WEBVTT - Is This All Jill Biden's Fault?

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<v Speaker 2>When too much out Loud is never enough. On today's show,

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<v Speaker 2>decoding the binfire fever dream that is the American presidential

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<v Speaker 2>race after Friday's debate and why it might all be

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<v Speaker 2>a woman's fault of course, also the bride rioting over

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<v Speaker 2>her wedding photos and Australian politicians Wayward Sons have a

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<v Speaker 2>group chap and it's in a major newspaper. There you

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<v Speaker 2>but first me a freedman in case you missed it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a very big time for France at the moment,

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<v Speaker 1>particularly Paris. They've got the Olympics coming up in a

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<v Speaker 1>few weeks. They're having an election that is not looking

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<v Speaker 1>good for Emmanuel Macron. But the story that we're most

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<v Speaker 1>interested in here and out Loud is the poop protest.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's what's happened. We're four weeks out from the Paris

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<v Speaker 1>Olympics and so excited about Parisians are planning to celebrate

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<v Speaker 1>or protest by pooping in the Seine. The Sin is

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<v Speaker 1>the big river that goes through the center of Paris,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's been illegal to swim there since nineteen twenty

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<v Speaker 1>three due to pollution. It's not a very clean river.

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<v Speaker 3>It's very brown.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's very brown. But while bidding for the Olympics,

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<v Speaker 1>the French government said they'd clean it up. I think

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<v Speaker 1>the triathlon and para triathlons are going to involve swimming

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<v Speaker 1>in the Seine, right, So the Prime Minister, Emmanuel mccau

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<v Speaker 1>he confirmed that it would cost around two point twenty

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<v Speaker 1>five billion dollars Australian to clean the river. Parisians weren't

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<v Speaker 1>happy about that. They said that's too expensive, and they

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<v Speaker 1>also say we're not happy about the strain that the

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<v Speaker 1>Games is going to put on our public transport system.

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<v Speaker 1>People always say that they're all leaving, all organized after

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<v Speaker 1>it such trolls. After it was cleaned for two billion dollars,

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<v Speaker 1>they all organized to protest that by poohing in it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, I'm mad about that.

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<v Speaker 1>And so now they think because they're still e coal

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<v Speaker 1>I detected at unacceptable levels. So what my court said

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<v Speaker 1>he was going to do is go for a swim

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<v Speaker 1>in the scent to prove how clean it was. That

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<v Speaker 1>was called off on the weekend because of the pooh,

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<v Speaker 1>And now they're thinking that maybe the triathlon will not

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<v Speaker 1>have a swimming part.

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<v Speaker 3>This is why we can't things. It would benefit all

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<v Speaker 3>Parisians if it was cleaned up. That is a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of money, but it's an investment. It's been one hundred

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<v Speaker 3>years since you could swim in it. Yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 3>going to cost a lot of money. But the idea

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<v Speaker 3>of swimming near the Eiffel Tower, like, it gets very

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<v Speaker 3>hot in Paris and there is nowhere to swim, so

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<v Speaker 3>that could be a lovely thing for everyone. So what's

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<v Speaker 3>the thinking behind my tax paid dollars have already gone

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<v Speaker 3>towards cleaning this very dirty river that is still dirty.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to go and shit in it. This is

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<v Speaker 3>everything wrong with humanity.

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<v Speaker 2>People always get like this before an Olympics. I am

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<v Speaker 2>old enough to remember, as you would be meya. Just

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<v Speaker 2>before the Sydney.

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<v Speaker 1>Olympics, no one was pooing in Sydney High No, but.

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<v Speaker 2>Sydney people were pissed off. Right after the Olympics, they

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<v Speaker 2>loved it. In the lead up to the Olympics in Sydney,

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<v Speaker 2>there was like, it's costing us too much money. There's

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<v Speaker 2>all this money going into this that should be going

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<v Speaker 2>into this, this, and this Sydney side is saying I'm leaving.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna rent my house so I don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>be here. And then it happened and everyone went, oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god, that was amazing. Everybody loved it.

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<v Speaker 3>Best Olympics ever.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's like in the lead up to the Olympics,

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<v Speaker 2>everyone hates it. And I heard that Paris have been

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<v Speaker 2>trying to do it differently and like use existing infrastructure

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<v Speaker 2>and all that kind of stuff, because that's the only

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<v Speaker 2>way to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>This sin would be considered infrastructure.

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<v Speaker 2>So you know, I reckon that in a few weeks time,

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<v Speaker 2>on the other side of the Olympics, all the Parisians

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<v Speaker 2>who pooped in the sein will be feeling a bit

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<v Speaker 2>dirty about it, a shamed as I should.

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<v Speaker 4>The forty sixth President of the United States, Joe Biden

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<v Speaker 4>for Caloria, and please welcome the forty fifth President of

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<v Speaker 4>the United States, Donald Trump.

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<v Speaker 5>And if I'm elected I'm going to restore Roe v.

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<v Speaker 1>Wade.

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<v Speaker 6>He's willing to, as we say, rip the baby out

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<v Speaker 6>of the womb in the ninth month and kill the baby.

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<v Speaker 6>Nobody wants that to happen. Democrat or Republican, nobody wants.

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<v Speaker 1>It to happen.

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<v Speaker 6>And I'm in very good health. I just won two

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<v Speaker 6>club championships, not even senior, two regular club championships. To

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<v Speaker 6>do that, you have to be quite smart, and you

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<v Speaker 6>have to be able to hit the ball a long way.

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<v Speaker 6>And I do it. He doesn't do it. He can't

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<v Speaker 6>hit a ball fifty yards. He challenged me to a

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<v Speaker 6>golf match. He can't hit a ball fifty yards.

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<v Speaker 5>We're able to make every single solitary person eligible for

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<v Speaker 5>what I've been able to do with the with the COVID,

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<v Speaker 5>I excuse me, with dealing with everything we have to

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<v Speaker 5>do with Look if we finally beat Medicare, and I'm

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<v Speaker 5>going to continue to move until we get the total

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<v Speaker 5>ban on the total initiative relative to what we're going

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<v Speaker 5>to do with more border patrol and more asylum off.

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<v Speaker 6>President Trump, I really don't know what he said at

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<v Speaker 6>the end of this. I don't think he knows what

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<v Speaker 6>he said either.

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<v Speaker 4>Most Americans, most overwhelming majority, do not want to see

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<v Speaker 4>these two running against each other, and America's political system

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<v Speaker 4>could not come up with a better choice than a

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<v Speaker 4>rerun of what happened four years ago.

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<v Speaker 3>On Friday, Australian time, US President Joe Biden and former

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<v Speaker 3>US President Donald Trump engaged in their first political debate

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<v Speaker 3>of the twenty twenty four election campaign, with four months

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<v Speaker 3>to go before Americans head to the polls. I'm spiraling.

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<v Speaker 1>Very much.

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<v Speaker 3>The presidential debate is meant to showcase policy ideas and

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<v Speaker 3>each candidate's vision for their presidency. I don't know how

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<v Speaker 3>to describe what happened last week. Eighty one year old

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<v Speaker 3>Biden was barely coherent. He lost his train of thought.

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<v Speaker 3>His voice was quiet and hoarse, and he looked completely

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<v Speaker 3>out of his depth. He looked terrified, and he looked

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<v Speaker 3>quite pale. He didn't look well and.

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<v Speaker 1>In the split screen because they had quite strict conditions,

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<v Speaker 1>the Democrats established all the conditions for this debate, including

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<v Speaker 1>that the other person's microphone would be switched off when

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<v Speaker 1>each person was speaking, right, because Trump just interrupts and

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<v Speaker 1>takes over and won't shut up. So they did that

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<v Speaker 1>there was also no audience because two elections go. When

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<v Speaker 1>he was debating Hillary Clinton, he would do all sorts

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<v Speaker 1>of shenanigans, like he brought into the audience to sit

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<v Speaker 1>in the front row the women who had accused Bill

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<v Speaker 1>Clinton of sexually assaulting them. The Democrats also decided they

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<v Speaker 1>wanted it to be much earlier. There's never been a

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<v Speaker 1>presidential debate this early, usually within the November election. The

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<v Speaker 1>US elections always at the same time. The debates are

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<v Speaker 1>usually in September.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought you met earlier in the day because Joe Biden, Yeah, hired.

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<v Speaker 1>Also that but in the split screen, so they showed

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<v Speaker 1>the face of the person who wasn't talking, and in

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<v Speaker 1>every split screen when he wasn't speaking, Biden had his

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<v Speaker 1>mouth sort of a little bit open, and he was

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<v Speaker 1>sort of squinting and just looking really confused.

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<v Speaker 3>She looked like shocked or yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. He'd completely disoriented.

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<v Speaker 3>He didn't have energy. He looked completely out of his depth,

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<v Speaker 3>so much so that a White House official told outlets

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<v Speaker 3>that Biden had a cold, seemingly as a way of

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<v Speaker 3>explaining his performance. Then there was seventy eight year old Trump,

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<v Speaker 3>a convicted felon on thirty four counts only weeks ago

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<v Speaker 3>found guilty of a scheme to illegally influence the twenty

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<v Speaker 3>sixteen election through a hush money payment to a porn

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<v Speaker 3>actor who says the two had sex. Trump was more

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<v Speaker 3>restrained than we've seen him in the past, but he

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<v Speaker 3>predictably routinely lied, including stating that Biden is, as you heard,

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<v Speaker 3>willing to rip the baby out of the womb in

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<v Speaker 3>the nine month and kill the baby. As you heard

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<v Speaker 3>there too. There are parts of this debate that sounded

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<v Speaker 3>more like a bad reality TV show or a skit

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<v Speaker 3>on Saturday Night Live than a real high stakes political exercise.

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<v Speaker 3>There's heaps to unpack. The general consensus, In fact, I

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<v Speaker 3>have heard no other take other than this is that

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<v Speaker 3>Biden needs to step aside. Part of being the president

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<v Speaker 3>is instilling confidence in the nation that you are fit

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<v Speaker 3>and competent as a leader. And we know the US

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<v Speaker 3>economy is struggling horrific international conflicts. No one would trust

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<v Speaker 3>Biden with that job at the moment. Maya, how do

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<v Speaker 3>you think this left people feeling? What was the general mood?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think that people are shocked, but this was

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<v Speaker 3>worst case scenario.

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<v Speaker 2>People are shocked.

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<v Speaker 1>People were shocked. So Biden had one job, and that

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<v Speaker 1>is to disprove what people have been saying for several

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<v Speaker 1>years now that he's too old to run and that

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<v Speaker 1>he's not up to it. That was his only job.

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<v Speaker 1>So all the terms of the debate, which was set

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<v Speaker 1>by the Democrats, were designed to help him. Essentially, all

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<v Speaker 1>Trump had to do is to really kind of not

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<v Speaker 1>throw his own feces at the wall, and true, that's

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<v Speaker 1>all he had to do.

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<v Speaker 3>Will appear a little bit restrained. That's his achilles heel,

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<v Speaker 3>and then you've got Biden's achilles heel. And they both

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<v Speaker 3>had two different jobs.

