WEBVTT - Lisa Wilkinson

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, I'm Mia Friedman and welcome to a very special

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<v Speaker 1>episode off No philtre a podcast. Siri's were I checked

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<v Speaker 1>interesting people about their careers, their families and their lives.

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<v Speaker 1>It's an open, honest one on one conversation that has

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<v Speaker 1>zero philtre a lot like my mouth

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<v Speaker 1>Thiss week on the podcast. I speak to Lisa Wilkinson,

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<v Speaker 1>co host of The Today Show, one of Australia's most

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<v Speaker 1>respected journalists and my Dear Friend, a 21. Lisa became

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<v Speaker 1>the youngest ever editor of Dolly magazine and went on

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<v Speaker 1>to edit Cleo on Become its international editor in chief

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<v Speaker 1>before moving into television on No Philtre. I chat to

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<v Speaker 1>her about two AM starts

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<v Speaker 1>the changing nature of women's magazines in Australia

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<v Speaker 1>on the hardest part about interviewing the prime minister.

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<v Speaker 1>Please, I would describe us as refugees from magazines in

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<v Speaker 1>terms of we were very happy in our homelands once.

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<v Speaker 1>Then we set sail, I think, probably clear on Dolly

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<v Speaker 1>will close in the next couple of years, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't say that to be a smart ass or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think that print is in a really difficult time,

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<v Speaker 1>particularly print for young women. Here's the new F issue

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<v Speaker 1>of Cleo and makes you feel old when you don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know who's on the cover.

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<v Speaker 1>Who is that? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. But I don't know what they're going

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<v Speaker 2>through a phase at the moment off doing models or

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<v Speaker 2>she supermodel.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really think I don't know. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what what

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<v Speaker 2>I will. You will not get me. I know you're

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<v Speaker 2>not trying to do that, but you will not get

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<v Speaker 2>me bagging this publication only because this publication

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<v Speaker 2>was so crucial

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<v Speaker 2>to the emancipation of Australian women. It was such a

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<v Speaker 2>significant publication

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<v Speaker 2>when it came out in 1972. I mean, we are

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<v Speaker 2>talking really about the only form

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<v Speaker 1>ofthe heaviest media

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<v Speaker 2>for women in this country that talked everything from women's

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<v Speaker 2>political rights to their rights in the home, too.

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<v Speaker 2>The fact that they should go out there and be

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<v Speaker 2>everything that they want to be in recession, do what

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<v Speaker 2>they want t be their own person. And so to

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<v Speaker 2>have edited that magazine for 10 years between 85 95

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<v Speaker 2>is one of my greatest moments off pride professionally because

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<v Speaker 2>it it was a magazine,

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<v Speaker 2>a publication of form of media in this country

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<v Speaker 2>that was an agent for change. And to have been

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<v Speaker 2>part of that process is an incredible thing. And also

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<v Speaker 2>to have worked with so many incredibly talented women such

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<v Speaker 2>as yourself, who were good times. There were great times and,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, it's still it's still something that

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<v Speaker 2>puts a smile on my face. So

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<v Speaker 2>if and when that magazine closes and Dolly as well,

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<v Speaker 2>because that was where I got my start in the media.

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<v Speaker 2>It will be a really, really sad

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<v Speaker 1>day you've got. It will be a really sad day

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe it will never come. You've got a teenage

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<v Speaker 1>daughter now.

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<v Speaker 1>What does she look at?

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<v Speaker 2>It's funny, isn't it? She didn't read Dolly. I think

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<v Speaker 2>she sort of came across it

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<v Speaker 2>in passing. Where's for May and possibly for you. It

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<v Speaker 2>was my Bible. It

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<v Speaker 1>was lifeline. It was

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<v Speaker 2>everything I knew which day it was coming out. I

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<v Speaker 2>knew what time it was going to land at the newsagent,

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<v Speaker 2>and I thumbed through that magazine. I

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<v Speaker 2>I bled for that magazine every month, and I still

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<v Speaker 2>have

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<v Speaker 2>every single copy I ever bought, and I can pick

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<v Speaker 2>an issue up and I could remember how old I wass.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember the things that resin and those covers. I

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<v Speaker 2>remember the clothes that I was desperate to, hopefully one

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<v Speaker 2>day where

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<v Speaker 2>you know, it was all about

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<v Speaker 2>having

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<v Speaker 2>something that you could really trust is a teenager that

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<v Speaker 2>was

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<v Speaker 2>that was your confidante and was even a better friend

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<v Speaker 2>than maybe best

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<v Speaker 1>friend. So, do you think Facebook's that now for teenage girls?

