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Speaker 3: Hi BM, Hi BM.
Speaker 2: Welcome back.
Speaker 3: I love his place so much already you can't wait
Speaker 3: to do all of out p cus here.
Speaker 1: This is our very first episode in the New House,
Speaker 1: which we have actually tried to do. How many times
Speaker 1: I brought my gear here for at least four every time?
Speaker 2: We just we don't record.
Speaker 1: First, we do all the activities, we paint, We like
Speaker 1: get tired, and then it gets to four pm and
Speaker 1: I'm like, nah, I'm not feeling it.
Speaker 3: Come all the way to and I was like, I'm
Speaker 3: like such an interventionist that I'm like, you need rest,
Speaker 3: you need rest. I'll come back another time. But also
Speaker 3: I love coming here every weekend. I'm like, so any renos.
Speaker 1: Anything to do help, any any painting We ended up
Speaker 1: any building.
Speaker 3: You guys had literally nothing, and you were like, let's
Speaker 3: paint the linen cupboard.
Speaker 2: We did the anxiety the other day. It was so unnecessary.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know what next? We like, can you
Speaker 3: just paint this plaster wall that we're going to rip
Speaker 3: out anyway? Something to do.
Speaker 1: Also, we're sitting in what will become nick in my bedroom.
Speaker 1: Eventually it's the master bedroom, but it has no manager.
Speaker 1: It's still got the old carpet. We're kind of done
Speaker 1: part of the bathroom and we've got sort of currents
Speaker 1: and and helped paint this room. But we've closed the
Speaker 1: door and you can still hear Nick sooring downstairs. Are
Speaker 1: you really getting the full Runner experience?
Speaker 3: I don't think they'll probably not be able to hear.
Speaker 1: It, but I feel like I can hear it. I
Speaker 1: think it's because he knows we're podcasting.
Speaker 3: He's like, yeah, contribution mad in Vine mad Invie.
Speaker 1: Me the other day when I have him on Valentine's Day.
Speaker 1: He's like, you know, I can come on like separate
Speaker 1: to an occasion, like just for fun.
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, and then you're asking me like I'm
Speaker 3: too busy one. I like, my goal in life is
Speaker 3: to embarrass my best friends no matter where. It's like
Speaker 3: it's like my favorite thing to do. Particularly can Sarah
Speaker 3: for no other reason. Then I think it's online people
Speaker 3: perceive you in a particular way.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like we have bloopers and we let out,
Speaker 1: you know, some parts of our personality.
Speaker 2: But you just go to town on all the bits
Speaker 2: that you like, so we don't let.
Speaker 3: The other day.
Speaker 2: Okay, here.
Speaker 3: And all the buildings like not you have you didn't
Speaker 3: really have builders, but the flooring guy was here. Some
Speaker 3: guys were here to help like demolish some things. So
Speaker 3: a bunch of like laborers. Trade's and aren't.
Speaker 2: Close like super close.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and Nick can only like I only just met
Speaker 3: them that morning, and Nick was being all like with
Speaker 3: the boys, oh yeah, like look at my standar. And
Speaker 3: then Sarah came and then and then I was like, oh,
Speaker 3: this is my like my opportunity to embarrass both of them.
Speaker 3: So Nick's like, oh, Sarah, come, look at the side
Speaker 3: that I've trimmed. I was like, and then he opened
Speaker 3: it up, and I was like, Bob, it's beautiful.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, Bobby, Bobby, you did such a quick
Speaker 4: and the next face was like shut up, shut up,
Speaker 4: and I screamed about the whole nicko.
Speaker 3: I've never seen Nick properly.
Speaker 2: He went inside his own skins.
Speaker 5: Like he shut that door closed so fast, and I
Speaker 5: was like, Bobby, and I just flew out the audio
Speaker 5: so bad, like all the people, all the guys inside
Speaker 5: were just smoking.
Speaker 3: So funny.
Speaker 1: It's also like, I feel like you don't ever use
Speaker 1: your pet name for your partner in public, like you
Speaker 1: only use it to them directly. Yeah, so I would
Speaker 1: never like I call him bab you know, it made
Speaker 1: me in front of you and like mum, but in
Speaker 1: front of like trades that we've just met I wouldn't
Speaker 1: be like Bobby.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was so fun.
Speaker 4: I was like it.
Speaker 3: Nick was just like he was like shut like I've
Speaker 3: never seen him so like a big brother, like stop
Speaker 3: it cut it normally, just give it back to me.
Speaker 3: He couldn't. I just and it was it's literally him
Speaker 3: showing you he cut down a tree like a little shrub.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 1: But otherwise, since we, I mean, you guys know, we've
Speaker 1: taken a little bit of time off over the past
Speaker 1: week or so.
Speaker 2: Actually maybe even a couple of weeks. I don't even know.
Speaker 2: I have no concept of time generally, but especially the
Speaker 2: past few weeks. So since we first.
Speaker 1: Like mentioned the renovation, I think we've pretty like we
Speaker 1: have powered through since the last time we spoke about that.
Speaker 2: You I'm quite done.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I feel like I just had this conception or
Speaker 3: maybe misconception that when I take forever, but you guys
Speaker 3: do you guys, and this is not like it's it's
Speaker 3: like a mansion, but it's a big house with a
Speaker 3: lot of I guess rooms and spaces, and so each
Speaker 3: space has this and even just painting it. We had
Speaker 3: done one room. It took us like four hours and
Speaker 3: I was like oh my god, there's like, oh god,
Speaker 3: another like eleven spaces to go, but it was right.
Speaker 3: And then then I come back the next week and
Speaker 3: then all the walls are done, and then the floors
Speaker 3: are in, and then the curtains are and then the
Speaker 3: kitchen's almost done. So I was like, this has been
Speaker 3: like the bathoms are completely cham pretty much done.
Speaker 2: It's all come together so quickly.
Speaker 1: But I think because Nicks embraced it as such a
Speaker 1: like he hates it when I say this, but it's
Speaker 1: been such a playta for him, like for someone who's
Speaker 1: really sedentry because his tech. He's always on his devices.
Speaker 1: He will sit in front of three screens for like
Speaker 1: twelve hours in a row. To have a project where
Speaker 1: he could be tactile all day every day. Like obviously
Speaker 1: it's been a bit of a juggle trying to be
Speaker 1: here and do his normal job, but he's been so
Speaker 1: much happier.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and he's so scared he's playda, but he's so
Speaker 3: good at it.
