1 00:00:10,622 --> 00:00:13,382 Speaker 1: You're listening to a MoMA Mia podcast. 2 00:00:13,822 --> 00:00:17,182 Speaker 2: Mamma Mia acknowledges the traditional owners of land and waters 3 00:00:17,222 --> 00:00:18,782 Speaker 2: that this podcast is recorded on. 4 00:00:19,061 --> 00:00:20,742 Speaker 3: And I just wanted to point out that you should 5 00:00:20,741 --> 00:00:24,381 Speaker 3: always wear underparents if you're regardless of the length of 6 00:00:24,381 --> 00:00:26,701 Speaker 3: your LaBier when you were wearing taigi. 7 00:00:26,502 --> 00:00:27,622 Speaker 4: Yeah, because it would shave. 8 00:00:31,222 --> 00:00:33,742 Speaker 2: Welcome to Mama Mia Out Loud, our first show of 9 00:00:33,781 --> 00:00:36,022 Speaker 2: twenty twenty five, and if you want to know what 10 00:00:36,062 --> 00:00:38,222 Speaker 2: the hell Miya was just talking about, you're going to 11 00:00:38,302 --> 00:00:39,101 Speaker 2: have to keep listening. 12 00:00:39,342 --> 00:00:41,862 Speaker 1: I'm Holly Wayne Wright, I'm Mea Friedman. 13 00:00:41,542 --> 00:00:42,822 Speaker 4: And I'm Jesse Stevens. 14 00:00:42,982 --> 00:00:45,902 Speaker 2: And on the show today, We're back. We are back. 15 00:00:46,622 --> 00:00:49,382 Speaker 4: I am busting to be back. I'm so excited to 16 00:00:49,382 --> 00:00:51,942 Speaker 4: be back. There are so many chats that we've been 17 00:00:52,062 --> 00:00:54,302 Speaker 4: kind of half having in our WhatsApp group. We're like, no, no, no, 18 00:00:54,382 --> 00:00:55,902 Speaker 4: we save it for the show. That's the rule. 19 00:00:55,982 --> 00:00:57,182 Speaker 1: What about how many out louders? 20 00:00:57,182 --> 00:01:00,622 Speaker 3: Because we had our emergency episode with Justin Baldonian Black 21 00:01:00,662 --> 00:01:03,862 Speaker 3: Lively and then it was like, should we have another 22 00:01:03,902 --> 00:01:04,702 Speaker 3: emergency episode? 23 00:01:04,742 --> 00:01:07,542 Speaker 4: They were like, metas made this announcement, how about this Megan? 24 00:01:07,661 --> 00:01:10,542 Speaker 4: This that Megan? She did a post and we're like, look, 25 00:01:10,742 --> 00:01:12,741 Speaker 4: we got to save something for the first show back. 26 00:01:12,782 --> 00:01:14,661 Speaker 4: This is going to be a cracker of an. 27 00:01:14,542 --> 00:01:16,862 Speaker 2: Episode, so we have got lots of that coming up. 28 00:01:16,902 --> 00:01:20,302 Speaker 2: But also in the subscriber episodes on Tuesday and Thursday 29 00:01:20,302 --> 00:01:22,262 Speaker 2: this week, we're going to be saying all the things 30 00:01:22,262 --> 00:01:24,382 Speaker 2: we were dying to say to each other about all 31 00:01:24,422 --> 00:01:27,302 Speaker 2: the news stories that have happened over the break, So make. 32 00:01:27,142 --> 00:01:31,142 Speaker 4: Sure you subscribe Golden Glow ready. Justin Baldoni update and 33 00:01:31,862 --> 00:01:35,102 Speaker 4: I am des stopped to talk about I can't believe 34 00:01:35,142 --> 00:01:37,302 Speaker 4: they did this, but there was an essay that dropped 35 00:01:37,422 --> 00:01:40,782 Speaker 4: in the cut by doctor Lily j. She is the 36 00:01:40,822 --> 00:01:46,262 Speaker 4: woman whose husband left her for Ariana Grande and it 37 00:01:46,342 --> 00:01:48,262 Speaker 4: is the most stunning ess I can't wait to dissect 38 00:01:48,302 --> 00:01:48,782 Speaker 4: her with you both. 39 00:01:48,902 --> 00:01:51,222 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was amazing. Did you all have a good holiday? 40 00:01:51,502 --> 00:01:54,182 Speaker 2: Really good holiday. It's a push, Paul, because I missed 41 00:01:54,182 --> 00:01:56,982 Speaker 2: you both and our team, and I wanted to talk 42 00:01:57,022 --> 00:02:00,262 Speaker 2: about all these things. But also I just love doing nothing. 43 00:02:00,542 --> 00:02:03,182 Speaker 2: Me too. I did three weeks of nothing. I'm sorry everybody, 44 00:02:03,222 --> 00:02:04,822 Speaker 2: as much nothing as you can do when you've got 45 00:02:04,902 --> 00:02:08,061 Speaker 2: children and family and friends visit. But like it was glory. 46 00:02:08,222 --> 00:02:10,462 Speaker 4: I got to last night. I thought I could do 47 00:02:10,582 --> 00:02:11,862 Speaker 4: enough three week Todt get me wrong. 48 00:02:12,022 --> 00:02:14,422 Speaker 2: I could keep holiday, except we had to come back 49 00:02:14,462 --> 00:02:16,742 Speaker 2: to talk about Meghan, because that lad has kept. 50 00:02:16,542 --> 00:02:17,902 Speaker 1: To costing us in the streets. 51 00:02:18,622 --> 00:02:20,382 Speaker 2: I was literally I was in Sydney last week and 52 00:02:20,462 --> 00:02:22,142 Speaker 2: I was out and a lady came up to me, 53 00:02:22,181 --> 00:02:23,941 Speaker 2: a very nice person, but she said. 54 00:02:23,942 --> 00:02:25,382 Speaker 1: When are you going back to work? 55 00:02:26,542 --> 00:02:30,221 Speaker 2: I was like, it's okay, Monday. She's like God anyway. 56 00:02:30,342 --> 00:02:34,462 Speaker 2: On today's show, the celebrities being scolded over their California 57 00:02:34,542 --> 00:02:38,262 Speaker 2: wildfire tears and the eerily familiar blame game playing out 58 00:02:38,302 --> 00:02:42,222 Speaker 2: across the devastation. Also why we love to argue about 59 00:02:42,262 --> 00:02:46,902 Speaker 2: Australia's most popular beach accessory, the Little Cabana, and with 60 00:02:47,102 --> 00:02:50,622 Speaker 2: love Megan, with the announcement of the Duchess's cooking show, 61 00:02:50,902 --> 00:02:54,702 Speaker 2: is our weight for jam. Finally over, I'm afraid not friends, 62 00:02:54,942 --> 00:02:56,382 Speaker 2: but first Mia. 63 00:02:56,502 --> 00:02:59,022 Speaker 3: In case you missed it, if you noticed a guy 64 00:02:59,142 --> 00:03:03,222 Speaker 3: appearing across your feeds talking about how fats are so 65 00:03:03,422 --> 00:03:05,582 Speaker 3: twenty twenty four and it's now going to be the 66 00:03:05,622 --> 00:03:10,382 Speaker 3: wild Western meta, you weren't hallucinating. That was actually Mark Zuckerberg, 67 00:03:10,582 --> 00:03:13,662 Speaker 3: the CEO of Meta, which of course includes Facebook and 68 00:03:13,782 --> 00:03:15,342 Speaker 3: Instagram and WhatsApp. 69 00:03:15,622 --> 00:03:17,142 Speaker 1: Here's a little bit of what he had to say. 70 00:03:17,302 --> 00:03:19,822 Speaker 5: Here's what we're going to do. First, We're going to 71 00:03:19,862 --> 00:03:22,662 Speaker 5: get rid of fact checkers and replace them with community 72 00:03:22,662 --> 00:03:27,022 Speaker 5: notes similar to X. Starting in the US, after Trump 73 00:03:27,062 --> 00:03:30,542 Speaker 5: first got elected in twenty sixteen, the legacy media wrote 74 00:03:30,662 --> 00:03:34,662 Speaker 5: NonStop about how misinformation was a threat to democracy. We tried, 75 00:03:34,662 --> 00:03:37,622 Speaker 5: in good faith to address those concerns without becoming the 76 00:03:37,742 --> 00:03:40,742 Speaker 5: arbiters of truth. But the fact checkers have just been 77 00:03:40,782 --> 00:03:44,542 Speaker 5: too politically biased and have destroyed more trusts than they've created, 78 00:03:44,622 --> 00:03:45,582 Speaker 5: especially in the US. 79 00:03:45,862 --> 00:03:48,262 Speaker 2: You know what, no one ever says I'd like things 80 00:03:48,342 --> 00:03:52,502 Speaker 2: to be more like they are on X except for Mark. 81 00:03:52,582 --> 00:03:56,262 Speaker 3: He says that, so look, what could possibly go wrong. 82 00:03:56,342 --> 00:03:59,502 Speaker 3: The subtext of this, of course, is that Donald Trump 83 00:03:59,622 --> 00:04:02,302 Speaker 3: is in power, and over the last few weeks all 84 00:04:02,582 --> 00:04:05,582 Speaker 3: the tech billionaires have gone to kiss the ring. The 85 00:04:05,662 --> 00:04:08,822 Speaker 3: other thing that Mark Zuckerberg announced is that the head 86 00:04:08,822 --> 00:04:13,702 Speaker 3: of World Wrestling Federation, a guy called Dana White, is 87 00:04:13,742 --> 00:04:17,541 Speaker 3: now on the board of Meta, and it's basically saying 88 00:04:17,861 --> 00:04:18,782 Speaker 3: all bets are off. 89 00:04:19,181 --> 00:04:22,501 Speaker 4: This is now bastling match. Correct, Because I read that 90 00:04:22,662 --> 00:04:28,661 Speaker 4: Mark Zuckerberg donated one million US dollars to Trump's inauguration fund, 91 00:04:28,702 --> 00:04:29,101 Speaker 4: Correct and. 92 00:04:29,142 --> 00:04:32,662 Speaker 3: Jeff Bezos paid forty million dollars to make a documentary 93 00:04:32,662 --> 00:04:33,782 Speaker 3: about Millennia Trump. 94 00:04:34,022 --> 00:04:37,502 Speaker 4: Right, So my issue here, I actually think fact checking 95 00:04:37,662 --> 00:04:42,022 Speaker 4: is really really complicated. And free speech and how you 96 00:04:42,381 --> 00:04:47,782 Speaker 4: allow conversations to happen that need to happen without projecting 97 00:04:47,782 --> 00:04:49,582 Speaker 4: your politics onto it. I think that is a really 98 00:04:49,582 --> 00:04:53,541 Speaker 4: complicated discussion. But I reckon it's fair to say that 99 00:04:53,621 --> 00:04:56,541 Speaker 4: we don't want our platforms, whether it's X, whether it's Facebook, 100 00:04:56,541 --> 00:04:59,741 Speaker 4: whether it's Instagram, being aligned with any political party. I 101 00:04:59,782 --> 00:05:02,302 Speaker 4: don't want them to be pro Biden, and I don't 102 00:05:02,342 --> 00:05:04,181 Speaker 4: want them to be pro Trump. They might be, but 103 00:05:04,301 --> 00:05:05,981 Speaker 4: I don't need to know that because I think a 104 00:05:06,022 --> 00:05:08,822 Speaker 4: platform needs to be bipartisan. Is that a fair thing? 105 00:05:08,941 --> 00:05:12,181 Speaker 3: Well, the problem is he's not talking about being partisan 106 00:05:12,861 --> 00:05:15,141 Speaker 3: now factor is considered partisans. 107 00:05:14,741 --> 00:05:17,702 Speaker 4: Yes, But what I'm saying is that knowing his relationship 108 00:05:17,702 --> 00:05:20,741 Speaker 4: with Trump, now, knowing that he's kissing the ring, knowing 109 00:05:21,022 --> 00:05:24,101 Speaker 4: that Musk is in the inner sanctum, what we're really 110 00:05:24,142 --> 00:05:28,662 Speaker 4: seeing is all of these companies go, well, our facts 111 00:05:28,902 --> 00:05:31,702 Speaker 4: are going to be determined or at the very least 112 00:05:31,741 --> 00:05:35,821 Speaker 4: influenced by the current candidate, who we all endorsed. 113 00:05:35,861 --> 00:05:38,902 Speaker 2: Now, I don't want to spread conspiracy theories because that's 114 00:05:38,941 --> 00:05:43,621 Speaker 2: the kind of thing that happens on X. But also 115 00:05:44,101 --> 00:05:46,381 Speaker 2: when Trump was in power last time, at one point 116 00:05:46,381 --> 00:05:49,621 Speaker 2: he threatened to throw Zuckerberg in jail. He has also 117 00:05:49,662 --> 00:05:52,021 Speaker 2: at different times threatened to try and work out how 118 00:05:52,061 --> 00:05:54,142 Speaker 2: to dismantle Amazon because he didn't like bees os and 119 00:05:54,181 --> 00:05:56,302 Speaker 2: what was going on at the Washington Post. So it's 120 00:05:56,381 --> 00:05:58,501 Speaker 2: quite fair to say or so that these guys are 121 00:05:58,541 --> 00:05:59,541 Speaker 2: protecting themselves. 