1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,520 Speaker 1: This podcast is brought to you by We Are Lonely, 2 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 1: a podcast that's part of Medibanks's ten year commitment to 3 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 1: reduce chronic loneliness in Australia. Welcome to the Seize the 4 00:00:08,360 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 1: Yay Podcast. Busy and happy are not the same thing. 5 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: We too rarely question what makes the heart seeing. We work, 6 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:18,960 Speaker 1: then we rest, but rarely we play and often don't 7 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:21,599 Speaker 1: realize there's more than one way. So this is a 8 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 1: platform to. 9 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 2: Hear and explore the stories of those who found lives 10 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 2: They adore, the. 11 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 1: Good, bad and ugly, the best and worst day will 12 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:34,240 Speaker 1: bear all the facets of Seizing your Yea. I'm Sarah 13 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: Davidson or a spoonful of Sarah, a lawyer turned funentrepreneur 14 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 1: who swapped the suits and heels to co found Matcha 15 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:43,479 Speaker 1: Maiden and matcha Milk Bar. Sez the Ya is a 16 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:46,320 Speaker 1: series of conversations on finding a life you love and 17 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:50,560 Speaker 1: exploring the self doubt, challenge, joy and fulfillment along the way. 18 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 3: Hi BM, Hi BM. 19 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 2: Welcome back. 20 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 3: I love his place so much already you can't wait 21 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 3: to do all of out p cus here. 22 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 1: This is our very first episode in the New House, 23 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:05,600 Speaker 1: which we have actually tried to do. How many times 24 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 1: I brought my gear here for at least four every time? 25 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:12,279 Speaker 2: We just we don't record. 26 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 1: First, we do all the activities, we paint, We like 27 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: get tired, and then it gets to four pm and 28 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:18,319 Speaker 1: I'm like, nah, I'm not feeling it. 29 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 3: Come all the way to and I was like, I'm 30 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:24,320 Speaker 3: like such an interventionist that I'm like, you need rest, 31 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:27,119 Speaker 3: you need rest. I'll come back another time. But also 32 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:32,560 Speaker 3: I love coming here every weekend. I'm like, so any renos. 33 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 1: Anything to do help, any any painting We ended up 34 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:35,680 Speaker 1: any building. 35 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:38,400 Speaker 3: You guys had literally nothing, and you were like, let's 36 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 3: paint the linen cupboard. 37 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:43,840 Speaker 2: We did the anxiety the other day. It was so unnecessary. 38 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know what next? We like, can you 39 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:51,880 Speaker 3: just paint this plaster wall that we're going to rip 40 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 3: out anyway? Something to do. 41 00:01:54,040 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 1: Also, we're sitting in what will become nick in my bedroom. 42 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 1: Eventually it's the master bedroom, but it has no manager. 43 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 1: It's still got the old carpet. We're kind of done 44 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 1: part of the bathroom and we've got sort of currents 45 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:09,680 Speaker 1: and and helped paint this room. But we've closed the 46 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 1: door and you can still hear Nick sooring downstairs. Are 47 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 1: you really getting the full Runner experience? 48 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:15,520 Speaker 3: I don't think they'll probably not be able to hear. 49 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 1: It, but I feel like I can hear it. I 50 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 1: think it's because he knows we're podcasting. 51 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:25,679 Speaker 3: He's like, yeah, contribution mad in Vine mad Invie. 52 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 1: Me the other day when I have him on Valentine's Day. 53 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:31,240 Speaker 1: He's like, you know, I can come on like separate 54 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 1: to an occasion, like just for fun. 55 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, and then you're asking me like I'm 56 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 3: too busy one. I like, my goal in life is 57 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 3: to embarrass my best friends no matter where. It's like 58 00:02:57,639 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 3: it's like my favorite thing to do. Particularly can Sarah 59 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:03,919 Speaker 3: for no other reason. Then I think it's online people 60 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 3: perceive you in a particular way. 61 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:08,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, and like we have bloopers and we let out, 62 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 1: you know, some parts of our personality. 63 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:12,799 Speaker 2: But you just go to town on all the bits 64 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 2: that you like, so we don't let. 65 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 3: The other day. 66 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 2: Okay, here. 67 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 3: And all the buildings like not you have you didn't 68 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 3: really have builders, but the flooring guy was here. Some 69 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 3: guys were here to help like demolish some things. So 70 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:31,440 Speaker 3: a bunch of like laborers. Trade's and aren't. 71 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:32,960 Speaker 2: Close like super close. 72 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, and Nick can only like I only just met 73 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 3: them that morning, and Nick was being all like with 74 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 3: the boys, oh yeah, like look at my standar. And 75 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 3: then Sarah came and then and then I was like, oh, 76 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 3: this is my like my opportunity to embarrass both of them. 77 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 3: So Nick's like, oh, Sarah, come, look at the side 78 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 3: that I've trimmed. I was like, and then he opened 79 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 3: it up, and I was like, Bob, it's beautiful. 80 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 4: Oh my god, Bobby, Bobby, you did such a quick 81 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 4: and the next face was like shut up, shut up, 82 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 4: and I screamed about the whole nicko. 83 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 3: I've never seen Nick properly. 84 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 2: He went inside his own skins. 85 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 5: Like he shut that door closed so fast, and I 86 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:20,720 Speaker 5: was like, Bobby, and I just flew out the audio 87 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:24,239 Speaker 5: so bad, like all the people, all the guys inside 88 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 5: were just smoking. 89 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:26,040 Speaker 3: So funny. 90 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:28,719 Speaker 1: It's also like, I feel like you don't ever use 91 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:30,960 Speaker 1: your pet name for your partner in public, like you 92 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 1: only use it to them directly. Yeah, so I would 93 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 1: never like I call him bab you know, it made 94 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 1: me in front of you and like mum, but in 95 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 1: front of like trades that we've just met I wouldn't 96 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 1: be like Bobby. 97 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was so fun. 98 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:44,040 Speaker 4: I was like it. 99 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 3: Nick was just like he was like shut like I've 100 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 3: never seen him so like a big brother, like stop 101 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 3: it cut it normally, just give it back to me. 102 00:04:52,880 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 3: He couldn't. I just and it was it's literally him 103 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 3: showing you he cut down a tree like a little shrub. 104 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:03,840 Speaker 2: I know. 105 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:06,840 Speaker 1: But otherwise, since we, I mean, you guys know, we've 106 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 1: taken a little bit of time off over the past 107 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 1: week or so. 108 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:12,600 Speaker 2: Actually maybe even a couple of weeks. I don't even know. 109 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 2: I have no concept of time generally, but especially the 110 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 2: past few weeks. So since we first. 111 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 1: Like mentioned the renovation, I think we've pretty like we 112 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 1: have powered through since the last time we spoke about that. 113 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:27,160 Speaker 2: You I'm quite done. 114 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 3: Yeah. I feel like I just had this conception or 115 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:33,360 Speaker 3: maybe misconception that when I take forever, but you guys 116 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:36,719 Speaker 3: do you guys, and this is not like it's it's 117 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:38,919 Speaker 3: like a mansion, but it's a big house with a 118 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 3: lot of I guess rooms and spaces, and so each 119 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 3: space has this and even just painting it. We had 120 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 3: done one room. It took us like four hours and 121 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 3: I was like oh my god, there's like, oh god, 122 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:54,160 Speaker 3: another like eleven spaces to go, but it was right. 123 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 3: And then then I come back the next week and 124 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:58,360 Speaker 3: then all the walls are done, and then the floors 125 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 3: are in, and then the curtains are and then the 126 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 3: kitchen's almost done. So I was like, this has been 127 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 3: like the bathoms are completely cham pretty much done. 128 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:10,719 Speaker 2: It's all come together so quickly. 129 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:13,159 Speaker 1: But I think because Nicks embraced it as such a 130 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:16,279 Speaker 1: like he hates it when I say this, but it's 131 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:19,479 Speaker 1: been such a playta for him, like for someone who's 132 00:06:19,600 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 1: really sedentry because his tech. He's always on his devices. 