1 00:00:10,622 --> 00:00:13,382 Speaker 1: You're listening to a MoMA Mia podcast. 2 00:00:13,822 --> 00:00:17,182 Speaker 2: Mamma Mia acknowledges the traditional owners of land and waters 3 00:00:17,222 --> 00:00:20,902 Speaker 2: that this podcast is recorded on Maya. 4 00:00:21,021 --> 00:00:23,221 Speaker 3: When we prepare for this podcast, you think it's best 5 00:00:23,222 --> 00:00:25,982 Speaker 3: that we all sit together. My truth is that I 6 00:00:26,021 --> 00:00:29,182 Speaker 3: hate preparing within ten meters of you because I prefer 7 00:00:29,422 --> 00:00:29,982 Speaker 3: to focus. 8 00:00:30,182 --> 00:00:31,942 Speaker 2: I've been going to sit near Mia because I know 9 00:00:32,022 --> 00:00:34,302 Speaker 2: she likes it, and she tries so hard not to 10 00:00:34,302 --> 00:00:36,382 Speaker 2: say the thing. It's like she's like a child. She's like, 11 00:00:36,582 --> 00:00:39,501 Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'm gonna be really really quiet, and then 12 00:00:39,502 --> 00:00:49,022 Speaker 2: she's like bones, oh my god, Hello and welcome to 13 00:00:49,062 --> 00:00:51,662 Speaker 2: Mamma Mia. Out loud. What women are actually talking about 14 00:00:51,702 --> 00:00:53,102 Speaker 2: on Monday, the third of March. 15 00:00:53,142 --> 00:00:56,422 Speaker 3: I'm Hollywayen Right, I'm Mea Friedman, and I'm Jesse Stevens 16 00:00:56,542 --> 00:00:57,582 Speaker 3: on the show today. 17 00:00:57,942 --> 00:01:00,262 Speaker 2: If you haven't watched it, you've heard about it. If 18 00:01:00,262 --> 00:01:02,222 Speaker 2: you haven't heard about it, you've felt it in the 19 00:01:02,262 --> 00:01:06,142 Speaker 2: force on Saturday morning. Yes, we're talking about that Oval 20 00:01:06,182 --> 00:01:10,222 Speaker 2: Office press conference with Zelenski, Trump and JB. Vans and 21 00:01:10,301 --> 00:01:13,661 Speaker 2: why everyone from reality TV stars to believe its celebrities 22 00:01:13,662 --> 00:01:17,302 Speaker 2: are speaking their truth right now, please stop, and it's 23 00:01:17,302 --> 00:01:20,462 Speaker 2: Oscar's day, we unpack the controversies that didn't make it 24 00:01:20,502 --> 00:01:23,982 Speaker 2: to the Red carpet. But first, Mia Friedman, in case. 25 00:01:23,742 --> 00:01:26,262 Speaker 1: You missed it, it's Monday, so that means Elon Musk 26 00:01:26,302 --> 00:01:30,142 Speaker 1: has had another baby. Mask is fifty three and has 27 00:01:30,222 --> 00:01:34,622 Speaker 1: welcomed his fourteenth child. He's fourth with Schevonzillis, who is 28 00:01:34,662 --> 00:01:35,262 Speaker 1: thirty nine. 29 00:01:35,582 --> 00:01:38,542 Speaker 4: So this isn't the influence. So we were talking about 30 00:01:38,542 --> 00:01:40,182 Speaker 4: recently that was. 31 00:01:40,062 --> 00:01:43,382 Speaker 1: His thirteenth child, which was last Monday. Oh okay, I've 32 00:01:43,382 --> 00:01:45,941 Speaker 1: read over the weekend that he is working one hundred 33 00:01:45,982 --> 00:01:49,662 Speaker 1: hour weeks and sleeping on the floor of the White House, 34 00:01:49,742 --> 00:01:53,582 Speaker 1: so clearly this was an IVF situation like most of 35 00:01:53,622 --> 00:01:54,142 Speaker 1: his children. 36 00:01:54,182 --> 00:01:59,222 Speaker 4: Apparently, is he in a romantic relationship with this Yeah, except. 37 00:01:58,782 --> 00:02:01,542 Speaker 1: Of course the one he's having with Donald Trump. But 38 00:02:01,702 --> 00:02:05,302 Speaker 1: Chevonzilla's shared the news on x She says discussed with Elon, 39 00:02:05,382 --> 00:02:08,422 Speaker 1: and in light of beautiful Arcadia's birthday, assume that's one 40 00:02:08,422 --> 00:02:10,341 Speaker 1: of the other children, we felt it was better to 41 00:02:10,422 --> 00:02:14,341 Speaker 1: also just share directly about our wonderful and incredible son. Selden. 42 00:02:14,781 --> 00:02:17,422 Speaker 1: Like hergis built like a juggernaut with a solid heart 43 00:02:17,462 --> 00:02:21,102 Speaker 1: of gold. Unlike his father, that was mine, That wasn't her? 44 00:02:21,181 --> 00:02:21,742 Speaker 2: That was yeah. 45 00:02:21,782 --> 00:02:24,582 Speaker 1: Yeah, she said love him so much, which I hope 46 00:02:24,582 --> 00:02:26,702 Speaker 1: refers to the child and not Alon. But you know, 47 00:02:27,022 --> 00:02:28,902 Speaker 1: Billionaire's gonna keep breathing. 48 00:02:29,822 --> 00:02:32,222 Speaker 4: In case you missed it, are you too desperate to 49 00:02:32,222 --> 00:02:33,702 Speaker 4: know what was in the Oscars gift bags? 50 00:02:33,782 --> 00:02:36,302 Speaker 2: I thought these days it was very basic because they 51 00:02:36,382 --> 00:02:38,501 Speaker 2: got in TROUBLESO. Now it's just like some jelly snakes 52 00:02:38,502 --> 00:02:39,022 Speaker 2: and a whistle. 53 00:02:39,222 --> 00:02:41,982 Speaker 3: Okay, I thought that too, and a little party pop, 54 00:02:42,181 --> 00:02:48,022 Speaker 3: a little those things that you Okay, So what they 55 00:02:48,022 --> 00:02:50,862 Speaker 3: did instead was they just gave the fancy bag. 56 00:02:50,702 --> 00:02:51,382 Speaker 4: To less people. 57 00:02:51,622 --> 00:02:54,822 Speaker 3: Oh so not every nominee gets it anymore. The way 58 00:02:54,902 --> 00:02:57,621 Speaker 3: the actual bag is That is a really good question, Maya. 59 00:02:57,702 --> 00:02:59,582 Speaker 3: I think it is an actual bag because I don't 60 00:02:59,582 --> 00:03:02,342 Speaker 3: know where else I put all of the things. Now, 61 00:03:02,662 --> 00:03:04,502 Speaker 3: not all the nominees are offered it. It's a gift 62 00:03:04,502 --> 00:03:07,501 Speaker 3: bag from a place called Distinctive Assets. It's not actually 63 00:03:07,502 --> 00:03:10,782 Speaker 3: affiliated with the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences, 64 00:03:11,222 --> 00:03:14,742 Speaker 3: and so the list of potential recipients only has twenty stars. 65 00:03:15,102 --> 00:03:18,422 Speaker 3: So you're Ariana, you're Timothy, you're kir and Colcone. 66 00:03:18,502 --> 00:03:21,142 Speaker 2: People in the world who least needed it. 67 00:03:21,662 --> 00:03:24,942 Speaker 1: So essentially, when you say it's not affiliated with the Oscars, 68 00:03:24,982 --> 00:03:28,542 Speaker 1: and even if it was, it's a business. So obviously 69 00:03:28,582 --> 00:03:31,302 Speaker 1: they've charged people a lot of money to say, give 70 00:03:31,302 --> 00:03:33,582 Speaker 1: away this free whatever, and we will get it to 71 00:03:33,622 --> 00:03:34,621 Speaker 1: these twenty people. 72 00:03:34,862 --> 00:03:37,902 Speaker 2: They do corporate things. They could do a corporate thing 73 00:03:37,942 --> 00:03:38,782 Speaker 2: for us for. 74 00:03:38,702 --> 00:03:39,382 Speaker 4: Our live shows. 75 00:03:39,462 --> 00:03:41,302 Speaker 2: Yeah, for a live show. Yeah, that's a really good. 76 00:03:41,742 --> 00:03:43,262 Speaker 2: But the Academy wants hire them every year. 77 00:03:43,302 --> 00:03:45,142 Speaker 1: That's how the bounty bags work. If you've ever had 78 00:03:45,182 --> 00:03:46,382 Speaker 1: a baby and you go on to hospital and you 79 00:03:46,422 --> 00:03:47,862 Speaker 1: get given things. Everyone who's in. 80 00:03:47,862 --> 00:03:49,702 Speaker 4: There paid to be there. Oh I love a good 81 00:03:49,942 --> 00:03:50,782 Speaker 4: big business bag. 82 00:03:50,902 --> 00:03:53,782 Speaker 3: Okay, So now at Mummeyer Out Loud Life presented by 83 00:03:53,862 --> 00:03:56,702 Speaker 3: Nibia Cellula, here's what you'll get. It's called an Everybody 84 00:03:56,742 --> 00:04:00,822 Speaker 3: Wins gift bag. Right value at almost two hundred thousand dollars. 85 00:04:01,022 --> 00:04:03,222 Speaker 1: Is this what everyone gets when they come to our show? 86 00:04:03,302 --> 00:04:05,902 Speaker 4: Yes, that's what I've decided, you know, cool, not. 87 00:04:07,502 --> 00:04:09,862 Speaker 1: Oscars, it's the Oscars. Right. 88 00:04:09,982 --> 00:04:14,142 Speaker 3: The collection includes cannabis products such as pre rolls and 89 00:04:14,262 --> 00:04:16,142 Speaker 3: THHC infused drinks. 90 00:04:15,782 --> 00:04:17,582 Speaker 2: Pre rolls Does that mean what I think it means? 91 00:04:17,662 --> 00:04:17,981 Speaker 1: Joints? 92 00:04:18,142 --> 00:04:18,382 Speaker 2: Yeah? 93 00:04:18,582 --> 00:04:19,301 Speaker 4: See you get joints. 94 00:04:19,301 --> 00:04:19,942 Speaker 2: That's what it means. 95 00:04:20,181 --> 00:04:22,621 Speaker 1: I can't believe that's in California. 96 00:04:22,181 --> 00:04:22,462 Speaker 2: All right. 97 00:04:22,502 --> 00:04:25,381 Speaker 3: Of course, a four nights stay at a resort in 98 00:04:25,421 --> 00:04:27,862 Speaker 3: the Mal dieds it is worth twenty three thousand. 99 00:04:27,541 --> 00:04:29,981 Speaker 2: Dollars long way to go from La for four nights. 100 00:04:30,222 --> 00:04:32,621 Speaker 3: It is a five thousand, two hundred dollars stay at 101 00:04:32,662 --> 00:04:34,862 Speaker 3: a Barcelona hotels. Maybe you could go there on the way. 102 00:04:34,861 --> 00:04:36,061 Speaker 1: I feel like they're going to give this to their 103 00:04:36,061 --> 00:04:38,421 Speaker 1: glam squad. Yeah, they are true. 104 00:04:38,262 --> 00:04:44,022 Speaker 4: Peracts, as well as Ancestry DNA's twenty five thousand dollars 105 00:04:44,101 --> 00:04:48,942 Speaker 4: VIP family history experience, in which genealogists builds the nominees 106 00:04:49,061 --> 00:04:50,942 Speaker 4: family tree. That's shit. 107 00:04:51,061 --> 00:04:52,821 Speaker 2: So I was gonna say you would love that. 108 00:04:53,022 --> 00:04:55,421 Speaker 4: I would love that, but twenty five thousand dollars. 109 00:04:56,022 --> 00:04:59,101 Speaker 1: But it's also like spitting on a stick. Let's take 110 00:04:59,142 --> 00:05:00,701 Speaker 1: your DNA. Yeah, I don't think so. 111 00:05:00,821 --> 00:05:03,941 Speaker 3: I think they're just cloning the celebrities. Then a cutting 112 00:05:04,022 --> 00:05:07,982 Speaker 3: board worth two hundred and forty dollars, some skincare products 113 00:05:08,022 --> 00:05:14,662 Speaker 3: from a brand, A luxury pocket square from Hermes, valued 114 00:05:15,181 --> 00:05:16,501 Speaker 3: at one thousand, five hundred. 115 00:05:16,541 --> 00:05:22,022 Speaker 1: Seeing that, Megan's jam Yes, wow, Megan mister trick. 116 00:05:22,421 --> 00:05:26,662 Speaker 3: Well, actually this isn't about greed. It's about the LA fires. 117 00:05:26,741 --> 00:05:29,741 Speaker 3: Because there's monetary relief for those affected by the Los 118 00:05:29,782 --> 00:05:31,222 Speaker 3: Angeles wildfires. 119 00:05:32,342 --> 00:05:33,782 Speaker 1: So what do you mean there's like a donation. 120 00:05:34,061 --> 00:05:37,981 Speaker 3: The bag includes a one year membership to Bright Harbor 121 00:05:38,061 --> 00:05:41,822 Speaker 3: Personalized disaster recovery support, and ten additional memberships to give 122 00:05:41,861 --> 00:05:44,101 Speaker 3: to family and friends. I don't understand how that's helping anyone, 123 00:05:44,142 --> 00:05:47,741 Speaker 3: but fifty thousand dollars worth of project management services. Oh okay, 124 00:05:47,782 --> 00:05:49,782 Speaker 3: so you can go and donate that or something that's done. 125 00:05:50,421 --> 00:05:51,182 Speaker 2: He needs this. 126 00:05:51,501 --> 00:05:53,661 Speaker 3: I don't think he needs it either. But I think 127 00:05:54,142 --> 00:05:55,861 Speaker 3: those coming Tommy are out loud life. 128 00:05:57,541 --> 00:05:59,461 Speaker 2: I think let's go, ladies. 