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<v Speaker 1>So the bar for both candidates, this is what's so

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<v Speaker 1>deeply depressing, was so low, Like it was so low,

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<v Speaker 1>and neither of them cleared it. But the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>Biden stumbled so badly and it was so much worse

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<v Speaker 1>than anyone could have possibly ever imagined. As you say, Jesse,

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<v Speaker 1>there was no one in the Democratic Party really, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Obama and a few people have come out

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<v Speaker 1>and sort of tried to say he had a bad night,

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<v Speaker 1>he had a bad debate. What it takes to win

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<v Speaker 1>an election is a very different set of skills to

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<v Speaker 1>what it takes to actually be the president. A lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people say that that's why Hillary Clinton lost because

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<v Speaker 1>she's terrible at campaigning, but she would have been an

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<v Speaker 1>amazing president. Trump is very good at campaigning, and if

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<v Speaker 1>you say very good, means by getting a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>attention in aging people. Because remember, the whole thing about

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<v Speaker 1>the American political system is because voting isn't compulsory, you

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<v Speaker 1>have to make people so interested and so passionately for

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<v Speaker 1>you that they will go and vote and take time

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<v Speaker 1>out of their day, their job, their family, whatever it is,

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<v Speaker 1>and standing a long line and vote. They've got to

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<v Speaker 1>vote for something or really against something.

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<v Speaker 2>And everyone who's vaguely progressive or left leaning was very

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<v Speaker 2>much ready to vote against Trump, and let's face it,

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<v Speaker 2>they probably still will be. But all of those people

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<v Speaker 2>were swallowing what had been being fed to them for

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<v Speaker 2>a long time, which is like, it's nonsense, all these

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<v Speaker 2>fears about Joe, Like you know, because this dialogue has

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<v Speaker 2>been going on for a long time, and you say me,

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<v Speaker 2>here but a few years. But Biden's camp and Biden's

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<v Speaker 2>spin doctors and Biden's surrogates and everyone who is hoping

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<v Speaker 2>that Donald Trump loses the election, has been saying no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>he's great, it's okay, you know, like he's still sharp.

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<v Speaker 2>I just find it hard to watch, Like I couldn't

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<v Speaker 2>even watch clips because I actually feel just desperately sorry

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<v Speaker 2>for him, even though I know it's all his fault.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll get to scond career.

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<v Speaker 2>Biden's fault, yes, but you've got to remember too that

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<v Speaker 2>that was a version of Biden who had spent a

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<v Speaker 2>week locked away and prepped for that debate right whereas

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<v Speaker 2>Trump had campaigned up until the last minute. He knows

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<v Speaker 2>exactly that this is the criticism aimed at him, and

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of the things I've read have said the

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<v Speaker 2>worst performance you can give in a public debate is

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<v Speaker 2>one that confirms everybody's fears. So, as you said me,

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<v Speaker 2>he had one job, which was to allay everybody's fears,

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<v Speaker 2>and he did exactly the opposite. And it was so

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<v Speaker 2>sad to watch because this is a very serious time,

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<v Speaker 2>Like it is always a very serious time, but this

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<v Speaker 2>is a very serious time. These are not serious people,

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<v Speaker 2>Like if we're supposed to believe what we've been being

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<v Speaker 2>told by the democratic side of politics for a very

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<v Speaker 2>long time, which is that Donald Trump is an existential

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<v Speaker 2>threat to everything. And I tend to believe in that.

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<v Speaker 2>I think he's one of the most dangerous about him

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<v Speaker 2>because he stands for nothing except himself, and he will

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<v Speaker 2>make deals with and align himself with the most dangerous

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<v Speaker 2>people in the world if they will pump up his tires.

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<v Speaker 2>So it is an existential threat, and yet it's just

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<v Speaker 2>being allowed to devolve into a banter about golf.

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<v Speaker 1>The absolute shock and horror which quickly curdled in me

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<v Speaker 1>to fury about a country that I don't even live in,

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<v Speaker 1>is how could it come to this? How could in

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<v Speaker 1>a country the size of America. These are the two choices.

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<v Speaker 1>It's twenty twenty four, that's what America is putting up.

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<v Speaker 3>It says a lot about power structures. I think that

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<v Speaker 3>it's a seventy eight year old white man and an

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<v Speaker 3>eighty one year old white man.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know what? It also says a lot about

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<v Speaker 1>the utter, utter hubris of And I'm just going to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about Joe Biden here, someone who won't be told,

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<v Speaker 1>who has no self awareness. I believe that he is

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<v Speaker 1>a patriot. He cares about his country, he cares about America,

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<v Speaker 1>and the fact that he can't see that he is

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<v Speaker 1>going to lose this election in the most massive way.

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<v Speaker 1>The fact that his ego will not allow him to

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<v Speaker 1>step aside. Even though when he ran the first time

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<v Speaker 1>he said I'm going to be a bridging president. He

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<v Speaker 1>essentially said I'm not going to run for a second term.

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<v Speaker 1>So somewhere along the way around chose you.

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<v Speaker 2>So you've got to understand though, To understand that is

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<v Speaker 2>that in the normal order of things, he would definitely

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<v Speaker 2>run for a second term. That's how it works, right.

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<v Speaker 2>You are allowed to serve two terms and no more

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<v Speaker 2>so most people who go and sit in that presidential

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<v Speaker 2>chair of thinking I'm going to do two terms. Of

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<v Speaker 2>course Donald Trump, but his age, his health or those things,

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<v Speaker 2>as you say, I have indicated that he was not

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<v Speaker 2>going to do that, and yet he chose to do that.

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<v Speaker 3>The nature of aging is also an erosion of self awareness.

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<v Speaker 3>So part of me does have a lot of empathy

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<v Speaker 3>for Joe Biden, who has been a working politician. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't for more than fifty years. Do you know anyone

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<v Speaker 3>who is aging? If you know people who are aging,

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<v Speaker 3>I am thinking of someone in my life who wanted

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<v Speaker 3>to drive and he could no longer drive, and we

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<v Speaker 3>would hide the keys and we would say, you can

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<v Speaker 3>no longer drive. This is like widely experience.

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<v Speaker 2>Those people driving.

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<v Speaker 3>Very rarely do they go, You're right, I can't drive anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>So I agree with you, Jesse. So what do you

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<v Speaker 1>do the people around you?

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<v Speaker 3>That love people around you?

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<v Speaker 1>Hence Jill Biden.

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<v Speaker 3>We will get to Jill Biden.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry, we will get to Jill Biden.

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<v Speaker 2>To Jill Biden.

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<v Speaker 3>There's the Democratic Party that I think that they have

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<v Speaker 3>a lot to answer for. But a slight defense of

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<v Speaker 3>Joe Biden is that I think as a president he

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<v Speaker 3>can probably do the job because there are people around

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<v Speaker 3>him who help them. Probably he has thember in relations.

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<v Speaker 1>Literally just so what you're saying, the machine of government

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<v Speaker 1>keeps going and that there are people around.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm also worried that in this incredibly in depth

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<v Speaker 3>fair criticism of Joe Biden, we're letting Trump off scott free.

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<v Speaker 3>And he cried and he's well, it's also Donald Trump's right.

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<v Speaker 3>And this also says something about the culture that we

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<v Speaker 3>find ourselves in, which is style over substance. And we

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<v Speaker 3>had someone who at least has some substance, has some chops,

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<v Speaker 3>has made some good.

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<v Speaker 1>Decisions for the job. You step aside for the good

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<v Speaker 1>of your party, for the good of your country, for

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<v Speaker 1>the good of democracy.

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<v Speaker 3>Just a very complicated moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, Jill Biden, go okay out loud as We had

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<v Speaker 1>a big fight about this, because the first thing I

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<v Speaker 1>said when we were in the planning meeting this morning

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<v Speaker 1>was I'm sorry angry at Jill Biden. Holly said, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Said, why do you always find a woman to blame

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<v Speaker 2>for a man's problems?

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<v Speaker 1>Is not Jill Biden's fast.

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<v Speaker 2>This has got nothing to freaking do with Jill Biden.

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<v Speaker 2>There isn't a woman in the world who's been married

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<v Speaker 2>to a man for forty five years who would not

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<v Speaker 2>publicly defend them in that situation. What they're saying to

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<v Speaker 2>each other right now locked away in Camp David, and

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<v Speaker 2>this might all change in the next twenty four hours.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody thinks it's very unlikely, despite the unprecedented push for

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<v Speaker 2>Biden to decide that he should step down what she

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<v Speaker 2>says to him in private. We have no idea as

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<v Speaker 2>if there is a wife in the world who would

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<v Speaker 2>come out of that and tell the world media he

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<v Speaker 2>was shit.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not asking Jill to tell the world's media. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really not, and I'm going to just take down all

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<v Speaker 1>your arguments one by one. No, My point is this

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<v Speaker 1>conversation is not new. It's at boiling point now and

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<v Speaker 1>at crisis point, panic point, but it's not new. People

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<v Speaker 1>have been talking about this for several years, and in

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<v Speaker 1>all the coverage about whether he would step aside or not,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody has been unanimous in the fact that the only

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<v Speaker 1>person who could convince him to do that is Jill Biden.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what everybody said, right. So back to what happened

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<v Speaker 1>on the debate. The reason I'm agree with Jill Biden

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<v Speaker 1>is that I think Joe Biden is a good man.

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<v Speaker 1>I honestly do. How could you let someone that you

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<v Speaker 1>love go into that situation and humiliate themselves like that

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<v Speaker 1>and whole you say, well, he's got advisors, he's.

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<v Speaker 3>Got this man.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, although you don't control the people that you love,

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<v Speaker 2>I see this playing out in much smaller ways, like

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<v Speaker 2>Jesse's example with the car Keys all the time. Joe Biden,

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<v Speaker 2>despite appearances, it's not like he is literally a baby.

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<v Speaker 1>Well after the debate, there were these watch parties, and

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<v Speaker 1>everyone knew, like everyone was panicking through the debate for

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<v Speaker 1>un minutes, so everyone knew it had been a disaster,

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<v Speaker 1>so they went into crisis mode. He appeared at some

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<v Speaker 1>watch parties. Here's a little clip of Jill Biden introducing

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<v Speaker 1>the crowd to Joe and welcoming Joe to this watch party.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't thank you all enough for staying and for

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<v Speaker 1>being here and for all your support. Joe, you did

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<v Speaker 1>such a great job. You answered every question you knew

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<v Speaker 1>all the Let me ask the crowd, what did Trump

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<v Speaker 1>do back to you saying he's not a child? That

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<v Speaker 1>is literally how I talk to Luna when she can clap,

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<v Speaker 1>And my.

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<v Speaker 2>Point is literally again this is back to a public moment.

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<v Speaker 2>What else is she going to do?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So, first of all, she should have had this

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<v Speaker 1>conversation with him a long time ago, because to.

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<v Speaker 2>Her, she probably is you have no idea what she's

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<v Speaker 2>saying to him.

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<v Speaker 1>So all the coverage in the reporting I've read about

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<v Speaker 1>it is that if she decides that he shouldn't do it,

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<v Speaker 1>he won't do it, which is also alarming, and she

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<v Speaker 1>very much believes, well it's reported across the I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it could be.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's a much bigger picture here, which is that the

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<v Speaker 2>Democrats have a big problem on their hands because if

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<v Speaker 2>not Joe, then who right And the problem with that

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<v Speaker 2>is that there is a woman standing right next to

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<v Speaker 2>Joe Biden, who he chose to be his vice president

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<v Speaker 2>at the last election, who is the literal choice if

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<v Speaker 2>it's not him, and nobody wants her now that.

