WEBVTT - Kee’s Fourth Trimester Debrief 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.440 We acknowledged the traditional custodians of the land. 0:00:02.480 --> 0:00:03.720 We're recording on today. 0:00:09.119 --> 0:00:12.200 Hello, and welcome back to Eat, Sleep, Shit, Repeat, your 0:00:12.280 --> 0:00:15.240 unhinged podcast all about the madness that is motherhood and 0:00:15.360 --> 0:00:16.320 everything in between. 0:00:16.640 --> 0:00:19.400 I'm Kyrie Sels, I'm Kelly McCarron, and we hope that 0:00:19.440 --> 0:00:21.799 you all loved just being back in your ears last week. 0:00:21.840 --> 0:00:24.160 We sure a shit loved penetrating into them. 0:00:24.400 --> 0:00:28.400 And if you hear any babbling or goo goos or 0:00:29.440 --> 0:00:30.639 that is Suki Cels. 0:00:30.760 --> 0:00:31.960 She is our co host. 0:00:32.159 --> 0:00:34.319 She is not asleep. I tried my hardest to get 0:00:34.320 --> 0:00:36.680 her down for a nap for our record. It didn't happen. 0:00:36.760 --> 0:00:39.920 So she's in the bouncer and hopefully she will fall asleep. 0:00:40.200 --> 0:00:41.800 She wanted to have a yap in a yarn with this, 0:00:42.080 --> 0:00:42.720 she really did. 0:00:42.760 --> 0:00:44.720 She was keen. She's like girls, I slept through the 0:00:44.720 --> 0:00:45.920 other episode last week. 0:00:46.040 --> 0:00:48.040 I missed out. I really want to be in part 0:00:48.040 --> 0:00:49.879 of this, especially if you're going to talk about me. 0:00:50.520 --> 0:00:53.040 And speaking of last week, we are mixing things up 0:00:53.120 --> 0:00:55.000 this season. We're going to try some new things out. 0:00:55.040 --> 0:00:57.440 So later on in the episode, I'll be bringing my 0:00:57.560 --> 0:01:00.160 first rant. But first one. 0:01:00.160 --> 0:01:02.320 Thing not new and a bit of a fave slash 0:01:02.400 --> 0:01:04.960 old faithful with the shitters. It's time for peak and pit, 0:01:05.040 --> 0:01:11.040 y'all yuah quean eything's trough to shit keep please kick 0:01:11.120 --> 0:01:11.640 things off. 0:01:12.319 --> 0:01:14.760 Oh my gosh, I have missed doing peak and pick, 0:01:14.760 --> 0:01:16.360 so I haven't even been doing on on my social 0:01:16.440 --> 0:01:19.800 so I'm so excited to get back into this my pit. Well, 0:01:19.920 --> 0:01:24.320 last week I was recording with mastitis. Well, I had 0:01:24.360 --> 0:01:27.039 the most excruciating pain of my life, and I just 0:01:27.040 --> 0:01:28.960 thought like, oh, your milk ducks go like under your 0:01:29.040 --> 0:01:31.000 arm and a little bit onto your back and you 0:01:31.080 --> 0:01:33.000 I've got this little rash And I googled it and 0:01:33.000 --> 0:01:35.480 it looked like this rush that some people get with mastitis. 0:01:36.280 --> 0:01:38.360 But I was like, I'm on antibiotics. Why isn't the 0:01:38.400 --> 0:01:40.880 mass titis going away? So finally went to see the 0:01:40.920 --> 0:01:42.840 doctor and she's like, oh, what's that rash? And I 0:01:42.880 --> 0:01:44.840 was like, oh, it was here when I saw you, 0:01:45.080 --> 0:01:46.880 but it was very faint at the time. I didn't 0:01:46.920 --> 0:01:49.520 think anything of it. Like I have really sensitive skin, 0:01:49.760 --> 0:01:52.480 so often I'll like use a body wash and I 0:01:52.480 --> 0:01:55.880 can get some weltz, you know, or I'll spray some 0:01:55.960 --> 0:01:57.920 perfume and get welts on my skin, so I wasn't 0:01:57.960 --> 0:02:00.360 like too alarmed by the rash, if that makes sense. 0:02:00.800 --> 0:02:02.280 And then I said I've got some of my back too, 0:02:02.320 --> 0:02:04.320 and she's like and I just saw her face like 0:02:04.440 --> 0:02:08.120 drop and I was like, fuck. 0:02:06.800 --> 0:02:09.240 You don't ever want to see the doctor's face do anything? 