129 00:06:00,381 --> 00:06:04,061 Speaker 1: The New Cycle leaderboard of Bizarre and Dramatic Moments has 130 00:06:04,101 --> 00:06:06,662 Speaker 1: been pretty crowded this year, but shooting straight to the 131 00:06:06,662 --> 00:06:08,981 Speaker 1: top of the leaderboard over the weekend was the video 132 00:06:09,061 --> 00:06:12,342 Speaker 1: that you may have seen of President Donald Trump, Vice 133 00:06:12,381 --> 00:06:16,301 Speaker 1: President Jennie Vance, and Ukrainian President vladimiir Is a Lensky 134 00:06:16,541 --> 00:06:18,302 Speaker 1: in the Oval Office. Here's a bit of what that 135 00:06:18,421 --> 00:06:18,981 Speaker 1: sounded like. 136 00:06:19,342 --> 00:06:23,141 Speaker 4: You're gambling with World War three, and what you're doing 137 00:06:23,301 --> 00:06:26,262 Speaker 4: is very disrespectful to the country. 138 00:06:26,301 --> 00:06:27,022 Speaker 1: This country. 139 00:06:27,582 --> 00:06:30,021 Speaker 3: It's back to you far more than a lot of 140 00:06:30,022 --> 00:06:31,701 Speaker 3: people said they should have. 141 00:06:31,702 --> 00:06:31,782 Speaker 1: Have. 142 00:06:31,821 --> 00:06:34,741 Speaker 5: You said thank you once this entire meeting, No, in 143 00:06:34,782 --> 00:06:37,461 Speaker 5: this entire media, and you said thank you. You went to 144 00:06:37,501 --> 00:06:41,662 Speaker 5: Pennsylvania and campaigned for the opposition in October. Offer some 145 00:06:41,702 --> 00:06:44,941 Speaker 5: words of appreciation for the United States of America and 146 00:06:44,981 --> 00:06:48,181 Speaker 5: the president who's trying to save your country. 147 00:06:49,222 --> 00:06:52,941 Speaker 2: Please, you're seeing that if you will speak, we're loudly 148 00:06:52,981 --> 00:06:56,062 Speaker 2: about the war. He's not speaking loudly. He's not speaking loudly. 149 00:06:56,301 --> 00:06:59,461 Speaker 2: Your country is in big trouble. No, No, they've done a 150 00:06:59,462 --> 00:07:00,061 Speaker 2: lot of talking. 151 00:07:00,421 --> 00:07:02,142 Speaker 5: Your country is in big trouble. 152 00:07:02,301 --> 00:07:03,621 Speaker 2: I know you're not winning. 153 00:07:03,821 --> 00:07:04,662 Speaker 5: You're not winning this. 154 00:07:04,981 --> 00:07:09,821 Speaker 1: So what those grabs don't quite convey is the shocking 155 00:07:09,941 --> 00:07:12,702 Speaker 1: nature of the body language and how menacing it was. 156 00:07:12,742 --> 00:07:16,582 Speaker 1: You had Zelenski sitting there in his combat. 157 00:07:16,222 --> 00:07:18,142 Speaker 4: Year, right, military fatigues, Yeah. 158 00:07:17,902 --> 00:07:20,142 Speaker 1: Military fatigues, And you had. 159 00:07:20,222 --> 00:07:22,342 Speaker 3: Which he's worn since the beginning of the war to 160 00:07:22,702 --> 00:07:24,782 Speaker 3: represent that his country is at war. 161 00:07:24,862 --> 00:07:26,382 Speaker 4: That's a very intentional. 162 00:07:25,941 --> 00:07:28,502 Speaker 1: Choice exactly, And he said it's very symbolic. And they 163 00:07:28,702 --> 00:07:30,862 Speaker 1: berate him for not wearing a suit, as if somehow 164 00:07:31,422 --> 00:07:34,302 Speaker 1: that is a sign of disrespect, and he says, after 165 00:07:34,342 --> 00:07:36,622 Speaker 1: the war is finished, I will put on a costume 166 00:07:36,902 --> 00:07:37,622 Speaker 1: like your costume. 167 00:07:37,742 --> 00:07:37,941 Speaker 2: Yeah. 168 00:07:37,982 --> 00:07:41,381 Speaker 3: So when he first arrived, actually Trump made a comment 169 00:07:41,462 --> 00:07:43,822 Speaker 3: about what he was wearing, which felt like a jab, 170 00:07:44,222 --> 00:07:46,901 Speaker 3: and then towards the end of the interview it was 171 00:07:46,941 --> 00:07:50,302 Speaker 3: someone else that pointedly argued, why aren't you wearing a suit? 172 00:07:50,342 --> 00:07:53,422 Speaker 3: Which was like this moment where they could all point 173 00:07:53,462 --> 00:07:56,702 Speaker 3: to him and almost embarrass him for not. 174 00:07:57,102 --> 00:07:57,702 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know. 175 00:07:57,862 --> 00:08:00,902 Speaker 1: And it was all going pretty normally until Jadie Vance 176 00:08:00,982 --> 00:08:04,062 Speaker 1: came in at minute thirty eight, and that's when it 177 00:08:04,102 --> 00:08:08,662 Speaker 1: all ratcheted up and he sort of really led the charge, 178 00:08:09,102 --> 00:08:11,302 Speaker 1: and that sort of been bolden Trump, and he then 179 00:08:11,542 --> 00:08:14,182 Speaker 1: started to warn Zolensky that he's gambling with World War three. 180 00:08:14,662 --> 00:08:18,182 Speaker 1: There was this repeated berating that he's not grateful enough 181 00:08:18,222 --> 00:08:20,902 Speaker 1: for the money that the US have provided to help 182 00:08:21,022 --> 00:08:25,142 Speaker 1: defend Ukraine, and Trump was like, make a deal or 183 00:08:25,182 --> 00:08:28,222 Speaker 1: ware out, and then Zolensky they meant to have a 184 00:08:28,262 --> 00:08:31,382 Speaker 1: press conference afterwards, a more formal press conference. Couldn't have 185 00:08:31,381 --> 00:08:34,302 Speaker 1: been less formal, more formal press conference and also sign 186 00:08:34,502 --> 00:08:38,382 Speaker 1: an agreement about minerals that all went to shit, and 187 00:08:38,702 --> 00:08:41,862 Speaker 1: Zolenski was asked to leave, refused to sign the agreement, 188 00:08:42,582 --> 00:08:46,102 Speaker 1: and it was one of the most extraordinary things at 189 00:08:46,142 --> 00:08:49,382 Speaker 1: an extraordinary time that we've seen so far. Oh why 190 00:08:49,622 --> 00:08:51,422 Speaker 1: was it so shocking to watch? I mean, why are 191 00:08:51,422 --> 00:08:54,302 Speaker 1: we surprised by anything Trump does? Now he's the reality 192 00:08:54,342 --> 00:08:56,942 Speaker 1: TV president. And even at the end of it he said, 193 00:08:56,942 --> 00:08:59,902 Speaker 1: if you read the official transcript, he said, this will 194 00:08:59,942 --> 00:09:00,662 Speaker 1: be great on TV. 195 00:09:01,062 --> 00:09:04,942 Speaker 2: I felt quite sick and distressed. I think a lot 196 00:09:05,022 --> 00:09:10,542 Speaker 2: of people did, not, necessarily because of the vast polytical ramifications, 197 00:09:10,582 --> 00:09:13,342 Speaker 2: which are complicated and also a matter of opinion about 198 00:09:13,342 --> 00:09:14,742 Speaker 2: whether or not that's a good thing or a bad 199 00:09:14,742 --> 00:09:17,302 Speaker 2: thing or so on. But a lot of people had 200 00:09:17,342 --> 00:09:20,102 Speaker 2: a very visceral reaction to the visual because you just 201 00:09:20,182 --> 00:09:23,262 Speaker 2: explained what happened. It sounded quite reasonable, right, but that's 202 00:09:23,302 --> 00:09:26,302 Speaker 2: not what happened. So just to give a bit of context, 203 00:09:26,942 --> 00:09:29,022 Speaker 2: what was supposed to be happening there. So the way 204 00:09:29,022 --> 00:09:31,622 Speaker 2: that these kind of things work, right, is that President 205 00:09:31,662 --> 00:09:34,582 Speaker 2: Trump is receiving a foreign leader and they're one that 206 00:09:34,582 --> 00:09:37,862 Speaker 2: they've got a difficult issue with, like Zelenski earlier this week. 207 00:09:37,982 --> 00:09:40,702 Speaker 2: Last week he also had Macron, who has also got 208 00:09:40,742 --> 00:09:43,382 Speaker 2: a bit of a difficult relationship with and Keir Starmer 209 00:09:43,462 --> 00:09:46,222 Speaker 2: from the UK, who, let's not forget Elon Musk tried 210 00:09:46,262 --> 00:09:49,582 Speaker 2: to get unseated recently. So the way it's supposed happen 211 00:09:49,622 --> 00:09:51,702 Speaker 2: is everything that's going to be discussed has already been discussed. 212 00:09:52,302 --> 00:09:54,622 Speaker 2: Everybody knows what that's going to be. Deals that need 213 00:09:54,662 --> 00:09:57,302 Speaker 2: to be signed are already negotiated. What they do is 214 00:09:57,302 --> 00:09:59,982 Speaker 2: before the meeting, they have something called a pool spray, 215 00:10:00,062 --> 00:10:02,582 Speaker 2: which is what this was where you would have seen 216 00:10:02,622 --> 00:10:03,462 Speaker 2: these a million times. 217 00:10:03,542 --> 00:10:03,702 Speaker 5: Right. 218 00:10:04,222 --> 00:10:06,782 Speaker 2: Jesse's the leader, I'm the leader. We sit down together 219 00:10:06,822 --> 00:10:09,302 Speaker 2: in the Oval office. We smile and nod, and we 220 00:10:09,622 --> 00:10:11,622 Speaker 2: have a select group of journalists who are in there 221 00:10:11,622 --> 00:10:13,662 Speaker 2: to take pictures and ask a couple of questions, probably 222 00:10:13,662 --> 00:10:16,942 Speaker 2: pre selected questions. They usually last pul sprays about a 223 00:10:16,982 --> 00:10:19,462 Speaker 2: minute to two minutes. Then the leaders go off and 224 00:10:19,502 --> 00:10:22,542 Speaker 2: do their chitty chat chat, not out their negotiations. Then 225 00:10:22,582 --> 00:10:24,662 Speaker 2: they come out and they do the press conference, the 226 00:10:24,662 --> 00:10:27,142 Speaker 2: proper press conference, where they stand up and say this 227 00:10:27,182 --> 00:10:29,302 Speaker 2: is what we've agreed and it's been a very cordial 228 00:10:29,342 --> 00:10:29,982 Speaker 2: and productive. 229 00:10:30,022 --> 00:10:32,702 Speaker 3: Remember that happened in love Actually it did you Grant 230 00:10:32,742 --> 00:10:34,742 Speaker 3: and he had that conversation. Then he came back out 231 00:10:34,822 --> 00:10:36,302 Speaker 3: and yeah, remember. 232 00:10:36,862 --> 00:10:38,622 Speaker 2: And it happened last week with the other leaders, with 233 00:10:38,702 --> 00:10:42,022 Speaker 2: mccron and Starmer, they followed exactly that script, right, And 234 00:10:42,102 --> 00:10:44,462 Speaker 2: I think that the reason that a lot of people 235 00:10:44,502 --> 00:10:47,182 Speaker 2: had a visceral reaction. I definitely had a visual reaction. 236 00:10:47,222 --> 00:10:48,982 Speaker 2: I woke up on Saturday morning, I reached my phone. 237 00:10:48,982 --> 00:10:50,782 Speaker 2: Why am I still doing that? Why am I still 238 00:10:50,782 --> 00:10:53,342 Speaker 2: doing that? Friends with me as talked to me about it. 239 00:10:53,502 --> 00:10:55,582 Speaker 1: Well, it's funny because I'm going to have to own 240 00:10:55,742 --> 00:10:58,342 Speaker 1: up and make a disclaimer that I still haven't watched it. 241 00:10:58,462 --> 00:11:00,382 Speaker 3: You are the only person I know who haven't. Yeah, 242 00:11:00,382 --> 00:11:02,222 Speaker 3: and do you know why self care? 243 00:11:02,342 --> 00:11:02,582 Speaker 2: Yeah? 244 00:11:02,622 --> 00:11:05,382 Speaker 1: I actually decided because it was blowing up my group chats. 