WEBVTT - Judy Malinowski Testified At Her Own Murder Trial

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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to a Mother Mea podcast. Mama Mea acknowledges

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<v Speaker 1>recorded on It's just after five PM on an August

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<v Speaker 1>afternoon in twenty fifteen, and a nine one one call

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<v Speaker 1>is coming through about a fire and a service station

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<v Speaker 1>in Columbus, Ohio.

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<v Speaker 2>I got, Okay, stop screaming because I can't understand you.

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<v Speaker 2>I got you this I got.

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<v Speaker 1>The man is still there too. According to the caller,

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<v Speaker 1>he poured two Jerry cans of fuel over the woman's

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<v Speaker 1>head and body and now he's just watching the flames.

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<v Speaker 2>Golfer, can you tell me who did this?

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<v Speaker 1>The woman is thirty one year old Judy Malanowski. The

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<v Speaker 1>man is her partner, Michael Slager. Eventually, he tries to

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<v Speaker 1>put her out with a fire extinguisher. As she's rushed

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<v Speaker 1>to hospital, her family is warned that she likely won't

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<v Speaker 1>survive more than a few hours days at most. Her

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<v Speaker 1>injuries are catastrophic, but Judy survives years in a coma

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<v Speaker 1>for some of it and in pain for all of it.

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<v Speaker 1>But she lives long enough to do something never before

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<v Speaker 1>seen in American history. Judy Malanowski is the first person

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<v Speaker 1>to testify at her own murder trial. I'm Jemma Bass

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<v Speaker 1>and this is True Crime Conversations a Muma mea podcast

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<v Speaker 1>exploring the world's most notorious crimes by speaking to the

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<v Speaker 1>people who know the most about them. Five months before

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<v Speaker 1>her death, Judy gave harrowing testimony to be used should

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<v Speaker 1>she pass away. In it, she described the moments before

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<v Speaker 1>she was set on fire.

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<v Speaker 3>After he poured the gasoline on you, what happens next?

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<v Speaker 2>He rade away through me for about thirty seconds. I

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<v Speaker 2>had fid so please help me and stop and I'm good,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll get the chuck. I'll go with you. You know

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<v Speaker 2>why I was, why would you do this? And I

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<v Speaker 2>looked at him and he all later out of his

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<v Speaker 2>pocket and he started walking towards me, and I just

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<v Speaker 2>remembered krying of day for help. And he let me

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<v Speaker 2>on fire and look into his eyes were his grayes

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<v Speaker 2>went back.

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<v Speaker 1>Literally, She described the pain my whole body suddly.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like a thousand meals lay in, a thousand

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<v Speaker 2>pass meels ionstrating my body. I can't tell you describe

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<v Speaker 2>how waking up is a horrible thing. They say it's

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<v Speaker 2>a little better than those fives. But it's one thing

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<v Speaker 2>heals another thing hers.

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<v Speaker 1>Then she told the judge exactly what she thought her

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<v Speaker 1>killer deserved.

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<v Speaker 3>I want you to tell a future a judge what

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<v Speaker 3>you want to see happen in mister slayer. I would

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<v Speaker 3>like to see in the church with murder and to

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<v Speaker 3>a lesn, I think that he deserves that.

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<v Speaker 1>Judy lived for nearly two years after being set on fire.

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<v Speaker 1>She endured more than sixty surgeries, including excruciating skin grafts,

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<v Speaker 1>and suffered seven cardiac arrests. She died on June twenty seventh,

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<v Speaker 1>twenty seventeen, with her family by her bed side. She

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<v Speaker 1>was only thirty three. Judy's story has been told in

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<v Speaker 1>detail in the documentary The Fire That Took Her directed

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<v Speaker 1>by Patricia Gillespie. Patricia joins us. Now, Patricia, how did

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<v Speaker 1>you become involved in this story and with Judy and

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<v Speaker 1>her family.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so I started looking at this story many years ago.

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<v Speaker 3>Trump had just won the election in the US, and

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of the energy that went into that was

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<v Speaker 3>in the Midwest, and I was very interested. I felt

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<v Speaker 3>like there weren't a lot of stories coming out of

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<v Speaker 3>the Midwest of the United States, the heartland as it were,

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<v Speaker 3>and so I started reading local papers there just to

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<v Speaker 3>try to understand that part of the country a little better.

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<v Speaker 3>I live in New York City, and I stumbled across

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<v Speaker 3>Judy's story quite by accident, and I was so moved

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<v Speaker 3>by it because I felt like it was the story

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<v Speaker 3>not just of a victim, but a victim who took

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<v Speaker 3>it upon herself to become the hero of her own story.

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<v Speaker 3>And that was really engaging to me. So I got

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<v Speaker 3>on Facebook and stocked her mom and drove out to Ohio,

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<v Speaker 3>and over the course of a number of meetings, we

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<v Speaker 3>decided to make the movie together me and her family.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you give us an overview of Judy's life prior

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<v Speaker 1>to meeting Michael. She was a mom, she'd recently beaten cancer,

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<v Speaker 1>She'd lived quite a big life before all of this happened.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. So, I think there are many elements of Judy's

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<v Speaker 3>story that are sort of all American. Right. She's born

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<v Speaker 3>in this Ohio suburb. She wins a beauty contest in

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<v Speaker 3>her town. I think she was the homecoming queen. She

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<v Speaker 3>fell in love in her early twenties, got married, had

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<v Speaker 3>a couple kids. That marriage unfortunately didn't work out and

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<v Speaker 3>around the time the marriage was ending, she was diagnosed

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<v Speaker 3>with ovarian cancer. And I believe she was pregnant already

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<v Speaker 3>with her second daughter, Maddie, and she wanted to continue

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<v Speaker 3>that pregnancy, so she couldn't take some of the therapies

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<v Speaker 3>that were needed for the cancers. So she got on

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<v Speaker 3>some level of pain management. Or maybe she was wanting

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<v Speaker 3>to try for Maddie. I can't quite remember, but anyway,

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<v Speaker 3>she couldn't have the full chemo hysterectomy at the moment

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<v Speaker 3>she was diagnosed, and so they started to give her

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<v Speaker 3>pain medication. And this was before the US really had

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<v Speaker 3>a comprehensive understanding of the ovoid crisis and the role

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<v Speaker 3>the pharmaceuticals play in that. And she got addicted to

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<v Speaker 3>the medication, taking it exactly as the doctor prescribed, but

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<v Speaker 3>once that prescription ran out, she was very dependent on it.

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<v Speaker 3>That sort of transmigrified into a drug addiction, which eventually

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<v Speaker 3>led to her using heroin. She was a really dedicated

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<v Speaker 3>mom even when she was using. Her girls were a

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<v Speaker 3>priority in her life, and she got herself clean. She

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<v Speaker 3>had a good amount of time together sober by the

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<v Speaker 3>time she met Michael, and then once her and Michael

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<v Speaker 3>got together. That sort of went out the window pretty quickly.

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<v Speaker 1>How did Michael come onto the scene, how did they meet,

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<v Speaker 1>and how did that relationship become what it was.

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<v Speaker 3>So they actually knew each other through her ex husband.

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<v Speaker 3>He had been part of her husband's friend group. I

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<v Speaker 3>guess Judy's mom, Bonnie might say that she became interested

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<v Speaker 3>in Michael, perhaps to make her ex husband jealous initially,

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<v Speaker 3>but it does seem like for a time they had

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<v Speaker 3>a genuine relationship that maybe moved a little bit too

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<v Speaker 3>quickly and those red flags might have been missed. So

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<v Speaker 3>Michael himself was not an addict, but Michael had a

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<v Speaker 3>history of dating women who were addicts and a number

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<v Speaker 3>of women who were sober after having been addicted to opiates,

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<v Speaker 3>and then for whatever reason, these women all ended up

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<v Speaker 3>using again over the course of the relationship with him.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think the feeling Judy's family has is that

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<v Speaker 3>the drugs were reintroduced as a form of control, which

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<v Speaker 3>is a kind of pathway to domestic abuse or domestic

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<v Speaker 3>abuse in itself. That on the ground level I see

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<v Speaker 3>is very common, but isn't necessarily something we talk about.