Speaker 2: He gets so good.
Speaker 1: And he's self taught, like well, I mean, his dad
Speaker 1: was a builder, but as in he didn't train to
Speaker 1: learn how to build.
Speaker 2: He's just kind of figured it all out.
Speaker 1: And we've only it's only been plumbing and electrical, which
Speaker 1: are kind of the things that you want qualified people for.
Speaker 2: Everything else he's done.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and like you and I, Nick has Nick can
Speaker 3: do many things, but he's actually like he's kind of
Speaker 3: been the reason why this has moved so far, totally,
Speaker 3: like the kitchen going in, like even the banisters, do
Speaker 3: you balatrade Alcatro? Alcatro?
Speaker 2: Is it Alcatro?
Speaker 3: I painted the Alcatro?
Speaker 2: It's a prison.
Speaker 1: Strange, But also it's been that just the loveliest has
Speaker 1: been having so many friends just pop over and like
Speaker 1: contribute to little bits. And you know we've had like
Speaker 1: late nights just eating uber eats on the floor and
Speaker 1: all of us with paint. How you and I walk
Speaker 1: home every time with like a liter of painting? Do
Speaker 1: we rub our heads on the walls?
Speaker 2: Don't understand? And then I glad rap my head the
Speaker 2: other night?
Speaker 3: No, it's how you think you're like not again, as
Speaker 3: you're literally standing inside of a cupboard and your heads down,
Speaker 3: not even like in a proper bun, and you're like, oh,
Speaker 3: this paint, It's like, it's not the paint's fault your face.
Speaker 2: So I literally looked like a condom. The other day,
Speaker 2: I wrapped my head in flat and it.
Speaker 3: Worked really well. I put the footage. I've got the footage.
Speaker 2: It worked really well.
Speaker 3: But also shout out to Hissy flew down from America.
Speaker 1: I know, he was amazing our best man. He was
Speaker 1: the best man at our wedding. Lives in the States
Speaker 1: and the boys have been missing each other so much.
Speaker 1: They really don't get enough time together. And the quote
Speaker 1: for painting was like eighteen grand.
Speaker 2: It was outrageous.
Speaker 1: And we looked up Piggsy's flights, you know, because he
Speaker 1: really wanted to come and help, and he was like,
Speaker 1: I wish I could be there, and we were like, wow,
Speaker 1: it won't pay me or fights which are like ten percent.
Speaker 1: Did you get the cost of what we're being quoted?
Speaker 1: Like would you fly home? And yeah, And he came
Speaker 1: at the time where we had the Mya ball and
Speaker 1: like all the boys in that group were going and
Speaker 1: it was just so much.
Speaker 2: And he's a really good he was such a good
Speaker 2: paint he.
Speaker 3: Was telling me, He's like, yeah, And the reason people
Speaker 3: don't realize why I'm like know how to paint or
Speaker 3: I'm good at painting. I was like wow, because he's
Speaker 3: a photographer. Because when I was to paint the site, yeah,
Speaker 3: he's like when I first started and I was like
Speaker 3: an assistant on the I'd have to paint all the
Speaker 3: back dropped and you have to be particulous because you
Speaker 3: can't the camera shows everything, like the streaks. He's like,
Speaker 3: and so I just that's how I like figured I
Speaker 3: had to paint, and he's he's like done. He was
Speaker 3: the majority of the house. Like by the end, I
Speaker 3: just like did the trimmings and the primer and stuff.
Speaker 2: But he's and the boy slept here on camper beds
Speaker 2: and it was just really cute. I had such a
Speaker 2: cute week together.
Speaker 1: But then we had the ball and then we had
Speaker 1: a really lovely weekend. But then the Monday, the Monday, guys,
Speaker 1: we I think most of you know by now we
Speaker 1: had a bit of a n ata that has kind
Speaker 1: of been coming, you know, for sort of twelve months.
Speaker 1: I think most of you know. Little Paul, beautiful Golden retriever,
Speaker 1: my first bond son, my first won son, had a
Speaker 1: diagnosis of lung cancer last year. And you know, he
Speaker 1: was eleven at the time, so he wasn't a young
Speaker 1: He wasn't a puppy, but we were quite shocked and
Speaker 1: I didn't even know dogs could get lung cancer. And
Speaker 1: we had a dogy acupuncturist, and like a nadrabat, Yeah,
Speaker 1: changed his diet, had lots of supplements and took him
Speaker 1: off anything inflammatory like kibble and stuff which is like
Speaker 1: triple cooked, and for a dog that has any kind
Speaker 1: of inflammation, it kind of isn't as good for their body,
Speaker 1: So put him on raw food. Some of you have
Speaker 1: probably seen his Green Goddess bowls that were like healthier
Speaker 1: than all of our food and cost more than all.
Speaker 3: Of the boxes his Meno boxes.
Speaker 2: And that stopped the tumors growing for a year.
Speaker 1: So he had another beautiful year of no pain and
Speaker 1: like being you know, a twelve year old dog, so
Speaker 1: a little bit less active, but still happy, bathing his
Speaker 1: toys every day. And it was his twelfth birthday a
Speaker 1: couple of.
Speaker 2: Weeks ago, and he was doing really, really well.
Speaker 1: And then I think we always knew it would happen
Speaker 1: quite quickly like that, when the tumors eventually became too
Speaker 1: much of his body, it would happen really fast. So
Speaker 1: we had a weekend of like he wasn't super hungry,
Speaker 1: and he wasn't super jumpy, but he was also not
Speaker 1: you know, dramatically different or anything. So it all came
Speaker 1: on really suddenly. We had a beautiful weekend together. Higgsy
Speaker 1: came over. You know, Yeahhagy loves loves Paul because he's
Speaker 1: been around, you know, he was there when we got
Speaker 1: him as a puppy. And then Monday morning he just
Speaker 1: woke up and the tumbors had spread everywhere and little
Speaker 1: boy couldn't breathe, and it all happened really fast. So
Speaker 1: by Monday night we kind of had to make the
Speaker 1: decision to say goodbye.
Speaker 3: Was he just like did he just wake up? And
Speaker 3: then literally like was it like lethargy?
Speaker 2: Was that this snow?
Speaker 1: It was like a flat He went to sleep on
Speaker 1: Sunday night like basically normal. So by Monday morning, I
Speaker 1: actually woke up because I heard.
