Speaker 1: I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming.
Speaker 2: She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of
Speaker 2: my kissing.
Speaker 3: Style boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours.
Speaker 1: He's in a trash bin. He's non recyclable catching.
Speaker 2: I loved being loved. I love love. On today's episode
Speaker 2: of Where's Your Head At, we'll be discussing body counts,
Speaker 2: which means the number of people you have slept with.
Speaker 3: We will also discuss when you can ask what someone's
Speaker 3: body count is and whether or not you should tell
Speaker 3: your partner how many people you slept with.
Speaker 2: Stay tuned.
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Speaker 3: Hello Matt, Hello Anna.
Speaker 1: I've been dying to talk to you about this.
Speaker 3: And I can't believe this is the first time we're
Speaker 3: discussing this.
Speaker 1: Everyone's been waiting for this. Give us an update on
Speaker 1: Magical Date Girl.
Speaker 2: Ah okay, so the Magical Date Girl and I have
Speaker 2: been for a better time before. It's plodding on quite well.
Speaker 2: Now we are. We're exclusive. So that was a big step.
Speaker 3: Congratulations, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't really think the exclusives are massive step.
Speaker 2: Like it sort of comes to a point where you're like, Okay,
Speaker 2: I'm not interested in anyone else right now.
Speaker 1: You weren't doing it anyway.
Speaker 2: I wasn't doing it anyway. That's just you know, having
Speaker 2: the conversation, which I guess is something that we talk about,
Speaker 2: is a step in the relationship.
Speaker 1: It's a necessary step, it is.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Look, I'm very happy with how it's going to
Speaker 2: the point almost where I think there could be a
Speaker 2: chance I could ask her to be my girlfriend soon.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't want to say anything too soon, but my goodness,
Speaker 2: yeah I don't. Yeah, let's just play it cool and
Speaker 2: oh see where it goes.
Speaker 3: Look, it's a question, how are you gonna ask her
Speaker 3: to be your girlfriend? Like in your mind, have you
Speaker 3: like conjured up a plan.
Speaker 2: I'm thinking about taking her down to like somewhere, a
Speaker 2: nice place, maybe somewhere maybe by the lake, I don't know,
Speaker 2: something nice on the nazy scenery, nice scenery.
Speaker 3: The next episode, can we potentially have our fingers crossed
Speaker 3: that maybe you have a girlfriend officially.
Speaker 2: I mean a lot could happen in a week. I
Speaker 2: don't want to get anyone's hopes up. Let's just see
Speaker 2: where the week goes.
Speaker 1: We'll see where the week goes.
Speaker 2: How about you, Anna, How are you and Michael traveling?
Speaker 2: How was he after his appearance on Where's Your Head At?
Speaker 3: I mean, look, you've met Michael many times. He's super confident,
Speaker 3: very charismatic, and I think he killed it. Like he
Speaker 3: doesn't do like the whole getting up in front of
Speaker 3: cameras or anything like this. So I was honestly so
Speaker 3: proud of him. I thought he did an amazing job.
Speaker 3: He obviously always speaks really well and eloquently. And yeah,
Speaker 3: things are going well between us, deeply into that honeymoon phase.
Speaker 3: I just don't want it to end. Like we're having
Speaker 3: so much fun together. We love hanging out with each other. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm really happy.
Speaker 2: As you know, he got a lot of positive feedback
Speaker 2: for his episode. But even better, it's happy that I'm
Speaker 2: happy that you guys are happy. I can see it
Speaker 2: on you, guys. I love being around you guys. You're
Speaker 2: cute and it's good to see. Thank you, mat But
Speaker 2: it brings us to our topic of today. Yeah, well,
Speaker 2: I'm going to straight up ask you. Have you had
Speaker 2: the conversation about your body count with him or his
Speaker 2: body count? Have you asked him?
Speaker 1: Hmm. Let's jump into the episode and we'll find out.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, Anna, So today we're talking about body count
Speaker 2: for people listening at home, what exactly does a body
Speaker 2: count mean?
Speaker 1: Okay? So, I mean, I guess it started from the army.
Speaker 3: It's the count of bodies that a soldier has killed
Speaker 3: from the enemy.
Speaker 1: But some how in our twenty first century world, it.
Speaker 3: Has transformed into being the number of people you've slept with. Matt.
Speaker 2: So, my mum would say, your notches in your bed head?