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<v Speaker 2>Look, I'm not on Facebook

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<v Speaker 1>or of a that for each other, like just because

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<v Speaker 1>they could be connected 24 7.

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<v Speaker 2>What I do know is that the sort of

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<v Speaker 2>places of refuge that existed

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<v Speaker 2>when I was a teenager don't exist with the same

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<v Speaker 2>power

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<v Speaker 2>that

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<v Speaker 2>that they

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<v Speaker 2>that they do now. Sorry that they did. Then Look,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just I'm very aware having having three kids, the

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<v Speaker 2>last of whom is our daughter, Billie, who's 17,

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<v Speaker 2>having been a TTE, the forefront ofthe bringing up Children

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<v Speaker 2>who are going through the Internet explosion and the Facebook

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<v Speaker 2>explosion and the influences of social media.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a real learning curve for May, and everyone

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<v Speaker 2>who was doing it at the same time and I

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<v Speaker 2>think we've made a few mistakes along the way. I

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<v Speaker 2>think way thought when our kids said to us, You know,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll just be in my room doing my math work

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<v Speaker 2>because school says that I have to have access to

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<v Speaker 2>the Internet

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<v Speaker 2>in order. Teo,

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<v Speaker 2>The truth is, if you put your teenage child and

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<v Speaker 2>younger because I mean we see babies in cafes on

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<v Speaker 2>ipads for hours at a time, being entertained.

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<v Speaker 2>If you make your child from a very young age

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<v Speaker 2>so dependent on screen entertainment, you are really setting yourself

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<v Speaker 2>up for a fall. And this is a

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<v Speaker 1>social entertainment. What you do,

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<v Speaker 1>we're not holding your phone now. Are you removed from

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<v Speaker 1>your phone or do you live by the screen? Well,

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<v Speaker 2>well, phone is now a ll communication with work, communication

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<v Speaker 2>with the kids and all of that. It's But there's

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<v Speaker 2>a difference between just living a 21st century life that

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<v Speaker 2>you can get through if if you're a busy parent,

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<v Speaker 2>a busy professional,

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<v Speaker 2>there's a difference between being practical and being completely dependent

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<v Speaker 2>on DH. I try and be independent. I don't always

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<v Speaker 2>succeed because it is. It is very compelling. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>you can waste hours on YouTube beacon, waste hours, Converse

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<v Speaker 2>ing on Twitter, and you can do all of that.

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<v Speaker 2>Fortunately, I didn't get the Facebook addiction. I think that's

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<v Speaker 2>possibly a case of self preservation. And also, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>Australia gets 3.5 hours of me every day. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think they need Mohr of me on Facebook,

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<v Speaker 2>but

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<v Speaker 2>it sze bean. A huge learning curve is apparent to

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<v Speaker 2>take three kids through that, but

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<v Speaker 2>my caution retail to other parents. I don't judge other parents.

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<v Speaker 2>It's their call how they want to bring up their

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<v Speaker 2>kids in the 21st century. But

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<v Speaker 2>if you allow your child

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<v Speaker 2>tohave a computer in their bedroom with the door closed

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<v Speaker 2>and you're not

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<v Speaker 2>and you're not monitoring that you are basically allowing the

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<v Speaker 2>world outside to dig a hole into your child's bedroom.

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<v Speaker 2>And that, for me is a cautionary tale when we

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<v Speaker 2>all have Teo

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<v Speaker 2>parent, the way we see fit. But I would just

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<v Speaker 2>if anybody can sort of see this as a moment off.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, maybe I'm not monitoring as much as I should.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it can really lose touch with your kids.

