1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:04,519 Speaker 1: Coming up on relatable watching a grown man pick tomatoes 2 00:00:04,559 --> 00:00:08,479 Speaker 1: out of a fucking burrito or tomatoes off of a burger, Like, Okay, 3 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:11,319 Speaker 1: you can go sniff cocaine on the weekend and they 4 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 1: drink beer and smoke cigarettes and vape, but you can't 5 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:17,599 Speaker 1: fucking eat a tomato. Literally, grow up. 6 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 2: The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Oddie Clark aka 7 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 2: Mummy and my partner in crime, mister Jake Craig aka Daddy. 8 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:42,199 Speaker 1: Yes, and he is Mummy because he's decided that he 9 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:42,880 Speaker 1: doesn't want to wear. 10 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:48,200 Speaker 2: Socks anymore, and Jake is Daddy because he's gonna suck 11 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:48,840 Speaker 2: on my toes later. 12 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 1: I actually shouldn't have brought it up. Genuine foot fetishes 13 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: like zero king shaming from me. I just find to 14 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 1: be like people, like people getting horny. Actually, question, is 15 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 1: it a wild thing to just assume that I feel 16 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 1: like no women have a foot fetish and only men 17 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 1: have a foot fetish? Is it because women's feet are 18 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:18,319 Speaker 1: nice to look at? 19 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:19,199 Speaker 2: Yeah? I have no idea. 20 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: Once again, no king shaming. 21 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 2: I wish I had a kink kind of same as 22 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 2: to your personality, as to my demeanor in the bedroom, 23 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 2: I wouldn't I would not dislike And also like I 24 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 2: want to have a kink and keep it a secret. 25 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 1: I want if you had a kink, what would it be? 26 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 1: And I would. 27 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 2: Genuinely not mind feet really, but like they don't turn 28 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 2: me on. 29 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 1: They grossed me out too, so but on what I'm 30 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 1: saying is like. 31 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:42,399 Speaker 2: If I could get a bit of a cheeky foot 32 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:44,319 Speaker 2: job going on and it really gets me going, It's 33 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 2: like that's my vice. If I couldn't have someone else's 34 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 2: my girlfriend's feet touch in my penis No, like some 35 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 2: people get it like a foot job. I those things 36 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 2: have been on the ground or is like the best 37 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 2: thing in the world and that's like what makes them come. 38 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 2: But I am so confident when I say this. No 39 00:02:03,120 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 2: women have a foot fetish. Only men have foot fetishes? 40 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 2: Is it because deeping it men's feet? You can't really 41 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:13,799 Speaker 2: do anything to the female anatomy. 42 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:16,799 Speaker 1: Yeah, like you don't have that. 43 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:19,679 Speaker 2: You don't have enough dexterity in your toes, like like 44 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:26,239 Speaker 2: quick dexterity like you do with your fingers. Yeah, imagine 45 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 2: that big toe doing something like Yeah, That's what I'm 46 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 2: saying is like I feel like once you get to 47 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 2: a point like there would be no consistency, Like I 48 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:36,519 Speaker 2: can move my big toe, but like my whole. 49 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: Foot's movie, you know what I mean, I've got a 50 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 1: small I've got a small big toe too, so that's 51 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 1: not doing anything else either. Yeah. 52 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 2: And also it's like I'm not gonna like just fucking 53 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 2: cork it with my big toe either, like it's not 54 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:52,639 Speaker 2: going in. You can like finger or rob on my 55 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 2: big toes, only rubbing on the outside, Like nothing's going 56 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:56,000 Speaker 2: in there. 57 00:02:57,320 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 1: No way, not at all. 58 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 2: Right, anyway, that was an interesting unexpected mandatory socks every 59 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:16,679 Speaker 2: episode Relatable's work uniform is the only thing is parent Yeah, 60 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 2: the only thing you have to wear is socks. Everything 61 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 2: else is optional. 62 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 1: But we changed studios and now this is in my parents' house. 63 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 2: And it's like I feel like common courtesy no shoes 64 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 2: and I'm just home anyway, so sometimes I don't have 65 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 2: shoes or socks on. 66 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:31,079 Speaker 1: Yeah, but that is that actually is a good segue 67 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 1: to Relatable's voicemail, with the prompt being what made you 68 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 1: realize men are dumb? 69 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 2: And the way we started that episode might make you 70 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 2: realize that. But let's not waste any time. Let's get 71 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 2: straight into it. 72 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 3: I realized that men were dumb when I've seen so 73 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 3: many of them fumble, real successful buddies just because they 74 00:03:54,760 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 3: have a really successful career. Instead of being supportive and 75 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 3: proud of the girl, they just get intimidated by it. Like, 76 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 3: what is that about. 77 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 4: That's dumb. 78 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 1: That is dumb intimidation insecurity. 