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<v Speaker 1>Other issue, So they're like, what do we do with

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<v Speaker 1>It's not the issue. The issue is nobody wants to

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<v Speaker 1>because I mean, he did save America from another Trump presidency,

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<v Speaker 1>right and a second term, So everyone in his party

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<v Speaker 1>feels very indebted to him. He is a good man,

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<v Speaker 1>They are loyal. Nobody wants to humiliate him. So everyone

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<v Speaker 1>is basically not wanting to topple him because the indignity

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<v Speaker 1>of that. It's not like in Australia where it's just

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<v Speaker 1>like you knife your leader every few weeks. It would

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<v Speaker 1>be a terrible, terrible Also, it's no one, So it's

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<v Speaker 1>this man's hubris and that people around him. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>believe for a second if Jill Biden and the people

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<v Speaker 1>around him were telling him step down, that he wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>step down.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think that. I just think that responsibility doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>sit on Jill Biden's shoulders.

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<v Speaker 1>She's the only one that doesn't work for him, So

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<v Speaker 1>yes it does.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, that's not true. Like, think about a CEO.

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<v Speaker 3>I keep thinking about this as a business, right, and

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<v Speaker 3>you have a CEO who is going out and representing

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<v Speaker 3>your company. And let's remember that the man that we saw,

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<v Speaker 3>Joe Biden is like he's sitting down with Benjamin Nette

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<v Speaker 3>Yahoo about an international conflict the stakes. Well, that's mortifying

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<v Speaker 3>Vladimir Putin, like these are really really important diplomatic conversations

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<v Speaker 3>that need to happen, and he's not capable of it.

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<v Speaker 3>We all agree, Trump, I don't necessarily agree that he's

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<v Speaker 3>not capable of it.

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<v Speaker 1>And sometimes you have to have hard conversations with people

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<v Speaker 1>you love. And to be clear, I blame Biden. But

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<v Speaker 1>as you say, when you get to a certain age

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<v Speaker 1>and you have cognitive decline, which he clearly does, the

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<v Speaker 1>people around you sometimes have to help you.

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<v Speaker 2>See sometimes you won't listen to them.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, but if this were a CEO, the business, the structure,

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<v Speaker 3>the welfare of that business means that people inside it

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<v Speaker 3>need to have honest conversations with the CEO about their capacity.

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<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't put it on the CEO's of course, to

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<v Speaker 3>say to them, oh, you're not really being completely coherent.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone absolutely is not because everybody else works for you.

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<v Speaker 1>But but you can stay to your partner.

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<v Speaker 2>Since that debate finished on Friday, this is all anybody's

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<v Speaker 2>been talking about. If you really believe that there isn't

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<v Speaker 2>a single person in the Democratic Party who isn't putting

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<v Speaker 2>pressure on Joe Biden to resign as of now. But

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<v Speaker 2>it's a very complicated situation. The idea that he just

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<v Speaker 2>needs his wife to tell him off, pat him on

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<v Speaker 2>the head, and send him off to his armchair watch

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<v Speaker 2>daytime TV is nonsense.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying it's intervention. That intervention needs to be led

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<v Speaker 1>by Jill.

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<v Speaker 2>B No, because there are options, so it might well

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<v Speaker 2>be being led by her, right.

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<v Speaker 3>There are options that aren't Joe Biden having come to

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<v Speaker 3>Jesus moment where he steps down. Like, there's also a

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<v Speaker 3>situation in which the Democratic Party, who is.

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<v Speaker 1>No, they can't, they won't do it.

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<v Speaker 2>They could, So let's get onto that, right if they

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<v Speaker 2>did do what everybody is urging them to do right now,

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<v Speaker 2>which is whether it's because Jill has a quiet word,

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<v Speaker 2>or whether it's because his loyal advisors go and say,

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<v Speaker 2>which is a terrifying thing to do, because if you're

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<v Speaker 2>one of the people who says to him after that, mate,

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<v Speaker 2>you have to go. You're not going to keep working

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<v Speaker 2>for him, correct because he will always remember that. The

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<v Speaker 2>whole thing is if they do, they are thrown into

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<v Speaker 2>unprecedented chaos.

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<v Speaker 4>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>What everyone's saying is the path that could happen now

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<v Speaker 2>is that the convention, which is in August, they could

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<v Speaker 2>choose to throw the nomination open again and reallocate it now.

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<v Speaker 2>Harris is obviously, as I said before, for Kamala Harris

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<v Speaker 2>is the vice president. She is the obvious choice, and

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<v Speaker 2>if Biden agreed to step down and endorsed her, she

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<v Speaker 2>would be the choice. But what I'm interested in is

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<v Speaker 2>why nobody wants that to happen. Why all the good

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<v Speaker 2>will that went towards Kamala Harris. Will remember the day

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<v Speaker 2>of the inauguration, when the world was so energized and

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<v Speaker 2>excited to see a woman, relatively young, woman of color

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<v Speaker 2>being given one of the highest offices in the land.

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<v Speaker 2>That good will seems to have entirely dried up. So

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<v Speaker 2>now when even these very knowledgeable Democrats, of whom there

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<v Speaker 2>are many, are talking about options, they're not saying Harris,

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<v Speaker 2>They're saying all these other names that are out there.

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<v Speaker 2>And in order to get any of those people, they're

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<v Speaker 2>people like Gavin Newsome, people like Gretchen Whim, they would

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<v Speaker 2>have such a long way to get to to anything

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<v Speaker 2>like the brand recognition. Plus all the money that's already

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<v Speaker 2>been raised has been raised for Biden Harris. The system

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<v Speaker 2>isn't set up for this level of chaos, so it

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<v Speaker 2>would be an intensely bold move. And now the Democrats

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<v Speaker 2>are sitting there wrestling with do we throw ourselves into

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<v Speaker 2>that level of chaos and maybe lose, or do we

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<v Speaker 2>stick with the plan that we've got and lose.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly The reason I think that's a good idea is

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<v Speaker 1>if you look at what elections, particularly in America, have become,

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<v Speaker 1>which is essentially reality shows thanks to John Trump. It's exciting.

0:24:24.527 --> 0:24:27.687
<v Speaker 1>So suddenly people are going to be galvanized. There's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be someone new because remember going back to the

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<v Speaker 1>part where people have to be excited. So even if

0:24:32.007 --> 0:24:35.447
<v Speaker 1>Joe Biden had got up and been okay, or even good.

0:24:36.327 --> 0:24:39.327
<v Speaker 1>How excited are you about going to the polls? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not like voting for the first female president or

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<v Speaker 1>the first African American president or someone who is younger

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<v Speaker 1>and seems like they've got a vision.

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<v Speaker 3>Seen how that a new generation. Also, it hands Trump

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<v Speaker 3>an argument, which is this party is completely unstable, and

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<v Speaker 3>we've seen that play out in Australian politics. So I

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<v Speaker 3>think that the keeping Joe Yes, there's an element of

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<v Speaker 3>why won't he step down, but it's also a political strategy,

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<v Speaker 3>which is he was the president that toppled Trump. Giving

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<v Speaker 3>it to someone else that party look chaotic, which isn't something.

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<v Speaker 2>But at this point I agree with me. I think

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<v Speaker 2>it would actually be really energizing. But I am still

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<v Speaker 2>obsessed with why not Harrish?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'll get to that one second. But all Trump

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<v Speaker 1>wants is for them to keep Biden. Right. He knows

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<v Speaker 1>he can pretty much just go on holidays between now

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<v Speaker 1>and November and he will romp it in. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been talking to people who say they're not you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Democratic voters who are so angry that the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>the system has brought us to this point and that

0:25:37.047 --> 0:25:41.247
<v Speaker 1>the Democratic Party have been so lax in providing regeneration,

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<v Speaker 1>a fresh start and thinking this through that they're saying

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<v Speaker 1>they're not going to vote as a protest now, Kamala Harris,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why her approval is so low, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why she has such poor polling, because

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<v Speaker 1>she's been widely criticized for sort of not carving out

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<v Speaker 1>her own role. So she's widely understood and recognized and

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<v Speaker 1>acknowledged to have done a poor job at being vice president.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I can't tell you that I know what she

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<v Speaker 1>should have done and what Joe Biden did so well

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<v Speaker 1>apparently as vice president, or Mike Pence did so well

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<v Speaker 1>as vice president, or Al Gore did so well as

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<v Speaker 1>Bill Clinton's vice president. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's a very difficult job because what you

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<v Speaker 2>have to do is you have to attract just enough attention,

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<v Speaker 2>but not too much attention. You have to be interesting

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<v Speaker 2>enough that you'll get press, but not overwhelm or override

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<v Speaker 2>the press that the president wants, although you might imagine

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<v Speaker 2>at the moment that the president probably wants less price

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<v Speaker 2>and so it's a very difficult dance. And I have

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<v Speaker 2>heard some commentary that she hasn't managed to nail that

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<v Speaker 2>dance in quite the way that say that Biden and

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<v Speaker 2>Obama bromance did. But it is also very hard to

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<v Speaker 2>not think that it can't have anything to do with

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<v Speaker 2>the fact that she is a woman.

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<v Speaker 3>But that one commentary I've been reading too is that

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<v Speaker 3>she's a woman of color, and the Democrats are at

0:27:00.127 --> 0:27:02.527
<v Speaker 3>a point now where they're like, will people not vote

0:27:02.527 --> 0:27:05.727
<v Speaker 3>for her because she's a woman of color? Maybe either way,

0:27:06.127 --> 0:27:08.447
<v Speaker 3>if they won't vote for her, they won't vote for her,

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<v Speaker 3>and if the future of democracy is hinging on this moment,

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<v Speaker 3>which is incredibly depressed, And.

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<v Speaker 2>Then they're saying that that presents the Democrats with a

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<v Speaker 2>very difficult problem because they have to go around Harris

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<v Speaker 2>to get a new nominee, and that's going to tear

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<v Speaker 2>the party.

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<v Speaker 1>Apart as well. So Biden has two choices. Really, he

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<v Speaker 1>can just keep going and double down, which is what

0:27:25.327 --> 0:27:26.847
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people think he's going to do, which

0:27:26.927 --> 0:27:30.207
<v Speaker 1>is shocking. He actually has three choices because he can

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<v Speaker 1>endorse Kamala Harris, which means it won't be contested, she'll

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<v Speaker 1>just become the new leader and she will run for president,

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<v Speaker 1>or he has a hard conversation with Kamala Harris and says,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm for the good of the country, I'm stepping down

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not endorsing you. I'm throwing it open, and

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<v Speaker 1>she then has to throw her hat in the ring

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<v Speaker 1>with some of these other contenders. Over the next seven weeks,

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<v Speaker 1>they go on CNN and make their case and sort

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<v Speaker 1>of act presidential, and then at the convention in seven

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<v Speaker 1>weeks in August, they vote for who they which should

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<v Speaker 1>go to the election.