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<v Speaker 2>The great irony, of course, is

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<v Speaker 2>we've got so many ways to communicate now. And yet

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<v Speaker 2>our one on one into personal

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<v Speaker 2>level of communication has never bean

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<v Speaker 2>Maur skewed away from being able to actually

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<v Speaker 1>communicate face to face. Exactly. You made the transition obviously

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<v Speaker 1>not in your twenties but in your forties to TV

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<v Speaker 1>after print

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<v Speaker 1>after having the best job in the world, the one

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<v Speaker 1>where you get to interview the prime minister one day

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<v Speaker 1>and even on the same day. Mind to sing the

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<v Speaker 1>sound of music That was a highlight for May.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm glad it was for someone.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you look past that and come down from that? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>what happens? What does look like life look like on

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<v Speaker 1>the other side of today? Show? Because presumably you'll stop

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<v Speaker 1>doing it At some stage. You'll get Jack a bit

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<v Speaker 1>and you know what I can to make it 83

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<v Speaker 1>e I will not let you be Helen Gurley Brown

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<v Speaker 1>e really want not e gave fishnet tights and leopard print?

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<v Speaker 1>What?

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<v Speaker 1>What does it look like on the other side, like travel?

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<v Speaker 1>Does it look like

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<v Speaker 2>I have no idea I'd never,

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<v Speaker 2>ever, And you know me well enough to know this

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<v Speaker 2>is the truth. I've never had a five year plan.

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<v Speaker 2>You never have. Just I've have been incredibly fortunate that

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<v Speaker 2>every job I've ever had I've just loved, and that

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<v Speaker 2>includes my very first job, which was being sales assistant

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<v Speaker 2>wrenches shoe store in Campbelltown, wrenches to Thursday night and

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<v Speaker 2>Saturday mornings.

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<v Speaker 2>I've never had a job I didn't love

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<v Speaker 2>going in to do.

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<v Speaker 2>And so I've never looked beyond what I'm doing every day.

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to know that every day I go

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<v Speaker 2>to work and I learn something new, I get something

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<v Speaker 2>out of it. I enjoy being with my colleagues. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>the best professional person. Aiken Gay and I have a laugh.

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<v Speaker 1>And how do you shift? You've had cast changes, old

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<v Speaker 1>lineup changes on the Today show. It's such an intimate thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It must pay

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<v Speaker 1>anyone that you with it for in the morning and

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<v Speaker 1>doing that much live TV you must have very close

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<v Speaker 1>relationships with when that shifts and you know George's Left

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<v Speaker 1>and Bends left In the last six months, Tim's coming

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<v Speaker 1>and Sylvia's coming. Has that changed?

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<v Speaker 1>The dynamic has that re energised it? Does everyone have

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<v Speaker 1>to learn each other's rhythms? What's it Hasn't changed. Has

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<v Speaker 1>it changed your delivery?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, sure. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>ultimately,

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<v Speaker 2>my closest relationship is always going to be with Carl

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<v Speaker 2>because you know, there's that two shot every single day,

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<v Speaker 2>and so

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<v Speaker 2>we know each other so well. Now way. No, the

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<v Speaker 2>days when

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<v Speaker 2>when one's not having an off day, but one's got

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<v Speaker 2>more energy than the other. And it's a completely unspoken thing,

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<v Speaker 2>and we just rise and lived for. And it's not

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<v Speaker 2>even that you didn't you didn't deliver today. So you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I get to have my dad

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<v Speaker 1>thiss new Army Wednesday because I caught you on Monday.

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<v Speaker 2>There is no point scoring. It's just when you're doing

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<v Speaker 2>it 3.5 hours a day, five days a week.

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<v Speaker 2>We get six weeks off years of 46 weeks off

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<v Speaker 2>a year.

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<v Speaker 2>You're just aware that you're human and you know that

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<v Speaker 2>that comes with

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<v Speaker 2>different levels of energy on any given day. But it'll

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<v Speaker 2>balances out, and ultimately we trust each other implicitly. We

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<v Speaker 2>know each other's strengths and weaknesses,

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<v Speaker 2>and we just we enjoy each other

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<v Speaker 2>both personally and professionally, and we really appreciate the differences

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<v Speaker 2>in what we

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<v Speaker 1>bring each bring to the. It is a lot like

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<v Speaker 1>a marriage on DH because she said that about him

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<v Speaker 1>and Mel Doyle, and I guess

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<v Speaker 1>by that definition he's on to his second wife. But

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<v Speaker 1>wait.

