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Speaker 1: Appogiate production.

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Speaker 2: Life changing language shifts. I learned about language shifts a

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Speaker 2: couple of years ago, and.

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Speaker 1: They are literally life changing.

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Speaker 2: The way you say things can hold such meaning and

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Speaker 2: they can be so powerful in a negative in a

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Speaker 2: positive way.

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Speaker 1: So we've got a couple of examples.

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Speaker 2: Simple language swaps. You guys can start to practice in

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Speaker 2: your every day and you'll start to catch yourself, Like

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Speaker 2: I still patch myself when I'll say something, I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 2: hang on a second, Like this is the main one

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Speaker 2: for me, Okay, I have to do this. How often

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Speaker 2: do we say oh, I've got to do this, I

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Speaker 2: have to do that instead of I get to do this.

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Speaker 2: It is so powerful and it completely shifts and changes

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Speaker 2: the whole energy in your body and that task that

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Speaker 2: you think you have to do, if you can switch

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Speaker 2: it to I get to do this, it makes you

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Speaker 2: grateful for that task and like, if you put it

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Speaker 2: in a working scenario, I compare it to like previous

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Speaker 2: jobs that I've had that I've hated.

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Speaker 1: I'm like winging about having to do something.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, this is a choice, Like I actually

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Speaker 2: get to do this, and this helps me be able

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Speaker 2: to do the thing that I really want to do.

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Speaker 1: So I'm actually.

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Speaker 2: Grateful I get to do that. Yeah, And that's that

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Speaker 2: simple shift and swap.

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Speaker 3: I love that one. Yeah, completely, the whole body, like

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Speaker 3: your whole body language changes. You're like, oh I have

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Speaker 3: to do this, and it's like I get to do

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Speaker 3: this exactly like you lift yourself up, you do.

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Speaker 2: And being around people that use that language is so

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Speaker 2: awesome to be around, Like those humans that are grateful,

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Speaker 2: they get the job done, they don't complain, they just

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Speaker 2: get into it. I just love being around those humans.

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Speaker 2: So that's a human I want to be. So that's

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Speaker 2: one of my main language shifts. That's been a real

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Speaker 3: He's a good reminders. Yeah, Like I catch myself out

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Speaker 3: to you, I'm like, oh, cure the change that my

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Speaker 3: one is. I can't do it to how can I

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Speaker 3: do it? Oh?

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Speaker 1: I love it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because I feel like we go through phases with

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Speaker 3: someone's like, oh, but can we do that? And then

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Speaker 3: I'm like, no, we can. There's always way it work,

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Speaker 3: Like how can we make this work?

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Speaker 2: Yes, there's always a solution, isn't there? And if you

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Speaker 2: have that mindset to be solution based, like it's not

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Speaker 2: even an option it's like, how do we get this stuff?

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Speaker 3: To figure it out? It's okay, might need to work

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Speaker 3: a bit harder money to do this, money, put more

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Speaker 3: money in there, money to do that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you can always figure out a way one

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Speaker 1: hundred percent.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: You just won't get far in life if you just

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Speaker 2: think you can't do things. Yeah, if you believe you

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Speaker 2: can or you believe you can't, you're right.

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Speaker 3: But if you stop and you think that too, you're

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Speaker 3: not even going to try. When you change the language

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Speaker 3: like how, it's like, oh, okay, now I've actually got

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Speaker 3: to sit down and think about.

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Speaker 1: It exactly, believe you can, and you're halfway there.

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Speaker 3: That's it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this one was a tough one.

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Speaker 2: I feel like for so many years, and sometimes I

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Speaker 2: still catch myself where I'll say things like I'm so

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Speaker 2: upset that they made me feel like this. It's like, no,

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Speaker 2: they're not in control of how you feel. They might

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Speaker 2: have contributors, but instead you can say I'm so disappointed

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Speaker 2: that I didn't stand strong on my boundaries.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So at the end of the day, it's not that

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Speaker 2: person's fault. If you're feeling a certain way. No one's

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Speaker 2: made you do anything. If they've guilt shipped you or

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Speaker 2: pressured you to do something, yeah, that's not nice. But

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Speaker 2: you still have power to say no. So if you've

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Speaker 2: go of your boundaries, that's on you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So when you change to be like.