Speaker 2: His breathing like the I think his lungs had filled
Speaker 2: with like with all with liquid.
Speaker 1: And it had happened fast. You know, it was going
Speaker 1: to happen. It was always going to happen like that.
Speaker 1: But straight away he really couldn't breathe in all the
Speaker 1: way like you could hear hear the liquid kind of rattling,
Speaker 1: and he was you could see he was so uncomfortable
Speaker 1: trying to get enough air in, and I sort of thought,
Speaker 1: you know, this could be an infection or something acute,
Speaker 1: or it could be something more you know, nefarious. But
Speaker 1: I also because it had come on so suddenly, I
Speaker 1: was like, but we, you know, will figure it out.
Speaker 1: And then like two hours later they sort of like
Speaker 1: you you are at that point in his life where
Speaker 1: you have to decie what's right for him rather than
Speaker 1: you guys like, we of course want to keep him
Speaker 1: for as long as we can, but he was like
Speaker 1: visibly uncomfortable, and oh my gosh, it was the worst
Speaker 1: day I reckon the worst day in my memory.
Speaker 2: Like it was just awful, and the whole.
Speaker 1: Family was there and like he had I'm so glad
Speaker 1: he didn't suffer for very long. We were all there
Speaker 1: with him, like right till the last moment. But you
Speaker 1: guys know, like if anyone I sort of was a
Speaker 1: little bit worried that people who didn't have animals would
Speaker 1: not understand the gravity of our reaction. But it's been
Speaker 1: the opposite, Like people more compassionate about animals than they
Speaker 1: are about people.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I also feel like Paul had his own identity.
Speaker 3: I feel like people like followed you, some followed you
Speaker 3: for more poor content. Like I think if you've had
Speaker 3: a dog ever once in your life, even if you
Speaker 3: don't have one now, you can kind of get it.
Speaker 3: We've only ever had to put down one dog because
Speaker 3: our last one's passed away. Literally it was the most
Speaker 3: beautiful passing. She kind of just like it was like
Speaker 3: thirteen years old. Yeah, fell asleep and it was kind
Speaker 3: of we didn't have to go through it. It was sad,
Speaker 3: but we didn't have.
Speaker 2: To make a decision.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Whereas that, I feel like it's just the hardest thing.
Speaker 3: I was so sad for you.
Speaker 2: You started crying straight away. And then but.
Speaker 3: Because they can't talk to you, I think that's part
Speaker 3: of it as well. They can't say thank you, can
Speaker 3: they just look? God?
Speaker 1: It was it was like, I really I've never lost
Speaker 1: a pet as an adult, and I thought that maybe
Speaker 1: being you know, more aware of your emotions, that you
Speaker 1: could rationalize it better. But I actually think it's worse
Speaker 1: because you're so aware of like you attached such deep
Speaker 1: emotions to this, like your firstborn child, and it was
Speaker 1: like the beautiful thing has been that I like always
Speaker 1: thought I was really biased that he was a really
Speaker 1: special dog. But I'm not even joking. Like we've had
Speaker 1: a miscarriage, we've been engaged, we've been married, We've had
Speaker 1: lots of big life milestones, all of them combined did
Speaker 1: not compare even one percent to the response for Paul, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: thousands of people from overseas who never met us or
Speaker 1: met him were just like, this little animal brought me
Speaker 1: joy or got me through lockdown with his costumes or
Speaker 1: every day I looked forward to his little stories, and
Speaker 1: he realized animals bring so much joy and they like
Speaker 1: they actually actively change people's mood, and like he had
Speaker 1: such a beautiful little legacy in the best life for.
Speaker 3: We always said he was yours and Nicks and even
Speaker 3: my like therapy dog. He was like, oh, everyone's anxiety dog.
Speaker 3: But he also was like I think the other thing
Speaker 3: is like a lot of people react did more than
Speaker 3: they did in your previous bad news. But you guys, also,
Speaker 3: I've never seen you or Nick respond as such like
Speaker 3: a visceral way to anything I've never seen myself in
Speaker 3: the time that I've known you and so I was
Speaker 3: like and I was like, I fully get it. That
Speaker 3: is the last time we spoke about the prospect of
Speaker 3: poor like dying or having to be put down was
Speaker 3: last year when you thought that was kind of going
Speaker 3: to be it. And the nice thing that you did
Speaker 3: say that you were like, we're so happy that you guys,
Speaker 3: you had given him the best life, because that's true,
Speaker 3: you did, like he was so loved. He went to
Speaker 3: his spy.
Speaker 2: Every doggie day spa and his spy ladies. Oh no,
Speaker 2: did the vet people cried everyone because the vets have
Speaker 2: been his vets for twelve years. That they were just beautiful.
Speaker 1: And you know what's surprising, so many people who we told,
Speaker 1: like in person burst into tears, like burst into tears.
Speaker 2: Oh this beautiful little dog.
Speaker 1: And it just it was it was like a heartbreaking
Speaker 1: but also really heartwarming week of like, oh my.
Speaker 2: God, our little boy, like he really people really loved
Speaker 2: watching him.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and yeah, it was really nice but also really
Speaker 1: interesting to I'm not I'm very rarely out of control
Speaker 1: of my emotions, Like I'm pretty stoic and I cry,
Speaker 1: but I cry, like you know, I do this. I'll
Speaker 1: have something insane happened to me, and I'll be like together,
Speaker 1: and then I'll get home and then I'll process it
Speaker 1: for a few hours and then I'll ball. But I
Speaker 1: very rarely lose it like in front of people. I
Speaker 1: don't know why. I just kind of go numb for
Speaker 1: the first little bit and then it kind of happens,
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 2: But it was in the it like like on the ground,
Speaker 2: balling my eyes at Nick, bawling his idol. We were
Speaker 2: just like what is happening to us? Didn't want to eat,
Speaker 2: didn't want to sleep, Like it was grief, is con
Speaker 2: assume me?
Speaker 3: Yeah, how are you now?
Speaker 2: It's been two weeks. Yeah, and like I you know,
Speaker 2: I haven't taken time. I had a miscarriage. I didn't
Speaker 2: take more than two days off work. I went straight
Speaker 2: back to work after the surgery. And even that I
Speaker 2: could kind of process better than this. I took like
Speaker 2: a week of work.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just couldn't function you both, you and me.
Speaker 1: Both And interestingly I thought that people would be judgmental
Speaker 1: of the like lack of professionalism that that showed. But
Speaker 1: in fact, for an animal, everyone understands that. They were
Speaker 1: like they don't submit, don't you come back?