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<v Speaker 1>With marriage and a long term relationship, you go through

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<v Speaker 1>phases where you cannot stand. The way the person blinks,

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<v Speaker 1>the way they breathe makes you want to kill them,

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<v Speaker 1>and you get through that or you get it watch.

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<v Speaker 1>But usually you get through that, and that's what marriage is.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it the same with the relationship? A coworker relationship

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<v Speaker 1>that's that intimate like you go through. This particular thing

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<v Speaker 1>he does is driving me crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>But you have to get through it because you got

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<v Speaker 1>to keep working with HR.

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<v Speaker 2>I can honestly say no because I think I think

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<v Speaker 2>what really life marriages came to Bob down in is

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<v Speaker 2>different styles of parenting. And you know that the challenges

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<v Speaker 2>that can come with teenagers that try and divide and

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<v Speaker 2>conquer over whether or not you did your fair share

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<v Speaker 2>of the washing up, sex up. Six.

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<v Speaker 2>Whether you're leaving dirty towels on the floor. Who changed

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<v Speaker 2>the toilet roll holder most recently or not at all,

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<v Speaker 1>or not since 1985. Somebody somebody

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<v Speaker 2>favourite doesn't just magically. So you get bogged down in

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<v Speaker 2>the domestics and that Khun get in the way off.

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<v Speaker 2>You know the romance of a marriage, whereas, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>Carla night separate at the end of every show on DH,

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<v Speaker 2>then we come back together every day. And so it's,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, it's almost the ideal marriage because you have

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<v Speaker 2>all of the fun. You have all of the respect.

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<v Speaker 2>You have all of thesis of professional camaraderie.

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<v Speaker 2>But nobody's fighting about who took out the garbage last

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<v Speaker 2>Monday night.

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<v Speaker 1>What about the role of the executive producer? Because you've

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<v Speaker 1>had you had Tom alone? You've now got Mark Albert.

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<v Speaker 1>It's an interesting sort of a three way because there's

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<v Speaker 1>you on Carl, who are the hosts in the front

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<v Speaker 1>of house. Then there's the AP, who most people would

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<v Speaker 1>never have heard off

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<v Speaker 1>how much input to the hosts have as to what

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<v Speaker 1>goes to air and how much does someone have to

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<v Speaker 1>drive the bus

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<v Speaker 1>and make that final decision and it's not you.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, let's just set the record straight here. Carl and

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<v Speaker 2>I are just out the front. There is a whole

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<v Speaker 2>team that put together the show.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, there's a cast of how big is the team? Well,

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<v Speaker 2>it depends on how far you want to go to

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<v Speaker 2>back of house, because we've got, of course, our executive producer,

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<v Speaker 2>associate producers, supervising producers, then the whole team off producers

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<v Speaker 2>who are putting together the briefs every single day

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<v Speaker 2>on DH. Then you've got a ll the crew, they're

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<v Speaker 2>on the floor. Then you've

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<v Speaker 2>You've got all of the people who dip in and

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<v Speaker 2>out of the various channel line shows who are part

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<v Speaker 2>of the support structure that put the show to air

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<v Speaker 1>of how a person marketing and hair make up. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 2>that and so were the ones that get all what

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<v Speaker 2>time to get up. What is three o'clock really feel like?

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<v Speaker 2>But there's a whole bank of people who are doing

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<v Speaker 2>exactly the same three s, and there's some who get

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<v Speaker 2>up one

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<v Speaker 2>who were in earlier than us who were getting together.

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<v Speaker 2>What's the breaking news overnight? So for us to complain

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<v Speaker 2>about what time we get up when there's when all

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<v Speaker 2>of us get up as John Godly Hour, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>not surprisingly, that wouldn't go down too well, so

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<v Speaker 1>but you've got all these people. But ultimately, if a

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<v Speaker 1>brief is wrong, if a question is lame, if something

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't go right,

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<v Speaker 1>it's You

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<v Speaker 2>guys show absolutely, and we get those briefs and the

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<v Speaker 2>briefs who always really good, but particularly when it comes

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<v Speaker 2>to political interviews.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you prepare Because you are very exacting,

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<v Speaker 2>just very well prepared. Well, I just make sure I'm prepared.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, don't bother doing the job unless you What

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<v Speaker 1>is the preparation look like?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, read in the papers every day, watching sky news,

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<v Speaker 2>watching 7 30 every night, watching Q and A. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>just making sure at every turn that when there is

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<v Speaker 2>a shift in the breeze, when there's there's nuances to

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<v Speaker 2>the way the political landscape is looking your across it,

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<v Speaker 2>you know why it's happened. You know who the main

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<v Speaker 2>players are. You know what people are talking about. I

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<v Speaker 2>listen to a lot of talk back radio. You just

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<v Speaker 2>make sure that you know what's going on because in

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<v Speaker 2>the end,

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<v Speaker 2>I could go to bed at seven o'clock every night.

