1 00:00:08,234 --> 00:00:12,953 Speaker 1: You're listening to a MoMA Mia podcast. 2 00:00:14,314 --> 00:00:15,794 Speaker 2: Jesse, have you seen it? Have you seen it? Have 3 00:00:15,834 --> 00:00:16,314 Speaker 2: you seen it? 4 00:00:16,434 --> 00:00:18,553 Speaker 1: There's so much I've seen, but I'm not sure if 5 00:00:18,553 --> 00:00:21,914 Speaker 1: I've seen what you're yelling about today. 6 00:00:22,634 --> 00:00:25,874 Speaker 2: Jennifer Adiston has hard launched her hypnotist boyfriend. 7 00:00:25,994 --> 00:00:27,754 Speaker 1: How did she do it? I have not seen this. 8 00:00:28,234 --> 00:00:31,314 Speaker 2: Jenn Aniston has hard launched her hypnotist boyfriend that we 9 00:00:31,354 --> 00:00:32,514 Speaker 2: talked about on the show. 10 00:00:32,513 --> 00:00:35,674 Speaker 3: Because before we'd only seen Harfy's face, which is actually 11 00:00:35,714 --> 00:00:38,954 Speaker 3: relevant for a story that we will speak about later. 12 00:00:39,273 --> 00:00:42,633 Speaker 2: Yes, because they've been papped together. But she's very private, 13 00:00:42,873 --> 00:00:45,954 Speaker 2: as we know. But she posted a picture of her 14 00:00:46,074 --> 00:00:48,153 Speaker 2: and him and her arms around his waist, and it's 15 00:00:48,193 --> 00:00:50,714 Speaker 2: black and white. It's very tasteful, and it just says 16 00:00:51,233 --> 00:00:54,754 Speaker 2: happy birthday, my love, and then it says cherished love 17 00:00:54,794 --> 00:00:57,434 Speaker 2: heart emoji. I'm going to make you talk more about 18 00:00:57,434 --> 00:01:01,634 Speaker 2: this at a later date. Hello, and welcome to Mamma 19 00:01:01,714 --> 00:01:04,274 Speaker 2: Mia out Loud. It's what women are actually talking about 20 00:01:04,314 --> 00:01:07,274 Speaker 2: on Monday, the third of November. I'm Holly Wayne, right. 21 00:01:07,434 --> 00:01:09,994 Speaker 1: I'm Amelia Lester, and I'm Jesse Stevens. 22 00:01:10,354 --> 00:01:13,834 Speaker 2: And who's what's on our agenda for today, how leaving 23 00:01:13,874 --> 00:01:16,914 Speaker 2: your bra off and putting a chain mail dress on 24 00:01:17,594 --> 00:01:20,074 Speaker 2: has become a cultural riddle on the back of one 25 00:01:20,234 --> 00:01:21,154 Speaker 2: Sydney Sweeney. 26 00:01:21,434 --> 00:01:24,994 Speaker 1: Plus, we have to unpack the worst royal crisis in 27 00:01:25,034 --> 00:01:25,914 Speaker 1: one hundred. 28 00:01:25,634 --> 00:01:29,714 Speaker 3: Years, and a viral article in Vogue has declared the 29 00:01:29,754 --> 00:01:32,794 Speaker 3: boyfriends are embarrassing. Am I reading into it too much? 30 00:01:32,994 --> 00:01:35,194 Speaker 3: Or is there a sinister subtext? 31 00:01:36,034 --> 00:01:39,634 Speaker 1: But first, in case you missed it, I am more crunchy, 32 00:01:39,834 --> 00:01:43,714 Speaker 1: fun sized bar than host today. It was Halloween on 33 00:01:43,794 --> 00:01:46,954 Speaker 1: Friday night and a lot of chocolate was consumed. But 34 00:01:47,274 --> 00:01:50,314 Speaker 1: I just wanted to do a very quick celebrity roundup 35 00:01:50,434 --> 00:01:54,714 Speaker 1: of some very notable costumes. Okay, that happened. First up, 36 00:01:54,914 --> 00:01:59,074 Speaker 1: Mamma Mia out Loud's official couple, Justin Trudeau and Katie Perry. 37 00:01:59,634 --> 00:02:02,034 Speaker 1: We called it first. They are official. They went on 38 00:02:02,074 --> 00:02:05,474 Speaker 1: a date in Paris. Justin Trudeau and his son Hadrian 39 00:02:05,754 --> 00:02:10,513 Speaker 1: dressed as a shark and surfer, respectively. But justin shark 40 00:02:10,554 --> 00:02:16,194 Speaker 1: costume was almost identical to left Shark Katie Perry's twenty 41 00:02:16,234 --> 00:02:18,394 Speaker 1: fifteen Super Bowl performance meme. 42 00:02:18,594 --> 00:02:22,514 Speaker 3: Which that year that was the biggest Halloween costume was 43 00:02:22,514 --> 00:02:26,674 Speaker 3: that left shark That was an iconic costume because left 44 00:02:26,714 --> 00:02:29,114 Speaker 3: Shark maybe wasn't trying very hard? 45 00:02:29,234 --> 00:02:31,714 Speaker 1: Was that the vibe? I think that's a good joke. Yes, 46 00:02:31,834 --> 00:02:34,514 Speaker 1: And I love this for Justin because if you recall, 47 00:02:34,554 --> 00:02:38,114 Speaker 1: in the first stages of their relationship, Justin was doing 48 00:02:38,114 --> 00:02:40,634 Speaker 1: that thing that men often do in the first stages 49 00:02:40,674 --> 00:02:43,314 Speaker 1: of a relationship where they're sort of dithering. They're saying 50 00:02:43,354 --> 00:02:45,554 Speaker 1: I'm not ready. That wasn't a date. That was just 51 00:02:45,634 --> 00:02:48,514 Speaker 1: us going out to dinner. This was all reportedly, of course, 52 00:02:48,554 --> 00:02:51,514 Speaker 1: sources said. But now it seems like he's now moved 53 00:02:51,554 --> 00:02:54,154 Speaker 1: into that stage where he cannot shut up about his 54 00:02:54,194 --> 00:02:56,474 Speaker 1: new girlfriend. And I love that. It's a home There 55 00:02:56,674 --> 00:03:00,154 Speaker 1: has never been a harder hard launch. Lily Allen next up. 56 00:03:00,314 --> 00:03:04,634 Speaker 1: She dressed as children's book character Madeline, which referenced her 57 00:03:04,714 --> 00:03:08,274 Speaker 1: new track, which Holly told us all about. Holly very 58 00:03:08,314 --> 00:03:09,874 Speaker 1: quick primer, what is that track about? 59 00:03:10,194 --> 00:03:12,914 Speaker 2: So she has a song called Madeline, which is about 60 00:03:13,114 --> 00:03:16,394 Speaker 2: the other woman in David Harbour's Phone and Life, And 61 00:03:16,434 --> 00:03:18,874 Speaker 2: she famously has a song that's just like, who the 62 00:03:18,914 --> 00:03:22,674 Speaker 2: fuck is Madeline? And here's whose Madeline is. By the way, 63 00:03:22,834 --> 00:03:25,874 Speaker 2: I'm addicted to the album. I'm actually worried. I've listened 64 00:03:25,914 --> 00:03:28,914 Speaker 2: to it all weekend on repeat. I'm waking up thinking 65 00:03:28,954 --> 00:03:32,274 Speaker 2: about it, and then watching her in her Madeline costume, 66 00:03:32,354 --> 00:03:34,394 Speaker 2: and then watching her partying at the Shadow mom on 67 00:03:34,434 --> 00:03:37,234 Speaker 2: to that song. I'm like, this is Lily Allan's Talloween. 68 00:03:37,674 --> 00:03:38,434 Speaker 4: It really is. 69 00:03:38,514 --> 00:03:44,594 Speaker 1: She's owning it. Julia Fox defended her tasteless Jackie Kennedy costume, 70 00:03:44,954 --> 00:03:47,914 Speaker 1: which involved her wearing a pink tweed suit very similar 71 00:03:47,954 --> 00:03:50,274 Speaker 1: to the one that the First Lady wore when her 72 00:03:50,354 --> 00:03:53,994 Speaker 1: husband JFK was assassinated in Dallas in nineteen sixty three. 73 00:03:54,314 --> 00:03:57,274 Speaker 1: The dress came complete with the blood splatters that Jackie 74 00:03:57,354 --> 00:03:59,754 Speaker 1: herself kept on the dress when the next president was 75 00:03:59,794 --> 00:04:02,594 Speaker 1: sworn in. Don't love it, don't love it for her, 76 00:04:03,274 --> 00:04:05,154 Speaker 1: But then what I did love is you know who? 77 00:04:05,154 --> 00:04:07,314 Speaker 1: I told you that everyone in Hollywood wants to be 78 00:04:07,394 --> 00:04:12,154 Speaker 1: Dakota Johnson right now. Call it the Dakota Johnsonization of Hollywood. Well, 79 00:04:12,274 --> 00:04:15,634 Speaker 1: let's hear from Dakota herself about what she went as. 80 00:04:15,874 --> 00:04:20,273 Speaker 1: I'm Dakota Johnson dressed as Dakota Johnson, and I think 81 00:04:21,194 --> 00:04:24,433 Speaker 1: that Dakota Johnson is going to get the most drunk tonight. 82 00:04:25,553 --> 00:04:26,673 Speaker 2: She's so cool. 83 00:04:26,914 --> 00:04:29,034 Speaker 3: She's a parody of herself. I don't know if she's 84 00:04:29,073 --> 00:04:32,034 Speaker 3: ever being serious. I don't think she knows, and that's 85 00:04:32,034 --> 00:04:32,874 Speaker 3: what I love about her. 86 00:04:36,594 --> 00:04:42,154 Speaker 2: Prince Andrew war hero favorite son, the Duke of York. 87 00:04:42,753 --> 00:04:44,633 Speaker 5: Let's bring you some breaking news that has come to 88 00:04:44,714 --> 00:04:47,353 Speaker 5: us in the last minute or so from Buckingham Palace. 89 00:04:47,633 --> 00:04:52,194 Speaker 5: His Majesty the King has today initiated a formal process 90 00:04:52,513 --> 00:04:58,473 Speaker 5: to remove the style, titles and honors of Prince Andrew. 91 00:04:58,193 --> 00:05:00,674 Speaker 2: King Charles taking action against his younger brother in the 92 00:05:00,674 --> 00:05:02,433 Speaker 2: wake of the Jeffrey Epstein scandal. 93 00:05:02,553 --> 00:05:05,993 Speaker 1: People are calling this the worst royal crisis in one 94 00:05:06,073 --> 00:05:08,954 Speaker 1: hundred years. We were told it was impossible, but King 95 00:05:09,034 --> 00:05:11,753 Speaker 1: Charles has really gone ahead and done it. Prince Andrew 96 00:05:11,914 --> 00:05:14,914 Speaker 1: is no longer a Prince, the man who signed his 97 00:05:14,993 --> 00:05:18,553 Speaker 1: emails to his close friend Jeffrey Epstein hr h, the 98 00:05:18,633 --> 00:05:22,513 Speaker 1: Duke of York is now just plain old Andrew Mountbatten Windsor. 99 00:05:22,953 --> 00:05:24,993 Speaker 1: I love this for him. I love him filling in 100 00:05:25,113 --> 00:05:27,474 Speaker 1: forms when he goes to get his license renewed, where 101 00:05:27,513 --> 00:05:30,234 Speaker 1: he just now just has to write a regular person's name, 102 00:05:30,393 --> 00:05:33,474 Speaker 1: and very long one, a very long one. That's true. 103 00:05:33,513 --> 00:05:35,953 Speaker 1: He'll probably have to use extra boxes on the forms, 104 00:05:36,274 --> 00:05:38,794 Speaker 1: and in another stunning move, and you will have to 105 00:05:38,834 --> 00:05:42,473 Speaker 1: take the seventy two sailor costumed teddy bears that he 106 00:05:42,553 --> 00:05:45,953 Speaker 1: reportedly insists or arranged by his servants on his bed 107 00:05:46,034 --> 00:05:49,193 Speaker 1: in a particular order, and move them all out of 108 00:05:49,234 --> 00:05:51,714 Speaker 1: the Royal Lodge, which is where he currently lives rent 109 00:05:51,753 --> 00:05:57,313 Speaker 1: free to a cottage on the Sandringham Estate, which I 110 00:05:57,354 --> 00:06:01,113 Speaker 1: am reliably told is in a very wind swept area 111 00:06:01,193 --> 00:06:06,633 Speaker 1: of England called Norfolk. Holy, I believe this news was 112 00:06:06,674 --> 00:06:09,433 Speaker 1: such a big deal to you this weekend that you 113 00:06:09,513 --> 00:06:12,833 Speaker 1: spontaneously fractured your ankle, and that is why you're joining 114 00:06:12,873 --> 00:06:17,513 Speaker 1: us remotely. Tell me, is Norfolk really that bad? 115 00:06:18,193 --> 00:06:24,593 Speaker 2: Norfolk? Okay, so two things. You're correct. I've seemed to 116 00:06:24,594 --> 00:06:26,474 Speaker 2: have fractured my foot and I have no idea how 117 00:06:26,553 --> 00:06:29,113 Speaker 2: so this theory checks out that it was just. 118 00:06:29,113 --> 00:06:33,073 Speaker 3: So exciting that you're jumping up and down celebrate. 