1 00:00:10,614 --> 00:00:15,294 Speaker 1: You're listening to a Muma Mea podcast. Mumma Mea acknowledges 2 00:00:15,334 --> 00:00:18,174 Speaker 1: the traditional owners of land and waters that this podcast 3 00:00:18,214 --> 00:00:20,334 Speaker 1: is recorded on. Hey friends, I just wanted to give 4 00:00:20,334 --> 00:00:22,334 Speaker 1: your heads up before we get started today that we 5 00:00:22,374 --> 00:00:26,094 Speaker 1: are discussing domestic violence in some detail. If this is 6 00:00:26,134 --> 00:00:28,694 Speaker 1: a tough topic for you, please take care when listening. 7 00:00:31,654 --> 00:00:34,814 Speaker 1: I'm Claire Murphy. This is Mumma MIA's daily news podcast, 8 00:00:34,894 --> 00:00:38,134 Speaker 1: The Quickie. The number of women killed by violent men 9 00:00:38,174 --> 00:00:41,334 Speaker 1: in Australia is not showing any signs of slowing down, 10 00:00:41,734 --> 00:00:44,694 Speaker 1: with three women allegedly murdered in the space of just 11 00:00:44,814 --> 00:00:48,454 Speaker 1: forty eight hours this past week. One thing that keeps 12 00:00:48,454 --> 00:00:51,334 Speaker 1: coming up in this conversation is how women can better 13 00:00:51,414 --> 00:00:54,774 Speaker 1: protect themselves from these men as the system continues to 14 00:00:54,814 --> 00:00:57,494 Speaker 1: fail them and in teaching men to stop being violent 15 00:00:57,534 --> 00:01:01,814 Speaker 1: towards women, but wood learning self defense actually help or 16 00:01:01,934 --> 00:01:05,294 Speaker 1: hinder the situation. We're going to look into that today, 17 00:01:05,414 --> 00:01:07,694 Speaker 1: but before we do, let's head to the Quickie newsroom 18 00:01:07,734 --> 00:01:11,894 Speaker 1: for the latest headlines. Wednesday June, rapper Kanye West is 19 00:01:11,934 --> 00:01:16,174 Speaker 1: being sued for sexual harassment, fraud, unpaid wages, and intentional 20 00:01:16,214 --> 00:01:20,734 Speaker 1: infliction of emotional distress. West hired Lauren Piskota in twenty 21 00:01:20,774 --> 00:01:23,934 Speaker 1: twenty one as his personal assistant, where she claims he 22 00:01:24,014 --> 00:01:28,254 Speaker 1: sent her many explicit text messages detailing his fantasies and 23 00:01:28,294 --> 00:01:30,214 Speaker 1: what he would like to do with her in the bedroom. 24 00:01:30,494 --> 00:01:33,374 Speaker 1: There are reports he convinced Pisciota, who is an only 25 00:01:33,454 --> 00:01:36,974 Speaker 1: Fans model, to delete her only Fans account, promising to 26 00:01:37,014 --> 00:01:39,614 Speaker 1: reimburse her the one million dollar salary she would have 27 00:01:39,654 --> 00:01:43,134 Speaker 1: earned selling her pictures on the adults only service. According 28 00:01:43,214 --> 00:01:46,014 Speaker 1: to the lawsuit, West would pleasure himself while talking to 29 00:01:46,054 --> 00:01:48,094 Speaker 1: her on the phone and then ask her to guess 30 00:01:48,094 --> 00:01:50,934 Speaker 1: what he was doing. She claims he was fixated on 31 00:01:51,014 --> 00:01:54,054 Speaker 1: knowing intimate details about her boyfriends and sent her a 32 00:01:54,094 --> 00:01:57,694 Speaker 1: number of explicit videos before firing her and offering her 33 00:01:57,694 --> 00:02:00,894 Speaker 1: a redundancy package of four million dollars, which she says 34 00:02:01,014 --> 00:02:04,734 Speaker 1: he never paid. Bruce Lehman, who was now representing himself 35 00:02:04,774 --> 00:02:07,614 Speaker 1: in the appeal over his failed defamation case against Network 36 00:02:07,654 --> 00:02:12,134 Speaker 1: ten and journalist Lisa Wilkinson, claims he was denied procedural fairness. 