133 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:25,840 Speaker 1: He will sit in front of three screens for like 134 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:29,159 Speaker 1: twelve hours in a row. To have a project where 135 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:34,279 Speaker 1: he could be tactile all day every day. Like obviously 136 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 1: it's been a bit of a juggle trying to be 137 00:06:36,440 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 1: here and do his normal job, but he's been so 138 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:39,600 Speaker 1: much happier. 139 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, and he's so scared he's playda, but he's so 140 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:43,280 Speaker 3: good at it. 141 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 2: He gets so good. 142 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 1: And he's self taught, like well, I mean, his dad 143 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 1: was a builder, but as in he didn't train to 144 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 1: learn how to build. 145 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 2: He's just kind of figured it all out. 146 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 1: And we've only it's only been plumbing and electrical, which 147 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 1: are kind of the things that you want qualified people for. 148 00:06:57,839 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 2: Everything else he's done. 149 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:01,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, and like you and I, Nick has Nick can 150 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 3: do many things, but he's actually like he's kind of 151 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:06,120 Speaker 3: been the reason why this has moved so far, totally, 152 00:07:06,160 --> 00:07:10,520 Speaker 3: like the kitchen going in, like even the banisters, do 153 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 3: you balatrade Alcatro? Alcatro? 154 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 2: Is it Alcatro? 155 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 3: I painted the Alcatro? 156 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:17,160 Speaker 2: It's a prison. 157 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 1: Strange, But also it's been that just the loveliest has 158 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 1: been having so many friends just pop over and like 159 00:07:27,400 --> 00:07:30,440 Speaker 1: contribute to little bits. And you know we've had like 160 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 1: late nights just eating uber eats on the floor and 161 00:07:32,880 --> 00:07:35,559 Speaker 1: all of us with paint. How you and I walk 162 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:39,800 Speaker 1: home every time with like a liter of painting? Do 163 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 1: we rub our heads on the walls? 164 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 2: Don't understand? And then I glad rap my head the 165 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 2: other night? 166 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 3: No, it's how you think you're like not again, as 167 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:52,680 Speaker 3: you're literally standing inside of a cupboard and your heads down, 168 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 3: not even like in a proper bun, and you're like, oh, 169 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 3: this paint, It's like, it's not the paint's fault your face. 170 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 2: So I literally looked like a condom. The other day, 171 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 2: I wrapped my head in flat and it. 172 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 3: Worked really well. I put the footage. I've got the footage. 173 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 2: It worked really well. 174 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 3: But also shout out to Hissy flew down from America. 175 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 1: I know, he was amazing our best man. He was 176 00:08:14,840 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 1: the best man at our wedding. Lives in the States 177 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 1: and the boys have been missing each other so much. 178 00:08:18,840 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 1: They really don't get enough time together. And the quote 179 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 1: for painting was like eighteen grand. 180 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 2: It was outrageous. 181 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 1: And we looked up Piggsy's flights, you know, because he 182 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 1: really wanted to come and help, and he was like, 183 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 1: I wish I could be there, and we were like, wow, 184 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:33,840 Speaker 1: it won't pay me or fights which are like ten percent. 185 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:35,559 Speaker 1: Did you get the cost of what we're being quoted? 186 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:38,360 Speaker 1: Like would you fly home? And yeah, And he came 187 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:40,840 Speaker 1: at the time where we had the Mya ball and 188 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 1: like all the boys in that group were going and 189 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 1: it was just so much. 190 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 2: And he's a really good he was such a good 191 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:46,679 Speaker 2: paint he. 192 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 3: Was telling me, He's like, yeah, And the reason people 193 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 3: don't realize why I'm like know how to paint or 194 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:53,679 Speaker 3: I'm good at painting. I was like wow, because he's 195 00:08:53,679 --> 00:08:56,800 Speaker 3: a photographer. Because when I was to paint the site, yeah, 196 00:08:56,840 --> 00:08:58,440 Speaker 3: he's like when I first started and I was like 197 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:01,920 Speaker 3: an assistant on the I'd have to paint all the 198 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 3: back dropped and you have to be particulous because you 199 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 3: can't the camera shows everything, like the streaks. He's like, 200 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 3: and so I just that's how I like figured I 201 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 3: had to paint, and he's he's like done. He was 202 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 3: the majority of the house. Like by the end, I 203 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:18,080 Speaker 3: just like did the trimmings and the primer and stuff. 204 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 2: But he's and the boy slept here on camper beds 205 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 2: and it was just really cute. I had such a 206 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 2: cute week together. 207 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:26,440 Speaker 1: But then we had the ball and then we had 208 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:31,480 Speaker 1: a really lovely weekend. But then the Monday, the Monday, guys, 209 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:33,160 Speaker 1: we I think most of you know by now we 210 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 1: had a bit of a n ata that has kind 211 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 1: of been coming, you know, for sort of twelve months. 212 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:44,080 Speaker 1: I think most of you know. Little Paul, beautiful Golden retriever, 213 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 1: my first bond son, my first won son, had a 214 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 1: diagnosis of lung cancer last year. And you know, he 215 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 1: was eleven at the time, so he wasn't a young 216 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 1: He wasn't a puppy, but we were quite shocked and 217 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:58,440 Speaker 1: I didn't even know dogs could get lung cancer. And 218 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:03,480 Speaker 1: we had a dogy acupuncturist, and like a nadrabat, Yeah, 219 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 1: changed his diet, had lots of supplements and took him 220 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:09,640 Speaker 1: off anything inflammatory like kibble and stuff which is like 221 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 1: triple cooked, and for a dog that has any kind 222 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:15,480 Speaker 1: of inflammation, it kind of isn't as good for their body, 223 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 1: So put him on raw food. Some of you have 224 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 1: probably seen his Green Goddess bowls that were like healthier 225 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 1: than all of our food and cost more than all. 226 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 3: Of the boxes his Meno boxes. 227 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 2: And that stopped the tumors growing for a year. 228 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 1: So he had another beautiful year of no pain and 229 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:33,640 Speaker 1: like being you know, a twelve year old dog, so 230 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 1: a little bit less active, but still happy, bathing his 231 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:40,440 Speaker 1: toys every day. And it was his twelfth birthday a 232 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 1: couple of. 233 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:43,080 Speaker 2: Weeks ago, and he was doing really, really well. 234 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:46,360 Speaker 1: And then I think we always knew it would happen 235 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:49,800 Speaker 1: quite quickly like that, when the tumors eventually became too 236 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:51,680 Speaker 1: much of his body, it would happen really fast. So 237 00:10:51,760 --> 00:10:54,680 Speaker 1: we had a weekend of like he wasn't super hungry, 238 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:57,680 Speaker 1: and he wasn't super jumpy, but he was also not 239 00:10:58,080 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 1: you know, dramatically different or anything. So it all came 240 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:03,000 Speaker 1: on really suddenly. We had a beautiful weekend together. Higgsy 241 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 1: came over. You know, Yeahhagy loves loves Paul because he's 242 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 1: been around, you know, he was there when we got 243 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:09,960 Speaker 1: him as a puppy. And then Monday morning he just 244 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:13,080 Speaker 1: woke up and the tumbors had spread everywhere and little 245 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 1: boy couldn't breathe, and it all happened really fast. So 246 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:17,240 Speaker 1: by Monday night we kind of had to make the 247 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 1: decision to say goodbye. 248 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:20,680 Speaker 3: Was he just like did he just wake up? And 249 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 3: then literally like was it like lethargy? 250 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 2: Was that this snow? 251 00:11:24,200 --> 00:11:26,280 Speaker 1: It was like a flat He went to sleep on 252 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 1: Sunday night like basically normal. So by Monday morning, I 253 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 1: actually woke up because I heard. 254 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 2: His breathing like the I think his lungs had filled 255 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:39,480 Speaker 2: with like with all with liquid. 