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<v Speaker 3>Historically, actually happened to Joe Biden because he was the

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<v Speaker 3>vice president of Barack Obama and it was assumed that

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<v Speaker 3>he would be the candidate, and then of course it

0:28:05.447 --> 0:28:08.967
<v Speaker 3>was actually Hillary Clinton after him, So there is precedent

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<v Speaker 3>for that happening. I have two quick questions. Are they

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<v Speaker 3>going to be more presidential debates?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, there's meant to be another one in September, but

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<v Speaker 2>everyone thinks it won't happen unless, of course, there is

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<v Speaker 2>a new candidate.

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<v Speaker 3>And my second question is, Maya, what do you think

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<v Speaker 3>they should do.

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<v Speaker 1>I think they should throw it open for the good

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<v Speaker 1>of the country. I was so disheartened to hear that. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, no one wants to have the hard

0:28:29.967 --> 0:28:33.647
<v Speaker 1>conversation with Joe, which is just awful. If you love

0:28:33.727 --> 0:28:35.647
<v Speaker 1>him and you care about him, either as someone who

0:28:35.647 --> 0:28:38.447
<v Speaker 1>works for him or someone in his family, how can

0:28:38.487 --> 0:28:42.047
<v Speaker 1>you want that? Humil's true.

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<v Speaker 2>I've heard very senior Democrats openly saying that they think

0:28:45.527 --> 0:28:47.367
<v Speaker 2>he should step down for the first time ever. Yeah,

0:28:47.367 --> 0:28:49.047
<v Speaker 2>so it's not like this is not getting to him.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I hope not. I hope it's getting to him.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that they should definitely throw it open because

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<v Speaker 1>I think people are going, you know, wetting their parts

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<v Speaker 1>about it being unprecedented and chaos if he was sick

0:29:01.007 --> 0:29:03.687
<v Speaker 1>and he had to step down for health reasons, which

0:29:03.727 --> 0:29:06.047
<v Speaker 1>could not like they just go, oh, well, Trump's going

0:29:06.127 --> 0:29:08.247
<v Speaker 1>to be president. We can't think of what to do next.

0:29:08.807 --> 0:29:11.767
<v Speaker 1>The part in the system would all work, and they

0:29:11.847 --> 0:29:15.527
<v Speaker 1>should be sending the best possible candidate, one who can

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<v Speaker 1>make the case for generational change and not have people

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<v Speaker 1>choosing between two people who are unfit for the job.

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<v Speaker 6>And I'm in very good health. I just won two

0:29:25.327 --> 0:29:28.887
<v Speaker 6>club championships, not even senior, two regular club championships. To

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<v Speaker 6>do that, you have to be quite smart.

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<v Speaker 5>We're able to make every single solitary person eligible for

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<v Speaker 5>what I've been able to do with the COVID I

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<v Speaker 5>excuse me with.

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<v Speaker 1>What Here's a life lesson for free brides are a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a bride who's gone vile. I'm going to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you a story and try to follow it. I've read

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<v Speaker 1>up on this, so you don't have to. She's an

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<v Speaker 1>American woman called Alexandra J. Conda, and she is at

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<v Speaker 1>the center of what has become known as the Cpia

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<v Speaker 1>bride saga. It all started when she got married on

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<v Speaker 1>an overcast day and she didn't like the way her

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<v Speaker 1>photos looked. She said, her skin looked pale and it

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<v Speaker 1>didn't look like her. So she asked the photographer for

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<v Speaker 1>the original images and wanted to re edit them herself.

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<v Speaker 1>And she said that the way they had been retouched

0:30:27.527 --> 0:30:32.047
<v Speaker 1>and filtered by the photographer was not acceptable and she

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<v Speaker 1>was going to do a better job. Now, all of

0:30:34.367 --> 0:30:37.087
<v Speaker 1>these could have happened behind the scenes, but why would it.

0:30:37.087 --> 0:30:40.287
<v Speaker 1>It of course played out on TikTok. So she made

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<v Speaker 1>a long series of tiktoks. Here's a little bit of them.

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<v Speaker 7>Imagine being almost eight thousand dollars for a wedding photographer,

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<v Speaker 7>and when you raised your concerns.

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<v Speaker 3>They threatened to sue you for slander if you.

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<v Speaker 1>Spoke your truth.

0:30:51.807 --> 0:30:53.967
<v Speaker 3>So I found my wedding photographer on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 7>Like majority of people in this day of age do,

0:30:56.327 --> 0:30:59.047
<v Speaker 7>her feed looked so bright, airy, but also had this

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<v Speaker 7>goldenness to it, and I loved that. But the goldenness

0:31:02.087 --> 0:31:05.287
<v Speaker 7>that it had still captured the beauty of like colors, blue,

0:31:06.127 --> 0:31:09.567
<v Speaker 7>your skin tone, etc. So she delivered the photos, and

0:31:09.647 --> 0:31:11.207
<v Speaker 7>of course right away I'm like, oh my god, I

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<v Speaker 7>love them.

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<v Speaker 3>I love versing one of them.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm like beaming of excitement. And then for about thirty days,

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<v Speaker 7>I'm staring at the photos and I'm like, why is

0:31:17.927 --> 0:31:19.967
<v Speaker 7>there something bothering me? Like, well, I couldn't put my

0:31:19.967 --> 0:31:23.607
<v Speaker 7>finger on it until I realized I'm a meetup artist. Okay,

0:31:23.647 --> 0:31:26.047
<v Speaker 7>I was a meetup artist in the wedding industry for years,

0:31:26.407 --> 0:31:27.847
<v Speaker 7>and I do may all make up for my wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>So is that so interesting listening? I'm glad you spent

0:31:31.367 --> 0:31:33.487
<v Speaker 1>thirty days because you wouldn't want to make a snap,

0:31:33.727 --> 0:31:36.847
<v Speaker 1>you know, judgment on what it was that was bothering her.

0:31:36.927 --> 0:31:40.487
<v Speaker 1>So it took her thirty days. The photographer after she

0:31:40.607 --> 0:31:44.207
<v Speaker 1>started making these Tiktoks threatened to sue her for slander,

0:31:44.247 --> 0:31:46.127
<v Speaker 1>which is fair enough because that's like business ruining. And

0:31:46.127 --> 0:31:48.367
<v Speaker 1>I assume she named the photographer or people worked out

0:31:48.407 --> 0:31:53.447
<v Speaker 1>who the photographer was. Some people reacted with horror, others

0:31:53.487 --> 0:31:55.607
<v Speaker 1>with sympathy. Some people said, do people get married for

0:31:55.647 --> 0:31:57.687
<v Speaker 1>the photos? This is insane to me. I don't understand.

0:31:58.007 --> 0:32:01.527
<v Speaker 1>Others cheered her on for demanding her money back and

0:32:01.567 --> 0:32:04.887
<v Speaker 1>feeling so aggrieved. Jesse, you got married last year and

0:32:04.927 --> 0:32:07.247
<v Speaker 1>you're deep in wedding mode. You were at a wedding

0:32:07.407 --> 0:32:10.287
<v Speaker 1>just a few weeks ago. Do you and your friends

0:32:10.407 --> 0:32:12.527
<v Speaker 1>like your wedding photos? Is it too late for you

0:32:12.567 --> 0:32:13.927
<v Speaker 1>to complain if you don't.

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<v Speaker 3>This speaks to something so much bigger than the CPR

0:32:18.087 --> 0:32:22.367
<v Speaker 3>bride and an overcast day. That is one thing. But

0:32:22.487 --> 0:32:25.287
<v Speaker 3>I almost don't want to get into. As much as

0:32:25.287 --> 0:32:27.447
<v Speaker 3>I love the weeds because the weeds are fun, I

0:32:27.527 --> 0:32:29.727
<v Speaker 3>want to leave those women alone because it's like, it's

0:32:29.727 --> 0:32:30.407
<v Speaker 3>not their fault.

0:32:30.887 --> 0:32:34.447
<v Speaker 2>It's not it's not the bride, not the bride's fault.

0:32:34.967 --> 0:32:36.687
<v Speaker 2>This is an instance in which I'm very happy to

0:32:36.727 --> 0:32:37.327
<v Speaker 2>blame a woman.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a team bride, not team photographer.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, no, I'm also team photographer. I'm probably more

0:32:43.407 --> 0:32:46.127
<v Speaker 3>team photographer than I am team bride. But she is

0:32:46.247 --> 0:32:50.767
<v Speaker 3>just a product of this culture that tells us that

0:32:51.047 --> 0:32:54.727
<v Speaker 3>on our wedding day we have to look like a supermodel.

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<v Speaker 3>And I spoke about this a bit at the time,

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<v Speaker 3>but when I was getting married, the things that I

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<v Speaker 3>learned about what people do in the lead up to

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<v Speaker 3>a wedding from a twelve month I don't even know

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<v Speaker 3>what you'd call it, like facial program where you go

0:33:08.847 --> 0:33:12.807
<v Speaker 3>and get special facial things to look pretty on your

0:33:12.847 --> 0:33:17.927
<v Speaker 3>wedding day, to ridiculous diets, to teeth whitening, to you've

0:33:17.927 --> 0:33:19.167
<v Speaker 3>got to get your hair trial, you got to get

0:33:19.207 --> 0:33:21.887
<v Speaker 3>your makeup trial, like absolutely absurd, And then you go

0:33:21.927 --> 0:33:24.247
<v Speaker 3>and spend an inordinate amount of money on a wedding

0:33:24.287 --> 0:33:30.847
<v Speaker 3>dress and choos and the pressure pretty master. When then

0:33:30.927 --> 0:33:35.647
<v Speaker 3>the photos land in your inbox, you better look hot,

0:33:35.887 --> 0:33:38.807
<v Speaker 3>you better look the best you have ever looked in

0:33:38.807 --> 0:33:39.167
<v Speaker 3>your own.

0:33:39.127 --> 0:33:40.287
<v Speaker 1>But I'm already filtered.

0:33:40.567 --> 0:33:42.607
<v Speaker 3>Well, I think that they get edited or whatever, but

0:33:42.647 --> 0:33:46.367
<v Speaker 3>the problem is it's still you, right. And I was

0:33:46.367 --> 0:33:48.607
<v Speaker 3>sitting there with a bunch of girlfriends literally a few

0:33:48.647 --> 0:33:51.727
<v Speaker 3>weeks ago, and someone said you know. I didn't want

0:33:51.727 --> 0:33:54.047
<v Speaker 3>to say this out loud, but I hate my wedding photos.

0:33:54.087 --> 0:33:56.887
<v Speaker 3>I hate them. And she was saying, I got them

0:33:56.927 --> 0:33:58.607
<v Speaker 3>back and I thought that I was going to look

0:33:58.647 --> 0:34:00.407
<v Speaker 3>the best I've ever looked, and I would be blown

0:34:00.447 --> 0:34:03.887
<v Speaker 3>away by my own beauty. And I wasn't. I just

0:34:04.007 --> 0:34:07.327
<v Speaker 3>looked like myself. And then everyone at the table who

0:34:07.367 --> 0:34:10.647
<v Speaker 3>was married just started whealing and was like, I'm so

0:34:10.807 --> 0:34:13.367
<v Speaker 3>glad you've said it. Some were saying I felt pressured

0:34:13.367 --> 0:34:15.287
<v Speaker 3>to put pictures on Instagram, but I actually hated how

0:34:15.327 --> 0:34:16.887
<v Speaker 3>I looked because of my chin and my hair, and

0:34:16.887 --> 0:34:18.327
<v Speaker 3>why did I choose to do that? And no, no, no,

0:34:18.327 --> 0:34:21.687
<v Speaker 3>no no. And I looked through the three hundred, five hundred,

0:34:21.727 --> 0:34:24.367
<v Speaker 3>eight hundred photos of myself and could barely choose one

0:34:24.407 --> 0:34:24.727
<v Speaker 3>I liked.