Speaker 1: In your bed head, have notches in the bell?
Speaker 2: In the bell?
Speaker 1: That the same one?
Speaker 2: I think that is? That's around the same thing.
Speaker 1: She's a notch in my belt.
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 3: So, Matt, would you reveal your body count to a
Speaker 3: partner if they asked you?
Speaker 2: Okay, great question. I love that straight up I have
Speaker 2: in the past. Yes, yeah, I would not now Okay.
Speaker 2: So second day with Magical Date Girl, we're on a
Speaker 2: walk and she asked me straight up what my body
Speaker 2: count was.
Speaker 1: Wow, big question for a second day.
Speaker 2: And I said, look, I have been in relationships where
Speaker 2: I've expressed it. It's backfired, it's been used against me,
Speaker 2: it's been thrown in my face. I'm not going to
Speaker 2: openly say it. It's by no stretch of the imagination,
Speaker 2: am I saying I've got hundreds, Like, that's not what
Speaker 2: I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I'm not twelve hundred.
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, so what I what I said to it
Speaker 2: was I said so on national television. I said that
Speaker 2: I had slept with one hundred and six women.
Speaker 3: You did so love island, and you got crucified for it.
Speaker 2: I did. The one thing my old man said to
Speaker 2: me was when I got off the show was he said,
Speaker 2: proud of you. You killed it amazing on there. Just
Speaker 2: you should not have expressed your body or how many
Speaker 2: women you've slept with. He said, that's just a gentleman
Speaker 2: doesn't do that. So I took that on board.
Speaker 3: And we've spoken about this as well, and you said
Speaker 3: to me it was your biggest regret. But let's dive
Speaker 3: into that. Why is that a regret of yours? Like,
Speaker 3: why is it so bad having people know how many
Speaker 3: people you've slept with?
Speaker 2: I think there's a massive stigma around it. Like the
Speaker 2: greater the number, the more people think are you're just slack?
Speaker 2: And I hate to say because I don't believe in it,
Speaker 2: but like you're more of a tar, you're more of
Speaker 2: a sleep around all that sort of stuff. Boy, yeah,
Speaker 2: fuck boy, And I don't believe in that sort of stuff.
Speaker 2: I mean, everything is like situational. I guess when I
Speaker 2: was younger, it was more of like something to be
Speaker 2: proud of to your mates. When I was immature and younger,
Speaker 2: it was like, oh, I've slept with X amount. But
Speaker 2: now you grow up and you realize it's not like
Speaker 2: it's just you know what I mean, It's not the
Speaker 2: be all and end all. It's just like You've been
Speaker 2: in a lot of situations where I've been able to
Speaker 2: sleep with different women.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean, so you think that when you're younger,
Speaker 3: you kind of boast about it, and then maybe as
Speaker 3: you get older and that number is probably higher than
Speaker 3: you might like, you're a bit like embarrassed about it.
Speaker 1: Would you say?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I wouldn't say embarrassed, but I mean people can
Speaker 2: use it against you. And that's what I said to
Speaker 2: Magical date girl. I said, I've been in a relationship
Speaker 2: where it was used against me. It wasn't me expressing
Speaker 2: that honesty wasn't the best idea. I said, you can
Speaker 2: tell me yours. I'm more than like she told me hers,
Speaker 2: And I was like, Okay, I just don't think that
Speaker 2: it's healthy to know your partner's BodyCount. I don't think really, I.
Speaker 3: Don't think I've always known all of my partners, and
Speaker 3: I feel like they've always known mine.
Speaker 2: So you openly will share it if they asked, yes, okay?
Speaker 2: And do they openly share it?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean reluctantly sometimes that I might like push
Speaker 3: a little bit and I'll be like I really want
Speaker 3: to know, and then I'll get like a rough area.
Speaker 3: But yeah, I mean most of the time people are
Speaker 3: willing to share, wouldn't you say?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I was until, like I said, it was thrown
Speaker 2: in my face and used against me, And now I'm like.
Speaker 3: That's more just like toxic relationship vibes as opposed to like.
Speaker 2: I've been in healthy ones, and it's definitely been brought
Speaker 2: up as well. Really okay, yeah, like where they've said,
Speaker 2: well did you say this to all the X amount
Speaker 2: you've slept with? That sort of stuff, and I'm just like,
Speaker 2: it can leave for insecurities.
