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Speaker 1: This episode is brought to you by Bondi Sands Everyday Skincare.

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Speaker 2: These are the yays of our lives.

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Speaker 1: Busy and happy are not the same thing. We too

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Speaker 1: rarely question what makes the heart seeing. We work, then

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Speaker 1: we rest, but rarely we play and often don't realize

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Speaker 1: there's more than one way. So this is the platform

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Speaker 1: to hear and explore the stories of those who found lives.

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Speaker 3: They adore the good, bad and ugly.

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Speaker 1: The best and worst days will bear all the facets

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Speaker 1: of seizing your yea. I'm Sarah Davidson or Spoonful of Sarah,

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Speaker 1: a lawyer turned funentrepreneur who swapped the suits and heels

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Speaker 1: to co found Matcha Maiden and Matcha Milk Bar.

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Speaker 3: Sez the Ya is.

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Speaker 1: A series of conversations on finding a life you love

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Speaker 1: and exploring the self doubt, challenge, joy and fulfillment along

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Speaker 1: the way.

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Speaker 3: Hi Viim, Morning Bim, Welcome back, Welcome back to the show,

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Speaker 3: Welcome back to you to live.

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Speaker 2: I know who re entered the universe. This is the

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Speaker 2: first years of our lives in so many weeks. A

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Speaker 2: very very belated birthday episode to everyone who submitted questions

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Speaker 2: for our Q and a thank you so much for

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Speaker 2: your patients. I feel like I kept putting up that

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Speaker 2: Q and A function on socials and saying we're recording tomorrow,

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Speaker 2: and then we just didn't record tomorrow for a month.

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Speaker 3: For a whole month.

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Speaker 4: I feel like the episode we did prior or the

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Speaker 4: last one we did was a few days before your birthday,

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Speaker 4: and then well, oh, we won't include the birthday stuff

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Speaker 4: because we're just recorded next week. And then next week

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Speaker 4: became six sixteen years later and eighty.

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Speaker 3: Five years old.

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Speaker 5: It was a new Q and Aarian life. It's been

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Speaker 5: really great, really great. My voice is aged, that makes sense.

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Speaker 5: But you were on well, I was onwell.

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Speaker 2: I finally the spicy cough caught out with me.

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Speaker 3: It was definitely my turn, like, let's be real.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm actually really impressed that it took that long.

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Speaker 3: So am I I am.

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Speaker 4: As much obviously I would never be should upon anyone.

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Speaker 3: I'm I was like, finally, she shut up. I still

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Speaker 3: sound like this it's really lingering. Yeah, but you had

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Speaker 3: a cold afterwards as well, so it's kind of.

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Speaker 4: Just but it's quite common to have these prost viile symptoms,

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Speaker 4: and mystag is still be infectious.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I was like, surely, surely.

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Speaker 4: Because we were hanging out just two days before came

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Speaker 4: came busy and we will spend the whole day together.

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Speaker 3: Whole day we watched a movie and like we went

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Speaker 3: to help. We went, oh my god, we haven't. We

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Speaker 3: have so much to catch up on.

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Speaker 2: This is why we need to record these episodes once

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Speaker 2: every three days, because too much happens in between.

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Speaker 3: Because you all need to catch up on our line

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Speaker 3: on what we have been doing a group.

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Speaker 4: Our lives, Sarah and I, not yours.

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Speaker 3: It's true.

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Speaker 2: These episodes are just us having catchups and sharing all

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Speaker 2: our random and jokes that nobody understands.

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Speaker 3: Why are we like this? Sure nobody cares.

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Speaker 4: That's what it gets. Your birthday was what happened for

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Speaker 4: your birthday? You surprised me? I know that was a

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Speaker 4: week after the birthday.

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Speaker 3: There was birthday, No, well, birthday day. I did my tradition.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so we do a tradition of surprising each other

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Speaker 2: with random things.

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Speaker 3: No streamers, Oh yeah, okay, okay.

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Speaker 2: So and just tradition is that she somehow gets into

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Speaker 3: In the most obnoxious possible way.

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Speaker 4: And I go all out, Like I remember one year

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Speaker 4: in your bedroom, went like balloons across the walls, like

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Speaker 4: And then this time I had come from work, so

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And I told I'm already losing my voice. No,

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Speaker 3: was on the day day, and you have a ring,

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Speaker 2: Nicole kept the footage, so we installed Some of you

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Speaker 2: guys might remember from socials that Nick's car got broken into,

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Speaker 2: But now Nick has this really loud in your face

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Speaker 2: of noxious alarm that goes like any motion near our

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, and I was like, thought, I was

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Speaker 4: Meanwhile, the whole ring sensor, emotion alarm, voice alarm. Nick

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Speaker 2: Because you were just like multitasking, like putting his streamers up,

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Speaker 4: And I was like, well, look how good the front

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Speaker 4: I did end up decorating it as per usual, and

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Speaker 3: It was so lovely, it was the best.

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Speaker 2: So also, as you guys know, coolest thing in the

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Speaker 2: So we were both adopted from different biological families, born

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Speaker 2: So if you don't believe in destiny, it's impossible not

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Speaker 4: I remember that one time I was in Korea and

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Speaker 3: I have this Korean friend, Jade. I love Jade. You

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Speaker 4: And so I went and I just this post and

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Speaker 3: Love you so much, Jade.

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Speaker 4: And Sarah commented, she goes, what the actual excuse me

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Speaker 3: I love my mummy.

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Speaker 2: Mother's Day is also coming up. It's been since our

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Speaker 3: How was that?

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Speaker 2: It was absolutely incredible. I got to meet Grace Tame amazing.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, she's such a special human being. We

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Speaker 3: So much has happened. Oh my god, how do I

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Speaker 2: So first I was em seeing they keep it cleaner

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Speaker 3: And that was mind blowing. Didn't they have like a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they have a non solicitation and strict confidentiality clauses

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Speaker 2: so you have a safe place you're not allowed to

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Speaker 2: pitch to each other. Makes sense, but I like, you're

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Speaker 3: It's a really really beautiful organization.

