1 00:00:08,234 --> 00:00:10,914 Speaker 1: You're listening to Amma Mia podcast. 2 00:00:16,034 --> 00:00:18,793 Speaker 2: Hello and welcome to Mama Mea out Loud. It's what 3 00:00:18,874 --> 00:00:22,834 Speaker 2: women are actually talking about on Monday, the nineteenth of January. 4 00:00:23,314 --> 00:00:26,914 Speaker 2: I'm Holly wayIn Wright and look, last week we welcomed 5 00:00:26,954 --> 00:00:29,394 Speaker 2: back Mia Friedman to MoMA Mia out Loud. She is 6 00:00:29,434 --> 00:00:32,674 Speaker 2: now on every Tuesday and every Thursday show for subscribers. 7 00:00:32,793 --> 00:00:36,513 Speaker 2: But now we're welcoming back someone else, Amelia Lester, is 8 00:00:36,554 --> 00:00:37,114 Speaker 2: in the house. 9 00:00:38,234 --> 00:00:39,514 Speaker 1: So good to be back here. 10 00:00:39,754 --> 00:00:41,714 Speaker 2: What did you do on your holidays? Amelia? Where have 11 00:00:41,754 --> 00:00:43,034 Speaker 2: you been? What have you been doing? Why haven't you 12 00:00:43,034 --> 00:00:43,553 Speaker 2: been here enough? 13 00:00:43,593 --> 00:00:47,793 Speaker 1: I've got three updates. First, I went brond. You did well? 14 00:00:47,833 --> 00:00:48,513 Speaker 2: You did too? 15 00:00:48,913 --> 00:00:51,314 Speaker 1: Yeah, the barometer for me was a mile clooney because 16 00:00:51,354 --> 00:00:53,633 Speaker 1: she and I have a lot in here. Really, I 17 00:00:53,754 --> 00:00:56,314 Speaker 1: did you one semester of law school back in the day. 18 00:00:56,354 --> 00:00:59,354 Speaker 1: It wasn't very good at it. But she went broond 19 00:00:59,474 --> 00:01:03,274 Speaker 1: and I thought, it's probably time. It's time, so. 20 00:01:03,354 --> 00:01:04,914 Speaker 3: There's something about that time of year. 21 00:01:04,954 --> 00:01:07,714 Speaker 4: I also went I did more of a drastic just like, 22 00:01:08,154 --> 00:01:10,634 Speaker 4: make me really blonde. I want to do something to 23 00:01:10,674 --> 00:01:12,914 Speaker 4: really feel fresh in the Are you feeling fresh? 24 00:01:12,954 --> 00:01:15,914 Speaker 1: I'm feeling fresh. Second, thing that's helping me feeling fresh. 25 00:01:16,514 --> 00:01:20,954 Speaker 1: Heard m vernon on this podcast talking about Now I've 26 00:01:20,954 --> 00:01:24,274 Speaker 1: had a in my bathroom cabinet for years, but I've 27 00:01:24,314 --> 00:01:27,114 Speaker 1: never bothered to use it. And then I thought, well, 28 00:01:27,754 --> 00:01:30,914 Speaker 1: if I can look like m vernon by, I'm going 29 00:01:30,954 --> 00:01:31,434 Speaker 1: to do it. 30 00:01:31,874 --> 00:01:35,474 Speaker 2: So I'm doing anything about the numbers at all, nothing 31 00:01:35,514 --> 00:01:35,874 Speaker 2: at all. 32 00:01:37,794 --> 00:01:42,714 Speaker 1: And now I'm feeling very emphatically drained. I emphatic thank you, 33 00:01:42,754 --> 00:01:47,874 Speaker 1: emphatically thank you, but not the other way. How do 34 00:01:48,034 --> 00:01:50,394 Speaker 1: you work to hear after your holiday you're looking very drained? 35 00:01:50,394 --> 00:01:55,794 Speaker 1: Amelia herd Thing went to Western Australia. What's a beautiful 36 00:01:55,954 --> 00:01:58,834 Speaker 1: place I want to shout out to an out louder 37 00:01:58,914 --> 00:02:01,354 Speaker 1: Sarah who I went to visit there in Perth and 38 00:02:01,394 --> 00:02:04,154 Speaker 1: we went to Rightnest Island. We saw quakers. We went 39 00:02:04,194 --> 00:02:08,554 Speaker 1: to Margaret River, which is the most beautiful wine region 40 00:02:08,633 --> 00:02:09,474 Speaker 1: I've ever seen. 41 00:02:09,714 --> 00:02:10,474 Speaker 3: It's ridiculous. 42 00:02:10,514 --> 00:02:13,234 Speaker 4: I went this time last year, I think to that 43 00:02:13,353 --> 00:02:16,554 Speaker 4: region best kept secret. I was like, this is one 44 00:02:16,554 --> 00:02:18,514 Speaker 4: of the most beautiful places in the world that I've 45 00:02:18,514 --> 00:02:18,874 Speaker 4: ever been. 46 00:02:19,194 --> 00:02:22,954 Speaker 1: Stunny, stunning, and every winery has a pizza oven and 47 00:02:22,994 --> 00:02:26,794 Speaker 1: a playground, which is my kind of winery. 48 00:02:27,114 --> 00:02:30,354 Speaker 2: Perfect feel perfect, well, welcome back. I think thank you 49 00:02:30,394 --> 00:02:32,914 Speaker 2: for peeling yourself away from the pizza rocks and the 50 00:02:32,914 --> 00:02:37,354 Speaker 2: wineries to be here with myself and Jesse Stevens. You 51 00:02:37,354 --> 00:02:39,314 Speaker 2: can hear more actually about what me and Jesse did 52 00:02:39,314 --> 00:02:43,194 Speaker 2: on our holidays on tomorrow's subscriber at meya yeah, because 53 00:02:43,234 --> 00:02:47,114 Speaker 2: she has questions, We have questions. But on today's show, 54 00:02:47,314 --> 00:02:50,474 Speaker 2: this is what has made our agenda, first of all, 55 00:02:50,514 --> 00:02:52,914 Speaker 2: and you know that we've got our Amelia here for this. 56 00:02:52,994 --> 00:02:55,514 Speaker 2: We've been dying for it, Greenland, Where is it? 57 00:02:55,674 --> 00:02:56,194 Speaker 1: What is it? 58 00:02:56,274 --> 00:02:58,674 Speaker 2: Why does Trump want it? And what happens if he 59 00:02:58,794 --> 00:02:59,274 Speaker 2: gets it. 60 00:02:59,514 --> 00:03:02,754 Speaker 1: Plus we want to talk about why women are still 61 00:03:02,754 --> 00:03:06,474 Speaker 1: being asked to smile, why we're still policing women's behavior 62 00:03:06,514 --> 00:03:08,234 Speaker 1: on the Red car and beyond. 63 00:03:08,434 --> 00:03:12,234 Speaker 4: And has Stephen Bartlett, one of the biggest podcasters in 64 00:03:12,274 --> 00:03:15,394 Speaker 4: the world, been red pilled. We are going to translate 65 00:03:15,634 --> 00:03:18,354 Speaker 4: that for you and talk about why there is so 66 00:03:18,514 --> 00:03:21,754 Speaker 4: much controversy around the podcast Diary of a CEO. 67 00:03:22,114 --> 00:03:23,874 Speaker 2: But first, Amelia Lester. 68 00:03:23,954 --> 00:03:27,034 Speaker 1: So in case you missed it, you're probably seeing twenty 69 00:03:27,114 --> 00:03:30,394 Speaker 1: sixteen everywhere right now. A few days ago, I was 70 00:03:30,434 --> 00:03:34,274 Speaker 1: still on holiday and Jesse popped into my DMS and 71 00:03:34,394 --> 00:03:37,674 Speaker 1: asked me to send a photo of me from twenty sixteen, 72 00:03:37,754 --> 00:03:40,034 Speaker 1: and everyone on the Outlard team was asked to do this. 73 00:03:40,394 --> 00:03:44,234 Speaker 1: Holly's was particularly poinny. It was her in front of 74 00:03:44,274 --> 00:03:46,514 Speaker 1: a Hillary Clinton themed mood born. 75 00:03:46,634 --> 00:03:48,994 Speaker 2: It was on the day that we thought she was 76 00:03:49,034 --> 00:03:52,074 Speaker 2: going to win the election, and we all wore pantsuits 77 00:03:52,114 --> 00:03:54,554 Speaker 2: and I had a whole Hillary wall. 78 00:03:55,634 --> 00:03:58,034 Speaker 1: That stopped me in my tracks that one. So women 79 00:03:58,114 --> 00:03:59,954 Speaker 1: all over the world are getting in on this trend 80 00:03:59,994 --> 00:04:02,674 Speaker 1: of posting these throwback photos of themselves. There are some 81 00:04:02,874 --> 00:04:05,394 Speaker 1: common themes that I've identified. There are a lot of 82 00:04:05,474 --> 00:04:09,274 Speaker 1: oversized sunnies, a lot of peplum tops, a lot of 83 00:04:09,274 --> 00:04:13,154 Speaker 1: off the shoulder tops, fake eyelashes, skinny jeans. I'm not 84 00:04:13,194 --> 00:04:16,154 Speaker 1: on social anymore, but my throwback would be a picture 85 00:04:16,194 --> 00:04:19,474 Speaker 1: of me in a literal flower crown, like does an 86 00:04:19,914 --> 00:04:22,553 Speaker 1: say twenty sixteen more than a flower crown. 87 00:04:22,594 --> 00:04:24,514 Speaker 2: There are a lot of deep side parts too. 88 00:04:24,753 --> 00:04:27,633 Speaker 4: Oh, there were and filters where we just didn't even 89 00:04:27,674 --> 00:04:30,713 Speaker 4: look like people like so overexposed. 90 00:04:31,073 --> 00:04:32,553 Speaker 3: I'm glad that we below see. 91 00:04:32,354 --> 00:04:35,473 Speaker 1: It to remember. Yeah, Kylie Jenne captioned hers, you just 92 00:04:35,553 --> 00:04:37,674 Speaker 1: had to be there. So my question is, did you 93 00:04:37,753 --> 00:04:40,073 Speaker 1: just have to be that? Why twenty sixteen? It's obviously 94 00:04:40,113 --> 00:04:42,993 Speaker 1: ten years ago. It's a decade ago, which feels insane 95 00:04:43,073 --> 00:04:45,633 Speaker 1: to say, because twenty sixteen is three years ago, just 96 00:04:45,674 --> 00:04:48,753 Speaker 1: like the nineties were the previous decade. Why are we 97 00:04:48,834 --> 00:04:50,953 Speaker 1: fixated on twenty sixteen? What's your theory? 98 00:04:51,594 --> 00:04:53,234 Speaker 3: I reckon, we can't believe it was ten years ago. 99 00:04:53,354 --> 00:04:54,234 Speaker 1: Yeah, I reckon. 100 00:04:54,234 --> 00:04:57,833 Speaker 3: We're all desperate for content ideas, and this is a content. 101 00:04:57,553 --> 00:04:59,633 Speaker 4: Idea where a lot of creators are like, fuck, I 102 00:04:59,714 --> 00:05:00,674 Speaker 4: didn't have any. 103 00:05:00,513 --> 00:05:02,313 Speaker 1: But why twenty sixteen? Though? 104 00:05:02,714 --> 00:05:07,354 Speaker 4: I think because as you say, it's ten years people 105 00:05:07,794 --> 00:05:11,553 Speaker 4: are inherently nostalgic. They like looking back at what they 106 00:05:11,553 --> 00:05:14,513 Speaker 4: were doing. It's interesting that we can talk about the 107 00:05:14,553 --> 00:05:17,794 Speaker 4: politics and the climate and the actual vibe of twenty sixteen, 108 00:05:18,113 --> 00:05:20,154 Speaker 4: but that doesn't come into anyone's throwbackstune. 109 00:05:20,274 --> 00:05:21,834 Speaker 3: It's all about where. 110 00:05:21,633 --> 00:05:24,594 Speaker 4: You were in your life stage and what was going 111 00:05:24,633 --> 00:05:28,433 Speaker 4: on in your life. I worry that there's an element 112 00:05:28,513 --> 00:05:33,713 Speaker 4: of we all looked younger and slimmer, and that that's 113 00:05:33,794 --> 00:05:35,553 Speaker 4: just an element of why you would want to share 114 00:05:35,594 --> 00:05:36,633 Speaker 4: photos from that period. 115 00:05:36,753 --> 00:05:38,714 Speaker 2: I do not want a share photos well, I look 116 00:05:38,794 --> 00:05:41,954 Speaker 2: younger and slimmer. That's a terrible idea because that immediately 117 00:05:41,953 --> 00:05:44,594 Speaker 2: gives people a point of reference. You want to pretend 118 00:05:44,594 --> 00:05:47,154 Speaker 2: I have always looked exactly how I look like. Now, 119 00:05:47,193 --> 00:05:49,154 Speaker 2: what are you even talking about aging more? 120 00:05:49,313 --> 00:05:49,753 Speaker 5: I don't know. 121 00:05:49,953 --> 00:05:53,193 Speaker 4: I reckon that that what we're nostalgic for isn't the 122 00:05:53,753 --> 00:05:56,034 Speaker 4: moment in time, because if we actually look back and 123 00:05:56,073 --> 00:05:57,873 Speaker 4: you go breaksit happened that year. 124 00:05:58,274 --> 00:05:59,553 Speaker 3: We also had Trump. 125 00:05:59,354 --> 00:06:01,753 Speaker 1: Was Brexit in twenty sixteen, so I think it was 126 00:06:01,753 --> 00:06:04,353 Speaker 1: like mid years. I swore it was twenty fifteen. Twenty 127 00:06:04,393 --> 00:06:05,954 Speaker 1: sixteen had a lot of things happening. 128 00:06:05,993 --> 00:06:08,793 Speaker 4: Now we're not good, so Brexit and Trump to happen 129 00:06:08,834 --> 00:06:11,354 Speaker 4: in the same year. It felt as though. 130 00:06:11,274 --> 00:06:13,753 Speaker 3: I looked back at all the analysis of at the 131 00:06:13,794 --> 00:06:14,314 Speaker 3: end of the year. 132 00:06:14,354 --> 00:06:16,993 Speaker 4: You know how cultural critics and analysts come in and 133 00:06:17,034 --> 00:06:20,593 Speaker 4: go twenty sixteen, there was no optimism. They were all 134 00:06:20,633 --> 00:06:24,513 Speaker 4: saying the idea that history is a story of progress 135 00:06:25,113 --> 00:06:27,794 Speaker 4: is one we are abandoning. At this point, the bottom 136 00:06:27,794 --> 00:06:31,234 Speaker 4: fell out. People felt as though they didn't know the 137 00:06:31,313 --> 00:06:32,834 Speaker 4: country that they lived. 138 00:06:32,553 --> 00:06:34,354 Speaker 2: In how right they were. 139 00:06:35,993 --> 00:06:38,873 Speaker 4: And it became more competitive, and it became about content creators, 140 00:06:38,873 --> 00:06:40,194 Speaker 4: and all that kind of stuff. 141 00:06:39,993 --> 00:06:41,993 Speaker 1: That makes so much sense. I saw a stat the 142 00:06:42,034 --> 00:06:44,034 Speaker 1: other day that stopped me in my tracks. It said 143 00:06:44,034 --> 00:06:47,354 Speaker 1: that these days, only seven percent of time spent on 144 00:06:47,393 --> 00:06:50,234 Speaker 1: Instagram is spent on content that is offered by your 145 00:06:50,234 --> 00:06:53,274 Speaker 1: friends and family. Now, I waged it in twenty sixteen, 146 00:06:53,953 --> 00:06:55,513 Speaker 1: it was a lot higher than that. 147 00:06:55,714 --> 00:06:58,033 Speaker 2: Oh absolutely, I think that's true. I think we're just 148 00:06:58,113 --> 00:07:01,193 Speaker 2: nostalgic for the innocence of it. People posting things they 149 00:07:01,234 --> 00:07:03,593 Speaker 2: wouldn't dream of posting now. And I don't mean political things. 