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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Seize the Yay Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Busy and happy are not the same thing. We too

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Speaker 2: rarely question what makes the heart seeing. We work, then

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Speaker 2: we rest, but rarely we play and often don't realize

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Speaker 2: there's more than one way. So this is the platforms

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Speaker 2: to hear and explore the stories of those who found

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Speaker 2: lives they adore, the good, bad and ugly, the best

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Speaker 2: and worst day will bear all the facets of Seizing

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Speaker 2: your Yea. I'm Sarah Davidson or a spoonful of Sarah,

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Speaker 2: a lawyer turned funentrepreneur who swapped the suits and heels

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Speaker 2: to co found Matcha Maiden and matcha Milk Bar. Sez

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Speaker 2: the Ya is a series of conversations on finding a

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Speaker 2: life you love and exploring the self doubt, challenge, joy

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Speaker 2: and fulfillment along the way.

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Speaker 3: Hi Berm, Welcome to twenty twenty four. This is take

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Speaker 3: seventy five, Just today Tea and attempt probably eight hundred

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm telling you, every time we start this podcast

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Speaker 1: we say we suck.

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Speaker 3: We started today because it's so far we've been. You've

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Speaker 3: come over here, record and then something happens.

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Speaker 1: We eat it's usually we eat, we eat.

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Speaker 3: A snack and then we get in a food coma

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Speaker 3: and then we don't want to do it anymore. And

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Speaker 3: then you're like, okay, let's record, and I'm like, nah,

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Speaker 3: I'm over there.

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Speaker 1: And then you and I are both like good enough

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Speaker 1: with each other that we're like, are you tired? And

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Speaker 1: You're like no, no, no, no, no, bear you tie and

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Speaker 1: I'm like no, no, no, just tell me, are you tired?

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Speaker 3: And I'm like like no, no, no, I'm good. And

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Speaker 3: then you're like Noah, I'm good too, and we're both

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Speaker 3: like can you be bothered?

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Speaker 1: N No.

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Speaker 3: But I think it's I think it's a good nah

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Speaker 3: nah no, No. I think it's a good development that

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Speaker 3: instead of being rigidly like you know, for the first

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Speaker 3: was it three years, I didn't take a week off.

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Speaker 1: I was so rigid and.

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Speaker 3: That was a and it was a beautiful time. We

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Speaker 3: had so many amazing guests. But we've kind of obviously

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Speaker 3: entered a bit of a different phase where flexibility and

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Speaker 3: seeing how you feel weak to week pr it's what's.

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Speaker 1: PERN in the hospital PRN.

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Speaker 3: What's that I think it stands for?

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Speaker 1: Like, I think it's pro renata or something which means

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Speaker 1: we just wanted to we feel like it. Oh cool,

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Speaker 1: we're doing this pr RENT or healthcare supporters out as

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Speaker 1: the thing is needed.

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Speaker 3: Oh is what PRN means? Special comments research. He's Jamie

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Speaker 3: from Joe Rogan. Guys, we've we've really changed the structure

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Speaker 3: around this year. We've got a studio. No, but basically

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Speaker 3: I had in our calendar from like jan eleven, first

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Speaker 3: yays of our lives back New Year's like Resolutions episode

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Speaker 3: New Year Knew me. Let's talk about a freshman year.

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Speaker 3: And we've tried. You've come over maybe six times, and

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Speaker 3: time I'm like, I'm just like, I'm just enjoying being pregnant.

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Speaker 1: Holiday of your Like, what do you meant to say

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Speaker 1: to someone that's like, oh, I'm pregnant and tired exactly?

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Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, good self care. Last last time moment

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Speaker 1: it was the sixteenth of January and I was like, okay,

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Speaker 1: so we recording tomorrow. And so I was like, no, no,

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Speaker 1: we don't come back until the twenty something. I don't no, no,

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Speaker 1: I swear my life. We agreed on the sixteenth. She's like, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I promise you it's the twenty something joint before it

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Speaker 1: was like the seventh easy your first one back, and.

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Speaker 3: Then we thought so obviously you guys can't see right now,

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Speaker 3: but you'll see the snippet. We are both wearing Speed

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Speaker 3: Dealer sunglasses for this episode for no reason.

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Speaker 1: Because this year's MOTI, because it is the need for speed,

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Speaker 1: for not speeding the actual.

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Speaker 3: Of what I've been doing, avoiding every single episode we've

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Speaker 3: done so far. But it is time because it's the

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Speaker 3: end of January. Yes, it's actually the end of the month,

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Speaker 3: but every year I say this, I kind of feel

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Speaker 3: like January is are warmer where you still don't really

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Speaker 3: know what day it is. You're kind of getting you know,

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Speaker 1: So really, feb first.

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Speaker 3: Is New Year's Yeah, that's what I had to say

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Speaker 3: to the support and this will hopefully be time to

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Speaker 3: come out on February first, So new months knew me,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, new month, new birth year knew me. That counts.

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Speaker 1: We can do. We can do feb second every year

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Speaker 1: FB second is and his birth year. Guys, that's birthday.

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Speaker 3: That's really good, and it gets worse and worse, Like

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Speaker 3: I feel like as our standards rely, we only.

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Speaker 1: Ever end the podcast when we're both look at Tomine

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Speaker 3: It's too much, it's too much, okay. But we did

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Speaker 3: have a really planned out structure for what the first

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Speaker 3: few episodes of the year would because they were themed

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Speaker 3: around like the first one back would be what are

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Speaker 3: your intentions for the year?

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Speaker 1: How are you feeling?

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Speaker 3: And the last one we did was meant to be

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Speaker 1: Did remember honestly, if you get to the end of

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Speaker 1: this episode, but the sort of reward we decide.

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Speaker 3: So we're going to do giveaways every week where and

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Speaker 3: wears the thing or uses the product in the episode,

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Speaker 3: and we'll just give away that one product, and we're

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Speaker 3: going to leave anyone who actually bothers.

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Speaker 1: We'll even nugget of what you have to the entry requirements.

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Speaker 3: But that's not starting this week because.

