1 00:00:11,064 --> 00:00:15,024 Speaker 1: So much. You're listening to a Muma Mia podcast. Mamma 2 00:00:15,104 --> 00:00:18,784 Speaker 1: Mia acknowledges the traditional owners of land and borders that 3 00:00:18,864 --> 00:00:26,944 Speaker 1: this podcast is recorded on from Mamma Mia. Welcome to 4 00:00:26,944 --> 00:00:30,224 Speaker 1: the spill your daily pop culture fixed. I'm Laura Brodneck 5 00:00:30,424 --> 00:00:34,184 Speaker 1: and I'm m Vernon and welcome to a brutally honest review. 6 00:00:34,664 --> 00:00:36,064 Speaker 2: We haven't done one of these in a while. 7 00:00:36,344 --> 00:00:37,984 Speaker 1: I mean you won't here for the last one, but 8 00:00:38,024 --> 00:00:39,904 Speaker 1: it was lin. We'll put in the show notes. I 9 00:00:39,944 --> 00:00:41,784 Speaker 1: haven't done on we haven't done with it now. We 10 00:00:41,784 --> 00:00:44,104 Speaker 1: don't like to play favorites with our episodes or our 11 00:00:44,144 --> 00:00:46,264 Speaker 1: episode topics, but I think it's clear to say that 12 00:00:46,304 --> 00:00:49,184 Speaker 1: this our brutally honors review episodes. 13 00:00:48,704 --> 00:00:51,024 Speaker 2: Are our favorites one hundred percent because we. 14 00:00:50,944 --> 00:00:52,904 Speaker 1: Get to deep dive into some big things. So if 15 00:00:52,944 --> 00:00:55,184 Speaker 1: you haven't listened to one before, first of all, welcome 16 00:00:55,224 --> 00:01:00,384 Speaker 1: and just you know Gorja Lloin's because because some stuff's 17 00:01:00,384 --> 00:01:02,584 Speaker 1: about to go down. But it's basically where we talk 18 00:01:02,624 --> 00:01:05,704 Speaker 1: about any new big TV show or movie that has 19 00:01:05,744 --> 00:01:09,824 Speaker 1: completely captured a global conversation, something that everyone's watched, something 20 00:01:09,824 --> 00:01:12,784 Speaker 1: that people are talking about, and we really go deep 21 00:01:12,824 --> 00:01:15,504 Speaker 1: into the whole thing, So spoilers galore, just be aware. 22 00:01:15,864 --> 00:01:18,624 Speaker 1: And this week's brutally honest review is on the new 23 00:01:18,704 --> 00:01:21,104 Speaker 1: documentary Call Her Alex. 24 00:01:20,824 --> 00:01:25,264 Speaker 2: Call Her Alex Hi, Alex Gang. That's all they should 25 00:01:25,264 --> 00:01:25,784 Speaker 2: have done. 26 00:01:25,984 --> 00:01:28,304 Speaker 1: They didn't do that. So if you haven't watched it, 27 00:01:28,544 --> 00:01:30,104 Speaker 1: or we're about to spoil some things for you, but 28 00:01:30,184 --> 00:01:31,664 Speaker 1: you know, it's a lot there in the public record. 29 00:01:31,864 --> 00:01:34,304 Speaker 1: So it's a new two part documentary series that has 30 00:01:34,464 --> 00:01:38,504 Speaker 1: just premiered in Australia on Disney Plus this week, and 31 00:01:38,544 --> 00:01:43,064 Speaker 1: it's a documentary about Alexandra Cooper, the most successful female 32 00:01:43,104 --> 00:01:44,984 Speaker 1: podcast host in the world, but also one of the 33 00:01:45,024 --> 00:01:47,504 Speaker 1: most successful podcast hosts overall. 34 00:01:47,584 --> 00:01:50,384 Speaker 3: Yes just under Joe Rogan I believe, Yes so, like 35 00:01:50,464 --> 00:01:52,144 Speaker 3: the second biggest podcast in. 36 00:01:52,064 --> 00:01:54,264 Speaker 1: The world, Yes So. And she has become like a 37 00:01:54,344 --> 00:01:58,024 Speaker 1: huge media personality and star in her own ride alongside 38 00:01:58,024 --> 00:01:58,704 Speaker 1: her podcast. 39 00:01:58,784 --> 00:02:01,824 Speaker 2: She's very young, she's only thirty. Yeah, just insane. 40 00:02:01,904 --> 00:02:04,024 Speaker 1: She'd been the podcasting game for a really long time. 41 00:02:04,184 --> 00:02:07,144 Speaker 1: Paullo Daddy started many many years ago and that's where 42 00:02:07,184 --> 00:02:10,264 Speaker 1: she really rose to prominence. And since then she did 43 00:02:10,424 --> 00:02:12,464 Speaker 1: to her business partner, she's gone to host the show. 44 00:02:12,624 --> 00:02:15,424 Speaker 2: Sol she dished a business partner, she did her network. 45 00:02:15,904 --> 00:02:18,384 Speaker 1: Yeah, she signed a huge deal with Spotify, and then 46 00:02:18,424 --> 00:02:20,704 Speaker 1: she moved to Serious and signed an even bigger deal. 47 00:02:20,904 --> 00:02:23,304 Speaker 1: She's got a production company now. She makes movies, she 48 00:02:23,344 --> 00:02:25,744 Speaker 1: makes TV shows, she does live tours, all the things. 49 00:02:25,984 --> 00:02:27,904 Speaker 1: But this is the first time that something like this 50 00:02:27,984 --> 00:02:30,064 Speaker 1: that's a very kind of intimate look into her life 51 00:02:30,104 --> 00:02:33,864 Speaker 1: has aired. So the documentary premiere at Tribeca Film Festival 52 00:02:34,264 --> 00:02:36,744 Speaker 1: to really good reviews, I would say, and now we 53 00:02:36,784 --> 00:02:39,064 Speaker 1: can watch it in Australia. Oh, we've watched the full 54 00:02:39,144 --> 00:02:42,744 Speaker 1: two hours and top line thoughts as we jump in, 55 00:02:43,064 --> 00:02:43,784 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 56 00:02:44,224 --> 00:02:48,264 Speaker 2: I've actually been a longtime listener of Call Her Daddy. 57 00:02:48,224 --> 00:02:50,744 Speaker 1: Yeah, so before the whole blop, it was. 58 00:02:50,744 --> 00:02:53,944 Speaker 3: The like when it was her Interfea. I probably listened 59 00:02:54,024 --> 00:02:57,264 Speaker 3: when they just signed with Barstool Sports. I feel like 60 00:02:57,344 --> 00:03:00,464 Speaker 3: Barstool Sports really pushed them into the spotlight. And I 61 00:03:00,504 --> 00:03:03,024 Speaker 3: think that's also when, like in Australia, like they started 62 00:03:03,024 --> 00:03:06,864 Speaker 3: becoming internationally famous. But they originally started as an independent 63 00:03:06,904 --> 00:03:09,264 Speaker 3: podcast because they were living together as roommates. They became 64 00:03:09,304 --> 00:03:15,624 Speaker 3: really good friends and they started as a really like salacious, 65 00:03:15,784 --> 00:03:19,944 Speaker 3: sexy podcast and their whole thing was talking about sex 66 00:03:19,944 --> 00:03:22,264 Speaker 3: in the way that men have always talked about sex 67 00:03:22,464 --> 00:03:25,104 Speaker 3: and women have historically been told not to say that 68 00:03:25,144 --> 00:03:27,504 Speaker 3: stuff out loud, even though like we all do with 69 00:03:27,504 --> 00:03:29,984 Speaker 3: our friends over drinks, and it's kind of like making 70 00:03:29,984 --> 00:03:33,464 Speaker 3: those like dinner with friends conversation happen on a podcast. 71 00:03:33,544 --> 00:03:36,184 Speaker 3: And I think they were really good at that. And 72 00:03:36,224 --> 00:03:39,184 Speaker 3: it was also the time that I had started a 73 00:03:39,224 --> 00:03:41,984 Speaker 3: similar podcast, the Undone at MoMA. 74 00:03:42,064 --> 00:03:42,224 Speaker 4: Man. 75 00:03:42,864 --> 00:03:44,304 Speaker 1: It's also when I started having. 76 00:03:45,824 --> 00:03:47,784 Speaker 2: When I learned how to have sex, which. 77 00:03:50,424 --> 00:03:53,024 Speaker 1: Probably fine, imagine. I was like, Wow, this is going 78 00:03:53,024 --> 00:03:53,584 Speaker 1: deeper than I thought. 79 00:03:53,704 --> 00:03:55,784 Speaker 3: And I just remember because I had like a dating 80 00:03:55,824 --> 00:03:58,064 Speaker 3: and sex podcast as well at MoMA me I was 81 00:03:58,064 --> 00:04:00,944 Speaker 3: your biggest fans, you know, and you were also a 82 00:04:00,944 --> 00:04:01,864 Speaker 3: guest on the podcast. 83 00:04:01,984 --> 00:04:06,864 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're talking about how to shop. 84 00:04:08,264 --> 00:04:10,424 Speaker 1: It's my fault you to know that. 85 00:04:11,464 --> 00:04:14,824 Speaker 3: But I remember like having this podcast and seeing what 86 00:04:14,864 --> 00:04:19,184 Speaker 3: these girls are doing and going in my head I 87 00:04:19,224 --> 00:04:21,984 Speaker 3: could never do what they're doing, like literally putting like 88 00:04:22,024 --> 00:04:24,424 Speaker 3: I put my life out there, but they put their 89 00:04:24,504 --> 00:04:28,184 Speaker 3: life out there like they did not hold back anything, 90 00:04:28,224 --> 00:04:31,064 Speaker 3: and it worked so well for them. And I think 91 00:04:31,144 --> 00:04:34,384 Speaker 3: when they got that massive deal at Barstool Sports, it 92 00:04:34,424 --> 00:04:37,624 Speaker 3: was just like it just started getting higher and higher 93 00:04:37,704 --> 00:04:40,224 Speaker 3: and higher, and I just became more and more obsessed. 94 00:04:40,504 --> 00:04:43,104 Speaker 3: And now it's become one of those things where I 95 00:04:43,144 --> 00:04:47,224 Speaker 3: feel like Call Her Daddy has been changed so drastically 96 00:04:47,264 --> 00:04:50,864 Speaker 3: from the original concept that I feel like they've now 97 00:04:50,944 --> 00:04:53,184 Speaker 3: just pulled in a full new audience. 98 00:04:53,624 --> 00:04:55,144 Speaker 2: And I'm actually not that part. 99 00:04:54,984 --> 00:04:58,144 Speaker 3: Of that audience that they've changed since She's changed the podcast, 100 00:04:58,144 --> 00:05:00,664 Speaker 3: Like I loved some of it's it's an interview based 101 00:05:00,704 --> 00:05:04,704 Speaker 3: like a celebrity interview show, and it's not the celebrity 102 00:05:04,704 --> 00:05:07,624 Speaker 3: interview show for me interesting, and it's like one of 103 00:05:07,664 --> 00:05:10,184 Speaker 3: those I wonder if, like I'm kind of like an 104 00:05:10,384 --> 00:05:13,744 Speaker 3: outlier here, but I'm sure I'm not like it's changed completely. 105 00:05:14,304 --> 00:05:16,144 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean it's got a huge global audience. 106 00:05:16,144 --> 00:05:18,704 Speaker 1: But I'm sure those original people, like some of that 107 00:05:18,744 --> 00:05:21,664 Speaker 1: original audience that tuned in to hear two girls in 108 00:05:21,704 --> 00:05:25,464 Speaker 1: their tiny New York apartment talking about their wild sexcapades 109 00:05:25,544 --> 00:05:28,104 Speaker 1: and what they want from sex and relationships and going 110 00:05:28,144 --> 00:05:30,104 Speaker 1: out to be sugar babies and all that sort of stuff, 111 00:05:30,144 --> 00:05:33,064 Speaker 1: like I'm sure now with the former Vice President of 112 00:05:33,064 --> 00:05:36,184 Speaker 1: the United States talking about her policies in a show 113 00:05:36,184 --> 00:05:38,664 Speaker 1: filmed in Washington, which is kind of where Caller Daddy 114 00:05:38,664 --> 00:05:40,824 Speaker 1: has pivoted, is maybe a slightly different audience. 115 00:05:40,904 --> 00:05:43,544 Speaker 3: It is, and it's what I found really interesting about 116 00:05:43,544 --> 00:05:46,824 Speaker 3: this documentary series is seeing like I didn't realize that 117 00:05:46,904 --> 00:05:49,584 Speaker 3: was my listening behavior with this podcast and visually seeing 118 00:05:49,584 --> 00:05:51,824 Speaker 3: it in a documentary series was just like so eye 119 00:05:51,824 --> 00:05:52,464 Speaker 3: opening to me. 120 00:05:52,584 --> 00:05:54,424 Speaker 1: So interesting because it does take it on this kind 121 00:05:54,424 --> 00:05:56,224 Speaker 1: of journey. So the idea of it was that it 122 00:05:56,264 --> 00:05:58,904 Speaker 1: was shot over a year ago when Alex Cooper and 123 00:05:59,024 --> 00:06:02,064 Speaker 1: the call Her Daddy podcast show was doing their first 124 00:06:02,264 --> 00:06:04,624 Speaker 1: live tour, and it was kind of the build up 125 00:06:04,664 --> 00:06:06,424 Speaker 1: to that. And that's also interesting. That's when a lot 126 00:06:06,424 --> 00:06:08,904 Speaker 1: of celebrities, when they're doing a tour or something like that, 127 00:06:09,024 --> 00:06:11,184 Speaker 1: or if they're like prepping for the Super Bowl or something, 128 00:06:11,184 --> 00:06:13,704 Speaker 1: that's when they'll bring the cameras in because it's a 129 00:06:13,744 --> 00:06:16,544 Speaker 1: storytelling moment that gives you a beginning, middle, and end 130 00:06:16,544 --> 00:06:18,944 Speaker 1: to kind of put the documentary on instead of just 131 00:06:18,984 --> 00:06:20,504 Speaker 1: coming in and being like, how do we put all 132 00:06:20,544 --> 00:06:22,824 Speaker 1: this story in? So you see the build up of 133 00:06:22,824 --> 00:06:25,864 Speaker 1: the tour in the documentary Call Her Alex, You see 134 00:06:25,904 --> 00:06:27,944 Speaker 1: them on tour and you see kind of the aftermath, 135 00:06:28,264 --> 00:06:31,824 Speaker 1: and in that they interweave and intersect all these moments 136 00:06:31,824 --> 00:06:34,264 Speaker 1: from her past that are telling you, giving you the 137 00:06:34,304 --> 00:06:36,344 Speaker 1: background of her story, and some of it we knew 138 00:06:36,424 --> 00:06:38,344 Speaker 1: a lot about, and some of it was shared with 139 00:06:38,384 --> 00:06:41,304 Speaker 1: the world for the first time. An interesting thing is 140 00:06:41,344 --> 00:06:42,824 Speaker 1: kind of like which I guess if you listen to 141 00:06:42,864 --> 00:06:44,784 Speaker 1: her podcast for a while, you kind of knew growing 142 00:06:44,864 --> 00:06:47,784 Speaker 1: up from Pennsylvania, her mum's a psychologist, which I think 143 00:06:47,824 --> 00:06:50,104 Speaker 1: goes a lot to how she sometimes steps on the 144 00:06:50,104 --> 00:06:53,464 Speaker 1: podcast the youngest of three kids, and I think they 145 00:06:53,544 --> 00:06:57,304 Speaker 1: really leant heavily into It's almost like taking a page 146 00:06:57,344 --> 00:07:00,144 Speaker 1: of the Megan Markle playbook. They really learn heavily into 147 00:07:00,224 --> 00:07:02,104 Speaker 1: when she was growing up she was an ugly duckling, 148 00:07:02,544 --> 00:07:05,784 Speaker 1: and that lightly because being bullied at school for anything, 149 00:07:05,944 --> 00:07:09,904 Speaker 1: but how you look in primary school devastating and stays 150 00:07:09,904 --> 00:07:11,504 Speaker 1: with you. But they show you that she's naturally a 151 00:07:11,584 --> 00:07:14,544 Speaker 1: redhead and that she was like talking to the camera 152 00:07:14,544 --> 00:07:16,504 Speaker 1: in this and she's like, I was a redhead and 153 00:07:16,144 --> 00:07:18,664 Speaker 1: they told me I didn't have a soul and it 154 00:07:18,704 --> 00:07:19,824 Speaker 1: was so demoralizing. 155 00:07:19,984 --> 00:07:22,504 Speaker 3: She also talked deeply about when she was a kid, 156 00:07:22,544 --> 00:07:26,104 Speaker 3: she was always creative, like she was always making video 157 00:07:28,024 --> 00:07:31,504 Speaker 3: like that's crazy, Like the producers of the documentary would 158 00:07:31,544 --> 00:07:31,784 Speaker 3: be like. 159 00:07:31,784 --> 00:07:33,064 Speaker 2: Cheering to get that footage. 160 00:07:33,104 --> 00:07:35,304 Speaker 1: Her parents have so much a video footage of her. 161 00:07:35,704 --> 00:07:39,344 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, she did not grow up or she had 162 00:07:39,384 --> 00:07:42,344 Speaker 3: a full basement to herself to create those videos. But 163 00:07:42,424 --> 00:07:45,184 Speaker 3: I think what was really interesting is seeing like how 164 00:07:45,264 --> 00:07:49,544 Speaker 3: much of that childhood aspect of her had impacted like 165 00:07:49,624 --> 00:07:52,544 Speaker 3: what she wanted to do growing up. It's also really 166 00:07:52,584 --> 00:07:55,224 Speaker 3: interesting because with a lot of these stories about like 167 00:07:55,264 --> 00:07:57,784 Speaker 3: beautiful women who got bullied in primary school, it was 168 00:07:57,784 --> 00:08:00,504 Speaker 3: always bullied by other girls. It's like girls hated me, 169 00:08:00,864 --> 00:08:02,784 Speaker 3: and this one was like she was like no, men 170 00:08:03,024 --> 00:08:05,224 Speaker 3: like boys hated men like boys really hated. 171 00:08:05,424 --> 00:08:09,664 Speaker 1: I think for people is the more kind of realistic experience. 