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Speaker 2: Uh yuh, He's back.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back Bim, Welcome back Yeighborhood to June.

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Speaker 2: This is going to be our first episode of June.

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Speaker 3: It feels like the first episode of the year, because

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Speaker 3: we haven't done one in so long.

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Speaker 1: I know, I was going to say, we've got to

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Speaker 2: Rap because it was so bad.

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Speaker 1: Although okay, not only have we both been losing our

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Speaker 1: kind of like otherwise, just having lots of general random

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Speaker 1: I would be. My quote for you is it is

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Speaker 1: pathway is on its own timetable isn't that such a

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Speaker 3: I really like that. BIM also really relevant too, because

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Speaker 1: Like I said, better to do something imperfectly than nothing flawlessly.

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Speaker 3: Bill, I've got the biggest ever cold saw on my

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Speaker 2: What's is that, Patricia?

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Speaker 3: So yes, but no we are Yes. I highly recommend

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Speaker 3: And it is so much fun because you just don't

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

439
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Speaker 2: Or would you run? Oh my god, guys, please submit

440
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Speaker 2: would you rathers? Every week for us?

441
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Speaker 3: Yeah? And in the comments on this post of whenever

442
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Speaker 3: you post it, please comment just to like, but not

443
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Speaker 3: with no context. But everyone gets really confused. Just write

444
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Speaker 3: nipples or toe?

445
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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh that is our oyster? What are those things called?

446
00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:29,639
Speaker 1: When you drop a thing? And the thing and then

447
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Speaker 1: easter egg? Easter egg, golden egg? Oh my god, what

448
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Speaker 1: was yours?

449
00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:40,840
Speaker 3: What did I say? I think I didn't even get

450
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Speaker 3: to mind because we were laughing at so much that

451
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Speaker 3: the other two responses because Ras kind of like confume,

452
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Speaker 3: well almost was implying that he confused nipple for a

453
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Speaker 3: whole breast, and we're like, no, we're not seeing a

454
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Speaker 3: whole breast, it's just a whole just a single nipple

455
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Speaker 3: where Well, I think that's up to you really, but

456
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Speaker 3: it's a cople.

457
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Speaker 2: Of Also, I'm such a lawyer.

458
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Speaker 1: I'm like specifically where though next to the other in

459
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Speaker 1: the middle in your belly, but like, where is it?

460
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Speaker 3: I think I would rather a toe extra toe, because.

461
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Speaker 2: I think that because you're anefort though.

462
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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why I'm an toes. But I think from

463
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Speaker 3: like a physiological standpoint, you're you're more likely to find

464
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Speaker 3: people actually living with extra toes than with an extra nipple.

465
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Speaker 1: As in, you would have more of a community if

466
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Speaker 1: you had an extra toe.

467
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Speaker 3: Yeah.

468
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Speaker 2: Yeah, have you met Crenandoler bowl?

469
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Speaker 3: Missando la Bong wonderful is coming out here anyway. The

470
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Speaker 3: other thing we did also recently was we went to

471
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Speaker 3: Harry Potter and the Curse Child.

472
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Speaker 4: Oh my god, I forgot what a play to YEA

473
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Speaker 4: was that big?

474
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Speaker 3: That was a major plate toy. That was really fun.

475
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Speaker 1: It was like, guys, I can't even I can't even

476
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Speaker 1: expet Blaine. So we are both obsessed with Harry Potter.

477
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Speaker 1: That aside, if you'd never read a Harry Potter book

478
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Speaker 1: or never seen a Harry Potter movie, you would still

479
00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:13,960
Speaker 1: be in awe of how they did the special effects.

480
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Speaker 1: How on earth could they make spells work on stage,

481
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Speaker 1: and we had no idea how they did it.

482
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Speaker 3: Like that bed thing.

483
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Speaker 2: Okay, obviously I don't want to give any spoilers, but

484
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Speaker 2: the bed.

485
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Speaker 3: Bit fomore dies alert. Sorry you had to say the

486
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Speaker 3: other way around swell and let A Lendon said a spoiler.

487
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Speaker 1: Everyone knows that right though.

488
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Speaker 3: That was from the books.

489
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Speaker 1: Okay, it was glasses they're round, spoiler alert, spoiler alert,

490
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Speaker 1: but it was in say I cannot recommend him highly.

491
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Speaker 2: I think one of the not deterrents.

492
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Speaker 1: But you had to find originally for the stage show

493
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Speaker 1: like a full day because it was three hours and

494
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 1: then a big to our interval, so there was a

495
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Speaker 1: lunch and then you had a break and you went

496
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Speaker 1: and got dinner, and then he came back and watched

497
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Speaker 1: the other three hours. They've condensed it into one three

498
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Speaker 1: hour show now so you can do it in a night.

499
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Speaker 1: And it was magical, like we were play to ya

500
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Speaker 1: Heaven you just escapism. It was so beautiful, Escaapism.

501
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Speaker 3: I went to work next the next day and I

502
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:26,359
Speaker 3: was flushing so hard.

503
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 2: I was like, you need to go, and you need

504
00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 2: to go, and you need it.

505
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Speaker 3: And I think people, a lot of people had actually

506
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Speaker 3: already watched the two parts, which I have come to

507
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Speaker 3: realize is from a magical standpoint, I think all of

508
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Speaker 3: the magic that's in the condensed version was also in

509
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Speaker 3: the long version, So I would say you, your wow

510
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Speaker 3: factor is very very much to be the same or similar,

511
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Speaker 3: but I hear this slightly more magic regardless though it's

512
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Speaker 3: just I expected. Well. First of all, I was like,

513
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Speaker 3: is this a musical? I don't even know, And then

514
00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:58,359
Speaker 3: they didn't start singing, and I was like, it's definitely

515
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Speaker 3: not a musical, and I realized it's probably the first

516
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:02,639
Speaker 3: play that I've been to, and I just was on

517
00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:04,920
Speaker 3: the edge of my shit the whole time because I

518
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 3: was like, just how they utilize stage choreography and just

519
00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:16,200
Speaker 3: everything was so refreshing, Like the story was really quite progressive.

520
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:20,879
Speaker 3: Actually the actors were quite young, like it has Harry

521
00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:23,680
Speaker 3: Potter themes throughout the whole thing, but also kind of

522
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 3: like it's almost like a twenty first century, very modernize. Yeah,

523
00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:33,480
Speaker 3: it's quite cool. And also I think you literally messaged

524
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Speaker 3: me two days before like what are you doing Thursday?