256 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 1: And it had happened fast. You know, it was going 257 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:43,439 Speaker 1: to happen. It was always going to happen like that. 258 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:47,000 Speaker 1: But straight away he really couldn't breathe in all the 259 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:49,840 Speaker 1: way like you could hear hear the liquid kind of rattling, 260 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 1: and he was you could see he was so uncomfortable 261 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:54,600 Speaker 1: trying to get enough air in, and I sort of thought, 262 00:11:55,040 --> 00:11:57,680 Speaker 1: you know, this could be an infection or something acute, 263 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 1: or it could be something more you know, nefarious. But 264 00:12:03,040 --> 00:12:05,120 Speaker 1: I also because it had come on so suddenly, I 265 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 1: was like, but we, you know, will figure it out. 266 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:10,440 Speaker 1: And then like two hours later they sort of like 267 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 1: you you are at that point in his life where 268 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:16,280 Speaker 1: you have to decie what's right for him rather than 269 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 1: you guys like, we of course want to keep him 270 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:20,080 Speaker 1: for as long as we can, but he was like 271 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:24,320 Speaker 1: visibly uncomfortable, and oh my gosh, it was the worst 272 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:27,760 Speaker 1: day I reckon the worst day in my memory. 273 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 2: Like it was just awful, and the whole. 274 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:34,560 Speaker 1: Family was there and like he had I'm so glad 275 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:37,760 Speaker 1: he didn't suffer for very long. We were all there 276 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:40,440 Speaker 1: with him, like right till the last moment. But you 277 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 1: guys know, like if anyone I sort of was a 278 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:45,560 Speaker 1: little bit worried that people who didn't have animals would 279 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:49,560 Speaker 1: not understand the gravity of our reaction. But it's been 280 00:12:49,600 --> 00:12:52,120 Speaker 1: the opposite, Like people more compassionate about animals than they 281 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:53,040 Speaker 1: are about people. 282 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I also feel like Paul had his own identity. 283 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 3: I feel like people like followed you, some followed you 284 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:05,679 Speaker 3: for more poor content. Like I think if you've had 285 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 3: a dog ever once in your life, even if you 286 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:10,319 Speaker 3: don't have one now, you can kind of get it. 287 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 3: We've only ever had to put down one dog because 288 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 3: our last one's passed away. Literally it was the most 289 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 3: beautiful passing. She kind of just like it was like 290 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 3: thirteen years old. Yeah, fell asleep and it was kind 291 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:24,440 Speaker 3: of we didn't have to go through it. It was sad, 292 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 3: but we didn't have. 293 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:26,720 Speaker 2: To make a decision. 294 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. Whereas that, I feel like it's just the hardest thing. 295 00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 3: I was so sad for you. 296 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:34,680 Speaker 2: You started crying straight away. And then but. 297 00:13:34,679 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 3: Because they can't talk to you, I think that's part 298 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:39,719 Speaker 3: of it as well. They can't say thank you, can 299 00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:42,160 Speaker 3: they just look? God? 300 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:45,280 Speaker 1: It was it was like, I really I've never lost 301 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 1: a pet as an adult, and I thought that maybe 302 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:50,760 Speaker 1: being you know, more aware of your emotions, that you 303 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 1: could rationalize it better. But I actually think it's worse 304 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:56,920 Speaker 1: because you're so aware of like you attached such deep 305 00:13:56,960 --> 00:14:02,559 Speaker 1: emotions to this, like your firstborn child, and it was 306 00:14:03,120 --> 00:14:07,439 Speaker 1: like the beautiful thing has been that I like always 307 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:09,080 Speaker 1: thought I was really biased that he was a really 308 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:13,240 Speaker 1: special dog. But I'm not even joking. Like we've had 309 00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:15,560 Speaker 1: a miscarriage, we've been engaged, we've been married, We've had 310 00:14:15,600 --> 00:14:20,080 Speaker 1: lots of big life milestones, all of them combined did 311 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:24,800 Speaker 1: not compare even one percent to the response for Paul, Like, yeah, 312 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 1: thousands of people from overseas who never met us or 313 00:14:29,320 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 1: met him were just like, this little animal brought me 314 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:34,880 Speaker 1: joy or got me through lockdown with his costumes or 315 00:14:34,920 --> 00:14:36,960 Speaker 1: every day I looked forward to his little stories, and 316 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:41,200 Speaker 1: he realized animals bring so much joy and they like 317 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 1: they actually actively change people's mood, and like he had 318 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:49,080 Speaker 1: such a beautiful little legacy in the best life for. 319 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:51,280 Speaker 3: We always said he was yours and Nicks and even 320 00:14:51,400 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 3: my like therapy dog. He was like, oh, everyone's anxiety dog. 321 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:57,360 Speaker 3: But he also was like I think the other thing 322 00:14:57,440 --> 00:15:02,400 Speaker 3: is like a lot of people react did more than 323 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:06,120 Speaker 3: they did in your previous bad news. But you guys, also, 324 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:10,400 Speaker 3: I've never seen you or Nick respond as such like 325 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:13,720 Speaker 3: a visceral way to anything I've never seen myself in 326 00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 3: the time that I've known you and so I was 327 00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 3: like and I was like, I fully get it. That 328 00:15:18,080 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 3: is the last time we spoke about the prospect of 329 00:15:21,280 --> 00:15:24,280 Speaker 3: poor like dying or having to be put down was 330 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:26,880 Speaker 3: last year when you thought that was kind of going 331 00:15:26,920 --> 00:15:28,960 Speaker 3: to be it. And the nice thing that you did 332 00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:33,400 Speaker 3: say that you were like, we're so happy that you guys, 333 00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 3: you had given him the best life, because that's true, 334 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:39,600 Speaker 3: you did, like he was so loved. He went to 335 00:15:39,760 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 3: his spy. 336 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:45,920 Speaker 2: Every doggie day spa and his spy ladies. Oh no, 337 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:49,080 Speaker 2: did the vet people cried everyone because the vets have 338 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:51,840 Speaker 2: been his vets for twelve years. That they were just beautiful. 339 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:55,400 Speaker 1: And you know what's surprising, so many people who we told, 340 00:15:55,800 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 1: like in person burst into tears, like burst into tears. 341 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 2: Oh this beautiful little dog. 342 00:16:01,600 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 1: And it just it was it was like a heartbreaking 343 00:16:05,320 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 1: but also really heartwarming week of like, oh my. 344 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 2: God, our little boy, like he really people really loved 345 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:13,760 Speaker 2: watching him. 346 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:17,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, and yeah, it was really nice but also really 347 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:22,040 Speaker 1: interesting to I'm not I'm very rarely out of control 348 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 1: of my emotions, Like I'm pretty stoic and I cry, 349 00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:28,080 Speaker 1: but I cry, like you know, I do this. I'll 350 00:16:28,080 --> 00:16:32,760 Speaker 1: have something insane happened to me, and I'll be like together, 351 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 1: and then I'll get home and then I'll process it 352 00:16:35,480 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 1: for a few hours and then I'll ball. But I 353 00:16:37,560 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 1: very rarely lose it like in front of people. I 354 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 1: don't know why. I just kind of go numb for 355 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 1: the first little bit and then it kind of happens, 356 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:45,880 Speaker 1: you know. 357 00:16:46,520 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 2: But it was in the it like like on the ground, 358 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:54,960 Speaker 2: balling my eyes at Nick, bawling his idol. We were 359 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:57,400 Speaker 2: just like what is happening to us? Didn't want to eat, 360 00:16:57,440 --> 00:16:59,880 Speaker 2: didn't want to sleep, Like it was grief, is con 361 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 2: assume me? 362 00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:02,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, how are you now? 363 00:17:03,080 --> 00:17:06,240 Speaker 2: It's been two weeks. Yeah, and like I you know, 364 00:17:06,280 --> 00:17:08,280 Speaker 2: I haven't taken time. I had a miscarriage. I didn't 365 00:17:08,280 --> 00:17:09,960 Speaker 2: take more than two days off work. I went straight 366 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:14,119 Speaker 2: back to work after the surgery. And even that I 367 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:17,639 Speaker 2: could kind of process better than this. I took like 368 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:18,720 Speaker 2: a week of work. 369 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:22,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, I just couldn't function you both, you and me. 370 00:17:22,200 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 1: Both And interestingly I thought that people would be judgmental 371 00:17:27,080 --> 00:17:30,119 Speaker 1: of the like lack of professionalism that that showed. But 372 00:17:30,520 --> 00:17:34,040 Speaker 1: in fact, for an animal, everyone understands that. They were 373 00:17:34,040 --> 00:17:36,440 Speaker 1: like they don't submit, don't you come back? 374 00:17:36,480 --> 00:17:38,639 Speaker 2: For two weeks, three weeks, as long as you need 375 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:41,320 Speaker 2: everyone's even like overly compassion. 