172 00:08:10,664 --> 00:08:12,744 Speaker 3: I'm glad they set it up like that because it 173 00:08:12,784 --> 00:08:15,464 Speaker 3: gave context to how she flipped the script when she 174 00:08:15,504 --> 00:08:17,384 Speaker 3: went to college, because she's like, when I went to college, 175 00:08:17,424 --> 00:08:19,584 Speaker 3: it was a time I got to completely reinvent myself 176 00:08:19,584 --> 00:08:22,304 Speaker 3: because I had new friends. And then she literally did 177 00:08:22,504 --> 00:08:25,664 Speaker 3: reinvent herself, like she became the hot girl. 178 00:08:26,384 --> 00:08:30,024 Speaker 1: Blonde bombshell, which is obviously fair enough. It's interesting, so 179 00:08:30,104 --> 00:08:32,584 Speaker 1: you go from that like tracing her life of like 180 00:08:33,024 --> 00:08:37,464 Speaker 1: ugly duckling, bullied, loved her friends, very creative, gets to 181 00:08:37,544 --> 00:08:40,064 Speaker 1: New York and then this is really interesting how they 182 00:08:40,104 --> 00:08:42,784 Speaker 1: set up like the genesis of Call Her Daddy, because 183 00:08:42,824 --> 00:08:44,864 Speaker 1: we've all heard it before. But I guess this is 184 00:08:44,864 --> 00:08:46,744 Speaker 1: where like if you don't know anything about her story, 185 00:08:46,784 --> 00:08:49,184 Speaker 1: which I'm sure a lot of people watching this documentary 186 00:08:49,184 --> 00:08:52,224 Speaker 1: wouldn't know, it's really interesting how what bits they kind 187 00:08:52,224 --> 00:08:57,064 Speaker 1: of cherry picked, yeah to show because when the podcast 188 00:08:57,144 --> 00:08:58,344 Speaker 1: was on and you would know this bit for me, 189 00:08:58,424 --> 00:09:01,144 Speaker 1: like an og listener, did you think that Sophia Franklin 190 00:09:01,184 --> 00:09:03,344 Speaker 1: and Alexander Cooper are the two hosts of Call Her 191 00:09:03,424 --> 00:09:06,384 Speaker 1: Daddy who lived together and recorded together. Did you think 192 00:09:06,384 --> 00:09:07,104 Speaker 1: they were best friends? 193 00:09:07,624 --> 00:09:08,224 Speaker 2: No? 194 00:09:08,224 --> 00:09:08,784 Speaker 1: No, you didn't. 195 00:09:09,024 --> 00:09:12,904 Speaker 3: No, everyone knew that they were roommates, and they were 196 00:09:13,064 --> 00:09:15,224 Speaker 3: very very close and would call each other like my 197 00:09:15,264 --> 00:09:16,424 Speaker 3: best friend, my best friend. 198 00:09:16,904 --> 00:09:18,064 Speaker 2: But at the time I. 199 00:09:18,024 --> 00:09:21,944 Speaker 3: Feel like you could also hear like we always talk 200 00:09:21,944 --> 00:09:24,664 Speaker 3: about this in podcasting, how like if you're too agreeable, 201 00:09:25,304 --> 00:09:28,624 Speaker 3: it doesn't make a good podcast, And they were too agreeable. 202 00:09:29,384 --> 00:09:31,784 Speaker 3: So I think because I had the context of podcasting, 203 00:09:32,264 --> 00:09:35,584 Speaker 3: they were too agreeable and they wanted to impress each other, 204 00:09:35,944 --> 00:09:39,624 Speaker 3: and they wanted to outdo each other. And then I'm like, oh, 205 00:09:39,784 --> 00:09:44,024 Speaker 3: this is quite competitive, Like neither of them wanted to 206 00:09:44,104 --> 00:09:46,544 Speaker 3: stay in their own lane. They didn't like if you're 207 00:09:46,544 --> 00:09:48,624 Speaker 3: not in podcasting, you wouldn't hear this. If it's a 208 00:09:48,624 --> 00:09:51,344 Speaker 3: good podcast, you wouldn't be able to tell. But each 209 00:09:51,424 --> 00:09:55,944 Speaker 3: person in a podcast has like kind of their own stick, 210 00:09:56,464 --> 00:09:59,224 Speaker 3: and the other person in the podcast knows that stick, 211 00:09:59,264 --> 00:10:00,744 Speaker 3: and we know how to play. It's kind of like 212 00:10:00,744 --> 00:10:02,824 Speaker 3: you're acting like you're playing a specific role. 213 00:10:02,864 --> 00:10:04,784 Speaker 1: You have to play a role because I would kind 214 00:10:04,784 --> 00:10:07,424 Speaker 1: of say something to like and the other person up 215 00:10:07,504 --> 00:10:09,944 Speaker 1: or set them up for a joke. You might lean 216 00:10:09,984 --> 00:10:12,264 Speaker 1: harder into something that you don't necessarily think. Not us 217 00:10:12,264 --> 00:10:16,024 Speaker 1: spelling all the podcasts to make it like work for 218 00:10:16,064 --> 00:10:17,064 Speaker 1: the audience. 219 00:10:16,664 --> 00:10:18,504 Speaker 3: But like, for example, if a listener was to come 220 00:10:18,544 --> 00:10:20,224 Speaker 3: to dinner with you and me, they get a whole 221 00:10:20,264 --> 00:10:23,664 Speaker 3: different type of personalities from us. It's just stuff that 222 00:10:23,704 --> 00:10:26,344 Speaker 3: you just do because it's work, obviously, and I think 223 00:10:26,384 --> 00:10:30,184 Speaker 3: because their whole life was work. It just felt like 224 00:10:30,504 --> 00:10:33,424 Speaker 3: two girls and you could hear it that they didn't 225 00:10:33,544 --> 00:10:36,384 Speaker 3: really like each other that much, but you had to 226 00:10:36,664 --> 00:10:39,344 Speaker 3: like pretended they were best friends because that's what you wanted. 227 00:10:39,624 --> 00:10:41,864 Speaker 1: Well, that's what it's so interesting because when I was 228 00:10:41,864 --> 00:10:43,904 Speaker 1: listening to it, like in the early days, I did 229 00:10:43,944 --> 00:10:46,144 Speaker 1: think they were quite close. I know they lived together, 230 00:10:46,144 --> 00:10:47,624 Speaker 1: they made a podcast together, but I did think they 231 00:10:47,664 --> 00:10:49,904 Speaker 1: were friends. I didn't realize that they had only met 232 00:10:49,904 --> 00:10:52,064 Speaker 1: each other recently and that they had just kind of 233 00:10:52,064 --> 00:10:55,464 Speaker 1: come together as a business duo without actually working out 234 00:10:55,504 --> 00:10:59,464 Speaker 1: like what they both wanted, what their values were, what 235 00:10:59,544 --> 00:11:01,384 Speaker 1: they wanted to do. And that's what led to it 236 00:11:01,424 --> 00:11:05,304 Speaker 1: all exploding because in the documentary they show like old 237 00:11:05,344 --> 00:11:09,424 Speaker 1: footage of them podcasting together, and you hear alex and 238 00:11:09,464 --> 00:11:12,624 Speaker 1: other people talking about how the show just started blowing 239 00:11:12,704 --> 00:11:14,944 Speaker 1: up and they had no idea podcast, but they both 240 00:11:14,984 --> 00:11:17,424 Speaker 1: had big Instagram followings. They posted it to Instagram, it 241 00:11:17,504 --> 00:11:20,464 Speaker 1: blew up, they started getting a fan base. And then 242 00:11:20,624 --> 00:11:24,264 Speaker 1: they chose to play one section of audio, yes from 243 00:11:24,424 --> 00:11:27,584 Speaker 1: the original podcast when they're introducing each other. Hi, I'm 244 00:11:27,584 --> 00:11:30,704 Speaker 1: Alexandra Cooper him Sophia Fanklin from the first episode, and 245 00:11:30,864 --> 00:11:33,264 Speaker 1: the only piece of audio they choose to play from 246 00:11:33,264 --> 00:11:36,304 Speaker 1: that first episode is the line where Sophia says, and 247 00:11:36,424 --> 00:11:41,664 Speaker 1: I'm here to write Alex's coattails. I mean, I mean 248 00:11:42,824 --> 00:11:45,544 Speaker 1: so pointed, and it's like, because that is the Alex 249 00:11:45,664 --> 00:11:49,024 Speaker 1: picking across the story. That is the allegation from Alex 250 00:11:49,104 --> 00:11:51,544 Speaker 1: Cooper and everyone else that Sophia Franklin was there to 251 00:11:51,544 --> 00:11:53,304 Speaker 1: write her coattails and that's why she did, and that's 252 00:11:53,304 --> 00:11:54,464 Speaker 1: why she ended up falling off. 253 00:11:54,584 --> 00:11:56,904 Speaker 3: That audio kind of did it for me because I 254 00:11:57,064 --> 00:12:00,224 Speaker 3: was in on that whole documentary and then the minute 255 00:12:00,224 --> 00:12:02,784 Speaker 3: they play that audio, I was immediately pulled out and 256 00:12:02,824 --> 00:12:06,664 Speaker 3: I was immediately reminded that, oh, she's created and produced 257 00:12:06,664 --> 00:12:07,384 Speaker 3: this documentary. 258 00:12:07,424 --> 00:12:09,264 Speaker 2: Yeah, like this is a love letter to herself. 259 00:12:09,264 --> 00:12:12,104 Speaker 1: Oh, especially it's directed by someone else, but she's also 260 00:12:12,224 --> 00:12:14,584 Speaker 1: very involved in the production. It's almost made me think 261 00:12:14,584 --> 00:12:18,224 Speaker 1: of like Taylor's this's documentary, Like both really interesting documentaries, 262 00:12:18,264 --> 00:12:20,544 Speaker 1: but they're not documentary in the sense that they're going 263 00:12:20,544 --> 00:12:23,744 Speaker 1: to uncover something or show you a complicated portrait of someone. 264 00:12:24,184 --> 00:12:25,384 Speaker 1: What you're looking at is. 265 00:12:25,344 --> 00:12:27,904 Speaker 2: Like the version that they want, Yeah, say, what's. 266 00:12:27,784 --> 00:12:30,104 Speaker 1: The interesting thing is like what does this very public 267 00:12:30,144 --> 00:12:32,344 Speaker 1: person want me to think of them? And then what 268 00:12:32,344 --> 00:12:33,584 Speaker 1: do I think of that? And not that I'm going 269 00:12:33,624 --> 00:12:35,584 Speaker 1: to get any secrets, because then I think it's really interesting. 270 00:12:35,624 --> 00:12:37,704 Speaker 1: As they're setting up the call Her Daddy, like how 271 00:12:37,744 --> 00:12:40,424 Speaker 1: that became such a sensation, they then get into like 272 00:12:40,424 --> 00:12:43,024 Speaker 1: the barstool situation, and you see that message from Dave 273 00:12:43,064 --> 00:12:45,224 Speaker 1: port Nooe, who's the head of Barstool Sports, which was 274 00:12:45,264 --> 00:12:48,224 Speaker 1: the company they really launched Call Her Daddy with slip 275 00:12:48,224 --> 00:12:50,944 Speaker 1: into their dms and be like, hey, let's chat, and 276 00:12:50,984 --> 00:12:54,184 Speaker 1: then they flick to interviewing him. So they sent cameras 277 00:12:54,224 --> 00:12:57,544 Speaker 1: into Barstool Sports to interview Dave portnoy who is also 278 00:12:57,584 --> 00:12:59,624 Speaker 1: a very very famous man and host a lot of 279 00:12:59,664 --> 00:13:03,184 Speaker 1: podcasts and is always saying very controversial things. He's become 280 00:13:03,224 --> 00:13:05,064 Speaker 1: like a media kind of person in his own writer 281 00:13:05,144 --> 00:13:07,624 Speaker 1: as well. And he was saying that he originally met 282 00:13:07,624 --> 00:13:11,064 Speaker 1: with Alex, like he's very specific about what happened. He's like, 283 00:13:11,104 --> 00:13:14,264 Speaker 1: I met with Alex. She said, I created the podcast, 284 00:13:14,344 --> 00:13:17,144 Speaker 1: I edit the podcast, I do everything, and I struck 285 00:13:17,144 --> 00:13:19,424 Speaker 1: a deal with her. And then she said and there's 286 00:13:19,464 --> 00:13:22,024 Speaker 1: also Sophia. Once the deal was done, and he's like, look, 287 00:13:22,024 --> 00:13:24,504 Speaker 1: he basically like looks into the camera and says, we 288 00:13:24,544 --> 00:13:28,224 Speaker 1: didn't even know she existed. It's like such a blatant setup. 289 00:13:28,224 --> 00:13:30,664 Speaker 1: Of like pushing her out of the narrative. 290 00:13:30,984 --> 00:13:33,984 Speaker 3: What did you think about how they actually talked about 291 00:13:34,544 --> 00:13:36,864 Speaker 3: the split from Alexon's affairs. 292 00:13:37,224 --> 00:13:39,464 Speaker 1: I mean, the thing is like, if you're just watching 293 00:13:39,464 --> 00:13:41,384 Speaker 1: the documentary and you weren't sort of aware of it, 294 00:13:41,384 --> 00:13:45,224 Speaker 1: it kind of seemed fine if you're me who consumed 295 00:13:45,424 --> 00:13:47,264 Speaker 1: so a couple of years ago. This happened just like 296 00:13:47,304 --> 00:13:50,584 Speaker 1: five or six years ago. Now so long ago, you 297 00:13:50,584 --> 00:13:53,224 Speaker 1: know how I know? My head timeline is like, we 298 00:13:53,224 --> 00:13:55,464 Speaker 1: weren't in that old Mamere office. We were in the 299 00:13:55,584 --> 00:13:58,224 Speaker 1: old old or Mamamere office. No, we were, Yeah, we were, 300 00:13:58,264 --> 00:13:59,824 Speaker 1: because I remember you and I standing at our desk 301 00:13:59,864 --> 00:14:01,704 Speaker 1: in that old office that was just like one tiny 302 00:14:01,784 --> 00:14:04,784 Speaker 1: floor on that little warehouse with the windows open, being like, 303 00:14:05,664 --> 00:14:07,304 Speaker 1: don't you see the call of daddy. Girl's a fighting? 304 00:14:07,424 --> 00:14:10,664 Speaker 1: Oh my god, he just went silent. It was a 305 00:14:10,664 --> 00:14:12,664 Speaker 1: whole It was actually the most dramatic thing that happened 306 00:14:12,704 --> 00:14:14,024 Speaker 1: to me that I was not even involved in. 307 00:14:14,144 --> 00:14:17,264 Speaker 3: It was that era of like all YouTubers posting apologies 308 00:14:17,464 --> 00:14:19,824 Speaker 3: because that's exactly what these girls did exactly. 309 00:14:19,904 --> 00:14:22,424 Speaker 1: So going back to this moment in time, what we 310 00:14:22,464 --> 00:14:26,904 Speaker 1: saw was like this hugely successful podcast just stopped, and 311 00:14:26,984 --> 00:14:29,144 Speaker 1: there were all these rumblings that they were having a fight, 312 00:14:29,184 --> 00:14:31,144 Speaker 1: they were falling out, And this is when the podcast 313 00:14:31,224 --> 00:14:34,064 Speaker 1: kind of jumped from being like super popular worldwide but 314 00:14:34,184 --> 00:14:35,984 Speaker 1: like more of if you know, you know thing, to 315 00:14:36,504 --> 00:14:39,824 Speaker 1: headline news, front page of like page six, all those 316 00:14:39,904 --> 00:14:42,464 Speaker 1: kind of tabloids the call of Daddy Girls are fighting. 317 00:14:42,904 --> 00:14:45,784 Speaker 1: And then it came out sort of what had happened, 318 00:14:45,864 --> 00:14:50,584 Speaker 1: and then Dave Portnoy like hijacked their feed and went 319 00:14:50,664 --> 00:14:53,504 Speaker 1: and recorded a whole podcast telling his side of the story. 320 00:14:53,704 --> 00:14:56,224 Speaker 1: And then Barstools Sports tried to capitalize on their fight, 321 00:14:56,304 --> 00:15:00,224 Speaker 1: and they were selling like Free the Fathers merchandise and 322 00:15:00,264 --> 00:15:03,064 Speaker 1: also like Team Sophia, Team Alexy was selling merchandise to 323 00:15:03,064 --> 00:15:06,344 Speaker 1: try and capitalize on the fact that they'd also sold 324 00:15:06,384 --> 00:15:09,104 Speaker 1: sponsors for the shows they weren't creating. And then it 325 00:15:09,144 --> 00:15:11,984 Speaker 1: came out that Sophia was out and Alex Cooper had 326 00:15:12,024 --> 00:15:14,904 Speaker 1: taken a solo deal without her. Yeah, the context of 327 00:15:14,944 --> 00:15:16,424 Speaker 1: that being, I would make sure because I don't want 328 00:15:16,464 --> 00:15:18,944 Speaker 1: to like paint either of them as a villain. The 329 00:15:19,024 --> 00:15:20,824 Speaker 1: context of that being is that they had had a 330 00:15:20,864 --> 00:15:23,544 Speaker 1: falling out because they were making so much money for 331 00:15:23,584 --> 00:15:26,624 Speaker 1: Barstool Sports, and they had gone to Dave Portew making 332 00:15:26,664 --> 00:15:29,384 Speaker 1: them million millions of dollars, and they had signed a 333 00:15:29,424 --> 00:15:32,104 Speaker 1: contract for three years at a much low rate without 334 00:15:32,104 --> 00:15:34,424 Speaker 1: anyone knowing how successful the podcast was going to get. 335 00:15:34,464 --> 00:15:38,784 Speaker 3: So they wanted to renegotiate their contract, and basically in 336 00:15:38,824 --> 00:15:41,744 Speaker 3: the documentary, this is what happens in the documentary, Alex 337 00:15:41,784 --> 00:15:44,944 Speaker 3: says that Dave gave them what she considered was the 338 00:15:45,104 --> 00:15:48,024 Speaker 3: deal of a lifetime, which was just do it for 339 00:15:48,064 --> 00:15:50,384 Speaker 3: one more year and then you can own the ip 340 00:15:50,704 --> 00:15:51,704 Speaker 3: of call her Daddy. 