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Speaker 2: That star.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's really weird.

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Speaker 3: I mean, part of my whole chain mentality for twenty

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Speaker 3: But I just realized we're in the single week's left

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Speaker 3: so if we do the giveaway, should I contact some

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Speaker 3: the giveaways, like should we do like one is sunglasses,

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Speaker 3: the next week is black And I'm like, well, I

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Speaker 3: So we're going very spontaneously, like more than I ever

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm doing I'm kind of not really able to

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Speaker 1: It's so crazy because you just still don't look it.

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Speaker 3: I don't know where that association comes from. Firstly, they

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Speaker 3: So it's been lovely to A realize it's not nearly

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Speaker 1: Update whatever you had to cut out or what's been difficult.

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Speaker 1: Like I thought there was no car like type diabetic.

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Speaker 1: Shut up.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I literally thought, not only is just otional diabetes.

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Speaker 3: As soon as the baby's born, it goes away. So

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Speaker 3: like I cried. I was like, you can't take bread

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Speaker 3: and I just was like, oh my god, like we

439
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Speaker 3: can feel the baby kicking all the time. I just

440
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Speaker 3: had this weird window of like not feeling nauseous but

441
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Speaker 3: not being in pain where I just was like naked

442
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Speaker 3: all the time, and I was just like, this is

443
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Speaker 3: so beautiful anyway. And on that like in the middle

444
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Speaker 3: of that, she's like, I want to help women capture

445
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Speaker 3: that feeling because they often go back to then postpartum,

446
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Speaker 3: being like I hope my body I wanted to go

447
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Speaker 3: back to.

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Speaker 1: It was anyway, and she's like, I can come to

449
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Speaker 1: your hotel and do it. Oh my gosh, like today,

450
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Speaker 1: and I got and she came and we did it

451
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Speaker 1: and it was the most amazing thing.

452
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Speaker 3: And no one else in Australia does a take anology

453
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:03,040
Speaker 3: that she does, and I just was blown away by

454
00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:05,080
Speaker 3: her and the whole experiences.

455
00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:07,439
Speaker 1: And what's her business names called Set and Max.

456
00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:10,359
Speaker 3: I've posted it about it, so there's a static post

457
00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 3: and some links in stories, but I'll repost it again

458
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Speaker 3: when we share this episode, and she's doing pop ups

459
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Speaker 3: in Sydney and Melbourne coming up as well.

460
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Speaker 1: Really we should meet her. I know she's.

461
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Speaker 3: Yeah, you should meet her so that she can do

462
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Speaker 3: your booby.

463
00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:34,400
Speaker 1: Only one google, but literally took three.

464
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Speaker 3: Minutes for her to do the philosophy, and then the

465
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Speaker 3: rest was like making sure the angles were right and

466
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Speaker 3: like you kind of like change your poses around a

467
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Speaker 3: few times until you're comfortable with it, and then in

468
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Speaker 3: a couple of months, so she paused, literally paused the

469
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Speaker 3: bronze and in a couple of months it a right.

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Speaker 1: So you haven't got yours yet, No, so the one

471
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Speaker 1: you should shared wasn't.

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Speaker 3: They were just like models for her to show you

473
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Speaker 3: the colors so you can choose, like she can polish

474
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Speaker 3: it all the way to gold, she can leave it brassy,

475
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,240
Speaker 3: have white or black, and then there's like this halfway

476
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Speaker 3: point that's kind of a blue.

477
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Speaker 1: It was just like you know when you like it's

478
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 1: the definition of CVA.

479
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Speaker 3: You know, when we find businesses that are doing things

480
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:12,439
Speaker 3: that are so niche and they've just someone's just had

481
00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 3: an idea that they loved and rolled with it. And

482
00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:17,400
Speaker 3: then no one else is creating that for women.

483
00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:18,959
Speaker 1: So cool, it's so awesome.

484
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Speaker 3: And the messages I got from other women being like,

485
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Speaker 3: oh my gosh, if I wouldn't have known about that,

486
00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 3: and I was like, if she didn't message me, I

487
00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:27,840
Speaker 3: wouldn't have known about it, because like magical, because people have.

488
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Speaker 1: Done casting for eighties before the babies like hands and

489
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Speaker 1: feet and things. Yeah, but never for I've never been.

490
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Speaker 1: And also this is it's like a three D photo.

491
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Speaker 3: Instead of people do like the plaster on your belly

492
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Speaker 3: where you like put it on the outside, but it

493
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Speaker 3: doesn't do.

494
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Speaker 1: Like a full bust like like ache, Like yeah, was

495
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Speaker 1: that one of your question? That's so bad? And Nick

496
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Speaker 1: has some questions from the audience, being Nick, I have

497
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Speaker 1: two questions.

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Speaker 3: He told me before we started recording. You don't often

499
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 3: put your hand out to continue your responses to the Okay,

500
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 3: come come on the couch. Tell us about the story.

501
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Speaker 1: How many straws? How many holes in a straw? One?

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Speaker 3: Two?

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Speaker 1: What all? One? It's one continuing.

504
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:26,440
Speaker 3: The holes are at the end though, because the continuous

505
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 3: thing is the tunnel, isn't it was it one hole

506
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Speaker 3: all the way through?

507
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Speaker 1: That has nothing to do with what we've been talking about.

508
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 1: Why did you choose this? Spect comments? You so sweet?

509
00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:41,960
Speaker 3: I'm going to be like, and then you just look

510
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:44,879
Speaker 3: so happy in your body and the mold was amazing.

511
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Speaker 1: I would say two.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to say, I don't know what what do

513
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Speaker 3: you say?

514
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Speaker 1: Because what if you?

515
00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:54,919
Speaker 3: But what was your answer?

516
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:55,359
Speaker 1: Also?

517
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Speaker 3: Why are you not wearing speed dealers?

518
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Speaker 2: Something?

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00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:01,159
Speaker 1: If you have a hole in the wall, is that

520
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 1: one hole of two? There's still one entry.