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Speaker 2: It really was quite special and for me too to

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Speaker 2: and fifty amazing people. Yeah, it was so special that

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Speaker 3: Happened, so much has happened. Well, we did go to Hamilton.

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Speaker 3: Really, but it's really.

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Speaker 2: So that's our recommendation, That's what I Yeah, that's definitely Yesterday.

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Speaker 3: I feel like that could be really fun. We could

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Speaker 2: Or it can be for like you and a friend

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Speaker 2: So people listening say, if you want to come and

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Speaker 3: And then you, oh my god, okay, and we did

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Speaker 2: Hall recommend hala hala recommend.

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Speaker 3: Only true is what we're talking about. Even still, oh

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Speaker 4: What if the friend is actually a special event for

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Speaker 2: and we have to like what charades to guess it

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Speaker 4: What it isn't on the night they're like, oh, we're

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Speaker 2: The neighborhood wedding we were going to do. Yeah, and

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Speaker 4: So back to the premise of the whole thing.

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Speaker 3: We will hold a yester night.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and it will be around Pino and Pcasso. I

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Speaker 2: be like can you actually do that? But that would

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Speaker 3: Feel like it'd be fun. It's so much fun for us.

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Speaker 4: As well and the future ones. It's a don't know

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Speaker 3: Whole episode is.

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Speaker 2: So you know you know on do you listen to SmartLess? No,

446
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Speaker 2: it's the podcast with Jason Bateman who else?

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Speaker 3: I can't even remember.

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Speaker 2: Who the three guys are, but three really famous, amazing.

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Speaker 3: Actors about it all the time.

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Speaker 2: It's so funny and the friend but only one of

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Speaker 2: them knows the guests each time, so it'll be like

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Speaker 2: Will Ferrell. Yeah, but it can be like you organize

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Speaker 2: one yester night and I don't know what it is,

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Speaker 2: and then I organize the next one and you don't.

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Speaker 3: Know what it is, and no one, no one else knows.

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Speaker 3: You're only one person.

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Speaker 2: So another thing we did last night was we let

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Speaker 2: the internet decide what we were going to watch for

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Speaker 2: our movie night.

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Speaker 4: That could be a day that we do let the

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Speaker 4: internet decide. Okay, sorry, continue, my god, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: This is such a choose your own adventure episode.

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Speaker 3: This is such a freedom adventure but there's no freedom.

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Speaker 3: Yes episode, but it's all no, Oh my god. We we

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Speaker 3: are so hectic. Okay, what else? It's been minutes and

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Speaker 3: we haven't started on the birth night. But what did

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Speaker 3: we watch last night? Very wholesome recommendations.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah, we've missed a lot of recommendations and

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Speaker 2: yeahbihood watch stories. We're going to record next week's episodes

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Speaker 2: straight after this because there's too much stuff to get

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Speaker 2: through and it's on. But we do have one overarching

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Speaker 2: recommendation from last night. We had him a little movie

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Speaker 2: night we didn't want to watch. As always putting it

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Speaker 2: out there to the universe, I would like an app

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Speaker 2: where you put your genre and like whether you want

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Speaker 2: to cry or not? And you know whether you want

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Speaker 2: it to be, you know, whatever you want it to be,

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Speaker 2: and like it just spits out a movie for you

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Speaker 2: to watch because I'm so indecisive. But we did that

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Speaker 2: with the internet. And can you please give a shout

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Speaker 2: out to whoever recommended it to us?

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Speaker 4: Lindsay, who's we call it at work? Lindsey hoo can out?

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Speaker 4: I think that's how you pronounce it's a long last.

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Speaker 3: My god, he should have checked before you went love

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Speaker 3: with her.

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Speaker 4: That's okay, Linz will be okay with it. Linz recommended it.

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Speaker 4: It's called coda. To be honest, I think the best

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Speaker 4: part of it was.

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Speaker 3: That I knew of the movie.

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Speaker 4: I didn't know what it was about, had zero idea

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Speaker 4: of what it was about.

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Speaker 3: I knew that they had one a few.

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Speaker 4: Awards, and I knew the backstory of the crew being

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Speaker 4: hearing impaired and or death, and I, you know me,

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Speaker 4: I just love I.

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Speaker 3: Love it all. I love all of it.

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Speaker 4: I love Oslan, and I love asl which is the

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Speaker 4: American one, and I love just how the communication I

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Speaker 4: thing it through the beautiful anyway we ended up watching that,

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Speaker 4: we went from hey, we both want true crime.

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Speaker 2: Death killing, we actually started on the prostitute video the.

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Speaker 3: Sex Worker now Been. We liter sad in the is it?

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Speaker 2: We watched the first thirty seconds of a Ted Bundy

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Speaker 2: movie before this recommend it. She came through and I'm

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Speaker 2: so glad that we abandoned it in favor of Coder.

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Speaker 2: But you know, what's the most beautiful thing is watching

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Speaker 2: a movie when you haven't heard all the hype, you

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Speaker 2: don't really know.

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Speaker 3: So I was like that with Hamilton. I didn't know

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Speaker 3: any of the backstory.

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Speaker 2: I just knew that our dear friend Georgia Love was

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Speaker 2: like only speaks in Hamiltonian.

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Speaker 3: But otherwise I had no idea about it.

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Speaker 2: And sometimes coming to something without knowing the storyline is

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Speaker 2: it's like a yester night.

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Speaker 3: It's like I'm saying yes.

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Speaker 2: To this movie for two and a half hours, even

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Speaker 2: though I don't know what it's about. And we were

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Speaker 2: bawling within thirty minutes.

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Speaker 4: Is can I quickly put what the other recommendations were from?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, but first let's go through coder? Oh yeah, yeah, sorry,

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Speaker 3: so yep, CODA.

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Speaker 2: So CODER actually stands for child of a Deaf adult. Yes,

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Speaker 2: And actually, maybe we shouldn't say too much about it

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Speaker 2: so that people who haven't watched it just go and

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Speaker 2: watch it without knowing anything about it and then report

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Speaker 2: back because it is just so much yay in the heart,

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Speaker 2: like bawling our eyes out.

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Speaker 3: Actually I was making fun of man. I was like,

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Speaker 3: am Ukraine airy movie.

