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Speaker 1: You're listening to a Mom and Me a podcast.

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Speaker 2: From Mom and Me out. Welcome to the spill your

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Speaker 2: daily pop culture fixed. I'm Laura Brodnick and.

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Speaker 1: I'm Anisia, a Swarren producer.

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Speaker 3: Of The Spell but filling in for m Vernham today

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Speaker 3: while she gallivants around the world.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and we have a special episode today because you

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Speaker 2: were the one, well, I mean, you suggest a lot

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Speaker 2: of our topics because you're our producer and by default

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Speaker 2: by boss in many ways, like the only person who's

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Speaker 2: allowed to like yell at me to like go and

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Speaker 2: do this, go and do that in this office. But

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Speaker 2: you had a pitch day that you were very keen on.

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Speaker 3: Yes, So you and I famously, I feel like we

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Speaker 3: talk about love adjacent topics a lot.

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Speaker 2: We actually do.

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Speaker 3: We do like we spend a weird amount of our time.

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Speaker 3: We get through our pop culture and entertainment and then

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Speaker 3: we get into.

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Speaker 2: The even do we get our work is what she's

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Speaker 2: trying to say. Then we get into our non work chat,

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Speaker 2: which is, yeah, weirdly a lot about love life dating.

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Speaker 3: Yes, but we didn't want to be we didn't want

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Speaker 3: to be basic on Valentine's Day, So we were trying

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Speaker 3: to think of what else we could do, and we thought,

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Speaker 3: you know, Gallalantines arguably more fun than Valentines. So this

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Speaker 3: is a Galantine's movies that will stop you texting your ex.

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Speaker 3: And what we mean by that is so like not

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Speaker 3: your everyday classic rom coms. More movies that I guess

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Speaker 3: make being single look as fun as it is and

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Speaker 3: can be glorify that a bit and make you know,

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Speaker 3: the whole long term relationship being in love look a

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Speaker 3: little less fun and exactly.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, anything that'll make you feel like yeah, big singles,

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Speaker 2: like the more interesting story, the better story, something that

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Speaker 2: might get you through a breakup ef you're going through that,

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Speaker 2: or something I'll just make you think like I never

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Speaker 2: want to touch another human being as long as I live.

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Speaker 2: I have a movie like that on my list.

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Speaker 1: It's really uplifting stuff in here.

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Speaker 2: Percent you won't even want to touch another person when

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Speaker 2: we finish this episode. That's our promise to you.

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Speaker 3: What if we become responsible for a decline and like

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Speaker 3: marriage and birth rates in the Australia, And.

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Speaker 2: I think that's happening without us already. I just think

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Speaker 2: that we can't take full responsibility. I think there's a

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Speaker 2: lot of people in the world who would be a

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Speaker 2: lot happier being single if it wasn't so frowned upon,

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Speaker 2: like by society. Like I know, people actually fall in love.

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Speaker 2: I'm not crazy, but I do think a lot of

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Speaker 2: people just like this is what we do.

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Speaker 3: And that's when you do more of your fun stuff

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Speaker 3: on your wild girl scripts. If you have Valentine's Day

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Speaker 3: plans this week and maybe just cancel.

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Speaker 2: Them after this going out single instead exactly, Well, do

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Speaker 2: you want to kick things off, Laura?

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Speaker 1: Shall I?

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Speaker 2: Oh, you kick one off since this is your big topic.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, this is probably of my choices, one of

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Speaker 3: the more like go to ones that you would just

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Speaker 3: think of. When I was choosing, it was between this

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Speaker 3: one and he's just not that into you. Can I

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Speaker 3: just say the reason I didn't choose he's just not

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Speaker 3: So I don't feel like I'm spoiling it.

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Speaker 1: You should movie.

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Speaker 3: Still go and watch it, but yeah, god, I mean,

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Speaker 3: still go and watch it. But I'm sure everyone knows

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Speaker 3: what happens. But basically that movie spends the whole time,

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Speaker 3: setting up a really important message about how if a

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Speaker 3: then he won't And then it kind of backtracks right

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Speaker 1: And I've always had a gripe with that, so I

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because it's that whole thing about like everyone

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Speaker 2: thinks they're the exception, and then Jennifer Goodwin's character realizes

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and if you think you might be Jennifer Goodwin,

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Speaker 2: It's not the realistic And even Justah Long thinks that

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Speaker 3: So the one I went with instead was How to

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Speaker 3: Be Single? Okay, and I know you love this movie

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Speaker 2: Well, No, no, no, no, you told me when we

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Speaker 2: we're in an uber. You and I were on way

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Speaker 2: Be Single, and you were like, it's such a great movie.

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Speaker 2: It's like it changed what I like. I think about this.

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Speaker 2: It's got such an important message. And I was like,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna be honest, I have never seen that movie.

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Speaker 2: Oh I do, yeah, because I was like, it just

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Speaker 2: sounds awful and that's I hate the title, okay, but

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Speaker 2: judging a movie. Watched it after we went in that

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Speaker 2: it wrong. I thought it was gonna be one of

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Speaker 2: those movies about like being singles, so empowering, and then

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Speaker 2: that's usually how these type of movies.

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Speaker 1: Go, and it's so different to that.

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Speaker 2: I did like it once I saw it. You influenced

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Speaker 1: Quite rare that I would influence you to watch a.

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Speaker 3: Realizing this movie came out ten years ago freaked me

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Speaker 3: So it's Dakota Johnson, Rebel Wilson, Leslie Mann, and Alison Bree.

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Speaker 1: I mean, what a cast. That is, such a fun cast.

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Speaker 3: So Dakota's character, Alice Kepley, she breaks up with her

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Speaker 1: She teaches her.

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Speaker 3: How to have fun being single, go out, get the

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Speaker 3: boys to buy you drinks, all of that stuff. And

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Speaker 3: I mean, with all the prowbacks everyone's been doing. Partying

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's also the year I moved to Sydney

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Speaker 2: and lived alone for the first time and started my

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Speaker 2: single girl life. So I shouldn't seen this moviet the time,

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Speaker 2: I would have been all over it. You would have

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Speaker 2: like when you're a single woman living alone, how do

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Speaker 2: drop your bracelet? How do you drop your necklace?

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Speaker 3: And she has that little mechanism she makes in her

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Speaker 2: I have a few things like that. I've got a

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Speaker 1: Do you well, Yeah, because I can't.

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Speaker 2: just got to build. You could be a woman in stem.

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Speaker 1: Every well, there's that tue that's the other option.

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Speaker 3: So there's also this bit that I really like in

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Speaker 3: if you hit that, it means you would definitely have sex.

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Speaker 2: If I had more than five drinks, I'd hooke up

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Speaker 1: What do you think of that?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god? Yeah, that was a really sopring moment

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Speaker 2: with a movie when I was what you when you

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Speaker 2: watch a movie and a thought hits you and you're like,

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Speaker 2: I've never thought of before, But it's true. Yes, And

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Speaker 2: I do think that that is true. Yeah, I kind

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Speaker 2: you're both single, obviously, and if you're both single, I mean, no,

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Speaker 2: that's a deal breaker. But if you're both single, really

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Speaker 2: on with other people's partners. That's not the lesson from today, No, No,

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying that, Like, if you've got chemistry there

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Speaker 3: Well, there's also this other really funny bit where she

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So you know that's the message you need.

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Speaker 1: To hear sometimes. So I kind of picked it because

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Speaker 1: I was like, well, it makes thing single look really

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Speaker 3: You move to the big city, you party with your

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Speaker 3: work bestie is basically your life Laura in twenty.

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Speaker 2: Sixteen in kind of My Life Now.

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Speaker 3: Whatever themal version of Peter Pan it showed I think

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Speaker 3: really well the ebbs and flows of a long term

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Speaker 3: but then there's also a point where she backtracks and

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Speaker 3: she's like, maybe I've made a mistake, like she's the

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Speaker 3: know what, this is actually.

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Speaker 2: Kind of hard.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I want him back and he's already moved on.

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Speaker 3: So I think it does a good job of sort

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because the reason I ever watched it is like,

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Speaker 2: as a single person currently, I don't like to consume

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Speaker 2: Don't emergency marry at forty.

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Speaker 1: Just just watch this movie.

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Speaker 3: came to this movie really really really late.

435
00:16:23,354 --> 00:16:25,794
Speaker 1: Okay, So I've recently watched Lost in Translation.

436
00:16:26,074 --> 00:16:28,274
Speaker 2: Oh oh my god, I love that movie. I thought

437
00:16:28,274 --> 00:16:30,314
Speaker 2: you would love it so much. I know I'm as

438
00:16:30,314 --> 00:16:31,794
Speaker 2: such a basic bitch thing to me, like I love

439
00:16:31,794 --> 00:16:34,514
Speaker 2: Lost and Translations. Oh, Sophia Cope, Well whatever, I'm I'm very.

440
00:16:34,434 --> 00:16:35,234
Speaker 1: Popular for a reason.

441
00:16:35,594 --> 00:16:37,994
Speaker 2: It's just like it's such like an elder millennial thing

442
00:16:38,074 --> 00:16:40,874
Speaker 2: to be in your like late teens, early twenties. You

443
00:16:40,914 --> 00:16:43,634
Speaker 2: discovered this movie and made your entire personality. I definitely

444
00:16:43,914 --> 00:16:45,034
Speaker 2: really I.

445
00:16:44,954 --> 00:16:47,154
Speaker 1: Walked the line between millennial and gen z. Yeah, so

446
00:16:47,194 --> 00:16:49,994
Speaker 1: I only came to so we only came.

447
00:16:50,114 --> 00:16:51,234
Speaker 2: I only came to this late.

448
00:16:51,594 --> 00:16:53,314
Speaker 1: So the two thousand and three movie.

449
00:16:53,394 --> 00:16:55,474
Speaker 3: The reason that I picked it is I just feel

450
00:16:55,514 --> 00:16:58,354
Speaker 3: like it d centers romantic love in that very classic

451
00:16:58,514 --> 00:17:00,354
Speaker 3: Hollywood film kind of way, like a little bit weird

452
00:17:00,394 --> 00:17:02,354
Speaker 3: how love is shown. It's not that dreamy type of

453
00:17:02,394 --> 00:17:04,513
Speaker 3: Hollywood thing. Of like everyone in relationships is happy and

454
00:17:04,513 --> 00:17:07,074
Speaker 3: everyone who's single is sad, so for anyone who doesn't.

455
00:17:07,273 --> 00:17:10,273
Speaker 3: It's about this middle aged movie star played by Bill

456
00:17:10,354 --> 00:17:12,954
Speaker 3: Murray and he goes to Tokyo to film a whiskey commercial.