245 00:11:05,422 --> 00:11:07,342 Speaker 1: It was everyone was talking about it. It was all 246 00:11:07,382 --> 00:11:09,502 Speaker 1: over the news, and I was like, I know that 247 00:11:09,662 --> 00:11:11,662 Speaker 1: I will be so upset by this, and it is 248 00:11:11,702 --> 00:11:13,542 Speaker 1: the weekend and I don't want to go. 249 00:11:13,782 --> 00:11:15,742 Speaker 2: And so the question that's a very good question, is 250 00:11:15,742 --> 00:11:18,062 Speaker 2: why is so upset about that? There are so many 251 00:11:18,102 --> 00:11:20,902 Speaker 2: distressing things going on all the time in more corners 252 00:11:20,902 --> 00:11:22,782 Speaker 2: of the world at the moment. I think one of 253 00:11:22,782 --> 00:11:24,822 Speaker 2: the reasons why people were so distressed, includinally so I 254 00:11:24,862 --> 00:11:27,062 Speaker 2: pick up my phone, I see this. I see Russell 255 00:11:27,102 --> 00:11:30,142 Speaker 2: Brand or someone going like, WHOA, it's on now, and 256 00:11:30,182 --> 00:11:33,622 Speaker 2: everybody's like popcorn. That's kind of what everybody is. I 257 00:11:33,622 --> 00:11:36,502 Speaker 2: think everyone's so shocked because A it's such a break 258 00:11:36,542 --> 00:11:39,022 Speaker 2: from the norm and if Trump doesn't teach us the 259 00:11:39,062 --> 00:11:42,022 Speaker 2: same lesson over and over and over again, it's that 260 00:11:42,302 --> 00:11:44,702 Speaker 2: all the norms are out the window. So the script 261 00:11:44,702 --> 00:11:46,342 Speaker 2: that I just kind of gave of how these sort 262 00:11:46,382 --> 00:11:49,382 Speaker 2: of meetings are supposed to go done. But I think 263 00:11:49,462 --> 00:11:51,381 Speaker 2: the visceral reaction to a lot of people who don't 264 00:11:51,462 --> 00:11:54,822 Speaker 2: really have any opinions or knowledge really about Ukraine or 265 00:11:54,982 --> 00:11:59,222 Speaker 2: NATO or mineral deals whatever. Is the visual of these 266 00:11:59,302 --> 00:12:04,342 Speaker 2: two men being Trump and Vance bullying Zelenski is what 267 00:12:04,382 --> 00:12:06,702 Speaker 2: it looked like. Now, I'm very aware and when I 268 00:12:06,742 --> 00:12:10,142 Speaker 2: say that that this video likes so much, Trump World 269 00:12:10,182 --> 00:12:11,902 Speaker 2: is a bit of a raw shark test, as in, 270 00:12:12,342 --> 00:12:13,862 Speaker 2: you see what you want to see in it, or 271 00:12:13,902 --> 00:12:16,622 Speaker 2: it reflects a lot about your opinions, because to me, 272 00:12:16,822 --> 00:12:19,982 Speaker 2: I saw bullying. I was like, they're talking over him. 273 00:12:20,182 --> 00:12:22,822 Speaker 2: He's trying really hard to keep it together. I don't 274 00:12:22,862 --> 00:12:24,381 Speaker 2: know how he's managing to keep it together. 275 00:12:24,382 --> 00:12:25,862 Speaker 1: He's and also this siding with Russia. 276 00:12:25,942 --> 00:12:27,742 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I mean that's the big picture of why 277 00:12:27,742 --> 00:12:30,182 Speaker 2: it's so distressing, is that it's showing a massive yeah, 278 00:12:30,262 --> 00:12:30,502 Speaker 2: you know. 279 00:12:30,542 --> 00:12:31,582 Speaker 1: Russian who invaded you. 280 00:12:31,982 --> 00:12:34,782 Speaker 2: But the actual white people have individually upset. Even if 281 00:12:34,782 --> 00:12:37,302 Speaker 2: you don't really understand that context is it felt like 282 00:12:37,382 --> 00:12:40,142 Speaker 2: bullying and we've all been in that situation, right of course, 283 00:12:40,222 --> 00:12:42,222 Speaker 2: other people are seeing it and saying, no, he was 284 00:12:42,262 --> 00:12:45,262 Speaker 2: being insolent, he was being rude, he was you know, yes, 285 00:12:45,342 --> 00:12:47,862 Speaker 2: but Zelensky was being rude and insolent and rolling his 286 00:12:47,902 --> 00:12:50,462 Speaker 2: eyes and shaking his head. What I saw was a 287 00:12:50,502 --> 00:12:53,982 Speaker 2: man who's probably in an unbelievably well obviously in an 288 00:12:54,022 --> 00:12:56,822 Speaker 2: unbelievably difficult position, trying and hold it together while these 289 00:12:56,862 --> 00:13:00,862 Speaker 2: two guys just berated him. And then the Sport for 290 00:13:00,982 --> 00:13:04,622 Speaker 2: sport and loved it, and the press pack who were there, because, 291 00:13:04,782 --> 00:13:06,782 Speaker 2: as I say about the pool spray, you've got invited 292 00:13:06,862 --> 00:13:09,822 Speaker 2: journalists there. There were clearly questions like the suit question 293 00:13:10,142 --> 00:13:12,982 Speaker 2: that were planted. The Russian media were there, which is 294 00:13:13,062 --> 00:13:15,862 Speaker 2: very interesting. And then the fact it fell apart in 295 00:13:15,902 --> 00:13:19,302 Speaker 2: such a spectacular fashion, it just feels and we shouldn't 296 00:13:19,302 --> 00:13:22,302 Speaker 2: be shocked. It's not a surprise that Trump behaves this way, 297 00:13:22,342 --> 00:13:24,702 Speaker 2: but it still is shocking every single time. 298 00:13:24,742 --> 00:13:26,382 Speaker 1: To me, it's surprising, but it's shocking. 299 00:13:26,662 --> 00:13:29,422 Speaker 3: Yeah, I found it shocking because not in the history 300 00:13:29,422 --> 00:13:31,742 Speaker 3: of Western democracy have we ever seen a moment like this. 301 00:13:31,822 --> 00:13:36,422 Speaker 3: We have never seen a moment of brazen cruelty towards 302 00:13:37,022 --> 00:13:39,262 Speaker 3: human beings like this. I have no doubt that meetings 303 00:13:39,302 --> 00:13:42,782 Speaker 3: like that have happened. They've just happened behind closed doors. 304 00:13:43,142 --> 00:13:45,062 Speaker 1: And the humiliation was, man, it was. 305 00:13:44,982 --> 00:13:48,302 Speaker 4: The ganging up of Trump and Vance, and. 306 00:13:48,222 --> 00:13:52,702 Speaker 3: It was the tactics of trying to embarrass him. I 307 00:13:52,702 --> 00:13:55,582 Speaker 3: know it's an overused word, but gaslight him into saying 308 00:13:55,622 --> 00:13:57,822 Speaker 3: things like you're a dictator and you started the war 309 00:13:57,862 --> 00:14:00,862 Speaker 3: where you just kind of go, oh, we know there's misinformation, 310 00:14:00,942 --> 00:14:03,542 Speaker 3: but you're saying it to his face when he's wearing 311 00:14:03,542 --> 00:14:07,102 Speaker 3: his military attire, because you know he is so in 312 00:14:07,142 --> 00:14:11,142 Speaker 3: this war. He has been someone who Ukraine has really 313 00:14:11,622 --> 00:14:14,182 Speaker 3: rallied around an adible yes. 314 00:14:14,062 --> 00:14:17,222 Speaker 1: In the face of an unspeakable attack by Russia. 315 00:14:16,862 --> 00:14:18,222 Speaker 4: And that's just the truth. 316 00:14:18,262 --> 00:14:20,982 Speaker 3: So to see that disrespect, the making fun of him, 317 00:14:21,102 --> 00:14:24,182 Speaker 3: and maybe we expected Trump to be the bully It 318 00:14:24,302 --> 00:14:27,902 Speaker 3: was the Vance that threw me, which is that Trump 319 00:14:27,982 --> 00:14:30,302 Speaker 3: can say things that don't fully make sense, that are 320 00:14:30,342 --> 00:14:34,902 Speaker 3: just mean and school yard bullying. But Vance, in attempting 321 00:14:34,942 --> 00:14:39,902 Speaker 3: to intellectualize and almost translate Trump in a more political 322 00:14:40,022 --> 00:14:42,662 Speaker 3: palatable way, was scarier to me. 323 00:14:42,942 --> 00:14:45,582 Speaker 1: You know why he was doing that in my mind 324 00:14:45,902 --> 00:14:48,982 Speaker 1: is that the most important thing to Trump is this 325 00:14:49,262 --> 00:14:53,822 Speaker 1: much is mo this alpha male dick swingy aggressive energy, 326 00:14:54,422 --> 00:14:58,462 Speaker 1: and Elon's been bringing that and we haven't heard much 327 00:14:58,462 --> 00:15:02,942 Speaker 1: from Vance, and Trump really thrives and encourages pitning people 328 00:15:02,982 --> 00:15:03,742 Speaker 1: against each other. 329 00:15:04,022 --> 00:15:06,222 Speaker 3: You know why the temperature rose too, I think is 330 00:15:06,222 --> 00:15:10,342 Speaker 3: that we forget that Zelenski is a TV guide. That's 331 00:15:10,382 --> 00:15:14,302 Speaker 3: Zelenski's background. He was a comedian, he was in movies, 332 00:15:14,342 --> 00:15:17,462 Speaker 3: he was a TV producer, so he understood the cameras too, 333 00:15:17,822 --> 00:15:20,542 Speaker 3: and I think that that was part of the theater 334 00:15:20,702 --> 00:15:21,342 Speaker 3: of the whole thing. 335 00:15:21,422 --> 00:15:23,822 Speaker 1: It was this It was such a power imbalance. 336 00:15:23,942 --> 00:15:28,582 Speaker 2: Oh, I actually expected that that was an ambush. I 337 00:15:28,622 --> 00:15:31,182 Speaker 2: think also the question of why did people get so 338 00:15:31,262 --> 00:15:34,422 Speaker 2: upset about it too? And I know even as I 339 00:15:34,462 --> 00:15:36,542 Speaker 2: say this, right, I know that it means that in 340 00:15:36,542 --> 00:15:38,982 Speaker 2: a way I've lost in inverted commas because we keep 341 00:15:38,982 --> 00:15:41,062 Speaker 2: talking about this about how what Trump likes to do 342 00:15:41,102 --> 00:15:43,302 Speaker 2: is set people's hair on fire. And I've been trying 343 00:15:43,342 --> 00:15:46,502 Speaker 2: to put my hair out, as you know, but this 344 00:15:46,702 --> 00:15:49,622 Speaker 2: was a full hair on fire moment. Because I think 345 00:15:49,662 --> 00:15:52,382 Speaker 2: that existentially, and again I know that means you've lost, 346 00:15:52,382 --> 00:15:54,462 Speaker 2: because you should be looking at what's right in front 347 00:15:54,462 --> 00:15:56,222 Speaker 2: of you and not thinking, oh my god, what does 348 00:15:56,262 --> 00:15:58,062 Speaker 2: it say about the world. Everything's going to heel in 349 00:15:58,062 --> 00:16:01,502 Speaker 2: a handbasket? Is it's that view of masculinity that you're 350 00:16:01,542 --> 00:16:04,742 Speaker 2: talking about, these two big rusting I mean, there is 351 00:16:04,822 --> 00:16:07,502 Speaker 2: no question that to many people, Zelenski, whether you know, 352 00:16:07,702 --> 00:16:11,302 Speaker 2: irrespective of the detailed politics, this represents a certain kind 353 00:16:11,342 --> 00:16:15,022 Speaker 2: of unquestionable bravery and a version of masculinity. You know, 354 00:16:15,062 --> 00:16:19,142 Speaker 2: no question. But these guys, it's just like the school 355 00:16:19,222 --> 00:16:21,542 Speaker 2: yard bully. And I think for a lot of people, 356 00:16:21,582 --> 00:16:24,222 Speaker 2: you look at it and I know that's an overused cliche, 357 00:16:24,302 --> 00:16:27,222 Speaker 2: but it's true. It's like the bullies are so firmly 358 00:16:27,302 --> 00:16:29,422 Speaker 2: in charge now, the ones who go, well, I am, 359 00:16:29,462 --> 00:16:31,502 Speaker 2: but what about you? And what do you even look like? 360 00:16:31,542 --> 00:16:33,302 Speaker 2: I'm not even doing here? And did you even say 361 00:16:33,342 --> 00:16:35,262 Speaker 2: thank you? And Zelenski said thank you? As one of 362 00:16:35,302 --> 00:16:37,462 Speaker 2: the first words he said, No, you didn't. You didn't 363 00:16:37,462 --> 00:16:37,742 Speaker 2: say that. 364 00:16:37,782 --> 00:16:39,822 Speaker 1: I did, you didn't we and I thank the American 365 00:16:39,862 --> 00:16:42,582 Speaker 1: people of what we can all almost the reality that 366 00:16:42,622 --> 00:16:43,422 Speaker 1: I'm not saying I. 367 00:16:43,422 --> 00:16:47,102 Speaker 2: Relate to Vladimir Zelensky's position, but we've all been there 368 00:16:47,182 --> 00:16:49,382 Speaker 2: with the kind of bully who'll use your words against you, 369 00:16:49,422 --> 00:16:53,302 Speaker 2: twist what you say, pick it at certain insecurities, and 370 00:16:53,662 --> 00:16:56,542 Speaker 2: that feels primal in a lot of ways. And one 371 00:16:56,582 --> 00:16:59,262 Speaker 2: of the big challenges of this moment in the world 372 00:16:59,302 --> 00:17:01,302 Speaker 2: is to try not to let that feel that way, 373 00:17:01,342 --> 00:17:02,062 Speaker 2: but it just does. 374 00:17:02,182 --> 00:17:02,302 Speaker 5: Well. 375 00:17:02,302 --> 00:17:05,942 Speaker 1: The good news is that world leaders, including Anthony Albanezi, 376 00:17:06,022 --> 00:17:08,702 Speaker 1: have all come out in support of Zelensky and said 377 00:17:08,742 --> 00:17:10,782 Speaker 1: that they are Team Ukraine. 