0:02:09.800 --> 0:02:12.200 No, exactly, And so she had a look and she's like, 0:02:12.200 --> 0:02:14.640 it's shingles. You've got shingles. And I was just like, 0:02:15.160 --> 0:02:15.880 you're kidding. 0:02:16.040 --> 0:02:18.800 Did you even know what that was like? Because you 0:02:18.880 --> 0:02:22.000 messaged me and I wrote back, isn't that something old 0:02:22.080 --> 0:02:23.280 people yet? 0:02:23.560 --> 0:02:26.280 And I was like, Kelly, we're old. We're not all old. 0:02:26.360 --> 0:02:30.079 I am like elderly elderly, like retirement home elderly. 0:02:29.919 --> 0:02:31.959 I think back in the day. But honestly, the number 0:02:32.000 --> 0:02:34.359 of people that I know our age who have had it. 0:02:34.720 --> 0:02:37.919 And it is actually obviously it's the chicken pox virus 0:02:37.960 --> 0:02:41.440 that lays dormant in your body, But what happens is 0:02:41.480 --> 0:02:44.040 that if you're under extreme stress, say maybe you've had 0:02:44.080 --> 0:02:45.920 a newborn baby and you've decided to go back to 0:02:45.919 --> 0:02:48.320 work and you've also got a toddler, the chicken pox 0:02:48.400 --> 0:02:51.920 virus kind of reignites, and that is what shingles is, 0:02:52.000 --> 0:02:54.600 so it's super infectious. So the first thing I'm thinking 0:02:54.800 --> 0:02:58.600 of is like, cool, my newborn isn't vaccinated and the 0:02:58.680 --> 0:03:01.440 rash was on my boot that I have been breastfeeding 0:03:01.760 --> 0:03:04.239 like crazy because I had masst aritis. I was like, 0:03:04.280 --> 0:03:07.200 they tell you to keep breastfeeding through it. I'm a 0:03:07.360 --> 0:03:09.880 very hygienic person, so I knew that I've been washing 0:03:09.880 --> 0:03:12.000 my hands and I wasn't like letting her touch the 0:03:12.240 --> 0:03:15.040 ration anyway. But I'm still pretty freaked out by it, 0:03:15.120 --> 0:03:16.480 Like I'm not out of the woods yet. I think 0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:18.679 I've got one welt on my back that hasn't yet 0:03:18.680 --> 0:03:21.600 scabbed over. So as soon as the scabs form, that 0:03:21.639 --> 0:03:24.040 means that you can no longer be infected by that spot. 0:03:24.360 --> 0:03:26.480 But my god, like and Charlie's never had chicken pox, 0:03:26.480 --> 0:03:30.079 so that's really dangerous if you're adult getting she's vaccinated. 0:03:30.280 --> 0:03:33.400 He had one vaccination. He checked his medical records and 0:03:33.440 --> 0:03:36.200 he's had one vaccination for it, and you're mede to 0:03:36.200 --> 0:03:39.920 get two when you're a kid. So when it rains 0:03:39.960 --> 0:03:41.920 at pause like that is ridiculous. How do I get 0:03:41.960 --> 0:03:44.960 mastitis and the shing shingles? 0:03:45.720 --> 0:03:47.000 Well, you do yeah, I. 0:03:46.920 --> 0:03:48.480 Do have the world's worst bad luck. 0:03:48.560 --> 0:03:50.920 So he hasn't gotten it, like she would show it. 0:03:51.040 --> 0:03:53.240 Yeah, she would show it. She's been a bit unsettled, 0:03:53.240 --> 0:03:55.960 but I think she's just like a bit more active 0:03:56.000 --> 0:03:58.920 and like maybe a bit bored, like, hey, we need 0:03:58.960 --> 0:04:00.800 to do new stuff, more stuff, like I'm. 0:04:00.680 --> 0:04:03.600 Yeah, she's like I'm out of the newborn stage, like 0:04:03.800 --> 0:04:06.280 we can leave the house. Now, take me for a walk. 0:04:06.400 --> 0:04:10.680 Please, okay okay, and also rude like she has been vaccinated, 0:04:10.720 --> 0:04:12.880 but she can still get it. But the doctor was reassuring. 0:04:12.920 --> 0:04:15.440 She was like, look, if the girls get it, it's 0:04:15.520 --> 0:04:17.320 much better for them to have it as kids than 0:04:17.360 --> 0:04:20.120 it isn't as an adult. So just come in if 0:04:20.120 --> 0:04:21.920 they've got a ration, we'll take it from there. So 0:04:22.000 --> 0:04:24.120 I'm looking every day nothing. 