376 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:45,480 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm actually, you know, time heals those things 377 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 1: more than anything. Yeah, And I think we cried all 378 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:52,879 Speaker 1: day the first few days, and then you cry in 379 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:57,480 Speaker 1: bad like bursts, and then it becomes easier slowly to 380 00:17:57,600 --> 00:18:01,119 Speaker 1: celebrate the really lovely things rather then to just lament 381 00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:04,639 Speaker 1: the loss. And also because we had so much support, 382 00:18:04,720 --> 00:18:05,920 Speaker 1: it took me a few days to be able to 383 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:08,160 Speaker 1: read everyone's messages. And then a couple of friends were 384 00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 1: really lovely and we're like, you know, you don't have 385 00:18:10,160 --> 00:18:11,720 Speaker 1: to respond to all of them or read them all, 386 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:13,879 Speaker 1: like they're given with love and that no one expects 387 00:18:13,920 --> 00:18:15,880 Speaker 1: you to read them but not read them. 388 00:18:15,880 --> 00:18:17,320 Speaker 2: But you know, replied to all of them. 389 00:18:17,320 --> 00:18:19,359 Speaker 1: But I was like, actually, a lot of the time 390 00:18:19,440 --> 00:18:23,360 Speaker 1: people sent really meaningful poems or quotes that helped give 391 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 1: you perspective with your grief. So one of them was like, 392 00:18:26,320 --> 00:18:29,080 Speaker 1: don't lament that your dog wasn't there for your whole life, 393 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:31,159 Speaker 1: because you were there for their whole life, and like 394 00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 1: those things actually help you go. 395 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:34,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, he never lived. 396 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:37,879 Speaker 1: A day without love. Yeah, And even if we were overseas. 397 00:18:37,880 --> 00:18:40,040 Speaker 1: He was with my mum or my aunties or my brother, 398 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:43,440 Speaker 1: like he had his pack. You could, honestly you could 399 00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 1: not have had a moss bog One retriever like he 400 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 1: had the best life ever. And that kind of support 401 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:50,600 Speaker 1: really helps you. I don't know, it was just so 402 00:18:50,760 --> 00:18:53,280 Speaker 1: nice to see you, know how. I'm fascinated by community 403 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:57,040 Speaker 1: and people connecting through common experience even though they've never met, 404 00:18:57,040 --> 00:18:59,840 Speaker 1: they live in different countries, their cultures don't like necessarily 405 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:03,159 Speaker 1: a line, but they can understand the love for an animal. 406 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:07,400 Speaker 1: It was just one of those beautiful humanity moments where 407 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:07,720 Speaker 1: you're like. 408 00:19:08,440 --> 00:19:12,919 Speaker 2: Oh, just life, beauty, pain, Like it all was just 409 00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:13,320 Speaker 2: a lot. 410 00:19:13,480 --> 00:19:16,600 Speaker 1: But it's been I think good timing that we're moving 411 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:18,720 Speaker 1: house because it's been hard. 412 00:19:18,440 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 2: To be in the house. 413 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:21,400 Speaker 1: His toys are still exactly where he left them because 414 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 1: they're so purposefully placed, and we all we just like 415 00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:24,840 Speaker 1: don't look at them. 416 00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:26,920 Speaker 3: So I was going to say, I feel like it's 417 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:30,040 Speaker 3: perfect that you had this outlet as a place that 418 00:19:30,080 --> 00:19:32,440 Speaker 3: you could still be twenty four to seven that still 419 00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:34,640 Speaker 3: felt like home. Yea, because the worst thing you'd want 420 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:36,399 Speaker 3: is for home to be home, but you don't want 421 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 3: to be homes Where else can you be? So yeah, 422 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:41,000 Speaker 3: you know you're at a cafe whereas this you guys 423 00:19:41,040 --> 00:19:43,800 Speaker 3: love being here. But I feel like this is also 424 00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 3: another testament to why we love social media for all 425 00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:52,520 Speaker 3: of it's sometimes negativity. I feel that you have a 426 00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:55,639 Speaker 3: very positive space and community, and I almost feel like 427 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:59,560 Speaker 3: that helped kind of fast track your grieving process totally 428 00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:03,080 Speaker 3: by saying, within us, we are very sad, but then 429 00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:07,480 Speaker 3: there's this outpour of like a sense of happiness by 430 00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:10,480 Speaker 3: all the support, and then all of a sudden you're like, oh, perspective, perspective, 431 00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:13,520 Speaker 3: perspective at all. It makes it easier for you. I 432 00:20:13,520 --> 00:20:15,640 Speaker 3: felt like that because I would have. 433 00:20:15,760 --> 00:20:18,359 Speaker 2: Thought that you would have been worse for longer. 434 00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:21,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, like I do. I think maybe I thought you 435 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:26,280 Speaker 3: would have been not as sad as you were, Like 436 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:28,959 Speaker 3: very sad obviously, but that was like another level of 437 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 3: sadness thinking you guys, but for longer, as opposed to 438 00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:35,000 Speaker 3: like really like a lot, and I really intensive it 439 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:37,240 Speaker 3: around of it for a shorter period of time. Not 440 00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 3: to say that now you're not mourning anymore. But I 441 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:43,720 Speaker 3: saw you probably and six days after, and both of 442 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:47,479 Speaker 3: you were happy to talk about it. See other dogs 443 00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:51,520 Speaker 3: that we bought roomy again. For some people it was like, no, 444 00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:54,000 Speaker 3: that's a really it's too early, or you know, it's 445 00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:55,160 Speaker 3: very reminiscent of. 446 00:20:55,880 --> 00:20:59,119 Speaker 1: But what have you done with the exactly where? Because 447 00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:01,720 Speaker 1: he puts them in places, so we had to leave them. 448 00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:03,600 Speaker 2: I don't know, because they're just. 449 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:05,160 Speaker 3: In such purposeful places. 450 00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:09,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I and so one of them, his main one, Borrows, 451 00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 1: his og went with him. 452 00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:18,320 Speaker 2: That made me go again because Boris is like I've 453 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:22,520 Speaker 2: got dreadlocks because of our Boris is the longest standing. 454 00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:24,800 Speaker 2: Oh my god, and it's Boris version five because when 455 00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:27,920 Speaker 2: Paul was little, he used to actually eat his toy. 456 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:30,200 Speaker 1: He used to be naughty, but this version five has 457 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:33,280 Speaker 1: been like ten years or something. 458 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:35,159 Speaker 3: Boris for the long for the time that I've known you, 459 00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:37,720 Speaker 3: which had seven, he had the same Borrows. 460 00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:40,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, so but it was interesting. It took us. 461 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:42,320 Speaker 1: I reckon until that day at the footy, Like I 462 00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:44,000 Speaker 1: hadn't even left the house. I had that one job 463 00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:47,800 Speaker 1: the next day where I just compartmentalized, and then I 464 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:52,359 Speaker 1: don't think I even saw people at all until Yeah, 465 00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:54,359 Speaker 1: we went to the footy and that was the first 466 00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:56,840 Speaker 1: dog we've seen as well, and we you know, we 467 00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:58,879 Speaker 1: watched a lot of animal memes, like we couldn't we 468 00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:04,320 Speaker 1: just didn't watch anything like Yeah. 469 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:06,240 Speaker 2: But it's interesting because like we are especially here. 470 00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:07,600 Speaker 1: I was like, how do I talk about this because 471 00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:11,440 Speaker 1: we are such a positivity focused. 472 00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:13,360 Speaker 2: Kind of community, But. 473 00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:19,119 Speaker 1: Navigating grief with everyone was also really lovely. 474 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:21,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a really interesting few weeks. 475 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:23,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I also think it's real, Like I think 476 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 3: there's a I feel like if you stay overly positive 477 00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:31,119 Speaker 3: in times too much, it's like that toxic positivity you know, 478 00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:34,879 Speaker 3: not trend but theme where if you came on and 479 00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:38,720 Speaker 3: said I am the happiest because Paul is a celebration 480 00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:41,399 Speaker 3: of life and that's all I would be like, no, 481 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:43,119 Speaker 3: that's wrong, because you're heaved. 482 00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:45,560 Speaker 2: For days, you know, even have a breakdown. 483 00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:51,919 Speaker 3: Some people have asked me, would you get questions no 484 00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:55,760 Speaker 3: about Paul? Would you get another dog? 485 00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:59,760 Speaker 2: Okay, So this is really difficult because. 486 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:04,920 Speaker 1: We just about to move into a new house and 487 00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:10,160 Speaker 1: like have it's got a different yard configuration and why 488 00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:11,880 Speaker 1: not used to the environment yet, I don't know. It's 489 00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:14,800 Speaker 1: a really difficult thing because Nick is very hesitant because 490 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:18,320 Speaker 1: he doesn't want to feel disloyal, like he doesn't want 491 00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:22,080 Speaker 1: to feel because he he's had Goldies before, but then 492 00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:22,720 Speaker 1: he had. 493 00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:25,280 Speaker 2: I've never had a Goldie before, but he had bought a. 494 00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:27,680 Speaker 1: Collies in between, and so it's kind of been a 495 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:29,560 Speaker 1: really and he was really little when he had the Goldies. 496 00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:31,960 Speaker 1: So I think now he's like, I don't want to 497 00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:35,200 Speaker 1: replace Paul. It's really hard to get your head around like. 498 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:37,280 Speaker 3: Another breed or something or just another. 499 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:39,119 Speaker 1: No, I don't think we'd get another breed, but I 500 00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:42,040 Speaker 1: think he would want to leave enough time to honor 501 00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:46,080 Speaker 1: our experience with Paul, even though in my mind it's 502 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:48,680 Speaker 1: been easier for me to think a new puppy would 503 00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:52,360 Speaker 1: not you're not replacing your old dog like you're it's 504 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:56,960 Speaker 1: a totally different experience. But also I yeah, he definitely 505 00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:59,000 Speaker 1: needs to have enough time to kind of be ready 506 00:23:59,040 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 1: for that. 507 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:04,800 Speaker 2: And I don't know. It's weird because my inclination is where. 