WEBVTT - I Escaped a Wellness Retreat Before Breakfast

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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to I'm on a MIA podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, and welcome to Unleashed. She could have seen would

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<v Speaker 2>we call it.

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<v Speaker 1>Dancing Bruno that we were just doing to wet.

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<v Speaker 3>You look like Reagan.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a lot, there's a lot, that's a whole. That's

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<v Speaker 2>a whole episode.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Unleashed.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a podcast for gen X women who need

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<v Speaker 2>you survived a childhood of drinking straight from the garden hose.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome you founder people right who we got on the

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<v Speaker 2>sofa this week.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Bruna pep Andrea. I'm a film and TV producer.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Mary Christis. I'm an actress writer.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm Ginnie Mansberg.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a GP I'm cats Mahoney, I'm a comedian. Right

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<v Speaker 2>wherever you're listening.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Clincher.

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<v Speaker 2>You'r clincher, pelvic floor and get ready to unleash. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>first order of business today, I've been in the Unleashed

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<v Speaker 2>DMS and we have a question from Alicia Niki. Yes, Nick,

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<v Speaker 2>what on earth does it mean when you say put

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<v Speaker 2>someone's name in the fridge.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that was a previous episode. Yes, do you remember?

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<v Speaker 1>I think Sally said it. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's like some people burn the names, and

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<v Speaker 4>some people put a name in the fridge to sort

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<v Speaker 4>of disempower the energy that that person might have, sort

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<v Speaker 4>of like ice them literally.

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<v Speaker 5>I thought it was freezer, not fridge. Actually free it

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<v Speaker 5>was free free freeze them out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, it's a bit like a modern version of a

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<v Speaker 2>horse's head in someone's bed.

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<v Speaker 1>It's easy.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's less gangster as that, but yeah, just put

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<v Speaker 4>them in the fridge.

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<v Speaker 1>Has any put somebody's name in the freezer.

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<v Speaker 5>I've got a few people I'd like to put in

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<v Speaker 5>there that I'm holding some anger about something that happened

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<v Speaker 5>to me a while ago. But I might put their

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<v Speaker 5>names in the freezer. I think it would help me release.

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<v Speaker 4>I've had warts once, and so someone tore it and

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<v Speaker 4>count them and put them on a piece of paper,

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<v Speaker 4>not not in my genitals, and let the creek at

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<v Speaker 4>the bottom of my street take that piece of paper

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<v Speaker 4>and let it flow away.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it a witch? Was it a doctor? Was that

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<v Speaker 1>a neighbor? Was it a Greek? Said? In like stroke form?

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<v Speaker 4>Put the amount of wats you have, maybe I had

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<v Speaker 4>five or six, Witchy woman, and I put them down,

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<v Speaker 4>and she said, take that piece of paper and take

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<v Speaker 4>it somewhere where there is flowing water.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, at the bottom of.

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<v Speaker 4>My street there was a creek, and she said, put

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<v Speaker 4>that paper in the creek.

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<v Speaker 1>Let that paper flow away.

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<v Speaker 4>And well, I don't have them now, memory, excuse me,

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<v Speaker 4>excuse me permission to ask a question I don't understand.

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<v Speaker 5>Please explain. You weren't doing anything with the warts. Were

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<v Speaker 5>you just like putting a mark on a piece of

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<v Speaker 5>paper with a pet.

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<v Speaker 3>You didn't need to name the warts, like John Howry.

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<v Speaker 4>I just counted them and I put them those little sticks.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you call them? Vertical lines?

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<v Speaker 2>You mean?

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<v Speaker 5>I would also like to refer to doctor Jenny's medical

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<v Speaker 5>opinion on whether this may work for warts.

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<v Speaker 3>I have not myself seen in the literature any meta

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<v Speaker 3>analysis of writing down the number of warts on a

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<v Speaker 3>piece of paper and sending it down to a creek.

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<v Speaker 3>But I might have missed one. Bruner, Have you seen

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<v Speaker 3>that study in your travel?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I've never seen Mary yes, or heard of this

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<v Speaker 5>method of getting rid of said wart. But to be fair,

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<v Speaker 5>I've never seen a Ward on you in the thirty

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<v Speaker 5>years i've known you, Perhaps Mary, congratulations on them.

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<v Speaker 4>Let me just say, I don't know why you guys

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<v Speaker 4>are so pro freezer an anti creek. We're both we're

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<v Speaker 4>both writing something.

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<v Speaker 5>Because you're talking about a physical symptom, whereas what the

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<v Speaker 5>thing in the freezer does.

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<v Speaker 1>That's an emotional way. Oh yeah, you're like your psychological Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my ex was a physical symptom. He was in the freezer.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, okay, we've got a little game to start.

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<v Speaker 1>Love games. I love games. On your chair.

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<v Speaker 2>You have a paddle, ladies, so I might call it

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<v Speaker 2>a Marty Supreme ping pong. It's on one side you

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<v Speaker 2>have the word guilty yes, and on the other one

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<v Speaker 2>you flip it over not guilty. Well flipped, ladies. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like where the this is going. Care Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>there is a slip of paper on your chair, font

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<v Speaker 2>size forty eight, ladies, So nobody grabbed for their glasses.

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<v Speaker 1>We're all going to be fine.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, one at a time, we are going to read

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<v Speaker 2>out what is on our paper, and the rest of

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<v Speaker 2>us are going to hold up that.

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<v Speaker 1>Paddle that says guilty or not guilty? Who are we

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<v Speaker 1>going to start with? Mary? Yes? Okay, what have we got?

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<v Speaker 4>I've RSVP to something I knew I was going to

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<v Speaker 4>cancel last minute.

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<v Speaker 5>Helly oh, guilty, guilty, guilty, not guilty, Mary, I don't

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<v Speaker 5>pull out ball, don't you hear?

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<v Speaker 1>That's what they all do? That's so not true. I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't cop out okay, really? Ever? I feel bad? No, seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>do you think I do? We all do it?

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<v Speaker 6>You know what?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I totally don't agree with that I turn up. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>If I say I'm going to do something, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to do it all right now? Yeah? Fair, that's fair.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what, if you don't want to turn up,

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<v Speaker 4>just say you don't want to turn up.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't have You can't be sitting on the fence

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<v Speaker 1>on this one. You're either in or you're not.

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<v Speaker 5>You know what, I apologize profusely because I have asked

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<v Speaker 5>you to a New Year's Eve thing, thinking I'm the

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<v Speaker 5>best offer you're going to get, and you're like, oh no,

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<v Speaker 5>I already said yes to someone else, which in my

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<v Speaker 5>mind was not nearly as good an offer.

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<v Speaker 1>So to be fair to you, yes, you stuck with

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<v Speaker 1>the O g R.

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<v Speaker 4>S V p Oky and I don't want to say anything,

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<v Speaker 4>but we're going to have an unleashed dinner.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yes, and someone here pulled at last minute dot

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<v Speaker 3>com to start.

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<v Speaker 1>You said the start.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you always intend to pull?

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<v Speaker 1>No? I absolutely didn't.