0:04:24.200 --> 0:04:29.440 Yet whenever I see people with the stupid anti vax arguments, 0:04:29.839 --> 0:04:31.960 I always think about, I mean, obviously there's way worse 0:04:32.040 --> 0:04:35.040 things that we have vaccines for, but chicken pox, because 0:04:35.080 --> 0:04:37.440 it's something that stands out to me in my mind 0:04:37.480 --> 0:04:41.400 as a kid, how awful and itchy and the color 0:04:41.440 --> 0:04:43.960 mine lotion and everything. How often do you hear about 0:04:43.960 --> 0:04:45.840 a kid getting chicken pox these days? 0:04:46.440 --> 0:04:49.200 That is so true. I didn't even think about that. 0:04:49.320 --> 0:04:52.440 It's not a hofly. You just don't forget getting chicken pox. 0:04:52.480 --> 0:04:56.600 I remember being in the chemist itching and my grandparents 0:04:56.839 --> 0:04:58.560 having put socks on my hands. 0:04:58.839 --> 0:05:01.320 Yeah, because they don't I need to. Yeah. 0:05:01.440 --> 0:05:05.400 Yeah, So I am starting to feel Probably today is 0:05:05.400 --> 0:05:09.440 the best I felt in Ohanna, say, like ten days. 0:05:09.520 --> 0:05:12.480 So the mastitis is really almost cleared up. I think 0:05:12.880 --> 0:05:13.600 that was my pitch. 0:05:13.720 --> 0:05:16.760 Mas diitis is also like I have friends that have 0:05:16.839 --> 0:05:18.640 ended up in hospital with mastitis. 0:05:18.680 --> 0:05:21.120 It's awful. Well, the thing is with the mass artis 0:05:21.240 --> 0:05:23.400 is I caught it early. I hadn't had any fevers 0:05:23.480 --> 0:05:25.920 or anything yet, and I was like, oh, I don't 0:05:25.920 --> 0:05:27.159 even know if I should go to the doctor, Like 0:05:27.160 --> 0:05:29.119 I haven't had a fever, but everything on the internet 0:05:29.240 --> 0:05:31.440 was saying go, go go, because you get the gets 0:05:31.480 --> 0:05:33.719 wet first. And I think I messaged you and you 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:35.160 were like, yeah, I didn't get it that bad because 0:05:35.160 --> 0:05:37.000 your dad was really on top of it. 0:05:37.080 --> 0:05:40.480 I literally had a fever one night and one boob 0:05:40.560 --> 0:05:42.160 and all of a sudden, it was like the middle 0:05:42.200 --> 0:05:44.919 of summer. Still, all of a sudden, I was like 0:05:44.960 --> 0:05:47.000 putting all of these jumpers on and I was sitting 0:05:47.040 --> 0:05:50.720 at the table shivering, sweating, and my dad straight off 0:05:50.720 --> 0:05:52.560 the bat just went, you've got mast idis. 0:05:53.080 --> 0:05:54.800 You're not supposed to do this. But whatever. 0:05:55.080 --> 0:05:57.599 He had like an old box of anybotics that he 0:05:57.640 --> 0:06:00.320 hadn't used that weren't ones that I was allerge too, 0:06:00.800 --> 0:06:03.120 so he like made me take two doses that day 0:06:03.839 --> 0:06:06.200 and then like so I just got onto it and 0:06:06.240 --> 0:06:07.799 by the next day it was completely fine. 0:06:08.160 --> 0:06:10.760 It's so lucky, yeah, because you hear people just having 0:06:11.040 --> 0:06:14.240 as you said, fevers, having to go to hospital it 0:06:14.480 --> 0:06:17.480 coming back just like not being cleared properly and then 0:06:17.520 --> 0:06:20.159 you have to can turn into like a breast abscess. 0:06:20.320 --> 0:06:23.200 It's just insane. So really glad that I did go 0:06:23.240 --> 0:06:25.120 to the doctor. Really annoyed that I didn't point out 0:06:25.160 --> 0:06:28.000 the rash when I was there, but that's all right. 