122 00:05:59,582 --> 00:06:02,502 Speaker 4: They're protecting themselves because regulation in Silicon Valley is a 123 00:06:02,541 --> 00:06:05,021 Speaker 4: big thing, especially for like AI, like open Ai and 124 00:06:05,061 --> 00:06:07,421 Speaker 4: all of those. They don't want to be regulated. So 125 00:06:07,501 --> 00:06:10,421 Speaker 4: the more that you suck up to try, the more 126 00:06:10,462 --> 00:06:13,821 Speaker 4: he'll say, do what you like. We're not watching finger 127 00:06:13,821 --> 00:06:15,022 Speaker 4: in ow. He is la la la la lah. 128 00:06:15,061 --> 00:06:17,782 Speaker 3: It's interesting the way it's been framed, and it's you know, 129 00:06:18,181 --> 00:06:22,702 Speaker 3: very calculated obviously, and very clever and very smart from 130 00:06:22,782 --> 00:06:26,181 Speaker 3: a you know, the CEO of a publicly listed company 131 00:06:26,541 --> 00:06:28,861 Speaker 3: worth billions and billions of dollars and that potentially the 132 00:06:28,902 --> 00:06:32,301 Speaker 3: most powerful person on the planet. He's framed it quite literally. 133 00:06:32,342 --> 00:06:35,581 Speaker 3: He said the words there will be less mistakes, meaning 134 00:06:35,662 --> 00:06:38,101 Speaker 3: that some posts were taken down that shouldn't have been 135 00:06:38,142 --> 00:06:41,822 Speaker 3: taken down because fact checkers were overzealous. Less mistakes and 136 00:06:41,981 --> 00:06:43,021 Speaker 3: more free speech. 137 00:06:43,541 --> 00:06:44,902 Speaker 4: Does that mean I can put my nipple up? 138 00:06:45,462 --> 00:06:45,822 Speaker 2: No? 139 00:06:45,741 --> 00:06:46,782 Speaker 1: No, not no. 140 00:06:47,421 --> 00:06:48,981 Speaker 2: Can we just very quickly mention that. 141 00:06:49,101 --> 00:06:51,662 Speaker 3: But you can't say that gay people are mentally ill now? 142 00:06:51,741 --> 00:06:53,621 Speaker 3: And that's fine, but no go it. 143 00:06:53,821 --> 00:06:56,861 Speaker 2: As you mentioned, Maya, he also has a startling new look, 144 00:06:57,061 --> 00:07:00,062 Speaker 2: so Zuckerberg. He also went on Rogan. Did you see that? 145 00:07:00,181 --> 00:07:03,262 Speaker 2: He did a whole three hours on Rogan again in 146 00:07:03,301 --> 00:07:05,741 Speaker 2: his new In England, they call it a road man. 147 00:07:05,861 --> 00:07:08,941 Speaker 2: Look like he's got a chain and his hair's all scraggy, 148 00:07:09,061 --> 00:07:11,462 Speaker 2: and he like he looks he's all jacked because he's 149 00:07:11,502 --> 00:07:14,982 Speaker 2: so into his fighting now. And it's very interesting. The 150 00:07:15,022 --> 00:07:17,901 Speaker 2: midlife crisis is looking very interesting in Silicon Valley. 151 00:07:18,622 --> 00:07:22,382 Speaker 4: Since January seven, a series of wildfires have burned through 152 00:07:22,582 --> 00:07:27,502 Speaker 4: Los Angeles, so far, claiming sixteen lives. Experts believe they 153 00:07:27,542 --> 00:07:31,381 Speaker 4: are likely to be the most destructive natural disaster in 154 00:07:31,462 --> 00:07:35,141 Speaker 4: modern US history, forcing nearly one hundred and eighty thousand 155 00:07:35,182 --> 00:07:39,022 Speaker 4: people to evacuate their homes. Damaging or destroying more than 156 00:07:39,062 --> 00:07:42,502 Speaker 4: twelve thousand structures, with the cost estimated to be at 157 00:07:42,542 --> 00:07:47,182 Speaker 4: around one hundred and thirty five billion dollars. A fire 158 00:07:47,262 --> 00:07:51,702 Speaker 4: intensified by a windstorm burned through the Pacific Palisades at 159 00:07:51,702 --> 00:07:56,342 Speaker 4: the speed of three football fields a minute. Entire suburbs 160 00:07:56,582 --> 00:08:02,302 Speaker 4: have been decimated. So why and how? It's winter in LA. 161 00:08:02,582 --> 00:08:05,142 Speaker 4: This is not a time of year when fires are 162 00:08:05,142 --> 00:08:09,461 Speaker 4: even expected. Usually, A number of factors have conspired in 163 00:08:09,542 --> 00:08:12,782 Speaker 4: including severe drought. Parts of southern California have had the 164 00:08:12,902 --> 00:08:16,941 Speaker 4: driest start to the rainy season on record. Hotter weather 165 00:08:17,142 --> 00:08:21,622 Speaker 4: coupled with extreme wing conditions means the risk was unprecedented. 166 00:08:22,062 --> 00:08:25,902 Speaker 4: Of course, meteorologists environmental analysts could explain the conditions far 167 00:08:25,982 --> 00:08:30,141 Speaker 4: more comprehensively than I can. But what's interesting is how 168 00:08:30,302 --> 00:08:34,542 Speaker 4: political the discussion around these fires has quickly. 169 00:08:34,142 --> 00:08:35,822 Speaker 1: Become while they're still burning. Right. 170 00:08:35,982 --> 00:08:39,262 Speaker 4: Yeah. On the one hand, broadly speaking, the left want 171 00:08:39,262 --> 00:08:42,302 Speaker 4: to talk about climate change. This happened in Australia as well. 172 00:08:42,782 --> 00:08:45,782 Speaker 4: We were warned about extreme weather events and here they are. 173 00:08:46,542 --> 00:08:49,542 Speaker 4: On the other hand, the right want to talk about 174 00:08:49,582 --> 00:08:56,022 Speaker 4: government incompetence. Billionaire Elon Musk tweeted they prioritized dei over 175 00:08:56,102 --> 00:08:59,781 Speaker 4: saving lives and homes, which he's suggesting that the Democrat 176 00:09:00,022 --> 00:09:05,142 Speaker 4: propensity to focus on diversity, equity, and inclusion has distracted 177 00:09:05,182 --> 00:09:08,942 Speaker 4: fire departments and left a state woefully unprepared for this 178 00:09:09,022 --> 00:09:12,182 Speaker 4: kind of desire. There's been this ridiculous focus on how 179 00:09:12,742 --> 00:09:15,102 Speaker 4: the three people in the fire department that are running 180 00:09:15,102 --> 00:09:17,662 Speaker 4: it all happen to be gay women, as though that's 181 00:09:17,702 --> 00:09:18,742 Speaker 4: all relevant. 182 00:09:18,982 --> 00:09:20,422 Speaker 1: That's clearly why the fire started. 183 00:09:20,502 --> 00:09:22,182 Speaker 4: Get yeah, exactly, I read it on XT. 184 00:09:22,982 --> 00:09:26,422 Speaker 2: California obviously is a blue state that's a Democrat state, 185 00:09:26,502 --> 00:09:28,342 Speaker 2: has been for a very long time and was the 186 00:09:28,342 --> 00:09:33,222 Speaker 2: focus of a lot of the Trump Musque Rogan rhetoric 187 00:09:33,342 --> 00:09:35,302 Speaker 2: even way before this leading up to the election, that 188 00:09:35,302 --> 00:09:36,902 Speaker 2: the Democrats had ruined California, etc. 189 00:09:37,302 --> 00:09:40,102 Speaker 4: Yes, so a clip has gone viral of the leader 190 00:09:40,142 --> 00:09:42,702 Speaker 4: of the Los Angeles Department of Water and Power saying 191 00:09:42,782 --> 00:09:47,542 Speaker 4: that their number one priority is equity, and that probably 192 00:09:47,822 --> 00:09:52,062 Speaker 4: hasn't aged well because it is now being criticized. Alongside 193 00:09:52,102 --> 00:09:55,142 Speaker 4: the knowledge that fire hydrants were empty, there were serious 194 00:09:55,142 --> 00:09:58,862 Speaker 4: issues with water systems, putting the diversity point to the side. 195 00:09:58,902 --> 00:10:02,262 Speaker 4: The reality is, as was outlined by Claire Limb and 196 00:10:02,382 --> 00:10:06,302 Speaker 4: over the weekend, both climate change and government in competence 197 00:10:06,302 --> 00:10:09,982 Speaker 4: are to blame. Environmentalists and fire departments of been saying 198 00:10:10,022 --> 00:10:13,942 Speaker 4: for years that we need to prevent climate change, but 199 00:10:13,982 --> 00:10:16,381 Speaker 4: we also need to be prepared for it. She quotes 200 00:10:16,382 --> 00:10:20,222 Speaker 4: an Australian volunteer firefighter named Joel Shepherd, who said, when 201 00:10:20,262 --> 00:10:23,902 Speaker 4: conditions are bad enough, no amount of firefighters can stop it, 202 00:10:24,302 --> 00:10:28,182 Speaker 4: and that's what we've seen in LA. The other discussion has, 203 00:10:28,222 --> 00:10:31,262 Speaker 4: of course been the celebrities who have lost their homes 204 00:10:31,902 --> 00:10:34,782 Speaker 4: at the time of recording. Paris Hilton, Adam Brody and 205 00:10:34,822 --> 00:10:38,862 Speaker 4: Layton Meister, Spencer and Heidi Pratt, Mel Gibson, Anthony Hopkins 206 00:10:38,902 --> 00:10:42,542 Speaker 4: and a Faris, Tina Knowles, Rebel Wilson, Mandy Moore, Jamie Lee, Curtis, 207 00:10:42,542 --> 00:10:46,262 Speaker 4: Billy Crystal, Eugene Levy. They are just a handful. Some 208 00:10:46,382 --> 00:10:49,062 Speaker 4: say they're rich. We don't want to hear the stories. 209 00:10:49,102 --> 00:10:52,381 Speaker 4: It's a distraction. They can afford to replace everything. Here's 210 00:10:52,422 --> 00:10:54,342 Speaker 4: Spencer Pratt. He used to be on a show in 211 00:10:54,382 --> 00:10:58,182 Speaker 4: the twenty tens called The Hills. Here's him responding to 212 00:10:58,222 --> 00:11:00,022 Speaker 4: the commentary in the wake of losing his home. 213 00:11:00,142 --> 00:11:02,382 Speaker 6: Funny thinking about the Internet is most times people are 214 00:11:02,382 --> 00:11:05,302 Speaker 6: always trying me, like saying how broke we are, and like, oh, 215 00:11:05,462 --> 00:11:08,502 Speaker 6: you're so broke. You TikTok battle like you're broke and 216 00:11:08,582 --> 00:11:11,462 Speaker 6: our house burns and everyone's like, oh, you're a millionaire. 217 00:11:11,462 --> 00:11:14,261 Speaker 6: You're a millionaire, You're so rich. Like which is it? 218 00:11:14,302 --> 00:11:17,982 Speaker 6: Are we broke or are we millionaires? Trolls got to 219 00:11:17,982 --> 00:11:18,862 Speaker 6: figure it out. 220 00:11:18,862 --> 00:11:23,222 Speaker 4: Holly, where do you sit in terms of whether we 221 00:11:23,262 --> 00:11:25,702 Speaker 4: should have compassion for the celebrities. 222 00:11:25,262 --> 00:11:27,982 Speaker 2: Well, I think we should have compassion for everybody. Like, 223 00:11:28,062 --> 00:11:31,942 Speaker 2: broadly speaking, I mean the thing that's really confronting and 224 00:11:32,062 --> 00:11:36,102 Speaker 2: different about this. So Australians broadly we know about fire, right, 225 00:11:36,182 --> 00:11:40,742 Speaker 2: we absolutely do. The twenty nineteen twenty twenty fires here 226 00:11:40,902 --> 00:11:43,942 Speaker 2: were world news for their ferocity, for their scale, for 227 00:11:44,022 --> 00:11:47,222 Speaker 2: their loss. Right. In fact, listening to the Quickie this morning, 228 00:11:47,222 --> 00:11:49,582 Speaker 2: there was a woman, an Australian in La who says 229 00:11:49,582 --> 00:11:52,022 Speaker 2: that walking around La at the minute is absolutely like 230 00:11:52,062 --> 00:11:54,462 Speaker 2: walking around Sydney. Then, in terms of the black skies, 231 00:11:54,502 --> 00:11:56,982 Speaker 2: the air quality, the masks, remember when our kids were 232 00:11:57,022 --> 00:12:00,142 Speaker 2: allowed to play outside at school. It's that, but it's 233 00:12:00,182 --> 00:12:02,942 Speaker 2: on steroids because of the urban setting of this. Right, 234 00:12:02,982 --> 00:12:06,942 Speaker 2: So we're used to seeing fire devastation, but we're not 235 00:12:07,022 --> 00:12:10,982 Speaker 2: really used to seeing entire cities, suburbs wipe down and 236 00:12:11,062 --> 00:12:14,342 Speaker 2: city buildings burned, took the ground. So that's really different. 237 00:12:14,862 --> 00:12:17,422 Speaker 2: The other thing that's really different is these fires are 238 00:12:17,462 --> 00:12:20,902 Speaker 2: happening in basically the center of our culture, our pop culture. 