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<v Speaker 5>But I'm trying to be a better parent, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Parents.

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<v Speaker 2>I think what I do is I say yes in

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<v Speaker 2>the moment because I'll be excited about something. And what

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<v Speaker 2>I really need to do is think about future me

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<v Speaker 2>on that day, what time it is, what am I

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<v Speaker 2>going to wear, do I really want to go?

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<v Speaker 1>I need to futureself myself. Oh, I told you.

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<v Speaker 5>I live by this because the late great Anthony mcguelan,

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<v Speaker 5>my first boss mentor. He would say yes to everything,

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<v Speaker 5>and then he said to me, I learned an important lesson.

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<v Speaker 5>Every time someone asked you to do something, pretend it's

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<v Speaker 5>that night and see if you'd still say yes.

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<v Speaker 1>That's good. I like that, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>And I would add to that, you can say yes

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<v Speaker 2>when you've just had your coffee in the morning, but

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<v Speaker 2>you might say no when it's seven pm and you're

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<v Speaker 2>running a bath.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't leave the house.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think, as well as future self, we should

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<v Speaker 2>also think about if we're caffeinated and highly excited at

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<v Speaker 2>that moment, as opposed to in our pajamas watching rifle kav.

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<v Speaker 5>Next question, ladies, I've googled a symptom and convinced myself

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<v Speaker 5>I'm dying.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, guilty, not guilty, not guilty, guilty.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean I am as Mary knows, as my

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<v Speaker 5>husband knows.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you guys know.

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<v Speaker 5>I have watched however many there are, and I think

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<v Speaker 5>there's twenty three, maybe twenty two seasons of Gray's Anatomy.

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<v Speaker 5>So I am basically a medical doctor at the so

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<v Speaker 5>in my Gray's Anatomy obsession and something I need to admit,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sorry, doctor Jinny. Sometimes I cannot wait for the

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<v Speaker 5>results of a scan, and I have been talking to

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<v Speaker 5>Kat's friend Claude, and I have been known to put

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<v Speaker 5>the scans into claud or chat GPT just to.

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<v Speaker 1>Get a result, Just to get an early result. I'd

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<v Speaker 1>love that. Okay, okay, good, That is really great.

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<v Speaker 3>I like empowerment.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's very good.

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<v Speaker 3>And these days, for anyone who has not enabled their

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<v Speaker 3>My Health Record, more for you, because all of your

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<v Speaker 3>results are uploaded into your My Health Record, so you

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<v Speaker 3>don't have to make an appointment with your doctor to

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<v Speaker 3>get a whole stack of normal blood test results.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, unless they call you, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Might actually be able to get them yourself and have

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<v Speaker 3>a look at them. Of course, if they've got asterixes

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<v Speaker 3>on them, you're gonna need to go and.

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<v Speaker 1>See a doctor and talk about it.

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<v Speaker 3>But otherwise I reckon, that's.

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<v Speaker 1>That's yeah, No, I like it. I like it now.

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<v Speaker 5>I go down a rabbit hole of things I think

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<v Speaker 5>are wrong. I mean, there is a lot wrong with me,

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<v Speaker 5>but I go down a rabbit hole of the other

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<v Speaker 5>things that could be wrong with me and convince myself

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<v Speaker 5>that something is there.

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<v Speaker 3>I got to say, if you end up with a

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<v Speaker 3>condition like Loopis, which there generally is a very long

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<v Speaker 3>lag between the symptoms starting and actually getting a diagnosis,

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<v Speaker 3>I get it why people are actually going to google

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<v Speaker 3>their symptoms, because you know, when medicine is built to

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<v Speaker 3>give you a five minute consultation and no one has

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<v Speaker 3>the time to listen to everything, I totally get why

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<v Speaker 3>you would start trying to take matters into your own hands.

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<v Speaker 3>I think we've got to do better in the medical system,

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<v Speaker 3>but we've got to be not judgmental of people who

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<v Speaker 3>actually want to find out what's going on with their

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<v Speaker 3>own bodies.

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<v Speaker 1>That's cool. Love that I am legit.

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<v Speaker 5>Between all the medical shows I watch and all the

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<v Speaker 5>legal shows I watch, I'm basically a lawyer at this

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<v Speaker 5>point and a medical doctor.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, ladies, are you ready, I've got the next question

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<v Speaker 3>in our game. Guilty or not guilty. I've regifted a gift.

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<v Speaker 1>Not guilty, not guilty, not guilty. Guilty or Mary.

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<v Speaker 4>Or marry you said, I'm not going to regift it

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<v Speaker 4>to the person who gave it to me.

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<v Speaker 3>My grandmother was very famous for giving people a chilled

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<v Speaker 3>book because she would get a gift and assume it

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<v Speaker 3>was chocolate. It's not unpackage it out of the wrapping

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<v Speaker 3>paper and just to get straight in the fridge and

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<v Speaker 3>then take a chilled book to another friend maker.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, Mary and I had a friend and

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<v Speaker 5>I can't remember where it started, but there was a

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<v Speaker 5>kind of ugly photo frame that someone got given, and

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<v Speaker 5>then the joke was that it would just get constantly

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<v Speaker 5>regifted on anyone birthday, so it just got passed around

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<v Speaker 5>for years.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, that ugly photo frame that's right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Just question in order to defend myself because I am

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<v Speaker 4>the guilty party here.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you do with gifts you don't like?

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<v Speaker 5>I put them in the cupboard or I and then

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<v Speaker 5>what happens to them? Did they stay in the cake?

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I maybe look under question out have I ever?

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<v Speaker 5>Have I ever done it once?

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<v Speaker 1>Probably?

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<v Speaker 5>But I'm just it's not something I do a lot.

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<v Speaker 5>So that's mine not guilty.

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<v Speaker 2>I might have to waiver because now I'm thinking gifts

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<v Speaker 2>to me I haven't regifted. I have gifted a shit

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<v Speaker 2>tourn of birthday gifts that my son's received. Yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>as a non lego lego type. They've got a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of lego that I would there people giving them.

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<v Speaker 1>No, But so I have regifted child stuff.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>But can I just double tap on the ugly photo

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<v Speaker 3>frame situation? If there's something so horrendous that I don't

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<v Speaker 3>want it, I'm never going to give that to somebody

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<v Speaker 3>else because I look like I've got foul taste and

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<v Speaker 3>like and that I'm giving people disgusting stuff like I

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<v Speaker 3>actually can't do it. So that's what God invented some

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<v Speaker 3>vincit apaul for. And I just drive up to Viney's

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<v Speaker 3>all the time and get rid.

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<v Speaker 1>Of it, mayor you know me very well?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, what do people give me all the time that

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<v Speaker 5>I hate with passion that I am either leading out

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<v Speaker 5>in the street or actually regifting?

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<v Speaker 1>This is bad.

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<v Speaker 2>This could be a listen, who would flowers?