79 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:17,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's something to do with the masculine energy feeling. 80 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 2: Jeopardized Jeopardyz Yeah, Jeopardy TV show, Jeopardy Jeopardy. 81 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 1: It wasn't a Jeopardy Jeopardy. I think it's Jeopardy. 82 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 2: No, no, no. 83 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 1: The word you're looking for is. 84 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:31,719 Speaker 2: There's an RN. No. 85 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:37,039 Speaker 1: I think it's Jeopardy Jeopardy. No, it's Jeopardy. A. I'm 86 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:39,719 Speaker 1: dying on this hill. Do you think you're right or not? 87 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:43,680 Speaker 1: So a week or two ago, you use the word condemn. 88 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 1: Let's not let's no, no no, But you were right. 89 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 1: Oh yes, I was like, let's not go back in 90 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:48,279 Speaker 1: the path. 91 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 2: I looked it up when I was editing. I was like, 92 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 2: I need to look this up. And condemn is to 93 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 2: like give praise. 94 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 1: And so you were like saying you were condemning someone, 95 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 1: and I thought you were doing the wrong But I 96 00:04:57,400 --> 00:05:00,479 Speaker 1: thought you were. I thought condemnment, like taking is away 97 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:04,039 Speaker 1: the opposite of praise, and so I don't want to 98 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 1: like just assume that because you got that right, you're 99 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:10,799 Speaker 1: getting this right. Jeopardy and like, Jeopardy isn't a word. 100 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 1: I'm thinking about the TV show and it was Jeopardy. 101 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 1: It's Jeopardy. What's not it is? It's Jeopardy, Jeopardy, Jeopardy, 102 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 1: Jeopardy is the show? Proven you wrong? Right here? 103 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 2: Okay, TV show, Jeopardy, Jeopardy TV show. 104 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 1: Oh, it's Jeopardy. 105 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 2: It's not is an a R d y. I thought 106 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 2: it was Jeopardy, Jeopardy, Jeopardy. I think it's Jeopardy. 107 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 1: I'm still right. No, it's Jeopardy. 108 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:43,720 Speaker 2: He comments below, Who's right, it's Jeopardy Party je It's 109 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 2: not Jeoparty, it's Jeopardy. 110 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 1: I'm right right, it's Japarty. That says Jeopardy. That's says 111 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. It should be is Jeopardy. And 112 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 1: you think it's Jeopardy, but it's actually Japarty. I'm getting confused. Japarty. 113 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 2: Also, that wasn't the shot kind of oh my one 114 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:04,599 Speaker 2: was like I thought it was like Survivor s Jeopardy 115 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:06,880 Speaker 2: and it was like an obstacle course. 116 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 1: But I think I'm wrong. I think I'm wrong. 117 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:13,160 Speaker 2: Ah yeah something yeah, like if your man is not 118 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 2: supportive in your endeavors and you are more successful than him. 119 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 2: I feel bad for the baddies sometimes because if you're 120 00:06:21,560 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 2: too much of a baddie, men get intimidated. But also 121 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:26,840 Speaker 2: that's their problem, not yours, So it is a good thing. 122 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 2: I mean I feel bad for the bad yeah, yeah, yeah, 123 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:31,599 Speaker 2: but yeah, I don't know what it is. I kind 124 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 2: of think like I've kind of always thought it's a 125 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:38,599 Speaker 2: bit sexy if damn yeah, like boss us, I'm probably 126 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 2: not meant to say boss us bitch, but I mean no, 127 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:43,280 Speaker 2: I think well, because I mean the word bitch is 128 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 2: just not if you think about it, like a bitch 129 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:50,279 Speaker 2: as old like the definition definition of it I think 130 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 2: is to do with like a woman being like a 131 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 2: rude person or something like that. It's like boss us, 132 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:57,279 Speaker 2: but it's actually meaning I meant it in a good way. 133 00:06:57,440 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 1: And then like also, I don't know, I think just 134 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:06,120 Speaker 1: like unintentionally boss us bitch is like sort of micro. 135 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 1: I don't want to say misogyny because misogoyny means like 136 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 1: a man hating a woman. But it's like boss us 137 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 1: bitch is kind of saying like you can't just be 138 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 1: a boss, like you have to be a boss use 139 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 1: woman or a boss us bitch. It's like whereas if 140 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:23,360 Speaker 1: we were talking about it man, we'd be like, well, 141 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 1: what a boss? But voice, you could argue is like 142 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:28,679 Speaker 1: a double on tandra. Isn't that what It's called double 143 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 1: on tendre? What does that mean? 144 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 2: It's like like two meanings for one word. Yeah, it's 145 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 2: funny because it's like you mean it as an endearing thing. Yeah, 146 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:38,720 Speaker 2: but when you break it down, it's like, yeah, I 147 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 2: should I just say, like what a boss. 148 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 1: Boss? 149 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:46,720 Speaker 5: Right next one, he relates how dumb men were when 150 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 5: I was talking about my career. I'm going to become 151 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:56,239 Speaker 5: a lber and delivery nurse and his answer to that was, oh, 152 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 5: so you just want to lift boxes all day and 153 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 5: do that? And I was like, what do you mean. 154 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:05,120 Speaker 5: He's like, well, labor and delivery, you're laboring and delivering 155 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 5: things here at the hospital, so you're like lifting boxes 156 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 5: and transporting things. And I'm like, he's like, I don't 157 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 5: know who you have to get a four year degree 158 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 5: for that, but okay, whatever, And I said, no, like 159 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:21,480 Speaker 5: labor and delivery, like obstetrics, like birth, and he didn't 160 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 5: understand it all what I was talking about. 