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Speaker 4: Was walking around the room like, you know, I'm so strong,

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Speaker 4: and I was like, I'm about to cry. And it

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Speaker 4: was not even a really teary part of the movie.

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Speaker 4: It's not a sad movie.

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Speaker 3: It's just beautiful.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And I was like crying, sterious in hysterics and

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Speaker 4: then and I was like shamelessly crying and then all

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Speaker 4: of a suddenly hear.

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Speaker 3: Like this nose sniffley the other way. It was just

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Speaker 3: it was tears of joy though.

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Speaker 2: It was just pure humanity and so much love and emotion,

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Speaker 2: and just go and watch it.

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Speaker 3: I can't.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you could ever get to the end

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Speaker 2: of it and not feel warm and enlightened and oh

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Speaker 2: it's it's beautiful. And then of course we do that

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Speaker 2: thing where then we go in a YouTube wormhole and

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Speaker 2: watch all the interviews with the actors about the movie.

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Speaker 2: It won three Oscars, so you probably don't need to

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Speaker 2: know anymore, But do yourself a favor and go and

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Speaker 2: watch it, especially if you're having a bad day like

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Speaker 2: you just it's so so beautiful, and don't look up

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Speaker 2: too much about it.

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Speaker 3: I kind of like that idea. Yeah, we had no idea,

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Speaker 3: We just watched it.

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Speaker 4: I think that's the other thing about recommendations is that

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Speaker 4: they're recommended recommendations is because they were recommendated to you.

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Speaker 3: Recommendated. It's kind again recommend datd.

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Speaker 4: To you, so you kind of trust in that already,

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Speaker 4: so you don't really have to vet it or like

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Speaker 4: you read the blurbs or anything.

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Speaker 2: And just another really quick shout out for another recommendation

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Speaker 2: which was actually a nomination. The last guest we had

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Speaker 2: on I think it was the last guest, or maybe

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Speaker 2: the guest before, Alison Gordon, who was the incredible Army

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Speaker 2: officer turned Arctic and Antarctic expeditionist turned sustainable pet food

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Speaker 2: business owner who created this net zero protein source for

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Speaker 2: her PTSD suffering former parrot drooping dog like water story

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Speaker 2: was submitted by Emily de Wilgis, who's an amazing neighborhood

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Speaker 2: listener and I would never have found Alison without that,

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Speaker 2: so I love the idea of getting you guys to

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Speaker 2: whistleblow on your community heroes because we want to feature them.

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Speaker 2: And now we're getting a bit more organized with how

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Speaker 2: we're going to be sharing these stories, so please keep

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Speaker 2: them coming.

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Speaker 3: That's right.

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Speaker 4: Can I share some other recommendations?

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Speaker 3: Go for it?

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Speaker 4: So we put it up on the Instagram. These are

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Speaker 4: some of the recommendations. So in canto Lin, Manuel, Maria, Christina,

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Speaker 4: thank you Christina, we had please put No Escape on

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Speaker 4: your list. Such a great movie, awful but great from Colby.

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Speaker 3: Awful love Colby, I love awful but great.

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Speaker 4: Yes, The Reader with Kate Winslet was apparently good, apparently

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Speaker 4: mind boggling, but very much enjoyed, so please watch that.

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Speaker 4: Apparently this one was like passionately advocated for, so it

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Speaker 4: must be good. Dot on Netflix called The Last Breath incredible.

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Speaker 4: Just trust me, I swear you'll be recommending it to everyone.

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Speaker 3: Trust me. Trust So okay, I think it's the next

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Speaker 3: sex on that.

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Speaker 4: Second on our list, we've got Turning Red, oh, which

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Speaker 4: I think is on Disney Plus Potential.

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Speaker 3: I think it's a cartoon.

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Speaker 1: Oh.

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Speaker 3: I haven't actually watched any of these. I feel like

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Speaker 3: we need to have a vetting.

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Speaker 4: Process in case we're like, oh yeah, good, turny red,

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Speaker 4: don't look up, don't look at ted Lasso by Junior.

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Speaker 3: Ted Lasso has been recommended so many times. I haven't

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Speaker 3: watched any of either. I don't know why we need

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Speaker 3: to do and we need to do that. Three sixty

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Speaker 3: five DNA watch it. It's like a comedy apparently if

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Speaker 3: you want to laugh. Devil was Classic by Steph.

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Speaker 4: Dev was the one that recommended three sixty five DNA. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: there were the main ones. I think hopefully I've got more. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: some good recommendations. So if you do have a movie

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Speaker 4: night that you've got coming.

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Speaker 3: Up, start with Coder.

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Speaker 4: Yes, start with Coder and then.

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Speaker 3: Sa us out the others. All please recommend us other ones.

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Speaker 2: If you have.

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Speaker 3: Lovely neighborhood.

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Speaker 1: You might remember our incredible guest from episode one hundred

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Speaker 1: and fifteen, Blair James, who started out in a town

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Speaker 1: of just one thousand people, only to grow Bondi Sands

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Speaker 1: to over fifty products in a whopping thirty thousand retailers worldwide.

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Speaker 1: Since then, Bondi Sands has launched an incredible everyday skincare

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Speaker 1: range packed with Australian botanicals that has something for every

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Speaker 1: skin type, even the sensitive ones like mine. I love

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Speaker 1: a Naussi business, as you all know, especially one that

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Speaker 1: serves up that glow all within one hundred percent recyclable

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Speaker 1: post consumer packaging. And the range itself has options to cleanse, treat, hydrate,

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Speaker 1: protect and mask, with packaging colors and shapes to identify

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Speaker 1: each one, and there's a skincare quiz online.

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Speaker 3: To help you choose what's right for you.

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Speaker 1: My favorites are the Golden Hour Brightening, Vitamin C Serum,

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Speaker 1: Bondai Babe Purify, and Clay Mask, especially with all the

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Speaker 1: travel and makeup at work at the moment. And most

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Speaker 1: importantly there's Sunny Days Hydrating spr fifty plus moisturizer. Suncare

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Speaker 1: is so incredibly important for our skin as we all know.