37 00:02:12,454 --> 00:02:15,534 Speaker 1: Mister Luhman is appealing against the finding by Justice Michael 38 00:02:15,614 --> 00:02:18,734 Speaker 1: Lee that on the balance of probability he raped Britney 39 00:02:18,814 --> 00:02:22,534 Speaker 1: Higgins in Parliament House in twenty nineteen, allowing Network ten's 40 00:02:22,654 --> 00:02:25,734 Speaker 1: truth Defense to stand in defending their interview with Miss 41 00:02:25,814 --> 00:02:29,014 Speaker 1: Higgins on the project. In twenty twenty one, mister Luhman 42 00:02:29,094 --> 00:02:32,214 Speaker 1: has filed the notice of appeal documents prepared by himself 43 00:02:32,214 --> 00:02:34,654 Speaker 1: with the Federal Court, claiming that the finding of a 44 00:02:34,694 --> 00:02:38,134 Speaker 1: truth defense was contrary to the evidence and didn't reach 45 00:02:38,174 --> 00:02:41,414 Speaker 1: the standard of proof required by the judge. Since the 46 00:02:41,574 --> 00:02:45,494 Speaker 1: introduction of new incentives for gps across the country, bog 47 00:02:45,574 --> 00:02:49,094 Speaker 1: billing rates are on the rise. Since November twenty twenty three, 48 00:02:49,214 --> 00:02:51,894 Speaker 1: more than one million extra visits to the GP have 49 00:02:51,974 --> 00:02:54,774 Speaker 1: been bolk billed, the rate at which patients are not 50 00:02:54,814 --> 00:02:57,774 Speaker 1: being charged a gap at the doctor increasing three point 51 00:02:57,814 --> 00:03:01,094 Speaker 1: four percent overall in May. The increase is in response 52 00:03:01,134 --> 00:03:03,894 Speaker 1: to Medicare payments for doctors in major cities who bog 53 00:03:03,934 --> 00:03:07,094 Speaker 1: bill for a standard consult increased by thirty four percent 54 00:03:07,414 --> 00:03:10,494 Speaker 1: and fifty percent for those in rural and regional areas. 55 00:03:10,854 --> 00:03:13,654 Speaker 1: States that had historically lower rates of bog billings saw 56 00:03:13,654 --> 00:03:16,494 Speaker 1: the largest increase, with an eight point one percent rise 57 00:03:16,534 --> 00:03:19,174 Speaker 1: in Tasmania and a five point five percent rise in 58 00:03:19,214 --> 00:03:22,574 Speaker 1: the Act. The majority of the states and territories have 59 00:03:22,654 --> 00:03:25,174 Speaker 1: a bog bill rate in the seventy percent range, except 60 00:03:25,174 --> 00:03:27,414 Speaker 1: for New South Wales, which is more than eighty percent. 61 00:03:27,814 --> 00:03:31,134 Speaker 1: The Act has the lowest, at just fifty seven percent. 62 00:03:31,814 --> 00:03:34,894 Speaker 1: Police are searching for the parents of three babies who've 63 00:03:34,934 --> 00:03:38,014 Speaker 1: been abandoned over a seven year period. In London. A 64 00:03:38,054 --> 00:03:40,454 Speaker 1: baby girl was found by a person walking their dog 65 00:03:40,534 --> 00:03:43,054 Speaker 1: in January this year near a busy intersection in the 66 00:03:43,094 --> 00:03:46,334 Speaker 1: Newham district. They performed a DNA test and found she 67 00:03:46,454 --> 00:03:49,374 Speaker 1: is a full sibling to two other children, a boy 68 00:03:49,414 --> 00:03:52,254 Speaker 1: found in a park in Newham in September twenty seventeen 69 00:03:52,574 --> 00:03:55,174 Speaker 1: and a second boy found in a children's play area 70 00:03:55,294 --> 00:03:58,774 Speaker 1: in twenty nineteen. The two older children have been adopted, 71 00:03:58,854 --> 00:04:01,454 Speaker 1: but the youngest, tours estimated to have been born just 72 00:04:01,494 --> 00:04:04,894 Speaker 1: an hour before being left alone, remains in foster care. 73 00:04:05,294 --> 00:04:07,734 Speaker 1: The family Court says all three will know each other 74 00:04:07,774 --> 00:04:10,534 Speaker 1: as siblings, with plans for them to have contact as 75 00:04:10,534 --> 00:04:13,574 Speaker 1: they grow. Police say they are concerned for the welfare 76 00:04:13,614 --> 00:04:15,894 Speaker 1: of the mother and a calling for her to come forward. 