161 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 1: To be fair, what that could be misleading? 162 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:33,320 Speaker 2: No, as soon as she said I want to be 163 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:37,200 Speaker 2: a labor and delivery nurse, I obviously knew she meant 164 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:38,040 Speaker 2: delivering babies. 165 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:42,559 Speaker 1: But if you take out the word nurse, labor nurse 166 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 1: was there, and he still didn't understand, Like, obviously there's 167 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 1: gonna be a janitor to move the fucking boxes around 168 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 1: and guess what, he's probably gonna be a fucking man 169 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:55,679 Speaker 1: because he's dumb. Yeah, true, that was mean. Sorry, No, 170 00:08:55,760 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 1: I hate to Janet. Sorry, I was just just think 171 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 1: some hyperbole. 172 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:04,440 Speaker 2: It's kind of like is it kind of like I 173 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 2: was going to say, a carpenter is a builder in Australia, 174 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 2: but also like carpenters are Why doesn't a carpenter just 175 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 2: lay carpet. 176 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:14,720 Speaker 1: Because he's not a cup citar, he's a carpenter and 177 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 1: before the tea? Yeah, but why is it called being 178 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:19,679 Speaker 1: why are you? Why is she so confusing? As well? 179 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 2: Don't come to my trade, like, don't come after my 180 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 2: trade like that, all right, I will defend it with 181 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 2: my honor until I die a carpenter. If the values don't. 182 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 1: Know I actually am a licensed carpenter his fucking feet. 183 00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 2: I'll sell you what I can do with her. 184 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:40,839 Speaker 6: So the guy I'm saying at the moment, we were 185 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 6: talking about Jennifer Ghana the other night and he said, 186 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:48,560 Speaker 6: I didn't realize she was an actress. And I said, 187 00:09:48,559 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 6: what do you mean, What did you think she did 188 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:53,200 Speaker 6: like a singer? And he said, no, she's got her 189 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 6: own skin care products. And I said, Jennifer Ghana and 190 00:09:57,720 --> 00:10:00,480 Speaker 6: he's like, yeah, it's like the biggest brand the world, 191 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:05,079 Speaker 6: like one of them. He was talking about Ghana. Yeah, 192 00:10:05,320 --> 00:10:10,199 Speaker 6: he thought it was her brand. I said to him, 193 00:10:10,720 --> 00:10:11,680 Speaker 6: thank god, you're pretty. 194 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:18,200 Speaker 1: Oh, I don't want to lie. I like getting when 195 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 1: you say something stupid and people go, thank god, you're pretty. 196 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 2: Kind of a compliment. 197 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:25,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you're like kind of a compliment something 198 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:27,120 Speaker 1: in life. Dumbest thing I think. 199 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 2: I used to think. 200 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:32,839 Speaker 1: You know the rapper Gucci made, Yeah, she genuinely believed 201 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 1: he owned Gucci. 202 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:37,360 Speaker 2: I was like, I was like, obviously he owned Gucci, 203 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:39,440 Speaker 2: because how is Gucci going to let him put Gucci 204 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:39,840 Speaker 2: in his name. 205 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:42,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, but he doesn't own Gucci. 206 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 2: Fair. Yeah. 207 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I reckon. 208 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 2: I've nothing's coming to mind, but I reckon. I've had 209 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 2: some very similar yeah mindsets. 210 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:51,359 Speaker 1: All Yeah. 211 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:55,120 Speaker 4: What made me realize men were dumb was that when 212 00:10:55,520 --> 00:11:00,040 Speaker 4: my ex boyfriend and I were still together and it 213 00:10:59,920 --> 00:11:03,280 Speaker 4: was my birthday, he told me that he was jealous 214 00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 4: of me, that I had so many people messaging me 215 00:11:07,360 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 4: happy birthday. 216 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:15,719 Speaker 1: What yep, yeah, I did that last week as well. 217 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 1: I said something and she like replied, he's a yeah, 218 00:11:22,040 --> 00:11:28,480 Speaker 1: delete delete that guy, delete empty that trash a he's 219 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:32,080 Speaker 1: a hater even jealous of that. The insecurities in man, 220 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:33,400 Speaker 1: he is your fucking birthday. 221 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:36,280 Speaker 2: Also, if you're jealous of it, just keep that to yourself, Like, 222 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:40,720 Speaker 2: oh yeah, I've never understood, like I don't don't. 223 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 1: I don't think I have a jealous bone in my body. 224 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:47,199 Speaker 2: A oh, I like I do, but but like I 225 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 2: don't know over a little random things not like that. 226 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 2: And I've never understood like how someone could take action 227 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 2: and be like, oh my god, I'm so. 228 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:57,360 Speaker 1: Jealous of like people are texting you on your birthday. Also, 229 00:11:57,400 --> 00:11:59,679 Speaker 1: I think that like your mind is there a thing 230 00:11:59,800 --> 00:12:03,839 Speaker 1: is Yeah, So jealousy and envy are two different things. 