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Speaker 1: I'll pop the link in the show notes for you

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Speaker 1: to check it out.

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Speaker 3: Questions.

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Speaker 2: I feel like these poor people who have submitted them

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Speaker 2: for like six weeks now to so to have some

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Speaker 2: of them answered question they did have to suffer through

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Speaker 2: thirty minutes of us laughing about nothing.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so questions.

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Speaker 4: This was just random questions slash questions. If they wanted

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Speaker 4: about your birthday, but it ended up just being a mixedport.

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Speaker 3: It's bad.

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Speaker 4: It's bad, I think, So I'm just gonna throw some

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Speaker 4: at you.

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Speaker 3: Sure, okay, this one. It's probably quite a nice.

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Speaker 4: One for some people. It is by Nat Underscore fam.

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Speaker 4: How did you find balance during your time as a lawyer?

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Speaker 4: Young struggling grad Here, Oh, I emerge with a tear

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Speaker 4: rolling down face but still smiling.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I feel your pain, my love. Balance is something

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Speaker 2: that is so elusive. I think in all chapters of

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Speaker 2: my life I've struggled with it. But it definitely was

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Speaker 2: harder than I think, because you know, at the very

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Speaker 2: beginning and improve yourself, you don't necessarily feel established enough

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Speaker 2: or confident enough to take back the power in the

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Speaker 2: same way that you might a few years into your career.

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Speaker 2: You know, you are kind of establishing yourself, working hard,

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Speaker 2: trying to learn, make a good impression. It's really difficult,

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Speaker 2: and I think looking back at that time, we had

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Speaker 2: matro Maiden in the background from probably the end of

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Speaker 2: my first year. So having something even if you can

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Speaker 2: only give it a little bit of time on the weekend,

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Speaker 2: a little bit of time after work, it doesn't have

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Speaker 2: to be a full business, but having something on the

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Speaker 2: side that gives your brain a little bit of a

665
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Speaker 2: rest but also makes you excited to finish work at

666
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:41,400
Speaker 2: the end of the day, like something you can't wait

667
00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 2: to get to or that you can't wait to have

668
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:48,280
Speaker 2: time for. I found that even if it wasn't technically

669
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:50,920
Speaker 2: balanced in terms of work being like ninety percent of

670
00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 2: my life and that only being ten percent, it's better

671
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:55,240
Speaker 2: than having nothing else to balance it out. I feel

672
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 2: like where the biggest challenge happens is where you're working life.

673
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 2: If your working identity and your working goals become everything

674
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 2: and you're so tired that you don't make time for

675
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:08,320
Speaker 2: anything else, which is so understandable and natural. But even

676
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 2: just having one small activity that you know makes you

677
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 2: really happy and making sure that's the one thing you

678
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:16,920
Speaker 2: don't miss, whether or not anything else gets fitted in

679
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 2: that week. I feel like, you know, as you get

680
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:21,959
Speaker 2: more senior, and as you get more confident in being

681
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:24,600
Speaker 2: able to push back a little bit your time to

682
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:27,240
Speaker 2: integrate that activity into your week, more will grow.

683
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 3: But just start small.

684
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:32,320
Speaker 2: Start with something that gives your brain a complete rest

685
00:32:32,400 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 2: and your body a complete rest. Surround yourself with friends

686
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 2: who also either going through the same thing, or who

687
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 2: have been through it and either found a solution or

688
00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 2: change their balance, or who got the balance wrong and

689
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 2: wish that they could tell someone younger than them how

690
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 2: to fix it. I think just having people to bounce

691
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:53,760
Speaker 2: off in those harder times as well really helps.

692
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:55,520
Speaker 4: This is a question on the back of that question

693
00:32:55,600 --> 00:33:01,240
Speaker 4: that wasn't in the list, but in grad lawyer corporate

694
00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:04,240
Speaker 4: kind of life, do you still get to cumulate leave

695
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:05,480
Speaker 4: for the year and things like that?

696
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, So that's the other thing. Yeah,

697
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 3: use your six days. It takes a while to a

698
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:11,040
Speaker 3: crew leave.

699
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 2: But I think in some working environments there is a

700
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 2: bit of pressure not to take your leave, but you're

701
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:20,320
Speaker 2: entitled to it. I mean, perhaps don't ask for it

702
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:24,480
Speaker 2: in your first three months at the firm, but yeah,

703
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:27,640
Speaker 2: you're entitled to take that. And I think it's it's

704
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:30,600
Speaker 2: a much better environment now, a much better landscape than

705
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:33,200
Speaker 2: it was, say ten years ago or even five years ago.

706
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 2: People are more accepting that burnt out employees don't achieve much.

707
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 4: I allow you, That's what I learned the hard way.

708
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,600
Speaker 4: I think I was so new and fresh and.

709
00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 3: Like I have to be committed to this job.

710
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:47,280
Speaker 4: I took I think three days of annually last year

711
00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 4: altogether and then obviously the eight days that we have

712
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 4: to take. But I underappreciated the ability to take leave

713
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 4: and we were really lucky at work that they actually

714
00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 4: encourage it and they would, but in my mind it

715
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:01,480
Speaker 4: was my own conscience that was like, oh, no, I

716
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 4: can't leave the team, like yeah, they're so short stuffed already,

717
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:06,239
Speaker 4: like in the middle of pandemic, I can't leave them.

718
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 4: When they were kind of like, no, we want you

719
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 4: to and you should. Yeah, and so they were encouraging

720
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 4: and I always here it being like no, no, like

721
00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:14,000
Speaker 4: there's never a good time, but there's never going to

722
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 4: be a good time, and so that's why Newcastle. But

723
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:19,840
Speaker 4: it took me that long to just use it. And

724
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 4: then I was like, oh my god, now I've booked.

725
00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:23,440
Speaker 4: I'd like, you used all my leave for the year,

726
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:25,320
Speaker 4: but preemptively booked for the rest of the year, and

727
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 4: now I have things to silk forward to. That's how

728
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 4: it's worked for me, is that I rather than continually

729
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:33,239
Speaker 4: work and there's nothing to look forward to, then if

730
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:35,560
Speaker 4: you book leave somewhere at the end of the year,

731
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:39,160
Speaker 4: even it's for a week means that there's something exciting.

