Speaker 1: Welcome to the Seize the Yay Podcast. Busy and happy
Speaker 1: are not the same thing. We too rarely question what
Speaker 1: makes the heart seeing. We work, then we rest, but
Speaker 1: rarely we play and often don't realize there's more than
Speaker 1: one way. So this is a platform to hear and
Speaker 1: explore the stories of those who found lives.
Speaker 2: They adore the.
Speaker 1: Good, bad and ugly, the best and worst day will
Speaker 1: bear all the facets of Seizing your Yea. I'm Sarah
Speaker 1: Davidson or a spoonful of Sarah, a lawyer turned fu
Speaker 1: entrepreneur who swapped the suits and heels to co found
Speaker 1: Matcha Maiden and matcha Milk Bar.
Speaker 2: Sez the Ya is.
Speaker 1: A series of conversations on finding a life you love
Speaker 1: and exploring the self doubt, challenge, joy and fulfillment along
Speaker 1: the way.
Speaker 2: Bear him welcome.
Speaker 3: Thank you for having me for our quarterly yule, our
Speaker 3: once per three months when we remember, Oh.
Speaker 1: My god, guys, your stands for yeas of our lives.
Speaker 1: I realize we use that in short. Not everyone knows
Speaker 1: what that means. But we just went back and it
Speaker 1: was I thought it was like maybe six weeks ago.
Speaker 1: It was the seventeenth of August.
Speaker 3: If we know your timescale is so bad, it could
Speaker 3: have been like six years ago, and you're like, we
Speaker 3: did it last week.
Speaker 2: I'm so bad. I'm getting worse, even worse, And we.
Speaker 3: Don't even know because we don't know until Sera says,
Speaker 3: what has happened since our last you, and then we
Speaker 3: go when was glossy?
Speaker 1: I'm like, August, I actually have to look it up
Speaker 1: every single time. And I would have said, because we
Speaker 1: have been so that we could avoid this situation. We
Speaker 1: have a rolling calendar event called see the Day?
Speaker 2: Is it all Seaesday?
Speaker 1: Seasday, which is blocked out, which we did at the
Speaker 1: start of the year.
Speaker 2: Every week, not fortnight like week.
Speaker 1: Yeah, every single week. Every Thursday is podcast Day. And
Speaker 1: since we haven't recorded since August, we have obviously moved
Speaker 1: it or canceled it every Thursday since there no but
Speaker 1: I've seen you.
Speaker 2: We just haven't recorded.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And what's amazing is that you are so so
Speaker 3: diligent still though, to change the invite to the next
Speaker 3: week and the next week.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just delete them. Yeah, you just like I
Speaker 2: do it one by one.
Speaker 3: Sometimes I don't even know that we're not doing it
Speaker 3: until I see a calendar proposal of the next date.
Speaker 1: Which is the next event canceled. Yeah, but it's like
Speaker 1: on a Wednesday night. So the amount of times that
Speaker 1: and has been like, so are we seizing tomorrow? And
Speaker 1: it's like Wednesday PM, And I'm like, oh, nah, sorry,
Speaker 1: and I've booked like some complete other thing, and we
Speaker 1: got to tell you that you are coming to my
Speaker 1: house for the entire day.
Speaker 3: I don't I like already planned something else knowing because
Speaker 3: because I see so this other thing.
Speaker 1: I can also forget that you can see my calendar.
Speaker 1: So you'll be like are we seizing? And I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm not sure. And you're like, well, what about that
Speaker 1: thing that's from eight am to seven am?
Speaker 4: I just like.
Speaker 3: Preemptively the week before, we'll get what you have scheduled
Speaker 3: for the next like five thursdays.
Speaker 4: And it's like.
Speaker 3: Speaking, yeah in Sydney five days Fiji flight.
Speaker 2: Rob's not going to.
Speaker 3: Do it, And I kind of ask anyway to be like,
Speaker 3: so do you want to do it before your flight
Speaker 3: on the plant?
Speaker 2: Do you have Wi Fi on the we FaceTime?
Speaker 4: So today's invite, because it's been so long.
Speaker 3: Is CES Day Final Final Version one hundred definitely final.
Speaker 2: Did you appreciate that? I thought it was really funny.
Speaker 4: It was very funny because.
Speaker 2: We name all our files like that.
Speaker 1: It's like version ten final final, definitely final final dot
Speaker 1: PDA whatever final for real final deeps? Stop it you
Speaker 1: write for real a document name?
Speaker 4: Do you know?
Speaker 1: I just do final final and then like absolute final
Speaker 1: because the day.
Speaker 4: Absolutely just done.
Speaker 3: So many finals I don't know which is the final final,
Speaker 3: Like is there two finals? That's the final final final finals,
Speaker 3: So that's why I say final for real.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but then what if it's not for real? Or
Speaker 1: is that definitely for real? No matter how many for
Speaker 1: reals do you put in there?
Speaker 2: So hard?
Speaker 1: So now I just put the date, I think, or
Speaker 1: I'll be like V one, V two, v three, But
Speaker 1: then I can't remember what version, you.
Speaker 4: Know what I mean.
Speaker 1: That's the other thing, so I think i'd be too final,
Speaker 1: my definitive or do you know what my final final
Speaker 1: one is?
Speaker 2: Upload?
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good one because you're obviously only going
Speaker 1: to upload the one that is actually the final one.
Speaker 2: So it's like, yeah, that's audio. When I submit, it's
Speaker 2: like upload.
Speaker 4: I feel like that's a good public pull to make.
Speaker 3: What do you label your final version of something, oh
Speaker 3: like so not useful but interesting.
Speaker 1: Well except upload, I think I've just answered like the
Speaker 1: question right.
Speaker 3: Okay, you're the queen of the world's way.
Speaker 2: It's so like that though, I'm like space, except you're wrong, Like.
Speaker 3: It's obviously not Havis, but it is like Matt's episode,
Speaker 3: it's obviously graph and like the entire universe is like
Speaker 3: it's graph.
Speaker 4: I was so on board.
Speaker 2: I was like, oh wow, and you're like, I'm it's
Speaker 2: such fun of him.
Speaker 4: I felt so bad, but you still are like, no,
Speaker 4: it's still graph.
Speaker 3: I still believe it's graphs confirmations by it's because my.
Speaker 1: Audience, my old My mom says, you know it's Aldi,
Speaker 1: right the super market.
Speaker 3: Well, I don't want to assume these days because I
Speaker 3: get most things wrong.
Speaker 2: So you're pretty good at certain things like.
Speaker 1: Aldi, so Mom says, Oldie, like a L L dash
Speaker 1: d ire Aldi. She also says, mean you mean you're
Speaker 1: to say.
Speaker 2: Sushi?
Speaker 4: Do you want some sushi? She's so cute.
Speaker 2: I love it so much, But now giving it's such
Speaker 2: a hard time. You can't remember what the right one is.
Speaker 4: What did I just say to you sushi?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 5: I said no, not just oh, not right immediately, that's
Speaker 5: really bad.
Speaker 1: I just said, I pronounce something pcan pecan, it's bcan.
Speaker 2: But who says pecan? Is it Americans? You say that
Speaker 2: someone says sushi, so.
Speaker 4: Swish swishi train I think Americans. I love it so much.
Speaker 2: One of the ones that she's just you know, yeah,
Speaker 2: but better than my mom.
Speaker 4: English is a second language.
Speaker 1: Mom, well she has an excuse. My mom's like as
Speaker 1: English as they come.
Speaker 4: It's true. My mom's like, oh, we have screech for dinner.
Speaker 4: Squeech like what screech? Screeche and fish?
Speaker 2: What squech school screens.
Speaker 3: There's a really though HER's it genuinely just a language barrier.
Speaker 4: It's hilarious.
Speaker 1: And she also like finishes sentences without the last like
Speaker 1: five words.
Speaker 4: Yeah, she just sometimes.
Speaker 3: Sometimes we make fun to make fun of it because
Speaker 3: like she does this thing where she like, she tells
Speaker 3: a sentence, but she can't figure out what to say
Speaker 3: at the end of it, and she just like mumbles
Speaker 3: and things we don't realize. She's like, haha, I went
Speaker 3: to shopping, Hannah, Mama, like what she thinks.
Speaker 4: That we just it's like close enough to the ending
Speaker 4: that we get it.
Speaker 2: We all just inferred.
Speaker 4: We have dinner.
Speaker 3: And then my friend she like she just.
Speaker 4: Mumbles, she's so, she's so funny.
Speaker 2: I love her.
Speaker 4: But one last thing on pronunciation.
Speaker 3: I did watch a TikTok this morning and learned something
Speaker 3: that you know, the car Kia sportage. Yeah, I was
Speaker 3: just well, I'm not listening, but I watched a TikTok
Speaker 3: of representative from Kia.
Speaker 4: I think he was a developed guy.
Speaker 2: What, Oh my god, how do you say it sportage? No,
Speaker 2: you don't, it's actually sportage.
Speaker 3: I rewinded it because I was like, wait, what he
Speaker 3: was announcing the new cars, the.
Speaker 2: New Ka sportage is so like it's not right.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's wrong.
Speaker 2: It's really like it's right, it's not right, it's right.
Speaker 1: That's really I feel like sportage sounds really elevated and
Speaker 1: sportage is just like really boken, and I haven't.
Speaker 4: Really strong feeling that the ads say sportage. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But then sometimes I'm like, where did we get that?
Speaker 1: And often it's just like society has absorbed by osmosis
Speaker 1: this way of pronouncing something like this, Oh I wish
Speaker 1: I wrote it down there. Something we all say that's
Speaker 1: completely wrong.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, So if you if you grew up.