231 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 1: Like if I was like, okay, I can be jealous 232 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:10,160 Speaker 1: of someone but not dislike them for it. Like people, 233 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 1: people can take it to a point where they're jealousy 234 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:13,679 Speaker 1: like makes them hate a person. 235 00:12:13,760 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 2: What's that? 236 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 1: Is that envy or is that jealousy? 237 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 2: I would say, isn't Envy's like like I envy you 238 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 2: is like I want I wish I was, Yeah, And 239 00:12:24,320 --> 00:12:25,760 Speaker 2: I think jealousy is that you have. 240 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:28,880 Speaker 1: Jealousy is like fuck, I wish you weren't getting what 241 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:29,680 Speaker 1: you're getting. 242 00:12:29,880 --> 00:12:32,680 Speaker 2: I think, yeah, basically, yeah, I think jealousy is like 243 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:36,120 Speaker 2: you gotta feel it jealousy Either or both are toxic traits. 244 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:38,400 Speaker 1: I mean yeah, I think, well, jealousy, I feel like 245 00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:41,680 Speaker 1: you could feel jealousy but also jealousy but don't act 246 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 1: on it. Yeah, exactly, Like I don't know, what's something 247 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 1: I could be like, I don't know. 248 00:12:46,520 --> 00:12:49,560 Speaker 2: Let's say you got a new pair of like fucking 249 00:12:49,720 --> 00:12:52,199 Speaker 2: sick shoes you could be jealous about, and it's like 250 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:53,640 Speaker 2: I'd be jealous. I'd be like I'm jealous of tho 251 00:12:53,640 --> 00:12:54,960 Speaker 2: shoes and it's like I'm not. I'm not gonna get 252 00:12:54,960 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 2: them now because I I will never be a. 253 00:12:57,360 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 1: Sheep to you, and then that's. 254 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 2: I'll be jealous, but then my ego will stop me 255 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:06,400 Speaker 2: from getting then I want. 256 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 1: The best thing is when you're a trendsetter. 257 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:11,839 Speaker 2: Yeah fair, Being a trend set is cool. I want 258 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 2: to say. I want to say I I reckon. I 259 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:17,840 Speaker 2: was one of the first pioneers of Von Dutch hats. 260 00:13:19,559 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 1: Remember when I got that. 261 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:25,840 Speaker 2: Von Dutch has been around it like lately, you don't 262 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 2: like him, but they've come back around about starting about 263 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 2: two and a half three years ago. I was one 264 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:32,400 Speaker 2: of the first persons to get a Von Dutch hat, 265 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:35,080 Speaker 2: and our whole group gave me that much ship for wearing. 266 00:13:35,160 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 1: I had like a red flannel flannel let Von Dutch. 267 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 2: Hat, and I was like, I feel like I've always 268 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 2: liked them, and now everyone's got them. 269 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:45,920 Speaker 1: I don't like them on me, but I like suit 270 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:46,600 Speaker 1: my skinny head. 271 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:49,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, did everyone give a shit for that. 272 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:51,199 Speaker 1: Anymore? 273 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:51,840 Speaker 2: Sorry? 274 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 1: I didn't defend you at the time. Maybe I was 275 00:13:53,640 --> 00:13:54,439 Speaker 1: hoping on the band. 276 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:57,520 Speaker 2: Maker probably probably like I like that hat, but I'm 277 00:13:57,520 --> 00:13:59,599 Speaker 2: not gonna let him know, and I'm not going to 278 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 2: get one of the more. 279 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:04,960 Speaker 1: Either men are dumb, because what do you mean you 280 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 1: could have been a pro athlete? What do you mean 281 00:14:09,640 --> 00:14:11,440 Speaker 1: if I didn't? Yeah, what do you mean you're going 282 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 1: to have been a pro athlete? 283 00:14:12,240 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 2: Okay, b one, what do you mean you are a 284 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:17,520 Speaker 2: pro athlete just because you don't want to be one? 285 00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:20,080 Speaker 2: Obviously you want to be one. There's a time to 286 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 2: give up. If you could pick one sport what it 287 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 2: would it be to be a pro athlete that? 288 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 1: Oh, golf really pro? Yeah, like pro athlete as in 289 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 1: and I'm like dominant in my field. 290 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:29,680 Speaker 2: It's because that's easy. 291 00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:34,520 Speaker 1: You can fucking make like twenty million dollars a year. 292 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:38,080 Speaker 2: Probably more with sponsorships. Yeah, and play it. 293 00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:42,480 Speaker 1: Until you're like seventeen. It's a good sport, eh, Like, 294 00:14:42,680 --> 00:14:46,680 Speaker 1: I can't wait to have kids. They're getting into golf tennis, 295 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 1: are you kidding? 296 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 2: Like as soon if I have like son, daughter, I 297 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:56,440 Speaker 2: don't care, right, I will be putting just like really 298 00:14:56,440 --> 00:14:59,360 Speaker 2: cool golf highlights on YouTube. Just that's what they're watching, 299 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:03,680 Speaker 2: and that's what growing up they will be wanting golf. Yeah, 300 00:15:03,840 --> 00:15:05,120 Speaker 2: I reckon what's your score? 301 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 1: Anything? 302 00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:08,520 Speaker 2: But soccer? Would you actually choose soccer? 