0:06:28.040 --> 0:06:28.960 We got there in the end. 0:06:29.120 --> 0:06:29.799 What's your pick. 0:06:30.240 --> 0:06:35.039 I have had a really lovely I would say two 0:06:35.120 --> 0:06:39.880 weeks with Rue. Our relationship after having Suki has been 0:06:39.960 --> 0:06:42.440 really rocky. And a lot of people say this that 0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:46.839 it's something that happens when you have your your second baby, 0:06:46.920 --> 0:06:49.240 is that your first baby is kind of pissed off 0:06:49.240 --> 0:06:52.800 at you for having the baby, and also just how 0:06:53.040 --> 0:06:57.600 much Charlie was the primary parent during my pregnancy because 0:06:57.640 --> 0:07:00.200 I was so exhausted and sick and tired and all 0:07:00.200 --> 0:07:02.880 of that jazz. And so it's been a minute since 0:07:02.920 --> 0:07:06.400 we've really connected and bonded. And I think because I'm 0:07:06.400 --> 0:07:10.840 out of that really intense fourth trimester newborn stage and 0:07:10.880 --> 0:07:12.600 the baby's kind of found a bit of a rhythm 0:07:12.640 --> 0:07:16.320 and I'm coming, you know, out of the fog, I've 0:07:16.360 --> 0:07:20.200 been able to actually have capacity to really invest in 0:07:20.360 --> 0:07:25.400 my relationship with Ru again. And oh, like I could cry, 0:07:25.440 --> 0:07:27.600 I don't want to because my makeup looks amazing today 0:07:27.600 --> 0:07:29.320 and I don't really get to put makeup on that 0:07:29.360 --> 0:07:30.120 often he does. 0:07:30.200 --> 0:07:32.240 That's so annoying because I'm just sitting here without a 0:07:32.400 --> 0:07:34.920 scrap of it on. Thank you look so pretty. 0:07:35.120 --> 0:07:39.920 It's just been so nice. And I think the Sheridan incident, 0:07:40.000 --> 0:07:41.800 I really hit ro bottom that day. 0:07:42.160 --> 0:07:44.760 Sorry, I shouldn't laugh for Sheridan sheet saga. 0:07:44.880 --> 0:07:47.040 When I had a breakdown in Sheridan because Rue was 0:07:47.080 --> 0:07:49.320 running circles around me, I had a bit of an 0:07:49.320 --> 0:07:53.320 epiphany in my breakdown and I just went, something is 0:07:53.360 --> 0:07:56.160 not right. I need to be able to handle this better. 0:07:56.560 --> 0:07:58.320 I've got to change something up, and it kind of 0:07:58.320 --> 0:08:00.160 goes with one of my goals for this year is 0:08:00.200 --> 0:08:03.840 to stop rushing all the time. And so now for 0:08:03.880 --> 0:08:06.640 the last week or so, I just am not rushing. 0:08:06.880 --> 0:08:09.560 We get home, like I'm getting her into the shower. 0:08:09.600 --> 0:08:11.760 She doesn't want to get in the shower. I'm just 0:08:11.840 --> 0:08:14.440 kind of like hurting her into the shower. I'm not 0:08:14.640 --> 0:08:17.560 being as like driven by the clock or like running 0:08:17.560 --> 0:08:19.720 against the clock in a way, I'm kind of just 0:08:19.800 --> 0:08:21.960 giving into it in a way of like she'll get 0:08:21.960 --> 0:08:24.080 to bed when she gets to bed, but it's not 0:08:24.120 --> 0:08:26.480 the hill I'm willing to die on anymore. I've come 0:08:26.520 --> 0:08:28.840 out of that newborn stage. The babies kind of hit 0:08:28.880 --> 0:08:31.320 a bit of a stride. But then I've also just 0:08:31.360 --> 0:08:33.800 been like I need to just give in to her 0:08:33.920 --> 0:08:37.200 being a kid and not try to parent because I 0:08:37.200 --> 0:08:38.720 need to get her into bed by a certain time. 0:08:38.800 --> 0:08:41.960 Like it's better for me if I just enjoy the 0:08:41.960 --> 0:08:45.080 time that we have together and take it slow. And yeah, 0:08:45.080 --> 0:08:47.040 do you want to pull out a big box of 0:08:47.080 --> 0:08:49.839 Safari toys and pull them out one by one and 0:08:49.920 --> 0:08:51.640 name what they are? When I'm trying to get your 0:08:51.720 --> 0:08:53.960 nappy on so that we can go and then have dinner. 