525
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:38,920
Speaker 3: And I was like nothing, You're like, okay, let me

526
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Speaker 3: check my schedule. Yeah, let me check my schedule of

527
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Speaker 3: the things I do not do. And then we went

528
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Speaker 3: and because I I think, I just said yes and

529
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Speaker 3: I was so busy, I just said yes, and I

530
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Speaker 3: say I'll see you there at the time that we

531
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Speaker 3: need to be there. And even that I feel was

532
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Speaker 3: the best decision, because you don't you're not looking into things,

533
00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:58,879
Speaker 3: You're not like hyping you stuff. You kind of just

534
00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:02,680
Speaker 3: rock up and then you surprised by whatever happened. Like

535
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:05,320
Speaker 3: we were there at the premiere and there was like

536
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:09,359
Speaker 3: cool as booths and fire a fire ring and the.

537
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:14,080
Speaker 2: Water was green and then and you put on flatform

538
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Speaker 2: nine and three quarters.

539
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:16,879
Speaker 1: I went on to.

540
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Speaker 3: A loser. May do you jump? So many there were

541
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Speaker 3: people like col On, you know in there, like beautiful dresses,

542
00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 3: like you beautiful, and then like like really pretty and

543
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 3: like lovely posts and then I'm here like trying to

544
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Speaker 3: get my legs up as high as I can, and

545
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:38,199
Speaker 3: everyone around brought this chick and I.

546
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Speaker 2: Was like, I just walked away. I was like not maybe.

547
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Speaker 1: No, but we were like, guys, you can imagine anyone

548
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:48,879
Speaker 1: who's listened to gays of our lives before, wouldn't you

549
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 1: can imagine what it is like to go to a

550
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Speaker 1: play that has constant surprises with Ang, She's literally like

551
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:01,680
Speaker 1: and then something funny happens and she's like ha, and

552
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:04,639
Speaker 1: like the whole theater is staring at you.

553
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:11,719
Speaker 2: I'm shrinking into my seat like I'm not with her.

554
00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:18,120
Speaker 3: So jobs or you'd.

555
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 1: Like get the joke like one milli second after everyone else,

556
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 1: so the whole crowd would go ha ha, and you

557
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:24,520
Speaker 1: go ah ha.

558
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:30,040
Speaker 3: Really or like something because I can't just control my excitement.

559
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:32,399
Speaker 3: Like when all the cool stuff happened around us, I

560
00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:34,920
Speaker 3: was like whoa, whoa.

561
00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 2: Then everyone would look at you. Oh God, what a

562
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:40,960
Speaker 2: great time.

563
00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:44,840
Speaker 3: So that's another recommendation. Everyone has to go. It's really affordable. Also,

564
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:47,439
Speaker 3: it was like one hundred and twenty fives where we went, so.

565
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 2: Damn do you Halla halla hallaaa?

566
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Speaker 3: Let me tell you. I literally hala la la la

567
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Speaker 3: la la la la hella recommend.

568
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 2: That's still so funny to me. I also Halla halla

569
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Speaker 2: halaa halla hola recommend.

570
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

571
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:16,160
Speaker 1: Paul is literally like not okay with me right now.

572
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 1: It's like shut up, mom, vivid. Nick and I were

573
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:23,960
Speaker 1: back in the same state for like three days, the

574
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:25,880
Speaker 1: same state and country for three days and we had

575
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:30,200
Speaker 1: the cutest date weekend this past weekend in Sydney at Vivid,

576
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:34,160
Speaker 1: which just opened, and it was again one of those

577
00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:36,240
Speaker 1: things you know how you were talking about, make time

578
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:38,560
Speaker 1: to go on a little adventure, no matter where it is,

579
00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 1: doesn't have to be Balley, can just be somewhere that

580
00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 1: isn't your suburb or area. Going to Sydney, it puts

581
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Speaker 1: you in a frame of mind as if you're a tourist,

582
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:50,080
Speaker 1: when you're like I love playing a tourist in your

583
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 1: own country, but like in a different city. And if

584
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 1: I was at home and you told me go and

585
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 1: see this amazing light show, but it's going to be crowded,

586
00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 1: and like you know, the roadsbey and you can't get

587
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:02,920
Speaker 1: an uber blah blah, and it was cold, you know

588
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 1: I'd probably be like no, but we went. And the

589
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 1: magic of like seeing something as if you're a tourist,

590
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 1: just not only admiring like such an iconic Australian background,

591
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 1: but seeing people's faces, like kids and families out enjoying

592
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:25,720
Speaker 1: just on the streets, walking around mass crowds, enjoying free

593
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 1: artwork like projected onto the Harbor Bridge and the Upper House.

594
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:32,960
Speaker 2: It was so special. Like Actually, I said in my

595
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:34,560
Speaker 2: caption that I posted.

596
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 1: That I got tiary, and I was like, oh my god,

597
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:38,080
Speaker 1: you sound like such a winker, But I actually got emotional,

598
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 1: Like at night with lights, I was doing a U

599
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 1: I was getting triggered by all the night lights and

600
00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:46,880
Speaker 1: the city skyline, but then also seeing children's faces running around,

601
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 1: smiling like kids who haven't been able to run around

602
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:53,240
Speaker 1: for years, and seeing people just so happy and in

603
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 1: awe of like these incredible creations projected onto buildings and

604
00:29:57,800 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 1: everyone just outside like it was so magical. It's on

605
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 1: till June eighteenth. There's like so many free installations. The

606
00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:10,000
Speaker 1: light shows paired often with like custom created music tracks

607
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Speaker 1: from famous DJs.

608
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:15,480
Speaker 2: It was magical. I can't even say hala la la haigh.

609
00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 2: I recommend it. We had the best time. I also

610
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 2: highly recommend being in the same state as your spouse.

611
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 2: It's kind of nice.

612
00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was gonna say, we spoke at this the

613
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 3: other week. I have seen I recoon that five times

614
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 3: this year and it's quite sad.

615
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Speaker 2: And I two out of five have been at stage

616
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Speaker 2: shows legit.

617
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:36,280
Speaker 3: And I remember messaging you being like, Hi, what are

618
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Speaker 3: you doing? And so I was like, oh, I'm quite tired.

619
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Speaker 3: I was like, okay, cool, so.

620
00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 2: I'm just going over.

621
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 1: You and You're like, but only if you want to,

622
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:47,760
Speaker 1: and I was like, I just didn't say anything, and

623
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 1: then I was like.

624
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:52,240
Speaker 3: Okay, on my way. I'm on my way, but only

625
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:55,960
Speaker 3: if you're like we don't. I don't have to. I'm

626
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:56,480
Speaker 3: on my way.

627
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:00,120
Speaker 1: No house key, so you can't even pretend you're I'm

628
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:01,520
Speaker 1: not home because I'll just come inside.

629
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 3: You've been cleaning this weekend. And I was like, yes,

630
00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 3: I assure I am.

631
00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:10,200
Speaker 1: And now a quick break for a little reboot or rebooch.