521
00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:05,879
Speaker 3: And exit point, but the entry is a hole in

522
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Speaker 3: the exits the hole, So you have you have two holes?

523
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Speaker 3: Would you say, I'd say two, there's one on each side,

524
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Speaker 3: a hole on each side of the wall. You would not?

525
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Speaker 1: You would?

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Speaker 3: I would if you put a hole in the wall,

527
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Speaker 3: would say there's two holes in the wall. Would you say, look,

528
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Speaker 3: I'd say no, yeah, But it's not as if I

529
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Speaker 3: had put a hole as long as a straw, I'd

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Speaker 3: say at one end there's one hole in it, the

531
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Speaker 3: other there's another hole.

532
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Speaker 1: So that only even hits a particular tunnel length.

533
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Speaker 3: If there's a tunnel, then it's too hot.

534
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Speaker 1: It's just one if the walls one being really really

535
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Speaker 1: finish that one hole, But that's not a straw. That's

536
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Speaker 1: like a long Does a tunnel need to be before

537
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Speaker 1: you consider it? Two holes?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, like how string would The second question

539
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Speaker 3: what would happen?

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Speaker 1: Said, yeah, my nose is a have to grow nothing

541
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Speaker 1: as in because it's not a lie or it is

542
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:11,840
Speaker 1: a lie. If he said my nose, yeah, what happened?

543
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:12,400
Speaker 1: Does it grow?

544
00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:13,120
Speaker 2: Does it not grow?

545
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:16,040
Speaker 1: Well? I think it's a lie, so it does grow.

546
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:17,320
Speaker 1: That's true.

547
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Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's so circular.

548
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Speaker 1: This is my brother. No, that's a really good they're

549
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:27,560
Speaker 1: good this year? Or that? Yeah? Question that was anymore? Yeah?

550
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:37,280
Speaker 1: What is try? Hashtag collab free trials ended?

551
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:41,400
Speaker 3: You're gonna subscribe if you want on the show.

552
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:46,240
Speaker 1: You've got prescriptions and extra prom.

553
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:52,479
Speaker 3: Which is he walking around talking on business calls? They

554
00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:54,479
Speaker 3: were good questions. We don't have any other this year?

555
00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:56,200
Speaker 3: That yeah, because we forgot that's yeah.

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Speaker 1: I have another one. What is it? You didn't ask

557
00:27:59,080 --> 00:27:59,920
Speaker 1: the tape of contents?

558
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:08,440
Speaker 4: We've now just don't even know what the show is about. Okay,

559
00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:10,200
Speaker 4: we have moved to this way or that year?

560
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:10,399
Speaker 1: Then?

561
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 3: Yeah?

562
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 1: And what was the summer what we were just talking about.

563
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Speaker 1: I'll share the link about it.

564
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:17,640
Speaker 3: Yes, that was and the baby moon generally was lovely,

565
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:20,240
Speaker 3: and then we went back to Byron. On the way

566
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Speaker 3: we went to Elements and we created the same photo

567
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,119
Speaker 3: that we had taken on our honeymoon and it was

568
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 3: really cute. And that's the end.

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Speaker 1: Ye had to speed.

570
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:35,399
Speaker 3: And summary is now we are at Yes, we're in

571
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Speaker 3: the single ditchs before the baby's born, and we're so

572
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 3: excited and Nick's really excited.

573
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, which will go we will have to go back

574
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 1: to because you said yeah, yeah, my other one was

575
00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 1: at one point, is someone your friend? I saw this

576
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 1: on someone? What's the point?

577
00:28:55,200 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 3: I think it's lots of different criteria. For example, well,

578
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 3: for you, it was like when you had when you

579
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 3: started farting in front of me freely.

580
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 1: That was really far in No, it was it what

581
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 1: do you do when?

582
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:16,720
Speaker 3: As far gross, I'm going to keep that in. I

583
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 3: didn't hear it on that. I would say, like like

584
00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 3: when you go from an acquaintance to a friend, do

585
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 3: you mean.

586
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:27,240
Speaker 1: I get well? Like, for example, you worked with someone

587
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:30,239
Speaker 1: in retail in like ten years ago, Okay, when are

588
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:32,959
Speaker 1: you a friend? And you were good friends with them

589
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,960
Speaker 1: then and then now you chat to each other once

590
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Speaker 1: every two years.

591
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 3: If they were replied to your story, Okay.

592
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:41,440
Speaker 1: So that's someone like, oh someone I know? Was that

593
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:42,280
Speaker 1: your friend?

594
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 3: That's a really hard one.

595
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:48,200
Speaker 1: I think automatically people would assume it's like a frequency thing.

596
00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 3: I would definitely not think that. Like, the people I'm

597
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:53,160
Speaker 3: the closest too, are not the people I say the

598
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:56,440
Speaker 3: most often. Always like you and I have a very

599
00:29:56,560 --> 00:30:00,080
Speaker 3: very high frequency. But most of my closest friends and

600
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:02,880
Speaker 3: not the people I say the most because we live

601
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 3: in different states, or because like I don't know, we

602
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:09,280
Speaker 3: just have incompatible sort of schedules.

603
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Speaker 1: I don't know.

604
00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 3: That's a really interesting one.

605
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 1: I still yet to hear anyone's definite advances. Someone replied instead.

606
00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:17,240
Speaker 3: I think it's different for each relationship.

607
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 1: Have their phone number. Oh but I was like so

608
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:22,720
Speaker 1: many people, like I know a lot of people that

609
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:27,800
Speaker 1: don't even have people's numbers. They just do messenger DM.

610
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Speaker 3: And it no longer is like when you remember their

611
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:32,760
Speaker 3: birthday because we all just have calendar advites and you

612
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 3: know that kind of stuff, or know their phone number

613
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 3: because who knows anyone's phone number off by heart? Is

614
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:39,000
Speaker 3: it when you've like, so I know someone's a really

615
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 3: good friend if you've met their parents.

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Speaker 1: You keep changing the question. The question is when is

617
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Speaker 1: someone a friend or someone that you know. It's like

618
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:51,920
Speaker 1: the mafia where he's a friend of mine, a friend

619
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Speaker 1: of ours? Oh are they different?