119 00:06:32,873 --> 00:06:37,273 Speaker 2: Just like exploded excitement. That's a possibility. So yes, if 120 00:06:37,313 --> 00:06:39,154 Speaker 2: I sound a bit different today, it's because I'm recording 121 00:06:39,154 --> 00:06:43,553 Speaker 2: from home. Norfolk is actually a beautiful place, but Sandringham 122 00:06:43,794 --> 00:06:47,313 Speaker 2: is a private estate. Look, there are many serious parts 123 00:06:47,354 --> 00:06:49,553 Speaker 2: to this story. But one of the things that's kind 124 00:06:49,553 --> 00:06:52,433 Speaker 2: of funny about it has become the obsession with royal 125 00:06:52,513 --> 00:06:56,354 Speaker 2: real estate and how the term cottage means something very 126 00:06:56,393 --> 00:07:00,234 Speaker 2: different to royal people. Then it seems due to the 127 00:07:00,274 --> 00:07:02,993 Speaker 2: average population, because when I think cottage, I think cute 128 00:07:03,034 --> 00:07:06,513 Speaker 2: little maybe two bedrooms, ivy around the door, but no, 129 00:07:06,674 --> 00:07:08,754 Speaker 2: in royal parlance, a cottage can indeed me in a 130 00:07:08,834 --> 00:07:14,033 Speaker 2: nine bedroom mansion. Anyway, I think this was is the 131 00:07:14,074 --> 00:07:16,994 Speaker 2: biggest royal scandal in one hundred years, and I am 132 00:07:17,074 --> 00:07:20,634 Speaker 2: here to take questions, Jesse, do you have any. 133 00:07:20,674 --> 00:07:23,474 Speaker 3: My first question as someone who has been like I've 134 00:07:23,474 --> 00:07:29,314 Speaker 3: seen headlines and I understand that Virginia Giuffre's memoir has 135 00:07:29,354 --> 00:07:32,314 Speaker 3: come out recently. I understand that there are explosive allegations 136 00:07:32,314 --> 00:07:35,994 Speaker 3: in there. But why now did King Charles have to 137 00:07:35,994 --> 00:07:37,833 Speaker 3: wait till his mother had died to do this? 138 00:07:37,953 --> 00:07:40,714 Speaker 2: Do you think, well, that is a big question, right. 139 00:07:40,794 --> 00:07:43,593 Speaker 2: The thing is is I think that why now of 140 00:07:43,634 --> 00:07:46,434 Speaker 2: it all, there's a few different things. The hits just 141 00:07:46,554 --> 00:07:49,354 Speaker 2: kept coming for Andrew, right, So anyone who maybe had 142 00:07:49,434 --> 00:07:52,754 Speaker 2: hoped that this was going to go away, it was 143 00:07:52,834 --> 00:07:55,713 Speaker 2: not going away. In fact, with the memoir out with 144 00:07:55,794 --> 00:07:59,114 Speaker 2: also an explosive biography of Andrew and Sarah that we 145 00:07:59,194 --> 00:08:02,314 Speaker 2: talked about on the show a while ago, exposing them 146 00:08:02,354 --> 00:08:06,514 Speaker 2: as kind of feckless, money grabbing royals. That was part 147 00:08:06,554 --> 00:08:08,954 Speaker 2: of it. Then journalism has to take a lot of 148 00:08:08,994 --> 00:08:11,514 Speaker 2: credit for this, because the digging and digging that's found 149 00:08:11,514 --> 00:08:15,154 Speaker 2: these emails between Andrew and Epstein, long after Andrew had 150 00:08:15,194 --> 00:08:19,434 Speaker 2: insisted he'd cut off Ties, just kept exposing the lies 151 00:08:19,794 --> 00:08:22,593 Speaker 2: that were mounting up and not going away. The other 152 00:08:22,674 --> 00:08:25,874 Speaker 2: why now of it all, though, is the pressure? Now 153 00:08:26,034 --> 00:08:28,593 Speaker 2: I know you don't watch the Crown, Jesse Mamelie is 154 00:08:28,634 --> 00:08:29,793 Speaker 2: surely you watch the Crown. 155 00:08:29,914 --> 00:08:31,794 Speaker 1: Of course, the whole of. 156 00:08:31,794 --> 00:08:35,274 Speaker 2: The Crown, all of the seasons put together, basically follows 157 00:08:35,314 --> 00:08:40,594 Speaker 2: the same path. Crisis happens. Royals underestimate it, everybody gets 158 00:08:40,674 --> 00:08:43,634 Speaker 2: upset about it. True royals are told you really should 159 00:08:43,674 --> 00:08:46,274 Speaker 2: do something about this. The people are angry. The royals 160 00:08:46,274 --> 00:08:48,833 Speaker 2: say no. They don't want us to be real. They 161 00:08:48,834 --> 00:08:51,514 Speaker 2: want us to keep a stiff upper lip and not comment. 162 00:08:51,914 --> 00:08:55,314 Speaker 2: And what always happens is that at some point the 163 00:08:55,354 --> 00:08:58,354 Speaker 2: pressure becomes so great that royals have to climb down. 164 00:08:59,074 --> 00:09:00,674 Speaker 2: The Queen has to go and walk about and look 165 00:09:00,674 --> 00:09:03,714 Speaker 2: at Diana's flowers or whatever, and they are proved wrong. 166 00:09:04,154 --> 00:09:08,434 Speaker 2: This is another chapter in exactly that right. Pressure and 167 00:09:08,514 --> 00:09:11,394 Speaker 2: chatter around this Andrew's story has not gone anywhere. It's 168 00:09:11,394 --> 00:09:15,314 Speaker 2: only gotten louder. And although it's very unlikely that this 169 00:09:15,394 --> 00:09:18,154 Speaker 2: decision by the King was made quickly, in fact it 170 00:09:18,234 --> 00:09:20,714 Speaker 2: definitely wasn't. It was a very complicated thing to do. 171 00:09:20,754 --> 00:09:22,234 Speaker 2: It would have been a long time in the making. 172 00:09:23,114 --> 00:09:25,434 Speaker 2: Last week he was heckled in public, which was a 173 00:09:25,514 --> 00:09:28,154 Speaker 2: very the Crown moment when he was touring a cathedral 174 00:09:28,194 --> 00:09:32,034 Speaker 2: in Lichfield. The yelling of this man over all of 175 00:09:32,074 --> 00:09:34,274 Speaker 2: the walkabouts and normally just about getting teddy bears and 176 00:09:34,314 --> 00:09:36,554 Speaker 2: things that are like how long did you know? How 177 00:09:36,594 --> 00:09:38,434 Speaker 2: did you know about Andrew? What's been done to cover 178 00:09:38,474 --> 00:09:42,434 Speaker 2: it up? Was like a very visceral illustration of the 179 00:09:42,474 --> 00:09:44,874 Speaker 2: distraction that this has become. No one in the royal 180 00:09:44,914 --> 00:09:48,674 Speaker 2: family could do anything until the Andrew factor was dealt with, 181 00:09:49,274 --> 00:09:52,274 Speaker 2: and I just think that pressure just got too much. Holly. 182 00:09:52,394 --> 00:09:56,274 Speaker 1: Obviously, we should mention that Virginia Giffrey's family have welcomed 183 00:09:56,274 --> 00:10:00,274 Speaker 1: to this move, and they've described the events transpiring as 184 00:10:00,314 --> 00:10:04,794 Speaker 1: an ordinary American girl taking down a prince. Andrew has 185 00:10:04,834 --> 00:10:07,834 Speaker 1: denied all the allegations against him, but others survivors of 186 00:10:07,874 --> 00:10:12,234 Speaker 1: Jeffrey Epstein's sex trafficking have also said that they are 187 00:10:12,274 --> 00:10:15,554 Speaker 1: glad that accountability is coming for the Royal family. Does 188 00:10:15,594 --> 00:10:18,714 Speaker 1: it actually surprise you that it happened at all? Because 189 00:10:18,834 --> 00:10:21,794 Speaker 1: Charles until recently was telling us that he could not 190 00:10:21,914 --> 00:10:24,674 Speaker 1: do this. That was the line we were getting that 191 00:10:24,794 --> 00:10:27,674 Speaker 1: it was just literally impossible to take away the title 192 00:10:27,714 --> 00:10:30,794 Speaker 1: of prince. So are you surprised that he did it? 193 00:10:30,834 --> 00:10:33,714 Speaker 1: And do you think William basically pushed him into doing this? 194 00:10:34,194 --> 00:10:36,674 Speaker 2: No, I don't think William pushed him into doing it. 195 00:10:37,234 --> 00:10:39,554 Speaker 2: I don't know that Charles was directly saying this can't 196 00:10:39,554 --> 00:10:42,394 Speaker 2: be done. But the truth of it is it is unprecedented, Well, 197 00:10:42,434 --> 00:10:46,234 Speaker 2: it's almost unprecedented. Without getting way too weedy, the last 198 00:10:46,234 --> 00:10:49,154 Speaker 2: time something like this kind of happened was after acts 199 00:10:49,154 --> 00:10:52,953 Speaker 2: of literal tradership, when members of the royal family. There's 200 00:10:52,994 --> 00:10:55,034 Speaker 2: a connection of the Royal family through Queen Victoria that's 201 00:10:55,034 --> 00:10:58,114 Speaker 2: connected to Germany. There was a prince that actually fought 202 00:10:58,154 --> 00:11:00,354 Speaker 2: for the Germans during World War One and then became 203 00:11:00,474 --> 00:11:02,594 Speaker 2: entangled with the Nazis in World War Two, he lost 204 00:11:02,594 --> 00:11:05,794 Speaker 2: his title. So it does happen. But remember even when 205 00:11:05,874 --> 00:11:09,194 Speaker 2: the king stepped down and famously King Edward the Eighth 206 00:11:09,234 --> 00:11:11,794 Speaker 2: abdicated in nineteen thirty six. He stepped down to go 207 00:11:11,834 --> 00:11:14,874 Speaker 2: and marry Wallace Simpson. Everybody knows that story. He obviously 208 00:11:14,874 --> 00:11:17,114 Speaker 2: gave up his king title, but he kept his duke title. 209 00:11:17,194 --> 00:11:18,874 Speaker 2: He was the Duke of Windsor until he died, So 210 00:11:19,714 --> 00:11:23,874 Speaker 2: it isn't something that happens very often. And everybody was saying, 211 00:11:23,874 --> 00:11:25,754 Speaker 2: and I think I said this on this show and 212 00:11:25,994 --> 00:11:30,194 Speaker 2: certainly on the Quickie, that birthright titles directly given to 213 00:11:30,234 --> 00:11:32,154 Speaker 2: you because of your line of succession for the monarch 214 00:11:32,154 --> 00:11:34,954 Speaker 2: couldn't be taken away. But the loophole is is that 215 00:11:35,114 --> 00:11:38,274 Speaker 2: every title that a royal has is at the pleasure 216 00:11:38,394 --> 00:11:41,514 Speaker 2: of the monarch. So if the monarch really really wants 217 00:11:41,554 --> 00:11:45,154 Speaker 2: to he she can do it. And it has been 218 00:11:45,194 --> 00:11:45,834 Speaker 2: a big shot. 219 00:11:45,954 --> 00:11:47,394 Speaker 1: So was he pushed by William? 