508 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:06,720 Speaker 1: I've become a dog person, like I'm a dog mum, 509 00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:08,720 Speaker 1: So it's any period where I don't have a dog 510 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:09,639 Speaker 1: is so weird. 511 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:11,560 Speaker 2: Like I don't want to walk around the park by 512 00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:15,920 Speaker 2: myself like dog, Like my whole day is around my dog, 513 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,359 Speaker 2: so it's so weird. I kind of am like, yeah, 514 00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:20,520 Speaker 2: we want to be dog people again, but then I 515 00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:22,320 Speaker 2: understand that he's not quite ready. 516 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:25,600 Speaker 1: So and also, you know, we're going away. We've got 517 00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:27,919 Speaker 1: this career trip coming up, which is so which we 518 00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:30,440 Speaker 1: can talk about in a second. But you know, maybe 519 00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:33,879 Speaker 1: we do take a little break from from having a 520 00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:36,359 Speaker 1: dog until we've settled into the house a bit more 521 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:39,840 Speaker 1: and we like we're used to the space. And also 522 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:42,439 Speaker 1: I forgot Paul was such a well behaved dog, but 523 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:47,520 Speaker 1: he was naughty between like zero and two everything. Yeah, 524 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:49,160 Speaker 1: you've got to train him and you've got to really 525 00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:50,440 Speaker 1: commit to being there. 526 00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:56,679 Speaker 3: We underestimated how long the puppy then adolescent yea, it lastspy, 527 00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:58,639 Speaker 3: but don't tell you about adolescent phase. 528 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:01,320 Speaker 2: I think it's a months to eighteen months. 529 00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:02,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's. 530 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:04,560 Speaker 2: It's a lot. 531 00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:06,679 Speaker 1: It's a lot, right, And then they said, all but 532 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:09,040 Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, it's not like two months, it's like 533 00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:09,440 Speaker 1: a year. 534 00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:11,240 Speaker 3: He's quite like, you know, I have to say, he's 535 00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:14,200 Speaker 3: quite good for his age, but he's still a little 536 00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:20,280 Speaker 3: bit nippy, a bit sided. But he he also lives 537 00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:22,760 Speaker 3: in like a sharehouse, is a very different experience. Yeah, 538 00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:25,280 Speaker 3: but to summarize, your short answer is yes, but it's 539 00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:25,840 Speaker 3: not right now. 540 00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:28,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, but not just yet. And I think we'll 541 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:32,320 Speaker 1: just be guided by when Nick feels ready and just 542 00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:33,920 Speaker 1: see see how he feels. 543 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:37,480 Speaker 3: Do you think you would get like from zero years old? 544 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:39,000 Speaker 2: I think so. 545 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:46,720 Speaker 1: Because we just we love Golden Retrievers, and we had 546 00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:49,560 Speaker 1: Paul from a baby, like we picked him. I met 547 00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:51,560 Speaker 1: him when he was like two weeks old. 548 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 2: Oh baby poor. 549 00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so. Yeah, but I mean yeah, I 550 00:25:57,800 --> 00:25:59,680 Speaker 1: mean if anyone has a goal out for an. 551 00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:02,720 Speaker 3: Option, sure, well I've got one. 552 00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:08,800 Speaker 2: Good remember DMS. Yeah it's yeah, it's been. 553 00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:11,200 Speaker 1: A really it's been a really weird but a really 554 00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:14,480 Speaker 1: nice time. The neighborhood is just a beautiful place. You 555 00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:17,600 Speaker 1: guys have all been lovely, and people sending messages from their. 556 00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:23,480 Speaker 2: Dogs really cute, so cute pictures and videos and also 557 00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:27,280 Speaker 2: pictures of people sending us pictures of them crying over. 558 00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:29,320 Speaker 3: Paul so lovely. 559 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:31,840 Speaker 2: I'm like, you guys are all touched, like people are 560 00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:35,880 Speaker 2: like so the real dads literally, you know, the real 561 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,240 Speaker 2: dads who are our good friends, who we love Jared 562 00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:41,280 Speaker 2: and they're just amazing. So we run into Jared at 563 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,359 Speaker 2: our local cafe the other day anyway, and he messaged 564 00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:46,560 Speaker 2: me later and he's like a friend of his who's 565 00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:48,920 Speaker 2: not a friend of ours, we don't know, but knows 566 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:51,840 Speaker 2: that he knows us. Literally walked in the door crying 567 00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:54,240 Speaker 2: at his house and goes, did you hear. 568 00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:56,880 Speaker 3: About Paul stop? 569 00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:00,600 Speaker 2: So, yeah, that's really lovely, that's kind of comfort. 570 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:03,159 Speaker 3: Oh that's good. Yeah, I'm glad. Yeah, I knew we 571 00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:04,600 Speaker 3: had to touch on that, but I'm glad. 572 00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:09,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're better, not like but better than much better. 573 00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:13,520 Speaker 1: And thank you all for being so patient and compassionate 574 00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:15,199 Speaker 1: about Like I was like, I'm just going to take 575 00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:17,640 Speaker 1: a week off recording, and everyone was like, as if 576 00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:20,720 Speaker 1: you take only a week, like, everyone was just really lovely. 577 00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:23,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was like, it feels like a long time 578 00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:27,199 Speaker 3: ago now, but it's two weeks. So I'm even surprised 579 00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:30,879 Speaker 3: that you're you're both as just back doing what you 580 00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:32,520 Speaker 3: were doing before as quickly as you are. 581 00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:34,919 Speaker 1: So Yeah, and then there comes a point where like, 582 00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:37,480 Speaker 1: distraction is nice. I think if we did it, if 583 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:39,480 Speaker 1: we distracted ourselves too heavily in the first week, we 584 00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 1: wouldn't have processed it. Yeah, but the second week was 585 00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:45,280 Speaker 1: kind of like Okay, we can do little tasks, but. 586 00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:47,720 Speaker 3: Almost feel like that's Nicks. That's always been nixed. 587 00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:50,240 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, he's still process is always yeah. 588 00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:53,200 Speaker 3: Because I remember him being like Nick's already on emails. 589 00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:55,639 Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, because his mechanism would be distracted, 590 00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:56,440 Speaker 3: distract work. 591 00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:59,200 Speaker 2: Oh he built the entire kitchen like in three days. 592 00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:02,640 Speaker 3: Just head down work and that's his escape. 593 00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:03,160 Speaker 5: Yeah. 594 00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I was like, but maybe it's still like 595 00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:08,439 Speaker 3: a good idea, just like appreciate just to be gentle, 596 00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:10,880 Speaker 3: like he's doing it because that's his actually. 597 00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:13,400 Speaker 2: His way of his ways going through and he's. 598 00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:16,040 Speaker 1: Definitely been And there's also interesting watching people cope with 599 00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:20,200 Speaker 1: emotions differently. I didn't want to talk about it until 600 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:22,600 Speaker 1: then suddenly when I was ready, I wanted to just 601 00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:27,160 Speaker 1: talk about the lovely parts. He's still like, thank you, 602 00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:30,159 Speaker 1: that's lovely. Anyway, let's not talk about dogs anymore. Like 603 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:35,159 Speaker 1: he's still quite really grateful for people acknowledging it and 604 00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,280 Speaker 1: then like don't want to talk about it too much, yeah, 605 00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:40,680 Speaker 1: which is yeah. Really, it's like just different different ways 606 00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:45,520 Speaker 1: of coping. Young Australians have never been more lonely, yet 607 00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:49,880 Speaker 1: loneliness is rarely discussed and often misunderstood. 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The last trip 636 00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:24,400 Speaker 3: we went to before lockdown was I when yeah, I 637 00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:26,800 Speaker 3: was in China and then met my siblings in Korea 638 00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:30,040 Speaker 3: and Japan and we're like Nick's been again since and 639 00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:33,720 Speaker 3: he's going again in October. Like we're all as a family. 640 00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:36,360 Speaker 2: And as little brother as Kordnick by the way, yeah sorry. 641 00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 3: And then as a sibling group we love it's so bud. 642 00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:41,000 Speaker 2: Do you guys do sibling holidays? 