341 00:15:51,944 --> 00:15:52,664 Speaker 2: This is what happened in. 342 00:15:52,664 --> 00:15:55,784 Speaker 3: The documentary, Yes, Sofia, She said that Sofia didn't want 343 00:15:55,824 --> 00:15:59,744 Speaker 3: to do that, So Sophia left and Alex continued call 344 00:15:59,784 --> 00:16:01,984 Speaker 3: her Daddy for one more year on Barstool Sports by 345 00:16:02,024 --> 00:16:05,384 Speaker 3: herself before she got the ip that she owned. 346 00:16:06,064 --> 00:16:08,424 Speaker 1: Is what she wanted to call her daddy, name, the audience, 347 00:16:08,464 --> 00:16:11,744 Speaker 1: all those things. And this is where reports of what 348 00:16:11,784 --> 00:16:15,144 Speaker 1: happened get very conflicting, because if you listen to Alex 349 00:16:15,184 --> 00:16:17,424 Speaker 1: Cooper's sart of the story, which she told in a 350 00:16:17,584 --> 00:16:20,824 Speaker 1: very long form podcast solo episode once she got her 351 00:16:20,864 --> 00:16:24,224 Speaker 1: podcast back, if you believe her story, Sophia is the Villain. 352 00:16:24,384 --> 00:16:26,624 Speaker 1: And then if you went and listened to Sophia Franklin 353 00:16:26,664 --> 00:16:28,944 Speaker 1: who has her own podcast now called Sophia with an 354 00:16:29,064 --> 00:16:30,944 Speaker 1: F and she gave her thoughts on it. She did 355 00:16:30,944 --> 00:16:34,144 Speaker 1: a long form podcast, Alex is the Villain. So Alex's 356 00:16:34,264 --> 00:16:37,184 Speaker 1: version is that they wanted more money, they held out, 357 00:16:37,624 --> 00:16:40,904 Speaker 1: they got offer this deal. They went to Dave Portnoy's rooftop, 358 00:16:40,944 --> 00:16:42,904 Speaker 1: remember how that was a big part of the story there, 359 00:16:43,704 --> 00:16:46,024 Speaker 1: and he offered them this deal and she wanted to 360 00:16:46,024 --> 00:16:48,384 Speaker 1: take it because she wanted the IP and she wanted 361 00:16:48,424 --> 00:16:49,824 Speaker 1: to own the show and be able to take it 362 00:16:49,864 --> 00:16:52,584 Speaker 1: and sell it. And Sophia, she says, was holding out 363 00:16:52,584 --> 00:16:54,504 Speaker 1: for more money. And also the big thing she was 364 00:16:54,504 --> 00:16:56,624 Speaker 1: saying is that Sophia had a boyfriend at the time 365 00:16:56,624 --> 00:16:59,224 Speaker 1: who had entered the Caller Daddy Universe. 366 00:16:59,344 --> 00:17:00,504 Speaker 2: I forgot about the boyfriend. 367 00:17:00,624 --> 00:17:01,064 Speaker 1: Suitman. 368 00:17:01,304 --> 00:17:03,344 Speaker 2: Yes, suitman, Oh my god. 369 00:17:03,544 --> 00:17:05,944 Speaker 1: If you told anyone else about this story, if they 370 00:17:05,944 --> 00:17:08,824 Speaker 1: didn't know, they'd be like you has an absolutely same 371 00:17:09,224 --> 00:17:12,264 Speaker 1: crazy So she started saying this like agent guy who 372 00:17:12,544 --> 00:17:16,184 Speaker 1: wore a lot of suits, and he became very involved. 373 00:17:15,744 --> 00:17:18,904 Speaker 3: And the rumors were like it was causing a drift 374 00:17:18,984 --> 00:17:22,784 Speaker 3: in their friendship and even like in the documentary, like 375 00:17:23,064 --> 00:17:25,904 Speaker 3: Alex's mum was like, you could see their friendship fizzled out, 376 00:17:26,344 --> 00:17:27,544 Speaker 3: and I'm like, girl. 377 00:17:27,424 --> 00:17:29,784 Speaker 2: You know we know more than that, Yeah, exactly. 378 00:17:29,824 --> 00:17:33,184 Speaker 1: There's so much that was hard friendship. Yeah, yeah, And 379 00:17:33,264 --> 00:17:36,264 Speaker 1: it was the moment that that deal. And then Sophia 380 00:17:36,344 --> 00:17:38,504 Speaker 1: has said that Alex like kind of went over the 381 00:17:38,504 --> 00:17:41,064 Speaker 1: top of her behind her back a deal and took 382 00:17:41,064 --> 00:17:43,344 Speaker 1: the deal and lied to people. Alex said that Sophia 383 00:17:43,344 --> 00:17:45,584 Speaker 1: and never did any of the work and wouldn't sign 384 00:17:45,624 --> 00:17:47,224 Speaker 1: the deal and she had to go off solo. There's 385 00:17:47,224 --> 00:17:48,144 Speaker 1: lots of different stories. 386 00:17:48,184 --> 00:17:51,424 Speaker 2: It's weird. I kind of believe both yea like too. 387 00:17:51,744 --> 00:17:54,744 Speaker 3: I do believe that Alex did majority of the work 388 00:17:55,144 --> 00:17:58,864 Speaker 3: for the podcast. I also believe that Alex wanted to 389 00:17:58,904 --> 00:18:01,584 Speaker 3: do the podcast on her own, and I do believe 390 00:18:01,624 --> 00:18:03,744 Speaker 3: that she might have gone behind the back to negotiate 391 00:18:03,864 --> 00:18:04,584 Speaker 3: deals with Day. 392 00:18:05,504 --> 00:18:08,224 Speaker 2: And I do believe that that man that Sofia was dating. 393 00:18:07,984 --> 00:18:12,264 Speaker 1: Calls a drift. And actually I actually think that we've 394 00:18:12,264 --> 00:18:14,144 Speaker 1: got the full story. We should pull a few little 395 00:18:14,144 --> 00:18:15,064 Speaker 1: parts from each thing. 396 00:18:15,184 --> 00:18:15,544 Speaker 2: We've done. 397 00:18:15,544 --> 00:18:19,304 Speaker 1: The guts solved it, and so in the documentary, the 398 00:18:19,344 --> 00:18:22,304 Speaker 1: person who's narrating most of this is Dave port Noy. Yeah. 399 00:18:22,344 --> 00:18:24,184 Speaker 1: And the thing about Dave port Noy, this man that 400 00:18:24,224 --> 00:18:25,984 Speaker 1: I really know so much about and I wish I didn't, 401 00:18:26,024 --> 00:18:28,784 Speaker 1: is he always picks the winning side. He attaches himself 402 00:18:28,824 --> 00:18:32,104 Speaker 1: to whoever he thinks is the biggest star, the biggest winner. 403 00:18:32,264 --> 00:18:33,704 Speaker 1: And that is how he's built a career and made 404 00:18:33,744 --> 00:18:36,384 Speaker 1: a lot of money. And he has always attached himself 405 00:18:36,464 --> 00:18:39,344 Speaker 1: since that happened to Alex Cooper, even though she left 406 00:18:39,344 --> 00:18:41,784 Speaker 1: Barstool Sports and she's gone on to make millions and 407 00:18:41,784 --> 00:18:44,944 Speaker 1: millions billions of dollars off the back of this podcast 408 00:18:44,944 --> 00:18:47,424 Speaker 1: that she built at Barstool, He's always stayed in like 409 00:18:47,584 --> 00:18:50,064 Speaker 1: really good with her and spoken really well of her. 410 00:18:50,184 --> 00:18:52,904 Speaker 1: It's why he attached himself to Taylor Swift and teller. 411 00:18:52,944 --> 00:18:54,744 Speaker 1: Swift sent him a note at her concert to say 412 00:18:54,784 --> 00:18:58,544 Speaker 1: thank hand I know she didn't know what was going on, 413 00:18:58,624 --> 00:18:59,504 Speaker 1: but I was like, girl. 414 00:18:59,504 --> 00:19:01,944 Speaker 2: Come on, girl, where was Tree Paine? 415 00:19:02,064 --> 00:19:04,424 Speaker 1: Yeah, probably didn't know that handwritten note was sent out 416 00:19:04,464 --> 00:19:05,264 Speaker 1: to the audience to Dave. 417 00:19:05,624 --> 00:19:07,504 Speaker 2: She gave it to a dak go give this to that. 418 00:19:08,184 --> 00:19:09,064 Speaker 1: I actually do think. 419 00:19:08,944 --> 00:19:10,704 Speaker 2: That's what I said. 420 00:19:10,784 --> 00:19:13,464 Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, like, actually, that's exactly what happened. 421 00:19:13,664 --> 00:19:15,984 Speaker 1: So that part plays out. The interesting part two is 422 00:19:16,384 --> 00:19:19,504 Speaker 1: there's a lot of footage shot in Barstool with Alex 423 00:19:19,584 --> 00:19:22,384 Speaker 1: Cooper that we actually didn't see in the documentary because 424 00:19:22,464 --> 00:19:24,784 Speaker 1: most of the footage that we see of her and 425 00:19:24,824 --> 00:19:28,184 Speaker 1: Sofia in Barstool in the early days is like archival footage. Yeah, 426 00:19:28,304 --> 00:19:29,424 Speaker 1: when they first signed the deal. 427 00:19:29,664 --> 00:19:32,704 Speaker 2: I mean, it would be weird if they re enact no, no, no. 428 00:19:32,784 --> 00:19:35,464 Speaker 1: But here's the thing, because you see Dave Portnoy being 429 00:19:35,464 --> 00:19:39,504 Speaker 1: this talking head and then well, Barstool Sports is mostly podcasts. 430 00:19:39,504 --> 00:19:41,464 Speaker 1: From my understanding, that's how I know them. They have 431 00:19:41,464 --> 00:19:42,864 Speaker 1: a lot of podcasts, they have a lot of very 432 00:19:42,864 --> 00:19:46,504 Speaker 1: public figures, and I've been looking at the different podcast 433 00:19:46,544 --> 00:19:50,544 Speaker 1: host feeds and tiktoks recently and apparently there's a lot 434 00:19:50,544 --> 00:19:53,264 Speaker 1: more to the kind of Alex Cooper's story than we 435 00:19:53,344 --> 00:19:54,464 Speaker 1: see in the documentary. 436 00:19:56,504 --> 00:19:59,144 Speaker 4: So Alex came to Alex Cooper came to the Barstool 437 00:19:59,144 --> 00:20:02,264 Speaker 4: office like a year ago. She was filming her documentary 438 00:20:02,624 --> 00:20:04,384 Speaker 4: that I think is like on the verge of coming out, 439 00:20:05,464 --> 00:20:07,744 Speaker 4: and it was very like, you know, Alex has gone 440 00:20:07,784 --> 00:20:10,824 Speaker 4: on to become this like superstar, but never really like 441 00:20:11,264 --> 00:20:13,944 Speaker 4: she's been kind about Dave and Barstool, but it was 442 00:20:13,984 --> 00:20:16,544 Speaker 4: not like she was like I came from barstool or 443 00:20:16,584 --> 00:20:18,864 Speaker 4: you know, bar school proud, right, And when she came 444 00:20:18,864 --> 00:20:21,864 Speaker 4: back in, it was like with the cameras and everything, 445 00:20:21,864 --> 00:20:22,624 Speaker 4: it was very like. 446 00:20:22,944 --> 00:20:24,264 Speaker 2: I'm home, I'm back. 447 00:20:25,064 --> 00:20:27,424 Speaker 4: And I think a lot of people were like, uh, 448 00:20:27,544 --> 00:20:28,824 Speaker 4: you do never even like talk to me when you 449 00:20:28,824 --> 00:20:30,904 Speaker 4: were here, you know. But I ended up I don't 450 00:20:30,904 --> 00:20:32,184 Speaker 4: know if it's gonna make it at all, but I 451 00:20:32,224 --> 00:20:35,264 Speaker 4: did like it. They interviewed me for the documentary and 452 00:20:36,184 --> 00:20:38,624 Speaker 4: they were kind of going an angle like almost like 453 00:20:38,624 --> 00:20:40,824 Speaker 4: a feminist angle where it was hard for her to 454 00:20:40,864 --> 00:20:43,184 Speaker 4: be like a girl at barstool, right, And I was like, no, 455 00:20:43,584 --> 00:20:47,504 Speaker 4: not at all, Like she clearly thrived, like nothing was hard, 456 00:20:47,544 --> 00:20:49,024 Speaker 4: you know what I mean. And they were like, but 457 00:20:49,024 --> 00:20:51,184 Speaker 4: but it was different, and you know, they were hammering that. 458 00:20:51,264 --> 00:20:53,024 Speaker 4: So I'm a little bit nervous if that comes out, 459 00:20:53,024 --> 00:20:55,424 Speaker 4: like how that's gonna, uh, you know, appear. 460 00:20:55,584 --> 00:20:58,344 Speaker 2: But but that was talk to the other women at barstool. 461 00:20:58,904 --> 00:21:01,064 Speaker 3: Now safe to say that did not make it in 462 00:21:01,104 --> 00:21:02,864 Speaker 3: the spoiler alert. 463 00:21:02,944 --> 00:21:04,584 Speaker 1: That did not make it into the documentary. 464 00:21:04,744 --> 00:21:07,624 Speaker 2: That's so fascinating. So who was that guy. 465 00:21:07,664 --> 00:21:09,744 Speaker 1: One of the hosts from Barstool Spot. Oh okay, so 466 00:21:09,824 --> 00:21:12,304 Speaker 1: I should say I don't know if that's the big 467 00:21:12,384 --> 00:21:16,384 Speaker 1: kind of gotcha moment that he thought it was when 468 00:21:16,384 --> 00:21:19,184 Speaker 1: he shared that, I think in a way it's obviously 469 00:21:19,264 --> 00:21:23,024 Speaker 1: watching the documentary, it really is painting Alex Cooper as 470 00:21:23,024 --> 00:21:26,024 Speaker 1: this like feminist hero, which to be fair, she is 471 00:21:26,024 --> 00:21:27,664 Speaker 1: in many respects, and we'll get to that when we 472 00:21:27,664 --> 00:21:30,704 Speaker 1: talk about her live tour, but kind of painting her 473 00:21:30,704 --> 00:21:33,024 Speaker 1: as this like underdog with this like beloved part of 474 00:21:33,104 --> 00:21:36,384 Speaker 1: Barstool Sports and like you know, and and the fact 475 00:21:36,424 --> 00:21:39,224 Speaker 1: that she found it really difficult there being a woman. 476 00:21:39,864 --> 00:21:42,744 Speaker 1: And I actually do believe that's probably true. I reckon, 477 00:21:42,944 --> 00:21:45,304 Speaker 1: I don't think this man saying no, she didn't have 478 00:21:45,344 --> 00:21:47,664 Speaker 1: a hard time because she was successful. I'm sure like 479 00:21:47,744 --> 00:21:49,344 Speaker 1: being in an office full of men who were making 480 00:21:49,384 --> 00:21:52,584 Speaker 1: like Broie podcasts was difficult, and we've like. 481 00:21:52,664 --> 00:21:56,824 Speaker 3: Walked into offices of just men and sorry but like 482 00:21:57,624 --> 00:21:59,704 Speaker 3: you all kind of blur into one, like I'm not 483 00:21:59,784 --> 00:22:03,584 Speaker 3: like individually signaling each one of you out. But like 484 00:22:03,624 --> 00:22:06,544 Speaker 3: I think, I think what's funny is when he said, 485 00:22:06,544 --> 00:22:07,504 Speaker 3: like you didn't even talk to. 486 00:22:07,464 --> 00:22:08,464 Speaker 1: Me when I was here. 487 00:22:09,784 --> 00:22:12,424 Speaker 3: I think that funny because also like I wouldn't have 488 00:22:12,544 --> 00:22:13,504 Speaker 3: either neither. 489 00:22:14,784 --> 00:22:17,424 Speaker 1: I was making a documentary about how successful I was. 490 00:22:17,744 --> 00:22:19,064 Speaker 1: I would have walked back in the office. 491 00:22:19,104 --> 00:22:19,304 Speaker 4: Hey. 492 00:22:19,384 --> 00:22:25,504 Speaker 2: Friends, it's very mindical, it's very the mind project. 493 00:22:25,584 --> 00:22:25,784 Speaker 4: Yeah. 494 00:22:25,824 --> 00:22:27,864 Speaker 1: In this moment, Alex Cooper is a caricature, and I 495 00:22:27,904 --> 00:22:31,584 Speaker 1: love her because she's just like and she's successful enough 496 00:22:31,624 --> 00:22:32,224 Speaker 1: to pull it off. 497 00:22:32,304 --> 00:22:33,744 Speaker 3: And it's like an act that she has to do 498 00:22:33,864 --> 00:22:35,744 Speaker 3: for the documentary. And we saw it in the scene 499 00:22:35,744 --> 00:22:38,184 Speaker 3: when she goes back to her first apartment that she 500 00:22:38,224 --> 00:22:40,504 Speaker 3: lived in with the fear and she meets those like 501 00:22:40,544 --> 00:22:42,824 Speaker 3: that bunch of girls who lives in her old apartment, 502 00:22:42,864 --> 00:22:45,544 Speaker 3: and she like reacted in a way no normal person 503 00:22:45,544 --> 00:22:47,424 Speaker 3: would react it, and even to the point where the. 504 00:22:47,424 --> 00:22:50,784 Speaker 2: Girls were like whoa. She was crying and she was. 505 00:22:50,744 --> 00:22:53,304 Speaker 3: Like, I love what you've done with this place. No, 506 00:22:53,504 --> 00:22:55,184 Speaker 3: you guys, can I please come in? I need to 507 00:22:55,184 --> 00:22:57,264 Speaker 3: see this place And they were like okay, sorry. 508 00:22:56,984 --> 00:23:00,344 Speaker 1: Messy, which I had such secondhand stress with them, because 509 00:23:00,344 --> 00:23:03,944 Speaker 1: my worst fear is a random stranger with a camera 510 00:23:04,024 --> 00:23:06,504 Speaker 1: crew turning into your apartment when you're living in a 511 00:23:06,544 --> 00:23:11,104 Speaker 1: twenties share apartment and it is just a rubbish heap, and. 512 00:23:11,544 --> 00:23:14,144 Speaker 3: Like she just like opens doors and walks into their 513 00:23:14,144 --> 00:23:15,464 Speaker 3: bed taking photos. 514 00:23:16,024 --> 00:23:17,344 Speaker 2: She had my vibrated. 