0:34:25.527 --> 0:34:30.207
<v Speaker 1>Thirty Days, Holly's, Holly's shuddering and just Holly is an

0:34:30.207 --> 0:34:32.207
<v Speaker 1>existential deep sigh.

0:34:32.287 --> 0:34:37.007
<v Speaker 2>Can I just please take the floor. Why wedding photos?

0:34:37.047 --> 0:34:37.847
<v Speaker 2>What are they for?

0:34:38.287 --> 0:34:38.527
<v Speaker 4>You know?

0:34:38.687 --> 0:34:42.567
<v Speaker 3>Okay, this is a thing. Wedding photos have come to represent,

0:34:42.967 --> 0:34:44.647
<v Speaker 3>these photos that have landed in my in box. I'm

0:34:44.647 --> 0:34:46.127
<v Speaker 3>not saying this is how I felt, but this is

0:34:46.167 --> 0:34:48.807
<v Speaker 3>what the culture is telling us. You have to look

0:34:49.727 --> 0:34:52.487
<v Speaker 3>the best you have ever looked in your life and

0:34:52.567 --> 0:34:54.687
<v Speaker 3>the best you will ever look for her, because there

0:34:54.767 --> 0:34:57.927
<v Speaker 3>is something about that moment that we have been told

0:34:57.927 --> 0:35:00.967
<v Speaker 3>as women, that you better be your thinnest, that you

0:35:01.007 --> 0:35:03.687
<v Speaker 3>better be your most beautiful, that you're young, that everyone's

0:35:03.727 --> 0:35:05.167
<v Speaker 3>going to see these photos, that they're gonna be up

0:35:05.167 --> 0:35:07.207
<v Speaker 3>on your wall, that you your future children might look

0:35:07.207 --> 0:35:08.727
<v Speaker 3>at this, and my mom looks part.

0:35:09.287 --> 0:35:12.167
<v Speaker 1>Have you ever gone into someone's house for a house inspection,

0:35:12.287 --> 0:35:13.807
<v Speaker 1>like if you're buying a house or renting a house,

0:35:14.167 --> 0:35:15.727
<v Speaker 1>and people have no wedding photos.

0:35:15.727 --> 0:35:18.327
<v Speaker 2>After all, lots of my friends have their wedding photos up.

0:35:19.167 --> 0:35:22.047
<v Speaker 2>But I still don't understand, right, because.

0:35:21.687 --> 0:35:23.687
<v Speaker 1>It's a big beauty standard to judge yourself with for

0:35:23.687 --> 0:35:24.087
<v Speaker 1>the rest.

0:35:23.967 --> 0:35:27.287
<v Speaker 2>Of it and beat yourself with for the rest of

0:35:27.327 --> 0:35:29.687
<v Speaker 2>your life. Because you did, as you said, Jesse, spend

0:35:29.727 --> 0:35:32.767
<v Speaker 2>a whole year preparing for Thotels. Clear I did not,

0:35:33.007 --> 0:35:37.567
<v Speaker 2>but you sorry you didn't, and you were heavily pregnant, pregnant,

0:35:37.567 --> 0:35:39.607
<v Speaker 2>and I was there and you looked fucking gorgeous, so

0:35:39.607 --> 0:35:41.127
<v Speaker 2>we just have to put that on the table. But

0:35:41.207 --> 0:35:44.127
<v Speaker 2>still you weren't really in a position where you were like,

0:35:44.447 --> 0:35:45.727
<v Speaker 2>you weren't shredding for the wedding.

0:35:45.727 --> 0:35:46.567
<v Speaker 1>You weren't doing all that.

0:35:46.567 --> 0:35:48.247
<v Speaker 3>That was not your vibe.

0:35:48.527 --> 0:35:51.847
<v Speaker 2>Why don't we do what we do at every other

0:35:52.127 --> 0:35:55.407
<v Speaker 2>major milestone event that we have these days, which is

0:35:55.447 --> 0:35:57.887
<v Speaker 2>you say, the your mates have at it, take a

0:35:57.967 --> 0:36:00.967
<v Speaker 2>million pictures and put them all in a group chat,

0:36:01.167 --> 0:36:02.967
<v Speaker 2>and I'll just pick the ones I like, and those

0:36:03.007 --> 0:36:04.327
<v Speaker 2>will be the ones that we'll put out there. And

0:36:04.327 --> 0:36:06.087
<v Speaker 2>we could all save ourselves a lot of money and

0:36:06.127 --> 0:36:09.007
<v Speaker 2>angst and time. And you could still put whatever filter

0:36:09.087 --> 0:36:10.927
<v Speaker 2>on a you want, print one out at one of

0:36:10.927 --> 0:36:13.687
<v Speaker 2>those like office works things and stick it on the

0:36:13.687 --> 0:36:14.607
<v Speaker 2>wall or put it.

0:36:14.567 --> 0:36:14.927
<v Speaker 7>On the bake.

0:36:14.967 --> 0:36:16.847
<v Speaker 3>You can trust your friends in all the photos, you're

0:36:16.847 --> 0:36:18.527
<v Speaker 3>gonna be blinking. Your friends gonna look hard. And it

0:36:18.567 --> 0:36:19.007
<v Speaker 3>was your wedding.

0:36:19.607 --> 0:36:21.927
<v Speaker 2>There's some picture of you at an event that you.

0:36:22.087 --> 0:36:23.287
<v Speaker 7>Like, isn't there?

0:36:23.727 --> 0:36:27.807
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I don't understand I'm not married, right, so maybe

0:36:27.807 --> 0:36:30.647
<v Speaker 2>that's it. But also when I was home recently in Britain,

0:36:30.927 --> 0:36:33.727
<v Speaker 2>I found my mom and dad's wedding photos because I

0:36:33.767 --> 0:36:36.087
<v Speaker 2>was going through all their pictures to make my dad's

0:36:36.087 --> 0:36:40.047
<v Speaker 2>eighties photo slide. They got married in the sixties there

0:36:40.047 --> 0:36:42.087
<v Speaker 2>are two photos of them black and white.

0:36:42.607 --> 0:36:45.007
<v Speaker 1>Jeez, they must have had color backs. Know what's going on.

0:36:45.647 --> 0:36:49.807
<v Speaker 2>They're standing outside a church smiling. Snap. They're standing next

0:36:49.847 --> 0:36:53.407
<v Speaker 2>to a wedding cake, smiling snap to me because I

0:36:53.447 --> 0:36:57.487
<v Speaker 2>love them. I love those photos. They are important to me.

0:36:57.647 --> 0:37:00.607
<v Speaker 2>That's the you know, a big moment for them. It

0:37:00.647 --> 0:37:05.287
<v Speaker 2>didn't take four hours. There weren't twenty five different framings settings.

0:37:05.287 --> 0:37:07.047
<v Speaker 2>Can we all leave everyone else to get drunk in

0:37:07.087 --> 0:37:07.407
<v Speaker 2>the barn?

0:37:08.327 --> 0:37:09.007
<v Speaker 1>Stand over there?

0:37:09.647 --> 0:37:12.367
<v Speaker 2>She certainly did not have a hair rehearsal. You don't

0:37:12.407 --> 0:37:14.647
<v Speaker 2>even I asked her what color was this thing you're wearing,

0:37:14.687 --> 0:37:16.567
<v Speaker 2>because you can't really tell me black Mike's I can't

0:37:16.567 --> 0:37:20.807
<v Speaker 2>really remember anyway. But the photos will be special to

0:37:20.847 --> 0:37:23.207
<v Speaker 2>you because the day was special to you. This kind

0:37:23.207 --> 0:37:26.967
<v Speaker 2>of shit, Ceep, your bride is everything that is wrong

0:37:27.007 --> 0:37:30.487
<v Speaker 2>with this situation. We have missed the point of weddings

0:37:30.487 --> 0:37:33.967
<v Speaker 2>and relationships and just given ourselves more things to spend

0:37:33.967 --> 0:37:36.847
<v Speaker 2>money on, beat ourselves up about, and decide that we're

0:37:36.847 --> 0:37:38.407
<v Speaker 2>not good enough for and.

0:37:38.487 --> 0:37:40.727
<v Speaker 3>It's in our power to change it. We need a

0:37:40.807 --> 0:37:45.487
<v Speaker 3>moment's silence for wedding photographers. Absolutely makeup artist. I know

0:37:46.527 --> 0:37:49.047
<v Speaker 3>the horror stories. I've spoken to makeup artists who have said,

0:37:49.527 --> 0:37:51.007
<v Speaker 3>you go to do the makeup on the day and

0:37:51.047 --> 0:37:52.407
<v Speaker 3>then they're looking in the mirror. I guess what, You're

0:37:52.407 --> 0:37:54.407
<v Speaker 3>still Jesse on your wedding day, and you're not happy

0:37:54.407 --> 0:37:56.607
<v Speaker 3>because you're like, I'm not j Loo and I was

0:37:56.647 --> 0:37:59.887
<v Speaker 3>promised Jaylo. And then you've got screaming and tantrums and

0:37:59.927 --> 0:38:02.327
<v Speaker 3>all that kind of stuff. And we complain the women,

0:38:02.367 --> 0:38:04.847
<v Speaker 3>and you know, I don't endorse that kind of behavior,

0:38:05.367 --> 0:38:06.007
<v Speaker 3>but this.

0:38:06.047 --> 0:38:07.447
<v Speaker 1>What's obviously Joe Biden's fault.

0:38:07.927 --> 0:38:11.367
<v Speaker 3>His pressure is ridiculous. Maya, do you love your wedding photos?

0:38:11.487 --> 0:38:13.847
<v Speaker 3>Don't have any I've seen a photo of your wedding.

0:38:14.447 --> 0:38:16.447
<v Speaker 1>I didn't have a photographer, we didn't have you.

0:38:17.047 --> 0:38:18.327
<v Speaker 2>You were doing what I was saying.

0:38:18.407 --> 0:38:20.927
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it is so interesting when you think about it, right,

0:38:21.047 --> 0:38:23.287
<v Speaker 1>it's very on brand with how much I sort of

0:38:23.367 --> 0:38:26.047
<v Speaker 1>was not involved with my wedding. It occurred to me

0:38:26.127 --> 0:38:29.407
<v Speaker 1>at one point that we don't have like a photo

0:38:29.487 --> 0:38:33.087
<v Speaker 1>of us with our parents or anything on the date.

0:38:33.167 --> 0:38:35.327
<v Speaker 1>So like, as we were leaving our place to go

0:38:35.487 --> 0:38:38.887
<v Speaker 1>to the reception, I quickly sort of handed someone a

0:38:38.887 --> 0:38:41.167
<v Speaker 1>camera and we sort of gathered on the front steps

0:38:41.167 --> 0:38:43.927
<v Speaker 1>for one second, but it's like, we don't have any

0:38:43.967 --> 0:38:46.047
<v Speaker 1>formal photos, and when I was thinking about, what's the

0:38:46.087 --> 0:38:48.607
<v Speaker 1>point of them. For a lot of women, it is

0:38:48.607 --> 0:38:50.407
<v Speaker 1>the only time they will get their hair and makeup done.