303 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:11,320 Speaker 1: Like for like if I could play in the Premier League, 304 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 1: that would be hectic, but that's like a given. I'm 305 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 1: going to say right now, O f one, how sick 306 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:20,080 Speaker 1: with that? That would be so cool? 307 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:21,120 Speaker 2: Okay for me. 308 00:15:21,160 --> 00:15:23,840 Speaker 1: If it's not golf, professional ice hockey, that's what I 309 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 1: want to Tennis would be up there too, a little 310 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:29,400 Speaker 1: bit nerdy, but also the older on I'm getting, the 311 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:33,240 Speaker 1: more I appreciate it. I keep on seeing tennis videos 312 00:15:33,280 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 1: on like my rears and my TikTok and then like 313 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 1: pick a ball and paddle, and I just think that 314 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:42,080 Speaker 1: tennis really missed out with me not growing up playing tennis. 315 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 1: I think I would have been great at it. I 316 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 1: played it. I played tennis for about six months. I 317 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 1: played for like three years. 318 00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 2: Remember our old pee teacher, mister Lumsdon, it was my 319 00:15:51,240 --> 00:15:52,320 Speaker 2: tennis gach I do remember. 320 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:55,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love Yeah, but are you talking in school, 321 00:15:55,480 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 1: out of school? Out of school, you've played for six months, 322 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 1: give it up. Obviously it wasn't for you. I think 323 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:04,640 Speaker 1: I gave up because I adhd either. 324 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:06,560 Speaker 2: Adhd or just like I probably didn't want to go 325 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:08,400 Speaker 2: one day and my parents didn't make me sound like 326 00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:09,680 Speaker 2: I'm not going again. 327 00:16:09,880 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, and also a very laxic daysical coach too. Yeah, 328 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:16,080 Speaker 1: he was pretty lax a daisy like he just hired 329 00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:18,640 Speaker 1: out some fucking local tennis courts every Saturday Sunday morning 330 00:16:18,640 --> 00:16:21,400 Speaker 1: and then just run in and charged these parents twenty 331 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:23,720 Speaker 1: bucks ahead or whatever to like coach your kid out 332 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:27,200 Speaker 1: to play ten twos on a weekend two hours. He 333 00:16:27,240 --> 00:16:29,280 Speaker 1: would have made like some decent He did it for like. 334 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:31,760 Speaker 2: Years and years and years. Yeah, why not respect the 335 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:33,440 Speaker 2: how tennis is a cool sport? 336 00:16:33,480 --> 00:16:34,360 Speaker 1: I agree? I agree. 337 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:38,400 Speaker 2: Boyfriend thought that when babies were born, their eyes stayed. 338 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 1: Closed for two weeks, like puppies and kittens. That's when 339 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 1: I thought boys were them. Does that happen so puppies 340 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:47,280 Speaker 1: and kittens? Yeah, I didn't know that. 341 00:16:47,360 --> 00:16:50,720 Speaker 2: So yeah, when puppies are born, their eyes just like 342 00:16:50,800 --> 00:16:52,720 Speaker 2: stay closed for a few weeks. What do they do? 343 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:53,400 Speaker 1: How do they see? 344 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:57,840 Speaker 2: They don't they go you mean their eyes clothes, they're 345 00:16:57,840 --> 00:16:58,720 Speaker 2: just running into shit. 346 00:16:59,080 --> 00:17:00,560 Speaker 1: Well, they can barely can walk. 347 00:17:01,080 --> 00:17:02,920 Speaker 2: They like can't Like when puppies are first born, in 348 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:04,639 Speaker 2: the first couple of weeks, they can't really do anything, 349 00:17:04,640 --> 00:17:07,119 Speaker 2: but they're like trying to find like their mother's nipples. 350 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:08,119 Speaker 2: The only thing they can do is they can like 351 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:09,960 Speaker 2: kind of squir them up to the mum's tit. Oh, 352 00:17:10,040 --> 00:17:11,840 Speaker 2: and then they just go by sense and on. 353 00:17:12,040 --> 00:17:17,120 Speaker 1: And then also not entirely sure where they do their business, 354 00:17:17,160 --> 00:17:17,879 Speaker 1: but they do it. 355 00:17:19,040 --> 00:17:21,240 Speaker 2: Puppies have their rise close for yeah, like two three weeks. 356 00:17:21,240 --> 00:17:24,399 Speaker 1: I didn't know that. So I also knew for a 357 00:17:24,440 --> 00:17:25,280 Speaker 1: fact babies don't it. 358 00:17:25,480 --> 00:17:27,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I feel like I've seen a baby be 359 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:30,200 Speaker 2: like pictures of the newborn baby eyes have been open. 360 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:32,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, because that guy's a freaking idiot. 361 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:37,720 Speaker 2: Imagine, he never spoke that into existence, and he just 362 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:41,119 Speaker 2: always thought that with like conviction behind it. No, we 363 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 2: have a friend, an acquaintance, you might say, now, and 364 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:47,560 Speaker 2: he just comes up with the most random factual statements 365 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 2: that he's thought his whole life. He thought cows slept 366 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:50,840 Speaker 2: standing up. 367 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:55,919 Speaker 1: And you know why he thought that, Like, genuinely, I 368 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:58,760 Speaker 1: know exactly why he thought cow slept standing up because 369 00:17:58,920 --> 00:18:01,880 Speaker 1: of the movie Barnyard. Oh that one, you know, Okay, 370 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:05,199 Speaker 1: Because in the movie Barnyard there's these teenagers that go 371 00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 1: cow tipping, and so that is one hundred percent the 372 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:12,200 Speaker 1: reason he thinks they do it in cars too. They 373 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:15,879 Speaker 1: do with a tractors, attractors tractor camping with him, and. 374 00:18:16,119 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 2: We went camping, and then it just randomly came out 375 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:20,920 Speaker 2: of his mouth that like, oh, yeah, you know, the 376 00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:23,359 Speaker 2: cows sleep standing up, and we're like what. 377 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:27,200 Speaker 1: I remember being like, that's insane. You can see there's 378 00:18:27,240 --> 00:18:28,520 Speaker 1: one down near a