220 00:11:47,754 --> 00:11:50,074 Speaker 2: So I've heard some really interesting reporting that says that's 221 00:11:50,114 --> 00:11:53,594 Speaker 2: not true, that William actually is concerned for the state 222 00:11:53,674 --> 00:11:57,474 Speaker 2: of Andrew's mental health. There is no question this really 223 00:11:57,474 --> 00:12:00,074 Speaker 2: interesting reporting I was hearing from Emily Matelis, who is 224 00:12:00,434 --> 00:12:03,234 Speaker 2: the reporter who did that really famous Andrew interview for 225 00:12:03,314 --> 00:12:07,714 Speaker 2: Newsnight in twenty nineteen. She's amazing. I was saying that 226 00:12:07,914 --> 00:12:10,954 Speaker 2: you've got to remember that King Charles knows that he 227 00:12:11,074 --> 00:12:13,874 Speaker 2: is an interim king because his mother lived so long, 228 00:12:14,034 --> 00:12:16,834 Speaker 2: reigned for so long. Even though Charles has been warming 229 00:12:16,914 --> 00:12:20,194 Speaker 2: up for this moment his entire life, he knows that 230 00:12:20,274 --> 00:12:23,554 Speaker 2: he's got this very short window. Ultimately, when it became 231 00:12:23,594 --> 00:12:26,114 Speaker 2: clear that this distraction wasn't going away, he wants to 232 00:12:26,114 --> 00:12:28,354 Speaker 2: clear the way for William to not have to deal 233 00:12:28,394 --> 00:12:30,954 Speaker 2: with all this kind of shit. William has been very 234 00:12:30,954 --> 00:12:33,474 Speaker 2: public about saying that he wants to change the monarchy, 235 00:12:33,554 --> 00:12:34,953 Speaker 2: that he has a different view of it, that he 236 00:12:34,994 --> 00:12:36,954 Speaker 2: wants it to be smaller. I wants it to focus 237 00:12:36,994 --> 00:12:40,834 Speaker 2: more on things that count in his mind than the 238 00:12:40,874 --> 00:12:43,674 Speaker 2: pomp and ceremony. So I think this was the King, 239 00:12:44,114 --> 00:12:45,953 Speaker 2: and I think he did it belatedly. I don't think 240 00:12:45,954 --> 00:12:48,114 Speaker 2: he don't necessarily deserves a whole lot of glory for it. 241 00:12:48,154 --> 00:12:49,514 Speaker 2: He could have done it a long time ago, but 242 00:12:49,594 --> 00:12:50,314 Speaker 2: I think it was him. 243 00:12:50,514 --> 00:12:53,794 Speaker 3: I was reminded that Queen Camilla has been a fierce 244 00:12:53,834 --> 00:12:57,194 Speaker 3: advocate against domestic violence, but also sexual assault, like that's 245 00:12:57,194 --> 00:13:00,834 Speaker 3: been where her charity worker advocacy has been focused. So 246 00:13:00,834 --> 00:13:05,194 Speaker 3: I also wondered about her role in all of this, 247 00:13:05,514 --> 00:13:07,554 Speaker 3: given that's clearly so close to her heart. 248 00:13:07,874 --> 00:13:10,434 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that what has happened is when he 249 00:13:10,554 --> 00:13:12,434 Speaker 2: was first stripped of some of his honors by the 250 00:13:12,514 --> 00:13:15,474 Speaker 2: Queen after the News Night interview, he was kind of 251 00:13:15,594 --> 00:13:18,954 Speaker 2: told go away, you don't have an official role anymore, 252 00:13:18,954 --> 00:13:21,034 Speaker 2: but you can still come to family events. So he 253 00:13:21,034 --> 00:13:22,554 Speaker 2: wasn't allowed to come out on the balcony, but he 254 00:13:22,594 --> 00:13:25,514 Speaker 2: was allowed to come to Easter and Christmas and. 255 00:13:25,474 --> 00:13:28,034 Speaker 3: The funerals, where William looked horrified. 256 00:13:28,154 --> 00:13:30,274 Speaker 2: Yeah, what that meant is that so he was at 257 00:13:30,274 --> 00:13:32,874 Speaker 2: that funeral. Now I've read a lot of reporting that 258 00:13:32,914 --> 00:13:35,554 Speaker 2: saying that appearance was so tone deaf, so titid of him, 259 00:13:35,554 --> 00:13:38,194 Speaker 2: because he looked to be like Josh. He's looked like 260 00:13:38,234 --> 00:13:41,274 Speaker 2: a man who's excited to be out right. Queen Camilla 261 00:13:41,394 --> 00:13:45,234 Speaker 2: as you say, Jesse and also Edward's wife, the Duchess 262 00:13:45,274 --> 00:13:49,714 Speaker 2: of Edinburgh. Sophie is also really involved in work about 263 00:13:49,754 --> 00:13:52,394 Speaker 2: sexual violence and protecting victims of it. She's actually just 264 00:13:52,474 --> 00:13:55,594 Speaker 2: recently been in the Democratic Republic of Congo doing some 265 00:13:55,634 --> 00:13:58,794 Speaker 2: work around this. So this is stuff that is seriously 266 00:13:58,874 --> 00:14:01,554 Speaker 2: close to some of the very senior female royals his heart, 267 00:14:01,834 --> 00:14:04,914 Speaker 2: and I think that the us among all the noise 268 00:14:04,954 --> 00:14:07,714 Speaker 2: that was coming along for them, the jus position of 269 00:14:07,754 --> 00:14:10,034 Speaker 2: them going out and doing this work and then having 270 00:14:10,074 --> 00:14:13,354 Speaker 2: to stand next to Prince Andrew as he was then 271 00:14:13,834 --> 00:14:17,794 Speaker 2: at funerals Easter, Christmas. You know, all of those events 272 00:14:17,834 --> 00:14:21,514 Speaker 2: just had become too untenable. Yet another illustration of the 273 00:14:21,594 --> 00:14:25,194 Speaker 2: hypocrisy that the British people are really getting sick of 274 00:14:25,314 --> 00:14:26,114 Speaker 2: in the royal family. 275 00:14:26,274 --> 00:14:28,754 Speaker 1: Yeah, so how damaging do you think this is? If 276 00:14:28,754 --> 00:14:30,914 Speaker 1: this is the worst royal crisis in one hundred years? 277 00:14:30,954 --> 00:14:34,274 Speaker 1: I'm thinking back to when Diana died and Queen Elizabeth 278 00:14:34,394 --> 00:14:36,394 Speaker 1: misread the room on that, and then there was the 279 00:14:36,434 --> 00:14:39,674 Speaker 1: whole scandal about the flags at Buckingham Palace not being 280 00:14:39,674 --> 00:14:43,034 Speaker 1: flown at half mast. People back then talked about whether 281 00:14:43,114 --> 00:14:45,954 Speaker 1: or not the Royal family could survive this. Do you 282 00:14:45,994 --> 00:14:48,594 Speaker 1: think that this is going to assuage the public the 283 00:14:48,634 --> 00:14:50,514 Speaker 1: fact that he's no longer a prince and a duke 284 00:14:50,634 --> 00:14:52,274 Speaker 1: or do you think that this scandal is going to 285 00:14:52,354 --> 00:14:55,114 Speaker 1: keep on going for Charles and potentially William. 286 00:14:55,354 --> 00:14:58,754 Speaker 2: The problem is is that now that Andrew isn't a prince, 287 00:14:59,314 --> 00:15:01,594 Speaker 2: there's a lot of speculation that, you know, there are 288 00:15:01,594 --> 00:15:04,754 Speaker 2: going to be more allegations, and maybe not legal allegations, 289 00:15:04,794 --> 00:15:08,834 Speaker 2: but just more and more claims of his like despicable behavior. Really, 290 00:15:08,874 --> 00:15:11,354 Speaker 2: as you said, Amelia, he has always denied that he 291 00:15:11,394 --> 00:15:15,354 Speaker 2: even met Virginia Giffrey, despite the photographic evidence that he 292 00:15:15,394 --> 00:15:18,674 Speaker 2: says was fake, and despite her claims that they not 293 00:15:18,754 --> 00:15:22,034 Speaker 2: only met, but had sex three times in three different 294 00:15:22,074 --> 00:15:25,834 Speaker 2: situations in three different countries. He's always denied it. But 295 00:15:25,914 --> 00:15:27,754 Speaker 2: still he paid her a lot of money, of his 296 00:15:27,874 --> 00:15:31,234 Speaker 2: mum's money, to stop saying that about him. But also 297 00:15:31,514 --> 00:15:34,514 Speaker 2: coming out of that biography and lots of other reports 298 00:15:34,554 --> 00:15:36,794 Speaker 2: that are bubbling around, there are lots of other things. 299 00:15:36,874 --> 00:15:40,594 Speaker 2: Did he pay for sex workers in Thailand? Has he 300 00:15:40,794 --> 00:15:43,954 Speaker 2: done all kinds of unsavory things at the behest of 301 00:15:43,994 --> 00:15:46,754 Speaker 2: his rich friends, as it were? And the thing is 302 00:15:46,754 --> 00:15:48,754 Speaker 2: is that when you're in the royal family, there's a 303 00:15:48,794 --> 00:15:52,434 Speaker 2: certain level of protection afforded to you when it comes 304 00:15:52,434 --> 00:15:54,394 Speaker 2: to the media digging around in that. So there are 305 00:15:54,434 --> 00:15:56,154 Speaker 2: lots of reports that did not reflect well on the 306 00:15:56,194 --> 00:15:59,034 Speaker 2: royal family that when this stuff started coming out about 307 00:15:59,034 --> 00:16:03,154 Speaker 2: Andrew and Epstein, some publications were told by the royal family, 308 00:16:03,194 --> 00:16:04,794 Speaker 2: if you keep going on this, you will be denied 309 00:16:04,794 --> 00:16:06,834 Speaker 2: access to the Royals, So you know, that kind of 310 00:16:06,834 --> 00:16:10,274 Speaker 2: clothes shop, that kind of we know he's on the nose, 311 00:16:10,674 --> 00:16:13,154 Speaker 2: but he's one of our own. We're closing ranks around him. 312 00:16:13,194 --> 00:16:16,154 Speaker 2: That's all gone. There is also the possibility that there 313 00:16:16,154 --> 00:16:19,114 Speaker 2: could be legal action against him in the Jiffray case. 314 00:16:19,594 --> 00:16:23,034 Speaker 2: There's possibility that he could be quizzed over the Epstein 315 00:16:23,074 --> 00:16:25,594 Speaker 2: files in a broader sense by America. So all those 316 00:16:25,634 --> 00:16:29,074 Speaker 2: things might happen. And the problem with that is that 317 00:16:29,514 --> 00:16:32,834 Speaker 2: if the stories keep coming, is casting him out of 318 00:16:32,874 --> 00:16:37,554 Speaker 2: the family at the last possible moment enough for the 319 00:16:37,634 --> 00:16:41,074 Speaker 2: king to be able to survive it. I actually do 320 00:16:41,114 --> 00:16:42,994 Speaker 2: think it's really serious for them, because I think that 321 00:16:43,034 --> 00:16:46,794 Speaker 2: Britain is in a mess at the moment politically and culturally, 322 00:16:47,354 --> 00:16:51,754 Speaker 2: and I think there is very little tolerance for hypocrisy 323 00:16:52,194 --> 00:16:54,594 Speaker 2: of the super rich. You know, It's not dissimilar to 324 00:16:54,634 --> 00:16:56,874 Speaker 2: what's kind of blowing up in the States. And I 325 00:16:56,914 --> 00:16:58,914 Speaker 2: think that there are going to be a lot of 326 00:16:58,994 --> 00:17:00,914 Speaker 2: questions about this, and I do think and I think 327 00:17:00,914 --> 00:17:02,434 Speaker 2: we're going to do a subject where we talk a 328 00:17:02,434 --> 00:17:04,634 Speaker 2: bit more about William and Kate and Harry and all 329 00:17:04,674 --> 00:17:08,154 Speaker 2: of that. But I do think that they're has never 330 00:17:08,194 --> 00:17:11,434 Speaker 2: been more pressure for the royal family to modernize, to 331 00:17:11,474 --> 00:17:14,834 Speaker 2: become much more like their Nordic friends, and like cut 332 00:17:14,874 --> 00:17:18,074 Speaker 2: the list right down, you know, start riding bikes, out 333 00:17:18,154 --> 00:17:21,273 Speaker 2: riding bikes, having to get jobs, all of those things. 334 00:17:21,594 --> 00:17:23,554 Speaker 2: And also the other pressure that isn't going to go 335 00:17:23,554 --> 00:17:26,674 Speaker 2: away for Charles is that, yes, Andrew's been banished, but 336 00:17:26,754 --> 00:17:29,033 Speaker 2: he's been banished to a really nice house in a 337 00:17:29,074 --> 00:17:32,593 Speaker 2: really nice part of Britain. And some of that's unfair 338 00:17:32,674 --> 00:17:35,154 Speaker 2: because that's the only way for him to get protection, 339 00:17:35,634 --> 00:17:38,994 Speaker 2: you know, security protection, which seems quite reasonable really, but 340 00:17:39,074 --> 00:17:41,074 Speaker 2: the King's saying, I'm paying for it all, so he's 341 00:17:41,114 --> 00:17:45,394 Speaker 2: still bankrolling his degenerate brother. So those questions aren't going 342 00:17:45,394 --> 00:17:47,474 Speaker 2: to go away. And I think this is an ongoing 343 00:17:47,514 --> 00:17:51,314 Speaker 2: crisis for them. But the spin from the palace seems 344 00:17:51,354 --> 00:17:54,194 Speaker 2: to be the King had a backbone, the King did 345 00:17:54,194 --> 00:17:57,394 Speaker 2: what his mother wasn't prepared to do. The King has 346 00:17:57,514 --> 00:17:58,354 Speaker 2: dealt with it. 347 00:17:59,634 --> 00:18:00,273 Speaker 1: In a moment. 