77 00:04:16,854 --> 00:04:19,454 Speaker 1: That's what's happening around the world today. Next, should women 78 00:04:19,574 --> 00:04:22,574 Speaker 1: start being taught self defense? In order to give them 79 00:04:22,574 --> 00:04:25,694 Speaker 1: a better chance at surviving a violent man. We look 80 00:04:25,774 --> 00:04:27,854 Speaker 1: at the pros and cons of taking matters into your 81 00:04:27,894 --> 00:04:31,134 Speaker 1: own hands, and how martial arts might just help victim 82 00:04:31,174 --> 00:04:42,774 Speaker 1: survivors and for future generations to avoid DV altogether. The 83 00:04:42,854 --> 00:04:47,094 Speaker 1: domestic violence attack that shocks so many Australians the shooting 84 00:04:47,134 --> 00:04:50,214 Speaker 1: deaths of two innocent women in Perth late last week. 85 00:04:50,374 --> 00:04:52,854 Speaker 2: It's been one hundred and twenty one day since Amantha 86 00:04:52,934 --> 00:04:56,534 Speaker 2: Murphy left Ovalerate home for a run and never came back. 87 00:04:56,734 --> 00:05:00,374 Speaker 1: Mother of five, Rebecca Young was killed in her Sebastopol 88 00:05:00,454 --> 00:05:06,294 Speaker 1: home in a suspected murder suicide. The headlines in Australia 89 00:05:06,494 --> 00:05:09,294 Speaker 1: have been a concerning escalation in violence against women of 90 00:05:09,334 --> 00:05:12,414 Speaker 1: life eight. It's troubling for those who don't have a 91 00:05:12,494 --> 00:05:14,854 Speaker 1: violent man in their lives, and for those who do, 92 00:05:15,214 --> 00:05:18,414 Speaker 1: it only makes the fear grow. Many will wonder if 93 00:05:18,454 --> 00:05:20,774 Speaker 1: there's anything they can do to feel safer in the 94 00:05:20,814 --> 00:05:23,774 Speaker 1: world when the systems designed to stop men from doing 95 00:05:23,814 --> 00:05:27,574 Speaker 1: these things don't seem to be working. There's always been 96 00:05:27,614 --> 00:05:29,894 Speaker 1: plenty of victim blaming when it comes to women trying 97 00:05:29,934 --> 00:05:32,614 Speaker 1: to move around in the world safely from don't wear 98 00:05:32,654 --> 00:05:35,494 Speaker 1: that to, don't behave like that, don't drink that much, 99 00:05:35,534 --> 00:05:38,174 Speaker 1: don't go out at night. The lists of don'ts for 100 00:05:38,254 --> 00:05:40,574 Speaker 1: women who just want to exist without the threat of 101 00:05:40,614 --> 00:05:43,214 Speaker 1: a violent man taking away her freedom or even her 102 00:05:43,294 --> 00:05:46,894 Speaker 1: life are long. Girls are taught to be nice, smile, 103 00:05:47,054 --> 00:05:50,654 Speaker 1: don't make a scene, be polite, and don't escalate the situation. 104 00:05:51,374 --> 00:05:54,174 Speaker 1: But what if instead women are taught to be clearer 105 00:05:54,374 --> 00:05:58,734 Speaker 1: and to set boundaries without fear. That is what some 106 00:05:58,814 --> 00:06:01,094 Speaker 1: in the self defense and martial arts space say their 107 00:06:01,134 --> 00:06:05,214 Speaker 1: programs can accomplish, But there are concerns that some self 108 00:06:05,214 --> 00:06:09,254 Speaker 1: defense only classes focus more on a stranger attacking than 109 00:06:09,294 --> 00:06:12,374 Speaker 1: some one you already know, and that known factor could 110 00:06:12,374 --> 00:06:16,414 Speaker 1: potentially change how you'd respond to a physical assault. There 111 00:06:16,454 --> 00:06:18,694 Speaker 1: are also those who say that asking women to better 112 00:06:18,734 --> 00:06:22,214 Speaker 1: prepare for an attack is again victim blaming, not dealing 113 00:06:22,214 --> 00:06:24,614 Speaker 1: with the root cause of the issue, which is men's 114 00:06:24,654 --> 00:06:28,294 Speaker 1: violence against women. There are concerns that women fighting back 115 00:06:28,334 --> 00:06:32,054 Speaker 1: physically will only escalate the violence, putting her in even 116 00:06:32,094 --> 00:06:36,094 Speaker 1: more danger, and we've also seen police arrest women who 117 00:06:36,134 --> 00:06:38,814 Speaker 1: have fought back against a violent man, ending up in 118 00:06:38,894 --> 00:06:43,054 Speaker 1: legal hot water themselves, like Sydney woman Jane, who cannot 119 00:06:43,054 --> 00:06:46,454 Speaker 1: be identified, who was heavily pregnant when she claims her 120 00:06:46,534 --> 00:06:49,094 Speaker 1: husband hit her in the head and dragged her by 121 00:06:49,134 --> 00:06:52,294 Speaker 1: her hair in December twenty twenty at his parents' house. 