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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Sees the Yay Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Busy and happy are not the same thing. We too

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Speaker 2: rarely question what makes the heart seeing. We work, then

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Speaker 2: we rest, but rarely we play and often don't realize

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Speaker 2: there's more than one way. So this is a platform

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Speaker 2: to hear and explore the stories of those who found

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Speaker 2: lives they adore, the good, bad and ugly, the best

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Speaker 2: and worst day will bear all the facets of seizing

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Speaker 2: your yay. I'm Sarah Davidson or a spoonful of Sarah,

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Speaker 2: a lawyer turned entrepreneur who swapped the suits and heels

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Speaker 2: to co found Matcha Maiden and Matcha Milk bar cz

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Speaker 2: The ya is a series of conversations on finding a

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Speaker 2: life you love and exploring the self doubt, challenge, joy

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Speaker 2: and fulfillment along the way. So for anyone who was

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Speaker 2: watching our socials, maybe how long is this going to

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Speaker 2: be released? Oh my god, stop, giv me the slideshow

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Speaker 2: of you.

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Speaker 3: Try not to laugh. Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: For anyone who is following our socials at the time

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Speaker 1: that we recorded, which I don't even know how long

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Speaker 1: it's going to be between recording and releasing, Probably only

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Speaker 1: a few days, went six years, whatever, was watching our

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Speaker 1: socials six years ago. No on Tuesday, the twenty eighth

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Speaker 1: of March, has the attention span of a bagel, of

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Speaker 1: a literal bagel, and walked into our house an hour

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Speaker 1: and fifteen minutes ago to record, has costumed herself up

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Speaker 1: with a.

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Speaker 3: Fake Honestly though, every time I come to southand.

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Speaker 1: And seven belts glasses, my handbag, what else have you gone?

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Speaker 3: Every time I come to Sarah's house, it's like it's

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Speaker 3: like it's it's like a costume party shop. Like what

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Speaker 3: am I going to walk into today? What has she

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Speaker 3: been sent that will intrigue the masses of my beauty

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Speaker 3: blog today? It was a fake fringe.

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Speaker 1: A fake fringe which has throw an event this week

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Speaker 1: and it actually looks like a real fringe. And both

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Speaker 1: Nick and my mum didn't even flinch.

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Speaker 3: But it gives me the two thousand and six year

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Speaker 3: seven vibes for me for me personally, were.

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Speaker 1: You into the.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah you were? TONI the name I will fall

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Speaker 3: see you if anyone we came to may, oh.

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Speaker 1: My god, if anyone is a TikToker and just turned

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Speaker 1: the fringe into an emo side fringe and has been

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Speaker 1: doing TikTok emo sounds and then going through every song

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Speaker 1: from the emo punk face got the guitar out. She's

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Speaker 1: been playing the guitar on the bed like literally the

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Speaker 1: attentions bound of a bagel.

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Speaker 3: Another twoining play books in birds.

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Speaker 1: And then you brought out a new persona. It wasn't Patricia.

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Speaker 1: Patricia's had drunk American accent. What was it?

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Speaker 3: Anyway, don't tell you when we are sweater and tha

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Speaker 3: bag is that quiet?

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Speaker 1: I throw my name?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's so long.

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Speaker 1: We have been talking like that for maybe forty minutes.

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Speaker 3: The delivery room man came to poor guys, I mean

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Speaker 3: all my little mine.

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Speaker 1: I came to our house and and he's wearing a

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Speaker 1: full costume, sunglasses inside so obnoxious. A faith fridge are

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Speaker 1: really long. Rapunzil puntail at two thousand and seven, felt

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Speaker 1: that I got from some Vini's why I sell bag,

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Speaker 1: accept the delivery as me and goes thank you.

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Speaker 3: Alumble, you've got to you've got to like close your nostrils.

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Speaker 1: We're like.

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Speaker 3: We infuse every word together. How you do anyway?

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Speaker 1: Actually a total walking disaster. Anyway, you were actually unhinged.

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Speaker 3: Anyone blow Today's episode is meant to be about your birth?

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Speaker 3: It is?

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Speaker 1: That feels like a week ago? It was No, wait,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, it's like four days ago. Yeah? Wait

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Speaker 1: was it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: We've had a big week together.

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Speaker 3: I've had a big week together. When was our last

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Speaker 3: years of our lives?

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Speaker 1: What do we talk about?

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Speaker 3: Guys? Passo?

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, Oh my god. Okay, So the sweetest thing

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Speaker 1: ever happened. I'm going all over the place in timing,

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Speaker 1: but we had a little stay Cae, Nick and I

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Speaker 1: over the weekend which was really cute, and we were

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Speaker 1: just wandering around the area. We went to the South

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Speaker 1: Melbourne Market to pick up some oysters and there was

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Speaker 1: Nick like sees some things out in the wild and

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Speaker 1: So the girl had her oyster, she was sitting by

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Speaker 1: herself and she was just like doing these cute little

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Speaker 1: happy head movements because you were just so stoked with

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Speaker 1: their oysters, and Nick was like, oh my god, look

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Speaker 1: how cute that is. She just so had hit at oysters.

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Speaker 1: She turned around, she's got AirPods in and she's like,

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Speaker 1: I'm listening to you and and right now, stop it.

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Speaker 1: And she was listening to the Peano and Pikasso episode.

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Speaker 1: She's like, I'm not even joking. I was going to come,

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Speaker 1: but I couldn't make it, and also I didn't want

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Speaker 1: to come alone. And I said, I was about to say,

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Speaker 1: don't even worry, we'll do it again. And half the

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Speaker 1: people came by themselves, and she goes, but then I

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Speaker 3: It was so sweet.

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Speaker 1: It made my day, was so sweet. So yeah, we

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Speaker 1: were doing the Peano and Pokaso. We just come off

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Speaker 1: the back of those events.

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Speaker 3: I did also ride past a Pino and Picasso attendee

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Speaker 3: the other day brunch. How did you know? I was

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Speaker 3: writing and I was writing and we made contact and

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Speaker 3: I just smile everyone. And then and then Aaron walked

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Speaker 3: past and goes, god, hello, she said it's Erin and

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Speaker 3: I said, oh my god, my god.

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Speaker 1: Also, it was Aaron's birthday a couple of days ago.

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Speaker 3: As well, birthday birthday Aaron.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she messaged me and was like we're both Arian. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that is really sweet.

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Speaker 3: We love you.

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Speaker 1: Erin still on such a high from those beautiful events,

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Speaker 1: and we are before Ange got on her little costume reinvention,

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Speaker 1: we were starting to plan the next two and Brizzi

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they tuned for that. It will be coming very soon.

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Speaker 1: But since then, what have we done? Since then?

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Speaker 3: Birthday has been done?

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Speaker 1: But other than that, what have we done? What's been

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Speaker 3: Because I was both opening our colors?

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Speaker 2: What did we do?

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Speaker 1: If you want a little insight, literally and gets a

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Speaker 1: notification when I'm ovulating, and I get a notification when

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Speaker 1: her friends are ovulating because she's put it in her calendar,

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Speaker 1: because we have a.

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Speaker 3: Shared calendar, because we were so we sucked so much

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Speaker 3: that we're like, instead of just asking for each other's

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Speaker 3: free we just we just actually just have a shared

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Speaker 1: I feel like I've had one of those stupid months

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Speaker 1: where because I had my little surgeryony, which we also

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Speaker 1: spoke about I think a little bit, which I'll speak

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Speaker 1: about in depth one day, but not quite yet. But

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Speaker 1: because I took a lot of time off for that,

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Speaker 1: then I had two weeks after that which were just stupid,

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Speaker 1: like it's me with a podcast saying ceaza, yeat, balance,

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Speaker 1: look after yourself and then not doing it at also,

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Speaker 1: but all wonderful things. It's been an amazing month, but

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Speaker 1: definitely like well, feeling a bit decrepit and haggard.

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Speaker 3: Well, I feel like you did a lot of things.

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Speaker 3: You had like a International Women's Day event.

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Speaker 1: Yes, they were amazing. That was an amazing week. Was

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Speaker 1: that after Pino? No, it was around the same time.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know. Let's move on to my birthday.

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Speaker 1: Can remember what has happened?

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Speaker 3: Birthday? Your birth and what did you do? How did

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Speaker 3: y'all did you turn? What did you eatent?