0:08:54.000 --> 0:08:57.640 Like yeah, Like before, I was so highly strung for 0:08:57.679 --> 0:09:00.360 some reason, Like I don't know why, but I was 0:09:00.400 --> 0:09:04.040 so highly strung and I was getting spun out by 0:09:04.200 --> 0:09:07.920 everything and I couldn't just enjoy the moment. And so 0:09:08.000 --> 0:09:11.160 I've really tried to do that for the last two 0:09:11.200 --> 0:09:14.400 weeks and it's just been so nice. Like I'm finding 0:09:14.440 --> 0:09:16.840 that we have these little moments that are really fun 0:09:16.920 --> 0:09:21.320 and I'm not stressed, and she's not as naughty because 0:09:21.640 --> 0:09:23.640 I'm not like forcing her to do stuff that she 0:09:23.679 --> 0:09:26.839 doesn't want to do in this time period that I've allotted. 0:09:27.040 --> 0:09:29.640 There's something to be said for having a routine but 0:09:29.800 --> 0:09:32.760 also letting kids go at their own pace to a 0:09:32.760 --> 0:09:35.480 certain extent because they know the routine they do. 0:09:35.600 --> 0:09:38.000 And that's the funniest thing. Is Like my thing is 0:09:38.040 --> 0:09:42.120 like shoes off, wash hands. We're doing a shower, right, 0:09:42.440 --> 0:09:44.000 and so she gets to the front door and she's like, 0:09:44.240 --> 0:09:48.040 shoes off, washhands, do will we go to shower? And 0:09:48.080 --> 0:09:50.040 then we get inside and as soon as she washes 0:09:50.040 --> 0:09:52.959 her hand, she runs away, Like so she knows the routine, 0:09:53.040 --> 0:09:55.880 but she's being a kid, And I think that I 0:09:56.000 --> 0:09:58.320 just got really highly strung for a moment. I'm sure 0:09:58.360 --> 0:10:00.400 it's like all to do with the new more stage 0:10:00.440 --> 0:10:03.400 and being overwhelmed by everything, But yeah, I think that 0:10:03.440 --> 0:10:05.920 little sherid and breakdown was a really good reset for me, 0:10:06.080 --> 0:10:09.079 just to be like, hey, this isn't working. What's gonna 0:10:09.080 --> 0:10:11.760 work for us? And does it really matter what time 0:10:11.840 --> 0:10:14.439 she goes to bed at night? Yeah? And it doesn't. 0:10:14.520 --> 0:10:16.880 And honestly, she ends up going to bed at like 0:10:16.880 --> 0:10:19.080 eight because she enjoys the time that we're having and 0:10:19.120 --> 0:10:21.440 that we're out having the big feelings. 0:10:21.520 --> 0:10:23.600 You know, she doesn't have a nap. What time does 0:10:23.640 --> 0:10:24.560 she wake up in the morning. 0:10:25.000 --> 0:10:26.679 She wakes up at like seven. 0:10:26.800 --> 0:10:29.760 I would say, Lene puts himself to bed a daycare. 0:10:30.440 --> 0:10:32.920 How funny is that? It's my favorite thing when roue 0:10:32.920 --> 0:10:34.600 at night is like I want to go to bed, 0:10:34.640 --> 0:10:37.079 and I don't want to go to babe, let's go. 0:10:38.320 --> 0:10:42.840 And I'm like no books and no books. I'm like, yes, I. 0:10:42.880 --> 0:10:45.440 Fucking hate reading books. I hate it. 0:10:45.559 --> 0:10:48.760 So she pulled out five and then she bloody topped 0:10:48.760 --> 0:10:51.040 her drink bottle accidentally. She thought the lid was on top. 0:10:51.320 --> 0:10:53.120 I just filled it up, so it was a full 0:10:53.160 --> 0:10:55.559 bottle of water on the couch, and the couch was 0:10:55.559 --> 0:10:57.520 like stopping when I was like, I don't have to 0:10:57.520 --> 0:10:59.240 tell you no more books, like I've got to clean 0:10:59.240 --> 0:11:00.640 this up now, like let's just go to bed. 0:11:00.640 --> 0:11:05.280 And she was like, okay, okay, it's one thing that 0:11:05.360 --> 0:11:08.280 I don't like doing. I don't mind, but he wants 0:11:08.320 --> 0:11:10.560 to read the same bloody book every time. And I 0:11:10.600 --> 0:11:12.560 know you've said to hide it, but then he'll just 0:11:12.600 --> 0:11:14.520 find another one and then that will be the one 0:11:14.520 --> 0:11:16.720 that he