Speaker 1: In like the two thousands, set to feel, so set
Speaker 1: to feel. The cleanser is like the thing we all
Speaker 1: used when we had our puberty acne. Everyone used it
Speaker 1: because it was gentle and like, I don't know, it's
Speaker 1: just like a it went viral before things went viral,
Speaker 1: and it was set to feel like our whole lives.
Speaker 1: And then the brand has come out and said it's
Speaker 1: CTA fill and I'm like, I just you know, when
Speaker 1: something's like in the fabric of your brain and you
Speaker 1: just can't undo it.
Speaker 4: It's like that.
Speaker 2: I'll never call it a sportage.
Speaker 4: Yeah. And also diamond tap.
Speaker 3: Oh, yes, that's also a public do you say, I say.
Speaker 2: Oh what I say?
Speaker 4: Dim tap?
Speaker 2: Yeah, but your mom says dime tap. No.
Speaker 4: She said you can't use the e twice.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: No.
Speaker 1: She argues as an English teacher that it's dime tap,
Speaker 1: but she thinks that like when we were kids, she
Speaker 1: called it dimo tap. Well, yeah, her recent English language
Speaker 1: justification is dime tap.
Speaker 4: She said it's either dimo tap or dime tap. It
Speaker 4: can't be diamond tap.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's in the dime and then there's no er.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, anyway, we've spent nine minutes.
Speaker 4: Have a limited time because Teddy could come back at
Speaker 4: any minute.
Speaker 1: Information, But I feel like things you can poll are
Speaker 1: really interesting.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think we need to poll all of them
Speaker 3: that we have any video footage to poll this with,
Speaker 3: but we will poll it.
Speaker 1: No, we can just use a picture of a diamond
Speaker 1: tap bottle and be like, how would you say this?
Speaker 1: What are some other ones that are like universally controversial?
Speaker 4: I feel like we do this all the time.
Speaker 3: There's been so many that, you know, It's like when
Speaker 3: people say what are your pet peeves? And you have
Speaker 3: so many that you can think of when you're out
Speaker 3: and about, and then they ask you and you're like,
Speaker 3: I couldn't.
Speaker 1: Yeah, when they're like, there's three words that describe you,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I don't know any.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't know English.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Okay, so August, what yay's? Have we
Speaker 1: yated since August?
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh? What even happened since then? What had happened?
Speaker 4: You went to Fiji?
Speaker 2: I went to Fiji. Yeah, that was beautiful.
Speaker 1: They are so good with children, and I think people
Speaker 1: say that when you go on a holiday to Fiji
Speaker 1: you leave your child at reception.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, they just were so nice, weren't they.
Speaker 1: They just love children, they're so good with them. And
Speaker 1: he Teddy was just like in Clover. He had the
Speaker 1: best time. It was so beautiful and hot. Tip for
Speaker 1: any parents listening, there's like, the time difference is only
Speaker 1: an hour at the moment with daylight savings, and then
Speaker 1: like I think it's two hours and a five hour flight,
Speaker 1: so it's so short. Yeah, it's like overseas, but it
Speaker 1: doesn't really mess up their routine to deal with.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Wow, literally, Okay, I mean not literally, but anyways.
Speaker 3: The other thing you also did that was really cool
Speaker 3: was that you hosted at sixty sixty six west sixty
Speaker 3: by sixty west six southway.
Speaker 4: Six by southwest southway? What south by six six?
Speaker 3: Wait?
Speaker 4: And then I got this.
Speaker 3: Like six by southwest south south by Southwest there's no six?
Speaker 2: Do you know what that is? Giving? That's like you
Speaker 2: being a boomer and getting like the Facebook, so there's
Speaker 2: no six. There's no six. I need to add cricket noses.
Speaker 4: I could have sworn there was a six. Six.
Speaker 2: Well done though, good, good, points for trying, you know how.
Speaker 3: It's like they advertise it as the acronym like yeah
Speaker 3: s X s W see there's the X in it.
Speaker 4: That's not six. In my brain, there's a six that.
Speaker 2: You insert like S I X. Yeah.
Speaker 4: Anyway, that that was really.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was really good.
Speaker 1: That was an amazing opportunity to do a live podcast
Speaker 1: up there. And I haven't done a live podcast in
Speaker 1: I don't even know when.
Speaker 2: Was the last time. Would have done one, like hour
Speaker 2: years ago. Yeah, probably our Paint and Peanut Castle.
Speaker 4: Although we didn't even do a live podcast.
Speaker 2: I didn't know we did.
Speaker 1: We did Q and as we did a little bit. Anyway,
Speaker 1: it had been ages and that was just so nice.
Speaker 1: And I think one of the things of it that
Speaker 1: I always say about podcasting is you get to chat
Speaker 1: with your guests, but you don't get to interact with
Speaker 1: the yighborhood very much. You only do after the fact,
Speaker 1: and it's never in real time and you never get
Speaker 1: to see their faces.
Speaker 2: And it was just lovely and I had my one of.
Speaker 1: My best friends, Ebonie, tell her incredible story for the
Speaker 1: first time. It was her first podcast ever, the first
Speaker 1: time she sort of I think even herself reflected on
Speaker 1: the whole journey. She's got a beautiful business called Upam,
Speaker 1: which you guys have heard me talk about many times,
Speaker 1: but it's the first time she's felt like she's in
Speaker 1: this chapter enough to look back as well.
Speaker 2: So it was just it was really, really.
Speaker 1: Lovely because having been there for all of the chapters,
Speaker 1: including all the you know, the moments of self doubt
Speaker 1: that I talk about with normal guests, I wasn't there
Speaker 1: for them, whereas with hers, I was there for each chapter.
Speaker 1: So it was really, really it was wonderful. And that
Speaker 1: episode wasn't recorded at the time, but we are booked
Speaker 1: to re record it so you guys will get it,
Speaker 1: because yeah, she's got like her story is amazing. She
Speaker 1: had chemical poisoning in New York when she was at
Speaker 1: the peak of her career working for Dane von Furstenberg,
Speaker 1: and she's got just so much wisdom for anyone who's
Speaker 1: building a brand in fashion, from both the corporate science
Speaker 1: and the business side. She's just like the advice I
Speaker 1: could have launched her business at the end of it
Speaker 1: in fashion having known nothing about it. She was just
Speaker 1: so generous with her wisdom. So that's coming out soon.
Speaker 4: And this stuff is really beautiful.
Speaker 2: It's so beautiful, soberutiful. So that was that we went
Speaker 2: to see Wicked. That was our latest date.
Speaker 4: That was so fun.
Speaker 2: There was so much that was so.
Speaker 3: Like you and Clarie had met up before. Clarily my partner.
Speaker 3: We call it Clarie, it's her alias.
Speaker 2: I never heard Clarie but okay, well.
Speaker 3: Because we were in Vietnam, none of my aunties and
Speaker 3: uncles and pronouncers, they were.
Speaker 4: Like, oh Clarie, Oh that's so cute. Glowry so Be
Speaker 4: came to Clary and she is mad.
Speaker 2: She's a super fan, like mad Wicked fan like.
Speaker 3: I took her for a birthday in August as a
Speaker 3: surprise and I didn't realize that she had seen Wicked like.
Speaker 4: Five times already, and I took her and then it's.
Speaker 3: Like we cried and we got there and I was like, wow,
Speaker 3: this is like a true, really big deal for you.
Speaker 4: And then i'd seen a musical theater kid, yeah, and
Speaker 4: I'd seen your calendar. That's how we.
Speaker 2: Worked it out because I'd.
Speaker 4: Seen your calendar on the Google calendar and I was like,
Speaker 4: you're going to Yeah. I said, oh my god, you're going.
Speaker 4: Because I said to Clariy. I was like, Sarah's going
Speaker 4: to the premiere and she.
Speaker 3: Was like, what, oh my god, can you can we
Speaker 3: do a date night to watch it when when it
Speaker 3: comes out and stuff? And I was like yeah, and
Speaker 3: then I said to you come going, and then you said, actually,
Speaker 3: do you guys.
Speaker 4: Want to come? And I was like, oh my god.
Speaker 3: And then she was again like the whole week She's like,
Speaker 3: it was really exciting, and I think even I think
Speaker 3: you said it as well, when you get to bring
Speaker 3: someone who really actually loves something or really appreciates something
Speaker 3: and makes sharing this much more joyous. So it's actually
Speaker 3: a really fun night because both of us were very
Speaker 3: much like this is a very exciting fair her. But
Speaker 3: then also I've become a like mad wicked fantory and
Speaker 3: watching it was so awesome.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it was so much fun. Like I
Speaker 1: think when you experience something with a super fan, like
Speaker 1: you get the level of joy that they have over
Speaker 1: the thing. So like even when we did it was
Speaker 1: the same when we went to the tennis Grand Final
Speaker 1: last day, ye like, I love the tennis, but you
Speaker 1: are like in tense about sports fun and so I
Speaker 1: got the same level of enjoyment that you get and
Speaker 1: it's so exciting when you get to do that. Because
Speaker 1: what happened was it was my It was actually my
Speaker 1: first night out like girls' night since having Teddy, so
Speaker 1: it was momentous for lots of different reasons.
Speaker 2: And it was the first time I.
Speaker 1: Thought, actually the logistics could work, maybe I could make it.
Speaker 1: I haven't not been the one to put him to bed.
