WEBVTT - Four Tips To Help You Push Your Baby Out

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<v Speaker 1>All right, today we're talking about the point end of labor,

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<v Speaker 1>the pushing bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I'm not going to do salt and pepper

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<v Speaker 2>push it. That seems to come up every single time

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<v Speaker 2>someone talks about pushing it above that. We're above that,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, it's in the back of my brain there somewhere,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, All right, good, So what we want you

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<v Speaker 2>to go away with with this episode is basically to

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<v Speaker 2>learn about, well, when does this happen in the labor

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<v Speaker 2>because some people think that that's all labor's about, but

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<v Speaker 2>you know, it's sort of only part of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's the TV bit, isn't it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, sort of break your waters in the shops and

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<v Speaker 1>water goes everywhere, and then you're pushing the next minute.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're pushing. So we want to talk about when

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<v Speaker 2>that happens in your labor and what to expect, and

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<v Speaker 2>we've got some tips for pushing.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice.

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<v Speaker 2>We want you to go away with at least three

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<v Speaker 2>tips to help you in this part of your labor.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds good, all.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Pat, So I think let's start with what stage

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<v Speaker 2>of labor is it time to push?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, this is like this is it's a surprisingly complex

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<v Speaker 1>question when you think that would be obvious the give

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<v Speaker 1>or take the best time, you've got to be fully dilated,

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<v Speaker 1>so the cervice has to be fully dilated, but there

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<v Speaker 1>is some difference of opinion about what should happen after that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's becoming much more accepted that in the setting of

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<v Speaker 1>good progress and in the setting of a happy, healthy baby,

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<v Speaker 1>that you don't start pushing the minute you have a

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<v Speaker 1>vaginal examination and someone says, oh, you're fully dilated, to

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<v Speaker 1>push baby at now, Because yeah, the cervix might be

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<v Speaker 1>fully dilated, but the head might be very high, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's an awful lot of work to push that head

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<v Speaker 1>from right up high all the way out, And so

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<v Speaker 1>a certain amount of time spent in what's collpacivescent, waiting

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<v Speaker 1>for the uterus to push baby down a fair way

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<v Speaker 1>down into the pelvis before you start the active pushing.

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<v Speaker 1>Like the deliberate pushing is a great idea, and one

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<v Speaker 1>of the main things that's going to help with is

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<v Speaker 1>how long you have to push. For bearing in mind

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<v Speaker 1>that very few people can push forever. It's hard work,

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<v Speaker 1>and even a very fit athletic person is going to

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<v Speaker 1>get worn out by the pushing process, and you might

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<v Speaker 1>get to a point where you just can't manage an

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<v Speaker 1>effective push anymore. And if the baby's still not out,

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<v Speaker 1>then we're setting ourselves up for intervention in the form

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<v Speaker 1>of vacuum or forces. So it's nice to start pushing

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<v Speaker 1>when you've got a when you've got a fighting chance

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<v Speaker 1>of having the baby all the way out before you

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<v Speaker 1>get to exhaust it.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's interesting that you start there, because when I

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<v Speaker 2>was preparing for this podcast, my Google search brought me

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<v Speaker 2>to a lot of American sites, and in the US

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<v Speaker 2>for a lot of hospitals, as soon as it gets

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<v Speaker 2>to ten as soon as someone gets to ten centimeters,

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<v Speaker 2>there is the protocol to start getting them to push.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's interesting, isn't it. I think worldwide you probably

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<v Speaker 1>you would probably find it. I don't know this for

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<v Speaker 1>a fact, but you would probably find that an early

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<v Speaker 1>pushing approach is most adopted in the countries that are

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<v Speaker 1>most at home with intervention, because you're gonna wear some

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<v Speaker 1>people out if you do that, Yeah, Whereas if you wait,

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<v Speaker 1>Remember we're only waiting if it's safe to wait. We're

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<v Speaker 1>we're waiting, well man, well wab We're going to wait

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<v Speaker 1>a bit. And if we wait, the ideal amount of

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<v Speaker 1>time to wait I think is und till the point

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<v Speaker 1>This might take an hour or more until the point

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<v Speaker 1>where the woman can't help it push.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>They're the best ones. Yep, okay, And it's a bit

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<v Speaker 1>it's a bit gross, but I say to people, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like doing half a pooh. Right. Imagine I imagine if

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<v Speaker 1>you were on the toilet and you did half a