wants to read every single bloody time. 0:11:17.360 --> 0:11:18.800 That's actually good for them the life. 0:11:19.040 --> 0:11:20.480 I know, but it's suck. 0:11:20.679 --> 0:11:24.200 No, look, it is so boring, But what makes it fun? 0:11:24.360 --> 0:11:27.040 I like, let them finish the sentence I say the first, 0:11:27.240 --> 0:11:28.880 and that kind of makes it fun because then you're like, whoa, 0:11:28.920 --> 0:11:30.840 they're really smart. I reckon that. 0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:34.640 When he wants to actually like do books like a 0:11:34.800 --> 0:11:38.800 you know, like a nice story rather than just random 0:11:39.000 --> 0:11:42.680 cars in a book, then I'll be more like, oh yeah, 0:11:42.679 --> 0:11:44.160 because I love to read and I like to do 0:11:44.240 --> 0:11:46.040 voices and the performance of it all. 0:11:46.320 --> 0:11:49.040 Actually, our producer matter got rude like a big book 0:11:49.080 --> 0:11:51.280 for her birthday, a big book of doctor Zeus like 0:11:51.320 --> 0:11:54.360 five stories, and I find those are really fun to 0:11:54.440 --> 0:11:58.640 read because they're tongue twisting and like sometimes I'll make mistakes, 0:11:58.679 --> 0:12:00.680 so like, I don't know, it's like for me to 0:12:00.720 --> 0:12:02.920 read to her rather than like something Mondane, Oh. 0:12:02.840 --> 0:12:04.760 I know what you mean. That's why I like reading 0:12:04.760 --> 0:12:07.439 Harry McClary exactly, because I want to get through it 0:12:07.520 --> 0:12:10.480 without mistakes. That's my goal, and like to do every 0:12:10.559 --> 0:12:11.959 all of the characters really well. 0:12:12.200 --> 0:12:15.360 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you're up, cal Sorry, I waffled 0:12:15.400 --> 0:12:16.120 on a little bit there. 0:12:16.640 --> 0:12:19.760 First, up, we need to discuss my kit, which is 0:12:20.240 --> 0:12:21.720 having the two cats. 0:12:22.040 --> 0:12:23.240 Oh, this is not a peak. 0:12:23.679 --> 0:12:27.280 No, it's not a peak. Listen, I don't regret it 0:12:27.320 --> 0:12:31.480 at all, because it is literally the best thing ever 0:12:31.559 --> 0:12:35.760 for Lenny. He gets his kitty and he lugs her 0:12:35.800 --> 0:12:38.240 around the house, even though she's like a full size 0:12:38.280 --> 0:12:40.880 cat now and he's just still a very small boy, 0:12:41.200 --> 0:12:43.960 and he'll just be lugging her around the house and 0:12:43.960 --> 0:12:47.720 he goes, oh, I just love my kitty so much. 0:12:47.840 --> 0:12:50.120 I just love her. And he goes look at her 0:12:50.120 --> 0:12:52.960 little cheeks like things that I've obviously he's overheard me 0:12:53.000 --> 0:12:57.599 say about babies, and he goes, look mummy, rockabye baby, 0:12:57.640 --> 0:13:00.960 and he rocks her like he's a obsessed with her. 0:13:01.040 --> 0:13:04.760 They snuggle all night every night, like they are literal 0:13:04.880 --> 0:13:05.719 best friends. 0:13:05.920 --> 0:13:09.640 Of him snuggling her just so cute. 0:13:09.600 --> 0:13:12.800 Like it's exactly what we wanted for an animal for him, 0:13:12.840 --> 0:13:15.959 Like it's just so cute. But she drives me mad. 0:13:16.440 --> 0:13:21.080 And when we had Percy's sister, she just wasn't annoying. 