457
00:17:13,034 --> 00:17:14,234
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love I just kind.

458
00:17:14,154 --> 00:17:14,554
Speaker 1: Of enjoyed that.

459
00:17:14,794 --> 00:17:16,554
Speaker 2: But that was a real thing at the time where

460
00:17:16,594 --> 00:17:19,114
Speaker 2: a lot of times celebs like would go and film

461
00:17:19,154 --> 00:17:21,434
Speaker 2: these like huge overseas commercial because they wouldn't get run

462
00:17:21,514 --> 00:17:24,074
Speaker 2: in like America. It wouldn't like kind of like become

463
00:17:24,154 --> 00:17:26,594
Speaker 2: part of their career, but they would get this huge

464
00:17:26,634 --> 00:17:28,554
Speaker 2: payday for it. But obviously now in the age of

465
00:17:28,594 --> 00:17:31,194
Speaker 2: the Internet, that's kind of like doesn't happen as often,

466
00:17:31,474 --> 00:17:33,154
Speaker 2: So that's like a real thing. Yeah.

467
00:17:33,194 --> 00:17:36,314
Speaker 3: And then there's this hot sort of new college grad

468
00:17:36,514 --> 00:17:38,513
Speaker 3: young scarlet Your Hands, and she's so young in this

469
00:17:38,634 --> 00:17:39,594
Speaker 3: I was like, whoa.

470
00:17:39,434 --> 00:17:41,794
Speaker 2: Yeah she was really Yeah, well she started acting when

471
00:17:41,794 --> 00:17:43,554
Speaker 2: she was like nine or ten or something like that,

472
00:17:43,594 --> 00:17:46,274
Speaker 2: but she's only like nineteen eighteen twenty in this movie

473
00:17:46,314 --> 00:17:47,114
Speaker 2: something crazy like that.

474
00:17:47,274 --> 00:17:49,194
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean she looks extra young because she's opposite

475
00:17:49,234 --> 00:17:51,154
Speaker 3: Bill Murray, but she is really young in it. So

476
00:17:51,194 --> 00:17:53,074
Speaker 3: they both meet in this hotel she's there because like

477
00:17:53,074 --> 00:17:55,114
Speaker 3: her husband's working in Tokyo, so she's sort of come

478
00:17:55,154 --> 00:17:57,314
Speaker 3: along for the trip. They meet in a hotel bar

479
00:17:57,394 --> 00:17:59,714
Speaker 3: and then they form this weird sort of relationship beause

480
00:17:59,714 --> 00:18:01,994
Speaker 3: they're both insomniacs and they're also, you know, in this

481
00:18:02,074 --> 00:18:05,273
Speaker 3: other country, different culture. They go out in Tokyo together.

482
00:18:05,474 --> 00:18:08,714
Speaker 3: They're both not very happy in their respective marriages. She's

483
00:18:08,714 --> 00:18:10,474
Speaker 3: a newly wed, he's been married for a really long time.

484
00:18:10,554 --> 00:18:13,114
Speaker 3: His wife's back with the kids, and then there's.

485
00:18:12,914 --> 00:18:13,674
Speaker 2: A lot of tension.

486
00:18:13,754 --> 00:18:14,834
Speaker 1: I mean, I just never.

487
00:18:14,754 --> 00:18:16,674
Speaker 3: Thought Bill Murray and Scolet House and he would really

488
00:18:16,754 --> 00:18:19,994
Speaker 3: have like tension in that way. Anyway, that kind of

489
00:18:20,034 --> 00:18:21,954
Speaker 3: threw me, like, I just knew nothing about this movie

490
00:18:21,994 --> 00:18:24,874
Speaker 3: going into it, so wow, yeah, I really it just

491
00:18:24,914 --> 00:18:26,074
Speaker 3: it's a knowledge gap.

492
00:18:26,194 --> 00:18:28,354
Speaker 2: But one of the most famous scenes to my movie

493
00:18:28,394 --> 00:18:30,994
Speaker 2: is the very end where Bill Murray leans into this

494
00:18:31,034 --> 00:18:33,714
Speaker 2: for something in Scarlet Johansson's ear and you can't quite

495
00:18:33,754 --> 00:18:35,394
Speaker 2: hear what it is. Oh my god. I went and

496
00:18:35,474 --> 00:18:37,234
Speaker 2: got the DVD of this from the video shop when

497
00:18:37,234 --> 00:18:39,034
Speaker 2: I was like fourteen fifteen, like when I was really

498
00:18:39,074 --> 00:18:40,994
Speaker 2: getting into my like I have to see iconic movies.

499
00:18:41,074 --> 00:18:43,914
Speaker 2: Kick I didn't realize that you weren't supposed to hear.

500
00:18:44,034 --> 00:18:45,674
Speaker 2: And I want to tell you I had the sound up.

501
00:18:46,114 --> 00:18:48,194
Speaker 2: I have a year begins to speaker. I'm like, what

502
00:18:48,354 --> 00:18:50,234
Speaker 2: is he saying? And he has always said I said

503
00:18:50,234 --> 00:18:52,394
Speaker 2: something important to her, but they've never said what it is.

504
00:18:52,474 --> 00:18:55,074
Speaker 2: It was just between those characters, so we're never supposed

505
00:18:55,114 --> 00:18:55,554
Speaker 2: to know, ye.

506
00:18:55,554 --> 00:18:57,513
Speaker 3: Because apparently that in the script it was something like

507
00:18:57,594 --> 00:18:59,594
Speaker 3: I'm really going to miss you when they're saying goodbye.

508
00:18:59,834 --> 00:19:01,714
Speaker 1: But yeah, he won't say he's just it's just him

509
00:19:01,754 --> 00:19:04,074
Speaker 1: as a bit longer than that, Yeah, he said something else.

510
00:19:04,114 --> 00:19:05,754
Speaker 1: Maybe they had a real connection.

511
00:19:05,434 --> 00:19:07,954
Speaker 2: In real life. And he's saying that Fie murraying Scolet

512
00:19:08,034 --> 00:19:09,914
Speaker 2: or hands On hooked up. That woman has been through

513
00:19:09,994 --> 00:19:11,114
Speaker 2: enough with her crazy exit.

514
00:19:11,194 --> 00:19:12,274
Speaker 1: True, weird things have happened.

515
00:19:12,274 --> 00:19:14,353
Speaker 3: But I'm just gonna say, but the reason I picked this,

516
00:19:14,394 --> 00:19:17,034
Speaker 3: I'm not concerning the whole undertones of adultery. I just

517
00:19:17,034 --> 00:19:19,354
Speaker 3: don't put that out there. That's no fun, no, I know.

518
00:19:19,554 --> 00:19:22,793
Speaker 3: But I think the overall message takeaway is that not

519
00:19:22,834 --> 00:19:25,714
Speaker 3: all connections are forever. Some can be fleeting. We don't

520
00:19:25,754 --> 00:19:27,714
Speaker 3: have to continue or keep anything. It can just be

521
00:19:27,754 --> 00:19:29,514
Speaker 3: someone you meet in Tokyo and you have a really

522
00:19:29,554 --> 00:19:32,714
Speaker 3: intense connection. And just because you have all these emotions

523
00:19:32,714 --> 00:19:34,954
Speaker 3: and this really passionate goodbye, it doesn't mean it's destiny.

524
00:19:34,954 --> 00:19:36,234
Speaker 1: It doesn't mean you need to get your phone out

525
00:19:36,234 --> 00:19:36,714
Speaker 1: and keep it.

526
00:19:36,794 --> 00:19:39,594
Speaker 3: Yet. Some things can just be what they are, yeah,

527
00:19:39,594 --> 00:19:41,434
Speaker 3: and it can just be in that singular moment of time.

528
00:19:41,474 --> 00:19:43,794
Speaker 3: It also made me think about how not that either

529
00:19:43,794 --> 00:19:46,114
Speaker 3: of them are single, but if you were traveling when

530
00:19:46,154 --> 00:19:48,394
Speaker 3: you're single and being in a foreign city is just

531
00:19:48,434 --> 00:19:49,033
Speaker 3: so different.

532
00:19:49,114 --> 00:19:49,874
Speaker 1: I think it is.

533
00:19:49,914 --> 00:19:51,794
Speaker 2: And the thing is like traveling when you're single, which

534
00:19:51,834 --> 00:19:53,513
Speaker 2: I have traveled solo a lot. I know you have

535
00:19:53,594 --> 00:19:56,513
Speaker 2: as well, and it always falls like somewhere on the

536
00:19:56,514 --> 00:19:59,194
Speaker 2: different line, Like sometimes you do have these crazy experiences

537
00:19:59,194 --> 00:20:00,874
Speaker 2: where you'll meet someone or you have this adventure and

538
00:20:00,874 --> 00:20:03,674
Speaker 2: you're like, I'm a completely different person, and then sometimes

539
00:20:03,914 --> 00:20:06,074
Speaker 2: you're sitting alone in your hotel room and it's all

540
00:20:06,154 --> 00:20:09,514
Speaker 2: awful because you're a And I think that sometimes those

541
00:20:09,554 --> 00:20:12,514
Speaker 2: two realities don't get sort of seen because Scart Johnson's

542
00:20:12,594 --> 00:20:14,514
Speaker 2: character in the movie goes through both of those. One

543
00:20:14,594 --> 00:20:16,634
Speaker 2: is that she's she's obviously with that husband, but he's

544
00:20:16,674 --> 00:20:18,793
Speaker 2: practically not there because he's working around the clock. So

545
00:20:19,034 --> 00:20:20,914
Speaker 2: she's feeling really lost and alone and she's in this

546
00:20:20,954 --> 00:20:22,994
Speaker 2: glamorous city and she should be having fun, but she's

547
00:20:23,034 --> 00:20:25,354
Speaker 2: kind of just like having the worst time of her life.

548
00:20:25,354 --> 00:20:28,154
Speaker 2: And then she has like the big adventure with a

549
00:20:28,194 --> 00:20:31,794
Speaker 2: handsome stranger kind of thing. Yeah, well, I know, he's

550
00:20:31,794 --> 00:20:34,073
Speaker 2: a movie story. He's meant to be. Yeah, he's kind

551
00:20:34,074 --> 00:20:35,674
Speaker 2: of is Bill Murray, Like, he's meant to be like

552
00:20:35,914 --> 00:20:38,793
Speaker 2: not traditional movie star hot, but like very charismatic, and

553
00:20:38,794 --> 00:20:41,994
Speaker 2: everyone's really drawn to him. And the Anna Faris character,

554
00:20:42,074 --> 00:20:44,313
Speaker 2: you know, she she's like the actress. So that is

555
00:20:44,314 --> 00:20:46,794
Speaker 2: based on Cameron Diaz, and camer DIA's is not like that.