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Speaker 2: Be yaying all day.

646
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Speaker 3: Okay.

647
00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:02,720
Speaker 1: Soh so our main theme thirty two minutes in, we

648
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:04,800
Speaker 1: totally have forgotten what our actual thing was that we

649
00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: were going to start with. Our episode today is dedicated

650
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 1: to pla pl eh, which is a concept that has

651
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,760
Speaker 1: been very helpful in our friendship and I feel like

652
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:21,160
Speaker 1: could benefit some of the neighborhood as well. Basically, one

653
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 1: day and chet me a message. We were just having

654
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Speaker 1: our normal chats and one of us, you know, like

655
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:31,600
Speaker 1: we often go through either synchronized or not synchronized. Synchronized, yeah,

656
00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 1: synchronized or not synchronized phases of just not coping.

657
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 2: Like we go from highly.

658
00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 1: Functioning doing all the things, blah blah blah blah. But

659
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 1: it's only possible because every now and then we have

660
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 1: a complete and art and meltdown. And one day and

661
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:45,760
Speaker 1: was going through one of hers. They're either at the

662
00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 1: same time, which is a disaster, or they're separate. Also

663
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: a disaster, and she sends me this message going plare,

664
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 1: and I was like googling. You know, I'm old, right,

665
00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 1: So I was on Urban Dictionary, like what is plaire?

666
00:32:57,640 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 1: I was googling like what does player mean? Had no idea,

667
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:01,480
Speaker 1: and it brought up all these weird things and I

668
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 1: was like, no, none.

669
00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 2: Of them work. What is plait?

670
00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:09,320
Speaker 1: It's help backwards and it is how we now describe

671
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 1: when you just can't when you just cannot, you can't reply,

672
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 1: You're shit at messages and emails, you're off the grid,

673
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:20,960
Speaker 1: you're a terrible friend. You just don't want to do anything.

674
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 1: You know, we all have those like days and weeks

675
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 1: where just it's too much. And plaire as our like

676
00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:30,040
Speaker 1: code word. Don't you think it's been the most useful?

677
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 3: Oh bim? We also plat came from an episode in

678
00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:37,240
Speaker 3: Friends and Your Friends that was out there Joey. They're

679
00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 3: all stuck in like side of somewhere and there was

680
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 3: like snowing. I don't know if it's snowing, but there

681
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 3: was dirt, and he tried to get help, like support

682
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:46,720
Speaker 3: from a helicopter, and he wrote in the ground play

683
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 3: and Chandler's like what is and he's like, it's so

684
00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 3: the helicopters can read it. So that's where we got

685
00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:58,920
Speaker 3: play from me just try to help backwards anyway. Sorry, No,

686
00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:00,960
Speaker 3: I think that's one of the best things we did

687
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:06,520
Speaker 3: in our friendship for communications standpoint of really, I guess

688
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 3: quantifying or qualifying like how how down and out you were,

689
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:14,759
Speaker 3: because you know you can say, oh, like, no, I'm

690
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 3: really sad, like really is so like it's not it's

691
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:22,320
Speaker 3: not very definite. It's kind of whatever you want to

692
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:25,640
Speaker 3: take from it. Whereas we kind of both define player

693
00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:28,880
Speaker 3: as player is our last resort almost you know, like

694
00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:31,800
Speaker 3: you're really not in a good space where it's like

695
00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 3: intervention is needed, kind of level of help needed, and

696
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:38,279
Speaker 3: we were strictly between us have only ever used it

697
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,640
Speaker 3: for that, which is why it's been so effective. I

698
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:42,839
Speaker 3: feel like if you if you say that between friends

699
00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:45,240
Speaker 3: and then you kind of use it sometimes in stages

700
00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:47,160
Speaker 3: where you're not that player, and then you kind of

701
00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 3: get blurred lines of what player really means. So for us,

702
00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 3: we can't. We kind of defined it as a we

703
00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:55,399
Speaker 3: kind of hit close to bottom in terms of where

704
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 3: we are energy levels. It could just be from a burnout,

705
00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 3: could be from this actual mental health. It could be

706
00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 3: from just arrange whatever it is. We could be player

707
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:05,840
Speaker 3: or pre player or whatever it is.

708
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:08,440
Speaker 2: Pre player. We also do pre player.

709
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:13,759
Speaker 1: Pre player because it's not quite there yet, and we

710
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:16,719
Speaker 1: also know pre player is like I might make some

711
00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:21,400
Speaker 1: decisions that are level, but just understand that it's so

712
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 1: I can prevent the full player coming on.

713
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:31,000
Speaker 2: That's right, that's right, that's right. Yeah. Yeah.

714
00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:36,360
Speaker 3: My other analogy of play is, you know how everyone

715
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:41,080
Speaker 3: has one thing that is the epitome of a promise,

716
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:44,880
Speaker 3: like if I pinky promise, yes, like for me and

717
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:47,720
Speaker 3: you pinky promise, I've never broken one. It's the highest

718
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 3: level of promising. It's legitimate, it's all that's like for loss,

719
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:53,520
Speaker 3: for example, if Lots has to wear in my life,

720
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:58,440
Speaker 3: that's her ultimate, the ultimate, and for me it's pinky promise.

721
00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 3: And you know everyone has one with their mates who

722
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:04,400
Speaker 3: that is the top, like the penultimate of promises or

723
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:04,880
Speaker 3: whatever it is.

724
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:09,880
Speaker 2: The ultimate penultimate is second second highest, the second last.

725
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, pen pen ultimate.

726
00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:17,600
Speaker 2: Is it pen pen ultimate ultimate or penultimate penultimate?

727
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 3: Oh yeah?

728
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 1: Plus plus is also when we're like something is that

729
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:25,680
Speaker 1: but dire It's like imppy plus plus or I'm like

730
00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 1: gonna wet my pants.

731
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 2: Plus plus means pullover well.

732
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:32,680
Speaker 3: Plus plus is from our hospital how we document hospital notes,

733
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:36,440
Speaker 3: and it could be something that you know, patient was tired,

734
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:44,040
Speaker 3: plus plus like ROTI obviously I can't write in my

735
00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:51,239
Speaker 3: medical notes recommends, so I write recommend sorry, and then

736
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 3: so plaire is our version of you know, they hit

737
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 3: and play. You know, you can set a player with

738
00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 3: your friends however you want, but play for us very

739
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:05,319
Speaker 3: much looks like like Sarah was saying, we become maybe unresponsive.

