ho and then I'm like, here's 0:07:45.120 --> 0:07:49.960 it done? Is it done? They said no, it keeps 0:07:49.960 --> 0:07:54.000 collapsing every time we and I just said stop stop. 0:07:54.760 --> 0:07:56.680 I will drink a lot of water, I promise. And 0:07:56.720 --> 0:07:58.480 they said, ah, what about ones in the bum? I said, 0:07:58.600 --> 0:08:01.480 you can put a needle anywhere else, you like, just 0:08:01.560 --> 0:08:02.800 not in a vein. Yeah. 0:08:02.800 --> 0:08:04.680 I was thinking, why can't they just jab you? Like, 0:08:04.840 --> 0:08:06.360 does it have to be in a vein if it's 0:08:06.400 --> 0:08:08.560 an IV or the ivy of course yet, but the 0:08:08.600 --> 0:08:09.920 other anti nause yet. 0:08:09.760 --> 0:08:11.720 Et cetera. They were like, a butt can go in 0:08:11.760 --> 0:08:14.400 the butt and I she didn't really understand my sense 0:08:14.400 --> 0:08:17.320 of humor. I asked her if she had a cheek preference. 0:08:18.280 --> 0:08:24.720 She looked really embarrassed on my behalf and yeah, so listen, 0:08:25.200 --> 0:08:28.080 I just wasn't that well. But peak was. I have 0:08:28.160 --> 0:08:32.320 no regrets. Oh my god, Lenny. It was so nice 0:08:32.320 --> 0:08:34.320 to spend time as a family, even though by the 0:08:34.440 --> 0:08:36.599 end I was like, get me away from both of 0:08:36.679 --> 0:08:39.440 you please. Of course you really realize you don't actually 0:08:39.440 --> 0:08:41.559 get you know, you get an hour break here or 0:08:41.559 --> 0:08:43.480 there to go get a massage. Oh, there's a lot 0:08:43.480 --> 0:08:45.480 of family time yeah, it's a bit too long. 0:08:45.679 --> 0:08:47.080 We're in day like. 0:08:47.440 --> 0:08:49.360 Four days a week, day, four days a week, and 0:08:49.520 --> 0:08:51.480 both of us work full time, so we haven't had 0:08:51.520 --> 0:08:56.240 a date in eight months, let alone ten days non stop. 0:08:58.320 --> 0:09:00.400 That was fun. It was a bit too long for 0:09:00.480 --> 0:09:01.120 Luke and Lenny. 0:09:01.360 --> 0:09:02.360 How long was it altogether? 0:09:02.480 --> 0:09:05.320 Ten days? Yeah, they were, They're about five days, both 0:09:05.360 --> 0:09:09.800 of them. Very similar personalities. I forgot how good I am. 0:09:10.160 --> 0:09:12.360 I've been on holidays, you know how lots of people 0:09:12.400 --> 0:09:15.520 say I just can't switch off so bad, you know, 0:09:15.600 --> 0:09:20.760 taking a break. I am very good at it. Like 0:09:20.800 --> 0:09:24.480 I said, slept ten hours a night, read some books. 0:09:24.760 --> 0:09:27.920 That's what a holiday should be. Though I could not 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:29.880 without some emails come through and was. 0:09:29.880 --> 0:09:32.120 Like, lol, no, you had your out of office on though, 0:09:32.120 --> 0:09:32.440 which I. 0:09:32.440 --> 0:09:35.240 Did, had my out of still checking it. But I 0:09:35.360 --> 0:09:38.480 literally could not have given two ships about anything that 0:09:38.520 --> 0:09:40.680 came through. I think I responded to like one thing, Yeah, 0:09:40.679 --> 0:09:41.600 but that's so good. 0:09:41.640 --> 0:09:42.880 That's what a holiday should be. 0:09:43.000 --> 0:09:46.679 Everything for SSR was like scheduled except for one reel 0:09:46.800 --> 0:09:50.480 which I posted and I was like, oh, so please 0:09:50.480 --> 0:09:53.840 go and give the Instagram posts some love, like the 0:09:53.880 --> 0:09:56.560 engagement sucks guys, and I am fucking funny. 