0:38:50.767 --> 0:38:53.327
<v Speaker 1>It is the most expensive dress they'll ever wear. In fact,

0:38:53.367 --> 0:38:56.127
<v Speaker 1>pretty much for everyone, it is the only time in

0:38:56.167 --> 0:38:58.087
<v Speaker 1>their life that they will be the complete center of

0:38:58.087 --> 0:39:02.367
<v Speaker 1>attention before or since. And it might also be the

0:39:02.407 --> 0:39:06.647
<v Speaker 1>only time that everyone in your family of various generations

0:39:06.687 --> 0:39:09.927
<v Speaker 1>is photographed together in a photo that it's not like

0:39:10.167 --> 0:39:13.127
<v Speaker 1>someone's head chopped off and someone's blinking in whatever. So

0:39:13.887 --> 0:39:16.727
<v Speaker 1>they are sort of historical documents in many ways.

0:39:16.767 --> 0:39:19.047
<v Speaker 3>Wedding photos so we know that your value as a

0:39:19.047 --> 0:39:21.527
<v Speaker 3>woman is totally indexed on how you look. That's how

0:39:21.527 --> 0:39:25.087
<v Speaker 3>we're socialized. And on a wedding day you are given

0:39:25.127 --> 0:39:29.967
<v Speaker 3>permission to try to try very hard. Other times, like

0:39:29.967 --> 0:39:31.607
<v Speaker 3>when you come to work or whatever, he's still trying,

0:39:31.887 --> 0:39:35.167
<v Speaker 3>but like you have permission to go one hundred percent, but.

0:39:35.127 --> 0:39:38.647
<v Speaker 1>Not even permission. You're a current pressure. Yes, yes, you

0:39:38.727 --> 0:39:42.047
<v Speaker 1>have the expectation that you will look the best you've

0:39:42.087 --> 0:39:46.647
<v Speaker 1>ever looked. So I get why you want to capture

0:39:46.727 --> 0:39:49.127
<v Speaker 1>the results of that. Yeah, it just seems to be

0:39:49.527 --> 0:39:52.887
<v Speaker 1>a good use of resource to get that on record.

0:39:52.727 --> 0:39:53.527
<v Speaker 3>And it's ridiculous.

0:39:53.527 --> 0:39:55.167
<v Speaker 1>It's not like you can use it for your LinkedIn shot,

0:39:55.207 --> 0:39:56.367
<v Speaker 1>although some people don't be sure.

0:39:56.367 --> 0:39:59.407
<v Speaker 3>They would just prop it really close. But I agree

0:39:59.447 --> 0:40:02.327
<v Speaker 3>that the purpose of wedding photos and we had a

0:40:02.367 --> 0:40:05.167
<v Speaker 3>brilliant photographer, and I love the photos, and she just

0:40:05.207 --> 0:40:08.647
<v Speaker 3>did such a beautiful job because you can see all

0:40:08.647 --> 0:40:11.887
<v Speaker 3>these people in one room who, unless I die tomorrow,

0:40:12.367 --> 0:40:15.727
<v Speaker 3>likely won't be in the same room again, and that's

0:40:15.727 --> 0:40:18.647
<v Speaker 3>really special. And even getting those photos framed and giving

0:40:18.687 --> 0:40:21.887
<v Speaker 3>them to parents and grandparents and everything like it means

0:40:21.927 --> 0:40:24.087
<v Speaker 3>a lot to me. It's almost like a it's like

0:40:24.167 --> 0:40:26.407
<v Speaker 3>capturing a like a historical moment.

0:40:27.407 --> 0:40:29.407
<v Speaker 1>When you just said, unless I die tomorrow, so you

0:40:29.447 --> 0:40:31.447
<v Speaker 1>mean it at a future. Yeah, But we don't take

0:40:31.527 --> 0:40:33.087
<v Speaker 1>photos at funerals, do we No?

0:40:33.127 --> 0:40:35.047
<v Speaker 3>But I mean, I agree with.

0:40:35.047 --> 0:40:37.607
<v Speaker 1>That, and we don't. That's the other time that everyone

0:40:37.647 --> 0:40:40.327
<v Speaker 1>is together, and we don't take photos at funerals, not

0:40:40.367 --> 0:40:43.807
<v Speaker 1>that I'm suggesting we start, So I get that, But

0:40:43.927 --> 0:40:47.847
<v Speaker 1>I do think that photos have become this stand in

0:40:47.967 --> 0:40:51.687
<v Speaker 1>for so much more than just the photos. It's like,

0:40:51.727 --> 0:40:53.847
<v Speaker 1>it's got to capture the feeling. It's got to capture

0:40:53.847 --> 0:40:56.047
<v Speaker 1>the love. It's got to capture you know, you've got

0:40:56.047 --> 0:40:57.887
<v Speaker 1>to look the best you've ever looked. It's got to

0:40:57.887 --> 0:41:01.287
<v Speaker 1>capture every joy. That's a big ask for a photographer.

0:41:01.487 --> 0:41:01.687
<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

0:41:01.767 --> 0:41:04.047
<v Speaker 3>I reckon though, that we don't need permission to go,

0:41:04.087 --> 0:41:06.487
<v Speaker 3>because once you've spent all of that money, you want

0:41:06.487 --> 0:41:08.167
<v Speaker 3>to have the feeling of going. These are great photos.

0:41:08.207 --> 0:41:10.047
<v Speaker 3>If you are bright to your photo, what do you.

0:41:10.127 --> 0:41:10.447
<v Speaker 7>Do with that?

0:41:10.647 --> 0:41:12.367
<v Speaker 1>No one wants to see your wedding photos.

0:41:12.367 --> 0:41:14.127
<v Speaker 3>Oh well, we can sit there. But if you look

0:41:14.127 --> 0:41:17.127
<v Speaker 3>at them and you go, I don't love them, you

0:41:17.247 --> 0:41:19.647
<v Speaker 3>have permission not to love them. That's okay, you can

0:41:19.647 --> 0:41:19.927
<v Speaker 3>move on.

0:41:20.167 --> 0:41:23.247
<v Speaker 1>It's probably not the photographer's fault. Yeah, it's probably just

0:41:23.287 --> 0:41:25.527
<v Speaker 1>that it was an impossible breath and it's something that

0:41:25.527 --> 0:41:27.407
<v Speaker 1>that's just too fast. Face Style.

0:41:30.567 --> 0:41:34.527
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0:41:49.767 --> 0:41:52.447
<v Speaker 2>I was sick last week, but something that pierced my

0:41:52.567 --> 0:41:56.127
<v Speaker 2>migraine headache from hell was a news story of questionable merit,

0:41:56.727 --> 0:41:58.847
<v Speaker 2>something we're not sure we should talk about at all,

0:41:59.087 --> 0:42:00.727
<v Speaker 2>or anyone should talk about it at all.

0:42:00.927 --> 0:42:02.567
<v Speaker 1>So we're going to talk about it.

0:42:03.247 --> 0:42:06.207
<v Speaker 3>We should decide during talking about it whether we should

0:42:06.327 --> 0:42:06.967
<v Speaker 3>talk about it.

0:42:07.767 --> 0:42:10.247
<v Speaker 2>Last week, you didn't you two and took the high

0:42:10.327 --> 0:42:13.687
<v Speaker 2>ground and did not discuss the brief pearl clutching mayhem

0:42:13.727 --> 0:42:16.527
<v Speaker 2>that kicked off around the photograph of the federal opposition

0:42:16.607 --> 0:42:19.687
<v Speaker 2>leader son Tom Dutton holding up a little clear baggie

0:42:19.727 --> 0:42:22.807
<v Speaker 2>of white powder on social media with the caption little

0:42:22.847 --> 0:42:27.607
<v Speaker 2>birthday tree on his eighteenth birthday. Now, as every news outlet,

0:42:27.687 --> 0:42:31.247
<v Speaker 2>Julie noted, and so are we, we are not suggesting

0:42:31.367 --> 0:42:35.167
<v Speaker 2>that the contents of that bag are drugs. But this

0:42:35.367 --> 0:42:38.927
<v Speaker 2>morning I suggested that we should talk about this because

0:42:39.007 --> 0:42:41.287
<v Speaker 2>I'm really interested in a column that was written by

0:42:41.327 --> 0:42:45.127
<v Speaker 2>another politician's son who was once a teenager getting his

0:42:45.207 --> 0:42:48.767
<v Speaker 2>own blasting from the media over his bad behavior.

0:42:49.927 --> 0:42:51.127
<v Speaker 1>Now I think, actually.

0:42:50.887 --> 0:42:53.527
<v Speaker 2>This conversation might even be relevant if your parent isn't

0:42:53.527 --> 0:42:57.207
<v Speaker 2>necessarily famous or powerful, but maybe just has any kind

0:42:57.247 --> 0:42:59.487
<v Speaker 2>of job in your community that comes with a bit

0:42:59.487 --> 0:43:02.447
<v Speaker 2>of an expectation of a certain standard of behavior, like

0:43:02.927 --> 0:43:05.487
<v Speaker 2>a local doctor or a cop, or the football coach

0:43:05.567 --> 0:43:08.807
<v Speaker 2>or a school teacher. Right, if everybody knows who your

0:43:08.847 --> 0:43:13.207
<v Speaker 2>parents and you get in trouble for something, it will

0:43:13.607 --> 0:43:18.287
<v Speaker 2>inevitably reflect on them. And Nick Brax is the son

0:43:18.447 --> 0:43:21.607
<v Speaker 2>of Steve Bras who was the labor premier of Victoria

0:43:21.807 --> 0:43:24.327
<v Speaker 2>from like nineteen ninety nine till two thousand and seven,

0:43:24.407 --> 0:43:26.127
<v Speaker 2>so quite a long time. He was quite famous and

0:43:26.207 --> 0:43:30.207
<v Speaker 2>high profile. And in two thousand and seven, Nick Bras

0:43:30.447 --> 0:43:33.367
<v Speaker 2>had a car accident. He was driving his parents car.