515 00:23:18,824 --> 00:23:20,304 Speaker 1: No, but I understand because she was trying to be 516 00:23:20,344 --> 00:23:22,384 Speaker 1: like this is where I started call her daddy, Like 517 00:23:22,464 --> 00:23:24,584 Speaker 1: this is where I recorded the first episode. I sat here, 518 00:23:24,704 --> 00:23:25,904 Speaker 1: I did this, I did that, and. 519 00:23:25,864 --> 00:23:27,624 Speaker 2: They were like, okay, can we get a photo? 520 00:23:28,384 --> 00:23:31,144 Speaker 1: The funny. I mean, I was half like really emotional 521 00:23:31,144 --> 00:23:33,024 Speaker 1: for her because I think having those moments where you 522 00:23:33,024 --> 00:23:34,464 Speaker 1: go back to something you began, you think of how 523 00:23:34,504 --> 00:23:37,184 Speaker 1: far you've calmed on what's happened, and like the hope 524 00:23:37,184 --> 00:23:39,544 Speaker 1: you had setting up the podcast, and I understand they'd 525 00:23:39,584 --> 00:23:42,544 Speaker 1: be really emotional. But also these poor girls were just like, 526 00:23:43,064 --> 00:23:45,944 Speaker 1: you know, completely different, like wavelengths because she's like there's 527 00:23:46,064 --> 00:23:48,824 Speaker 1: magic in these walls and they're just like nodding as 528 00:23:49,024 --> 00:23:51,184 Speaker 1: you can just be like they're like we can't afeel, like. 529 00:23:51,104 --> 00:23:53,544 Speaker 2: We can't pay our dentist, bit we're dying. 530 00:23:56,784 --> 00:23:58,744 Speaker 1: Statistically, things aren't gonna get me. 531 00:23:58,704 --> 00:24:06,504 Speaker 3: Better, Like you're so luckier in this shitty part because 532 00:24:06,544 --> 00:24:07,384 Speaker 3: great things happened. 533 00:24:07,504 --> 00:24:09,504 Speaker 1: She's like touching the walls like there's magic in these 534 00:24:09,504 --> 00:24:11,144 Speaker 1: walls and the wall like all the part. 535 00:24:11,184 --> 00:24:12,944 Speaker 2: Also like it was just her to be a living 536 00:24:12,944 --> 00:24:15,944 Speaker 2: then I'm pretty sure they're like, fine, girl, she went 537 00:24:16,064 --> 00:24:17,904 Speaker 2: back to that apartment. 538 00:24:19,864 --> 00:24:22,544 Speaker 1: Situation. They're like they're like, yeah, we're all sleeping on 539 00:24:22,584 --> 00:24:25,784 Speaker 1: the floor of this one bedroom apartment. But still magic 540 00:24:27,144 --> 00:24:31,304 Speaker 1: to be successful, to be successful. So yeah, that part 541 00:24:31,304 --> 00:24:33,544 Speaker 1: of like, yeah, the Sophia Franklin of it all, it 542 00:24:33,704 --> 00:24:36,904 Speaker 1: was super interesting, glossed over, skated over. But I do 543 00:24:37,024 --> 00:24:40,104 Speaker 1: understand why because she's spoken about that so much before. 544 00:24:40,184 --> 00:24:42,824 Speaker 1: It's been such a defining part of her story, and 545 00:24:43,064 --> 00:24:45,584 Speaker 1: this documentary was really highlighting her as more of like 546 00:24:45,904 --> 00:24:48,864 Speaker 1: a successful business woman and a feminist icon. And a 547 00:24:48,904 --> 00:24:51,344 Speaker 1: lot of that was tied to the Unwell Tool, which 548 00:24:51,344 --> 00:24:53,744 Speaker 1: we got like a really behind the scenes look at 549 00:24:53,784 --> 00:24:55,144 Speaker 1: what did you think of that? I do wish I 550 00:24:55,144 --> 00:24:56,504 Speaker 1: had been able to go watching it. 551 00:24:57,704 --> 00:25:02,544 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was actually quite impressed by how big it 552 00:25:02,744 --> 00:25:05,224 Speaker 3: was because I didn't hear much about the tool, Like 553 00:25:05,264 --> 00:25:07,504 Speaker 3: I remember when the tickets went on sale because that 554 00:25:07,624 --> 00:25:09,784 Speaker 3: was everywhere. It was the first ever time she did 555 00:25:10,464 --> 00:25:12,304 Speaker 3: live tour, was the first time she did like a 556 00:25:12,384 --> 00:25:14,904 Speaker 3: kind of stage production, and she's never done one before, 557 00:25:15,224 --> 00:25:17,664 Speaker 3: and when I looked at the archival footage of the 558 00:25:17,704 --> 00:25:20,504 Speaker 3: actual tour, I was like, Oh, she's taken it to 559 00:25:20,584 --> 00:25:23,864 Speaker 3: a whole new level. Like we both attended live podcasts, 560 00:25:23,864 --> 00:25:26,944 Speaker 3: events and stuff, and usually it will be like a 561 00:25:26,984 --> 00:25:29,304 Speaker 3: live podcast on a stage where you're just like watching 562 00:25:29,304 --> 00:25:32,584 Speaker 3: people talking on a stage, and this was a performance. 563 00:25:32,864 --> 00:25:35,944 Speaker 1: It was the best bit watching the just the video 564 00:25:35,944 --> 00:25:37,984 Speaker 1: of it, how it looks like there's security. 565 00:25:37,544 --> 00:25:39,944 Speaker 3: Guards at the front of the stage and they just 566 00:25:39,984 --> 00:25:41,464 Speaker 3: felt like a magic mic moment. 567 00:25:41,624 --> 00:25:43,184 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is all of these security guards stating the 568 00:25:43,224 --> 00:25:45,504 Speaker 1: front of stage well before she comes out, and they're 569 00:25:45,544 --> 00:25:46,904 Speaker 1: just looking there and they're looking like they're there to 570 00:25:46,944 --> 00:25:49,064 Speaker 1: stop anyone rushing the stage, and all of a sudden, 571 00:25:49,064 --> 00:25:51,184 Speaker 1: the music starts and they all start stripping because they're 572 00:25:51,184 --> 00:25:54,624 Speaker 1: part of the show. Security guards. Brilliant. Yeah, they really 573 00:25:54,664 --> 00:25:57,104 Speaker 1: went hard on the audience shots of that, and they 574 00:25:57,104 --> 00:25:59,384 Speaker 1: were doing vox pops at in front of the theater 575 00:25:59,424 --> 00:26:02,464 Speaker 1: before people went in, and you could tell they'd either 576 00:26:02,584 --> 00:26:06,464 Speaker 1: selected like a certain type of answer or they'd asked 577 00:26:06,464 --> 00:26:10,144 Speaker 1: a question that answer because pretty much every single woman 578 00:26:10,384 --> 00:26:12,944 Speaker 1: and there were hundreds and hundreds of women at every 579 00:26:13,024 --> 00:26:15,944 Speaker 1: show that were all sold out, people were lying the streets, 580 00:26:15,984 --> 00:26:18,464 Speaker 1: people were flying in, people flying in, they were traveling, 581 00:26:18,504 --> 00:26:20,384 Speaker 1: people were sobbing when she came out. She still got 582 00:26:20,424 --> 00:26:23,144 Speaker 1: footage people sobbing and screaming when she came out, and 583 00:26:23,184 --> 00:26:24,984 Speaker 1: like they were all being asked outside the theater, why 584 00:26:24,984 --> 00:26:26,704 Speaker 1: are you here? Why do you listen to call her daddy? 585 00:26:26,704 --> 00:26:28,824 Speaker 1: Why did you come to the unwel tour? And they're 586 00:26:28,824 --> 00:26:32,064 Speaker 1: all saying, it's all about empowerment, it's all about women 587 00:26:32,144 --> 00:26:34,544 Speaker 1: coming together, it's about women standing up for each other, 588 00:26:34,544 --> 00:26:36,464 Speaker 1: which I'm sure there's an element of that, but I 589 00:26:36,464 --> 00:26:39,064 Speaker 1: just thought that was very interesting to like really frame 590 00:26:39,104 --> 00:26:41,864 Speaker 1: it as like like it wasn't enough for anyone to say, 591 00:26:42,024 --> 00:26:44,184 Speaker 1: we're just here to see a podcaster that I love 592 00:26:44,344 --> 00:26:46,904 Speaker 1: who says wild things and talks about sex and it's 593 00:26:47,024 --> 00:26:49,544 Speaker 1: very entertaining. Yeah, and we're not just here to see 594 00:26:49,544 --> 00:26:53,464 Speaker 1: her show, like I'm here to make a political societal statement. 595 00:26:53,744 --> 00:26:54,024 Speaker 4: Yeah. 596 00:26:54,184 --> 00:26:57,784 Speaker 3: That's such a good pointing because when I was watching 597 00:26:58,304 --> 00:27:01,304 Speaker 3: like the footage of the live show, and I don't 598 00:27:01,344 --> 00:27:03,184 Speaker 3: mean to say like it looked like a brilliant show, 599 00:27:03,224 --> 00:27:04,504 Speaker 3: and I looked like you'd have so much money you 600 00:27:04,544 --> 00:27:07,104 Speaker 3: want to set like a party, but it was also 601 00:27:07,384 --> 00:27:08,784 Speaker 3: like deeply scripted. 602 00:27:09,104 --> 00:27:11,064 Speaker 2: Oh and everything from what I. 603 00:27:10,944 --> 00:27:13,384 Speaker 3: Saw from the footage of the live show was nothing new. 604 00:27:14,064 --> 00:27:17,744 Speaker 3: And the fact that she has an audience where like 605 00:27:17,944 --> 00:27:20,824 Speaker 3: thousands and thousands of women can come to a production 606 00:27:20,984 --> 00:27:24,624 Speaker 3: like that and just watch her repeat things that they already. 607 00:27:24,384 --> 00:27:27,344 Speaker 2: Knew, like the gluckluck nine thousand and the. 608 00:27:27,504 --> 00:27:29,224 Speaker 1: Just her tell the people techniques. 609 00:27:29,264 --> 00:27:31,704 Speaker 3: I don't know, it's a famous blowjob technique that I 610 00:27:31,784 --> 00:27:33,824 Speaker 3: listened to when I think I was like eighteen years old, 611 00:27:33,904 --> 00:27:36,664 Speaker 3: and I changed my life and the life of all 612 00:27:36,664 --> 00:27:37,424 Speaker 3: the men I've dated. 613 00:27:37,944 --> 00:27:39,784 Speaker 1: And I mean, that is exactly what women in the 614 00:27:39,824 --> 00:27:42,224 Speaker 1: audience were saying. So like maybe there was no setup. 615 00:27:42,224 --> 00:27:44,744 Speaker 1: Maybe that was exactly because what you said is exactly 616 00:27:44,744 --> 00:27:45,664 Speaker 1: what's in the documentary. 617 00:27:45,704 --> 00:27:48,264 Speaker 2: It's so funny. Maybe I am a you are her. 618 00:27:48,824 --> 00:27:51,024 Speaker 3: But what I found really interesting is that she could 619 00:27:51,104 --> 00:27:54,904 Speaker 3: just like repeat this information in a really slow, ted 620 00:27:54,984 --> 00:27:58,144 Speaker 3: talkie way and they were just lapping it up. 621 00:27:58,184 --> 00:28:02,424 Speaker 1: The behind the scenes is so interesting. So it takes 622 00:28:02,464 --> 00:28:05,024 Speaker 1: you a few days before the first show and they 623 00:28:05,104 --> 00:28:08,024 Speaker 1: in rehearsal and you see Alex on stage, and this 624 00:28:08,144 --> 00:28:09,784 Speaker 1: is I think where you start to realize just how 625 00:28:09,904 --> 00:28:12,824 Speaker 1: script it is because she's on stage and she's completely 626 00:28:12,864 --> 00:28:16,384 Speaker 1: memorizing her lines, and then she's in the rehearsal space, 627 00:28:16,464 --> 00:28:18,224 Speaker 1: and all of the producers and all the people who 628 00:28:18,304 --> 00:28:20,344 Speaker 1: have written the show worked on the show in the audience, 629 00:28:20,624 --> 00:28:24,424 Speaker 1: including her husband and business partner Matt Kaplan. We'll get 630 00:28:24,424 --> 00:28:29,304 Speaker 1: to him things about that is in the audience, and 631 00:28:29,384 --> 00:28:31,664 Speaker 1: Matt Caplan in particular, her husband is giving her a 632 00:28:31,664 --> 00:28:34,704 Speaker 1: lot of feedback of like slow down, pause there, lean 633 00:28:34,744 --> 00:28:36,264 Speaker 1: into this part of the story, say it like this, 634 00:28:36,384 --> 00:28:38,624 Speaker 1: like she is almost rehearsing a play on stage, and 635 00:28:38,664 --> 00:28:41,064 Speaker 1: then you see like the dancers come in for rehearsal, 636 00:28:41,144 --> 00:28:43,184 Speaker 1: all this sort of stuff. It's also revealed, which I 637 00:28:43,184 --> 00:28:45,344 Speaker 1: thought was quite cute and interesting, that her very best 638 00:28:45,344 --> 00:28:49,184 Speaker 1: friend from childhood, Lauren, who has been a big part 639 00:28:49,224 --> 00:28:51,904 Speaker 1: of the Caller Daddy universe since the early days of Sophia, 640 00:28:52,264 --> 00:28:54,184 Speaker 1: has always kind of like been in her stories. She 641 00:28:54,224 --> 00:28:56,664 Speaker 1: has come on the podcast many times. I feel like 642 00:28:56,664 --> 00:28:58,704 Speaker 1: I know so much about her story from being Alex 643 00:28:58,784 --> 00:29:01,904 Speaker 1: Cooper's childhood best friend. But all they've ever said is 644 00:29:01,944 --> 00:29:05,784 Speaker 1: like Lauren is like a psychology student and then they 645 00:29:06,064 --> 00:29:07,784 Speaker 1: grew up together. But that's all we've ever heard, and 646 00:29:07,824 --> 00:29:09,944 Speaker 1: then it was revealed on the documentary she's actually the 647 00:29:09,944 --> 00:29:12,864 Speaker 1: producer of Call Her Daddy, and they deliberately have kept 648 00:29:12,904 --> 00:29:15,584 Speaker 1: it a secret for a long time because they didn't 649 00:29:15,624 --> 00:29:18,384 Speaker 1: want Well, she actually says why they didn't say why. 650 00:29:18,784 --> 00:29:19,904 Speaker 1: I wanted to ask you. 651 00:29:19,824 --> 00:29:20,984 Speaker 2: Because I was like, did they miss it? 652 00:29:21,304 --> 00:29:22,944 Speaker 1: No? No, No, I thought that too. I like paused 653 00:29:22,984 --> 00:29:24,704 Speaker 1: it and I was like, she's like, because Alex says 654 00:29:24,704 --> 00:29:27,184 Speaker 1: like Lauren is the producer of Call Her Daddy, She's 655 00:29:27,224 --> 00:29:28,784 Speaker 1: the head, she's the beating heart of it. And I 656 00:29:28,824 --> 00:29:31,584 Speaker 1: was like, wow, is that new. That's really interesting. You 657 00:29:31,584 --> 00:29:33,184 Speaker 1: guys have never seen that before. And then she goes, 658 00:29:33,304 --> 00:29:35,824 Speaker 1: we've deliberately never said this before. Yeah, and then it 659 00:29:35,864 --> 00:29:36,344 Speaker 1: just stops. 660 00:29:36,704 --> 00:29:40,064 Speaker 3: I think it's something to do with like the nepotism 661 00:29:40,184 --> 00:29:44,024 Speaker 3: aspect of the podcast, because she obviously has become and 662 00:29:44,144 --> 00:29:46,584 Speaker 3: she says it in the podcast, she's become this such 663 00:29:46,624 --> 00:29:49,264 Speaker 3: a big thing to almost like a list celebrity level. 664 00:29:49,264 --> 00:29:51,944 Speaker 1: Well, she comes out during the live show, yeah yeah, 665 00:29:51,984 --> 00:29:54,784 Speaker 1: and everyone knows her and loves her and cheers for 666 00:29:54,824 --> 00:29:58,104 Speaker 1: her Lauren, but now Alex is so so big that 667 00:29:58,184 --> 00:30:00,744 Speaker 1: which I'm sure every celebrity does only has a handful 668 00:30:00,784 --> 00:30:02,744 Speaker 1: of people who they can really trust and have close 669 00:30:02,824 --> 00:30:03,184 Speaker 1: to them. 670 00:30:03,744 --> 00:30:07,104 Speaker 3: And I think having Lauren there because she was such 671 00:30:07,104 --> 00:30:09,384 Speaker 3: a big part of the content of Call Her Daddy, 672 00:30:09,424 --> 00:30:11,664 Speaker 3: like going on dates and stuff like that, like providing 673 00:30:11,704 --> 00:30:14,384 Speaker 3: content that I think it might have been hard for 674 00:30:14,504 --> 00:30:17,624 Speaker 3: audience to take all of that in while also knowing 675 00:30:17,664 --> 00:30:19,104 Speaker 3: she's a producer on the show. 676 00:30:19,224 --> 00:30:21,304 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I think maybe it was to really protect 677 00:30:21,344 --> 00:30:23,864 Speaker 1: the storytelling part of their friendship, which has become such 678 00:30:23,904 --> 00:30:25,144 Speaker 1: a big show part of the show. 679 00:30:25,304 --> 00:30:27,744 Speaker 3: And it would be immediately like if she announced Lauren, 680 00:30:27,864 --> 00:30:29,944 Speaker 3: everyone would be like, oh, Sophia's replacement. 681 00:30:30,064 --> 00:30:30,424 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. 682 00:30:30,864 --> 00:30:32,464 Speaker 2: And the fact that Lauren. 683 00:30:32,224 --> 00:30:35,464 Speaker 3: Was there even from Sophia's days is also really interesting 684 00:30:35,504 --> 00:30:38,624 Speaker 3: to me because she hits Sophia's replexments. 