0:09:56.800 --> 0:09:58.200 Yeah, you do a great job. 0:09:58.320 --> 0:10:03.280 I'm so funny. Pregnancy complaints that I posted the one 0:10:04.200 --> 0:10:08.360 you're the only person sometimes it does. Sorry, listen to this. 0:10:08.480 --> 0:10:10.360 The complaint is I developed in a version to the 0:10:10.400 --> 0:10:19.000 smell of my partner. The paired song was then lightning crotch, 0:10:22.000 --> 0:10:26.520 I'm so funny, so much fluid retention, the Berk's imprinted 0:10:26.559 --> 0:10:34.400 on the toots, the indignity song choice. I put so 0:10:34.559 --> 0:10:38.600 much work into song choice, go and put the little bell. 0:10:38.520 --> 0:10:40.240 On so then you never miss one. 0:10:41.400 --> 0:10:46.400 From little things growl. That was for my cute nipples 0:10:46.440 --> 0:10:51.040 turned into Pepperoni slices. Listen, I'm not expecting a lot. 0:10:51.200 --> 0:10:53.480 But when I put so much effort into being fucking 0:10:53.559 --> 0:10:56.559 funny and scheduling content for you, shit. 0:10:56.520 --> 0:11:01.640 Is yeah, while comment, a couple of lolls start the page, 0:11:01.679 --> 0:11:03.480 so then you get a notification when kel. 0:11:03.520 --> 0:11:05.120 When the posts, I mean listen, not all of them. 0:11:05.160 --> 0:11:06.520 Some of the posts are just like, hey, there's a 0:11:06.520 --> 0:11:08.840 new episode. But if you're subscribed you should know that anyway, 0:11:09.040 --> 0:11:12.520 you know. But no regrets, no regrets. I'm great at 0:11:12.520 --> 0:11:16.360 doing holidays. I love Bali so much, even though Bali belly. 0:11:16.440 --> 0:11:18.160 But you know you live and you learn I get 0:11:18.160 --> 0:11:21.839 sick in Sydney. Yeah, it was just a really beautiful trip. 0:11:22.040 --> 0:11:23.920 Yeah, and Lenn loved it for. 0:11:23.920 --> 0:11:25.800 The first five days. For the first five days, no, 0:11:25.880 --> 0:11:27.400 then after that he was just so happy to be 0:11:27.480 --> 0:11:31.200 with us. But he was very much so looking forward 0:11:31.240 --> 0:11:33.040 to going home and like kept asking to see his 0:11:33.120 --> 0:11:35.719 cousins and Percy and stuff. He sent me the most 0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:38.640 beautiful message though, she said that just means he really 0:11:38.640 --> 0:11:42.520 loves his life. He does, which is so cute. It 0:11:42.559 --> 0:11:45.439 is whereas I'm like, I could stay here forever. What 0:11:46.559 --> 0:11:50.040 does that say that you need to go on more holidays? 0:11:50.080 --> 0:11:53.840 That I definitely need to go on more holidays. Also 0:11:54.360 --> 0:12:01.400 shout out BALI is a hub of shitters? What and 0:12:01.559 --> 0:12:08.800 you bies? Oh my goodness, I met more people over there, 0:12:09.160 --> 0:12:11.199 or more people messaged me saying hey, saw you in 0:12:11.320 --> 0:12:14.040 straight or something. Then like I would get in Sydney 0:12:14.040 --> 0:12:16.240 in a month. Oh my god, that's so excited. It 0:12:16.360 --> 0:12:19.040 was so fun. I love that and it just made 0:12:19.080 --> 0:12:22.360 me so happy. Like people say, oh, I'm so sorry 0:12:22.400 --> 0:12:25.000 to say hello, or so sorry to be weird, or 0:12:25.040 --> 0:12:28.280 so sorry I am not a celebrity, as I was 0:12:28.280 --> 0:12:31.600 saying to someone at the airport, like, you know, it's 0:12:31.640 --> 0:12:34.880 ten o'clock at night. I'm so unhinged my hair, like 0:12:34.960 --> 0:12:38.400 I just I'm like hissing at Luke. I'm rolling my 0:12:38.440 --> 0:12:40.960 eyes and so exasperated with Lenny because he kept throwing 0:12:41.000 --> 0:12:43.120 something and I was just a mess of a human. 