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<v Speaker 2>But I might get a call at 10 PM saying

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<v Speaker 2>you've got the prime minister tomorrow morning. And if I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know what's happened between seven. PM when I've gone

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<v Speaker 2>to bed and seven o'clock the next morning, that's 12 hours.

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<v Speaker 1>How can you ever go?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm going to look away for a minute

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<v Speaker 1>and get some sleep. Like there's always something happening in

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<v Speaker 1>the 24 hour news

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<v Speaker 2>cycle. Yeah, there is.

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<v Speaker 2>You just you just You gotta hedge your bets. You've

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<v Speaker 2>just got to make sure that you're as up to

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<v Speaker 2>date as you can possibly bay again. There's producers there

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<v Speaker 2>in the morning who who might have caught something that

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<v Speaker 2>you've missed.

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<v Speaker 2>Ah, nde, you know, light lines coming back, which is

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<v Speaker 2>a real bummer for me because quite often,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's going to be 9. 30 at least,

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<v Speaker 2>but least that help.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because how many of the questions that you ask

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<v Speaker 1>are scripted and planned? And how many do you have? Teo,

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<v Speaker 1>just take the temperature as the interview's happening. Live and

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<v Speaker 1>attack.

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<v Speaker 1>It's about 50 50

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<v Speaker 2>because what you've got to do more than anything in

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<v Speaker 2>a politically and political interview is listen,

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<v Speaker 1>because what

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<v Speaker 2>you listening for?

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<v Speaker 2>Often slip ups,

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<v Speaker 2>something that you know is going to resonate and hasn't

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<v Speaker 2>been said before or somebody who's not across their brief

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<v Speaker 2>or a change in policy.

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<v Speaker 2>Or,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I asked the prime minister at the end of last

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<v Speaker 2>year what? He's great. His greatest achievement. Wass as minister

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<v Speaker 2>for women. Now I could not have predicted that he

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<v Speaker 2>would say

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<v Speaker 2>the carbon tax getting rid of the carbon tax was

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<v Speaker 2>his greatest achievement as minister. Women, I was expecting

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<v Speaker 2>something on domestic violence or equal pay or women on boards.

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<v Speaker 2>I would have thought there very gender specific, whereas

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<v Speaker 2>don't I

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<v Speaker 1>know it was just glorious. How did that question come about?

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<v Speaker 1>Because 2 May had you written all over it

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<v Speaker 2>because I looked. It was it was all to do

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<v Speaker 2>with the cabinet reshuffle that the prime minister did back

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<v Speaker 2>in early December,

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<v Speaker 2>and I just looked at how many jobs had changed.

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<v Speaker 2>And I thought, I wonder what happened with his role

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<v Speaker 2>as minister for women? No, he's still got that portfolio

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<v Speaker 2>and I was scratching my head, thinking, I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 2>think of one

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<v Speaker 2>word that I've heard him say in his capacity as

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<v Speaker 2>minister for women. And I had a look online. I

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<v Speaker 2>just couldn't find anything. I thought, Well, maybe he's hiding

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<v Speaker 2>his light under a bushel.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's let's see, it's done all the great work behind

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<v Speaker 1>the scenes and not told anyone.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone in the press office hasn't put out a press

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<v Speaker 2>release on it.

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<v Speaker 2>I

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<v Speaker 1>mean, how that felt at the time, Just leading up

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<v Speaker 1>to that question, Where do you place the question?