Speaker 3: I feel, yeah, So obviously personally for me, I'd say
Speaker 3: that my body count has always been substantially lower than
Speaker 3: the guys that I've dated, looking like their's is ten
Speaker 3: times twenty times more, And I'm like, WHOA, how is
Speaker 3: this possible? Like that's common right, Like guys have a
Speaker 3: way bigger body count than women generally speaking.
Speaker 2: I feel like, I don't know how you thought you
Speaker 2: think of this, but like I said, when you were younger,
Speaker 2: it was like you'd go out with the boys and
Speaker 2: you'd be like, all right, thriller, the kill who's picking
Speaker 2: up tonight? Sort of thing, and you'd go out for
Speaker 2: that reason.
Speaker 1: So it was like a game.
Speaker 2: It's not so much a game, but more like all right,
Speaker 2: Like that was the intention of going out. It was
Speaker 2: to take someone home, and that was where it was.
Speaker 2: And a lot of boys would do that, a lot
Speaker 2: of my mates would do that. I would find myself
Speaker 2: doing that if the opportunity arose. It was just how
Speaker 2: it was. And obstantially that's happening, and you're like eight
Speaker 2: a and going out a lot. That thing is continuously
Speaker 2: rising to x amount of numbers that you're on.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, I know this sounds like a little bit silly,
Speaker 3: but I was always really conscious to keep my number
Speaker 3: quite low. I feel like the societal pressures that I
Speaker 3: felt like, you don't want to sleep with heaps of guys,
Speaker 3: Like I always had this thing where I was like,
Speaker 3: I don't want him to be able to say I've
Speaker 3: slept with adder.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't believe in the word slut. I don't
Speaker 2: think that. No, I know, I don't think that's a thing.
Speaker 2: I don't I was always raised by my mom and
Speaker 2: that not to give that word any attention. But I
Speaker 2: do agree with what you're saying. Yeah, you didn't want
Speaker 2: people to think that they're because when you have SEXI
Speaker 2: some one, you're opening yourself up to them and you're
Speaker 2: giving you your energy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it is. It's an energy shade.
Speaker 2: All right. And so what would your body count be
Speaker 2: around then? I know you're not going to give it
Speaker 2: exact number. What what are we looking at? Is it
Speaker 2: higher than twenty?
Speaker 3: It's not higher than twenty? How can I give enough
Speaker 3: away without telling? When I met Josh, my body count
Speaker 3: was at twelve. Okay, So I guess like people can
Speaker 3: kind of work out the math.
Speaker 1: But it's lower than twenty.
Speaker 2: So okay, I didn't I actually didn't know. I don't
Speaker 2: know what your body count was actually, but.
Speaker 1: Now you have a rough idea. What's your body count?
Speaker 2: That, like I said, I'm not going to The biggest
Speaker 2: regret was expressing the number. So when I was on Loveland,
Speaker 2: I was one hundred and six.
Speaker 3: And since twenty nineteen heavy partying days had a bit
Speaker 3: of a year relationship, and then you had some heavy
Speaker 3: party days, I feel like it would have gone up substantially.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've put a couple of notches in my BedHead.
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, you've come off a show. It was
Speaker 2: like a lot of partying, A lot of you saw firsthand.
Speaker 2: You were there for a lot of it. Fortunately, Yeah,
Speaker 2: and then you saw what I was up to.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Do you think it matters?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 1: Does it matter?
Speaker 3: Is it just like this thing that we talk about
Speaker 3: that really is irrelevant to everyone's lives?
Speaker 2: It depends I've been told about. I got told by
Speaker 2: a girl and hers was higher than I expected, and
Speaker 2: it took me off by guard.
Speaker 3: Question, was her body count higher than your body count?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 3: No, okay, okay, but I'm just gonna pause, you there,
Speaker 3: because look at the social norms that we've been conditioned
Speaker 3: to be accepting of men with a higher body count,
Speaker 3: but then there was a girl who didn't even have
Speaker 3: as high a body count as you, and it's caught
Speaker 3: you off guard like that just shows like such a
Speaker 3: separation between what's accepted from men and women.
Speaker 2: Right. Look, I didn't really care. I just was a
Speaker 2: bit taken back by that. It was nothing about women
Speaker 2: how much they're sleate with or guys how much devslate with.
Speaker 2: It was just me trying to calculate stuff in my head. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I have a friend who's a girl, and she's the
Speaker 2: exact same as like any guy would be. She doesn't care.