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<v Speaker 1>You just know it's more specific than that bump plants

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<v Speaker 1>or kids. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 5>I have been given more orchids in my life than

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<v Speaker 5>there are at a fricking funeral. Congratulations that goes under

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<v Speaker 5>the regifting gifts, Like you know, our friends know that

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<v Speaker 5>I hate indoor plants and I hate orchids, And how

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<v Speaker 5>many orchids do I continue to receive?

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<v Speaker 1>That is just so rude. It's so rude. People that

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<v Speaker 1>know me should know. I'll take an orchid. You can

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<v Speaker 1>have my next door my lego so much? Who's next me? Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Guilty or not guilty? I've had anti wrinkle injections. Guilty, guilty, guilty,

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<v Speaker 2>not guilty. Oh, because you've got skin on your face,

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<v Speaker 2>you're supposed to wear.

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<v Speaker 1>On your arm.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>She's got you've got lovely skin.

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<v Speaker 5>It's not it's not because I don't think I would

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<v Speaker 5>like and need an anti wrinkle injection. I just cannot

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<v Speaker 5>like fathom the idea of an injection in my mouth

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<v Speaker 5>or my face.

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<v Speaker 2>I have gas when I have my injections, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>feel anything into your face.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I suck on the gas and then they put

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<v Speaker 1>the injection in. Okay, well maybe that number. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>the nineties again. Seconds, please send that number. I will

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<v Speaker 1>be doing that.

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<v Speaker 3>I held out to lost fifty seven. I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>if that have you just.

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<v Speaker 1>Started, just started. Oh if I could hide five you,

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<v Speaker 1>I would.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's it's for the neck. Yeah, I'm sort of

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<v Speaker 3>love yeah, because nothing actually helps your freaking next. So

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<v Speaker 3>who knew that you can have anti wrinkle injections into

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<v Speaker 3>your jawline and it impacts your neck.

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<v Speaker 4>I've done it once or twice. I can't say I

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<v Speaker 4>like the effect. Look, this is the case with almost anything.

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<v Speaker 4>You're at the mercy of the person's taste.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's doing it.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, like you don't want to go to some

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<v Speaker 4>person that goes more is better, you know, like you

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<v Speaker 4>want less is more, and you want it subtle and

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<v Speaker 4>all of those things. Because my husband wouldn't know if

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<v Speaker 4>someone was topless, but he could tell you if someone's

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<v Speaker 4>had anti wrinkle injections topless, Well maybe he would, but

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<v Speaker 4>he wouldn't know a haircut. If you've got a haircut,

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<v Speaker 4>he wouldn't notice it. But he can spot them a

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<v Speaker 4>bit like me with the two pay from across the

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<v Speaker 4>room and go one is up with that face. They've

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<v Speaker 4>just got to back away from the injection.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know. Look, it's not one of those things.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I emote for a living. I need to use

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<v Speaker 1>my face.

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<v Speaker 4>But occasionally I'm going to go away and I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>working for a month or two, or I'm riding.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I just don't have a tiny bit. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's pretty.

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<v Speaker 5>Bad that we're all thinking like this. I'm shocked, actually,

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<v Speaker 5>the three of the four of us. You know, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>not saying I'm the natural beauty here now I'm kidding.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not obviously the natural beauty here. But like, I'm shocked.

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<v Speaker 1>I would have thought it was more fifty to fifty.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I don't think you know, you have to be

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<v Speaker 4>all in or all out. I think it's one of

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<v Speaker 4>those things people.

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<v Speaker 1>Have got to be in charge of whatever they can

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<v Speaker 1>live with. Yes, that's my take on this. Jenny.

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<v Speaker 4>Can I ask you a question as a professional, as

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<v Speaker 4>a medical professional, what's the story on creatine.

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<v Speaker 1>It's everywhere. It's the new black, isn't it.

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<v Speaker 3>I get asked this, like I'm not kidding three or

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<v Speaker 3>four times a day. I know Sally Hapworth will be

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<v Speaker 3>all over the creat any you guys on it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on that, but I don't know what it does.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you on a gummy? You want a powder?

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<v Speaker 1>I want to powadeck as a machake? I am on nothing.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I am not on anything, although I have just

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<v Speaker 5>signed up to this this new fangled wellness thing where

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<v Speaker 5>they take your blood and then they send you what

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<v Speaker 5>you should be on apparently, so I'm guessing in my

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<v Speaker 5>cine there's going to be some creatine in my future.

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<v Speaker 1>But I, like you have heard the word a lot lately.

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<v Speaker 1>Is the sea word is everywhere? I know you're a

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<v Speaker 1>little anti supplement. Would that be fair to.

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<v Speaker 3>Say I'm not anti supplement. I just I think that

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<v Speaker 3>the evidence would suggest that for most things, if you

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<v Speaker 3>get it from your food, you are better off than

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<v Speaker 3>if you have to take it out of What is,

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<v Speaker 3>at the end of the day, an ultra processed product

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<v Speaker 3>that has been made in a factory out of chemical

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<v Speaker 3>ingredients and lots of plastic involved. The evidence is quite

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<v Speaker 3>interesting for building muscle if you are working out and

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<v Speaker 3>doing quite a lot of resistance exercise. There's no evidence

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<v Speaker 3>that you can take creatine and not do exercise and

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<v Speaker 3>still build all might interesting. Yeah, And the thing that

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<v Speaker 3>I often get asked about is there evidence for like

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<v Speaker 3>brain health, Like is it going to help my brain fog?

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<v Speaker 3>And lots of my patients swear blind they take it

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<v Speaker 3>and their brain fog.

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<v Speaker 1>Just disappears, as gray Islam does.

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<v Speaker 3>There's no evidence at all for any benefits in terms

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<v Speaker 3>of brain fog or even preventing tomna at this stage.

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<v Speaker 3>There are some studies that are being done, but they're

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<v Speaker 3>like they're small. The methodology of the studies is pretty dodgy.

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<v Speaker 3>I would say I don't take it, but I don't

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<v Speaker 3>really take anything. I try and eat my nutrients. But

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<v Speaker 3>I do think if you are going to take it,

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<v Speaker 3>there's only really evidence for creatine monohydrate. There's quite a

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<v Speaker 3>few other careatanes out there, and there was that whole

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<v Speaker 3>thing that blew up about creatine gummies that turned out

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<v Speaker 3>to have zero creatine in them, but's lots and lots

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<v Speaker 3>of sugar. I think if there's any really good evidence

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<v Speaker 3>that it could do amazing things for me when I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not lifting my weight in iron every day. I'd probably

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<v Speaker 3>take it, but I haven't seen the evidence. Just remember,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a doctor, but I'm not your doctor. So if

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<v Speaker 3>you've got any specific medical questions, maybe booking c JP.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes.

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<v Speaker 4>Look, there's a lot of you know, women especially, I

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<v Speaker 4>think we're very prone to a product, whether it be

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<v Speaker 4>a supplement or a makeup thing or whatever. And we

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<v Speaker 4>love an exercise product that's going to give us immediate results,

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<v Speaker 4>like the ABB cruncher, the AB curler do you remember that.

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<v Speaker 1>To put my washing on it to drive?

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<v Speaker 4>At least it got used. And then there was that

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<v Speaker 4>ribbon one that you'd put around. It would jiggle you ribbon.