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<v Speaker 1>poo and someone told you you should stop now when

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<v Speaker 1>it was only half out right, that would be that

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<v Speaker 1>would be very difficult to do, right, and your body's

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<v Speaker 1>going to get I don't think, so I'll just keep going.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's where you want to get to where there's

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<v Speaker 1>an overwhelming, irresistible urge to push, because I think they're

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<v Speaker 1>the best ones. Yeah, And there's they require less active

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<v Speaker 1>coaching because the woman goes, I know I'm supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>put I kind I can't help it push. Yeah. And

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<v Speaker 1>they come late in the piece, so that if you

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<v Speaker 1>if you save your save your efforts for those ones,

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<v Speaker 1>then you're more likely to have the power push a

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<v Speaker 1>baby out before something happens that triggers an intervention and.

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<v Speaker 2>You might get bragging rights. I pushed the baby out

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<v Speaker 2>in two pushes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we try and avoid them.

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<v Speaker 2>Brain, No, comparison itis is terrible. Don't listen to how

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<v Speaker 2>long did it take people? I think that that is

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<v Speaker 2>very different information than what I was reading. And in

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<v Speaker 2>some hospitals, the protocol was I know that we're going

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<v Speaker 2>to get into how long is too long to be pushing,

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<v Speaker 2>But some hospitals were up to four hours. They would

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<v Speaker 2>allow someone to push for four hours.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, Yeah, I think we suffer from a lack of

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<v Speaker 1>real evidence here, but I don't think many people could

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<v Speaker 1>push effectively for four hours. No, that is an awfully

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<v Speaker 1>long time to do something as intense as trying to

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<v Speaker 1>push baby. Yeah. And one thing, one point I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to make is we're really talking about people having their

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<v Speaker 1>first baby here. The pushing phase for second and subsequent

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<v Speaker 1>babies is often very brief. Sometimes it's kind of absent, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So that's very different when a baby has come down

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<v Speaker 1>that path before.

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<v Speaker 2>And I just want to point out that technically this

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<v Speaker 2>is called second stage, isn't it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, from fully dilat until the baby's out.

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<v Speaker 2>I think a lot of people would like to know

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<v Speaker 2>what is happening to the baby during pushing. Is it

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<v Speaker 2>more of a stress on the baby during the pushing

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<v Speaker 2>phase than the contraction phase.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a potential stress on the baby just to be

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<v Speaker 1>coming down the birth canal and just to be for example,

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<v Speaker 1>squishing again, maybe squishing against the court. Whether or not

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<v Speaker 1>it makes a difference to the babies well being if

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<v Speaker 1>the woman is actively pushing or not, I don't think so,

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<v Speaker 1>but there is something physiologically challenging for the baby just

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<v Speaker 1>to just to be coming out and just to be

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<v Speaker 1>being born, and just to be fairly squished by that point.

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<v Speaker 2>As an obstetrician, can you pick the point when someone's

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<v Speaker 2>going to push, like do they make different facial Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>So there describe it for.

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<v Speaker 1>Us well experience people in the birthing space. You can

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<v Speaker 1>hear it from the corridor, So there's a change in

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<v Speaker 1>the pitch of the noise, and somebody four or five

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<v Speaker 1>centimeters makes a different noise to somebody is fully dilated.

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<v Speaker 1>There's an acute intensity to the discomfort and the pain

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<v Speaker 1>felt by women at full diletation that changes the pitch

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<v Speaker 1>of the noise that they make and so you can

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<v Speaker 1>actually hear it before you're enter the room. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>in particular if it's their second or subsequent baby, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's and it hasn't crept up on them. They've gone

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<v Speaker 1>from a labor that was just sort of cooking along

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<v Speaker 1>to suddenly bang straight into the fully dilated, let's push

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<v Speaker 1>this baby out phase, and they make a different sound,

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<v Speaker 1>So that's number one. And then and then secondly, they

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<v Speaker 1>will find it nearly impossible to get comfortable, so they'll

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<v Speaker 1>dance around the better bit. And that's and that is

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<v Speaker 1>related to the fact that if you've got a head

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<v Speaker 1>that's about to come out, it is almost technically impossible

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<v Speaker 1>to be comfortable in the absence of an epidural, So

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<v Speaker 1>they'll dance around the better bit. And then if you

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<v Speaker 1>see somebody start to push all by themselves without being