150 00:07:03,633 --> 00:07:06,593 Speaker 2: I just mean personal things, things that now people would 151 00:07:06,633 --> 00:07:09,473 Speaker 2: mock and laugh at and tease and point out and say, 152 00:07:09,514 --> 00:07:12,114 Speaker 2: how could you tone deaf? Da da da? And then 153 00:07:12,154 --> 00:07:14,554 Speaker 2: it was Instagram was like look at my flower croom, 154 00:07:14,594 --> 00:07:17,154 Speaker 2: look at my breakfast avocado toasty. It was just all 155 00:07:17,154 --> 00:07:18,874 Speaker 2: that stuff. And as I said, I think to me 156 00:07:19,034 --> 00:07:20,794 Speaker 2: last week, I'm going to bring that back. That's my 157 00:07:20,874 --> 00:07:22,154 Speaker 2: twenty six energy. 158 00:07:22,194 --> 00:07:23,714 Speaker 1: I want to ask you, how's that going. 159 00:07:23,874 --> 00:07:26,114 Speaker 2: We don't have to do what they tell us to do. 160 00:07:26,393 --> 00:07:28,674 Speaker 2: Yesterday it's posted some pictures of my vegetables. 161 00:07:29,514 --> 00:07:31,114 Speaker 1: How was engagement on that, Holly? 162 00:07:32,274 --> 00:07:35,794 Speaker 2: It could have been better. I've got some work to 163 00:07:35,834 --> 00:07:38,794 Speaker 2: do on this front, but like, we can make our 164 00:07:38,834 --> 00:07:40,794 Speaker 2: lives look how we want to on social media, right, 165 00:07:40,794 --> 00:07:42,994 Speaker 2: we don't have to follow their rules because I think 166 00:07:43,034 --> 00:07:45,234 Speaker 2: that's what people are nostalgia for. They're like, here's me 167 00:07:45,274 --> 00:07:47,473 Speaker 2: and my friend's getting drunk in the club, and they're. 168 00:07:47,314 --> 00:07:49,554 Speaker 1: Like, I wouldn't post that now. 169 00:07:48,994 --> 00:07:52,754 Speaker 4: And so many people who hadn't posted in a really 170 00:07:52,794 --> 00:07:57,393 Speaker 4: long time actually did. So It's been this funny moment 171 00:07:57,474 --> 00:08:00,034 Speaker 4: of like, oh, I am seeing my friends and family 172 00:08:00,194 --> 00:08:01,834 Speaker 4: all of a sudden in a way that I haven't 173 00:08:01,834 --> 00:08:04,593 Speaker 4: seen them in ages, because they've just retreated. I also 174 00:08:04,674 --> 00:08:07,034 Speaker 4: wonder if it's pre pandemic. I think that it's like 175 00:08:07,874 --> 00:08:10,273 Speaker 4: none of us saw what was going to happen. If 176 00:08:10,274 --> 00:08:12,674 Speaker 4: we had told ourselves in twenty sixteen what the next 177 00:08:12,674 --> 00:08:14,834 Speaker 4: ten years would look like, we wouldn't have believed it. 178 00:08:15,234 --> 00:08:17,074 Speaker 4: So there is that sort of innocence. 179 00:08:17,114 --> 00:08:20,634 Speaker 1: But sixteen, can you imagine if we had sat down 180 00:08:20,634 --> 00:08:22,234 Speaker 1: our twenty sixteen selves. 181 00:08:22,874 --> 00:08:25,394 Speaker 2: We have lived through a lot. Everybody, no wonder we're 182 00:08:25,393 --> 00:08:26,354 Speaker 2: all feeling a little bit. 183 00:08:27,354 --> 00:08:29,154 Speaker 1: I wonder like it's okay. 184 00:08:29,434 --> 00:08:33,194 Speaker 2: The twenty sixteen throwback should be a reminder of our resilience. 185 00:08:33,274 --> 00:08:39,354 Speaker 2: Stand we're still we're still posting, don't take my filters 186 00:08:39,394 --> 00:08:47,154 Speaker 2: from my cold dead hair. Amelia as a Bron as 187 00:08:47,154 --> 00:08:54,314 Speaker 2: a Bron Greenland question as an American Australian foreign policy journalist, 188 00:08:54,874 --> 00:08:57,114 Speaker 2: because we all know that is Amelia not only is 189 00:08:57,154 --> 00:08:59,394 Speaker 2: an expert in old things America, but she is she 190 00:08:59,514 --> 00:09:01,994 Speaker 2: literally works for a publication called Foreign Policy. So I 191 00:09:01,994 --> 00:09:06,034 Speaker 2: can't imagine that your holiday was that relaxing really, because 192 00:09:06,074 --> 00:09:08,794 Speaker 2: things haven't been very quiet on the foreign policy. 193 00:09:08,914 --> 00:09:11,834 Speaker 3: They not respect a million's holiday and mar at all. 194 00:09:11,954 --> 00:09:13,954 Speaker 2: They did, and things have not been quiet at all. 195 00:09:14,234 --> 00:09:17,354 Speaker 2: So I have questions, and I know the outluders do. 196 00:09:17,954 --> 00:09:21,394 Speaker 2: Those questions of course, could be about Ice. They could 197 00:09:21,474 --> 00:09:24,474 Speaker 2: be about the next steps with Venezuela. They could be 198 00:09:24,554 --> 00:09:27,914 Speaker 2: about Trump's moves in Iran, or about the mass protests 199 00:09:27,954 --> 00:09:31,714 Speaker 2: in Minneapolis. But no that we have chosen a specific 200 00:09:31,794 --> 00:09:34,594 Speaker 2: area to focus on today, and today I'm asking on 201 00:09:34,634 --> 00:09:38,394 Speaker 2: behalf of the outlouders, what about Greenland. The only thing 202 00:09:38,434 --> 00:09:41,994 Speaker 2: I really know about Greenland is it's not green. It's 203 00:09:42,074 --> 00:09:45,714 Speaker 2: mostly white because it's an Arctic country. And today the 204 00:09:45,834 --> 00:09:49,794 Speaker 2: temperature in Greenland is minus twenty one degrees celsius. But 205 00:09:49,914 --> 00:09:52,434 Speaker 2: thanks to the wind, chill. It feels more like minus 206 00:09:52,474 --> 00:09:56,154 Speaker 2: thirty three, So I have to start there. Why does 207 00:09:56,194 --> 00:09:59,714 Speaker 2: Trump really really want this really cold place? 208 00:10:00,274 --> 00:10:03,914 Speaker 1: You know how, last week on the show, you basically 209 00:10:03,914 --> 00:10:09,354 Speaker 1: boiled down Trump's reason for kidnapping Venezuela's leader, Nicholas Maduro 210 00:10:09,994 --> 00:10:12,714 Speaker 1: as because Maduro made fun of Trump's dancing. 211 00:10:12,794 --> 00:10:13,514 Speaker 2: Were you proud of me? 212 00:10:13,634 --> 00:10:15,954 Speaker 1: I was proud of you because I thought that's exactly 213 00:10:15,994 --> 00:10:19,194 Speaker 1: why Trump decided to kidnap a Duro. I think the 214 00:10:19,274 --> 00:10:22,954 Speaker 1: reason why he wants Greenland is similarly quite silly. He 215 00:10:23,034 --> 00:10:27,234 Speaker 1: wants Greenland because it looks really big on a map. Yes, 216 00:10:27,554 --> 00:10:29,874 Speaker 1: this is my theory, and let me explain a little 217 00:10:29,874 --> 00:10:33,953 Speaker 1: bit about it. So most maps are a bit distorted 218 00:10:34,234 --> 00:10:36,554 Speaker 1: because it's something to do with the world being round, 219 00:10:36,914 --> 00:10:38,754 Speaker 1: and then you have to put it on a flat 220 00:10:38,794 --> 00:10:41,914 Speaker 1: piece of paper. Look, it's geometry. It's not my strong point, 221 00:10:41,954 --> 00:10:45,954 Speaker 1: but maps are distorted, and Greenland on a map looks enormous. 222 00:10:46,194 --> 00:10:46,754 Speaker 3: It really does. 223 00:10:46,794 --> 00:10:48,194 Speaker 4: I looked at it on a map and I was 224 00:10:48,234 --> 00:10:50,994 Speaker 4: also surprised by how close it is to the US. 225 00:10:51,154 --> 00:10:53,634 Speaker 1: Yes, it's technically part of North America. It is the 226 00:10:53,634 --> 00:10:57,794 Speaker 1: world's largest island that isn't a continent which has Australians 227 00:10:57,834 --> 00:11:00,074 Speaker 1: we should be aware of. But it isn't as big 228 00:11:00,114 --> 00:11:02,154 Speaker 1: as it looks. In fact, it looks on a map 229 00:11:02,194 --> 00:11:05,714 Speaker 1: the size of Africa. Africa is fourteen times bigger than Greenland, 230 00:11:06,154 --> 00:11:10,234 Speaker 1: fourteen times names So this is geography blindness. Yes, So 231 00:11:10,314 --> 00:11:12,394 Speaker 1: I think Trump looked at a map and he saw 232 00:11:12,394 --> 00:11:16,274 Speaker 1: that Greenland looked really big, and he said, I want that. Now. 233 00:11:16,314 --> 00:11:21,394 Speaker 1: It is in a very geographically contested region because, for instance, 234 00:11:21,394 --> 00:11:23,554 Speaker 1: in World War two, the Americans were worried that the 235 00:11:23,634 --> 00:11:25,874 Speaker 1: Nazis were going to use it as a stepping stone 236 00:11:25,914 --> 00:11:28,834 Speaker 1: to getting to the US. This obviously didn't end up happening. 237 00:11:29,274 --> 00:11:31,914 Speaker 1: But it is in this area where it's close to Russia, 238 00:11:32,034 --> 00:11:35,034 Speaker 1: it's close to China, it's close to Europe, and it's 239 00:11:35,114 --> 00:11:37,034 Speaker 1: very close to North America. 240 00:11:37,114 --> 00:11:38,834 Speaker 2: So who's in charge of it now? 241 00:11:39,034 --> 00:11:42,194 Speaker 1: Three hundred years ago it was colonized by Denmark, but 242 00:11:42,394 --> 00:11:47,194 Speaker 1: now it is run by Greenlanders, so self determined, self determined. 243 00:11:47,274 --> 00:11:50,034 Speaker 1: After World War Two, Denmark said you have home rule, 244 00:11:50,474 --> 00:11:53,554 Speaker 1: your semi autonomous, you can have an independence referendum. They 245 00:11:53,554 --> 00:11:56,394 Speaker 1: haven't gone around to having that yet, but all indications 246 00:11:56,394 --> 00:11:58,874 Speaker 1: are they do not want to be sold to the 247 00:11:58,954 --> 00:12:02,474 Speaker 1: United States. They're not completely happy with Denmark being in charge, 248 00:12:02,474 --> 00:12:04,514 Speaker 1: but they're moving towards a place where they will be 249 00:12:04,554 --> 00:12:04,994 Speaker 1: their own. 250 00:12:05,074 --> 00:12:07,834 Speaker 2: I feel like about sixty thousand people something. 251 00:12:07,914 --> 00:12:10,434 Speaker 1: There's actually fifty seven. 252 00:12:10,234 --> 00:12:14,114 Speaker 2: Thousand, so that's a small population. There's still a population. 253 00:12:14,194 --> 00:12:16,833 Speaker 3: I have a dumb question, since when can you just 254 00:12:16,874 --> 00:12:17,554 Speaker 3: buy a country? 255 00:12:17,634 --> 00:12:17,874 Speaker 6: Yeah? 256 00:12:18,314 --> 00:12:20,354 Speaker 4: Is that a thing really that we can just go? 257 00:12:20,554 --> 00:12:22,514 Speaker 4: Let's look at a map and go, I'll have that one. 258 00:12:22,554 --> 00:12:26,154 Speaker 1: It's actually not a thing. America has tried it before, though. 259 00:12:26,234 --> 00:12:29,274 Speaker 1: In nineteen forty six, President Truman said to Denmark, look, 260 00:12:29,314 --> 00:12:31,314 Speaker 1: I'll give you a hundred million dollars in gold for it, 261 00:12:31,794 --> 00:12:34,114 Speaker 1: and Denmark said no, but feel free to come and 262 00:12:34,154 --> 00:12:36,674 Speaker 1: put military bases here, because Denmark and the US are 263 00:12:36,754 --> 00:12:38,914 Speaker 1: very good friends, and the US in fact has a 264 00:12:38,914 --> 00:12:42,394 Speaker 1: military base there. But these days Denmark can't even sell 265 00:12:42,434 --> 00:12:45,034 Speaker 1: it if it wanted to, because it has said that 266 00:12:45,154 --> 00:12:48,594 Speaker 1: Greenland is in charge of Greenland's future. So it is 267 00:12:48,634 --> 00:12:52,394 Speaker 1: simply not possible for Denmark to sell Greenland to the 268 00:12:52,474 --> 00:12:53,034 Speaker 1: United States. 269 00:12:53,074 --> 00:12:56,234 Speaker 2: So Greenland has to consent to any takeover. Now, what 270 00:12:56,314 --> 00:12:58,554 Speaker 2: about the stuff I'm hearing about. It's got lots and 271 00:12:58,594 --> 00:13:00,833 Speaker 2: lots of rich minerals Trump would love to get his 272 00:13:00,914 --> 00:13:01,274 Speaker 2: hands on. 273 00:13:01,314 --> 00:13:05,594 Speaker 1: You. No, look, it does, but they're under glaciers and 274 00:13:06,034 --> 00:13:08,514 Speaker 1: they're quite hard to get. It's sort of like Venezuela 275 00:13:08,554 --> 00:13:10,274 Speaker 1: has a lot of oil, but the oil is really 276 00:13:10,314 --> 00:13:12,794 Speaker 1: hard to get to. So I think in both the 277 00:13:12,794 --> 00:13:15,554 Speaker 1: case of Venezuela and Greenland, we're kind of trying to 278 00:13:15,754 --> 00:13:18,394 Speaker 1: find reasons why Trump would want to do this very 279 00:13:18,434 --> 00:13:22,114 Speaker 1: silly thing, and we're retro fitting these explanations onto them, 280 00:13:22,514 --> 00:13:24,034 Speaker 1: but they don't really make sense. 281 00:13:24,154 --> 00:13:25,034 Speaker 3: Is this okay? 282 00:13:25,074 --> 00:13:28,274 Speaker 4: So is this like a thing that Trump wants or 283 00:13:28,314 --> 00:13:30,794 Speaker 4: is there support for this in the US? Like are 284 00:13:30,794 --> 00:13:34,194 Speaker 4: the Republicans on board? Is this something that like there's 285 00:13:34,354 --> 00:13:37,833 Speaker 4: great public sentiment like, yeah, let's go get here. No. 286 00:13:38,554 --> 00:13:41,514 Speaker 1: I don't think most people in the US really know 287 00:13:41,554 --> 00:13:46,953 Speaker 1: where Greenland is or particularly covet Greenland. But I think 288 00:13:47,034 --> 00:13:49,554 Speaker 1: Donald Trump wants Greenland, and I think he's got his 289 00:13:49,594 --> 00:13:53,074 Speaker 1: accolytes around him who wanted as well. So this weekend 290 00:13:53,234 --> 00:13:55,674 Speaker 1: I sort of thought this was bravado. He's been talking 291 00:13:55,674 --> 00:13:59,154 Speaker 1: about capturing or buying Greenland since his first term and 292 00:13:59,234 --> 00:14:03,594 Speaker 1: I've sort of dismissed it, But this weekend he kind 293 00:14:03,634 --> 00:14:05,674 Speaker 1: of up the stakes in a way that made my 294 00:14:05,794 --> 00:14:09,514 Speaker 1: stomach feel queasy because I think he's serious about it. 295 00:14:09,554 --> 00:14:13,754 Speaker 1: Because he told Europe that unless Denmark sells him Greenland, 296 00:14:13,794 --> 00:14:17,714 Speaker 1: which again is not legally possible, He's going to essentially 297 00:14:17,754 --> 00:14:21,834 Speaker 1: start a trade war with Europe. And that made me think, 298 00:14:21,994 --> 00:14:25,634 Speaker 1: I think this guy is serious about wanting Greenland. 