740
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 3: We may become we may withdraw, we may say things,

741
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:12,680
Speaker 3: we may be a bit more irritable. It's those things

742
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:14,800
Speaker 3: that you would do that afterwards you'd be like, you

743
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:17,279
Speaker 3: feel really guilty about. And it gets this vicious cycle

744
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:18,719
Speaker 3: of oh, I can't believe I said that to them,

745
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:21,440
Speaker 3: because I feel so guilty about it now. But because

746
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:24,680
Speaker 3: we have clare the stuff that I used to feel

747
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:27,239
Speaker 3: really guilty about doing, like you know, being irritable, being

748
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 3: short and sharp and snappy and somewhat even like sometimes

749
00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:35,480
Speaker 3: even rude or like I don't know, bitchy, stuff that

750
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:38,600
Speaker 3: I would previously feel really guilty about, I still feel

751
00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 3: guilty about. But I feel a little bit better about

752
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:45,400
Speaker 3: because I know that I've already told Sarah, I'm like, plare,

753
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 3: so you know what to take and what not to take,

754
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 3: which has really massively strengthen our friendship because we just

755
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:53,560
Speaker 3: as part of the reasons why we don't ever get

756
00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:56,719
Speaker 3: into fights, it's because if I'm irritable, you can either

757
00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:58,759
Speaker 3: sense it or you can you are kind of like

758
00:37:58,960 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 3: are you play?

759
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:04,359
Speaker 1: I'll literally say are you player? Like if I'm like, oh,

760
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 1: something's off, I'm like, you play?

761
00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:07,480
Speaker 2: Or are you just being a bitch today?

762
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:11,759
Speaker 3: That's right? You literally for real remember that truth?

763
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 2: And I was like, ah, is this plaire because otherwise,

764
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:17,600
Speaker 2: like stop doing that legit.

765
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 3: And more often than not, it's play.

766
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 2: Every time it's been, except the other day when I

767
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 2: was like, Wow, you're just a bitch.

768
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:31,880
Speaker 3: I just want to put on the side I'm not

769
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 3: a bitch, and.

770
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 1: So your play those are the symptoms of your player.

771
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:42,359
Speaker 1: And my play is when I'm like totally just don't reply,

772
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:45,680
Speaker 1: like just don't not on top of dates or like

773
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:48,359
Speaker 1: what's going on, and I'm like, I use player when

774
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 1: I'm like.

775
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:49,840
Speaker 2: Can we please reschedule.

776
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 1: That's why we haven't done our like regular episodes because

777
00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:57,040
Speaker 1: at various times and different times, we've both been like,

778
00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:59,479
Speaker 1: I'm play tonight. I just my brain is not gonna

779
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:00,799
Speaker 1: have a good chat.

780
00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, And do you know what testament to us because

781
00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:06,800
Speaker 3: we have never once questioned each other's player, and not

782
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:11,440
Speaker 3: once have I ever been annoyed at you, like are

783
00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:14,280
Speaker 3: you being like I? Like, you know, I may fully

784
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 3: be prepared and not go to dinner because we've got

785
00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:19,359
Speaker 3: a podcast on. And if you're you know, if anyone else,

786
00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:21,520
Speaker 3: i'd have been like, well that's really annoying. But if

787
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:25,040
Speaker 3: and it's like, I just have never I've reflected on it,

788
00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 3: and I've been like, well, every time serious is said play.

789
00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:30,719
Speaker 3: I know that we use play quite sparingly, despite how

790
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:35,840
Speaker 3: much we use it. Honestly, we're a mess.

791
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 2: How frequently we use it. We actually do use that

792
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:41,840
Speaker 2: very often.

793
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:44,359
Speaker 3: It's seldom used every day.

794
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 2: I rarely use it every day every day.

795
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:56,120
Speaker 3: I always sometimes use it only.

796
00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:06,680
Speaker 2: Scarcity of daily, but sporadically each minute.

797
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:24,400
Speaker 3: Oh. What I was saying was that we are very respectful,

798
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:30,320
Speaker 3: which questioned it stronger.

799
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 1: No, But I think it has been really good because

800
00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 1: it does just distinguish I think in so many close friendships,

801
00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:46,600
Speaker 1: particularly when you're quite like it in tune with each

802
00:40:46,640 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 1: other and you want everyone to be happy, like when

803
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:51,200
Speaker 1: you're the kind of person who's like no, but really

804
00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:53,400
Speaker 1: like often we will say no, I can I can

805
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:55,319
Speaker 1: do it. I can pull through even when like maybe

806
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 1: you can't, because you you always want to do the

807
00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:00,279
Speaker 1: right thing. And I think it's a good way to

808
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:03,839
Speaker 1: make sure between really close mates. You know, often you'll

809
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:05,360
Speaker 1: say no, I don't care where we go, but you

810
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:06,880
Speaker 1: actually care, but you just don't want to say that

811
00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 1: because you want to go with the flow and be easy.

812
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:11,279
Speaker 1: It's a good way to be like okay, really though,

813
00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 1: like really are you okay or are you just saying

814
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:17,839
Speaker 1: you're okay? And you need to have a safe word

815
00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 1: so that you can get to the guts of like

816
00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:22,560
Speaker 1: is this really how you feel or are you just

817
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 1: saying that?

818
00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 3: Yeah? And I think our player are so complex, and

819
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:31,840
Speaker 3: I think it's because we complex. It's complex. You and

820
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:35,399
Speaker 3: I know each other so well that I think I've

821
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:37,879
Speaker 3: not that I've tried play with other people, but when

822
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:41,360
Speaker 3: I've become when I am play and I'm around people,

823
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:43,560
Speaker 3: you know that I can really consider like my best

824
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 3: maids or close friends as well they don't necessarily quite

825
00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:48,480
Speaker 3: get it as quickly, and it takes a little of

826
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 3: time because like, for example, I might do something that

827
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:54,840
Speaker 3: sounds completely contradictory to what I've just said, but it

828
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:57,040
Speaker 3: takes more effort for me to have to explain why

829
00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:59,279
Speaker 3: that is the case, whereas I know with you, you

830
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 3: just get it. If I I'm like no, but I

831
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:04,600
Speaker 3: I really need rest, And then I go to boxing,

832
00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:07,080
Speaker 3: You're like, what the freak, Like, it's just I can't

833
00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 3: explain that, and I can't. It just is what happens.

834
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 3: And then for someone to question that becomes even more

835
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:15,399
Speaker 3: like it triggers more irritability, you know, like oh, why,

836
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:17,279
Speaker 3: well you just told me you're tied. Why do you

837
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:20,200
Speaker 3: do that? So it becomes like it's quite tricky. So

838
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 3: for us, like I know, I know that I'll say

839
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 3: things at a contradictory but I know that you know that.