620
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:56,920
Speaker 3: Friend of mine means you're killed them.

621
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Speaker 1: Friend means he's involved.

622
00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 3: In the business like just a friend.

623
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:16,000
Speaker 1: No, anyway, I can't subscribe to their premium. Different a

624
00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 1: friend of ours or a friend of mine, different parts

625
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 1: We paid for the non adversion.

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Speaker 3: I reckon, do you know?

627
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 1: I reckon?

628
00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 3: It's just like a feeling of whether how much you

629
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 3: like them, like how much you click?

630
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 1: And then as you were saying, a good friend, Yeah,

631
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 1: what's the what's what's the landmark? What's the milestone?

632
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 3: I think one of the markets is like if you've

633
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:43,240
Speaker 3: been to each other's houses, oh yes, yep, or if

634
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:45,959
Speaker 3: you've done an activity if your work colleagues is if

635
00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 3: you've done something.

636
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 1: That wasn't work related, Yeah, that makes you a friend.

637
00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, like if you went out for coffee and it

638
00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 3: wasn't a work coffee, Yeah, what would you What.

639
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:57,560
Speaker 1: Would you call that person that I worked with in

640
00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 1: retail ten years ago and was really close then, But then.

641
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:04,440
Speaker 3: I'd say I'd say, like a really old friend.

642
00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, fair and old.

643
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 3: If they're like someone you have been in touch with

644
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:10,560
Speaker 3: as much recently, I'd say one of my friends from

645
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 3: back in the day. I actually say friends from back

646
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:13,120
Speaker 3: in the day quite a bit.

647
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:16,120
Speaker 1: What about if they're like, you worked in retail and

648
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 1: they were a customer and you chat it often, and

649
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 1: then you like attitude, and then you went on data

650
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 1: Yeah no, and then you add on social media and

651
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:24,600
Speaker 1: then like you that's how you kick I'd be like,

652
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 1: that's someone you would you just say Facebook friends? Yeah,

653
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:30,960
Speaker 1: my Facebook friend. I just say someone I used to

654
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:34,480
Speaker 1: work with. I don't know, depends, it's hard. I was

655
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:36,080
Speaker 1: thinking about I was thinking about that because I was

656
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 1: trying to tell my housemaid a story about some like

657
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 1: this person, and I was like, wait, do I say

658
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:46,480
Speaker 1: like someone I know or my friend? Because I couldn't

659
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 1: establish I think I.

660
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:51,480
Speaker 3: Think my default is often unless they're seriously someone I

661
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 3: haven't had a lot of connection with, even back at

662
00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 3: the time when we were working together, whatever the situation was,

663
00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 3: I would just say my friend. Yeah, I'd just say

664
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 3: my friend who used to work with. I wouldn't specify, like,

665
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:05,960
Speaker 3: but they are now no longer an acquaintance on the

666
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 3: scheme of close meess like I been bumped down a

667
00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 3: couple of Yeah, like I probably wouldn't. I think I

668
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 3: probably only have a couple of I think we all

669
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 3: only have a few words of categories. There's like one

670
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:20,680
Speaker 3: of my besties, one of my good friends, one of

671
00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:24,360
Speaker 3: my friends, and then there's like colleagues or someone I knew.

672
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, good, Well, I don't think that's a.

673
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:29,280
Speaker 3: Very interesting segment, just saying.

674
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:34,040
Speaker 1: You hear me.

675
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 3: Oh my, I's been thirty three minutes already of just

676
00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 3: absolute trash. Sorry, guys, welcome to twenty twenty four.

677
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 1: Well we can go back. Well, next seg ye, as

678
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 1: according to the table of contents, is.

679
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:49,840
Speaker 3: From the neighborhood the yable of contents.

680
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 2: Oh no, this is.

681
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:57,719
Speaker 1: Okay. Do you think that our next episode should be questioned?

682
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 3: Should this just be like welcome by No, okay, I'll

683
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 3: have to make an executive decision, as this is the

684
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:12,520
Speaker 3: neighborhood of content yabel like table. Sorry, we're doing another

685
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 3: questions next to you. Yeah, okay, we did put up

686
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:20,400
Speaker 3: this pole. We have to we do have to respond

687
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:22,359
Speaker 3: the other thing we did.

688
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:24,360
Speaker 1: Oh my god, we've done so much we went to

689
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 1: the tennis that was that was yesterday, and we still forgot.

690
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 1: I know, I have never done I don't think I've

691
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:32,880
Speaker 1: ever surprised. Have I ever surprised you? Well, I was

692
00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:36,200
Speaker 1: telling my partner. I was like, well, I don't feel

693
00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 1: like I've truly ever been from the feeling of being surprised.

694
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:43,280
Speaker 1: I have people have surprised me in the past many times,

695
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 1: but I don't know the feeling of truly like having

696
00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 1: no idea. I feel like this may be my first

697
00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:54,760
Speaker 1: time that I always like, we always do random surprises,

698
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:58,279
Speaker 1: which it's really cute to do these like friend friendship

699
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:02,520
Speaker 1: date nights. Yeah, that's cue, and we'd have like some idea.

700
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:04,680
Speaker 1: Actually shook me to this live show once and I

701
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:06,439
Speaker 1: had no idea where we're going, and that was really cool.

702
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 1: But this one was like I just took me by

703
00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:11,799
Speaker 1: surprise as well.

704
00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:14,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you also didn't even know that we were

705
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:17,400
Speaker 3: catching up or seeing each other, like our date.

706
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 1: Nights with Loza and I, who is not my partner

707
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:21,880
Speaker 1: but one of my best ways people we used to

708
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:22,439
Speaker 1: think we were together.

709
00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:25,239
Speaker 3: Category would be one of my one of my best

710
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 3: category one okay great.