685 00:30:38,984 --> 00:30:40,624 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think it's still ever be like 686 00:30:40,624 --> 00:30:42,464 Speaker 1: a co host or anything like that. She's very much 687 00:30:42,504 --> 00:30:45,024 Speaker 1: behind the scenes. But yeah, I think it's interesting that 688 00:30:44,984 --> 00:30:47,704 Speaker 1: they're so aware of the perception of like friendship and 689 00:30:47,784 --> 00:30:50,464 Speaker 1: business and what their audience wants that they thought it 690 00:30:50,664 --> 00:30:52,344 Speaker 1: wasn't the right time to introduce that. 691 00:30:52,504 --> 00:30:52,704 Speaker 4: Yeah. 692 00:30:52,704 --> 00:30:55,224 Speaker 3: And also because it like that exact formula failed the 693 00:30:55,264 --> 00:30:57,744 Speaker 3: first time. Yeah, so they probably just want to keep 694 00:30:57,784 --> 00:30:58,544 Speaker 3: it chill. 695 00:30:58,784 --> 00:31:00,664 Speaker 1: Seeing only a reveal that only a few of us 696 00:31:00,744 --> 00:31:04,544 Speaker 1: cared about, like huge, Everyone's like, Okay, there's one part 697 00:31:04,584 --> 00:31:06,384 Speaker 1: of this, the behind the scenes tour, that I actually 698 00:31:06,384 --> 00:31:08,464 Speaker 1: didn't think they'd show, And I think it's really interesting 699 00:31:08,464 --> 00:31:10,704 Speaker 1: that they did. And I think it's probably only showing 700 00:31:10,784 --> 00:31:13,424 Speaker 1: us the side of Alex Cooper that they alluded to. 701 00:31:13,544 --> 00:31:15,504 Speaker 1: But I think it's probably like quite a big part 702 00:31:15,544 --> 00:31:19,904 Speaker 1: of her personality because if you watch her content and 703 00:31:19,944 --> 00:31:23,184 Speaker 1: you listen to her podcast, especially like her solo episodes, 704 00:31:23,584 --> 00:31:25,944 Speaker 1: which I actually think I like a lot of her 705 00:31:25,944 --> 00:31:27,264 Speaker 1: solo episodes better than me. 706 00:31:27,664 --> 00:31:30,224 Speaker 2: Show, it feels like the og call her dad. 707 00:31:30,224 --> 00:31:32,704 Speaker 1: That's a great storyteller. Yeah, I've listened to that girl 708 00:31:32,784 --> 00:31:34,544 Speaker 1: talk for an hour about a train trip. She went on. 709 00:31:34,904 --> 00:31:38,544 Speaker 1: Excellent content, top tier. So if she always paints herself 710 00:31:38,544 --> 00:31:40,224 Speaker 1: in a way of like and I wonder if this 711 00:31:40,304 --> 00:31:43,024 Speaker 1: is like an overflow from like Sophia branding her like 712 00:31:43,024 --> 00:31:44,544 Speaker 1: a devil to work with kind of thing in a 713 00:31:44,584 --> 00:31:48,144 Speaker 1: backstat but she always really brands herself as like easy. 714 00:31:47,864 --> 00:31:48,424 Speaker 2: To work with. 715 00:31:48,744 --> 00:31:50,944 Speaker 1: I do this, people hear this, but very much like 716 00:31:51,184 --> 00:31:54,064 Speaker 1: I do everything myself. But I'm really understanding. I'm easy 717 00:31:54,064 --> 00:31:56,024 Speaker 1: to work with, I'm a girl's girl, all these things, 718 00:31:56,024 --> 00:31:59,264 Speaker 1: which is which is also potentially all true. But then 719 00:31:59,584 --> 00:32:02,264 Speaker 1: when you see her in that moment, be like almost 720 00:32:02,264 --> 00:32:04,144 Speaker 1: like the star of the show. And what happens to 721 00:32:04,184 --> 00:32:05,904 Speaker 1: the star of the show, not the boss or the 722 00:32:05,904 --> 00:32:09,384 Speaker 1: creator when things go to shit pretty much because there's 723 00:32:09,424 --> 00:32:11,464 Speaker 1: a scene where it's a few days out from the 724 00:32:11,464 --> 00:32:13,184 Speaker 1: live show. They haven't been able to run it all 725 00:32:13,224 --> 00:32:15,904 Speaker 1: the way through yet, all the text breaking down, she 726 00:32:15,944 --> 00:32:18,424 Speaker 1: can't do a full rehearsal, no one knows what's going on, 727 00:32:18,504 --> 00:32:21,024 Speaker 1: but things are falling apart. Yeah, and you see her 728 00:32:21,064 --> 00:32:24,304 Speaker 1: sitting with her like little gang backstage away from like 729 00:32:24,344 --> 00:32:26,904 Speaker 1: the full time production stuff, and she just kind of 730 00:32:26,944 --> 00:32:29,224 Speaker 1: loses it a bit, which also fair enough at that 731 00:32:29,264 --> 00:32:32,744 Speaker 1: stage of the game, I would be screaming at people. Yeah, 732 00:32:32,744 --> 00:32:34,704 Speaker 1: like I hate that about myself, but I would have 733 00:32:34,744 --> 00:32:37,264 Speaker 1: lost it much earlier because you hear her saying like, 734 00:32:37,664 --> 00:32:39,584 Speaker 1: I have to be able to run this show once 735 00:32:39,664 --> 00:32:41,984 Speaker 1: at least before we go to stage. What is everyone doing? 736 00:32:41,984 --> 00:32:44,064 Speaker 1: Why is it broken? Why is it like this? And 737 00:32:44,104 --> 00:32:45,864 Speaker 1: that's just the side of her we haven't seen before. 738 00:32:46,064 --> 00:32:49,424 Speaker 2: Yeah, And then when her stage production manager. 739 00:32:49,784 --> 00:32:51,344 Speaker 1: Oh my god, what was Brad? 740 00:32:51,984 --> 00:32:52,504 Speaker 2: Wasn't Prad? 741 00:32:52,624 --> 00:32:57,104 Speaker 3: John John John John John, who is literally the person 742 00:32:57,144 --> 00:32:58,944 Speaker 3: which I'm like, surely there should be at least two 743 00:32:58,944 --> 00:33:01,784 Speaker 3: people doing this job. But he is like the stage 744 00:33:01,824 --> 00:33:05,104 Speaker 3: production manager, as in like he's the one that if 745 00:33:05,104 --> 00:33:07,504 Speaker 3: he's not there, the show can't go ahead. He's the 746 00:33:07,504 --> 00:33:09,784 Speaker 3: one who gives everyone their cues. He's like in charge 747 00:33:09,784 --> 00:33:12,584 Speaker 3: of like the lightning, the music, Like he's the one 748 00:33:12,624 --> 00:33:16,104 Speaker 3: on the microphone telling lights go, music go. Alex Goes 749 00:33:16,264 --> 00:33:19,704 Speaker 3: is keeping everything, keeping everything together on the timeline and 750 00:33:19,784 --> 00:33:24,704 Speaker 3: he has a burnout moment and he wants to quit again. 751 00:33:26,664 --> 00:33:28,984 Speaker 1: We are all we are all John in that moment, 752 00:33:29,144 --> 00:33:32,584 Speaker 1: and he wants to quit the day before I know 753 00:33:32,584 --> 00:33:35,024 Speaker 1: the show's going on the day and he's just like 754 00:33:36,744 --> 00:33:39,904 Speaker 1: again relatable. Actually, I just want to hold Jockey series 755 00:33:39,944 --> 00:33:41,744 Speaker 1: on John because I've never related to anyone so much. 756 00:33:41,864 --> 00:33:44,744 Speaker 3: The storyline for that was so funny to me because 757 00:33:44,744 --> 00:33:48,224 Speaker 3: it was obviously John is going through it, obviously, but 758 00:33:48,304 --> 00:33:52,264 Speaker 3: the way they made it like this dramatic storytelling. 759 00:33:51,504 --> 00:33:53,344 Speaker 1: I benefited Alex Coopery. 760 00:33:53,064 --> 00:33:56,904 Speaker 2: That Ben made her look so good. 761 00:33:56,984 --> 00:33:59,304 Speaker 3: If this happened to any other person, they'd end up 762 00:33:59,304 --> 00:34:01,544 Speaker 3: seeing of some company like it made. 763 00:34:01,424 --> 00:34:05,664 Speaker 2: Her look so good. So basically John is like telling people. 764 00:34:05,504 --> 00:34:07,584 Speaker 3: He's going to burn out, blah blah blah. Alex wasn't 765 00:34:07,584 --> 00:34:08,744 Speaker 3: here for the original conversation. 766 00:34:08,824 --> 00:34:10,744 Speaker 2: She's somewhere else. She's heard it through the grape. 767 00:34:10,904 --> 00:34:13,024 Speaker 1: She goes, it's such a funny things, like where's John. 768 00:34:13,024 --> 00:34:16,184 Speaker 1: They're like, but I'm sure he's here. They're like, and 769 00:34:16,224 --> 00:34:17,064 Speaker 1: she's like, no, but where is? 770 00:34:17,064 --> 00:34:18,144 Speaker 2: It turns into a horror movie. 771 00:34:18,144 --> 00:34:20,384 Speaker 1: She's like, where the fuck is Where's John? Where's John? 772 00:34:20,424 --> 00:34:23,064 Speaker 1: And then someone's like, so he's actually leaving and she's like, 773 00:34:23,144 --> 00:34:25,504 Speaker 1: just tell me, just tell me, And then she goes fine, 774 00:34:25,504 --> 00:34:26,464 Speaker 1: and she's like, I need to find Matt. 775 00:34:26,504 --> 00:34:27,984 Speaker 3: I need to find Matt because he's having like a 776 00:34:27,984 --> 00:34:30,744 Speaker 3: big boy talk. She finds John, he's having this big womaning. 777 00:34:30,824 --> 00:34:32,984 Speaker 3: She storms into the meetings. She's like, what's going on? 778 00:34:33,024 --> 00:34:35,224 Speaker 3: And they're trying not to tell her because I also think, also, 779 00:34:35,424 --> 00:34:37,904 Speaker 3: like you said, being the talent, like if I was 780 00:34:37,904 --> 00:34:40,784 Speaker 3: in that situation, I would also probably try not to 781 00:34:40,784 --> 00:34:43,344 Speaker 3: tell her because like she has to go on stage tomorrow. 782 00:34:43,504 --> 00:34:45,144 Speaker 1: They're trying to sort of keep her calms, yeah, and 783 00:34:45,224 --> 00:34:45,944 Speaker 1: fix the problem. 784 00:34:46,024 --> 00:34:47,784 Speaker 2: Yeah, And she's like, I already know about John. What 785 00:34:47,824 --> 00:34:48,704 Speaker 2: do I do? What do I do? 786 00:34:48,784 --> 00:34:50,304 Speaker 3: And she's like should I talk to him? And they're like, yeah, 787 00:34:50,344 --> 00:34:52,384 Speaker 3: go talk to him? But it's felt like something that 788 00:34:52,424 --> 00:34:53,544 Speaker 3: you would tell a little kid. 789 00:34:54,064 --> 00:34:55,864 Speaker 1: And I'm like, yeah, go try talk, Like would you 790 00:34:55,944 --> 00:34:58,304 Speaker 1: ever talk to John? And she's like yes, like and 791 00:34:58,424 --> 00:35:00,304 Speaker 1: also preferably before he leaves, and then. 792 00:35:00,184 --> 00:35:01,104 Speaker 2: She like talks to John. 793 00:35:01,144 --> 00:35:04,184 Speaker 3: She's like, no cameras, no cameras, but the camera's obviously there. 794 00:35:04,184 --> 00:35:06,584 Speaker 1: The cameras, Oh no, you can't see them. So it's 795 00:35:06,584 --> 00:35:09,304 Speaker 1: like John and alex a behind audio and they went. 796 00:35:09,184 --> 00:35:12,144 Speaker 2: To the camera. John, you actually went into a podcast studio. 797 00:35:13,864 --> 00:35:16,344 Speaker 1: It's all perfectly miked, but it's really what I was 798 00:35:16,384 --> 00:35:19,144 Speaker 1: coming around. And then she he's saying to her like 799 00:35:19,184 --> 00:35:21,264 Speaker 1: I can't do this anymore, like I'm burnt it, I 800 00:35:21,304 --> 00:35:24,024 Speaker 1: can't do it. This place is basically saying, not only 801 00:35:24,064 --> 00:35:26,304 Speaker 1: am I stressed and busy and I can't do this, 802 00:35:26,304 --> 00:35:28,624 Speaker 1: this place is toxic and some stuff has happened, and 803 00:35:28,664 --> 00:35:31,224 Speaker 1: she's going to him, I'm so sorry, we need you. 804 00:35:31,304 --> 00:35:33,264 Speaker 1: What can we do? I didn't know this was happening. 805 00:35:33,264 --> 00:35:36,824 Speaker 1: If I'd known, I would have done something like really intense. 806 00:35:36,744 --> 00:35:39,944 Speaker 3: Really intense, And the whole thing was that like she 807 00:35:40,264 --> 00:35:42,464 Speaker 3: was saying I can't do this without you. I can't 808 00:35:42,504 --> 00:35:45,184 Speaker 3: do this without you, which I believe, which high one 809 00:35:45,224 --> 00:35:48,664 Speaker 3: hundred percent believe, but the way it said, it sounds 810 00:35:48,704 --> 00:35:50,584 Speaker 3: like that you are so important that we can't do 811 00:35:50,624 --> 00:35:51,504 Speaker 3: it without you, when it. 812 00:35:51,504 --> 00:35:52,984 Speaker 2: Was actually a literal statement. 813 00:35:53,264 --> 00:35:56,064 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was literally like like the actual show wouldn't 814 00:35:56,104 --> 00:35:56,944 Speaker 3: go on without you. 815 00:35:57,944 --> 00:35:59,144 Speaker 2: And I think it was just. 816 00:35:59,104 --> 00:36:00,944 Speaker 3: Like one of those moments and even like that little 817 00:36:00,984 --> 00:36:03,384 Speaker 3: bit at the end where he was like, Okay, I'll 818 00:36:03,384 --> 00:36:05,384 Speaker 3: continue doing it, like I'm going to continue working here, 819 00:36:05,904 --> 00:36:09,024 Speaker 3: and then someone like yells on stage, hey John, where's 820 00:36:09,064 --> 00:36:10,744 Speaker 3: the tape? And she's like, Nope, don't ask on, I'll 821 00:36:10,744 --> 00:36:11,024 Speaker 3: do it. 822 00:36:11,544 --> 00:36:13,824 Speaker 1: Yeah, and they basically want him to want him John 823 00:36:13,824 --> 00:36:16,024 Speaker 1: to like move furniture and she's like, don't ask John, 824 00:36:16,064 --> 00:36:17,984 Speaker 1: I'll do it. I'm like, he watched his back and 825 00:36:18,064 --> 00:36:18,784 Speaker 1: that's not his name. 826 00:36:21,864 --> 00:36:26,944 Speaker 3: I'm so sorry John, he does Oh my god. 827 00:36:27,184 --> 00:36:30,424 Speaker 1: And I don't even care about today because next time 828 00:36:30,424 --> 00:36:32,944 Speaker 1: I'm in a tough situation, I'm gonna be like, what 829 00:36:32,944 --> 00:36:38,664 Speaker 1: would would John do? Exactly make a T shirt? I'm 830 00:36:38,664 --> 00:36:40,464 Speaker 1: gonna go cry in the cupboard and get upset, and 831 00:36:40,464 --> 00:36:41,864 Speaker 1: then I'm gonna come out and do my job, which 832 00:36:41,864 --> 00:36:42,784 Speaker 1: is what we do here. Everything. 833 00:36:42,864 --> 00:36:44,864 Speaker 3: We're going to tell everyone we're quitting the day before 834 00:36:44,904 --> 00:36:46,544 Speaker 3: and then come out and be like I'm going. 835 00:36:46,504 --> 00:36:48,464 Speaker 1: To stay a get meet every time the school gets 836 00:36:50,784 --> 00:36:52,544 Speaker 1: we see her come out on stage, and you see 837 00:36:52,544 --> 00:36:54,824 Speaker 1: the tour and everything and that the tour is super successful, 838 00:36:55,104 --> 00:36:57,544 Speaker 1: very epic. And on the tour, she goes to Boston 839 00:36:57,944 --> 00:37:00,464 Speaker 1: and she goes back to Boston University, which was the 840 00:37:00,504 --> 00:37:03,624 Speaker 1: college she went to, and this is where a story 841 00:37:03,664 --> 00:37:06,984 Speaker 1: comes out, probably the only story that's in the documentary 842 00:37:07,024 --> 00:37:09,544 Speaker 1: that she's never told on her podcast before. 843 00:37:09,704 --> 00:37:12,904 Speaker 3: She went to university on a soccer scholarship because she 844 00:37:12,984 --> 00:37:16,864 Speaker 3: was a brilliant player all throughout childhood. She was like 845 00:37:16,904 --> 00:37:19,824 Speaker 3: representing the US in different countries. So she got this 846 00:37:20,064 --> 00:37:23,984 Speaker 3: massive scholarship, which is very rare to get for sport, 847 00:37:24,104 --> 00:37:26,384 Speaker 3: and she went to play on the soccer team for 848 00:37:26,504 --> 00:37:29,384 Speaker 3: Boston And what she really liked about she was saying 849 00:37:29,464 --> 00:37:31,904 Speaker 3: the soccer team was that the coach was a woman. Yes, 850 00:37:32,024 --> 00:37:34,344 Speaker 3: and she's had so much experience with different coaches, but 851 00:37:34,384 --> 00:37:36,904 Speaker 3: she's like, rarely worked with women, and she found that 852 00:37:37,024 --> 00:37:38,144 Speaker 3: really really exciting to do. 853 00:37:38,904 --> 00:37:41,704 Speaker 1: Yes. She alleges in the documentary that the coach of 854 00:37:41,704 --> 00:37:45,944 Speaker 1: her soccer team, this woman, sexually harassed her for years. 