Speaker 1: I hadn't before that night, and then that was we
Speaker 1: were kind of testing out whether it would work, and
Speaker 1: so it was, Yeah, it was really beautiful because Nick
Speaker 1: was like, well, it will have to be me who
Speaker 1: puts him to bed, because like his other like mum babysits,
Speaker 1: my Auntie's babysit. But I think for the first time,
Speaker 1: it will probably have to be him, which meant he
Speaker 1: couldn't come with me. So then I was like, oh my.
Speaker 2: Gosh, I'll make it a girl's night.
Speaker 1: And it was so special because I had, like I
Speaker 1: love musical theater, but for some reason, I think when
Speaker 1: the Wicked stage show had come out in Melbourne, either
Speaker 1: I wasn't here, or I was I was pregnant, I
Speaker 1: couldn't sit still, or whatever it was.
Speaker 2: I've missed it every time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and so I hadn't seen it, so being a
Speaker 1: complete nube with like zero expectations next to someone who
Speaker 1: had watched everything and knows every single fact about every
Speaker 1: actress and stage actor and everything, like knows the whole
Speaker 1: history and context to see both of our reactions and
Speaker 1: how we could both love it and enjoy it.
Speaker 2: And like they put on they did such a good job.
Speaker 2: Like they had cocktails that were like.
Speaker 1: Colored and themed with glitter and all glitter and smoke,
Speaker 1: and it was just like one of those wholesome fun
Speaker 1: like we laughed the whole way through.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and like, and that's the thing I don't think
Speaker 4: people realized.
Speaker 3: And I didn't realize because I hadn't watched Wicked the
Speaker 3: stage show until August, and I didn't realize the storyline
Speaker 3: was one that hilarious because the musical is also equally well,
Speaker 3: he's extremely funny.
Speaker 2: Yeah it was funny.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I cackled so much. But also the storyline is actually.
Speaker 4: Really beautiful, isn't it. Other things that were so confused.
Speaker 4: We didn't realize it was a part one.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I didn't know that. And then I thought
Speaker 1: that they were only showing.
Speaker 2: Us half the movie. Well they they did know, as
Speaker 2: in like half the movie that they already made.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, exactly exactly.
Speaker 2: So then they showed us the entire movie and there's
Speaker 2: a part two coming.
Speaker 1: It was so stressed and it was so like it's
Speaker 1: really I feel like as someone who came into it
Speaker 1: without already being obsessed with it and being instantly converted
Speaker 1: to how like it was just a yay, It was
Speaker 1: really joyful. You don't think too hard. I think there's
Speaker 1: so much stuff where there's deep messaging you need to
Speaker 1: reflect on and it's stress and like you just get
Speaker 1: transported into a totally different world for that time.
Speaker 2: It was such a yaze of our life. Like it
Speaker 2: truly was such a fun night.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: And I think the testament to it is that all
Speaker 3: the theater kids that have loved.
Speaker 2: The original still love it, loved the movie, yeah, which.
Speaker 3: Is I think a great testament to them keeping the
Speaker 3: like the fantasy and the dreaminess of Wicked itself in
Speaker 3: a movie way.
Speaker 4: Alive, which I think like Clari and I were like,
Speaker 4: is it going to live up to.
Speaker 2: The musical because the music, you have high expectations.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like the musical, it's self created are really the backdrop,
Speaker 3: the setting, all of the stage crew.
Speaker 4: It was amazing for the musical.
Speaker 3: So we were like, how is that going to be
Speaker 3: reflected in a movie that doesn't just look like a
Speaker 3: video of the music, like a filming of the musical.
Speaker 4: And then we've watched so much behind the scenes stuff
Speaker 4: now of the stage directors that were like all the
Speaker 4: thought that went through everything, we were like, oh my god,
Speaker 4: that's amazing. Like, for example, the reason why they chose
Speaker 4: and this is not really a spoiler because it's in
Speaker 4: every trailer, why they chose water and boats was because.
Speaker 3: They had eliminated every other form of transportation because other
Speaker 3: worlds claim it, like for example, like they can't have
Speaker 3: bikes because bikes aren't around, they can't have horses because
Speaker 3: of the animal situation or something, and then they couldn't
Speaker 3: have all of these other cars, and they could have
Speaker 3: all these other modes because Oslock owned some or it
Speaker 3: kind of didn't make sense with the storyline with animals
Speaker 3: or whatever, and so that left them the only way
Speaker 3: to get.
Speaker 4: Around was water.
Speaker 3: And that's why they chose water and boats because I
Speaker 3: wouldn't have never imagined that they would have vented on
Speaker 3: Water the musical either, So yeah, it was kind of
Speaker 3: like the stage director explaining all this, and we were
Speaker 3: we just got even more obsessed.
Speaker 4: So I reckon, we'll probably see it again.
Speaker 2: I one hundred percent see it again.
Speaker 4: You will see it again.
Speaker 1: And I also love that, Like separate to Wicked in itself,
Speaker 1: I think it really reminded me for the purposes of
Speaker 1: like the whole concept of bringing more ya into your life.
Speaker 2: We're in I.
Speaker 1: Feel like it's a time our lives are so busy
Speaker 1: and unless something is like clearly productive related to work
Speaker 1: as some kind of networking element, or especially at this
Speaker 1: time of year, as like crunch time, we don't really
Speaker 1: make time to like go and see a stage show
Speaker 1: or go and watch a movie. And especially now that
Speaker 1: they're streaming Nick and I have and we've got baby,
Speaker 1: we haven't really made an effort to go and sit
Speaker 1: in a cinema in a really long time, and doing
Speaker 1: it just reminded me like, sure, it's a you know,
Speaker 1: two hour block of time where you don't get anything
Speaker 1: else done and you can't like multitask, you can't like
Speaker 1: sit on your laptop or on your phone and watch
Speaker 1: like you can at home you can kind of control
Speaker 1: your own environment. It was so nice to be just
Speaker 1: like locked in a cinema and transported into something that's
Speaker 1: so just for joy, like for awe and wonder and joy.
Speaker 1: And I realized how much you forget to do that,
Speaker 1: Like if it doesn't involve looking after Teddy or going
Speaker 1: to work or resting, I haven't really like learning or learning. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I haven't really made time for it. And in that
Speaker 1: two hours or whatever it was, I was doing none
Speaker 1: of those things. But I was so joyful and I
Speaker 1: came out.
Speaker 4: Just like, oh, we were cackling.
Speaker 2: You've got to make time for this stuff.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And it was nice being in the center because
Speaker 3: you hear other people's laughter. Yeah, that even in itself
Speaker 3: is quite joyous. Like, there were so many parts that
Speaker 3: were so funny and I could you were cackling.
Speaker 5: You were like like literally, it was just having the best.
Speaker 3: It was some you know that awkward friend where it's
Speaker 3: actually not the funny part and they think it's.
Speaker 4: Like, I mean not even funny, like not and no
Speaker 4: one's laughing.
Speaker 2: Was like no, do you know what it was?
Speaker 1: It was that I got the joke really loving, so
Speaker 1: I was laughing at the funny bit. It was just
Speaker 1: ages later, but also like I decided that Jonathan bad
Speaker 1: is like kind of maybe now on my whole.
Speaker 2: Perst fopping, I wasn't really.
Speaker 1: I was next to Khan who was just like, I
Speaker 1: was like, dude, do you need to leave, like do
Speaker 1: you need a minute? Other dear friend Louke Hynes, and
Speaker 1: they both yeah, they just like lost it. And then
Speaker 1: but then I was really investigating and I was like,
Speaker 1: he's he's really like no.
Speaker 3: He's very proper hot and he like can dance and
Speaker 3: he sings really well. Yeah, but I think also his
Speaker 3: character probably it's definitely character brings.
Speaker 2: Do you get like I fall in love with characters?
Speaker 4: For sure? I am.
Speaker 3: And I've always said to kr like, do you find this,
Speaker 3: you know, character attractive? And she's always like no, because
Speaker 3: the character I.
Speaker 4: Kin't like like I have to get the vibes. No,
Speaker 4: I'm more like donkey because I'm like, I get a
Speaker 4: ship characters.
Speaker 2: Like I sang like and in books as well, Like
Speaker 2: it's really.
Speaker 3: Random, I fully ship the character, not necessarily maybe I
Speaker 3: end up loving the actor as a result.
Speaker 4: But now that it's like, yeah, it's hilarious.
Speaker 2: Same same so that was I guess that's our recommendation.
Speaker 1: Yes, let's go, and not even just I feel like
Speaker 1: there aren't many people who couldn't even if you were
Speaker 1: dragged to the cinema because your friend or partner or
Speaker 1: kids wanted.
Speaker 2: To go to Wicked. I don't think there's many people
Speaker 2: who couldn't appreciate like it was.
Speaker 4: It's a spectacle.
Speaker 1: It's even if you don't like musical theater, it's still
Speaker 1: just enjoyable. It's witty, it's funny, like there's something in
Speaker 1: it for everyone, but it doesn't have to be Wicked,
Speaker 1: just like go and book a ticket for something. I
Speaker 1: feel like we've really lost Well maybe it's just me,
Speaker 1: and maybe it's just the chapter I'm in. But when
Speaker 1: you get given the choice to like go out and
Speaker 1: make an effort or stay in, it's so easy to
Speaker 1: just stay in. It's so easy to be like, oh,
Speaker 1: it'll come out on Amazon or it'll come out on whatever,
Speaker 1: and I'll just Apple TV and I'll just buy it
Speaker 1: and watch it at home. But it's so nice to
Speaker 1: go out and like be around people.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I think we were in that mindset as
Speaker 4: well of and.
Speaker 2: To get dressed up yeah, and we were like, oh.