556
00:20:46,514 --> 00:20:49,474
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, thinking she reminds me of Cameron Diaz when

557
00:20:49,474 --> 00:20:51,314
Speaker 3: I was watching it without that context.

558
00:20:50,914 --> 00:20:54,154
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, yeah, no one's ever come out super

559
00:20:54,194 --> 00:20:56,714
Speaker 2: and said that, I don't think. But it was an

560
00:20:56,754 --> 00:20:59,273
Speaker 2: industry kind of thing where they were like, who's the

561
00:20:59,354 --> 00:21:02,354
Speaker 2: kind of typical, like bubbly, over the top actress who

562
00:21:02,794 --> 00:21:05,234
Speaker 2: we've all worked for before, and they kind of made

563
00:21:05,234 --> 00:21:07,914
Speaker 2: this caricature and that was the Anna Faris character. And

564
00:21:07,954 --> 00:21:10,354
Speaker 2: apparently Cameron Diaz was not a super fan of that.

565
00:21:10,594 --> 00:21:13,354
Speaker 3: Well, I can understand that, yeah the Hollywood law. But yeah,

566
00:21:13,434 --> 00:21:15,794
Speaker 3: lost in translation, I think worth rewatch. As you said,

567
00:21:15,794 --> 00:21:17,834
Speaker 3: you see both sides. You see a few, you know,

568
00:21:17,954 --> 00:21:20,954
Speaker 3: really fun parts out in Tokyo, that iconic karaoke.

569
00:21:20,714 --> 00:21:22,914
Speaker 1: Scene, but then you do see.

570
00:21:22,634 --> 00:21:24,073
Speaker 3: You know the other side of being single when you're

571
00:21:24,074 --> 00:21:25,434
Speaker 3: traveling and the difficult side of it. But I do

572
00:21:25,434 --> 00:21:27,114
Speaker 3: think it's a really good watch and a Galentine's Day

573
00:21:27,114 --> 00:21:28,194
Speaker 3: one I'd recommend.

574
00:21:27,914 --> 00:21:30,954
Speaker 2: Yes, definitely. Okay. I actually had a revelation when I

575
00:21:30,994 --> 00:21:34,234
Speaker 2: was prepping for this episode, Okay, and that is it

576
00:21:34,234 --> 00:21:36,514
Speaker 2: looks so feel scared. No, I mean I just really

577
00:21:36,554 --> 00:21:38,474
Speaker 2: made me question everything I thought I knew about myself.

578
00:21:38,514 --> 00:21:39,514
Speaker 2: So yeah, maybe it's a big deal.

579
00:21:39,554 --> 00:21:40,314
Speaker 1: So just a Tuesday.

580
00:21:40,474 --> 00:21:43,114
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just a Tuesday here in this office. That's Friday,

581
00:21:43,274 --> 00:21:45,793
Speaker 2: just a Friday here in this office. So you know

582
00:21:45,834 --> 00:21:47,954
Speaker 2: how like often, like we'll talk on this show about

583
00:21:47,954 --> 00:21:50,513
Speaker 2: like our favorite movies. When I'm like meeting you people

584
00:21:50,514 --> 00:21:52,273
Speaker 2: at dinner party, my favorite thing is to say, like,

585
00:21:52,274 --> 00:21:54,394
Speaker 2: what are your four favorite movies? Cause like it's so

586
00:21:54,594 --> 00:21:56,513
Speaker 2: hard to pick and people really think about it and

587
00:21:56,554 --> 00:21:58,634
Speaker 2: tells you so much about like what you grew up

588
00:21:58,674 --> 00:22:01,874
Speaker 2: watching what you like now, what countries you like to visit,

589
00:22:01,914 --> 00:22:03,714
Speaker 2: which actors you love like. It tells you so much

590
00:22:03,714 --> 00:22:05,914
Speaker 2: about I've got my four like set, and.

591
00:22:05,914 --> 00:22:07,994
Speaker 3: I feel like, as a person who knows you now,

592
00:22:08,074 --> 00:22:10,313
Speaker 3: I be scared answering that question because you are going

593
00:22:10,394 --> 00:22:11,874
Speaker 3: to have some takeaways from that.

594
00:22:11,954 --> 00:22:14,033
Speaker 2: I'm oh, my god, No, I wouldn't judge you for that.

595
00:22:14,074 --> 00:22:16,114
Speaker 2: I don't know know that. I know I'm a super judgmental,

596
00:22:16,154 --> 00:22:20,354
Speaker 2: awful person, but I would not judge someone's four favorite

597
00:22:20,354 --> 00:22:22,954
Speaker 2: movies because that is a sacred, sacred thing that's about

598
00:22:22,954 --> 00:22:25,594
Speaker 2: your personality, not so much your taste. Unless you're like, well,

599
00:22:25,634 --> 00:22:27,754
Speaker 2: I don't really like movies, I'd be like, well, what's

600
00:22:27,794 --> 00:22:31,954
Speaker 2: it like to live with the devoid of a personality? Exactly? So,

601
00:22:32,554 --> 00:22:34,874
Speaker 2: this movie I have never thought to put on my

602
00:22:34,914 --> 00:22:38,714
Speaker 2: favorite movie list, but I realized I've watched it more

603
00:22:38,754 --> 00:22:41,834
Speaker 2: times than most other movies in the world, and it's

604
00:22:41,874 --> 00:22:44,154
Speaker 2: forgetting Sarah Marshall. Oh my god.

605
00:22:44,154 --> 00:22:46,674
Speaker 3: That is literally I regularly when people say what is

606
00:22:46,674 --> 00:22:48,554
Speaker 3: your sense of humor? I say, that is the funniest

607
00:22:48,594 --> 00:22:49,234
Speaker 3: movie in the world.

608
00:22:49,714 --> 00:22:51,634
Speaker 2: And again, I just I know I've always liked it.

609
00:22:51,634 --> 00:22:53,114
Speaker 2: When people bring it up, I'm like, oh, I really

610
00:22:53,154 --> 00:22:55,513
Speaker 2: like that movie. But I only realized, like when I

611
00:22:55,554 --> 00:22:57,114
Speaker 2: went to Hawaii the end of last year, this is

612
00:22:57,114 --> 00:22:59,034
Speaker 2: set in Hawaii.

613
00:22:57,914 --> 00:23:03,834
Speaker 3: I thought about this for you.

614
00:23:02,794 --> 00:23:04,874
Speaker 2: Even though like they never leave the results, so like

615
00:23:04,874 --> 00:23:06,594
Speaker 2: you actually don't see any of a Hawaii. They could

616
00:23:06,634 --> 00:23:08,754
Speaker 2: be anywhere. It doesn't matter. I just get into like

617
00:23:08,954 --> 00:23:11,154
Speaker 2: a thing of watching it over and over again. So

618
00:23:11,194 --> 00:23:12,394
Speaker 2: that was the last time I did it. But I've

619
00:23:12,394 --> 00:23:13,914
Speaker 2: also just been at home during the week and I've

620
00:23:13,954 --> 00:23:15,634
Speaker 2: watched it three nights in a row. Like, I don't

621
00:23:15,634 --> 00:23:17,874
Speaker 2: know what it is about this movie. It's almost a

622
00:23:17,874 --> 00:23:21,594
Speaker 2: perfect movie in terms of like every character just hits.

623
00:23:21,674 --> 00:23:23,994
Speaker 2: The storyline is so good. But the reason I want

624
00:23:24,034 --> 00:23:25,874
Speaker 2: to pick it is that it is such a good

625
00:23:25,954 --> 00:23:29,114
Speaker 2: breakup movie and also a movie that makes you feel like, again,

626
00:23:29,154 --> 00:23:31,194
Speaker 2: it's better to be single than be in the wrong relationship.

627
00:23:31,194 --> 00:23:33,593
Speaker 2: But from a man's perspective, yeah, I feel like we

628
00:23:33,634 --> 00:23:37,553
Speaker 2: never see breakup movies where a male character is the

629
00:23:37,594 --> 00:23:40,754
Speaker 2: one who has been dumbed has a breakdown. You see

630
00:23:40,834 --> 00:23:43,553
Speaker 2: him sobbing, Like it's so good. So forgetting Sarah Marshall

631
00:23:43,594 --> 00:23:45,274
Speaker 2: came out in two thousand and eight. I still remember

632
00:23:45,274 --> 00:23:46,114
Speaker 2: seeing it at the cinema.

633
00:23:46,154 --> 00:23:49,194
Speaker 1: I still remember the opening bit. Oh, really opening, the

634
00:23:49,274 --> 00:23:51,313
Speaker 1: very opening scene confronting.

635
00:23:51,274 --> 00:23:53,314
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, yeah, exactly. Oh when he's naked. Yes,

636
00:23:53,434 --> 00:23:55,874
Speaker 2: that's so good. That was actually Jason Seagull because he

637
00:23:55,954 --> 00:23:58,994
Speaker 2: wrote the movie and stars in it. Oh, so he's

638
00:23:59,034 --> 00:24:01,754
Speaker 2: so clever. We were talking in the office the other

639
00:24:01,834 --> 00:24:05,114
Speaker 2: day about like which stars were like sexually attracted to

640
00:24:05,194 --> 00:24:07,594
Speaker 2: just because of their vibe and personality, and he came

641
00:24:07,674 --> 00:24:08,714
Speaker 2: up at the top of the list.

642
00:24:08,834 --> 00:24:12,154
Speaker 1: And mine's Mark Antony, as you know, told me a good.

643
00:24:12,034 --> 00:24:13,314
Speaker 2: Thing you went around that day. You would have get

644
00:24:13,354 --> 00:24:15,114
Speaker 2: roasted for that. I don't know if that makes me

645
00:24:15,154 --> 00:24:16,593
Speaker 2: a good boss or a bad boss that I'll let

646
00:24:16,594 --> 00:24:18,834
Speaker 2: my team have that conversation for like two hours during

647
00:24:18,874 --> 00:24:20,513
Speaker 2: the day, I think, but I think it was important.

