1 00:00:06,415 --> 00:00:13,415 Speaker 1: You're listening to Amma Mia podcast, some very old ideas 2 00:00:13,455 --> 00:00:15,695 Speaker 1: about women are having a comeback. 3 00:00:16,175 --> 00:00:18,255 Speaker 2: I don't know, she brings like this dominance since the 4 00:00:18,335 --> 00:00:20,815 Speaker 2: relationship and I want to be the one. 5 00:00:20,935 --> 00:00:23,695 Speaker 3: Essentially, Corn the shots online. 6 00:00:23,735 --> 00:00:27,855 Speaker 1: The manisphere is booming, Louis Theroux's new documentary puts it 7 00:00:27,895 --> 00:00:31,495 Speaker 1: under the microscope, and reality TV shows like Married at 8 00:00:31,495 --> 00:00:35,575 Speaker 1: First Sight putting some of these attitudes right into prime time. 9 00:00:36,455 --> 00:00:39,334 Speaker 1: So where is this coming from and how do we 10 00:00:39,415 --> 00:00:43,175 Speaker 1: actually fix it? It's the Quickie for Wednesday, March eleven. 11 00:00:43,254 --> 00:00:46,375 Speaker 1: I'm Taylor Strano for a look at the latest news headlines. 12 00:00:46,455 --> 00:00:47,455 Speaker 1: Here is Clare Murphy. 13 00:00:47,934 --> 00:00:51,455 Speaker 4: Thanks Taylor. Radio host Kyle Sanderlins has issued his first 14 00:00:51,495 --> 00:00:54,175 Speaker 4: public statement since being suspended due to an on air 15 00:00:54,215 --> 00:00:57,975 Speaker 4: relationship breakdown with his co host Jackie Henderson. After accusing 16 00:00:57,975 --> 00:01:00,935 Speaker 4: Henderson of being unprofessional and off with the fairies due 17 00:01:00,975 --> 00:01:03,975 Speaker 4: to her obsession with astrology live on air, she walked 18 00:01:03,975 --> 00:01:06,294 Speaker 4: down on the show and took time off. The radio 19 00:01:06,335 --> 00:01:09,895 Speaker 4: station's parent company, ARN released a statement just days after, 20 00:01:10,295 --> 00:01:13,295 Speaker 4: saying Henderson now refused to work with Sandalan's and so 21 00:01:13,335 --> 00:01:16,015 Speaker 4: they were ending the pairs ten year, two hundred million 22 00:01:16,015 --> 00:01:19,935 Speaker 4: dollar contract, citing a breach by Sandalans. Sandalans released a 23 00:01:19,975 --> 00:01:23,175 Speaker 4: statement through his manager yesterday saying of the on air spat, 24 00:01:23,415 --> 00:01:25,775 Speaker 4: I wish I'd phrase things differently. He went on to 25 00:01:25,815 --> 00:01:27,815 Speaker 4: say the night of the incident, he sent Jackie a 26 00:01:27,815 --> 00:01:29,975 Speaker 4: message telling her that he loves and cares for her 27 00:01:30,215 --> 00:01:32,895 Speaker 4: and that he meant every word. He claimed the idea 28 00:01:32,935 --> 00:01:35,855 Speaker 4: that their partnership could end like this is devastating, and 29 00:01:35,895 --> 00:01:37,615 Speaker 4: that he had been told he was not allowed to 30 00:01:37,655 --> 00:01:41,055 Speaker 4: contact Henderson or speak to any of his radio station colleagues. 31 00:01:41,375 --> 00:01:44,775 Speaker 4: He said, the truth is that ARN terminated Jackie's contract 32 00:01:44,775 --> 00:01:47,255 Speaker 4: on the same date accused me of a breach. All 33 00:01:47,295 --> 00:01:49,175 Speaker 4: of this happened while I was being told to sit 34 00:01:49,295 --> 00:01:52,655 Speaker 4: quietly and say nothing. That is not a genuine process. 35 00:01:52,975 --> 00:01:55,295 Speaker 4: He called on Arn to do the right thing, saying 36 00:01:55,335 --> 00:01:57,135 Speaker 4: he's asking for him to be allowed to do what 37 00:01:57,215 --> 00:02:00,215 Speaker 4: he does best, entertaining the people who've supported the show 38 00:02:00,295 --> 00:02:03,255 Speaker 4: for more than two decades. The Nationals will hold a 39 00:02:03,335 --> 00:02:07,015 Speaker 4: leadership ballot following yesterday's snap resis ssignation of David Little Proud. 