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Speaker 1: Thirty four? Agent? Oh my god, Oh my god? How

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Speaker 1: did that happen? I turned thirty four? But this year

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Speaker 1: it was my brother's thirtieth. So we all know, if

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Speaker 1: you've been listening for a while, that my brother and

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Speaker 1: I were born to different biological families four years apart,

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Speaker 1: but on the same day, which I have always taken

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Speaker 1: to mean that will men to grow up together. That's

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Speaker 1: what the Koreans believe. That children pick the family, not

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Speaker 1: the other way around, and so the universe conspired to

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Speaker 1: make us end up in the same family, which I

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Speaker 1: think is so sweet. Anyway, I have pretty much hijacked

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Speaker 1: the birthday our entire life. And yeah, home when he

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Speaker 1: it was very low key for me. We just had

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Speaker 1: a really nice family dinner at home and then he

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Speaker 1: had a big He wanted to have a separate in

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Speaker 1: would never do that. Yeah, so he had separate family

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Speaker 1: dinner Friday and then a massive night out with his

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Speaker 1: true and fashion, you organized a birthday surprise so random actually,

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Speaker 3: Well someone, I love it so as you DMN men,

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Speaker 3: was like, oh my god, and is so great. Can

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Speaker 3: of these surprises? And I was like, what have we done?

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Speaker 3: Well? I remember you? And I remembered some more this

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Speaker 3: morning that we went to what did we do last year?

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Speaker 3: We we've done gymnastics in the past mainly that was

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Speaker 3: actually for Nick's birthday.

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Speaker 1: And tattooed that random tattooed we made Nick get yay

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Speaker 3: Years ago.

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Speaker 1: Last year, I always do a surprise and hesked me away.

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Speaker 1: Last year you took me to Hamilton Hamilton.

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Speaker 3: Oh year before was swimming with dolphins. Oh my.

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Speaker 1: So also because An know's my calendar, and obviously he's

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Speaker 1: really good friends with Nick. Independently, she can organize things

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Speaker 1: in Victoria, which was amazing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, which was so much fun. But halfway there, I

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Speaker 3: don't know what happened.

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Speaker 1: But halfway there I had a serious like this is

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Speaker 1: going to be explosive. I need to get out of

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Speaker 1: the car. I cannot hold it no matter what, like

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Speaker 3: It was dire.

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Speaker 1: It was I was like, I can't even make like

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Speaker 1: I'm not even going to make it.

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Speaker 3: I was trying to make you feel so I was like,

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Speaker 3: don't worry, we have time. Meanwhile, we have no time

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and the boat would leave without it, so you

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Speaker 3: You didn't also didn't know what it was.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I also there was you know, sometimes you

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Speaker 3: Oh, there were more I didn't share, and they were

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Speaker 1: I'll go back to the birthday. Yeah, I had a

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Speaker 3: It was really cute.

442
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Speaker 1: I have a cinema, so we book the cinema, have popcorn.

443
00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:56,879
Speaker 1: We watched Interstellar. I cried.

444
00:21:57,119 --> 00:21:57,840
Speaker 3: You finally watched it.

445
00:21:58,040 --> 00:21:59,280
Speaker 1: I finally watched it, and I cried.

446
00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:00,560
Speaker 3: It is good.

447
00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:02,960
Speaker 1: It's really good. But also you know when you know

448
00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:07,280
Speaker 1: your period's coming when you're watching something that's like emotional

449
00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:09,920
Speaker 1: and beautiful. But I'm not a crier in movies, Like

450
00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:11,640
Speaker 1: you know, I don't really cry that often, and when

451
00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:13,640
Speaker 1: I do, it's like water works, but it's not very often.

452
00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:16,600
Speaker 1: I don't crack that easy. And Nick turned around, well,

453
00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:18,960
Speaker 1: after it, we were doing that stupid thing where we

454
00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:21,560
Speaker 1: just watch like memes for an hour. She's one of

455
00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:24,080
Speaker 1: our funnest things we do together. And we watched this

456
00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:26,280
Speaker 1: really sweet video of a golden re tree when I

457
00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:30,080
Speaker 1: started bawling and he's like, wow, oh wow, what's wrong

458
00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:30,320
Speaker 1: with you?

459
00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:32,440
Speaker 3: He's really emotional.

460
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:36,160
Speaker 1: It was the nicest chill weekend. It was really chill birthday. Yeah.

461
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:39,000
Speaker 3: Have you been into a big birthday bash? Are you?

462
00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:41,119
Speaker 3: Are you a birthday person? Like big birthday?

463
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:44,960
Speaker 1: But I'm like, I really like how it gets you

464
00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:47,120
Speaker 1: back in touch with the people that you really love

465
00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:50,280
Speaker 1: that you don't often get to express how you feel

466
00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:52,920
Speaker 1: about each other. I think birthdays are really nice. They're

467
00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:55,000
Speaker 1: really heartwarming. But I'm also not one of those people

468
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,919
Speaker 1: who are like obsessed, Like I'm not like it's my birthday,

469
00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:00,440
Speaker 1: everyone drop everything. My grand's my favorite daily year. Yeah,

470
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,760
Speaker 1: and I'm also like not fussed about not doing anything

471
00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:06,880
Speaker 1: big either. I just I really like to acknowledge them,

472
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:08,920
Speaker 1: and it's more an internal thing. I like to kind

473
00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 1: of reflect on where I am since last year. And

474
00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:13,840
Speaker 1: also because I share it with my brother, it's a

475
00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:18,800
Speaker 1: really sweet reflection time. Yeah, but I'm not like I

476
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:21,640
Speaker 1: need to have a big party every year, and I've

477
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:25,360
Speaker 1: only ever had one, a big one for my thirtieth

478
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:29,800
Speaker 1: and that's because you threw it. Yeah other days, But

479
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:32,480
Speaker 1: I also feel like I'm doing that typical thing I've seen.

480
00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:35,399
Speaker 1: I love TikTok because it validates phases that you're going through,

481
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:36,920
Speaker 1: because you're like, oh, I'm not the only one. It

482
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 1: allows you access to other people's weirdness. I've been through

483
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:42,639
Speaker 1: like a massive party phase, and then I went through

484
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:45,120
Speaker 1: a huge grandma phase, and I'm kind of think I'm

485
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 1: coming back out of it because every now and then

486
00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:49,119
Speaker 1: I'm like I need to blow out, like I just

487
00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:49,600
Speaker 1: need to go.

488
00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:53,560
Speaker 3: You've just found a good balance of maybe or maybe not.

489
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:58,280
Speaker 3: You've also inadvertently answered one of the questions question.

490
00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:00,359
Speaker 1: Also to come. So sorry, guys, it's twenty five minutes.

491
00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 1: We haven't even started segury into the question.

492
00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I love it. This is the first question of

493
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 3: was your ideal birthday celebration, which you've kind of already said.

494
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:14,720
Speaker 1: My actual ideal ideal birthday situation is exactly what we

495
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:17,040
Speaker 1: did this. Yere just spending time with loved ones in

496
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 1: a chill, low key environment, which is the most boring

497
00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:25,520
Speaker 1: thing anyone has ever said ever, but truly it is

498
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:26,520
Speaker 1: the best.

499
00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:29,800
Speaker 3: Birthday Okay, question what did you this is from a

500
00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:32,800
Speaker 3: Rose by another Name? One, two, three, five, six four.

501
00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:35,159
Speaker 3: What did you think you wanted to be when you

502
00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:37,639
Speaker 3: grew up? And did your dream job change? Often?

503
00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:41,240
Speaker 1: Yes, I thought I wanted to be a ballerina, so

504
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:43,680
Speaker 1: I started when I was three. I think I've spoken

505
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:45,080
Speaker 1: about this a few times, but I started when I

506
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:47,960
Speaker 1: was three and then typical a type sarah. I was like,

507
00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:49,960
Speaker 1: I need to make this a career when I was

508
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:52,800
Speaker 1: like four and a half, and then took it really

509
00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 1: seriously and intensely until the Australian Ballet School, and then

510
00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:59,679
Speaker 1: went all the way to full time until the decision

511
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:03,440
Speaker 1: making between quitting school and staying at school, and then

512
00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 1: decided I had so many injuries and realized how fickle

513
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 1: the sort of industries. But I also enjoyed academics and school,

514
00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 1: so Mum made a promise that if I just finished school,

515
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:18,440
Speaker 1: I could do whatever I wanted after. And by the

516
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 1: time I'd finished school and quit sort of full time,

517
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:24,359
Speaker 1: I discovered like boys and alcohol when partying and not

518
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:28,119
Speaker 1: being on such a regimented lifestyle and realized like I

519
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:30,560
Speaker 1: probably was never going to make it at the level

520
00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 1: that would have justified that sacrifice, and then I didn't

521
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:35,640
Speaker 1: really know what I wanted to be. So yeah, it's

522
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:40,119
Speaker 1: changed many times, but from zero from zero, from like

523
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 1: whenever I thought about it to fifteen, it was dancer

524
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 1: and then yeah, lawyer probably came more as an accident.

525
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:51,159
Speaker 3: Was it like, because this is another question you've got

526
00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 3: from someone else, what the war was? What are some

527
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:57,280
Speaker 3: alternative career options you explored for giving law ago? Was

528
00:25:57,320 --> 00:25:58,200
Speaker 3: it just ballet?