648
00:24:20,554 --> 00:24:22,154
Speaker 2: And we came to the fact that Jason Siegel was

649
00:24:22,194 --> 00:24:24,513
Speaker 2: the top of the list, so he yes, he wrote

650
00:24:24,514 --> 00:24:27,034
Speaker 2: and starred in the movie. And it's so his character

651
00:24:27,234 --> 00:24:29,634
Speaker 2: gets broken up with by Sarah Marshall, who's this very

652
00:24:29,634 --> 00:24:33,354
Speaker 2: famous actress played by Kristen Bell who this was such

653
00:24:33,354 --> 00:24:35,994
Speaker 2: a departure for her too, because before this she was

654
00:24:36,034 --> 00:24:38,553
Speaker 2: mostly known from like Veronic Kamrs the voice of gossip

655
00:24:38,594 --> 00:24:41,033
Speaker 2: Girl or being like a Broadway star, and she was

656
00:24:41,114 --> 00:24:43,474
Speaker 2: kind of like always the good girl, and her personality

657
00:24:43,554 --> 00:24:46,634
Speaker 2: was also like so sparkly and fun and because she

658
00:24:46,714 --> 00:24:50,714
Speaker 2: plays this kind of like cutting really like self centered actress,

659
00:24:51,074 --> 00:24:53,394
Speaker 2: it was a departure for her. She's so good at it.

660
00:24:53,714 --> 00:24:55,474
Speaker 2: She's talked about since the fact that she was with

661
00:24:55,514 --> 00:24:58,114
Speaker 2: all these comedied legends because like Judd Apatow made the movie,

662
00:24:58,114 --> 00:25:00,513
Speaker 2: and Jason Seagull and like merely Kuness is in it,

663
00:25:00,554 --> 00:25:03,114
Speaker 2: and she comes from a big comedy background and Russell Brand,

664
00:25:03,154 --> 00:25:06,674
Speaker 2: who problematic now or even worse than problematic, like what's

665
00:25:06,714 --> 00:25:09,874
Speaker 2: the one universe over from that Russell Brand at the moment,

666
00:25:09,914 --> 00:25:12,074
Speaker 2: But in this movie, Russell Brand was incredible and he

667
00:25:12,154 --> 00:25:14,513
Speaker 2: was like the big comedic actor at the time. And

668
00:25:14,594 --> 00:25:16,834
Speaker 2: Kristen Bell talked about the fact that she was she

669
00:25:16,874 --> 00:25:18,954
Speaker 2: felt really out of her depth and everyone else was

670
00:25:18,994 --> 00:25:22,234
Speaker 2: improvising and coming with us all these ideas and she

671
00:25:22,314 --> 00:25:24,314
Speaker 2: just couldn't figure anything. And one day she just can't.

672
00:25:24,314 --> 00:25:27,914
Speaker 2: She improvised the line where her character goes bullshit bushit bushes,

673
00:25:28,434 --> 00:25:30,074
Speaker 2: and she was like, I just all of a sudden,

674
00:25:30,114 --> 00:25:31,994
Speaker 2: like She's like, I just became a comedy actress in

675
00:25:32,034 --> 00:25:34,674
Speaker 2: this moment, so I always think of that. But yeah,

676
00:25:34,714 --> 00:25:37,314
Speaker 2: you see her break up with him with Peter, and

677
00:25:37,434 --> 00:25:40,234
Speaker 2: so he goes off to Hawaii because he's heard her

678
00:25:40,274 --> 00:25:43,194
Speaker 2: mention it, and because his stepbrother Bill Hayter, who's also

679
00:25:43,314 --> 00:25:45,394
Speaker 2: so good in this, Like all the psychrimes, this are

680
00:25:45,434 --> 00:25:47,434
Speaker 2: so good. Joni Hill's so good. It's so good, such

681
00:25:47,434 --> 00:25:49,474
Speaker 2: a good movie. He goes off to Hawaii, only to

682
00:25:49,514 --> 00:25:53,514
Speaker 2: find out that his ex girlfriend Sarah Marshall and her

683
00:25:53,554 --> 00:25:57,034
Speaker 2: new boyfriend alda snow musician played by Russell Branner, also

684
00:25:57,034 --> 00:25:59,593
Speaker 2: at the hotel, and so they end up having to

685
00:25:59,674 --> 00:26:02,394
Speaker 2: like interact the whole time, and at the same time

686
00:26:02,434 --> 00:26:05,033
Speaker 2: he starts falling in love with Rachel, who works hotel,

687
00:26:05,074 --> 00:26:07,593
Speaker 2: which is Mila Kunis. Jonny Hill's so good in it,

688
00:26:07,634 --> 00:26:09,714
Speaker 2: and like Paul Rudd's in it, because of course it's

689
00:26:09,714 --> 00:26:11,154
Speaker 2: a it's a jut up at our movie.

690
00:26:11,194 --> 00:26:13,234
Speaker 3: And you know what my favorite thing was the one

691
00:26:13,274 --> 00:26:15,834
Speaker 3: where they're competing about who's having loudest sex.

692
00:26:16,034 --> 00:26:17,234
Speaker 1: Oh, that is so good.

693
00:26:17,314 --> 00:26:19,593
Speaker 3: They're just going ham and it just gets worse through it.

694
00:26:19,594 --> 00:26:21,474
Speaker 3: It goes on for too long you're just like, oh

695
00:26:21,514 --> 00:26:22,154
Speaker 3: my god, I know.

696
00:26:22,314 --> 00:26:24,234
Speaker 2: But the best shot of that is like when you

697
00:26:24,274 --> 00:26:27,154
Speaker 2: have Christian bellistation, She's screaming and the camera pans down

698
00:26:27,194 --> 00:26:29,714
Speaker 2: to Russell Brand and he's just like, looks so scared.

699
00:26:29,834 --> 00:26:32,273
Speaker 2: Like it's such a good comedic beat. So obviously, like

700
00:26:32,314 --> 00:26:35,034
Speaker 2: it does have a love story kind of weaved through

701
00:26:35,034 --> 00:26:37,754
Speaker 2: it between Peter and Rachel. So maybe it's nice to

702
00:26:37,794 --> 00:26:39,874
Speaker 2: watch on Valentine's Day because you're like, oh, maybe I'll

703
00:26:39,874 --> 00:26:41,634
Speaker 2: just fall in love when I least expect it, which,

704
00:26:41,794 --> 00:26:43,754
Speaker 2: just as a side, I hate when people say that

705
00:26:43,954 --> 00:26:45,834
Speaker 2: because that's probably means you're just sitting at home by

706
00:26:45,874 --> 00:26:47,314
Speaker 2: yourself and it's not going to happen. Like I think

707
00:26:47,354 --> 00:26:49,234
Speaker 2: you find love when you put the work in it

708
00:26:49,274 --> 00:26:50,314
Speaker 2: and you go out and find it.

709
00:26:50,514 --> 00:26:52,634
Speaker 3: I know what people mean when they say that, as in,

710
00:26:52,754 --> 00:26:54,954
Speaker 3: sometimes you're not in the place of your life where

711
00:26:54,954 --> 00:26:57,434
Speaker 3: you're expecting it, but like you were still on hinge,

712
00:26:57,514 --> 00:26:59,554
Speaker 3: you know, yeah, he's still.

713
00:26:59,314 --> 00:27:01,833
Speaker 2: Kind of got on the air. You can't just exist

714
00:27:01,874 --> 00:27:04,394
Speaker 2: in a vacuum that you're going to find someone. But

715
00:27:04,474 --> 00:27:06,354
Speaker 2: I do like that again, it's a really good break

716
00:27:06,434 --> 00:27:09,034
Speaker 2: up movie because he goes through the stages of grief

717
00:27:09,074 --> 00:27:12,594
Speaker 2: from a breakup in such a funny but also relatable way,

718
00:27:12,834 --> 00:27:15,273
Speaker 2: where he tries to talk her back into like staying

719
00:27:15,274 --> 00:27:16,594
Speaker 2: with him, and he's like, li, just let me hold

720
00:27:16,634 --> 00:27:18,954
Speaker 2: you and she's like oh no, oh no. Also she's

721
00:27:18,954 --> 00:27:21,313
Speaker 2: got the egs so bad. And then he's in this

722
00:27:21,354 --> 00:27:24,114
Speaker 2: beautiful resort and everyone's like, go and live your best life.

723
00:27:24,194 --> 00:27:26,594
Speaker 2: You're single, and he just ends up sobbing in the

724
00:27:27,434 --> 00:27:29,313
Speaker 2: in the hotel room until they call him from the

725
00:27:29,314 --> 00:27:31,394
Speaker 2: front desk and you're like, we've had reports of a

726
00:27:31,434 --> 00:27:33,434
Speaker 2: woman screaming. He's like, sorry, I'll try and keep it

727
00:27:33,434 --> 00:27:35,474
Speaker 2: down because it's him that would also make.

728
00:27:35,394 --> 00:27:36,834
Speaker 1: You not want to text your X when you see

729
00:27:36,874 --> 00:27:38,353
Speaker 1: her visibly getting the ick a little bit.

730
00:27:38,354 --> 00:27:40,793
Speaker 2: You'd be like, I don't want to be that person. Yeah, exactly.

731
00:27:40,874 --> 00:27:42,954
Speaker 2: And so you see him go through this breakup, and

732
00:27:42,994 --> 00:27:44,674
Speaker 2: then you also see because then he and Sarah get

733
00:27:44,674 --> 00:27:47,354
Speaker 2: the chance to get back together. And it's everyone's fantasy,

734
00:27:47,434 --> 00:27:49,074
Speaker 2: either when you're single a lot of the time, or

735
00:27:49,074 --> 00:27:51,234
Speaker 2: when you've been through a breakup, that the person will

736
00:27:51,274 --> 00:27:53,154
Speaker 2: realize they're wrong and they'll beg you to come back.

737
00:27:53,194 --> 00:27:56,314
Speaker 2: And that happens, and you see him be like, no,

738
00:27:56,474 --> 00:27:58,634
Speaker 2: actually being with you is awful and I'm a bad

739
00:27:58,714 --> 00:28:01,554
Speaker 2: version of myself when I'm with you, and it's better

740
00:28:01,594 --> 00:28:02,994
Speaker 2: for me to go off and be single because he

741
00:28:02,994 --> 00:28:04,594
Speaker 2: doesn't think he can be with Rachel at that stage.

742
00:28:04,594 --> 00:28:07,273
Speaker 2: So it's also like a good breakup single movie be

743
00:28:07,314 --> 00:28:09,154
Speaker 2: in that case of like sometimes it's better to be

744
00:28:09,194 --> 00:28:10,874
Speaker 2: single than being the bad relationship.