239 00:12:20,982 --> 00:12:23,582 Speaker 2: I mean, so where a lot of our news and 240 00:12:23,622 --> 00:12:26,822 Speaker 2: our content creators and our high profile people are is 241 00:12:26,822 --> 00:12:30,222 Speaker 2: on fire. So my daughter, for example, knows everything about 242 00:12:30,262 --> 00:12:33,182 Speaker 2: this because it's just her TikTok feed and every creator 243 00:12:33,182 --> 00:12:35,862 Speaker 2: that she follows is posting about it, and not everything 244 00:12:35,862 --> 00:12:38,542 Speaker 2: on there is true. So she came to me very 245 00:12:38,542 --> 00:12:41,582 Speaker 2: confidently saying, I've seen the Hollywood Sign burning down. It's gone. 246 00:12:41,782 --> 00:12:43,702 Speaker 2: It isn't gone. There was just a very good AI 247 00:12:44,662 --> 00:12:49,862 Speaker 2: video of that. And equally with the politicization, as with everything, 248 00:12:49,902 --> 00:12:52,222 Speaker 2: as we were just talking about with Facebook, there are 249 00:12:52,262 --> 00:12:55,222 Speaker 2: lots of different sets of facts. So Donald Trump immediately 250 00:12:55,502 --> 00:12:59,261 Speaker 2: posted about the empty fire hydrants. That sounds terrible. There 251 00:12:59,342 --> 00:13:01,542 Speaker 2: wasn't enough order in the fire hydrants. When you read 252 00:13:01,542 --> 00:13:03,262 Speaker 2: a little deeper, Just like with everything, there are a 253 00:13:03,302 --> 00:13:05,582 Speaker 2: million reasons why there weren't. At that time, it was 254 00:13:05,662 --> 00:13:08,742 Speaker 2: keeping up with the unbelievable demand. It's about the fact 255 00:13:08,742 --> 00:13:10,822 Speaker 2: they turn the power off to stop fires. There's a 256 00:13:10,822 --> 00:13:15,342 Speaker 2: million different reasons of why. But this natural disaster is 257 00:13:15,342 --> 00:13:17,702 Speaker 2: playing out in a place that we are always watching, 258 00:13:17,862 --> 00:13:21,102 Speaker 2: so now we get to watch this. And in terms 259 00:13:21,182 --> 00:13:24,622 Speaker 2: of the celebrities, what I'm mostly seeing is celebrities doing 260 00:13:24,662 --> 00:13:28,142 Speaker 2: really good stuff. I'm seeing lots of celebrities volunteering and 261 00:13:28,182 --> 00:13:30,902 Speaker 2: shining a light on what needs to be done, like 262 00:13:31,342 --> 00:13:34,822 Speaker 2: volunteering down, folding up clothes, sending money and then saying 263 00:13:34,862 --> 00:13:37,502 Speaker 2: you should send money to and again that's Australians did 264 00:13:37,502 --> 00:13:41,382 Speaker 2: the same thing in the fires. Remember Celest Barber raising 265 00:13:41,422 --> 00:13:44,102 Speaker 2: all that money for the firefighters that then became controversial 266 00:13:44,182 --> 00:13:47,502 Speaker 2: within itself. Remember lots of high profile people going and 267 00:13:47,542 --> 00:13:50,662 Speaker 2: packing essentials boxes to send down the New South Wales 268 00:13:50,702 --> 00:13:53,102 Speaker 2: coast or down to Victoria and then encouraging other people 269 00:13:53,142 --> 00:13:57,742 Speaker 2: to do that. I'm generally seeing high profile people using 270 00:13:57,822 --> 00:14:00,262 Speaker 2: their profile for good in this in the middle of 271 00:14:00,302 --> 00:14:01,702 Speaker 2: losing everything themselves. 272 00:14:01,862 --> 00:14:05,662 Speaker 4: So I think probably LA has a sort of a 273 00:14:05,702 --> 00:14:08,782 Speaker 4: brand problem in that people do associate it with celebrity, 274 00:14:08,822 --> 00:14:11,902 Speaker 4: and of course people who live there. The vast majority 275 00:14:11,942 --> 00:14:13,862 Speaker 4: of people who have lost their homes. Are not celebrities 276 00:14:14,142 --> 00:14:17,302 Speaker 4: and are not rich necessarily, and I also think there's 277 00:14:17,302 --> 00:14:19,902 Speaker 4: a difference between being famous and rich, and that's what 278 00:14:19,942 --> 00:14:22,902 Speaker 4: Spencer Pratt was sort of getting at. Losing your home 279 00:14:22,982 --> 00:14:26,142 Speaker 4: is losing your home. It's so unimaginable, it's so devastating, 280 00:14:26,182 --> 00:14:29,182 Speaker 4: and Australians know that better than most. There was a great, 281 00:14:29,502 --> 00:14:32,982 Speaker 4: really affecting post by John Mayer who posted an image 282 00:14:32,982 --> 00:14:35,822 Speaker 4: of it was like a photo album, and he said 283 00:14:36,022 --> 00:14:38,662 Speaker 4: that what's lost in fire is you can talk about 284 00:14:38,902 --> 00:14:43,782 Speaker 4: stuff and possessions, but sometimes it's proof of life. It's 285 00:14:43,822 --> 00:14:46,702 Speaker 4: proof that people even existed. In this album where pictures 286 00:14:46,742 --> 00:14:49,342 Speaker 4: and documents related to his father in this incredible life 287 00:14:49,382 --> 00:14:52,742 Speaker 4: he lived. When that's gone, there's no proof your mother 288 00:14:52,862 --> 00:14:56,102 Speaker 4: or your grandmother even existed, and that is something that 289 00:14:56,142 --> 00:14:59,342 Speaker 4: people are grappling with in this town, famous or not. 290 00:14:59,902 --> 00:15:03,622 Speaker 4: I've found the rhetoric of just like boohoo, celebrities losing 291 00:15:03,622 --> 00:15:08,542 Speaker 4: their homes really confronting because it's like we think compassion 292 00:15:08,622 --> 00:15:12,382 Speaker 4: is a pie something and you there's a finite amount. 293 00:15:12,742 --> 00:15:16,262 Speaker 4: Rather than going, oh, that's really sad. I feel also 294 00:15:16,862 --> 00:15:21,142 Speaker 4: really really horrible for the people whose insurance lapsed so 295 00:15:21,622 --> 00:15:24,502 Speaker 4: the insurance premiums. Either insurance went, we're not going to 296 00:15:24,582 --> 00:15:27,862 Speaker 4: ensure your home this was last year, or we're gonna 297 00:15:27,902 --> 00:15:30,062 Speaker 4: make it, you know, three times the cost. So a 298 00:15:30,062 --> 00:15:32,502 Speaker 4: lot of people went can't afford it, and people who 299 00:15:32,542 --> 00:15:34,862 Speaker 4: have had homes for thirty years just burned down. What 300 00:15:35,022 --> 00:15:38,582 Speaker 4: do you do then, like, oh, my goodness, But I 301 00:15:38,622 --> 00:15:40,102 Speaker 4: think you can feel sorry for everyone. 302 00:15:40,142 --> 00:15:43,942 Speaker 3: At the same time, I'm reminded that we're very uncomfortable 303 00:15:43,982 --> 00:15:48,502 Speaker 3: with feeling sad or scared or despairing, and it's much 304 00:15:48,582 --> 00:15:53,662 Speaker 3: more energizing to feel angry. And we see this again 305 00:15:53,702 --> 00:15:58,262 Speaker 3: and again and again when something you know, unavoidable, larger 306 00:15:58,302 --> 00:16:04,062 Speaker 3: than anyone can control, something that's arguably nobody's actual fault. 307 00:16:04,222 --> 00:16:06,022 Speaker 4: I understand natural disaster. Right. 308 00:16:06,982 --> 00:16:09,782 Speaker 3: It's almost like the beginning of COVID where everybody he 309 00:16:09,782 --> 00:16:12,702 Speaker 3: was singing in the balconies and it was all like, wow, 310 00:16:12,742 --> 00:16:15,182 Speaker 3: it's so combaya on the internet. This is so weird. 311 00:16:15,222 --> 00:16:18,502 Speaker 3: No one's angry. And then straightaway, when it went on 312 00:16:18,582 --> 00:16:21,302 Speaker 3: for too long and we didn't like feeling sad and scared, 313 00:16:22,262 --> 00:16:26,102 Speaker 3: we became angry. And then it became wildly politicized, and 314 00:16:26,142 --> 00:16:28,782 Speaker 3: we see this happening earlier and earlier in the news cycle. 315 00:16:28,782 --> 00:16:30,942 Speaker 3: I think you made a really good point, Jesse, about 316 00:16:30,942 --> 00:16:34,662 Speaker 3: the difference between fame and wealth, and I think that 317 00:16:35,222 --> 00:16:41,142 Speaker 3: what fires do are beyond measure of just money, you know. 318 00:16:41,142 --> 00:16:43,382 Speaker 3: I was just talking to Michelle Battersby, who's in the 319 00:16:43,382 --> 00:16:46,702 Speaker 3: office working on something for us, and she lives in 320 00:16:46,822 --> 00:16:50,822 Speaker 3: LA and she's out here with her son and her baby. 321 00:16:50,942 --> 00:16:53,462 Speaker 3: She said, three women in her mother's group who've just 322 00:16:53,502 --> 00:16:55,502 Speaker 3: had new babies, they've all lost their homes. 323 00:16:56,142 --> 00:16:56,902 Speaker 1: And I keep. 324 00:16:56,782 --> 00:17:01,182 Speaker 3: Thinking about what happens when literally everything's gone where you've 325 00:17:01,222 --> 00:17:02,822 Speaker 3: got nowhere to go back. 326 00:17:02,622 --> 00:17:03,942 Speaker 1: To, Like, literally, what do you do? 327 00:17:03,982 --> 00:17:07,061 Speaker 3: You've got no clothes, you've got no documents, your children 328 00:17:07,142 --> 00:17:09,782 Speaker 3: have nothing. You might be ensured, you might be not. 329 00:17:09,821 --> 00:17:11,982 Speaker 3: But even if you are insured, even if you're wealthy, 330 00:17:12,782 --> 00:17:15,742 Speaker 3: literally what do you do. You don't have a toothbrush, 331 00:17:15,861 --> 00:17:19,141 Speaker 3: you don't have a face cream, you don't have your 332 00:17:19,141 --> 00:17:22,741 Speaker 3: birth control, like your medication, you script, like all of 333 00:17:22,782 --> 00:17:27,381 Speaker 3: those things. Where do you even begin? And it feels 334 00:17:27,381 --> 00:17:30,941 Speaker 3: like there's just no space for that. Mandy Moore, the 335 00:17:30,982 --> 00:17:34,502 Speaker 3: actress who's married to a guy in a band, her 336 00:17:34,542 --> 00:17:37,101 Speaker 3: house burnt down, her brother in law and sister in 337 00:17:37,182 --> 00:17:39,821 Speaker 3: law who lived next door. Their house burnt down too, 338 00:17:40,661 --> 00:17:43,741 Speaker 3: and they'reabout to have a baby. And she posted a 339 00:17:43,982 --> 00:17:48,182 Speaker 3: go fund me for them that someone had made and 340 00:17:48,262 --> 00:17:51,821 Speaker 3: got slammed for you've got all these millions of dollars, 341 00:17:51,861 --> 00:17:53,901 Speaker 3: why don't you just buy them a new house. 342 00:17:54,061 --> 00:17:55,821 Speaker 4: I'm sure she's what she can. 343 00:17:55,982 --> 00:17:58,222 Speaker 3: She did, and she rightly pushed back, and she actually said, 344 00:17:58,262 --> 00:18:01,502 Speaker 3: fuck off. You can't just google what you think someone 345 00:18:01,581 --> 00:18:04,461 Speaker 3: is worth. Believe that, and then, of course we are helping, 346 00:18:04,502 --> 00:18:06,901 Speaker 3: but I'm sharing a go fund me and you have 347 00:18:07,061 --> 00:18:11,701 Speaker 3: no idea. Everybody has lost everything. And when people are 348 00:18:11,702 --> 00:18:15,182 Speaker 3: looking at what they can do. I saw Jean Smart 349 00:18:15,222 --> 00:18:17,581 Speaker 3: just one of Golden Globe for her work on hacks. 350 00:18:18,182 --> 00:18:21,501 Speaker 3: She posted on Instagram saying, I hope that we are 351 00:18:21,542 --> 00:18:23,701 Speaker 3: going to cancel all the awards shows that are coming up, 352 00:18:23,742 --> 00:18:25,982 Speaker 3: and there are so many, from the Grammys to the SAgs, 353 00:18:26,022 --> 00:18:27,381 Speaker 3: to the Oscars of course. 354 00:18:27,542 --> 00:18:28,262 Speaker 1: And many more. 355 00:18:28,621 --> 00:18:30,702 Speaker 3: I hope all of them will be canceled and all 356 00:18:30,742 --> 00:18:33,742 Speaker 3: that money will go to fire relief and supporting the victims. 357 00:18:34,742 --> 00:18:37,221 Speaker 3: Now people feel very conflicted about that, as they should. 