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<v Speaker 3>But if you become the person supplying your girlfriend with drugs,

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<v Speaker 3>you have a fair amount of power in that relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>So that became the arrangement, I think fairly quickly after

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<v Speaker 3>they got together, and then he started abusing her, but

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<v Speaker 3>she was dependent on him for those drugs. So it

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<v Speaker 3>was a really difficult situation to try to get out of,

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<v Speaker 3>but she did within a couple months. Enough was enough

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<v Speaker 3>and she was trying to leave that relationship. She called

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<v Speaker 3>the police numerous times and once even told them that

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<v Speaker 3>she thought he was going to kill her. But unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 3>like in the States, unless the police are on the

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<v Speaker 3>ground and see something going wrong actively or have some

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<v Speaker 3>sort of forensic proof, there's not much that they can do.

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<v Speaker 1>What about Michael, He has quite a lengthy criminal history,

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't he?

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<v Speaker 3>So Michael had I forget the exact number, but he

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<v Speaker 3>had many, many, many prior charges related to domestic abuse

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<v Speaker 3>or I believe there's some charges related to sexual assault

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<v Speaker 3>in there. And really what that comes down to is

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<v Speaker 3>that we just don't punish guys enough for that kind

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<v Speaker 3>of thing. He would sort of come back to court,

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<v Speaker 3>get a slap on the wrist, and leave. He served

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<v Speaker 3>minor amounts of time, I think mostly in County Jail,

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<v Speaker 3>but never really got a substantial sentence, And it's horrifying

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<v Speaker 3>when you do read his record, you sort of see

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<v Speaker 3>somebody amping up to progressively more violent crimes and it

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<v Speaker 3>took him lighting a woman on fire to actually get

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<v Speaker 3>any substantial prison time at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, what was the state of Michael and Judy's relationship

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<v Speaker 1>by the time we get to August twenty fifteen when

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<v Speaker 1>the fire happened.

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<v Speaker 3>I think Judy was in the process of splitting up

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<v Speaker 3>from him. She knew she needed out of that relationship,

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<v Speaker 3>but she was also wanting to go back to rehab

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<v Speaker 3>to get clean again, because she understood that was part

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<v Speaker 3>of leaving Michael. She had to be sober to get

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<v Speaker 3>away from him because he was so involved in her

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<v Speaker 3>drug life and the way that she in the quote

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<v Speaker 3>unquote safest way possible, got drugs, So she needed to

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<v Speaker 3>get sober to cut it off with him, and he

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<v Speaker 3>was actually driving her to rehab that day when this

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<v Speaker 3>incident happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you walk us through what happened? Because the two

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<v Speaker 1>of them were having a bit of an argument behind

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a gas station, weren't they.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean they argued a lot throughout their relationship

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<v Speaker 3>over everything, including some quite in stantial things. My understanding

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<v Speaker 3>is they had stopped to get cigarettes at the gas

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<v Speaker 3>station and Judy was talking about that she wanted to

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<v Speaker 3>do a few more things before she went to rehab,

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<v Speaker 3>that she wanted to go see her kids, and she

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<v Speaker 3>had spoken to her mother, and her mother was wondering

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<v Speaker 3>if she would come by the house to see her

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<v Speaker 3>daughters before she went, and they got into an argument.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess Judy sort of had had enough and threw

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<v Speaker 3>a soda at him, and his response was to dowse

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<v Speaker 3>her in gasoline and thirty forty seconds later come back

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<v Speaker 3>and light her on fire. Michael's version of the story

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<v Speaker 3>is that he was just dowsing her and gasoline to

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<v Speaker 3>quote unquote get her back or throwing the soda on him. Obviously,

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<v Speaker 3>that's pretty improbable, it's not really a normal response. And

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<v Speaker 3>he says that she went up and plamee because less

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<v Speaker 3>than a minute later he wanted to be a gentleman

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<v Speaker 3>and light her cigarette for her. That was his story,

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<v Speaker 3>and Judy's story was that he downstirring gasoline, went back

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<v Speaker 3>to the truck and came up with I think she

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<v Speaker 3>said he looked like the devil. His eyes sort of

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<v Speaker 3>just went black and he lit her on fire and

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<v Speaker 3>she blacked out.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, there were several witnesses, weren't they who watched it

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<v Speaker 1>all happened and then watched him kind of stand there

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<v Speaker 1>and just watch.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there were, Indeed, there were a number of people.

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<v Speaker 3>A veteran, a fellow who's in the Marines who actually

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<v Speaker 3>took the keys away from Michael and stopped him from leaving,

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<v Speaker 3>and a couple. And according to one of the members

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<v Speaker 3>of this couple, he actually was just sort of staring

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<v Speaker 3>at Judy burning until he realized people were looking, at

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<v Speaker 3>which point he does go and get a fire extinguisher,

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<v Speaker 3>but quite a bit of time elapses before he gets

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<v Speaker 3>that fire extinguisher. I would like to think if it

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<v Speaker 3>were me in that situation, I'd be running for the

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<v Speaker 3>fire extinguisher right away. That isn't what happened, And these

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<v Speaker 3>witnesses feel he started to really just make moves once

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<v Speaker 3>he realized he was being observed.

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<v Speaker 1>Judy obviously was taken to hospital. Michael was as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you talk us through the extent of the injuries

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<v Speaker 1>that Judy suffered.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, she was burned over ninety percent of her body.

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<v Speaker 3>She lost her fingers, number of her fingers, her ears.

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<v Speaker 3>She was just covered in open wounds from these burns

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<v Speaker 3>that never healed. She survived seven hundred days after this incident,

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<v Speaker 3>and she never healed completely, and the amount of swelling

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<v Speaker 3>that you experience when you're burned like that. The earliest

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<v Speaker 3>photos of her after the incident, many of which we

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<v Speaker 3>didn't include in the film because if you can believe it,

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<v Speaker 3>they're more graphic than what we did show. I'll use

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<v Speaker 3>her sister's words. She hardly looked like a person. She

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<v Speaker 3>was very, very badly injured. Michael also sustained some burns

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<v Speaker 3>putting her out, which she really liked to talk about.

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<v Speaker 3>In my line of work, I see a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>images of injured people or maimed people, and this was

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<v Speaker 3>by far the worst stuff I'd ever seen. And in fact,

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<v Speaker 3>the marine who was one of the witnesses at the

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<v Speaker 3>crime scene, who had been to war and seeing people

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<v Speaker 3>really seriously Andrews, said it was the worst thing he'd

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<v Speaker 3>seen as well. Well.

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<v Speaker 1>Her daughters didn't even recognize her, and I recall that

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<v Speaker 1>her sister vomited from the side.

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<v Speaker 3>Look, there are some things that just aren't supposed to

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<v Speaker 3>happen to a human body, and I feel like that's

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<v Speaker 3>one of them. I mean, it's very hard to fathom.

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<v Speaker 3>And then to see somebody alive after that. I remember

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<v Speaker 3>seeing those photos and being like, I don't understand how

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<v Speaker 3>she didn't die. The doctors didn't understand how she didn't die.

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<v Speaker 3>That EMTs didn't understand how she didn't die. It was

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<v Speaker 3>just such such a severe thing that happened to her.