122 00:06:53,014 --> 00:06:56,214 Speaker 1: She says that assault had followed months of coercive control 123 00:06:56,294 --> 00:06:59,814 Speaker 1: and escalating abuse by her husband, who she'd met only 124 00:06:59,934 --> 00:07:03,854 Speaker 1: nine months earlier before accidentally falling pregnant. She had no 125 00:07:03,934 --> 00:07:07,174 Speaker 1: idea of his controlling behavior before they were married. She 126 00:07:07,294 --> 00:07:10,774 Speaker 1: had contacted police previously after he he allegedly slapped her 127 00:07:10,774 --> 00:07:12,894 Speaker 1: at their home, but she declined to make it a 128 00:07:12,934 --> 00:07:16,934 Speaker 1: formal complaint, worried that he, a Lebanese national, would be deported. 129 00:07:18,014 --> 00:07:21,134 Speaker 1: Just three weeks later, Jane told police her husband snapped 130 00:07:21,174 --> 00:07:24,814 Speaker 1: and attacked her. She fought back, managing to get away, 131 00:07:25,094 --> 00:07:28,854 Speaker 1: leaving the house and calling police, but officers who attended 132 00:07:28,854 --> 00:07:31,294 Speaker 1: the scene were told by her husband that she was 133 00:07:31,334 --> 00:07:34,174 Speaker 1: the aggressor, showed them some of the minor injuries he'd 134 00:07:34,174 --> 00:07:38,134 Speaker 1: received in the altercation, and his father corroborated his son's story. 135 00:07:38,814 --> 00:07:41,374 Speaker 1: She was charged with assault because he was the one 136 00:07:41,414 --> 00:07:44,014 Speaker 1: who had physical injuries. It would be two and a 137 00:07:44,054 --> 00:07:46,774 Speaker 1: half years before the magistrate finally threw that case out 138 00:07:46,814 --> 00:07:50,094 Speaker 1: of court, Jane making an official complaint against New South 139 00:07:50,094 --> 00:07:54,214 Speaker 1: Wales Police, which was dismissed their superintendent finding the officers 140 00:07:54,254 --> 00:07:57,934 Speaker 1: involved had acted appropriately and Jane's case is not an 141 00:07:57,974 --> 00:08:03,094 Speaker 1: isolated one. A report from Australia's National Research Organization for 142 00:08:03,134 --> 00:08:06,414 Speaker 1: Women's Safety found that almost half of the women murdered 143 00:08:06,414 --> 00:08:10,094 Speaker 1: by an intimate partner in Queensland had been ida identified 144 00:08:10,134 --> 00:08:13,494 Speaker 1: by police in the past as the perpetrator rather than 145 00:08:13,494 --> 00:08:17,694 Speaker 1: the victim of domestic violence. In Victoria, a twenty eighteen 146 00:08:17,774 --> 00:08:21,854 Speaker 1: report from the Women's Legal Service found police had misidentified 147 00:08:22,014 --> 00:08:24,934 Speaker 1: one in ten of their female clients as having been 148 00:08:24,974 --> 00:08:28,294 Speaker 1: the perpetrator, and in New South Wales, around twenty five 149 00:08:28,334 --> 00:08:31,174 Speaker 1: percent of women surveyed by Women's Safety New South Wales 150 00:08:31,494 --> 00:08:36,454 Speaker 1: reported also being misidentified as the primary aggressor. So is 151 00:08:36,494 --> 00:08:40,014 Speaker 1: that an argument enough that self defense is not something 152 00:08:40,014 --> 00:08:45,534 Speaker 1: we should teach women to protect themselves. Christy Hitchins is 153 00:08:45,574 --> 00:08:48,614 Speaker 1: the founder of the Pink Belt program, who runs scholarships 154 00:08:48,614 --> 00:08:52,094 Speaker 1: for women at martial arts clubs, especially for victim survivors 155 00:08:52,094 --> 00:08:55,694 Speaker 1: of domestic violence. She says women shouldn't have to do 156 00:08:55,774 --> 00:08:58,934 Speaker 1: anything to prevent men from committing violent acts. Towards them. 157 00:08:59,294 --> 00:09:01,534 Speaker 1: But she also knows that when there are horrific and 158 00:09:01,614 --> 00:09:04,574 Speaker 1: tragic murders of women dominating the headlines, like there have 159 00:09:04,654 --> 00:09:08,094 Speaker 1: been recently, women feel compelled to do more to keep 160 00:09:08,174 --> 00:09:11,894 Speaker 1: themselves safe. Christy, what motivated you to start the Pink 161 00:09:11,894 --> 00:09:12,654 Speaker 1: Filt project? 