358 00:18:37,222 --> 00:18:40,661 Speaker 3: In one hand, it seems obscene to be let's go 359 00:18:40,702 --> 00:18:43,581 Speaker 3: and put on one hundred thousand dollar dress and wear 360 00:18:43,621 --> 00:18:45,861 Speaker 3: diamonds and walk on a red carpet and talk about 361 00:18:45,901 --> 00:18:49,542 Speaker 3: who did our hair while people literally sitting in rubble. 362 00:18:49,742 --> 00:18:52,261 Speaker 3: But on the other hand, it is a work in 363 00:18:52,302 --> 00:18:54,502 Speaker 3: town la and it's not just the people on the 364 00:18:54,542 --> 00:18:57,421 Speaker 3: red carpet. It is the stylus, the cater is the 365 00:18:57,462 --> 00:19:01,542 Speaker 3: people who supply everything the way stuff. So if you 366 00:19:01,661 --> 00:19:05,662 Speaker 3: do cancel all of that, you're crippling those communities even more. 367 00:19:05,782 --> 00:19:08,462 Speaker 2: As you say, Jesse, compassion has no limits. I feel 368 00:19:08,542 --> 00:19:10,821 Speaker 2: terrible for anybody. There is no doubt that if you 369 00:19:10,942 --> 00:19:13,101 Speaker 2: have the means to get out of the fire zone, 370 00:19:13,222 --> 00:19:15,901 Speaker 2: be staying somewhere else, and you know you've got people 371 00:19:15,942 --> 00:19:18,101 Speaker 2: with you, and you at the Beverly Hilton or whatever, 372 00:19:18,262 --> 00:19:20,901 Speaker 2: you're doing better than lots of people who can't do that. Right, 373 00:19:20,901 --> 00:19:24,502 Speaker 2: There's no question that there are degrees of devastation. But 374 00:19:24,702 --> 00:19:27,661 Speaker 2: the thing is, as you've said, me about what natural 375 00:19:27,661 --> 00:19:30,221 Speaker 2: disasters do. And plenty of people in Australia know a 376 00:19:30,222 --> 00:19:32,141 Speaker 2: lot about this. If you've been in the flood zones 377 00:19:32,141 --> 00:19:34,742 Speaker 2: in Lismore, if you were in the burnt out towns 378 00:19:34,742 --> 00:19:37,181 Speaker 2: in southern New South Wales, in those years. You know 379 00:19:37,381 --> 00:19:40,061 Speaker 2: the amount that the emergency services have to do to 380 00:19:40,141 --> 00:19:42,941 Speaker 2: help you when you have literally lost everything. That's a 381 00:19:42,982 --> 00:19:45,622 Speaker 2: massive operation that costs a lot of money too. And 382 00:19:45,661 --> 00:19:47,381 Speaker 2: one of the things is, I mean, I think we 383 00:19:47,422 --> 00:19:50,621 Speaker 2: all remember very well that after those fires when Scomo 384 00:19:50,782 --> 00:19:53,821 Speaker 2: Scott Morrison, the Prime Minster of the time, probably the 385 00:19:53,901 --> 00:19:56,581 Speaker 2: thing that put the biggest nail in his political coffin 386 00:19:56,661 --> 00:19:58,982 Speaker 2: was that I don't hold a hosemte comment that he 387 00:19:59,022 --> 00:20:02,262 Speaker 2: made after that when he was on holiday when that happened. 388 00:20:02,302 --> 00:20:05,101 Speaker 2: And a similar thing has happened here where the mayor 389 00:20:05,141 --> 00:20:07,102 Speaker 2: of California she wasn't on holiday, but she was on 390 00:20:07,302 --> 00:20:11,141 Speaker 2: a trip overseas when this happened. And everybody needs somewhere 391 00:20:11,141 --> 00:20:13,462 Speaker 2: to put their anger, as you've said, Mia, and some 392 00:20:13,542 --> 00:20:16,302 Speaker 2: of those places are valid because it is true that 393 00:20:16,341 --> 00:20:18,862 Speaker 2: now we do live in a time of climate catastrophe, 394 00:20:18,861 --> 00:20:21,501 Speaker 2: whether all sides of politics want to admit it or not. 395 00:20:22,182 --> 00:20:24,262 Speaker 2: We've got to think much harder about where people live, 396 00:20:24,262 --> 00:20:27,221 Speaker 2: where people rebuild, what you do in these circumstances. But 397 00:20:27,262 --> 00:20:29,381 Speaker 2: Scomo said I don't hold a hose, and then he 398 00:20:29,462 --> 00:20:31,502 Speaker 2: went and turned up at some of these places and 399 00:20:31,542 --> 00:20:34,782 Speaker 2: people refused to shake his hand. They were furious with him, 400 00:20:35,222 --> 00:20:39,501 Speaker 2: because when you have lost everything, you need to feel 401 00:20:39,542 --> 00:20:42,581 Speaker 2: like everybody thinks that that is the most important and 402 00:20:42,661 --> 00:20:44,622 Speaker 2: terrible disaster as it is. 403 00:20:44,942 --> 00:20:48,022 Speaker 3: I'm also reminded that we live in the era where 404 00:20:48,061 --> 00:20:51,262 Speaker 3: everybody has to have a hot take. It's like, quick, 405 00:20:51,262 --> 00:20:53,782 Speaker 3: what's your opinion, what's your hot take on this situation? 406 00:20:54,182 --> 00:20:57,581 Speaker 4: Or I see everything through the prism of ex world events, 407 00:20:58,022 --> 00:21:00,701 Speaker 4: which a world event needs to be seen on its 408 00:21:00,742 --> 00:21:01,302 Speaker 4: own terms. 409 00:21:01,341 --> 00:21:03,621 Speaker 2: I think, yeah, the other thing is and this is 410 00:21:03,661 --> 00:21:06,022 Speaker 2: not true of course for all of the celebrities and 411 00:21:06,022 --> 00:21:08,262 Speaker 2: the wealthy people in those neighborhoods. But one of the 412 00:21:08,302 --> 00:21:11,821 Speaker 2: other things that is increasing the anger are the stories 413 00:21:11,861 --> 00:21:15,021 Speaker 2: around things like private firefighters. Can you explain that this 414 00:21:15,141 --> 00:21:17,542 Speaker 2: first came up in the last round of well not 415 00:21:17,581 --> 00:21:20,342 Speaker 2: the last round, but another round of fires in twenty nineteen, 416 00:21:20,422 --> 00:21:23,181 Speaker 2: where Kim Kardashian and her then husband Kanye West were 417 00:21:23,222 --> 00:21:26,421 Speaker 2: found to have employed a private team of firefighters to 418 00:21:26,462 --> 00:21:30,341 Speaker 2: protect their home during the blazes. Now, at the time, 419 00:21:30,422 --> 00:21:33,821 Speaker 2: she came out and said, yes, but they also put 420 00:21:33,861 --> 00:21:36,461 Speaker 2: out fires all around us and help my neighbors and whatever. 421 00:21:36,542 --> 00:21:40,982 Speaker 2: But private firefighters are a big thing in wealthy communities 422 00:21:40,982 --> 00:21:44,341 Speaker 2: in fire zones, because if you can afford to pay 423 00:21:44,341 --> 00:21:46,261 Speaker 2: somebody to come and sit outside your house in these 424 00:21:46,302 --> 00:21:50,061 Speaker 2: special white fans I've seen the imagery and fight your fire, 425 00:21:50,742 --> 00:21:52,742 Speaker 2: then you might do that if you are as rich 426 00:21:52,742 --> 00:21:55,782 Speaker 2: as Kim Kardashian is. Oprah Winfrey famously did this in Hawaii. 427 00:21:55,821 --> 00:21:59,381 Speaker 2: She got absolutely smashed for it. The arguments are obviously 428 00:21:59,462 --> 00:22:03,182 Speaker 2: that that takes resources away from the public resource and 429 00:22:03,222 --> 00:22:05,782 Speaker 2: that you know, we're playing a game of whose house 430 00:22:05,861 --> 00:22:08,782 Speaker 2: is worth saving who isn't. So I understand some of 431 00:22:08,821 --> 00:22:11,502 Speaker 2: that frustration, and there is no question that the people 432 00:22:11,502 --> 00:22:14,181 Speaker 2: who are always worst off in any natural disaster are 433 00:22:14,222 --> 00:22:17,422 Speaker 2: the most vulnerable people. But it does just seem very 434 00:22:17,502 --> 00:22:22,021 Speaker 2: ungenerous to be in any way sneery or smug about 435 00:22:22,022 --> 00:22:24,662 Speaker 2: seeing what we term privileged people suffering. 436 00:22:24,982 --> 00:22:28,302 Speaker 3: In a moment slipslop and slap downs at the beach, 437 00:22:28,661 --> 00:22:32,341 Speaker 3: we're dusting off the sand from Summer's beach Kabana drama 438 00:22:32,581 --> 00:22:33,582 Speaker 3: after the break. 439 00:22:37,381 --> 00:22:40,661 Speaker 7: Well, that's not on one of the great things about Australia. 440 00:22:40,742 --> 00:22:43,742 Speaker 7: Unlike some parts of the world. You go and you've 441 00:22:43,742 --> 00:22:46,861 Speaker 7: got to pay to go to the beach. Here, everyone 442 00:22:46,901 --> 00:22:51,582 Speaker 7: owns the beach everyone. It's a place where every Australian 443 00:22:51,782 --> 00:22:56,341 Speaker 7: is equal, and that's a breach of that principle really, 444 00:22:56,502 --> 00:23:00,022 Speaker 7: to think that you can reserve a little spot as 445 00:23:00,341 --> 00:23:00,942 Speaker 7: just yours. 446 00:23:01,141 --> 00:23:03,101 Speaker 3: If you had one eye on the news over summer, 447 00:23:03,302 --> 00:23:05,782 Speaker 3: you might have been a little bit confused to see 448 00:23:06,302 --> 00:23:10,381 Speaker 3: our PM Anthony Arbernezi wade into a war that broke 449 00:23:10,422 --> 00:23:13,982 Speaker 3: out over beach cabanas. It was a pretty compelling piece 450 00:23:14,022 --> 00:23:18,981 Speaker 3: of summer drama when Australian beaches became this battleground for 451 00:23:19,061 --> 00:23:22,982 Speaker 3: what locals are calling cabanagate, which is this turf war 452 00:23:23,101 --> 00:23:28,782 Speaker 3: over beach real estate. That caught everybody's attention, including our 453 00:23:29,022 --> 00:23:32,621 Speaker 3: beloved m Vernon, who wrote about it for Mamma Maya. 454 00:23:32,782 --> 00:23:36,702 Speaker 3: She said, the sound of calming waves she was talking 455 00:23:36,702 --> 00:23:39,542 Speaker 3: about being at the beach has been replaced by the loud, 456 00:23:39,581 --> 00:23:43,101 Speaker 3: slapping noise of fabric against wind. I could hear a 457 00:23:43,141 --> 00:23:45,822 Speaker 3: man yelling, oh, we need more sound for the weights. 458 00:23:46,222 --> 00:23:48,302 Speaker 3: I could also hear a kid yelling can I help. 459 00:23:48,621 --> 00:23:51,022 Speaker 3: I could hear a girl around my age again yelling, 460 00:23:51,141 --> 00:23:54,142 Speaker 3: I reckon, we'll fit into this spot. Annoyed and curious, 461 00:23:54,182 --> 00:23:56,141 Speaker 3: I opened my eyes to see what this sudden commotion 462 00:23:56,262 --> 00:23:58,621 Speaker 3: was about. And that was my first experience with a gang, 463 00:23:58,782 --> 00:24:02,181 Speaker 3: a gang of cabanas. She talks about how the cabana 464 00:24:02,262 --> 00:24:04,861 Speaker 3: gang come in herds of two to ten people. They're 465 00:24:04,901 --> 00:24:08,462 Speaker 3: lined up side by side, not just shielding them from 466 00:24:08,462 --> 00:24:11,661 Speaker 3: the sun, but also building the view from everybody else. 467 00:24:12,462 --> 00:24:16,302 Speaker 3: There's this big drama about it, which I hadn't realized 468 00:24:16,381 --> 00:24:17,901 Speaker 3: was happening. I don't spend a lot of time on 469 00:24:17,942 --> 00:24:20,421 Speaker 3: the beach. I don't mind being near the beach going 470 00:24:20,581 --> 00:24:23,022 Speaker 3: like literally, I walk across the sand, jump in the water, 471 00:24:23,462 --> 00:24:26,741 Speaker 3: and then leave. I don't linger on the beach. But 472 00:24:26,821 --> 00:24:29,701 Speaker 3: I did notice these little mini cities were at the 473 00:24:29,702 --> 00:24:32,461 Speaker 3: beach for a little while. Jesse and I up the 474 00:24:32,502 --> 00:24:35,901 Speaker 3: north coast of New South Wales, and it was like 475 00:24:36,341 --> 00:24:38,782 Speaker 3: a mini city of all these stripe cabarnets. 