299 00:14:25,754 --> 00:14:29,554 Speaker 2: So what would it look like for America to get 300 00:14:29,634 --> 00:14:32,314 Speaker 2: Greenland like they want it to be, like the fifty 301 00:14:32,314 --> 00:14:34,714 Speaker 2: first state. What would it look like? What are they proposed? 302 00:14:34,874 --> 00:14:40,194 Speaker 1: Yeah, so he said to Europe on truth Social that 303 00:14:40,354 --> 00:14:44,314 Speaker 1: if Europe didn't allow the complete and total purchase of Greenland, 304 00:14:44,514 --> 00:14:47,834 Speaker 1: he would increase these tariffs on European countries. So here's 305 00:14:47,834 --> 00:14:50,594 Speaker 1: what's going to happen. Denmark cannot sell Greenland to the 306 00:14:50,714 --> 00:14:53,674 Speaker 1: United States, so presumably Trump's going to increase these tariffs 307 00:14:53,674 --> 00:14:56,074 Speaker 1: on Europe. Europe is going to respond by saying that 308 00:14:56,114 --> 00:14:58,394 Speaker 1: the US can't sell any of its goods to Europe 309 00:14:58,434 --> 00:15:00,674 Speaker 1: and we're going to enter a trade war. That is 310 00:15:00,714 --> 00:15:03,234 Speaker 1: the best case scenario. The best case scenario was a 311 00:15:03,274 --> 00:15:05,194 Speaker 1: trade war. You know what The worst case scenario is 312 00:15:05,554 --> 00:15:08,954 Speaker 1: he invades Greenland, which, by the way, he's meant to 313 00:15:09,034 --> 00:15:12,554 Speaker 1: be protecting, because the US under the NATO Alliance protects 314 00:15:12,554 --> 00:15:15,034 Speaker 1: Greenland from Russia or from anyone else who wants to run. 315 00:15:14,994 --> 00:15:17,834 Speaker 2: And you mean literally invades it, like sends troops to 316 00:15:17,994 --> 00:15:19,194 Speaker 2: seize the government. 317 00:15:19,794 --> 00:15:22,754 Speaker 1: Well, as discussed, he can't buy it. So if he 318 00:15:22,834 --> 00:15:25,154 Speaker 1: really wants it, what's the next step going to be? 319 00:15:25,234 --> 00:15:28,234 Speaker 4: So it feels I mean, I studied as part of history, 320 00:15:28,354 --> 00:15:33,154 Speaker 4: like postcolonial history, and the word there, that's the operative word, 321 00:15:33,194 --> 00:15:36,354 Speaker 4: is post This feels very colonial. It feels like it 322 00:15:36,434 --> 00:15:39,154 Speaker 4: is a man who wants to create an empire, which 323 00:15:39,194 --> 00:15:41,394 Speaker 4: feels very World War one, World War II? 324 00:15:41,514 --> 00:15:41,754 Speaker 1: To me? 325 00:15:42,314 --> 00:15:43,834 Speaker 3: Is that why you've got the queasy feeling? 326 00:15:43,914 --> 00:15:46,474 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've got a queasy feeling. He says the US 327 00:15:46,594 --> 00:15:49,674 Speaker 1: needs it because Russia and China want it. China doesn't 328 00:15:49,674 --> 00:15:53,234 Speaker 1: want it. That's just not something that's even on China's radar. 329 00:15:54,074 --> 00:15:56,674 Speaker 1: Russia might want it, but you know who's meant to 330 00:15:56,754 --> 00:16:01,354 Speaker 1: protect Greenland if Russia decides to invade Greenland? The United States. 331 00:16:02,194 --> 00:16:05,274 Speaker 1: So that whole explanation of all the US needs it 332 00:16:05,314 --> 00:16:08,394 Speaker 1: so that Russia and China don't take it doesn't really work. 333 00:16:09,154 --> 00:16:12,234 Speaker 1: And I'm just worried that I think he feels like 334 00:16:12,314 --> 00:16:14,834 Speaker 1: he can do anything. Now. You know, we saw last 335 00:16:14,834 --> 00:16:18,034 Speaker 1: week that he apparently did get the Nobel Prize because 336 00:16:18,074 --> 00:16:20,514 Speaker 1: the winner from Venezuela decided that she was going to 337 00:16:20,554 --> 00:16:22,234 Speaker 1: give it to him, and he thinks that that's the 338 00:16:22,274 --> 00:16:23,114 Speaker 1: same as getting it. 339 00:16:23,514 --> 00:16:26,314 Speaker 2: He keeps getting it to his Wikipedia page straight away. 340 00:16:26,874 --> 00:16:27,674 Speaker 2: I see, I got it. 341 00:16:27,754 --> 00:16:31,834 Speaker 1: He keeps getting affirmation from the whole world that he 342 00:16:31,874 --> 00:16:33,154 Speaker 1: can do whatever he wants. 343 00:16:33,274 --> 00:16:37,074 Speaker 2: Is there a world in which they do invade Greenland 344 00:16:37,114 --> 00:16:40,514 Speaker 2: and Europe tries to defend it? Is there actually a 345 00:16:40,554 --> 00:16:43,394 Speaker 2: scenario where this could cause a bigger conflict. 346 00:16:43,754 --> 00:16:47,234 Speaker 1: Europe has said they will defend Greenland, not least because 347 00:16:47,234 --> 00:16:50,434 Speaker 1: they have a treaty agreement which the United States also 348 00:16:50,514 --> 00:16:52,914 Speaker 1: has to defend Greenland. And you know what really made 349 00:16:52,954 --> 00:16:54,634 Speaker 1: me think Europe is going to defend it is that 350 00:16:54,794 --> 00:16:57,874 Speaker 1: President Macron of France, as you know, I love saying 351 00:16:57,874 --> 00:17:03,354 Speaker 1: that name. He posted on the weekend comparing Trump to Putin. 352 00:17:03,474 --> 00:17:06,153 Speaker 1: He basically said, we're going to protect Ukraine, We're going 353 00:17:06,234 --> 00:17:08,954 Speaker 1: to protect Greenland. So he basically is like, we are 354 00:17:08,994 --> 00:17:12,554 Speaker 1: not giving you Greenland like you were basically as bad 355 00:17:12,634 --> 00:17:14,434 Speaker 1: as Putin. If you think that you're going to get 356 00:17:14,434 --> 00:17:15,074 Speaker 1: this from us. 357 00:17:15,354 --> 00:17:19,434 Speaker 2: Well, that was cheering. Don't worry everyone, We're talking about 358 00:17:19,514 --> 00:17:23,833 Speaker 2: j Lo later. Sometimes it's important to know what's going on, 359 00:17:23,874 --> 00:17:27,474 Speaker 2: but sometimes I wish it was twenty sixty three. Breaksit 360 00:17:27,554 --> 00:17:28,273 Speaker 2: twenty sixty. 361 00:17:28,514 --> 00:17:31,073 Speaker 1: Can I inject one note here, which I think is 362 00:17:31,114 --> 00:17:33,434 Speaker 1: important so that we don't feel complete dispassed. 363 00:17:33,514 --> 00:17:33,834 Speaker 2: Please? 364 00:17:33,874 --> 00:17:37,914 Speaker 1: Do half of Americans hate this guy? Half of them? 365 00:17:38,154 --> 00:17:40,594 Speaker 1: It still remains a very divided country. You mentioned the 366 00:17:40,634 --> 00:17:44,674 Speaker 1: protests in Minnesota upfront. Basically, there's a particular state in 367 00:17:44,714 --> 00:17:48,154 Speaker 1: the US, a city called Minneapolis in Minnesota, where they're 368 00:17:48,154 --> 00:17:52,634 Speaker 1: at these extremely high octane protests on the streets. There 369 00:17:52,634 --> 00:17:55,634 Speaker 1: are about many, many things, but one of the reasons 370 00:17:55,634 --> 00:17:58,394 Speaker 1: why people are protesting in such numbers is because people 371 00:17:58,434 --> 00:18:02,034 Speaker 1: hate what he's doing. His approval numbers have tanked. It's 372 00:18:02,074 --> 00:18:04,994 Speaker 1: no coincidence that he's trying to make these kinds of 373 00:18:05,074 --> 00:18:08,594 Speaker 1: conquests just as AMERICANSML elves are saying, we don't like 374 00:18:08,634 --> 00:18:11,074 Speaker 1: what you're doing. So I guess my one known of 375 00:18:11,114 --> 00:18:15,474 Speaker 1: optimism is there are midterm elections in November. I think 376 00:18:15,754 --> 00:18:18,834 Speaker 1: this could be the last gasp of someone who's flailing 377 00:18:18,914 --> 00:18:22,394 Speaker 1: around for popularity. And approval when he hasn't got a 378 00:18:22,434 --> 00:18:22,833 Speaker 1: lot of it. 379 00:18:22,994 --> 00:18:25,434 Speaker 2: You know how famously I think Scott Morrison had a 380 00:18:25,474 --> 00:18:28,474 Speaker 2: sign on his desk that said always a boat, and 381 00:18:28,514 --> 00:18:31,154 Speaker 2: it had a thing that said I stopped these. It's 382 00:18:31,314 --> 00:18:34,954 Speaker 2: like that's what Trump wants. He wants a little greenland 383 00:18:34,994 --> 00:18:36,954 Speaker 2: and he wants to be like it's mine. It just 384 00:18:36,994 --> 00:18:39,634 Speaker 2: wants a trophy for his mantle peace. So maybe someone 385 00:18:39,634 --> 00:18:41,834 Speaker 2: should just make him want a bit like how we've 386 00:18:41,834 --> 00:18:43,793 Speaker 2: told him that you've got it, just like people have 387 00:18:43,834 --> 00:18:46,194 Speaker 2: told him he's got the Peace Prize. Just like here, 388 00:18:46,314 --> 00:18:48,914 Speaker 2: here's greenland. Look where this is a cute Put it 389 00:18:48,954 --> 00:18:49,394 Speaker 2: on your mind. 390 00:18:49,594 --> 00:18:52,074 Speaker 1: Go Europe. It's a free idea. I love it. 391 00:18:53,034 --> 00:18:56,434 Speaker 4: In a moment, how one of the biggest podcasts in 392 00:18:56,514 --> 00:18:59,793 Speaker 4: the world have found themselves in hot water. We are 393 00:18:59,834 --> 00:19:03,114 Speaker 4: talking about Stephen Bartlett and Diary of a CEO. 394 00:19:07,194 --> 00:19:08,594 Speaker 2: Out loud as it's Mia here. 395 00:19:09,194 --> 00:19:11,274 Speaker 5: I've missed you, but I'm back in your ears twice 396 00:19:11,314 --> 00:19:15,513 Speaker 5: a week on Tuesdays and Thursdays this year exclusively for 397 00:19:15,594 --> 00:19:19,513 Speaker 5: Mum and MEA subscribers, And tomorrow on Tuesday, I'm going 398 00:19:19,554 --> 00:19:23,514 Speaker 5: to be doing a summer holiday debrief with Holly and Jesse. 399 00:19:23,634 --> 00:19:25,594 Speaker 5: We're going to talk about what they did, what I did, 400 00:19:25,954 --> 00:19:28,714 Speaker 5: and get an update on what it's like being pregnant 401 00:19:28,714 --> 00:19:31,834 Speaker 5: with twins over summer. If you're not already a subscriber, 402 00:19:31,874 --> 00:19:34,553 Speaker 5: follow the link in the show notes to subscribe and 403 00:19:34,634 --> 00:19:36,674 Speaker 5: listen five days a week to out Loud. 404 00:19:38,034 --> 00:19:40,273 Speaker 3: Has Stephen Bartlett been red pilled? 405 00:19:40,594 --> 00:19:43,994 Speaker 4: This is a question I've seen popping up for weeks 406 00:19:44,114 --> 00:19:45,874 Speaker 4: and we are going to get into it. 407 00:19:45,954 --> 00:19:48,594 Speaker 3: But before that, I'm going to do a bit of translating. Right, 408 00:19:49,434 --> 00:19:50,554 Speaker 3: what is a Stephen Bartlett? 409 00:19:50,634 --> 00:19:53,714 Speaker 4: Stephen Bartlett is the host of one of the biggest 410 00:19:53,754 --> 00:19:55,034 Speaker 4: podcasts in the world. 411 00:19:55,194 --> 00:19:57,553 Speaker 3: I think it was like top three last year. Recording 412 00:19:57,594 --> 00:19:58,514 Speaker 3: to Spotify. 413 00:19:58,354 --> 00:20:00,114 Speaker 2: Has like millions of downloads a day. 414 00:20:00,074 --> 00:20:01,794 Speaker 3: Three million a day worldwide. 415 00:20:01,834 --> 00:20:04,234 Speaker 2: It's a lot that we get a lot, but out 416 00:20:04,234 --> 00:20:05,513 Speaker 2: Loud as we don't get quite that. 417 00:20:06,394 --> 00:20:08,554 Speaker 3: It is called Diary of a CEO. 418 00:20:09,114 --> 00:20:11,434 Speaker 1: Can you tell me why I would want to listen 419 00:20:11,434 --> 00:20:13,354 Speaker 1: to that? Is it basically people being like I get 420 00:20:13,434 --> 00:20:15,074 Speaker 1: up at four am and have a green smoothie? 421 00:20:16,034 --> 00:20:17,474 Speaker 3: What is it used to be? 422 00:20:17,914 --> 00:20:22,074 Speaker 4: But it features in depth interviews with a bunch of people, 423 00:20:22,114 --> 00:20:25,274 Speaker 4: So some of them are celebrities, some are entrepreneurs. There 424 00:20:25,314 --> 00:20:29,754 Speaker 4: was one recently about adhd or about parenting or about health. 425 00:20:30,114 --> 00:20:33,554 Speaker 1: But why is it so popular because it sounds extremely generic. 426 00:20:33,674 --> 00:20:34,394 Speaker 3: It's self help. 427 00:20:34,474 --> 00:20:39,114 Speaker 4: It's like he's someone who bills himself as like I 428 00:20:39,394 --> 00:20:40,554 Speaker 4: want to live a better life? 429 00:20:40,594 --> 00:20:42,434 Speaker 3: How do I do it? So I would listen. 430 00:20:43,114 --> 00:20:46,474 Speaker 4: I often get into it in January because even it'll 431 00:20:46,514 --> 00:20:50,354 Speaker 4: be really about like productivity and like what you should 432 00:20:50,354 --> 00:20:54,434 Speaker 4: be eating, and he'll interview an expert on how. 433 00:20:54,274 --> 00:20:55,954 Speaker 3: To be better at your job or whatever. 434 00:20:56,474 --> 00:20:59,434 Speaker 1: It's Jesse, would you actually listen to that one? Yeah, 435 00:20:59,594 --> 00:21:00,194 Speaker 1: how to be better? 436 00:21:01,114 --> 00:21:02,514 Speaker 3: I would for one week in January. 