643 00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:42,440 Speaker 3: Well that was the first time we had done because 644 00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:44,920 Speaker 3: we can only just turn maybe eighteen at that time 645 00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:50,280 Speaker 3: or maybe yeah, seventeen eighteen. Yeah, but yeah, we're just 646 00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:53,800 Speaker 3: kind of Jenna, Nick and Katherine and even Justine kind 647 00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:56,000 Speaker 3: of really get into k dramas. I'll get into it 648 00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:57,480 Speaker 3: once they tell me it's really good or not. 649 00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:01,400 Speaker 2: And then you made me get into Krie Oh my God, 650 00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:03,440 Speaker 2: singles Infernal. 651 00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:04,959 Speaker 3: Cry. 652 00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:08,000 Speaker 2: Ja No No, No, Singles Infernal. 653 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:12,600 Speaker 1: We watched The Higher in One two seasons, two seasons, 654 00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:15,320 Speaker 1: and then I got into Squid Game, and then I 655 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:16,400 Speaker 1: got up with BTS. 656 00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:20,320 Speaker 3: I surprised yourself with BTS. 657 00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:22,880 Speaker 1: It was weird because they've always been like no, like 658 00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:25,680 Speaker 1: I didn't grow up in the culture you like k pup, 659 00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:27,320 Speaker 1: And now I'm like, I know. 660 00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:31,280 Speaker 3: All the work, all the choreography. It was locked like 661 00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:33,080 Speaker 3: all of the singers like. 662 00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:36,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, and like their personalities, their history, their families. 663 00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:40,000 Speaker 3: Yeah you. I was like, it's weird. I was actually 664 00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:41,520 Speaker 3: quite shocked because normally you're but. 665 00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:46,840 Speaker 2: I'm a closet family. Only you know, Ruby knows that's it. 666 00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:49,360 Speaker 3: You're in the closet, do you know? 667 00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:52,200 Speaker 2: It was Lockdown. I just like they because they're. 668 00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:56,840 Speaker 1: So positive, like they're very happy and wholesome. 669 00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:57,680 Speaker 2: They're really wholesome. 670 00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:00,600 Speaker 1: So they're reality TV shows that they have, like they're 671 00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:04,360 Speaker 1: so famous, but the reality TV shows are them just 672 00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:06,959 Speaker 1: being normal, like really down to earth. And because in Lockdown, 673 00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:08,840 Speaker 1: we had nothing to do, and like I'd run out 674 00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:11,160 Speaker 1: of shows. I just started watching this reality TV show 675 00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:13,160 Speaker 1: and being like what is this all about? Like why 676 00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:15,240 Speaker 1: do they have more followers than Biber? Why are they 677 00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:18,360 Speaker 1: How did Korea which is a small country the economy 678 00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:20,400 Speaker 1: but like in the scale of the world, and like 679 00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:24,560 Speaker 1: why did they accelerate to beyond any other YouTube subscriber, 680 00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:27,040 Speaker 1: any other Spotify download? Like how did this kind of 681 00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:29,680 Speaker 1: happen when in the eighties it was like a third 682 00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:30,240 Speaker 1: world country? 683 00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:31,000 Speaker 3: Yeah? 684 00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:34,280 Speaker 1: And then it was just so wholesome and lovely and 685 00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:36,200 Speaker 1: such a nice escape that then I got like, Okay, 686 00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:37,240 Speaker 1: well I've got to watch. 687 00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:40,200 Speaker 2: All of them and learn. Also no other K pop 688 00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:41,320 Speaker 2: group though, only BTS. 689 00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:41,600 Speaker 5: Yeah. 690 00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:42,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. 691 00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:45,040 Speaker 1: And then when we did the marathon which came the 692 00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:49,200 Speaker 1: half marathon, sorry, when things had just opened up. And 693 00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:50,760 Speaker 1: then I did that crazy thing where I flew to 694 00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:51,360 Speaker 1: New York and the. 695 00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:53,440 Speaker 2: Year and then I came here home, and then I 696 00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:55,440 Speaker 2: ran by myself because I was in It's seventy two 697 00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:57,240 Speaker 2: our quarantine amay whatever you guys might remember. 698 00:32:57,280 --> 00:33:01,040 Speaker 1: It was just oh my god, total clusterfuck my whole 699 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:03,800 Speaker 1: soundtrack to keep me going with BTS, I've got it. 700 00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:05,040 Speaker 3: You will say, you'll see. 701 00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:05,360 Speaker 2: It on my phone. 702 00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:06,240 Speaker 3: It's literally lovely. 703 00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:08,800 Speaker 2: It's not even called BTS, it's just called twenty twenty one. 704 00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:11,400 Speaker 2: It's like and it's just every song. 705 00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:14,560 Speaker 3: The genuinely the only thing that you've that's really Korean 706 00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:17,840 Speaker 3: of me, really Korean you've really really Korean of you, 707 00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:23,320 Speaker 3: but also super pop culture yea, like really obsessed. Yess 708 00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:24,240 Speaker 3: we this're so funny. 709 00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:26,520 Speaker 1: But I don't acknowledge it except every now and then 710 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:31,880 Speaker 1: someone in our like group or industry will post something 711 00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:34,120 Speaker 1: about k PUP and I'll just get the reference and 712 00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:35,680 Speaker 1: be like, eh, like comment. 713 00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:37,200 Speaker 2: I think, like I'm in the know, and they'll be. 714 00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:42,320 Speaker 3: Like, I've exposed myself. Anyways, you're going. 715 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:45,680 Speaker 2: To correct CBTs EBG. I say, with it, I would 716 00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:46,680 Speaker 2: actually be saved. 717 00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:47,640 Speaker 3: But they're doing the middle. 718 00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:49,200 Speaker 2: Actually, I know, which is lovely. 719 00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:50,600 Speaker 1: Which is why I hadn't been back for so long, 720 00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:52,920 Speaker 1: because it was a bit murky if I'd be eligible 721 00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,440 Speaker 1: for military service if I went back. Anyway, went back 722 00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:59,600 Speaker 1: in twenty nineteen with Nike for an incredible work trip. God, 723 00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:02,640 Speaker 1: We've been just so fortunate with such amazing opportunities. But 724 00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:06,120 Speaker 1: I didn't do sort of anything, you know, visiting the 725 00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:08,960 Speaker 1: orphaned where we're from, or connect with like my foster 726 00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:11,840 Speaker 1: family or anything. Because it was such a quick, well 727 00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:14,640 Speaker 1: wind trip with Nike for this particular launch, and because 728 00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:17,239 Speaker 1: Nick wasn't with me, so I thought, I'll wait and 729 00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:17,960 Speaker 1: I'll bring him back. 730 00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:18,680 Speaker 2: Because he's never. 731 00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:20,799 Speaker 1: Been to Korea, and you know, we've been married now 732 00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:23,120 Speaker 1: for a while. I kind of want him to have 733 00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:26,200 Speaker 1: seen and experienced at all. So the last time we 734 00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:29,759 Speaker 1: were at we were adopted from what's called now called 735 00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:33,920 Speaker 1: Eastern Social Welfare Services. It's an orphanage in Soul that 736 00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:37,160 Speaker 1: also has a hospital. And I think it was two 737 00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:40,960 Speaker 1: thousand and two was the last time Mom, Dad, Alex 738 00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:44,600 Speaker 1: and I went back during the World Cup and we 739 00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:46,719 Speaker 1: met our foster parents who had looked after us from 740 00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:49,399 Speaker 1: like zero to five months and who were adopted. And 741 00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:52,600 Speaker 1: we've got all these beautiful photos anyway, and so we're 742 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:55,319 Speaker 1: going back to Seoul. They're doing a huge I think 743 00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:57,399 Speaker 1: there's a competition right now. Actually this might come out 744 00:34:57,440 --> 00:34:59,919 Speaker 1: on time to win a trip for U and five 745 00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:02,520 Speaker 1: your mates. Just also you should enter. Oh my god, 746 00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:05,640 Speaker 1: right now it's unjust hous page. You got announced yesterday 747 00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:09,360 Speaker 1: and there's some amazing Salefirs, and we're going to document 748 00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:12,440 Speaker 1: obviously the entire troupe and put together as sole itinery 749 00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:14,480 Speaker 1: for anyone who wants to go, because there's just so 750 00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:18,160 Speaker 1: much to do. But we also emailed Easton and said 751 00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:19,040 Speaker 1: we're going to be there, so. 752 00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:19,759 Speaker 2: We're going to go visit. 753 00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:23,960 Speaker 1: So it's going to be lovely like a circle. Yeah, 754 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:25,120 Speaker 1: have a look at the post now. I think this 755 00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:30,160 Speaker 1: episode will come out tomorrow, so I think just double check. Actually, 756 00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:30,960 Speaker 1: how long the competition? 757 00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:35,080 Speaker 3: Oh my god? Yeah, we're in a trip for six people. 758 00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:42,200 Speaker 3: This is for our family, so bim you go, Oh 759 00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:45,520 Speaker 3: my god, most credible. We're obviously going to do bets dance. 760 00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:48,040 Speaker 2: Where you are most crazy? You knows all the chore? 761 00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:51,040 Speaker 2: Is it like you propose? 