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<v Speaker 1>Listening to True Crime Conversations with me Jemma Bass, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>speaking with director Patricia Gillespie about the case of Judy Melanowski,

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<v Speaker 1>who was burnt alive by her boyfriend. You got to

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<v Speaker 1>know Judy's mum, and you interviewed her about her version

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<v Speaker 1>of seeing her daughter like that. What were her recollections

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<v Speaker 1>of that day, about getting that call and about arriving

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<v Speaker 1>at the hospital.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I think for Barney it was really kind

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<v Speaker 3>of a blur. She gets this call. She's asked, first, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>can we intubate your daughter? Like can we put her

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<v Speaker 3>on a ventilator? And she says, well, yeah, of course,

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<v Speaker 3>and then it takes a couple seconds to click, Oh

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<v Speaker 3>my gosh, that's life support, Like something very serious has

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<v Speaker 3>happened to her. This isn't just an accident or a burn,

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<v Speaker 3>this is, you know, my kids on life support. And

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<v Speaker 3>she describes the experience of going to the hospital, which

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<v Speaker 3>is OSU as a hospital. She lives nearby and drives

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<v Speaker 3>by all the time, and she got lost. She was

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<v Speaker 3>just so dissociated. She rushes into the hospital and they

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<v Speaker 3>finally led her back to see Judy. And this reaction

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<v Speaker 3>that everybody else has sort of chock and horror, isn't

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<v Speaker 3>the reaction that Bonnie has. She just sees her kid.

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<v Speaker 3>She just sees her baby, and she's so happy she's alive.

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<v Speaker 3>And she turns to the doctor and says, tell me,

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<v Speaker 3>there's hope. Tell me there's hope. Tell me there's hope.

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<v Speaker 3>And at that point, the percent of Judy's body that

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<v Speaker 3>was burned, she was almost guaranteed to die. And that's

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<v Speaker 3>not what happened, thanks to the amazing work of the

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<v Speaker 3>doctors that always you and I believe Judy's desire to

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<v Speaker 3>live and see her girls grow up as long as

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<v Speaker 3>she could and try to get some justice for herself

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<v Speaker 3>that kept her alive for that seven hundred days.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, even in that really early period after the fire,

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<v Speaker 1>she was able to give a very brief but a

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<v Speaker 1>bedside interview to cops, wasn't she.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So she was very burnt, and when someone is

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<v Speaker 3>that burnt usually you put them under pretty quickly, just

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<v Speaker 3>because the pain is extremely severe and there's a risk

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<v Speaker 3>of going in shot. So they had put her under

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<v Speaker 3>a bunch of pain medication, but realizing that it was

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<v Speaker 3>very likely she would pass away, the police and the

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<v Speaker 3>doctor's decide together to back her off that a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit so she could become more aware of what was

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<v Speaker 3>going on around her. And the detective on the case,

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<v Speaker 3>who's now a lieutenant, Chad Cohagen, came in and asked

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<v Speaker 3>her if Michael had done this to her, and she

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<v Speaker 3>nodded her head yes.

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<v Speaker 1>And they also had a chat with Mircael, which is

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<v Speaker 1>you can watch that. There's footage of it and it's

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<v Speaker 1>quite eerie. He's very calm and tells that version of

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<v Speaker 1>events you explained earlier.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Michael thought this was all very explainable. He was

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<v Speaker 3>a pretty cool customer. So we got body cam from

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<v Speaker 3>the police in Ohio. It's most American police officers now

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<v Speaker 3>where a body camera and that stuff becomes part of

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<v Speaker 3>the public record eventually in the case of a crime,

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<v Speaker 3>and we were able to get that from the Gahanna Police,

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<v Speaker 3>the investigating agency, and yeah, you see Michael. The thing

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<v Speaker 3>that really shocked me about that is he seemed to

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<v Speaker 3>feel bad for himself because of the burns he had

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<v Speaker 3>sustained trying to save her, and that seemed to be

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<v Speaker 3>his main concern, and he tried to explain how this

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<v Speaker 3>was an accident. He tried to displace blame on Judy

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit, I think for what had happened. And

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<v Speaker 3>Detective kohg And I have to say he did a

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<v Speaker 3>really incredible job. He walked a very fine line between

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<v Speaker 3>hearing him out and not letting him wriggle Away just

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<v Speaker 3>did some very good work. There got a cheek swab

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<v Speaker 3>from him and all that, which I can't imagine being

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<v Speaker 3>able to keep your cool like that and that kind

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<v Speaker 3>of circumstance having just seen Judy.

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<v Speaker 1>Even though there were witnesses, there was also CCTV footage,

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<v Speaker 1>so you can actually watch it all unfold.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you see detective going and tell Michael that in

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<v Speaker 3>the hospital, and I'm not sure that that was something

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<v Speaker 3>Michael realized because the CCTV was actually from a bank

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<v Speaker 3>next door. The drive through ATM had a camera on

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<v Speaker 3>it that could see into the parking lot where this happened.

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<v Speaker 3>So if you were to go into the parking lot

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<v Speaker 3>of the gas station where this happened and look around,

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<v Speaker 3>you wouldn't see a physical camera, but it was one

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<v Speaker 3>parking lot over very close by. You can see the

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<v Speaker 3>whole thing. And to that point, it doesn't really appear

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<v Speaker 3>that Michael and Judy made up to any extent that

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<v Speaker 3>he would be a gentleman and light her cigarette after

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<v Speaker 3>dowsing her and gasoline on that video.

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<v Speaker 1>So as morbid as it sounds, police were kind of waiting.

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<v Speaker 1>They were waiting to see whether Judy would die, to

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<v Speaker 1>kind of see what they would be charging Michael is

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<v Speaker 1>whether it would be murder or something lesser. But Judy

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<v Speaker 1>defied the odds and she woke up after seven months

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<v Speaker 1>in a coma. In terms of her medical treatment, what

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<v Speaker 1>did she endure, because it's not like she woke up

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<v Speaker 1>and was okay. She had multiple surgeries.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she was constantly having surgeries and skin grafts. When

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<v Speaker 3>you're burnt as badly as Judy was. Wound maintenance is

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<v Speaker 3>also really important because One of the major things you

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<v Speaker 3>can die of with burns like that is infection, because

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<v Speaker 3>your skin is what protects you from the outside world,

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<v Speaker 3>and she didn't really have it, so she would regularly

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<v Speaker 3>have to get these wounds cleaned and bebreeded, kind of

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<v Speaker 3>scraping out these wounds, and no amount of pain medication

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<v Speaker 3>made that feel okay. You just can't give someone that

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<v Speaker 3>amount of pain medication. And you also have to consider

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<v Speaker 3>Judy had been she was on her way to rehab.

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<v Speaker 3>She was addicted to opioids, so the doses that might

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<v Speaker 3>work on you or I, they were not as strong

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<v Speaker 3>as they would be for a person without a history

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<v Speaker 3>of opioid abuse as well. So yeah, it was just

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<v Speaker 3>it was a very tough time for her for sure,

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<v Speaker 3>because they expected her to die. The detectives were sort

0:21:17.462 --> 0:21:22.142
<v Speaker 3>of waiting to see. Had Judy died, Michael would have

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<v Speaker 3>been charged with murder, but because she survived, they were

0:21:25.142 --> 0:21:30.902
<v Speaker 3>unable to do that, so they charged him with aggravated arson, which, unfortunately,

0:21:30.942 --> 0:21:33.462
<v Speaker 3>in the state of Ohio, letting your girlfriend on fire

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<v Speaker 3>carries a very similar penalty to letting a car and

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<v Speaker 3>fire like house on fire, So the maximum he could

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<v Speaker 3>get in that instance was about eleven years.

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<v Speaker 1>And the other thing to add to that was that

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<v Speaker 1>there was a real possibility that she was going to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to give testimony if it went to trial,

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<v Speaker 1>but he changed his plate to no contest, so he

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<v Speaker 1>effectively silenced too.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so they're approaching this trial and Judy is not

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<v Speaker 3>only able to testify, she really wants to testify because

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<v Speaker 3>she is even though this is on video, her testimony

0:22:10.822 --> 0:22:13.742
<v Speaker 3>is that sinks it. When your victim lives and can

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<v Speaker 3>say that she knows you did this with malice and

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<v Speaker 3>can provide an alternative story of what we all see

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<v Speaker 3>on that tape, that was pretty much going to ensure

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<v Speaker 3>a conviction. And I think Michael realized this that between

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<v Speaker 3>the fact that there was a tape at all and

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<v Speaker 3>that Judy, who had to be just about the most

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<v Speaker 3>sympathetic person you could put on the stand, was going

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<v Speaker 3>to explain what we were watching on that tape, Michael

0:22:37.982 --> 0:22:41.622
<v Speaker 3>realized that he was definitely going to be convicted, and

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<v Speaker 3>he took a lead deal, but he pled in this way.