378 00:17:11,262 --> 00:17:11,662 Speaker 2: Essentially. 379 00:17:11,662 --> 00:17:13,821 Speaker 1: It could we argue that that's what Trump wanted, That's 380 00:17:13,901 --> 00:17:14,821 Speaker 1: what he was trying to say. 381 00:17:14,942 --> 00:17:19,101 Speaker 2: San Bush may well be strategic. He did really really 382 00:17:19,101 --> 00:17:21,022 Speaker 2: want to go and meet the king Trump did, and 383 00:17:21,222 --> 00:17:23,462 Speaker 2: he got an invite last week from Kirstam. He said, 384 00:17:23,502 --> 00:17:25,381 Speaker 2: you can come and meet the King, and Trump's like, yes, 385 00:17:25,502 --> 00:17:29,701 Speaker 2: state visit crowns and parades everything, and then yesterday or 386 00:17:29,742 --> 00:17:31,862 Speaker 2: just this morning's Lenski got to go and meet the King. 387 00:17:31,942 --> 00:17:33,581 Speaker 2: Did he put a suit on? No, we didn't. 388 00:17:33,782 --> 00:17:37,581 Speaker 3: I spent Saturday night with someone who saw this video 389 00:17:37,782 --> 00:17:40,622 Speaker 3: very differently. It reminded me that we can think it's 390 00:17:40,661 --> 00:17:43,502 Speaker 3: one note and we're all watching one thing. But this 391 00:17:43,581 --> 00:17:47,581 Speaker 3: person was saying, if you work in a corporate job, 392 00:17:48,061 --> 00:17:50,621 Speaker 3: or not even corporate, if you work at a workplace 393 00:17:50,621 --> 00:17:53,581 Speaker 3: where you feel like all the important conversations happened behind 394 00:17:53,621 --> 00:17:57,422 Speaker 3: closed doors, they're not communicated to you very clearly. You 395 00:17:57,542 --> 00:17:59,581 Speaker 3: just have to go along. You feel powerless, you just 396 00:17:59,661 --> 00:18:02,622 Speaker 3: go along with whatever you're told. Then there was something 397 00:18:03,182 --> 00:18:07,622 Speaker 3: so refreshing to this person about seeing Trump go I'm 398 00:18:07,661 --> 00:18:10,542 Speaker 3: going to have this or authentic And I put that 399 00:18:10,581 --> 00:18:13,302 Speaker 3: in because I don't think it was authentic. But this 400 00:18:13,381 --> 00:18:15,621 Speaker 3: conversation out in the open. You've got things like the 401 00:18:15,702 --> 00:18:19,742 Speaker 3: Vietnam War, which were these confected, almost made up conflicts 402 00:18:19,742 --> 00:18:22,982 Speaker 3: that happened behind closed doors. And for Trump to sit 403 00:18:23,061 --> 00:18:26,222 Speaker 3: there and say we're giving you hundreds of millions of 404 00:18:26,262 --> 00:18:28,461 Speaker 3: dollars and almost wag his finger. 405 00:18:28,661 --> 00:18:30,141 Speaker 4: I mean, there is a part of a lot of 406 00:18:30,141 --> 00:18:31,181 Speaker 4: people that thinks. 407 00:18:30,901 --> 00:18:33,022 Speaker 3: If you just got me in a room with these 408 00:18:33,101 --> 00:18:35,421 Speaker 3: warring parties, then I'd be able to fix it. 409 00:18:35,542 --> 00:18:37,542 Speaker 4: I'd do real talk, yes, And it's. 410 00:18:37,381 --> 00:18:40,981 Speaker 3: Like this king complex of Trump coming in and being 411 00:18:41,101 --> 00:18:44,381 Speaker 3: like the big guy who sorts it out to a 412 00:18:44,422 --> 00:18:47,262 Speaker 3: certain portion of people. That was very, very appealing. And 413 00:18:47,302 --> 00:18:50,621 Speaker 3: it's like whatever was being done before, if this was 414 00:18:50,661 --> 00:18:53,941 Speaker 3: Biden in charge, then we know that it would have 415 00:18:53,982 --> 00:18:56,581 Speaker 3: happened behind closed doors would probably be really confused. 416 00:18:56,661 --> 00:18:58,542 Speaker 1: Biden would have forgotten his name in the press contract. 417 00:18:58,581 --> 00:19:02,302 Speaker 3: Well, and we were talking the other day they international 418 00:19:02,341 --> 00:19:07,622 Speaker 3: diplomacy is so complicated and so boring. Is I don't 419 00:19:07,661 --> 00:19:10,462 Speaker 3: think people are that anymorean to be people is in 420 00:19:10,502 --> 00:19:12,661 Speaker 3: a press conference. I see people in the left and 421 00:19:12,742 --> 00:19:16,022 Speaker 3: the right think that they can solve the most complicated 422 00:19:16,061 --> 00:19:19,421 Speaker 3: global conflict with a tile on Instagram. And that's what 423 00:19:19,462 --> 00:19:23,821 Speaker 3: this appeals to, is the sense that politics often makes 424 00:19:23,861 --> 00:19:27,261 Speaker 3: people feel really dumb, and Trump just made us all 425 00:19:27,302 --> 00:19:29,542 Speaker 3: feel really smart because he just sat there and went 426 00:19:29,742 --> 00:19:32,061 Speaker 3: it's this simple say thank you, we'll give you money. 427 00:19:32,182 --> 00:19:36,302 Speaker 1: He made it seem really easy and simple. And you're right, 428 00:19:36,422 --> 00:19:38,822 Speaker 1: whether it's the war in Gaza, the war in Ukraine, 429 00:19:39,581 --> 00:19:43,222 Speaker 1: there's a desire among a certain type of usually extreme 430 00:19:43,262 --> 00:19:46,262 Speaker 1: person who wants to make it seem very very simple 431 00:19:46,381 --> 00:19:48,262 Speaker 1: and rejects all nuance. 432 00:19:48,782 --> 00:19:51,302 Speaker 3: I mean interestingly, just with the suit thing, because not 433 00:19:51,341 --> 00:19:53,341 Speaker 3: only does Elon Musk not wear a suit to the 434 00:19:53,381 --> 00:19:55,942 Speaker 3: White House talk about a lack of respect, but Winston 435 00:19:56,022 --> 00:19:58,861 Speaker 3: church Hill during World War II showed up to the 436 00:19:58,861 --> 00:20:01,542 Speaker 3: White House and didn't wear a suit because he was 437 00:20:01,581 --> 00:20:05,101 Speaker 3: representing the fact that his country was at war. And ironically, 438 00:20:05,141 --> 00:20:07,462 Speaker 3: if you look at this video, the bust of Winston 439 00:20:07,542 --> 00:20:10,381 Speaker 3: church Hill is looking over this entire convase. It's like, 440 00:20:10,982 --> 00:20:14,741 Speaker 3: not only is their ignorance of facts and history, but 441 00:20:14,821 --> 00:20:17,701 Speaker 3: it was like for the Trump and the Vance, it 442 00:20:17,742 --> 00:20:20,741 Speaker 3: was a conversation devoid of any values, Like this is 443 00:20:20,782 --> 00:20:23,222 Speaker 3: how simple things can be if we just take values 444 00:20:23,222 --> 00:20:26,742 Speaker 3: out of it. In a moment, I'm ready to speak 445 00:20:26,782 --> 00:20:28,861 Speaker 3: my truth and Mayor is refusing to listen. 446 00:20:34,542 --> 00:20:37,462 Speaker 2: Feedback is a gift from both the perspective of a 447 00:20:37,542 --> 00:20:41,862 Speaker 2: giver as well as the recipient. I have some feedback 448 00:20:41,901 --> 00:20:44,901 Speaker 2: for gardening. Okay, oh thank god. I know. I know 449 00:20:44,982 --> 00:20:46,862 Speaker 2: you've been waiting for it, right, I know. And this 450 00:20:46,942 --> 00:20:51,542 Speaker 2: is my truth. Friends, Gardening is trying to be sexy 451 00:20:52,022 --> 00:20:55,821 Speaker 2: and it's not okay, and it's pissing me off this weekend. 452 00:20:55,942 --> 00:20:57,902 Speaker 2: So first, of all I'm dealing with and we'll talk 453 00:20:57,901 --> 00:21:00,102 Speaker 2: about it later in the week. But Megan, you. 454 00:21:00,061 --> 00:21:03,581 Speaker 1: Know, dealing with me, my princess, the princess. 455 00:21:03,262 --> 00:21:06,101 Speaker 2: Of my heart. Megan posted a lot of gardening content 456 00:21:06,222 --> 00:21:08,421 Speaker 2: last week, like she's like Scott Morrison, she doesn't know 457 00:21:08,462 --> 00:21:08,941 Speaker 2: how to hold up. 458 00:21:08,982 --> 00:21:10,542 Speaker 4: I saw a lot of out loud as saying you've 459 00:21:10,581 --> 00:21:11,502 Speaker 4: got the setting wrong. 460 00:21:11,782 --> 00:21:14,022 Speaker 2: Well, that's what I said. Get yourself a sprayhead for 461 00:21:14,061 --> 00:21:16,101 Speaker 2: your host. Are there are only fifteen dollars? Like, just 462 00:21:16,182 --> 00:21:18,701 Speaker 2: do it anyway, that's not the point. She's looking picture 463 00:21:18,742 --> 00:21:21,022 Speaker 2: perfect while she skips around her garden with her basket. 464 00:21:21,182 --> 00:21:25,022 Speaker 2: Then Roxy Jasenko ups the Auntie. I've watched it. Why 465 00:21:25,022 --> 00:21:28,342 Speaker 2: did I do this again? I watched a video myself 466 00:21:28,381 --> 00:21:32,022 Speaker 2: harm of my Instagram yesterday of Roxy in a red 467 00:21:32,222 --> 00:21:35,861 Speaker 2: tiny bikini planting out a stand up herb garden. You 468 00:21:35,901 --> 00:21:38,182 Speaker 2: wouldn't know what that is. It's not important anyway, she's 469 00:21:38,222 --> 00:21:40,061 Speaker 2: doing it. She's planting, and I'm like. 470 00:21:40,141 --> 00:21:42,262 Speaker 1: The aware when you're planting hard, do you think? 471 00:21:42,381 --> 00:21:45,302 Speaker 2: And then we've got David Beckham. He's purring his way 472 00:21:45,341 --> 00:21:46,902 Speaker 2: through his potato crops like. 473 00:21:48,381 --> 00:21:49,742 Speaker 1: A bee is considered gardening. 474 00:21:49,861 --> 00:21:54,181 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're gardening adjacent. They're like, gardening's the gateway drug. 475 00:21:54,581 --> 00:21:57,022 Speaker 2: Bees is next, then we move on to chickens. That's 476 00:21:57,381 --> 00:21:58,061 Speaker 2: how it goes. 477 00:21:58,101 --> 00:22:00,502 Speaker 1: I feel like Harry and Meghan went straight to chickens. 478 00:22:00,542 --> 00:22:03,822 Speaker 1: There is nothing even a little bit sexy about gardening. 479 00:22:03,861 --> 00:22:05,542 Speaker 4: You shouldn't deal with bees in a bikini. 480 00:22:05,621 --> 00:22:09,821 Speaker 2: You should or get too close to pooh, which is 481 00:22:09,901 --> 00:22:12,621 Speaker 2: a very large feature of gardening. That's why it's not sexy. 482 00:22:12,661 --> 00:22:14,942 Speaker 2: It's dirty, it's smelly, it's sweaty, it smells of poo. 483 00:22:14,982 --> 00:22:17,821 Speaker 2: There are worms that are creepy crawleys, there's mold. You're 484 00:22:17,861 --> 00:22:20,742 Speaker 2: chopping things and slashing things, and you're wearing a really 485 00:22:20,782 --> 00:22:26,622 Speaker 2: bad hat. You're wearing sun protections, garden wrinkley, and no 486 00:22:26,661 --> 00:22:30,542 Speaker 2: one would cry about getting horseshit down their gardening clothes. 