437 00:21:02,754 --> 00:21:06,794 Speaker 2: He's British, right, He's a British celebrity really because so 438 00:21:06,834 --> 00:21:09,313 Speaker 2: he started his own business. He's an entrepreneur. As the 439 00:21:09,354 --> 00:21:12,154 Speaker 2: CEO I think obviously implies he's a shark on Shark 440 00:21:12,194 --> 00:21:12,874 Speaker 2: Tank in the UK. 441 00:21:12,994 --> 00:21:13,874 Speaker 1: What was his business? 442 00:21:14,594 --> 00:21:18,274 Speaker 2: Tech time, Yeah, tech tech and that, and he invests 443 00:21:18,274 --> 00:21:21,034 Speaker 2: in shed loads of businesses. So he's the real deal 444 00:21:21,274 --> 00:21:23,674 Speaker 2: in terms of being a businessman. Very young, he was 445 00:21:23,754 --> 00:21:26,114 Speaker 2: like he's thirty three. Yeah, he was twenty six or 446 00:21:26,114 --> 00:21:28,754 Speaker 2: something when he sold his company for a bajaw million dollars. 447 00:21:28,794 --> 00:21:31,314 Speaker 2: Don't fact check that but yeah, because he was also 448 00:21:31,354 --> 00:21:33,754 Speaker 2: a judge on Shark Tank, he had a profile. He 449 00:21:33,834 --> 00:21:36,994 Speaker 2: still does and he's built this show that's now essentially 450 00:21:37,034 --> 00:21:39,154 Speaker 2: an interview show, and it's one of those ones where 451 00:21:39,434 --> 00:21:41,794 Speaker 2: sometimes the episode's are two and a half hours long, 452 00:21:42,234 --> 00:21:45,074 Speaker 2: like it's very longful, and. 453 00:21:45,114 --> 00:21:48,034 Speaker 4: It might be with an intellectual or with a writer 454 00:21:48,274 --> 00:21:50,234 Speaker 4: or the one I think I recommended this last year 455 00:21:50,314 --> 00:21:53,434 Speaker 4: one he sat down with Louis Tomlinson from One Direction, 456 00:21:53,514 --> 00:21:55,513 Speaker 4: one of the best interviews I listened to last He's a. 457 00:21:55,554 --> 00:21:58,194 Speaker 2: Very good interviewer, I think, but he sometimes does round tables. 458 00:21:58,194 --> 00:22:00,513 Speaker 2: We did an episode about the feminist round table that 459 00:22:00,634 --> 00:22:02,634 Speaker 2: was infuriating anyway. 460 00:22:02,354 --> 00:22:04,914 Speaker 4: Where he got all these women on to argue about feminism. 461 00:22:05,074 --> 00:22:08,553 Speaker 4: Right now, let's move on to the word red pilled. 462 00:22:08,594 --> 00:22:10,154 Speaker 3: Do you know what that means, Emelia? 463 00:22:10,234 --> 00:22:13,034 Speaker 1: Does that kind of mean that he's a bit misogynistic. 464 00:22:13,354 --> 00:22:17,154 Speaker 4: Yes, So it's a term pulled from the matrix where 465 00:22:17,274 --> 00:22:19,474 Speaker 4: it's like the red pill blue pill thing, and the 466 00:22:19,514 --> 00:22:23,674 Speaker 4: red pill means that you've finally woken up to the 467 00:22:23,714 --> 00:22:26,994 Speaker 4: reality of what's happening. And it's language used by in 468 00:22:26,994 --> 00:22:30,954 Speaker 4: cells or like the alt right, who were saying, oh, 469 00:22:31,034 --> 00:22:33,434 Speaker 4: I've just taken the red pill, and now I can 470 00:22:33,514 --> 00:22:36,554 Speaker 4: see that men are actually oppressed. 471 00:22:36,874 --> 00:22:39,674 Speaker 1: So I saw a license plate in wa actually which 472 00:22:39,674 --> 00:22:41,914 Speaker 1: said red pill. Is that some one being like, I'm 473 00:22:41,954 --> 00:22:42,474 Speaker 1: an in cell? 474 00:22:42,954 --> 00:22:45,714 Speaker 2: Not necessarily in cell, but definitely because people also use 475 00:22:45,794 --> 00:22:48,434 Speaker 2: red pill now just in terms of becoming maga or 476 00:22:48,474 --> 00:22:51,874 Speaker 2: becoming cult right, or becoming into the manisphere or likes. 477 00:22:52,034 --> 00:22:55,514 Speaker 2: It's basically a term that means you've been radicalized. 478 00:22:56,194 --> 00:22:59,834 Speaker 4: Yes, and like lefties who have taken the blue pill 479 00:22:59,834 --> 00:23:02,034 Speaker 4: have decided to see the world in a certain way. 480 00:23:02,154 --> 00:23:04,554 Speaker 3: Fingers in their ears, they won't wake up to what's 481 00:23:04,594 --> 00:23:05,154 Speaker 3: really going on. 482 00:23:05,234 --> 00:23:09,154 Speaker 4: That's why they were wearing blue today, exactly right. So 483 00:23:09,874 --> 00:23:13,434 Speaker 4: why is everyone asking if Bartlett has been red pilled? 484 00:23:13,794 --> 00:23:19,234 Speaker 4: There have been a few questions or comments or guests 485 00:23:19,314 --> 00:23:21,914 Speaker 4: on his show recently that have raised some concerns. 486 00:23:22,114 --> 00:23:24,754 Speaker 3: Have a listen. This clip is sort of where it 487 00:23:24,794 --> 00:23:25,514 Speaker 3: all started. 488 00:23:25,754 --> 00:23:29,474 Speaker 6: We have this population decline situation going on. Is it 489 00:23:29,514 --> 00:23:32,834 Speaker 6: not a function of or a consequence of the fact 490 00:23:32,914 --> 00:23:35,874 Speaker 6: that we have more freedom, more control? We're like more nihilistic. 491 00:23:35,994 --> 00:23:39,234 Speaker 6: We it's more like me, me, me, me me. 492 00:23:39,994 --> 00:23:43,274 Speaker 7: Now there's a girl with the list on TikTok which 493 00:23:43,354 --> 00:23:45,874 Speaker 7: I think is this girl who wrote three hundred and 494 00:23:45,914 --> 00:23:48,194 Speaker 7: fifty reasons to not have kids. It's like eight pages, 495 00:23:48,354 --> 00:23:51,154 Speaker 7: nine pages long, and it went super viral and it's 496 00:23:51,234 --> 00:23:54,874 Speaker 7: everything from literally a parasite growing inside of your body 497 00:23:55,154 --> 00:23:58,273 Speaker 7: to can't work cute heels with the girls will have 498 00:23:58,314 --> 00:24:00,553 Speaker 7: to miss brunch, all of the different issues that can 499 00:24:00,594 --> 00:24:03,434 Speaker 7: occur during childbirth. And then I think there was a 500 00:24:03,474 --> 00:24:06,314 Speaker 7: list of things for kids, and it was like maybe 501 00:24:06,314 --> 00:24:08,674 Speaker 7: a page a half a page that she'd written. By 502 00:24:08,754 --> 00:24:10,513 Speaker 7: the sounds of things, it is a really good idea 503 00:24:10,554 --> 00:24:12,114 Speaker 7: that she's not a mother, and I'm glad that she's 504 00:24:12,194 --> 00:24:13,234 Speaker 7: choosing to not have kids. 505 00:24:13,514 --> 00:24:17,033 Speaker 3: So that clip, interestingly, it's the guest who says that. 506 00:24:17,274 --> 00:24:20,554 Speaker 1: So that's the guest who's saying the thing about the list, Yes, okay. 507 00:24:20,394 --> 00:24:23,994 Speaker 4: And he's sort of saying, you know, women have a 508 00:24:24,034 --> 00:24:27,834 Speaker 4: lot of choice now. Or I suppose that the way 509 00:24:27,834 --> 00:24:30,794 Speaker 4: that Bartlett is introducing it is like it's the narcissism. 510 00:24:30,954 --> 00:24:34,914 Speaker 1: Is the guest an expert perhaps on demographics. 511 00:24:34,074 --> 00:24:37,553 Speaker 4: Or psychology, No, I don't believe. So I believe that 512 00:24:37,794 --> 00:24:42,194 Speaker 4: Chris his name is Chris Williamson, and is he was 513 00:24:42,074 --> 00:24:43,434 Speaker 4: he was on all right? 514 00:24:43,594 --> 00:24:45,314 Speaker 2: Yeah, but he became a podcast. 515 00:24:45,354 --> 00:24:47,794 Speaker 1: It's good that we're getting the Love Island contestants to 516 00:24:47,874 --> 00:24:50,194 Speaker 1: use on these complex issues exactly. 517 00:24:50,274 --> 00:24:51,234 Speaker 3: So that's his take. 518 00:24:51,914 --> 00:24:55,874 Speaker 4: And this podcast has always skewed male, but Bartlett does 519 00:24:55,954 --> 00:24:59,394 Speaker 4: have a female listenership, and they've often liked him because 520 00:24:59,394 --> 00:25:03,594 Speaker 4: he's he's softly spoken, he's intellectual. He asked questions like 521 00:25:04,154 --> 00:25:08,834 Speaker 4: whyder men disproportionately leave their sick partners like he's advocated 522 00:25:08,874 --> 00:25:12,234 Speaker 4: for women in some of his shows. He interviewed Kamala Harris, 523 00:25:12,434 --> 00:25:13,634 Speaker 4: so that shows where he kind of sits. 524 00:25:13,834 --> 00:25:15,634 Speaker 2: I've heard him say on his show because I listened 525 00:25:15,634 --> 00:25:17,794 Speaker 2: sometimes spending on the guests, there is no one I 526 00:25:17,794 --> 00:25:20,474 Speaker 2: wouldn't have on. He doesn't believe in like non platforms. 527 00:25:20,474 --> 00:25:22,313 Speaker 1: So is he kind of like British Rogan? 528 00:25:22,394 --> 00:25:26,513 Speaker 2: Then he is, except not No, not as political. No, 529 00:25:26,594 --> 00:25:28,514 Speaker 2: I don't think it's that so much as I think 530 00:25:28,514 --> 00:25:30,714 Speaker 2: he's no one there as kind of aggressive as Rogan. 531 00:25:30,794 --> 00:25:33,954 Speaker 2: He's much more, as you said, softly. 532 00:25:33,634 --> 00:25:37,714 Speaker 4: Spurring and to be completely honest, and maybe this is 533 00:25:37,794 --> 00:25:40,634 Speaker 4: my own naivety, but I would look at him and 534 00:25:40,714 --> 00:25:41,914 Speaker 4: not know how he votes. 535 00:25:42,114 --> 00:25:44,834 Speaker 2: So he's not wants that, and that's very much what 536 00:25:44,874 --> 00:25:45,154 Speaker 2: he wants. 537 00:25:45,234 --> 00:25:47,793 Speaker 1: Yeah, what other evidence do we have for the red pilling? Okay, 538 00:25:47,994 --> 00:25:49,474 Speaker 1: so example one. 539 00:25:49,274 --> 00:25:52,074 Speaker 4: There's a theory that he's steered off path, and so 540 00:25:52,274 --> 00:25:55,634 Speaker 4: other clips have started resurfacing. So here's another taste of 541 00:25:55,834 --> 00:25:58,754 Speaker 4: a back and forth that has resurfaced. 542 00:25:59,074 --> 00:26:00,954 Speaker 6: You just said that a huge amount of men between 543 00:26:00,954 --> 00:26:03,513 Speaker 6: the age of fifteen and fifty will not passing their genes. 544 00:26:03,514 --> 00:26:06,634 Speaker 6: They will effectively out of the gene mating pool. So 545 00:26:06,674 --> 00:26:09,394 Speaker 6: people will hear that, and many people will go, well, 546 00:26:09,634 --> 00:26:10,274 Speaker 6: that's evolution. 547 00:26:10,474 --> 00:26:10,634 Speaker 2: Yep. 548 00:26:10,714 --> 00:26:13,474 Speaker 6: Should society intervene? You know, in the short term, we're 549 00:26:13,514 --> 00:26:15,554 Speaker 6: going to have a lot of men who are disillusioned 550 00:26:15,634 --> 00:26:17,674 Speaker 6: that become in cells find themselves and pockets of the 551 00:26:17,714 --> 00:26:19,874 Speaker 6: internet are resent for all those kinds of things. But 552 00:26:19,914 --> 00:26:22,874 Speaker 6: should society intervene to course correct that? Should we put 553 00:26:22,914 --> 00:26:25,674 Speaker 6: systems in place to make sure that those men meet partners? 554 00:26:25,874 --> 00:26:27,914 Speaker 2: I'm going to answer that question with a question. If 555 00:26:28,194 --> 00:26:31,513 Speaker 2: let's say the huge swath of people are out from cancer, 556 00:26:31,554 --> 00:26:32,553 Speaker 2: should we intervene with that. 557 00:26:32,754 --> 00:26:35,513 Speaker 4: Yes, So the thing that he says about should we 558 00:26:35,594 --> 00:26:39,074 Speaker 4: put structures in place to course correct? You know, a 559 00:26:39,114 --> 00:26:42,434 Speaker 4: woman has answered dressed is the handmaid's tail and said, 560 00:26:42,474 --> 00:26:45,234 Speaker 4: I've got an idea for a system that might work. 561 00:26:45,474 --> 00:26:48,354 Speaker 1: I love the music the like Requiem for the Sperm, 562 00:26:49,274 --> 00:26:50,394 Speaker 1: like all this sperms. 563 00:26:50,514 --> 00:26:53,594 Speaker 4: That's a taste of the TikTok instagram clips that all lack. 564 00:26:53,714 --> 00:26:56,594 Speaker 4: Really kind of deep and thoughtful. 565 00:26:56,834 --> 00:27:00,513 Speaker 2: He is very well known in podcast circles for being 566 00:27:00,634 --> 00:27:04,954 Speaker 2: an incredible marketer. Right, so every podcast in the world 567 00:27:05,114 --> 00:27:08,034 Speaker 2: has studied what Bartlett has done to get his show 568 00:27:08,154 --> 00:27:10,714 Speaker 2: from being I'm a guy off Shark Tank to being 569 00:27:10,754 --> 00:27:12,754 Speaker 2: the biggest podcast in the world, and a large part 570 00:27:12,794 --> 00:27:16,394 Speaker 2: of it is about his rigorous testing of titles of 571 00:27:16,514 --> 00:27:19,593 Speaker 2: videos of so he knows better than anybody in what 572 00:27:19,714 --> 00:27:23,634 Speaker 2: will resonate and it won't surprise anybody that will often resonates. 573 00:27:23,754 --> 00:27:26,234 Speaker 2: Is one of the most controversial things that a guest 574 00:27:26,314 --> 00:27:28,033 Speaker 2: might say during the two and a half hours. 575 00:27:28,234 --> 00:27:32,434 Speaker 1: Although interestingly, that question about whether we should pair in 576 00:27:32,514 --> 00:27:37,594 Speaker 1: cells up with women came from him right exactly. 