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<v Speaker 3>He took something called an Alfred plea. I'm not sure

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<v Speaker 3>if you have this in Australia, but in the US

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<v Speaker 3>you can plead guilty by essentially saying, well, I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>saying I'm guilty, but I'm choosing to plead guilty because

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<v Speaker 3>I think you have the evidence convict me, and I

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<v Speaker 3>would rather get this lesser sentence. So that's where the

0:23:07.182 --> 0:23:08.862
<v Speaker 3>eleven years came from.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's not admitting fulk. That's a real slap in

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<v Speaker 1>the face by doing that plea.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the alpha plea is very complicated because it's like

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<v Speaker 3>the justice system here, like anywhere, is not perfect. And

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<v Speaker 3>I've heard stories of innocent people who fled guilty because

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<v Speaker 3>the optics of who they were and the crime they

0:23:29.862 --> 0:23:31.902
<v Speaker 3>were charged with and where they were being tried. They

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<v Speaker 3>were like, I would rather take a deal for seven

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<v Speaker 3>years than a deal for twenty years, right, And So

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<v Speaker 3>in some ways, I think it's good that exists so

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<v Speaker 3>people can say their peace right. And part of the

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<v Speaker 3>reason you can do that is because it's covered by

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<v Speaker 3>free speech right. You can say whatever you want and

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<v Speaker 3>take your plea. But on the other hand, I think

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<v Speaker 3>in cases where the person is guilty, it's really painful

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<v Speaker 3>for the victim's family, And I know it was painful

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<v Speaker 3>for Judy because she just really wanted him to take accountability.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, he did get eleven years initially, and the judge,

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<v Speaker 1>she was very damning. Can you tell us about the

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<v Speaker 1>scent or her sentencing remarks?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the judge was ticked off. She told Michael that

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<v Speaker 3>she wished she could sentence him to more and that

0:24:20.302 --> 0:24:23.942
<v Speaker 3>she couldn't because of the laws. And you know, it's interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>Bonnie and I talked about this a lot where we

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<v Speaker 3>were like, Okay, well, in what way should this law

0:24:29.622 --> 0:24:32.462
<v Speaker 3>be expanded? Should you create a lot of expand sentences

0:24:32.462 --> 0:24:35.422
<v Speaker 3>for people like this? How should you make sure people

0:24:35.422 --> 0:24:40.222
<v Speaker 3>who commit this sort of crime get sentenced appropriately? And

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<v Speaker 3>it's tough because I think in the States, we like

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<v Speaker 3>to think of these crimes of like immolation or asset attacks.

0:24:48.182 --> 0:24:50.782
<v Speaker 3>They think of these things as something that happens somewhere else,

0:24:51.422 --> 0:24:54.782
<v Speaker 3>when in reality that's not true. There are many, many

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<v Speaker 3>instances every year of intimate partners who intentionally disfigure their

0:25:00.102 --> 0:25:04.542
<v Speaker 3>victims and also strangers. Right, we had it's a worldwide phenomenon.

0:25:04.582 --> 0:25:07.582
<v Speaker 3>Now we've had intel murders where people are being killed

0:25:07.662 --> 0:25:13.822
<v Speaker 3>or disfigured by disgruntled, in voluntary celibate person who sort

0:25:13.862 --> 0:25:16.182
<v Speaker 3>of just goes off the rails and goes postal, and

0:25:16.742 --> 0:25:21.382
<v Speaker 3>there's not really any specific law for that type of crime.

0:25:22.102 --> 0:25:24.462
<v Speaker 3>And I think early in the process when Bonnie was thinking,

0:25:24.662 --> 0:25:26.262
<v Speaker 3>she was like, well, why isn't that sort of a

0:25:26.302 --> 0:25:28.822
<v Speaker 3>hate crime? Right? If you're like, you're a woman, you

0:25:28.862 --> 0:25:31.262
<v Speaker 3>won't be with me. I'm going to essentially try to

0:25:31.262 --> 0:25:35.262
<v Speaker 3>make you quote unquote ugly or I'm going to It's

0:25:35.302 --> 0:25:36.862
<v Speaker 3>not just I'm going to kill you, it's I'm going

0:25:36.902 --> 0:25:41.102
<v Speaker 3>to disfigure you. Why isn't that class as a specific

0:25:41.182 --> 0:25:43.582
<v Speaker 3>kind of crime because statistically, you just don't see it

0:25:43.582 --> 0:25:46.222
<v Speaker 3>happened to men nearly as much as women. But that

0:25:46.302 --> 0:25:50.502
<v Speaker 3>was a little bit complicated. So once that decision came

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<v Speaker 3>down and he got such a light sentence for something

0:25:52.582 --> 0:25:56.462
<v Speaker 3>that had really changed Duty's entire life, her family started

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<v Speaker 3>to pursue changing that law by adding time to the

0:26:00.662 --> 0:26:05.462
<v Speaker 3>sentences of attackers who intentionally disfigure their victims. So, right

0:26:05.582 --> 0:26:09.862
<v Speaker 3>after that court case went the way it did, Judy

0:26:10.502 --> 0:26:14.822
<v Speaker 3>decided to launch a campaign alongside a number of state

0:26:14.862 --> 0:26:19.622
<v Speaker 3>centers in Ohio to pass something called Judy's Law, which

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<v Speaker 3>adds six years to the sentences of attackers who intentionally

0:26:22.822 --> 0:26:27.222
<v Speaker 3>disfigure their victims using an accelerant. So it's pretty narrow,

0:26:27.382 --> 0:26:29.902
<v Speaker 3>but it did lay the groundwork and set a precedent

0:26:30.142 --> 0:26:33.662
<v Speaker 3>for a federal law, something that's nationwide as opposed to

0:26:33.662 --> 0:26:36.942
<v Speaker 3>in the state of Ohio, and also a pathway to say, well,

0:26:37.262 --> 0:26:40.542
<v Speaker 3>there are elements of an assault or an aggravated arson

0:26:40.622 --> 0:26:43.782
<v Speaker 3>that push it past the base charges. Right, this is

0:26:43.782 --> 0:26:46.422
<v Speaker 3>different than punching someone in the face and breaking their nose,

0:26:46.542 --> 0:26:48.222
<v Speaker 3>and the sentencing should reflect that.

0:26:49.102 --> 0:26:51.222
<v Speaker 1>We're skipping forward a bit. But they were successful in

0:26:51.262 --> 0:26:51.782
<v Speaker 1>passing that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So Judy's law was signed into law, unfortunately just

0:26:58.542 --> 0:27:01.582
<v Speaker 3>a few days after she passed away, but it had

0:27:01.622 --> 0:27:04.622
<v Speaker 3>passed in the House and Senate when she was still alive,

0:27:04.702 --> 0:27:08.382
<v Speaker 3>and she got to understand that that law was moving forward,

0:27:08.742 --> 0:27:10.262
<v Speaker 3>and I think that was one of the things she

0:27:10.582 --> 0:27:13.182
<v Speaker 3>was most proud of, next to her girls.

0:27:14.222 --> 0:27:18.662
<v Speaker 1>I think it's worth acknowledging just how strong Judy was

0:27:18.862 --> 0:27:24.262
<v Speaker 1>as a person. She was enduring daily unimaginable pain, and

0:27:24.302 --> 0:27:27.862
<v Speaker 1>she's fighting for this law as well as which we're

0:27:27.862 --> 0:27:31.542
<v Speaker 1>about to talk about. She ends up giving testimony for

0:27:31.622 --> 0:27:38.222
<v Speaker 1>her future murder trial, which is another incredible history making change.

0:27:39.182 --> 0:27:40.342
<v Speaker 1>How did that come about?