348 00:18:00,714 --> 00:18:03,154 Speaker 3: One of the most viral articles of the year has 349 00:18:03,234 --> 00:18:06,594 Speaker 3: rubbed me the wrong way, But is a vogue theory 350 00:18:06,754 --> 00:18:15,434 Speaker 3: about embarrassing boyfriends actually just a sign of progress. Look 351 00:18:15,474 --> 00:18:19,033 Speaker 3: as the person in this room with a framed photo 352 00:18:19,154 --> 00:18:21,594 Speaker 3: of Bernie Sanders on my desk, I feel best equipped 353 00:18:21,674 --> 00:18:23,914 Speaker 3: to bring the story you might have seen over the 354 00:18:23,914 --> 00:18:28,793 Speaker 3: weekend about Billie Eilish and billionaires. Here is what the 355 00:18:28,834 --> 00:18:33,114 Speaker 3: singer songwriter said at the Innovator Awards last Wednesday night. 356 00:18:33,554 --> 00:18:35,954 Speaker 4: I would just say, like, we're going to time right 357 00:18:35,994 --> 00:18:38,354 Speaker 4: now where the world is really really bad and really 358 00:18:38,434 --> 00:18:43,154 Speaker 4: dark and people need empathy and help more than kind 359 00:18:43,194 --> 00:18:47,434 Speaker 4: of ever, especially in our country. And I'd say, if 360 00:18:47,474 --> 00:18:49,754 Speaker 4: you have money, it would be great to use it 361 00:18:49,914 --> 00:18:51,914 Speaker 4: for good things and maybe give it to some. 362 00:18:51,834 --> 00:18:53,114 Speaker 2: People that need it. 363 00:18:56,234 --> 00:19:00,114 Speaker 4: And love you all, but there's a few people in 364 00:19:00,154 --> 00:19:02,353 Speaker 4: here that have a lot more money than me. If 365 00:19:02,394 --> 00:19:07,034 Speaker 4: you're a billionaire, why are you a billionaire? No hate, 366 00:19:07,194 --> 00:19:10,513 Speaker 4: but yeah, give your money away. Shorty's love you guys, 367 00:19:10,594 --> 00:19:11,394 Speaker 4: thank you so much. 368 00:19:11,754 --> 00:19:14,674 Speaker 2: No hate, but give your money away, Shorties, I love 369 00:19:14,874 --> 00:19:16,194 Speaker 2: I love her so much. 370 00:19:16,274 --> 00:19:20,674 Speaker 3: Now some context. Shortly before walking on stage, she was 371 00:19:20,714 --> 00:19:25,554 Speaker 3: introduced by Stephen Colbert and he spoke about how Eilish 372 00:19:25,634 --> 00:19:29,074 Speaker 3: is donating eleven point five million dollars from her most 373 00:19:29,114 --> 00:19:31,474 Speaker 3: recent tour. So that's the context in which she's talking 374 00:19:31,514 --> 00:19:33,754 Speaker 3: about billionaires and donations. 375 00:19:33,834 --> 00:19:35,074 Speaker 1: What she's donating it too. 376 00:19:35,474 --> 00:19:39,154 Speaker 3: Everything climate crisis. I think there are a few kind 377 00:19:39,154 --> 00:19:41,394 Speaker 3: of social causes in there as well. They're about four 378 00:19:41,514 --> 00:19:45,714 Speaker 3: or five. The second piece of context I needed to 379 00:19:45,794 --> 00:19:50,834 Speaker 3: know was who was in attendance, right, And here's what 380 00:19:50,914 --> 00:19:54,394 Speaker 3: we know. A man named Mark Zuckerberg, who is worth 381 00:19:54,434 --> 00:19:58,114 Speaker 3: two hundred and twenty five billion dollars, was in the room. 382 00:19:58,274 --> 00:20:01,434 Speaker 3: According to People magazine, he did not clap when everyone 383 00:20:01,434 --> 00:20:04,553 Speaker 3: else clapped, not Mark. He went, no, no, no, you 384 00:20:04,594 --> 00:20:08,994 Speaker 3: don't punch down to billionaires. I really enjoy that detail. Now, 385 00:20:08,994 --> 00:20:11,914 Speaker 3: there was another billionaire in the room, which is Star 386 00:20:12,034 --> 00:20:16,314 Speaker 3: Wars creator George Lucas, but I've decided to leave him 387 00:20:16,314 --> 00:20:18,954 Speaker 3: alone because what I will say is it last year 388 00:20:19,154 --> 00:20:22,394 Speaker 3: he donated four billion dollars. He was given some Disney 389 00:20:22,394 --> 00:20:25,394 Speaker 3: contract and he took his four bill and he something 390 00:20:25,434 --> 00:20:27,593 Speaker 3: to do with education, and that is more money than 391 00:20:27,634 --> 00:20:30,634 Speaker 3: the three of us combined have ever donated. So I'm 392 00:20:30,634 --> 00:20:33,754 Speaker 3: not wagging my finger at him. Amelia. Do you think 393 00:20:33,794 --> 00:20:36,474 Speaker 3: that she was talking to anyone else because it was 394 00:20:36,514 --> 00:20:37,554 Speaker 3: a bold statement. 395 00:20:37,554 --> 00:20:39,314 Speaker 1: A few people said that she seemed a bit nervous 396 00:20:39,354 --> 00:20:40,073 Speaker 1: and she was saying it. 397 00:20:40,114 --> 00:20:40,754 Speaker 2: I didn't think so. 398 00:20:40,834 --> 00:20:43,954 Speaker 3: I think that that's kind of just her demeanor. Do 399 00:20:43,994 --> 00:20:45,234 Speaker 3: you think she was speaking to anyone else? 400 00:20:45,314 --> 00:20:48,514 Speaker 1: Look, I'm not familiar with the Innovator Awards. Are they 401 00:20:48,594 --> 00:20:51,474 Speaker 1: multiple awards given to music innovators? I guess I think 402 00:20:51,514 --> 00:20:51,874 Speaker 1: there are. 403 00:20:51,914 --> 00:20:53,834 Speaker 3: And it was at the Museum of Modern Art in 404 00:20:53,874 --> 00:20:55,474 Speaker 3: New York, so it seems pretty legit. 405 00:20:55,554 --> 00:20:57,874 Speaker 1: I don't actually know how Mark Zuckerberg goten invited, but 406 00:20:58,074 --> 00:21:01,234 Speaker 1: what I will say is that online the consensus seemed 407 00:21:01,274 --> 00:21:04,674 Speaker 1: to be that she said something great, but also that 408 00:21:05,114 --> 00:21:09,634 Speaker 1: people inevitably took this as an opportunity to pit two 409 00:21:09,754 --> 00:21:12,634 Speaker 1: women against each other rather than focus on old Mark 410 00:21:12,794 --> 00:21:16,914 Speaker 1: with his two hundred and fifty billion. People thought or 411 00:21:17,034 --> 00:21:21,234 Speaker 1: chose to believe that Billy was speaking specifically to one 412 00:21:21,314 --> 00:21:26,354 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift, who is famously a billionaire through her music. 413 00:21:26,874 --> 00:21:28,314 Speaker 2: Doesn't she give a lot of money away? 414 00:21:28,354 --> 00:21:30,994 Speaker 1: Though she does, I think what she does a lot 415 00:21:31,034 --> 00:21:34,874 Speaker 1: of is kind of like under the radar philanthropy. For instance, 416 00:21:34,874 --> 00:21:37,874 Speaker 1: she gave all the truck drivers on her tour one 417 00:21:37,954 --> 00:21:40,434 Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollar bonuses to thank them for doing such 418 00:21:40,434 --> 00:21:43,474 Speaker 1: a good job. There are countless stories of her giving 419 00:21:43,474 --> 00:21:46,314 Speaker 1: away one hundred dollar bills to people who have served 420 00:21:46,314 --> 00:21:50,154 Speaker 1: her in restaurants or at sports games. I don't think 421 00:21:50,194 --> 00:21:55,994 Speaker 1: of her as someone known for her philanthropy, large scale 422 00:21:56,114 --> 00:22:00,314 Speaker 1: giving to institutions, charities, that sort of thing. I do 423 00:22:00,354 --> 00:22:03,874 Speaker 1: think that that's probably why people immediately went to Taylor 424 00:22:04,274 --> 00:22:05,154 Speaker 1: when they heard. 425 00:22:05,034 --> 00:22:08,074 Speaker 3: That, because I think that Eilish's point is that you 426 00:22:08,114 --> 00:22:10,273 Speaker 3: should never get to billionaire status because you should be 427 00:22:10,314 --> 00:22:12,714 Speaker 3: giving it away before then. So she thinks that there 428 00:22:12,754 --> 00:22:16,394 Speaker 3: is something inherently corrupt about even the status of billionaire. 429 00:22:16,714 --> 00:22:18,714 Speaker 3: A few people pointed to Hailey Bieber, who was in 430 00:22:18,714 --> 00:22:22,634 Speaker 3: the audience, because she recently sold road her per skincare 431 00:22:22,834 --> 00:22:25,154 Speaker 3: line for one billion dollars. But then I looked, I 432 00:22:25,154 --> 00:22:27,394 Speaker 3: don't understand any of this, but she's only worth four 433 00:22:27,474 --> 00:22:29,794 Speaker 3: hundred millions, So I was like, guys, she didn't even 434 00:22:29,794 --> 00:22:31,474 Speaker 3: pocket all of that, and she's dealing. 435 00:22:31,194 --> 00:22:33,834 Speaker 1: With justin exactly a full time job. I think the 436 00:22:33,874 --> 00:22:36,354 Speaker 1: other thing about why people seized on Taylor is that 437 00:22:36,434 --> 00:22:39,954 Speaker 1: this particular album cycle, she's garnered a lot of criticism 438 00:22:39,994 --> 00:22:43,394 Speaker 1: for the many limited edition Life of a Showgirl LPs, 439 00:22:43,594 --> 00:22:46,634 Speaker 1: which are all different colors, and she sort of sold 440 00:22:46,674 --> 00:22:51,234 Speaker 1: them as limited opportunities to buy them, put countdown clocks 441 00:22:51,234 --> 00:22:53,834 Speaker 1: on her website to sort of encourage her fans to buy, 442 00:22:54,274 --> 00:22:56,874 Speaker 1: and there was some criticism that her fans kind of 443 00:22:56,914 --> 00:22:59,674 Speaker 1: feel beholden to do this to buy these things. Now 444 00:22:59,714 --> 00:23:02,594 Speaker 1: no one is compelled to buy anything, and other people 445 00:23:02,714 --> 00:23:05,714 Speaker 1: make the point in her defense that unlike other musicians 446 00:23:05,754 --> 00:23:08,714 Speaker 1: who are billionaires, for instance, Lena Gomez is a billionaire 447 00:23:08,754 --> 00:23:12,154 Speaker 1: not through her music but through rare beauty her cosmetics empire. 