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<v Speaker 4>It was comical.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, seriously, what is the most you have ever spent

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<v Speaker 3>on a wellness thing? And I mean, I know Brunner,

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<v Speaker 3>I have seen you in your ice bath. He's still

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<v Speaker 3>enjoying a good eye.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>No, No, there's money that I've spent that I have.

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<v Speaker 5>It's you know, paid dividends, but I have like everyone,

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<v Speaker 5>remember when I mean some would say this is a

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<v Speaker 5>good thing, but I bought the most expensive rebounder out there,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, just like basically, let's just call it what

0:19:04.714 --> 0:19:08.833
<v Speaker 5>it is, a mini trampoline, and the only people who

0:19:08.994 --> 0:19:12.234
<v Speaker 5>used it literally during COVID, Well my kids would bounce

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<v Speaker 5>up and down it occasionally, but that was probably the

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<v Speaker 5>biggest waste of money. But the other thing that I

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<v Speaker 5>always remember because I'm a big sucker for like an

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<v Speaker 5>Instagram ad and I would buy those things, you know

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<v Speaker 5>those I think they're well, you put them on your feet,

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<v Speaker 5>You put them on your feet and exactly you supposed

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<v Speaker 5>to suck out on the tops.

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<v Speaker 1>I have bought a lot of those patches and things.

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<v Speaker 3>That did you feel with them on your feet?

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<v Speaker 5>Literally did nothing? Maybe remove some dead skin. But I've

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<v Speaker 5>done a lot of that kind of stuff. I am

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<v Speaker 5>very I am really guilty of, like buying like a

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<v Speaker 5>wellness product that maybe I haven't used.

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<v Speaker 1>But what I'm more guilty of is signing up to

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<v Speaker 1>a fitness app. Yes, I mean how many. I've probably

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<v Speaker 1>signed up to five now that I have never opened since.

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<v Speaker 4>The free trial you used to go to, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>like health farms some stuff and escape within hours.

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<v Speaker 1>That is true.

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<v Speaker 5>I have escaped many overpriced health retree because I made

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<v Speaker 5>the mistake of going on my own and after like.

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<v Speaker 1>Escaping, you're going on your own.

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<v Speaker 5>You're spending the money, Like who's stopping you, it's for you.

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<v Speaker 5>And I literally will pack my bags and I'll be

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<v Speaker 5>out of there before the first breakfast. Funny, they're all

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<v Speaker 5>over the world, but there is one in New South Wales.

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<v Speaker 3>You are allowed to have a phone.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you're supposed to.

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<v Speaker 5>Like there's no televisions in the room, which for me

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<v Speaker 5>is like it's like painful, but they're really beautiful rooms,

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<v Speaker 5>like it's luxury. I don't do any of this, like

0:20:47.194 --> 0:20:51.033
<v Speaker 5>you know, camping retreats, harve yourself. I do these like

0:20:51.154 --> 0:20:54.474
<v Speaker 5>really nice places, and I'm like, oh, yeah, it's going

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<v Speaker 5>to be great. So I don't know if someone gifted

0:20:57.594 --> 0:21:00.354
<v Speaker 5>me this experience or if I gifted it to myself.

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<v Speaker 1>But I drive out there.

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<v Speaker 5>I think it's about two hours in my car, and

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<v Speaker 5>I generally I do this when I check in, do

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<v Speaker 5>I tell I don't tend to unpack my bag straight

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<v Speaker 5>away just in case, you know, I like to be

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<v Speaker 5>prepared for a potential exit. And I go to my

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<v Speaker 5>room and it's really beautiful, and I think I've hidden

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<v Speaker 5>the phone that I'm of course, I'm going to use

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<v Speaker 5>it in my home. Like they're like, this is the

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<v Speaker 5>first story. I've got three or four of these stories.

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<v Speaker 5>But I go down to breakfast, and you know, obviously

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<v Speaker 5>you're on a you know, a limited limited diet of

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<v Speaker 5>some kind, depending on what you've chosen as your preference.

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<v Speaker 1>Right. People are there for different reasons. Some people are

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<v Speaker 1>there to meditate, obviously, that wasn't me. Some people are

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<v Speaker 1>there to juice cleans. That also wasn't me.

0:21:46.034 --> 0:21:47.994
<v Speaker 5>And some people are there to do a kind of

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<v Speaker 5>calorie controlled eating plan to kind of reboot their bodies.

0:21:51.474 --> 0:21:53.994
<v Speaker 1>That was me. You know. They try and make it.

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<v Speaker 5>Look like like bespoken, like it's a five star restaurant,

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<v Speaker 5>but it's so small and like there's basically nothing there,

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<v Speaker 5>like you may as well be eating air.

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<v Speaker 1>That was what it was like.

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<v Speaker 5>And then I go back to the room and I

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<v Speaker 5>think I probably called my husband at that point and

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<v Speaker 5>probably you know, created some kind of story to make

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<v Speaker 5>my for self feel better, like oh god, I should

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<v Speaker 5>have come here with friends.

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<v Speaker 1>And he's like, give it a night, just try and

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<v Speaker 1>push through. Give it a night.

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<v Speaker 5>Well I did give it a night, bag it home

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<v Speaker 5>and I literally secretly make my way to my car

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<v Speaker 5>with my suitcase because I am I am like a

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<v Speaker 5>French exit.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying good by to anyone.

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<v Speaker 3>Did someone ring and say, hey, Bruni, where are you?

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<v Speaker 3>We can't find you?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 5>I probably, I think I probably my memory, if it's right,

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<v Speaker 5>I probably made up some story that someone was ill

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<v Speaker 5>and they needed me. Because I get really embarrassed with

0:22:46.114 --> 0:22:48.234
<v Speaker 5>that stuff, like I am not I'm not good with

0:22:48.354 --> 0:22:50.754
<v Speaker 5>like confronting, like because I think someone's going to talk

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<v Speaker 5>me out of it. It's probably why I don't want

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<v Speaker 5>to go to therapy anymore either. I just don't want.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone looking at me in the eye and talking to

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<v Speaker 1>me about it.

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<v Speaker 5>So that is not the only retreat I've escaped and that,

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<v Speaker 5>but what that was the first?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, Bruno, I would have loved to have been

0:23:06.834 --> 0:23:09.674
<v Speaker 4>your Could I have talked you into staying?

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<v Speaker 1>Probably not, but we could have escaped together. I would

0:23:12.834 --> 0:23:15.114
<v Speaker 1>have done that for you. And which brings me to

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<v Speaker 1>what would you do for a good friend?

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<v Speaker 2>You know?

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<v Speaker 1>We do things for family, but we sort of have to,

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<v Speaker 1>don't we We do things for kids because they can't

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<v Speaker 1>do it. They're just cute. They can't do things.

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<v Speaker 4>But your friends are equally as able as you, and

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<v Speaker 4>you tend to do things for them because you love

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<v Speaker 4>them so much and because you think they take a

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<v Speaker 4>bullet for me, wouldn't they? Which brings me to a

0:23:37.554 --> 0:23:40.073
<v Speaker 4>story where I did something for Bruno that I was

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<v Speaker 4>not comfortable with.