Speaker 4: It's such a way of home. Sometimes go to the
Speaker 4: movies because you don't talk to each other.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like, but an element of that is actually enjoying
Speaker 3: something together, like to share experience.
Speaker 4: Yeah, of a movie that you want to watch together, and.
Speaker 2: How much we like bonded over and afterwards for days.
Speaker 1: The memes like the aftermath, like, there's so much after
Speaker 1: the aftermath?
Speaker 4: Oh my god, is it aftermath? It's after math?
Speaker 2: I think it is actually after I don't know what's
Speaker 2: wrong with me.
Speaker 4: It just sounds so weird, right, I don't know why.
Speaker 2: Why do I think aftermath sounds so weak?
Speaker 3: Guys?
Speaker 2: Can you please tell us? Is it after math or
Speaker 2: after math? But that's waiting for them to.
Speaker 4: Speak.
Speaker 3: I don't know how this works. Can the audience please
Speaker 3: speak up? Don't be shy.
Speaker 4: I'm not going to bite.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, So I've read this meme.
Speaker 4: Oh my god.
Speaker 1: I have told you guys about curate how Nick and
Speaker 1: I curate memes for each other all day and then
Speaker 1: at the end of the day we watch them together.
Speaker 2: It's like our favorite activity to do a night.
Speaker 1: And now Teddy's three sleep regression, on which you will
Speaker 1: know from a couple of episodes ago. We now have
Speaker 1: time to do curate again, which is like our favorite
Speaker 1: cute little bonding thing. And I saw on the other
Speaker 1: day it was said, if you're hosting an event and
Speaker 1: you get up at the start and say, how is
Speaker 1: everyone today, I can't hear say it again with more energy,
Speaker 1: I instantly hate you.
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, yeah, you like that. I feel like
Speaker 2: if they say do it again, I can't hear you.
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, yeah, you know how like
Speaker 2: like speaking of it, speaking of.
Speaker 1: It then says everyone then and you go yeah, and
Speaker 1: they go I can't hear.
Speaker 2: And it's just like it gives me the eck.
Speaker 4: I don't know why, yes, if anything, I just like
Speaker 4: I just go.
Speaker 1: Like, I just can't with the whole I didn't hear you.
Speaker 1: Do it louder or do it with more energy?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 4: And then it's like the people next to you going yeah,
Speaker 4: I'm like no.
Speaker 2: Which is me.
Speaker 4: It's also me yeah, oh my god.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Look.
Speaker 1: I'm really proud of us for not doing this at
Speaker 1: three pm though, because we've tried the last few times
Speaker 1: and it's been.
Speaker 2: Is at three pm.
Speaker 1: We've done really well, because we're like marginally less chaotic,
Speaker 1: margin marginally at one thirty, but the actual purpose of
Speaker 1: this episode and we're twenty seven minutes in and you've
Speaker 1: had to sit through this, so apologies.
Speaker 2: Thanks.
Speaker 4: I know those it doesn't even have it, you know
Speaker 4: what you used to have so much structure.
Speaker 2: Well, we started with three parts.
Speaker 4: It was like, you know, recommendation, what else?
Speaker 2: There were three parts with the other two yahborhood, neighborhood,
Speaker 2: all things in the neighborhood, like cool stories that we've heard.
Speaker 1: Recommendation was like books, movies, songs, tiktoks, whatever to go
Speaker 1: and like peruse. And then what was the first segment
Speaker 1: called caught Up?
Speaker 2: Yeah? But was it called was it?
Speaker 3: Was it?
Speaker 2: Years of our lives? Is that?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Just call it?
Speaker 3: Like I don't think we've done that for a year
Speaker 3: at least of having any level of structure. We used
Speaker 3: to come really prepared that we used to have a
Speaker 3: whole we get an agenda, like definitely watch this, and
Speaker 3: now we're just like when was our last episode?
Speaker 2: Are you imitating me?
Speaker 1: Is my favorite thing?
Speaker 2: It's too funny.
Speaker 1: Every time someone messages me and it's like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: And I love listening to you, and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: you poor things.
Speaker 2: If you don't listen to them, I don't want to know.
Speaker 4: I come going to this.
Speaker 2: Like that's quel laugh of just breathing.
Speaker 3: Because silent, that's what I because sometimes we laugh so
Speaker 3: much that we're like falling backwards in our chair with silent.
Speaker 3: So the audience is just like the audience.
Speaker 1: I think because the other episode, the guest episodes are so.
Speaker 2: Structured and so like because I want.
Speaker 1: To bring out the same themes but through different stories.
Speaker 1: The actual questions are really similar for each person, even
Speaker 1: though their answers are really different. Like that's where it's
Speaker 1: you know, so different from episode to episode. But I
Speaker 1: think because that structure is very similar all the time,
Speaker 1: it's like chronological order. We cover like the shitty bits,
Speaker 1: the self doubt, the imposter syndrome, Like there's so much
Speaker 1: similarity in those that I think in this episode.
Speaker 2: Sorry, it didn't mean to interrupt your schedule, Wall.
Speaker 4: I just need to pause my bike work. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I feel like people who do listen to these enjoy
Speaker 1: that we aren't so structured. Maybe I don't know who
Speaker 1: could know who could say?
Speaker 4: Who could because the audience isn't.
Speaker 2: Lie don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm assuming that it's because it is like I catch
Speaker 1: up among friends, that they're just a fly on the wall,
Speaker 1: for which they literally are, because there is is just
Speaker 1: us catching up. I often save asking you what you've
Speaker 1: been doing until we start recording.
Speaker 2: We don't do a catch up.
Speaker 4: I do wonder why sometimes So just doesn't care about
Speaker 4: what I've been up.
Speaker 1: To saving it August WHI is just mute, just doesn't
Speaker 1: want to talk to me because we're saving it.
Speaker 4: And then we get to the podcast, We're like, what
Speaker 4: have we done this show?
Speaker 1: We've actually I think we've been I don't know, every
Speaker 1: eight weeks this.
Speaker 2: Year or something.
Speaker 4: As we've discussed August, so every.
Speaker 2: Time before that, yeah, once a quarter. How many episodes
Speaker 2: did we.
Speaker 3: Have done at the time where we actually were really
Speaker 3: on the two every two weeks?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think even like since Teddy, I think the
Speaker 1: Bandwagon definitely not since Teddy, which is obviously understandable. And
Speaker 1: I'm so pleased that we've been back weekly. I hope
Speaker 1: you guys have been enjoying that recently. It's taken a
Speaker 1: lot of restructuring and dedication and effort and a lot
Speaker 1: of last minutes. Although it downs, but I really wanted
Speaker 1: to be more accountable again.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and also because you enjoyed doing it. Yeah, look,
Speaker 4: it's something you actually really enjoyed doing so.
Speaker 1: And Teddy's a bit more predictable now. So we've finally
Speaker 1: been able to go back to recording. Remember when I
Speaker 1: just like could not record.
Speaker 4: But he's the curtes secutest world.
Speaker 2: He's actually the cutest.
Speaker 4: I always say, I think he's quite brutiful cute.
Speaker 1: He's actually he's actually he's gifted, you know, he's just
Speaker 1: he's accelerated program he's historically done his masters. Okay, No,
Speaker 1: he's the sloollest little boy. He was so excited to
Speaker 1: see you.
Speaker 4: He loves he's so smiley right now.
Speaker 2: He's so he's very animated and very explorational.
Speaker 4: Is that a word.
Speaker 2: Yep, Yes, that is the word explorational.
Speaker 4: It's very like he's very fidgety, but in a way
Speaker 4: that he just wants. He just wants to explore.
Speaker 3: He wants to be on his feet, he wants to
Speaker 3: jump around like he's probably he's dying to walk.
Speaker 2: He's so desperate, isn't he He wants to move around?
Speaker 4: But I think then when he does walk. It's going
Speaker 4: to be going to be he's going to be high steps. Boy, Yeah, he's.
Speaker 3: Going to be climbing, he's going to be jumping off.
Speaker 4: He's only one of those becaus.
Speaker 2: Like, why do you think we got rid of the tables?
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 2: It was a really sad day. RP my tables.
Speaker 4: But it's very exciting. He's going to have your first Christmas.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, he's not even going to remember.
Speaker 2: We had Santa photos.
Speaker 4: We see I told you, so it just goes mute
Speaker 4: when I see him. Photos happened in July.
Speaker 2: Probably like three day years ago.
Speaker 1: He was so cute, but because he's having he's just
Speaker 1: entered stranger danger for the first time, which you know,
Speaker 1: because you hadn't been over in a while. And he
Speaker 1: like cried for one second and then he got over it.
Speaker 1: But Santra was so funny. He was like, I suggest
Speaker 1: that you back in, So we like reversed in, Like
Speaker 1: all three of us walked backwards and like it was
Speaker 1: like beep, beep beep, and then like literally hid him
Speaker 1: from Santa. So Nick and I were on either side
Speaker 1: and then all three of us sat.
Speaker 2: On one side.
Speaker 1: So it was such an unbalanced photo because Santra's meant
Speaker 1: to be in the middle and Teddy didn't even know
Speaker 1: he was there.
Speaker 3: Remember that first time I've never seen the dude is Santa.
Speaker 2: It was really cute though, because he wasn't crying, which
Speaker 2: was really sweet.
Speaker 4: I also wondered, and.
Speaker 2: He wore his little Santra outfit.
Speaker 4: Do you think that Santa's have to have like some
Speaker 4: like children training what did they just learn that on
Speaker 4: the job.