40 00:02:07,375 --> 00:02:10,735 Speaker 4: Mister little Proud will remain in Parliament representing his Queensland 41 00:02:10,775 --> 00:02:13,695 Speaker 4: seat of Marinoa. After announcing he was stepping down at 42 00:02:13,735 --> 00:02:16,415 Speaker 4: an emotional press conference alongside his wife Amelia. 43 00:02:16,535 --> 00:02:19,775 Speaker 5: I'm bargain I'll have enough to lead this great party. 44 00:02:19,815 --> 00:02:21,735 Speaker 5: Would be the wrong thing for me to do. I 45 00:02:21,815 --> 00:02:23,695 Speaker 5: love the National Party. I grew up in it. I'll 46 00:02:23,735 --> 00:02:26,935 Speaker 5: beled till the day I die Green and Gold. I 47 00:02:27,015 --> 00:02:29,655 Speaker 5: love it, and it'd be wrong for me to say 48 00:02:29,695 --> 00:02:31,894 Speaker 5: that I'm the right person to continue to lead. That's 49 00:02:31,935 --> 00:02:35,015 Speaker 5: tough for me to say. I think someone better can 50 00:02:35,055 --> 00:02:36,895 Speaker 5: do it because I don't have the energy. 51 00:02:37,095 --> 00:02:40,615 Speaker 4: Outspoken Queensland Senator Matt Canavan became the first to confirm 52 00:02:40,655 --> 00:02:42,975 Speaker 4: he was putting his hand up for the job. Deputy 53 00:02:43,055 --> 00:02:46,535 Speaker 4: Leader Kevin Hogan, the party's leader in the Senate, Bridget mackenzie, 54 00:02:46,615 --> 00:02:50,335 Speaker 4: and former leader Michael McCormack are other potential contenders. A 55 00:02:50,415 --> 00:02:52,334 Speaker 4: formal vote to elect the new leader will be held 56 00:02:52,335 --> 00:02:56,055 Speaker 4: this morning in Canberra. Residents in the central Queensland hub 57 00:02:56,055 --> 00:02:58,535 Speaker 4: of Bunderberg have been told to leave immediately as a 58 00:02:58,655 --> 00:03:01,975 Speaker 4: brace for major flooding. Locals scramble to leave before the 59 00:03:02,015 --> 00:03:05,335 Speaker 4: community's two major bridges were due to close yesterday afternoon, 60 00:03:05,655 --> 00:03:09,375 Speaker 4: amid fears homes might be isolated for days. Queensland Premier 61 00:03:09,455 --> 00:03:11,775 Speaker 4: David chris A Fully said more than four hundred homes 62 00:03:11,815 --> 00:03:15,014 Speaker 4: and businesses were now under threat. The Burnett River threatened 63 00:03:15,055 --> 00:03:18,095 Speaker 4: to peak at seven point six meters, just slightly below 64 00:03:18,135 --> 00:03:21,255 Speaker 4: the seven point nine two meter levels of sixteen years ago, 65 00:03:21,495 --> 00:03:24,975 Speaker 4: when homes and businesses were inundated and hundreds of people 66 00:03:25,015 --> 00:03:27,055 Speaker 4: were forced to leave the city of more than seventy 67 00:03:27,095 --> 00:03:30,455 Speaker 4: thousand people. The flood prone town of Gimpi and surrounding 68 00:03:30,495 --> 00:03:33,535 Speaker 4: communities is also at risk, with a major warning current 69 00:03:33,575 --> 00:03:37,015 Speaker 4: for the Mery River as water moves downstream. Flooding has 70 00:03:37,135 --> 00:03:40,495 Speaker 4: also hit the Northern territory hard. The federal and anti 71 00:03:40,695 --> 00:03:44,615 Speaker 4: governments have announced further disaster assistance funding for Catherine, where 72 00:03:44,655 --> 00:03:48,015 Speaker 4: overnight rain boosted floodwaters that forced seven hundred people to 73 00:03:48,055 --> 00:03:51,415 Speaker 4: seek shelter. In Darwin, residents have been asked to reduce 74 00:03:51,495 --> 00:03:55,135 Speaker 4: water use and boiled drinking water as authorities repair at 75 00:03:55,215 --> 00:03:57,735 Speaker 4: Darwin River Dam pump station that was shut down by 76 00:03:57,735 --> 00:04:01,215 Speaker 4: the floods. There are reports that one or two more 77 00:04:01,255 --> 00:04:03,975 Speaker 4: members of the Iranian women's soccer team did not board 78 00:04:04,015 --> 00:04:06,295 Speaker 4: the plane from the Gold Coast to set Sidney yesterday 79 00:04:06,335 --> 00:04:09,455 Speaker 4: as they prepared to return home. There are grave fears 80 00:04:09,495 --> 00:04:12,295 Speaker 4: for the safety of the departing players after five of 81 00:04:12,335 --> 00:04:16,215 Speaker 4: their teammates were granted asylum in Australia. The five branded 82 00:04:16,214 --> 00:04:20,015 Speaker 4: wartime traders on Iranian state television for refusing to sing 83 00:04:20,055 --> 00:04:22,654 Speaker 4: the national anthem ahead of their first Asian Cup game. 84 00:04:22,975 --> 00:04:25,695 Speaker 4: The rest of the team departed Australia last night amid 85 00:04:25,775 --> 00:04:28,975 Speaker 4: fears for their safety, facing threats of their families being 86 00:04:29,015 --> 00:04:32,375 Speaker 4: taken into custody and their assets seized. They had earlier 87 00:04:32,455 --> 00:04:35,094 Speaker 4: left a Gold Coast hotel under police guard, with one 88 00:04:35,175 --> 00:04:38,455 Speaker 4: player appearing to be dragged by a teammate onto the bus. 89 00:04:38,775 --> 00:04:41,375 Speaker 4: Protesters had tried to block the bus from leaving for 90 00:04:41,415 --> 00:04:45,375 Speaker 4: the airport. Meanwhile, in Iran, the US has promised that 91 00:04:45,415 --> 00:04:47,935 Speaker 4: it will be the most intense day of strikes. As 92 00:04:47,935 --> 00:04:51,294 Speaker 4: the country's Revolutionary Guard threatens to block all oil shipments 93 00:04:51,335 --> 00:04:54,175 Speaker 4: from the Gulf, the Pentagon renewed threats to hit Iran 94 00:04:54,215 --> 00:04:56,535 Speaker 4: harder and less shipments can flow through the strait of 95 00:04:56,575 --> 00:05:00,695 Speaker 4: Humu's off Iran's coast. US Defense Secretary Pete Hegsith telling 96 00:05:00,695 --> 00:05:03,775 Speaker 4: a Pentagon briefing today will be yet again our most 97 00:05:03,775 --> 00:05:07,095 Speaker 4: intense day of strikes. Inside Era the most fighters, the 98 00:05:07,095 --> 00:05:11,054 Speaker 4: most bombers, the most strikes, intelligence, more refined, and better 99 00:05:11,095 --> 00:05:14,575 Speaker 4: than ever. The war has already effectively halted shipments through 100 00:05:14,615 --> 00:05:17,414 Speaker 4: the Strait, where a fifth of global oil and liquefied 101 00:05:17,455 --> 00:05:20,935 Speaker 4: natural gas normally passes. Middle East oil producers say they've 102 00:05:21,015 --> 00:05:23,775 Speaker 4: run out of storage and have now stopped pumping. 103 00:05:23,855 --> 00:05:27,655 Speaker 1: Thanks clerk Next. No longer a niche corner of the Internet, 104 00:05:27,815 --> 00:05:31,214 Speaker 1: the manusphere has widespread appeal. So what are we going 105 00:05:31,295 --> 00:05:37,855 Speaker 1: to do about it? Maybe you've felt it up close 106 00:05:38,375 --> 00:05:41,175 Speaker 1: a date who jokes about wanting an old school wife, 107 00:05:41,615 --> 00:05:45,135 Speaker 1: a male teenage relative who suddenly has strong views about 108 00:05:45,175 --> 00:05:48,854 Speaker 1: submissive women, or a classroom where girls are being told 109 00:05:48,895 --> 00:05:52,534 Speaker 1: they're too masculine for speaking up. It can feel like 110 00:05:52,575 --> 00:05:56,575 Speaker 1: these attitudes come out of nowhere. The manusphere is the 111 00:05:56,655 --> 00:06:00,974 Speaker 1: loose network of online spaces think podcasts, TikTok, reddit threads, 112 00:06:01,055 --> 00:06:04,695 Speaker 1: discord servers where men talk to other men about how 113 00:06:04,735 --> 00:06:08,975 Speaker 1: the world really works. Sometimes it's fitness and self help, 114 00:06:09,135 --> 00:06:11,975 Speaker 1: but a big chunk of it pushes a very specific 115 00:06:12,055 --> 00:06:16,575 Speaker 1: story that men are the real victims of modern feminism, 116 00:06:16,775 --> 00:06:20,294 