855 00:37:45,744 --> 00:37:49,784 Speaker 3: For years, to the point where Alex was calling up 856 00:37:49,784 --> 00:37:53,184 Speaker 3: her mom and telling her mom all the awful things 857 00:37:53,184 --> 00:37:55,544 Speaker 3: that were happening, the point that she didn't even want 858 00:37:55,544 --> 00:37:57,344 Speaker 3: to play anymore, that she was trying to avoid the 859 00:37:57,384 --> 00:38:00,224 Speaker 3: coach as much as possible. One of her teammates, who 860 00:38:00,304 --> 00:38:02,624 Speaker 3: was also really good friends with her, got kicked off 861 00:38:02,664 --> 00:38:05,464 Speaker 3: the team, and it was alleged that the coach told 862 00:38:05,504 --> 00:38:07,984 Speaker 3: Alex that this is what happens when you don't listen 863 00:38:08,024 --> 00:38:11,904 Speaker 3: to me, absolutely awful things. Then her parents, who I 864 00:38:11,904 --> 00:38:14,744 Speaker 3: think are like literally the best parents. Yeah, her mom 865 00:38:14,824 --> 00:38:17,384 Speaker 3: said that she wrote down every single thing Alex told 866 00:38:17,384 --> 00:38:19,104 Speaker 3: her every time she called her up crying, and she 867 00:38:19,184 --> 00:38:23,464 Speaker 3: had like this full book of notes, every allegation, every allegation. 868 00:38:23,944 --> 00:38:25,664 Speaker 2: And they went to I think it was. 869 00:38:25,904 --> 00:38:29,384 Speaker 1: The sporting director. They went to the hire you were 870 00:38:29,464 --> 00:38:32,024 Speaker 1: running a sporting program with the scholarships and everything. 871 00:38:31,744 --> 00:38:33,464 Speaker 2: And they went into the meeting room. 872 00:38:33,504 --> 00:38:35,984 Speaker 3: It was like her mom, her dad and Alex and 873 00:38:36,064 --> 00:38:37,864 Speaker 3: her mom gave them the book and was like, this 874 00:38:37,944 --> 00:38:40,424 Speaker 3: is everything that my daughter has said that has happened 875 00:38:40,424 --> 00:38:40,784 Speaker 3: to her. 876 00:38:41,304 --> 00:38:42,984 Speaker 2: What are you going to do about it? And they 877 00:38:43,104 --> 00:38:44,304 Speaker 2: just said, what do you want? 878 00:38:44,704 --> 00:38:46,744 Speaker 3: Yeah, and they pretty much said, this is what she 879 00:38:46,784 --> 00:38:50,024 Speaker 3: alleged in the documentary that they told her that they 880 00:38:50,024 --> 00:38:53,104 Speaker 3: were not going to fire the coach but she could 881 00:38:53,224 --> 00:38:54,264 Speaker 3: keep her scholarship. 882 00:38:54,744 --> 00:38:57,264 Speaker 1: Yeah, which is and there's just watching the build up 883 00:38:57,304 --> 00:38:59,584 Speaker 1: to that moment, you kind of know watching it how 884 00:38:59,624 --> 00:39:01,424 Speaker 1: it's going to end up, because we know that she 885 00:39:01,504 --> 00:39:04,744 Speaker 1: didn't graduate playing soccer. But it is very devastating, and 886 00:39:04,824 --> 00:39:07,264 Speaker 1: especially when she sets up the story as you're saying 887 00:39:07,264 --> 00:39:08,984 Speaker 1: of like I was part of this team and I 888 00:39:09,024 --> 00:39:10,104 Speaker 1: love them, and I was so excited to have a 889 00:39:10,104 --> 00:39:12,184 Speaker 1: feene male coach, and then when she talked at the 890 00:39:12,224 --> 00:39:14,624 Speaker 1: coach sexually harassing her, I've got to say, this is 891 00:39:14,664 --> 00:39:17,024 Speaker 1: where like my own bias shows because I was really 892 00:39:17,024 --> 00:39:19,024 Speaker 1: surprised when she said it was the female coach, Like 893 00:39:19,184 --> 00:39:21,104 Speaker 1: I immediately when I first heard this is part of 894 00:39:21,144 --> 00:39:23,984 Speaker 1: the documentary, I just assumed it was a male coach 895 00:39:24,264 --> 00:39:27,584 Speaker 1: who sexually harassed her, which statistically is more likely, but 896 00:39:27,584 --> 00:39:30,264 Speaker 1: it can one hundred percent happen with a man or 897 00:39:30,304 --> 00:39:32,784 Speaker 1: a woman, and she also says that it was almost 898 00:39:32,864 --> 00:39:36,824 Speaker 1: hard to pinpoint her allegations of sexual harassment at the time, 899 00:39:36,864 --> 00:39:39,184 Speaker 1: because she alleges that and again they say all this 900 00:39:39,224 --> 00:39:41,344 Speaker 1: in the documentary, but we're saying alleged because that's the 901 00:39:41,384 --> 00:39:42,944 Speaker 1: correct time to use when you're talking about this sort 902 00:39:42,944 --> 00:39:45,504 Speaker 1: of stuff. She alleges in the documentary that the when 903 00:39:45,504 --> 00:39:47,944 Speaker 1: they were watching training and playing videos back, which is 904 00:39:48,064 --> 00:39:50,024 Speaker 1: very common thing with athletes to fill them and watch 905 00:39:50,104 --> 00:39:52,984 Speaker 1: back later like go through technique, that there'd be so 906 00:39:53,104 --> 00:39:55,544 Speaker 1: much close up footage of Alex and that the coach 907 00:39:55,544 --> 00:39:57,224 Speaker 1: would be like, look at her legs, look at her hair, 908 00:39:57,264 --> 00:40:00,544 Speaker 1: like how she moves She yeah, all that sort of stuff, 909 00:40:00,704 --> 00:40:02,784 Speaker 1: she alleges, and that as time went on, her coach 910 00:40:02,824 --> 00:40:05,344 Speaker 1: would like really drill her about her dating and her 911 00:40:05,384 --> 00:40:07,544 Speaker 1: sex life and also try and make rules about who 912 00:40:07,544 --> 00:40:09,664 Speaker 1: she could have sex with, but also wanting the information. 913 00:40:10,144 --> 00:40:12,864 Speaker 1: She alledges that her coach would say inappropriate things to her, 914 00:40:13,264 --> 00:40:18,024 Speaker 1: touch her really horrific allegations, and she was just so 915 00:40:18,144 --> 00:40:20,504 Speaker 1: kind of torn because she loved playing soccer so much, 916 00:40:20,944 --> 00:40:22,304 Speaker 1: and at the same time, she was like, if I 917 00:40:22,304 --> 00:40:24,864 Speaker 1: say anything about this behavior, which is also it's one 918 00:40:24,864 --> 00:40:27,104 Speaker 1: of those things where like it sounds so awful as 919 00:40:27,144 --> 00:40:29,024 Speaker 1: I'm listening it like that it is awful, but I 920 00:40:29,024 --> 00:40:31,704 Speaker 1: could also imagine if you're that person, it's hard to 921 00:40:31,784 --> 00:40:34,504 Speaker 1: prove it's what had happened, Like I'm sure of This 922 00:40:34,584 --> 00:40:36,624 Speaker 1: young girl in college is also like, but if I 923 00:40:36,704 --> 00:40:39,144 Speaker 1: tell the people who in charge, are they gonna believe me? 924 00:40:39,504 --> 00:40:42,104 Speaker 1: I thought that was really interesting hearing Alex sort of 925 00:40:42,104 --> 00:40:44,064 Speaker 1: recount what happened in that meeting. So, yeah, she's saying 926 00:40:44,104 --> 00:40:46,584 Speaker 1: her mum has written everything down. She's saying her dad 927 00:40:46,624 --> 00:40:48,264 Speaker 1: was yelling at them, like what are you going to do? 928 00:40:48,264 --> 00:40:50,544 Speaker 1: You have to do something, do something, And she said 929 00:40:50,544 --> 00:40:52,624 Speaker 1: that she just at that point she realized that things 930 00:40:52,664 --> 00:40:54,944 Speaker 1: were escalating and they were never gonna get any better. 931 00:40:55,184 --> 00:40:56,944 Speaker 1: So she just said to them, like, what's the bottom 932 00:40:56,984 --> 00:40:58,944 Speaker 1: line deal? What can you give us? And I thought 933 00:40:58,984 --> 00:41:01,304 Speaker 1: that was a really interesting nodche like the business woman 934 00:41:01,344 --> 00:41:03,464 Speaker 1: that she's become, Like she cut through it all and 935 00:41:03,584 --> 00:41:06,144 Speaker 1: was just like, we're going around in circles like you 936 00:41:06,184 --> 00:41:08,344 Speaker 1: want something, I want something. What's your bottom line deal? 937 00:41:08,424 --> 00:41:11,384 Speaker 1: And it was keep the scholarship and leave the soccer team, 938 00:41:11,384 --> 00:41:13,304 Speaker 1: which is the deal they took and then they say 939 00:41:13,304 --> 00:41:14,664 Speaker 1: that when they got out to the car, she just 940 00:41:15,024 --> 00:41:15,984 Speaker 1: burst into tears. 941 00:41:16,064 --> 00:41:17,264 Speaker 2: Yeah over it. 942 00:41:17,384 --> 00:41:22,064 Speaker 1: And I was also really shocked of how blatant it 943 00:41:22,344 --> 00:41:26,624 Speaker 1: was that she says in the documentary, this woman sexually 944 00:41:26,624 --> 00:41:29,304 Speaker 1: harassed me. She says her name, and then she shows 945 00:41:29,344 --> 00:41:32,144 Speaker 1: all these video photos of her and says, this is her, 946 00:41:32,304 --> 00:41:34,784 Speaker 1: this is what she did. She did that Noel allegedly 947 00:41:34,864 --> 00:41:37,024 Speaker 1: know nothing, And like that's a big swing. 948 00:41:37,144 --> 00:41:40,744 Speaker 3: It's a big swing, and it's like telling right, Like 949 00:41:40,784 --> 00:41:43,664 Speaker 3: it's telling that what she's saying is the truth because 950 00:41:44,944 --> 00:41:46,144 Speaker 3: she's we have. 951 00:41:46,104 --> 00:41:48,344 Speaker 2: To say, allegedly, it's in the documentary. 952 00:41:48,344 --> 00:41:50,544 Speaker 3: It's in the documentary, and there's so strong and it's 953 00:41:50,584 --> 00:41:55,464 Speaker 3: such a big storyline in the documentary, and it's like 954 00:41:55,624 --> 00:41:58,424 Speaker 3: it's also the one story that everyone's writing about. 955 00:41:58,624 --> 00:42:00,504 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I guess it was the big reveil that 956 00:42:00,544 --> 00:42:03,744 Speaker 1: we didn't know and the other interesting thing. So the 957 00:42:03,784 --> 00:42:05,664 Speaker 1: documentary came out this week. I watched it the night 958 00:42:05,704 --> 00:42:08,464 Speaker 1: it came out, like glued to the screen. The next morning, 959 00:42:08,664 --> 00:42:10,984 Speaker 1: Call Her Daddy popped up in my pocast feed and 960 00:42:11,024 --> 00:42:13,064 Speaker 1: it was an episode from Alex, a really quick solo 961 00:42:13,184 --> 00:42:16,864 Speaker 1: episode explaining why she had finally decided to tell that 962 00:42:16,984 --> 00:42:19,384 Speaker 1: story and why she decided to put it in the documentary, 963 00:42:19,864 --> 00:42:22,344 Speaker 1: and the reveal is pretty heartbreaking. 964 00:42:22,944 --> 00:42:25,184 Speaker 5: I kept going back and forth, back and forth to 965 00:42:25,264 --> 00:42:28,624 Speaker 5: tell the world would happen, to not talk about it? 966 00:42:28,664 --> 00:42:29,304 Speaker 1: What do I do? 967 00:42:30,424 --> 00:42:35,064 Speaker 5: But then something happened where I immediately knew, without a doubt, 968 00:42:35,504 --> 00:42:39,144 Speaker 5: that it was time for me to speak up. Towards 969 00:42:39,144 --> 00:42:43,144 Speaker 5: the end of filming this documentary, new information came to light. 970 00:42:44,144 --> 00:42:50,144 Speaker 5: I found out that other women had stepped onto that 971 00:42:50,184 --> 00:42:55,904 Speaker 5: same field and experienced the same harassment I did. I 972 00:42:55,944 --> 00:42:59,784 Speaker 5: discovered that the abuse and trauma I had been subjected 973 00:42:59,824 --> 00:43:06,624 Speaker 5: to at Boston University was still actively happening on that 974 00:43:06,824 --> 00:43:11,424 Speaker 5: campus in twenty twenty five after I left. 975 00:43:11,944 --> 00:43:16,344 Speaker 2: That is so messed up? Is that sobering? It's so heartbreaking. 976 00:43:16,424 --> 00:43:19,424 Speaker 3: Like even that scene when she goes back to Boston 977 00:43:19,504 --> 00:43:22,304 Speaker 3: University and is like looking at the football field and 978 00:43:22,304 --> 00:43:25,264 Speaker 3: she starts crying and she literally said, like this was 979 00:43:25,304 --> 00:43:26,544 Speaker 3: all taken away from me. 980 00:43:26,944 --> 00:43:27,544 Speaker 2: This is true. 981 00:43:27,584 --> 00:43:30,224 Speaker 3: It was literally taken away from me. And she wasn't 982 00:43:30,304 --> 00:43:31,864 Speaker 3: just like a player, like she was one of the 983 00:43:31,904 --> 00:43:34,504 Speaker 3: star players. And I don't know heaps about soccer, but 984 00:43:34,544 --> 00:43:36,024 Speaker 3: I know a little bit, but she was like kicking, 985 00:43:36,024 --> 00:43:39,424 Speaker 3: like David Beckham strikes and it's like she was making 986 00:43:39,464 --> 00:43:41,864 Speaker 3: goals and she was like striking, and like she would 987 00:43:41,904 --> 00:43:43,584 Speaker 3: do like press interviews for this, like she. 988 00:43:43,544 --> 00:43:44,704 Speaker 2: Was so so good. 989 00:43:45,304 --> 00:43:48,224 Speaker 3: And when a kid, especially in the US, is on 990 00:43:48,264 --> 00:43:51,744 Speaker 3: like a sporting scholarship, it's like that's their future made, yeah, 991 00:43:51,744 --> 00:43:53,464 Speaker 3: like because then they get into the big leagues and 992 00:43:53,504 --> 00:43:56,144 Speaker 3: then they just have this massive, massive career. And the 993 00:43:56,224 --> 00:43:59,384 Speaker 3: fact that like that was pulled from her over something 994 00:43:59,424 --> 00:44:02,984 Speaker 3: that was completely not her fault at all is so 995 00:44:03,064 --> 00:44:03,504 Speaker 3: messed up. 996 00:44:03,584 --> 00:44:05,184 Speaker 1: Yeah, I have a lot of respect for her for 997 00:44:05,224 --> 00:44:07,584 Speaker 1: sharing that, but it also, you know, a lot of 998 00:44:07,664 --> 00:44:10,264 Speaker 1: what she wanted to show in this documentary was her 999 00:44:10,504 --> 00:44:14,024 Speaker 1: advocacy for women, and you see her go and like 1000 00:44:14,304 --> 00:44:16,864 Speaker 1: talk to people who are like protesting against abortion, and 1001 00:44:16,944 --> 00:44:21,424 Speaker 1: you hear the mechanics of why she decided to interview 1002 00:44:21,504 --> 00:44:23,784 Speaker 1: Karma House and why she decided to go into that 1003 00:44:23,864 --> 00:44:25,864 Speaker 1: knowing she would get backlash, and she was just like, 1004 00:44:26,144 --> 00:44:28,744 Speaker 1: it's not a political issue now, It's become an issue 1005 00:44:28,744 --> 00:44:30,584 Speaker 1: for women and what they want to vote for and 1006 00:44:30,864 --> 00:44:32,664 Speaker 1: all of these different things. So I thought it was 1007 00:44:32,664 --> 00:44:34,824 Speaker 1: definitely a time and the story she wanted to tell, 1008 00:44:34,864 --> 00:44:39,624 Speaker 1: but very difficult in terms of talking about building her empire. 1009 00:44:41,624 --> 00:44:43,944 Speaker 1: The other interesting thing that we hadn't seen before, I mean, 1010 00:44:43,944 --> 00:44:46,184 Speaker 1: we'd seen she did a whole episode on it, We 1011 00:44:46,224 --> 00:44:49,024 Speaker 1: saw the Vogue stories, we saw the videos and photos, 1012 00:44:49,144 --> 00:44:54,664 Speaker 1: was her wedding to Matt Kaplan. But we okay, maybe 1013 00:44:54,704 --> 00:44:57,184 Speaker 1: I've led you astray with like something. Do you hate 1014 00:44:57,224 --> 00:44:58,544 Speaker 1: this man because of what I've said to you? 1015 00:44:58,664 --> 00:44:58,864 Speaker 2: Yes? 1016 00:44:59,024 --> 00:45:02,744 Speaker 1: Oh? No, okay, Okay, well this is how rumors start. Okay, 1017 00:45:03,144 --> 00:45:06,824 Speaker 1: let me caveat this. So you see a video from 1018 00:45:06,864 --> 00:45:08,544 Speaker 1: their wedding and you see their vows and all these 1019 00:45:08,664 --> 00:45:10,944 Speaker 1: a bit more intimate than we saw in the profile, 1020 00:45:10,944 --> 00:45:12,944 Speaker 1: all the podcasts that she did about her wedding, and 1021 00:45:12,984 --> 00:45:15,544 Speaker 1: the interesting thing about her even being married that she's 1022 00:45:15,584 --> 00:45:18,184 Speaker 1: talked about too, is that for such a long time, 1023 00:45:18,544 --> 00:45:21,384 Speaker 1: her whole shtick was like the wild single sex girl, 1024 00:45:21,784 --> 00:45:23,584 Speaker 1: Like she was out in the world and she had 1025 00:45:23,624 --> 00:45:26,184 Speaker 1: all these different like men that she'd have these like 1026 00:45:26,344 --> 00:45:29,984 Speaker 1: torrid relationships and affairs with who all went by like covenanmes, 1027 00:45:29,984 --> 00:45:32,344 Speaker 1: like some shady and stuff, and you hear her sex stories, 1028 00:45:32,344 --> 00:45:35,304 Speaker 1: and that was like the basis for her online persona 1029 00:45:35,344 --> 00:45:37,744 Speaker 1: for the podcast all those things, and then so it 1030 00:45:37,784 --> 00:45:39,784 Speaker 1: was quite shocking for her audience a couple of years 1031 00:45:39,784 --> 00:45:42,504 Speaker 1: ago when she admitted and I say admitted because it 1032 00:45:42,544 --> 00:45:44,624 Speaker 1: did sound like she was admitting something. And I was like, 1033 00:45:44,624 --> 00:45:46,304 Speaker 1: because I was listening a podcast, like what does this 1034 00:45:46,344 --> 00:45:48,304 Speaker 1: girl killed someone? Like, she's really like being like, I 1035 00:45:48,344 --> 00:45:50,664 Speaker 1: have to tell you guys something, and it's she was 1036 00:45:50,664 --> 00:45:53,104 Speaker 1: in a serious relationship and she had essentially moved from 1037 00:45:53,144 --> 00:45:55,064 Speaker 1: New York to Los Angeles to be with this man 1038 00:45:55,384 --> 00:45:58,544 Speaker 1: who she'd met on a business call and had called 1039 00:45:58,584 --> 00:46:00,104 Speaker 1: and for a long time, we didn't know his name, 1040 00:46:00,144 --> 00:46:02,144 Speaker 1: didn't see his face or anything. He was just mister 1041 00:46:02,184 --> 00:46:03,064 Speaker 1: sexy zoom Man. 1042 00:46:03,184 --> 00:46:06,624 Speaker 3: Yes, missus sexy zoom Man. And then it came out 1043 00:46:06,704 --> 00:46:08,424 Speaker 3: that he was actually well known. 