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Speaker 2: Oh, really disappointed that I didn't stand strong of my boundaries,

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Speaker 2: you're taking responsibility and ownership with that, and you can

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Speaker 2: take that lesson and be like, next time, I'm not

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not their fault.

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Speaker 2: We have to fully take ownership and responsibility for everything. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: people contribute and come into your life and say and

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Speaker 2: do certain things, but at the end of the day,

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Speaker 2: we have to take full responsibility.

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Speaker 3: And when you do, you're not pointing a finger, You're

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Speaker 3: working yourself.

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Speaker 1: Exactly. Yeah, exactly. I really love that one.

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Speaker 3: So my next one is a very simple one that

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Speaker 3: I think gets overlooked. I think we all I definitely

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Speaker 3: still get guilty of this sometimes saying yes when we

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Speaker 3: really mean no. Yeah, I was like, hey, I miss you,

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Speaker 3: I haven't seen you for ages, I really want to

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Speaker 3: catch up this afternoon. You're looking down, You're like, oh

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Speaker 3: my god, this afteroon, I have this through that to

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Speaker 3: do this. Do that too, especially if you are a

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Speaker 3: doing something, and they can be like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 3: like you're at home, you're hanging out. It's like, no,

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Speaker 3: I'm actually working.

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Speaker 1: We've got stuff to do.

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Speaker 3: See what stuff to do? And like yeah, Sometimes I

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Speaker 3: catch up someone. I'll be like yes, and then I'll

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Speaker 3: just get up the next morning and or whatever. But

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Speaker 3: sometimes I think I need to be a bit more like, oh,

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Speaker 3: i'd love to cat talk with you too, Like let's

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Speaker 3: organize a time. Yes, yeah, not right now, but yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's so true. Yes, okay, this next one I love.

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Speaker 2: I feel like all of us will relate when really

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Speaker 2: hard things happen our life and we can stay in

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Speaker 2: a story that was the worst thing that ever happened

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Speaker 2: to me, but a language shift and is like, oh

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Speaker 2: that was really harder. I remember when that happened to me. Man,

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Speaker 2: I learned a lot. I grew so much. I have

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Speaker 2: so much more resilience, I have so much more understanding,

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Speaker 2: even though that was really challenging, Like that really stretched

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Speaker 1: Now I can handle so much more. I understand so

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Speaker 2: But it's very easy to just say, oh, that was

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Speaker 2: the fucking worst time of my life. Yeah, finding the

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Speaker 2: can switch it to be like, yeah that was fucking hard, validated.

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Speaker 2: I've got a bigger capacity, Like how cool, so much

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and you're so right. The only person that's having

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Speaker 3: a negative effect on is yourself. I keep telling yourself

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Speaker 3: like that was so bad. That was so bad, Like yeah.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna feel pretty bad.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but if you can go, oh wow, like yeah

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Speaker 3: my mental health and made me do this.

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Speaker 1: It made me show up differently.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, forced me to learn that about myself,

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Speaker 2: like I needed to learn that lesson.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So that's an awesome thing, like.

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Speaker 3: That little saying we always say, how life like pushes

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Speaker 3: you and pushes you until you get to the point

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Speaker 3: sometimes it like you got a really big lesson like yeah,

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Speaker 3: and you're like, fuck, it really wants me to learn this.

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Speaker 2: Yep, but yeah, I love that, like nudge nudge, nudge push.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this one I've been seeing floating around lately and

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Speaker 3: I really really like it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So instead of one day day one.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I did a whole reel on this. What did

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Speaker 3: So instead of going, oh, yeah, one day I'll do this, Oh,

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Speaker 3: one day I'll do that, it's like, when are you

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Speaker 3: be day one. Today can be day one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been loving that.