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<v Speaker 1>This was many, many years ago.

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<v Speaker 4>I had hosted an event for a powerful public figure.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just say that, would that be fair to say

0:23:50.034 --> 0:23:54.074
<v Speaker 1>Brin a politician? Okay, no names, no names.

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<v Speaker 4>Moving right along. Maybe this guy was a womanizer.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Maybe he was.

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<v Speaker 4>He was very happy with how I hosted this very

0:24:02.994 --> 0:24:05.513
<v Speaker 4>successful event for him, and he offered to take me

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<v Speaker 4>out to dinner. And I said to Bruna, oh my god,

0:24:10.354 --> 0:24:12.073
<v Speaker 4>as if I'm going to go out to dinner with

0:24:12.394 --> 0:24:15.354
<v Speaker 4>blaodi blah right, And she said, oh yeah, You're going

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<v Speaker 4>to go out.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 4>She goes, I'm shooting a low budget film and I

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<v Speaker 4>need permits so I can shoot in the CBD. And you,

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<v Speaker 4>my friend, are going out to dinner with him, and

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<v Speaker 4>you are going to ask him to see whether he

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<v Speaker 4>can get those permits through for me.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, just let me said the scene I was

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<v Speaker 5>an up and coming producer. I was making my first

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<v Speaker 5>kind of low budget movie where every cent counts, and

0:24:39.914 --> 0:24:42.394
<v Speaker 5>I needed my friend to come through for me for

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<v Speaker 5>what was a very important thing at the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, I CAC might get involved at this point. If

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<v Speaker 1>I go into too much more detail, we're going to watch.

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<v Speaker 1>So this happened the day though. Well.

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<v Speaker 4>He booked a very nice restaurant with a view of

0:24:57.434 --> 0:25:01.434
<v Speaker 4>the city, and I said to Bruna, you're going to

0:25:01.514 --> 0:25:04.634
<v Speaker 4>turn up towards the end of the main course because

0:25:04.714 --> 0:25:07.954
<v Speaker 4>I don't want to be dessert.

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<v Speaker 1>So we said that.

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<v Speaker 4>Such and such said would you like a shampa? So

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, I know I'm not staying long.

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<v Speaker 1>He orders the shapers. What would you like to eat?

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I'm pretty.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't want to use the word easy because I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't want to plant any seeds. I said, I'm like.

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<v Speaker 4>So we ordered and we're making small talk and there

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<v Speaker 4>come the main courses, all nice.

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<v Speaker 1>And yum yums.

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<v Speaker 4>We're having the main course, and you wouldn't believe who

0:25:45.834 --> 0:25:55.554
<v Speaker 4>walked in and walk I go BRUTTI hi, and she said,

0:25:55.554 --> 0:25:57.954
<v Speaker 4>did you forget that we had that thing on tonight?

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<v Speaker 1>Very sex and the city. Yeah, and here is looking at.

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<v Speaker 4>Me, confused, wiping the sides of his mouth with his nap,

0:26:08.074 --> 0:26:09.234
<v Speaker 4>going what's going on?

0:26:09.394 --> 0:26:12.074
<v Speaker 1>I said, oh my god, Brunie, I'm so sorry. I forgot.

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<v Speaker 4>We had that thing on and and we we we

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<v Speaker 4>left and but did that stop him? No, that did

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<v Speaker 4>not lease.

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<v Speaker 5>I did get the permit, but then it was over

0:26:25.994 --> 0:26:28.234
<v Speaker 5>for me, but it was not over for Mary.

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<v Speaker 4>We apparently were a couple to watch in two thousand.

0:26:31.914 --> 0:26:34.313
<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, we we we made it. You know, at

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<v Speaker 4>the end of the year, how they capture I was

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<v Speaker 4>seeing that night with such and such and they had

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<v Speaker 4>us in the Ross Rains com couple to watch in

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<v Speaker 4>two thousand.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks Brunie. Yeah, that's really good. This is the last bet.

0:26:49.594 --> 0:26:53.474
<v Speaker 1>He wouldn't give up. And he was very, very proactive.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's just call it that. I'm a big girl. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't mind someone being proactive. I'm going to be pro honest.

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<v Speaker 4>So I remembered such and such called me on the

0:27:02.634 --> 0:27:06.354
<v Speaker 4>mobile and I answered the phone. I remember exactly where

0:27:06.394 --> 0:27:08.394
<v Speaker 4>I was, and he said, how would you like to

0:27:08.434 --> 0:27:10.154
<v Speaker 4>come to this event with me?

0:27:10.354 --> 0:27:12.274
<v Speaker 1>And I said, I don't know how many.

0:27:12.074 --> 0:27:15.114
<v Speaker 4>Times I have to tell you I am not interested,

0:27:16.034 --> 0:27:18.194
<v Speaker 4>and then he says, yes, but it'd be a lovely

0:27:18.234 --> 0:27:19.954
<v Speaker 4>event and we could catch up and have a drink

0:27:19.954 --> 0:27:20.354
<v Speaker 4>and whatever.

0:27:20.354 --> 0:27:23.514
<v Speaker 1>And I said, okay, such and such. You give me no.

0:27:23.554 --> 0:27:27.074
<v Speaker 4>Option but to be completely honest, I'm going to say this.

0:27:27.674 --> 0:27:32.554
<v Speaker 4>You've pushed me to say this. I will never suck

0:27:32.594 --> 0:27:32.954
<v Speaker 4>you off.

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<v Speaker 1>And that was it.

0:27:36.794 --> 0:27:39.954
<v Speaker 4>Job was done, game over.

0:27:40.594 --> 0:27:42.914
<v Speaker 1>Word for word about this. Years later, I bump into

0:27:42.954 --> 0:27:46.634
<v Speaker 1>him a trot fast and he's high. Mary. You know

0:27:46.674 --> 0:27:48.914
<v Speaker 1>I didn't touch the sides. The guy was teflon.

0:27:49.314 --> 0:27:51.594
<v Speaker 3>How did you thank your best friend for doing this

0:27:51.714 --> 0:27:52.954
<v Speaker 3>amazing good deed for you.

0:27:53.034 --> 0:27:59.434
<v Speaker 1>I've been trying to repay her twenty years later. Still,

0:27:59.714 --> 0:28:00.394
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

0:28:00.514 --> 0:28:06.154
<v Speaker 3>Wow, guys, gear change, let's do blast from the past.

0:28:06.274 --> 0:28:07.354
<v Speaker 1>We love this.

0:28:07.354 --> 0:28:09.594
<v Speaker 3>This is where we go back in time, dig deep

0:28:09.594 --> 0:28:14.394
<v Speaker 3>into your memories. Guys, we are all now in our fifties,

0:28:15.034 --> 0:28:19.074
<v Speaker 3>maybe even beyond, and we've transformed a lot since we

0:28:19.074 --> 0:28:24.513
<v Speaker 3>were in our twenties. What was a personality? Maybe reputation?