448 00:23:12,274 --> 00:23:14,674 Speaker 1: So people said, this is how musicians in the streaming 449 00:23:14,674 --> 00:23:18,434 Speaker 1: age have to make money, which is through these edition LPs. 450 00:23:19,034 --> 00:23:22,194 Speaker 1: But I think to Billy's point, she says, Taylor's probably 451 00:23:22,234 --> 00:23:24,834 Speaker 1: got enough money. Taylor probably doesn't need to make thirty 452 00:23:24,834 --> 00:23:26,114 Speaker 1: limited edition LPs. 453 00:23:26,634 --> 00:23:29,834 Speaker 2: I think this is about the billionaire class. I think 454 00:23:29,834 --> 00:23:32,794 Speaker 2: it's a political statement. Rich people used to give away 455 00:23:32,794 --> 00:23:36,194 Speaker 2: money quietly, but now I think, if you're not one 456 00:23:36,234 --> 00:23:39,674 Speaker 2: of the billionaire bros, you know, sitting next to Trump 457 00:23:39,714 --> 00:23:42,394 Speaker 2: and all of those things, you give it away loudly 458 00:23:42,594 --> 00:23:44,954 Speaker 2: to try and shame them. That's what I thought. Billy 459 00:23:45,034 --> 00:23:48,234 Speaker 2: was doing. Yeah, she was very much sort of because 460 00:23:48,274 --> 00:23:50,994 Speaker 2: that has become a big part of the political discourse there, 461 00:23:50,994 --> 00:23:55,314 Speaker 2: that billionaire is becoming a word synonymous with the oligarchy 462 00:23:55,514 --> 00:23:57,754 Speaker 2: and all those things. So I wonder if she was 463 00:23:57,794 --> 00:23:59,954 Speaker 2: having a dig at that more than she was her 464 00:23:59,994 --> 00:24:03,194 Speaker 2: fellow musicians. But either way, it's bold because you're going 465 00:24:03,194 --> 00:24:05,114 Speaker 2: to piss off all the people with a billion dollars 466 00:24:05,154 --> 00:24:07,114 Speaker 2: to tell them that they don't deserve those billion dollars 467 00:24:07,234 --> 00:24:09,914 Speaker 2: because the billion has liked that billion dollars. 468 00:24:10,634 --> 00:24:12,834 Speaker 3: One of the most viral stories of the year was 469 00:24:12,874 --> 00:24:16,474 Speaker 3: published last week in Vogue, and it put its finger 470 00:24:16,554 --> 00:24:20,114 Speaker 3: on a cultural phenomenon you may have noticed, and in fact, 471 00:24:20,114 --> 00:24:22,033 Speaker 3: I think we've talked about it on this show before. 472 00:24:22,794 --> 00:24:26,513 Speaker 3: Chante Joseph wrote, is having a boyfriend embarrassing? 473 00:24:26,554 --> 00:24:26,794 Speaker 1: Now? 474 00:24:27,074 --> 00:24:30,514 Speaker 3: And her response, along with the majority of the Internet 475 00:24:30,554 --> 00:24:33,834 Speaker 3: who picked this up and ran with it, was yes, 476 00:24:33,954 --> 00:24:37,634 Speaker 3: it is mortifying, which is particularly sad for Holly. She 477 00:24:37,874 --> 00:24:41,073 Speaker 3: has quite liked having the boyfriend's status for like twenty 478 00:24:41,194 --> 00:24:43,914 Speaker 3: years now, and so by the end of this segment, 479 00:24:43,954 --> 00:24:46,474 Speaker 3: I think you should probab drop it. But I'm going 480 00:24:46,514 --> 00:24:48,714 Speaker 3: to lay out Joseph's theory and then I'm going to 481 00:24:48,754 --> 00:24:51,594 Speaker 3: tell you why it makes me kind of bristle. For 482 00:24:51,634 --> 00:24:53,874 Speaker 3: so long, she says, it felt like we were living 483 00:24:54,034 --> 00:24:59,793 Speaker 3: in boyfriend land, especially online. Right, So women's online identities 484 00:24:59,954 --> 00:25:02,274 Speaker 3: centered around the lives of their partners in a way 485 00:25:02,714 --> 00:25:05,273 Speaker 3: that it never does the other way around. Men don't 486 00:25:05,514 --> 00:25:08,394 Speaker 3: do that in the same way. The article opens. If 487 00:25:08,394 --> 00:25:11,834 Speaker 3: someone so much as says my boyfriend on social media, 488 00:25:11,954 --> 00:25:15,513 Speaker 3: they're muted now, she says, posting about a boyfriend is 489 00:25:15,594 --> 00:25:18,794 Speaker 3: low key embarrassing or cringe. So you see a hand, 490 00:25:18,834 --> 00:25:21,314 Speaker 3: you might see a half face. If you see wedding photos, 491 00:25:21,394 --> 00:25:24,314 Speaker 3: you can barely see the husband's face at all. 492 00:25:24,794 --> 00:25:25,434 Speaker 1: She says. 493 00:25:25,634 --> 00:25:29,513 Speaker 3: Women want the social benefits of a partner without appearing 494 00:25:29,714 --> 00:25:35,234 Speaker 3: These are her words, culturally loserish. It is fundamentally uncool 495 00:25:35,514 --> 00:25:39,474 Speaker 3: to be a boyfriend girl. Actually, before I tell you 496 00:25:39,514 --> 00:25:41,474 Speaker 3: why this rubs me the wrong way, I want to 497 00:25:41,474 --> 00:25:44,234 Speaker 3: get a sense check. What did you guys think? Do 498 00:25:44,274 --> 00:25:46,314 Speaker 3: you reckon that there is truth to this theory? 499 00:25:46,674 --> 00:25:49,914 Speaker 2: I can't say I've noticed that. I still see plenty 500 00:25:49,914 --> 00:25:53,914 Speaker 2: of boyfriend business up there. But isn't it kind of 501 00:25:53,994 --> 00:25:58,314 Speaker 2: maybe a natural reaction to generation who have also been 502 00:25:59,194 --> 00:26:02,754 Speaker 2: shouting about their boyfriends online and then they break up, 503 00:26:02,874 --> 00:26:05,874 Speaker 2: and then they have to walk through the yea of 504 00:26:06,554 --> 00:26:10,434 Speaker 2: like the boyfriending someone online. And so now, because I 505 00:26:10,554 --> 00:26:14,634 Speaker 2: feel like my social media feeds are absolutely full of 506 00:26:15,154 --> 00:26:19,513 Speaker 2: engagement rings, weddings, the lock em down kind of vibe, 507 00:26:19,514 --> 00:26:21,834 Speaker 2: never mind the tradwives and everything. So I don't know 508 00:26:21,914 --> 00:26:25,154 Speaker 2: that I'm convinced that that's out of fashion. But maybe 509 00:26:25,194 --> 00:26:30,834 Speaker 2: it's out of fashion to shout about boyfriends rather than husband's. 510 00:26:30,674 --> 00:26:33,553 Speaker 1: I also wondered if this was a function of the 511 00:26:33,594 --> 00:26:37,354 Speaker 1: fact that influencers can sell more if they present as single. 512 00:26:37,874 --> 00:26:40,954 Speaker 1: The article quotes from some influencers who lost hundreds of 513 00:26:40,994 --> 00:26:43,554 Speaker 1: followers the minute they came out as having a boyfriend. 514 00:26:44,074 --> 00:26:45,874 Speaker 1: So I wondered if there was just sort of a 515 00:26:45,914 --> 00:26:50,194 Speaker 1: business imperative to wanting to appear a little bit mysterious, enigmatic, footloose, 516 00:26:50,234 --> 00:26:51,034 Speaker 1: fancy free. 517 00:26:51,234 --> 00:26:53,434 Speaker 3: That's true, and I suppose if the people following you 518 00:26:53,474 --> 00:26:55,634 Speaker 3: were identifying with your life stage and you move into 519 00:26:55,674 --> 00:26:58,194 Speaker 3: another one, then they can feel a bit betrayed. That 520 00:26:58,274 --> 00:27:02,234 Speaker 3: happens with lots of different transitions. But I wondered if 521 00:27:02,274 --> 00:27:06,194 Speaker 3: the subtext of this was our men a bit embarrassing 522 00:27:06,274 --> 00:27:09,834 Speaker 3: now and The reason I say that is because there 523 00:27:09,834 --> 00:27:13,434 Speaker 3: are a few quotes in there that I felt were 524 00:27:14,274 --> 00:27:15,513 Speaker 3: slightly problematic. 525 00:27:15,594 --> 00:27:18,874 Speaker 1: Do you think that Katy Perry was so mortified this 526 00:27:18,954 --> 00:27:21,714 Speaker 1: weekend when she saw that Justin dressed up as the shark? 527 00:27:21,994 --> 00:27:22,954 Speaker 1: She was a creak? 528 00:27:23,074 --> 00:27:24,354 Speaker 3: Again, this is as bad. 529 00:27:24,154 --> 00:27:25,594 Speaker 1: As uncool at the moment. 530 00:27:25,834 --> 00:27:27,394 Speaker 3: Yeah, this is as bad as when I went to 531 00:27:27,434 --> 00:27:30,394 Speaker 3: space Justin. I'm trying to get some cool points. So 532 00:27:30,514 --> 00:27:35,394 Speaker 3: this writer named Zoe Sammouzi said that women want the 533 00:27:35,394 --> 00:27:39,634 Speaker 3: prize and celebration of partnership, but understand the norminess of it. 534 00:27:39,954 --> 00:27:42,234 Speaker 3: And the one thing that didn't seem acknowledged in any 535 00:27:42,234 --> 00:27:45,354 Speaker 3: of this was that some women also like their partners. 536 00:27:45,594 --> 00:27:48,234 Speaker 3: That's the other reason why women have boyfriends is not 537 00:27:48,314 --> 00:27:52,434 Speaker 3: just because of cultural cachet or Instagram followers or. 538 00:27:52,754 --> 00:27:53,554 Speaker 1: Anything like that. 539 00:27:53,674 --> 00:27:57,914 Speaker 3: It's because it might be a foundational relationship in their lives. 540 00:27:57,994 --> 00:28:00,914 Speaker 3: And there was a comment that they referred to which 541 00:28:00,954 --> 00:28:06,514 Speaker 3: was basically relationships and now republican coded it's now very republican. 542 00:28:07,114 --> 00:28:10,314 Speaker 3: It's be a common sexual relationship. And I thought, if 543 00:28:10,354 --> 00:28:17,273 Speaker 3: you start to ostracize or mock a certain choice, if 544 00:28:17,314 --> 00:28:21,354 Speaker 3: you want to call it that, then do you alienate 545 00:28:21,354 --> 00:28:25,194 Speaker 3: a group of people who then feel radicalized. Right, So 546 00:28:25,234 --> 00:28:28,714 Speaker 3: we're seeing this happen with men anyway, during adolescents, where 547 00:28:28,714 --> 00:28:34,394 Speaker 3: it's just like casually denigrating, casually mocking men is part 548 00:28:34,474 --> 00:28:36,434 Speaker 3: of I'm actually not going to say culture. I'm going 549 00:28:36,474 --> 00:28:40,834 Speaker 3: to say internet culture and progressive internet circles. I just 550 00:28:41,034 --> 00:28:44,634 Speaker 3: worry that the result of that is going to be dangerous. 551 00:28:45,074 --> 00:28:47,634 Speaker 2: Jesse there's also a very large part of Internet culture 552 00:28:47,674 --> 00:28:51,634 Speaker 2: that's about denigrating women. Yes, an enormous amount of it. 553 00:28:51,914 --> 00:28:53,794 Speaker 2: And I don't say that in any way of making 554 00:28:53,834 --> 00:28:56,394 Speaker 2: it seem like so it's okay, then what about is them? 555 00:28:56,914 --> 00:28:59,954 Speaker 2: I just mean I don't think that all the tidy 556 00:29:00,034 --> 00:29:02,914 Speaker 2: violins need to be directed in that direction. 557 00:29:03,394 --> 00:29:06,074 Speaker 1: No, But I think it's a great point, Jessie, because 558 00:29:06,154 --> 00:29:09,714 Speaker 1: think about the fact that on the right, particularly in 559 00:29:09,754 --> 00:29:14,714 Speaker 1: the US, we are seeing this embrace of heterosexual relationships 560 00:29:14,914 --> 00:29:18,674 Speaker 1: and the idea of family as the bedrock of everything. 561 00:29:18,794 --> 00:29:22,514 Speaker 1: And we hear these reports of young women attending conferences 562 00:29:22,594 --> 00:29:25,514 Speaker 1: where they're learning how to find a husband and have 563 00:29:25,674 --> 00:29:30,074 Speaker 1: kids early and make sure that they prioritize family over Korea. 564 00:29:30,674 --> 00:29:33,594 Speaker 1: And so I think you're right to be concerned that 565 00:29:33,754 --> 00:29:37,994 Speaker 1: if you are a young straight woman and you see 566 00:29:38,034 --> 00:29:41,714 Speaker 1: these two very distinct paths of either having a boyfriend 567 00:29:41,754 --> 00:29:44,754 Speaker 1: is embarrassing or by all means have a boyfriend, why 568 00:29:44,754 --> 00:29:46,714 Speaker 1: don't you have children with him? Why don't you have 569 00:29:46,794 --> 00:29:49,354 Speaker 1: more children with him? It might push you in a 570 00:29:49,354 --> 00:29:51,154 Speaker 1: bit of an extreme direction. 