Speaker 1: I think they they definitely have to have working with
Speaker 1: children chaps like the street. Well I think that's it
Speaker 1: used to be, yeah, probably, but now they're like they're
Speaker 1: like world chosen. And even the fact that he's like
Speaker 1: at babies of this age do get a little bit overwhelmed,
Speaker 1: so I would suggest you don't turn around and kind
Speaker 1: of like walk towards.
Speaker 2: Me really rapidly.
Speaker 1: It was really good because obviously he'd had a lot
Speaker 1: of crying babies and you're the best photos, so that
Speaker 1: was really cute.
Speaker 4: It's his first.
Speaker 1: Christmas and he's just like he's saying like lots of babble,
Speaker 1: so he's really going like mah, he's saying he hasn't
Speaker 1: said mamma yet, but he said like m for the
Speaker 1: first time yesterday and then bah baba like he's saying stuff.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, to speak it really soon. He's like
Speaker 4: eight months now.
Speaker 2: Now eight months.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he couldn't be walking next month.
Speaker 2: I stop it.
Speaker 4: Seriously. It's going to be great but also terrible for
Speaker 4: you because where is this point? I jomped down the stairs.
Speaker 4: Do you see the other day?
Speaker 2: I found him under the table. I was like, how
Speaker 2: did you get their? Buddy?
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's gonna be what are you doing? He's gonna
Speaker 4: be a false risk.
Speaker 1: And he just looked at me and he was like, well,
Speaker 1: I'm just obviously I'm doing my emails.
Speaker 3: I'm looking at you know, thinking about baby proving your
Speaker 3: house every single corner.
Speaker 2: We've entered the non aesthetic phase of our lives.
Speaker 4: You're gonna have to have a baby door at the stair.
Speaker 2: Yeah you know we bought Sure it's in there.
Speaker 4: Oh I got it.
Speaker 1: Anyway, So it's been another ten minutes since I first
Speaker 1: said that I had something to say for good. But
Speaker 1: the entire purpose of this episode was because Angefoot has.
Speaker 4: Fine. No, this is where I say it.
Speaker 1: No, I just for no reason, I led to the
Speaker 1: audience response, I really just wanted to a dramatic effect
Speaker 1: and filmed in front of a live studio audience.
Speaker 3: Well, the big announcement is a big actually pretty good big.
Speaker 4: Life It is a big life change update.
Speaker 1: We should have started with that instead of like how
Speaker 1: do you pronounce apple?
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like, by this point there's two people still listening
Speaker 4: to the.
Speaker 3: Two people have a really big announcements started at the
Speaker 3: beginning is that we are moving. We're not including Sarah
Speaker 3: is he. We are moving to Queensland in like it's
Speaker 3: actually five weeks.
Speaker 1: So I think the reason why we haven't talked about
Speaker 1: it on an episode is because we're in denial.
Speaker 4: But we're actually both in very much.
Speaker 1: In denial, like as in I keep planning stuff like
Speaker 1: we're catching up with you guys know that we love
Speaker 1: doctor Brandy and she's been on twice, the team doctor
Speaker 1: for the Tillies, who we just somehow got along with
Speaker 1: like a house on fire. I caught up with her
Speaker 1: in Italy, so random, and she's coming to Melbourne. She
Speaker 1: wanted to come to Melbourne for us to all have
Speaker 1: a catch up in January and I was like, yeah, sure,
Speaker 1: and then I realized you're not going to be living
Speaker 1: here anymore.
Speaker 2: I know, just a full breakdown.
Speaker 3: I truly am Internet. I think I'll probably just sob
Speaker 3: not because I'm not excited.
Speaker 4: I am excited. It's kind of one of those things where.
Speaker 3: Has always said she wants to live by the beach
Speaker 3: before thirty, and I've always kind of in my brain
Speaker 3: said I have to live somewhere at least once in
Speaker 3: my life.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you haven't done a stint somewhere.
Speaker 3: And I've done like lots of backpacking travel, like I
Speaker 3: went for five months, but it wasn't necessarily living in
Speaker 3: a place, you know, because you know, you lived in
Speaker 3: France for a period, in Hong Kong for a period
Speaker 3: for work. I've not done that, and I am very
Speaker 3: comfortable where I am because I have the best family
Speaker 3: and I have my people. If it wasn't for my
Speaker 3: really strong relationships, like my people, my group of five
Speaker 3: and my circle.
Speaker 4: Whatever you want to call it, I don't think.
Speaker 3: I would be, as I guess, sad to the Melbourne
Speaker 3: because I would be like, this is an exciting new adventure,
Speaker 3: which it is, like I'm actually very excited to kind
Speaker 3: of like I'll be by the.
Speaker 4: Beach, will probably end up living south of Gold Coast area.
Speaker 1: And you're so outdoors y that like that whole Queensland lifestyle,
Speaker 1: that just being outdoors by five am, like that kind
Speaker 1: of outside all the time.
Speaker 2: I think you will love it.
Speaker 4: If it's a new place, new people, new lifestyle.
Speaker 3: I feel like a new Ya's. But on the foot side,
Speaker 3: would I would be lying if I would say there's
Speaker 3: like people here that make me week to week what
Speaker 3: my life is like.
Speaker 4: You know, like the feeling.
Speaker 3: Deep down of feeling safe and feel like if I
Speaker 3: ever had a shit down, I'll just come here like
Speaker 3: that safety net is a thing that's like kind of.
Speaker 4: The biggest loss.
Speaker 3: I'd say, not to say that I can't just come
Speaker 3: and fly down here, but I think the comfort of
Speaker 3: knowing that it's there, If it's there, even if I
Speaker 3: don't see you every week, I know that I can
Speaker 3: just rock up after a triathlon and sit on your
Speaker 3: couch or something or a really shit time, then you know, yeah,
Speaker 3: we'll be nearby. And the same goes for you like Chris.
Speaker 3: And then obviously now that there's babies involved you I
Speaker 3: love so much. That's the aspect that's really sad. I
Speaker 3: think everyone that I've told about the move somewhat shocked
Speaker 3: because I'm so settled here, Like I'm so everyone knows
Speaker 3: my family, but they know how tight we are.
Speaker 4: Everyone knows.
Speaker 3: The Funnily, the first thing most people say is what
Speaker 3: is Sarah new do Sarah?
Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh no, I literally haven't actually thought
Speaker 1: about it because I don't think it all. Like the
Speaker 1: logistics of it will settle until I go to do
Speaker 1: something I would have done with you, and then I can't.
Speaker 1: Like that's when I'll realize because at the moment, it's
Speaker 1: just this lofty yeah, like we've armed an art and
Speaker 1: we've gone through so much, you know, like we do
Speaker 1: before all big life decisions.
Speaker 4: Yea.
Speaker 1: And I think for the purposes of the show, it's
Speaker 1: exciting that in real time people get to hear that
Speaker 1: you have decided to do something that is uncomfortable. That is,
Speaker 1: you're not doing it because you have nothing here. You're
Speaker 1: doing it in spite of having great things here because
Speaker 1: you do want this life experience. It's kind of like
Speaker 1: for future you, you're doing something to like your future self.
Speaker 4: I know that I need it. I know that if I.
Speaker 2: Think when you get itchy for a new experience.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I feel like I would.
Speaker 3: I've told a lot of people, and I realized I
Speaker 3: actually haven't. I have thought a lot of people, but
Speaker 3: I also haven't, like I've told my people, and for
Speaker 3: me that's like everyone. And then I the other friends
Speaker 3: of friends that I haven't seen for ages, and they're like,
Speaker 3: what's up? And I tell them and they're like losing
Speaker 3: their minds because it's it's been fused to move, particularly
Speaker 3: for me, who is so just my life is in Melbourne,
Speaker 3: my friends, everything I do, my work, like everything is
Speaker 3: in Melbourne. Like it's it's very much concrete here, but
Speaker 3: there's so much in Queensland that I have one yet
Speaker 3: to explore, two yet to experience, and three I think
Speaker 3: if I were to have if we were to wait
Speaker 3: any longer.
Speaker 4: We were just you wouldn't do.
Speaker 2: It's like we've already waited.
Speaker 3: Like we started having this conversation maybe a year ago,
Speaker 3: and I was always like, oh, ex as pregnant and
Speaker 3: then lost, and we're gonna maybe get pregnant, and then
Speaker 3: we're kind of like okay, and then now it's kind
Speaker 3: of like every year someone's going to get pregnant, and
Speaker 3: every year something's going to happen that means that we.
Speaker 4: Push it back or whatever it is.
Speaker 3: So I think we were kind of like, if we
Speaker 3: don't do it, we just won't do it, and we'll
Speaker 3: probably regret it forever, because you know, we'll get to
Speaker 3: a period where perhaps we have a family, and then
Speaker 3: that becomes a really difficult thing to live freely somewhere else.
Speaker 1: And like, if you've got it in your system to
Speaker 1: spend an amount of time living elsewhere, which lots of
Speaker 1: people do, lots of really adventurous people want to live
Speaker 1: somewhere just the experience of it, then I think the
Speaker 1: longer you wait, the harder it does get to uproot
Speaker 1: your entire life.
Speaker 4: And Yeah, and I think, like maybe the wake up
Speaker 4: call was Catherine.
Speaker 3: I think she said in passing once this year, She's like,
Speaker 3: my biggest regret is not having lived anywhere else.
Speaker 4: Because she's done so much travel and so many cool things,
Speaker 4: but she has lived.
Speaker 1: This is Andre's sister, who is the original contact, the
Speaker 1: original point of contact for us, who I was really
Speaker 1: really close with her.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and so I think, and then the other thing
Speaker 3: is Jen, my other sister, is doing the same thing
Speaker 3: that she's she's doing.