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<v Speaker 1>coached during a painful contraction, which you can sometimes see

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<v Speaker 1>because the parent if you're watching that, the parente will

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<v Speaker 1>start to bulge a bit and you think she's pushing

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<v Speaker 1>without even anyone coaching. Yeah, terrific sign.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, And I want to talk about coaching and

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<v Speaker 2>spontaneous because I mean, gosh, that's everywhere, and there's a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of people that are either put in either camp.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, they're like, no coaching should be allowed, like

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<v Speaker 2>everybody knows when their body is ready to push. And

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<v Speaker 2>then there's other protocolized coaching. Yes, so let's talk about

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<v Speaker 2>both of those things. So tell me what does coached

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<v Speaker 2>pushing me?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think coach pushing is pretty common, common for

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<v Speaker 1>first timers, pretty common for epidural because sometimes those people

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<v Speaker 1>really are ready to push their heads nicely down, long

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<v Speaker 1>way down the service, fully dilated, and it really is

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<v Speaker 1>time to push, but they're not feeling an overwhelming need

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<v Speaker 1>urge to push sometimes until right at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the head's just about out. So coaching for some people

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<v Speaker 1>really helps them focus. So painful contraction starts up. Will

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<v Speaker 1>you coach the woman to take a big breath in,

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<v Speaker 1>put a gin down towards her chest, and push firmly

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<v Speaker 1>down towards her bottom, And you tend to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to push for about fifteen seconds doing that, and then

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<v Speaker 1>you're out of breath. Quickly let it go, take another

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<v Speaker 1>breath and do the same thing again, so that you

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<v Speaker 1>can get two or three cycles of that per contraction.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's the most common form of coached pushing, and

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<v Speaker 1>some people respond very well to that. Other people don't

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<v Speaker 1>respond to that at all and actually want to be

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<v Speaker 1>going internally in their mind into a near meditative or

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<v Speaker 1>hypnotic state of inner peace in an attempt to remain

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<v Speaker 1>internally focused and try and disregard the pain. And those

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<v Speaker 1>people won't tell you they want to be coached out loud,

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<v Speaker 1>but they might want something as simple as a rub

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<v Speaker 1>to their lower back or a hold of their hand,

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<v Speaker 1>and they've got it internally.

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<v Speaker 2>And do most people have any idea how that pushing

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<v Speaker 2>phase what they might want before then, or do they

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<v Speaker 2>sort of come up with it and tell you to

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<v Speaker 2>shut up?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Some people have firm ideas when they're pregnant about

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<v Speaker 1>how they want that bit to go. But surely you

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<v Speaker 1>have to experience it to really know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and do you what's your preference?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you do? I'm very happy to coach people

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<v Speaker 1>who want to be coached. Sometimes people politely say no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't need that. I'm just I'm going internally here. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I want you to speak up if you're worried

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<v Speaker 1>about something, fine, but I don't mind doing the coaching. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm smiling because I had a patient a few years

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<v Speaker 1>ago whose husband was a coach. He was a motivation

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<v Speaker 1>coach and a personal trainer, and he was unbelievable. It

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<v Speaker 1>was just awesome. Yeah, because he had absolutely no shyness

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<v Speaker 1>about about, you know, taking over the room and saying

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<v Speaker 1>why do you good? Okay, here comes another one, Bang,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go, and the big voice and everything, which sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>people get funny about, but because that's what he did

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<v Speaker 1>for a living, get people off there, button exercise.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and presumably maybe his partner exercised with him and

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<v Speaker 2>was kind of used to his coaching method or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Totally fine. Yeah, it worked for them, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's the point that we do what works for people.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I think that is the point because being

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<v Speaker 2>militant about whether as a birth provider, whether someone should

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<v Speaker 2>be coached or should be having spontaneous pushing, that's sort

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<v Speaker 2>of not up to them, is it. It's up to

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<v Speaker 2>the person who's doing the pushing.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course. Yeah. Of course, we don't know for a

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<v Speaker 1>fact that coaching works better than non coaching, So it's

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<v Speaker 1>not like we've got evidence that the strong evidence that

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<v Speaker 1>it helps.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you talked about epidural Can we just flesh that

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<v Speaker 2>out a little bit, yep, because that is a bit different,

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<v Speaker 2>isn't it.