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Speaker 3: You're floating around a bit lately, super trend the same.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, I just I think that's so true.

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Speaker 3: I think we've always all got so much going on.

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Speaker 3: And it's like, are you going to continue to push

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Speaker 3: that thing asidecause obviously if you're thinking about it and

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Speaker 2: And it's same with like healthy eating and exercises. It's like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I start Monday, Why today's Wednesday. Why can't you start

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Speaker 2: today and make decisions for your body, for your healthy

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Speaker 2: your goals right now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So that quotes that's super aligned. I love that.

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Speaker 1: It's so good. It's a good one.

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Speaker 3: So this one I don't know to let's find out, oh,

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Speaker 3: rather than I'm like, oh, I don't know how to

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Speaker 3: was like, that's really cool.

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Speaker 2: I need to practice that more because I get scared

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Speaker 2: I'll avoid it. Yeah, and like delegate, but it's so true,

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Speaker 2: like let's find out, let's learn. Like you said before,

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Speaker 2: there's always a way.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but it was just so I've never heard that before.

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Speaker 3: Like to change that, I don't know to like, let's

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Speaker 1: That's so nice.

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Speaker 3: It's such a nicest way to say it too, because

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Speaker 3: even like to team members, like if say you're having

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Speaker 3: a chat and they're like, oh, I don't know how

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Speaker 3: to do that, we could be like, oh, sweet, let's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Positive, it is positive. It's taking initiative, it's stepping up. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's a good one. Like I'm going to

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Speaker 3: keep that one up my sleeve. So this one from

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Speaker 3: I can't to I choose yes. So at the end

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Speaker 3: of the day, if you're like, oh, I can't get

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Speaker 3: to the gym today, it's like, no, I choose to not.

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Speaker 1: Go to today. Such a powerful one, isn't it.

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Speaker 3: I can't eat healthy, I don't have time to go

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Speaker 3: to the shop now. Actually, you're just choosing to do

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Speaker 3: other things other than going to the shop and getting

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Speaker 3: the food.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I've had one similar before that it was like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I can't get to the gym, but change the language

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Speaker 2: to saying the gym is not a priority.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's a good one. Okay.

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Speaker 2: Wow, that hits harder because it's a truth. If you're

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Speaker 2: not making time for it is not a priority. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you say that, like I like I don't have time

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Speaker 2: But yeah, if you just switch it saying it's not

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Speaker 2: You're gonna go to the gym or you're gonna keep

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Speaker 2: saying your excuses and that it's not important.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it really promotes action.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it makes you and like you said, it makes

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Speaker 1: I saying that? Yeah that's a good one like that.

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Speaker 3: This one's very simple, but just talk about what you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just to kind of I don't.

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Speaker 3: Know irection with scarcity to always like go oh.

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Speaker 1: Yes and pull back. But you literally you can go

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's it.

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Speaker 2: When you are using a certain language, you've got the

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I love that focusing more on what you do want

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Speaker 1: Want, because if you if you use that language.

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Speaker 2: that is going to attract more of that. If you're

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Speaker 2: of that, whether that's money with that's deeper connection with that.

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Speaker 2: It's more health to be so aware of your language

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Speaker 3: Because even if I say, like, oh, I really don't

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Speaker 3: so energized, so happy about the best afternoon. And yeah,

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Speaker 3: But if you say, even if you say don't, it

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Speaker 3: doesn't take that into accountability. You're speaking negatively. You're attracting

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Speaker 2: Got to be so aware of the frequency that you're

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Speaker 2: sitting at, hay. If you're not open and self aware,

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Speaker 2: you're closed. Like that's another.

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Speaker 3: Do you're not open your clothes Like, if you're not

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Speaker 3: aware of it, you're just like kind of sleep walking, yes,

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Speaker 3: sleep walking through life?

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Speaker 1: Yeah no, thank you. Just surviving, not thriving.