476 00:24:39,141 --> 00:24:41,702 Speaker 4: I have such strong feelings about this. I have always 477 00:24:41,742 --> 00:24:47,942 Speaker 4: sensed that there is hear me out something slightly classiest 478 00:24:48,462 --> 00:24:53,022 Speaker 4: about this discussion. So I grew up in the outer 479 00:24:53,101 --> 00:24:54,941 Speaker 4: suburbs of Sydney. Right, if I were going to the 480 00:24:54,942 --> 00:24:58,262 Speaker 4: beach as a kid, yeah, it was taking us an 481 00:24:58,302 --> 00:25:01,261 Speaker 4: hour at least, right, especially on a hot summer's day. 482 00:25:01,262 --> 00:25:02,941 Speaker 4: It's taking you a really long time. This can to 483 00:25:02,982 --> 00:25:04,861 Speaker 4: take you an hour to get to the beach. Yeah, 484 00:25:05,061 --> 00:25:07,861 Speaker 4: you do something called a beach day. I've had this 485 00:25:07,942 --> 00:25:10,462 Speaker 4: discussion with my husband before because he grew up close 486 00:25:10,502 --> 00:25:12,621 Speaker 4: to the beach and he doesn't have a concept of 487 00:25:12,621 --> 00:25:15,182 Speaker 4: a beach day for him. You go to the beach, 488 00:25:15,222 --> 00:25:17,061 Speaker 4: you duck in, and you get out because the beach 489 00:25:17,101 --> 00:25:19,982 Speaker 4: has always been something close to you. If you're someone 490 00:25:20,061 --> 00:25:21,381 Speaker 4: who is not close to a beach, you have a 491 00:25:21,422 --> 00:25:25,341 Speaker 4: beach day. And a beach day requires you to bring 492 00:25:25,542 --> 00:25:28,981 Speaker 4: an eski with food in it. Yeah, all of your things, 493 00:25:29,502 --> 00:25:31,502 Speaker 4: save up for parking because that's going to cost you 494 00:25:31,621 --> 00:25:35,902 Speaker 4: three hundred bucks. And you need shade. You need shade 495 00:25:35,982 --> 00:25:38,821 Speaker 4: because you are going to sit on a beach, probably 496 00:25:38,901 --> 00:25:42,542 Speaker 4: with kids, for a really long time. And I love 497 00:25:42,581 --> 00:25:44,502 Speaker 4: Australian beach so I think they're the best beaches in 498 00:25:44,502 --> 00:25:46,902 Speaker 4: the world. Don't have a lot of shade. A lot 499 00:25:46,942 --> 00:25:49,461 Speaker 4: of them really really don't. You have lots of sand 500 00:25:49,542 --> 00:25:50,382 Speaker 4: and no shade. 501 00:25:50,422 --> 00:25:52,462 Speaker 3: But what I don't understand is why this is new, 502 00:25:52,502 --> 00:25:55,302 Speaker 3: because I remember growing up in the seventies and eighties 503 00:25:55,341 --> 00:25:57,661 Speaker 3: we had igloos, so they were like these little dome 504 00:25:57,782 --> 00:25:59,742 Speaker 3: things new because it were the same. 505 00:25:59,821 --> 00:26:01,741 Speaker 2: Because if you look at these cities, they're all the 506 00:26:01,782 --> 00:26:04,982 Speaker 2: same thing. It's one brand of cabana. They are not cheap. 507 00:26:05,141 --> 00:26:07,342 Speaker 2: So although I agree with you about the classest thing 508 00:26:07,381 --> 00:26:10,222 Speaker 2: there about proximity to the beach Jesse, they're also a 509 00:26:10,222 --> 00:26:12,381 Speaker 2: bit of a state of symbol because they're very lovely 510 00:26:12,462 --> 00:26:14,181 Speaker 2: to look at their color. 511 00:26:14,782 --> 00:26:16,941 Speaker 1: They're black, a few hundred bucks. 512 00:26:17,061 --> 00:26:19,661 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're all cool cabana. They were designed by a 513 00:26:19,702 --> 00:26:21,861 Speaker 2: guy in the Sunshine Coast who is now richer than 514 00:26:22,022 --> 00:26:23,502 Speaker 2: God because. 515 00:26:23,262 --> 00:26:24,381 Speaker 4: They needed to invest in it. 516 00:26:24,422 --> 00:26:26,621 Speaker 2: They are one hundred percent of state of symbol. 517 00:26:27,341 --> 00:26:30,381 Speaker 3: Safer than umbrellas because that we also used to have umbrellas, right, 518 00:26:30,422 --> 00:26:33,262 Speaker 3: and then they would impale people when the wind. 519 00:26:33,061 --> 00:26:35,542 Speaker 4: Gets Yes, that's safer than umbrellas. And as a thirty 520 00:26:35,581 --> 00:26:39,302 Speaker 4: four year old who has two sizeable scars from skin cancer, 521 00:26:39,702 --> 00:26:41,661 Speaker 4: I don't care what you're doing if you're under some 522 00:26:41,702 --> 00:26:43,941 Speaker 4: sort of shade, and then these families often you know 523 00:26:43,982 --> 00:26:46,981 Speaker 4: you've got rashes, you've got the sunnies, you've got sunscreen on. 524 00:26:47,422 --> 00:26:50,341 Speaker 4: That's how Australians need to be going to the peach. 525 00:26:50,702 --> 00:26:54,701 Speaker 2: I agree with that, but I also instinctively agree with 526 00:26:54,782 --> 00:26:58,141 Speaker 2: Albo right, because the thing about the cabana is they're big, 527 00:26:58,302 --> 00:27:01,181 Speaker 2: much bigger than an umbrella. The way that shade works 528 00:27:01,381 --> 00:27:03,581 Speaker 2: is you put it up. The shade is not directly 529 00:27:03,661 --> 00:27:06,061 Speaker 2: under your cabana. Very often the shade is behind it, 530 00:27:06,182 --> 00:27:07,622 Speaker 2: or to the left or the right, depend on where 531 00:27:07,621 --> 00:27:10,381 Speaker 2: the sod is. So you have now bought your a 532 00:27:10,502 --> 00:27:12,542 Speaker 2: three meter square part of the beach and all the 533 00:27:12,581 --> 00:27:15,101 Speaker 2: surrounding shade because you own that shit, because you turned 534 00:27:15,141 --> 00:27:18,421 Speaker 2: up and pitched your tent. So you are pushing everybody 535 00:27:18,422 --> 00:27:21,061 Speaker 2: else out of your zone. And although I agree with 536 00:27:21,101 --> 00:27:23,101 Speaker 2: you Jesse, you're a one hundred percent right about the 537 00:27:23,141 --> 00:27:25,342 Speaker 2: fact that if you live further from the beach, it's 538 00:27:25,381 --> 00:27:28,542 Speaker 2: a mission to get there. And therefore the great Australian 539 00:27:28,621 --> 00:27:31,341 Speaker 2: dream of being able to just grab your towel, a book, 540 00:27:31,542 --> 00:27:34,302 Speaker 2: your sonny's, some sunscreen and walking to the beach or 541 00:27:34,381 --> 00:27:36,221 Speaker 2: jumping on a bus and going to the beach is 542 00:27:36,341 --> 00:27:40,742 Speaker 2: kind of dependent on distance. We are making every outing 543 00:27:41,022 --> 00:27:43,861 Speaker 2: and everything we do so high maintenance. Now that you 544 00:27:43,942 --> 00:27:46,262 Speaker 2: have to have a cabana and the eski with three 545 00:27:46,262 --> 00:27:50,182 Speaker 2: frozen water bottles and the sandproof beach towels and inflatables 546 00:27:50,182 --> 00:27:53,742 Speaker 2: for the kids and beach cricket, and it's like everything 547 00:27:53,782 --> 00:27:56,101 Speaker 2: doesn't have to be such a big deal. And also 548 00:27:56,182 --> 00:27:57,941 Speaker 2: you don't get to own that bit of the beach. 549 00:27:58,141 --> 00:28:00,341 Speaker 2: It causes tension every time. 550 00:28:00,222 --> 00:28:02,421 Speaker 4: I reckon that we don't know how to share public 551 00:28:02,462 --> 00:28:03,262 Speaker 4: spaces anymore. 552 00:28:03,341 --> 00:28:05,381 Speaker 2: Well we do. What you do is you don't steal 553 00:28:05,462 --> 00:28:07,462 Speaker 2: shade from the person sitting next to. 554 00:28:07,661 --> 00:28:10,941 Speaker 4: Even steal shade, steal mean some of the beach. You 555 00:28:10,982 --> 00:28:12,061 Speaker 4: put up a cabana. 556 00:28:12,141 --> 00:28:13,621 Speaker 2: Do you feel if you put your cabana up and 557 00:28:13,661 --> 00:28:15,501 Speaker 2: someone you don't know comes and sits under it, you 558 00:28:15,502 --> 00:28:17,222 Speaker 2: would not like that a second. 559 00:28:17,302 --> 00:28:19,341 Speaker 4: I'm putting a picnic rug down on a pack and 560 00:28:19,381 --> 00:28:20,381 Speaker 4: someone comes and sits on. 561 00:28:21,381 --> 00:28:24,182 Speaker 2: But beach is two. It's like taking up six. 562 00:28:25,222 --> 00:28:27,501 Speaker 4: This is the thing, even like I see images of Bondai, 563 00:28:27,502 --> 00:28:30,901 Speaker 4: a woman in the North Coast Australian beaches very big, 564 00:28:31,422 --> 00:28:34,422 Speaker 4: very big. I was at one over the break where 565 00:28:34,422 --> 00:28:36,142 Speaker 4: I looked and I went, oh, there's no more room 566 00:28:36,182 --> 00:28:39,622 Speaker 4: for a cabana. There really isn't. But that's how public 567 00:28:39,661 --> 00:28:44,022 Speaker 4: space means. That strangers annoy you. That's what going outside. 568 00:28:43,582 --> 00:28:46,822 Speaker 2: Of your home is your beach cabana. That's meaning I 569 00:28:46,862 --> 00:28:47,662 Speaker 2: can't sit there. 570 00:28:47,862 --> 00:28:51,662 Speaker 4: You can sit there to my right, to my legs, because. 571 00:28:51,222 --> 00:28:54,822 Speaker 2: I'll get there earlier of them. So although I totally 572 00:28:54,822 --> 00:28:56,261 Speaker 2: get it right, I've seen the fight in the out 573 00:28:56,302 --> 00:28:58,981 Speaker 2: louders group. I'm someone with children. Loads of my friends 574 00:28:58,982 --> 00:29:01,102 Speaker 2: have these. We go to the beach and we put 575 00:29:01,102 --> 00:29:03,661 Speaker 2: them up and the kids. I get it, But do 576 00:29:03,742 --> 00:29:06,302 Speaker 2: I like them? No? I don't because I don't want 577 00:29:06,302 --> 00:29:08,142 Speaker 2: to go to a beach and just see a whole 578 00:29:08,142 --> 00:29:09,421 Speaker 2: load of basically building. 579 00:29:09,582 --> 00:29:10,582 Speaker 1: What about skin cancer? 580 00:29:10,702 --> 00:29:12,742 Speaker 2: Go sit in the shed, or don't spend on the 581 00:29:12,782 --> 00:29:14,981 Speaker 2: beech shade at the beach. Go and find a tree, 582 00:29:15,102 --> 00:29:17,062 Speaker 2: sit under a tree, or don't spend the whole day 583 00:29:17,062 --> 00:29:17,462 Speaker 2: at the beach. 584 00:29:17,542 --> 00:29:19,582 Speaker 4: I have found this. I'd look cover up t shirt 585 00:29:19,702 --> 00:29:22,582 Speaker 4: since I've had a baby as well, and you need 586 00:29:22,622 --> 00:29:25,222 Speaker 4: a different level because you're so conscious when it's a baby. 587 00:29:25,702 --> 00:29:27,862 Speaker 4: I have not been able to find any shade on 588 00:29:27,902 --> 00:29:29,941 Speaker 4: a beach pretty much. I've always had to bring like 589 00:29:29,982 --> 00:29:31,782 Speaker 4: even if it's a I don't have one because I 590 00:29:31,822 --> 00:29:33,822 Speaker 4: wouldn't know how to put it up. But I've got 591 00:29:33,822 --> 00:29:35,742 Speaker 4: like a little thing that I sometimes use with her. 592 00:29:36,102 --> 00:29:38,582 Speaker 4: I actually reckon that a lot of this, and I 593 00:29:38,622 --> 00:29:40,822 Speaker 4: think this was in how you're introducing it. Maya. You 594 00:29:40,862 --> 00:29:43,702 Speaker 4: said something about the word locals. I think in Australia 595 00:29:43,742 --> 00:29:48,262 Speaker 4: there is this tension between my beach my local. I 596 00:29:48,302 --> 00:29:50,702 Speaker 4: hate it when tourists. I hear it in Bondi, where 597 00:29:50,702 --> 00:29:52,981 Speaker 4: I like the time, and people hate the idea that 598 00:29:53,022 --> 00:29:55,582 Speaker 4: people from that suburb is coming over to my place 599 00:29:55,622 --> 00:29:56,702 Speaker 4: with their ten This is. 600 00:29:57,182 --> 00:29:59,181 Speaker 2: Sorry, but there are plenty of Bondai people who have 601 00:29:59,262 --> 00:30:02,862 Speaker 2: cabanas like they are quite a cool chee chee thing 602 00:30:02,942 --> 00:30:06,142 Speaker 2: to have that posh people have, so I don't Although 603 00:30:06,182 --> 00:30:08,421 Speaker 2: I agree with you to a point, I also think 604 00:30:08,822 --> 00:30:12,342 Speaker 2: that it's not that simple. My question is, as the 605 00:30:12,382 --> 00:30:14,622 Speaker 2: sun moves, because that's how the world works, and your 606 00:30:14,661 --> 00:30:18,062 Speaker 2: shade moves around, do I have to keep moving so 607 00:30:18,062 --> 00:30:19,741 Speaker 2: that I don't steal your shade? 