762 00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:53,839 Speaker 3: You have to propose to your family, question and question 763 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:55,080 Speaker 3: to your soul mate. 764 00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:59,000 Speaker 2: Your soul mate, your soul mat anyway, but oh my 765 00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:00,839 Speaker 2: so guys, go when does it close? 766 00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:02,000 Speaker 3: Eleventh of September? 767 00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:02,719 Speaker 2: You have time? 768 00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:05,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, much time? 769 00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:06,560 Speaker 2: Go enter. 770 00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:11,960 Speaker 3: The same time. My god, I'm free too. Oh my god, 771 00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:15,719 Speaker 3: I'm free too. So that's what we're doing. 772 00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:17,920 Speaker 2: We'll put together a little itinery and there will be. 773 00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:21,480 Speaker 1: A podcast diary I Recognition Nick and I should record 774 00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:23,879 Speaker 1: a little audio diary at the end of each day 775 00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:25,960 Speaker 1: to say what we did and like how we felt, 776 00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:28,840 Speaker 1: and then do that as an episode in the block 777 00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:32,440 Speaker 1: when they do like vlogs, vlogs, mini vol. 778 00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:37,200 Speaker 2: Oh my god, what Yeah? 779 00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:37,960 Speaker 3: You should definitely. 780 00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:41,120 Speaker 2: So that's that's what's coming up in the next little while. 781 00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:44,160 Speaker 2: What else do we have? I'm finding ourselves again. Miss 782 00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:46,000 Speaker 2: Kim was your missus Kim? 783 00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:47,560 Speaker 3: You told me. 784 00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:55,279 Speaker 1: Also, there's only like five surnames increasing what I mean, missus. No, 785 00:36:55,360 --> 00:37:02,480 Speaker 1: it's like Kim, Park, Lee, Joy, and Son Yeah. Popular, Yeah, 786 00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:04,799 Speaker 1: I think there's maybe seven. It's so weird that there's 787 00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:05,840 Speaker 1: so few surnames. 788 00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:10,040 Speaker 3: Okay, but missus Kim was the lady who looked after you. 789 00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:12,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I was her first baby and she fostered 790 00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:14,080 Speaker 1: I think like forty five children. 791 00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:15,959 Speaker 3: So are you meeting her? I hope. 792 00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:19,239 Speaker 1: So they'll see if she's available and then hopefully we'll 793 00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:20,120 Speaker 1: get to catch up with her. 794 00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:21,720 Speaker 3: That's really exciting. 795 00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:24,040 Speaker 2: I'm really I'm really excited. 796 00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:27,800 Speaker 1: It's insult I was in so I was born in Daegu, 797 00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:31,600 Speaker 1: which is the third biggest city in Korea, and it's 798 00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:34,360 Speaker 1: I think maybe a three hour three hour drive I 799 00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:37,040 Speaker 1: can't actually remember, I should look that up out of soul, 800 00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:41,840 Speaker 1: but the Eastern is insoul, so we'll be able to 801 00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:44,399 Speaker 1: go easily like during our trip. 802 00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:49,320 Speaker 3: Korean is my favorite. I'm excited. 803 00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:53,360 Speaker 2: I love Kim Kim. 804 00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:57,440 Speaker 3: We're just gonna Kim Chi Kim Tree Queen Bubbacue. There's 805 00:37:57,480 --> 00:37:58,239 Speaker 3: a lot of bubbecue. 806 00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:02,720 Speaker 2: There's a lot of Korean bube a beer, so fed chicken, 807 00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:04,000 Speaker 2: curran chicken. 808 00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:06,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I'm getting carried away. 809 00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:09,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, the update, what's the update for you? You're back 810 00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:10,040 Speaker 2: at footy? 811 00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:12,200 Speaker 3: No foot is finished? That was last year. 812 00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:13,799 Speaker 2: You were back at footy and we went to come 813 00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:14,680 Speaker 2: with your last game. 814 00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:16,920 Speaker 3: Yes you did, because we've been done. 815 00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:17,680 Speaker 2: Your for like a month. 816 00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:21,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's last game, which by the end of the season. 817 00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:24,080 Speaker 3: I was like, thank the Lord, because that lord. 818 00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:25,839 Speaker 2: You were bog by the way, and was second best 819 00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:29,120 Speaker 2: on ground and it was around like every game. 820 00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:30,120 Speaker 3: No, I actually wasn't. 821 00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:31,480 Speaker 2: You actually were bog. 822 00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:32,319 Speaker 3: No, it wasn't. 823 00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:34,200 Speaker 2: And by bog, I mean you did a big poo. 824 00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:38,279 Speaker 3: You know Sarah Loan's one like sports dragon bog You 825 00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:41,560 Speaker 3: were bog? How much you are you bog? Anyway? Bog bog? 826 00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:43,879 Speaker 2: Bye Luggy bye Buggy. 827 00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:46,600 Speaker 3: We and then I was like, oh, thank god because 828 00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:50,320 Speaker 3: I didn't like it because but because it's very time consuming. Yeah, 829 00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:52,920 Speaker 3: and this is like just local footy. And then it 830 00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:54,400 Speaker 3: finished and I was like, oh I miss footy a 831 00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:58,719 Speaker 3: little bit. But that was the last game. Nothing else 832 00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:03,719 Speaker 3: really major dog sitting at the minute, has brought a collie. 833 00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:07,080 Speaker 2: You've been painting a lot, You've been putting on Sunday. 834 00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:09,560 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Connor's wrong, I'm stressed. 835 00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:10,319 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 836 00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:10,600 Speaker 3: Guys. 837 00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:12,719 Speaker 1: Connors Run is this Sunday or you can run your 838 00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:16,040 Speaker 1: way any day all through September, which they started during Lockdown, 839 00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:18,759 Speaker 1: where if you're not in Melbourne on the day, you can. 840 00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:19,600 Speaker 3: Do it anywhere. 841 00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:22,760 Speaker 1: Ye do it anywhere. But there's also like an iconic 842 00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:26,040 Speaker 1: Connor's Run track if you wanted to do it on 843 00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:28,880 Speaker 1: the day with everyone, which is lovely. It raises money 844 00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:32,319 Speaker 1: for the Robert Connor Dawes Foundation. Liz Doors has been 845 00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:33,799 Speaker 1: on the show. You should actually go back and listen 846 00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:36,720 Speaker 1: to her episode, and it raises funds for the number 847 00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:40,480 Speaker 1: one disease killer of children, which is pediatric brain cancer. 848 00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:42,120 Speaker 2: She's amazing, Liz. 849 00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:43,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, the whole family is amazing. 850 00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:44,400 Speaker 2: They're so amazing. 851 00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:46,680 Speaker 1: So, oh my god, you're running is it fifteen point 852 00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:47,360 Speaker 1: four or something? 853 00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:48,920 Speaker 3: Is eighteen? Boy? Hat? 854 00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:49,400 Speaker 5: What? 855 00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:50,600 Speaker 3: I won't die? 856 00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:53,040 Speaker 2: I'm actually do you have trained negative. 857 00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:57,200 Speaker 3: Negative zero, negative one hundred for this? Oh my god, 858 00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:02,640 Speaker 3: I'll give you my BTS playlist. It's you and we 859 00:40:02,680 --> 00:40:04,799 Speaker 3: obviously haven't done that. We've got a group from doing it, 860 00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:08,319 Speaker 3: a bunch of ots. Yeah, social works and all of 861 00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:12,000 Speaker 3: us booked like months ago, and we've all been like, 862 00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:15,319 Speaker 3: oh my god, it's this Sunday and not one of one, 863 00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:17,480 Speaker 3: Like Cassie's probably the only person when is ready cause 864 00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:19,200 Speaker 3: she's been training for a half iron Man, So like, 865 00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:20,040 Speaker 3: you're getting ready? 866 00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:23,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I really, I think you've run enough you could smash. 867 00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:26,960 Speaker 3: My only concern is my last footy game. You're calf, 868 00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:29,160 Speaker 3: Yeah you remember, yep? Yeah? 869 00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:32,360 Speaker 1: So and you also got massively punched in the vagina. 870 00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:34,840 Speaker 1: I did, actually did like on the ground. 871 00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:41,960 Speaker 3: My synthesis, my pubic synthesis sounds like it's like orchestra, 872 00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:47,120 Speaker 3: but the pso I didn't think. 873 00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:49,120 Speaker 2: I next said the fowls job. 874 00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:53,719 Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's so bad. So he goes said 875 00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:57,759 Speaker 3: something like I said something about lips or something, and 876 00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:01,879 Speaker 3: he's like oh, like how it's like it's like witch 877 00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:02,680 Speaker 3: lips or something. 878 00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:04,719 Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, no, no, no, it was way 879 00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:05,359 Speaker 2: funnier than that. 880 00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:07,600 Speaker 3: And then he said I was like, oh, yeah, my 881 00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:09,719 Speaker 3: virgime is like bruised from last weeking he goes, oh, 882 00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:12,040 Speaker 3: did you something about the lips, and then he said 883 00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:14,000 Speaker 3: I was like ah, and then he goes, did you 884 00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:20,560 Speaker 3: wear the mouth cardh. 