745
00:28:10,954 --> 00:28:12,954
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's sort of the running theme. I feel like

746
00:28:12,954 --> 00:28:15,394
Speaker 3: that's the running theme, as well as planning some kind

747
00:28:15,434 --> 00:28:17,834
Speaker 3: of trip like Hawaii the Grand Can. Yeah, it was

748
00:28:17,834 --> 00:28:19,714
Speaker 3: a few running themes here of like things you should

749
00:28:19,714 --> 00:28:20,434
Speaker 3: be doing and yeah.

750
00:28:20,594 --> 00:28:23,234
Speaker 2: Yeah, and also like as much as the Crista Beller

751
00:28:23,314 --> 00:28:25,273
Speaker 2: character can come off as a bit of a villain,

752
00:28:25,514 --> 00:28:27,434
Speaker 2: they give her like this redemption thing where she's like,

753
00:28:27,474 --> 00:28:30,553
Speaker 2: I tried everything. I went to sex classes, I tried hobbies,

754
00:28:30,594 --> 00:28:32,434
Speaker 2: I tried everything, and you just wouldn't give me anything.

755
00:28:32,714 --> 00:28:34,954
Speaker 2: And then she's also like, but I've gotta go off

756
00:28:34,954 --> 00:28:36,954
Speaker 2: and like my career is important. I'm going to often

757
00:28:36,994 --> 00:28:38,914
Speaker 2: do all this and everything too. So it's like kind

758
00:28:38,914 --> 00:28:41,754
Speaker 2: of just like just you know, in every turn a

759
00:28:41,794 --> 00:28:44,354
Speaker 2: perfect movie, I'm gonna watch it tonight. Really, Yeah, I

760
00:28:44,394 --> 00:28:45,794
Speaker 2: just like I'm just again, we're just doing all this

761
00:28:45,834 --> 00:28:47,994
Speaker 2: pr for these movies that came out like twenty years ago.

762
00:28:48,474 --> 00:28:49,954
Speaker 2: But I just think, also, if you can have a

763
00:28:49,954 --> 00:28:52,634
Speaker 2: good cry and a good laugh, and sometimes Valentine's Day

764
00:28:52,634 --> 00:28:55,114
Speaker 2: calls for both, Nana.

765
00:28:55,234 --> 00:28:57,554
Speaker 3: So my next one is probably what my pick would

766
00:28:57,594 --> 00:28:59,714
Speaker 3: be if I was in, I don't know, going through

767
00:28:59,754 --> 00:29:01,834
Speaker 3: a breakup or on the ledge, like, you know, the

768
00:29:01,954 --> 00:29:06,354
Speaker 3: emotional ledge breakup, of what I would watch to be like, Okay,

769
00:29:06,434 --> 00:29:08,474
Speaker 3: don't text the person, I don't do anything silly, just

770
00:29:08,474 --> 00:29:09,354
Speaker 3: stay home and watch.

771
00:29:09,154 --> 00:29:12,874
Speaker 1: This movie, Eat, Pray, Love, Okay. And I don't know.

772
00:29:12,794 --> 00:29:15,034
Speaker 2: That I feel a little bit of judgment. I'm not

773
00:29:15,034 --> 00:29:17,594
Speaker 2: gonna lie, and that it was a really basic thing.

774
00:29:17,914 --> 00:29:20,514
Speaker 2: It's just so funny because I just couldn't see. I

775
00:29:20,554 --> 00:29:22,594
Speaker 2: had so many choices and I couldn't think. So I

776
00:29:22,634 --> 00:29:24,994
Speaker 2: googled movies to watch when you're single before I came in,

777
00:29:25,074 --> 00:29:26,554
Speaker 2: and that one came to the top of every list.

778
00:29:26,594 --> 00:29:28,434
Speaker 2: I'm like, Oh, what kind of the heck could pick

779
00:29:28,514 --> 00:29:34,074
Speaker 2: such an obvious choice? And well, all right, well guys,

780
00:29:34,754 --> 00:29:37,234
Speaker 2: you you stand by your choice. And to be fair,

781
00:29:37,674 --> 00:29:40,714
Speaker 2: that movie and book like shaped a whole generation of

782
00:29:40,714 --> 00:29:42,594
Speaker 2: women to go out and be single, for better or

783
00:29:42,674 --> 00:29:44,474
Speaker 2: for worse. There's a lot of issues around that book,

784
00:29:44,474 --> 00:29:45,234
Speaker 2: I feel a movie.

785
00:29:45,274 --> 00:29:47,114
Speaker 3: But well, the reason I picked it when I was like,

786
00:29:47,154 --> 00:29:48,954
Speaker 3: am I being too basic? Because that thought did run

787
00:29:48,994 --> 00:29:49,914
Speaker 3: through my head, Like.

788
00:29:49,834 --> 00:29:51,514
Speaker 2: You know, who's going to point that out, Laura's going

789
00:29:51,514 --> 00:29:52,234
Speaker 2: to tell me I'm basic.

790
00:29:52,314 --> 00:29:54,074
Speaker 3: Well, I think like almost everyone has seen it, but

791
00:29:54,114 --> 00:29:55,394
Speaker 3: when I brought it up to friends, a lot of

792
00:29:55,394 --> 00:29:57,674
Speaker 3: people haven't rewatched it recently.

793
00:29:57,394 --> 00:29:59,514
Speaker 1: Okay, And I think it's for people around my age.

794
00:29:59,514 --> 00:30:01,074
Speaker 3: When it came out, you were probably a little bit

795
00:30:01,114 --> 00:30:03,674
Speaker 3: too young to appreciate it. But now I've watched it

796
00:30:03,714 --> 00:30:05,354
Speaker 3: as like someone a little bit older, and I'm like,

797
00:30:05,434 --> 00:30:08,434
Speaker 3: it's such a greatful But I mean for anyone who

798
00:30:08,474 --> 00:30:11,274
Speaker 3: doesn't know. It's based on the life of New York

799
00:30:11,274 --> 00:30:13,874
Speaker 3: Times besselling author Elizabeth Gilbert, and like her name, her

800
00:30:13,914 --> 00:30:16,234
Speaker 3: character is Elizabeth Gilbert in the movie, it's based on

801
00:30:16,274 --> 00:30:18,874
Speaker 3: her memoir Eat, Pray, Love, and Julia Roberts plays her.

802
00:30:18,914 --> 00:30:21,154
Speaker 3: I mean Julia Roberts, featuring strongly in today's episode.

803
00:30:21,194 --> 00:30:23,314
Speaker 2: I mean, if anyone needs to be around Valentine's Day,

804
00:30:23,314 --> 00:30:25,834
Speaker 2: it's Julia Roberts. She's even in the movie Valentine's Day,

805
00:30:25,994 --> 00:30:27,674
Speaker 2: which I love that none of us picked because that's

806
00:30:27,674 --> 00:30:28,234
Speaker 2: a terrible movie.

807
00:30:28,274 --> 00:30:28,994
Speaker 1: Well that would be too.

808
00:30:30,154 --> 00:30:32,394
Speaker 3: So she has this bad divorce and she leaves her

809
00:30:32,394 --> 00:30:35,234
Speaker 3: whole life, her big city girl life behind, and she

810
00:30:35,274 --> 00:30:37,994
Speaker 3: goes around the world to Italy, India, and Bali. So

811
00:30:38,034 --> 00:30:41,194
Speaker 3: she eats in Italy, she prays, and she finds spirituality

812
00:30:41,234 --> 00:30:43,514
Speaker 3: in India, and then she falls in love with the

813
00:30:43,514 --> 00:30:47,034
Speaker 3: beautiful Lavia And I mean, it's just worth it for that, really,

814
00:30:47,074 --> 00:30:49,234
Speaker 3: But I like that at the start we see a

815
00:30:49,234 --> 00:30:51,434
Speaker 3: big character art because at the start she's literally crying

816
00:30:51,434 --> 00:30:53,794
Speaker 3: on the bathroom floor being like, I need to change

817
00:30:53,834 --> 00:30:55,674
Speaker 3: my whole life, and we just see her go on

818
00:30:55,714 --> 00:30:58,234
Speaker 3: this amazing journey and it's all the good things. It's travel,

819
00:30:58,274 --> 00:31:01,234
Speaker 3: it's making new friends, it's you know, quote unquote finding herself.

820
00:31:01,234 --> 00:31:01,914
Speaker 1: I hate myself.

821
00:31:03,114 --> 00:31:05,114
Speaker 3: But one of my favorite scenes is when she's in

822
00:31:05,274 --> 00:31:08,634
Speaker 3: Napoli with one of her new friends eating pizza and

823
00:31:08,674 --> 00:31:10,274
Speaker 3: her friend doesn't want to eat pizza because she's like,

824
00:31:10,314 --> 00:31:11,914
Speaker 3: I've been traveling through Italy and I'm eating too much

825
00:31:11,914 --> 00:31:13,434
Speaker 3: and I'm getting so much weight. And she goes on

826
00:31:13,434 --> 00:31:16,074
Speaker 3: this little spiel and it's such a big sister Julia Robertson.

827
00:31:16,634 --> 00:31:18,994
Speaker 3: She's like, I'm sick of waking up the next day

828
00:31:19,074 --> 00:31:20,754
Speaker 3: every time I go out for dinner and being like

829
00:31:21,074 --> 00:31:22,994
Speaker 3: how many calories did I have? How much do I

830
00:31:22,994 --> 00:31:25,194
Speaker 3: need to exercise to burn that off? And I think

831
00:31:25,274 --> 00:31:27,274
Speaker 3: just that scene resonated with a lot of women, and

832
00:31:27,834 --> 00:31:30,274
Speaker 3: she was like to a friend, like we're in Napoli, Like, yeah,

833
00:31:30,354 --> 00:31:31,674
Speaker 3: you're not going to eat this pizza, right?

834
00:31:31,754 --> 00:31:34,074
Speaker 2: That is It's so funny that scene. I've heard so

835
00:31:34,114 --> 00:31:36,154
Speaker 2: many women discuss that scene and their first thought is

836
00:31:36,194 --> 00:31:38,794
Speaker 2: always like, oh, I hate that scene because like it's

837
00:31:38,794 --> 00:31:41,834
Speaker 2: such a caricature of women caring about weight, and like

838
00:31:41,914 --> 00:31:43,834
Speaker 2: women don't really talk like that, or like why do

839
00:31:43,874 --> 00:31:45,554
Speaker 2: they have to shoehorn that in there? It feels like

840
00:31:45,594 --> 00:31:47,434
Speaker 2: over the top feminism. But then the more they talk

841
00:31:47,434 --> 00:31:48,994
Speaker 2: about they're like, oh, but when I'm on holiday, I

842
00:31:48,994 --> 00:31:50,714
Speaker 2: do think that, or like I do say that. And

843
00:31:50,714 --> 00:31:52,634
Speaker 2: it's like I've seen so many people have a real

844
00:31:52,674 --> 00:31:56,154
Speaker 2: time realization talking about that scene of like, oh, like

845
00:31:56,194 --> 00:31:59,154
Speaker 2: I thought it was silly, but it actually is quite

846
00:31:59,194 --> 00:32:00,674
Speaker 2: a true thing. And maybe that's why I had such

847
00:32:00,674 --> 00:32:01,994
Speaker 2: an intense reaction to it.