0:13:22.040 --> 0:13:25.880 I don't know. Marge is just so annoying. First up, 0:13:25.960 --> 0:13:28.520 if anyone has any advice to get her to stop 0:13:28.600 --> 0:13:31.920 hissing on things. As I mentioned last week, she knows 0:13:32.040 --> 0:13:35.080 where her toilet is and just a couple of times 0:13:35.080 --> 0:13:36.959 a week she just is like, fuck you all, I'm 0:13:36.960 --> 0:13:42.520 gonna piss here, And it's just disgusting. She mews if 0:13:42.559 --> 0:13:44.640 she's not getting her own way all the time, and 0:13:44.679 --> 0:13:47.520 she's very loud with the meowing and the purring. She 0:13:47.640 --> 0:13:50.439 jumps up on the kitchen bench. I have a squirter 0:13:50.600 --> 0:13:52.920 that I squirt her with because she annoys me so much. 0:13:53.360 --> 0:13:56.199 I'll just be like, get off that because she jumps 0:13:56.280 --> 0:13:58.320 up on the kitchen bench. She jumps up on Lenny's 0:13:58.360 --> 0:14:02.200 table and tries to eat his food. She's just irritating me. 0:14:02.360 --> 0:14:05.520 And that's my pit because and she also crash tackles 0:14:05.559 --> 0:14:06.360 poor Percy. 0:14:06.679 --> 0:14:09.200 It's an interesting thing, right, because when you introduce a 0:14:09.280 --> 0:14:14.240 pet into the home, you have such high hopes that 0:14:14.320 --> 0:14:17.560 the personality will fit. And I think you've had a 0:14:17.600 --> 0:14:20.560 really good luck with the fact that you had Herbie, 0:14:20.800 --> 0:14:26.320 great personality, Percy and then Holly. They've all been really cool. 0:14:26.240 --> 0:14:27.520 Easy going cats. 0:14:28.160 --> 0:14:31.840 Yeah, like she is like me and a cat. I remember. 0:14:32.520 --> 0:14:37.400 I remember Charlie's family. They had Frankie who was like 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:40.440 a rescue They think it was dingo mixed with something 0:14:40.480 --> 0:14:43.320 like she was just the coolest dog, but she just 0:14:43.360 --> 0:14:46.520 fucking hated humans. So they were just like, we've got 0:14:46.520 --> 0:14:49.200 this dog, and like she was loving at times, but 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:51.000 she was more like a cat to be honest. She 0:14:51.160 --> 0:14:53.280 just was like wanted to be left alone. And I 0:14:53.360 --> 0:14:56.560 remember them just being like so disappointed. But you've got 0:14:56.560 --> 0:14:58.320 this animal. Now, You're like, you're not gonna give it 0:14:58.400 --> 0:15:01.440 up just because they've got a like Personali they're annoying, 0:15:01.560 --> 0:15:03.960 Like you're gonna love them still, but yeah, it is 0:15:03.960 --> 0:15:06.320 a gamble bringing a new personality into the family. 0:15:06.600 --> 0:15:09.680 And I just feel so mean because she is so cute, 0:15:09.920 --> 0:15:14.400 Like she's so sweet and is just so loving. She 0:15:14.520 --> 0:15:17.320 just wants to be cuddled all the time, and she's 0:15:17.360 --> 0:15:20.760 always purring. And but I also think that I don't 0:15:20.800 --> 0:15:22.920 have the tolerance for a kitten that I would have 0:15:23.240 --> 0:15:24.200 prior as well. 0:15:24.600 --> 0:15:26.600 I think that that's really normal, Like I don't think 0:15:26.600 --> 0:15:29.840 i'd ever get a puppy. Like God, I think having 0:15:29.920 --> 0:15:32.280 al when I think I adopted him when he was 0:15:32.360 --> 0:15:35.560 like three or something, he'd already been toilet trained in 0:15:35.600 --> 0:15:38.280 every way and not annoying, you know, like kind of understood, 0:15:38.640 --> 0:15:40.320 like one with the flow, like I think getting a 0:15:40.400 --> 0:15:43.440 kitten or a puppy or like a baby animal. It's 0:15:43.480 --> 0:15:43.920 a lot. 0:15:44.200 --> 0:15:47.040 Yeah, you can probably hear her at the moment, meowing 0:15:47.040 --> 0:15:48.720 at the door because I won't let her in. But 0:15:48.760 --> 0:15:50.520 you know why I won't let her in because Percy 0:15:50.520 --> 0:15:52.640 doesn't feel like playing. Right now, Percy is sitting with 0:15:52.720 --> 0:15:57.000 me kindly with his little legs out, and he tolerates 0:15:57.040 --> 0:15:58.960 her tackling him all the time. 0:15:59.280 --> 0:16:01.560 It's so funny for the older pets because they're just 0:16:01.600 --> 0:16:04.360 like so pissed off. They're like, what