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<v Speaker 1>It is. If you've got a really strong you may

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<v Speaker 1>not get an early urge to push, and in fact,

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<v Speaker 1>you may not get an urge to push at all,

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<v Speaker 1>and you may not get an urge to push until

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<v Speaker 1>the head is like literally half out. So that's a

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<v Speaker 1>downside of epidurals is that it might lead the push

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<v Speaker 1>phase to be a bit less efficient. We don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that that necessarily leads to problems, but it can lead

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<v Speaker 1>to somebody who's fully dilated, their heads very close to

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<v Speaker 1>out and they're like, when should I push? So I

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<v Speaker 1>think that person would really benefit from coach pushing because

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<v Speaker 1>we can often if they're completely pain free, because their

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<v Speaker 1>EPI is very dense, very effective, then we can watch

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<v Speaker 1>the watch the fiddle heart rate manta, the line that

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<v Speaker 1>observes the contractions, tell that woman when there's a contraction

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<v Speaker 1>and get her to start pushing. And it's cool to

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<v Speaker 1>watch because eventually she'll she'll push because she's been coached

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<v Speaker 1>to push, But then a point comes where she goes,

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<v Speaker 1>oh okay, fine, I can feel at it's very common

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<v Speaker 1>for an epidural to actually blockle all the pain, and

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<v Speaker 1>eventually the head will come down so far that the

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<v Speaker 1>pain comes back, and then she goes, oh, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>now I want her to push, And that's a good moment,

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<v Speaker 1>right because that because you know, you close home. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And speaking of close to home, the other thing that

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<v Speaker 1>you can see when someone's pushing like a champion is

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<v Speaker 1>the is the aanus will open and sometimes a bow

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<v Speaker 1>motion will come out. And people get super worried that

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<v Speaker 1>that's going to happen and that they will be embarrassed

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<v Speaker 1>by that or something. But your key gives will never

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<v Speaker 1>be happier than when that happens, because it means that

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<v Speaker 1>the head's about to come out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there's not room for both.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, No, that's right. So and it's it's not you're

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<v Speaker 1>not having a bow motion in the usual way. What's

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<v Speaker 1>happening is that is the baby's heads pushing against the

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<v Speaker 1>bow and causing it to open. Yeah, and that means

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<v Speaker 1>you're nearly there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And sometimes you won't even know that that's happened

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<v Speaker 2>like that, we're pretty discretable, very discreted. It whipped away

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<v Speaker 2>and there we go and can you now describe the

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<v Speaker 2>different positions that you've seen women get into two push.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Again, this is a personal preference situation, and there

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<v Speaker 1>is not, to the best of mine, powerful evidence about

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<v Speaker 1>what's the best one. But anywhere from on your back

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<v Speaker 1>to on your back with your legs in the air,

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<v Speaker 1>to on your side, to standing up to squatting, they're

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<v Speaker 1>all a matter of personal preference.

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<v Speaker 2>One on, one knee, one leg extended, like, there's just

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<v Speaker 2>every every variety whatever, and it's up to the care giver,

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<v Speaker 2>to the birth provider to manage that because I would

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<v Speaker 2>imagine you end up being a bit like an acrobat.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and that I hope there aren't too many institutions

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<v Speaker 1>worldwide who are trying to limit this for people. But

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<v Speaker 1>one of the problems, one of the things we do

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<v Speaker 1>like to sort of take care of in hospitals is

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<v Speaker 1>the health and safety of the people who work there.

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<v Speaker 1>So what we're looking for, if possible, is, for example,

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<v Speaker 1>if someone wants to give birth in a squatting position,

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<v Speaker 1>then we tend to put a bunch of mats around,

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<v Speaker 1>so not only is the woman standing on a soft mat,

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<v Speaker 1>but the caregivers can get down on the ground, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and help her with easing the head out, supporting the

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<v Speaker 1>peraneum with crowning. And if you're going to do that,

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<v Speaker 1>then you need to be down there near the ground

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<v Speaker 1>where the baby's going to come out.