Speaker 2: For two weeks, three weeks, as long as you need
Speaker 2: everyone's even like overly compassion.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm actually, you know, time heals those things
Speaker 1: more than anything. Yeah, And I think we cried all
Speaker 1: day the first few days, and then you cry in
Speaker 1: bad like bursts, and then it becomes easier slowly to
Speaker 1: celebrate the really lovely things rather then to just lament
Speaker 1: the loss. And also because we had so much support,
Speaker 1: it took me a few days to be able to
Speaker 1: read everyone's messages. And then a couple of friends were
Speaker 1: really lovely and we're like, you know, you don't have
Speaker 1: to respond to all of them or read them all,
Speaker 1: like they're given with love and that no one expects
Speaker 1: you to read them but not read them.
Speaker 2: But you know, replied to all of them.
Speaker 1: But I was like, actually, a lot of the time
Speaker 1: people sent really meaningful poems or quotes that helped give
Speaker 1: you perspective with your grief. So one of them was like,
Speaker 1: don't lament that your dog wasn't there for your whole life,
Speaker 1: because you were there for their whole life, and like
Speaker 1: those things actually help you go.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he never lived.
Speaker 1: A day without love. Yeah, And even if we were overseas.
Speaker 1: He was with my mum or my aunties or my brother,
Speaker 1: like he had his pack. You could, honestly you could
Speaker 1: not have had a moss bog One retriever like he
Speaker 1: had the best life ever. And that kind of support
Speaker 1: really helps you. I don't know, it was just so
Speaker 1: nice to see you, know how. I'm fascinated by community
Speaker 1: and people connecting through common experience even though they've never met,
Speaker 1: they live in different countries, their cultures don't like necessarily
Speaker 1: a line, but they can understand the love for an animal.
Speaker 1: It was just one of those beautiful humanity moments where
Speaker 1: you're like.
Speaker 2: Oh, just life, beauty, pain, Like it all was just
Speaker 2: a lot.
Speaker 1: But it's been I think good timing that we're moving
Speaker 1: house because it's been hard.
Speaker 2: To be in the house.
Speaker 1: His toys are still exactly where he left them because
Speaker 1: they're so purposefully placed, and we all we just like
Speaker 1: don't look at them.
Speaker 3: So I was going to say, I feel like it's
Speaker 3: perfect that you had this outlet as a place that
Speaker 3: you could still be twenty four to seven that still
Speaker 3: felt like home. Yea, because the worst thing you'd want
Speaker 3: is for home to be home, but you don't want
Speaker 3: to be homes Where else can you be? So yeah,
Speaker 3: you know you're at a cafe whereas this you guys
Speaker 3: love being here. But I feel like this is also
Speaker 3: another testament to why we love social media for all
Speaker 3: of it's sometimes negativity. I feel that you have a
Speaker 3: very positive space and community, and I almost feel like
Speaker 3: that helped kind of fast track your grieving process totally
Speaker 3: by saying, within us, we are very sad, but then
Speaker 3: there's this outpour of like a sense of happiness by
Speaker 3: all the support, and then all of a sudden you're like, oh, perspective, perspective,
Speaker 3: perspective at all. It makes it easier for you. I
Speaker 3: felt like that because I would have.
Speaker 2: Thought that you would have been worse for longer.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like I do. I think maybe I thought you
Speaker 3: would have been not as sad as you were, Like
Speaker 3: very sad obviously, but that was like another level of
Speaker 3: sadness thinking you guys, but for longer, as opposed to
Speaker 3: like really like a lot, and I really intensive it
Speaker 3: around of it for a shorter period of time. Not
Speaker 3: to say that now you're not mourning anymore. But I
Speaker 3: saw you probably and six days after, and both of
Speaker 3: you were happy to talk about it. See other dogs
Speaker 3: that we bought roomy again. For some people it was like, no,
Speaker 3: that's a really it's too early, or you know, it's
Speaker 3: very reminiscent of.
Speaker 1: But what have you done with the exactly where? Because
Speaker 1: he puts them in places, so we had to leave them.
Speaker 2: I don't know, because they're just.
Speaker 3: In such purposeful places.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I and so one of them, his main one, Borrows,
Speaker 1: his og went with him.
Speaker 2: That made me go again because Boris is like I've
Speaker 2: got dreadlocks because of our Boris is the longest standing.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, and it's Boris version five because when
Speaker 2: Paul was little, he used to actually eat his toy.
Speaker 1: He used to be naughty, but this version five has
Speaker 1: been like ten years or something.
Speaker 3: Boris for the long for the time that I've known you,
Speaker 3: which had seven, he had the same Borrows.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so but it was interesting. It took us.
Speaker 1: I reckon until that day at the footy, Like I
Speaker 1: hadn't even left the house. I had that one job
Speaker 1: the next day where I just compartmentalized, and then I
Speaker 1: don't think I even saw people at all until Yeah,
Speaker 1: we went to the footy and that was the first
Speaker 1: dog we've seen as well, and we you know, we
Speaker 1: watched a lot of animal memes, like we couldn't we
Speaker 1: just didn't watch anything like Yeah.
Speaker 2: But it's interesting because like we are especially here.
Speaker 1: I was like, how do I talk about this because
Speaker 1: we are such a positivity focused.
Speaker 2: Kind of community, But.
Speaker 1: Navigating grief with everyone was also really lovely.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a really interesting few weeks.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I also think it's real, Like I think
Speaker 3: there's a I feel like if you stay overly positive
Speaker 3: in times too much, it's like that toxic positivity you know,
Speaker 3: not trend but theme where if you came on and
Speaker 3: said I am the happiest because Paul is a celebration
Speaker 3: of life and that's all I would be like, no,
Speaker 3: that's wrong, because you're heaved.
Speaker 2: For days, you know, even have a breakdown.
Speaker 3: Some people have asked me, would you get questions no
Speaker 3: about Paul? Would you get another dog?
Speaker 2: Okay, So this is really difficult because.
Speaker 1: We just about to move into a new house and
Speaker 1: like have it's got a different yard configuration and why
Speaker 1: not used to the environment yet, I don't know. It's
Speaker 1: a really difficult thing because Nick is very hesitant because
Speaker 1: he doesn't want to feel disloyal, like he doesn't want
Speaker 1: to feel because he he's had Goldies before, but then
Speaker 1: he had.