848
00:32:02,154 --> 00:32:03,874
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it does emulate a lot of thoughts

849
00:32:03,914 --> 00:32:05,834
Speaker 3: you probably have in your head and don't say out loud.

850
00:32:05,914 --> 00:32:07,834
Speaker 3: So I really like that scene the two of them,

851
00:32:07,994 --> 00:32:10,074
Speaker 3: and it was just really nice to see her. I mean,

852
00:32:10,474 --> 00:32:12,874
Speaker 3: for a good chunk of the movie, she's like learning

853
00:32:12,874 --> 00:32:15,074
Speaker 3: to enjoy her life without male valination and she's doing

854
00:32:15,154 --> 00:32:15,634
Speaker 3: her own thing.

855
00:32:15,834 --> 00:32:16,394
Speaker 2: I will say.

856
00:32:16,434 --> 00:32:18,514
Speaker 3: I know there's a lot of criticism around this movie

857
00:32:18,554 --> 00:32:21,914
Speaker 3: because in real life, Elizabeth Gilbert used her two hundred thousand.

858
00:32:21,594 --> 00:32:23,714
Speaker 1: Dollars book advance to go on this trip.

859
00:32:23,754 --> 00:32:26,114
Speaker 3: So it's not an aspirational movie in the sense of

860
00:32:26,154 --> 00:32:28,514
Speaker 3: being like, oh, I'm gonna spend four months in three

861
00:32:28,514 --> 00:32:30,634
Speaker 3: different countries each and that's how I'm gonna get.

862
00:32:30,474 --> 00:32:33,674
Speaker 2: I'm sort of torn about the whole message because yes, yes,

863
00:32:33,514 --> 00:32:35,274
Speaker 2: she went on the trip because she knew she was

864
00:32:35,274 --> 00:32:36,674
Speaker 2: writing the book and that's how she had the money

865
00:32:36,714 --> 00:32:38,114
Speaker 2: to go, and that's why she was doing a lot

866
00:32:38,154 --> 00:32:40,954
Speaker 2: of these things outside of her comfort zone for the plot,

867
00:32:41,034 --> 00:32:43,514
Speaker 2: which is not a bad way to live life. I'm

868
00:32:43,514 --> 00:32:45,474
Speaker 2: always torn about this movie because on one hand, I

869
00:32:45,514 --> 00:32:48,234
Speaker 2: love the idea of going off and like adventure and

870
00:32:48,274 --> 00:32:50,554
Speaker 2: being single and all that sort of stuff. Being shaped

871
00:32:50,554 --> 00:32:53,594
Speaker 2: as this aspirational thing. But on the other hand, I

872
00:32:53,594 --> 00:32:56,074
Speaker 2: always hate this pressure of like, if you're single, then

873
00:32:56,074 --> 00:32:58,674
Speaker 2: you have to be doing something really big. You can't

874
00:32:58,714 --> 00:33:02,034
Speaker 2: just exist, you have to be traveling having adventures like

875
00:33:02,274 --> 00:33:04,434
Speaker 2: I feel now because I'm single. Whenever I catch other people,

876
00:33:04,434 --> 00:33:06,314
Speaker 2: they're just like, oh my god, what's been happening? And

877
00:33:06,314 --> 00:33:08,314
Speaker 2: if I don't have a worry of like like, oh

878
00:33:08,354 --> 00:33:10,434
Speaker 2: I kind of miss Mountain, I went swim with man terrees,

879
00:33:10,794 --> 00:33:12,474
Speaker 2: I like got in a fight with Kim Karashi and

880
00:33:12,474 --> 00:33:14,514
Speaker 2: all real things will happen you all those no I know,

881
00:33:14,594 --> 00:33:16,154
Speaker 2: but I feel like I have to have them.

882
00:33:16,194 --> 00:33:18,714
Speaker 1: Maybe you're the problem standard too hot.

883
00:33:19,034 --> 00:33:21,074
Speaker 2: I just feel like I can't say I've been existing

884
00:33:21,114 --> 00:33:23,114
Speaker 2: because I'm single, Whereas I have a lot of friends

885
00:33:23,114 --> 00:33:26,234
Speaker 2: who just exist in a lovely way, which sounds very peaceful.

886
00:33:26,314 --> 00:33:28,594
Speaker 2: But because they're partnered up, they don't have to be

887
00:33:28,994 --> 00:33:32,074
Speaker 2: the like adventure teller. And I do tell this movie

888
00:33:32,314 --> 00:33:35,034
Speaker 2: might have perpetrated that myth, but also it was helpful

889
00:33:35,034 --> 00:33:35,954
Speaker 2: to women. I'm very torn.

890
00:33:36,034 --> 00:33:38,394
Speaker 1: Okay, well, is it such a complicated movie This movie

891
00:33:38,434 --> 00:33:39,954
Speaker 1: brings out and you said it was basic.

892
00:33:40,194 --> 00:33:41,954
Speaker 2: No, it is basic. I stand by that, but it

893
00:33:42,234 --> 00:33:44,114
Speaker 2: just it's one of those movies that it always gets

894
00:33:44,394 --> 00:33:48,034
Speaker 2: people very wilder, people have a very intense view on it.

895
00:33:48,074 --> 00:33:50,114
Speaker 3: I think, well, if you do decide to watch the

896
00:33:50,194 --> 00:33:52,874
Speaker 3: scale of times day, maybe take away lesser I need

897
00:33:52,914 --> 00:33:54,994
Speaker 3: to do all these crazy things. But if you've recently

898
00:33:54,994 --> 00:33:56,914
Speaker 3: gone through a World Cup, it could be a good Okay,

899
00:33:56,914 --> 00:33:58,114
Speaker 3: what can I do to folks on myself?

900
00:33:58,114 --> 00:33:59,354
Speaker 1: I mean, you don't have to go to India. You

901
00:33:59,354 --> 00:34:01,074
Speaker 1: could book some quickly little.

902
00:34:00,874 --> 00:34:04,034
Speaker 3: Meditation retreat, like in a random country town in two hours.

903
00:34:04,074 --> 00:34:06,274
Speaker 2: So true, you are, it might not have the exact

904
00:34:06,274 --> 00:34:07,474
Speaker 2: same vine.

905
00:34:07,834 --> 00:34:09,274
Speaker 3: You know, we do what we can in this. Yeah,

906
00:34:09,514 --> 00:34:11,754
Speaker 3: so you know have a rewatch, I say.

907
00:34:11,714 --> 00:34:15,514
Speaker 2: Yes, exactly. Okay. My last one is there's maybe like

908
00:34:15,594 --> 00:34:18,154
Speaker 2: three movies in my entire life that have scared me

909
00:34:18,314 --> 00:34:21,434
Speaker 2: so badly that like I had a physical response and

910
00:34:21,554 --> 00:34:22,554
Speaker 2: was scared to go outside.

911
00:34:22,554 --> 00:34:23,754
Speaker 1: Because you're not easily scared.

912
00:34:23,834 --> 00:34:25,754
Speaker 2: I'm not easily scared at all. But when I'm scared,

913
00:34:25,754 --> 00:34:28,473
Speaker 2: I'm scared to the point of like my body shuts down.

914
00:34:28,794 --> 00:34:30,433
Speaker 2: And this is one of those movies. And I thought

915
00:34:30,434 --> 00:34:33,393
Speaker 2: it would be so good for Galentine's Day, maybe over

916
00:34:33,514 --> 00:34:35,873
Speaker 2: your night with that. No, I just think when you

917
00:34:35,914 --> 00:34:37,794
Speaker 2: were telling me your vision for this episode, and you

918
00:34:37,794 --> 00:34:40,433
Speaker 2: were saying, like like empowering, or maybe it'll make you

919
00:34:40,434 --> 00:34:41,873
Speaker 2: not want to be in a relationship. And I was like,

920
00:34:41,914 --> 00:34:43,913
Speaker 2: when I watch this movie, I vowed to never touch

921
00:34:43,954 --> 00:34:45,914
Speaker 2: another human being again. And it did come out in

922
00:34:45,914 --> 00:34:48,674
Speaker 2: twenty fourteen, so I haven't stuck to that, but for

923
00:34:48,714 --> 00:34:51,714
Speaker 2: a long time there I was like, no intimacy, no dating,

924
00:34:51,754 --> 00:34:53,514
Speaker 2: no sex. This movie is scared it out of me.

925
00:34:53,914 --> 00:34:56,634
Speaker 2: And the movie is called It follows. I'm not gonna

926
00:34:56,634 --> 00:34:58,354
Speaker 2: ask you've seen it because I know you haven't, and

927
00:34:58,394 --> 00:35:00,433
Speaker 2: I don't think you should watch it to horror movie.

928
00:35:00,474 --> 00:35:03,394
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Okay. It's a horror movie linked to dating

929
00:35:03,394 --> 00:35:05,873
Speaker 2: and sexually transmitted diseases, so it is kind of meant

930
00:35:05,914 --> 00:35:07,034
Speaker 2: to be a little bit scared.

931
00:35:07,954 --> 00:35:08,354
Speaker 3: What are you saying.

932
00:35:08,394 --> 00:35:10,354
Speaker 2: If you're feeling bad about being single, you watch this

933
00:35:10,434 --> 00:35:12,234
Speaker 2: movie and you won't feel bad anymore. You'll be like,

934
00:35:12,234 --> 00:35:13,873
Speaker 2: thank God I'm single because I'm the only one who's

935
00:35:13,874 --> 00:35:14,274
Speaker 2: gonna live.

936
00:35:14,314 --> 00:35:15,274
Speaker 1: Okay, tell me what it's about.