Speaker 4: She's moving to the UK.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, your parents, I know.
Speaker 4: So Mom's like, don't talk about herself. So we really
Speaker 4: at home all we all know it's.
Speaker 2: Happening, but we don't discuss it ever.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we're just like I'm just like, oh, we're going
Speaker 4: in jail, and like.
Speaker 1: I like that with you still now, like you're still
Speaker 1: like I'm going, like it's in my calendar and I'm
Speaker 1: just like you're like.
Speaker 4: I'm not coming to your going away because then you're
Speaker 4: not going.
Speaker 1: I literally just ignored it. I don't even think of
Speaker 1: RSVP because I was.
Speaker 3: Like, what, it's truly one of if I didn't have
Speaker 3: such strong friendships, Like if I didn't have the friendship
Speaker 3: I have with you and with Chris and with a
Speaker 3: lot of like like cash even and Paul, I don't
Speaker 3: think it'll even be it of being like, oh no,
Speaker 3: it's difficult, but it would be like I guess, someone
Speaker 3: not selfish.
Speaker 4: But it would be wrong.
Speaker 3: For me to say that I'm not excited, because increasingly
Speaker 3: I get because it's summer now, I'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 3: where that just gets you out and it's really fun
Speaker 3: to do, you know, the water and the beach and
Speaker 3: the I've never worked an around than Melbourne.
Speaker 4: I've just the only thing that I.
Speaker 3: Guess scares me is is I've set up my career
Speaker 3: here in this very unique but amazing way that there
Speaker 3: I don't have that like right now. I rely on
Speaker 3: a lot of networks. Am I really strong networks here
Speaker 3: to continue.
Speaker 4: This very free life that I get to live.
Speaker 3: And I guess maybe the scary isn't the right word,
Speaker 3: But the only thing that's an very uncertain thing for
Speaker 3: me right now is what work looks like next year.
Speaker 3: And I think I've originally I found it scary if anything,
Speaker 3: or maybe I just more so find it a little
Speaker 3: bit sad that I have to kind of leave such
Speaker 3: good networks that I have here and I just don't
Speaker 3: know anyone up there. So if you're listening, please reach
Speaker 3: out because we can be friends for a real because
Speaker 3: I don't.
Speaker 4: I don't.
Speaker 3: For our final upload upload Virgion sixteen point two.
Speaker 1: I think it's really interesting though, for people listening when
Speaker 1: so much of the show is about like twisting your
Speaker 1: pathway and little diversions are a little not little, sorry,
Speaker 1: big adventures that don't necessarily go in the direction that
Speaker 1: you might have thought, like a couple of years ago.
Speaker 1: I think it's really interesting to highlight that you can
Speaker 1: feel all those things at once, Like you can feel
Speaker 1: sad to leave what you have and excited to jump
Speaker 1: towards something, and unsure and scared because it isn't clear
Speaker 1: what it's going to look like. And that's it's kind
Speaker 1: of amazing to chat to you right now when it
Speaker 1: isn't sure, and yet you're going to do it anyway.
Speaker 1: And I think that's one thing that a lot of
Speaker 1: people don't do in regret, is that because they feel
Speaker 1: something's uncertain or scary, they don't do it. Whereas your
Speaker 1: feeling it's uncertain and scary and you're going to do
Speaker 1: it anyway, And I think that's kind of like you'll
Speaker 1: work it out, you'll get there, and for five minutes
Speaker 1: you won't know, and then you're kind of that uncomfortable feeling.
Speaker 1: Instead of running away from it, you're running towards it.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I think that's been a recent revelation for me only
Speaker 3: because I've reflected a bit more on how you and
Speaker 3: I particularly have with your lives, and it's that we
Speaker 3: don't even know what opportunity is going to come next month,
Speaker 3: let alone trying to plan for next year, and so
Speaker 3: our life even in Melbourne is uncertain. So the changing
Speaker 3: of location is not that scary because the uncertainty is
Speaker 3: like a like it's a constant.
Speaker 4: It's a constant, and it's like a base.
Speaker 3: So the uncertainty for me is not actually that scary.
Speaker 3: It's actually I truly, it's just the people that I
Speaker 3: love that I don't get to be within an arms
Speaker 3: distance from.
Speaker 4: I'd say, the uncertainty about work and where we're living,
Speaker 4: even we.
Speaker 3: Don't have a place yet, what that looks like is
Speaker 3: actually probably the most exciting thing for me, I'd say.
Speaker 4: But yeah, the only I'd say, the only. Now that
Speaker 4: I'm doing this live reflection, I don't think I have
Speaker 4: reflected on it.
Speaker 3: But I don't think i've verbalized often because again we
Speaker 3: have been dona that we haven't even spoke us.
Speaker 2: We haven't actually spoken about this.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we haven't spoken about this.
Speaker 3: We have said that I'm moving a lot, but we
Speaker 3: haven't actually done this whole like deep dot how you're
Speaker 3: feeling about it?
Speaker 1: And every time Hans says, oh my god, I need
Speaker 1: to maximize time with thirty, I'm like, why, Like, don't
Speaker 1: even come over today. It's fine, he'll see you next week.
Speaker 1: Like I literally am not adjusting my behavior according to
Speaker 1: because I refuse.
Speaker 2: To accept because now it's creeping.
Speaker 3: It's a five weeks stop it, Yes, seriously, so jan
Speaker 3: five week kind of officially leave and we've done some
Speaker 3: things that start the process, but it just doesn't feel
Speaker 3: still that we're going. And I think both of us
Speaker 3: are kind of like it's happening, but we don't realize
Speaker 3: it's happening. Like, yes, they were like, we probably should
Speaker 3: book some sort of freight vehicle hey to like get
Speaker 3: up because we just hadn't thought we think about in
Speaker 3: episodes of thinking about it, but then right now life's
Speaker 3: so busy. But yeah, I'd say the biggest sadness is
Speaker 3: just the people on the network and the friendships that
Speaker 3: I have here. The exciting thing is everything else. It's
Speaker 3: you know, the weather, the you know, I'll probably do
Speaker 3: some triathlons and you know, being near the beach and
Speaker 3: then new people in a very new environment, and then
Speaker 3: we are actually I think we've organized it in the
Speaker 3: most perfect way for the transition to be.
Speaker 4: Smooth and not, as I guess, abrupt.
Speaker 3: So we're driving up and then we're going to Central
Speaker 3: America for a month, which is like great holidays, something
Speaker 3: really exciting to look forward to.
Speaker 4: Then we come back and we only.
Speaker 3: Back for about five weeks before we go again to Korea,
Speaker 3: and then we go to Vietnam for my Grammar's birthday, and.
Speaker 4: Then I'm back for a week and then I'm to
Speaker 4: amp Slam for bloom Effects.
Speaker 2: So big first half of the year.
Speaker 3: Before May even gets here, I would have been in
Speaker 3: the country for six weeks.
Speaker 1: So our next years of our lives will be May seven.
Speaker 1: We have no it's in the calendar for May twenty
Speaker 1: twenty five, but we'll push it out fee twenty twenty nine.
Speaker 3: Well, I feel like, if anything, we need to do
Speaker 3: even more, because yeah, that's all I'll be like, oh
Speaker 3: my god, oh my god, God is crazy.
Speaker 1: Like you know what, though, we actually need to do
Speaker 1: because you will be having big revelations as you adjust
Speaker 1: to a new scenario. I feel like it is a
Speaker 1: good time to do a record of like, yeah, this
Speaker 1: was hard, or like for anyone who's moved to a
Speaker 1: new city, this is a really good like beta test, Yeah,
Speaker 1: to sort of see someone has like plunked themselves into
Speaker 1: a new place. So let's it's like an experiment. Let's
Speaker 1: see how you go without your normal support network and
Speaker 1: like making friends, Like you're an awkward turtle. Thank You're
Speaker 1: right like you because no one but you're not because
Speaker 1: people only see you with people that you're so comfortable.
Speaker 3: Thank you, because Okay, I have tried to fight my
Speaker 3: cause about this for so long, and you're not the
Speaker 3: first because you know your best mate just knows you. Yes,
Speaker 3: I've always told people I'm actually an introverted extrovert and yeah,
Speaker 3: no one like of my new friends will like ever agrees,
Speaker 3: except this one time Clarie was like, I don't believe you.
Speaker 3: I don't believe you are like ask Chris, ask Chris,
Speaker 3: Becrius like no, it's true. Like if you are Sarah,
Speaker 3: you'd say the same thing, because I'm actually My defense
Speaker 3: mechanism for being highly socially anxious is talking too much,
Speaker 3: like I'm oh my god, high like oh my god,
Speaker 3: so did so what did you do today?
Speaker 2: Like oh my god, my bell, I just like.
Speaker 3: Really hide in a corner with a phone or like
Speaker 3: hold on to the one person I know in the situation.
Speaker 4: Otherwise I do I are actually very awkward turtle.
Speaker 1: But you know what's interesting about you, I think you
Speaker 1: are So everyone has their own reaction in a new environment,
Speaker 1: but we all have a different amount of time it
Speaker 1: takes to get comfortable in that new environment, and yours
Speaker 1: is just quicker. So you go from awkward turtle to
Speaker 1: comfortable quicker than the average person. It's just because of that.
Speaker 1: Most people don't see you in that scenario very often
Speaker 1: because you get over it straight away.
Speaker 2: So you are awkward turtle.
Speaker 1: But then once you meet one friend that you get
Speaker 1: along with, then suddenly you're really close.