577 00:27:37,674 --> 00:27:40,394 Speaker 4: So that's the bit where people are going hang on 578 00:27:40,954 --> 00:27:43,874 Speaker 4: and watching him become a trojan horse for kind of 579 00:27:43,914 --> 00:27:52,874 Speaker 4: the in cell movement. Yes, Holly, you're a dabbler in 580 00:27:53,274 --> 00:27:57,994 Speaker 4: a dabbler diary, CEO, do you think he has fallen 581 00:27:58,034 --> 00:27:59,594 Speaker 4: down an in cell trapdoor here. 582 00:27:59,754 --> 00:28:03,353 Speaker 2: Not necessarily. I think the thing about the Bartlets, and 583 00:28:03,394 --> 00:28:06,674 Speaker 2: I think Rogan used to be this ONTs to is 584 00:28:06,714 --> 00:28:10,593 Speaker 2: they consider themselves kind of above politics, right in terms 585 00:28:10,634 --> 00:28:13,034 Speaker 2: of the way that a lot of us consume media 586 00:28:13,074 --> 00:28:15,434 Speaker 2: now for very obvious reasons, and particularly in America, and 587 00:28:15,434 --> 00:28:19,234 Speaker 2: although he's British a that culture is becoming more polarized too, 588 00:28:19,314 --> 00:28:21,434 Speaker 2: but also a lot large part of his audience would 589 00:28:21,434 --> 00:28:24,674 Speaker 2: be American. No question is I need to know where 590 00:28:24,714 --> 00:28:27,033 Speaker 2: you stand before I give you my listen. Are you 591 00:28:27,074 --> 00:28:29,234 Speaker 2: read or are you blue? Everybody wants to know that. 592 00:28:29,274 --> 00:28:31,273 Speaker 2: And I listened to a lot of American podcasts and 593 00:28:31,674 --> 00:28:33,554 Speaker 2: you often hear them talk about on the top ten 594 00:28:33,554 --> 00:28:35,434 Speaker 2: there are three red shows and four blue shows, and 595 00:28:35,434 --> 00:28:38,074 Speaker 2: you know, everybody needs to know, like where are you standing? 596 00:28:38,834 --> 00:28:41,954 Speaker 2: And I think that Bartlet and as I say, once 597 00:28:42,034 --> 00:28:44,354 Speaker 2: upon a time, Rogan kind of they're much more of 598 00:28:44,394 --> 00:28:47,194 Speaker 2: the I'm just asking questions guy, right, So they're like, 599 00:28:47,274 --> 00:28:50,594 Speaker 2: I'm not red or blue, I just want to hear 600 00:28:50,714 --> 00:28:53,594 Speaker 2: all the interesting ideas and discuss and look, it's a 601 00:28:53,634 --> 00:28:56,954 Speaker 2: nice idea that you can do that twenty sixteen, you 602 00:28:57,034 --> 00:29:00,194 Speaker 2: could do that now. I think it's very complicated. One 603 00:29:00,234 --> 00:29:02,874 Speaker 2: thing I would say about him because when I listen, 604 00:29:03,594 --> 00:29:06,314 Speaker 2: I think that any parasocial relationship we have with a podcaster, 605 00:29:06,394 --> 00:29:07,914 Speaker 2: and I know they're peace who listen to this, who 606 00:29:07,994 --> 00:29:10,834 Speaker 2: definitely have these kind of relationships with us, is the 607 00:29:10,834 --> 00:29:13,114 Speaker 2: more you know them, the more benefit of the doubt 608 00:29:13,194 --> 00:29:16,314 Speaker 2: you give them. Right. So, I've listened to Bartlet talked 609 00:29:16,314 --> 00:29:18,234 Speaker 2: to lots of women. I often listen to his interviews 610 00:29:18,234 --> 00:29:21,714 Speaker 2: with women, and he's not dismissive or rude. He invests 611 00:29:21,794 --> 00:29:24,034 Speaker 2: millions of dollars in lots of businesses that are owned 612 00:29:24,074 --> 00:29:27,914 Speaker 2: by women. He's not that guy, right, But do I 613 00:29:28,234 --> 00:29:30,314 Speaker 2: very much get the sense when I listen to him 614 00:29:30,314 --> 00:29:33,954 Speaker 2: talk that he has a very traditional view, probably borne 615 00:29:33,954 --> 00:29:36,634 Speaker 2: out by his own experiences of what male roles are, 616 00:29:36,674 --> 00:29:39,354 Speaker 2: which is about the money and being the hunter and 617 00:29:39,354 --> 00:29:41,914 Speaker 2: all those things, and what female roles are, which are 618 00:29:41,954 --> 00:29:45,234 Speaker 2: more about nurturing. Yeah, I definitely think that's true, And 619 00:29:45,314 --> 00:29:47,434 Speaker 2: often when I'm listening to him, I'll find myself kind 620 00:29:47,434 --> 00:29:50,114 Speaker 2: of going, oh, come on, buddy, like that's just your reality, 621 00:29:50,154 --> 00:29:53,314 Speaker 2: you know. For me, I'm happy to listen to people 622 00:29:53,354 --> 00:29:56,634 Speaker 2: whose worldviews don't completely align with mine, as long as 623 00:29:56,714 --> 00:29:58,874 Speaker 2: I'm aware of that. I've got that in my little 624 00:29:58,914 --> 00:30:02,154 Speaker 2: file in my head when I'm listening and the conversations 625 00:30:02,154 --> 00:30:04,314 Speaker 2: are kind of mold. I mean, I don't need to 626 00:30:04,674 --> 00:30:09,354 Speaker 2: agree with everything he says, but what's probably more dangerous 627 00:30:09,394 --> 00:30:10,914 Speaker 2: that he's done, and he also gets a lot of 628 00:30:10,954 --> 00:30:13,354 Speaker 2: shit for it. But it's not as easy lead TikTok to, 629 00:30:13,354 --> 00:30:16,234 Speaker 2: I don't think is he's so big in the wellness 630 00:30:16,274 --> 00:30:19,874 Speaker 2: space and a lot of that information is incredibly dangerous 631 00:30:19,914 --> 00:30:23,354 Speaker 2: because that whole I'm just asking questions has very much 632 00:30:23,434 --> 00:30:25,714 Speaker 2: led him to some dangerous ground when it comes to 633 00:30:25,754 --> 00:30:30,474 Speaker 2: things like carnivorous diets, vaccines, fertility treatments, and so it 634 00:30:30,514 --> 00:30:33,674 Speaker 2: brings you to a broader question about what the responsibilities are. 635 00:30:33,794 --> 00:30:36,474 Speaker 2: So he's had to make a statement about this one 636 00:30:36,634 --> 00:30:39,514 Speaker 2: because it's been pushed hard and his team say Stephen 637 00:30:39,514 --> 00:30:42,514 Speaker 2: Bartlett does not adopt the opinions of his guests, nor 638 00:30:42,634 --> 00:30:45,514 Speaker 2: is the format intended to pass judgment on personal viewpoints. 639 00:30:45,794 --> 00:30:48,234 Speaker 2: To suggest that a host is responsible for every view 640 00:30:48,274 --> 00:30:51,354 Speaker 2: expressed by a guest is a fundamental misunderstanding of the 641 00:30:51,394 --> 00:30:55,314 Speaker 2: long form interview format, and I generally agree with that 642 00:30:55,394 --> 00:30:59,394 Speaker 2: as someone who does interviews. But I do think that 643 00:30:59,434 --> 00:31:02,554 Speaker 2: when your platform is quite as big as his, it 644 00:31:02,634 --> 00:31:06,754 Speaker 2: does come with extra responsibility when it comes to surfacing. Basically, 645 00:31:06,834 --> 00:31:08,314 Speaker 2: Dan incorrect. 646 00:31:08,514 --> 00:31:11,114 Speaker 4: I want to ask Amelia about this, right, because she's 647 00:31:11,434 --> 00:31:15,434 Speaker 4: a proper journalist. She's a proper journalist, Amelia. He asked 648 00:31:15,434 --> 00:31:18,834 Speaker 4: a question there about why women aren't having kids. The 649 00:31:18,914 --> 00:31:21,634 Speaker 4: guest went on a bit of a in an interesting direction, 650 00:31:22,434 --> 00:31:24,394 Speaker 4: might have said some things Bartlett didn't agree with. 651 00:31:24,594 --> 00:31:25,194 Speaker 3: Whatever it is. 652 00:31:25,274 --> 00:31:28,634 Speaker 4: I've seen people I know who are interviewers on podcasts 653 00:31:29,354 --> 00:31:31,834 Speaker 4: and that's then been stitched up and put all over 654 00:31:31,914 --> 00:31:37,234 Speaker 4: social and they have been blamed credited with what the 655 00:31:37,274 --> 00:31:41,914 Speaker 4: guest said. Do you think that's fair or do you 656 00:31:41,954 --> 00:31:45,914 Speaker 4: think in interviewing you're allowed to give someone space. Maybe 657 00:31:45,994 --> 00:31:48,434 Speaker 4: they say something you don't agree with, maybe you challenge them, 658 00:31:48,474 --> 00:31:49,194 Speaker 4: maybe you don't. 659 00:31:49,794 --> 00:31:51,754 Speaker 3: But isn't that just what an interview is. 660 00:31:51,994 --> 00:31:52,194 Speaker 5: Yeah? 661 00:31:52,194 --> 00:31:54,114 Speaker 1: I think it's a really good question. And you used 662 00:31:54,114 --> 00:31:56,834 Speaker 1: an interesting word there before, Holly, because you use the 663 00:31:56,834 --> 00:32:00,434 Speaker 1: word platform, I think, or platforming, And by the way, 664 00:32:00,434 --> 00:32:02,474 Speaker 1: in twenty sixteen, I don't think that was a word 665 00:32:02,514 --> 00:32:05,434 Speaker 1: that was really around. Like, that's a relatively new concept, 666 00:32:05,474 --> 00:32:08,354 Speaker 1: the idea that by giving someone time or choosing to 667 00:32:08,394 --> 00:32:12,714 Speaker 1: feature them editorially, you are implicitly endorsing what they're saying. 668 00:32:12,954 --> 00:32:14,834 Speaker 1: I don't think that's necessarily true, But to use that 669 00:32:14,874 --> 00:32:18,874 Speaker 1: Love Island example, that guy is a Love Island contestant 670 00:32:18,954 --> 00:32:21,994 Speaker 1: who is being asked about a complex social issue that 671 00:32:22,114 --> 00:32:26,994 Speaker 1: has a lot of very difficult and challenging reasons why 672 00:32:27,034 --> 00:32:29,834 Speaker 1: it's happening why people aren't having kids, and he is 673 00:32:29,914 --> 00:32:32,874 Speaker 1: extremely dismissive about why women aren't having kids, and he 674 00:32:32,994 --> 00:32:35,154 Speaker 1: essentially says he watched a TikTok where a woman says 675 00:32:35,194 --> 00:32:37,234 Speaker 1: she can't go to brunch, and that's why women aren't 676 00:32:37,234 --> 00:32:39,354 Speaker 1: having kids. Now, I don't need to tell the listeners 677 00:32:39,354 --> 00:32:42,354 Speaker 1: of this podcast that that's probably not the reason why 678 00:32:42,354 --> 00:32:44,754 Speaker 1: a lot of women aren't having kids. So I think 679 00:32:44,794 --> 00:32:47,314 Speaker 1: it's fair game if you're going to put that person 680 00:32:47,354 --> 00:32:50,034 Speaker 1: on a widely listened podcast and he's going to dismiss 681 00:32:50,394 --> 00:32:53,954 Speaker 1: the experiences of millions of women as sort of superficial 682 00:32:53,994 --> 00:32:56,274 Speaker 1: and vapid, I think it's fair game to say, well, 683 00:32:56,314 --> 00:32:58,954 Speaker 1: I think that that reason is superficial and vapid. 684 00:32:59,394 --> 00:33:02,914 Speaker 4: I wonder if a lot of the people criticizing Stephen 685 00:33:02,954 --> 00:33:05,754 Speaker 4: Bartlett and saying I'm not listening anymore and clipping up. 686 00:33:06,434 --> 00:33:08,834 Speaker 4: I wonder how many of them have watched a full episode. 687 00:33:08,994 --> 00:33:11,634 Speaker 4: And this is the danger of the direction that podcasts 688 00:33:11,634 --> 00:33:15,194 Speaker 4: are going in, is that it is now clipped up 689 00:33:15,954 --> 00:33:20,634 Speaker 4: in twenty sixteen. In fact, two years ago, podcasting was 690 00:33:20,714 --> 00:33:24,194 Speaker 4: not subject to algorithms. It was outside of an algorithm, 691 00:33:24,194 --> 00:33:29,234 Speaker 4: which made discovering podcasts really hard. Now with the youtuberfication 692 00:33:29,434 --> 00:33:33,274 Speaker 4: of podcasts, I guarantee that every time Steven Bartlett puts 693 00:33:33,314 --> 00:33:35,754 Speaker 4: up an episode about in Cells, he gets a lot 694 00:33:35,954 --> 00:33:40,554 Speaker 4: of so much engagement if they're in cells, if they're 695 00:33:40,594 --> 00:33:41,754 Speaker 4: not in cells, whatever. 696 00:33:41,834 --> 00:33:44,834 Speaker 3: All him and his team are looking at are metrics. 697 00:33:44,954 --> 00:33:51,594 Speaker 4: And so I can see how certain podcasts are becoming 698 00:33:51,634 --> 00:33:53,674 Speaker 4: more and more radicalized, and. 699 00:33:53,794 --> 00:33:55,554 Speaker 1: On posit it boosts engagement. 700 00:33:55,594 --> 00:33:56,434 Speaker 3: It boosts engagement. 701 00:33:56,514 --> 00:33:59,914 Speaker 4: So the algorithm then like picks up even on TikTok 702 00:33:59,954 --> 00:34:01,714 Speaker 4: or whatever. You know that this is going to be inflammatory, 703 00:34:01,754 --> 00:34:03,634 Speaker 4: but guess what, It's going to get me more listens. 704 00:34:04,194 --> 00:34:05,114 Speaker 3: So does that leave us. 705 00:34:05,034 --> 00:34:09,393 Speaker 4: In a world where only people who you know, completely 706 00:34:09,433 --> 00:34:13,314 Speaker 4: align with Stephen Bartlett listen to him, only people who 707 00:34:13,314 --> 00:34:15,513 Speaker 4: completely align with us listen to us. 708 00:34:15,874 --> 00:34:18,393 Speaker 1: I think it's actually more about the fact that you 709 00:34:18,434 --> 00:34:21,674 Speaker 1: don't get to be Stephen Bartlett or Joe Rogan if 710 00:34:21,674 --> 00:34:24,234 Speaker 1: you're not very good at reading the collective tea leaves 711 00:34:24,274 --> 00:34:28,154 Speaker 1: and figuring out whether the public mood is and where 712 00:34:28,194 --> 00:34:31,354 Speaker 1: the public sentiment is going. So I think right now, 713 00:34:31,674 --> 00:34:34,433 Speaker 1: Stephen Butlett is tech adjacent. He comes from the tech world. 