487 00:22:30,942 --> 00:22:33,782 Speaker 2: If you're wearing a red bikini, that's a problem. Stop 488 00:22:33,821 --> 00:22:35,741 Speaker 2: trying to be sexy gardening. I'm not having it. 489 00:22:37,381 --> 00:22:40,702 Speaker 4: I want to share my truth with you both today. Meya. 490 00:22:40,861 --> 00:22:43,061 Speaker 3: When we prepare for this podcast, you think it's best 491 00:22:43,061 --> 00:22:45,661 Speaker 3: that we all sit together, mostly so you have people 492 00:22:45,661 --> 00:22:49,141 Speaker 3: to talk to, like a chatty high school child who 493 00:22:49,222 --> 00:22:51,542 Speaker 3: when you're caught you just say I was asking a 494 00:22:51,621 --> 00:22:53,821 Speaker 3: question about the homework, but you weren't. 495 00:22:53,861 --> 00:22:54,341 Speaker 2: What were you? 496 00:22:54,341 --> 00:22:54,862 Speaker 4: You never were? 497 00:22:55,182 --> 00:22:57,581 Speaker 3: You were showing them a picture of an Oscar's dress, 498 00:22:57,982 --> 00:23:00,142 Speaker 3: and that is distracting the rest of the class, which 499 00:23:00,222 --> 00:23:02,941 Speaker 3: is Holly and I and everyone else. My truth is 500 00:23:02,942 --> 00:23:05,821 Speaker 3: that I hate preparing within ten meters of you because 501 00:23:05,861 --> 00:23:07,341 Speaker 3: I prefer to focus. 502 00:23:07,782 --> 00:23:08,941 Speaker 4: Do you respect my truth? 503 00:23:09,621 --> 00:23:11,181 Speaker 1: My truth is that I just want to be near 504 00:23:11,222 --> 00:23:11,821 Speaker 1: you at all time. 505 00:23:11,861 --> 00:23:13,821 Speaker 4: I know both of you, I know all of you. 506 00:23:14,022 --> 00:23:15,581 Speaker 3: And this is what our manager has to do with 507 00:23:15,982 --> 00:23:17,862 Speaker 3: is us going. Our truths are different, and I want 508 00:23:17,901 --> 00:23:19,982 Speaker 3: me to leave me alone. I wanted to talk about 509 00:23:19,982 --> 00:23:22,022 Speaker 3: my truth today because of a column that came out 510 00:23:22,022 --> 00:23:24,941 Speaker 3: over the weekend by Cherry Gilmour in the Sydney Morning Herald. 511 00:23:25,422 --> 00:23:28,341 Speaker 3: She writes that she is sick of other people's truths 512 00:23:28,422 --> 00:23:31,702 Speaker 3: because it's a catch all for someone's interpretation of events, 513 00:23:32,022 --> 00:23:34,542 Speaker 3: and usually it's an excuse for poor behavior. 514 00:23:34,661 --> 00:23:36,661 Speaker 1: My truth is that we prepare better when we're in 515 00:23:36,702 --> 00:23:39,141 Speaker 1: a group. That's my truth. I'm just speaking my truth. 516 00:23:39,462 --> 00:23:40,821 Speaker 4: When there's two different truth. 517 00:23:40,661 --> 00:23:43,821 Speaker 2: Truth, that's not my truth. I'm definitely prepared, but it's 518 00:23:43,901 --> 00:23:44,542 Speaker 2: my truth. 519 00:23:45,222 --> 00:23:47,341 Speaker 3: I mean, we say two things can be true, except 520 00:23:47,341 --> 00:23:50,061 Speaker 3: when there's three of us and we have a tiebreaker, 521 00:23:50,101 --> 00:23:50,661 Speaker 3: which is holly. 522 00:23:51,061 --> 00:23:53,262 Speaker 2: You know what's funny, Jesse, though, actually, just on this 523 00:23:53,341 --> 00:23:55,381 Speaker 2: is that I've been because I'm more of a people 524 00:23:55,381 --> 00:23:57,462 Speaker 2: pleaser than you. I've been going to sit near me 525 00:23:57,621 --> 00:23:59,862 Speaker 2: because I know she likes it, and she tries so 526 00:23:59,901 --> 00:24:01,782 Speaker 2: hard not to say the thing. It's like she's like 527 00:24:01,821 --> 00:24:05,341 Speaker 2: a child. She's like, I'm gonna put'n be really really quiet, 528 00:24:05,381 --> 00:24:06,022 Speaker 2: and then she's. 529 00:24:05,861 --> 00:24:11,581 Speaker 1: Like, God, my truth was that I was very noisy 530 00:24:11,581 --> 00:24:13,901 Speaker 1: today while we were watching the Red Carpet pretending to 531 00:24:13,942 --> 00:24:15,422 Speaker 1: prepare apologies, Jesse. 532 00:24:15,302 --> 00:24:16,022 Speaker 2: Please continue. 533 00:24:16,061 --> 00:24:18,181 Speaker 3: My case in point is married at first Sight. It 534 00:24:18,262 --> 00:24:21,462 Speaker 3: is a thrown around phrase on Australia's biggest reality show, 535 00:24:21,581 --> 00:24:23,901 Speaker 3: with participant re arguing if. 536 00:24:23,742 --> 00:24:26,421 Speaker 1: You are feeling a certain way about somebody, I feel 537 00:24:26,422 --> 00:24:28,902 Speaker 1: like it's better to speak your truth than hold it in. 538 00:24:29,621 --> 00:24:31,902 Speaker 3: You have a lot in common with Remap and that's 539 00:24:31,942 --> 00:24:34,502 Speaker 3: why she writes long letters about her feelings. And also 540 00:24:34,742 --> 00:24:37,182 Speaker 3: she was happy to rank the hotness of other participants, 541 00:24:37,942 --> 00:24:40,461 Speaker 3: even if it might hurt her fake husband. If you 542 00:24:40,542 --> 00:24:43,782 Speaker 3: rewatch Belle gibson sixty minutes interview, she spoke a lot 543 00:24:43,861 --> 00:24:46,221 Speaker 3: about her reality and her truth, and that made it 544 00:24:46,341 --> 00:24:48,421 Speaker 3: impossible for her to know her age or if she 545 00:24:48,462 --> 00:24:52,581 Speaker 3: had brain cancer. Oprah Winfrey praised Megan Markle for speaking 546 00:24:52,581 --> 00:24:55,701 Speaker 3: her truth in that famous twenty twenty one interview. My 547 00:24:55,861 --> 00:24:59,901 Speaker 3: question is is my truth different to the truth? 548 00:25:00,061 --> 00:25:02,142 Speaker 1: Well, clearly, because the truth is that we prepare better 549 00:25:02,141 --> 00:25:05,221 Speaker 1: as a group, That is the truth. I think it's 550 00:25:05,341 --> 00:25:08,861 Speaker 1: so interesting. I loved this piece because when you say 551 00:25:09,141 --> 00:25:12,701 Speaker 1: I'm speaking my truth, it's a real He's ruined the 552 00:25:12,742 --> 00:25:16,022 Speaker 1: term trump card, but it's a real trump card because 553 00:25:16,702 --> 00:25:20,821 Speaker 1: it's basically claiming ownership of the truth when you say 554 00:25:20,901 --> 00:25:23,821 Speaker 1: my truth, and what you actually just mean is here's 555 00:25:23,821 --> 00:25:27,741 Speaker 1: my opinion, here's what I think, here's my perspective. The 556 00:25:27,782 --> 00:25:32,181 Speaker 1: word truth used to have an objective meaning, but my 557 00:25:32,381 --> 00:25:35,902 Speaker 1: truth is purely subjective. It's not only a flaw. That's 558 00:25:35,942 --> 00:25:39,101 Speaker 1: the feature of it is that it's purely subjective, but 559 00:25:39,222 --> 00:25:41,941 Speaker 1: it has a lot of ownership over the ideas. 560 00:25:41,942 --> 00:25:44,901 Speaker 3: So what's the factually correct definition of truth? Is it 561 00:25:44,982 --> 00:25:47,662 Speaker 3: means something that is in accordance with fact or reality. 562 00:25:47,702 --> 00:25:50,222 Speaker 3: So it can something just be in accordance with your reality? 563 00:25:50,702 --> 00:25:53,262 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it can, because I think I can't 564 00:25:53,302 --> 00:25:56,782 Speaker 2: believe I'm going to defend speaking my truth because it 565 00:25:56,901 --> 00:25:59,661 Speaker 2: is one of my bugbears, especially on reality TV, when 566 00:25:59,742 --> 00:26:03,422 Speaker 2: it is always used as a precursor to something really, 567 00:26:03,581 --> 00:26:04,302 Speaker 2: really awful. 568 00:26:04,381 --> 00:26:05,262 Speaker 1: It's like a disclaimer. 569 00:26:05,341 --> 00:26:08,342 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a disclaimer. It's like, with all due respect, 570 00:26:08,341 --> 00:26:10,302 Speaker 2: and then you're the worst piece of shit I've ever 571 00:26:10,621 --> 00:26:11,341 Speaker 2: that's just my truth. 572 00:26:11,381 --> 00:26:12,421 Speaker 1: Well, I'm just being honest. 573 00:26:12,502 --> 00:26:14,861 Speaker 2: But I have to say there are many things that 574 00:26:14,901 --> 00:26:16,982 Speaker 2: are empirically true or not, but then there's a lot 575 00:26:16,982 --> 00:26:19,181 Speaker 2: of hazy shit that who knows if it's true or not. 576 00:26:19,341 --> 00:26:21,101 Speaker 2: And I have my truth and you have yours. So 577 00:26:21,502 --> 00:26:24,861 Speaker 2: relationship breakdowns are a classic example of this. Your friends 578 00:26:24,901 --> 00:26:27,821 Speaker 2: are getting divorced. She has a truth of what happened 579 00:26:27,821 --> 00:26:30,141 Speaker 2: in that relationship. He has a truth of what happened 580 00:26:30,182 --> 00:26:33,141 Speaker 2: in that relationship. What's the truth too? Things there isn't true, 581 00:26:33,381 --> 00:26:35,782 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? There isn't a truth because 582 00:26:36,101 --> 00:26:38,381 Speaker 2: I mean, obviously there has to be an established truth 583 00:26:38,422 --> 00:26:41,141 Speaker 2: made if then in court, if we're agreeing custody are 584 00:26:41,182 --> 00:26:45,742 Speaker 2: something complicated, but generally about why something very human between 585 00:26:45,782 --> 00:26:48,742 Speaker 2: two messy humans falls apart. There isn't a truth. There's 586 00:26:48,782 --> 00:26:52,381 Speaker 2: only the truths of the people involved. So how something 587 00:26:52,462 --> 00:26:56,421 Speaker 2: makes me feel is my truth if it can't be 588 00:26:56,462 --> 00:26:58,182 Speaker 2: empirically proven by anybody else. 589 00:26:58,422 --> 00:27:02,061 Speaker 3: What's interesting is that this like it's been described as psychobabble, 590 00:27:02,101 --> 00:27:03,702 Speaker 3: the idea that you could sit there, and it's really 591 00:27:03,702 --> 00:27:06,701 Speaker 3: been popularized by Oprah. She's often talked about, you know, 592 00:27:06,901 --> 00:27:09,101 Speaker 3: I'm gonna let you speak your truth, which I wonder 593 00:27:09,302 --> 00:27:13,341 Speaker 3: see if that defends a little bit against defamation, because 594 00:27:13,341 --> 00:27:15,861 Speaker 3: if you're just telling your truth, then maybe you can't 595 00:27:15,861 --> 00:27:18,782 Speaker 3: be sued by the royal family who are like that 596 00:27:18,942 --> 00:27:22,782 Speaker 3: technically didn't happen. But the fact that psychobabble is funny 597 00:27:22,782 --> 00:27:26,222 Speaker 3: because it's almost in direct opposition to what psychologists often do, 598 00:27:26,782 --> 00:27:28,861 Speaker 3: which is, if you sit there and you say this 599 00:27:29,022 --> 00:27:31,462 Speaker 3: is my truth, they. 600 00:27:31,381 --> 00:27:33,661 Speaker 1: Will anxious because everyone at work hates me. 601 00:27:33,821 --> 00:27:36,662 Speaker 3: Yes, they don't, go, okay, let's deal with the fact 602 00:27:36,702 --> 00:27:39,141 Speaker 3: everyone at work hates that's your truth. They challenge the 603 00:27:39,222 --> 00:27:45,462 Speaker 3: truth because our truths should be movable and malieable, and 604 00:27:45,542 --> 00:27:47,662 Speaker 3: we should hold them up to the light and see 605 00:27:47,661 --> 00:27:51,101 Speaker 3: if they're actually in accordance with facts and reality. But 606 00:27:51,341 --> 00:27:54,302 Speaker 3: when we say my truth, it's almost like we want 607 00:27:54,302 --> 00:27:56,701 Speaker 3: it set in stone and we hold it as this 608 00:27:56,782 --> 00:27:59,741 Speaker 3: thing that we own that you can't take away from me. 609 00:27:59,982 --> 00:28:00,942 Speaker 1: I think it's a power move. 610 00:28:01,341 --> 00:28:03,782 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like our stories are never changing, even though 611 00:28:03,982 --> 00:28:05,662 Speaker 3: they're constantly changing. 