Speaker 1: that women should be obedient and a real man is rich, 117 00:06:20,695 --> 00:06:25,615 Speaker 1: ripped and in charge. It's where Andrew Tatestyle talking points 118 00:06:25,615 --> 00:06:29,255 Speaker 1: get endlessly repackaged and served up by algorithms to boys 119 00:06:29,295 --> 00:06:32,535 Speaker 1: who are bored, lonely or angry. New research out of 120 00:06:32,575 --> 00:06:35,335 Speaker 1: the King's College, London has put numbers to what parents 121 00:06:35,335 --> 00:06:38,255 Speaker 1: and teachers are hearing. In a global survey of twenty 122 00:06:38,295 --> 00:06:41,855 Speaker 1: three thousand people, thirty one percent of gen z men 123 00:06:41,975 --> 00:06:45,295 Speaker 1: said a wife should always obey her husband, and a 124 00:06:45,335 --> 00:06:47,895 Speaker 1: third set a husband should have the final word on 125 00:06:47,935 --> 00:06:51,895 Speaker 1: important decisions at home. Now, if you're thinking you've heard 126 00:06:51,895 --> 00:06:56,295 Speaker 1: that obedient sentiment lately, well you'd be right. This season 127 00:06:56,335 --> 00:06:59,214 Speaker 1: of the uber popular reality tele show Maths has put 128 00:06:59,215 --> 00:07:03,175 Speaker 1: the concept front and center in contestant Tyson, do you. 129 00:07:03,135 --> 00:07:06,455 Speaker 4: Want someone who is obedient? Yes, it's controlling and you 130 00:07:06,535 --> 00:07:07,055 Speaker 4: want a dog? 131 00:07:07,175 --> 00:07:10,535 Speaker 3: Okay, Well then there you go. Maybe that's what I want. 132 00:07:10,895 --> 00:07:13,855 Speaker 1: Comments like this have made it all the way to Canberra. 133 00:07:14,015 --> 00:07:17,255 Speaker 1: Social Services Minister Tania Plibersik has accused the show and 134 00:07:17,335 --> 00:07:21,015 Speaker 1: its network of normalizing coercive control by airing this kind 135 00:07:21,015 --> 00:07:25,855 Speaker 1: of language, saying it's supercharged by algorithms peddling misogyny for profit. 136 00:07:26,415 --> 00:07:30,095 Speaker 2: This is exactly the sort of controlling behavior that we're 137 00:07:30,135 --> 00:07:33,855 Speaker 2: trying to combat when we talk about getting rid of 138 00:07:34,495 --> 00:07:38,375 Speaker 2: coercive control. The fact that this is being mainstreamed and 139 00:07:38,415 --> 00:07:42,935 Speaker 2: a really popular show is really disappointing. I really do 140 00:07:43,055 --> 00:07:45,295 Speaker 2: think the makers of this show need to think twice 141 00:07:45,335 --> 00:07:47,375 Speaker 2: before platforming this sort of misogyny. 142 00:07:48,975 --> 00:07:52,655 Speaker 1: And now documentary filmmaker Luis Tharu is diving straight into 143 00:07:52,695 --> 00:07:55,895 Speaker 1: this world. His new Netflix film Inside the Mana Sphere 144 00:07:56,015 --> 00:07:58,975 Speaker 1: lands this week and follows him through Miami, New York, 145 00:07:59,055 --> 00:08:01,655 Speaker 1: and Mabella, sitting down with some of the biggest Red 146 00:08:01,695 --> 00:08:05,455 Speaker 1: Pill influencers to ask why their mix of traditional gender roles, 147 00:08:05,615 --> 00:08:09,375 Speaker 1: outright misogyny, and get rich content is so appealing to 148 00:08:09,415 --> 00:08:10,255 Speaker 1: teenage boys. 149 00:08:10,575 --> 00:08:11,255 Speaker 3: What would you say? 150 00:08:11,335 --> 00:08:11,975 Speaker 2: Is the message? 