529
00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:01,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was just like all in, heart set on

530
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:04,639
Speaker 1: it until it was then okay, knuck, go down at

531
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:07,359
Speaker 1: school and finish. And then I happened to get a

532
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:10,440
Speaker 1: good enough score to do law, and then I was like, oh, well,

533
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 1: oh my god, maybe not to be a lawyer, but

534
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 1: I'll do that because that'll I really enjoy all the

535
00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:19,200
Speaker 1: things that that could open up. And then every other

536
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:22,399
Speaker 1: job consideration from there was something legal related, like it

537
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 1: was like diplomat or and because I love languages, it

538
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:29,119
Speaker 1: was like the UN or in house at an international

539
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 1: company like Chanel or like you know, it was kind

540
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:36,680
Speaker 1: of branching off from that law basis and then nothing else.

541
00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:40,199
Speaker 1: Business was an accident and since then the only thing

542
00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:42,040
Speaker 1: you've heard me think about this every now and then.

543
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 1: The two things that I would love to do, but

544
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 1: in an alternate universe, I never actually thought I was

545
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 1: going to do them. One is I'm obsessed with war history.

546
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 1: It is so weird. I don't know why. I just

547
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 1: find it so interesting, so some kind of like historian.

548
00:26:57,960 --> 00:26:59,600
Speaker 1: I don't even know how it would translate to a job,

549
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:03,480
Speaker 1: but I love researching the world wars, the state of psychology,

550
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:05,159
Speaker 1: like I don't know why. It's got nothing to do

551
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 1: with anything I've ever done, but it fascinates me. And

552
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 1: the other one is what was What's the other one?

553
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:11,359
Speaker 3: Medicine?

554
00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:14,439
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, every now and then I'm such a.

555
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:20,159
Speaker 3: Oh my, this is this is true form. Elizabeth was

556
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:22,719
Speaker 3: telling his story of when Sarah was eight. She come

557
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:25,200
Speaker 3: home hard day at works. I need a bath, so

558
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:28,200
Speaker 3: mam her a bath and she goes, I need a bath,

559
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 3: I need to relax. She's reading a French textbook. I

560
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 3: need this is this is her way for skills like

561
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 3: she has not changed.

562
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 1: So yeah, connected to the war. Thing is I would

563
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 1: have loved to do some kind of un work in

564
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:47,640
Speaker 1: war Zones. I would have found that really really interesting

565
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:53,199
Speaker 1: and expansive. But then now I actually got a good

566
00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 1: enough score to do medicine. But at the time, I

567
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 1: was not a science brain. I didn't understand that you

568
00:27:57,359 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 1: could teach yourself how to learn other areas. I just

569
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:02,720
Speaker 1: thought I don't like science. I'm not good at it,

570
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:05,720
Speaker 1: It'll never work. I also thought I hated blood. And

571
00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:09,800
Speaker 1: now I'm like, anatomy is so interesting. So I went

572
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 1: through a phase where I thought. I remember, I was like,

573
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,879
Speaker 1: should I do medicine. I thought I should go back

574
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 1: to UNI.

575
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, you still think about it. I think

576
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:17,399
Speaker 3: I do.

577
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:20,199
Speaker 1: I'm like, I kind of love to do medical research

578
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 1: though like cellular how can I cure cancer? Or like

579
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:27,640
Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with house. I'm like I could do diagnostics,

580
00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:30,160
Speaker 1: which also is not really a department, Like it isn't

581
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 1: the mode.

582
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 3: I would like to study diagnostics only understock the house.

583
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 3: But I find medicine so interesting.

584
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 1: So in another world, if I had like fifteen years

585
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 1: to just study, not knowing if I wanted to use it,

586
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 1: I'd probably do that.

587
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:47,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, you can just like read Gray's Anatomy or nothing

588
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 3: for you.

589
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 1: Also, how it is it that you knew the answer

590
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 1: and I'd forgotten my own brain.

591
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 3: I am your manager.

592
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:55,960
Speaker 1: You might can't see if I don't want to think

593
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:58,320
Speaker 1: about you know, and Harry Potter. Yeah, like little things,

594
00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:00,720
Speaker 1: all the memories and is like, there's to my brain.

595
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:04,160
Speaker 3: It's so because you're also mine, like we can't hold

596
00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 3: it our own thoughts. What do I do on Tuesday seventeen?

597
00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 3: Sarah has my like bank password passwords because I always

598
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:16,480
Speaker 3: forget them that you have it in your password notebook

599
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 3: or something. Okay, next question, what's your comfort food?

600
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 1: Oh, that's a really interesting one.

601
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:25,400
Speaker 3: Every day.

602
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 1: It does change every day, but probably peanut butter with

603
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 1: a spoon. Also, don't think it's like it's not a

604
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:37,760
Speaker 1: food but like a chi Yeah. Yeah, you like go

605
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:40,480
Speaker 1: to every A Pink Lady Apple anywhere in the world

606
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 1: always makes my stomach feel happy, Like at the end

607
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 1: of if I've got an upset stomach, I can still

608
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 1: always eat a Pink Lady Apple. That's so weird. A

609
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 1: cheese slice. I fucking love a cheese slice.

610
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, So it's a strange, it's like odd, it's singular

611
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:56,920
Speaker 3: slices of particular things as opposed to a meal.

612
00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't like, I love lots of different meal,

613
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 1: but my comfort go to is not a particular meal.

614
00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 1: It's like all the little picky things. How weird is that? Yeah,

615
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:12,280
Speaker 1: I'm so weird, I know, but look at me right now.

616
00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, at least you took the sunglasses off.

617
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 3: My god, oh spicy. Do you get sick of famous

618
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 3: Melbourne events?

619
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:21,920
Speaker 1: Oh that's a really well, this is the one that

620
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 1: I was talking about before, and it's such a specific

621
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 1: to our generation question that is so spoilt and indulgent

622
00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 1: and weird, And I don't ever get sick of them

623
00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:38,880
Speaker 1: because I think you're like, I came from a career

624
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:41,200
Speaker 1: where I had there is nothing like that. So the

625
00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 1: privilege of getting invited to these beautiful, fancy, special and

626
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 1: unique events, especially after COVID as well, now you're like

627
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 1: you remember a time where they weren't on. But also

628
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:53,960
Speaker 1: it's like I used to watch them from the outside

629
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:56,040
Speaker 1: and be like, oh my god, those people are so fatcy,

630
00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 1: And now I do have like the privilege of being

631
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:01,280
Speaker 1: invited to a lot of so that the privilege of

632
00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 1: being asked and getting spoilt rotten never goes away. But

633
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 1: I do find and this is what I talk about

634
00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 1: often that if I go to too many in a row,

635
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:13,480
Speaker 1: or if I say yes to go to something when

636
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:16,400
Speaker 1: I really don't have time because I'm working right up

637
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 1: till the last minute and then I start early the

638
00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 1: next day, or something that I ruin the enjoyment for

639
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:24,360
Speaker 1: myself by saying yes to too many, because then you're

640
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:27,080
Speaker 1: sort of like, ugh, like you make it into a

641
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:29,480
Speaker 1: burden yourself by not managing your time very well. So

642
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 1: I do find I do that to myself sometimes where

643
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:35,120
Speaker 1: I've said yes, gone to three in one week, and

644
00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 1: then at the end, I'm like, oh my god, what

645
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 1: a first one problem. I'm tired. I don't want to

646
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:41,480
Speaker 1: go to another one, And like then I catch myself

647
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 1: being like, you're a dick.

648
00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 3: No, it is tiring, Like you can still appreciate it's

649
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:46,480
Speaker 3: tiring that there's a lot to like get rid of

650
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:49,000
Speaker 3: for but yes, it is quiet. Although I have to say,

651
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 3: since I've met you, you've you go to a lot.

652
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 3: Although it seems like there's a lot more, you actually

653
00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 3: go to a lot less. I feel like when I

654
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 3: met you was like every.

655
00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 1: Night Yeah because of that, Yeah, because I used to

656
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 1: ruin my own enjoyment by being not very what's that

657
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:07,600
Speaker 1: word discerning? And also because when I'm there, I don't

658
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:08,880
Speaker 1: want to go and leave early. I want to go

659
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Speaker 1: and if there's people who listen to CZA, or if

660
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 1: there's a chance to meet new people, I want to

661
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 1: like talk to them, have a proper conversation. I want

662
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:17,720
Speaker 1: to like really be there and not kind of half

663
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 1: thinking about something else. So, yeah, I never get sick

664
00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 1: of them. I think it's so exciting, but I definitely

665
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:25,720
Speaker 1: tire myself of them, if that makes sense.

666
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:29,600
Speaker 3: Nice. There's also questions about surviving corporate and law changes,

667
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 3: but I feel like you've spoken about this in length

668
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 3: in your book, in previous podcasts and things, so perhaps

669
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 3: you can just.

670
00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:37,960
Speaker 1: Direct and I'll just like direct anyone who submitted career

671
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 1: change questions, I'll reply to you directly.

672
00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 3: Are you at the age where you appreciate a phone

673
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:47,000
Speaker 3: brawler yet or the orthopedic shoe age? Love orthopedic shoes.