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<v Speaker 2>Can we talk a little bit about when the head

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<v Speaker 2>is actually on view and the ring of five people

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<v Speaker 2>talk about?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so that's a very unpleasant sensation of burning that

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<v Speaker 1>happens when the skin around the vaginal opening is really

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<v Speaker 1>stretched as the head crowns up. And what we're kind

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<v Speaker 1>of looking for at that stage is that the head

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<v Speaker 1>will crown up slowly. And I always say to be

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<v Speaker 1>what we're trying to do here is ease the head out,

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<v Speaker 1>not blasted out. Okay, blasting the head out is sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>the result of an irresistible urge to push. Can't help it,

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<v Speaker 1>push really hard, bang, head shoots out in one go

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<v Speaker 1>and there's a bigger tear. And there's actually quite good

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<v Speaker 1>evidence that supporting the paranem helps with tearing, so that

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<v Speaker 1>if we have an obstetric caregiver helping to support that

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<v Speaker 1>perineal tissue between the vagina and the anus by giving

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<v Speaker 1>it a little pinch between thumb and fingers, that we

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<v Speaker 1>can support that tissue and help the head slowly ease

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<v Speaker 1>out rather than blast out and cause a tear.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're pushing, pushing, pushing all you might, but once

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<v Speaker 2>you get to that stage, you're breathing your book.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So there's a few techniques there isn't there. There's

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<v Speaker 1>the toff and puff method because it's hard to really

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<v Speaker 1>push down for firmly towards your anus if you haven't closed.

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<v Speaker 1>Your glottis in your throat. So so the most effective

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<v Speaker 1>way to push down, imagine trying to do the World's

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<v Speaker 1>biguse poo is we close. I've got a script, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's hard to do that if you're also going yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So that the idea is not that the huffing puffing

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<v Speaker 1>really does anything. It just stops you pushing so hard.

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<v Speaker 1>Ah yeah, radio, So that is a technique. And the

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<v Speaker 1>other is just to say, Okay, I want you to push,

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<v Speaker 1>but you gotta wind it back. I want to show

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<v Speaker 1>me a fifty percent push, Yeah, show me a twenty

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<v Speaker 1>percent push.

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<v Speaker 2>And things to expect is that the team might have

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<v Speaker 2>like a warm flannel on your paraneum yep, just to

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<v Speaker 2>help with that hearing as well.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, that's right, right, at the end, let's talk

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<v Speaker 3>about prolonged pushing, because you know, we've talked about pushing

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<v Speaker 3>a baby out, but we haven't really talked about.

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<v Speaker 2>How long is too long? Yeah, and what are the

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<v Speaker 2>dangers of pushing for too long?

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<v Speaker 1>There are some dangers in being fully dilated for too long,

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<v Speaker 1>but they apply to being fully dilated to very long.

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<v Speaker 1>So if we look across the developing world today in

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<v Speaker 1>twenty twenty five, in communities where women don't have access

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<v Speaker 1>to expert obstetric care, there's still a phenomenon of getting

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<v Speaker 1>to fully dilated, can't push the baby out. Powers is

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<v Speaker 1>now baby's in a bad position, babies too big, and

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<v Speaker 1>then without an expert intervention, that baby sits there for hours, days, weeks,

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<v Speaker 1>baby dies. Women develops some obstetric fistula, so the pressure

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<v Speaker 1>of the head in the pelvis means that blood can't

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<v Speaker 1>get down to the vaginal and perennial structures, and it

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<v Speaker 1>might be able to get in under arterial pressure, but

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<v Speaker 1>it can't get out under venice pressure, and that tissue

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<v Speaker 1>becomes necrotic, breaks down, and the tissue dies. Are causing

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<v Speaker 1>an abnormal tract between the woman's bladder and vagina or

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<v Speaker 1>balance vagina, and this is still a problem in the

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<v Speaker 1>developing world. In developed countries, the issue is not that

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<v Speaker 1>when not we wouldn't sit around till anything like that happened.

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<v Speaker 1>The problem is more that we've only got so much

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<v Speaker 1>pushing power, and that if we've been pushing for so long,

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<v Speaker 1>it's very likely that they're getting less effective as we

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<v Speaker 1>go along, and the chances of us getting over the

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<v Speaker 1>line for an unassisted vaginal birth are going up. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>the chances of us getting over the line for an

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<v Speaker 1>unassisted vaginal birth are going down. The longer we wait.

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<v Speaker 1>They's tending to think, oh, for wait a bit longer,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll get there. No, there's a point where you're actually

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<v Speaker 1>less likely to get there by waiting, because that any

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<v Speaker 1>contractions after that point are quite ineffective. So that's led

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<v Speaker 1>to this idea of there being time limits at full dialtation.