711
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 1: One a one a okay, cool, but this one I

712
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 1: genuinely like, I just it took me my surprise when

713
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:41,800
Speaker 1: expecting it wasn't. You know. Sometimes it's like people like

714
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:44,120
Speaker 1: save this date and we're doing a surprise. Yeah, it's

715
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:47,920
Speaker 1: different to like truly being like you had absolutely well.

716
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 3: Also usually like you, you've surprised me a lot of times,

717
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 3: but you've said keep like it's often often for our

718
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 3: birthdays and it's like on your burday you have to

719
00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:01,440
Speaker 3: decide are you free even Yeah, so you kind of

720
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:06,440
Speaker 3: know something's happening together, whereas because of your actual birthday

721
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:09,680
Speaker 3: being like a whole week away and you didn't know

722
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:11,160
Speaker 3: when and we.

723
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:14,600
Speaker 1: Hadn't even like so exactly. Essentially, what happened was it

724
00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:16,799
Speaker 1: was a beautiful day and I was just like chilling

725
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 1: at home, and then my partner was like, let's do

726
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:24,080
Speaker 1: something like cute tonight. Just be ready by five. And

727
00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:26,600
Speaker 1: this is not abnormal for either of us to Yeah,

728
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 1: it's gone on spontaneous and.

729
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 3: The weather was beautiful.

730
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we wrote. She's like, I know you're like riding,

731
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 1: so let's ride somewhere. Just take me to this because

732
00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:38,000
Speaker 1: you're not from Melbourne. She's like, take me to this place.

733
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:39,719
Speaker 1: And they'll know the rest of the way. You know.

734
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:41,600
Speaker 3: We got to this place where a long.

735
00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:43,399
Speaker 1: Time ago, I was like, this is probably like two

736
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 1: a year ago for your picnic spot. I was like, nobody,

737
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:49,440
Speaker 1: this most underrated picnic spock is. You get this beautiful

738
00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 1: view of the city.

739
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:52,120
Speaker 3: It is a really good picnic. It's a normous picnic

740
00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:52,759
Speaker 3: spots so good.

741
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:54,640
Speaker 1: People normally go to the town, which is beautiful, but

742
00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:56,840
Speaker 1: it's a little bit further out sometimes, whereas if you

743
00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 1: want something who's like really close to the CBD, you

744
00:36:59,160 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 1: can go here.

745
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 3: It's a fringe of the tent like it's kind of.

746
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:03,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's kind of Alexandria Gardens.

747
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's what it's called Monument Park. Monument Park,

748
00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 3: which I now know because she dropped a pin yeah,

749
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 3: and was like.

750
00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, so how do you picnic? And I was like,

751
00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 1: this is the surprises is so sweet and she was

752
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 1: like pack your dogs. I was like okay, and she's like,

753
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:22,359
Speaker 1: do not probe, and I was like, I swear my life,

754
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 1: I'm not probing because I was like, let's go shoe shopping.

755
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 1: Let's you wanted to go to shoe shopping. And then

756
00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 1: she's like yeah, let's just get there first for this

757
00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:33,640
Speaker 1: activity and then and then we'll go after. And in

758
00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 1: my brain, I truly thought we were going to go

759
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:37,759
Speaker 1: shoe shopping after she had all this food. And we

760
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 1: were like sitting there and it was really cute, and

761
00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:42,840
Speaker 1: I just gave her the most perfect situation because I

762
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I was like lying on her lap

763
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:46,759
Speaker 1: facing the opposite direction for you.

764
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 3: And which actually you were facing me. And I had

765
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:51,760
Speaker 3: to walk around the rose bushes. Okay, well, I ham

766
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 3: to behind your field division.

767
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 1: And I was just like sitting there looking at accommodation

768
00:37:57,360 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 1: and I could see her filming and still no clue,

769
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 1: and I just thought she was filming me looking at

770
00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:03,239
Speaker 1: accommodation for some silly reason.

771
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:08,240
Speaker 3: I don't know, No, like just why you just mensage

772
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 3: to me to saying like something about seeing each other

773
00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 3: the next day, and I was like, cute, yeah.

774
00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 1: Because I'm over and I'll see the dog. Yeah, we

775
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 1: were going to bring room in to the aunties. And

776
00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:20,840
Speaker 1: so just zero, just like a minus one hundred idea.

777
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:24,840
Speaker 1: And I had said i'd watch the men semifinals that before,

778
00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:27,360
Speaker 1: and my brain, I said, oh, I've never been to

779
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:32,920
Speaker 1: a Grand final actually, and I was telling my partners.

780
00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:36,640
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, the Women's Final starts to seven thirty.

781
00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:38,600
Speaker 1: She was like, we'll get you back home for that

782
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:41,120
Speaker 1: and I was like, no, no, no rush, but if

783
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:45,640
Speaker 1: we make it, that'd be as whatever. And then low

784
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:49,200
Speaker 1: in the hold, I'm lying there and this high pitched

785
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:54,240
Speaker 1: girl voice was like doing and I was like, shot

786
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:57,439
Speaker 1: to the core. I didn't even hear what you were saying.

787
00:38:57,600 --> 00:38:59,759
Speaker 1: I was just excited to see you and if they're

788
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:02,480
Speaker 1: came for the picture. Truly, I truly was like, why

789
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:04,880
Speaker 1: is she so you had like heels on? I was like,

790
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 1: why she dressed up to crash our picnic? But that's sweet.

791
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:09,799
Speaker 1: I didn't even think there could have been any other

792
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:11,800
Speaker 1: thing happening. I just thought you were joining our picnic.

793
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:14,239
Speaker 1: And then you'd said some words, and I still didn't

794
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:16,399
Speaker 1: understand what you were saying because I was still thinking.

795
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:19,400
Speaker 1: And then all I heard was I'm taking it to

796
00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 1: the Women's Final, and I.

797
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:23,400
Speaker 3: Was like, and then you clapped like a five year

798
00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:26,320
Speaker 3: old extended finger clapping jumping.

799
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 1: I was like, I've got my clothes. I was wearing

800
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:32,920
Speaker 1: like Darrow clothes. And then they were both had planned

801
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 1: and outfit and packed it in her bag and they

802
00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:42,239
Speaker 1: even brought like the hairs. That was was.