732
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:42,239
Speaker 3: That's happening in the look to look forward to.

733
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 2: I think the other thing as well that really helped

734
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:45,680
Speaker 2: me is looking at the public holidays that you have

735
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:48,840
Speaker 2: in the year in advance and sort of if you

736
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:50,880
Speaker 2: don't want to take that much leave, you can just

737
00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 2: add a day onto a three day weekend, so that

738
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 2: turns into four days, but you've only had to use

739
00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 2: one day about your leave, and if you book early

740
00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 2: enough before you need it. Where it gets tricky is

741
00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 2: where you know, you suddenly realize there's a three day

742
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:04,480
Speaker 2: weeknd next week and you ask them or in a

743
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:06,680
Speaker 2: week in advance, like you can't manage your workload around

744
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:09,759
Speaker 2: taking four days off. Whereas if you book it now

745
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:12,440
Speaker 2: the public holidays are already set. You know you can

746
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:15,920
Speaker 2: book now for like November, and build it in so

747
00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:18,320
Speaker 2: that you know in advance you've given them enough notice.

748
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:20,759
Speaker 2: You can hand over all your case files on time.

749
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 2: You know, if you kind of plan ahead, you don't

750
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 2: feel as guilty because you're not leaving anyone. You know,

751
00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:28,279
Speaker 2: you're not announcing it at the last minute. Everyone can

752
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:30,799
Speaker 2: plan around you. And also then you can get it. Yeah,

753
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:33,200
Speaker 2: like you said, you can get excited, So I think

754
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:36,400
Speaker 2: I think you're yeah, managing your annual leave as efficiently

755
00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:39,440
Speaker 2: and effectively as you can. It's there for a reason.

756
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 2: And sick days, I mean they don't roll over. You're

757
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:45,520
Speaker 2: supposed to use them in the year and not waiting

758
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 2: either until you're like deathly, because it can take you

759
00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:50,919
Speaker 2: a really long time to get well if you don't

760
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:53,840
Speaker 2: take a sick day like when it could be most effective.

761
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:57,720
Speaker 2: But also I never used my sick days for mental

762
00:35:57,800 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 2: health days. I only use them for physical health days,

763
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 2: and that did not work very well. So if you're

764
00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:04,920
Speaker 2: having a mental like, don't feel like you can't use

765
00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 2: them for mental holidays either.

766
00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:07,640
Speaker 4: That's a good one.

767
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:12,320
Speaker 3: This is random one, but I like random. I actually

768
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 3: like them, not being mini dot xcent. How do you

769
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:20,480
Speaker 3: normally greet each other on the phone and in person? Question?

770
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:24,560
Speaker 3: Usually bim.

771
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 5: Yeah.

772
00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:31,479
Speaker 3: Normally Sarah will be like, hey, bim, this is the phone,

773
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:32,520
Speaker 3: so the ring ring.

774
00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:35,279
Speaker 4: Sarah, hay bim, and I'll be like, did you just

775
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 4: throw your phone in the triangle because she doesn't pick

776
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:39,920
Speaker 4: up a hundred.

777
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 3: Times and then she just like randomly picks up, so

778
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 3: you're always surprised you're like, be.

779
00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 1: Like Bim.

780
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 2: Because you're in the car and I my master goes boop.

781
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 2: So yeah, it's very excitable. Funny story. So Nick used

782
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:01,399
Speaker 2: to always make fun of my master bootoo, so when

783
00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 2: when I would call him, he'd answer and go boot boop.

784
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 2: And one of our friends, Jimmy, thought that that's what

785
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 2: we call each other. Cute name is for each other.

786
00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I was like, what are you saying?

787
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:17,400
Speaker 3: It's like, isn't it what do you call each other?

788
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 3: Boot boom? I'm like, what do you is the best? No,

789
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:22,840
Speaker 3: it's always the phone is.

790
00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 4: You're always very much hey Bim and I'm Bolina or

791
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:28,120
Speaker 4: you're like Bimberlina.

792
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:29,920
Speaker 3: But yeah, it's very much like I don't ever say

793
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:32,279
Speaker 3: bim Berlina. I say bimbaynor. I think not when I

794
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:36,759
Speaker 3: first say you yeah, and then sometimes you're like oi yeah,

795
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:40,360
Speaker 3: sometimes you're let oi okay. I didn't realize.

796
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:45,359
Speaker 4: And also, oh this is a visual again but this obeah, yeah,

797
00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:48,279
Speaker 4: this is definitely me and now I do it?

798
00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:52,840
Speaker 3: Have you noticed it's waving like with your hands fingers

799
00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:55,799
Speaker 3: together and thumb or touching each other.

800
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 2: And your hand doesn't move independently of your forearm, like

801
00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:04,359
Speaker 2: the whole thing moves together. That's a shoulder exercise. You've

802
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:06,799
Speaker 2: got to keep your core really stable. But it's really

803
00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 2: small movements.

804
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, really small. When did that start? I have no idea,

805
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 3: bim and then but us.

806
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 4: Physically seeing each other is very excitable. It's not like

807
00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:17,799
Speaker 4: a bam and then a jump like it's a hug

808
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,760
Speaker 4: jump up and down me. And so it's really skinny.

809
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:22,240
Speaker 4: So she goes through my arm.

810
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 3: Just joined like non patents jumping. It's a really cute question.

811
00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:35,319
Speaker 4: It is each other. On the back of that, he's

812
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 4: why do you call each other bim Is it short

813
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:42,400
Speaker 4: for bimbo? That's what we've definitely told that story nineteen.

814
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just because I.

815
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:46,440
Speaker 4: Would have been in the know.

816
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:49,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, we've we've we've done it before.

817
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:52,719
Speaker 2: It's a term of endement. Basically that started with bim

818
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:54,880
Speaker 2: Bolina was the person. No, it started with bimbo.

819
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, then bim and then and then other suffixes came

820
00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:01,120
Speaker 4: and then all had different meanings.

821
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:03,319
Speaker 3: But there's a hierarchy and Bimbi is at the top.