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<v Speaker 1>They have to be interpreted interpreted with some some caution

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<v Speaker 1>and with flexibility. You might have somebody who's been fully

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<v Speaker 1>dilated for three hours, but it's still quite obviously pushing

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<v Speaker 1>extremely well. Well, if the woman's well and the babies well,

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<v Speaker 1>can't see the harm and keep going. But you might

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<v Speaker 1>come in and someone saying I just I cannot push anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>And so in broad terms, people tend to push pretty

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<v Speaker 1>well for about two hours, and sometimes it's necessary to

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<v Speaker 1>push for an additional hour if there's an epidural because

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<v Speaker 1>of that issue with the epidural taking away some of

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<v Speaker 1>the urgency to push. So does it mean you freak

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<v Speaker 1>out and get the forceps out of that when the

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<v Speaker 1>time move it's up. No, it just means that we

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<v Speaker 1>move towards a model where we might go, where we

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<v Speaker 1>might ease away from doing nothing, towards considering doing something.

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<v Speaker 1>Make some funt calls, make sure there's someone in the

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<v Speaker 1>room with the expertise to intervene if necessary.

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<v Speaker 2>You can talk saying that you've got the ability to

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<v Speaker 2>sort of make those decisions. But there are some hospitals

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<v Speaker 2>that are heavily protocolized about time of pushing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and I think think they're probably hospitals in the

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<v Speaker 1>developed world where they're more they're very comfortable with intervention.

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<v Speaker 2>So again it might be worthwhile just asking that question.

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<v Speaker 1>What would happen in this situation? Yeah, yeah, that scenario

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<v Speaker 1>that I just described is really one where the baby

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<v Speaker 1>as well. If we run into a situation where woman's

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<v Speaker 1>been pushing for two and a half hours and now

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<v Speaker 1>the baby is showing on monitoring the field heart rate

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<v Speaker 1>or listening to the fieldal heart rate that there are

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<v Speaker 1>distinct decelerations in the field heart rate with every contraction

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<v Speaker 1>that are starting to take a long time to recover.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a baby that is struggling to manage physiologically with

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<v Speaker 1>the last bit of the labor and that's an indication

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<v Speaker 1>for intervention.

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<v Speaker 2>Is there also an indication for intervention because you're trying

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<v Speaker 2>to prevent prolapse helvi golgen prolapse then or future?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's a good question. Women who've had prolonged second

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<v Speaker 1>stages are potentially at higher risk or developing pervict corgan

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<v Speaker 1>prolapse and needing surgery for that later on. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>little hard to know sometimes whether the problem with the

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<v Speaker 1>pervic floor was created by the prolonged pushing or created

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<v Speaker 1>by the passage of the large baby yeah, chicken or

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<v Speaker 1>the egg which actually did the harm. And probably if

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<v Speaker 1>we look at someone who needs prolapse surgery in their

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<v Speaker 1>forties and we look back at their obstetric history, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>more commonly see things like a baby that came out

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<v Speaker 1>op so looking up instead of down, or a baby

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<v Speaker 1>that was more than four and a half kilos, or

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<v Speaker 1>one or two babies that required forceps. Those things are

0:24:42.880 --> 0:24:45.040
<v Speaker 1>more likely to appear in that woman's obstetric history rather

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<v Speaker 1>than just prolonged second stage.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep, we don't want to put people off pushing. Now.

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<v Speaker 2>We promised people three of your top tips far away. Good, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>what's your number one.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that if you are pushing coach or actively

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<v Speaker 1>pushing coached, or otherwise, there's a I have noticed without

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<v Speaker 1>formal evidence, this is a experience that a good technique

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<v Speaker 1>is to wait for the contraction to start and be established,

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<v Speaker 1>let it ramp up a little bit, take a big

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<v Speaker 1>breath in, put your chin down towards your chest, and

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<v Speaker 1>push firmly down towards your backside.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because sometimes you've come home and you've said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I just I want to tell people that effective pushing

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<v Speaker 2>isn't going.

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<v Speaker 1>H Yeah, So that's true. I mean, you can make

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<v Speaker 1>as much noise as you want, but if you're making

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of noise, you can't also be doing that technique.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I didn't mean about the noise. I meant, like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, making the noises if you're pushing, but actually

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<v Speaker 2>nothing's actually concentrated down at your belly.