608 00:30:19,862 --> 00:30:22,302 Speaker 3: Yeah? I don't understand how that works either. But what 609 00:30:22,342 --> 00:30:25,582 Speaker 3: it is like is when I lived in Italy, my 610 00:30:25,661 --> 00:30:28,542 Speaker 3: boyfriend at the time was so excited to take me 611 00:30:28,582 --> 00:30:31,942 Speaker 3: to the beach one day and we drove after we'd 612 00:30:31,982 --> 00:30:34,502 Speaker 3: been clubbing, and we slept in the car and we 613 00:30:34,582 --> 00:30:36,741 Speaker 3: woke up in the morning and it was just like, 614 00:30:36,942 --> 00:30:39,302 Speaker 3: you have to pay first of all, and it's just 615 00:30:39,422 --> 00:30:42,302 Speaker 3: all these structures that you rent and beach chairs and 616 00:30:42,782 --> 00:30:45,501 Speaker 3: to this sad little trickle of gray water. And I 617 00:30:45,542 --> 00:30:47,142 Speaker 3: was like, guys, come on, this is not a beach. 618 00:30:47,182 --> 00:30:49,382 Speaker 2: This is pathetic. It's true, and I think that that's 619 00:30:49,382 --> 00:30:50,981 Speaker 2: one of the things that people are reacting to. 620 00:30:51,262 --> 00:30:52,181 Speaker 1: Isn't it about bags? 621 00:30:52,222 --> 00:30:56,262 Speaker 2: Rightly or wrongly, people are reacting to you are de 622 00:30:56,422 --> 00:30:57,941 Speaker 2: australianizing the beach. 623 00:30:58,022 --> 00:31:00,862 Speaker 4: As long as a beach is free, it is Australian. 624 00:31:01,142 --> 00:31:04,582 Speaker 3: My understanding of what Albow was saying is that what 625 00:31:04,622 --> 00:31:06,661 Speaker 3: people are really objecting to are people who go and 626 00:31:06,742 --> 00:31:09,382 Speaker 3: bags a bit of sand. Like they go and they 627 00:31:10,142 --> 00:31:11,181 Speaker 3: squat and they. 628 00:31:11,062 --> 00:31:14,262 Speaker 2: Put it up, but all the same surrounding it. 629 00:31:14,302 --> 00:31:15,782 Speaker 4: But what I will say about that is that they 630 00:31:15,782 --> 00:31:17,702 Speaker 4: put their thing down and maybe they go and dip 631 00:31:17,742 --> 00:31:20,182 Speaker 4: into the water. But people aren't putting up their kabana 632 00:31:20,302 --> 00:31:23,302 Speaker 4: and then going on the bus home like people are 633 00:31:23,702 --> 00:31:26,662 Speaker 4: around the beach. They're also allowed to go into the water. 634 00:31:26,702 --> 00:31:28,382 Speaker 4: It's not like you can't leave your capara. 635 00:31:28,542 --> 00:31:31,502 Speaker 2: The thing is one more thing. See how hated. This 636 00:31:31,622 --> 00:31:34,142 Speaker 2: is the reason people are upset is because it's changed. 637 00:31:34,182 --> 00:31:36,181 Speaker 2: You know, how you were saying, is it different. It 638 00:31:36,342 --> 00:31:39,542 Speaker 2: is different because it's like looks different if you consistently 639 00:31:39,582 --> 00:31:40,822 Speaker 2: go to the beach, whether it's for a day or 640 00:31:40,862 --> 00:31:42,981 Speaker 2: for a dip. In the last three years, this is 641 00:31:43,022 --> 00:31:45,781 Speaker 2: a new thing, and I think that we're like what 642 00:31:46,102 --> 00:31:48,622 Speaker 2: I didn't think that's what we did. I think that's 643 00:31:48,661 --> 00:31:49,782 Speaker 2: what people are reacting to. 644 00:31:50,342 --> 00:31:53,262 Speaker 4: In case you missed it, actress and model Brookshields was 645 00:31:53,302 --> 00:31:57,781 Speaker 4: given a vaginal medical procedure without her consent. In her 646 00:31:57,902 --> 00:32:01,342 Speaker 4: upcoming memoir called Brookshields is Not Allowed to get old 647 00:32:01,462 --> 00:32:04,142 Speaker 4: thoughts on aging as a woman, the fifty nine year 648 00:32:04,182 --> 00:32:08,142 Speaker 4: old shared a story about consulting a gynecologist because she'd 649 00:32:08,182 --> 00:32:11,862 Speaker 4: been having ongoing dis comfort with her labia since her 650 00:32:11,862 --> 00:32:14,501 Speaker 4: teenage years, which included bleeding and chafing. 651 00:32:14,822 --> 00:32:17,422 Speaker 1: She wanted a reduction reduction. 652 00:32:17,182 --> 00:32:21,342 Speaker 4: Yes, so her doctor recommended that surgery. She then underwent 653 00:32:21,342 --> 00:32:25,302 Speaker 4: that surgery, but when she returned for her post operative checkup, 654 00:32:25,342 --> 00:32:28,502 Speaker 4: her male surgeon told her very proudly that he'd performed 655 00:32:28,502 --> 00:32:34,022 Speaker 4: an additional procedure without her knowledge, called vaginal rejuvenation, also 656 00:32:34,102 --> 00:32:39,062 Speaker 4: known as vagina plasty, which tightens the vagina. She felt 657 00:32:39,062 --> 00:32:41,181 Speaker 4: she couldn't sue the doctor because it would have been 658 00:32:41,222 --> 00:32:44,982 Speaker 4: on the front page of every newspaper. Wowowow why would 659 00:32:45,022 --> 00:32:46,941 Speaker 4: the assumption be that a woman would want this? 660 00:32:47,302 --> 00:32:49,742 Speaker 3: She said she felt really ashamed and she didn't want 661 00:32:49,782 --> 00:32:52,982 Speaker 3: to tell even her husband about it. 662 00:32:53,302 --> 00:32:55,342 Speaker 1: Fun fact, you might remember. 663 00:32:55,022 --> 00:32:57,421 Speaker 3: That Brookshield's one of the things she first became famous 664 00:32:57,462 --> 00:32:59,222 Speaker 3: for after Blue Lagoon, was an ad she did with 665 00:32:59,302 --> 00:33:01,661 Speaker 3: cumclin jeans and it was her sort of with her 666 00:33:01,742 --> 00:33:04,062 Speaker 3: legs spread in a pair of jeans, and the line 667 00:33:04,222 --> 00:33:06,462 Speaker 3: was what comes between me and my calvins? 668 00:33:06,942 --> 00:33:09,701 Speaker 1: Nothing? And I just wanted to point out that you 669 00:33:09,702 --> 00:33:10,782 Speaker 1: should always wear. 670 00:33:10,661 --> 00:33:14,222 Speaker 3: Underparents if you're regardless of the length of your LaBier 671 00:33:14,422 --> 00:33:16,062 Speaker 3: when you were wearing Taigian. 672 00:33:15,782 --> 00:33:17,022 Speaker 4: Yeah, because it would shafe out. 673 00:33:17,382 --> 00:33:20,461 Speaker 2: Yeah, that seems irrelevant. But I don't even understand. Is 674 00:33:20,502 --> 00:33:23,062 Speaker 2: this Like we've run stories on Mama Maya before of 675 00:33:23,222 --> 00:33:27,502 Speaker 2: people saying, after they've given birth, they've torn. Yeah, and 676 00:33:27,502 --> 00:33:30,701 Speaker 2: they've torn that the doctor said, I've given you what 677 00:33:30,742 --> 00:33:34,102 Speaker 2: we call husband's stitch. We've run stories on a Mare 678 00:33:34,142 --> 00:33:34,421 Speaker 2: about that. 679 00:33:34,462 --> 00:33:36,302 Speaker 1: Do you want an extra stitch for the husband? 680 00:33:36,661 --> 00:33:36,781 Speaker 3: Like? 681 00:33:36,942 --> 00:33:40,302 Speaker 2: Which is this horrible idea of exactly this? But of 682 00:33:40,342 --> 00:33:43,102 Speaker 2: course you would want me to tighten that thing up. 683 00:33:43,342 --> 00:33:46,501 Speaker 2: So that's what happened to Brookshields without her asking. That 684 00:33:46,661 --> 00:33:49,262 Speaker 2: is shocking. Do you think that he thought, oh, she's 685 00:33:49,262 --> 00:33:53,062 Speaker 2: getting labiaplasti, So she obviously is concerned about the region, like. 686 00:33:53,262 --> 00:33:58,062 Speaker 3: Because some women get labiaplasty for aesthetic reasons because they 687 00:33:58,222 --> 00:34:02,462 Speaker 3: just don't visually like the way it looks. Because, for example, 688 00:34:03,142 --> 00:34:06,262 Speaker 3: most vaginas that women see in labias that volvers that 689 00:34:06,302 --> 00:34:10,382 Speaker 3: women see are in either pawn or you know, we 690 00:34:10,422 --> 00:34:12,702 Speaker 3: don't realize that flaps come in all shapes and sizes. 691 00:34:12,942 --> 00:34:15,742 Speaker 3: Quick plug for Ellie said toix book, she's a volver photographer. 692 00:34:15,822 --> 00:34:18,182 Speaker 3: I interviewed her on No Filter. She has just released 693 00:34:18,181 --> 00:34:20,421 Speaker 3: a coffee table book which is at my house now, 694 00:34:20,661 --> 00:34:23,142 Speaker 3: which I keep making my children look at God. 695 00:34:23,261 --> 00:34:26,982 Speaker 4: It's just of photographs of volvers. They come in so 696 00:34:27,022 --> 00:34:28,422 Speaker 4: many different shapes, so many. 697 00:34:28,261 --> 00:34:30,821 Speaker 3: And that's what someone should have sent Brook. Although no, 698 00:34:30,902 --> 00:34:35,062 Speaker 3: Brook did have actual chafing reasons because of perhaps the genes, 699 00:34:35,302 --> 00:34:35,582 Speaker 3: and he was. 700 00:34:35,542 --> 00:34:37,902 Speaker 2: Sent it to her doctor. But like, it's okay for 701 00:34:37,982 --> 00:34:39,742 Speaker 2: everybody's vagina to be a bit different. 702 00:34:40,062 --> 00:34:42,382 Speaker 1: But then this is this, this is the inside. 703 00:34:42,462 --> 00:34:44,502 Speaker 4: This is the inside, and I think what it really 704 00:34:44,582 --> 00:34:46,981 Speaker 4: is is that the doctor wasn't concerned about what Brook 705 00:34:47,022 --> 00:34:49,741 Speaker 4: wanted and the husband's stitch. You're not concerned about what 706 00:34:49,741 --> 00:34:50,502 Speaker 4: the woman wants. 707 00:34:50,741 --> 00:34:53,622 Speaker 1: It's about how it feels for anyone going in there. Sacually. 708 00:34:53,741 --> 00:34:56,382 Speaker 4: It's the epitome of misogyny and medical misogyny. 709 00:34:56,701 --> 00:34:58,901 Speaker 2: After the break, you knew we were going to go there. 710 00:34:59,022 --> 00:35:02,542 Speaker 2: Megan Mirkale's big news show has been delayed. We're getting 711 00:35:02,582 --> 00:35:04,742 Speaker 2: you up to speed with with Love Megan. 712 00:35:05,422 --> 00:35:08,261 Speaker 3: Every Tuesday and Thursday, we drop new segments of Mama 713 00:35:08,261 --> 00:35:10,941 Speaker 3: and Me Are Out Loud. Just remember me as subscribers 714 00:35:11,261 --> 00:35:12,942 Speaker 3: follow the link in the show notes to get your 715 00:35:13,022 --> 00:35:15,701 Speaker 3: daily dose out Loud and a big thank you to 716 00:35:15,781 --> 00:35:17,622 Speaker 3: everyone who is already subscribed. 717 00:35:26,142 --> 00:35:29,182 Speaker 2: The California fires are a tragedy on an enormous human 718 00:35:29,221 --> 00:35:33,022 Speaker 2: and environmental scale, but they have also robbed us of 719 00:35:33,062 --> 00:35:35,582 Speaker 2: one of the little glimmers of delight. For January twenty 720 00:35:35,661 --> 00:35:40,662 Speaker 2: twenty five, Megan the Duchess of Sussex's long awaited TV show, 721 00:35:40,822 --> 00:35:41,181 Speaker 2: Let's Go. 722 00:35:43,862 --> 00:35:49,342 Speaker 8: I've always loved taking something pretty ordinary and elevating it, 723 00:35:49,502 --> 00:35:52,502 Speaker 8: surprising people with moments that let them know I was 724 00:35:52,542 --> 00:35:55,341 Speaker 8: really thinking of them. 725 00:35:55,542 --> 00:35:58,862 Speaker 4: What this is probably one of the most glamorous moments 726 00:35:58,942 --> 00:36:01,941 Speaker 4: of my life's m I've been. 727 00:36:01,862 --> 00:36:04,381 Speaker 2: Waiting for Megan's jam now for ten months. I don't 728 00:36:04,422 --> 00:36:06,741 Speaker 2: know it's with me wait for jam. That's how long 729 00:36:06,781 --> 00:36:12,262 Speaker 2: it's been since her company, American Riviera Orchard Now came 730 00:36:12,342 --> 00:36:15,102 Speaker 2: on to Instagram and said they were going to make jam. 731 00:36:15,142 --> 00:36:17,701 Speaker 2: They never did, But what happened in the first week 732 00:36:17,701 --> 00:36:21,262 Speaker 2: of twenty twenty five was movement. It was exciting. Meghan 733 00:36:21,462 --> 00:36:25,181 Speaker 2: came back to Instagram. She first of all, sure you 734 00:36:25,221 --> 00:36:26,861 Speaker 2: all saw it. If not, what have you been doing 735 00:36:26,902 --> 00:36:30,142 Speaker 2: with your year so far, just released a black and 736 00:36:30,181 --> 00:36:33,102 Speaker 2: white video of her running onto a beach. There were 737 00:36:33,142 --> 00:36:37,062 Speaker 2: no cabanas there, Jesse, No, that's probably your own and 738 00:36:37,261 --> 00:36:40,582 Speaker 2: riding twenty twenty five in the sund And. 739 00:36:40,582 --> 00:36:45,742 Speaker 3: It was also her own Instagram account. Yeah, Megan, wonder 740 00:36:45,741 --> 00:36:49,062 Speaker 3: how she got that. That's a true crime conversation story. 