0:43:33.527 --> 0:43:37.007
<v Speaker 2>It was four am. He had been drinking, and he

0:43:37.087 --> 0:43:39.607
<v Speaker 2>was a pea player and he was twenty and no

0:43:39.647 --> 0:43:42.207
<v Speaker 2>one was seriously hurt in the accident, but he crashed

0:43:42.207 --> 0:43:44.727
<v Speaker 2>the car into a tree and he was charged and

0:43:44.767 --> 0:43:47.127
<v Speaker 2>it was a big news story. And it was also

0:43:47.247 --> 0:43:50.767
<v Speaker 2>the third public incident at the time involving him, Nick

0:43:51.207 --> 0:43:53.767
<v Speaker 2>and drink in a short space of time. So the

0:43:53.807 --> 0:43:55.567
<v Speaker 2>media all went nuts for it and they were like,

0:43:55.687 --> 0:43:58.167
<v Speaker 2>what Steve Brack's gonna do. And actually, not that long

0:43:58.207 --> 0:44:02.327
<v Speaker 2>after that, Steve Bras did step down as premiere. Nick

0:44:02.367 --> 0:44:05.367
<v Speaker 2>wrote in the Nine Newspapers Today about Tom Dutton. He wrote,

0:44:05.447 --> 0:44:08.047
<v Speaker 2>I know exactly what it's like to go through what

0:44:08.167 --> 0:44:10.807
<v Speaker 2>he's going through. It would be so confusing and difficult

0:44:10.847 --> 0:44:12.607
<v Speaker 2>for him in the position that he's in, the family

0:44:12.607 --> 0:44:14.407
<v Speaker 2>that he's in, and the age that he is. It's

0:44:14.447 --> 0:44:17.847
<v Speaker 2>a lonely exclusive club. So few people you can talk

0:44:17.887 --> 0:44:20.567
<v Speaker 2>to who understand the experience, and there's no guidebook on

0:44:20.607 --> 0:44:23.687
<v Speaker 2>how to deal with it. And it made me reflect

0:44:23.727 --> 0:44:26.007
<v Speaker 2>on my reaction to the story. I have to admit

0:44:26.047 --> 0:44:28.047
<v Speaker 2>that when I first saw this thing about Dutton, I

0:44:28.047 --> 0:44:34.367
<v Speaker 2>felt a little like dopamine hit of satisfaction, maybe because

0:44:34.447 --> 0:44:37.407
<v Speaker 2>I guess my personal opinion of Peter Dutton, and this

0:44:37.527 --> 0:44:39.767
<v Speaker 2>is my personal opinion, is that he's not a man

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<v Speaker 2>known for his empathy.

0:44:40.887 --> 0:44:41.087
<v Speaker 4>Right.

0:44:41.487 --> 0:44:44.967
<v Speaker 2>He's famously hardline law and order, including when it comes

0:44:45.047 --> 0:44:49.007
<v Speaker 2>to drugs. He does not support harmonimization policies like pill testing.

0:44:49.287 --> 0:44:52.007
<v Speaker 2>He has voted in favor of drug testing welfare recipients.

0:44:52.207 --> 0:44:55.087
<v Speaker 2>He has criticized softening drug laws in places like the Act.

0:44:55.727 --> 0:44:58.047
<v Speaker 2>So when this story first broke, I think there are

0:44:58.087 --> 0:45:01.527
<v Speaker 2>a certain amount of people like me, perhaps who got

0:45:01.567 --> 0:45:05.087
<v Speaker 2>a petty satisfaction to see that powerful people with very

0:45:05.087 --> 0:45:08.567
<v Speaker 2>binary views about things also have to deal with the

0:45:08.567 --> 0:45:11.287
<v Speaker 2>complexity of the people that they love behaving in ways

0:45:11.287 --> 0:45:16.407
<v Speaker 2>that they publicly is. But my wiser mind knows that

0:45:16.567 --> 0:45:19.767
<v Speaker 2>shaming a young man who has no say whatsoever in

0:45:19.807 --> 0:45:24.247
<v Speaker 2>his father's job or his profile means that I know

0:45:24.367 --> 0:45:27.207
<v Speaker 2>that really it's morally reprehensible for his picture to be

0:45:27.247 --> 0:45:31.567
<v Speaker 2>splashed all over everywhere. And as Nick Brax wrote, pile

0:45:31.607 --> 0:45:33.967
<v Speaker 2>and guilt and shame onto young boys for decisions a

0:45:33.967 --> 0:45:36.367
<v Speaker 2>lot of kids will make in their lifetimes doesn't work.

0:45:36.607 --> 0:45:38.767
<v Speaker 2>When that happens, it can stick around for a long time,

0:45:39.047 --> 0:45:41.007
<v Speaker 2>it bleeds into everything else in your life, and you

0:45:41.047 --> 0:45:44.127
<v Speaker 2>become paralyzed worrying about being judged for anything you do

0:45:44.207 --> 0:45:46.847
<v Speaker 2>and what people will think. It plays on your sense

0:45:46.847 --> 0:45:49.967
<v Speaker 2>of feeling autonomous and reinforces the mindset of when I

0:45:49.967 --> 0:45:52.167
<v Speaker 2>make a decision, bad things happen, and it's not how

0:45:52.207 --> 0:45:55.527
<v Speaker 2>we should be conditioned. Mia are the actions of a

0:45:55.527 --> 0:45:58.807
<v Speaker 2>politician's child or the child of any prominent person any

0:45:58.847 --> 0:45:59.767
<v Speaker 2>of our business.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. If there's a blanket answer on this,

0:46:02.007 --> 0:46:04.607
<v Speaker 1>I would say no, actually, And it's interesting because some

0:46:04.687 --> 0:46:07.687
<v Speaker 1>people in defending the way, and let's just go back

0:46:07.727 --> 0:46:11.087
<v Speaker 1>to who is at fault here? The person who leaked

0:46:11.087 --> 0:46:17.287
<v Speaker 1>that photo, which is on Snapchat, it's Jill Biden. No,

0:46:17.447 --> 0:46:19.367
<v Speaker 1>what an asshole of a mate. I mean, this is

0:46:19.407 --> 0:46:21.487
<v Speaker 1>a problem with social media. So many people are following you,

0:46:21.527 --> 0:46:23.327
<v Speaker 1>but someone knew exactly what they were doing when they

0:46:23.327 --> 0:46:26.047
<v Speaker 1>snapped that and shared it. In terms of whether the

0:46:26.087 --> 0:46:29.527
<v Speaker 1>media reports on it or not is more tricky because

0:46:29.927 --> 0:46:33.007
<v Speaker 1>I've heard some people say, well, when you're a politician

0:46:33.047 --> 0:46:37.287
<v Speaker 1>and you use your children in campaigning, you're the one

0:46:37.407 --> 0:46:40.327
<v Speaker 1>that's making them part of the conversation. And we've seen

0:46:40.767 --> 0:46:44.607
<v Speaker 1>different leaders do that in the past, particularly when they're

0:46:44.647 --> 0:46:48.247
<v Speaker 1>doing sixty minutes interviews around an election campaign. Scott Morrison

0:46:48.247 --> 0:46:50.727
<v Speaker 1>did it with his daughter's Tony Abbott. He would always

0:46:50.767 --> 0:46:54.807
<v Speaker 1>take his three young daughters to campaign events and they

0:46:54.807 --> 0:46:56.407
<v Speaker 1>did that thing of when they're in the swimming pool.

0:46:56.447 --> 0:46:59.807
<v Speaker 1>So if it's used as a tool to make you

0:46:59.887 --> 0:47:02.967
<v Speaker 1>more parlatable to the media, it could be argued that

0:47:03.007 --> 0:47:05.767
<v Speaker 1>what they then do becomes a question of public interest.

0:47:06.527 --> 0:47:10.047
<v Speaker 1>I went back on Peter Dutton's Instagram account because some

0:47:10.087 --> 0:47:13.527
<v Speaker 1>people flashed a photo of him with his family. He

0:47:13.607 --> 0:47:17.127
<v Speaker 1>has not published any photos of his family apart from

0:47:17.127 --> 0:47:21.767
<v Speaker 1>his wife, since May twenty six. Twenty twenty two, which

0:47:21.807 --> 0:47:25.487
<v Speaker 1>is when he did a media interview and they took

0:47:25.527 --> 0:47:28.087
<v Speaker 1>a photo declaring himself a candidate for the leader of

0:47:28.127 --> 0:47:30.047
<v Speaker 1>the Liberal Party. In the post that he did, he

0:47:30.047 --> 0:47:32.247
<v Speaker 1>didn't even mention his children or how old they were,

0:47:32.287 --> 0:47:34.367
<v Speaker 1>and they didn't speak, they didn't do any media. It

0:47:34.447 --> 0:47:36.447
<v Speaker 1>was just a picture of him sort of walking down

0:47:36.487 --> 0:47:39.207
<v Speaker 1>the street looking at the camera with his three children.

0:47:39.247 --> 0:47:41.287
<v Speaker 1>He's got two sons and a daughter and his wife.

0:47:41.327 --> 0:47:45.087
<v Speaker 1>His wife is sporadically but in very few I couldn't

0:47:45.087 --> 0:47:47.807
<v Speaker 1>even remember what she looked like. I don't remember ever

0:47:47.887 --> 0:47:49.007
<v Speaker 1>seeing her or hearing from her.

0:47:49.167 --> 0:47:51.247
<v Speaker 3>I don't think he puts his family, and he does

0:47:51.607 --> 0:47:52.167
<v Speaker 3>he doesn't.

0:47:52.607 --> 0:47:56.167
<v Speaker 1>Albo does with his fiancee Jodi, but I can't remember

0:47:56.287 --> 0:47:59.487
<v Speaker 1>much about his children. Because what's different now even compared

0:47:59.487 --> 0:48:01.607
<v Speaker 1>to two thousand and seven is social media and what

0:48:01.727 --> 0:48:05.727
<v Speaker 1>can happen and the Internet. Tanya Plibisek, who was in

0:48:05.767 --> 0:48:07.687
<v Speaker 1>a media interview either on her own or with Peter

0:48:07.727 --> 0:48:10.807
<v Speaker 1>Dutton the next day, was asked about this and she

0:48:11.047 --> 0:48:13.007
<v Speaker 1>very firmly said, I'm not going to speak about it.

0:48:13.047 --> 0:48:15.847
<v Speaker 1>I'm not commenting on it because every single politician knows

0:48:15.887 --> 0:48:17.847
<v Speaker 1>there but for the grace of God goes my family

0:48:18.207 --> 0:48:20.567
<v Speaker 1>or my brother, or my kid, or my uncle or

0:48:20.647 --> 0:48:23.487
<v Speaker 1>my partner. You know, I think that we understand that

0:48:23.527 --> 0:48:27.247
<v Speaker 1>there are certain boundaries. I really felt for everybody in

0:48:27.287 --> 0:48:30.127
<v Speaker 1>that situation, but I particularly felt for Peter Dutton because

0:48:30.127 --> 0:48:33.807
<v Speaker 1>I think that the guilt that he would feel about

0:48:33.927 --> 0:48:38.247
<v Speaker 1>the scrutiny and the attention and the spotlight on his

0:48:38.367 --> 0:48:40.367
<v Speaker 1>kids and on his family because of as you say,

0:48:40.367 --> 0:48:44.207
<v Speaker 1>Holy a decision that he made would be absolutely intense.

0:48:44.287 --> 0:48:45.967
<v Speaker 1>I know that I feel it with my own kids.

0:48:46.287 --> 0:48:48.407
<v Speaker 3>And the question is I mean you brought up and

0:48:48.447 --> 0:48:51.807
<v Speaker 3>I've seen this argument a lot. He has shared photos

0:48:51.807 --> 0:48:55.207
<v Speaker 3>of his family before, but you know, I've shared a

0:48:55.207 --> 0:48:57.847
<v Speaker 3>photo of my daughter before. Does that mean that everyone's

0:48:58.007 --> 0:49:01.207
<v Speaker 3>entitled to see her report card one day? No, I

0:49:01.207 --> 0:49:03.367
<v Speaker 3>don't think that that's a logical argument.

0:49:03.527 --> 0:49:05.207
<v Speaker 1>Or if she's having a tantrum in the street, should

0:49:05.207 --> 0:49:06.047
<v Speaker 1>they take a photo of that?