tree right now. 379 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:32,159 Speaker 2: While on the same trip we pointed out a cow 380 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:34,439 Speaker 2: sleeping on the ground. Shutting up. 381 00:18:35,440 --> 00:18:37,080 Speaker 1: He would never shut up, he'd be like that was 382 00:18:40,359 --> 00:18:43,000 Speaker 1: one time I picked this particular friend and his girlfriend 383 00:18:43,080 --> 00:18:45,840 Speaker 1: up from a night out. I don't know how we 384 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 1: got onto the topic of conversation, but I had I 385 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:50,639 Speaker 1: used to have a diesel vehicle, and then I was 386 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:51,000 Speaker 1: having it. 387 00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:51,440 Speaker 2: I actually was. 388 00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:54,160 Speaker 1: I had the gets at the time, petrol vehicle, and 389 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:57,960 Speaker 1: I think I think I randomly was like, oh, you 390 00:18:57,960 --> 00:19:01,480 Speaker 1: know how like in manual cars from a standstill, like 391 00:19:01,680 --> 00:19:04,119 Speaker 1: if you're in first gear, if you just very slowly 392 00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 1: let out the clutch, you don't have to rev and 393 00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:07,639 Speaker 1: it will just end up going and then you just 394 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:09,640 Speaker 1: like sit at an idle speed or in first year 395 00:19:09,680 --> 00:19:12,159 Speaker 1: it's like five kometers an hour. He goes, no, no, no, 396 00:19:12,280 --> 00:19:14,720 Speaker 1: that's only diesels, and I was like, really, I was 397 00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:16,480 Speaker 1: like bleeding. I was like, wow, really because he says 398 00:19:16,480 --> 00:19:18,480 Speaker 1: it was such confidence, he does such good And I 399 00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 1: was like, I was like, is it really only diesels? 400 00:19:21,080 --> 00:19:22,919 Speaker 1: And he goes, yeh, yeah, yeah, I certainly can't do 401 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:24,639 Speaker 1: it in a petrol And I was like, let's fucking 402 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:25,040 Speaker 1: try it. 403 00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 2: Pull it over to a carpark. 404 00:19:26,200 --> 00:19:31,800 Speaker 1: Did it. I was like, well, that sucks me. There's 405 00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:32,800 Speaker 1: countless more. 406 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:35,639 Speaker 2: And I just think, like I think he's just the 407 00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:39,040 Speaker 2: most easily influenced person alive. You will see anything anywhere 408 00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:41,359 Speaker 2: and be like, well that's obviously and classic. 409 00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 1: He's a classic man. When you can show that he's wrong, 410 00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:45,880 Speaker 1: he still won't admit that he's wrong. 411 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:47,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's like, yeah, this makes sense. 412 00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:52,720 Speaker 1: Oh bad. If that's it for the voicemails, if you 413 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:55,840 Speaker 1: want to listen to another five or six, they will 414 00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:59,240 Speaker 1: be over on Patreon four eight dollars ninety nine a month. 415 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:01,840 Speaker 1: I don't know what that ends up being per week, 416 00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:03,720 Speaker 1: and I don't know what and that ends up being 417 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:06,800 Speaker 1: per day. But if you go over to the Lincoln 418 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:11,200 Speaker 1: our description or to your favorite whatever browser you use, 419 00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:14,760 Speaker 1: whether it be Chrome, maybe you use Safari, maybe you 420 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:18,880 Speaker 1: use Duck Duck, Oh, maybe you use bing you. 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Two. 430 00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, the cheeky fuck is Broyes. 431 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:47,480 Speaker 2: We should have an option if you're going to sign 432 00:20:47,600 --> 00:20:50,840 Speaker 2: up on iOS, another tier on Patreon that says sign 433 00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:52,720 Speaker 2: up on Patreon, but we'll take an extra three dollars like. 434 00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:57,360 Speaker 1: Iostern and then you just click that one if you're 435 00:20:57,359 --> 00:20:58,119 Speaker 1: gonna do it anyway. 436 00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:02,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, we'll we should add at two thousand 437 00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:05,679 Speaker 2: paid members. There's going to be a translat yeah, Tresler, 438 00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:09,280 Speaker 2: a big spider crawling all over me. Yes, I actually 439 00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:12,240 Speaker 2: I think that the reason I'm saying this. 440 00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:15,280 Speaker 1: That could be a kink spiders. 441 00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:17,359 Speaker 2: It's just like sounds crawling over me, and I'm like, guys, 442 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:19,360 Speaker 2: this is crazy. 443 00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:24,400 Speaker 1: But I think the reason I'm like sounding excited about 444 00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:27,320 Speaker 1: it is because it feels very far away, but if. 445 00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:29,679 Speaker 2: We get there, it's like we float around a thousand, 446 00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:33,280 Speaker 2: one hundred and eighty. Yeah, so yeah, join the gang, 447 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:42,360 Speaker 2: get us there. That is you might have noticed actually 448 00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:45,439 Speaker 2: that the episode you are listening to right now is 449 00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:49,080 Speaker 2: audio only, and you might have seen on our socials. 450 00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:52,520 Speaker 2: But we have a very very exciting announcement. 451 00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:54,080 Speaker 1: Yes, yes we do. 452 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:57,919 Speaker 2: And the exciting announcement is that we have signed with 453 00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:00,840 Speaker 2: a network being nov Yeah. 454 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:03,720 Speaker 1: So what that does is just means that on Spotify 455 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 1: goes from video and audio to just audio, and then 456 00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:10,360 Speaker 1: all of our video is still over on YouTube. 457 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:10,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. 