0:27:41.342 --> 0:27:47.542
<v Speaker 3>So it started to look like Judy's condition was not

0:27:47.662 --> 0:27:50.982
<v Speaker 3>going to improve. A lot of time had gone by

0:27:51.342 --> 0:27:56.382
<v Speaker 3>and it looked likely that though Judy wasn't dying imminently,

0:27:57.022 --> 0:27:59.622
<v Speaker 3>After about a year, they saw that the skin graphs

0:27:59.622 --> 0:28:01.942
<v Speaker 3>weren't taking and it was going to be a matter

0:28:01.982 --> 0:28:04.022
<v Speaker 3>of time until she passed away. She would pass away

0:28:04.062 --> 0:28:09.542
<v Speaker 3>prematurely from these injuries. And knowing that the das said

0:28:09.622 --> 0:28:12.462
<v Speaker 3>that when she died they would take Michael up on

0:28:12.582 --> 0:28:15.782
<v Speaker 3>murder charges. It becomes a new crime. She passed away,

0:28:15.822 --> 0:28:18.502
<v Speaker 3>it's no longer just an assault. It's murdered. They're going

0:28:18.582 --> 0:28:22.302
<v Speaker 3>to charge him with that. And they were going to

0:28:22.302 --> 0:28:25.502
<v Speaker 3>petition the state of Ohio to allow her to pre

0:28:25.582 --> 0:28:30.022
<v Speaker 3>record sworn testimony in advance of her death, which had

0:28:30.062 --> 0:28:34.462
<v Speaker 3>never happened in a criminal court before. Warren Edwards, who's

0:28:34.582 --> 0:28:37.102
<v Speaker 3>now a judge but at the time was the ADA.

0:28:37.982 --> 0:28:42.662
<v Speaker 3>He adapted a civil statute that was actually designed for

0:28:42.782 --> 0:28:47.182
<v Speaker 3>mesothelioma victims. It's a substance that people inhaled that ended

0:28:47.262 --> 0:28:49.862
<v Speaker 3>up giving them lung cancer. And there were a number

0:28:49.942 --> 0:28:53.822
<v Speaker 3>of civil lawsuits people suing the companies that gave them

0:28:53.822 --> 0:28:59.142
<v Speaker 3>these mesothelioma related health conditions posthumously, so they would record

0:28:59.182 --> 0:29:02.422
<v Speaker 3>a deposition in advance of their death, and then once

0:29:02.502 --> 0:29:05.782
<v Speaker 3>they died, this would be played at the civil trial

0:29:05.822 --> 0:29:09.182
<v Speaker 3>where they were where their family was suing. Right, And

0:29:09.302 --> 0:29:11.342
<v Speaker 3>there's a law in the United States that says, if

0:29:11.422 --> 0:29:14.862
<v Speaker 3>there is no specification whether you can or cannot do

0:29:15.022 --> 0:29:17.222
<v Speaker 3>something in a criminal court a law, you can adapt

0:29:17.342 --> 0:29:22.502
<v Speaker 3>civil law. And so Warren saw that, and he adapted

0:29:22.502 --> 0:29:25.542
<v Speaker 3>this civil statute and presented this argument to the judge, saying, Hey,

0:29:25.582 --> 0:29:27.102
<v Speaker 3>if we can do this in civil court, we should

0:29:27.102 --> 0:29:29.822
<v Speaker 3>do it in criminal court. And we don't want to

0:29:29.862 --> 0:29:32.342
<v Speaker 3>take just a deathbed statement from her. We want to

0:29:32.342 --> 0:29:35.422
<v Speaker 3>be real testimony. We want her to be sworn in,

0:29:35.862 --> 0:29:39.142
<v Speaker 3>put under oath, and both questioned by the DA and

0:29:39.502 --> 0:29:43.302
<v Speaker 3>cross examined formally. And so they won the right to

0:29:43.342 --> 0:29:45.782
<v Speaker 3>do that, and that's what they did. But Judy had

0:29:45.822 --> 0:29:48.222
<v Speaker 3>to back off her pain medication in order to be

0:29:48.302 --> 0:29:51.022
<v Speaker 3>considered of sound mind, which you have to be to

0:29:51.062 --> 0:29:54.902
<v Speaker 3>testifying in the American courts. So she experienced a tremendous

0:29:54.902 --> 0:29:58.382
<v Speaker 3>amount of pain. She had to learn to talk over

0:29:58.462 --> 0:30:02.702
<v Speaker 3>and off the event. She was not speaking super clearly

0:30:02.822 --> 0:30:04.822
<v Speaker 3>at the time. This decision was made. So she had

0:30:04.862 --> 0:30:07.022
<v Speaker 3>to push herself to really be able to be heard

0:30:07.102 --> 0:30:10.902
<v Speaker 3>and to come off that ventilater And yeah, she also

0:30:10.902 --> 0:30:13.702
<v Speaker 3>had to practice to be cross examined, which any woman

0:30:13.742 --> 0:30:16.182
<v Speaker 3>who's ever been in the American court system can tell you.

0:30:16.222 --> 0:30:18.982
<v Speaker 3>It's not a friendly place for victims, particularly victims of

0:30:19.022 --> 0:30:23.182
<v Speaker 3>domestic violence, partner violence, or offenses like that. There's a

0:30:23.262 --> 0:30:27.902
<v Speaker 3>lot of victim lane that goes down. But she steeled

0:30:27.942 --> 0:30:31.982
<v Speaker 3>herself and she did it, and she endured three hours

0:30:32.062 --> 0:30:35.342
<v Speaker 3>of questioning and most of that was the defense.

0:30:51.142 --> 0:30:54.422
<v Speaker 1>Watching some of that testimony, you can tell that she's

0:30:54.462 --> 0:30:58.742
<v Speaker 1>in pain and she's struggling, but she does not waiver.

0:30:59.342 --> 0:31:02.742
<v Speaker 1>She gives incredible testimony. Would you agree?

0:31:03.502 --> 0:31:07.822
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think she was a shockinging, reliable narrator for

0:31:07.862 --> 0:31:11.222
<v Speaker 3>what happened to her and mosteole I think when they

0:31:11.262 --> 0:31:13.702
<v Speaker 3>go through something like that, they can't recall the kind

0:31:13.782 --> 0:31:16.942
<v Speaker 3>of detail that she could. And she could, but unfortunately,

0:31:16.982 --> 0:31:21.942
<v Speaker 3>the defense attorney kept trying to poke holes in her

0:31:21.982 --> 0:31:24.822
<v Speaker 3>memory because she didn't remember what she was wearing that day,

0:31:24.902 --> 0:31:28.302
<v Speaker 3>or she didn't remember where they had stopped before the speedway,

0:31:28.382 --> 0:31:30.862
<v Speaker 3>or she didn't remember and you know, there's this moment

0:31:30.862 --> 0:31:32.382
<v Speaker 3>where she looks at him, and she says, you have

0:31:32.462 --> 0:31:36.302
<v Speaker 3>to understand, I was dowse gazzling and set on fire

0:31:36.462 --> 0:31:38.102
<v Speaker 3>like over ninety percent of my body, so I'm not

0:31:38.142 --> 0:31:41.182
<v Speaker 3>going to remember every perfect detail. And I remember seeing

0:31:41.182 --> 0:31:43.302
<v Speaker 3>that moment in her test when I was like, hell yeah,

0:31:43.462 --> 0:31:46.382
<v Speaker 3>like you tell him she made him look awful and

0:31:46.422 --> 0:31:49.022
<v Speaker 3>it was and she was mad, and it was a

0:31:49.022 --> 0:31:54.062
<v Speaker 3>great moment. I think there's a lot of pressure on victims,

0:31:54.502 --> 0:31:57.622
<v Speaker 3>especially female victims. Maybe this is unique to the US,

0:31:57.702 --> 0:32:00.382
<v Speaker 3>but I think it's most places in the world. There's

0:32:00.422 --> 0:32:03.742
<v Speaker 3>this pressure on them to be like kind of beaten

0:32:03.822 --> 0:32:06.702
<v Speaker 3>down and soft and de mirror. And she just was

0:32:06.742 --> 0:32:09.382
<v Speaker 3>not about it. So she let the defense attorney know

0:32:09.502 --> 0:32:11.702
<v Speaker 3>she was not impressed with the questions she was asking.