612 00:28:05,742 --> 00:28:08,901 Speaker 2: I also think that just dismissing it is a move 613 00:28:08,982 --> 00:28:11,622 Speaker 2: that bullies use because you know, often it'll be when 614 00:28:11,621 --> 00:28:13,661 Speaker 2: you say, I know that person was trying to insult me. No, 615 00:28:13,742 --> 00:28:15,902 Speaker 2: they weren't. Of course they weren't. It's like, yes, they were. 616 00:28:15,982 --> 00:28:19,782 Speaker 3: So that is there's an argument that actually, my truth 617 00:28:20,101 --> 00:28:24,341 Speaker 3: is what activism is all about. It's rooted in individuals 618 00:28:24,821 --> 00:28:27,221 Speaker 3: telling their story that. For example, if you look at 619 00:28:27,262 --> 00:28:30,502 Speaker 3: the Me Too movement, is that not just my truth? 620 00:28:30,982 --> 00:28:31,982 Speaker 2: Like the large part of it is. 621 00:28:32,022 --> 00:28:34,061 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sure if Harvey Weinstein would say his 622 00:28:34,101 --> 00:28:34,821 Speaker 1: truth was different. 623 00:28:34,861 --> 00:28:36,861 Speaker 2: I'm sure that the DJ put his hand on Taylor 624 00:28:36,901 --> 00:28:39,782 Speaker 2: Swift's ass, His truth is that he just needed somewhere 625 00:28:39,782 --> 00:28:42,421 Speaker 2: to rest his hand. Her truth is you're groping me. 626 00:28:42,502 --> 00:28:44,941 Speaker 2: Because I have a whole lot of experience in my 627 00:28:45,022 --> 00:28:48,461 Speaker 2: life that tells me when men accidentally touch you. So 628 00:28:48,742 --> 00:28:53,182 Speaker 2: sometimes dismissing people's truths is a way of dismissing inconvenient 629 00:28:53,262 --> 00:28:54,622 Speaker 2: feelings to your narrative. 630 00:28:54,902 --> 00:28:57,342 Speaker 4: You know what I find interesting is have you guys 631 00:28:57,382 --> 00:29:00,622 Speaker 4: heard of truth Social the new platform. 632 00:29:00,102 --> 00:29:01,302 Speaker 2: That's where Donald Trump lives. 633 00:29:01,422 --> 00:29:03,462 Speaker 4: Yes, that's where Donald Trump leeves is we need to 634 00:29:03,502 --> 00:29:04,542 Speaker 4: ban him from the situation. 635 00:29:04,542 --> 00:29:06,302 Speaker 1: And do you know what, instead of calling them tweets, 636 00:29:06,302 --> 00:29:09,022 Speaker 1: they're called truths. Like when you make a post on 637 00:29:09,022 --> 00:29:11,942 Speaker 1: truth Social, they're called truth, which is terrifying. 638 00:29:12,142 --> 00:29:15,181 Speaker 3: I think that is very severely, very clever, that the 639 00:29:15,342 --> 00:29:19,382 Speaker 3: new social media platform that people use. And I saw 640 00:29:19,982 --> 00:29:22,501 Speaker 3: someone I know do this recently. She shared something that 641 00:29:22,582 --> 00:29:26,142 Speaker 3: was blatant misinformation and then said to all her followers, 642 00:29:26,382 --> 00:29:29,222 Speaker 3: that's just my truth. And I think that it's now 643 00:29:29,302 --> 00:29:32,981 Speaker 3: being used as defending really unpopular. 644 00:29:32,582 --> 00:29:33,062 Speaker 2: You gave that. 645 00:29:33,142 --> 00:29:35,902 Speaker 1: You gave that example before when Tara Brown asked Bell Gibson, 646 00:29:36,742 --> 00:29:38,941 Speaker 1: were you lying and she said no, because that was 647 00:29:39,022 --> 00:29:42,421 Speaker 1: my truth. I believed I had cancer, so that was 648 00:29:42,502 --> 00:29:45,822 Speaker 1: my truth. And it's one of those things that's very 649 00:29:45,822 --> 00:29:49,342 Speaker 1: manipulative because you can't argue with it when someone says 650 00:29:49,942 --> 00:29:53,421 Speaker 1: that's my truth. You can't deny that it is their truth. 651 00:29:53,502 --> 00:29:55,782 Speaker 1: But what I think they're using it as a proxy 652 00:29:55,862 --> 00:29:59,102 Speaker 1: for is that is the truth as you said earlier, 653 00:29:59,102 --> 00:30:01,582 Speaker 1: which is it's almost like I'm going to weeh on 654 00:30:01,622 --> 00:30:04,941 Speaker 1: the tree of the truth and claim it as my 655 00:30:05,062 --> 00:30:06,981 Speaker 1: own by calling it my truth. 656 00:30:07,542 --> 00:30:10,342 Speaker 2: It's Oscar's Day and we've got a breakdown the controversies 657 00:30:10,382 --> 00:30:11,982 Speaker 2: that didn't even make the Red Carpet. 658 00:30:12,862 --> 00:30:16,102 Speaker 3: Every Tuesday and Thursday we drop new segments of Mummy 659 00:30:16,102 --> 00:30:19,662 Speaker 3: Are Out Loud just for MUMMYA subscribers. Follow the link 660 00:30:19,702 --> 00:30:21,782 Speaker 3: in the show notes to get your daily Joseph out 661 00:30:21,782 --> 00:30:26,422 Speaker 3: Loud And a big thank you to all our current subscribers. 662 00:30:31,902 --> 00:30:35,102 Speaker 5: For such a prestigious night. It's important that everyone is 663 00:30:35,262 --> 00:30:40,062 Speaker 5: properly dressed. Okay, Adam, go there, Adam, what are you wearing? 664 00:30:40,661 --> 00:30:43,142 Speaker 3: Nobody even thought about what I was wearing you and 665 00:30:43,182 --> 00:30:43,902 Speaker 3: brought it up. 666 00:30:46,062 --> 00:30:49,662 Speaker 5: You're dressed like a guy playing video poker at two am, Adam. 667 00:30:49,342 --> 00:30:51,582 Speaker 1: And you know what, God, I like the way I 668 00:30:51,622 --> 00:30:53,461 Speaker 1: look cuts. I'm a good person. 669 00:30:53,702 --> 00:30:56,102 Speaker 2: So my Timothy's and Lemon. Have you seen him? 670 00:30:56,302 --> 00:30:57,182 Speaker 4: I haven't seen him yet. 671 00:30:57,262 --> 00:30:59,902 Speaker 2: Night as we record this show today, the Red Carpet 672 00:30:59,902 --> 00:31:01,782 Speaker 2: has just finished, the ceremony has started. 673 00:31:01,902 --> 00:31:03,941 Speaker 1: Some of us know what people wearing the Red carpet 674 00:31:03,942 --> 00:31:05,941 Speaker 1: because we were doing our prep in front of the 675 00:31:05,982 --> 00:31:07,302 Speaker 1: TV together. 676 00:31:07,382 --> 00:31:12,582 Speaker 2: Wearing a glorious lemon suit is a sparkling sequin vision. 677 00:31:12,782 --> 00:31:13,382 Speaker 2: Isn't she Maya? 678 00:31:13,542 --> 00:31:15,102 Speaker 4: I saw Ariana. She looks like a doll. 679 00:31:15,302 --> 00:31:17,302 Speaker 1: I have very few notes for the red carpet. I 680 00:31:17,342 --> 00:31:19,142 Speaker 1: thought they're outstanding. We're going to be talking about it 681 00:31:19,142 --> 00:31:23,902 Speaker 1: more tomorrow, but it was really high quality this year. 682 00:31:24,102 --> 00:31:26,421 Speaker 2: If you care deeply about it proper, I'm going to 683 00:31:26,462 --> 00:31:27,982 Speaker 2: give me a fashion. 684 00:31:27,622 --> 00:31:30,822 Speaker 1: Free, honest fashion feedback from me and an Oscar deep 685 00:31:30,862 --> 00:31:32,182 Speaker 1: dive on our subscriber app. 686 00:31:32,582 --> 00:31:35,502 Speaker 2: But today we thought we'd bring you up to date 687 00:31:35,582 --> 00:31:38,942 Speaker 2: on some of the ding dongs behind that tasteful neutral backdrop, 688 00:31:39,142 --> 00:31:41,782 Speaker 2: in the form of the controversies that have threatened to 689 00:31:41,822 --> 00:31:44,661 Speaker 2: derail the Oscars this year before they even began. Who's 690 00:31:44,702 --> 00:31:45,782 Speaker 2: going first? Is it you? 691 00:31:46,182 --> 00:31:50,062 Speaker 1: Fred? Me? Now, this has probably been the biggest controversy, 692 00:31:50,302 --> 00:31:53,062 Speaker 1: not just of this Oscar season, but almost of any 693 00:31:53,142 --> 00:31:55,862 Speaker 1: Oscar season, not since Oscar's So White, when there was 694 00:31:55,942 --> 00:31:59,701 Speaker 1: that big pushback by people saying that too many of 695 00:31:59,742 --> 00:32:02,622 Speaker 1: the Oscar voters were white and that was causing a 696 00:32:02,702 --> 00:32:06,382 Speaker 1: complete lack of diversity in the nominees. That has since 697 00:32:06,422 --> 00:32:10,262 Speaker 1: been rectified. But this year it's a controversy that probably 698 00:32:10,342 --> 00:32:13,942 Speaker 1: rivals that one. Carlo Sophia Gascon is the first openly 699 00:32:14,182 --> 00:32:17,941 Speaker 1: transactress who was nominated for a lead acting oscar for 700 00:32:17,982 --> 00:32:22,782 Speaker 1: her role in Amelia Perez. She has faced significant backlash 701 00:32:22,822 --> 00:32:25,982 Speaker 1: and has pretty much blown up her entire campaign when 702 00:32:26,142 --> 00:32:31,622 Speaker 1: offensive tweets from twenty sixteen to twenty twenty four resurface 703 00:32:31,702 --> 00:32:34,822 Speaker 1: soon after she won the Golden Globe for Best Actress 704 00:32:34,822 --> 00:32:37,662 Speaker 1: in a Musical or Comedy. John eight years are bad tweets, 705 00:32:37,742 --> 00:32:40,582 Speaker 1: you don't know now. The idea of going through someone's past 706 00:32:40,582 --> 00:32:44,262 Speaker 1: tweets to discredit them, or embarrass them or disqualify them 707 00:32:44,262 --> 00:32:47,622 Speaker 1: from something is not new, and usually I'm not a 708 00:32:47,661 --> 00:32:50,102 Speaker 1: fan of that because I think we all want to 709 00:32:50,102 --> 00:32:53,421 Speaker 1: believe that people can grow and change. These tweets are 710 00:32:53,462 --> 00:32:57,542 Speaker 1: fairly recent. Twenty sixteen to twenty twenty four is the 711 00:32:57,582 --> 00:32:59,382 Speaker 1: time period we're talking about. 712 00:32:59,302 --> 00:33:02,181 Speaker 2: You mean, like the one where she said Islam is 713 00:33:02,222 --> 00:33:05,582 Speaker 2: becoming a hotbed of infection for humanity that urgently needs 714 00:33:05,582 --> 00:33:06,221 Speaker 2: to be cured. 715 00:33:06,382 --> 00:33:10,222 Speaker 1: That one plus on George Floyd in twenty twos, she said, 716 00:33:10,262 --> 00:33:12,662 Speaker 1: I really think that very few people ever cared about 717 00:33:12,702 --> 00:33:16,822 Speaker 1: George Floyd, a drug addict, swindler, and then back to 718 00:33:16,982 --> 00:33:19,941 Speaker 1: the Oscars So White campaign. She spoke about the twenty 719 00:33:19,942 --> 00:33:22,542 Speaker 1: twenty one Oscars, she said, I didn't know if I 720 00:33:22,702 --> 00:33:26,382 Speaker 1: was watching an Afro Korean festival, a Black Lives Matter demonstration, 721 00:33:27,102 --> 00:33:33,102 Speaker 1: or the Women's March. So while her nomination was heralded 722 00:33:33,102 --> 00:33:37,262 Speaker 1: by many as triumph for inclusion, the irony is that 723 00:33:37,342 --> 00:33:43,102 Speaker 1: these sort of homophobic, islamophobic, sexist, racist tweets did not 724 00:33:43,182 --> 00:33:45,461 Speaker 1: paint her in a very good light, and it brought 725 00:33:45,502 --> 00:33:48,742 Speaker 1: the whole campaign for her movie, which was a Netflix film, 726 00:33:48,982 --> 00:33:52,982 Speaker 1: into disrepute. She deactivated her ex account soon after, and 727 00:33:53,102 --> 00:33:56,862 Speaker 1: she went rogue. She organized her own interview on CNN 728 00:33:57,142 --> 00:34:01,021 Speaker 1: Espanol and it was an absolute car wreck. And at 729 00:34:01,062 --> 00:34:04,462 Speaker 1: that point Netflix basically said, we're not paying for your 730 00:34:04,542 --> 00:34:07,542 Speaker 1: awards show travel anymore. And it's very expensive because it's 731 00:34:07,582 --> 00:34:11,982 Speaker 1: been a very condensed, busy awards show season, and usually 732 00:34:12,062 --> 00:34:15,502 Speaker 1: the studio will pay for wardrobes, are stylis, tear and 733 00:34:15,502 --> 00:34:17,942 Speaker 1: makeup your travel, your accommodation, all of those things. So 734 00:34:18,181 --> 00:34:20,862 Speaker 1: she's been absent from a lot of the awards, including 735 00:34:20,902 --> 00:34:23,462 Speaker 1: the SAgs and some of the other award shows. 