674
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 1: I want hommus flavors and you know that meme that's like.

675
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:55,760
Speaker 3: Now, I just appreciate different specialized section.

676
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,360
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love aldi. Yeah, I'm definitely at

677
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:01,880
Speaker 1: that age where I phone roll all times. As Nick

678
00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 1: though mixt is like Cops and gets an injury. Everything

679
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 1: hurts all the time, Like, yeah, we're getting to that

680
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 1: age where like comfort is king. I also have no shame.

681
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 1: Like the other day, I got stuck in an airport

682
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:16,000
Speaker 1: and it had been a really long day and my

683
00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 1: skin was just like you've been in this crusty makeup

684
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 1: since five am and it's nine pm and you've got

685
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 1: to wait two more hours. So I just put a

686
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 1: face mask on in the airport. I was like, fuck it,

687
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 1: I don't care. Like and I walked home today I

688
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 1: had a fake down and I looked literally the color

689
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 1: of like an off orange, and I was walking the

690
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:35,240
Speaker 1: streets in my baggie like I just don't even get

691
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 1: And you know that you've gotten to that age where

692
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 1: you don't care about it people's judgment anymore, that it's

693
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 1: just like, wow, I really.

694
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:43,960
Speaker 3: Let myself go so that you are physically quite well,

695
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 3: Like you don't really, I don't since I've known you,

696
00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:49,239
Speaker 3: I don't think you've ever had an injury. And then

697
00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 3: like one time you had tennis oulboy from using a mouse.

698
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 1: What did I get tennis elbow from it? From the

699
00:33:56,640 --> 00:34:00,920
Speaker 1: computer keyboard or something it was from, like something really embarrassing.

700
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 1: Definitely not tennis, yeah, but something I don't even remember.

701
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:07,640
Speaker 1: And I think it's also because I don't push myself

702
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:10,200
Speaker 1: as hard as n Soon as I can walk that fast,

703
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:13,520
Speaker 1: it just gets really uncomfortable. I take the other and

704
00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:15,880
Speaker 1: I stop, and then I take the travel later.

705
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:18,399
Speaker 3: Goes over one hundred and ten.

706
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:20,000
Speaker 1: Too much, too much, too much?

707
00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 3: Okay, Next question, who is the person that inspires you

708
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 3: the most and how do you use that inspiration in

709
00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 3: your life?

710
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:31,439
Speaker 1: Really hard w Everyone around me inspires me in really

711
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 1: different ways. I've never just had that one person that

712
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, this is my idol. I feel like everyone

713
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 1: like you inspire me so much to be more bold

714
00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:45,439
Speaker 1: and spontaneous and more unafraid of people's judgment, like you've

715
00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:47,879
Speaker 1: definitely and like, you know, what's really funny, how many

716
00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:50,439
Speaker 1: people at the Penal Cartle event were like, you've made

717
00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:55,759
Speaker 1: Serah funnier. I was like, oh thanks, thanks guys, like

718
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:57,759
Speaker 1: they're like, you've really helped her come out of her shell.

719
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Speaker 1: I was like, h.

720
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Speaker 3: Well, I crown you just ground may Humbler.

721
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 1: Which is true, though you definitely show more the same

722
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:10,759
Speaker 1: person you are. You saw it, but maybe I didn't

723
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 1: show everyone else like I would. Even my bloopers were

724
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:15,320
Speaker 1: probably more curated before you just went, hey, here's a

725
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 1: picture of Sarah on the toilet.

726
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:18,799
Speaker 3: Well, I feel like sometimes, okay, do you know it's

727
00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:22,279
Speaker 3: really odd on your wedding. I will never forget my

728
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 3: personal Instagram was like max viewership. Ever it's ever been

729
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:29,239
Speaker 3: like more than my blogging days.

730
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:31,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, more than my page because I think people.

731
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 3: Just like one of the curative versions. If you want that,

732
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Speaker 3: you will get that from my channel.

733
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Speaker 1: To spoonful of Sarah underscore b Yes, because.

734
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Speaker 3: You imagine the South career will be on our case.

735
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:51,920
Speaker 3: Thank you, it's very kind, But I don't you're the

736
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:53,319
Speaker 3: same person that you will always be.

737
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:58,800
Speaker 1: Anyway. But then I look to like Sam for adventurousness

738
00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:01,880
Speaker 1: and physical limit. And then I look to like obviously

739
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:04,399
Speaker 1: Nick has changed my entire world in terms of risk,

740
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:07,520
Speaker 1: aversion and belief in myself to do things I've never

741
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:10,080
Speaker 1: done before. And then my mom is just like the

742
00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:13,759
Speaker 1: most selfless, caring, generous, giving person. I look to her

743
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:17,880
Speaker 1: for like humanity and generosity and love and how to

744
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:20,480
Speaker 1: you know, be a good support. And I feel like

745
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 1: I just find something in each friend that or each

746
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 1: person that's really inspiring and take that and then kind

747
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:32,480
Speaker 1: of gather a whole You know what am I saying?

748
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 3: You know what I mean? Your English decreased as you age? No,

749
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:41,319
Speaker 3: that is nice though for that people always assume it's

750
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:45,280
Speaker 3: like one like Fule model or whatever person.

751
00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 1: And even people who don't know or like people's books,

752
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 1: famous people who I've never met to on you know,

753
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 1: New York Times bestsellers and stuff. I usually take real

754
00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 1: inspiration from them on a topic or in as a theme,

755
00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:58,480
Speaker 1: but then also from lots of other people. There's never

756
00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:02,040
Speaker 1: been like a O my woman, or like I'm obsessed

757
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:03,960
Speaker 1: with Brene Brown. It's like a bit from everyone.

758
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 3: But there's a spicy another spicy question.

759
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:09,399
Speaker 1: I love how our audience is so kind and lovely

760
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:13,799
Speaker 1: that spicy. A more spicy is literally like how long

761
00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 1: are your flaps? I'm not telling.

762
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:24,640
Speaker 3: Spicy question if you're keen? Is the part of the

763
00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:26,359
Speaker 3: question who brings in more dough?

764
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 2: You?

765
00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:27,160
Speaker 3: Or Nick?

766
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 1: Well, that's a really interesting one.

767
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 3: They see, that's kind of spicy.

768
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Speaker 1: I always am like inviting the juicy questions and people

769
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Speaker 1: are really kind and they.

770
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:38,400
Speaker 3: One of twenty come on we need more spice in

771
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Speaker 3: our life. Yeah, like and if you don't respond, don't

772
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Speaker 3: just say yeah.

773
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 1: So that's a really interesting one. And we have like

774
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Speaker 1: we've fluctuated a lot.

775
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,760
Speaker 3: I'm just going to say, I feel like that it's goes.

776
00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:53,360
Speaker 1: Up and down, up and down, up and down, like

777
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:54,080
Speaker 1: month to month.

778
00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 3: It does.

779
00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:58,080
Speaker 1: And because both of our careers are so unstructured in

780
00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:01,880
Speaker 1: terms of our income earning, like neither of us are salaried,

781
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:05,799
Speaker 1: neither of us work in something that's specifically like they're

782
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 1: both seasonal. Yeah, certain times of the year really quiet,

783
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:14,000
Speaker 1: like for Nick, particularly in beauty retail, like Christmas is massive,

784
00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:16,640
Speaker 1: whereas Christmas for me it's also big. But then also

785
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:19,479
Speaker 1: sometimes there's random Christmases where it's're a bit quieter because

786
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:21,520
Speaker 1: there's been like there's so much on but maybe not

787
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 1: necessarily for me, I don't know, it's just but.

788
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:27,439
Speaker 3: There's also like liquidity as well in terms of cash flow.

789
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:29,960
Speaker 3: But also Nick has like equity in some things.

790
00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 1: That yeah, that is just a long like it's in

791
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:33,120
Speaker 1: the future.

792
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:36,480
Speaker 3: It won't come now, it's in the future versus yeah, yours,

793
00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 3: you know, you can you get you know paid quickly

794
00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 3: or whatever.

795
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:41,279
Speaker 2: Whatever.

796
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:43,839
Speaker 1: Jobs it may be or yeah, but I would say

797
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:48,480
Speaker 1: for like the first few years when I was at Union,

798
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 1: obviously I wasn't earning that much and he was a

799
00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 1: working full time, so he earned more than me for

800
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:55,800
Speaker 1: like most of our relationship. And then when I started

801
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:58,880
Speaker 1: the law firm, I had a more consistent wage, so

802
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 1: I had an easier financial time, but over the year

803
00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:05,719
Speaker 1: he earned more than me, even though it was a

804
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 1: really respectable stable job. I was a junior and I

805
00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:10,719
Speaker 1: didn't make that much hour to hour, and then I

806
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:14,400
Speaker 1: definitely started like I started small with Matchmate, and I

807
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:17,120
Speaker 1: went back to earning like nothing like part time, like

808
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:19,760
Speaker 1: because I didn't take a wage for four years or something.