822
00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:07,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just kind of like bimbo is pretty like

823
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 4: generic now yeah, and then.

824
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:11,360
Speaker 3: Like so if she calls you Bimbo, you're not in

825
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:16,000
Speaker 3: the circle of trust. You can't expose that. I'm gidding.

826
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:20,719
Speaker 4: No, he's determined of endearment that I started when I

827
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:22,480
Speaker 4: was in high school and then it's stuck. But for

828
00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:24,800
Speaker 4: people that don't know me and don't know us, it

829
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:28,760
Speaker 4: can be people like, oh, that's been insulting, but it's

830
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:29,640
Speaker 4: hugely loving.

831
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:31,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, so yeah, we call the other bim and I

832
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:33,760
Speaker 3: find it. We're calling you anything house I know whenever

833
00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:36,399
Speaker 3: I call you and you're like, what genuinely like, who

834
00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:39,520
Speaker 3: is bim is you? And your name's Bimby in my phone?

835
00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 3: And sometimes people like can you give me serious number?

836
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:43,279
Speaker 3: The other day I sent her to Ruthers and I

837
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:47,480
Speaker 3: forgot it said Bimby a Korean name.

838
00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 4: Okay, next question is how do you keep it real

839
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:58,680
Speaker 4: and feel confident and positive by missus Dodd. Hmmm.

840
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:03,080
Speaker 2: I think think when you keep it real, you feel

841
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:05,880
Speaker 2: more confident. Like for me at least, they're really closely

842
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:11,520
Speaker 2: tied together because the more that I show, and I

843
00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 2: didn't start this way necessarily. I was probably more curated

844
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 2: at the start, particularly because my entrance to social media

845
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:19,880
Speaker 2: was through a business I had to be a bit

846
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:24,479
Speaker 2: more polished. At the beginning, I found I was less

847
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:31,360
Speaker 2: confident and more uh more overthinking on socials when I

848
00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:33,759
Speaker 2: wasn't showing all sides of me. And I think it's

849
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:35,880
Speaker 2: because you create this persona and then the stress of

850
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 2: feeling like you need to keep up with that, or

851
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:41,920
Speaker 2: then you're always concerned about perception, and that's like, that's

852
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:44,239
Speaker 2: not necessarily a bad thing, it's not being inauthentic. It's

853
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:46,320
Speaker 2: just it was being professional because in the context of

854
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:49,600
Speaker 2: a business, I couldn't, you know, be as probably loose

855
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:50,239
Speaker 2: as I am.

856
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:52,000
Speaker 3: When I first met you.

857
00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:52,279
Speaker 5: You were.

858
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:55,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was quite structured about it, not necessarily structured.

859
00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:56,920
Speaker 4: But if I said to you, hey, I'm going to

860
00:40:56,960 --> 00:40:59,160
Speaker 4: steal your phone and then put up stories on my face,

861
00:40:59,239 --> 00:40:59,760
Speaker 4: it would.

862
00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:02,960
Speaker 3: Be like, no, this is really important. Immediately A no. Yeah, no,

863
00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 3: it's immediately a now it's a no. It's a no

864
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:08,640
Speaker 3: for me. But now you're so freely yourself it's great.

865
00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:10,840
Speaker 2: And then I also feel like you feel more confident

866
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:13,960
Speaker 2: then because you know that you're showing all sides of yourself,

867
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:18,400
Speaker 2: including the less polished, the more like, you know, conventionally

868
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:21,480
Speaker 2: embarrassing or awkward or dor key kind of side of

869
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:24,399
Speaker 2: yourself or without makeup or whatever it is, or when

870
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:27,480
Speaker 2: you're sick. Sharing all of those things and knowing people stay,

871
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:30,320
Speaker 2: then you get more confident because you're like, oh, I

872
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:33,040
Speaker 2: feel accepted in my whole self, not just accepted in

873
00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:36,879
Speaker 2: a small part. I think also surrounding yourself with people

874
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:39,719
Speaker 2: who are who hype you up rather than pull you down.

875
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:41,919
Speaker 2: That also makes it easy to be confident because whenever

876
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:44,399
Speaker 2: you do get in an echo chamber of self doubt

877
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:48,279
Speaker 2: or imposter syndrome, instead of someone echoing that or amplifying

878
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:49,800
Speaker 2: it for you, they just shut it down with you

879
00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:53,880
Speaker 2: straight away. That helps enormously because the voices in your

880
00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 2: head really need people to help like drown them out

881
00:41:57,680 --> 00:41:59,920
Speaker 2: positivity all the time. I think the same with confidence.

882
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:05,360
Speaker 2: Both of those things over time have become easier for

883
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 2: me to be a default, but they don't start that way.

884
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:10,759
Speaker 2: I think both of them take practice. They're not just something.

885
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:13,279
Speaker 2: Some people wake up with them, some people have to

886
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:16,360
Speaker 2: curate them. But I think a lot of people think, oh,

887
00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 2: I could never be that positive, I could never be

888
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:21,040
Speaker 2: that confident. But it's definitely something you can practice. It's

889
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 2: a skill, it's not just a gift that arrives or

890
00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 2: doesn't arrive. It's definitely not all the time. I mean,

891
00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 2: you've seen me in both states, completely without confidence and

892
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:30,960
Speaker 2: completely not positive.

893
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 3: But yeah, I think it's choosing to do things that make.

894
00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:42,640
Speaker 2: Confidence and positivity easier in my life and getting rid

895
00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 2: of things that take away from those, Like there's an

896
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:47,400
Speaker 2: element of conscious choice in the way you live your

897
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:51,160
Speaker 2: life that makes those things easier. Blocking out pages that

898
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 2: trigger you and make you feel bad or negative.

899
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 4: I think you use your people really well in that

900
00:42:56,840 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 4: you have this just user Yeah, any of them, the

901
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:04,880
Speaker 4: inmplices for our friendship, no, put them on after. You

902
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:10,320
Speaker 4: are great in using your people in that you have

903
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 4: the same self doubt as a lot of people do,

904
00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:16,240
Speaker 4: even with simple things like do you think this video

905
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:20,360
Speaker 4: looks funny today? But just at yeah, little things like

906
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:23,640
Speaker 4: is that sticker going to be really annoying? And when

907
00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:25,960
Speaker 4: you look at your own things, you're very much self critically.