458 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,199 Speaker 1: And also I think we're gonna chuck the video on 459 00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:16,680 Speaker 1: Patreon two if you remember to be extra perk over there. Yeah, 460 00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:19,680 Speaker 1: we're gonna start adding up that guys. 461 00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:22,359 Speaker 2: This is how you know Relatables is going to take 462 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:26,200 Speaker 2: over twenty twenty six. Okay. On Patreon, we've spoke about 463 00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:29,760 Speaker 2: the tray, but you get extra episode every Thursday, every Thursday, 464 00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:32,920 Speaker 2: and now you're gonna start getting the Monday episodes add 465 00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:34,240 Speaker 2: free as the bonus. 466 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:39,800 Speaker 1: It's like your boys, that's right, that's right, we are. 467 00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:43,959 Speaker 2: And this is so cool for our podcast journey because 468 00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:48,719 Speaker 2: from the start, we've been an independent podcast and we 469 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:50,520 Speaker 2: are very thankful to be in the position because of 470 00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:54,040 Speaker 2: everyone listening right now that you boys. 471 00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:56,000 Speaker 1: Have got big enough to get to a network. Yeah. Actually, 472 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:59,320 Speaker 1: in full transparency, a little over a year ago we 473 00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:04,120 Speaker 1: nearly sign a network, and then for some reason, gut 474 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:05,920 Speaker 1: feeling was like staying dependent. 475 00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:07,960 Speaker 2: For one more year, see what happens, see how it goes. Yeah, 476 00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 2: we banked on ourselves for another year, grew a little 477 00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:12,959 Speaker 2: bit more, grew a little bit more, and then we're like, damn, 478 00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:15,720 Speaker 2: this could be it. Let's try it. Yeah, and it's 479 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:19,399 Speaker 2: good too because I guess it's like to explain it 480 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:21,439 Speaker 2: to someone who's not in the podcast world, which is 481 00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:24,000 Speaker 2: most people. I guess it's just a bit of stability 482 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:27,600 Speaker 2: for us as the podcast becomes more of a job 483 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:31,840 Speaker 2: and giving us longevity, which is really really cool. I agreed. 484 00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:34,280 Speaker 1: And also as part of our. 485 00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:40,359 Speaker 2: I guess agreement deal with this network, they have lots 486 00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:44,080 Speaker 2: of radio stations. FF, you're from Australia, you probably know 487 00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:46,720 Speaker 2: what NOV is, but if you're not from Australia, it's 488 00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:51,719 Speaker 2: a big radio network and we get a like one 489 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:53,680 Speaker 2: of the perks was that there was a certain amount 490 00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:58,040 Speaker 2: of money of spend where it's like they advertise us, 491 00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:01,200 Speaker 2: so they advertise us on their radio network and advertise us. 492 00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:04,080 Speaker 2: I don't know, metads, I don't know all that rind stuff. 493 00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:06,920 Speaker 1: Again for transparency, it's kind of cool to talk about 494 00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:10,600 Speaker 1: with the baddies. And what we wanted to do was 495 00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:14,960 Speaker 1: do something where we got all of you guys, the 496 00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:20,440 Speaker 1: baddies to choose a charity that would get a free 497 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:23,520 Speaker 1: two to three weeks of ad space on the Nova 498 00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:26,600 Speaker 1: Radio and so we would voice an ad we were 499 00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:29,480 Speaker 1: get in contact with the charity, and so we wanted 500 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:32,479 Speaker 1: to do it. We haven't really ironed out all of 501 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:34,080 Speaker 1: the what's it. 502 00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:37,040 Speaker 2: Called details details, but that's something we wanted to do, 503 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:39,239 Speaker 2: just as like a bit of a I don't know, 504 00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:41,440 Speaker 2: thanks to the baddies. Yeah, and we have a few 505 00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:44,200 Speaker 2: charities in mind that we really align with. But also 506 00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 2: if anyone's if anyone listening is connected to some charities, 507 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:48,920 Speaker 2: I think that would work the best. 508 00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:51,240 Speaker 1: So give us a d M and we'll get in contact. 509 00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:53,480 Speaker 2: We'll be browsing on there to make sure we get 510 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:55,959 Speaker 2: them all email us. 511 00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:56,520 Speaker 1: That's a good one. 512 00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:59,920 Speaker 2: Which one relatable sixty dot com do that one. 513 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:02,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, email us at relatable sixty nine GMAI dot com 514 00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:03,679 Speaker 1: with this subject line. 515 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:07,159 Speaker 2: What's a good subject line? 516 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:12,840 Speaker 1: I work with a charity, Sure, I work with a 517 00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:16,199 Speaker 1: charity or just charity or just charity all caps yeah, 518 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:17,600 Speaker 1: charity all caps yeah. 519 00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:20,840 Speaker 2: And if you guys are missing seeing our beautiful faces 520 00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:23,000 Speaker 2: and toes to reiterate there on Patreon. 521 00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:25,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, shit, bro, Like that's. 522 00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:26,800 Speaker 2: The bottom of my foot. Hopefully no one's got a 523 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:27,200 Speaker 2: foot for. 524 00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:30,080 Speaker 1: Oh YouTube Jake. But what I wanted to bring up 525 00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:33,679 Speaker 1: was I went to a concert. How long ago was it? 526 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:36,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? Last week was one on Wednesday. It's now Sunday 527 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:41,680 Speaker 2: when we're recording this. I had an epiphany. I kind 528 00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:45,160 Speaker 2: of already knew it, but it was confirmation going there. 