840
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 3: I'm like, literally, I'm not in a place to even

841
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:32,320
Speaker 3: make rational decisions, and therefore I'll probably just go and

842
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:34,400
Speaker 3: do and say random things because I just can't be

843
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:37,880
Speaker 3: bothered having to explain that. And for you, yours is

844
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:43,239
Speaker 3: like a kind of full withdrawal, you know, postponing things

845
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:46,320
Speaker 3: but also inability to make a decision, like it'll be

846
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:50,359
Speaker 3: to the point where I know who's there that if

847
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:52,239
Speaker 3: the decision has to be made, it needs to be

848
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:56,200
Speaker 3: made for you. Yeah, even to the like so am

849
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:59,279
Speaker 3: I seeing you this week? Like you know you might

850
00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:01,400
Speaker 3: have an answer, but really you don't actually have it.

851
00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:03,640
Speaker 3: You can't make that decision. So I would just say

852
00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 3: something like I'm gonna come over this week and then

853
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:08,960
Speaker 3: you can say yes. So no, like you know, if

854
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:10,480
Speaker 3: you really don't want me to just say it, but

855
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:12,480
Speaker 3: think even little things like you know, even tonight, I

856
00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:13,720
Speaker 3: was like, do you want to do the podcast?

857
00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:17,320
Speaker 2: And you're like up to you and is like, I'm easy.

858
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:20,400
Speaker 2: That's my play. I'm easy. I can't no brain capacity,

859
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:21,840
Speaker 2: Just do you tell me what to do?

860
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:24,640
Speaker 3: Because we know that of each other. Though I genuinely

861
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 3: think that's why we have We don't really regularly have

862
00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 3: really quite deep fights. We don't really have fights at all,

863
00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:31,480
Speaker 3: to be honest.

864
00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:32,879
Speaker 2: I don't think we've ever had a deep fight.

865
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:35,640
Speaker 1: We've just had silly things because you got drunk and

866
00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:38,920
Speaker 1: Patricia came out, and also because I didn't not you know,

867
00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:40,920
Speaker 1: the only reason why we had the other way direction

868
00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:43,720
Speaker 1: fight was because we didn't have Plaire, so I couldn't

869
00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:47,759
Speaker 1: use player and you couldn't say you should be plaire. Yeah,

870
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:50,560
Speaker 1: we didn't have Plaire. You know, there's a whole new

871
00:43:50,600 --> 00:44:01,200
Speaker 1: teent of this podcast called plare too. Yeah yeah, first

872
00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 1: play Yeah, because plenty, But hopefully it can emit it.

873
00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 1: But hopefully hopefully the concept of player, as we've just

874
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 1: explained it A makes sense to you guys, but b

875
00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:26,879
Speaker 1: maybe is useful in some of your friendships. It really

876
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:29,360
Speaker 1: does just create so much space for us to just

877
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:31,799
Speaker 1: not have to use words to explain how we are.

878
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:34,440
Speaker 1: And for various reasons, I think both of us and

879
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:36,920
Speaker 1: everyone as we started the episode with, have been in

880
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:40,400
Speaker 1: various states of player, not really understanding why it's not

881
00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:44,279
Speaker 1: just going and we're not just feeling normal. But a

882
00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:47,280
Speaker 1: lot in this first six months of this first semi

883
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 1: normal looking this year, and most of you will know

884
00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:53,560
Speaker 1: vague details that you know, Nick has been in and.

885
00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:54,319
Speaker 2: Out of the state.

886
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:56,279
Speaker 1: We've been apart for a lot of the last few

887
00:44:56,360 --> 00:45:01,160
Speaker 1: years with his dad's quite unwell, and that's been a

888
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:05,560
Speaker 1: huge player causer because you know, it's so up and

889
00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:10,239
Speaker 1: down where we've had, yeah, so much dissonance and difficulty

890
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:13,080
Speaker 1: planning and lots of last minute and emotional up people,

891
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:15,640
Speaker 1: and it's it has it's been a lot on top

892
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 1: of everything to sort of not be played. But it's

893
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 1: been so helpful to have a word that when it

894
00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 1: is just getting all a bit much, to be able

895
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:27,239
Speaker 1: to just say it and then like everything is, I

896
00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:28,520
Speaker 1: just know you're on the same page.

897
00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:30,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think the other reason why we wanted

898
00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:34,160
Speaker 3: to bring that up was actually just kind of say

899
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:39,560
Speaker 3: that we're not like always okay. I think people assume

900
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:42,359
Speaker 3: that we're like really happy and whatever at the time,

901
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 3: which we are, like actually, even when we're playing, we

902
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:48,799
Speaker 3: can still be happy, but we both hit pretty rock

903
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:53,759
Speaker 3: bottom like often and if not, like I'm not, I

904
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:56,719
Speaker 3: wouldn't say often, but we do do it, and then

905
00:45:57,320 --> 00:45:59,320
Speaker 3: when it's bad, it is pretty bad, and like it

906
00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:03,120
Speaker 3: is pretty and gloom for a period of time. So

907
00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:05,760
Speaker 3: if anyone is feeling a little bit plait at the moment,

908
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:08,520
Speaker 3: I hope you have someone that you can talk to

909
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:12,759
Speaker 3: or figure out what it is or go on that

910
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:15,239
Speaker 3: little spontaneous week and that we was chatting about that

911
00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:18,400
Speaker 3: sense of refresh people a lot. But whatever it is,

912
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:20,279
Speaker 3: we hope that you're okay too, because I think you

913
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:23,880
Speaker 3: and I had probably felt the full brunt of it recently.

914
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 3: Well on this sart of this year, at least, I

915
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 3: feel like I've been more play than I have been

916
00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:29,959
Speaker 3: in a long time in this first six months.

917
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:33,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think it's like so good as a

918
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:36,560
Speaker 1: tool even for me, like you kind of introduce me

919
00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:39,120
Speaker 1: to the concept, but for my own brain to be

920
00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:41,440
Speaker 1: able to even recognize when you're feeling that way then

921
00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:44,760
Speaker 1: helps you know, Okay, this is temporary, it won't last forever,

922
00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:47,239
Speaker 1: this is not my life. This is just how I

923
00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:49,880
Speaker 1: feel right now because of a certain set of circumstances.

924
00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:52,360
Speaker 1: And that also helps you navigate when you're in it

925
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:54,960
Speaker 1: as well, because you don't sort of, I don't know,

926
00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 1: it's just so human to have cycles of it being

927
00:46:58,120 --> 00:46:59,919
Speaker 1: like you went for a couple of years without hardly

928
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 1: saying play at all, and then you know, in a

929
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 1: time of big change or big life decisions, it all

930
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 1: comes thick and fast, and I think, I don't know,

931
00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:11,960
Speaker 1: just having a word to navigate the whole ebbs and

932
00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:14,680
Speaker 1: flows of feeling that you can tackle the world versus

933
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:15,560
Speaker 1: feeling like you can't.

934
00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:16,960
Speaker 3: It's helped you.

935
00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:21,160
Speaker 2: It's plaid a lot. It's very been, very playful.