151 00:08:12,095 --> 00:08:13,375 Speaker 1: I coach boys? 152 00:08:13,455 --> 00:08:15,615 Speaker 3: How to make money? Oh, this is a nice spot. 153 00:08:15,415 --> 00:08:18,655 Speaker 5: How to be outside the system, how to be proper guys? 154 00:08:19,135 --> 00:08:19,815 Speaker 3: Would you see me? 155 00:08:19,935 --> 00:08:20,255 Speaker 5: Don't we? 156 00:08:21,575 --> 00:08:23,895 Speaker 3: Did you look at my arms? The statue is not 157 00:08:23,935 --> 00:08:24,855 Speaker 3: saying too much. 158 00:08:26,295 --> 00:08:29,615 Speaker 1: Through has called this project the ultimate challenge after decades 159 00:08:29,615 --> 00:08:33,655 Speaker 1: of documentary filmmaking, precisely because so much of it lives 160 00:08:33,655 --> 00:08:36,535 Speaker 1: in private group chats and algorithms that most of us 161 00:08:36,735 --> 00:08:39,655 Speaker 1: hopefully don't see. And he's right. The hard part is 162 00:08:39,695 --> 00:08:42,295 Speaker 1: that none of this is just out there online anymore. 163 00:08:42,655 --> 00:08:45,735 Speaker 1: Teachers say, boys are repeating these lines in class, girls 164 00:08:45,815 --> 00:08:48,655 Speaker 1: are finding themselves on dates with guys who talk about 165 00:08:48,735 --> 00:08:51,935 Speaker 1: submissive women, and parents are trying to compete with hours 166 00:08:51,935 --> 00:08:55,535 Speaker 1: of TikTok and YouTube a day. Experts point to a 167 00:08:55,575 --> 00:08:59,175 Speaker 1: gap between what most people personally believe, which is slowly 168 00:08:59,215 --> 00:09:03,015 Speaker 1: getting more equal, and what young men think everyone expects 169 00:09:03,054 --> 00:09:06,375 Speaker 1: of them. That gap is where the manner sphere moves in, 170 00:09:06,815 --> 00:09:10,655 Speaker 1: offering clear villains and easy answers to real feelings of confusion, 171 00:09:10,735 --> 00:09:14,335 Speaker 1: loneliness or loss of status. So how exactly do we 172 00:09:14,415 --> 00:09:17,015 Speaker 1: fix it, or at least stop it from getting worse? 173 00:09:17,615 --> 00:09:20,375 Speaker 1: Does the under sixteen social media ban help curb the 174 00:09:20,455 --> 00:09:24,535 Speaker 1: rise of this retric Australia's just added age verification on 175 00:09:24,615 --> 00:09:25,694 Speaker 1: sites like porn Hub. 176 00:09:25,815 --> 00:09:27,094 Speaker 3: Surely that'll go away. 177 00:09:26,815 --> 00:09:30,575 Speaker 1: To help too, right, But what else needs to happen 178 00:09:31,095 --> 00:09:36,015 Speaker 1: in classrooms, at home, in workplaces. Paige Campbell is the 179 00:09:36,054 --> 00:09:39,455 Speaker 1: co founder and CEO of tomorrow Man. She spends her 180 00:09:39,535 --> 00:09:42,255 Speaker 1: days in rooms with boys and men talking about healthier 181 00:09:42,335 --> 00:09:46,095 Speaker 1: versions of being a bloke page. I want to start 182 00:09:46,255 --> 00:09:50,895 Speaker 1: with getting your explanation, what does and doesn't fall into 183 00:09:50,895 --> 00:09:51,574 Speaker 1: the manusphere. 184 00:09:52,095 --> 00:09:55,495 Speaker 6: It's an umbrella term to describe a collection of platforms 185 00:09:55,495 --> 00:10:00,214 Speaker 6: that are promoting misogynistic and anti feminist belief I think 186 00:10:00,215 --> 00:10:02,935 Speaker 6: the scary thing about the manispee content is that there's 187 00:10:03,054 --> 00:10:05,175 Speaker 6: you know, what they call gateway manisphere content. 188 00:10:05,655 --> 00:10:06,415 Speaker 3: The outset. 189 00:10:06,775 --> 00:10:09,495 Speaker 6: It can look quite positive, so it might be fitness 190 00:10:09,495 --> 00:10:13,855 Speaker 6: content or self development for men, and so when it's 191 00:10:14,015 --> 00:10:18,255 Speaker 6: just that, not manisphere content, but that content can quickly 192 00:10:18,295 --> 00:10:20,934 Speaker 6: start to turn into this kind of more misogynistic, anti 193 00:10:20,975 --> 00:10:24,295 Speaker 6: feminist belief content, and then that falls into the manisphere. 194 00:10:24,695 --> 00:10:28,815 Speaker 1: So you regularly run these workshops with men and boys, 195 00:10:28,975 --> 00:10:31,895 Speaker 1: what are you hearing from them? What draws them to 196 00:10:32,095 --> 00:10:33,295 Speaker 1: this kind of content? 