0:32:11.862 --> 0:32:14.782
<v Speaker 3>Also asked, you know, just even the question what were

0:32:14.822 --> 0:32:18.542
<v Speaker 3>you wearing? It's just like, excuse me. She really stood aground.

0:32:19.222 --> 0:32:22.062
<v Speaker 3>You have to also remember she's doing this not knowing

0:32:22.622 --> 0:32:26.302
<v Speaker 3>that it will ever officially be admitted. So what the

0:32:26.342 --> 0:32:28.862
<v Speaker 3>first ruling was that allowed them to record this testimony

0:32:28.942 --> 0:32:31.622
<v Speaker 3>was just that you're allowed to record it, and then

0:32:31.662 --> 0:32:34.102
<v Speaker 3>at a later time when Michael is charged, then the

0:32:34.142 --> 0:32:36.302
<v Speaker 3>new court case begins and they have to argue about

0:32:36.342 --> 0:32:38.582
<v Speaker 3>it all over again. They have to say, will we

0:32:38.782 --> 0:32:40.702
<v Speaker 3>admit this? Okay, we gave you the right to record it,

0:32:40.742 --> 0:32:43.262
<v Speaker 3>will we admit it. And so she recorded all this

0:32:43.502 --> 0:32:47.102
<v Speaker 3>knowing she would never know whether it would be admitted

0:32:47.142 --> 0:32:49.462
<v Speaker 3>into court. And when you think about coming off your

0:32:49.462 --> 0:32:54.022
<v Speaker 3>pain meds, being interrogated about some of the weakest moments

0:32:54.022 --> 0:32:56.422
<v Speaker 3>in your life, your drug use, a relationship you shouldn't

0:32:56.422 --> 0:32:58.262
<v Speaker 3>have been in, what you did when, and who you

0:32:58.342 --> 0:33:02.302
<v Speaker 3>might have interacted with in what ways, and just all

0:33:02.382 --> 0:33:05.982
<v Speaker 3>that sort of victim blame and pressure and pain and

0:33:06.022 --> 0:33:09.022
<v Speaker 3>to not even know if it'll count. And she did

0:33:09.062 --> 0:33:12.742
<v Speaker 3>it anyway, you know, I think that's incredibly heroic and

0:33:12.822 --> 0:33:15.902
<v Speaker 3>incredibly inspiring. And you know, I think when she showed

0:33:15.982 --> 0:33:18.662
<v Speaker 3>up for that testimony, and they do try to poke

0:33:18.702 --> 0:33:20.502
<v Speaker 3>a lot of holes in her life, right, they try

0:33:20.502 --> 0:33:22.822
<v Speaker 3>to shatter the illusion of the perfect victim, which of

0:33:22.822 --> 0:33:26.622
<v Speaker 3>course doesn't exist. And I think a lot of women

0:33:27.422 --> 0:33:32.222
<v Speaker 3>are afraid to prosecute their abusers because they understand that

0:33:32.262 --> 0:33:35.382
<v Speaker 3>will be part of the process. And I think that

0:33:35.702 --> 0:33:39.462
<v Speaker 3>Judy showing up and doing that was not just for her,

0:33:39.582 --> 0:33:43.942
<v Speaker 3>it was for them. And I think it shows that

0:33:44.022 --> 0:33:46.542
<v Speaker 3>the justice system if you get the right people in

0:33:46.582 --> 0:33:49.342
<v Speaker 3>the room, can work even if you're not perfect, and

0:33:49.382 --> 0:33:52.302
<v Speaker 3>that pressure of the perfect victim or to be the

0:33:52.342 --> 0:33:56.022
<v Speaker 3>perfect victim, that we can break that down slowly, and

0:33:56.102 --> 0:33:58.582
<v Speaker 3>I think Judy did a lot of that for us.

0:33:59.182 --> 0:34:01.222
<v Speaker 1>She was also able to use it as an opportunity

0:34:01.262 --> 0:34:04.342
<v Speaker 1>to call out the police, call out the authorities and

0:34:04.382 --> 0:34:07.662
<v Speaker 1>the systems that she tried to use again and again

0:34:07.702 --> 0:34:08.902
<v Speaker 1>and again that didn't work.

0:34:09.782 --> 0:34:12.542
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think he was really disappointed. It was one

0:34:12.622 --> 0:34:16.542
<v Speaker 3>of those things where I went in there feeling before

0:34:16.582 --> 0:34:19.422
<v Speaker 3>I did my research like the police had mishandled something.

0:34:20.062 --> 0:34:22.262
<v Speaker 3>But the more I spoke to them, the more I realized,

0:34:22.462 --> 0:34:26.022
<v Speaker 3>just like Michael sentencing, it's not so much that the

0:34:26.062 --> 0:34:29.142
<v Speaker 3>police didn't care or didn't try to do their job,

0:34:29.822 --> 0:34:33.822
<v Speaker 3>it's that the laws limited them so severely. Like Michael

0:34:33.862 --> 0:34:37.382
<v Speaker 3>had been staying at her apartment for a period of time,

0:34:37.422 --> 0:34:39.422
<v Speaker 3>he was not on the lease, but once he was

0:34:39.462 --> 0:34:42.862
<v Speaker 3>there thirty days, she can't just put him out. He

0:34:42.982 --> 0:34:46.022
<v Speaker 3>like lives there, right, So you know, there's like they

0:34:46.102 --> 0:34:49.182
<v Speaker 3>kept bumping into all sorts of things like this, or

0:34:49.222 --> 0:34:51.742
<v Speaker 3>Michael also did something that a lot of abusers do,

0:34:52.382 --> 0:34:56.382
<v Speaker 3>and Michael started calling the police on her falsely, so

0:34:56.422 --> 0:34:58.262
<v Speaker 3>that when the police would show up and she'd say, hey,

0:34:58.302 --> 0:35:00.942
<v Speaker 3>this guy's beating me, they would look at the record.

0:35:01.182 --> 0:35:03.222
<v Speaker 3>If they were able to look at the record, they

0:35:03.262 --> 0:35:04.982
<v Speaker 3>would look at the record and they would see, oh, well,

0:35:05.022 --> 0:35:08.102
<v Speaker 3>he's called on her, so it's he said, she said,

0:35:08.622 --> 0:35:11.822
<v Speaker 3>when it's really not. This is a tactic abusers use,

0:35:12.422 --> 0:35:14.942
<v Speaker 3>and that training isn't there, and nor is the law

0:35:14.982 --> 0:35:18.942
<v Speaker 3>to really do anything about it. Abusers escalate, right, and

0:35:18.982 --> 0:35:21.462
<v Speaker 3>the law doesn't necessarily account for that. And you see

0:35:21.462 --> 0:35:24.142
<v Speaker 3>that in Michael's record. You see these numerous domestic violence

0:35:24.222 --> 0:35:27.582
<v Speaker 3>charges and the sentence doesn't really escalate. There's no diversion program.

0:35:27.662 --> 0:35:30.502
<v Speaker 3>There's nowhere for him to go or to send him

0:35:30.542 --> 0:35:33.222
<v Speaker 3>on a legal basis to stop him. Right, there's no

0:35:33.342 --> 0:35:35.342
<v Speaker 3>legal way to stop him, even though you see these

0:35:35.382 --> 0:35:40.302
<v Speaker 3>repetitive charges escalating in the same way when someone's calling

0:35:40.342 --> 0:35:44.142
<v Speaker 3>the police not once, not twice, but ten fifteen times

0:35:44.382 --> 0:35:47.702
<v Speaker 3>seeing my boyfriend's beating me. Anyone who has half a

0:35:47.742 --> 0:35:50.302
<v Speaker 3>brain in their head understands is eventually going to escalate.