1044 00:46:09,064 --> 00:46:10,864 Speaker 1: Okay, this is all you want to talk about. Okay. 1045 00:46:10,984 --> 00:46:13,504 Speaker 1: They met on the zoom they fell in love. Basically, 1046 00:46:13,544 --> 00:46:15,424 Speaker 1: she was shopping around like call her Daddy's like a 1047 00:46:15,464 --> 00:46:17,864 Speaker 1: TV show and stuff. And the way she frames it 1048 00:46:17,904 --> 00:46:20,904 Speaker 1: is really interesting because there's obviously a very specific way 1049 00:46:20,904 --> 00:46:23,064 Speaker 1: that she wants us to see their love story, which 1050 00:46:23,064 --> 00:46:24,864 Speaker 1: I get. It's like your story, You're like, this is 1051 00:46:24,864 --> 00:46:26,424 Speaker 1: how it happened, this is how I want you to sit. 1052 00:46:26,784 --> 00:46:28,424 Speaker 1: And so she talks to them going out to a 1053 00:46:28,424 --> 00:46:31,904 Speaker 1: business dinner and they're sitting at the table and she's 1054 00:46:31,944 --> 00:46:35,344 Speaker 1: being Alex Cooper call her daddy. She's like flirting and 1055 00:46:35,384 --> 00:46:37,344 Speaker 1: being silly and she's being like and this is my 1056 00:46:37,424 --> 00:46:39,384 Speaker 1: wildest story and this is that, and she's doing all 1057 00:46:39,384 --> 00:46:42,464 Speaker 1: this stuff. This is how she recounts it. And he 1058 00:46:42,504 --> 00:46:45,064 Speaker 1: said to her like, basically, they've heard some advice, and 1059 00:46:45,144 --> 00:46:46,784 Speaker 1: is like, I don't think that this like big. I 1060 00:46:46,784 --> 00:46:48,664 Speaker 1: think it's a reality TV show. I don't think this 1061 00:46:48,744 --> 00:46:50,704 Speaker 1: is the way for you to go. And I don't 1062 00:46:50,704 --> 00:46:52,304 Speaker 1: think our company is going to pick this up. I 1063 00:46:52,304 --> 00:46:54,184 Speaker 1: would just do your podcast, do this and that, and 1064 00:46:54,224 --> 00:46:56,584 Speaker 1: she said the moment he said that, she was like okay, 1065 00:46:56,584 --> 00:46:58,864 Speaker 1: and she just flipped back into being like her normal self. 1066 00:46:59,264 --> 00:47:02,504 Speaker 1: And he was like, what just happened? Well, where did 1067 00:47:02,504 --> 00:47:04,984 Speaker 1: that person again? I wasn't at this fancy dinner. This 1068 00:47:05,024 --> 00:47:07,104 Speaker 1: is the way she tells it. And he was like 1069 00:47:07,144 --> 00:47:09,064 Speaker 1: what just happened? And she was like, well, you're not 1070 00:47:09,064 --> 00:47:10,704 Speaker 1: going to buy it, so I don't have to be 1071 00:47:11,104 --> 00:47:13,504 Speaker 1: like a podcast host, like I'm just being myself now. 1072 00:47:13,744 --> 00:47:15,184 Speaker 1: And then they fell in love and like had a while, 1073 00:47:15,224 --> 00:47:17,304 Speaker 1: look up that night, and they've been together ever since. 1074 00:47:17,784 --> 00:47:20,704 Speaker 1: And it's kind of interesting because she went from being 1075 00:47:20,784 --> 00:47:23,984 Speaker 1: like the ultimate kind of single girl to being like 1076 00:47:24,144 --> 00:47:29,904 Speaker 1: in the most at least forward facing, beautiful home, two dogs, 1077 00:47:30,664 --> 00:47:35,664 Speaker 1: loving marriage, very very homey, very homey and traditional and 1078 00:47:35,704 --> 00:47:38,584 Speaker 1: stuff and everything, and like, I don't think it's alien 1079 00:47:38,624 --> 00:47:40,984 Speaker 1: in her audience at all, but it's definitely not. 1080 00:47:41,344 --> 00:47:43,544 Speaker 2: She had to be strategic with it, yeah, which she was, 1081 00:47:43,664 --> 00:47:44,064 Speaker 2: I think. 1082 00:47:44,264 --> 00:47:46,024 Speaker 1: And that's the thing about the documentary is that, like 1083 00:47:46,224 --> 00:47:48,184 Speaker 1: I always knew that were business partners. They have a 1084 00:47:48,224 --> 00:47:51,384 Speaker 1: company together, and their company has produced like TV shows 1085 00:47:51,384 --> 00:47:53,224 Speaker 1: and things like Separate to Call Her Daddy, which is 1086 00:47:53,264 --> 00:47:55,784 Speaker 1: a whole other franchise that I think she really runs. 1087 00:47:56,264 --> 00:47:58,144 Speaker 1: But their business, I don't know, you kind of see 1088 00:47:58,184 --> 00:48:00,464 Speaker 1: him behind the scenes, like it's like he's running it. 1089 00:48:00,864 --> 00:48:03,424 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I feel like when they talk about their business, 1090 00:48:03,744 --> 00:48:06,784 Speaker 3: you can almost see like some sort of like regret 1091 00:48:06,904 --> 00:48:10,544 Speaker 3: or embarrassment about the early Call Her Daddy date, like 1092 00:48:10,584 --> 00:48:12,464 Speaker 3: in ways where she was like I used to like 1093 00:48:12,464 --> 00:48:14,544 Speaker 3: talk about sex and blah blah blah, and now I 1094 00:48:14,584 --> 00:48:17,304 Speaker 3: want to like have like actual interviews and things like that. 1095 00:48:17,704 --> 00:48:20,144 Speaker 2: And I'm like, there was a purpose for that pot like. 1096 00:48:20,224 --> 00:48:22,264 Speaker 1: Yeah, that wasn't bad. Yeah, I don't know. 1097 00:48:22,464 --> 00:48:24,544 Speaker 2: I mean like, I'm embarrassed about my first podcast, but 1098 00:48:24,584 --> 00:48:24,864 Speaker 2: that's me. 1099 00:48:26,504 --> 00:48:28,864 Speaker 1: Yes, maybe that's just the thing. Every it's like your 1100 00:48:28,864 --> 00:48:30,344 Speaker 1: first pancake, your first podcast. 1101 00:48:30,744 --> 00:48:32,424 Speaker 3: But I'm like, if she didn't have that, she wouldn't 1102 00:48:32,424 --> 00:48:36,104 Speaker 3: have this. And I think and I think just obviously 1103 00:48:36,224 --> 00:48:39,464 Speaker 3: she has a husband now, and even like in certain 1104 00:48:39,504 --> 00:48:41,704 Speaker 3: times where she's like talking to a friend or to 1105 00:48:41,784 --> 00:48:43,904 Speaker 3: the camera saying like, oh my voice hers, I'll just 1106 00:48:43,904 --> 00:48:45,784 Speaker 3: tell everyone that I just gave like a really crazy 1107 00:48:45,784 --> 00:48:47,944 Speaker 3: blow job last night, and she didn't realize that Matt 1108 00:48:48,024 --> 00:48:49,104 Speaker 3: was standing right behind. 1109 00:48:48,864 --> 00:48:51,024 Speaker 1: And she's like, oh my god, yeah, and then he 1110 00:48:51,184 --> 00:48:53,424 Speaker 1: like tries to make her. I don't know, it's fine. 1111 00:48:53,464 --> 00:48:57,104 Speaker 1: I just don't. I don't know anything. 1112 00:48:57,184 --> 00:48:58,464 Speaker 2: How does it give me the eck? 1113 00:48:58,744 --> 00:49:03,744 Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe because she's so gushy about him, 1114 00:49:04,104 --> 00:49:07,624 Speaker 1: which is she loves, loves, She's so gushy about him 1115 00:49:07,624 --> 00:49:10,224 Speaker 1: on the podcast that it makes me suspicious because I 1116 00:49:10,264 --> 00:49:14,304 Speaker 1: was like, he's like a perfect man in the way 1117 00:49:14,384 --> 00:49:18,624 Speaker 1: she talks about him. She is ideal loving, He's a unicorn. 1118 00:49:18,704 --> 00:49:20,784 Speaker 1: To go back to the materialist, he is the most 1119 00:49:20,824 --> 00:49:24,064 Speaker 1: loving man. He is so supportive, he is so emotionally 1120 00:49:24,064 --> 00:49:26,784 Speaker 1: evolved and tuned. He only cares about her. She can 1121 00:49:26,784 --> 00:49:29,624 Speaker 1: tell him anything. And maybe that's all true, but it 1122 00:49:29,744 --> 00:49:30,384 Speaker 1: just it's. 1123 00:49:30,384 --> 00:49:32,984 Speaker 3: So to the point, like girls were coming to her 1124 00:49:33,024 --> 00:49:35,864 Speaker 3: shows with signs going I want to find my math, 1125 00:49:36,024 --> 00:49:38,024 Speaker 3: like I want to find my mister sexy Zoom. 1126 00:49:38,064 --> 00:49:40,464 Speaker 1: But she was so worried about letting her audience down, 1127 00:49:40,504 --> 00:49:42,344 Speaker 1: about not being a single girl anymore, she had to 1128 00:49:42,384 --> 00:49:45,144 Speaker 1: almost create this man who sounds like too good to 1129 00:49:45,184 --> 00:49:48,584 Speaker 1: be true to justify walking away from that audience in 1130 00:49:48,624 --> 00:49:49,504 Speaker 1: a way. 1131 00:49:49,424 --> 00:49:50,664 Speaker 2: I didn't even put that together. 1132 00:49:50,864 --> 00:49:53,304 Speaker 1: And she's mate, I mean, he sounds like a freaking robot, 1133 00:49:53,544 --> 00:49:54,424 Speaker 1: that's what he sounds like. 1134 00:49:54,664 --> 00:49:58,304 Speaker 2: But we also know he's not that he's not the 1135 00:49:58,344 --> 00:49:58,984 Speaker 2: perfect man. 1136 00:49:59,264 --> 00:50:01,904 Speaker 1: Oh, I mean we don't know that, Emily. Here's what 1137 00:50:01,944 --> 00:50:04,664 Speaker 1: we do know. We just know on what you're saying. 1138 00:50:04,664 --> 00:50:06,624 Speaker 1: Like she Hearsn'm saying the thing about he hears her 1139 00:50:06,664 --> 00:50:08,464 Speaker 1: saying thing about the blowjob, and he was like, oh, 1140 00:50:08,544 --> 00:50:11,224 Speaker 1: everyone thinks I'm getting all these blowjobs, Like that's not 1141 00:50:11,304 --> 00:50:13,424 Speaker 1: what's happening. And it's kind of a joke about like 1142 00:50:13,464 --> 00:50:15,824 Speaker 1: everyone thinks I'm married to this sex goddess, but we're 1143 00:50:15,864 --> 00:50:19,664 Speaker 1: actually we're just mostly business partners. We're a wholesome, celibate 1144 00:50:20,984 --> 00:50:22,744 Speaker 1: well who are like working around the clock to like 1145 00:50:22,824 --> 00:50:26,584 Speaker 1: make money and stuff. They I mean, how would you 1146 00:50:26,664 --> 00:50:28,464 Speaker 1: kind of say that he's been married before and that 1147 00:50:28,584 --> 00:50:29,304 Speaker 1: doesn't matter. 1148 00:50:29,744 --> 00:50:32,184 Speaker 2: It doesn't matter that he's married before. 1149 00:50:32,584 --> 00:50:35,784 Speaker 1: It's more the type of woman this man goes for, 1150 00:50:36,104 --> 00:50:39,264 Speaker 1: which is fine, Emily, everyone has a type. I feel 1151 00:50:39,264 --> 00:50:42,264 Speaker 1: like I've accidentally demonized this man with my gossip and 1152 00:50:42,464 --> 00:50:45,504 Speaker 1: that you've taken this the wrong way, okay, because we 1153 00:50:45,664 --> 00:50:47,744 Speaker 1: just know that he's a Hollywood you know man, he's 1154 00:50:47,744 --> 00:50:49,744 Speaker 1: a Hollywood executive. He comes from what I can tell 1155 00:50:49,784 --> 00:50:52,544 Speaker 1: like a very very wealthy family. And he also has 1156 00:50:52,624 --> 00:50:58,624 Speaker 1: a very specific type, which is blue eyed, fair blonde 1157 00:50:58,624 --> 00:51:04,304 Speaker 1: women with a very specific face structure. Fine, everyone has 1158 00:51:04,304 --> 00:51:07,904 Speaker 1: a type. So he dated Ashley Olson. Yeah, he stated 1159 00:51:07,904 --> 00:51:09,584 Speaker 1: a few of the blondes that are not even Mary 1160 00:51:09,664 --> 00:51:13,664 Speaker 1: Kay Mary Kayette. He saw the awesome twins and he's 1161 00:51:13,704 --> 00:51:16,744 Speaker 1: like that one, that's my one. He was also married 1162 00:51:16,784 --> 00:51:20,304 Speaker 1: to Claire Holt. He was married actress Claire hold who 1163 00:51:20,344 --> 00:51:23,984 Speaker 1: would know from H two O just but more importantly 1164 00:51:24,064 --> 00:51:27,904 Speaker 1: as Rebecca from both The Vampire Diaries and the Original Originals. 1165 00:51:28,024 --> 00:51:31,184 Speaker 1: Love Claire Hope Holt, great actress, Love her. They were 1166 00:51:31,184 --> 00:51:33,904 Speaker 1: married and I don't know what happened, but it ended 1167 00:51:33,944 --> 00:51:37,064 Speaker 1: in divorce. I've heard whispers that didn't end well. I 1168 00:51:37,064 --> 00:51:40,784 Speaker 1: don't know. I'm not going to speculate, but we sometimes 1169 00:51:40,784 --> 00:51:43,704 Speaker 1: do take the woman's side, just because history teaches us 1170 00:51:43,744 --> 00:51:45,624 Speaker 1: that that's what we should do. It was just so 1171 00:51:45,624 --> 00:51:47,864 Speaker 1: funny looking at their wedding and just being like that 1172 00:51:47,904 --> 00:51:52,144 Speaker 1: she's such like a mirror image of Claire. Hole is 1173 00:51:52,144 --> 00:51:52,424 Speaker 1: that what you. 1174 00:51:52,384 --> 00:51:54,944 Speaker 2: Woreman were saying, Yes, Yes, that's exactly what I wanted 1175 00:51:54,944 --> 00:51:55,304 Speaker 2: to say. 1176 00:51:55,424 --> 00:51:57,624 Speaker 1: Thank you. I just again, I don't think it makes 1177 00:51:57,664 --> 00:52:00,864 Speaker 1: their marriage any less romantic and lovely that he was 1178 00:52:00,904 --> 00:52:01,584 Speaker 1: married before. 1179 00:52:02,024 --> 00:52:04,544 Speaker 3: It's just really interesting because it's one of those things 1180 00:52:04,584 --> 00:52:08,384 Speaker 3: where I feel like if we didn't say it, and 1181 00:52:08,424 --> 00:52:10,904 Speaker 3: we don't say it, then it's just something that never 1182 00:52:10,944 --> 00:52:13,184 Speaker 3: get said because it's always And I hate to bring 1183 00:52:13,224 --> 00:52:15,264 Speaker 3: this like down to race because I know I'm gonna 1184 00:52:15,264 --> 00:52:16,464 Speaker 3: get so many hate comments. 1185 00:52:16,504 --> 00:52:18,464 Speaker 1: Fine, but from the spillers, not some of who listen 1186 00:52:18,544 --> 00:52:21,224 Speaker 1: to this pot the outside outside world is evil. 1187 00:52:21,264 --> 00:52:25,064 Speaker 3: But like we never ever talk about like white people 1188 00:52:25,104 --> 00:52:27,624 Speaker 3: who only ever date white people who look the same. 1189 00:52:27,984 --> 00:52:30,384 Speaker 3: But like if I were to date, like if I 1190 00:52:30,424 --> 00:52:33,184 Speaker 3: were to marry a man who's all previous girlfriends had 1191 00:52:33,224 --> 00:52:36,104 Speaker 3: been like Indian brown skin, that would be something everyone's 1192 00:52:36,144 --> 00:52:36,544 Speaker 3: talking about. 1193 00:52:36,864 --> 00:52:39,544 Speaker 1: D And so just a caviat I only know of 1194 00:52:39,624 --> 00:52:42,064 Speaker 1: his blond girlfriends. Maybe there's others. I actually don't know 1195 00:52:42,144 --> 00:52:44,744 Speaker 1: every woman this man has dated. I just know like 1196 00:52:44,784 --> 00:52:45,784 Speaker 1: the big public ones. 1197 00:52:45,864 --> 00:52:48,264 Speaker 3: I just found it really interesting, like the whole way, 1198 00:52:48,304 --> 00:52:49,984 Speaker 3: Like it just felt very business y to me. 1199 00:52:50,184 --> 00:52:51,624 Speaker 1: I was trying to think of why I found it 1200 00:52:51,664 --> 00:52:52,504 Speaker 1: because of like. 1201 00:52:52,384 --> 00:52:56,104 Speaker 2: They're not very cuddly or like cutie or like together. 1202 00:52:55,944 --> 00:52:58,104 Speaker 1: But again they're very private, like she didn't even show 1203 00:52:58,144 --> 00:53:00,384 Speaker 1: his face for like such long time they were dating. 