197 00:10:34,575 --> 00:10:38,015 Speaker 6: Now more than ever, we would say that young men 198 00:10:38,054 --> 00:10:40,175 Speaker 6: are confused about what it means to be a man today. 199 00:10:40,695 --> 00:10:43,255 Speaker 6: Like with gender equality kind of growing over time, which 200 00:10:43,295 --> 00:10:46,215 Speaker 6: is a great thing, women really have a blueprint of 201 00:10:46,255 --> 00:10:49,375 Speaker 6: what that looks like, whereas the old school. 202 00:10:49,135 --> 00:10:52,855 Speaker 3: Gender stereotypes or traditional stereotypes just don't fit for men anymore. 203 00:10:53,095 --> 00:10:56,255 Speaker 6: And so young men really are searching, like what does 204 00:10:56,295 --> 00:10:56,814 Speaker 6: it mean to. 205 00:10:56,775 --> 00:10:59,454 Speaker 3: Be a man. They're nervous to get it wrong. 206 00:10:59,735 --> 00:11:04,175 Speaker 6: And confused, and so they're seeking belonging and understanding, and 207 00:11:04,535 --> 00:11:09,135 Speaker 6: unfortunately the Manisphere content kind of fills that void at 208 00:11:09,135 --> 00:11:12,015 Speaker 6: the moment and shows up quite charismatically for them. 209 00:11:12,535 --> 00:11:15,855 Speaker 1: I want to ask about some practical or useful tips 210 00:11:15,855 --> 00:11:18,135 Speaker 1: of how we help quash this in a moment. But 211 00:11:18,455 --> 00:11:21,694 Speaker 1: can you explain to us why we can't simply ignore 212 00:11:21,735 --> 00:11:25,255 Speaker 1: it or minimize it to this patch of crazy bros 213 00:11:25,295 --> 00:11:27,895 Speaker 1: on the internet? Why is that the wrong approach? 214 00:11:28,535 --> 00:11:31,375 Speaker 6: If we just shut it down, our young people are 215 00:11:31,375 --> 00:11:33,375 Speaker 6: going to stop talking to us about it, and that's 216 00:11:33,375 --> 00:11:36,135 Speaker 6: the last thing that we want. We're seeing now more 217 00:11:36,175 --> 00:11:38,895 Speaker 6: than ever that it's entered the mainstream. So there's a 218 00:11:38,895 --> 00:11:42,455 Speaker 6: man on maths at the moment that is literally using 219 00:11:42,495 --> 00:11:46,095 Speaker 6: Manosphere language. It's become very mainstream. The King's University study 220 00:11:46,415 --> 00:11:49,695 Speaker 6: is showing that as well, and so we need to 221 00:11:49,855 --> 00:11:52,975 Speaker 6: enter the conversation. We can't just quash it because it's there, 222 00:11:53,054 --> 00:11:54,095 Speaker 6: we can't avoid it. 223 00:11:54,095 --> 00:11:55,535 Speaker 3: It's growing rapidly. 224 00:11:56,415 --> 00:11:58,975 Speaker 6: As parents and educators, we need to be able to 225 00:11:59,015 --> 00:12:01,175 Speaker 6: engage in the conversation so that we can help our 226 00:12:01,215 --> 00:12:04,295 Speaker 6: young people critically think about what they're observing too. 227 00:12:04,735 --> 00:12:07,615 Speaker 1: So does it hurt them? We have shows I've married 228 00:12:07,615 --> 00:12:11,095 Speaker 1: at first sight beaming into No doubt, you know, hundreds 229 00:12:11,135 --> 00:12:14,334 Speaker 1: of thousands of televisions every single night, You've got Ossie 230 00:12:14,415 --> 00:12:18,095 Speaker 1: viewers there who are actively consuming that rhetoric as it's 231 00:12:18,095 --> 00:12:21,735 Speaker 1: playing out live from people like Tyson. Is that dangerous? 232 00:12:21,775 --> 00:12:23,295 Speaker 1: Does that just add feel to the fire? 233 00:12:24,054 --> 00:12:24,575 Speaker 3: I think so. 234 00:12:25,054 --> 00:12:28,095 Speaker 6: I think that that you know the fact that that's 235 00:12:28,175 --> 00:12:31,615 Speaker 6: mainstream and people are watching that, and you know they're 236 00:12:31,615 --> 00:12:34,615 Speaker 6: already kind of absorbing that content and maybe starting to 237 00:12:34,655 --> 00:12:37,735 Speaker 6: take on those beliefs, and then they're seeing someone represented 238 00:12:38,054 --> 00:12:39,175 Speaker 6: in mainstream media. 