0:49:06.207 --> 0:49:08.287
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, exactly right. And it's funny that you bring that

0:49:08.407 --> 0:49:11.967
<v Speaker 3>up because Aberze's son. There's this weird story. I went

0:49:12.007 --> 0:49:14.167
<v Speaker 3>down this rabbit hole. I had missed it, but a

0:49:14.447 --> 0:49:18.487
<v Speaker 3>radio announcer was in the Quantess chairman's lounge and he

0:49:18.527 --> 0:49:22.247
<v Speaker 3>saw Anthony Aberneze's son, and he just went he's twenty

0:49:22.287 --> 0:49:23.367
<v Speaker 3>three years old.

0:49:23.247 --> 0:49:23.687
<v Speaker 1>How is?

0:49:24.287 --> 0:49:26.247
<v Speaker 3>And he went on this sort of spray about it,

0:49:26.287 --> 0:49:28.287
<v Speaker 3>that it's ridiculous that someone so young would be in

0:49:28.287 --> 0:49:31.407
<v Speaker 3>that lounge. I think that we need to afford these

0:49:31.447 --> 0:49:35.047
<v Speaker 3>people some level of privacy. Whether or not you think

0:49:35.047 --> 0:49:37.607
<v Speaker 3>you should be in that lounge feels kind of irrelevant.

0:49:37.807 --> 0:49:41.047
<v Speaker 3>Like these people, as you say, are not responsible. They

0:49:41.047 --> 0:49:44.607
<v Speaker 3>didn't decide to be politicians. They're just young men or

0:49:44.727 --> 0:49:47.927
<v Speaker 3>women trying to live their lives. And I felt really

0:49:48.207 --> 0:49:51.247
<v Speaker 3>sad for Tom Dutton. I saw the story pop up

0:49:51.367 --> 0:49:54.847
<v Speaker 3>and I didn't click, and I thought this irrelevant. But

0:49:54.967 --> 0:49:57.407
<v Speaker 3>I know what you're trying to do, and what the

0:49:57.447 --> 0:50:01.127
<v Speaker 3>coverage was trying to do was it had nothing to

0:50:01.167 --> 0:50:03.887
<v Speaker 3>do with Tom Dutton. It was an attempt to shame

0:50:04.327 --> 0:50:05.207
<v Speaker 3>Peter Dutton.

0:50:04.967 --> 0:50:07.687
<v Speaker 1>To weaponize it again, to weaponize it due to their credit.

0:50:08.247 --> 0:50:10.887
<v Speaker 1>The story die because nobody gave it oxygen. Now the

0:50:11.207 --> 0:50:13.807
<v Speaker 1>AOP could have given it oxygen, they chose not to.

0:50:14.127 --> 0:50:16.607
<v Speaker 1>Pretty much, no one gave it oxygen, so no one

0:50:16.647 --> 0:50:19.047
<v Speaker 1>came out and went blah blah blah blah. Everyone just left.

0:50:19.087 --> 0:50:22.007
<v Speaker 3>Do you sort of tabloid me about twenty four hours.

0:50:22.047 --> 0:50:24.287
<v Speaker 2>For about twenty four hours, it was almost like, let's

0:50:24.287 --> 0:50:26.007
<v Speaker 2>see if we can whip this up into a thing.

0:50:26.727 --> 0:50:28.767
<v Speaker 2>And then I agree. I think it did die down

0:50:28.847 --> 0:50:34.207
<v Speaker 2>really quickly, which is good. I understand the instinct to

0:50:34.367 --> 0:50:39.287
<v Speaker 2>go ha hipocrisy at work, or if you feel very

0:50:39.327 --> 0:50:42.287
<v Speaker 2>strongly that someone is a political enemy of yours and

0:50:42.367 --> 0:50:44.887
<v Speaker 2>I don't necessarily mean mine, but you know that you

0:50:44.967 --> 0:50:48.927
<v Speaker 2>will wedge your knife into any gap, any crack, and

0:50:49.007 --> 0:50:52.047
<v Speaker 2>go okay, mister law and Order doesn't show much empathy

0:50:52.127 --> 0:50:55.727
<v Speaker 2>or sympathy for families living in difficult situations on indigenous

0:50:55.767 --> 0:50:59.247
<v Speaker 2>communities or in refuge eue detention centers, but now we're

0:50:59.247 --> 0:51:02.207
<v Speaker 2>suddenly supposed to be empathetic to you. I understand that impulse,

0:51:02.247 --> 0:51:04.847
<v Speaker 2>because there's a bit of it in me, right, But

0:51:04.967 --> 0:51:06.727
<v Speaker 2>I think it's one of those things that you have

0:51:06.807 --> 0:51:09.847
<v Speaker 2>to like hold and look at and go, you know

0:51:09.887 --> 0:51:12.647
<v Speaker 2>what I mean, that's not where we're going here. And

0:51:12.727 --> 0:51:15.967
<v Speaker 2>I think that the Brax column was really interesting because,

0:51:16.647 --> 0:51:18.727
<v Speaker 2>as I say, I reckon that the pressure you'd feel

0:51:18.767 --> 0:51:21.167
<v Speaker 2>not to shame and make life more complicated for your

0:51:21.207 --> 0:51:24.407
<v Speaker 2>parents would be intense. Even as I said, if it's

0:51:24.447 --> 0:51:27.127
<v Speaker 2>something that's much more low key in your community. I

0:51:27.167 --> 0:51:30.367
<v Speaker 2>know that as a parent of a teenager, there is

0:51:30.407 --> 0:51:32.327
<v Speaker 2>a fine line and it's complex to and pick it

0:51:32.447 --> 0:51:36.287
<v Speaker 2>sometimes whether you're the behavior of your kid you're worried

0:51:36.287 --> 0:51:39.967
<v Speaker 2>about for them or for you. And I don't mean

0:51:40.007 --> 0:51:42.567
<v Speaker 2>that as a public person. I mean full stop, you know,

0:51:42.647 --> 0:51:44.447
<v Speaker 2>like it's kind of like when you're at a barbecue

0:51:44.967 --> 0:51:48.367
<v Speaker 2>and your child is being naughty and annoying. Is the

0:51:48.367 --> 0:51:50.087
<v Speaker 2>bit of you that's going and telling them shut up,

0:51:50.087 --> 0:51:53.487
<v Speaker 2>shut down, shut up, shut down because of them or

0:51:53.527 --> 0:51:55.967
<v Speaker 2>because of you, because you feel judged, and you know

0:51:56.007 --> 0:51:58.527
<v Speaker 2>they're all like, well, Holly clearly can't control her child,

0:51:58.647 --> 0:52:00.127
<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean? This is something that comes

0:52:00.167 --> 0:52:03.367
<v Speaker 2>to parenting, and I think that it's when it gets

0:52:03.407 --> 0:52:05.727
<v Speaker 2>to more higher stakes things and the way that we

0:52:05.767 --> 0:52:10.167
<v Speaker 2>all think teenagers should behave, like definitely not dab and drugs,

0:52:10.207 --> 0:52:13.247
<v Speaker 2>being really excellent at school. They should be ducks, they

0:52:13.247 --> 0:52:15.287
<v Speaker 2>should be off to university, they should be doing this,

0:52:15.367 --> 0:52:17.767
<v Speaker 2>they should be doing that. And if they're not doing

0:52:17.767 --> 0:52:21.407
<v Speaker 2>those things, it can be hard to unpick whether you're

0:52:21.447 --> 0:52:23.247
<v Speaker 2>worried about that for them or you. And I reckon

0:52:23.287 --> 0:52:26.087
<v Speaker 2>that that must be magnetized by a million when you're

0:52:26.727 --> 0:52:27.487
<v Speaker 2>in this field.

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<v Speaker 1>In case you missed it, out louders, scrollback, can you

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<v Speaker 1>feed because there was a little treat on Saturday that

0:52:33.167 --> 0:52:35.527
<v Speaker 1>you may have missed because we don't usually drop an episode,

0:52:35.647 --> 0:52:38.367
<v Speaker 1>but we did a special episode because we have been

0:52:38.447 --> 0:52:41.727
<v Speaker 1>obsessed ever since Jesse introduced us to the idea of

0:52:42.207 --> 0:52:46.327
<v Speaker 1>getting our colors done and what season we are, we

0:52:46.527 --> 0:52:49.367
<v Speaker 1>completely have hyper fixated on it. We got the most

0:52:49.367 --> 0:52:51.887
<v Speaker 1>amazing woman called Kim who has a business called Style Sense,

0:52:51.927 --> 0:52:54.487
<v Speaker 1>to come in do our colors and talk not just

0:52:54.527 --> 0:52:59.167
<v Speaker 1>about us, but more generally about what colors suit certain seasons.

0:52:59.407 --> 0:53:01.847
<v Speaker 1>How you can work it out. It's such a cracker

0:53:01.887 --> 0:53:03.647
<v Speaker 1>of an episode. We'll put a link in the show

0:53:03.647 --> 0:53:06.407
<v Speaker 1>notes and will also put a link to a quiz

0:53:06.407 --> 0:53:08.687
<v Speaker 1>that you can do to find out what color you are,

0:53:08.807 --> 0:53:11.727
<v Speaker 1>what is your season? Share it? Tell us what season

0:53:11.727 --> 0:53:14.607
<v Speaker 1>you are. I'm Autumn, not that you asked, Hollywood, are.

0:53:14.567 --> 0:53:16.207
<v Speaker 2>You true spring light?

0:53:16.287 --> 0:53:16.807
<v Speaker 3>Spring light?

0:53:16.847 --> 0:53:17.087
<v Speaker 1>Sprea?

0:53:17.167 --> 0:53:19.727
<v Speaker 3>I remember, and I'm a light Summer. I think light.

0:53:20.487 --> 0:53:21.727
<v Speaker 1>So none of us are the same.

0:53:21.607 --> 0:53:23.047
<v Speaker 3>Which is great because we can swap clothes.

0:53:23.047 --> 0:53:24.687
<v Speaker 1>Now that's one thing that I really have.

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<v Speaker 3>You you gave me. I got, Holly, I don't even

0:53:27.487 --> 0:53:29.607
<v Speaker 3>know if you know this. I got like a bag for.

0:53:30.167 --> 0:53:33.887
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, longer your color.

0:53:33.927 --> 0:53:36.007
<v Speaker 3>Because she was impulsive. I think she would want them back,

0:53:36.167 --> 0:53:37.887
<v Speaker 3>but it was just like, this isn't my color, this

0:53:37.967 --> 0:53:40.007
<v Speaker 3>isn't my color, and so now I have them and

0:53:40.087 --> 0:53:40.847
<v Speaker 3>I look great in them.

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<v Speaker 2>She does a big thank you out loud as to

0:53:44.087 --> 0:53:46.247
<v Speaker 2>all of you for listening to today's show. I'm very

0:53:46.247 --> 0:53:47.767
<v Speaker 2>happy to be back with you, and a big thank

0:53:47.807 --> 0:53:50.407
<v Speaker 2>you to all of our team who've been putting today's

0:53:50.407 --> 0:53:52.367
<v Speaker 2>show together and all our shows this week. We will

0:53:52.407 --> 0:53:54.047
<v Speaker 2>be back in your ears tomorrow.

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