809
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:22,200
Speaker 1: And then I took like one hundred dollars every now

810
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 1: and then. And then in the last couple of years

811
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Speaker 1: since we sold Matcher and then sees, the ab became

812
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:32,400
Speaker 1: full time and I could finally do enough speaking gigs

813
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 1: to kind of make a proper wage out of it.

814
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:37,359
Speaker 1: A couple of years, I've out earned him, and then

815
00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 1: a couple of years it's gone back the other way,

816
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:41,359
Speaker 1: and some months I out earned him, and some months

817
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 1: he's back out earning me, and it's we don't really

818
00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:47,160
Speaker 1: keep track of it that much, but I vaguely know that, yes,

819
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:49,399
Speaker 1: at times one of us brings in more than the other,

820
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:52,640
Speaker 1: but it kind of always evens out. And when you've

821
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:55,680
Speaker 1: been together for fourteen years, we still have separate bank

822
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Speaker 1: accounts and joint bank accounts, but really our money is

823
00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:02,360
Speaker 1: each other money at the same time. Like we've just

824
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:06,960
Speaker 1: we're looking for houses. We're not like I'll put in

825
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:09,400
Speaker 1: X amount dollars and then you'll owe me this amount dollars.

826
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 1: Like we're buying stuff a house together. So our finance

827
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:16,799
Speaker 1: is a very mixed. But yeah, there's the first year

828
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Speaker 1: that I ever earned more than him. Was like an

829
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Speaker 1: interesting year. It was like a shift, and it was like, yeah,

830
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Speaker 1: it was interesting.

831
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Speaker 3: There was like a ME and I saw the other

832
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Speaker 3: day and this is not Mimi a mime the other

833
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 3: day of something about guys finding it really uncomfortable when

834
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Speaker 3: their partners if they're a female and more than them,

835
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:40,319
Speaker 3: and it's like this really deep discomfort and I was like, yeah,

836
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Speaker 3: it's not uncommon.

837
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Speaker 1: It's actually not like it's very common, but it is

838
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Speaker 1: not uncommon for also them to find it quite uncomfortable.

839
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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like a I don't know it's a societal

840
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 3: thing or it isn't it like an old, antiquated roles thing.

841
00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 1: It feels like you're reversal because they're meant to be

842
00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:01,880
Speaker 1: providing and they question their ability to provide because it's

843
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:03,480
Speaker 1: like she could do this without me kind of thing.

844
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 1: I love it.

845
00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 3: I'm like sleek. Yeah, definitely.

846
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:09,200
Speaker 1: The first year I was like, yeah, it's awesome. But

847
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:11,719
Speaker 1: now I don't really keep track of it because it's

848
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:14,320
Speaker 1: you know, maybe at the beginning I would have because

849
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 1: we had more separate finances, whereas now I'm like, then

850
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 1: he out earned me the year after, and then it

851
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:20,920
Speaker 1: just kind of goes in circle.

852
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:23,440
Speaker 3: And then is that he is so supportive. He's like,

853
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:27,080
Speaker 3: I would never be like, oh my god, my ego

854
00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:30,239
Speaker 3: has been tarnished by my wife out earning me.

855
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 1: I mean, he's sad to me, but he wouldn't kidding.

856
00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:35,160
Speaker 3: I'm kidding being success.

857
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:39,600
Speaker 1: No, he's amazing.

858
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:45,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, another question, how are your testing going for you?

859
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:49,759
Speaker 3: And hot guys have a hot baby hot boy?

860
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:56,400
Speaker 1: Boo good, really good. We have just finished all of

861
00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:59,399
Speaker 1: our We had like every fertility test under the sun.

862
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 1: And that's because, as you guys know, I'm adopted and

863
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:06,320
Speaker 1: Nick's mum's adopted, so we have between us like not

864
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:11,520
Speaker 1: even half a medical history. So we've done I would

865
00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:13,480
Speaker 1: say we've done the same amount of tests that a

866
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:15,520
Speaker 1: lot of couples do after they've been trying for a

867
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 1: long time, and we haven't been trying for a very

868
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:20,279
Speaker 1: long time. We just did them as a precaution because

869
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 1: we know nothing. Like every time they're like, is there

870
00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 1: a history of BLA, I'm like, I don't know. Do

871
00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:25,440
Speaker 1: you have no history?

872
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:27,280
Speaker 3: Do you use ovulation sticks or anything?

873
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:31,279
Speaker 1: Yes? I do, but I have really long cycles. So

874
00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:35,399
Speaker 1: we're still not really shot it. We did I think

875
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:37,600
Speaker 1: I spoke about in December. We did like a whole

876
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:40,400
Speaker 1: range of tests and now we have a really good picture.

877
00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:45,240
Speaker 1: Everything was really positive and now we're just yeah, going out.

878
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:51,759
Speaker 3: Just trying. That's you know, I don't want to walk

879
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:52,360
Speaker 3: into anything.

880
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:55,360
Speaker 1: I mean, the personality they bring with.

881
00:42:55,440 --> 00:43:02,879
Speaker 3: It, I don't think because name really it's really hard

882
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 3: in the background while you're having sex with It's but one.

883
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:10,640
Speaker 1: Thing we are both interestingly, I'm not like putting too

884
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:14,800
Speaker 1: much pressure around ourselves, even though I feel like I

885
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:17,360
Speaker 1: feel quite young and the one thing that happened with

886
00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 1: COVID is I feel two and a half to three

887
00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 1: years younger than I am, Like it kind of robs

888
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 1: you of that time, and I think a lot of

889
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:25,799
Speaker 1: people are feeling that way that you suddenly in your

890
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:28,400
Speaker 1: on paper, I'm thirty four. In my brain, I'm like,

891
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 1: I didn't do three years of experiences, so I actually

892
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:33,719
Speaker 1: feel thirty one. But biologically it's like you kind of

893
00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 1: got to like get a move on. But at the

894
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:38,120
Speaker 1: same time, I'm like, if you are stressed all the

895
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:40,759
Speaker 1: time and have performance anxiety and pressure yourself, it's also

896
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:43,800
Speaker 1: not going to happen. So even though I speak about publicly,

897
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:46,960
Speaker 1: which adds a lot of pressure, I'm also like, we're

898
00:43:47,040 --> 00:43:50,560
Speaker 1: also not kind of, you know, ruining our lives over it,

899
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:53,120
Speaker 1: Like we're just doing what we can with the information

900
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:53,360
Speaker 1: we have.

901
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 3: When would you consider freezing your eggs?

902
00:43:57,640 --> 00:44:01,799
Speaker 1: If you would soon, I think, yeah, I'm very much

903
00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:07,280
Speaker 1: on the side of at the moment. Like being able

904
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:11,120
Speaker 1: to have children is a huge, a huge thing for

905
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 1: us and for so many people. And if you kind

906
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:18,960
Speaker 1: of miss your window, you miss your windows. So if

907
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 1: we do, I wouldn't want to wait too long for

908
00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:23,440
Speaker 1: the chance to freeze my eggs. If I was advised to,

909
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:24,520
Speaker 1: I would do it.

910
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:25,400
Speaker 3: So interesting.

911
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's expensive, it's quite invasive.

912
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:35,440
Speaker 3: Friends who's twenty nine, Yeah, if I was advised to now,

913
00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:36,439
Speaker 3: I would do it. Yeah.

914
00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:38,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's a privilege to be able to say,

915
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:43,240
Speaker 1: because it is very expensive. But also like for us personally,

916
00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 1: it's a priority that's worth it. For some people it

917
00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:47,920
Speaker 1: might not be, it might not even be accessible. But

918
00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:50,239
Speaker 1: if we did have the choice and advice, I would

919
00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:50,360
Speaker 1: do it.

920
00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:52,000
Speaker 3: I feel like it should be a shited cost. But

921
00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 3: that's another conversation.

922
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:56,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, which really interestingly it has all been.

923
00:44:56,719 --> 00:45:01,239
Speaker 3: That's really good. Yeah, because the there is another date question.

924
00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 3: It's a conversation, but it's a if you're in a

925
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:07,319
Speaker 3: relationship that you're both mutually wanting to have a child, yeah,

926
00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 3: a freezing egg and creates the possibility of that, then

927
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 3: I think that should be a shared cost. But and

928
00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:14,840
Speaker 3: that's really difficult.

929
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:17,360
Speaker 1: It's really personal to total couples and they also I

930
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:18,919
Speaker 1: don't really even know what a lot of our friends

931
00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:20,520
Speaker 1: have done because I don't really speak about it, but

932
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:24,439
Speaker 1: we're very much like you know, Nick is like there's

933
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:27,280
Speaker 1: so many medical costs around even all the testing and stuff.

934
00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:29,239
Speaker 1: But he's like, we it comes out of our money,

935
00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:31,600
Speaker 1: not my money, just because it happens to be my body.