1204 00:53:00,584 --> 00:53:03,824 Speaker 1: I try and think about why I'm suspicious of this situation. 1205 00:53:04,144 --> 00:53:06,904 Speaker 1: And I think I'm suspicious of it because again it's 1206 00:53:06,944 --> 00:53:09,224 Speaker 1: been framed as such a fairy tale and I'm sure 1207 00:53:09,264 --> 00:53:12,744 Speaker 1: it's all fine, But I think it's because she is 1208 00:53:12,784 --> 00:53:15,744 Speaker 1: such an open book on so many things, and I 1209 00:53:15,784 --> 00:53:17,864 Speaker 1: feel like I know so much about her life and 1210 00:53:17,944 --> 00:53:20,704 Speaker 1: so much about her history and what she thinks and things, 1211 00:53:20,744 --> 00:53:23,624 Speaker 1: and she really prides herself on talking about the really 1212 00:53:23,704 --> 00:53:27,224 Speaker 1: uncomfortable things. Maybe it's a respect thing for his past marriage. 1213 00:53:27,304 --> 00:53:28,984 Speaker 1: Maybe they're just like she's like, it's not my story 1214 00:53:29,024 --> 00:53:30,544 Speaker 1: to tell, and I don't expect her to come on 1215 00:53:30,624 --> 00:53:32,224 Speaker 1: and be like, here's what my ex husband and his 1216 00:53:32,264 --> 00:53:34,344 Speaker 1: wife broke up. But I just think it's interesting of 1217 00:53:34,424 --> 00:53:37,864 Speaker 1: like talking about I found my forever person and we 1218 00:53:37,904 --> 00:53:39,784 Speaker 1: waited so long for each other and this and I 1219 00:53:40,904 --> 00:53:42,664 Speaker 1: even hate myself for the way I'm talking now, like 1220 00:53:42,704 --> 00:53:44,784 Speaker 1: I know this sounds bad, just to say I just 1221 00:53:44,824 --> 00:53:46,944 Speaker 1: think it's interesting. That would be such a rich I'm 1222 00:53:46,944 --> 00:53:48,904 Speaker 1: just gonna say it. It would be such a rich 1223 00:53:48,944 --> 00:53:53,544 Speaker 1: podcast topic to have her discuss the fact that she's 1224 00:53:53,544 --> 00:53:55,264 Speaker 1: full and head over heels in love with this man 1225 00:53:55,344 --> 00:53:58,064 Speaker 1: and they are so in love and they're so together, 1226 00:53:58,104 --> 00:54:00,464 Speaker 1: to the fact that they spend all their time together 1227 00:54:00,504 --> 00:54:02,584 Speaker 1: because they live together, they're in love, they spend all 1228 00:54:02,584 --> 00:54:05,344 Speaker 1: their time together, they have a business together. And to 1229 00:54:05,464 --> 00:54:08,104 Speaker 1: know what it's like that he was in that high 1230 00:54:08,144 --> 00:54:12,424 Speaker 1: profile relationship in a way where everyone saw him do 1231 00:54:12,544 --> 00:54:15,784 Speaker 1: this with someone else, and what is that like to 1232 00:54:15,864 --> 00:54:17,944 Speaker 1: have even just to have the public scrutiny of that 1233 00:54:17,984 --> 00:54:20,744 Speaker 1: out there and people looking at your wedding photos, being like, oh, well, 1234 00:54:20,784 --> 00:54:23,024 Speaker 1: Clar's dressers like this, or this person was like this, 1235 00:54:23,144 --> 00:54:26,024 Speaker 1: or like his vows the same as he said to 1236 00:54:26,064 --> 00:54:27,544 Speaker 1: her when they had their big wedding. Do you know 1237 00:54:27,544 --> 00:54:31,264 Speaker 1: what I mean. It's just yeah, it's an interesting choice. 1238 00:54:31,304 --> 00:54:33,344 Speaker 3: It's an interesting choice, and I feel like he is 1239 00:54:33,384 --> 00:54:37,384 Speaker 3: more involved now since the podcast has moved so drastically 1240 00:54:37,504 --> 00:54:41,304 Speaker 3: from the original Call Her Daddy to a more interview based, 1241 00:54:41,344 --> 00:54:45,104 Speaker 3: like polished version of Call a Day, I do kind 1242 00:54:45,144 --> 00:54:48,024 Speaker 3: of like I'm not enjoying the new version of Call 1243 00:54:48,104 --> 00:54:49,184 Speaker 3: Her Daddy as. 1244 00:54:49,144 --> 00:54:51,184 Speaker 1: Much like I feel you blame Matt Kaplan. 1245 00:54:51,344 --> 00:54:53,784 Speaker 3: No, I don't blame Matt Kaplan. I'm like removing Matt 1246 00:54:53,864 --> 00:54:57,424 Speaker 3: Chaplin from this conversation. But I wanted to quickly touch 1247 00:54:57,464 --> 00:55:00,344 Speaker 3: on like the biggest change, which is like moving to 1248 00:55:00,424 --> 00:55:03,944 Speaker 3: the interview base, because I think she has like a huge, 1249 00:55:04,024 --> 00:55:08,064 Speaker 3: huge platform, which is the reason why so many massive 1250 00:55:08,104 --> 00:55:10,824 Speaker 3: celebrities want to be interviewed by her pig. I could 1251 00:55:10,864 --> 00:55:14,624 Speaker 3: literally propel their career, especially for such a young generation, 1252 00:55:14,824 --> 00:55:17,784 Speaker 3: a young generation of women that so many other media 1253 00:55:17,864 --> 00:55:21,224 Speaker 3: organizations and interviewers aren't able to hone into. And I 1254 00:55:21,264 --> 00:55:24,424 Speaker 3: think that's the main reason why, Like she's got Kamala Harris, 1255 00:55:24,464 --> 00:55:26,544 Speaker 3: she's got Hayley Bieber, She's got like all of these 1256 00:55:26,584 --> 00:55:29,864 Speaker 3: like massive celebrities. But I actually think she should have 1257 00:55:29,904 --> 00:55:34,024 Speaker 3: had someone else interviewing them. Not because I think it's 1258 00:55:34,064 --> 00:55:36,144 Speaker 3: it's a whole podcast, but I think it's exactly what 1259 00:55:36,184 --> 00:55:38,944 Speaker 3: you said. She's a great talker, she's a great storyteller, 1260 00:55:39,144 --> 00:55:41,024 Speaker 3: but I do think now that she's in that role, 1261 00:55:41,064 --> 00:55:44,184 Speaker 3: she does have a level of responsibility that she hasn't undertaken, 1262 00:55:44,504 --> 00:55:47,504 Speaker 3: especially with choosing the guests that she talks about and 1263 00:55:47,544 --> 00:55:50,184 Speaker 3: the guest that she interviews. I read this sub stec 1264 00:55:50,304 --> 00:55:53,424 Speaker 3: recently written by Shanda Daniels, and the headline like just 1265 00:55:53,464 --> 00:55:56,504 Speaker 3: completely pulled me in. It was Alex Cooper, please interview 1266 00:55:56,504 --> 00:55:59,384 Speaker 3: one Black Girl. And in it she did, like this 1267 00:55:59,504 --> 00:56:02,904 Speaker 3: full analysis of every guest Alex has had in the 1268 00:56:02,944 --> 00:56:06,264 Speaker 3: past year based on demographics, and she said, I tracked 1269 00:56:06,304 --> 00:56:09,144 Speaker 3: every guest called her Daddy has had over the last 1270 00:56:09,144 --> 00:56:12,144 Speaker 3: one hundred and fifty three episodes and the results aren't 1271 00:56:12,144 --> 00:56:15,064 Speaker 3: what I expected. There worse so, in one hundred and 1272 00:56:15,064 --> 00:56:18,064 Speaker 3: fifty three episodes, she had one hundred and sixty four guests, 1273 00:56:18,344 --> 00:56:19,064 Speaker 3: sixty eight. 1274 00:56:18,944 --> 00:56:21,904 Speaker 2: Percent of the guests were white women. The second most 1275 00:56:21,984 --> 00:56:25,504 Speaker 2: interviewed demographic is white men. Yes, there were more white 1276 00:56:25,544 --> 00:56:27,664 Speaker 2: women interviewed. There were more white men. 1277 00:56:27,624 --> 00:56:30,904 Speaker 3: Interviewed for a podcast centering women than black women or 1278 00:56:30,944 --> 00:56:34,384 Speaker 3: women of color. Both these demographics represent only eight percent 1279 00:56:34,424 --> 00:56:34,944 Speaker 3: of guests. 1280 00:56:35,264 --> 00:56:36,024 Speaker 1: That's quite bad. 1281 00:56:36,344 --> 00:56:37,624 Speaker 2: It is so bad. 1282 00:56:37,744 --> 00:56:41,344 Speaker 3: Are just so bad to position yourself as a woman, 1283 00:56:41,424 --> 00:56:44,624 Speaker 3: like for other women in charge of like female empowerment, 1284 00:56:44,824 --> 00:56:47,864 Speaker 3: like breaking glass ceilings, like being like that old school 1285 00:56:47,864 --> 00:56:50,544 Speaker 3: girl boss, like actually making out in the world, and 1286 00:56:50,624 --> 00:56:53,824 Speaker 3: yet you are profiling more white men than you are 1287 00:56:53,904 --> 00:56:56,624 Speaker 3: of women of color as a fuller demographic. It's just 1288 00:56:57,024 --> 00:56:59,024 Speaker 3: so disheartening to see. 1289 00:56:59,224 --> 00:57:02,384 Speaker 1: That's just such an incredible take from that writer, because 1290 00:57:02,424 --> 00:57:05,904 Speaker 1: it's something that with all eyes being on call her daddy, 1291 00:57:05,904 --> 00:57:08,624 Speaker 1: and all eyes being on Alice Cooper and the legacy 1292 00:57:08,664 --> 00:57:11,424 Speaker 1: that she's built and her spot deal and her Serious 1293 00:57:11,464 --> 00:57:13,744 Speaker 1: deal and how much money she's made and she's been 1294 00:57:13,784 --> 00:57:17,104 Speaker 1: in all these huge publications have profiled her. There's an 1295 00:57:17,224 --> 00:57:19,864 Speaker 1: entire documentary about her that's been in production for years, 1296 00:57:20,064 --> 00:57:22,464 Speaker 1: and that not one person has pointed that out until now, 1297 00:57:22,944 --> 00:57:25,104 Speaker 1: or they if they have, it hasn't like kind of 1298 00:57:25,144 --> 00:57:28,024 Speaker 1: it hasn't escalated to like the higher media realms where 1299 00:57:28,064 --> 00:57:28,784 Speaker 1: it's been covered. 1300 00:57:28,904 --> 00:57:32,624 Speaker 3: It's just one of those things where like, whenever I 1301 00:57:32,664 --> 00:57:35,064 Speaker 3: see something like this, you do kind of like get 1302 00:57:35,104 --> 00:57:38,624 Speaker 3: snapped back into reality. And yes, she is super brilliant 1303 00:57:38,664 --> 00:57:42,864 Speaker 3: and super talented, but she's also extremely beautiful, she's extremely successful, 1304 00:57:42,904 --> 00:57:45,744 Speaker 3: she has a lot of money, she had an amazing childhood, 1305 00:57:46,144 --> 00:57:49,584 Speaker 3: and I think it's really hard to take all of 1306 00:57:49,584 --> 00:57:51,624 Speaker 3: that away and just say that this person was just 1307 00:57:51,664 --> 00:57:53,104 Speaker 3: really smart, which is how they got there. 1308 00:57:53,104 --> 00:57:55,464 Speaker 1: It's so interesting. It's like she's taken a page from 1309 00:57:55,504 --> 00:58:00,144 Speaker 1: like Taylor Swift's playbook, where she is this ideal that 1310 00:58:00,224 --> 00:58:06,104 Speaker 1: you could hate, this white, blonde, beautiful, thin, rich woman, 1311 00:58:06,504 --> 00:58:09,264 Speaker 1: the same as Taylor Swift, who has got this legion 1312 00:58:09,304 --> 00:58:12,704 Speaker 1: of fans world wide to fall so completely in love 1313 00:58:12,744 --> 00:58:17,064 Speaker 1: with their messaging and to take their personal wins as 1314 00:58:17,104 --> 00:58:19,664 Speaker 1: a global win for women when it's just personal. It's 1315 00:58:19,664 --> 00:58:21,744 Speaker 1: like a tailor slips and again, these women are doing 1316 00:58:21,784 --> 00:58:23,664 Speaker 1: business like that's totally fine, that's what you should be 1317 00:58:23,664 --> 00:58:25,864 Speaker 1: doing in that area. But like when Taylor's We've got 1318 00:58:25,864 --> 00:58:29,104 Speaker 1: her Master's back, so many women celebrated like they had won. 1319 00:58:29,144 --> 00:58:31,664 Speaker 1: They're like this is a win for women, and it's like, 1320 00:58:31,784 --> 00:58:33,024 Speaker 1: it's a win for this. 1321 00:58:33,224 --> 00:58:34,504 Speaker 2: It's a win for one woman. 1322 00:58:34,584 --> 00:58:37,544 Speaker 1: It's a win for one very very rich woman, which 1323 00:58:37,664 --> 00:58:40,064 Speaker 1: I mean, yes, artist rights and all that very important. 1324 00:58:40,104 --> 00:58:41,464 Speaker 1: It's good to shine a light on that. But like, 1325 00:58:41,504 --> 00:58:43,104 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, a lot of Taylor slips, 1326 00:58:43,144 --> 00:58:45,944 Speaker 1: wins are for her. Yeah, it's for her money and 1327 00:58:46,024 --> 00:58:49,944 Speaker 1: her success. And Alex Cooper has somehow managed to harness 1328 00:58:50,224 --> 00:58:52,744 Speaker 1: that same way of thinking, where all of those women 1329 00:58:52,784 --> 00:58:54,544 Speaker 1: who are like, oh my god, she got a boulty 1330 00:58:54,624 --> 00:58:57,224 Speaker 1: million dollar Spotify deal. That's a win for women, and 1331 00:58:57,264 --> 00:58:59,704 Speaker 1: she's bought this huge house a win for women, and 1332 00:58:59,744 --> 00:59:02,064 Speaker 1: she's released this and she's making this much money. It's like, 1333 00:59:02,064 --> 00:59:04,984 Speaker 1: that's for us. Yeah, It's like it's not it's just a. 1334 00:59:05,544 --> 00:59:07,104 Speaker 2: It's just a win. It's because of a man. Did 1335 00:59:07,144 --> 00:59:08,704 Speaker 2: It's not like a win for men. It's like, it's 1336 00:59:08,744 --> 00:59:09,064 Speaker 2: just a win. 1337 00:59:09,224 --> 00:59:11,984 Speaker 1: And it's hard because I do respect these women, and 1338 00:59:12,024 --> 00:59:14,144 Speaker 1: I do think they are really interesting and I think 1339 00:59:14,184 --> 00:59:16,504 Speaker 1: there is something to celebrate about the fact that a 1340 00:59:16,584 --> 00:59:19,104 Speaker 1: female podcast host has been this successful. I think it 1341 00:59:19,144 --> 00:59:21,024 Speaker 1: is something to celebrate and I have a lot of 1342 00:59:21,224 --> 00:59:23,824 Speaker 1: respect for her, But It is that kind of underlying 1343 00:59:23,864 --> 00:59:27,064 Speaker 1: thing of like, it's only this one type of woman, woman, 1344 00:59:27,144 --> 00:59:30,704 Speaker 1: this rich, white, blonde, thin woman who rises to these 1345 00:59:30,784 --> 00:59:33,024 Speaker 1: ranks and gets all these other women. There's so much 1346 00:59:33,064 --> 00:59:35,704 Speaker 1: power in that getting other women to think that your 1347 00:59:35,784 --> 00:59:40,944 Speaker 1: personal gain is their personal gain. Yeah it's not wow wow, 1348 00:59:41,504 --> 00:59:43,464 Speaker 1: but yeah, we'll link that substack in our show notes. 1349 00:59:43,664 --> 00:59:46,104 Speaker 1: I think it's really important to read. And I would say, like, again, 1350 00:59:46,144 --> 00:59:47,344 Speaker 1: there's a lot of wine and shade here, there's a 1351 00:59:47,344 --> 00:59:50,544 Speaker 1: lot of good moments. Call her Alex is an incredible documentary. 1352 00:59:50,544 --> 00:59:52,144 Speaker 2: I was hooked to that TV. 1353 00:59:52,384 --> 00:59:55,304 Speaker 1: I would go watch It's on Disney. It's two episodes. 1354 00:59:55,504 --> 00:59:56,584 Speaker 1: It's so worth watching. 1355 00:59:56,584 --> 00:59:58,944 Speaker 2: It's so well produced and created. 1356 00:59:58,584 --> 01:00:00,584 Speaker 1: And this is sort of documentary. This is what it's 1357 01:00:00,584 --> 01:00:02,264 Speaker 1: meant to do. You're meant to watch it and then 1358 01:00:02,344 --> 01:00:05,624 Speaker 1: have these conversations and see different things and question things 1359 01:00:05,664 --> 01:00:07,664 Speaker 1: and dislike some things and cheer for other things. Like 1360 01:00:07,784 --> 01:00:09,984 Speaker 1: that's what a good documentary is. It's not meant to 1361 01:00:10,024 --> 01:00:10,784 Speaker 1: be like a girl. 1362 01:00:12,624 --> 01:00:16,584 Speaker 3: I want to watch it again, watching rays and be like, 1363 01:00:16,624 --> 01:00:18,424 Speaker 3: we know what's going on here. But also, if you're great, 1364 01:00:18,984 --> 01:00:21,304 Speaker 3: thank you so much for listening to the spill today. 1365 01:00:21,384 --> 01:00:23,424 Speaker 3: Do not forget to follow us on TikTok at The 1366 01:00:23,464 --> 01:00:26,544 Speaker 3: Spill podcast. The Spill is produced by Manicia Swirren with 1367 01:00:26,624 --> 01:00:29,464 Speaker 3: sound production by Scott Stronik. MoMA Mea Studios are Style 1368 01:00:29,504 --> 01:00:32,264 Speaker 3: with furniture from Fenton and Fenton. Visit Fenton and Fentin 1369 01:00:32,344 --> 01:00:34,384 Speaker 3: dot com dot au and we'll be back here on 1370 01:00:34,424 --> 01:00:36,704 Speaker 3: your podcast feed at three pm on Monday. 1371 01:00:36,744 --> 01:00:42,944 Speaker 1: Bye bye