714 00:34:34,514 --> 00:34:37,634 Speaker 1: The tech world is dominated by men who have been 715 00:34:37,754 --> 00:34:40,834 Speaker 1: quote unquote red peled, and that's what's working for him 716 00:34:40,874 --> 00:34:44,114 Speaker 1: right now. But what's interesting is counter example, Joe Rogan 717 00:34:44,674 --> 00:34:47,754 Speaker 1: has just this week spoken out critically about what the 718 00:34:47,754 --> 00:34:51,873 Speaker 1: Trump administration is doing, which suggests to me that these 719 00:34:51,874 --> 00:34:54,474 Speaker 1: are men who are just trying to figure out what's 720 00:34:54,514 --> 00:34:57,114 Speaker 1: going to get them the connection with the audience at 721 00:34:57,114 --> 00:34:57,873 Speaker 1: any given time. 722 00:34:58,114 --> 00:35:00,434 Speaker 2: I think that's true. But I also think that Rogan 723 00:35:00,434 --> 00:35:03,393 Speaker 2: would say, this is proof of why it's not as 724 00:35:03,394 --> 00:35:05,114 Speaker 2: simple as you guys think it is, that am either 725 00:35:05,114 --> 00:35:07,074 Speaker 2: blue or I'm red. He's like, I'm red when I 726 00:35:07,114 --> 00:35:09,114 Speaker 2: I agree with what they're saying, I'm not read when 727 00:35:09,154 --> 00:35:10,794 Speaker 2: I don't. You know, I've heard him say the quote 728 00:35:10,794 --> 00:35:13,794 Speaker 2: that he's been saying this week is America is not 729 00:35:13,834 --> 00:35:16,473 Speaker 2: a country where people should be showing your papers. He's like, 730 00:35:16,554 --> 00:35:18,634 Speaker 2: is that where we are now? And he's expressed horror 731 00:35:18,674 --> 00:35:20,954 Speaker 2: about that, and people are like, oh, he's abandoning Trump. 732 00:35:20,994 --> 00:35:23,074 Speaker 2: It's like, well, maybe he is, or maybe he's just 733 00:35:23,154 --> 00:35:27,274 Speaker 2: expressing his opinion. To your point, Jesse, about does it 734 00:35:27,354 --> 00:35:30,354 Speaker 2: leave us with people who are I think that the 735 00:35:30,434 --> 00:35:33,674 Speaker 2: problem is is that they're really anyone who'll come on 736 00:35:33,754 --> 00:35:36,234 Speaker 2: and say something controversial. Is the person that you want 737 00:35:36,234 --> 00:35:37,593 Speaker 2: on the show if you've got two and a half 738 00:35:37,594 --> 00:35:39,794 Speaker 2: hours of someone who's never going to make a generalization, 739 00:35:39,914 --> 00:35:41,913 Speaker 2: never going to give you a neat SoundBite, never say 740 00:35:41,954 --> 00:35:44,234 Speaker 2: anything that's going to make people get upset in the comments. 741 00:35:44,514 --> 00:35:47,074 Speaker 2: No one's listening to your show. So it's probably less 742 00:35:47,074 --> 00:35:50,674 Speaker 2: of an ideological allegiance that he's like, I'm an in 743 00:35:50,794 --> 00:35:53,154 Speaker 2: cell and I'm on a platform in cells. I think 744 00:35:53,194 --> 00:35:55,714 Speaker 2: people like in cells and more. Who can I get 745 00:35:55,754 --> 00:35:57,913 Speaker 2: who will stick their neck out and say something not 746 00:35:58,074 --> 00:36:02,234 Speaker 2: very nuanced because we all know to avoid becoming that 747 00:36:02,354 --> 00:36:05,994 Speaker 2: kind of enragement bait, you have to be really nuanced 748 00:36:05,994 --> 00:36:08,714 Speaker 2: in what you're saying, and that's not sexy in a clip. 749 00:36:09,074 --> 00:36:12,393 Speaker 4: And I'll say, just in defense of Bartlet, I don't 750 00:36:12,434 --> 00:36:16,714 Speaker 4: think talking about in cells or male loneliness makes you 751 00:36:16,834 --> 00:36:20,634 Speaker 4: a misogynist. And I worry that any man Scott Galloway 752 00:36:20,634 --> 00:36:23,154 Speaker 4: has gone down this path who wants to write about 753 00:36:23,234 --> 00:36:24,873 Speaker 4: what it means to be a man, how to be 754 00:36:24,954 --> 00:36:25,513 Speaker 4: a good man. 755 00:36:25,634 --> 00:36:26,994 Speaker 3: He's released this book called. 756 00:36:26,834 --> 00:36:29,794 Speaker 4: Notes on Being a Man, which is a massive hit, 757 00:36:29,794 --> 00:36:32,194 Speaker 4: by the way, which is a massive hit. Anyone who 758 00:36:32,234 --> 00:36:37,114 Speaker 4: writes that book isn't necessarily an inceell And I worry 759 00:36:37,154 --> 00:36:37,594 Speaker 4: about that. 760 00:36:37,674 --> 00:36:38,354 Speaker 3: I worry that. 761 00:36:38,674 --> 00:36:42,354 Speaker 4: I see this kind of panic happen whenever men want 762 00:36:42,354 --> 00:36:45,834 Speaker 4: to talk about men things, and you see really radical 763 00:36:45,874 --> 00:36:50,314 Speaker 4: feminists kind of make fun of them, and I go, if. 764 00:36:50,114 --> 00:36:52,873 Speaker 3: We just leave this to the in cells, that's not good. 765 00:36:52,954 --> 00:36:54,634 Speaker 4: We need men in the middle who are willing to 766 00:36:54,634 --> 00:36:56,754 Speaker 4: have these conversations as well. And as far as I 767 00:36:56,794 --> 00:36:59,154 Speaker 4: can see it, Steve Bartlett is still kind of in 768 00:36:59,194 --> 00:36:59,594 Speaker 4: the middle. 769 00:37:00,194 --> 00:37:03,314 Speaker 2: In a moment, j Lo is in trouble for not 770 00:37:03,514 --> 00:37:05,994 Speaker 2: smiling enough. Is she just all of us on a 771 00:37:06,034 --> 00:37:16,554 Speaker 2: bad day. It's a ward season, and that means that 772 00:37:16,594 --> 00:37:19,314 Speaker 2: we get to see and judge and poke and dissect 773 00:37:19,634 --> 00:37:23,194 Speaker 2: every mannerism of celebrities, the real upper echelon of celebrities 774 00:37:23,554 --> 00:37:26,114 Speaker 2: even more than usual. One of the places we like 775 00:37:26,154 --> 00:37:28,154 Speaker 2: to do. That is with the glambot. Is everyone familiar 776 00:37:28,194 --> 00:37:29,554 Speaker 2: with the red carpet glambot? 777 00:37:29,634 --> 00:37:33,994 Speaker 4: Nope, it's my worst nightmare. It's yours two, Amelia. 778 00:37:34,154 --> 00:37:35,154 Speaker 1: What is the glambot? 779 00:37:35,154 --> 00:37:37,834 Speaker 2: So there's a guy who does. He's been doing it 780 00:37:37,874 --> 00:37:39,914 Speaker 2: for years and years and years. He's a very cool 781 00:37:39,994 --> 00:37:43,433 Speaker 2: Canadian music director called Cole Wallace at and these days 782 00:37:43,434 --> 00:37:46,554 Speaker 2: he's famous for his glambot camera on every red carpet 783 00:37:46,594 --> 00:37:49,794 Speaker 2: the Emmy's, the globes, the SAgs, whatever, And basically he's 784 00:37:49,794 --> 00:37:54,114 Speaker 2: got this very fancy, high definition, slow motion, high speed 785 00:37:54,114 --> 00:37:56,794 Speaker 2: whatever camera that you just stand on the carpet. I'm 786 00:37:56,834 --> 00:37:58,874 Speaker 2: going to do it. You just stand on the carpet. 787 00:37:58,914 --> 00:38:01,354 Speaker 2: And he like he's made himself a character in this. 788 00:38:01,474 --> 00:38:03,514 Speaker 2: So he greets you. You walk up, I'm like, Amelia, 789 00:38:03,674 --> 00:38:05,953 Speaker 2: so good to see you. You know, you're so good 790 00:38:05,954 --> 00:38:07,954 Speaker 2: at this. I love your dress. Blah blah. All you 791 00:38:07,994 --> 00:38:09,433 Speaker 2: have to do is look at the camera. I'm going 792 00:38:09,434 --> 00:38:11,074 Speaker 2: to count you down and then you're going to strike 793 00:38:11,114 --> 00:38:13,913 Speaker 2: a pose, right, and this camera is so good that 794 00:38:13,954 --> 00:38:16,234 Speaker 2: it catches you in slow motion doing it. So there 795 00:38:16,234 --> 00:38:19,074 Speaker 2: are some iconic ones. Is a great brudpit where they 796 00:38:19,154 --> 00:38:24,234 Speaker 2: kind of go like say, you go, yeah, yeah. 797 00:38:23,714 --> 00:38:24,274 Speaker 6: Well you go. 798 00:38:24,394 --> 00:38:26,314 Speaker 1: You know, he is striking some. 799 00:38:28,114 --> 00:38:31,354 Speaker 2: This is an audio medium unless you're watching us on YouTube, 800 00:38:31,514 --> 00:38:33,074 Speaker 2: but I'm striking poses. 801 00:38:33,354 --> 00:38:35,194 Speaker 1: And do these appear on Instagram? 802 00:38:35,554 --> 00:38:35,754 Speaker 3: Yes? 803 00:38:35,874 --> 00:38:38,674 Speaker 2: Yeah, So then it's turned into its little you know, 804 00:38:38,794 --> 00:38:43,514 Speaker 2: slow mo thing and it goes all over socials, TikTok, Instagram, wherever. 805 00:38:43,754 --> 00:38:46,234 Speaker 4: And there's a bit of a joke about how awkward 806 00:38:46,274 --> 00:38:47,914 Speaker 4: they can be because they also do it at like 807 00:38:48,714 --> 00:38:51,913 Speaker 4: now launches for things and events and whatever, like I'm 808 00:38:51,914 --> 00:38:53,834 Speaker 4: sure I've been to events where they've got a glambot 809 00:38:53,834 --> 00:38:55,114 Speaker 4: and I'm like, absolutely not. 810 00:38:55,474 --> 00:38:57,074 Speaker 3: But you see people do them, and I think it 811 00:38:57,114 --> 00:38:57,473 Speaker 3: takes a. 812 00:38:57,394 --> 00:39:00,834 Speaker 4: Certain level of skill to know, you know, how to 813 00:39:01,074 --> 00:39:03,554 Speaker 4: pose when you do it, like yeah, I hate it. 814 00:39:03,514 --> 00:39:05,714 Speaker 2: But yes, And he's become a bit of a character. 815 00:39:05,754 --> 00:39:07,554 Speaker 2: And one of the things that's happened is how you 816 00:39:07,594 --> 00:39:10,154 Speaker 2: react for the celebrities because he also posts the whole 817 00:39:10,234 --> 00:39:12,514 Speaker 2: behind the scenes, so the whole from the beginning of 818 00:39:12,514 --> 00:39:16,993 Speaker 2: the interaction Hi Amelia through to the finished product. So 819 00:39:17,154 --> 00:39:18,634 Speaker 2: how you interact. 820 00:39:18,194 --> 00:39:22,154 Speaker 1: With you you are missing out. 821 00:39:23,554 --> 00:39:27,194 Speaker 2: How you react to Cole and the glambot says a 822 00:39:27,234 --> 00:39:32,514 Speaker 2: lot about you, allegedly and this week our friend of 823 00:39:32,554 --> 00:39:37,514 Speaker 2: the pod Jalo I know she listens regularly, has been 824 00:39:37,594 --> 00:39:40,674 Speaker 2: the victim of the story being that she did not 825 00:39:40,914 --> 00:39:44,794 Speaker 2: handle the Glambot. Well, oh no, she did not acknowledge coal. 826 00:39:44,954 --> 00:39:47,314 Speaker 2: She happened to be fair. There are videos of her 827 00:39:47,354 --> 00:39:49,553 Speaker 2: from years ago where she's very friendly with him, Hi, 828 00:39:49,754 --> 00:39:56,434 Speaker 2: shaking hands so judicious. Well, I'm worried about that, worried 829 00:39:56,434 --> 00:39:59,234 Speaker 2: about slandering the JLO. But she was not in a 830 00:39:59,314 --> 00:40:00,954 Speaker 2: mood to play at the Golden Globes and she just 831 00:40:00,994 --> 00:40:01,354 Speaker 2: walked on. 832 00:40:01,474 --> 00:40:03,593 Speaker 1: That's because her dress was nearly not there. 833 00:40:04,834 --> 00:40:08,154 Speaker 2: She just walked up. Did it know her? No intruction. 834 00:40:08,274 --> 00:40:10,274 Speaker 2: We would play you audio, but we can't because it 835 00:40:10,354 --> 00:40:15,514 Speaker 2: isn't it she said, not one word. And of course 836 00:40:15,594 --> 00:40:17,994 Speaker 2: the internet has done its thing and gone so rude. 837 00:40:17,994 --> 00:40:21,953 Speaker 2: What a bitch. She's so rude. And Cole, who, as 838 00:40:21,994 --> 00:40:24,634 Speaker 2: you can imagine, gets asked all the time, and he 839 00:40:24,674 --> 00:40:26,674 Speaker 2: does it too. He wraps up the best ten glamd 840 00:40:26,674 --> 00:40:28,474 Speaker 2: Bots of the year at the end of the award season. 841 00:40:29,074 --> 00:40:31,834 Speaker 2: He's had to k had to come out defend her 842 00:40:32,354 --> 00:40:35,994 Speaker 2: and say, look, some celebrities are playing some a business. 843 00:40:36,034 --> 00:40:39,433 Speaker 2: She was being business blah blah, blah anyway the world. 844 00:40:39,474 --> 00:40:42,314 Speaker 1: But I have to interrupt because this came to us 845 00:40:42,354 --> 00:40:46,114 Speaker 1: fire an editor here at Mama Mia who said that 846 00:40:46,194 --> 00:40:49,274 Speaker 1: she thinks he posted it deliberately. Yes, do you think 847 00:40:49,274 --> 00:40:49,794 Speaker 1: that's true? 848 00:40:49,834 --> 00:40:52,554 Speaker 2: I think it's probably true. Is that he's adding fire 849 00:40:52,674 --> 00:40:54,393 Speaker 2: to the point that we just made about how you 850 00:40:54,434 --> 00:40:57,474 Speaker 2: get engagement and you travel. So he didn't say anything 851 00:40:57,554 --> 00:40:59,874 Speaker 2: mean about j Lo in his piece to camera video 852 00:40:59,914 --> 00:41:00,234 Speaker 2: about it. 853 00:41:00,354 --> 00:41:02,194 Speaker 4: Got a lot of comments, and he's got something like 854 00:41:02,234 --> 00:41:05,154 Speaker 4: twelve point seven million followers on TikTok. 