885 00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:19,000 Speaker 2: My god, it's so great. 886 00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:22,880 Speaker 3: It's so bad. I was like, that's quite good. I 887 00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:24,640 Speaker 3: did the mouthguard register it or something? 888 00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:28,200 Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, I don't know anyway, So I thought it 889 00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:28,920 Speaker 2: was funny than that. 890 00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:31,480 Speaker 3: I thought I got a corky during the game. So, 891 00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:32,920 Speaker 3: and I don't often, but. 892 00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:34,600 Speaker 2: Your bruises are really bad lately. 893 00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:37,640 Speaker 3: Bruces a really bad. It's like a peach. It's actually 894 00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:38,200 Speaker 3: really bad. 895 00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:40,759 Speaker 1: No, it's like you think that you don't bruise like 896 00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:42,680 Speaker 1: a peach. You just get thrown around a lot, like 897 00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:45,280 Speaker 1: you throw your body around like a crazy Yeah it's true. 898 00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:49,040 Speaker 3: Well I didn't think so, but I've got footage. The 899 00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:51,719 Speaker 3: consistent feedback that I've gotten is that I go hard 900 00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:54,640 Speaker 3: at the pool. So I got this. I thought it 901 00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:57,080 Speaker 3: was a corky in the game because I I just 902 00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:59,839 Speaker 3: remember at halftime being like, oh, my cast really saw 903 00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:02,279 Speaker 3: but I don't remember like a strain in the game, 904 00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:05,440 Speaker 3: so I presumed it was a corky. And then the 905 00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:08,040 Speaker 3: next day I tried to run and I was like, well, 906 00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:12,360 Speaker 3: come right. And then the next Thursday I went to 907 00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:14,879 Speaker 3: do another run and I was like, oh, like three 908 00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:16,719 Speaker 3: steps and I was like, oh no, I had to 909 00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:20,280 Speaker 3: go change my shoes to like my more supportive shoes. 910 00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:22,160 Speaker 3: And then I was like, oh no. 911 00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:24,200 Speaker 2: Just person thing I've ever heard you say. 912 00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:27,400 Speaker 1: I'm most supportive for my hush puppies, my pharmacy shoes, 913 00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:31,839 Speaker 1: my class class. 914 00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:38,040 Speaker 3: And then I was like, I don't know. 915 00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:40,319 Speaker 2: I'm going to make this run now and now you'll 916 00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:40,839 Speaker 2: do You'll be fun. 917 00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:44,359 Speaker 3: So I'm trying to do mass, like mass, recovery mass, yeah, 918 00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:45,480 Speaker 3: protection of the cars. 919 00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:47,879 Speaker 2: I was adrenaline on the day, like you'll be fine. 920 00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:50,160 Speaker 2: You can also walk, yeah yeah. 921 00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:52,160 Speaker 3: So it's more so if it is a cuff strain 922 00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:55,759 Speaker 3: and I'll likely do a good amount of damage on 923 00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:59,080 Speaker 3: it in an eighteen, which you know, I want to 924 00:42:59,120 --> 00:42:59,600 Speaker 3: do it anyway. 925 00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:01,360 Speaker 1: I also do it your way any day. If you 926 00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:03,239 Speaker 1: don't finish the full A ten point eight on the day, 927 00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:04,120 Speaker 1: but there's a. 928 00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:08,480 Speaker 3: Group of us, so I'm going to let them the time. 929 00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:12,200 Speaker 3: But I thought I could also got to train. Oh 930 00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:17,440 Speaker 3: my god, because it's Hampton to say no to run 931 00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:19,000 Speaker 3: to the finish line. If I got to train, I 932 00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:20,000 Speaker 3: get really. 933 00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:24,520 Speaker 2: Get your middle and yes, thank you everyone run. I'm 934 00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:25,480 Speaker 2: just really fast. 935 00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:28,200 Speaker 3: Having this weekend. 936 00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:30,400 Speaker 2: I believe it's September. 937 00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:36,239 Speaker 3: Was getting married in Vietnam, So it's very exciting. Debt 938 00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:39,440 Speaker 3: luxury actually, so. 939 00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:44,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think through the spring as welling. 940 00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:46,000 Speaker 3: Spring spring springs very exciting. 941 00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:48,560 Speaker 1: We also have some fabulous guests coming out. Were really 942 00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:54,799 Speaker 1: oh yes, I am back working. So hopefully we'll have 943 00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:56,920 Speaker 1: another guest episode for you next week and then we'll 944 00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:58,880 Speaker 1: be back with you, and then we also need to 945 00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:02,080 Speaker 1: get back into this yea that yay. I think you 946 00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:03,839 Speaker 1: should save these ones that you have because we've kind 947 00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:05,520 Speaker 1: of already chatted for like forty five minutes, and I 948 00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:06,560 Speaker 1: feel like that sandwiches it. 949 00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:12,240 Speaker 3: Here, our sandwiches wait, so fucking wait. 950 00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:13,680 Speaker 1: I feel like I had more news as well. I 951 00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:17,560 Speaker 1: can't remember what else what else is happening? Oh, I'm 952 00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:20,120 Speaker 1: doing the shut up for M and D challenge for 953 00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:20,920 Speaker 1: you're on. 954 00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:22,120 Speaker 3: Is it where you stop talking. 955 00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:25,719 Speaker 1: Yeah for twelve hours twenty first September. 956 00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:27,359 Speaker 3: Wait you actually just don't talk? 957 00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:28,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's really excited. 958 00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:30,880 Speaker 3: That would be really excited too. 959 00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:32,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, everyone's really excited. 960 00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:34,680 Speaker 3: More this year that year than it. 961 00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:36,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, save and bim, same for next time. 962 00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:40,280 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, and you guys please keep submitting them because 963 00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:44,360 Speaker 1: they're such they're so funny and we're so judging everyone this. 964 00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:46,360 Speaker 2: Year that Yeah, any yay is fine and. 965 00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:50,319 Speaker 3: Makes your know, it makes you happy, like I who 966 00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:54,000 Speaker 3: does that? No, so judgy anyway, Okay. 967 00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:55,200 Speaker 2: Well this is a safe space. 968 00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:58,840 Speaker 3: Well, we hope to be on time next time. Yeah. 969 00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:03,760 Speaker 3: It was our news Go Sees events. Oh my god. Okay, 970 00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:07,480 Speaker 3: so we suck. This is what happens. We have no agenda. 971 00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:12,000 Speaker 1: We are also working on our next events. As you 972 00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:15,759 Speaker 1: guys know, we were going to we had two interstate 973 00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:17,640 Speaker 1: so we kind of did our Melbourne and Sydney, and 974 00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:19,880 Speaker 1: then we had two interstate events planned in Adelaide and 975 00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:25,759 Speaker 1: Brisbane and then things just kind of got crazy. So 976 00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:28,680 Speaker 1: we will do those and we are working on them. 977 00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:30,719 Speaker 1: But we also have another Melbourne one coming up, which 978 00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:33,960 Speaker 1: is really exciting, which I also think we shouldn't announce 979 00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:36,000 Speaker 1: until we've got the detail like the date locked in. 980 00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:42,719 Speaker 3: But it's a really fun one. Counting under roofs what 981 00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:45,600 Speaker 3: you Obviously we're not impressed on my as primary school 982 00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:46,040 Speaker 3: in your. 983 00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:47,640 Speaker 2: Fine okay, also for the next this year with that, 984 00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:49,560 Speaker 2: can you jinx under a roof or not? 985 00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:50,719 Speaker 1: Yes? 986 00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:55,800 Speaker 3: You can, No, you can't. That's how it goes personals, 987 00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:56,840 Speaker 3: counting sund. 988 00:45:56,600 --> 00:46:00,279 Speaker 2: The roofs doesn't. But there is something about buying someone 989 00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:00,640 Speaker 2: to coke. 990 00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:06,040 Speaker 3: There is not, guys, follow up the next episode. 991 00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:08,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like you have to buy someone a coke 992 00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:09,440 Speaker 2: or something? Am I remembering that? 993 00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:11,279 Speaker 1: Right? Like you get out of the jinx of you 994 00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:14,319 Speaker 1: by the mon I've never heard you obviously didn't go 995 00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:15,440 Speaker 1: to my premieres gear. 996 00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:20,919 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm cutting myself. Oh my Godlius. 997 00:46:21,120 --> 00:46:23,680 Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for your patience, for your love, 998 00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:25,920 Speaker 1: for all the beautiful messages of supporting the neighborhood for 999 00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:28,880 Speaker 1: little Paul, and we will be back next week with 1000 00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:33,680 Speaker 1: the guest episode and then back with the Yay next time. 1001 00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:34,520 Speaker 2: Bye bye