571 00:29:50,954 --> 00:29:56,394 Speaker 3: Yeah, or feel mocked or shamed by certain portions of 572 00:29:56,434 --> 00:29:58,954 Speaker 3: a political group. I say that because, Holly, you are 573 00:29:59,034 --> 00:30:04,274 Speaker 3: absolutely spot on. We live in a culture that rewards heterosexuality. 574 00:30:04,394 --> 00:30:08,954 Speaker 3: It just does, even online, absolutely does. But there was 575 00:30:09,114 --> 00:30:14,154 Speaker 3: something in the tone of this article that made me think, 576 00:30:14,194 --> 00:30:18,474 Speaker 3: if you start to mock what some people want, or 577 00:30:18,514 --> 00:30:21,874 Speaker 3: you start to make them feel shame about that, then 578 00:30:22,314 --> 00:30:25,434 Speaker 3: that can be a dangerous road to go down. And 579 00:30:25,514 --> 00:30:28,954 Speaker 3: I was also thinking. I read this alongside listening to 580 00:30:29,114 --> 00:30:31,674 Speaker 3: an episode of This Is Why We Fight over the weekend, 581 00:30:31,954 --> 00:30:34,194 Speaker 3: and in the first few seconds of that episode, they 582 00:30:34,274 --> 00:30:36,194 Speaker 3: have a clip of one of the it's a heterosexual 583 00:30:36,194 --> 00:30:38,674 Speaker 3: couple and they're, you know, dealing with their issues. The 584 00:30:38,794 --> 00:30:41,634 Speaker 3: man in the couple says, I still make silly decisions. 585 00:30:41,714 --> 00:30:46,554 Speaker 3: I'm still a male, And I thought, firstly, you couldn't 586 00:30:46,594 --> 00:30:48,354 Speaker 3: say I still make silly decisions. 587 00:30:48,594 --> 00:30:49,394 Speaker 1: I'm still a woman. 588 00:30:49,634 --> 00:30:51,874 Speaker 3: I think that if someone did that, you'd go, hang on, 589 00:30:52,354 --> 00:30:53,354 Speaker 3: don't talk about yourself like. 590 00:30:53,314 --> 00:30:55,874 Speaker 1: That, because you can't say girl math. You can't say 591 00:30:55,874 --> 00:30:56,354 Speaker 1: girl math. 592 00:30:56,554 --> 00:30:58,514 Speaker 2: Yeah you can. That's true, that's true. 593 00:30:58,674 --> 00:31:00,394 Speaker 1: But this wasn't a punchline. 594 00:31:00,554 --> 00:31:04,234 Speaker 3: I just thought that the comfort with which we denigrate maleness, 595 00:31:04,994 --> 00:31:06,674 Speaker 3: we roll our eyes at men and we accept that 596 00:31:06,714 --> 00:31:10,434 Speaker 3: they useless and embarrassing. To date, does it not all 597 00:31:10,514 --> 00:31:13,834 Speaker 3: become a bit self fulfilling? Like, does it not become 598 00:31:14,034 --> 00:31:14,914 Speaker 3: just men going? 599 00:31:15,274 --> 00:31:15,754 Speaker 2: All right? 600 00:31:15,834 --> 00:31:17,394 Speaker 1: So we're kind of the cultural joke. 601 00:31:18,034 --> 00:31:21,114 Speaker 2: Obviously there's some truth to that, but I still feel 602 00:31:21,114 --> 00:31:26,794 Speaker 2: like the dominant culture is overwhelmingly pushing women to settle 603 00:31:26,834 --> 00:31:30,714 Speaker 2: down early panic about the biological clocks plenty, you know, 604 00:31:30,874 --> 00:31:32,874 Speaker 2: put a ring on it. I think that the dominant 605 00:31:32,874 --> 00:31:35,514 Speaker 2: culture is very much doing that. And I mean he 606 00:31:35,554 --> 00:31:37,194 Speaker 2: has already said this, but you know, the rise of 607 00:31:37,194 --> 00:31:39,314 Speaker 2: the traadwives and the soft girls and all that stuff. 608 00:31:39,354 --> 00:31:41,474 Speaker 2: I mean, I don't want to politicize everything because it's so, 609 00:31:42,314 --> 00:31:45,274 Speaker 2: as you say, Jesse, like, people's actual personal lives and 610 00:31:45,314 --> 00:31:47,274 Speaker 2: whether they like someone or not has nothing to do 611 00:31:47,354 --> 00:31:51,594 Speaker 2: with the political temperature. I still feel like the overarching 612 00:31:51,674 --> 00:31:55,114 Speaker 2: culture gives the hardest time to single people, and I 613 00:31:55,154 --> 00:31:57,674 Speaker 2: think that the reason that maybe you know, there was 614 00:31:57,714 --> 00:31:59,794 Speaker 2: a line in there that you read out that was 615 00:31:59,874 --> 00:32:03,714 Speaker 2: kind of like, young women want the cachet of singleness 616 00:32:03,874 --> 00:32:06,874 Speaker 2: even when they've moved out of that stage. I think 617 00:32:06,914 --> 00:32:09,914 Speaker 2: the only reason there's cachet there is because it's still 618 00:32:09,994 --> 00:32:12,474 Speaker 2: seen as a bit outsider ish, you know, it's still 619 00:32:12,514 --> 00:32:16,194 Speaker 2: seen as a bit radical. It's still seen as you know, well, 620 00:32:16,314 --> 00:32:18,594 Speaker 2: society thinks I should find someone because I won't be 621 00:32:18,594 --> 00:32:20,874 Speaker 2: happy without them, But maybe I'm doing fine on my own. 622 00:32:21,074 --> 00:32:23,874 Speaker 2: So I think that if there's some cachet to that, 623 00:32:24,274 --> 00:32:27,234 Speaker 2: I think that's why. It's because you're bucking a trend. 624 00:32:28,194 --> 00:32:30,514 Speaker 2: I think it's interesting also what you say about how 625 00:32:30,514 --> 00:32:33,154 Speaker 2: we've come comfortable with mocking men, because I think there's 626 00:32:33,194 --> 00:32:35,834 Speaker 2: always been a certain part of female power that's about that. 627 00:32:35,914 --> 00:32:37,914 Speaker 2: When I used to edit Women's Day, there was like 628 00:32:38,274 --> 00:32:40,394 Speaker 2: a whole column in there in the actual magazine called 629 00:32:40,474 --> 00:32:43,714 Speaker 2: mea Male, and it was just women sharing stories of 630 00:32:43,754 --> 00:32:47,474 Speaker 2: embarrassing shit that domb husbands had done that were like, yeah, 631 00:32:47,994 --> 00:32:51,794 Speaker 2: just completely accepted that your mm, your mea male would 632 00:32:51,874 --> 00:32:54,714 Speaker 2: definitely put the kettle on without putting enough water in it, 633 00:32:54,834 --> 00:32:56,874 Speaker 2: or you know, just whatever silly thing like. I think 634 00:32:56,914 --> 00:32:59,114 Speaker 2: that's always been a part of female discourse. 635 00:32:59,594 --> 00:32:59,954 Speaker 4: I don't know. 636 00:32:59,994 --> 00:33:01,954 Speaker 2: I mean, I think your point is interesting, but I 637 00:33:02,074 --> 00:33:04,954 Speaker 2: don't buy that we are living in a culture that 638 00:33:04,994 --> 00:33:07,074 Speaker 2: has let go of the idea of coupledom. I think, 639 00:33:07,194 --> 00:33:08,954 Speaker 2: if anything, the opposite. 640 00:33:09,114 --> 00:33:11,914 Speaker 3: I mean, I think I'm uncomfortable with a few things. 641 00:33:11,994 --> 00:33:15,434 Speaker 3: The first is that sexuality is at all political. I 642 00:33:15,434 --> 00:33:18,314 Speaker 3: think that whether you are attracted to men or women 643 00:33:18,434 --> 00:33:20,954 Speaker 3: or both or whatever, I don't think that that says 644 00:33:20,994 --> 00:33:23,314 Speaker 3: anything about you politically. And I kind of thought that 645 00:33:23,394 --> 00:33:27,554 Speaker 3: we'd moved away from that a little bit maybe. 646 00:33:27,594 --> 00:33:28,674 Speaker 1: And I also think that. 647 00:33:28,594 --> 00:33:33,114 Speaker 3: The language of loser, dorm or embarrassing or cringe just 648 00:33:33,154 --> 00:33:36,394 Speaker 3: feels very high school to me, And I get my backup. 649 00:33:36,154 --> 00:33:38,714 Speaker 2: I agree. But also we talked about this with em 650 00:33:38,714 --> 00:33:41,034 Speaker 2: a little bit, Like, you know, there's been a big 651 00:33:41,034 --> 00:33:43,034 Speaker 2: move in these kind of pieces that are also like 652 00:33:43,034 --> 00:33:45,954 Speaker 2: a heterosexual relationships okay and all that kind of stuff. 653 00:33:46,234 --> 00:33:48,754 Speaker 2: That really what they are is giving a voice to 654 00:33:48,794 --> 00:33:50,634 Speaker 2: a group of women who are dealing with men in 655 00:33:50,634 --> 00:33:53,434 Speaker 2: an online dating age ye feeling like they are being 656 00:33:53,514 --> 00:33:57,874 Speaker 2: treated very often in a very dismissive, commodified way, and 657 00:33:57,914 --> 00:34:00,434 Speaker 2: to tell them to shush because we can't make the 658 00:34:00,474 --> 00:34:02,914 Speaker 2: men feel bad is also not good, you know what 659 00:34:02,994 --> 00:34:05,154 Speaker 2: I mean. So I think they're allowed to say it's 660 00:34:05,194 --> 00:34:08,074 Speaker 2: tough out there, like it's tough out there and dating 661 00:34:08,114 --> 00:34:10,074 Speaker 2: guys is hard when they've got all the options in 662 00:34:10,074 --> 00:34:11,754 Speaker 2: the world in their pockets. I think they're allowed to 663 00:34:11,834 --> 00:34:13,234 Speaker 2: say that. I'm with you on that. 664 00:34:13,354 --> 00:34:16,314 Speaker 3: And I must say I've actually found the trend on 665 00:34:16,394 --> 00:34:20,554 Speaker 3: TikTok funny of single women being like, apparently it's embarrassing 666 00:34:20,554 --> 00:34:22,074 Speaker 3: to be in a relationship and they're just doing funny 667 00:34:22,074 --> 00:34:24,034 Speaker 3: things or whatever, And I'm like, yeah, I totally get that. 668 00:34:24,394 --> 00:34:27,154 Speaker 3: I think that that's transgressive in a lot of ways. 669 00:34:27,434 --> 00:34:30,073 Speaker 3: But this accepting that every man is a lost cause 670 00:34:30,114 --> 00:34:32,234 Speaker 3: and spending time with one is embarrassing. 