Speaker 2: I've never had a Goldie before, but he had bought a.
Speaker 1: Collies in between, and so it's kind of been a
Speaker 1: really and he was really little when he had the Goldies.
Speaker 1: So I think now he's like, I don't want to
Speaker 1: replace Paul. It's really hard to get your head around like.
Speaker 3: Another breed or something or just another.
Speaker 1: No, I don't think we'd get another breed, but I
Speaker 1: think he would want to leave enough time to honor
Speaker 1: our experience with Paul, even though in my mind it's
Speaker 1: been easier for me to think a new puppy would
Speaker 1: not you're not replacing your old dog like you're it's
Speaker 1: a totally different experience. But also I yeah, he definitely
Speaker 1: needs to have enough time to kind of be ready
Speaker 1: for that.
Speaker 2: And I don't know. It's weird because my inclination is where.
Speaker 1: I've become a dog person, like I'm a dog mum,
Speaker 1: So it's any period where I don't have a dog
Speaker 1: is so weird.
Speaker 2: Like I don't want to walk around the park by
Speaker 2: myself like dog, Like my whole day is around my dog,
Speaker 2: so it's so weird. I kind of am like, yeah,
Speaker 2: we want to be dog people again, but then I
Speaker 2: understand that he's not quite ready.
Speaker 1: So and also, you know, we're going away. We've got
Speaker 1: this career trip coming up, which is so which we
Speaker 1: can talk about in a second. But you know, maybe
Speaker 1: we do take a little break from from having a
Speaker 1: dog until we've settled into the house a bit more
Speaker 1: and we like we're used to the space. And also
Speaker 1: I forgot Paul was such a well behaved dog, but
Speaker 1: he was naughty between like zero and two everything. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you've got to train him and you've got to really
Speaker 1: commit to being there.
Speaker 3: We underestimated how long the puppy then adolescent yea, it lastspy,
Speaker 3: but don't tell you about adolescent phase.
Speaker 2: I think it's a months to eighteen months.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's.
Speaker 2: It's a lot.
Speaker 1: It's a lot, right, And then they said, all but
Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, it's not like two months, it's like
Speaker 1: a year.
Speaker 3: He's quite like, you know, I have to say, he's
Speaker 3: quite good for his age, but he's still a little
Speaker 3: bit nippy, a bit sided. But he he also lives
Speaker 3: in like a sharehouse, is a very different experience. Yeah,
Speaker 3: but to summarize, your short answer is yes, but it's
Speaker 3: not right now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, but not just yet. And I think we'll
Speaker 1: just be guided by when Nick feels ready and just
Speaker 1: see see how he feels.
Speaker 3: Do you think you would get like from zero years old?
Speaker 2: I think so.
Speaker 1: Because we just we love Golden Retrievers, and we had
Speaker 1: Paul from a baby, like we picked him. I met
Speaker 1: him when he was like two weeks old.
Speaker 2: Oh baby poor.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so. Yeah, but I mean yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean if anyone has a goal out for an.
Speaker 3: Option, sure, well I've got one.
Speaker 2: Good remember DMS. Yeah it's yeah, it's been.
Speaker 1: A really it's been a really weird but a really
Speaker 1: nice time. The neighborhood is just a beautiful place. You
Speaker 1: guys have all been lovely, and people sending messages from their.
Speaker 2: Dogs really cute, so cute pictures and videos and also
Speaker 2: pictures of people sending us pictures of them crying over.
Speaker 3: Paul so lovely.
Speaker 2: I'm like, you guys are all touched, like people are
Speaker 2: like so the real dads literally, you know, the real
Speaker 2: dads who are our good friends, who we love Jared
Speaker 2: and they're just amazing. So we run into Jared at
Speaker 2: our local cafe the other day anyway, and he messaged
Speaker 2: me later and he's like a friend of his who's
Speaker 2: not a friend of ours, we don't know, but knows
Speaker 2: that he knows us. Literally walked in the door crying
Speaker 2: at his house and goes, did you hear.
Speaker 3: About Paul stop?
Speaker 2: So, yeah, that's really lovely, that's kind of comfort.
Speaker 3: Oh that's good. Yeah, I'm glad. Yeah, I knew we
Speaker 3: had to touch on that, but I'm glad.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're better, not like but better than much better.
Speaker 1: And thank you all for being so patient and compassionate
Speaker 1: about Like I was like, I'm just going to take
Speaker 1: a week off recording, and everyone was like, as if
Speaker 1: you take only a week, like, everyone was just really lovely.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was like, it feels like a long time
Speaker 3: ago now, but it's two weeks. So I'm even surprised
Speaker 3: that you're you're both as just back doing what you
Speaker 3: were doing before as quickly as you are.
Speaker 1: So Yeah, and then there comes a point where like,
Speaker 1: distraction is nice. I think if we did it, if
Speaker 1: we distracted ourselves too heavily in the first week, we
Speaker 1: wouldn't have processed it. Yeah, but the second week was
Speaker 1: kind of like Okay, we can do little tasks, but.
Speaker 3: Almost feel like that's Nicks. That's always been nixed.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, he's still process is always yeah.
Speaker 3: Because I remember him being like Nick's already on emails.
Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, because his mechanism would be distracted,
Speaker 3: distract work.
Speaker 2: Oh he built the entire kitchen like in three days.
Speaker 3: Just head down work and that's his escape.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I was like, but maybe it's still like
Speaker 3: a good idea, just like appreciate just to be gentle,
Speaker 3: like he's doing it because that's his actually.
Speaker 2: His way of his ways going through and he's.
Speaker 1: Definitely been And there's also interesting watching people cope with
Speaker 1: emotions differently. I didn't want to talk about it until
Speaker 1: then suddenly when I was ready, I wanted to just
Speaker 1: talk about the lovely parts. He's still like, thank you,
Speaker 1: that's lovely. Anyway, let's not talk about dogs anymore. Like
Speaker 1: he's still quite really grateful for people acknowledging it and
Speaker 1: then like don't want to talk about it too much, yeah,
Speaker 1: which is yeah. Really, it's like just different different ways
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Speaker 3: I just change the topic. But now I've got the
Speaker 3: back of my mind this career trip. Yeah, we're so excited.
Speaker 1: So our next trip with the amazing jet Star family
Speaker 1: is too South Korea.
Speaker 2: So jealous because you love Korea.