0:12:43.160 --> 0:12:45.679 And then someone said, hey, I'm a shitter, and she 0:12:45.760 --> 0:12:47.400 was just so lovely. Had a big old laugh with 0:12:47.440 --> 0:12:49.959 her and husband, you actually made my day. And as 0:12:49.960 --> 0:12:52.160 I said to her, because she's like, oh, I didn't 0:12:52.160 --> 0:12:54.679 know if I should say anything. I'm not a celebrity. 0:12:55.520 --> 0:12:59.760 Content creators. We put things out into the world and 0:12:59.840 --> 0:13:02.360 we don't often get much back. 0:13:02.440 --> 0:13:03.640 Yeah, that's such a good point. 0:13:04.120 --> 0:13:06.280 So you know how like with a normal job, your 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:08.960 boss or your colleagues, or you've got a lot of 0:13:08.960 --> 0:13:10.920 people that are like, oh my god, loved that or 0:13:10.960 --> 0:13:15.640 great job, or customers or whatnot. But actually meeting faces 0:13:15.720 --> 0:13:19.720 rather than just oh this episode got this many downloads 0:13:19.800 --> 0:13:23.480 or it means the world to put faces to the 0:13:23.559 --> 0:13:28.960 numbers and meet the community. So please never apologize or 0:13:29.000 --> 0:13:31.800 never feel like you can't say hello, because it literally 0:13:32.520 --> 0:13:34.839 makes my day. And I feel like he would say 0:13:34.840 --> 0:13:36.240 the same thing always. 0:13:35.880 --> 0:13:37.840 And Charlie's always liked. 0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:42.280 Luke embarrasses me so much. Though he'll call out or 0:13:42.360 --> 0:13:50.160 was that a fan? It actually was? He goes one time. 0:13:50.200 --> 0:13:51.880 He actually has done it more than once. He'll be like, 0:13:51.920 --> 0:13:53.840 do you want a photo with it? And I'm like, 0:13:54.000 --> 0:13:56.280 he's my biggest cheerleader. I'm like, no, no, no, Luke, 0:13:56.320 --> 0:14:01.439 I'm not a Kardashian, I'm not even what's an Australian 0:14:01.480 --> 0:14:04.160 celebrity that I'm not Delta Gudrum, Like, no one wants 0:14:04.160 --> 0:14:05.760 a photo with me. They just want to say hello. 0:14:05.960 --> 0:14:06.920 I like the podcast. 0:14:07.080 --> 0:14:08.960 Well, remember when I used to run on the beach 0:14:09.440 --> 0:14:12.320 do Sandy? Sure that was a bullet It was literally 0:14:12.600 --> 0:14:15.120 three years ago almost, and was like can I get 0:14:15.160 --> 0:14:17.880 a photo? And I was like, I fuck, looks so 0:14:18.040 --> 0:14:19.360 banged up and broad right now. 0:14:19.520 --> 0:14:23.280 And I was like absolutely, but absolutely. But my face 0:14:23.360 --> 0:14:25.280 every time I have been asked for a photo is 0:14:25.360 --> 0:14:29.160 so gleeful, like I'm just so toughed. I can't believe 0:14:29.200 --> 0:14:32.440 it someone wants a photo with little old me. So 0:14:32.480 --> 0:14:34.680 it was just so great and I love that so 0:14:34.720 --> 0:14:39.640 many other shitters were loving the Bali lifestyle question. I 0:14:39.640 --> 0:14:40.960 don't know if you're going to be annoyed at me 0:14:41.000 --> 0:14:44.240 for asking you this. What you'll be like, Oh, I'm 0:14:44.240 --> 0:14:46.840 not the token black lady with the cultural question. 0:14:47.120 --> 0:14:49.840 Okay, one of these ones, yeah, go on braids. 0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:52.640 Yeah, they're everywhere. 