0:28:24.954 --> 0:28:27.634
<v Speaker 3>What do people think of you that you have worked

0:28:27.674 --> 0:28:30.674
<v Speaker 3>your ass off to actually shed Brunner.

0:28:31.274 --> 0:28:33.994
<v Speaker 5>I mean, I'm not sure I worked hard on shedding this,

0:28:34.234 --> 0:28:40.154
<v Speaker 5>but I had no choice but to shed. How should

0:28:40.194 --> 0:28:45.794
<v Speaker 5>we put it my what's the great wording, hod On,

0:28:45.954 --> 0:28:49.274
<v Speaker 5>I've worked hard physical philanthrop thank you, I've worked hard

0:28:49.354 --> 0:28:54.954
<v Speaker 5>to shed my physical philanthropy, my physical philanthropy. How yeah,

0:28:54.994 --> 0:29:01.034
<v Speaker 5>how generous and charitable I'm giving with my body, and

0:29:01.114 --> 0:29:04.234
<v Speaker 5>also just how generous and charitable I was and care

0:29:04.314 --> 0:29:07.794
<v Speaker 5>free in terms of you know, what I did didn't put.

0:29:07.594 --> 0:29:08.834
<v Speaker 1>My body through in my twenties.

0:29:08.874 --> 0:29:11.074
<v Speaker 5>I probably worked hard to shad that, I would say,

0:29:11.394 --> 0:29:12.194
<v Speaker 5>and I think of that.

0:29:12.314 --> 0:29:13.474
<v Speaker 1>I laugh when I think of that.

0:29:13.554 --> 0:29:18.354
<v Speaker 5>But also I do think obviously I've grown as a person,

0:29:18.514 --> 0:29:19.034
<v Speaker 5>so I've.

0:29:18.834 --> 0:29:21.594
<v Speaker 1>Probably shared a few words that are associated with that.

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<v Speaker 3>Mary, what have you worked out on since the heady

0:29:24.594 --> 0:29:25.634
<v Speaker 3>days of Acropolis?

0:29:25.674 --> 0:29:29.994
<v Speaker 4>Now, I think I might have been at the mercy

0:29:30.074 --> 0:29:33.594
<v Speaker 4>of other people's reputations. I think I deliberately chose to

0:29:33.714 --> 0:29:38.234
<v Speaker 4>ignore data on certain people. I liked a little bit

0:29:38.274 --> 0:29:41.394
<v Speaker 4>of a rebel, and I liked someone that was polarizing.

0:29:41.754 --> 0:29:43.474
<v Speaker 1>I thought that was daring, but.

0:29:43.514 --> 0:29:45.514
<v Speaker 4>What it turned out to be was, you know, they

0:29:45.554 --> 0:29:50.594
<v Speaker 4>were our souls or you know, just dirty dogs or

0:29:50.634 --> 0:29:53.274
<v Speaker 4>shifty people that I would never touch with a ten

0:29:53.314 --> 0:29:55.514
<v Speaker 4>foot pole these days, so I think I've become a

0:29:55.514 --> 0:29:59.194
<v Speaker 4>lot more discerning. I'm really open to difference, but I'm

0:29:59.234 --> 0:30:01.994
<v Speaker 4>not open to dysfunction anymore.

0:30:02.634 --> 0:30:03.514
<v Speaker 3>Nice transformation.

0:30:03.794 --> 0:30:04.754
<v Speaker 1>H Okay.

0:30:05.994 --> 0:30:08.634
<v Speaker 2>Well, I moved here in my mid twenties. I was

0:30:08.674 --> 0:30:10.474
<v Speaker 2>twenty six, so I think I had like a real

0:30:11.394 --> 0:30:15.314
<v Speaker 2>move the other side of the world, reinvention, and I

0:30:15.474 --> 0:30:18.514
<v Speaker 2>just that brought confidence. When I was in the UK

0:30:18.594 --> 0:30:20.954
<v Speaker 2>and London, like I just played it small. I wouldn't

0:30:20.954 --> 0:30:23.994
<v Speaker 2>have gone after my dreams and then coming here, it's

0:30:23.994 --> 0:30:27.434
<v Speaker 2>like I've been on this perpetual holiday where twenty six

0:30:27.474 --> 0:30:28.514
<v Speaker 2>years later, I still.

0:30:28.274 --> 0:30:31.754
<v Speaker 1>Think, WHOA, well, why not why not try this stuff?

0:30:31.794 --> 0:30:33.554
<v Speaker 1>I'm not really from here. At any point I could

0:30:33.594 --> 0:30:34.514
<v Speaker 1>go back home.

0:30:35.514 --> 0:30:37.714
<v Speaker 2>So I think I've taken loads of chances and just

0:30:37.794 --> 0:30:39.394
<v Speaker 2>played big since I moved here.

0:30:39.634 --> 0:30:40.114
<v Speaker 3>I love that.

0:30:40.314 --> 0:30:42.914
<v Speaker 2>Not that I had a crazy past, but yeah, it

0:30:42.674 --> 0:30:46.114
<v Speaker 2>was a refresh and I just had the confidence to

0:30:46.154 --> 0:30:48.394
<v Speaker 2>try things that I would never have tried in London.

0:30:48.834 --> 0:30:50.674
<v Speaker 2>You know, it felt like it was smaller Sydney and

0:30:50.754 --> 0:30:52.474
<v Speaker 2>you could kind of reach for the stars.

0:30:52.634 --> 0:30:53.914
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I know with me.

0:30:55.114 --> 0:30:57.114
<v Speaker 4>You know, my dad died when I was twenty three,

0:30:57.314 --> 0:31:00.354
<v Speaker 4>and life got pretty heavy, even though you know, my

0:31:00.434 --> 0:31:03.594
<v Speaker 4>career had taken off literally within weeks of my father's death,

0:31:04.034 --> 0:31:06.234
<v Speaker 4>I felt like Sydney was my place where I could

0:31:06.234 --> 0:31:08.674
<v Speaker 4>reinvent myself and I'm Bruna and I lived in Melbourne

0:31:08.714 --> 0:31:12.274
<v Speaker 4>together and then in Sydney together. I felt like Sydney

0:31:12.394 --> 0:31:15.074
<v Speaker 4>was the city like my parents had gone away for

0:31:15.114 --> 0:31:18.714
<v Speaker 4>the weekend and it just felt like a fun, lighter,

0:31:19.034 --> 0:31:22.234
<v Speaker 4>brighter place for me. It lacked the depth that Melbourne

0:31:22.314 --> 0:31:26.234
<v Speaker 4>had and the intensity and the cultural sort of consciousness

0:31:26.234 --> 0:31:29.914
<v Speaker 4>of Melbourne, which I really really love. But Sydney allowed

0:31:29.954 --> 0:31:32.034
<v Speaker 4>me to be lighter when I needed to be lighter

0:31:32.074 --> 0:31:33.394
<v Speaker 4>because everything felt heavy.