937
00:35:15,274 --> 00:35:18,474
Speaker 2: Okay. So it's a psychological horror film and it stars

938
00:35:18,514 --> 00:35:20,514
Speaker 2: one of my favorite screen queens. She's in a lot

939
00:35:20,514 --> 00:35:23,514
Speaker 2: of horror movies, Micah Munro, she's like in Long Legs

940
00:35:23,514 --> 00:35:26,354
Speaker 2: and all these other movies. So she plays a young

941
00:35:26,394 --> 00:35:28,834
Speaker 2: girl called Jay, like a university student, and she's just

942
00:35:28,914 --> 00:35:30,433
Speaker 2: met this guy and they go out on a date

943
00:35:30,514 --> 00:35:32,154
Speaker 2: and it's all kind of cute. They go the movies

944
00:35:32,514 --> 00:35:33,954
Speaker 2: and then they hook up for the first time in

945
00:35:33,994 --> 00:35:37,274
Speaker 2: his car and with a protection I'm guessing without protection,

946
00:35:37,354 --> 00:35:39,354
Speaker 2: although that would not have saved her in this case.

947
00:35:39,874 --> 00:35:41,634
Speaker 2: And then the next moment they've finished having sex and

948
00:35:41,634 --> 00:35:43,354
Speaker 2: she's like feeling really happy and they're chatting the car,

949
00:35:43,394 --> 00:35:45,474
Speaker 2: and then he drugs her and knocks her out, and

950
00:35:45,554 --> 00:35:48,714
Speaker 2: she wakes up tied to a wheelchair in this like

951
00:35:48,874 --> 00:35:51,234
Speaker 2: empty warehouse, and he was like, I'm sorry I did

952
00:35:51,234 --> 00:35:52,994
Speaker 2: that to you, but it just needed you to see.

953
00:35:53,234 --> 00:35:55,474
Speaker 2: And in the distance she can see this like figure

954
00:35:55,514 --> 00:35:59,314
Speaker 2: of an old woman walking really really really slowly towards them.

955
00:35:59,634 --> 00:36:02,714
Speaker 2: And what's happened is there is this entity that gets

956
00:36:02,754 --> 00:36:05,714
Speaker 2: passed from person to person through who you have sex with.

957
00:36:05,834 --> 00:36:07,834
Speaker 2: So the guy that's had sex with her and then

958
00:36:07,914 --> 00:36:09,993
Speaker 2: knocked her out, he had had sex with another girl.

959
00:36:10,034 --> 00:36:13,033
Speaker 2: So now the entity is following him and it has

960
00:36:13,074 --> 00:36:14,993
Speaker 2: to kill him, and then it'll go back down the line,

961
00:36:15,034 --> 00:36:16,754
Speaker 2: so he has slept with Jay to pass it on

962
00:36:16,794 --> 00:36:18,714
Speaker 2: to her, but he wants to give her a chance. Also,

963
00:36:18,754 --> 00:36:20,954
Speaker 2: the longer she stays alive, the longer he'll stay alive.

964
00:36:21,274 --> 00:36:23,074
Speaker 2: So he's like, I want you to see that it's real.

965
00:36:23,234 --> 00:36:25,554
Speaker 2: There it is. It can only walk, it can only

966
00:36:25,594 --> 00:36:28,394
Speaker 2: walk at a slow pace, but it can change figures

967
00:36:28,434 --> 00:36:31,314
Speaker 2: and appear as different people, and it will never stop coming.

968
00:36:31,394 --> 00:36:33,674
Speaker 2: As long as you don't stop moving, it can't get you.

969
00:36:33,714 --> 00:36:34,474
Speaker 1: But how do you sleep?

970
00:36:34,994 --> 00:36:37,154
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, I wouldn't recommend sleeping, but he then

971
00:36:37,194 --> 00:36:39,514
Speaker 2: he says to her, like, now go and sleep with

972
00:36:39,554 --> 00:36:41,754
Speaker 2: more people and pass it on because the more people

973
00:36:41,754 --> 00:36:43,953
Speaker 2: they have to kill. And you see the entity. That's

974
00:36:43,994 --> 00:36:45,594
Speaker 2: like a cold open where you see one of the

975
00:36:45,594 --> 00:36:48,554
Speaker 2: girls that is being caught up in this like sexually

976
00:36:48,554 --> 00:36:52,834
Speaker 2: transmitted demon thing being brutally murdered. And so at first

977
00:36:52,914 --> 00:36:55,034
Speaker 2: she obviously doesn't believe him. She just think like she

978
00:36:55,034 --> 00:36:56,954
Speaker 2: reports them to the police, found out he's used a

979
00:36:56,954 --> 00:36:59,954
Speaker 2: fake name, and she doesn't believe him because why would you?

980
00:37:00,114 --> 00:37:01,554
Speaker 1: But can't she see the thing following her?

981
00:37:01,594 --> 00:37:03,194
Speaker 2: She can see something in the distance, but you know,

982
00:37:03,234 --> 00:37:04,873
Speaker 2: you're so like and then he like drops her home

983
00:37:04,914 --> 00:37:06,594
Speaker 2: and she's so terrified she calls the police find it.

984
00:37:06,634 --> 00:37:08,754
Speaker 2: He's using a name anyway. Next say, she's a college

985
00:37:08,754 --> 00:37:11,234
Speaker 2: and she looks up and sees this like person walking

986
00:37:11,274 --> 00:37:13,114
Speaker 2: slowly towards her. So then she starts to fit like

987
00:37:13,114 --> 00:37:14,754
Speaker 2: it's real. So then like the rest of the movie

988
00:37:14,794 --> 00:37:17,434
Speaker 2: is like her trying to escape the slow moving creature,

989
00:37:17,954 --> 00:37:19,714
Speaker 2: being torn between like wanting to pass it on to

990
00:37:19,794 --> 00:37:22,194
Speaker 2: someone else and like try and protect herself. She does

991
00:37:22,234 --> 00:37:24,274
Speaker 2: sleep with a friend of hers and he meets a

992
00:37:24,394 --> 00:37:27,074
Speaker 2: terrible end, sleeps with another friend and it's.

993
00:37:26,914 --> 00:37:29,073
Speaker 1: Just it's sleep with a friend of yours.

994
00:37:30,034 --> 00:37:31,794
Speaker 2: Both of these boys off it and that's like how

995
00:37:31,834 --> 00:37:35,154
Speaker 2: far boys will go sometimes to have sex. Things gonna

996
00:37:35,154 --> 00:37:38,234
Speaker 2: follow them. Yeah, exactly. I mean the movie is like

997
00:37:38,594 --> 00:37:40,634
Speaker 2: it's not secret about the fact. It's kind of like

998
00:37:41,074 --> 00:37:44,194
Speaker 2: a play on like sexually transmitted diseases and like that

999
00:37:44,274 --> 00:37:46,553
Speaker 2: when you sleep with someone the consequences of what could

1000
00:37:46,554 --> 00:37:48,393
Speaker 2: happen in a different way to you can know. Like

1001
00:37:48,434 --> 00:37:50,714
Speaker 2: a lot of slasher movies, like with Scream and I

1002
00:37:50,714 --> 00:37:52,274
Speaker 2: know you did the Last Summer and stuff, it's always

1003
00:37:52,274 --> 00:37:54,474
Speaker 2: the particularly the women who have sex that get brutally

1004
00:37:54,554 --> 00:37:56,834
Speaker 2: murdered first What I like about this movie is it's

1005
00:37:56,834 --> 00:37:57,554
Speaker 2: mostly the men.

1006
00:37:57,554 --> 00:37:58,593
Speaker 1: So it's a feminist tale.

1007
00:37:58,714 --> 00:38:01,154
Speaker 2: It's a feminist tale because you know what, this entity

1008
00:38:01,194 --> 00:38:03,034
Speaker 2: does not discriminate. It doesn't care if you're a girl

1009
00:38:03,074 --> 00:38:04,594
Speaker 2: having sex to a boy having sex. It'll kill you

1010
00:38:04,634 --> 00:38:07,634
Speaker 2: either way. But it's all bad. It's all all bad.

1011
00:38:07,794 --> 00:38:10,074
Speaker 2: All met are bad or women are bad. Don't touch anyone,

1012
00:38:10,074 --> 00:38:12,314
Speaker 2: don't have sex with anyone, go straight at home and

1013
00:38:12,314 --> 00:38:14,314
Speaker 2: watch TV on your cat. I never talked to one

1014
00:38:14,314 --> 00:38:15,834
Speaker 2: of the human being is the message of this movie.

1015
00:38:15,874 --> 00:38:18,554
Speaker 2: And I just think, on Valentine's Day, that's not the

1016
00:38:18,594 --> 00:38:20,553
Speaker 2: worst thing. So I sit down to I've heard about

1017
00:38:20,554 --> 00:38:22,994
Speaker 2: this movie like it premiered at film festivals. It was

1018
00:38:23,034 --> 00:38:26,354
Speaker 2: becoming a cult classic. I love a really smart horror film.

1019
00:38:26,394 --> 00:38:28,393
Speaker 2: I was so excited to watch it. I watched it

1020
00:38:28,394 --> 00:38:30,354
Speaker 2: over Christmas and I was staying with all my family

1021
00:38:30,434 --> 00:38:31,953
Speaker 2: in my sister's house and I just watched it by

1022
00:38:31,994 --> 00:38:34,194
Speaker 2: myself downstairs on the couch and her living room in

1023
00:38:34,274 --> 00:38:36,754
Speaker 2: the middle of the day. And by the end I

1024
00:38:36,794 --> 00:38:39,154
Speaker 2: couldn't even get to turn off. I was so I know,

1025
00:38:39,194 --> 00:38:41,514
Speaker 2: I meant it sound silly, but it is so scary.

1026
00:38:41,554 --> 00:38:43,433
Speaker 2: It is one of the most scary things I've ever seen.

1027
00:38:43,634 --> 00:38:46,314
Speaker 2: I was shaking. My mum then asked me to walk

1028
00:38:46,314 --> 00:38:47,954
Speaker 2: down to the store and get some stuff for dinner,

1029
00:38:48,314 --> 00:38:50,553
Speaker 2: and I was like, but it follows, mom, Oh my god,

1030
00:38:50,554 --> 00:38:51,913
Speaker 2: I know, but I also didn't want to be in

1031
00:38:51,914 --> 00:38:53,433
Speaker 2: the house. I wouldn't side. And when I tell you,

1032
00:38:53,514 --> 00:38:55,114
Speaker 2: I was walking down the street in the middle of

1033
00:38:55,114 --> 00:38:57,794
Speaker 2: the day in Brisbane shaking. I went into the shopping

1034
00:38:57,834 --> 00:39:00,074
Speaker 2: center to get the groceries and I was still like.

1035
00:39:00,154 --> 00:39:02,154
Speaker 2: I was like, worry about which i'le to go down?

1036
00:39:02,514 --> 00:39:05,954
Speaker 2: This is ten years ago. I'm a full adult, but which, Man,

1037
00:39:07,194 --> 00:39:08,994
Speaker 2: wait if I go and hear this, No, it's just

1038
00:39:09,034 --> 00:39:10,714
Speaker 2: like it's stayed with me. That night, I couldn't sleep.