162 00:09:13,134 --> 00:09:17,214 Speaker 2: It was a combination of factors. I started taekwondo age forty. 163 00:09:17,814 --> 00:09:21,014 Speaker 2: I joined my son in his class. He'd been training 164 00:09:21,014 --> 00:09:23,734 Speaker 2: in taekwondo for about five years. As time went on, 165 00:09:23,974 --> 00:09:27,654 Speaker 2: I came to realize that my training buddy, who I adored, 166 00:09:28,134 --> 00:09:31,974 Speaker 2: had been affected by domestic violence. She'd had to flee 167 00:09:32,014 --> 00:09:35,334 Speaker 2: her marriage set herself up independently. But I came to 168 00:09:35,414 --> 00:09:39,494 Speaker 2: understand what the benefits of martial arts were for all women, 169 00:09:39,534 --> 00:09:43,254 Speaker 2: but particularly for women who were affected by violence. So 170 00:09:43,694 --> 00:09:45,454 Speaker 2: I could see the change in her. I could see 171 00:09:45,454 --> 00:09:48,494 Speaker 2: how important it was to her recovery process, and so 172 00:09:48,574 --> 00:09:51,174 Speaker 2: it was really her that inspired this idea. And once 173 00:09:51,374 --> 00:09:54,254 Speaker 2: we worked out a way that we could help get 174 00:09:54,454 --> 00:09:57,934 Speaker 2: my training buddy back into martial arts and continue her journey. 175 00:09:58,574 --> 00:10:01,974 Speaker 2: The more I spoke to people about the concept, we 176 00:10:02,054 --> 00:10:04,774 Speaker 2: saw evidence that it was working, and it just grew 177 00:10:04,774 --> 00:10:05,134 Speaker 2: and grew. 178 00:10:05,774 --> 00:10:08,734 Speaker 1: Christy, there seems to be two conflicting camps on this 179 00:10:09,294 --> 00:10:14,094 Speaker 1: is learning self defense actually helpful when you find yourself 180 00:10:14,134 --> 00:10:17,614 Speaker 1: in a situation where you might be physically in danger. 181 00:10:18,254 --> 00:10:20,254 Speaker 2: It's a really big question, and I think for a 182 00:10:20,294 --> 00:10:23,934 Speaker 2: long time, the role of martial arts and self defense 183 00:10:24,294 --> 00:10:28,894 Speaker 2: in this kind of violence prevention space feels uncomfortable to people, 184 00:10:29,054 --> 00:10:31,214 Speaker 2: and I think that's because there's generally a bit of 185 00:10:31,214 --> 00:10:35,254 Speaker 2: a lack of understanding out there about how martial arts 186 00:10:35,334 --> 00:10:37,814 Speaker 2: can help. So I want to try and address some 187 00:10:37,894 --> 00:10:41,974 Speaker 2: of that disinformation confusion around the role. The answer is 188 00:10:42,014 --> 00:10:44,694 Speaker 2: actually yes and no. But the problem is that not 189 00:10:44,774 --> 00:10:47,654 Speaker 2: all self defense courses are created equal. There's a lot 190 00:10:47,694 --> 00:10:51,414 Speaker 2: of them out there, and we see situations at the moment, 191 00:10:51,814 --> 00:10:54,894 Speaker 2: you know, tragic events where women are being murdered are 192 00:10:54,894 --> 00:10:58,054 Speaker 2: dominating the headlines. Women want to do anything they can 193 00:10:58,174 --> 00:11:01,134 Speaker 2: to improve their sense of safety, and feeling like a 194 00:11:01,174 --> 00:11:03,734 Speaker 2: self defense course can help that tends to be the 195 00:11:03,774 --> 00:11:06,294 Speaker 2: sort of thing they start to go looking for. There 196 00:11:06,374 --> 00:11:09,814 Speaker 2: is some amazing, really high quality research out there that 197 00:11:09,894 --> 00:11:14,294 Speaker 2: shows women train in self defense are not only more 198 00:11:14,414 --> 00:11:17,454 Speaker 2: likely to be able to fight off a potential attacker 199 00:11:17,654 --> 00:11:22,014 Speaker 2: or rapist, but they're actually more likely to even not 200 00:11:22,254 --> 00:11:23,694 Speaker 2: encounter one in the first place. 