Speaker 2: She just she's totally fucked that stigma off and just
Speaker 2: gone all right, I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna do
Speaker 2: what I want to do. And my hat off to
Speaker 2: her because it's twenty twenty one and you have every
Speaker 2: right to do that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Matt.
Speaker 2: So.
Speaker 3: According to a twenty and eleven to twenty fifteen CDC data,
Speaker 3: women between the ages of twenty five to forty four
Speaker 3: had a median of four point two sexual partners, while
Speaker 3: men in that age group had a meeting of six
Speaker 3: point one sexual partners.
Speaker 1: Does that seem low?
Speaker 2: What? That seems very low?
Speaker 1: That seems very low to me.
Speaker 3: I mean when we were on Love Island we did
Speaker 3: a sexual education on Australians.
Speaker 2: I remember that, and that's that start reminded me of
Speaker 2: that bang on game.
Speaker 1: Because it felt lower than.
Speaker 2: It should have been, and I remember thinking to myself,
Speaker 2: this just doesn't seem Yeah, it seems very low.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I reckon the median body count for
Speaker 3: guys I've dated, they normally say it's like around one hundred.
Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of guys I know are
Speaker 2: around that at my age. What's Michael on guys you've
Speaker 2: done it?
Speaker 3: I did ask him if I was allowed to divulge
Speaker 3: this piece of information, and obviously he doesn't want that
Speaker 3: number out there for everyone, which is totally fair enough.
Speaker 3: I wasn't surprised by his number. I think it's like
Speaker 3: pretty normal for a.
Speaker 2: Guy like so it was around one hundred and something.
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not going to say would I have
Speaker 3: liked it to be lower? Of course, like every girl
Speaker 3: wants to feel like their boyfriend was a virgin when when.
Speaker 1: They met them with all the experience with all the
Speaker 1: still want the experience.
Speaker 3: Yes, okay, Matt, So I have an interesting survey to
Speaker 3: share with you. Out of two thousand people who were
Speaker 3: in relationships, forty percent hadn't disclosed their number, and of
Speaker 3: the fifty eight percent who.
Speaker 1: Had, nearly half shared information within three months of dating.
Speaker 2: Is it weird and that didn't share that with their partner?
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, it is kind of weird, Like why
Speaker 3: wouldn't you share that information? Like obviously those people feel insecure,
Speaker 3: maybe they feel like they're going to be judged. They
Speaker 3: don't want their partner to have a negative opinion on them,
Speaker 3: so they're keeping that information to themselves. Also, interestingly, when
Speaker 3: it comes to sharing the numbers of past sexual partners,
Speaker 3: thirty two percent of the respondents admitted to changing their digits,
Speaker 3: with forty two percent of those being male and twenty
Speaker 3: three percent being females. So the males are actually being
Speaker 3: more dishonest with their partners.
Speaker 1: What do you think of that?
Speaker 2: I could see a couple of blokes maybe going under
Speaker 2: like less really play it down. Have you lied?
Speaker 3: No, I've never lied about my body count. I've just
Speaker 3: always been honest and transparent. But I guess I probably
Speaker 3: if someone asked me too soon, I might say I'm
Speaker 3: not going to tell you, or like, yeah, I feel
Speaker 3: like it's too soon to divulge that type of information.
Speaker 1: But yeah, like I actually.
Speaker 3: Going back to what we were saying before, I reckon
Speaker 3: that guys like amped up a little bit. Really Yeah,
Speaker 3: Like I once had a guys tell me he had
Speaker 3: slept with five hundred women, and I was like, how Like,
Speaker 3: I've done the math, you're a fuck boy, but like,
Speaker 3: how on earth.
Speaker 2: That's an extravagant amount. I think he's lying. There's no
Speaker 2: way you can How old.
Speaker 1: Was he thirty four at the time?
Speaker 2: Who know? It's given benefit of the day.
Speaker 3: Okay, let's jump into talking about what should you share
Speaker 3: with your partner and what should you not share?
Speaker 2: All right, guys, we're going to go through some things
Speaker 2: you should share with your partner and some things you
Speaker 2: shouldn't share with your partner.
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's jump in that. So the first thing that
Speaker 3: we think that you can share with your partner is
Speaker 3: your cheating history. It's good to be open and honest.