908
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:28,320
Speaker 4: You see things that most people don't see and care about.

909
00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:31,320
Speaker 4: And it's nice to have people around you that you

910
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:33,759
Speaker 4: wholeheartedly trust that if they were to say no, it's

911
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:35,480
Speaker 4: good that you're like, okay, it's good and you can

912
00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:38,960
Speaker 4: just continue with it and that helps a lot, and

913
00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:41,160
Speaker 4: you use it really well, and I feel like it

914
00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:42,839
Speaker 4: helps you because if I watch you try to make

915
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:47,480
Speaker 4: that decision would have taken thirty minutes tomorrow. You can

916
00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:51,000
Speaker 4: just ask Snick or whoever and really trust their decision

917
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:54,239
Speaker 4: or their their input, and then you can keep it real.

918
00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 4: And the other thing you're good with with keeping it

919
00:43:56,239 --> 00:44:00,600
Speaker 4: real is taking the mickey out of yourself, so greaz.

920
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:02,759
Speaker 4: I used to do it with Nick all the time,

921
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 4: and now Sarah does it herself, which is so good.

922
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 3: I mock you so much and I still do.

923
00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:11,840
Speaker 4: And at the start, I think I probably would have

924
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:13,800
Speaker 4: been like, ah, she might take you a little bit personally,

925
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:14,880
Speaker 4: And now I'm like, I.

926
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:17,040
Speaker 3: Now love it it. I just go hard or go home.

927
00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:18,279
Speaker 3: I think you're the same though.

928
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:21,279
Speaker 2: You're another one of those people that everyone assumes is

929
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:26,120
Speaker 2: positive and confident all the time, easily, but it's not effortless.

930
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 2: Like you didn't wake up like that. There's been many

931
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:29,640
Speaker 2: times in your life where you won't like that, but

932
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:30,200
Speaker 2: you can.

933
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:31,239
Speaker 3: Every day all the time.

934
00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like you choose to build those traits and live

935
00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:38,920
Speaker 2: your life in a way that helps those traits come

936
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:40,360
Speaker 2: out more than others.

937
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 5: You know.

938
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 4: My strategy low standards, expects anything from everything.

939
00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:50,399
Speaker 3: The bonus Yeah, just fart on Instagram and everything.

940
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:59,799
Speaker 4: Anything normal and socially appropriate. Bonus also follow my beauty chiel. Next,

941
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:03,040
Speaker 4: so how do you manage your crazy schedule? By Steph Hunter?

942
00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:05,719
Speaker 4: For one? Two I think Steph Hunter, is you know

943
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:08,799
Speaker 4: when you spoke at the Austin hospital last year. Yeah, yeah,

944
00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:14,759
Speaker 4: for yes, was one of the people that like loves

945
00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 4: you and I loved you having you there, and Fulm

946
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:20,800
Speaker 4: was organizer. I hate saying that, but she was like

947
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:23,400
Speaker 4: they all loved me because I got star and I

948
00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:23,960
Speaker 4: love her.

949
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:28,040
Speaker 2: That's Andree's older cousin. She's the greatest. There's a Angel's

950
00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:29,880
Speaker 2: a thing called Cousin's Day with all the cousins in

951
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:32,400
Speaker 2: their family. And I have been initiated into the Cousins

952
00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 2: activity next week.

953
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:36,840
Speaker 3: Oh my god. I love them so much. Thank you

954
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:40,080
Speaker 3: Steph for the question. Yeah, that's a great question.

955
00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:45,359
Speaker 2: And I think probably how much I've been hit by

956
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:47,600
Speaker 2: the symptoms over the past couple of weeks and why

957
00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:50,839
Speaker 2: I got a cold straight after COVID is probably because

958
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:52,640
Speaker 2: I and I say it all the time, I still

959
00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:55,680
Speaker 2: am not great at I think if some of my

960
00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:58,200
Speaker 2: followers were as brutally honest as they wanted to be,

961
00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:00,839
Speaker 2: perhaps in the weeks before that, they could said like, dude,

962
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:02,920
Speaker 2: you're gonna You're gonna burn out. At some point, someone's

963
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:06,120
Speaker 2: gonna happen. Definitely was traveling a bit much back to

964
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:07,960
Speaker 2: back and getting a bit over excited that everything was

965
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:11,320
Speaker 2: reopened again. But generally I'm getting better at it. And

966
00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:15,279
Speaker 2: the first thing is again the people around you. Having

967
00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:17,480
Speaker 2: people like the only fight engine I have ever had

968
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:22,680
Speaker 2: is when right, Paul, I agree, that is when it happened.

969
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:27,719
Speaker 2: The only fight we've ever had was when she was like,

970
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 2: you tell these messages and you say to everyone like,

971
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:34,160
Speaker 2: look after yourself, hell this wealth, blah blah.

972
00:46:33,880 --> 00:46:36,000
Speaker 3: And then you're just burning out all the time. It's

973
00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:41,960
Speaker 3: a little bit hypocritical, but it was true.

974
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:45,520
Speaker 2: I was telling everyone like, you know, your greatest wealth

975
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:48,439
Speaker 2: is your health, and ballance is key and blah blah blah,

976
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:51,680
Speaker 2: and I was like dead. So I think having people

977
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:54,080
Speaker 2: who pull you up on it and help you not

978
00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:58,480
Speaker 2: feel guilty about setting boundaries, who encourage you to prioritize

979
00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:01,319
Speaker 2: yourself and not feel bad about it, who will never

980
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:03,960
Speaker 2: like if you try and cancel because you're looking after yourself,

981
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:05,920
Speaker 2: who will never bully you back into you know, who

982
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 2: never make you feel bad about making those decisions. And

983
00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:11,840
Speaker 2: also the way I look at it with any behavior,

984
00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:15,640
Speaker 2: including confidence and happiness like we spoke about before, but

985
00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:18,040
Speaker 2: also health, is that the best thing you can ever

986
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:24,399
Speaker 2: do is learn what your triggers are or just pretty

987
00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:26,440
Speaker 2: much just hack your own habits. Like all of us

988
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:28,400
Speaker 2: will know when we're about to make a bad decision,

989
00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:31,759
Speaker 2: it's pretty easy to see the things that lead you

990
00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 2: towards bad decisions, and I just build how I manage

991
00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:40,400
Speaker 2: my schedule to avoid allowing myself to make bad decisions. Basically,

992
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:43,160
Speaker 2: So one thing I know for me is I'm very visual.