855 00:41:05,194 --> 00:41:05,993 Speaker 1: He's a big deal. 856 00:41:06,074 --> 00:41:07,634 Speaker 3: He's almost as big as j oh. 857 00:41:07,594 --> 00:41:09,993 Speaker 2: He definitely is. He's a celebrity too, So that's why 858 00:41:09,994 --> 00:41:11,554 Speaker 2: you can't just treat him like the help, you know 859 00:41:11,554 --> 00:41:14,114 Speaker 2: what I mean? Like Jayla made a big mistake, but 860 00:41:14,234 --> 00:41:16,634 Speaker 2: the thing is, so she's coping flak. He may or 861 00:41:16,674 --> 00:41:19,074 Speaker 2: may not be complicit in this. But one of the 862 00:41:19,114 --> 00:41:21,274 Speaker 2: things that it has got people talking about is the 863 00:41:21,394 --> 00:41:24,794 Speaker 2: what we expect from celebrities on the red carpet and 864 00:41:24,834 --> 00:41:27,314 Speaker 2: when we're shouting at them to smile, to show a 865 00:41:27,314 --> 00:41:30,554 Speaker 2: bit of leg, to pose this way. Like Miley Cyrus 866 00:41:30,634 --> 00:41:33,314 Speaker 2: was recently in the same situation on the red carpet 867 00:41:33,354 --> 00:41:35,553 Speaker 2: at a film festival and she was being yelled at 868 00:41:35,594 --> 00:41:38,114 Speaker 2: by the wall of photographers, take your sonnies off, put 869 00:41:38,114 --> 00:41:40,314 Speaker 2: them on, and she bit back and was like, I'm 870 00:41:40,314 --> 00:41:41,913 Speaker 2: going to do the opposite of what you tell me 871 00:41:41,954 --> 00:41:44,834 Speaker 2: to do. There's some great audio of Hannah Waddingham, who's 872 00:41:44,834 --> 00:41:47,714 Speaker 2: that brilliant British actress from ted La so when she 873 00:41:47,954 --> 00:41:49,794 Speaker 2: was told to show a bit of leg and she 874 00:41:49,874 --> 00:41:52,034 Speaker 2: was like, you would never ask a man to do that. 875 00:41:52,794 --> 00:41:56,314 Speaker 2: Does this all remind us very much of just being 876 00:41:56,394 --> 00:41:58,834 Speaker 2: told to smile and be nice all the time. 877 00:41:58,954 --> 00:42:02,514 Speaker 1: Well, see, I thought that men had stopped asking women 878 00:42:02,594 --> 00:42:06,634 Speaker 1: to smile, but then in our planning meeting, Vernon tells 879 00:42:06,674 --> 00:42:09,794 Speaker 1: me she still being asked to smile. I think you 880 00:42:09,994 --> 00:42:12,994 Speaker 1: age out of being asked to smile if you're a civilian. Obviously, 881 00:42:13,034 --> 00:42:15,594 Speaker 1: if you're Jalo or Hannah Waddingham, you're not aging out 882 00:42:15,634 --> 00:42:17,354 Speaker 1: of it. But I haven't been asked to smile since 883 00:42:17,354 --> 00:42:20,354 Speaker 1: I was thirty five. 884 00:42:20,714 --> 00:42:22,994 Speaker 3: I haven't been asked to smile in a very long. 885 00:42:22,994 --> 00:42:26,473 Speaker 1: No one's expecting a middle aged woman to smile, not 886 00:42:26,594 --> 00:42:27,754 Speaker 1: on their list of expects. 887 00:42:27,754 --> 00:42:31,394 Speaker 4: Maybe since twenty sixteen, we're not asking each other to smile. 888 00:42:31,474 --> 00:42:33,514 Speaker 3: It's just understood that we're not happy. 889 00:42:33,594 --> 00:42:37,674 Speaker 2: The risk profile is too high to ask a midlife 890 00:42:37,674 --> 00:42:38,634 Speaker 2: woman to smile. 891 00:42:38,754 --> 00:42:39,393 Speaker 1: Absolutely. 892 00:42:41,674 --> 00:42:44,474 Speaker 2: Anyway, what do you think is this just an extension 893 00:42:44,474 --> 00:42:46,434 Speaker 2: of how we expect women to perform in public. 894 00:42:46,634 --> 00:42:49,114 Speaker 4: I'm going to play Devil's advocate for a minute and 895 00:42:49,314 --> 00:42:52,594 Speaker 4: just specifically look at red carpets for a moment, because 896 00:42:53,474 --> 00:42:57,154 Speaker 4: I have worked a bit in television and have seen 897 00:42:57,594 --> 00:43:03,714 Speaker 4: the relationship between talent and production. And when I saw 898 00:43:03,754 --> 00:43:07,634 Speaker 4: the Jlo thing, I was I mean using this word 899 00:43:07,674 --> 00:43:10,634 Speaker 4: tongue in cheek, but triggered, right. And I say that 900 00:43:10,954 --> 00:43:17,354 Speaker 4: because there is this I think famous people disproportionately see 901 00:43:17,514 --> 00:43:20,433 Speaker 4: other people in terms of status, like a status hierarchy, right, 902 00:43:20,994 --> 00:43:26,754 Speaker 4: And I would work with people who the way they 903 00:43:26,874 --> 00:43:27,594 Speaker 4: spoke to. 904 00:43:27,594 --> 00:43:29,873 Speaker 3: The camera operator, to the makeup artist, to. 905 00:43:29,954 --> 00:43:37,393 Speaker 4: The floor manager was so abysmal and disrespectful that it 906 00:43:37,514 --> 00:43:40,114 Speaker 4: was like they weren't real human beings. So people who 907 00:43:40,154 --> 00:43:41,634 Speaker 4: had worked with them for ten years and never learned 908 00:43:41,634 --> 00:43:44,554 Speaker 4: their name. And I thought, that tells you a lot 909 00:43:44,594 --> 00:43:46,674 Speaker 4: about a person. And so when I saw the Jlo thing, 910 00:43:46,754 --> 00:43:49,074 Speaker 4: and I am never going to accept that a ten 911 00:43:49,154 --> 00:43:51,873 Speaker 4: second clip tells a whole story, There is so much context. 912 00:43:52,434 --> 00:43:55,114 Speaker 4: Jlo is working, she is a woman at work. 913 00:43:55,234 --> 00:43:55,954 Speaker 3: She is busy. 914 00:43:56,234 --> 00:43:58,953 Speaker 4: She's probably been up since four am, unlike Brad Pitt, 915 00:43:58,954 --> 00:44:01,314 Speaker 4: who probably rolled out of bed at four pm. You know, 916 00:44:01,634 --> 00:44:03,913 Speaker 4: skincare routine, skincare routine. 917 00:44:03,754 --> 00:44:04,594 Speaker 3: And wandered in. 918 00:44:05,434 --> 00:44:08,074 Speaker 4: Jlo knows that everything she does is to be scrutinized, 919 00:44:08,074 --> 00:44:13,714 Speaker 4: and like, I completely understand, But I also think that 920 00:44:13,834 --> 00:44:15,674 Speaker 4: we're desperate. 921 00:44:15,194 --> 00:44:17,274 Speaker 3: For those small moments. 922 00:44:16,834 --> 00:44:20,794 Speaker 4: Of insight because they do tell you something about how 923 00:44:20,834 --> 00:44:24,874 Speaker 4: a person engages with people who they don't. 924 00:44:24,754 --> 00:44:26,794 Speaker 3: Think can give them anything. 925 00:44:27,034 --> 00:44:27,593 Speaker 2: Is that fair? 926 00:44:27,914 --> 00:44:31,594 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's fair. You reminded me that once I was 927 00:44:31,674 --> 00:44:34,394 Speaker 1: at a press event. I was there in a capacity 928 00:44:34,434 --> 00:44:36,234 Speaker 1: as a journalist, but there are a lot of famous 929 00:44:36,274 --> 00:44:38,433 Speaker 1: people there and they had to like drive us up 930 00:44:38,434 --> 00:44:40,674 Speaker 1: this hill for this launch for something. I forgot what 931 00:44:40,674 --> 00:44:43,393 Speaker 1: it was. And I was put in a car with 932 00:44:43,514 --> 00:44:48,154 Speaker 1: Simon Baker, Oh yeah, and two other Australian celebrities that 933 00:44:48,194 --> 00:44:51,993 Speaker 1: I won't mention. The two other Australian celebrities said absolutely 934 00:44:52,274 --> 00:44:55,234 Speaker 1: nothing to me. Yep, Simon Baker, He's sitting in the 935 00:44:55,234 --> 00:44:59,953 Speaker 1: front seat. He turns around and he says, Hi, I'm 936 00:45:00,034 --> 00:45:04,274 Speaker 1: Simon baker. Yeah, I know, I was a puddle on 937 00:45:04,314 --> 00:45:09,474 Speaker 1: the floor. I'm blushing now. This simple courtesy just made 938 00:45:09,554 --> 00:45:11,714 Speaker 1: my day. Yeah, it made my day. 939 00:45:12,074 --> 00:45:14,433 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly true. 940 00:45:14,674 --> 00:45:17,354 Speaker 2: Like sometimes people come into a podcast, into you, for example, 941 00:45:17,394 --> 00:45:19,834 Speaker 2: and they want to know the producer's name and the 942 00:45:19,874 --> 00:45:21,554 Speaker 2: you know, the person turning the camera on, and they 943 00:45:21,554 --> 00:45:24,114 Speaker 2: say hello and they thank everybody, and you always think 944 00:45:24,154 --> 00:45:27,954 Speaker 2: that person's wonderful. And also as the interviewer, you only 945 00:45:27,994 --> 00:45:31,674 Speaker 2: get a good interview if somebody's open and feeling good, 946 00:45:31,754 --> 00:45:33,794 Speaker 2: you know, and so you're very much looking for that 947 00:45:33,914 --> 00:45:37,754 Speaker 2: rather than defensiveness. But some of this red carpet content 948 00:45:37,794 --> 00:45:40,514 Speaker 2: stuff I think has changed that dynamic a bit because 949 00:45:40,674 --> 00:45:44,154 Speaker 2: to your point, Jesse, about Cole and his twelve million TikTokers, 950 00:45:44,834 --> 00:45:47,354 Speaker 2: it's not really clear what the power dynamic is there, 951 00:45:47,954 --> 00:45:51,154 Speaker 2: Like he needs them and they need him, but in 952 00:45:51,194 --> 00:45:54,433 Speaker 2: a very literal way, and he has the power to 953 00:45:54,554 --> 00:45:58,074 Speaker 2: ruin their reputations because everybody loves a bit of a 954 00:45:58,234 --> 00:46:00,114 Speaker 2: she was a bitch, he didn't leave a tip, whatever 955 00:46:00,194 --> 00:46:03,754 Speaker 2: story is about a celebrity, we love them. Listening to 956 00:46:03,794 --> 00:46:06,794 Speaker 2: this now wants to know who Jesse's worked with, who 957 00:46:06,874 --> 00:46:09,234 Speaker 2: was to the crew, because these are the kind of 958 00:46:09,274 --> 00:46:12,114 Speaker 2: stories we like more than anything. I think we particularly 959 00:46:12,114 --> 00:46:14,354 Speaker 2: like them about women more than men because obviously we're 960 00:46:14,554 --> 00:46:17,994 Speaker 2: waiting for them to fall into the bitch category. And 961 00:46:18,074 --> 00:46:21,034 Speaker 2: so I can see that, you know. I mean, I 962 00:46:21,034 --> 00:46:23,994 Speaker 2: have no idea what kind of person Jalo is generally speaking, 963 00:46:24,314 --> 00:46:26,393 Speaker 2: but let's say, as he said, this was the end 964 00:46:26,434 --> 00:46:28,474 Speaker 2: of the carpet, everyone was rush da da da da da. 965 00:46:28,634 --> 00:46:30,554 Speaker 2: Maybe she's just like, oh, now I've got to go 966 00:46:30,594 --> 00:46:32,314 Speaker 2: and do that thing for that guy with the twelve 967 00:46:32,434 --> 00:46:36,034 Speaker 2: million followers. Like I can kind of get it. I 968 00:46:36,034 --> 00:46:39,393 Speaker 2: don't think it necessarily means she's evil, but I am 969 00:46:39,634 --> 00:46:43,354 Speaker 2: interested in how it kind of translates. You know, when 970 00:46:43,434 --> 00:46:47,393 Speaker 2: you watch those young female celebrities being screamed at by 971 00:46:47,394 --> 00:46:49,674 Speaker 2: the wall of paps, well they're not paps really at 972 00:46:49,674 --> 00:46:53,393 Speaker 2: those events, press photographers. The way those photographers speak to 973 00:46:53,434 --> 00:46:55,434 Speaker 2: them is actually quite shocking. 974 00:46:55,234 --> 00:46:58,554 Speaker 4: And they're often fully grown men who are incredibly aggressive. 975 00:46:58,634 --> 00:47:02,434 Speaker 1: Yes, you've reminded me of another anecdote. I was once 976 00:47:02,554 --> 00:47:05,234 Speaker 1: working in an office in downtown New York and I 977 00:47:05,394 --> 00:47:08,714 Speaker 1: left the office building to go and get an overpriced sandwich, 978 00:47:08,714 --> 00:47:11,234 Speaker 1: because that's what people and offices do. It was around 979 00:47:11,314 --> 00:47:14,234 Speaker 1: lunchtime and I come out as a building and there 980 00:47:14,234 --> 00:47:17,513 Speaker 1: are all these men screaming at me to get out 981 00:47:17,514 --> 00:47:20,754 Speaker 1: of the way, which I thought was very rude, I mean, 982 00:47:21,154 --> 00:47:23,634 Speaker 1: little unusual. None of them were asking me to smile, 983 00:47:23,754 --> 00:47:25,913 Speaker 1: they were just asking you to move. And then I 984 00:47:25,994 --> 00:47:29,474 Speaker 1: realized it was because Julia Roberts was filming a movie 985 00:47:29,674 --> 00:47:31,714 Speaker 1: at the very time. I didn't see Julia Roberts. She 986 00:47:31,794 --> 00:47:34,674 Speaker 1: was somewhere in the mix and I was getting in 987 00:47:34,674 --> 00:47:37,554 Speaker 1: the way of the shot. But for that single moment, 988 00:47:37,594 --> 00:47:40,714 Speaker 1: I understood what it was like to have a wall 989 00:47:40,874 --> 00:47:45,074 Speaker 1: of people with long lenses shouting at you and they 990 00:47:45,194 --> 00:47:48,394 Speaker 1: will stop at nothing. I mean, I sound like you, granted, 991 00:47:48,554 --> 00:47:50,873 Speaker 1: you know, having went on that long crusade against the 992 00:47:50,874 --> 00:47:53,434 Speaker 1: British tablets, and you sort of think world's tiniest violin 993 00:47:53,514 --> 00:47:56,034 Speaker 1: for the rich, famous celebrities. But I think there's something 994 00:47:56,074 --> 00:47:58,794 Speaker 1: to the idea that it can be very confronting, especially 995 00:47:58,874 --> 00:48:01,154 Speaker 1: for women, to have all these people shouting. 996 00:48:00,754 --> 00:48:04,154 Speaker 2: At paparazzi, that kind of street paparazzi. They are deliberately 997 00:48:04,194 --> 00:48:06,194 Speaker 2: yell provocative things to try and get a reaction because 998 00:48:06,194 --> 00:48:08,274 Speaker 2: they want to face this in way. But does it 999 00:48:08,434 --> 00:48:11,674 Speaker 2: kind of have a real life implication. Do you think 1000 00:48:12,314 --> 00:48:15,594 Speaker 2: I wonder that young women feel very scrutinized anyway right 1001 00:48:15,674 --> 00:48:18,394 Speaker 2: out in the world all the time, and people feel 1002 00:48:18,514 --> 00:48:24,594 Speaker 2: more entitled or more able to say, empowered maybe is 1003 00:48:24,594 --> 00:48:26,634 Speaker 2: the word to say to them, you know, whether it's 1004 00:48:26,714 --> 00:48:29,393 Speaker 2: smile or whether it's like something about their mood or 1005 00:48:29,434 --> 00:48:32,433 Speaker 2: their posture or what they're wearing or whatever. Is it 1006 00:48:32,554 --> 00:48:34,714 Speaker 2: kind of that blown up to eleven? 