Speaker 2: Really quickly.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Whereas some people aren't as uncomfortable as you at
Speaker 1: the beginning, but then it takes them a just to
Speaker 1: warm up.
Speaker 2: Does that make sense? Yeah, yeah, definitely, that's how I
Speaker 2: see it.
Speaker 3: And I think it's because I rely on that one connection,
Speaker 3: whatever it is it is, best friends, Yeah, to hold
Speaker 3: on to that so that every other future group or
Speaker 3: social event is not as scary, because I'm like, oh,
Speaker 3: I know this one person.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's enough for you.
Speaker 1: I feel like you just need one oh yes, Like
Speaker 1: it's okay for you to turn up and not know
Speaker 1: that many people like you will come with me.
Speaker 2: Anywhere. You don't need to know anyone else I can ever.
Speaker 4: Think about it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, whereas if.
Speaker 1: You didn't, you wouldn't go to any of those rooms
Speaker 1: and feel comfortable if I wasn't there, if you had
Speaker 1: no connection.
Speaker 4: I'm so interesting, deadly awkward.
Speaker 3: So I think that's the other thing is, like, you know,
Speaker 3: in being an adult, making new friends is such a
Speaker 3: weird thing. And the last time you did it, and
Speaker 3: I thought that being a making new friends is when
Speaker 3: I first started at roll wed but and I was like,
Speaker 3: but it wasn't really because I've gown in Melbourne, Like,
Speaker 3: I had so many friends from childhood that no matter
Speaker 3: if I didn't make if I didn't make any new friends,
Speaker 3: I had existing friends.
Speaker 1: This instances like I've got no backup, you're loner. Look
Speaker 1: at my dog photos cute.
Speaker 2: Walk past someone and be like, oh my dog, yeah cute?
Speaker 4: Did you?
Speaker 2: Oh he's cute. Yeah, his name's Roomy. Oh you didn't
Speaker 2: say anything. Oh, okay, my name's Anechi.
Speaker 4: You actually won't know me if I'm sissy.
Speaker 1: Do you don't know me from yours from like our
Speaker 1: quarterly episode? No, but I'm really excited to see I
Speaker 1: feel like it'll be like really valuable for people to
Speaker 1: hear you go through the transition and interesting that you
Speaker 1: aren't moving for your career, because I think the only
Speaker 1: thing that normally would pull someone away is if their
Speaker 1: career prospect was so strong, or they moved for love
Speaker 1: or something that's like kind of come out of nowhere
Speaker 1: and it's all consuming. But yours hasn't been like that.
Speaker 1: It's been like this slow burn idea that kind of
Speaker 1: grew and then it's kind of like it's not one
Speaker 1: of those things that normally draws you into a different place.
Speaker 1: So it's interesting, it'd be really really cool to follow along.
Speaker 1: It's and also awful on the worst day of my life.
Speaker 2: It shouldn't be both at once.
Speaker 3: And this has been the great This is like being
Speaker 3: the great thing of us being in to know because
Speaker 3: we truly haven't spoken about it. But it's always good
Speaker 3: because I always I love you, know me, You're like
Speaker 3: my moral compass, and you say.
Speaker 4: You're like my mom.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm not that old of Jesus. Some days
Speaker 2: you are some days sometimes.
Speaker 1: I'm all them, sister, And I'm like, but.
Speaker 3: No, is that your I value your perspective a lot,
Speaker 3: and I feel like sometimes I just need someone else
Speaker 3: to tell me what I need.
Speaker 4: You know, when you're in.
Speaker 3: Those things where it's been so overwhelming to think about that,
Speaker 3: you're like, I can't actually see that straight. All the
Speaker 3: lines are blur and often to you and I'm like,
Speaker 3: do you think I should do this? Not because you know,
Speaker 3: I can't make that decision for myself, but it's often
Speaker 3: that I've thought so much about it and I'm like,
Speaker 3: I'm into too close, yeah, whereas and you know me
Speaker 3: actually so incredibly well that there's I think there's actually
Speaker 3: been times where when I was writing here, I was
Speaker 3: thinking about it. Where when I quit physio fall time
Speaker 3: two years ago, I was.
Speaker 4: Like, should I do it? And You're like, you know, it's.
Speaker 3: Been eight months now that since the first time you
Speaker 3: said that to me, and you're still saying it. So
Speaker 3: I think yes, and I think itching, and I kept
Speaker 3: being not stressed, but I kept being like financially, like,
Speaker 3: how does that even work for me? And the one
Speaker 3: thing you said was that, well, you doing this maybe
Speaker 3: per you know, like base salary, you're getting less or
Speaker 3: whatever it is, but it gives you the opportunity to
Speaker 3: make more because you have more control over the time
Speaker 3: that you because it's all you know, like freelance or
Speaker 3: remote work, where whereas at the hospital you can you're
Speaker 3: stuck somewhere from nine to five, and so the extra
Speaker 3: hours of being able to make more is really limited,
Speaker 3: whereas now you have anyway, So you said that to me,
Speaker 3: and I.
Speaker 4: Was like, true, And on my ride here, that's like
Speaker 4: the one thing I was thinking about.
Speaker 3: I was like, remember that time Sairly said you'd probably
Speaker 3: be able to make more because you have the time
Speaker 3: to take more opportunities to do it.
Speaker 4: And I was like, that's exactly what's happened.
Speaker 2: I'm a genius, you are. That's the end of the story.
Speaker 4: Anyway, So long short, going to visit a lot. It's
Speaker 4: going to be a fun place to visit and.
Speaker 2: I'll be so good for Teddy like water and apparently
Speaker 2: where we.
Speaker 3: Want to live is where it's really family friendly because
Speaker 3: a massive creek and it's right next to it.
Speaker 4: It's like ten minutes from the Golgos airport where there's
Speaker 4: always really cheap flights.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, coolly so cheap.
Speaker 3: And then and also the other thing is that we've
Speaker 3: kind of given it too years with knowing the first
Speaker 3: six months, we're going to be traveling heaps, so knowing
Speaker 3: how quickly years go, I think it'll just fly. But
Speaker 3: at the same time, I'll come back and Teddy's like three.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I feel like he's three already. It's
Speaker 2: just happening so far.
Speaker 4: So I'll be back and forth.
Speaker 3: I'd imagine quite a lot to visit Teddy and other
Speaker 3: babies at all being born, all in the next twelve months.
Speaker 4: And I always forget that. I'm like, you're not moving
Speaker 4: to like Antarctica. I know it one hour.
Speaker 2: I think it's like fifty minutes.
Speaker 1: Seriously, It's like is at the same time, No, it's
Speaker 1: an hour different, Like what is it?
Speaker 4: No, because I've done that Savings is it too? I
Speaker 4: think right now is maybe just one.
Speaker 1: I love how we both have our phones within three
Speaker 1: inches to Google. In my life, it's like forty five minutes.
Speaker 4: It's not a factual podcast accurate accuracy.
Speaker 1: Go somewhere else or at least not yeahs not fast
Speaker 1: to talking that.
Speaker 2: You should know better, you should know.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, what a big update, Like I don't
Speaker 1: even know. I can't even talk about it anymore because
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, it's not happening. But like, I'm glad,
Speaker 1: I'm really glad we had that chat. Yeah, me too,
Speaker 1: I'm kind of but also I refuse to talk about it anymore.
Speaker 2: Guys, if you want to know how I'm feeling, donut,
Speaker 2: it's a naise of my life at this moment. I'm
Speaker 2: excited for you, but I'm sad.
Speaker 4: But do we do like a naty like you're eighteen?
Speaker 3: Yourey, what were your nighty's in twenty twenty four and
Speaker 3: Foot went overseas and.
Speaker 4: That was a big name.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 1: Now every episode that we do is going to be
Speaker 1: noral nads of our lives.
Speaker 3: No, and this is when we pos like I had
Speaker 3: all these dop points, I didn't even get to them.
Speaker 2: I'll say them for next time. No, it was just
Speaker 2: like cute little things. Watching it make me happy.
Speaker 1: So you'll have to wait till twenty twenty nine to
Speaker 1: hear my recommendations. I love that I was so aspirational
Speaker 1: and I truly believed I would get to my dot points.
Speaker 2: I actually made top point.
Speaker 4: I'm really proud of you. Do you want to just
Speaker 4: quickly starts shut down?
Speaker 2: No, because you know me, it'll take another fifty minutes.
Speaker 4: No, your first top point will be like, actually, reminds.
Speaker 1: Me remember that time like seven years ago. Every also,
Speaker 1: oh my god, wicked. And then we'll go all the
Speaker 1: way around the circle.
Speaker 4: And then what's the new pronunciation once?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, yeah, it's why ed Okay, oh god.
Speaker 2: Oh my god.
Speaker 1: I'm really excited for you guys. This means we will
Speaker 1: be doing I guess like remote normal. I guess yeah,
Speaker 1: we're going to be doing right, but there'll be lots
Speaker 1: of I feel like the updates and revelations will be
Speaker 1: coming thick and fast because you'll be like on this
Speaker 1: adventure and.
Speaker 4: We'll need it to catch up.
Speaker 1: You guys will do you know what we should do
Speaker 1: for this episode. We should just record our face times and.
Speaker 4: I think we're talking face times. We just.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, guys. The biggest years of my life.
Speaker 1: It was us a wicked when Clary caught a video
Speaker 1: of us doing out. You guys know, we do those
Speaker 1: weird facial expressions at each other and we just know
Speaker 1: what it means and no one.
Speaker 2: Else gets it. She caught this seven second video.