Speaker 3: I think if you've cheated and then you don't tell
Speaker 3: your partner, that information could be found out later or
Speaker 3: by an ex partner.
Speaker 1: That's where we get into the red zone. I think
Speaker 1: it's good to be transparent and honest about that one.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree. I think this one should go without saying.
Speaker 2: You should share your medical history, so Sti's medical health
Speaker 2: and anything that could stop you from doing certain stuff.
Speaker 2: But they're going to pick up on it anyway, So
Speaker 2: it's better to be honest and upfront about that sort
Speaker 2: of stuff exactly.
Speaker 3: We then have You should also be open about financial issues.
Speaker 3: If you are joining partnerships with someone you're going to
Speaker 3: be a couple, you know, it becomes a joint battle,
Speaker 3: and I think if you're having issues, it's best to
Speaker 3: be upfront.
Speaker 2: How really do you bring financial stuff up? Because I
Speaker 2: know a lot of people are private about that. What
Speaker 2: would be recommended Tome?
Speaker 3: I mean, look, I really find it uncomfortable and I
Speaker 3: would prefer not to talk about it for the first like,
Speaker 3: say six months. And I think if you're in a
Speaker 3: strong relationship for six months, then you can talk about it.
Speaker 3: But of course, like finances come up here and there,
Speaker 3: like who's paying for this, who's paying for that? And
Speaker 3: you can slowly get into it and kind of eventually
Speaker 3: start talking about those bigger sort of topics and questions
Speaker 3: and future plans. But you know it doesn't have to
Speaker 3: happen straight away.
Speaker 2: I agree.
Speaker 3: We then have anxiety and depression. I think it's good
Speaker 3: in relationships. I suffer from anxiety. It's really good to
Speaker 3: be upfront and open about that. Like I've had boyfriends
Speaker 3: where they're really bad at dealing with it was about anxiety.
Speaker 2: I was about to say, one hundred percent agree. You
Speaker 2: need to know straight off how they're going to react
Speaker 2: to that and how they're going to handle it, because
Speaker 2: you need to be with someone that can handle your
Speaker 2: anxiety and your impression.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and like you know, Michael also suffers from anxiety,
Speaker 3: and we're really good with dealing with each other's anxiety
Speaker 3: because we know about it. You know, if we know
Speaker 3: how to talk to someone with anxiety and how to
Speaker 3: not belittle them or make them feel less that.
Speaker 2: I've dated people that did not have to know how
Speaker 2: to deal with anxiety and fuck at least or some toxic.
Speaker 1: I mean that used to have these.
Speaker 3: So I'd be like, he doesn't he doesn't understand my anxiety,
Speaker 3: and he'd be like, same, she doesn't understand.
Speaker 2: It to try and match my anxiety levels and like
Speaker 2: fucking nasissy, don't do that.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: Past trauma's grief and life changing events, they're so important
Speaker 3: to share with your partner.
Speaker 1: It brings a deeper sense of connection.
Speaker 2: And with that, the perfect timing is you'll know, you'll
Speaker 2: know when you're in the moment and you can express
Speaker 2: and share those moments with someone.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And I think it's really important to make sure that.
Speaker 2: I just put it all out on the table on
Speaker 2: the first date.
Speaker 4: No, yeah, no, And I think it's important to really
Speaker 4: like see how your partner reacts to that, Like do
Speaker 4: they acknowledge your feelings, did they ask you questions about it?
Speaker 1: Are they interested in it?
Speaker 3: Or do they kind of brush those past traumas under
Speaker 3: the rug and pretend that they don't exist. And I
Speaker 3: mean those things can be deal breakers as.
Speaker 2: Well, exactly. And lastly, I think you should share how
Speaker 2: your last relationship ended. I think that can definitely tell
Speaker 2: a lot about someone about how they go about things
Speaker 2: and where their heads at on certain stuff.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I think it's good to see if someone has
Speaker 3: really reflected on their relationship, they can see where things
Speaker 3: went wrong and they're willing to kind of work through
Speaker 3: and make sure those types of issues don't happen again
Speaker 3: in your relationship with them.
Speaker 2: How good is it when someone wants to learn and
Speaker 2: better themselves?
Speaker 3: Man, God sent Okay, Matt, we've spoken about the things
Speaker 3: that you should share with your partner, BodyCount being one,
Speaker 3: if you feel comfortable. But let's talk a bit about
Speaker 3: what you shouldn't be talking to your partner about.