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<v Speaker 1>He answers. Then how do you feel

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<v Speaker 1>inside? Are you going

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<v Speaker 2>well, You just You just know that this is going

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<v Speaker 2>to make headlines because it was not the response I

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<v Speaker 2>was expecting. I thought he would have bean well enough

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<v Speaker 2>prepared because, of course, leading up to him becoming prime minister,

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<v Speaker 2>there was all of this rhetoric about strong wife, strong daughters,

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<v Speaker 2>strong chief of staff.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a man who was surrounded by strong women,

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<v Speaker 2>and yet somehow it doesn't therefore become a priority for

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<v Speaker 2>him to make strong decisions about advancing the cause of

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<v Speaker 2>women or at least fixing some of eels that still exists.

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<v Speaker 1>Job there to be done. But he says carbon tax,

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<v Speaker 1>and then what do you do?

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<v Speaker 1>Where you going? I can't believe he just said that.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you're thinking?

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<v Speaker 2>You can let that lie, because it

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<v Speaker 2>it says everything you need to know.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I let Social Media takeover

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<v Speaker 1>on. You knew that it was going to go now.

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<v Speaker 1>And did he know? What's it like at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of an interview like that?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, he stumbled. Yeah. Hey, didn't see the question coming.

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<v Speaker 2>He didn't have a prepared answer

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<v Speaker 2>and he wouldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>been expecting it. And so then when when you threw

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<v Speaker 1>the commercial break or whatever, What happened?

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<v Speaker 2>I said to Sylvia

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<v Speaker 1>that What did you say to him? Did he go

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<v Speaker 1>our Thanks, Lisa. Goodbye. Well, it was just rusty after that.

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<v Speaker 1>It was

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<v Speaker 2>towards the end of the year. You get certainly get

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<v Speaker 2>frosty responses. And I finished off by

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<v Speaker 2>saying, You know, you're always up for an interview, and

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<v Speaker 2>I really appreciate that with

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<v Speaker 2>Tony Abbott. He's always available for interview with us, and

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<v Speaker 2>you know, there's plenty of politicians that say no,

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<v Speaker 1>they won't talk to women's media

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<v Speaker 1>won't talk to us. A lot of promises for the elections.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know that I can help you

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<v Speaker 1>put in a good word.

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<v Speaker 1>This's a bit of a weird question, but

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<v Speaker 1>when you got the today show,

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<v Speaker 1>Pete was probably had. At that time, your husband had

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<v Speaker 1>a higher profile

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<v Speaker 1>in your marriage. You've bean. You are an absolute icon.

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<v Speaker 1>Two women who had followed you through magazines and you

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<v Speaker 1>certainly had a profile. But he was the former Wallaby.

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<v Speaker 1>He was all of those things. And then you got

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<v Speaker 1>the today show and now you are a superstar,

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<v Speaker 1>and why you have been nominated for a Golden Globe

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<v Speaker 1>is a travesty. And we've got to do something about that,

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<v Speaker 1>my friend, and it's showing we're going to fix this

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<v Speaker 1>shit issue. Getyou nominal anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>How's that?

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<v Speaker 1>Two big media people in one marriage is a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I work with my husband, but he's not

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<v Speaker 1>front of house.

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<v Speaker 1>How does that work?

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<v Speaker 1>You've been together 20 years more.

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<v Speaker 2>I can honestly say it's not something we think about

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<v Speaker 1>Way

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<v Speaker 2>live, A very

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<v Speaker 2>you know, sort of suburban family life. You know, we

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<v Speaker 2>don't go to a lot of red carpet things way

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<v Speaker 2>go to things that would matter to us like charity

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<v Speaker 2>events that were supporting.

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<v Speaker 2>But apart from that way with our kids,

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<v Speaker 1>Do you still additonal books?

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't been able to do it in more recent

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<v Speaker 2>times are still obviously

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<v Speaker 2>advise you about the writing process is

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<v Speaker 1>very involved in each other's careers, and you always very

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<v Speaker 1>involved in you watch each other stuff. I know each

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<v Speaker 1>other advice always

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<v Speaker 2>And that's, you know, Tio,

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<v Speaker 2>I know that you've got somebody at home who totally

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<v Speaker 2>has your back and has given you good advice in

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<v Speaker 2>the past. Doesn't mean I always follow it, nor nor

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<v Speaker 2>he mine

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<v Speaker 2>But you. No way.