1039
00:39:10,714 --> 00:39:12,114
Speaker 2: I saw the lights on, but I just didn't go

1040
00:39:12,154 --> 00:39:13,754
Speaker 2: to sleep. And I just it's been since I was

1041
00:39:13,794 --> 00:39:15,953
Speaker 2: a kid that a horror movie has scared me that much.

1042
00:39:16,234 --> 00:39:17,994
Speaker 2: And yeah, I didn't want touch another human being for

1043
00:39:18,034 --> 00:39:19,154
Speaker 2: a really long time after that.

1044
00:39:19,234 --> 00:39:20,474
Speaker 1: Well, I don't think I'm going to be watching that.

1045
00:39:20,594 --> 00:39:24,674
Speaker 2: So Happy Gallantine's Day, VAL's Day, Get some snack. If

1046
00:39:24,674 --> 00:39:26,594
Speaker 2: you're feeling bad about being single, let me tell you

1047
00:39:26,634 --> 00:39:29,354
Speaker 2: this movie and knock it right out. Of you, okay,

1048
00:39:29,474 --> 00:39:32,754
Speaker 2: changing the tone slightly like that she thinks I ruined

1049
00:39:32,754 --> 00:39:36,074
Speaker 2: her lovely episode. It's not the vision. Sorry.

1050
00:39:36,274 --> 00:39:38,634
Speaker 1: Sorry, So I have one more, which is a little

1051
00:39:38,794 --> 00:39:40,913
Speaker 1: I feel like that was your rogue pick. This is

1052
00:39:40,954 --> 00:39:41,674
Speaker 1: my rogue pick.

1053
00:39:42,234 --> 00:39:44,874
Speaker 3: It's also just a great film, okay, and I refuse

1054
00:39:44,914 --> 00:39:47,393
Speaker 3: to summarize the plot because everyone has seen it.

1055
00:39:47,474 --> 00:39:49,914
Speaker 1: Okay, Ice Age, what okay?

1056
00:39:49,954 --> 00:39:50,393
Speaker 2: But let me.

1057
00:39:50,434 --> 00:39:52,554
Speaker 3: I've got a list of reasons why you should watch

1058
00:39:52,634 --> 00:39:54,594
Speaker 3: Ice Age to stop you texting your X.

1059
00:39:54,674 --> 00:39:56,434
Speaker 2: Oh, that's because you're sexually attracted to the same to the

1060
00:39:56,514 --> 00:39:59,554
Speaker 2: tiger I've heard. Okay, So I.

1061
00:39:59,474 --> 00:40:01,634
Speaker 3: Could write a thesis on why I Sage is the

1062
00:40:01,634 --> 00:40:05,354
Speaker 3: perfect breakup movie number one. It is so emotionally disconnected

1063
00:40:05,354 --> 00:40:07,714
Speaker 3: from romance that I just feel like your brain aren't spiral,

1064
00:40:07,794 --> 00:40:08,754
Speaker 3: like there is so much going on.

1065
00:40:08,834 --> 00:40:10,393
Speaker 1: It's pure comfort distraction.

1066
00:40:10,594 --> 00:40:12,553
Speaker 2: You're looking at me like I've been saying, just think

1067
00:40:12,554 --> 00:40:13,874
Speaker 2: this is not vibe.

1068
00:40:13,994 --> 00:40:17,514
Speaker 3: It's safe, it's nostalgic, it's funny, it's grounding. It's perfect

1069
00:40:17,554 --> 00:40:20,554
Speaker 3: for if you're navigating some difficult feelings, because I just

1070
00:40:20,634 --> 00:40:23,114
Speaker 3: don't think that your nervous system can go to a

1071
00:40:23,154 --> 00:40:25,114
Speaker 3: place where were texting an X when that squirrel is

1072
00:40:25,154 --> 00:40:28,473
Speaker 3: chasing that acorn, Like you're so invested in that singular journey.

1073
00:40:28,154 --> 00:40:29,914
Speaker 1: Of that squirrel trying to get to the acorn.

1074
00:40:30,434 --> 00:40:33,354
Speaker 3: And if you just dedicate an ounce of passion that

1075
00:40:33,354 --> 00:40:35,154
Speaker 3: that squirrel has to anything else in life, like, you're

1076
00:40:35,194 --> 00:40:36,274
Speaker 3: not gonna be wanting to backtrack.

1077
00:40:36,314 --> 00:40:39,114
Speaker 1: You know you're going forward, only follow that acorn. That

1078
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Speaker 1: was I just had written there.

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Speaker 2: That's one I think.

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Speaker 3: Also, sometimes it takes an aspirational man to remind you

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Speaker 3: that your ex wasn't.

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Speaker 2: All it's thee aspirational man.

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Speaker 1: And I say little of there's two, but there's also

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Speaker 1: kind of.

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Speaker 2: Just say, these are these animated animals, right, there's no

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Speaker 2: men in this movie.

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Speaker 1: But don't make it weird.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you made it weird by being essentially attracted to

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Speaker 2: the tiger.

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Speaker 3: A lot of there's a big online community that are

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Speaker 3: attracted to Diego. Diego is the guy I feel like

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Speaker 3: you get with to get over your ex. He's just

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00:41:07,434 --> 00:41:10,594
Speaker 3: pure sex on a stick. He's a hot tiger. He

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Speaker 3: whose voices him Dennis Leary.

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Speaker 2: I can't even put those two things together.

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Speaker 3: I can't speak to Dennis, so I'm only speaking about

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Speaker 3: a character, not the actor. I know, he just portrays itself,

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Speaker 3: but he's so protective, he's so manly, like worrid for

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Speaker 3: you right now, that is you know, he's probably the

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Speaker 3: one that it's just like, you know, a brief little

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Speaker 3: fling after your eggs, but I mean you have that

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Speaker 3: to look forward to it if you're in a difficult.

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Speaker 1: Place right now.

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Speaker 3: But then Manny the Mammoth, I mean, can be a

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Speaker 3: little bit of a grump, but I feel like if

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Speaker 3: you follow the Ice Age series through and you keep watching,

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Speaker 3: he becomes such a model partner, husband and father, like

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Speaker 3: he finds his soulmate.

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Speaker 1: Ellie, you're just looking at me like I'm not saying

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Speaker 1: through the stages that you need. You've got your Diego, You've.

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Speaker 3: Got your funny side character Sid to keep you distracted,

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Speaker 3: and then you have Manny, which hopefully, like you know,

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Speaker 3: if you're ever getting back into the dating scene and

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Speaker 3: you're kind of like, I hope there are good guys

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00:41:59,594 --> 00:42:01,154
Speaker 3: out there, you want to find someone like Manny, like

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00:42:01,154 --> 00:42:03,514
Speaker 3: he's a really like stable, solid guy, but then you

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Speaker 3: hope that your eventual guy has a bit of edge

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Speaker 3: like Diego.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to end this podcast I'm a bad note,

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Speaker 2: but I just don't think I personally would watch that

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Speaker 2: on Valentine's Day. I just watch it fallow, and I don't. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I would, because I would throw myself out a window

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Speaker 2: because I'd be like, why is it Valentine's Day? And

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Speaker 2: I'm alone, a grown adult watching Ice Age by myself

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Speaker 2: and being sexually attracted to. And I have no shame

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Speaker 2: of being sexually attracted to a cartoon character. You've been there,

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Speaker 2: but I think, oh yeah, I'm there all time. But

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Speaker 2: I also think that ice Age is not the beautiful

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Speaker 2: tale that you're making it up to be. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 2: I can't get on board with this one.

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Speaker 3: Well, maybe the solution can be if someone's planning a

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Speaker 3: Galentine scene, I pick one of the conventional ones that

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Speaker 3: we started off with, go like How to Be Single,

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00:42:44,114 --> 00:42:46,873
Speaker 3: Go Eat pro Love, go like Made of Honor. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and you know, start with one of those. Would you

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Speaker 3: end on it follows or would you end on ice Age?

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Speaker 3: I mean, you wouldn't do Iceage A.

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Speaker 2: And do ice Age.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 2: I definitely end on it follows because after that, I'm

1141
00:42:54,234 --> 00:42:56,513
Speaker 2: going to have to like barricade the house. Well, I mean,

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Speaker 2: this has actually been kind of helpful one because you

1143
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Speaker 2: always want me to get on the dating apps and

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Speaker 2: I've been very like against it, and I'm like, when

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00:43:02,154 --> 00:43:04,314
Speaker 2: will there be a sign that it's time for me

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Speaker 2: to go on the dating app.

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Speaker 1: I just volunteered to run your dating No.

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Speaker 2: I know, and that is something that would be a

1149
00:43:08,914 --> 00:43:11,674
Speaker 2: bit creepy, But you've now given me a sign that

1150
00:43:11,834 --> 00:43:13,674
Speaker 2: I know the moment it's time to get a dating

1151
00:43:13,714 --> 00:43:15,834
Speaker 2: app when I'm home alone as a girl and woman

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00:43:15,874 --> 00:43:18,314
Speaker 2: watching ice age. That's why I'm going to message you

1153
00:43:18,354 --> 00:43:20,234
Speaker 2: and be like, pull the trigger, it's time. I know

1154
00:43:20,274 --> 00:43:21,834
Speaker 2: you set me up a profile. You just haven't hit

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Speaker 2: pub yet.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I've got the photos ready, got some fun clips

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Speaker 3: of the podcast to show a personality.

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Speaker 1: I'll be doing those memos of like you're best in

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Speaker 1: saying why you should date me.

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Speaker 2: You don't know what, but I think that's when we'll

1161
00:43:35,034 --> 00:43:36,873
Speaker 2: know I've tipped over the edge. Now there's anything wrong

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00:43:36,874 --> 00:43:39,314
Speaker 2: with dating apps, it's just that personally, I haven't pulled

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Speaker 2: the trigger on that, and I've always wondered what could

1164
00:43:41,514 --> 00:43:43,714
Speaker 2: change my mind. It's that it's I say that would

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Speaker 2: be rock bottom for me. Let me tell y'all that.

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Speaker 3: Well, thank you so much for listening to the Spill today.

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Speaker 3: Hopefully that was an informative time and you feel like

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Speaker 3: there was something for everyone in there.

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Speaker 1: There was a whole range of genre.

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Speaker 2: You've definitely give everyone a lot to think about, both

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Speaker 2: good and bad, confronting and company.

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Speaker 1: So take from that what you will.

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Speaker 2: Bye bye b.

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