0:31:33.554 --> 0:31:36.874
<v Speaker 3>I love that. In my twenties, I had three children

0:31:37.234 --> 0:31:42.994
<v Speaker 3>and was an uber nerd married young, incredibly conservative, just

0:31:43.274 --> 0:31:48.154
<v Speaker 3>studied and was really taking parenting very seriously. And I

0:31:48.234 --> 0:31:51.554
<v Speaker 3>don't think I laughed enough. Like literally, Bruna, we were

0:31:51.834 --> 0:31:56.034
<v Speaker 3>polar opposites. While you were carving it up and being wild,

0:31:56.154 --> 0:31:58.594
<v Speaker 3>I was just nose down in the books and nappies

0:31:58.674 --> 0:32:02.834
<v Speaker 3>and taking my children's milestones way too seriously. And I

0:32:02.834 --> 0:32:04.714
<v Speaker 3>think I've just lightened the hell up since I've got

0:32:04.794 --> 0:32:07.594
<v Speaker 3>you older, and I kind of wish i'd done it

0:32:07.634 --> 0:32:11.554
<v Speaker 3>a bit earlier, Like I actually really embraced the hardcore

0:32:11.634 --> 0:32:14.194
<v Speaker 3>nerd when I was younger, but I missed out on

0:32:14.194 --> 0:32:14.954
<v Speaker 3>a lot too in my.

0:32:15.074 --> 0:32:16.354
<v Speaker 1>What could have been the best years.

0:32:16.474 --> 0:32:18.634
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, or you can look at it the other way.

0:32:19.074 --> 0:32:22.074
<v Speaker 5>I think it's leg swings roundabouts. I think sometimes you

0:32:22.114 --> 0:32:24.474
<v Speaker 5>do that in your twenties and then your fifties are

0:32:24.474 --> 0:32:25.114
<v Speaker 5>for something else.

0:32:25.274 --> 0:32:25.474
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:32:25.514 --> 0:32:29.074
<v Speaker 4>I hate people to think that they peak then and

0:32:29.154 --> 0:32:30.594
<v Speaker 4>that that's done.

0:32:30.354 --> 0:32:31.274
<v Speaker 1>With as well.

0:32:31.314 --> 0:32:34.354
<v Speaker 4>I mean, we're lucky that we're you know, we continue

0:32:34.394 --> 0:32:37.914
<v Speaker 4>to chase highs in different ways. Yes, And I'm really

0:32:37.914 --> 0:32:40.074
<v Speaker 4>excited for you, Jinny. I think that you know, you've

0:32:40.114 --> 0:32:43.114
<v Speaker 4>got grandchildren. Now you've got you know, your kids are

0:32:43.194 --> 0:32:45.114
<v Speaker 4>up and running, they're doing their stuff.

0:32:44.874 --> 0:32:46.834
<v Speaker 1>In the world. All is good.

0:32:46.954 --> 0:32:50.674
<v Speaker 4>You've started this incredible skin care brand, you're still practicing

0:32:50.714 --> 0:32:53.274
<v Speaker 4>as a GP. I just love it. I think this

0:32:53.434 --> 0:32:55.674
<v Speaker 4>is your time now, you know. I would hate for

0:32:55.714 --> 0:32:58.994
<v Speaker 4>it to have been so far ago that that you

0:32:59.034 --> 0:33:01.634
<v Speaker 4>know that it's dimming as you go forward.

0:33:01.634 --> 0:33:16.234
<v Speaker 1>I would hate that. All right, all right, it is

0:33:16.354 --> 0:33:22.474
<v Speaker 1>time for drum roll. Thanks Mary. Other people's problem. Yeah,

0:33:22.674 --> 0:33:24.354
<v Speaker 1>this is the part of the show.

0:33:24.394 --> 0:33:27.154
<v Speaker 2>You send us your dilemmas, your questions, and your moral

0:33:27.354 --> 0:33:30.474
<v Speaker 2>gray areas, and we attempt to offer you good advice,

0:33:30.594 --> 0:33:33.914
<v Speaker 2>which is, let's be honest, usually way off the mark right.

0:33:34.474 --> 0:33:37.234
<v Speaker 2>This week's problem comes from Sarah in Brisbane.

0:33:38.194 --> 0:33:40.154
<v Speaker 1>Hi, ladies, I need a ruling.

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<v Speaker 6>My husband Dave turned fifty last year and instead of

0:33:43.914 --> 0:33:46.474
<v Speaker 6>like buying a sports car or getting a tattoo, doing

0:33:46.474 --> 0:33:50.314
<v Speaker 6>all those midlife crisis things, he's got a new hobby

0:33:50.514 --> 0:33:52.634
<v Speaker 6>and it's Facebook marketplace.

0:33:53.154 --> 0:33:55.394
<v Speaker 1>He's assist with what.

0:33:55.274 --> 0:33:57.874
<v Speaker 6>He calls these are not my words, the thrill of

0:33:57.914 --> 0:34:01.114
<v Speaker 6>the negotiation. That means at our garage is now filled

0:34:01.474 --> 0:34:05.194
<v Speaker 6>with three broken down lawnmowers, this huge grandfather clock that

0:34:05.274 --> 0:34:09.154
<v Speaker 6>doesn't even tick, and a twelve old foot disassembled trampoline.

0:34:09.473 --> 0:34:11.794
<v Speaker 6>We don't even have kids, and we don't have a garden.

0:34:11.834 --> 0:34:15.194
<v Speaker 6>We have a courtyard. Here's the crisis. So last night

0:34:15.234 --> 0:34:18.274
<v Speaker 6>I caught him messaging a stranger about a secondhand commercial

0:34:18.354 --> 0:34:20.953
<v Speaker 6>deep prior and what should be going to do with that?

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<v Speaker 6>When I said absolutely not, he looked me straight in

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<v Speaker 6>the eye and he said, Sarah, you don't understand the market.

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<v Speaker 6>I can flip it for double by Tuesday. Like this

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<v Speaker 6>man has never flipped anything in his entire life. Am

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<v Speaker 6>I married to some sort of entrepreneurial genius and I

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<v Speaker 6>just don't understand how great he is. Or am I

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<v Speaker 6>going to be stuck with this and have a house

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<v Speaker 6>that stinks like a vision ship shop?

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<v Speaker 1>Can you help me? Oh my god, that is genius brilliant.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I can flip it by Tuesday. Oh I love it.

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<v Speaker 3>Doesn't it remind you of the castle dreaming? My thought, Sarah,

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<v Speaker 3>is if he has like an external venue to go

0:35:05.434 --> 0:35:09.034
<v Speaker 3>and take his market book place on entrepreneurial genius, somewhere

0:35:09.074 --> 0:35:12.634
<v Speaker 3>to live, right, maybe rent a garage somewhere, and he's

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<v Speaker 3>out of your house, you know, don't forget we had

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<v Speaker 3>the segment that went off the other people's problems. Where

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<v Speaker 3>was it Debbie whose husband had retired and was at

0:35:22.754 --> 0:35:24.873
<v Speaker 3>home like a millstone around her neck?

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<v Speaker 1>Sarah, this is the gift.

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<v Speaker 3>This is the thing that is going to save your marriage.