741 00:36:49,142 --> 00:36:51,301 Speaker 3: I don't know who she how much she had to 742 00:36:51,342 --> 00:36:53,382 Speaker 3: pay to get that handle anyway. 743 00:36:53,102 --> 00:36:57,382 Speaker 2: And then she announced her return to the public kitchen. Finally, 744 00:36:57,502 --> 00:37:02,502 Speaker 2: fucking finally, I thought, here we go. Meghan's back. Her 745 00:37:02,542 --> 00:37:05,142 Speaker 2: Netflix show is happening. We've been hearing about this Netflix 746 00:37:05,181 --> 00:37:07,382 Speaker 2: show for a long time and people said there was 747 00:37:07,382 --> 00:37:09,142 Speaker 2: a film crew, and they said it was going to 748 00:37:09,181 --> 00:37:11,821 Speaker 2: be live, but none of us really believed in its 749 00:37:11,862 --> 00:37:16,022 Speaker 2: existence until Now With Love. Megan was meant to be 750 00:37:16,102 --> 00:37:19,822 Speaker 2: launching on Wednesday this week, dropping eight episodes of Judging 751 00:37:19,862 --> 00:37:24,262 Speaker 2: by the trailer, delightful, kitchen, pawn diaries were cleared, diaries, 752 00:37:24,302 --> 00:37:28,741 Speaker 2: work schedule, We already, we booked the studios, we're convened. 753 00:37:29,741 --> 00:37:31,661 Speaker 2: It's safe to say it looks like this show is 754 00:37:31,661 --> 00:37:35,301 Speaker 2: her making food, picking vegetables and freezing tiny flowers into 755 00:37:35,302 --> 00:37:38,022 Speaker 2: ice cubes with her famous and fabulous friends. 756 00:37:38,781 --> 00:37:40,341 Speaker 1: Now, Mindy Kayling was there. 757 00:37:40,542 --> 00:37:43,542 Speaker 2: She announced today as we're recording this that she is 758 00:37:43,582 --> 00:37:46,022 Speaker 2: going to postpone it. The launch has been postponed to 759 00:37:46,102 --> 00:37:48,542 Speaker 2: March out of respect for the devastation of the fires. 760 00:37:48,622 --> 00:37:49,821 Speaker 1: I'm very relieved about that. 761 00:37:49,982 --> 00:37:52,502 Speaker 2: Well, it would have been a bad look. Oh the 762 00:37:52,502 --> 00:37:55,782 Speaker 2: weight goes on. Mia. What do you make of Meghan's 763 00:37:55,781 --> 00:37:57,181 Speaker 2: actual real life show. 764 00:37:57,261 --> 00:37:59,461 Speaker 3: I'm just so excited to be back and talking about 765 00:37:59,502 --> 00:38:05,622 Speaker 3: it because I think that my overall impression with the 766 00:38:06,261 --> 00:38:09,422 Speaker 3: New Year's Day black and white Instagram video on the 767 00:38:09,582 --> 00:38:11,261 Speaker 3: each and all I could think was how many times 768 00:38:11,342 --> 00:38:13,062 Speaker 3: did you have to do it? To get that right, 769 00:38:13,582 --> 00:38:16,261 Speaker 3: and the perfect blow dry and everything, and then the 770 00:38:16,342 --> 00:38:20,302 Speaker 3: dropping of the trailer and then sadly her dog Guy died. 771 00:38:20,661 --> 00:38:21,942 Speaker 1: Why do I earn the name of a dog? I 772 00:38:22,062 --> 00:38:24,142 Speaker 1: need have to stepupsetting anyway. 773 00:38:24,181 --> 00:38:27,902 Speaker 3: My overall impression is that the esthetic and the vibe 774 00:38:27,982 --> 00:38:34,342 Speaker 3: is very kind of twenty fifteen, twenty sixteen. It's that, 775 00:38:34,622 --> 00:38:38,781 Speaker 3: you know, drawing things in the sand, highly produced, very 776 00:38:38,822 --> 00:38:42,301 Speaker 3: reminiscent in fact, of the Kate's cancer video. 777 00:38:43,302 --> 00:38:46,822 Speaker 4: So I disagree. I think it's reminiscent of a formal 778 00:38:46,862 --> 00:38:50,062 Speaker 4: lifestyle brand called The Tig, which is twelve years old. 779 00:38:50,142 --> 00:38:50,582 Speaker 4: I saw it. 780 00:38:50,701 --> 00:38:51,982 Speaker 1: No, but that was just a blog. 781 00:38:52,022 --> 00:38:53,981 Speaker 3: To be clear, that was a blog that wasn't really 782 00:38:54,062 --> 00:38:56,981 Speaker 3: video and it was just a nothing little Everyone had 783 00:38:57,102 --> 00:38:57,821 Speaker 3: blogs back there. 784 00:38:57,902 --> 00:39:01,542 Speaker 4: No, it wasn't a nothing little. It was big, yes 785 00:39:01,661 --> 00:39:03,781 Speaker 4: it was, and it had its own Instagram, and she 786 00:39:03,862 --> 00:39:06,341 Speaker 4: produced content. It was lifestyle content, it was food, it 787 00:39:06,382 --> 00:39:08,301 Speaker 4: was travel, it was all of it. This is how 788 00:39:08,382 --> 00:39:11,542 Speaker 4: Megan started. This is kind of what she did with. 789 00:39:11,622 --> 00:39:13,022 Speaker 1: Those a little hobby projects. 790 00:39:13,142 --> 00:39:16,542 Speaker 4: Oh that is you are so dismissive of Meghan. I 791 00:39:16,582 --> 00:39:18,382 Speaker 4: won't have it. I simply won't. 792 00:39:18,382 --> 00:39:20,181 Speaker 2: Say what we're arguing about here is whether this is 793 00:39:20,221 --> 00:39:22,701 Speaker 2: true to her brand right, because you have said me 794 00:39:23,302 --> 00:39:26,742 Speaker 2: interesting pivot. I think it is going back to her roots. Yeah. 795 00:39:27,102 --> 00:39:30,142 Speaker 4: And the first thing I thought when I watched the 796 00:39:30,181 --> 00:39:34,142 Speaker 4: trailer was I wish I'd been in the Netflix strategy 797 00:39:34,181 --> 00:39:37,302 Speaker 4: meeting when they decided that they would do the Martha 798 00:39:37,382 --> 00:39:40,381 Speaker 4: Stewart documentary at the tail end of twenty twenty four 799 00:39:40,862 --> 00:39:44,181 Speaker 4: to kind of nostalgically have everyone reminisce about the Martha 800 00:39:44,221 --> 00:39:49,222 Speaker 4: Stewart days, to then release Meghan Markle with Love Meghan 801 00:39:49,741 --> 00:39:52,501 Speaker 4: as almost position her as the new Martha Stewart, because 802 00:39:52,502 --> 00:39:53,901 Speaker 4: I think that's exactly what they're doing. 803 00:39:54,221 --> 00:39:59,542 Speaker 1: Do you think that there's an appetite for a Martha's Stewart? Absolutely? Absolutely, Look, 804 00:40:00,062 --> 00:40:01,261 Speaker 1: it's like Ballerina Farm. 805 00:40:01,342 --> 00:40:04,022 Speaker 4: The biggest, well, the biggest argument I had over the 806 00:40:04,342 --> 00:40:08,781 Speaker 4: holidays was exactly that someone saying this is a nod 807 00:40:08,822 --> 00:40:12,261 Speaker 4: to the tradwife phenomenon. We've got women baking cakes. There 808 00:40:12,261 --> 00:40:14,781 Speaker 4: was an article in the Sydney Morning Herald where the 809 00:40:14,822 --> 00:40:18,582 Speaker 4: writer basically said, you know, most people baking cakes aren't 810 00:40:18,622 --> 00:40:20,622 Speaker 4: doing it in front of a camera crew with their 811 00:40:20,622 --> 00:40:23,862 Speaker 4: famous friends. That's like saying most people to drive cars 812 00:40:23,982 --> 00:40:26,701 Speaker 4: aren't on formula one like it's television. Of course, it's 813 00:40:26,822 --> 00:40:31,302 Speaker 4: more beautiful, flamorous, of course. But whether or not you work, 814 00:40:31,422 --> 00:40:34,062 Speaker 4: or you have kids, or you're rich or you're poor, 815 00:40:34,142 --> 00:40:37,462 Speaker 4: you've got to put dinner on the table, so most people. 816 00:40:37,741 --> 00:40:39,701 Speaker 1: But do you have to put teeny little flowers in 817 00:40:39,741 --> 00:40:40,382 Speaker 1: ice cubes? 818 00:40:40,422 --> 00:40:43,021 Speaker 4: No, you don't. But I think that when I watched 819 00:40:43,062 --> 00:40:48,022 Speaker 4: the Martha Stuart documentary, I thought my grandmothers, who didn't 820 00:40:48,062 --> 00:40:52,062 Speaker 4: have all the resources in the world, cared about their 821 00:40:52,142 --> 00:40:55,821 Speaker 4: home gardening. Men and women for since the beginning of 822 00:40:55,862 --> 00:40:58,142 Speaker 4: time have been doing these things, and I think that 823 00:40:58,261 --> 00:41:00,861 Speaker 4: the way we pooh pooh them, or we turn our 824 00:41:00,902 --> 00:41:05,622 Speaker 4: nose up is actually is a new way of us 825 00:41:05,661 --> 00:41:08,022 Speaker 4: denigrating anything that we see as feminine. 826 00:41:08,102 --> 00:41:10,221 Speaker 2: I agree, not everyone who make the salad as a 827 00:41:10,221 --> 00:41:13,022 Speaker 2: trad wife. Let's be honest, right, it's not a trad 828 00:41:13,062 --> 00:41:17,021 Speaker 2: wife thing to make some food like that. Most women 829 00:41:17,102 --> 00:41:19,221 Speaker 2: are doing it every day, baked. 830 00:41:18,942 --> 00:41:21,462 Speaker 1: Biscuits, exactly right, And you're. 831 00:41:21,221 --> 00:41:24,461 Speaker 2: Not a trad wife yet. But I think that there 832 00:41:24,622 --> 00:41:27,102 Speaker 2: is definitely a bit of a shift at the moment 833 00:41:27,221 --> 00:41:29,422 Speaker 2: back to the home, and I think that that's something 834 00:41:29,422 --> 00:41:32,142 Speaker 2: that often happens in uncertain times, and there is no 835 00:41:32,342 --> 00:41:34,862 Speaker 2: question that we live in those, right, And the idea 836 00:41:34,862 --> 00:41:38,181 Speaker 2: of what you can control is within your four walls, 837 00:41:38,221 --> 00:41:40,741 Speaker 2: and you can make things lovely there, and you can. 838 00:41:41,181 --> 00:41:43,502 Speaker 2: She talks in the trailer about you know, moments of 839 00:41:43,622 --> 00:41:46,221 Speaker 2: joy in your life, right, and if you are the 840 00:41:46,342 --> 00:41:48,542 Speaker 2: kind of person who gets joy out of having a 841 00:41:48,582 --> 00:41:51,942 Speaker 2: flower in your ice cube, then here we go. Megan's 842 00:41:51,982 --> 00:41:52,381 Speaker 2: here for us. 843 00:41:52,382 --> 00:41:54,902 Speaker 3: I think the Internet's going to really take that on board. 