803
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 3: Like, she was so good thought out.

804
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:49,640
Speaker 1: It was the best. We had so much fun in

805
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 1: the water. We're just like because we hadn't seen each

806
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:57,200
Speaker 1: other since pre baby moon and that was the first time,

807
00:39:57,320 --> 00:40:00,120
Speaker 1: so it was like excitement plus catch up plus this

808
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 1: VIP experience.

809
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:03,799
Speaker 3: It was so lately to got to be your plus one,

810
00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:05,839
Speaker 3: to have you as my plus one.

811
00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 1: As my charitable deed for twenty twenty four is to

812
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:12,399
Speaker 1: bring sir to something she's otherwise would never have been

813
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:13,520
Speaker 1: able to experience.

814
00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:15,600
Speaker 3: It was really fun. We had such a fun night.

815
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:18,480
Speaker 1: It was so fun. We just laughed a lot, a lot,

816
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:22,600
Speaker 1: yeah a lot anyway, So yeah, that was the other

817
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:23,920
Speaker 1: recent update that's happened.

818
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:25,759
Speaker 3: I feel like lots more has happened and I can't

819
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:28,520
Speaker 3: really remember what the update is. But welcome to twenty

820
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 3: twenty four everyone. I hope you were all having a

821
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:33,759
Speaker 3: wonderful start to the year. And if it's been like

822
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 3: a little bit slow and clunky, I feel like we

823
00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 3: put a lot of pressure on ourselves to be like

824
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:41,239
Speaker 3: news resolutions like I want to be a whole new

825
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:42,759
Speaker 3: person by January two.

826
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 1: And it's like, nah, it's it's okay. It's also into

827
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:48,720
Speaker 1: it came not to have thought about it by January

828
00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 1: one totally.

829
00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:52,040
Speaker 3: The year is very it's a.

830
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:54,879
Speaker 1: Rush to the Philly line, but to watch the fish

831
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:57,120
Speaker 1: finish line just to get to Christmas and then the

832
00:40:57,200 --> 00:41:00,400
Speaker 1: Year's Eve and then yeah, somehow you meant to have

833
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:03,160
Speaker 1: slowed down enough to reflect on your year and then

834
00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:05,279
Speaker 1: plan for the next. More often than not, I don't

835
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:07,680
Speaker 1: think I really truly have a grasp on what the

836
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:10,640
Speaker 1: year is going to be until because January is such

837
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:15,480
Speaker 1: a busy time of like holiday period, and the New

838
00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 1: Year's happens, and then I.

839
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:19,000
Speaker 3: Would actually love to go back to our New Year's

840
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:21,560
Speaker 3: episode every year and see how many times I've said

841
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:24,480
Speaker 3: I think that New Years should be fed worm like

842
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:26,719
Speaker 3: every year I reckon I say that, like, just be

843
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:31,480
Speaker 3: kind to yourself resolutions, because it's true, like I feel

844
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 3: like we put a lot of pressure on this whole

845
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 3: goal setting for the year and what is your vision

846
00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:39,719
Speaker 3: for this coming twelve months? And it's like, mate, it

847
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:41,880
Speaker 3: takes me like to first to be able to stringer

848
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 3: sentence together.

849
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I couldn't tell you what my intention's on. I

850
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:49,439
Speaker 1: still Yeah, I haven't thought about it. I just haven't

851
00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 1: been able to really like articulate grasp on it. Yeah,

852
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:55,680
Speaker 1: while it's a vibe as opposed to it, it's a

853
00:41:56,840 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 1: general vibe. Okay. Last part of this is questions from

854
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 1: the community community. These are just random as usual. His

855
00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:12,720
Speaker 1: first question is would you trust and with babysitting duties

856
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 1: of little bear? Of course, is the best best babysitter?

857
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 3: No, genuinely, you are so good with kids, like they

858
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:27,879
Speaker 3: you're just so good with them, and like I think

859
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 3: part of it is having so many siblings and like

860
00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 3: you've probably a younger brother who is way younger than you,

861
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:36,400
Speaker 3: and you're just you're so at ease with children in

862
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:39,440
Speaker 3: a way that like lots of people aren't so one

863
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:42,680
Speaker 3: you will be like, what is the crackling? Is that

864
00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:43,280
Speaker 3: my phone?

865
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:45,360
Speaker 1: Well? I thought your phone didn't have that issue, so

866
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:50,400
Speaker 1: we could ask me, No, it does, but whatever, Okay, Yes.

867
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:53,320
Speaker 3: And will be babysitting all the time, And conveniently we

868
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:55,800
Speaker 3: already have a bedroom for you, so you can just come.

869
00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:57,719
Speaker 1: And slip over and look after our little bit. I

870
00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:00,880
Speaker 1: would be severely disappointed, did if you thought I was

871
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 1: offering out of polite so I get very frustrated.

872
00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:05,840
Speaker 3: Sometimes I say that to my friends you love like

873
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:09,840
Speaker 3: you literally enjoy I love it to your friend's children,

874
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 3: and like, I feel like you're going to be his

875
00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:14,640
Speaker 3: kangar cricket teacher.

876
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:16,200
Speaker 1: You're going to be in charge of.

877
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:21,319
Speaker 3: I was kidding, but you're going to be in charge

878
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:23,240
Speaker 3: of his outdoor education.

879
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:27,560
Speaker 1: He's already got waterproof sandals, waterproofs.

880
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:31,560
Speaker 3: That was like the first thing you bought him was

881
00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 3: like activity sandals. Yeah, that's so cute.

882
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:38,520
Speaker 1: But I'm very excited. But yes, definitely should be babysitting.

883
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:43,720
Speaker 1: Someone has said, I think you had this question before,

884
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:46,400
Speaker 1: was actually the same person. Have you picked out godparents? Do?