0:14:52.920 --> 0:14:53.440 Yeah they are. 0:14:54.000 --> 0:14:58.560 And I could not believe how many people in Bali 0:14:58.640 --> 0:15:01.680 had them. Everyone on the street is offering them. They 0:15:01.680 --> 0:15:04.160 even wanted to put them in Lenny's hair. And I'm like, bro, 0:15:04.320 --> 0:15:07.560 has like an inch. That's some sharp skills. If you're 0:15:07.560 --> 0:15:08.960 going to do a braid in an inch of hair. 0:15:09.400 --> 0:15:11.440 It is a bit I get a bit of a 0:15:11.640 --> 0:15:15.280 oh when I see people do it, But I also 0:15:15.400 --> 0:15:18.160 understand that it's become like such a norm, like you 0:15:18.240 --> 0:15:20.000 go to Bali and you get hair braided, So I 0:15:20.120 --> 0:15:21.960 understand why people do it. I don't think there's any 0:15:22.000 --> 0:15:24.280 like ill intent behind it, but it does make me 0:15:24.320 --> 0:15:28.160 feel a certain way because it is cultural appropriation cruit. Yeah, 0:15:28.400 --> 0:15:30.400 you know, like those islands that you go to like 0:15:30.560 --> 0:15:32.560 Fiji and things like that, Like it's just a thing 0:15:32.600 --> 0:15:33.280 that's kind of. 0:15:33.200 --> 0:15:35.400 Like these stupid white people. Yeah, and then. 0:15:35.320 --> 0:15:38.000 Indonesian people are just offering up something because it's like 0:15:38.120 --> 0:15:39.840 that kind of experience as well. 0:15:39.920 --> 0:15:44.680 And so kids, we've laughed before about my mum. It 0:15:44.720 --> 0:15:46.400 wasn't you know, we didn't know that it was cultural 0:15:46.440 --> 0:15:48.680 appropriation back then, but my mum, bless her heart. I 0:15:48.680 --> 0:15:50.800 think I've told this story on the pod before. Like, 0:15:51.720 --> 0:15:54.040 my parents were always very good with money and very 0:15:54.320 --> 0:15:57.560 yeah budgeted, so they were kind of like, we are 0:15:57.640 --> 0:15:59.600 absolutely not paying for you to get your hair braided, 0:15:59.600 --> 0:16:01.440 because I remember it was very expensive. 0:16:01.480 --> 0:16:01.680 Yeah. 0:16:01.800 --> 0:16:04.200 Yeah, So my mum when we would get back from 0:16:04.200 --> 0:16:07.360 Fiji would spend like three hours doing the braids with 0:16:07.400 --> 0:16:09.360 the beads and everything on me and my sister's hair 0:16:09.760 --> 0:16:11.720 so that we could go to school to be obviously 0:16:11.760 --> 0:16:12.680 we've been in Fiji. 0:16:12.960 --> 0:16:17.600 Yeah yeah, but like would rouget braids. It's not something 0:16:17.600 --> 0:16:20.960 that I would probably let rude it. Okay, she's white presenting, 0:16:21.120 --> 0:16:24.360 so I wouldn't be getting braids on her. 0:16:24.840 --> 0:16:26.400 It would make me feel a bit weird. 0:16:26.640 --> 0:16:29.520 Yeah, but no judgment to anyone else. I understand that 0:16:29.560 --> 0:16:31.480 it isn't with ill and ten, it just doesn't. 0:16:31.640 --> 0:16:33.800 It's a bit weird for me because I saw it 0:16:33.920 --> 0:16:36.320 so often over there, and I just even more so 0:16:36.440 --> 0:16:38.240 than other times I've been maybe because I was staying 0:16:38.240 --> 0:16:40.640 in a family friendly area, so it was just like 0:16:40.760 --> 0:16:42.720 every single kid had braids. But then I was kind 0:16:42.720 --> 0:16:46.320 of like, also, I actually understand the pros if you've 0:16:46.320 --> 0:16:48.120 got a daughter with lots of hair on. 0:16:48.280 --> 0:16:51.800 My hair was awful on holiday, Like you don't have 0:16:51.880 --> 0:16:53.480 to do anything to their with the heat. 0:16:53.920 --> 0:16:57.080 Yeah, and it never dries, so braids is actually kind 0:16:57.080 --> 0:16:58.800 of like. But then I guess you could. I saw 0:16:58.880 --> 0:17:01.840 lots also with just who I reckon they a little 0:17:01.920 --> 0:17:05.600 Dutch's fine, right, I mean, I still do just appropriate 0:17:05.640 --> 0:17:09.359 the Dutch. Yeah, are you cranky for me asking you? 0:17:09.400 --> 0:17:09.520 Though? 