936
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:23,439
Speaker 3: No, you've got to keep play first.

937
00:47:23,480 --> 00:47:29,840
Speaker 1: Sad you can't, okay, except plenty Yeah, because it's not

938
00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:32,440
Speaker 1: like yeah, it's not like yeah, it's not like yeah,

939
00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 1: I'm so excited. It's just like, yeah, we'll do a

940
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:39,759
Speaker 1: podcast one week and we're actually a player, and then

941
00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:42,800
Speaker 1: you can actually know we have postponed every time that

942
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:47,200
Speaker 1: we're plaire. It would just not beyond brand. Like there's

943
00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:52,400
Speaker 1: authenticity and then there's Plaire. Yeah, there's that's true, and

944
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:55,759
Speaker 1: then there's like I'm non verbal and you're just.

945
00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:58,120
Speaker 2: A So it's just not a fun time.

946
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:02,320
Speaker 3: Talk to me, look to men, talk to me. No.

947
00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:05,520
Speaker 1: But you're like, bitch, but passag bitch. You're like, so,

948
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:10,800
Speaker 1: I don't know, like who has you know someone in

949
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:16,879
Speaker 1: this room? And I'm not going to say who. I'm

950
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 1: not resting right now. Yeah it's not looking after her

951
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 1: mental health, but I'm not going to say who.

952
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 3: You'd be like, oh, I never remember saying that it

953
00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:31,359
Speaker 3: was eleven o'clock. Well, and then I'll just send nothing

954
00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 3: but a screenshot of you saying eleven o'clock.

955
00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:39,360
Speaker 1: Oh my god, the screenshots. Sorry, just above refer above

956
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:41,880
Speaker 1: at eleven oh six, this is what you said anyway,

957
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:49,320
Speaker 1: whatever you are, as per my last email embodied so guys,

958
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 1: because of play being a little bit more heightened recently,

959
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 1: but also just life and travel and like so many

960
00:48:58,040 --> 00:49:01,319
Speaker 1: exciting things. One of the really weird but beautiful parts

961
00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:06,399
Speaker 1: of this year for me personally has been not having

962
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:09,160
Speaker 1: a plan. And I think that's you've probably heard me

963
00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:11,719
Speaker 1: say quite a few times on the podcast that a

964
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 1: silver lining of the pandemic was letting go of needing

965
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:17,600
Speaker 1: to have the whole year planned and really enjoying just

966
00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:19,760
Speaker 1: kind of taking things as they go, which has continued

967
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:21,560
Speaker 1: to be amazing this year. But it also means that

968
00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:25,000
Speaker 1: I haven't been planning very well, so with plant on

969
00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:29,040
Speaker 1: top of that has meant things like big ideas that

970
00:49:29,120 --> 00:49:32,600
Speaker 1: we had. We asked for bike stories recently and we

971
00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:35,880
Speaker 1: have a few really good ones, and we also asked

972
00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:37,879
Speaker 1: for expressions of interest to join us for a Pino

973
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:42,439
Speaker 1: and Picasso session, painting and doing the fun things. Those

974
00:49:42,520 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 1: are probably now going to be next financial year July onwards,

975
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:49,920
Speaker 1: sit down and replan everything because.

976
00:49:50,239 --> 00:49:51,840
Speaker 2: We're just going to get through the end of this

977
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:52,799
Speaker 2: financial year.

978
00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:56,000
Speaker 1: Make it to the end of June and go gently

979
00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:57,880
Speaker 1: when your plan I feel like you really need to

980
00:49:57,920 --> 00:50:00,760
Speaker 1: go gently and not you know, you're not on anyone's schedule.

981
00:50:00,800 --> 00:50:02,760
Speaker 1: There's no reason why those needed to happen by June,

982
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 1: and so I think it's been lovely to remind ourselves

983
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:09,799
Speaker 1: of that and be like, Okay, they're big projects. We've

984
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 1: got so many good ideas, but like they'll be TBC.

985
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:15,279
Speaker 1: But still, if you do have a bike story, please

986
00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:17,040
Speaker 1: let us know because the planning is in motion.

987
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:22,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, bike stories plus please guys pulls hala hala la

988
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:25,880
Speaker 3: hala hala, recommend you send your bike stories. Yeah, because

989
00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:29,399
Speaker 3: they've got cool things lined up, so how many cool things?

990
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:34,319
Speaker 3: Feels like someone else deserves a bike or loves bikes or.

991
00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:38,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, just send your stories to neighborhood watch bike stories.

992
00:50:38,800 --> 00:50:42,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, legit. We should also do ceramics, but we

993
00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:45,920
Speaker 3: will organize that and leader. I think the best probably

994
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:48,239
Speaker 3: way to plan it is probably by the Facebook page now,

995
00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:50,440
Speaker 3: so people would get the Facebook page if they want

996
00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:52,520
Speaker 3: to get involved. It's probably the easiest way to create

997
00:50:52,560 --> 00:50:53,440
Speaker 3: events and things like that.

998
00:50:54,040 --> 00:50:56,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, which I also need to be more on because

999
00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:58,480
Speaker 1: I've been play on there as well, like the worst

1000
00:50:58,640 --> 00:50:59,480
Speaker 1: I'm the Actually.

1001
00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:01,479
Speaker 3: You can't use plays like that. Now, that's not play.

1002
00:51:01,719 --> 00:51:04,839
Speaker 2: I have been on that as in my player has

1003
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:06,400
Speaker 2: been taken out on that page.

1004
00:51:06,920 --> 00:51:09,200
Speaker 3: Oh right right. I was like, God, now we just

1005
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:10,719
Speaker 3: said now I'm playing.

1006
00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:17,600
Speaker 2: Has been player and you have woken up Claire.

1007
00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:20,200
Speaker 3: My poo has been a bit player. But we don't

1008
00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:20,960
Speaker 3: have to talk about that.

1009
00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:28,000
Speaker 1: So yeah, keep those coming, please send us, would you

1010
00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:29,880
Speaker 1: rathers for continuing episodes?

1011
00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:34,120
Speaker 2: Also? When will this come out? Like almost straight away?

1012
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:35,480
Speaker 1: I don't know if we'll have time to do another

1013
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:38,719
Speaker 1: one before I go away, but for the rest most

1014
00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:41,400
Speaker 1: of the rest of June, I'm going.

1015
00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:44,800
Speaker 2: Or now honeymoon. Where are you going?

1016
00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:48,080
Speaker 1: Well, I feel like people should guess and then I'll

1017
00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:49,879
Speaker 1: like do an episode about it because I think it'll

1018
00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:53,640
Speaker 1: be pretty insane. But Nick and I got married like

1019
00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:56,520
Speaker 1: nearly three years ago and it's been postponed a million times,

1020
00:51:56,560 --> 00:51:59,160
Speaker 1: and I'm so excited we're actually going and it's been like, yeah,

1021
00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:02,040
Speaker 1: a really hard time being together, so very much looking

1022
00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 1: forward to that.