671 00:34:32,314 --> 00:34:35,274 Speaker 1: I just I don't like it. I was wondering why 672 00:34:35,314 --> 00:34:37,794 Speaker 1: this article really struck a chord, Because it did. I 673 00:34:37,834 --> 00:34:40,314 Speaker 1: had a number of brute chats which pined with it, 674 00:34:40,394 --> 00:34:44,074 Speaker 1: and I was wondering why people found something resonant in it. 675 00:34:44,074 --> 00:34:47,674 Speaker 1: It's not a long article, it's not saying anything particularly revolutionary, 676 00:34:47,714 --> 00:34:51,554 Speaker 1: but it did seem to tap into something in the zeitgeist, 677 00:34:51,634 --> 00:34:53,913 Speaker 1: and I was wondering if it's because it feels like 678 00:34:54,034 --> 00:34:57,714 Speaker 1: a welcome corrective. Yea. And by that I mean when 679 00:34:57,794 --> 00:35:02,634 Speaker 1: I was in my twenties, which was not that long ago. 680 00:35:02,714 --> 00:35:04,634 Speaker 1: But to give you a sense, I am going to 681 00:35:04,714 --> 00:35:09,114 Speaker 1: my high school twenty fifth reunion this week. And when 682 00:35:09,154 --> 00:35:13,354 Speaker 1: I was growing up walking seven miles to school through 683 00:35:13,394 --> 00:35:18,994 Speaker 1: the snow with I lived in Sydney, Sydney, this was 684 00:35:19,034 --> 00:35:21,873 Speaker 1: not a thought that was even out there. A. The 685 00:35:21,954 --> 00:35:26,554 Speaker 1: default was heterosexuality, and B there was very much a 686 00:35:26,634 --> 00:35:30,994 Speaker 1: pressure that was pervasive from an early age that you 687 00:35:31,194 --> 00:35:35,234 Speaker 1: needed male attention to validate your existence. You just did. 688 00:35:35,874 --> 00:35:38,554 Speaker 1: And if you didn't have a boyfriend in high school 689 00:35:39,114 --> 00:35:43,274 Speaker 1: hypothetically of course I had many, I did not. If 690 00:35:43,314 --> 00:35:45,034 Speaker 1: you didn't have a boyfriend in high school, if you 691 00:35:45,034 --> 00:35:47,434 Speaker 1: didn't have a boyfriend in your twenties, there was something 692 00:35:47,514 --> 00:35:50,873 Speaker 1: wrong with you. Yeah. And I'm embarrassed to say that 693 00:35:50,914 --> 00:35:54,794 Speaker 1: out loud because it's ridiculous. But that's what the elder 694 00:35:54,874 --> 00:35:58,393 Speaker 1: millennials grew up with. And so I think that's why 695 00:35:58,434 --> 00:36:01,034 Speaker 1: it hit a chord with us because we were sharing 696 00:36:01,034 --> 00:36:03,154 Speaker 1: it because we were like, we wish that we had 697 00:36:03,194 --> 00:36:06,754 Speaker 1: this article when we were twenty two to tell us 698 00:36:06,754 --> 00:36:08,074 Speaker 1: that we'd don't need it. 699 00:36:08,474 --> 00:36:11,074 Speaker 3: There's the antithesis to the plot of sex and the City, 700 00:36:12,354 --> 00:36:13,634 Speaker 3: all the culture we consumed. 701 00:36:13,954 --> 00:36:17,394 Speaker 2: I hate to report from the front lines of high schoolness, 702 00:36:17,434 --> 00:36:20,873 Speaker 2: but I think it's quite like that's still Amelia. I 703 00:36:20,914 --> 00:36:23,794 Speaker 2: think there is still a lot of discussion about who's 704 00:36:23,794 --> 00:36:26,114 Speaker 2: got a boyfriend, who's taking someone to prom like I 705 00:36:26,154 --> 00:36:28,674 Speaker 2: don't know. I don't think it shifted as much as 706 00:36:28,794 --> 00:36:32,034 Speaker 2: some of this online discourse suggests that it has. I 707 00:36:32,074 --> 00:36:34,714 Speaker 2: wish that it had, but I'm not convinced. 708 00:36:35,154 --> 00:36:36,754 Speaker 1: Are you going to keep calling Brent your boyfriend? 709 00:36:36,834 --> 00:36:38,594 Speaker 2: I think I'm going to have to write a think 710 00:36:38,674 --> 00:36:41,314 Speaker 2: peace to try and go viral in defensive elderly boyfriend. 711 00:36:42,634 --> 00:36:49,594 Speaker 2: I thought I was cool because I had a boyfriend. 712 00:36:49,794 --> 00:36:52,634 Speaker 2: Now this article has turned that on its head. It 713 00:36:52,714 --> 00:36:55,514 Speaker 2: could be married by the end of the week after 714 00:36:55,554 --> 00:36:59,154 Speaker 2: the break. The celebrity breasts said to confuse us, and 715 00:36:59,194 --> 00:36:59,794 Speaker 2: they're working. 716 00:37:01,034 --> 00:37:04,274 Speaker 3: Every Tuesday and Thursday, we drop new segments of Mummy 717 00:37:04,394 --> 00:37:07,873 Speaker 3: out Loud just for Mummy A subscribers follow the link 718 00:37:07,874 --> 00:37:09,953 Speaker 3: in the show notes to get your daily Joseph out 719 00:37:09,994 --> 00:37:13,634 Speaker 3: Loud and a big thank you to all our current subscribers. 720 00:37:19,074 --> 00:37:22,434 Speaker 2: They are the breasts that stopped a nation's news cycle 721 00:37:22,514 --> 00:37:25,993 Speaker 2: last Thursday. Right up until that prince got shoved, all 722 00:37:26,034 --> 00:37:29,914 Speaker 2: anyone was talking about, it seemed, was Sydney Sweeney's breasts. 723 00:37:30,314 --> 00:37:32,794 Speaker 2: This obviously is an audio medium unless you're watching us 724 00:37:32,794 --> 00:37:35,234 Speaker 2: on YouTube and if you are high, but we will 725 00:37:35,234 --> 00:37:37,114 Speaker 2: put a picture of the dress we're about to talk 726 00:37:37,154 --> 00:37:38,714 Speaker 2: to you on Instagram so you can play along at 727 00:37:38,714 --> 00:37:41,433 Speaker 2: home if you haven't seen them for any reason. At 728 00:37:41,434 --> 00:37:44,154 Speaker 2: an event for Variety Magazine called and this is just 729 00:37:44,554 --> 00:37:51,873 Speaker 2: glorious the Power of Women, one Sydney Sweeney hijacked us 730 00:37:51,874 --> 00:37:54,594 Speaker 2: all with her breasts, which is one bold way of 731 00:37:54,634 --> 00:37:57,954 Speaker 2: interpreting the theme. She was being honored at this event 732 00:37:57,994 --> 00:38:01,834 Speaker 2: alongside Kate Hudson, Wonder Sykes, Nicole Scherzinger, Jamie Lee Kurtz. 733 00:38:01,874 --> 00:38:05,754 Speaker 2: That is a diverse group. Anyway, we thought we'd seen 734 00:38:05,794 --> 00:38:08,874 Speaker 2: every version of the naked dress, right, but they've evolved again. 735 00:38:09,314 --> 00:38:12,194 Speaker 2: She was wearing a textured chain mail dress by a 736 00:38:12,234 --> 00:38:17,154 Speaker 2: designer called Christian. That's interesting to Cowan. It was completely 737 00:38:17,274 --> 00:38:19,913 Speaker 2: see through and I don't want to object to fire 738 00:38:19,954 --> 00:38:21,913 Speaker 2: woman who sells her own bath water, but I have 739 00:38:22,034 --> 00:38:25,194 Speaker 2: not stopped looking at them since, just so that Amelia 740 00:38:25,194 --> 00:38:28,394 Speaker 2: gets her fashion note here it was a crystal mesh 741 00:38:28,914 --> 00:38:33,354 Speaker 2: which was manipulated onto a steel boned corset to create 742 00:38:33,434 --> 00:38:36,913 Speaker 2: a sculptural form of a classic hourglass waste. But what 743 00:38:36,994 --> 00:38:41,594 Speaker 2: it actually gave you was Sydney Swedey's magnificent breasts on 744 00:38:41,674 --> 00:38:43,074 Speaker 2: a platter, don't you think? 745 00:38:43,194 --> 00:38:43,594 Speaker 3: Yeah? 746 00:38:43,714 --> 00:38:45,194 Speaker 2: First of all, what did you to think of it? 747 00:38:45,514 --> 00:38:48,194 Speaker 1: I've been on a journey. I've been on a journey 748 00:38:48,194 --> 00:38:48,794 Speaker 1: with the breasts. 749 00:38:49,514 --> 00:38:56,314 Speaker 3: I thought that big breasted women, we've always been taught 750 00:38:56,434 --> 00:39:00,794 Speaker 3: that your job is to have them in harnesses, to 751 00:39:00,874 --> 00:39:05,354 Speaker 3: have them locked down, strapped the belts, strapped everything, as 752 00:39:05,394 --> 00:39:09,234 Speaker 3: many straps as possible, pin them down, tamed. You can 753 00:39:09,274 --> 00:39:13,114 Speaker 3: have them out, but you've got to have them constrained. 754 00:39:13,194 --> 00:39:13,314 Speaker 5: Right. 755 00:39:13,354 --> 00:39:15,194 Speaker 3: The only people who are allowed to do the naked 756 00:39:15,274 --> 00:39:18,234 Speaker 3: dress look are women who are in a cup, right, 757 00:39:18,274 --> 00:39:20,834 Speaker 3: and they get to have their beautiful backs out and 758 00:39:21,434 --> 00:39:24,954 Speaker 3: their boobies look incredible. But I thought it was against 759 00:39:25,034 --> 00:39:28,594 Speaker 3: the rules for big arrested women to do this, and 760 00:39:28,634 --> 00:39:31,794 Speaker 3: so I became low key obsessed. And what I as 761 00:39:31,834 --> 00:39:33,634 Speaker 3: soon as I saw the image, I said, no, I don't. 762 00:39:33,434 --> 00:39:35,074 Speaker 1: Need to look at the image. I need to look 763 00:39:35,074 --> 00:39:36,554 Speaker 1: at the video because. 764 00:39:36,274 --> 00:39:38,674 Speaker 3: I need to see if they move, because that's what 765 00:39:38,714 --> 00:39:41,834 Speaker 3: I thought, is that Sydney Sweeney's breasts are as far 766 00:39:41,914 --> 00:39:45,274 Speaker 3: as I know, real, and I want to see how 767 00:39:45,274 --> 00:39:45,594 Speaker 3: they move. 768 00:39:45,634 --> 00:39:47,834 Speaker 1: And so what's the answer. They moved. 769 00:39:48,314 --> 00:39:51,473 Speaker 3: They moved, and she moved very very comfortably, which I liked. 770 00:39:51,794 --> 00:39:54,514 Speaker 3: There were accusations that she was shaking her chest and 771 00:39:54,554 --> 00:39:56,914 Speaker 3: I was like, no, no, no, that's just how boobs 772 00:39:56,954 --> 00:40:00,634 Speaker 3: move along with a woman's body. She was like moving 773 00:40:00,674 --> 00:40:03,754 Speaker 3: her hands and they were just moving as they would 774 00:40:03,914 --> 00:40:06,714 Speaker 3: and they were sitting as they would when you were 775 00:40:06,714 --> 00:40:09,114 Speaker 3: in your twin and you've never had children or breastfed 776 00:40:09,314 --> 00:40:09,993 Speaker 3: all the rest of it. 777 00:40:10,594 --> 00:40:11,754 Speaker 1: I kinda loved it. 778 00:40:11,794 --> 00:40:14,154 Speaker 3: I mean, light a candle for Sydney Sweeney and how 779 00:40:14,194 --> 00:40:16,074 Speaker 3: difficult it is to have a body like that. But 780 00:40:16,834 --> 00:40:21,794 Speaker 3: I thought it was really cool, and I was mesmerized watching. 781 00:40:21,474 --> 00:40:22,754 Speaker 1: The video and the naked dress. 782 00:40:22,794 --> 00:40:26,073 Speaker 3: It does seem like that was the line it drew, 783 00:40:26,154 --> 00:40:28,074 Speaker 3: is that we're not looking at nipples and we're not 784 00:40:28,114 --> 00:40:30,913 Speaker 3: looking at boobs at shape. But I quite liked that 785 00:40:30,994 --> 00:40:34,234 Speaker 3: she transformed that. Amelia, what did you think I think. 786 00:40:34,194 --> 00:40:38,194 Speaker 1: Every now and then you see someone wearing something that 787 00:40:38,594 --> 00:40:41,953 Speaker 1: transfixes you because it looks so different from everyone and 788 00:40:41,994 --> 00:40:44,873 Speaker 1: everything else, and it's a sign that the culture is 789 00:40:44,914 --> 00:40:48,794 Speaker 1: shifting and that fashion is shifting. I remember feeling that 790 00:40:48,834 --> 00:40:51,993 Speaker 1: way the first time I saw a skinny leg jean 791 00:40:52,474 --> 00:40:56,073 Speaker 1: out in the wild, and I remember it when again 792 00:40:56,114 --> 00:40:58,194 Speaker 1: the jeans got wide again, I was like, wait, but 793 00:40:58,354 --> 00:41:00,913 Speaker 1: that jean's wide, and you just have to stare at 794 00:41:00,954 --> 00:41:03,514 Speaker 1: it until it starts to make sense for you visually. 795 00:41:04,234 --> 00:41:07,714 Speaker 1: And that's how I felt about this. I wondered, maybe 796 00:41:07,754 --> 00:41:12,074 Speaker 1: this means that we're moving towards a braless future, because 797 00:41:13,274 --> 00:41:16,714 Speaker 1: she looked great. I think that's pretty much indisputable. But 798 00:41:16,954 --> 00:41:22,034 Speaker 1: b bras have such an interesting charged political history in 799 00:41:22,074 --> 00:41:25,154 Speaker 1: the sense that they used to be coded as something 800 00:41:25,674 --> 00:41:29,074 Speaker 1: that feminists wanted to burn, and there was this idea 801 00:41:29,314 --> 00:41:32,114 Speaker 1: of feminists burning bras as a sign of women's liberation. 