Speaker 3: Our family obsessed Korean and japan obsessed. The last trip
Speaker 3: we went to before lockdown was I when yeah, I
Speaker 3: was in China and then met my siblings in Korea
Speaker 3: and Japan and we're like Nick's been again since and
Speaker 3: he's going again in October. Like we're all as a family.
Speaker 2: And as little brother as Kordnick by the way, yeah sorry.
Speaker 3: And then as a sibling group we love it's so bud.
Speaker 2: Do you guys do sibling holidays?
Speaker 3: Well that was the first time we had done because
Speaker 3: we can only just turn maybe eighteen at that time
Speaker 3: or maybe yeah, seventeen eighteen. Yeah, but yeah, we're just
Speaker 3: kind of Jenna, Nick and Katherine and even Justine kind
Speaker 3: of really get into k dramas. I'll get into it
Speaker 3: once they tell me it's really good or not.
Speaker 2: And then you made me get into Krie Oh my God,
Speaker 2: singles Infernal.
Speaker 3: Cry.
Speaker 2: Ja No No, No, Singles Infernal.
Speaker 1: We watched The Higher in One two seasons, two seasons,
Speaker 1: and then I got into Squid Game, and then I
Speaker 1: got up with BTS.
Speaker 3: I surprised yourself with BTS.
Speaker 1: It was weird because they've always been like no, like
Speaker 1: I didn't grow up in the culture you like k pup,
Speaker 1: And now I'm like, I know.
Speaker 3: All the work, all the choreography. It was locked like
Speaker 3: all of the singers like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like their personalities, their history, their families.
Speaker 3: Yeah you. I was like, it's weird. I was actually
Speaker 3: quite shocked because normally you're but.
Speaker 2: I'm a closet family. Only you know, Ruby knows that's it.
Speaker 3: You're in the closet, do you know?
Speaker 2: It was Lockdown. I just like they because they're.
Speaker 1: So positive, like they're very happy and wholesome.
Speaker 2: They're really wholesome.
Speaker 1: So they're reality TV shows that they have, like they're
Speaker 1: so famous, but the reality TV shows are them just
Speaker 1: being normal, like really down to earth. And because in Lockdown,
Speaker 1: we had nothing to do, and like I'd run out
Speaker 1: of shows. I just started watching this reality TV show
Speaker 1: and being like what is this all about? Like why
Speaker 1: do they have more followers than Biber? Why are they
Speaker 1: How did Korea which is a small country the economy
Speaker 1: but like in the scale of the world, and like
Speaker 1: why did they accelerate to beyond any other YouTube subscriber,
Speaker 1: any other Spotify download? Like how did this kind of
Speaker 1: happen when in the eighties it was like a third
Speaker 1: world country?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: And then it was just so wholesome and lovely and
Speaker 1: such a nice escape that then I got like, Okay,
Speaker 1: well I've got to watch.
Speaker 2: All of them and learn. Also no other K pop
Speaker 2: group though, only BTS.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And then when we did the marathon which came the
Speaker 1: half marathon, sorry, when things had just opened up. And
Speaker 1: then I did that crazy thing where I flew to
Speaker 1: New York and the.
Speaker 2: Year and then I came here home, and then I
Speaker 2: ran by myself because I was in It's seventy two
Speaker 2: our quarantine amay whatever you guys might remember.
Speaker 1: It was just oh my god, total clusterfuck my whole
Speaker 1: soundtrack to keep me going with BTS, I've got it.
Speaker 3: You will say, you'll see.
Speaker 2: It on my phone.
Speaker 3: It's literally lovely.
Speaker 2: It's not even called BTS, it's just called twenty twenty one.
Speaker 2: It's like and it's just every song.
Speaker 3: The genuinely the only thing that you've that's really Korean
Speaker 3: of me, really Korean you've really really Korean of you,
Speaker 3: but also super pop culture yea, like really obsessed. Yess
Speaker 3: we this're so funny.
Speaker 1: But I don't acknowledge it except every now and then
Speaker 1: someone in our like group or industry will post something
Speaker 1: about k PUP and I'll just get the reference and
Speaker 1: be like, eh, like comment.
Speaker 2: I think, like I'm in the know, and they'll be.
Speaker 3: Like, I've exposed myself. Anyways, you're going.
Speaker 2: To correct CBTs EBG. I say, with it, I would
Speaker 2: actually be saved.
Speaker 3: But they're doing the middle.
Speaker 2: Actually, I know, which is lovely.
Speaker 1: Which is why I hadn't been back for so long,
Speaker 1: because it was a bit murky if I'd be eligible
Speaker 1: for military service if I went back. Anyway, went back
Speaker 1: in twenty nineteen with Nike for an incredible work trip. God,
Speaker 1: We've been just so fortunate with such amazing opportunities. But
Speaker 1: I didn't do sort of anything, you know, visiting the
Speaker 1: orphaned where we're from, or connect with like my foster
Speaker 1: family or anything. Because it was such a quick, well
Speaker 1: wind trip with Nike for this particular launch, and because
Speaker 1: Nick wasn't with me, so I thought, I'll wait and
Speaker 1: I'll bring him back.
Speaker 2: Because he's never.
Speaker 1: Been to Korea, and you know, we've been married now
Speaker 1: for a while. I kind of want him to have
Speaker 1: seen and experienced at all. So the last time we
Speaker 1: were at we were adopted from what's called now called
Speaker 1: Eastern Social Welfare Services. It's an orphanage in Soul that
Speaker 1: also has a hospital. And I think it was two
Speaker 1: thousand and two was the last time Mom, Dad, Alex
Speaker 1: and I went back during the World Cup and we
Speaker 1: met our foster parents who had looked after us from
Speaker 1: like zero to five months and who were adopted. And
Speaker 1: we've got all these beautiful photos anyway, and so we're
Speaker 1: going back to Seoul. They're doing a huge I think
Speaker 1: there's a competition right now. Actually this might come out
Speaker 1: on time to win a trip for U and five
Speaker 1: your mates. Just also you should enter. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: right now it's unjust hous page. You got announced yesterday
Speaker 1: and there's some amazing Salefirs, and we're going to document
Speaker 1: obviously the entire troupe and put together as sole itinery
Speaker 1: for anyone who wants to go, because there's just so
Speaker 1: much to do. But we also emailed Easton and said
Speaker 1: we're going to be there, so.
Speaker 2: We're going to go visit.