993
00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:45,400
Speaker 2: So if I look at my calendar and I've got

994
00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:48,960
Speaker 2: a full day with nothing in it, I'll assume, oh,

995
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:51,080
Speaker 2: I can put stuff on that day. So if someone

996
00:47:51,120 --> 00:47:52,920
Speaker 2: asked me, can you do something for a full day

997
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:55,719
Speaker 2: that day, I'll go, yeah, I can. But if I

998
00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 2: have the day blocked out as me time or no bookings,

999
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:02,400
Speaker 2: like a big trigger warning like do not use this

1000
00:48:02,520 --> 00:48:04,080
Speaker 2: day because that's the only day you have off for

1001
00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:07,319
Speaker 2: fourteen days, then that's the only way that it'll stop

1002
00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:09,520
Speaker 2: me making a bad decision and saying, yes, I actually

1003
00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:12,439
Speaker 2: can fit that in. So I know I'm visual, which

1004
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 2: means I calendarize everything so that when I go to

1005
00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 2: the point of checking if I'm free, I've blocked out

1006
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:21,040
Speaker 2: time for nothing. If that makes sense, because that's the

1007
00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:23,479
Speaker 2: only thing that will stop my like that will break

1008
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:25,839
Speaker 2: the circuit of yeah, I can fit it in when

1009
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 2: I really can't. So calendarizing everything, making appointments with myself

1010
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 2: the same way I would make a business appointment, limiting

1011
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 2: things to like two podcasts a day. I used to

1012
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:37,880
Speaker 2: do like maybe five or six in one day and

1013
00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:39,960
Speaker 2: then try and go out for dinner. Now I kind

1014
00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:42,800
Speaker 2: of know high energy activities I can only do to

1015
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:44,920
Speaker 2: a day. I try and only do them on certain.

1016
00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:46,760
Speaker 3: Days a week and have a computer admin day in between.

1017
00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 3: When I'm traveling a lot.

1018
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:50,840
Speaker 2: If I miss a weekend, like sometimes I work on weekends,

1019
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:53,839
Speaker 2: and for example, when I had the Kick Tour, they

1020
00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:56,160
Speaker 2: were full days on a Saturday, and I normally wouldn't

1021
00:48:56,239 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 2: have a high energy work day on a Saturday. I

1022
00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:01,759
Speaker 2: do like smaller adminutes, so I had to replace that

1023
00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 2: day with a quieter day during the week and if

1024
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 2: I don't do that, if I don't replace it somewhere,

1025
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,440
Speaker 2: I obviously I burn out and I know I do.

1026
00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 2: So I think hacking your own decision making process to

1027
00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 2: make your schedule more manageable, and noticing if you have

1028
00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:19,359
Speaker 2: a week that felt too much, look at how much

1029
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:21,960
Speaker 2: you did, and do not do that much again. It's

1030
00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:24,480
Speaker 2: like a math equation like if you're eighty percent capacity

1031
00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:26,360
Speaker 2: and that still feels like you're burnt out at the

1032
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:27,759
Speaker 2: end of it, then you've got to change it the

1033
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:30,560
Speaker 2: next week. Just constantly tweak and tweak until you find

1034
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:31,160
Speaker 2: what works for you.

1035
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:34,360
Speaker 4: That's what I think Jen's been helpful for you, too.

1036
00:49:34,440 --> 00:49:36,200
Speaker 3: So helpful, so incredible.

1037
00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:40,560
Speaker 2: My manager is absolutely amazing, And that comes back to

1038
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:42,920
Speaker 2: having the right team around you, like she will openly

1039
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:46,680
Speaker 2: offer if she objectively is noticing that like there's a

1040
00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:49,000
Speaker 2: bit too much going on, and I say, nah, I

1041
00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:51,960
Speaker 2: can do it, she'll often be like, but can you,

1042
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:54,879
Speaker 2: like should you ye? And to have someone who isn't

1043
00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:56,920
Speaker 2: like okay, let's just load you up, like who's on

1044
00:49:57,480 --> 00:49:59,840
Speaker 2: you know, on par with this is very energy consuming

1045
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:03,440
Speaker 2: you okay, And also taking charge of saying no sometimes

1046
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:05,320
Speaker 2: when I don't even have the energy to craft a

1047
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:09,719
Speaker 2: nice No. She's amazing at helping just relationship manage and

1048
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:12,560
Speaker 2: expectation managed with clients. Like when I got six, she

1049
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 2: was like, not only are we taking the seven days

1050
00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:17,000
Speaker 2: of COVID off, like we probably should take it easy

1051
00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:19,440
Speaker 2: for ten days, you know, and pushing all that out

1052
00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:21,120
Speaker 2: for me so I didn't even have to think about it,

1053
00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:23,600
Speaker 2: like that is invaluable.

1054
00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:27,680
Speaker 1: Wow, Okay, I'm going to cut us off their hair.

1055
00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:30,279
Speaker 1: I don't think we realize that we'd end up chewing

1056
00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:32,239
Speaker 1: your ear off for over an hour and a half

1057
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:33,319
Speaker 1: during this chat.

1058
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:35,600
Speaker 3: It's been so long since we recorded the last one,

1059
00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 3: so I.

1060
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:39,560
Speaker 1: Thought instead I would split this episode into a two

1061
00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:43,239
Speaker 1: parter and the second apart will drop in the next

1062
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 1: couple of days, So you still get a full years

1063
00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:47,040
Speaker 1: about lives this week, but just in two parts.

1064
00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:48,719
Speaker 3: So stay tuned the next week. We'll drop in a

1065
00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:49,359
Speaker 3: couple of days.