Speaker 2: I think intimate details about your sexual past. Magical Dategirl
Speaker 2: and I were very open about that at the start YEP. Obviously,
Speaker 2: when there's not many feelings floating around.
Speaker 1: It's you don't care.
Speaker 2: You're like, yeah, oh you like to do that, you
Speaker 2: know what I mean? Like that sort of stuff goes around.
Speaker 2: But then as you feelings start to grow, emotions start
Speaker 2: to come into play. We learned the hard way that
Speaker 2: we have now nipped that in the butt. We don't
Speaker 2: you don't want to talk, We don't talk about that stuff. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it took a real nasty turn one night and we
Speaker 2: just realized that's not what we want to talk about anymore.
Speaker 3: And like, if you love someone, you don't want to
Speaker 3: hear about their threesomes and foursomes and crazy Escapades in Vegas.
Speaker 1: Like do you know it was, it's in the past.
Speaker 3: Let's leave it in the past, and like, let's focus
Speaker 3: on you guys.
Speaker 2: That list of things was just an absolute digger me.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. It's the first thing that came
Speaker 1: to my mind. Okay. The next thing is, we don't
Speaker 1: want to talk about all.
Speaker 3: The faults from our last partners and all the problems
Speaker 3: that we face with them and how bad of a
Speaker 3: person they are.
Speaker 1: Like, no one wants to hear that.
Speaker 3: At the end of the day, you were with that
Speaker 3: person at one point, it couldn't have been all bad.
Speaker 1: And you know, again it's good to be respectful.
Speaker 2: Again, we were guilty of that as well, and we've
Speaker 2: nipped that in the butt. Really at the start, we
Speaker 2: were very expressive on what went wrong and what the
Speaker 2: faults were, and we've said no more of that. We don't.
Speaker 2: It does. It's top seck and it doesn't need to
Speaker 2: be done in a relationship.
Speaker 1: The last one that and this one, oh my.
Speaker 3: Goodness, is so stressful in relationships and put a massive
Speaker 3: stress on them, is not to talk about whether you
Speaker 3: miss your ex boyfriend or girlfriend.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, look, this comes into the thing as well.
Speaker 2: Is if like I've been guilty of this in the past,
Speaker 2: is comparing your current relationship to your.
Speaker 1: Last You've done that.
Speaker 2: I have done that.
Speaker 1: I did that, really did do that. I never do that.
Speaker 3: I always take every relationship as like a separate entity
Speaker 3: and like separate thing.
Speaker 2: I did it once and I'll never do it again.
Speaker 2: It's toxic. It's toxic, and it just it dooms something
Speaker 2: from the start. Yeah, Like you sit there and you're like, oh, well,
Speaker 2: she wouldn't have done it like this, that we would
Speaker 2: do this. Take every situation.
Speaker 1: Everyone's different, Yeah, and attack it differently. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I mean, question, do you think you should even be
Speaker 3: in a relationship if you miss your eggs per No, you.
Speaker 2: Need to go be single and reflect.
Speaker 1: And yeah, like you're in the wrong relationship.
Speaker 3: Like I don't miss any of my exes, like like factually,
Speaker 3: like don't miss them, Like, yeah they were great people.
Speaker 1: Yeah I was with them at one point. Yeah, they
Speaker 1: have good qualities. Do I miss them? No?
Speaker 3: Like, why would I be with someone else if I
Speaker 3: still had a longing to an ex?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean if you still, like you said, if
Speaker 2: you still are thinking about your ax and have feelings
Speaker 2: and you miss them, do not get into another relationship,
Speaker 2: move past that, build on yourself, and then find a
Speaker 2: new relationship.
Speaker 3: Okay, guys, well that's all we have time for today.
Speaker 3: I hope you've enjoyed this episode on body counts.
Speaker 1: We'd love to hear what your body.
Speaker 3: Count is, so we are gonna leave a question box
Speaker 3: on our Instagram page Where's your Head at pod I'll be.
Speaker 2: Surprised if people are honest or they're just lying and
Speaker 2: making stuff up.
Speaker 1: Well, let's have some honesty, guys. We want to hear.
Speaker 2: We want to see what the average number is because
Speaker 2: we don't believe the facts that we were told.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, we want to We want to get a
Speaker 3: realistic number, So hit us up. We want to hear.
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Speaker 3: sure you do that now and until next time.
Speaker 1: Bye bye