Speaker 1: So it's going to be lovely like a circle. Yeah,
Speaker 1: have a look at the post now. I think this
Speaker 1: episode will come out tomorrow, so I think just double check. Actually,
Speaker 1: how long the competition?
Speaker 3: Oh my god? Yeah, we're in a trip for six people.
Speaker 3: This is for our family, so bim you go, Oh
Speaker 3: my god, most credible. We're obviously going to do bets dance.
Speaker 2: Where you are most crazy? You knows all the chore?
Speaker 2: Is it like you propose?
Speaker 3: You have to propose to your family, question and question
Speaker 3: to your soul mate.
Speaker 2: Your soul mate, your soul mat anyway, but oh my
Speaker 2: so guys, go when does it close?
Speaker 3: Eleventh of September?
Speaker 2: You have time?
Speaker 3: Yeah, much time?
Speaker 2: Go enter.
Speaker 3: The same time. My god, I'm free too. Oh my god,
Speaker 3: I'm free too. So that's what we're doing.
Speaker 2: We'll put together a little itinery and there will be.
Speaker 1: A podcast diary I Recognition Nick and I should record
Speaker 1: a little audio diary at the end of each day
Speaker 1: to say what we did and like how we felt,
Speaker 1: and then do that as an episode in the block
Speaker 1: when they do like vlogs, vlogs, mini vol.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, what Yeah?
Speaker 3: You should definitely.
Speaker 2: So that's that's what's coming up in the next little while.
Speaker 2: What else do we have? I'm finding ourselves again. Miss
Speaker 2: Kim was your missus Kim?
Speaker 3: You told me.
Speaker 1: Also, there's only like five surnames increasing what I mean, missus. No,
Speaker 1: it's like Kim, Park, Lee, Joy, and Son Yeah. Popular, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think there's maybe seven. It's so weird that there's
Speaker 1: so few surnames.
Speaker 3: Okay, but missus Kim was the lady who looked after you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I was her first baby and she fostered
Speaker 1: I think like forty five children.
Speaker 3: So are you meeting her? I hope.
Speaker 1: So they'll see if she's available and then hopefully we'll
Speaker 1: get to catch up with her.
Speaker 3: That's really exciting.
Speaker 2: I'm really I'm really excited.
Speaker 1: It's insult I was in so I was born in Daegu,
Speaker 1: which is the third biggest city in Korea, and it's
Speaker 1: I think maybe a three hour three hour drive I
Speaker 1: can't actually remember, I should look that up out of soul,
Speaker 1: but the Eastern is insoul, so we'll be able to
Speaker 1: go easily like during our trip.
Speaker 3: Korean is my favorite. I'm excited.
Speaker 2: I love Kim Kim.
Speaker 3: We're just gonna Kim Chi Kim Tree Queen Bubbacue. There's
Speaker 3: a lot of bubbecue.
Speaker 2: There's a lot of Korean bube a beer, so fed chicken,
Speaker 2: curran chicken.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I'm getting carried away.
Speaker 2: Yeah, the update, what's the update for you? You're back
Speaker 2: at footy?
Speaker 3: No foot is finished? That was last year.
Speaker 2: You were back at footy and we went to come
Speaker 2: with your last game.
Speaker 3: Yes you did, because we've been done.
Speaker 2: Your for like a month.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's last game, which by the end of the season.
Speaker 3: I was like, thank the Lord, because that lord.
Speaker 2: You were bog by the way, and was second best
Speaker 2: on ground and it was around like every game.
Speaker 3: No, I actually wasn't.
Speaker 2: You actually were bog.
Speaker 3: No, it wasn't.
Speaker 2: And by bog, I mean you did a big poo.
Speaker 3: You know Sarah Loan's one like sports dragon bog You
Speaker 3: were bog? How much you are you bog? Anyway? Bog bog?
Speaker 2: Bye Luggy bye Buggy.
Speaker 3: We and then I was like, oh, thank god because
Speaker 3: I didn't like it because but because it's very time consuming. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and this is like just local footy. And then it
Speaker 3: finished and I was like, oh I miss footy a
Speaker 3: little bit. But that was the last game. Nothing else
Speaker 3: really major dog sitting at the minute, has brought a collie.
Speaker 2: You've been painting a lot, You've been putting on Sunday.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Connor's wrong, I'm stressed.
Speaker 2: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: Guys.
Speaker 1: Connors Run is this Sunday or you can run your
Speaker 1: way any day all through September, which they started during Lockdown,
Speaker 1: where if you're not in Melbourne on the day, you can.
Speaker 3: Do it anywhere.
Speaker 1: Ye do it anywhere. But there's also like an iconic
Speaker 1: Connor's Run track if you wanted to do it on
Speaker 1: the day with everyone, which is lovely. It raises money
Speaker 1: for the Robert Connor Dawes Foundation. Liz Doors has been
Speaker 1: on the show. You should actually go back and listen
Speaker 1: to her episode, and it raises funds for the number
Speaker 1: one disease killer of children, which is pediatric brain cancer.
Speaker 2: She's amazing, Liz.
Speaker 3: Yeah, the whole family is amazing.
Speaker 2: They're so amazing.
Speaker 1: So, oh my god, you're running is it fifteen point
Speaker 1: four or something?
Speaker 3: Is eighteen? Boy? Hat?
Speaker 5: What?
Speaker 3: I won't die?
Speaker 2: I'm actually do you have trained negative.
Speaker 3: Negative zero, negative one hundred for this? Oh my god,
Speaker 3: I'll give you my BTS playlist. It's you and we
Speaker 3: obviously haven't done that. We've got a group from doing it,
Speaker 3: a bunch of ots. Yeah, social works and all of
Speaker 3: us booked like months ago, and we've all been like,
Speaker 3: oh my god, it's this Sunday and not one of one,
Speaker 3: Like Cassie's probably the only person when is ready cause
Speaker 3: she's been training for a half iron Man, So like,
Speaker 3: you're getting ready?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I really, I think you've run enough you could smash.
Speaker 3: My only concern is my last footy game. You're calf,
Speaker 3: Yeah you remember, yep? Yeah?
Speaker 1: So and you also got massively punched in the vagina.
Speaker 1: I did, actually did like on the ground.
Speaker 3: My synthesis, my pubic synthesis sounds like it's like orchestra,
Speaker 3: but the pso I didn't think.
Speaker 2: I next said the fowls job.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's so bad. So he goes said
Speaker 3: something like I said something about lips or something, and
Speaker 3: he's like oh, like how it's like it's like witch
Speaker 3: lips or something.