239 00:12:39,295 --> 00:12:41,535 Speaker 3: It's only promoting that misogyny. 240 00:12:41,575 --> 00:12:46,175 Speaker 6: It's disappointing that's on mainstream media. The only positive I 241 00:12:46,255 --> 00:12:49,175 Speaker 6: see in that is that the moments where people in 242 00:12:49,215 --> 00:12:53,615 Speaker 6: that show are challenging his thinking around that is really important. 243 00:12:53,615 --> 00:12:57,695 Speaker 6: But the fact that it's being promoted on mainstream is terrifying. 244 00:12:57,735 --> 00:13:01,095 Speaker 1: Really, are you hoping that maybe there's a world where 245 00:13:01,295 --> 00:13:04,015 Speaker 1: reality TV can still exist? We can still get, you know, 246 00:13:04,095 --> 00:13:07,255 Speaker 1: our kicks from watching a bunch of randoms marry each other, 247 00:13:07,535 --> 00:13:09,935 Speaker 1: but it doesn't have to lead down that particular vein. 248 00:13:10,815 --> 00:13:11,575 Speaker 3: Absolutely. 249 00:13:12,015 --> 00:13:15,055 Speaker 6: I think one of the things that we notice more 250 00:13:15,095 --> 00:13:19,015 Speaker 6: than ever is that young men are seeking these aspirational 251 00:13:19,095 --> 00:13:20,895 Speaker 6: role models of what it means to be a man. 252 00:13:21,455 --> 00:13:23,615 Speaker 6: And when you've got people like that that are like, 253 00:13:23,855 --> 00:13:27,055 Speaker 6: I'm successful, I'm ambitious, I'm driven, you can see. 254 00:13:26,815 --> 00:13:28,815 Speaker 3: Why young men might be pulled towards that. 255 00:13:29,175 --> 00:13:32,054 Speaker 6: Whereas if we can show them men that are aspirational, 256 00:13:32,135 --> 00:13:34,815 Speaker 6: that have real range and their masculinity, that you know, 257 00:13:34,935 --> 00:13:38,215 Speaker 6: arna scared to show vulnerability or their emotion and show 258 00:13:38,295 --> 00:13:41,295 Speaker 6: up in different ways, that's a great thing, and I'm 259 00:13:41,295 --> 00:13:42,934 Speaker 6: sure it can still come with some trauma. 260 00:13:43,615 --> 00:13:46,255 Speaker 1: Well. On the counter to maths being in the mainstream, 261 00:13:46,375 --> 00:13:49,255 Speaker 1: Luis Thuru's got a new documentary out Inside the Manisphere, 262 00:13:49,255 --> 00:13:51,574 Speaker 1: and he's putting it sort of front and center, really 263 00:13:51,615 --> 00:13:55,615 Speaker 1: interrogating what that concept is and what harm it brings 264 00:13:55,655 --> 00:13:59,255 Speaker 1: potentially to young people across the globe as well. So 265 00:13:59,495 --> 00:14:03,375 Speaker 1: while you've got people maybe showing off the manisphere and 266 00:14:03,455 --> 00:14:06,815 Speaker 1: that kind of behavior in one light on reality television, 267 00:14:06,855 --> 00:14:10,015 Speaker 1: at least there's another sort of counterpoint to that doing 268 00:14:10,175 --> 00:14:11,815 Speaker 1: hopefully some help not harm. 269 00:14:11,975 --> 00:14:14,454 Speaker 6: It's a great thing I think now that the Manisphere 270 00:14:14,575 --> 00:14:17,575 Speaker 6: is entering the mainstream, and like I said, we're seeing 271 00:14:17,615 --> 00:14:21,175 Speaker 6: it more. You know, we're hearing manisphere language in our workshops. 272 00:14:21,175 --> 00:14:24,935 Speaker 6: It's definitely more in the ether. Having people like Luis 273 00:14:24,935 --> 00:14:28,495 Speaker 6: throw kind of show the opposite and show have some 274 00:14:28,535 --> 00:14:31,015 Speaker 6: critical thinking around it is really important. 275 00:14:31,935 --> 00:14:34,015 Speaker 1: And then what about for the rest of us page. 276 00:14:34,055 --> 00:14:37,215 Speaker 1: I mean, we can't possibly sit there and respond to 277 00:14:37,335 --> 00:14:40,575 Speaker 1: every single comment and call every single person out every 278 00:14:40,615 --> 00:14:43,575 Speaker 1: time we hear some language or a comment that's not 279 00:14:43,695 --> 00:14:45,935 Speaker 1: quite up to the pub test. So what do you suggest? 