936
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 1: It's like he can't help that. He couldn't actually do

937
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:37,279
Speaker 1: it if he tried. I couldn't delegate the task of

938
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:39,040
Speaker 1: having a baby to him if he wanted to.

939
00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:42,000
Speaker 3: So this is me adding all these spicy questions, non

940
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:46,400
Speaker 3: spicy question many questions. How's Paul? Hello?

941
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:50,680
Speaker 1: Baby, He's right here with us, having a cute little sleep.

942
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 1: He's so much better. Thank you so much for asking. Honestly,

943
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:57,120
Speaker 1: I have been stopped in the street and not asked

944
00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 1: how I am, just to be asked how Paul is.

945
00:45:59,840 --> 00:46:02,480
Speaker 1: He is so much better. He's cutting out the dry

946
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 1: food in his diet and going to like he's he's

947
00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 1: got it. Screen goddess Buda bowls that we prepare every day.

948
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 1: Takes freakin' hours and costs a fortune, but has made

949
00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:15,759
Speaker 1: such a big difference. His cancer stopped growing. He's not

950
00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:20,319
Speaker 1: in pain. He's definitely an older dog now. He wasn't

951
00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:22,360
Speaker 1: before the cancer. He was still he was eleven and

952
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:26,720
Speaker 1: still bouncy as far's so young. Now he's like slower,

953
00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 1: a bit quieter.

954
00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:29,000
Speaker 3: It goes a bit more.

955
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 1: Gently, but he's bathing his toys every day. He's like

956
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:35,600
Speaker 1: wags his tail like a madman. When he Auntie Ange

957
00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:39,160
Speaker 1: comes over, he's like, dn, yeah, he's still he's a

958
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:42,359
Speaker 1: happy boy, and he's so good compared to before when

959
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:44,160
Speaker 1: he was in pain. He's like, he's really good.

960
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:46,680
Speaker 3: I have three fast fire Christians.

961
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:50,239
Speaker 1: Medium Fire for you.

962
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:53,800
Speaker 3: It's social favorite social media platform?

963
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:59,799
Speaker 1: Oh Instagram. I love TikTok. Love TikTok, but I still

964
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:02,279
Speaker 1: feel a little bit out of my depths when I

965
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:04,120
Speaker 1: have to google half the lingo that I see because

966
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:07,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm doing for this, But I love it.

967
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:10,360
Speaker 1: But I still prefer Instagram because I think my audience

968
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:13,319
Speaker 1: is more has been there for more of the ride.

969
00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:15,360
Speaker 3: Favorite fashion labels.

970
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 1: Oh that's a really good one. I love Mossman, which

971
00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:23,440
Speaker 1: you have now adopted, and.

972
00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 3: I love Tree.

973
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:28,880
Speaker 1: I love for Revenue. What else do I really? I

974
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 1: love Henny Nadia's amazing brand, such good basics. I love Cuba,

975
00:47:34,960 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, pretty much Walkinguba. I can walk in and

976
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:40,759
Speaker 1: get anything from Cuba, J and M and Zara for

977
00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:44,600
Speaker 1: basics everything Seed I love.

978
00:47:45,160 --> 00:47:47,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, you have a bit of fie for your suits.

979
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:50,879
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, for a dressier event, Effie Cats and her base,

980
00:47:50,960 --> 00:47:54,120
Speaker 1: her more casual friends base, having more cookie and a

981
00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:58,200
Speaker 1: really long te Anna Pelli really like Annipilly. That's the

982
00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:00,360
Speaker 1: cool trench, you know, that trench that I was, And

983
00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:04,600
Speaker 1: like anything leather, I love Anna Pelly. What else? I

984
00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:10,680
Speaker 1: love Lena Wilkinson for shoes and also as a person. Accessories, Oh,

985
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:13,600
Speaker 1: oh my god. So I was wearing these ear rings

986
00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:18,240
Speaker 1: recently and Cahn was like, babe, a day of taiga,

987
00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:21,120
Speaker 1: and I was like, have you met me? They were

988
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:25,879
Speaker 1: seven dollars at Lovisa. I love a statement earring from

989
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:27,960
Speaker 1: Lo Visa because then you don't have to wear it

990
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:30,239
Speaker 1: for season if you lose it.

991
00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:32,120
Speaker 3: I am the worst accessory.

992
00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 1: So sports Girl is my favorite for like big statement earrings.

993
00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:37,960
Speaker 1: All my big statement earrings are from sports Girl or Lovisa,

994
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:41,719
Speaker 1: which is like, I like, sometimes don't want to be

995
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:44,600
Speaker 1: as fast fashioned as that, but sometimes also I am,

996
00:48:44,920 --> 00:48:46,839
Speaker 1: and I balance it out in other ways. But yeah,

997
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:50,600
Speaker 1: I mean I should invest in better accessories, but I don't.

998
00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:53,279
Speaker 3: But we do have excited things coming out.

999
00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:55,680
Speaker 1: We do my straies coming back, Oh my god.

1000
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:56,239
Speaker 3: Accessories.

1001
00:48:56,560 --> 00:48:58,480
Speaker 1: Obviously, the main jewurry that I wear every day is

1002
00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 1: our own cz A jewelry, which is so and I

1003
00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:04,320
Speaker 1: was like, that's we're like walking billboard.

1004
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:05,840
Speaker 3: But we're bringing out new joy.

1005
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:09,960
Speaker 1: We've got samples on the way. We're bringing back the

1006
00:49:10,160 --> 00:49:13,200
Speaker 1: Radiance necklace in gold because that's been our most popular.

1007
00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:15,839
Speaker 1: I think we've restocked a bloke six times. But we're

1008
00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:18,120
Speaker 1: also bringing out new products that you've never been before

1009
00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:21,880
Speaker 1: with Alan Rowe, they are so wonderful neighborhood business. And

1010
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:25,080
Speaker 1: also recently I was in Sydney for Feast and we

1011
00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 1: needed a videographer and I really wanted to get a

1012
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:31,600
Speaker 1: CZ thea videographer, like someone in the neighborhood. I feel

1013
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:34,840
Speaker 1: like somehow we need to have a rollerdex of neighborhood

1014
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,120
Speaker 1: businesses for when you need something, because I ended up

1015
00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:39,480
Speaker 1: using someone who was amazing, who was a recommendation from

1016
00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:43,360
Speaker 1: our friend Hayden Quinn. He was great, but I wanted

1017
00:49:43,480 --> 00:49:45,479
Speaker 1: to use someone in the neighborhood. And so I feel

1018
00:49:45,520 --> 00:49:47,800
Speaker 1: like no one replied on the Facebook group, So I'm.

1019
00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:49,920
Speaker 3: Like, how do we do that to the more on

1020
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:54,320
Speaker 3: the bin You're deleted. Not not the vibe we're going for.

1021
00:49:54,600 --> 00:50:00,440
Speaker 1: Not so we want to use we want to use them. Civity,

1022
00:50:00,800 --> 00:50:04,400
Speaker 1: Oh my God, she's cracked. You've lost it.

1023
00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:05,560
Speaker 3: That was not short fire.

1024
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:12,239
Speaker 1: Sorry, Oh my god. You know I can't do That's

1025
00:50:12,280 --> 00:50:12,640
Speaker 1: why I have.

1026
00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:15,800
Speaker 3: To preface it. Skimmedjlada favor.

1027
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:18,360
Speaker 1: I'm not a big ice cream Ordelata person, but hazel

1028
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:20,520
Speaker 1: nut or vanilla. Oh, you are so boring.

1029
00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 3: You are so boring.

1030
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:31,879
Speaker 1: I love vanilla, hazel Ferrero, rainbow, kidding on Neapolitan kind

1031
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 1: of has a bit of everything, but that's also boring.

1032
00:50:34,239 --> 00:50:37,600
Speaker 3: Okay, what is your perfect day in your life?

1033
00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:44,680
Speaker 1: That's a really interesting question. This is going to reveal

1034
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:47,319
Speaker 1: how many personalities I have because I want to say

1035
00:50:48,320 --> 00:50:50,359
Speaker 1: sleeping in line bed, watch TV all day or read

1036
00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:54,920
Speaker 1: a book all day day with my family with Paul,

1037
00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:59,960
Speaker 1: but also do lots of stuff as well, meat or

1038
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:02,040
Speaker 1: the neighborhood, do a speaking gear, get to meet people

1039
00:51:02,040 --> 00:51:03,720
Speaker 1: I've never met before, talk.

1040
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:04,440
Speaker 3: About different stories.

1041
00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:09,560
Speaker 1: But also travel somewhere new, experience new food, go to

1042
00:51:09,640 --> 00:51:13,359
Speaker 1: a new place that has a new culture. Traveling Nick

1043
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:15,200
Speaker 1: and I when we're just in a brand new city.