1023
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:06,640
Speaker 3: Okay, quick question, then where are you going wrong? Answer?

1024
00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:09,279
Speaker 2: Only just one Afghanistan.

1025
00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:15,359
Speaker 3: Well that Escalateddn's money. Okay, cool, cool man?

1026
00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:21,680
Speaker 2: Cool positive the Bermuda triangle.

1027
00:52:24,800 --> 00:52:26,680
Speaker 3: That's how your phone goes every time I text you.

1028
00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:31,360
Speaker 2: Yes, that's because I'm you can't go back in my face.

1029
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:35,279
Speaker 3: I know, I'm sorry. I'm like, did you just throw

1030
00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:36,720
Speaker 3: your phone to triangle?

1031
00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:38,960
Speaker 1: And then I just make you feel bad because I'm like,

1032
00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:42,359
Speaker 1: I play leave me alone. Also, it's so many other

1033
00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:43,480
Speaker 1: dot points for this episode.

1034
00:52:43,520 --> 00:52:47,360
Speaker 2: But you know, whatever, I think we did, but I

1035
00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 2: don't think we had.

1036
00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:50,839
Speaker 3: We don't really have any neighborhood watch things because we're

1037
00:52:50,840 --> 00:52:55,560
Speaker 3: not that organized. I'm sure we will have more watch

1038
00:52:55,640 --> 00:53:00,720
Speaker 3: things when you come back from your honeymoon in Saudi Arabia.

1039
00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:05,239
Speaker 2: My honeymoon in and.

1040
00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:11,600
Speaker 1: Oh no, actually we're going to Phillip Islands.

1041
00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 3: Were just local is in Frankston.

1042
00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:20,480
Speaker 2: I feel like I did have one more thing I

1043
00:53:20,520 --> 00:53:22,840
Speaker 2: was supposed to say, but I forgot.

1044
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:25,040
Speaker 3: Now I don't know, but I realized I wrote this

1045
00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:27,880
Speaker 3: little so sometimes you know how I journal and stuff.

1046
00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:30,600
Speaker 3: Sometimes I think too much in my brain and I

1047
00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:33,000
Speaker 3: can't write fast enough and it doesn't really fit a

1048
00:53:33,080 --> 00:53:34,600
Speaker 3: certain theme. I just want to get it out, so

1049
00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:37,000
Speaker 3: I've been like just typing things randomly.

1050
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:39,880
Speaker 2: Right, cute, You're you going to read it out. Is

1051
00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:40,560
Speaker 2: it show and tell?

1052
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:42,879
Speaker 3: It was showing tell because you know how the start

1053
00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:47,080
Speaker 3: we were talking about like not being on a plan. Yep,

1054
00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:50,000
Speaker 3: what was your first quote? Can you mean first quote again?

1055
00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:55,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was it's impossible to fall behind in your

1056
00:53:55,200 --> 00:53:58,040
Speaker 1: own life. Your pathway is on its own timetable.

1057
00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 3: Okay, great, So now wow, it's just like crazy that

1058
00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:04,920
Speaker 3: this was the similar thoughts that I was having recently,

1059
00:54:05,080 --> 00:54:07,040
Speaker 3: and I wrote a little thing for myself, good what

1060
00:54:07,120 --> 00:54:09,160
Speaker 3: are we waiting for? Sometimes I write these and I

1061
00:54:09,200 --> 00:54:10,920
Speaker 3: don't read it back until I obviously just read it

1062
00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:13,120
Speaker 3: back one day, so and I feel like it's on

1063
00:54:13,200 --> 00:54:17,720
Speaker 3: the same wavelength of like decision making and like feeling

1064
00:54:17,800 --> 00:54:21,400
Speaker 3: like you're on a time frame, but also not at

1065
00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:24,399
Speaker 3: the same time. Anyway, don't know if it's helpful for anyone.

1066
00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:25,560
Speaker 3: You can also cut it out if you want to.

1067
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:28,759
Speaker 3: But we get in on this all right, Ready? What

1068
00:54:28,880 --> 00:54:31,200
Speaker 3: are we waiting for? The more I think about it,

1069
00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:32,759
Speaker 3: the more I realize that life is just a long

1070
00:54:32,800 --> 00:54:35,320
Speaker 3: ass waiting game. We're all just waiting, waiting for the

1071
00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:37,040
Speaker 3: next time we can go on a holiday, Waiting for

1072
00:54:37,120 --> 00:54:38,840
Speaker 3: the other person to break up with us, waiting for

1073
00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:40,800
Speaker 3: a sign to do something we've always wanted to do,

1074
00:54:41,400 --> 00:54:43,160
Speaker 3: Waiting because next year is probably going to be a

1075
00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 3: better year, or waiting to get more professional experience in

1076
00:54:45,560 --> 00:54:47,239
Speaker 3: the job that we're probably never going to go back

1077
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:50,120
Speaker 3: to anyway, Waiting for someone to pop the question, Waiting

1078
00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:52,480
Speaker 3: for an opportunity to come so we can jump ship safely.

1079
00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:55,560
Speaker 3: We're all just waiting for the next thing. Sounds cliche,

1080
00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:57,480
Speaker 3: but life is way too short to spend it waiting.

1081
00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:00,200
Speaker 3: I won't dismiss it waiting sometimes I actually need for

1082
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:03,000
Speaker 3: some things. But waiting in the mulling kind of way, well,

1083
00:55:03,040 --> 00:55:06,239
Speaker 3: that's where we all get stuck. Life short. You can

1084
00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:08,840
Speaker 3: argue all you like, but each year April rolls around

1085
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:10,760
Speaker 3: and we will have the same sentiments, Oh my gosh,

1086
00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 3: it's already April or now June. The other week I

1087
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:16,719
Speaker 3: had a woman come into the hospital whose main precipitating

1088
00:55:16,760 --> 00:55:19,400
Speaker 3: symptoms was a headache. Eleven days later she was palliated.

1089
00:55:19,520 --> 00:55:21,200
Speaker 3: She was thirty five years old. And it sounds a

1090
00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:23,399
Speaker 3: bit morbid, But we are guaranteed almost nothing in life.