280 00:14:45,975 --> 00:14:47,095 Speaker 3: How do we. 281 00:14:47,055 --> 00:14:48,855 Speaker 1: And this is such a big question, how do we 282 00:14:48,895 --> 00:14:51,535 Speaker 1: fix the manisphere? How do we dismantle it? What do 283 00:14:51,575 --> 00:14:51,895 Speaker 1: we do? 284 00:14:52,895 --> 00:14:55,495 Speaker 6: I wish I had a simple just do this answer. 285 00:14:55,735 --> 00:15:00,375 Speaker 6: Unfortunately I don't. But we can't avoid young people being online. 286 00:15:00,415 --> 00:15:03,055 Speaker 6: We can't stop that. We can't dismantle the manisphere. It's 287 00:15:03,095 --> 00:15:05,175 Speaker 6: not going to happen overnight. It's going to take small 288 00:15:05,215 --> 00:15:07,735 Speaker 6: acts every day. And I think that some of the 289 00:15:07,735 --> 00:15:09,775 Speaker 6: things that we see is really important is just like 290 00:15:09,895 --> 00:15:13,935 Speaker 6: every small day acts of people challenging those really harmful 291 00:15:13,975 --> 00:15:17,935 Speaker 6: gender stereotypes, making sure that you've got equal responsibilities being 292 00:15:17,975 --> 00:15:20,975 Speaker 6: shown at home if you do hear a comment. I 293 00:15:20,975 --> 00:15:23,015 Speaker 6: know it's difficult, but being able to you know, girls 294 00:15:23,055 --> 00:15:24,735 Speaker 6: shouldn't do these, men should do this. 295 00:15:24,935 --> 00:15:27,895 Speaker 3: Just challenging thinking around that is really important. 296 00:15:28,455 --> 00:15:31,295 Speaker 6: Also giving young people an opportunity, like we do in 297 00:15:31,335 --> 00:15:35,415 Speaker 6: our workshops, to actually unpack this stuff, giving them a 298 00:15:35,535 --> 00:15:39,375 Speaker 6: chance to understand where did these stereotypes even come from 299 00:15:39,735 --> 00:15:42,175 Speaker 6: and why do we have to live up to those 300 00:15:42,735 --> 00:15:46,495 Speaker 6: And giving them real world opportunities to have human connection 301 00:15:46,575 --> 00:15:50,175 Speaker 6: and conversations, show vulnerability, show a different way to be 302 00:15:50,935 --> 00:15:53,015 Speaker 6: can have a huge impact so that when they go 303 00:15:53,095 --> 00:15:56,895 Speaker 6: back online, they know that there's another way. We can't 304 00:15:56,935 --> 00:16:00,135 Speaker 6: do this work in silos like going in and just 305 00:16:00,255 --> 00:16:03,815 Speaker 6: talking to the young men is not the solution. What 306 00:16:03,895 --> 00:16:06,975 Speaker 6: we noticed three years ago is that in every tomorrow 307 00:16:07,015 --> 00:16:12,735 Speaker 6: Man workshop women just simply didn't feature. And so we've 308 00:16:12,815 --> 00:16:16,055 Speaker 6: really been active in making sure the female lens is 309 00:16:16,095 --> 00:16:17,895 Speaker 6: always in that work now. 310 00:16:18,415 --> 00:16:21,535 Speaker 3: But also we can't just work with. 311 00:16:21,495 --> 00:16:23,615 Speaker 6: The young men like you have to work with the 312 00:16:23,655 --> 00:16:26,175 Speaker 6: young men, and we have to create space for young women, 313 00:16:26,615 --> 00:16:29,575 Speaker 6: the parents, teachers, the sporting clubs, like we all need 314 00:16:29,615 --> 00:16:32,615 Speaker 6: to have a universal understanding and kind of tools and 315 00:16:32,735 --> 00:16:33,895 Speaker 6: agency in this space. 316 00:16:33,935 --> 00:16:35,535 Speaker 3: And I just think that's really important. 317 00:16:37,415 --> 00:16:39,615 Speaker 1: Thanks for taking some time to feed your mind with 318 00:16:39,695 --> 00:16:42,095 Speaker 1: us today. 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