201 00:11:24,534 --> 00:11:26,534 Speaker 1: So can you explain why that might be chrissy? Like, 202 00:11:26,614 --> 00:11:29,294 Speaker 1: what is it about having learned self defense or martial arts? 203 00:11:29,774 --> 00:11:31,814 Speaker 1: Does it not put you in the path of that 204 00:11:31,934 --> 00:11:35,134 Speaker 1: potential attacker or is it more about the vibe you 205 00:11:35,174 --> 00:11:37,094 Speaker 1: give off that you're not someone to be messed with? 206 00:11:37,414 --> 00:11:40,294 Speaker 1: What stops someone from becoming a victim in the first place. 207 00:11:41,214 --> 00:11:43,614 Speaker 2: Yeah, So the first thing I'll say is that the 208 00:11:43,694 --> 00:11:47,854 Speaker 2: self defense that's shown to be successful generally involves something 209 00:11:47,894 --> 00:11:51,134 Speaker 2: more than just a one off two our exercise. This 210 00:11:51,214 --> 00:11:56,054 Speaker 2: is an ongoing program of instruction and skills developed over time. 211 00:11:56,294 --> 00:12:00,334 Speaker 2: But generally part of the curriculum of these more ongoing 212 00:12:00,534 --> 00:12:03,454 Speaker 2: classes and the training that you develop is you begin 213 00:12:03,654 --> 00:12:08,454 Speaker 2: to understand predator behavior and recognize red flags in behavior. 214 00:12:08,814 --> 00:12:12,614 Speaker 2: So this is where self defense and martial arts really 215 00:12:12,614 --> 00:12:17,214 Speaker 2: come to the fore in terms of violence prevention, because women, 216 00:12:17,374 --> 00:12:20,254 Speaker 2: all of a sudden are more able to spot those 217 00:12:20,254 --> 00:12:24,614 Speaker 2: red flags in behavior, They're more able to voice their boundaries, 218 00:12:24,814 --> 00:12:28,054 Speaker 2: and so this is where it starts to prevent an 219 00:12:28,094 --> 00:12:30,014 Speaker 2: attack from even occurring in the first place. 220 00:12:30,534 --> 00:12:33,654 Speaker 1: There are people who say, sure, you can teach women's 221 00:12:33,654 --> 00:12:37,574 Speaker 1: self defense but men are physically stronger than women, and 222 00:12:38,094 --> 00:12:40,734 Speaker 1: all you're doing is setting a woman up to be 223 00:12:40,934 --> 00:12:44,014 Speaker 1: hurt even more if she were to challenge a man physically. 224 00:12:44,054 --> 00:12:45,014 Speaker 1: What do you say to that. 225 00:12:45,574 --> 00:12:48,454 Speaker 2: The research again actually tells a different story. But again 226 00:12:48,534 --> 00:12:51,934 Speaker 2: I have to qualify that by saying that the research 227 00:12:52,054 --> 00:12:55,294 Speaker 2: on this looks at self defense classes that have been 228 00:12:55,414 --> 00:12:57,854 Speaker 2: taken over a period of time. They're not a short 229 00:12:58,054 --> 00:13:00,854 Speaker 2: one off. And this is one of my concerns about 230 00:13:01,134 --> 00:13:04,494 Speaker 2: these short self defense courses. Is it that can provide 231 00:13:04,534 --> 00:13:07,414 Speaker 2: a sort of false sense of confidence or security and 232 00:13:07,494 --> 00:13:10,894 Speaker 2: how effective something that you'veice a couple of times is 233 00:13:10,934 --> 00:13:13,254 Speaker 2: actually going to help you in a situation where you're 234 00:13:13,254 --> 00:13:17,854 Speaker 2: overcome by fright and flight type reflexes. But a longer, 235 00:13:18,494 --> 00:13:22,854 Speaker 2: more developed self defense class can actually teach you techniques 236 00:13:22,894 --> 00:13:27,134 Speaker 2: that don't rely on strength power. They involve a skill 237 00:13:27,374 --> 00:13:29,934 Speaker 2: which can tend to even use the person's size and 238 00:13:29,974 --> 00:13:33,614 Speaker 2: strength against them. So absolutely it can be very effective, 239 00:13:33,694 --> 00:13:35,894 Speaker 2: but it's not a silver bullet. It takes time to 240 00:13:35,934 --> 00:13:36,974 Speaker 2: develop these skills. 