the fuck is this? 0:16:04.520 --> 0:16:09.680 They like get into her. I'm like, mom, geez, Anyway, 0:16:09.840 --> 0:16:12.080 my peak is kind of random, and I need to 0:16:12.160 --> 0:16:14.880 include the link to whatever recipe he uses in my 0:16:14.920 --> 0:16:17.080 show notes. But the peak is my dad's luxA. 0:16:17.800 --> 0:16:19.920 Yeah, I love luxA same. 0:16:20.200 --> 0:16:22.680 My Dad's been coming down to Sydney way more than 0:16:22.720 --> 0:16:25.640 he usually would to spend time with Nanny, and he 0:16:25.680 --> 0:16:29.600 stays with me because we live closer. One night he 0:16:29.640 --> 0:16:32.000 was like, Oh, I'm gonna cook luxA. This was ages 0:16:32.000 --> 0:16:35.520 ago now it was quite funny. Me and my girlfriend 0:16:35.600 --> 0:16:39.200 Sammy still giggle about it though, because she came over 0:16:39.200 --> 0:16:41.040 for dinner that night and I was like, oh, Dad's 0:16:41.080 --> 0:16:44.760 cooking luxA. And my dad is the crankiest man. He 0:16:44.840 --> 0:16:48.440 comes across as very charming to most people. He's probably 0:16:48.520 --> 0:16:51.120 kind of like me, just really charming, but also real 0:16:51.200 --> 0:16:53.600 cranky if you've got him in a mood. And so 0:16:53.720 --> 0:16:56.240 he was like grumbling around this night. Didn't even say 0:16:56.280 --> 0:17:00.280 hello to Sammy when she we've known each other, so 0:17:00.280 --> 0:17:02.880 so just rumbling around and then he just puts the 0:17:02.960 --> 0:17:05.280 luxA in front of us. But his presentation was just 0:17:05.359 --> 0:17:07.600 on point, with like the bean sprouts and the shalots 0:17:07.600 --> 0:17:10.879 and it was just so funny. Anyway, he made it 0:17:10.920 --> 0:17:14.120 again last night because he's down again. This week, there 0:17:14.160 --> 0:17:16.679 was like seven people that came over to my house 0:17:16.880 --> 0:17:20.439 because everyone wants his luxA. And it's just funny someone 0:17:20.480 --> 0:17:23.919 that doesn't cook, like he grew up not cooking in 0:17:23.960 --> 0:17:25.719 our house. He wasn't a cook. He would cook every 0:17:25.760 --> 0:17:27.399 now and then, but it was like sausages, you know. 0:17:28.119 --> 0:17:31.840 And now he's just the maker of this incredible luxA. 0:17:31.920 --> 0:17:34.879 I love that, though. Is that his retirement thing that 0:17:34.920 --> 0:17:36.119 he's gotten good into cooking? 0:17:36.280 --> 0:17:38.879 I guess he's just shown more of an interest since 0:17:38.880 --> 0:17:40.600 we sort of all left home, and probably more so 0:17:40.720 --> 0:17:43.720 since retiring. I also realized the other day that my 0:17:43.800 --> 0:17:47.040 parents retired quite young. They were both sixty. Like they've 0:17:47.040 --> 0:17:50.080 got hopefully a long road, so they've you know, cut 0:17:50.080 --> 0:17:50.920 time for hobbies. 0:17:51.440 --> 0:17:52.200 Yeah, that's epic. 0:17:52.280 --> 0:17:54.600 I love that, But I guess it's also just nice 0:17:54.640 --> 0:17:56.639 to spend a little bit more time with him. And 0:17:56.680 --> 0:17:58.560 it's also really nice when he comes down, given that 0:17:58.640 --> 0:18:01.280 Luke is on night shift, to have company. 0:18:01.560 --> 0:18:03.640 Yeah, for sure, I think that's really lovely. And any 0:18:03.680 --> 0:18:05.920 additional time that you get to spend with your family 0:18:06.480 --> 0:18:09.040 that you haven't planned, you know, it's always so precious. 0:18:09.560 --> 0:18:15.159 Exactly exactly anyway, that is my peak. But after the break, can. 0:18:15.040 --> 0:18:16.880 I just be a bitch for a sec? It's our 0:18:16.920 --> 0:18:28.080 new segment to talk to me sometimes, Dolores. Sometimes you 0:18:28.240 --> 0:18:32.400 have to be a high riding bitch to survive. Okay, 0:18:33.520 --> 0:18:35.639