1007 00:48:35,154 --> 00:48:40,074 Speaker 4: Yes, And I certainly have had so many experiences of 1008 00:48:40,114 --> 00:48:44,794 Speaker 4: being told to smile or feel there's a visibility that 1009 00:48:44,834 --> 00:48:47,914 Speaker 4: I feel in public that I would say, Luca doesn't 1010 00:48:47,994 --> 00:48:49,114 Speaker 4: feel so much. 1011 00:48:49,194 --> 00:48:52,073 Speaker 1: What about now that you're visibly pregnant? Does that change 1012 00:48:52,074 --> 00:48:53,513 Speaker 1: it again? Yes? 1013 00:48:53,754 --> 00:48:58,114 Speaker 4: But I was waiting in a public restroom yesterday and 1014 00:48:58,554 --> 00:49:00,834 Speaker 4: I was waiting in line, and the woman in front 1015 00:49:00,874 --> 00:49:03,194 Speaker 4: of me, who was young, like would have been twenty, 1016 00:49:03,474 --> 00:49:05,674 Speaker 4: said no, no, no, you go first, And I was like, oh, 1017 00:49:05,754 --> 00:49:11,154 Speaker 4: I like this visibility is women good visibility? But I've 1018 00:49:11,194 --> 00:49:14,834 Speaker 4: certainly found it. Even with my daughter, I feel as 1019 00:49:14,834 --> 00:49:19,674 Speaker 4: though the way that she is policed or looked at 1020 00:49:19,794 --> 00:49:24,594 Speaker 4: or commented on is different to a little boy. Like 1021 00:49:24,634 --> 00:49:30,434 Speaker 4: maybe we expect a certain adherence to rules or social 1022 00:49:30,514 --> 00:49:35,274 Speaker 4: standards that I see boys aren't as punished for. 1023 00:49:35,554 --> 00:49:37,954 Speaker 1: That's absolutely true. And I can say that because I 1024 00:49:38,034 --> 00:49:40,274 Speaker 1: have a control group. I have a girl and a 1025 00:49:40,314 --> 00:49:45,114 Speaker 1: boy who are very similar ages, and whenever I am 1026 00:49:45,274 --> 00:49:48,473 Speaker 1: out in public with them without my partners, so it's 1027 00:49:48,514 --> 00:49:54,394 Speaker 1: the three of us without exception, someone will always always 1028 00:49:54,634 --> 00:49:59,994 Speaker 1: say something weird, creepy or unpleasant to my daughter, never 1029 00:50:00,354 --> 00:50:00,993 Speaker 1: to my son. 1030 00:50:01,194 --> 00:50:02,794 Speaker 3: So it's like your son's invisible. 1031 00:50:03,434 --> 00:50:06,354 Speaker 1: It's not that he's invisible, it's that people don't regard 1032 00:50:06,434 --> 00:50:10,234 Speaker 1: him as their business. Yeah right, Okay, He's not their business. 1033 00:50:10,474 --> 00:50:13,873 Speaker 1: She's their business. And I have an example just from 1034 00:50:13,874 --> 00:50:16,354 Speaker 1: this weekend. We were on the light rail here in 1035 00:50:16,434 --> 00:50:18,954 Speaker 1: Sydney and it has a button that you pressed to 1036 00:50:19,114 --> 00:50:23,074 Speaker 1: ask them to stop at the next stop. And my 1037 00:50:23,194 --> 00:50:25,754 Speaker 1: daughter was obsessed with this button. Of course, I mean 1038 00:50:25,794 --> 00:50:28,714 Speaker 1: it's a cool button. And I said, okay, but let's 1039 00:50:28,754 --> 00:50:30,873 Speaker 1: wait until we actually do need to get off. And 1040 00:50:30,914 --> 00:50:32,594 Speaker 1: then it got to the point where it was time 1041 00:50:32,634 --> 00:50:34,834 Speaker 1: to press the button, and she mustered up the courage 1042 00:50:34,834 --> 00:50:36,794 Speaker 1: because she had to walk across the carriage to press 1043 00:50:36,834 --> 00:50:39,794 Speaker 1: the button. And at that very same time, a man 1044 00:50:39,834 --> 00:50:42,433 Speaker 1: sat down in the seat next to the button, and 1045 00:50:42,474 --> 00:50:44,834 Speaker 1: he says to this five year old girl, as she's 1046 00:50:44,874 --> 00:50:47,834 Speaker 1: going to press the button, oh, little lady, you shouldn't 1047 00:50:47,874 --> 00:50:51,154 Speaker 1: do that, like as though she wasn't It wasn't playful. 1048 00:50:51,314 --> 00:50:54,274 Speaker 1: It was actually a little menacing, and it was sort 1049 00:50:54,314 --> 00:50:57,593 Speaker 1: of like saying to her, you don't have the right 1050 00:50:57,674 --> 00:51:00,194 Speaker 1: to cross this train carriage and press this button and 1051 00:51:00,234 --> 00:51:02,873 Speaker 1: assert that you're getting off at the next stop. And 1052 00:51:03,274 --> 00:51:05,913 Speaker 1: what I found interesting about it is that that is 1053 00:51:05,954 --> 00:51:08,474 Speaker 1: the worst thing you can say to a girl, because 1054 00:51:08,474 --> 00:51:13,554 Speaker 1: girls already understand that breaking the rules is the worst 1055 00:51:13,594 --> 00:51:15,993 Speaker 1: thing they can do. Like a little boy breaking the rules, 1056 00:51:16,034 --> 00:51:18,674 Speaker 1: it doesn't stab his heart in the same way, like 1057 00:51:18,834 --> 00:51:20,554 Speaker 1: for a little girl to feel like she's broken the 1058 00:51:20,594 --> 00:51:23,634 Speaker 1: rules is devastating. And so she comes back to me, 1059 00:51:23,714 --> 00:51:25,754 Speaker 1: she's like, you told me I could do it, And 1060 00:51:25,794 --> 00:51:27,393 Speaker 1: I said, of course you could do it. You didn't 1061 00:51:27,394 --> 00:51:29,634 Speaker 1: do anything wrong. I couldn't say anything to this man 1062 00:51:29,754 --> 00:51:31,714 Speaker 1: because I felt that there was a safety issue with 1063 00:51:31,754 --> 00:51:33,473 Speaker 1: the kids there, and I didn't want to get into 1064 00:51:33,514 --> 00:51:35,794 Speaker 1: an altercation, which I would normally love to have with them, 1065 00:51:35,834 --> 00:51:38,234 Speaker 1: but at the time, I just had to be silent. 1066 00:51:38,314 --> 00:51:41,393 Speaker 1: And I think it's sort of an indictment on the 1067 00:51:41,394 --> 00:51:44,873 Speaker 1: fact that we do think that girls need to be 1068 00:51:44,954 --> 00:51:48,234 Speaker 1: policed and surveyed in a way that we don't think 1069 00:51:48,274 --> 00:51:49,634 Speaker 1: that boys need to be. 1070 00:51:49,954 --> 00:51:52,354 Speaker 3: And that we can all tell them what to do. 1071 00:51:52,834 --> 00:51:55,514 Speaker 4: I've wondered too, if we do the same thing to mothers, 1072 00:51:55,994 --> 00:51:57,953 Speaker 4: if it was a man who was with his two kids, 1073 00:51:57,994 --> 00:52:00,114 Speaker 4: if we're less likely because that was also an indictment 1074 00:52:00,154 --> 00:52:02,354 Speaker 4: on you, Yeah, which was also well. 1075 00:52:02,114 --> 00:52:06,033 Speaker 1: I mean not really again, neither of us did anything wrong, Yeah, yeah, yah, Yeah. 1076 00:52:06,034 --> 00:52:08,993 Speaker 1: I felt that it was more about the fact that 1077 00:52:09,474 --> 00:52:13,994 Speaker 1: everyone in that train carriage was watching the girl and 1078 00:52:14,034 --> 00:52:16,914 Speaker 1: what she was doing. They were not watching the boy. 1079 00:52:17,394 --> 00:52:19,754 Speaker 1: The boy could have been climbing from the roof, in fact, 1080 00:52:19,794 --> 00:52:21,914 Speaker 1: he probably was, and no one was watching. 1081 00:52:22,114 --> 00:52:25,194 Speaker 2: It's really interesting because I've spoken a lot about how 1082 00:52:25,314 --> 00:52:29,194 Speaker 2: you feel that lens really really hard on your daughter, 1083 00:52:29,234 --> 00:52:31,714 Speaker 2: when on young women, young girls as they get older, 1084 00:52:32,274 --> 00:52:33,873 Speaker 2: that lens only intensively. 1085 00:52:34,194 --> 00:52:37,034 Speaker 1: Wow, Well, then that culminates with the glambot, yes. 1086 00:52:38,314 --> 00:52:41,154 Speaker 2: Because then it's a lot of opinions about everything they're 1087 00:52:41,194 --> 00:52:43,554 Speaker 2: wearing and what they're doing. And by that time, I 1088 00:52:43,554 --> 00:52:46,274 Speaker 2: think a lot of girls have obviously just internalized the 1089 00:52:46,274 --> 00:52:50,434 Speaker 2: fact that they are constantly being scrutinized, and I think 1090 00:52:50,794 --> 00:52:53,034 Speaker 2: I don't know it's real. Sometimes I wonder about my 1091 00:52:53,074 --> 00:52:56,873 Speaker 2: own complicity in that though, because I definitely tell both 1092 00:52:56,954 --> 00:52:59,074 Speaker 2: my kids all the time to be very polite and 1093 00:52:59,114 --> 00:53:01,514 Speaker 2: if as a stranger talks to you, or like whenever 1094 00:53:01,554 --> 00:53:04,554 Speaker 2: you're in public, is always be nice, Always be polite, 1095 00:53:04,594 --> 00:53:06,594 Speaker 2: Always say thank you, always say hello, and da da 1096 00:53:06,674 --> 00:53:09,314 Speaker 2: da da. And you can see that my daughter probably 1097 00:53:09,314 --> 00:53:11,914 Speaker 2: takes that when she was little, took that on more 1098 00:53:11,994 --> 00:53:15,834 Speaker 2: than my son. Because what you're also telling them is 1099 00:53:16,554 --> 00:53:19,194 Speaker 2: never cause trouble, don't be the rippled, don't be the 1100 00:53:19,234 --> 00:53:22,873 Speaker 2: squeaky wheel, like just remove yourself if things get complicated, like, 1101 00:53:23,234 --> 00:53:24,234 Speaker 2: but you prepare. 1102 00:53:23,914 --> 00:53:25,714 Speaker 4: Them for the real world, which is as a girl, 1103 00:53:25,754 --> 00:53:28,314 Speaker 4: you're going to be punished more for rudeness than a 1104 00:53:28,354 --> 00:53:28,714 Speaker 4: man is. 1105 00:53:28,954 --> 00:53:31,674 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're going to be watched more like to put 1106 00:53:32,154 --> 00:53:34,234 Speaker 1: a point on it, like you're going to be scrutinized. 1107 00:53:34,354 --> 00:53:34,594 Speaker 3: You are. 1108 00:53:34,714 --> 00:53:37,994 Speaker 2: And that's why I remember when Chapel Rone, you know, 1109 00:53:38,074 --> 00:53:42,033 Speaker 2: the musician the artist yelled at red carpet photographers last 1110 00:53:42,114 --> 00:53:44,754 Speaker 2: year and she was having a moment where she was 1111 00:53:44,794 --> 00:53:47,114 Speaker 2: the biggest musician in the world, but the world had 1112 00:53:47,154 --> 00:53:49,953 Speaker 2: suddenly decided she was a brat, and that was one 1113 00:53:49,994 --> 00:53:52,634 Speaker 2: of the moments that contributed to that, because she basically 1114 00:53:52,674 --> 00:53:55,554 Speaker 2: said to them, stop yelling at me, stop pointing at 1115 00:53:55,554 --> 00:53:57,114 Speaker 2: me and telling me where to stand. I don't like it. 1116 00:53:57,154 --> 00:53:58,714 Speaker 2: And I remember us talking about it on the show 1117 00:53:58,754 --> 00:54:01,754 Speaker 2: at the time and saying something like it kind of 1118 00:54:01,754 --> 00:54:05,314 Speaker 2: feels refreshing that there's there are these young women who 1119 00:54:05,314 --> 00:54:08,234 Speaker 2: were like, no, like, if you don't get to tell 1120 00:54:08,274 --> 00:54:10,594 Speaker 2: me to smile, you don't get to tell me. But 1121 00:54:10,634 --> 00:54:12,514 Speaker 2: then on the other hand, we're like, oh, she's a 1122 00:54:12,514 --> 00:54:15,114 Speaker 2: bit of herself. She like, you know, I would be 1123 00:54:15,114 --> 00:54:16,393 Speaker 2: grateful to be here. 1124 00:54:16,394 --> 00:54:19,953 Speaker 1: Pretty inarguably, her career has suffered from that. I think 1125 00:54:19,994 --> 00:54:23,274 Speaker 1: ever since then, she's kind of retreated a little bit 1126 00:54:23,474 --> 00:54:26,114 Speaker 1: from the public conversation. And I think it's because we 1127 00:54:26,154 --> 00:54:28,594 Speaker 1: don't really want to hear from a woman being difficult 1128 00:54:28,634 --> 00:54:31,794 Speaker 1: in that way, absolutely and rejecting our gaze. 1129 00:54:31,874 --> 00:54:33,754 Speaker 2: We don't want to see the result of that. If 1130 00:54:33,754 --> 00:54:36,114 Speaker 2: you think that a lot of young women and girls, 1131 00:54:36,194 --> 00:54:39,553 Speaker 2: and we feel that scrutiny anyway turned up to way 1132 00:54:39,594 --> 00:54:42,194 Speaker 2: beyond eleven if you're famous, and then when it seems 1133 00:54:42,194 --> 00:54:45,034 Speaker 2: to visibly affect somebody and they begin to crack under that, 1134 00:54:45,154 --> 00:54:47,554 Speaker 2: then we judge them for it. It's a tricky one 1135 00:54:47,554 --> 00:54:51,154 Speaker 2: to get right. But j Lo, she's been living with 1136 00:54:51,194 --> 00:54:53,314 Speaker 2: this for a long time. I think she may be 1137 00:54:53,434 --> 00:54:56,234 Speaker 2: wishing she just said hi, thanks to Cole. 1138 00:54:56,354 --> 00:54:58,674 Speaker 4: At this moment, I just think about her and Ben, 1139 00:54:58,714 --> 00:55:01,314 Speaker 4: and I just wonder if you know she's still grieving, 1140 00:55:01,714 --> 00:55:02,873 Speaker 4: they keep getting back together. 1141 00:55:03,914 --> 00:55:06,754 Speaker 1: So maybe I think Jane Garner's got the upper hand 1142 00:55:06,794 --> 00:55:07,114 Speaker 1: right now. 1143 00:55:07,434 --> 00:55:10,114 Speaker 4: I just well, maybe she just learned that and then 1144 00:55:10,154 --> 00:55:12,033 Speaker 4: she had to go into the Glambot and she wasn't 1145 00:55:12,034 --> 00:55:12,754 Speaker 4: feeling chatty. 1146 00:55:12,834 --> 00:55:13,554 Speaker 3: We've all been there. 1147 00:55:13,794 --> 00:55:18,033 Speaker 2: Gana doesn't want it. Who knows better? Out louders, thank 1148 00:55:18,074 --> 00:55:20,474 Speaker 2: you so much for having us in your ears this Monday. 1149 00:55:20,554 --> 00:55:21,794 Speaker 2: Welcome back to me and I. 1150 00:55:21,754 --> 00:55:26,314 Speaker 4: Have something to tell subscribers before we go. This is 1151 00:55:26,394 --> 00:55:29,314 Speaker 4: very exciting. 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