0:35:50.862 --> 0:35:54.342
<v Speaker 3>But there is no legal way to say, well, now

0:35:54.382 --> 0:35:56.862
<v Speaker 3>you've done it ten times, so we think you really

0:35:56.942 --> 0:35:58.862
<v Speaker 3>might killers. So we're going to escalate this to a

0:35:58.902 --> 0:36:01.022
<v Speaker 3>new form of policing, or we're going to surveil you more,

0:36:01.062 --> 0:36:02.462
<v Speaker 3>we're going to take you out of the house or

0:36:02.502 --> 0:36:03.942
<v Speaker 3>take him out of the house. You kind of just

0:36:04.382 --> 0:36:07.342
<v Speaker 3>have to wait for it to happen. And that's our law.

0:36:07.662 --> 0:36:10.702
<v Speaker 3>That's how the law works here, and I think we

0:36:10.742 --> 0:36:14.102
<v Speaker 3>should question whether there are smarter ways to police this

0:36:14.262 --> 0:36:15.022
<v Speaker 3>kind of violence.

0:36:15.782 --> 0:36:18.662
<v Speaker 1>Well, there's similar holes in our system, and we see

0:36:18.662 --> 0:36:21.462
<v Speaker 1>the same stuff going through the courts, the same problems,

0:36:22.062 --> 0:36:24.462
<v Speaker 1>and it's not easy to fix. That's the thing, because

0:36:24.502 --> 0:36:26.622
<v Speaker 1>there's so many different elements that you kind of have

0:36:26.662 --> 0:36:29.342
<v Speaker 1>to target. It's just so sad that we have to

0:36:29.422 --> 0:36:33.262
<v Speaker 1>keep watching it happen again and again and again. After

0:36:33.622 --> 0:36:37.302
<v Speaker 1>giving her testimony, Judy died five months later. So in

0:36:37.422 --> 0:36:42.142
<v Speaker 1>June twenty seventeen, she was put into a hospice. There

0:36:42.182 --> 0:36:44.262
<v Speaker 1>was basically nothing well that they could do, was there.

0:36:45.422 --> 0:36:49.302
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean she sort of stopped responding in treatment.

0:36:49.502 --> 0:36:53.142
<v Speaker 3>These skin grafts weren't going to work, and you can't

0:36:53.222 --> 0:36:57.942
<v Speaker 3>live a normal lifespan with open wounds. So I believe

0:36:59.142 --> 0:37:02.262
<v Speaker 3>most likelyhood she passed away from her autopsy, says it

0:37:02.262 --> 0:37:04.262
<v Speaker 3>was a direct result of the burns, but you know,

0:37:04.302 --> 0:37:07.662
<v Speaker 3>your organs kind of start to shut down. So you know,

0:37:07.742 --> 0:37:10.702
<v Speaker 3>she fought for a very long time, and I think

0:37:10.702 --> 0:37:16.102
<v Speaker 3>that testimony also, her condition declined very steeply after that testimony,

0:37:16.662 --> 0:37:18.582
<v Speaker 3>and I think some of that was just the effort

0:37:18.942 --> 0:37:21.862
<v Speaker 3>involved in giving that testimony, but also I think she

0:37:21.902 --> 0:37:24.102
<v Speaker 3>felt she had to keep it together to get through

0:37:24.142 --> 0:37:27.382
<v Speaker 3>that that that was a herculean effort, and afterwards she

0:37:27.382 --> 0:37:30.342
<v Speaker 3>felt she'd set her peace and she could let go.

0:37:30.502 --> 0:37:32.502
<v Speaker 3>But she would have hung in there if she could

0:37:32.582 --> 0:37:35.782
<v Speaker 3>have in any condition, because she loved her kids. She

0:37:35.902 --> 0:37:38.822
<v Speaker 3>really loved her kids and they loved her, and I

0:37:38.822 --> 0:37:40.542
<v Speaker 3>think that's why she was able to go as long

0:37:40.582 --> 0:37:41.342
<v Speaker 3>as she did.

0:37:41.462 --> 0:37:45.622
<v Speaker 1>Well two years that is an incredible fate. Yeah, so

0:37:45.822 --> 0:37:49.262
<v Speaker 1>Michael is charged with murder, as we expect after she dies.

0:37:49.942 --> 0:37:52.662
<v Speaker 1>But then, like you also alluded to, comes the next

0:37:52.742 --> 0:37:57.222
<v Speaker 1>fight where the defense is trying to exclude her testimony

0:37:57.942 --> 0:37:58.782
<v Speaker 1>from the court.

0:37:59.062 --> 0:38:02.422
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so they had a number of hearings about whether

0:38:02.542 --> 0:38:06.462
<v Speaker 3>or not that testimony should be admissible. This was precedent setting.

0:38:06.502 --> 0:38:10.382
<v Speaker 3>It hadn't happened before, so you can challenge anything new

0:38:10.622 --> 0:38:12.862
<v Speaker 3>in the court system. Quite a bit, but thankfully the

0:38:12.982 --> 0:38:16.782
<v Speaker 3>judge did rule that he was going to admit this testimony,

0:38:17.582 --> 0:38:24.742
<v Speaker 3>and that was really bad for Michael. So, you know,

0:38:24.822 --> 0:38:26.942
<v Speaker 3>and this is a murder case in Ohio. He's facing

0:38:26.982 --> 0:38:30.422
<v Speaker 3>the death penalty. His life is on the line, and

0:38:30.702 --> 0:38:33.022
<v Speaker 3>the best case inn earra if he's convicted, is pretty

0:38:33.102 --> 0:38:35.182
<v Speaker 3>much like in prison, and the worst case is they're

0:38:35.222 --> 0:38:38.262
<v Speaker 3>going to give him the needle. But Michael was very

0:38:38.302 --> 0:38:40.622
<v Speaker 3>insistent in the months leading up to this trial that

0:38:40.702 --> 0:38:42.982
<v Speaker 3>he wanted to go to trial, go to trial. He

0:38:43.022 --> 0:38:45.262
<v Speaker 3>was going to prove he was innocent. I think his

0:38:45.342 --> 0:38:51.342
<v Speaker 3>lawyers were skeptical. Annie Judy's mom. It was very important

0:38:51.702 --> 0:38:56.342
<v Speaker 3>to her that he be made to take accountability in

0:38:56.382 --> 0:38:59.102
<v Speaker 3>whatever way that was. So when they started to talk

0:38:59.142 --> 0:39:03.102
<v Speaker 3>about Michael potentially taking a plea deal, Bonnie was really

0:39:03.142 --> 0:39:05.302
<v Speaker 3>clear that if he was going to plead, he would

0:39:05.342 --> 0:39:07.902
<v Speaker 3>need to plead guilty. He could not plead no contest

0:39:07.982 --> 0:39:11.902
<v Speaker 3>because she would not accept anything else. And so as

0:39:11.982 --> 0:39:13.942
<v Speaker 3>they moved up to the court date, was a little

0:39:13.982 --> 0:39:16.822
<v Speaker 3>unclear whether or not they were going to go for

0:39:16.862 --> 0:39:21.662
<v Speaker 3>a full trial or whether he was going to plead.

0:39:21.902 --> 0:39:25.742
<v Speaker 3>And the morning of that first hearing, I was there,

0:39:27.022 --> 0:39:29.782
<v Speaker 3>and we really didn't know. We went into that court

0:39:29.822 --> 0:39:31.702
<v Speaker 3>room and we didn't understand if we were going to

0:39:31.742 --> 0:39:34.222
<v Speaker 3>be hearing some pre trial motions and then showing up

0:39:34.262 --> 0:39:37.662
<v Speaker 3>the next day for jury selection, or if the whole

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<v Speaker 3>thing was going to end right there. And thankfully he

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<v Speaker 3>did decide to plead, apparently because his attorneys brought his

0:39:44.942 --> 0:39:49.222
<v Speaker 3>daughter to the jail the night before and she was like, Dad, like,

0:39:49.542 --> 0:39:52.542
<v Speaker 3>please please plead guilty, because at least you'll be alive.