1044
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:18,200
Speaker 1: Letting our brains open is my favorite thing in the

1045
00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:20,400
Speaker 1: entire world. But then also I love it when we

1046
00:51:20,480 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 1: like home and do nothing, So that's a really hard

1047
00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:27,880
Speaker 1: question to answer, but right now in my life, the

1048
00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:30,920
Speaker 1: whole sleepy and be lazy thing is probably like screaming

1049
00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:31,680
Speaker 1: out to me the most.

1050
00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:33,920
Speaker 3: How am I for being like, yes, I agree at

1051
00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:35,600
Speaker 3: the right page of twelve.

1052
00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:39,080
Speaker 1: I've literally made you. I've like hijacked you into our

1053
00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:41,359
Speaker 1: age bracket and you missed the whole party phase. It's

1054
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 1: going to come out at some point. Another question also

1055
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:48,279
Speaker 1: we found you have to post on CZ eight a

1056
00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:52,480
Speaker 1: golden Retriever cafe. Yes, that would be part of my

1057
00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:54,959
Speaker 1: favorite day is to take Paul to a golden retriever cafe.

1058
00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:56,600
Speaker 3: I think I'm going to be an animal physio and

1059
00:51:57,280 --> 00:52:00,399
Speaker 3: do it later. Did you manage this is your second question?

1060
00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:03,400
Speaker 3: By the way, did you manifest your goals? And how

1061
00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:05,279
Speaker 3: do you be active to achieve what you want?

1062
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:09,080
Speaker 1: That's a great question. Yes, I think a lot of

1063
00:52:09,120 --> 00:52:12,280
Speaker 1: people never just say them out loud or tell someone

1064
00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:15,239
Speaker 1: or write them down. And I very much have to

1065
00:52:15,360 --> 00:52:17,440
Speaker 1: identify the goal because it's hard to achieve something you

1066
00:52:17,480 --> 00:52:21,400
Speaker 1: haven't actually something you haven't actually expressed out in the

1067
00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:23,560
Speaker 1: real world and in the public. So yeah, always do

1068
00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:26,000
Speaker 1: and then start to break down, like what's the next

1069
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 1: immediate thing? I can do towards that thing, even if

1070
00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:30,759
Speaker 1: it's ten steps away or fifty steps away. I write

1071
00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:33,040
Speaker 1: it down. I put got points underneath. I don't really

1072
00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:36,160
Speaker 1: put a timeline on things, but I'm very much like,

1073
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:39,040
Speaker 1: what's an example, if I want to go I don't

1074
00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:41,320
Speaker 1: know what's the goal? If I wanted to, for example,

1075
00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 1: do medicine, I would write it down. I'd tell you,

1076
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:47,240
Speaker 1: and then I'd start to research how do you become

1077
00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:49,200
Speaker 1: a doctor? And I'd go, okay, well you have to

1078
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:51,520
Speaker 1: get into the course. How do you prepare for the course?

1079
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:53,640
Speaker 1: What are the dates? And I kind of start to

1080
00:52:53,719 --> 00:52:55,719
Speaker 1: map out things, and I very much start from like

1081
00:52:55,760 --> 00:52:57,880
Speaker 1: step one and then put all the steps in a

1082
00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:00,799
Speaker 1: row so that then it's not as overwhelming that whole

1083
00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:02,800
Speaker 1: You don't have to climb the whole stair case. You

1084
00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:04,960
Speaker 1: have to see the first step. You can't apply for

1085
00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:07,000
Speaker 1: medical school until you've done all the other stuff, So

1086
00:53:07,200 --> 00:53:09,799
Speaker 1: just like focus on step one, then step two, then

1087
00:53:09,840 --> 00:53:12,600
Speaker 1: step three. And I always every year I have a

1088
00:53:12,719 --> 00:53:16,279
Speaker 1: fresh diary with a notes page, and that whole thing

1089
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:18,640
Speaker 1: will be scrabbled over for the whole year of manifesting

1090
00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:22,760
Speaker 1: and goals and to do lists. Nice one nice.

1091
00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:26,680
Speaker 3: Nice one and last question, what would you tell to

1092
00:53:26,760 --> 00:53:32,120
Speaker 3: your youngest selves and one but each ten year increment,

1093
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:34,319
Speaker 3: so twenty four years old and fourteen years old?

1094
00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:37,120
Speaker 1: Or did you tell you twenty four year old twenty

1095
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:40,239
Speaker 1: four years old? I would say, what was I doing?

1096
00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 3: I'm definitely a promoter.

1097
00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:46,960
Speaker 1: No, I reckon that was earlier. Really, I don't even

1098
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:48,279
Speaker 1: know what I was doing when I was twenty four.

1099
00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:49,440
Speaker 1: Had I start to matchimate it?

1100
00:53:49,880 --> 00:53:49,920
Speaker 3: No?

1101
00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:53,480
Speaker 1: I think I was twenty five? Yeah, I think I

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00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:57,360
Speaker 1: would say. My answer for both is the same because

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00:53:57,360 --> 00:53:59,840
Speaker 1: I don't ever regret really anything. I don't really have

1104
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:02,280
Speaker 1: any major regrets because I do that whole future regret

1105
00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:06,600
Speaker 1: management matrix decision making thing. Every single thing that's happened,

1106
00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:08,520
Speaker 1: and every decision I've made has led to here, So

1107
00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:12,200
Speaker 1: I wouldn't change anything. I would just say, keep going,

1108
00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:13,200
Speaker 1: keep being.

1109
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:17,720
Speaker 3: Than about I don't know the ozone layer.

1110
00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:22,880
Speaker 1: I just feel like it would have fallen on deafy

1111
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:24,680
Speaker 1: as anything I said. The only thing I would say

1112
00:54:24,800 --> 00:54:27,239
Speaker 1: is just like, don't be anyone else, keep being like

1113
00:54:27,360 --> 00:54:30,759
Speaker 1: how weird you are. I've definitely had chapters of trying

1114
00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:35,040
Speaker 1: to conform to beauty standards and cultural standards and be

1115
00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 1: sportysrah and blah blah blah, be all these different things.

1116
00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:41,680
Speaker 1: But really fundamentally, my values when I made really serious

1117
00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:44,960
Speaker 1: decisions were the same. Guided by my mom, guided by

1118
00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:48,200
Speaker 1: like my brain's trust. I just say, keep doing that.

1119
00:54:48,719 --> 00:54:50,359
Speaker 3: What about when you're fourteen? Do you think it still

1120
00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:50,600
Speaker 3: the same?

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00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:53,040
Speaker 1: Fourteen? I would say, stop drinking udl?

1122
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:54,400
Speaker 3: What's udl?

1123
00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:54,560
Speaker 1: Oh?

1124
00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:55,000
Speaker 2: My god?

1125
00:54:55,120 --> 00:55:00,040
Speaker 1: So you missed your party? Pasevod gown a cany you

1126
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:00,880
Speaker 1: need a party phase?

1127
00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:02,400
Speaker 3: I'm just in my life.

1128
00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:05,920
Speaker 1: You do you, bim? That's what I'd say. You do?

1129
00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:09,040
Speaker 1: You do you? Except with less alcohol? Actually maybe no,

1130
00:55:09,080 --> 00:55:11,040
Speaker 1: because I need to get out of my system, you.

1131
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:14,320
Speaker 3: Know what I mean. It's okay to not have to

1132
00:55:14,440 --> 00:55:15,400
Speaker 3: drink out if I needed to.

1133
00:55:15,480 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 1: Though, knowing my personality, I would have wanted a party phase.

1134
00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:21,000
Speaker 1: And I also am like, maybe don't pluck your eyebrows

1135
00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:25,120
Speaker 1: so thin. I get good advice, but keep the fake

1136
00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:26,879
Speaker 1: down that you're using because you'll want it to come

1137
00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:29,359
Speaker 1: back and we'll go out of production. Oh really yeah?

1138
00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:35,399
Speaker 1: Actually yeah, keep the silarium you had in your Never

1139
00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:37,399
Speaker 1: use a hilarium. Do you know what? If there's one

1140
00:55:37,440 --> 00:55:39,560
Speaker 1: thing I would warn myself about it would be silariums.

1141
00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:40,160
Speaker 3: Did you use them?

1142
00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:44,800
Speaker 1: Because we didn't know we were so young and even like,

1143
00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:47,959
Speaker 1: even if you know, the adolescent brain doesn't care about risk,

1144
00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:50,879
Speaker 1: people are like, oh my god, skin cancer. I'm like, yeah,

1145
00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:51,239
Speaker 1: I can't.

1146
00:55:51,280 --> 00:55:52,080
Speaker 3: Only again.

1147
00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:57,160
Speaker 1: It was sassy and a bitch and you you actually

1148
00:55:57,200 --> 00:55:59,239
Speaker 1: don't have the capacity to think about the future because

1149
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:02,120
Speaker 1: you're so young and vincible. If I could say one thing,

1150
00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:03,680
Speaker 1: it would be never get one of those things.

1151
00:56:04,120 --> 00:56:06,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, see any like you need to learn the.

1152
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:08,520
Speaker 1: Risk because you need to trip up and like two

1153
00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:09,080
Speaker 1: steps forward.