1091
00:55:23,440 --> 00:55:25,600
Speaker 3: I say almost nothing because it's one thing that we

1092
00:55:25,680 --> 00:55:28,480
Speaker 3: can guarantee ourselves, and that is to live the hell

1093
00:55:28,520 --> 00:55:31,120
Speaker 3: out of life whenever we can. The huge thing that

1094
00:55:31,160 --> 00:55:33,279
Speaker 3: we mil over when making decisions, more often than not,

1095
00:55:33,360 --> 00:55:35,920
Speaker 3: seem so small in retrospect, but we spend ages mulling

1096
00:55:35,960 --> 00:55:38,120
Speaker 3: and waiting and prolonging our ability to live our lives

1097
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:41,359
Speaker 3: because of it. No decision to change career is ever

1098
00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:45,120
Speaker 3: really permanent. There's always a way back, even if it

1099
00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:47,680
Speaker 3: isn't as easy as once was. No decision that makes

1100
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:50,320
Speaker 3: it deeply happy and gives you purpose will ever be regretful.

1101
00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:52,680
Speaker 3: Sure it may not work, but in no way is

1102
00:55:52,719 --> 00:55:54,959
Speaker 3: it regrettable decision, because in that moment in your life

1103
00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:56,759
Speaker 3: is when you want it and need it at most.

1104
00:55:57,360 --> 00:55:59,200
Speaker 3: Maybe it's a catalyst for more change in your life

1105
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:02,239
Speaker 3: and more joyful decision making. It doesn't mean you're throwing

1106
00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:04,759
Speaker 3: away financial stability, or any stability in that matter. This

1107
00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:07,200
Speaker 3: means that you're finny in more meaningful and purposeful ways.

1108
00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:10,040
Speaker 3: Sometimes we're bound by the status of a job, by

1109
00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:12,720
Speaker 3: how our parents are able to introduce us to our friends,

1110
00:56:13,200 --> 00:56:14,759
Speaker 3: by the feeling that you need to stick it out.

1111
00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:17,719
Speaker 3: But what if we weren't. What if less bound and

1112
00:56:17,760 --> 00:56:19,920
Speaker 3: more fueled fueled by desire, I want to be happy

1113
00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:22,399
Speaker 3: to do things We love to live the life we want.

1114
00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:25,080
Speaker 3: What if we truly made decisions that let us live

1115
00:56:25,120 --> 00:56:27,360
Speaker 3: the hell out of life? Or wouldn't that be a dream?

1116
00:56:28,680 --> 00:56:30,520
Speaker 3: Bam the end?

1117
00:56:31,120 --> 00:56:35,360
Speaker 2: You need to write a book, do not dab.

1118
00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:43,719
Speaker 3: No no, bim.

1119
00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:48,359
Speaker 2: That was so beautiful and profound. Oh my god, now

1120
00:56:48,400 --> 00:56:51,239
Speaker 2: she's like deflection section. Stop it.

1121
00:56:51,880 --> 00:56:55,879
Speaker 1: That was beautiful, beautiful way to end. Seriously, though, when's

1122
00:56:55,880 --> 00:56:56,560
Speaker 1: the book coming out?

1123
00:56:56,840 --> 00:56:57,480
Speaker 2: Can you write that.

1124
00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:03,200
Speaker 1: You pass around the painting? I think also instead of

1125
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:05,759
Speaker 1: Pina pocaso, we should do that game. You should pass

1126
00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:06,560
Speaker 1: around the painting thing.

1127
00:57:06,440 --> 00:57:06,840
Speaker 3: Which.

1128
00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:10,480
Speaker 1: Yes, oh my god, I want to sit in a square.

1129
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:21,000
Speaker 1: But whatever, be different, think outside the circle. But also

1130
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:25,320
Speaker 1: I feel like you could finish, like you could write

1131
00:57:25,320 --> 00:57:29,360
Speaker 1: the cs A sequel, like you could finish my book

1132
00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:32,080
Speaker 1: that I started by finishing, like by oh my god,

1133
00:57:32,240 --> 00:57:35,520
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, You write the sequel.

1134
00:57:35,920 --> 00:57:38,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know what you mean. No, I reckon. I'll

1135
00:57:38,200 --> 00:57:41,280
Speaker 3: write something one day, not necessarily like my profound thoughts

1136
00:57:41,360 --> 00:57:45,080
Speaker 3: of me in the stars at night feeling vulnerable, but more.

1137
00:57:48,720 --> 00:57:50,240
Speaker 2: And Frank's diary.

1138
00:57:51,120 --> 00:57:59,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, one day I'll write about BNOI but that'll come sometimes,

1139
00:57:59,560 --> 00:58:03,800
Speaker 3: please do I I was about to start it the

1140
00:58:03,880 --> 00:58:05,920
Speaker 3: other day, so I probably will start it and get

1141
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:09,000
Speaker 3: at the ball rolling public sphere.

1142
00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:13,880
Speaker 1: Yes, bim Okay, well, thank you so much, Bomby. That

1143
00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:17,720
Speaker 1: was a great catch up. We can do one more

1144
00:58:17,920 --> 00:58:18,640
Speaker 1: before I go away.

1145
00:58:19,360 --> 00:58:23,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, we will try to do another one before if not,

1146
00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:25,080
Speaker 3: have the best time in.

1147
00:58:26,640 --> 00:58:29,280
Speaker 1: I keep only being of war torn places like I

1148
00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:37,520
Speaker 1: need to stop Liberia, or just to be random things

1149
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:39,160
Speaker 1: like Alexandra.

1150
00:58:40,960 --> 00:58:46,720
Speaker 2: Melton melt.

1151
00:58:51,360 --> 00:58:54,120
Speaker 3: Every time you say, every time anyone just Liberia. All

1152
00:58:54,160 --> 00:58:59,080
Speaker 3: I hear is Labia and it's not good, Bam, I may.

1153
00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:03,120
Speaker 3: It's just the sounds of the words, you know. Anyway,

1154
00:59:03,480 --> 00:59:03,640
Speaker 3: do you.

1155
00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:05,640
Speaker 2: Know Amy Barber worked in Liberia?

1156
00:59:05,920 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's a freaking champ.

1157
00:59:07,560 --> 00:59:08,200
Speaker 2: She's amazing.

1158
00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:10,840
Speaker 1: I love Amy. I think I love Amy so much. Guys,

1159
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:13,400
Speaker 1: if you haven't listened to Amy Barber's episode, go back to.

1160
00:59:15,600 --> 00:59:19,760
Speaker 2: Two years ago. Incredible human being. Incredible.

1161
00:59:20,160 --> 00:59:22,520
Speaker 3: I rate her as a real wife, human being and

1162
00:59:22,640 --> 00:59:23,680
Speaker 3: podcast human being.

1163
00:59:23,800 --> 00:59:29,080
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, great a podcast human being.

1164
00:59:32,480 --> 00:59:33,040
Speaker 3: It's true.

1165
00:59:35,080 --> 00:59:36,040
Speaker 2: Iam, Thank you so

1166
00:59:36,160 --> 00:59:38,560
Speaker 1: Much, Love you bye, love you bye.