241 00:13:37,574 --> 00:13:40,254 Speaker 1: Now, you mentioned there that for women who do engage 242 00:13:40,254 --> 00:13:42,654 Speaker 1: with martial arts, over time, they do start to get 243 00:13:42,694 --> 00:13:45,294 Speaker 1: a sense of that predatory behavior and can spot a 244 00:13:45,334 --> 00:13:49,174 Speaker 1: red flag. Would that then kind of mean that women 245 00:13:49,214 --> 00:13:52,574 Speaker 1: who have experienced a violent relationship or how to controlling 246 00:13:52,614 --> 00:13:56,694 Speaker 1: a coercive partner may too also benefit from engaging in 247 00:13:56,734 --> 00:14:00,214 Speaker 1: martial arts and self defense to return to confidence after 248 00:14:00,254 --> 00:14:01,174 Speaker 1: going through something. 249 00:14:00,934 --> 00:14:03,934 Speaker 2: Like that one hundred percent. And there's some research on that, 250 00:14:03,974 --> 00:14:06,334 Speaker 2: and we've actually a Pink Belt project done our own 251 00:14:06,374 --> 00:14:10,334 Speaker 2: research which shows that, you know, women generally report high 252 00:14:10,414 --> 00:14:13,334 Speaker 2: levels of benefit from engaging in martial arts, but the 253 00:14:13,454 --> 00:14:19,134 Speaker 2: group surveyed who reported the highest improvements in things like confidence, 254 00:14:19,254 --> 00:14:23,414 Speaker 2: mental health, empowerment, all those aspects were women who had 255 00:14:23,454 --> 00:14:26,334 Speaker 2: experienced violence in the past. You know, we talk about 256 00:14:26,494 --> 00:14:29,534 Speaker 2: martial arts as being a really powerful tool for recovery 257 00:14:29,574 --> 00:14:32,614 Speaker 2: from violence. And one of the reasons that's so important 258 00:14:32,774 --> 00:14:35,854 Speaker 2: is because for anyone who might understand how the cycle 259 00:14:35,894 --> 00:14:39,974 Speaker 2: of violence works, somebody who has been exposed to violence 260 00:14:39,974 --> 00:14:43,814 Speaker 2: in their past is more likely to experience another violent 261 00:14:43,894 --> 00:14:47,494 Speaker 2: relationship in their future because they just don't have the 262 00:14:47,534 --> 00:14:50,894 Speaker 2: ability to spot those red flags, because that's from their 263 00:14:51,014 --> 00:14:54,414 Speaker 2: perspective being entirely normal behavior that they're very used to. 264 00:14:55,134 --> 00:14:59,134 Speaker 2: So really, really important that women who have experienced violence 265 00:14:59,134 --> 00:15:01,814 Speaker 2: in the past have the opportunity and the tools to 266 00:15:01,894 --> 00:15:04,814 Speaker 2: be able to recover from that violence and develop their 267 00:15:04,814 --> 00:15:07,614 Speaker 2: sense of self worth again so that they can really 268 00:15:07,894 --> 00:15:09,494 Speaker 2: understand that they're worth defending. 269 00:15:10,094 --> 00:15:13,254 Speaker 1: Does it matter which type of martial arts you engaged with, 270 00:15:13,334 --> 00:15:16,494 Speaker 1: because there are so many different ones you can choose from, 271 00:15:16,494 --> 00:15:18,534 Speaker 1: Are there ones in particular that are more suited to 272 00:15:18,654 --> 00:15:19,374 Speaker 1: self defense? 273 00:15:19,854 --> 00:15:22,654 Speaker 2: A pink belt project. The martial arts that we tend 274 00:15:22,654 --> 00:15:26,694 Speaker 2: to work with are known as the traditional martial arts, 275 00:15:26,934 --> 00:15:32,454 Speaker 2: and that comes in many forms. That's your taekwondo, karate, aikido, hapkido. 