802 00:41:32,274 --> 00:41:35,434 Speaker 1: They were a sign of oppression. But then I felt 803 00:41:35,474 --> 00:41:38,594 Speaker 1: like over the ensuing years since the sixties when that happened, 804 00:41:39,234 --> 00:41:41,913 Speaker 1: women came to accept that bras were a thing that 805 00:41:42,034 --> 00:41:45,474 Speaker 1: made your life more comfortable, particularly if you are well endowed, 806 00:41:45,834 --> 00:41:49,873 Speaker 1: shall we say, bras making you feel more comfortable. It's 807 00:41:49,914 --> 00:41:53,034 Speaker 1: actually kind of uncomfortable sometimes when you have large breasts 808 00:41:53,114 --> 00:41:55,914 Speaker 1: to not wear a bra. But it got me thinking 809 00:41:55,914 --> 00:41:58,754 Speaker 1: about maybe that's a tool of the patriarchy. What are 810 00:41:58,794 --> 00:42:01,194 Speaker 1: we wearing bras for? Who are we wearing bras for? 811 00:42:01,314 --> 00:42:03,634 Speaker 1: And the interesting thing is that Sidney Sweeney was in 812 00:42:03,674 --> 00:42:08,714 Speaker 1: the news earlier this year for her controversial American Eagle ads, 813 00:42:08,874 --> 00:42:11,834 Speaker 1: which were embraced by the right. But the interesting thing 814 00:42:11,954 --> 00:42:15,714 Speaker 1: is the right hates this look on her, and Megan Kelly, 815 00:42:15,794 --> 00:42:18,474 Speaker 1: the x Fox News host, made a u turn on 816 00:42:18,554 --> 00:42:20,674 Speaker 1: her support for Sidney Sweeney. She was all about her 817 00:42:20,674 --> 00:42:22,993 Speaker 1: when she was in the American Eagle ads, but then 818 00:42:23,114 --> 00:42:25,874 Speaker 1: over the weekend she said she disapproved of the dress 819 00:42:25,914 --> 00:42:28,674 Speaker 1: because it was see through and that it took away 820 00:42:28,714 --> 00:42:31,593 Speaker 1: the thing that is sexiest, which is mystery in a woman. 821 00:42:32,194 --> 00:42:34,794 Speaker 1: So now I'm very confused. What should I be doing 822 00:42:34,834 --> 00:42:38,194 Speaker 1: bras wise politically? Holly tell me, I think. 823 00:42:38,074 --> 00:42:40,993 Speaker 2: Sidney Sweeney is speaking with her breasts. I think that's 824 00:42:40,994 --> 00:42:44,834 Speaker 2: what she's doing, right, because we just we're talking about 825 00:42:44,834 --> 00:42:47,433 Speaker 2: how everything's political. You can't really escape it. Having a 826 00:42:47,434 --> 00:42:50,913 Speaker 2: boyfriend is political, you know, And Sidney Sweeney, as you've 827 00:42:50,954 --> 00:42:56,714 Speaker 2: expressed has been definitely pigeonholed as being maga, and then 828 00:42:56,874 --> 00:42:59,913 Speaker 2: she's come out nearly naked and really pissed off a 829 00:42:59,994 --> 00:43:03,033 Speaker 2: large part of Maga, which is the Christian right by 830 00:43:03,114 --> 00:43:06,114 Speaker 2: being too sexy, and you know she's not a married 831 00:43:06,154 --> 00:43:08,994 Speaker 2: woman and what business so she got being sexy. And 832 00:43:09,114 --> 00:43:11,473 Speaker 2: I kind of feel like we live in a world 833 00:43:11,474 --> 00:43:14,674 Speaker 2: where celebrities can't say anything interesting anymore because we live 834 00:43:14,674 --> 00:43:17,834 Speaker 2: in such a divided culture where if you want people 835 00:43:17,874 --> 00:43:20,594 Speaker 2: to go and see your movies, you need to appeal 836 00:43:20,634 --> 00:43:23,594 Speaker 2: to everybody, otherwise you cut off half the people. They're like, 837 00:43:23,634 --> 00:43:25,674 Speaker 2: I'm not going to see Sydney Sweeney and anything. She's 838 00:43:25,674 --> 00:43:27,873 Speaker 2: a trumpist, and that would mean I was supporting them. 839 00:43:28,634 --> 00:43:32,354 Speaker 2: She never says that, but she can speak with her boobs, 840 00:43:32,474 --> 00:43:36,274 Speaker 2: particularly when you've got boobs as skilled as highly skilled. 841 00:43:36,714 --> 00:43:39,994 Speaker 3: They're great communicators, as are that. 842 00:43:40,194 --> 00:43:43,714 Speaker 2: I feel like she's sort of saying, don't fence me in, 843 00:43:43,834 --> 00:43:46,954 Speaker 2: don't fence my boobs in with a bra, and don't 844 00:43:47,074 --> 00:43:50,154 Speaker 2: fence me in as the conservative pin up that you've 845 00:43:50,194 --> 00:43:52,634 Speaker 2: got me pegged as is their legs in that theory? 846 00:43:52,794 --> 00:43:54,593 Speaker 2: Is there boobs in that theory? Yeah? 847 00:43:54,754 --> 00:43:56,754 Speaker 3: I think You're right, because she would have known that 848 00:43:56,794 --> 00:44:00,354 Speaker 3: this would piss off the Christian right, the transparency. 849 00:44:00,354 --> 00:44:02,434 Speaker 1: But they liked the big breasts before. 850 00:44:02,554 --> 00:44:03,074 Speaker 4: Yeah, but you. 851 00:44:03,114 --> 00:44:04,474 Speaker 1: Can't show your nips. 852 00:44:04,754 --> 00:44:06,754 Speaker 2: That's the most basic problem here. 853 00:44:07,114 --> 00:44:09,953 Speaker 1: The nipples is the problem problem, the lack of bra. 854 00:44:10,074 --> 00:44:12,274 Speaker 1: It's the nipples. Because let's just take a step back. 855 00:44:12,394 --> 00:44:15,513 Speaker 1: It is largely an audio medium. What I want to 856 00:44:15,594 --> 00:44:20,154 Speaker 1: describe briefly is why this looks very revolutionary for people 857 00:44:20,154 --> 00:44:23,714 Speaker 1: who haven't seen it. The breasts are pointing in different 858 00:44:23,794 --> 00:44:27,873 Speaker 1: directions as natural breasts are wont to do. They are 859 00:44:27,954 --> 00:44:31,274 Speaker 1: not up at her neck. They are at a juncture 860 00:44:31,354 --> 00:44:34,754 Speaker 1: that looks unusual to our eyes now because we are 861 00:44:34,874 --> 00:44:40,274 Speaker 1: so used to seeing celebrities with surgically enhanced breasts that 862 00:44:40,474 --> 00:44:44,394 Speaker 1: it looks lower than you're expecting to see breasts. Exactly. 863 00:44:44,554 --> 00:44:46,754 Speaker 2: It's a flex, right, It's a flex to be like, 864 00:44:46,834 --> 00:44:51,154 Speaker 2: look at my glorious natural breasts defying your rigid. 865 00:44:50,874 --> 00:44:53,473 Speaker 3: Rules, and this is how they'd sit if you saw 866 00:44:53,514 --> 00:44:55,834 Speaker 3: me naked, which is very very sexy. 867 00:44:56,394 --> 00:44:57,714 Speaker 1: I agree with you. 868 00:44:57,754 --> 00:44:59,834 Speaker 3: I think that she knew it would piss them off. 869 00:44:59,874 --> 00:45:01,473 Speaker 3: Do I think that we're going to move into a 870 00:45:01,514 --> 00:45:02,194 Speaker 3: post bra? 871 00:45:02,834 --> 00:45:07,474 Speaker 1: Yeah? Are you tempted cure I carrying twins, I moment 872 00:45:07,554 --> 00:45:08,473 Speaker 1: to discard the bra. 873 00:45:08,754 --> 00:45:09,594 Speaker 2: I you know what? 874 00:45:09,714 --> 00:45:12,993 Speaker 3: I wonder if I will discard the bra while they 875 00:45:13,034 --> 00:45:16,873 Speaker 3: are full, and maybe they are sitting at a nighter, well, 876 00:45:16,914 --> 00:45:20,474 Speaker 3: what I would consider maybe a more acceptable position. But 877 00:45:20,554 --> 00:45:23,354 Speaker 3: once I can tuck them into my underpants, I don't 878 00:45:23,354 --> 00:45:24,594 Speaker 3: know if the culture is ready for that. 879 00:45:26,794 --> 00:45:28,513 Speaker 1: What would Megan Kelly say? 880 00:45:29,154 --> 00:45:32,474 Speaker 2: You would not be happy, but like, do you remember 881 00:45:32,594 --> 00:45:34,154 Speaker 2: it's going to escape me who it is. But I 882 00:45:34,154 --> 00:45:37,714 Speaker 2: bet Amelia will remember a celebrity of an older vintage, 883 00:45:37,714 --> 00:45:39,913 Speaker 2: a gen X celebrity was not wearing a bra on 884 00:45:39,954 --> 00:45:41,714 Speaker 2: a red carpet a while ago with a dress, and 885 00:45:41,754 --> 00:45:45,154 Speaker 2: everybody was like, eh, gross, disgusting because it was lower 886 00:45:45,594 --> 00:45:49,754 Speaker 2: than supposed to be. So, while we're busy objectifying Sidney Sweeny, 887 00:45:49,754 --> 00:45:53,433 Speaker 2: which obviously we are, like, I feel like, although she's 888 00:45:53,474 --> 00:45:56,554 Speaker 2: being rebellious in this look, you can be rebellious in 889 00:45:56,594 --> 00:45:59,714 Speaker 2: this look if you are young and conforming to all 890 00:45:59,754 --> 00:46:00,754 Speaker 2: those stereotypes. 891 00:46:00,834 --> 00:46:01,033 Speaker 4: Right. 892 00:46:01,434 --> 00:46:05,393 Speaker 2: Whereas if somebody who is a little less perfect in 893 00:46:05,474 --> 00:46:10,194 Speaker 2: every way according to a very ideal were to throw 894 00:46:10,274 --> 00:46:14,194 Speaker 2: the bra away, they would probably still get called unkempt 895 00:46:14,274 --> 00:46:16,393 Speaker 2: and slovely in a way that is never going to 896 00:46:16,434 --> 00:46:17,234 Speaker 2: happen to Sweeney. 897 00:46:17,634 --> 00:46:20,314 Speaker 1: Yes, I think that's right. I think I want to 898 00:46:20,394 --> 00:46:23,354 Speaker 1: ultimately say, though I'm happy that she did this, I'm 899 00:46:23,354 --> 00:46:25,674 Speaker 1: happy that she didn't wear the bra. I went for 900 00:46:26,074 --> 00:46:29,634 Speaker 1: my annual mammogram last week and I was thinking about 901 00:46:29,674 --> 00:46:35,194 Speaker 1: all of the anxiety and neuroses and concerns that we 902 00:46:35,274 --> 00:46:38,034 Speaker 1: put on our breasts, and it's sometimes just nice to 903 00:46:38,114 --> 00:46:42,594 Speaker 1: see them hanging out and being free. Yeah, yeah, I agree, Sydney. 904 00:46:42,794 --> 00:46:46,154 Speaker 2: Out louders a massive thank you for while listening to 905 00:46:46,154 --> 00:46:47,994 Speaker 2: today's show. This is one you're going to want to 906 00:46:48,034 --> 00:46:50,634 Speaker 2: watch on YouTube because many of us while we're talking 907 00:46:50,674 --> 00:46:51,634 Speaker 2: about breast have been grabbing. 908 00:46:52,274 --> 00:46:55,634 Speaker 1: I'm a still wearing my breast cancer awareness T shirt today. 909 00:46:56,034 --> 00:46:58,594 Speaker 1: Oh oh, I love it. 910 00:46:58,034 --> 00:47:01,234 Speaker 2: It's like you knew. A massive thank you, of course 911 00:47:01,274 --> 00:47:03,634 Speaker 2: to our fabulous team for putting the show together, and 912 00:47:03,674 --> 00:47:15,474 Speaker 2: we're going to be back in your ears tomorrow. Bye hie, Mamma. 913 00:47:15,514 --> 00:47:18,433 Speaker 2: Mia acknowledges the traditional owners of the land on which 914 00:47:18,434 --> 00:47:21,754 Speaker 2: we've recorded this podcast, the Gadigal people of the Eora 915 00:47:21,834 --> 00:47:24,994 Speaker 2: Nation and on the Gerringer land of the wonder Wondian people. 916 00:47:25,434 --> 00:47:27,914 Speaker 2: We pay our respects to their elders past and present, 917 00:47:28,234 --> 00:47:31,714 Speaker 2: and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait 918 00:47:31,754 --> 00:47:32,714 Speaker 2: Islander cultures.