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, no, no, no, it was way
Speaker 2: funnier than that.
Speaker 3: And then he said I was like, oh, yeah, my
Speaker 3: virgime is like bruised from last weeking he goes, oh,
Speaker 3: did you something about the lips, and then he said
Speaker 3: I was like ah, and then he goes, did you
Speaker 3: wear the mouth cardh.
Speaker 2: My god, it's so great.
Speaker 3: It's so bad. I was like, that's quite good. I
Speaker 3: did the mouthguard register it or something?
Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, I don't know anyway, So I thought it
Speaker 2: was funny than that.
Speaker 3: I thought I got a corky during the game. So,
Speaker 3: and I don't often, but.
Speaker 2: Your bruises are really bad lately.
Speaker 3: Bruces a really bad. It's like a peach. It's actually
Speaker 3: really bad.
Speaker 1: No, it's like you think that you don't bruise like
Speaker 1: a peach. You just get thrown around a lot, like
Speaker 1: you throw your body around like a crazy Yeah it's true.
Speaker 3: Well I didn't think so, but I've got footage. The
Speaker 3: consistent feedback that I've gotten is that I go hard
Speaker 3: at the pool. So I got this. I thought it
Speaker 3: was a corky in the game because I I just
Speaker 3: remember at halftime being like, oh, my cast really saw
Speaker 3: but I don't remember like a strain in the game,
Speaker 3: so I presumed it was a corky. And then the
Speaker 3: next day I tried to run and I was like, well,
Speaker 3: come right. And then the next Thursday I went to
Speaker 3: do another run and I was like, oh, like three
Speaker 3: steps and I was like, oh no, I had to
Speaker 3: go change my shoes to like my more supportive shoes.
Speaker 3: And then I was like, oh no.
Speaker 2: Just person thing I've ever heard you say.
Speaker 1: I'm most supportive for my hush puppies, my pharmacy shoes,
Speaker 1: my class class.
Speaker 3: And then I was like, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I'm going to make this run now and now you'll
Speaker 2: do You'll be fun.
Speaker 3: So I'm trying to do mass, like mass, recovery mass, yeah,
Speaker 3: protection of the cars.
Speaker 2: I was adrenaline on the day, like you'll be fine.
Speaker 2: You can also walk, yeah yeah.
Speaker 3: So it's more so if it is a cuff strain
Speaker 3: and I'll likely do a good amount of damage on
Speaker 3: it in an eighteen, which you know, I want to
Speaker 3: do it anyway.
Speaker 1: I also do it your way any day. If you
Speaker 1: don't finish the full A ten point eight on the day,
Speaker 1: but there's a.
Speaker 3: Group of us, so I'm going to let them the time.
Speaker 3: But I thought I could also got to train. Oh
Speaker 3: my god, because it's Hampton to say no to run
Speaker 3: to the finish line. If I got to train, I
Speaker 3: get really.
Speaker 2: Get your middle and yes, thank you everyone run. I'm
Speaker 2: just really fast.
Speaker 3: Having this weekend.
Speaker 2: I believe it's September.
Speaker 3: Was getting married in Vietnam, So it's very exciting. Debt
Speaker 3: luxury actually, so.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think through the spring as welling.
Speaker 3: Spring spring springs very exciting.
Speaker 1: We also have some fabulous guests coming out. Were really
Speaker 1: oh yes, I am back working. So hopefully we'll have
Speaker 1: another guest episode for you next week and then we'll
Speaker 1: be back with you, and then we also need to
Speaker 1: get back into this yea that yay. I think you
Speaker 1: should save these ones that you have because we've kind
Speaker 1: of already chatted for like forty five minutes, and I
Speaker 1: feel like that sandwiches it.
Speaker 3: Here, our sandwiches wait, so fucking wait.
Speaker 1: I feel like I had more news as well. I
Speaker 1: can't remember what else what else is happening? Oh, I'm
Speaker 1: doing the shut up for M and D challenge for
Speaker 1: you're on.
Speaker 3: Is it where you stop talking.
Speaker 1: Yeah for twelve hours twenty first September.
Speaker 3: Wait you actually just don't talk?
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's really excited.
Speaker 3: That would be really excited too.
Speaker 2: Yeah, everyone's really excited.
Speaker 3: More this year that year than it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, save and bim, same for next time.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, and you guys please keep submitting them because
Speaker 1: they're such they're so funny and we're so judging everyone this.
Speaker 2: Year that Yeah, any yay is fine and.
Speaker 3: Makes your know, it makes you happy, like I who
Speaker 3: does that? No, so judgy anyway, Okay.
Speaker 2: Well this is a safe space.
Speaker 3: Well, we hope to be on time next time. Yeah.
Speaker 3: It was our news Go Sees events. Oh my god. Okay,
Speaker 3: so we suck. This is what happens. We have no agenda.
Speaker 1: We are also working on our next events. As you
Speaker 1: guys know, we were going to we had two interstate
Speaker 1: so we kind of did our Melbourne and Sydney, and
Speaker 1: then we had two interstate events planned in Adelaide and
Speaker 1: Brisbane and then things just kind of got crazy. So
Speaker 1: we will do those and we are working on them.
Speaker 1: But we also have another Melbourne one coming up, which
Speaker 1: is really exciting, which I also think we shouldn't announce
Speaker 1: until we've got the detail like the date locked in.
Speaker 3: But it's a really fun one. Counting under roofs what
Speaker 3: you Obviously we're not impressed on my as primary school
Speaker 3: in your.
Speaker 2: Fine okay, also for the next this year with that,
Speaker 2: can you jinx under a roof or not?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 3: You can, No, you can't. That's how it goes personals,
Speaker 3: counting sund.
Speaker 2: The roofs doesn't. But there is something about buying someone
Speaker 2: to coke.
Speaker 3: There is not, guys, follow up the next episode.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like you have to buy someone a coke
Speaker 2: or something? Am I remembering that?
Speaker 1: Right? Like you get out of the jinx of you
Speaker 1: by the mon I've never heard you obviously didn't go
Speaker 1: to my premieres gear.
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm cutting myself. Oh my Godlius.
Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for your patience, for your love,
Speaker 1: for all the beautiful messages of supporting the neighborhood for
Speaker 1: little Paul, and we will be back next week with
Speaker 1: the guest episode and then back with the Yay next time.
Speaker 2: Bye bye