276 00:15:33,054 --> 00:15:35,614 Speaker 2: But one of the things that's really common to all 277 00:15:35,614 --> 00:15:38,454 Speaker 2: of these traditional martial arts is a belt rank system, 278 00:15:38,654 --> 00:15:41,254 Speaker 2: and that perhaps is one of the most obvious signs 279 00:15:41,294 --> 00:15:44,494 Speaker 2: that this class that you might be contemplating is the 280 00:15:44,534 --> 00:15:47,574 Speaker 2: traditional martial art. The traditional martial arts tend to have 281 00:15:47,774 --> 00:15:52,294 Speaker 2: a more body mind, spirit type approach, which enhances the 282 00:15:52,374 --> 00:15:55,494 Speaker 2: kind of therapeutic effects of it. But key to what 283 00:15:55,574 --> 00:15:59,814 Speaker 2: we see as contributing to the therapeutic effects is this 284 00:15:59,894 --> 00:16:05,574 Speaker 2: belt rank system, because it's this beautifully segmented, highly recognizable 285 00:16:06,014 --> 00:16:10,254 Speaker 2: incremental pathway for personal development and effective for that. 286 00:16:10,974 --> 00:16:13,334 Speaker 1: I guess one of the barriers that women might come 287 00:16:13,374 --> 00:16:15,934 Speaker 1: up against when thinking about going down this path is 288 00:16:16,214 --> 00:16:19,294 Speaker 1: the cost of it. With those sort of shorter self 289 00:16:19,334 --> 00:16:22,254 Speaker 1: defense courses you're talking about, sometimes they're a little bit 290 00:16:22,254 --> 00:16:25,534 Speaker 1: more affordable than doing something long term. What do you 291 00:16:25,574 --> 00:16:27,974 Speaker 1: suggest to people who might really want to engage with 292 00:16:28,014 --> 00:16:30,974 Speaker 1: this and feel like it might help them mentally and physically, 293 00:16:31,014 --> 00:16:32,854 Speaker 1: but financially they can't do it. 294 00:16:33,654 --> 00:16:36,334 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's absolutely an issue and something that we try 295 00:16:36,334 --> 00:16:39,854 Speaker 2: to address with Pink Belt Project by offering one year scholarships. 296 00:16:40,134 --> 00:16:44,054 Speaker 2: We have clubs located in every state and territory of 297 00:16:44,054 --> 00:16:47,694 Speaker 2: Australia in some overseas locations. They're trained in providing a 298 00:16:47,694 --> 00:16:52,014 Speaker 2: trauma informed approach and they take on an applicant who 299 00:16:52,054 --> 00:16:54,174 Speaker 2: is able to train for one year at no cost. 300 00:16:54,414 --> 00:16:59,614 Speaker 2: Everything's covered uniform belts, membership fees, and then at Pink 301 00:16:59,654 --> 00:17:02,654 Speaker 2: Belt Project we also provide some wrap around supports in 302 00:17:02,694 --> 00:17:07,134 Speaker 2: the form of workshops and connection with others to really 303 00:17:07,414 --> 00:17:10,934 Speaker 2: help support them through what can sometimes be a rather 304 00:17:11,014 --> 00:17:14,454 Speaker 2: daunting first few steps but eventually turns out to be, 305 00:17:14,574 --> 00:17:17,534 Speaker 2: from what we've seen, a really transformative process. 306 00:17:21,974 --> 00:17:25,014 Speaker 1: If you're currently feeling unsafe in your world, please reach 307 00:17:25,054 --> 00:17:27,774 Speaker 1: out to someone who can help one eight hundred respect. 308 00:17:27,894 --> 00:17:31,094 Speaker 1: The National Domestic and Family Violence Hotline is standing by 309 00:17:31,174 --> 00:17:33,894 Speaker 1: to help you deal with whatever you're facing. And if 310 00:17:33,894 --> 00:17:35,814 Speaker 1: you think self defense for women is a way in 311 00:17:35,894 --> 00:17:38,694 Speaker 1: which you and she can feel safer, then why not 312 00:17:38,774 --> 00:17:41,414 Speaker 1: consider supporting the Pink Belt Project. The link to their 313 00:17:41,414 --> 00:17:44,374 Speaker 1: website is in our show notes. Mamma Mia is also 314 00:17:44,374 --> 00:17:47,134 Speaker 1: a proud partner with Rise Up, a charity organization that 315 00:17:47,214 --> 00:17:50,894 Speaker 1: helps with life changing practical support for families affected by 316 00:17:50,894 --> 00:17:53,614 Speaker 1: domestic violence. You can support them through the link in 317 00:17:53,654 --> 00:17:56,814 Speaker 1: our show notes too. The quickie is produced by me 318 00:17:56,974 --> 00:17:59,934 Speaker 1: Claire Murphy and our executive producer, Cali rin Tool, with 319 00:18:00,054 --> 00:18:01,734 Speaker 1: audio production by Tomline