736 00:34:24,102 --> 00:34:25,102 Speaker 4: Was she there at the Oscars? 737 00:34:25,342 --> 00:34:28,542 Speaker 1: So she skipped the Red Carpet, and she did feature 738 00:34:28,582 --> 00:34:32,182 Speaker 1: in Conan O'Brien's opening monologue. He's what he said, Carlo 739 00:34:32,261 --> 00:34:45,022 Speaker 1: Sophia Gascon is here tonight and yeah, yeah, yeah. 740 00:34:41,142 --> 00:34:44,181 Speaker 5: And Carla, if you are going to tweet about the Oscars, 741 00:34:44,221 --> 00:34:47,382 Speaker 5: remember my name is Jimmy Kimmel. 742 00:34:48,982 --> 00:34:52,022 Speaker 1: So yeah. People are saying that that could bring down 743 00:34:52,382 --> 00:34:57,022 Speaker 1: Zoe Saldana's campaign for Best Supporting Actress, although now that 744 00:34:57,062 --> 00:34:58,781 Speaker 1: seems to be on lock. By the time you listen 745 00:34:58,822 --> 00:35:01,701 Speaker 1: to this will know she'll probably win Best Supporting. 746 00:35:01,582 --> 00:35:05,542 Speaker 3: I want to talk about the controversy around The Brutalist, 747 00:35:05,862 --> 00:35:08,822 Speaker 3: the movie with Adrian Brody and Felicity Jones. 748 00:35:11,022 --> 00:35:12,982 Speaker 2: It's amazing, Aval Hollie. 749 00:35:13,102 --> 00:35:14,261 Speaker 4: I don't want to say it, but I want to 750 00:35:14,302 --> 00:35:14,781 Speaker 4: have seen it. 751 00:35:14,982 --> 00:35:17,702 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right, it's like you want to have input it. Yeah. 752 00:35:17,741 --> 00:35:20,502 Speaker 3: The controversy around this started with an interview with the 753 00:35:20,502 --> 00:35:24,301 Speaker 3: Oscar nominated editor and he said in passing, Oh yeah, 754 00:35:24,342 --> 00:35:28,542 Speaker 3: we used a software company which specializes in AI voice 755 00:35:28,582 --> 00:35:32,622 Speaker 3: generating tech to make Adrian Brody and Felicity Jones sound 756 00:35:32,701 --> 00:35:35,821 Speaker 3: more authentic when they spoke Hungarian in the film, So 757 00:35:35,902 --> 00:35:38,861 Speaker 3: for context, most of the time they're speaking English with 758 00:35:38,902 --> 00:35:40,102 Speaker 3: a Hungarian accent. 759 00:35:40,181 --> 00:35:40,781 Speaker 4: That's all them. 760 00:35:41,062 --> 00:35:43,381 Speaker 3: But there are a few lines where they're speaking Hungarian, 761 00:35:43,661 --> 00:35:46,102 Speaker 3: and the aim of the film was we want it 762 00:35:46,142 --> 00:35:49,382 Speaker 3: to be that the most local Hungarian could not tell 763 00:35:49,422 --> 00:35:53,301 Speaker 3: that these are accents. The director has said that it 764 00:35:53,382 --> 00:35:59,661 Speaker 3: was only used on certain vowels. And interestingly, when you 765 00:35:59,701 --> 00:36:01,582 Speaker 3: think about other films that have been made, if you're 766 00:36:01,661 --> 00:36:05,341 Speaker 3: editing a film in post production, think about autocha. Right, 767 00:36:05,382 --> 00:36:06,382 Speaker 3: so there are actually. 768 00:36:06,181 --> 00:36:09,181 Speaker 1: Tools that tune for speaking another language. 769 00:36:09,261 --> 00:36:11,422 Speaker 4: Yes, AND's okay, okay. 770 00:36:11,502 --> 00:36:15,502 Speaker 3: And so this guy, David Jansco who's the editor, actually 771 00:36:15,542 --> 00:36:19,022 Speaker 3: put his voice into the AI generator because he's Hungarian 772 00:36:19,462 --> 00:36:22,382 Speaker 3: and had it inflect their tone. 773 00:36:22,502 --> 00:36:22,741 Speaker 2: Right. 774 00:36:23,302 --> 00:36:24,701 Speaker 3: They said, look, we could have done it with the 775 00:36:24,781 --> 00:36:27,382 Speaker 3: ordinary old software, but we had a limited budget was 776 00:36:27,422 --> 00:36:29,542 Speaker 3: only ten million dollars, and we didn't have a lot 777 00:36:29,542 --> 00:36:31,301 Speaker 3: of time, so we had to do it really really quickly. 778 00:36:31,342 --> 00:36:33,421 Speaker 3: It would still be in production if it wasn't for. 779 00:36:33,382 --> 00:36:35,701 Speaker 1: The He's going to be in so much trouble saying that, 780 00:36:35,822 --> 00:36:39,302 Speaker 1: exactly because these Oscars campaigns, they spend millions and millions 781 00:36:39,342 --> 00:36:43,421 Speaker 1: on them, their entire teams, and so that controversy. 782 00:36:43,462 --> 00:36:45,862 Speaker 2: I'd seen the headlines and I hadn't clear. I thought 783 00:36:45,942 --> 00:36:48,821 Speaker 2: that it was Ai had changed his voice throughout the 784 00:36:48,822 --> 00:36:52,181 Speaker 2: whole thing. That's not a big deal thing. Think it's 785 00:36:52,181 --> 00:36:54,502 Speaker 2: a tiny thing. I watched Conclave at the weekend. People 786 00:36:54,542 --> 00:36:56,821 Speaker 2: speak in so many different languages on that, and I'm 787 00:36:56,822 --> 00:36:57,822 Speaker 2: sure the same thing happened. 788 00:36:58,902 --> 00:37:01,342 Speaker 3: Question is, though, and this is what people have said, 789 00:37:02,062 --> 00:37:03,942 Speaker 3: Is it like performance enhancing drugs? 790 00:37:04,062 --> 00:37:05,062 Speaker 4: Is this like if. 791 00:37:04,942 --> 00:37:06,661 Speaker 1: I'm performance enhancing? 792 00:37:06,822 --> 00:37:10,341 Speaker 3: Actually, but that's I have to know that if I'm 793 00:37:10,422 --> 00:37:13,142 Speaker 3: judging the oscars? Do I have to know every time Ai, 794 00:37:13,781 --> 00:37:17,022 Speaker 3: what maybe changed your facial expression, maybe changed your accent 795 00:37:17,142 --> 00:37:17,582 Speaker 3: a little bit? 796 00:37:17,622 --> 00:37:20,341 Speaker 2: That is a very interesting question. Jesse Stevens. I will 797 00:37:20,382 --> 00:37:22,582 Speaker 2: I will allow that that is a very interesting question 798 00:37:22,622 --> 00:37:24,982 Speaker 2: because it's probably only going to get more and more common, 799 00:37:25,022 --> 00:37:27,422 Speaker 2: isn't it as we go on. Actors have always prided 800 00:37:27,462 --> 00:37:29,981 Speaker 2: themselves on can I do the accent? And that's the thing, 801 00:37:30,261 --> 00:37:32,622 Speaker 2: But can I do the accent while speaking in a 802 00:37:32,661 --> 00:37:34,622 Speaker 2: foreign language is a very high bar. 803 00:37:34,862 --> 00:37:38,502 Speaker 3: Well, Amelia Perez, this is what's interesting in that movie 804 00:37:38,622 --> 00:37:40,302 Speaker 3: her voice because she's not per singer. 805 00:37:40,382 --> 00:37:41,702 Speaker 1: Oh, the character's not per singer. 806 00:37:41,902 --> 00:37:46,261 Speaker 3: Yes, the actor's voice that's changed via Ai, like as 807 00:37:46,261 --> 00:37:48,341 Speaker 3: in they sinked her voice with the actual opera singer. 808 00:37:48,382 --> 00:37:50,261 Speaker 3: The same thing happened in the Angelina Jolie movie. 809 00:37:50,261 --> 00:37:52,301 Speaker 2: I know, but it seems silly to me. It's such 810 00:37:52,342 --> 00:37:54,462 Speaker 2: a gotcha. Yeah, it is a gotcha. And you know, 811 00:37:54,741 --> 00:37:57,501 Speaker 2: in my mate Timothy's movie, he sings like Bob Dylan. 812 00:37:57,582 --> 00:37:59,942 Speaker 2: Now apparently he did. They all sang their own parts, 813 00:38:00,022 --> 00:38:02,622 Speaker 2: those actors. I don't really care whether they sang their 814 00:38:02,622 --> 00:38:04,102 Speaker 2: own parts or not. I don't think being a good 815 00:38:04,102 --> 00:38:06,422 Speaker 2: actor necessarily means you can sing like Bob Dylan. It's like, 816 00:38:06,462 --> 00:38:08,062 Speaker 2: can you act like Bob Dylan? Do you know what 817 00:38:08,102 --> 00:38:08,381 Speaker 2: I mean? 818 00:38:08,542 --> 00:38:11,062 Speaker 1: So, if I different from having stunt doubles doing. 819 00:38:10,942 --> 00:38:13,582 Speaker 2: It instead of used AI to make him sound a 820 00:38:13,582 --> 00:38:15,902 Speaker 2: bit more like Bob Dylan's like a verbal stunt. 821 00:38:16,181 --> 00:38:18,381 Speaker 3: I think that it's a slippery slope though, right, And 822 00:38:18,422 --> 00:38:20,102 Speaker 3: this is what they're saying too at the end of 823 00:38:20,142 --> 00:38:22,421 Speaker 3: The Brutalist. It's a bit unclear if this is true 824 00:38:22,502 --> 00:38:24,982 Speaker 3: or not, but they say that there's some buildings that 825 00:38:25,022 --> 00:38:27,862 Speaker 3: are featured at the end that are partially AI generated. 826 00:38:28,062 --> 00:38:30,222 Speaker 3: So if I'm going to give you an award for cinematography, 827 00:38:30,781 --> 00:38:34,022 Speaker 3: how much do you have to declare what's ai what 828 00:38:34,181 --> 00:38:35,222 Speaker 3: was really an artist? 829 00:38:35,382 --> 00:38:40,221 Speaker 2: The whole Marvel movies are filmed against a green screen though, well, 830 00:38:40,261 --> 00:38:44,222 Speaker 2: that's true. Oh I've got another one. It's about whether 831 00:38:44,342 --> 00:38:46,701 Speaker 2: or not we think the ageism is in fact dead 832 00:38:46,741 --> 00:38:48,861 Speaker 2: in Hollywood. Oh yes, So a lot of people are 833 00:38:48,942 --> 00:38:52,462 Speaker 2: using as an example of the fact that finally in Hollywood, 834 00:38:52,502 --> 00:38:54,821 Speaker 2: women over forty are being well recognized by the fact 835 00:38:54,862 --> 00:38:57,701 Speaker 2: that it's almost certain, as I'm speaking this, Demi Moore 836 00:38:57,741 --> 00:39:00,821 Speaker 2: is clutching her Oscar. Ruth can always take that out 837 00:39:00,862 --> 00:39:03,022 Speaker 2: if it turns out not to be true. But hey, 838 00:39:03,062 --> 00:39:03,861 Speaker 2: I'm sure it's true. 839 00:39:03,902 --> 00:39:04,821 Speaker 4: You literally heard it here. 840 00:39:04,862 --> 00:39:08,062 Speaker 2: First, She's won every single other award of awards ceremonies 841 00:39:08,142 --> 00:39:10,982 Speaker 2: right now, although that wouldn't be that groundbreaking if she 842 00:39:11,022 --> 00:39:13,542 Speaker 2: wins that because the last ten or so winners of 843 00:39:13,661 --> 00:39:16,022 Speaker 2: Oscar female Oscars have generally been over forty, and some 844 00:39:16,062 --> 00:39:19,181 Speaker 2: of them have been sixty and whatever. But across the 845 00:39:19,302 --> 00:39:22,221 Speaker 2: board lately, across all kinds of roles in both TV 846 00:39:22,302 --> 00:39:24,022 Speaker 2: and movies, it seems like we're getting more and more 847 00:39:24,062 --> 00:39:27,502 Speaker 2: stories from older