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<v Speaker 2>We have so many things in common and always have

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<v Speaker 2>and tow have professions

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<v Speaker 2>that on and career parts that have been very similar

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<v Speaker 2>away long

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<v Speaker 2>has probably helped a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. It's just we're really suburban were really boring,

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<v Speaker 2>but

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I wanted what I was getting at is Mohr.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you work out who takes priority because you've

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<v Speaker 1>both got extraordinarily demanding jobs and you've you've had three

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<v Speaker 1>kids and just some life has to go on,

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<v Speaker 1>He's got the book deadline. You've got to be in L. A.

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<v Speaker 1>Or Perth or wherever it has to bay.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you manage your lives that part of your life? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we compare

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<v Speaker 2>diaries a lot. That's kind of crucial.

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<v Speaker 2>But with Billy doing her you 12 exams this year,

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<v Speaker 2>way talk to her at the beginning of the year

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<v Speaker 2>because of our three kids. She is definitely the most

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<v Speaker 2>focused on her accuracy. Absolutely. Our boys doing their ecstasy

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<v Speaker 2>was like dragging them backwards through wet sand.

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<v Speaker 2>And Billy is focused and

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<v Speaker 2>hard working

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<v Speaker 2>and

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<v Speaker 2>therefore stressed. And so we started down the beginning of

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<v Speaker 2>the What can we do to help you through this?

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<v Speaker 2>And she said, What I want more than anything

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<v Speaker 2>is every night to be able to sit down

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<v Speaker 2>to a home cooked meal and talk to you both

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<v Speaker 2>on DSO.

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<v Speaker 2>So far, we're in March, and, you know, since she's

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<v Speaker 2>been back at school, we've been doing that. And Pete,

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<v Speaker 2>God love him has discovered cooking. Has he? He's discovered

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<v Speaker 1>he could turn down a

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<v Speaker 2>hook. The only time I've ever seen Pete Cook was

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<v Speaker 2>when he was suddenly a contestant on

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<v Speaker 2>Celebrity master share that about well, that was about cocoa.

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<v Speaker 2>For about two months.

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<v Speaker 2>We had a ban on toast. We had cooking that

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<v Speaker 2>ice cream. We had the lot.

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<v Speaker 2>But I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, we just

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<v Speaker 2>She's out last. She

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<v Speaker 1>cooks dinner

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<v Speaker 2>Well, he's been cooking dinner a lot, and what I've

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<v Speaker 2>been telling him for years is cooking is not that hard.

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<v Speaker 2>Try those 30 recipe books that we've got sitting on

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<v Speaker 2>the steps is he's discovered. How is it is and

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<v Speaker 2>I've always cooked and I like cooking. But when you're

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<v Speaker 1>always drudgery

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<v Speaker 2>Thie only one sees the mess after the cooking.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, that could make for a great marital spat.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's amazing how

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<v Speaker 2>attention has dropped because Billy feels like she gets a

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<v Speaker 2>parent's every single night way, said to her Way into you.

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<v Speaker 2>We sit down, we have a home cooked meal. Obviously,

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<v Speaker 2>there's nights when sun lights his home

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<v Speaker 1>here in the Oscars, You here. You know, that night

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<v Speaker 1>I had to go to the Oscars, but

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<v Speaker 2>that's that's the plan. Tto have a plan is the

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<v Speaker 2>main thing, and to mostly stick to it.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it because I asked you to do something thiss

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<v Speaker 1>year and you said

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<v Speaker 1>we've committed,

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<v Speaker 1>yes, but I had my that.

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<v Speaker 2>She's she's number one. So

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<v Speaker 1>we do something for me next

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<v Speaker 2>year. Next year

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<v Speaker 1>E o called free flyers. We had all these women

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<v Speaker 1>in a nice don't call us empty nesters. It makes

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<v Speaker 1>a sound sad and lonely. And when not happy

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<v Speaker 1>and you know who are into last week is Deborah.

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<v Speaker 1>Lt's world,

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<v Speaker 1>and I like being an empty nester. And she said, No,

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<v Speaker 1>Richard and I can have loud sex all over the house. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't expecting that.

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<v Speaker 2>And is that what she's doing? What she's doing

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<v Speaker 2>with Richard Glover's How good's

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<v Speaker 1>that? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>yes,

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<v Speaker 2>there's a camera on us right now. Wei didn't say that.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for listening to no Philtre. Tune in next time

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