0:39:52.822 --> 0:39:54.622
<v Speaker 3>Even if you're in jail, at least you'll be alive,

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<v Speaker 3>and I don't want you to die. And that is

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<v Speaker 3>supposedly the turning point for him. After he pled, one

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<v Speaker 3>of the conditions of his fee was that they would

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<v Speaker 3>play Judy's testimony in court in order to cement the

0:40:10.062 --> 0:40:13.342
<v Speaker 3>legal precedent she had set by testifying in advance of

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<v Speaker 3>her death. That sort of finalized the things, so now

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<v Speaker 3>anyone in the States can use that ruling to testify

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<v Speaker 3>if if they find themselves in an analogous situation. So

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<v Speaker 3>they played the testimony, which was a very powerful moment.

0:40:26.302 --> 0:40:28.902
<v Speaker 3>She was sort of like alive as this ghost on screen,

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<v Speaker 3>finally able to tell her stories. She literally had to

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<v Speaker 3>die before anyone could hear her version of the story

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<v Speaker 3>in public. And then it comes time for the sentencing,

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<v Speaker 3>and they had asked her in the testimony to give

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<v Speaker 3>a victim's impact statement, which she has a right to do.

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<v Speaker 3>She has the right to say what sentence she wants

0:40:45.862 --> 0:40:49.022
<v Speaker 3>them to get, and she had said she did not

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<v Speaker 3>want him to get the death penalty. I forget exactly

0:40:52.102 --> 0:40:53.782
<v Speaker 3>how they said it. They were like, and if he

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<v Speaker 3>is convicted of this crime, what would you like to

0:40:56.422 --> 0:40:58.022
<v Speaker 3>seem get And she said, I'd like to see Hm

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<v Speaker 3>get life. I think he deserves that. And she had

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<v Speaker 3>the power to say kill him, and she didn't. And

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<v Speaker 3>I really think that's says a lot about her character.

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<v Speaker 3>She understood in that moment she could hold that man's

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<v Speaker 3>life in her hands after everything he did to her,

0:41:12.382 --> 0:41:13.862
<v Speaker 3>and she decided to show mercy.

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<v Speaker 1>I think a really interesting part of your documentary was

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<v Speaker 1>the inside a look we got at her kids struggling

0:41:23.662 --> 0:41:27.382
<v Speaker 1>with everything that happened. They gave you incredible access where

0:41:27.382 --> 0:41:29.942
<v Speaker 1>you kind of saw the girls who were still kind

0:41:29.942 --> 0:41:32.622
<v Speaker 1>of teenagers or young women when you were speaking to them,

0:41:33.142 --> 0:41:35.662
<v Speaker 1>struggling to come to terms with their mum's addiction. Which

0:41:35.742 --> 0:41:37.942
<v Speaker 1>they didn't know about because they were too young, and

0:41:37.982 --> 0:41:41.222
<v Speaker 1>then also struggling to come to terms with the fact

0:41:41.262 --> 0:41:44.302
<v Speaker 1>that Michael would be in prison, but he'd still get

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<v Speaker 1>to see his family and they wouldn't. They don't get

0:41:47.182 --> 0:41:49.702
<v Speaker 1>to see their mums, So why why does he get

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<v Speaker 1>to see his family? I thought that was such an

0:41:52.182 --> 0:41:57.022
<v Speaker 1>incredibly powerful insight to be able to give the public.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, one of the things that I'm preoccupied by

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<v Speaker 3>and almost all my work is this idea of like

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<v Speaker 3>the shrapnel of violence, right, Like when somebody is killed

0:42:09.582 --> 0:42:12.902
<v Speaker 3>or severely harmed, or forced in or any of the

0:42:12.902 --> 0:42:17.782
<v Speaker 3>bad stuff, right, it's not just that victim that's hurt.

0:42:17.982 --> 0:42:20.502
<v Speaker 3>It's like everyone who loves them, everyone in their orbit,

0:42:20.582 --> 0:42:23.302
<v Speaker 3>people in their community, people in their work life. Like,

0:42:23.422 --> 0:42:27.382
<v Speaker 3>it's just these things have a ripple effect. And I

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<v Speaker 3>was struck when I met Bonnie by like how her

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<v Speaker 3>and Judy and the girls had sort of they were

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<v Speaker 3>like this island of women, right, like supporting each other,

0:42:37.102 --> 0:42:41.102
<v Speaker 3>getting each other through. And I related to that because

0:42:41.222 --> 0:42:45.702
<v Speaker 3>I was raised almost exclusively by my mom, who had

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<v Speaker 3>a very close relationship with their mom, and we were

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<v Speaker 3>the island of women, right. And I think when it

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<v Speaker 3>comes to domestic violence, it is so felt not just

0:42:56.582 --> 0:42:59.622
<v Speaker 3>by that victim, but by the victim's mother and by

0:42:59.622 --> 0:43:03.502
<v Speaker 3>the victim's children. And I was very preccupied with the

0:43:03.622 --> 0:43:07.982
<v Speaker 3>children because they're girls, they're young girls. This is happening

0:43:08.022 --> 0:43:10.302
<v Speaker 3>at a time in their life where they're deciding what

0:43:10.542 --> 0:43:12.502
<v Speaker 3>is the future going to look like for them when

0:43:12.542 --> 0:43:15.222
<v Speaker 3>they start dating? What will that look like? Will they

0:43:15.262 --> 0:43:18.182
<v Speaker 3>be able to trust someone enough, Will they be able

0:43:18.182 --> 0:43:20.622
<v Speaker 3>to trust a man enough after seeing what happened to

0:43:20.622 --> 0:43:23.582
<v Speaker 3>their mom that they can have the healthy relationships they deserve,

0:43:23.782 --> 0:43:25.982
<v Speaker 3>Or if they saw too much of the wrong thing,

0:43:26.022 --> 0:43:30.022
<v Speaker 3>will they accidentally unconsciously repeat unhealthy patterns? And how do

0:43:30.062 --> 0:43:32.182
<v Speaker 3>they reckon with this while they're just trying to figure

0:43:32.182 --> 0:43:35.662
<v Speaker 3>out how to be women and they're seeing their mom

0:43:35.902 --> 0:43:38.782
<v Speaker 3>undergo a lot of these things that, let's just be real,

0:43:38.822 --> 0:43:42.222
<v Speaker 3>their gender based crimes. I'm not saying that domestic violence

0:43:42.262 --> 0:43:45.502
<v Speaker 3>doesn't happen to men. It certainly does. I'm not saying

0:43:45.502 --> 0:43:48.662
<v Speaker 3>it's an exclusively female problem, but there is a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of sexism surrounding whether she was listened to when she

0:43:53.822 --> 0:43:55.982
<v Speaker 3>was first reporting it, whether she was believed in court,

0:43:56.462 --> 0:43:59.982
<v Speaker 3>how people looked at her addiction, how people listen to

0:44:00.062 --> 0:44:05.422
<v Speaker 3>Michael when he would counter her story right, I was

0:44:05.502 --> 0:44:08.062
<v Speaker 3>just very preoccupied with how that would shape those girls.

0:44:08.102 --> 0:44:10.662
<v Speaker 3>And thankfully they're very strong like their mother, and they're

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<v Speaker 3>all doing great. They have very normal young adult lives

0:44:15.102 --> 0:44:19.942
<v Speaker 3>and they're thriving. Kiki is in Kreli at a university

0:44:19.982 --> 0:44:24.102
<v Speaker 3>not far from where her grandmother lives. And Maddie is

0:44:24.262 --> 0:44:28.102
<v Speaker 3>finishing up high school and she's on the cheerleading team

0:44:28.302 --> 0:44:31.142
<v Speaker 3>and doing while in school and has a really sweet,

0:44:31.342 --> 0:44:37.942
<v Speaker 3>nice boyfriend, and it's just great to see.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks to Patricia Gillespie for assisting us to tell this story.

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<v Speaker 1>You can find the guests film The Fire that took

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<v Speaker 1>Her in our show notes. True Crime Conversations is a

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<v Speaker 1>Muma mea podcast hosted and produced by me Jemma Bath

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<v Speaker 1>and Tarlie Blackman, with audio design by Scott Stronik. Thanks

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<v Speaker 1>so much for listening. I'll be back next week with

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<v Speaker 1>another true Crime Conversation.