women. So you think about Obviously, there 848 00:39:27,542 --> 00:39:30,622 Speaker 2: is Demi as discussed Asabella Rosslyn. He's also nominated this 849 00:39:30,741 --> 00:39:33,821 Speaker 2: year Mary and John but tease. Pamela Anderson's been all 850 00:39:33,822 --> 00:39:36,982 Speaker 2: over the Awards show carpet with the Last Showgirl, Nicole Kidman, 851 00:39:36,982 --> 00:39:38,301 Speaker 2: and so on and so on and so on, and 852 00:39:38,342 --> 00:39:41,542 Speaker 2: a lot of people are saying, finally women are getting 853 00:39:41,582 --> 00:39:43,502 Speaker 2: roles throughout their life. There used to always be actresses 854 00:39:43,502 --> 00:39:45,382 Speaker 2: saying once you're thirty, you're dead. You only get to 855 00:39:45,422 --> 00:39:48,741 Speaker 2: play mumsy roles after that. And I thought it was 856 00:39:48,741 --> 00:39:51,102 Speaker 2: interesting when I interviewed Rachel Griffiths for me, if you 857 00:39:51,102 --> 00:39:52,542 Speaker 2: haven't listened to that, you should, because it's a really 858 00:39:52,582 --> 00:39:55,382 Speaker 2: good chat about all these things. I asked her why 859 00:39:55,422 --> 00:39:58,982 Speaker 2: she thought that was and I posited the provocative and 860 00:39:59,302 --> 00:40:02,102 Speaker 2: very mire esque theory that I was playing with. Is 861 00:40:02,142 --> 00:40:04,381 Speaker 2: it because they don't look like old women anymore? And 862 00:40:04,462 --> 00:40:10,781 Speaker 2: her theory was, actually because in today's entertainment landscape, it's 863 00:40:10,862 --> 00:40:13,341 Speaker 2: much much harder to become a movie star because we're 864 00:40:13,342 --> 00:40:16,261 Speaker 2: so fragmented, as we've discussed so often, and so we're 865 00:40:16,342 --> 00:40:19,421 Speaker 2: kind of stuck with the movie stars we have, whether 866 00:40:19,502 --> 00:40:22,022 Speaker 2: they are like Tom Cruise or whatever, with the minor 867 00:40:22,102 --> 00:40:25,181 Speaker 2: exceptions of like a Chalamet or a Zendea or Florence 868 00:40:25,181 --> 00:40:27,462 Speaker 2: Pe or Florence Peugh. It's getting harder and harder to 869 00:40:27,502 --> 00:40:31,062 Speaker 2: break in in a mainstream I can open a multimillion 870 00:40:31,102 --> 00:40:34,582 Speaker 2: dollar movie way, whereas your kidman is a safe bet 871 00:40:35,102 --> 00:40:40,221 Speaker 2: you know you, and that is playing well for the 872 00:40:40,261 --> 00:40:42,181 Speaker 2: old ladies. What do we think about that theory? 873 00:40:42,382 --> 00:40:43,862 Speaker 4: I think that's a fair theory. 874 00:40:43,942 --> 00:40:46,741 Speaker 3: Actually, I also think that there's more roles though, like 875 00:40:46,781 --> 00:40:49,062 Speaker 3: the reason that we're writing and directing more because women 876 00:40:49,102 --> 00:40:52,382 Speaker 3: are writing and directing, and I think that they literally 877 00:40:52,422 --> 00:40:55,582 Speaker 3: weren't roles for them twenty years ago. And you have 878 00:40:55,622 --> 00:40:57,981 Speaker 3: to be given a chance on a really complicated role 879 00:40:58,221 --> 00:41:01,342 Speaker 3: and that's what more and even kidmen have been given 880 00:41:01,422 --> 00:41:02,622 Speaker 3: are just brilliant scripts. 881 00:41:02,661 --> 00:41:05,102 Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't think it's a coincidence that The Substance 882 00:41:05,102 --> 00:41:07,102 Speaker 2: and Baby Girl are both written and directed by women. 883 00:41:07,582 --> 00:41:12,462 Speaker 2: And although women are still very underrepresented in those categories directing, screenplay, producing, 884 00:41:13,422 --> 00:41:16,102 Speaker 2: when it was all water wool men, they were very 885 00:41:16,102 --> 00:41:18,142 Speaker 2: interested in women's lives after the age of twenty eight. 886 00:41:18,502 --> 00:41:19,462 Speaker 4: No, that's so true. 887 00:41:19,622 --> 00:41:21,822 Speaker 3: Can I add one more thing in have you seen 888 00:41:22,102 --> 00:41:26,181 Speaker 3: the interview with Ariana Grande where her voice allegedly changes halfway? 889 00:41:26,382 --> 00:41:27,221 Speaker 2: Is this another ai? 890 00:41:27,261 --> 00:41:30,422 Speaker 1: I think, Oh no, this is another sort of Awards 891 00:41:30,462 --> 00:41:35,261 Speaker 1: Show season controversy that she sort of got stuck in 892 00:41:35,342 --> 00:41:38,261 Speaker 1: her Glinda voice and has kept it. 893 00:41:38,582 --> 00:41:40,261 Speaker 4: Yes, so listen to this. 894 00:41:40,622 --> 00:41:44,142 Speaker 2: That's the only thing I thought. That's how I felt. 895 00:41:44,302 --> 00:41:46,022 Speaker 2: I was like, what has happened? 896 00:41:47,542 --> 00:41:50,221 Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know, but yeah, I've been writing a 897 00:41:50,261 --> 00:41:53,221 Speaker 5: lot and maybe there's some more, but I would like 898 00:41:53,302 --> 00:41:54,622 Speaker 5: to do a deluxe. 899 00:41:54,221 --> 00:41:57,342 Speaker 1: That's so interesting. I think that she's been quite honest 900 00:41:57,342 --> 00:41:59,221 Speaker 1: about that and just said I think I'm going to 901 00:41:59,422 --> 00:42:01,741 Speaker 1: keep this voice because she had to do a lot 902 00:42:01,781 --> 00:42:04,661 Speaker 1: of work to change her voice for the role, and 903 00:42:04,701 --> 00:42:06,582 Speaker 1: so she decided to keep it through the press tour, 904 00:42:06,622 --> 00:42:08,742 Speaker 1: and because that's gone on for so long, and because 905 00:42:08,741 --> 00:42:11,341 Speaker 1: there's still another movie, another press tour to come, I 906 00:42:11,342 --> 00:42:13,582 Speaker 1: think it's just she's decided to keep it. 907 00:42:13,701 --> 00:42:13,901 Speaker 5: Yeah. 908 00:42:13,902 --> 00:42:16,062 Speaker 3: She actually commented on it and said, there is a 909 00:42:16,062 --> 00:42:18,261 Speaker 3: part of the world that isn't familiar with what it 910 00:42:18,342 --> 00:42:21,502 Speaker 3: takes to transform your voice, whether that's singing or dialect, 911 00:42:21,622 --> 00:42:25,062 Speaker 3: like the amount of focus you have to have. And 912 00:42:25,102 --> 00:42:27,502 Speaker 3: it reminded me of Austin Butler. And in the wake 913 00:42:27,542 --> 00:42:30,262 Speaker 3: of Elvis and every interview he did, he was just Elvis, 914 00:42:30,302 --> 00:42:32,942 Speaker 3: men do it all the time. But what was interesting 915 00:42:33,022 --> 00:42:35,942 Speaker 3: is we saw Ariana kind of break it for a minute. 916 00:42:36,022 --> 00:42:39,381 Speaker 1: Yeah. I thought what was most interesting about the controversy 917 00:42:39,422 --> 00:42:42,301 Speaker 1: that was not a controversy this Awards season was her 918 00:42:42,342 --> 00:42:49,341 Speaker 1: relationship with her co star Bok Munchkin, Yes Ethan's later 919 00:42:49,542 --> 00:42:53,301 Speaker 1: earlier in the Awards season, his ex wife wrote a 920 00:42:53,342 --> 00:42:56,102 Speaker 1: piece about being a therapist and how she felt about 921 00:42:56,102 --> 00:42:58,382 Speaker 1: getting a divorce from this person who was very high profile. 922 00:42:58,661 --> 00:43:00,502 Speaker 3: If you want all the information on that, we've done 923 00:43:00,502 --> 00:43:02,062 Speaker 3: a subscriber so there will be a link. 924 00:43:02,102 --> 00:43:05,462 Speaker 1: So fascinating, and I think what's astonishing is that she 925 00:43:05,582 --> 00:43:09,701 Speaker 1: has been so outside during this whole promotional tour. It's 926 00:43:09,741 --> 00:43:12,422 Speaker 1: been pretty much since November non stop for October on stop, 927 00:43:13,102 --> 00:43:15,661 Speaker 1: and she's done a million interviews. She's been very accessible, 928 00:43:15,822 --> 00:43:18,741 Speaker 1: and it has not blown up. They've not walked red 929 00:43:18,781 --> 00:43:21,502 Speaker 1: carpets together. They're still very much together, but they've been 930 00:43:21,542 --> 00:43:25,822 Speaker 1: together at awards shows, and yet there's been no blowback 931 00:43:25,902 --> 00:43:28,821 Speaker 1: on her, which I think is very masterfully handled because 932 00:43:28,822 --> 00:43:32,261 Speaker 1: that could have derailed the whole Yeah campaign. And she's 933 00:43:32,302 --> 00:43:35,582 Speaker 1: also nominated, She's unlikely to win, but she's nominated for 934 00:43:35,622 --> 00:43:37,102 Speaker 1: Best Supporting Actress. 935 00:43:37,701 --> 00:43:39,622 Speaker 2: Oscars Day is like a little bit Christmas Day for me. 936 00:43:39,661 --> 00:43:41,582 Speaker 2: I love Oscars Day. I know you don't care, Jesseet, 937 00:43:41,661 --> 00:43:44,462 Speaker 2: I really love love love it. Anyway, what do you 938 00:43:44,502 --> 00:43:47,221 Speaker 2: love about it? I love the frocks, I love the ceremony, 939 00:43:47,261 --> 00:43:49,502 Speaker 2: I love the speeches. I like seeing all of the 940 00:43:49,542 --> 00:43:52,542 Speaker 2: big stars like in one place, interacting with you. 941 00:43:52,862 --> 00:43:53,062 Speaker 5: See. 942 00:43:53,102 --> 00:43:54,701 Speaker 1: I feel that's my Golden Globes. 943 00:43:54,862 --> 00:43:55,622 Speaker 2: I love love it. 944 00:43:55,701 --> 00:43:57,542 Speaker 1: Golden Globes is a bit more rogue, and there's also 945 00:43:57,661 --> 00:43:58,622 Speaker 1: TV at gold Well. 946 00:43:58,781 --> 00:44:01,661 Speaker 2: It's true you get a better spread, but the Oscars 947 00:44:01,701 --> 00:44:04,782 Speaker 2: is the pinnacle. The Oscars is the most important one. Anyway. 948 00:44:05,221 --> 00:44:07,542 Speaker 2: A massive thank you to all of you out louders 949 00:44:07,582 --> 00:44:09,381 Speaker 2: for listening to our show. As we said, if you do, 950 00:44:09,741 --> 00:44:11,262 Speaker 2: if you feel the way I do about the Oscars, 951 00:44:11,342 --> 00:44:13,222 Speaker 2: Deep Drive tomorrow, If you just want to hear MIA's 952 00:44:13,422 --> 00:44:16,462 Speaker 2: very good red carpet commentary, Deep Drive tomorrow. Otherwise we 953 00:44:16,502 --> 00:44:18,942 Speaker 2: will be back in your ears as usual all week. 954 00:44:19,382 --> 00:44:21,421 Speaker 2: Massive thank you you've been here with us, and thank 955 00:44:21,462 --> 00:44:23,422 Speaker 2: you to our fabulous team for putting the show together. 956 00:44:23,661 --> 00:44:26,422 Speaker 1: Huge week. Megan's show comes out this week. It's not 957 00:44:26,582 --> 00:44:28,821 Speaker 1: just the Oscars, it's really Christmas for you. This week 958 00:44:28,862 --> 00:44:33,181 Speaker 1: You've got the whole Megan Gardening cooking show dropping, so 959 00:44:33,502 --> 00:44:34,502 Speaker 1: make sure you listen. 960 00:44:34,502 --> 00:44:36,622 Speaker 2: We'll be covering all of your gardening in a bikini 961 00:44:36,661 --> 00:44:37,262 Speaker 2: by Friday. 962 00:44:37,382 --> 00:44:41,782 Speaker 1: Bye. Shout out to any Mum and Maya subscribers listening. 963 00:44:41,942 --> 00:44:44,261 Speaker 1: If you love the show and want to support us 964 00:44:44,261 --> 00:44:47,102 Speaker 1: as well, subscribing to Mama Miya is the very best 965 00:44:47,142 --> 00:44:48,902 Speaker 1: way to do so. There is a link in the 966 00:44:48,942 --> 00:44:49,902 Speaker 1: episode description