0:17:09.560 --> 0:17:11.560 Oh I'm never cranky for you asking as. 0:17:11.440 --> 0:17:15.280 Okay, I wanted your perspective on that, and also for 0:17:15.359 --> 0:17:18.160 anyone listening. I guess it's an thing to think about. 0:17:18.440 --> 0:17:21.040 Yeah, definitely, And look, as I said, I don't think 0:17:21.480 --> 0:17:23.720 people are going to be up in arms about it if. 0:17:23.640 --> 0:17:27.240 You do it. I culturally appropriated all of the white 0:17:27.280 --> 0:17:28.960 bogans and. 0:17:28.960 --> 0:17:29.680 Your little shirt. 0:17:29.680 --> 0:17:32.600 What did it say? It says it's black with pink 0:17:32.600 --> 0:17:36.240 neon writing, and it says, don't ask me why I'm drunk. 0:17:36.280 --> 0:17:40.640 When I don't ask you why you're stupid. It's so 0:17:40.720 --> 0:17:43.680 good anyway, great trip. I'm clearly in a bit of 0:17:43.760 --> 0:17:45.959 a rogue mood. I love it though. 0:17:46.000 --> 0:17:48.280 I think you've just got like a bit more energy 0:17:48.320 --> 0:17:50.280 to get through the rest of the year. Like that's 0:17:50.320 --> 0:17:52.040 so nice, you. 0:17:52.000 --> 0:17:54.960 Know, even with my chronic back pain now from the coffee. 0:17:54.680 --> 0:17:55.640 I know, I know. 0:17:55.960 --> 0:17:57.119 Did you take lots of pics? 0:17:57.200 --> 0:17:59.480 You're gonna make him a little book of his first holiday? 0:17:59.560 --> 0:18:01.280 I will, but I didn't because I wasn't on my 0:18:01.320 --> 0:18:02.640 phone much. No content. 0:18:03.080 --> 0:18:04.440 That's good though, oh. 0:18:04.960 --> 0:18:07.479 Like I suck as a content creator sometimes. But I 0:18:07.520 --> 0:18:08.480 was like, no, well. 0:18:08.359 --> 0:18:10.520 That's why I didn't post any pictures of Europe because 0:18:10.600 --> 0:18:13.159 there are none of me. I took them all of Charlie. 0:18:13.359 --> 0:18:16.240 Yeah, there's heaps. Actually there's not even heaps of land 0:18:16.280 --> 0:18:18.960 and Luke. Like, I just didn't have my phone on me. Really, 0:18:19.280 --> 0:18:23.359 that's nice sort and like things because I wanted to show. 0:18:24.080 --> 0:18:27.120 I knew that I would get DMS about the resort. 0:18:27.320 --> 0:18:29.240 And the only reason I knew to book there is 0:18:29.280 --> 0:18:32.200 because I had a friend of a friend say, hey, 0:18:32.240 --> 0:18:34.639 this resort is perfect for families. So two keeps at that. 0:18:34.760 --> 0:18:38.720 But like, yeah, I just switched off, Yeah, which is true. 0:18:39.200 --> 0:18:40.280 You need to anyway. 0:18:40.359 --> 0:18:43.040 Let's get into the episode. 0:18:46.240 --> 0:18:47.800 You're out for the day with your kid in toe 0:18:48.160 --> 0:18:52.800 and suddenly you hear mummy, you answer yes, darling, why 0:18:52.840 --> 0:18:56.639 can't that lady walk? And all you're thinking is you 0:18:56.760 --> 0:18:57.800 can't ask that. 0:18:59.080 --> 0:19:02.840 I'm sure that many of our shitters have been in 0:19:02.960 --> 0:19:07.440 a situation like that, or just a situation in general, 0:19:07.480 --> 0:19:11.320 where someone's your child says something that you just immediately 0:19:11.359 --> 0:19:14.800 just die a little bit inside. Oh my goodness. Lenny 0:19:14.840 --> 0:19:18.400