885
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:50,279
Speaker 3: I answered? I think I answered that, And I said, no,

886
00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:53,279
Speaker 3: I haven't yet, and I don't know if we and

887
00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:56,879
Speaker 3: we hadn't decided. Yeah, if we do like one cup

888
00:43:57,000 --> 00:44:00,160
Speaker 3: like one of each, one godmother, one godfather, which is

889
00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 3: what my brother and I have, we have and they're

890
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:05,160
Speaker 3: not necessarily a couple, like we've got separate individuals who

891
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:07,480
Speaker 3: are godmother and godfather, or if we'll just have like

892
00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:08,920
Speaker 3: a big village of people.

893
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:13,200
Speaker 1: And do you think are you going to decide that

894
00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:17,239
Speaker 1: just before? I don't know I don't know.

895
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:19,960
Speaker 3: I think probably it's not as traditional for us, like

896
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:22,480
Speaker 3: it's not we're not sort of I know, in like

897
00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:25,040
Speaker 3: the Grief or Greek Orthodox faith, it's a really really

898
00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:27,799
Speaker 3: big part of Christening, and it's I don't think we'll

899
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 3: be as formal about it. So I think it'll just

900
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:32,880
Speaker 3: develop yea, or it won't. Like we're not sort of,

901
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:34,160
Speaker 3: we haven't really thought about it.

902
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:40,799
Speaker 1: Next question is what advice would you give a give

903
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:44,000
Speaker 1: about something give to someone looking to getting into the

904
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:45,520
Speaker 1: MC or speaker space.

905
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 3: Oh, that's a great one. Someone else asked me this

906
00:44:47,560 --> 00:44:52,279
Speaker 3: the other day. I think the really big thing is you.

907
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:56,439
Speaker 3: It's one of those industries where people have to think

908
00:44:56,520 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 3: of you for those roles and they only know that

909
00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:00,720
Speaker 3: if you're kind of doing them already. So it sounds

910
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:02,239
Speaker 3: like a bit of a vicious cycle because if you're

911
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 3: not in it, it's really hard to get seen doing it,

912
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:08,080
Speaker 3: and then that's hard to generate more gigs. So many

913
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:09,879
Speaker 3: of the jobs that I get are from other jobs

914
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:11,840
Speaker 3: that I've done, and someone's been there and they've seen you,

915
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 3: and they think of you for when they're organizing something similar.

916
00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:18,439
Speaker 3: So I think the best thing that I did early

917
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:20,360
Speaker 3: on is when I wanted to break into it is

918
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:25,320
Speaker 3: do as much practicing. It doesn't matter how small the

919
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:26,920
Speaker 3: gig is or how big it is, or how much

920
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:29,080
Speaker 3: it's something that you don't necessarily want to be the

921
00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:32,040
Speaker 3: kind of event you always do, but just get in

922
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:35,480
Speaker 3: front of people, do as much for free as you can,

923
00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 3: like even if you want to turn it into your career.

924
00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:41,839
Speaker 3: I was on like ten minute panels for what when

925
00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:43,200
Speaker 3: we had much I made, and I would do a

926
00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:46,480
Speaker 3: panel a week that none of them were like paid

927
00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 3: speaking gigs. I wouldn't have called myself a speaker. But

928
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:51,879
Speaker 3: until I did those, no one knew who you were,

929
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 3: or if they did, they didn't know that you were

930
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:56,920
Speaker 3: willing to speak, or that you enjoyed it, or that

931
00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 3: you even did it. So it's very much something that

932
00:46:00,680 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 3: you fall into, but you fall into it on purpose.

933
00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:05,319
Speaker 3: But you don't just one day announce I'm an MC

934
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:08,279
Speaker 3: and then people come to you with MC gigs. You

935
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:11,640
Speaker 3: have to start getting onto the scene and meeting the

936
00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:13,400
Speaker 3: people who make the decisions and getting in front of

937
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:16,480
Speaker 3: the brands, And that usually starts with much more minor roles,

938
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 3: like on a panel of multiple people. Then a smaller panel.

939
00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:22,000
Speaker 3: Then you might be an individual speaker and then you

940
00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:24,800
Speaker 3: do keynotes and then you kind of ohh but it

941
00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:28,320
Speaker 3: takes a while. But putting yourself out there, which is

942
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:32,839
Speaker 3: usually awkward and a bit embarrassing, is but getting over

943
00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:35,880
Speaker 3: that and just having a go is definitely how I

944
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:36,239
Speaker 3: did it.

945
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:39,239
Speaker 1: But even smaller scale stuff like I did a lot

946
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:43,319
Speaker 1: of stuff when I had paper planes where people would

947
00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:48,840
Speaker 1: just ask me to come to a school and do

948
00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 1: it to their classroom. Yeah, and it was just like

949
00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:56,960
Speaker 1: talk about your business or whatever, or like being an alumni. Yeah,

950
00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:59,719
Speaker 1: I like to ask what you're doing, or like join

951
00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:03,520
Speaker 1: a zoom call or something. Yeah, And that's such good practice.

952
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:05,600
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, And then they're like, oh, I didn't realize.

953
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:07,840
Speaker 1: And then you share it and people will realize that

954
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 1: you do it, and then.

955
00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:10,359
Speaker 3: Oh, that's the other thing. A lot of people will

956
00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 3: do a lot of gigs and then they won't share

957
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:15,399
Speaker 3: any of the content from it. So it's like other

958
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:17,680
Speaker 3: people who might be looking for someone to speak at

959
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:20,239
Speaker 3: their next event, don't didn't see that you'd done one

960
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:21,959
Speaker 3: last week, and that you've done it to a crowd

961
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:23,600
Speaker 3: of five hundred and that's the same amount of people

962
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 3: who they want you to speak in front of. So again,

963
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:29,200
Speaker 3: it's awkward, it's uncomfortable at the start. It's a bit

964
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:31,359
Speaker 3: of a bit of extra work to go, Okay, I've

965
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:32,880
Speaker 3: got to remember to take a photo when I get there,

966
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:34,880
Speaker 3: or get someone in the audience to send me a photo.