844 00:41:56,462 --> 00:42:00,181 Speaker 3: I was thinking about the difficulty back in Martha Stewart's day, 845 00:42:00,902 --> 00:42:03,142 Speaker 3: like you either liked Martha Stewart or you weren't into 846 00:42:03,142 --> 00:42:05,181 Speaker 3: Martha Stewart. If you weren't into Martha Stewart, you didn't 847 00:42:05,181 --> 00:42:07,062 Speaker 3: buy a magazine, you didn't watch your shows. She kind 848 00:42:07,102 --> 00:42:09,102 Speaker 3: of you knew she was, but she didn't really affect 849 00:42:09,102 --> 00:42:13,421 Speaker 3: your life. Now it's like everything is a referendum on 850 00:42:14,382 --> 00:42:17,302 Speaker 3: what it is to be a woman. Like the fact 851 00:42:17,302 --> 00:42:20,022 Speaker 3: that some people are saying, well, Megan very big pivot 852 00:42:20,102 --> 00:42:23,502 Speaker 3: from archetypes her podcast and all her talk about being 853 00:42:23,502 --> 00:42:27,301 Speaker 3: a feminist, and now she's being a homemaker. And I 854 00:42:27,342 --> 00:42:28,702 Speaker 3: think two things can be true. 855 00:42:28,982 --> 00:42:31,902 Speaker 4: I saw a tweet which I thought was actually very true. 856 00:42:32,302 --> 00:42:35,542 Speaker 4: It said, we're criticizing Meghan for being out of touch 857 00:42:35,542 --> 00:42:37,661 Speaker 4: for baking, and then it had an image of Kate 858 00:42:37,741 --> 00:42:41,342 Speaker 4: and Will on thrones being held up by colonized people, 859 00:42:41,661 --> 00:42:43,582 Speaker 4: and I was like, yeah, the woman can't win. 860 00:42:43,622 --> 00:42:46,422 Speaker 2: Also, it's not anti feminist to make a cake like 861 00:42:46,462 --> 00:42:48,741 Speaker 2: that's ridiculous one of the things that I have because 862 00:42:48,741 --> 00:42:51,102 Speaker 2: you're right, Mare, she's going to get slammed for it, etc. 863 00:42:51,781 --> 00:42:53,261 Speaker 2: But the thing is that she is going to get 864 00:42:53,302 --> 00:42:56,542 Speaker 2: slammed whatever she does. There is no world in which 865 00:42:56,582 --> 00:43:01,022 Speaker 2: whatever Meghan's TV show or Next Business or project or 866 00:43:01,502 --> 00:43:04,422 Speaker 2: Instagram account or not Instagram account is not going to 867 00:43:04,502 --> 00:43:07,502 Speaker 2: attract an enormous amount of conversation and criticism. So you 868 00:43:07,582 --> 00:43:10,462 Speaker 2: might as well do something that you want to do 869 00:43:10,622 --> 00:43:13,782 Speaker 2: and you like doing. And that is probably smart and savvy, 870 00:43:13,822 --> 00:43:15,902 Speaker 2: because all of these threads will start to come together 871 00:43:16,022 --> 00:43:19,622 Speaker 2: if the jam ever fricking drops, which is that we've 872 00:43:19,622 --> 00:43:23,301 Speaker 2: already heard that we've trademarked under American reverer Orchard and 873 00:43:23,462 --> 00:43:27,542 Speaker 2: Duchess of Sussex. Tea towels, jars, candles, like all kinds 874 00:43:27,542 --> 00:43:29,542 Speaker 2: of things which will presumably all be in her show 875 00:43:29,701 --> 00:43:33,062 Speaker 2: product placement. You can buy this stuff. That's clever, clever, clever. 876 00:43:33,622 --> 00:43:35,942 Speaker 2: You could argue that if you were going to do it, 877 00:43:35,982 --> 00:43:38,102 Speaker 2: what's the least controversial thing you could do? Make a 878 00:43:38,102 --> 00:43:42,302 Speaker 2: few cakes. Yes, except that one of the other things 879 00:43:42,342 --> 00:43:45,302 Speaker 2: that people get upset about about the Martha Stuart vibe 880 00:43:45,342 --> 00:43:48,022 Speaker 2: and now the Gwyneth vibe and the Megan vibers, it's 881 00:43:48,022 --> 00:43:49,861 Speaker 2: putting a lot of pressure on ordinary women who are 882 00:43:50,022 --> 00:43:52,102 Speaker 2: putting flowers in their ice cubes. But you know, again, 883 00:43:52,542 --> 00:43:55,181 Speaker 2: whatever she does, she's going to cop that. One of 884 00:43:55,221 --> 00:43:57,462 Speaker 2: the things that perturbed me the most is that she 885 00:43:57,582 --> 00:44:00,941 Speaker 2: came back to Instagram book with all comments switched off. 886 00:44:01,062 --> 00:44:03,741 Speaker 2: Now I entirely understand why, because she's one of the 887 00:44:03,741 --> 00:44:07,982 Speaker 2: most trolled humans on the planet right, Absolutely no question, 888 00:44:08,102 --> 00:44:11,542 Speaker 2: she is trolled more than possibly any other high profile person. 889 00:44:11,942 --> 00:44:14,542 Speaker 2: But what that does declare to me, and we talked 890 00:44:14,582 --> 00:44:16,982 Speaker 2: about this in a subscriber episode at the end of 891 00:44:17,022 --> 00:44:19,501 Speaker 2: last year, is saying the quiet part out loud about 892 00:44:19,502 --> 00:44:21,502 Speaker 2: what social media is for now is this is not 893 00:44:21,542 --> 00:44:24,461 Speaker 2: about community building. This is not about having a conversation, 894 00:44:24,942 --> 00:44:27,741 Speaker 2: This is not about doing anything that's two way. This 895 00:44:27,781 --> 00:44:31,341 Speaker 2: is a billboard for me to sell by Wares. I 896 00:44:31,502 --> 00:44:33,861 Speaker 2: entirely understand why she's done it business. She's come back. 897 00:44:33,862 --> 00:44:36,221 Speaker 2: She's made three posts, including the Lovely Dog one. I 898 00:44:36,302 --> 00:44:38,301 Speaker 2: wanted to comment on the Dog one. I wanted to 899 00:44:38,342 --> 00:44:41,341 Speaker 2: share my condolences about guy whose name I also knew 900 00:44:41,342 --> 00:44:42,582 Speaker 2: about having to do and. 901 00:44:42,582 --> 00:44:44,862 Speaker 4: Looked at it and I was just told Wainwright Holly 902 00:44:45,022 --> 00:44:47,582 Speaker 4: liked this, and I was like, Holly, Megan, it's not 903 00:44:47,622 --> 00:44:47,981 Speaker 4: your friend. 904 00:44:48,022 --> 00:44:50,502 Speaker 2: I couldn't have liked it more times. I know how 905 00:44:50,502 --> 00:44:53,102 Speaker 2: it feels to lose a dog. Anyway, The point is, 906 00:44:53,661 --> 00:44:55,181 Speaker 2: what do you think about that? What do you think 907 00:44:55,221 --> 00:44:59,742 Speaker 2: about the return? But under very controlled circumstances, and really, 908 00:44:59,822 --> 00:45:01,301 Speaker 2: is there any other way she was ever going to 909 00:45:01,382 --> 00:45:01,622 Speaker 2: do it? 910 00:45:01,781 --> 00:45:03,862 Speaker 3: Well, you know what I was saying about the esthetic 911 00:45:04,022 --> 00:45:06,942 Speaker 3: and the vibe felt very sort of twenty fifteen. I 912 00:45:06,982 --> 00:45:09,142 Speaker 3: don't mean that in a derogatory way, because I think 913 00:45:09,181 --> 00:45:11,341 Speaker 3: that's what everybody was doing back then. 914 00:45:11,542 --> 00:45:13,302 Speaker 1: But the current. 915 00:45:13,142 --> 00:45:16,341 Speaker 3: Vibe, which is good news for us, is very low fi. 916 00:45:16,741 --> 00:45:20,301 Speaker 3: It's very hot mess. And that's been brought about in 917 00:45:20,382 --> 00:45:23,702 Speaker 3: no large part because of TikTok, which was very different 918 00:45:23,741 --> 00:45:26,902 Speaker 3: to the Instagram aesthetic. The Instagram asthetic was always perfect 919 00:45:26,982 --> 00:45:30,701 Speaker 3: TikTok came along and it was much more you know, undone, 920 00:45:30,822 --> 00:45:33,942 Speaker 3: and that is kind of the Internet's vibe. 921 00:45:33,701 --> 00:45:34,182 Speaker 1: At the moment. 922 00:45:34,221 --> 00:45:36,741 Speaker 3: You know, you look at the top podcast in the 923 00:45:36,781 --> 00:45:41,301 Speaker 3: world for women, Alex Cooper's call her Daddy. She wears 924 00:45:41,342 --> 00:45:43,701 Speaker 3: a hoodie while she's interviewing and track. I know she's 925 00:45:43,822 --> 00:45:47,862 Speaker 3: uncommonly beautiful, but it's still that's an affected version. 926 00:45:47,622 --> 00:45:49,942 Speaker 2: But it's still aspiration. It's just like, I don't think 927 00:45:50,022 --> 00:45:52,622 Speaker 2: aspiration has gone anywhere. I just think it looks different. 928 00:45:52,701 --> 00:45:56,542 Speaker 2: I think that Alex Cooper is still as you say, skinny, gorgeous, 929 00:45:56,582 --> 00:45:59,062 Speaker 2: white botox, with an inch of her life, no criticism, 930 00:45:59,062 --> 00:46:02,062 Speaker 2: but like it's just she's perfect. So it's not really undone. 931 00:46:02,102 --> 00:46:03,462 Speaker 1: It's almost like so undone. 932 00:46:03,542 --> 00:46:06,301 Speaker 2: It's kind of like how everybody said last year about 933 00:46:06,342 --> 00:46:09,342 Speaker 2: the Brat summer, like how cool. The Charlie xx Is 934 00:46:09,422 --> 00:46:12,422 Speaker 2: vibe is just this green with some like black let 935 00:46:12,542 --> 00:46:14,102 Speaker 2: us thrown at it, and then you find out that 936 00:46:14,181 --> 00:46:16,862 Speaker 2: they went through two hundred and sixty five shades of green, 937 00:46:17,462 --> 00:46:24,622 Speaker 2: so it's bullshit. The non aspirational vibe is also very created, curated, fake, 938 00:46:24,822 --> 00:46:26,542 Speaker 2: so really manufactured author inter. 939 00:46:26,822 --> 00:46:30,701 Speaker 4: I think this year the snark about Megan. It's got 940 00:46:30,701 --> 00:46:32,702 Speaker 4: to go. It's got to go. She's not hurting anyone. 941 00:46:33,022 --> 00:46:35,181 Speaker 4: You go make a cake and you go do your gardening, 942 00:46:35,221 --> 00:46:36,341 Speaker 4: and I'll tell you who will like that? 943 00:46:36,462 --> 00:46:38,901 Speaker 2: Is Wayne right? Holly? Well, except I'm gonna get real 944 00:46:38,982 --> 00:46:41,062 Speaker 2: jealous of a gud. This is going to be the 945 00:46:41,062 --> 00:46:43,301 Speaker 2: first time I'm really going to turn on her. 946 00:46:43,382 --> 00:46:45,221 Speaker 4: Oh well, maybe Maya will finally let you have a 947 00:46:45,261 --> 00:46:46,782 Speaker 4: gardening podcast if you luck eat. 948 00:46:46,701 --> 00:46:49,622 Speaker 1: Horrific more gardening contents the world needs. 949 00:46:50,102 --> 00:46:52,381 Speaker 2: Have you loved having us back out loud as? That's 950 00:46:52,422 --> 00:46:56,301 Speaker 2: the ques fun? If you have, you've got a chance 951 00:46:56,342 --> 00:46:58,022 Speaker 2: to buy tickets to our shows? Is that correct? 952 00:46:58,022 --> 00:47:02,222 Speaker 4: As your students you do. Every ticket for Perth is gone, 953 00:47:02,261 --> 00:47:05,102 Speaker 4: but more tickets have just been released for Brisbane, Sydney 954 00:47:05,142 --> 00:47:07,301 Speaker 4: and Melbourne. I know that a few people were worried 955 00:47:07,302 --> 00:47:08,102 Speaker 4: because I couldn't get them. 956 00:47:08,181 --> 00:47:10,102 Speaker 3: Who's going to be top of the leader board? I mean, 957 00:47:10,142 --> 00:47:12,622 Speaker 3: Perth already smashed everybody out of the path. My money's 958 00:47:12,661 --> 00:47:13,461 Speaker 3: on Brisbane. 959 00:47:13,701 --> 00:47:16,421 Speaker 1: We've got some very social out louders there. They had a. 960 00:47:16,422 --> 00:47:19,181 Speaker 3: Catch up there on the weekend organized by Champion out 961 00:47:19,181 --> 00:47:23,502 Speaker 3: louder Zoe Robbins, which was all about laughter and wine, 962 00:47:23,822 --> 00:47:25,421 Speaker 3: which is very on brand for us. 963 00:47:25,462 --> 00:47:27,421 Speaker 4: I loved the fight Oheit. It brought me so much joy. 964 00:47:27,661 --> 00:47:29,462 Speaker 2: Thank you to all of you out louders who are 965 00:47:29,462 --> 00:47:31,261 Speaker 2: coming to the show, who are planning to come to 966 00:47:31,302 --> 00:47:33,022 Speaker 2: the show. There's a link in the show notes of 967 00:47:33,022 --> 00:47:34,821 Speaker 2: where you ca and buy tickets, and thank you for 968 00:47:34,822 --> 00:47:36,381 Speaker 2: being here with us today. We're going to be back 969 00:47:36,382 --> 00:47:38,902 Speaker 2: in your airs tomorrow. Happy twenty twenty five. 970 00:47:39,422 --> 00:47:41,422 Speaker 4: Bye bye bye. 971 00:47:42,022 --> 00:47:44,902 Speaker 2: Shout out to any Mamma Mia subscribers listening. If you 972 00:47:45,062 --> 00:47:47,942 Speaker 2: love the show and you want to support us, subscribing 973 00:47:47,942 --> 00:47:50,381 Speaker 2: to Mama Mia is the very best way to do it. 974 00:47:50,582 --> 00:47:52,422 Speaker 2: There's a link in the episode description.