Speaker 1: It just happened to get us doing the weirdest face
Speaker 1: at each other, and we knew what we were talking, no
Speaker 1: one else knew, and I was like, is that what
Speaker 1: we look like to other people?
Speaker 4: It was like it maybe sign language.
Speaker 2: Exactly, like one hundred percent. You weren't even looking at me,
Speaker 2: like I wasn't.
Speaker 1: I was on my phone, and then suddenly I broke
Speaker 1: into the same action, like I didn't even I didn't
Speaker 1: see you before I did the same action.
Speaker 4: We're just so oblivious to everyone. We just think like
Speaker 4: it's our own world and no one else.
Speaker 2: Literally.
Speaker 4: Literally, she was like, you guys are like two.
Speaker 3: Pieces of a point and she showed me and I
Speaker 3: was like, I couldn't even tell you when in that
Speaker 3: night that happened.
Speaker 2: Because I know, but I also like, I didn't know
Speaker 2: we look like that when we do it. I was like,
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, that's what other people see. Literally, it's like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, never showed me that.
Speaker 3: Every day sometimes it's like, why are you guys talking
Speaker 3: so loud that we just have no understanding that the
Speaker 3: world exists.
Speaker 1: There's like a whole neighborhoods, there's a white neighborhood out there.
Speaker 1: Thank god there's no live audience, because it just'd be
Speaker 1: awful for everyone anyway. Any of the two who were
Speaker 1: already dropped off.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, be guys.
Speaker 4: We from.
Speaker 1: So I've obviously been a lot more dedicated to weekly episodes.
Speaker 2: I'm so excited.
Speaker 1: The other day we got I didn't even know because
Speaker 1: I haven't been looking at this because I don't do
Speaker 1: this for like, this is not a gossip show, so
Speaker 1: obviously we're not going to be right up the top
Speaker 1: with you know, your Mum and Meir out lab this
Speaker 1: Shane Less like all those kind of shows. Anyway, we
Speaker 1: were number thirty seven in Australia on the Child the
Speaker 1: other day.
Speaker 2: I was like, I thought we dropped off that like
Speaker 2: one years ago. I didn't know until like a couple
Speaker 2: of days ago.
Speaker 1: Anyway, thank you all so much for coming back while
Speaker 1: we've been you know, getting our groove back again and
Speaker 1: getting back to more regular We were like number eleven
Speaker 1: in our category in Society and Culture, which is like
Speaker 1: the big category with all of the big like talk
Speaker 1: shows anyway, and that's without like kind of topical gossipy
Speaker 1: current topics anyway. So I had also been trying to
Speaker 1: make a bigger effort to post episodes or things that
Speaker 1: aren't out yet in other like that, I haven't posted
Speaker 1: on socials or that the episode has just gone live
Speaker 1: in the Facebook group. Happened every post because I haven't
Speaker 1: been on it for so many years.
Speaker 2: The reach on Facebook is like, I don't know.
Speaker 1: It doesn't even come up in my fee so I
Speaker 1: don't know who's It's like three people saw it anyway,
Speaker 1: Elizabeth Holloway and Duty.
Speaker 4: Still they know.
Speaker 2: They just like every post.
Speaker 1: The support I get from my mum and my auntie
Speaker 1: and nobody else is so so I'm like, you know,
Speaker 1: I would really like to be not just pushing this
Speaker 1: out to my family.
Speaker 3: You're eleven because I'm so cute. Your auntie Judy has
Speaker 3: bought twelve hundred phones and one.
Speaker 2: Anyway, it's really cute.
Speaker 1: So I will get a little bit better at the
Speaker 1: Facebook group. But yeah, it's really cute. They literally like
Speaker 1: every post and no one else.
Speaker 4: It's so cute. Can everyone also just like write a
Speaker 4: review or something? Yeah?
Speaker 2: But I never forget to ask you have like this
Speaker 2: is ask people to do that because.
Speaker 3: If you are actually listening, can you, if you are
Speaker 3: actually got to the end of this, can you please
Speaker 3: put like a review with like a nugget word in
Speaker 3: it to know that it's come from this review.
Speaker 2: Okay, what is some meaning from this episode? Should the
Speaker 2: word be oh, code word?
Speaker 1: Code word is we're going to be here to like
Speaker 1: If no, you don't, you can't work.
Speaker 4: That podcast.
Speaker 3: If I was so good, I had so much fun
Speaker 3: listening to. If to that.
Speaker 2: Is great, just leave, my God, we have to finish.
Speaker 1: If you are to listening God, oh my goodness, thank
Speaker 1: you so much for sticking with us.
Speaker 2: This will be our last years of our lives.
Speaker 1: For the year, because I think we have actually finished recording.
Speaker 1: I think I'm that far now, which is wild because
Speaker 1: I was not ahead for a very.
Speaker 3: Long that the first one back actually has to do
Speaker 3: like a year review because we haven't even done.
Speaker 2: It, yeah, or like a resolutions.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, especially so I'm not going to get to
Speaker 1: my fucking dot points then either I haven't even said
Speaker 1: just really cute, feel good stuff that I found on
Speaker 1: the internet. We're really not We're really not good.
Speaker 2: Okay, one of them is. Okay, one of them is.
Speaker 2: It's not feel good. It is for me.
Speaker 1: But it's just the random fact that February next year. Wait,
Speaker 1: it's not even that relevant. It's February twenty twenty six.
Speaker 1: It's like when the calendar is laid out in February
Speaker 1: because it's twenty eight days, where it's like one to
Speaker 1: twenty eight is just four rows. That makes me so
Speaker 1: happy that that satisfies my brain so much.
Speaker 4: Okay, we didn't get to your dop points.
Speaker 1: No, but the other one is like, you know how
Speaker 1: because it's Thanksgiving? Yeah, like in the States, any.
Speaker 2: Doing my points? We need to stop do this one.
Speaker 1: So in twenty sixteen, I don't know if you guys
Speaker 1: have heard this, but this guy Jamal, who's like this young,
Speaker 1: like cool looking guy, who accidentally got a text message
Speaker 1: from this older woman who's a grandmother and I think
Speaker 1: she was many. She meant to message her entire family saying,
Speaker 1: dear everyone, Thanksgiving dinner at six point thirty, bring a
Speaker 1: plate or something like that, and she sent it to
Speaker 1: the wrong guy and he said who's this and she
Speaker 1: said grandma, And he's like, send a photo because I
Speaker 1: don't think you're my grandma. And she goes, yes, I'm
Speaker 1: here at work and send a photo of herself and
Speaker 1: he sends back this like wrapper looking photo, going you're
Speaker 1: not my grandma?
Speaker 2: Can I still get a plate?
Speaker 4: Though?
Speaker 2: And she rides back. Of course you can. That's what
Speaker 2: grandma's do. They feed everyone. He went to the dinner.
Speaker 4: Oh my god. Stop.
Speaker 1: And so she had meant to invite her grandson but
Speaker 1: mistakenly sent his number. They have shared Thanksgiving dinner every year.
Speaker 4: Stop.
Speaker 2: Well shit, okay, we said twenty sixteen. We'll reshare this
Speaker 2: on sash. That's the sweetest thing.
Speaker 4: That is really sweet.
Speaker 1: And I just have been in my scrolls and I
Speaker 1: didn't have any recommendations for so long because I wasn't
Speaker 1: scrolling because i was just being a mum.
Speaker 2: But now I've got a little bit more time. I
Speaker 2: just found all these really nice, feel good things.
Speaker 1: And one more I just have to say, if you
Speaker 1: guys really need to be shit, if you really need
Speaker 1: to smile, America's got talent. This is really old news,
Speaker 1: but I just rediscovered it the other day. Actually he's
Speaker 1: this year's winner, but it's from a couple of months ago,
Speaker 1: so it's not like super new anyway. The winner this
Speaker 1: year is a school janitor called Richard Goodall, who looks
Speaker 1: like exactly what you think like stereotypical. I don't know
Speaker 1: what a stereotypical school janet looks like. But he doesn't
Speaker 1: look like in the movies a superstar, like with this
Speaker 1: incredible voice, like a rock star voice. Anyway, you know
Speaker 1: how those auditions where they just have totally underestimated the
Speaker 1: person and then they blow everyone away and it's and
Speaker 1: all their school students are there. Anyway, we watched his
Speaker 1: audition all the way through to the grand final, like
Speaker 1: every single song that he sang, and in the end,
Speaker 1: so the song I think that he the one he
Speaker 1: wowed them within his audition for one of the rounds,
Speaker 1: they got the original band to play with him.
Speaker 4: Stop.
Speaker 2: That is so sad and it just made.
Speaker 1: Me want to cry because he's an extraordinary singer, but
Speaker 1: he looks like one of those people that would forever
Speaker 1: be underestimated. You'd never find out he had that skill.
Speaker 1: Without shows like that, there's no way he would have
Speaker 1: been discovered. And it just was so feel good. So
Speaker 1: if you have a bad day, go and look out
Speaker 1: Richard Goodell.
Speaker 3: Okay, I think I'm glad you did a couple of
Speaker 3: dop points because then we leave on a happy note.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but they're both like Rando an American, and I
Speaker 1: don't feel like I did a really comprehensive job of
Speaker 1: my dop points.
Speaker 3: But we did also say that we're in podcast ten
Speaker 3: minutes ago, so yeah.
Speaker 1: Also I love how we doing like thirty minute bite
Speaker 1: sized episodes and it's been an hour and six minutes.
Speaker 2: Okay, Bye Bay, Bye
Speaker 3: Jan Framinate woman and frommen regina um