967
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:38,040
Speaker 3: But that's the way that it's kind of like you're

968
00:47:38,120 --> 00:47:41,840
Speaker 3: your own billboard these days. There's no like yellow pages

969
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:44,759
Speaker 3: of mcs. All you have is your own platforms for

970
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:47,320
Speaker 3: people to find out what you do. So you have

971
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:49,800
Speaker 3: to intentionally show that that's what you do.

972
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 1: Do you remember what your first MC in gig was.

973
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:58,279
Speaker 1: I know what my first speaking gig was. That was

974
00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:01,080
Speaker 1: the Wellness Festival, first major one.

975
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:03,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was my first like I was a speaker

976
00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:07,040
Speaker 3: rather than I just had been invited to be part

977
00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:09,000
Speaker 3: of another event and there were twenty of us sort

978
00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 3: of sharing bites of stories. This was like a keynote

979
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 3: and it was a big crowd and it was the

980
00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:17,840
Speaker 3: first time I'd been called a speaker, and.

981
00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I was so nervous.

982
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:22,520
Speaker 3: It was like the biggest thing that I just I

983
00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:26,840
Speaker 3: didn't sleep for days. But that I remember it so distinctly,

984
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:29,520
Speaker 3: and the organizer Lauren. I still say to her all

985
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:31,680
Speaker 3: the time, like, you took such a big gamble on

986
00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:34,000
Speaker 3: me because I hadn't done it before. But that kicked

987
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 3: off everything because no one knew that I spoke before

988
00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:39,800
Speaker 3: because I hadn't until that day. And then now a

989
00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:41,960
Speaker 3: lot of the clients I still speak for, like remember

990
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:44,320
Speaker 3: the Wellness festival that day when you did that keynote,

991
00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:46,640
Speaker 3: And That's how I met Lisa Messenger, It's how I

992
00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:49,560
Speaker 3: met Rachel Finch, It's how I met Julie.

993
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:52,120
Speaker 1: All of the first guests for czaight in that first

994
00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:55,520
Speaker 1: ten episodes pretty much I met at that event. Awesome.

995
00:48:55,880 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 3: So it's very situational, but like that was what five

996
00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:03,839
Speaker 3: years ago, So it's also bit by bit chipping away

997
00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 3: as well, Like it was another probably four another, probably

998
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:10,320
Speaker 3: three years before I actually em seed an event and

999
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:12,800
Speaker 3: was like in charge of hosting the whole thing versus

1000
00:49:13,200 --> 00:49:14,160
Speaker 3: turning up as a speaker.

1001
00:49:14,239 --> 00:49:17,759
Speaker 1: So it's gradual. Oh my god, guys, So.

1002
00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:24,040
Speaker 3: Not only had like so many false starts to this episode,

1003
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:29,520
Speaker 3: but we just kept talking for another like fifteen minutes

1004
00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 3: and then realized we couldn't see the screen because we're

1005
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:37,000
Speaker 3: wearing Speedo sunglasses. For this episode indoors for some reason

1006
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:41,399
Speaker 3: that the recorder had stopped recording because the card was full,

1007
00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:44,400
Speaker 3: and then three other cards were full, and then we

1008
00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:47,960
Speaker 3: kept trying to restart again and now have totally lost

1009
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 3: steam to finish the episode. We're going to end and

1010
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:55,560
Speaker 3: we're gonna call it. The table of contents has decided.

1011
00:49:55,560 --> 00:50:00,040
Speaker 3: There are no more contents for today's in forty eight.

1012
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:04,520
Speaker 1: Minutes longer, the table is no longer.

1013
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:07,359
Speaker 3: We made it through three questions. I think that people.

1014
00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:09,960
Speaker 1: We made it through two questions and I didn't even

1015
00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:12,520
Speaker 1: finish the answer and our video cut off, so we

1016
00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:13,319
Speaker 1: don't oh.

1017
00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:15,600
Speaker 3: And then when we went to check the video after,

1018
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:17,320
Speaker 3: we were like, well, ship, the audio is gone, so

1019
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:20,080
Speaker 3: the video probably will be too. It's had optimized storage,

1020
00:50:20,120 --> 00:50:21,719
Speaker 3: and I don't know when it stopped recording.

1021
00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 1: Probably stopped recording it. We suck.

1022
00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:27,480
Speaker 3: We're not even going to make it through, which we

1023
00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:30,720
Speaker 3: didn't in the end. So we will be back next

1024
00:50:30,840 --> 00:50:33,640
Speaker 3: week with our Oh. Actually, I can't even promise that

1025
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:38,960
Speaker 3: we'll be back at TVC six months. The next six

1026
00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:42,080
Speaker 3: to twelve months, whenever the next episode comes out, we

1027
00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:45,880
Speaker 3: will finish it answer questions, which means that you.

1028
00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:48,359
Speaker 1: Now have more question.

1029
00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:54,600
Speaker 3: You now have more time to submit chaotic fun question.

1030
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:57,440
Speaker 1: We also well this feeding of glasses for no reason.

1031
00:50:57,480 --> 00:51:00,440
Speaker 1: If that thing wasn't recording the the.

1032
00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:03,399
Speaker 3: Video, my god. And then the speedo's are the only

1033
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:05,719
Speaker 3: reason why I didn't see that it's stop recording because

1034
00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:08,160
Speaker 3: I can't see red I can't see red color.

1035
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:10,560
Speaker 1: They're not speedos.

1036
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:16,680
Speaker 3: Speed dealers. Yeah, we call them speedos babies. Yeah, but

1037
00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:24,040
Speaker 3: people call speed dealers speedos. Really yeah, people as in me. No,

1038
00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:26,719
Speaker 3: My dear friend mattcha Abino, who introduced who I wanted

1039
00:51:26,719 --> 00:51:29,840
Speaker 3: to Antarctica with, introduced me to speed dealers and he

1040
00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:34,080
Speaker 3: and he's like, he's even younger than.

1041
00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:35,520
Speaker 1: That's what I'm in front of my time.

1042
00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, we need to end it and turn back. We

1043
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:40,400
Speaker 3: need to I'm cutting.

1044
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:43,280
Speaker 1: I'm not going to do it anymore.