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<v Speaker 1>Level, So just making the noise isn't enough, And in fact,

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<v Speaker 1>really really good pushing makes less noise because you're push

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<v Speaker 1>the power down. Yeah with the goddess closed. Yeah okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so so that so that's number one. That that's a

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<v Speaker 1>a technique that I've seen time and time again to

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<v Speaker 1>be quite effective for pushing.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, what's your second tip?

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<v Speaker 1>Ah that if you that if you're going to have

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<v Speaker 1>coached pushing and you want your team, your support people,

0:26:23.320 --> 0:26:28.199
<v Speaker 1>your partner, whoever's there as part of that, word them

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<v Speaker 1>up first, go to the classes, work out how to

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<v Speaker 1>do it, and let that person have the confidence to

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<v Speaker 1>talk them, to talk you through it, to count them

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<v Speaker 1>down with you, whatever, whatever you want. But work on

0:26:39.600 --> 0:26:42.840
<v Speaker 1>that support person's confidence to really own that role.

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<v Speaker 2>And find out if that person who's pushing things that

0:26:47.640 --> 0:26:49.960
<v Speaker 2>actually she wants something different. She doesn't want a coached

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<v Speaker 2>pushing stage. What does she want.

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<v Speaker 1>The person who's doing the coaching needs to be open

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<v Speaker 1>minded to the fact that the plan might change. Yeah. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so first tier, you don't know exactly how much got

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<v Speaker 1>hurt and you might change your mind.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, just don't be a deer in a headlight.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well exactly, yeah, that's exactly right. So your job

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<v Speaker 1>is there as a support and encouragement person, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>important to own that role, step up and do it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>even though you're in a weird situation and there's you're

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<v Speaker 1>in a hospital and people are around and you feel

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<v Speaker 1>like you can't have an active role in that situation.

0:27:29.400 --> 0:27:31.479
<v Speaker 1>The challenge is to still is to do it anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>And I reckon one of our my tips is with

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<v Speaker 2>that support person, work on what words of encouragement you

0:27:37.560 --> 0:27:38.040
<v Speaker 2>want to hear.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So I mean not that you ever say this to me,

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<v Speaker 2>but I can't stand being told I'm a good girl

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<v Speaker 2>and you know you've done something, Oh good girl.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like oh yes, but no, yeah, this is a

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<v Speaker 1>job for a woman.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a woman's Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>It might be like you're doing so well, you're nearly there,

0:27:55.920 --> 0:27:59.600
<v Speaker 2>You've got this. Gosh, you're strong, like I can see

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<v Speaker 2>you're working so hard, whatever it is, But work on

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<v Speaker 2>those words of encouragement together beforehand, because you might just

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<v Speaker 2>be repeatedly saying something that your partner are saying would

0:28:10.240 --> 0:28:12.359
<v Speaker 2>you shut up in her brain? And she doesn't need that,

0:28:12.400 --> 0:28:14.080
<v Speaker 2>she needs you to be sort of helping her.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, And then I guess the third one is changing position.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you've been pushing for a while, it really

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't doesn't feel to you like that is working like that,

0:28:26.240 --> 0:28:29.360
<v Speaker 1>that that those pushes are effective. Then maybe you know

0:28:29.520 --> 0:28:32.200
<v Speaker 1>that they're ineffective. Then maybe they're Maybe they are ineffective.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you're really not in a great position. And sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>we'll see somebody change over to all fours or something

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<v Speaker 1>like that and suddenly, bang, it's much better. Just that

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<v Speaker 1>they just have more of a knack of automatically naturally

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<v Speaker 1>pushing in that different position. So definitely like that. And

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<v Speaker 1>then when we're right at the business end and that

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<v Speaker 1>the heads crowning, a tip is being being open to

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<v Speaker 1>paraneal support.

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<v Speaker 2>That's four tips. Okay, you've got four tips people.

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<v Speaker 1>Being open to paraneal support.

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<v Speaker 2>Ye.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there's there's good evidence that paranoral support reduces nasty tears.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, all right, everyone, I hope that's given you enough

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<v Speaker 2>information to.

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<v Speaker 1>Push like champions on.

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<v Speaker 2>No one's watching, everyone will be watching. No, No, you've

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<v Speaker 2>got it, you've got it. If you have the ability

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<v Speaker 2>and the power to push your baby out.

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<v Speaker 1>Those tips are useful and some things that I've seen

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<v Speaker 1>work very well in the past. H and thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for listening.

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