1154
00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:11,879
Speaker 3: There's something. Thank you for the rest of your life.

1155
00:56:11,920 --> 00:56:13,719
Speaker 3: That's what I mean, Like, reflect you for the rest

1156
00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:14,080
Speaker 3: of your.

1157
00:56:14,040 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 1: Life, and always listen to your mum about how much

1158
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:18,480
Speaker 1: she helps on about sun's green. You'll be grateful And

1159
00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:19,280
Speaker 1: I am grateful.

1160
00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:21,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have a fast skin check the other day.

1161
00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:24,320
Speaker 3: It was right, isn't that fair? But I thought I

1162
00:56:24,320 --> 00:56:24,839
Speaker 3: should get.

1163
00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:28,160
Speaker 1: One all the time. Did we go to that I wanted?

1164
00:56:28,400 --> 00:56:31,720
Speaker 3: You got yours? Got we went there too late, remember,

1165
00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:41,680
Speaker 3: But yeah, very important to do. You know.

1166
00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:43,640
Speaker 1: If I could say one more thing, I'd be like,

1167
00:56:43,760 --> 00:56:45,960
Speaker 1: you're going to really wish that you could serve better

1168
00:56:46,760 --> 00:56:48,919
Speaker 1: so start serving lessons now because you'll be home. Yeah

1169
00:56:51,080 --> 00:56:51,959
Speaker 1: it is so hot.

1170
00:56:54,880 --> 00:56:56,759
Speaker 3: Okay, that was all the questions pretty much.

1171
00:56:56,840 --> 00:56:59,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, I really like reflecting on your birthday. I feel

1172
00:56:59,840 --> 00:57:02,720
Speaker 1: like the quote I always think about is never regret

1173
00:57:02,840 --> 00:57:05,880
Speaker 1: growing older, because it's a privilege denied to many. So

1174
00:57:06,040 --> 00:57:08,799
Speaker 1: even when you're like, oh I'm getting older, time pouth

1175
00:57:08,880 --> 00:57:11,560
Speaker 1: so quickly, it's like some people don't get to this age,

1176
00:57:11,640 --> 00:57:14,520
Speaker 1: and like that's such a like negative thing to think

1177
00:57:14,520 --> 00:57:16,680
Speaker 1: about it, But it also reminds you like you should

1178
00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:19,040
Speaker 1: be grateful for every year that you have. Yeah, and

1179
00:57:19,120 --> 00:57:19,600
Speaker 1: I really am.

1180
00:57:19,880 --> 00:57:22,720
Speaker 3: I generally do not even know age or care about

1181
00:57:22,760 --> 00:57:25,720
Speaker 3: age until you're very good at that. It's the only

1182
00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:28,560
Speaker 3: time I'm like, ough age is when you have to

1183
00:57:28,960 --> 00:57:31,640
Speaker 3: as a female, is thinking about your biological clock fure

1184
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:34,920
Speaker 3: like family stuff. But suppose other than that, I'm like,

1185
00:57:35,120 --> 00:57:37,160
Speaker 3: you are, how you are, how you feel you're as older,

1186
00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:40,040
Speaker 3: how you feel physically and how and everything else. It's

1187
00:57:40,120 --> 00:57:42,440
Speaker 3: just like, like, genuinely, people ask how old you are

1188
00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:43,880
Speaker 3: and I couldn't even tell them because I don't know.

1189
00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:45,520
Speaker 1: I don't know how old I am. The only reason

1190
00:57:45,520 --> 00:57:47,040
Speaker 1: I know is because someone else said, oh my god,

1191
00:57:47,080 --> 00:57:47,600
Speaker 1: it's thirty four.

1192
00:57:47,600 --> 00:57:49,440
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I didn't know. I don't know

1193
00:57:49,560 --> 00:57:54,080
Speaker 3: what like, I don't know. I only can't well, I

1194
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:57,560
Speaker 3: only know my sisters and my my parents' ages because

1195
00:57:57,600 --> 00:58:00,400
Speaker 3: I know the years of birth because like in my

1196
00:58:00,560 --> 00:58:03,840
Speaker 3: passwords and things. Oh, I don't have to calculate back.

1197
00:58:03,880 --> 00:58:07,480
Speaker 3: That's why I don't know otherwise. But yeah, anyway, happy birthday,

1198
00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:09,280
Speaker 3: thirty fourth.

1199
00:58:10,200 --> 00:58:12,240
Speaker 1: I wonder what I'd say to myself at thirty five.

1200
00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:16,400
Speaker 1: Oh my, Actually, my mantra for this year is enjoy

1201
00:58:16,680 --> 00:58:19,640
Speaker 1: being closer to thirty than you are to forty, because

1202
00:58:19,680 --> 00:58:20,920
Speaker 1: next ye you'll be closer to forty.

1203
00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:21,280
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1204
00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:27,160
Speaker 1: Family, family. Yeah, Well, thank you guys for listening to

1205
00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:31,120
Speaker 1: us gas bag for an hour doing my medium fire question.

1206
00:58:31,720 --> 00:58:34,600
Speaker 3: Sorry, yeah you're not even medium, but you're a very

1207
00:58:34,840 --> 00:58:35,360
Speaker 3: long shore.

1208
00:58:35,600 --> 00:58:37,840
Speaker 1: Excuse me, Maginalai answer was so on point.

1209
00:58:38,480 --> 00:58:39,760
Speaker 3: No, it's still quite long.

1210
00:58:43,240 --> 00:58:47,320
Speaker 1: Appendix, but breaking down the dar jolade. But it's just

1211
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:50,320
Speaker 1: a sobet it's like my answer changer. Oh my god,

1212
00:58:50,400 --> 00:58:57,040
Speaker 1: what is that phase? I can't believe we have listeners still.

1213
00:58:57,120 --> 00:58:57,760
Speaker 3: We literally just.

1214
00:58:57,760 --> 00:59:03,360
Speaker 1: Say thank you guys just sticking with us. Also, we

1215
00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:07,360
Speaker 1: are taking a short break, which I think is actually

1216
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:09,840
Speaker 1: after the next episode I can't remember, but we will

1217
00:59:09,880 --> 00:59:12,880
Speaker 1: be taking a very short break because the way things

1218
00:59:12,920 --> 00:59:17,160
Speaker 1: have worked out, and myself and our incredible editor, very

1219
00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:20,200
Speaker 1: big shout out to Sam at the podcast Butler, without

1220
00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:23,000
Speaker 1: whom I would not be alive. This show would not

1221
00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:26,600
Speaker 1: be alive, facepod would not be alive. Sam, we love you.

1222
00:59:27,280 --> 00:59:31,120
Speaker 1: All three of us are away at the same time

1223
00:59:31,240 --> 00:59:33,000
Speaker 1: for the same three week periods, so we were just like,

1224
00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:35,680
Speaker 1: this logistics is not going to happen. And you know

1225
00:59:35,760 --> 00:59:39,000
Speaker 1: what's really interesting on the topic of birthdays, one of

1226
00:59:39,040 --> 00:59:41,080
Speaker 1: the things that's happened in the last few years is

1227
00:59:41,160 --> 00:59:43,160
Speaker 1: when I first started the podcast, I didn't miss a

1228
00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:45,520
Speaker 1: week for two and a half years in a row.

1229
00:59:45,800 --> 00:59:49,400
Speaker 1: What no holiday, even over January and December. I was like,

1230
00:59:49,440 --> 00:59:52,080
Speaker 1: I can't miss I have to happen every seven days.

1231
00:59:52,880 --> 00:59:56,840
Speaker 1: And now I'm like, I actually think it's not worth

1232
00:59:57,160 --> 00:59:59,160
Speaker 1: I mean, it's worth it, but you know when you're

1233
00:59:59,200 --> 01:00:00,919
Speaker 1: just like, the math is not mathing, and I would

1234
01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:03,520
Speaker 1: still force it, and now I'm just like, you know what,

1235
01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:06,200
Speaker 1: it's okay to look after yourself and not try and

1236
01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:08,440
Speaker 1: push all three of us into a really uncomfortable situation.

1237
01:00:08,840 --> 01:00:11,960
Speaker 3: It's okay, nice good one. Yeah, we will do life

1238
01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:13,080
Speaker 3: Reflections on the road.

1239
01:00:13,520 --> 01:00:14,120
Speaker 2: Oh cute.

1240
01:00:15,080 --> 01:00:17,400
Speaker 1: So we will take like I think, a three week break,

1241
01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:21,000
Speaker 1: but maybe there'll be one more episode TBC. I think

1242
01:00:21,280 --> 01:00:24,480
Speaker 1: I think there will be yeah, next week, something like that. Okay,

1243
01:00:24,560 --> 01:00:25,440
Speaker 1: thank you guys for listening.

1244
01:00:26,480 --> 01:00:27,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, love you.

1245
01:00:27,200 --> 01:00:27,480
Speaker 1: Bye.