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<v Speaker 3>Get him, Tell him he's a genius, but he's just

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<v Speaker 3>too small the house. He needs to spread his wings,

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<v Speaker 3>take that entrepreneurial genius and multiply it. Fantastic. Bye, spend

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<v Speaker 3>the whole day there.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like the man Cave, but off premises, off premises. Yeah, look,

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<v Speaker 4>I get Facebook Marketplace. I don't mind a little bit

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<v Speaker 4>of a sniff around there on the d occasion. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>do we have proof that he's flipping stuff? It sounds

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<v Speaker 4>like nothing's been flipped. And I love her, I love

0:35:58.154 --> 0:35:58.754
<v Speaker 4>his energy.

0:35:58.914 --> 0:36:00.513
<v Speaker 1>You like a bit of Facebook make You've so many

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<v Speaker 1>things on Facebook.

0:36:01.434 --> 0:36:07.074
<v Speaker 4>I bought I bought a motorbike helmet.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, my husband bought a motorbike. I'm not allowed to

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<v Speaker 1>tell his parents and they're eighty seven and ninety three.

0:36:13.114 --> 0:36:14.314
<v Speaker 1>Don't tell my parents.

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<v Speaker 3>But if somebody's dropped it, it could have a crack in it.

0:36:17.234 --> 0:36:19.314
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, it doesn't say I had that.

0:36:19.354 --> 0:36:23.274
<v Speaker 4>I put it in the mail and I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 4>They're not gonna fit in the letter box, is it?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

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<v Speaker 1>I understand.

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<v Speaker 4>Look a friend of mine I went to her house

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<v Speaker 4>recently and she had this beautiful glass table and she

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<v Speaker 4>bought it for six hundred dollars. It was an Italian

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<v Speaker 4>brand and it was worth nine thousand.

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<v Speaker 1>Why had it? Didn't know? She knew what brands to

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<v Speaker 1>look for and she bought it for six hundred. That's

0:36:42.514 --> 0:36:43.754
<v Speaker 1>a good story for Sarah.

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<v Speaker 4>Look, you've got to know what you're looking for, and

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<v Speaker 4>it's got to be stuff that you can resell.

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<v Speaker 1>You've got to know what the.

0:36:48.714 --> 0:36:51.994
<v Speaker 3>Marketplace's husband clearly does because he's got that trampoline, and

0:36:51.994 --> 0:36:53.114
<v Speaker 3>I spy a genius in that.

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<v Speaker 5>I gotta say, I'm not, as you know, I wish

0:36:56.154 --> 0:36:58.354
<v Speaker 5>I was better at reselling because I tend to just

0:36:58.354 --> 0:37:02.993
<v Speaker 5>give everything away. But I have gone on Facebook mark Place,

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<v Speaker 5>and I do understand the allure for the husband. Like

0:37:06.554 --> 0:37:09.714
<v Speaker 5>I will go on there and suddenly I'm not kidding,

0:37:09.714 --> 0:37:10.754
<v Speaker 5>you guys are gonna laugh.

0:37:10.954 --> 0:37:16.234
<v Speaker 1>I think I need like a camper van. I'm like, oh, youfice.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even like to go hiking. I've got no.

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<v Speaker 5>Business, but I have these like visions and I see

0:37:22.834 --> 0:37:25.034
<v Speaker 5>these camper vans on Facebook market and I'm like, I

0:37:25.114 --> 0:37:27.553
<v Speaker 5>got to turn it into like a little mobile office. Yeah,

0:37:27.594 --> 0:37:29.554
<v Speaker 5>and when I'm filming, I could have my own little

0:37:29.554 --> 0:37:32.433
<v Speaker 5>mobile trailer. And so I make these like I just

0:37:32.514 --> 0:37:34.794
<v Speaker 5>have this whole thing in my head. So I do

0:37:34.994 --> 0:37:38.954
<v Speaker 5>understand the allure. But I think Sarah's instincts are spot

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<v Speaker 5>on with like the commercial fryer. Anything that would bring

0:37:42.074 --> 0:37:45.354
<v Speaker 5>maybe too much oil or smell into that, I think

0:37:45.714 --> 0:37:46.194
<v Speaker 5>you need.

0:37:46.074 --> 0:37:46.993
<v Speaker 1>To put your foot down.

0:37:47.354 --> 0:37:50.114
<v Speaker 5>But I would, you know, unless he's got a gambling habit.

0:37:50.194 --> 0:37:53.114
<v Speaker 5>Or something I would encourage. The Facebook marketplace, it just.

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<v Speaker 2>Looks addictive whenever I've gone on it by accident.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean, Like you fell on your computer

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<v Speaker 1>and suddenly you're on Facebook market.

0:38:02.194 --> 0:38:04.473
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes if you go on to your Facebook app on

0:38:04.514 --> 0:38:07.913
<v Speaker 2>your phone and you hit the wrong thing tab, it

0:38:08.034 --> 0:38:09.473
<v Speaker 2>takes you and yeah, it takes you to.

0:38:09.474 --> 0:38:11.034
<v Speaker 1>The mast place.

0:38:11.154 --> 0:38:15.834
<v Speaker 2>Yes, accident, my glasses on, and it's just it's a

0:38:15.914 --> 0:38:18.834
<v Speaker 2>rabbit hole. It's an hour of my time that's gone.

0:38:18.914 --> 0:38:22.274
<v Speaker 2>And it's exactly that you're like this stuff. What if

0:38:22.314 --> 0:38:25.114
<v Speaker 2>I did start jousting, like, you know, what if I

0:38:25.194 --> 0:38:28.634
<v Speaker 2>wanted What if I got into like medieval role play

0:38:28.874 --> 0:38:29.634
<v Speaker 2>with the.

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<v Speaker 1>Next guy I meet on an app? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe I shouldn't say no to this stuff. I've got

0:38:34.394 --> 0:38:35.554
<v Speaker 2>stuff i'd like to get rid of.

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<v Speaker 3>It's actually, can you just send us his number?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I actually have a whole house of stuff i'd

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<v Speaker 1>like him to buy.

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<v Speaker 3>And so I've been thinking about how difficult it would

0:38:44.474 --> 0:38:47.434
<v Speaker 3>be to negotiating in the marketplace, but like, maybe I

0:38:47.554 --> 0:38:49.393
<v Speaker 3>just go straight to him the middle man.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think we should get Sarah to give

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<v Speaker 1>us Dave's.

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<v Speaker 4>Details cut out, you know, Zuckerberg doesn't need any any

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<v Speaker 4>more money from Dave, and we cut it a nice

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<v Speaker 4>cash deal.

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<v Speaker 3>We've got some exercise equipment that's going begging like a

0:39:05.234 --> 0:39:06.154
<v Speaker 3>great clothes hanger.

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<v Speaker 2>What about your feet suckers? Yes, you still got those?

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<v Speaker 2>Can we resell them?

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<v Speaker 1>I just like Dave's entrepreneurial ship, A deep r a

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<v Speaker 1>commercial deep rier. I mean, this guy's thinking big. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that is all we have time for today.

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