529 00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:47,680 Speaker 2: I went to a Lord concert. 530 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:51,280 Speaker 1: Firstly, fucking good, really really good. Yeah, I'm going to 531 00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:51,920 Speaker 1: give it like. 532 00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:55,840 Speaker 2: An eight point eight out of ten. Dang, okay, go on, 533 00:25:56,080 --> 00:26:00,199 Speaker 2: so talented. And also the only the downfall was I 534 00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:01,520 Speaker 2: knew she was quirky a little. 535 00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:01,960 Speaker 1: Bit, not too much. 536 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:04,480 Speaker 2: I didn't really know the law of Lord, but she 537 00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:06,960 Speaker 2: like takes her pants off and stuff, and like just 538 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:11,280 Speaker 2: where she wears like a like Calvin Klimb boxes like 539 00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:12,960 Speaker 2: men's boxes. Like I didn't mind it. 540 00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:15,040 Speaker 1: But I was a little bit caught off guard when 541 00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:19,520 Speaker 1: she just started stripping. Yeah, let's go. And she takes 542 00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:21,280 Speaker 1: her tits in duct tape as well. 543 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:25,320 Speaker 2: Cool. She's like the most artistic musician I've ever seen. Okay, 544 00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 2: like it's like an art shell and I'm like, oh, 545 00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:28,880 Speaker 2: this is cool, but that I'm also like pretty pants 546 00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:31,920 Speaker 2: on Actually like this, I wasn't. 547 00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:32,400 Speaker 1: Sexual at all. 548 00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:33,640 Speaker 2: Oh, I take that back. 549 00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:35,600 Speaker 1: She was like she had a belt and. 550 00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:37,399 Speaker 2: She was like it looked like she was like getting 551 00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:39,400 Speaker 2: like grinding on her belt. It was kind of cool, 552 00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:41,760 Speaker 2: but kind of weird too because I was unexpected. I 553 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:44,200 Speaker 2: guess if you caught off guard, yeah, exactly. But otherwise, 554 00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:48,760 Speaker 2: very very talented artist. But my realization was, man, girls 555 00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:52,200 Speaker 2: have more fun because the demo of that crowd had 556 00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:56,720 Speaker 2: to be ninety plus percent women. Yeah yeah yeah, and 557 00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,400 Speaker 2: we were seated so we had perfect. 558 00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:00,520 Speaker 1: Viewing of all standing. 559 00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:03,880 Speaker 2: I have never seen a crowd move like that really. Yeah, 560 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:07,159 Speaker 2: for like super Cut and her other banger, her other bangers. 561 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:09,240 Speaker 1: Like hands up. The whole crowd just got. 562 00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:12,640 Speaker 2: And I was like, I was so happy just looking 563 00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:14,480 Speaker 2: at it because my girlfriend loves Lord, and I'm like, 564 00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:17,159 Speaker 2: I like Lord, but I'm just not I'm not so 565 00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:18,000 Speaker 2: much in that world. 566 00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:21,240 Speaker 1: And I was like, holy shit, they have fun really? 567 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:22,000 Speaker 5: Yeah. 568 00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:25,080 Speaker 2: I think it just comes back to like how good 569 00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:29,320 Speaker 2: they are at expressing themselves. Guys always so concerned about 570 00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:32,159 Speaker 2: how they look and they're afraid to have fun or 571 00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:33,320 Speaker 2: how quirky they'll look. 572 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:33,640 Speaker 1: If they dance. 573 00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:36,119 Speaker 2: And I just saw fucking how many five thousand people 574 00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:39,000 Speaker 2: just going to town and I was like, this is 575 00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:39,520 Speaker 2: so cool. 576 00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:43,200 Speaker 1: I figured that out at Gracy Abrams. Yeah, and you're 577 00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:46,440 Speaker 1: in the in the crowd. Yeah. Also, okay, something cool 578 00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:51,800 Speaker 1: about going to a massive artist with a massive percentage 579 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,600 Speaker 1: of women being like there was the only I. 580 00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:55,080 Speaker 2: Gotta be honest. 581 00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:58,720 Speaker 1: I think probably of the ten percent of boyfriends that 582 00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:00,760 Speaker 1: were in the crowd of Gracy Abrams, sorry, ten percent 583 00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:01,879 Speaker 1: of men, they were boyfriends. 584 00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:04,120 Speaker 2: I went because I wanted to go, but I also 585 00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:05,680 Speaker 2: was a boyfriend. I am a boyfriend. 586 00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 1: But no pushing, no pushing, not I didn't get pushed once. 587 00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:13,080 Speaker 1: I tell you what I act. 588 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:14,200 Speaker 2: Okay, I tell you what else. 589 00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:16,679 Speaker 1: I heard a lot of a lot of sorries if 590 00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:19,600 Speaker 1: someone bumped into you. I had a lot of sorries. 591 00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,159 Speaker 1: This is how it should be, because I'm not a 592 00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:25,760 Speaker 1: pusher at a concert. I hate it. 593 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:29,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was cool. And one thing I hate, especially 594 00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:31,919 Speaker 2: when I'm on the ground, is I'm quite tall, and 595 00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:33,560 Speaker 2: when it is predominantly women, if. 596 00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:36,640 Speaker 1: I stand in front of someone, I feel, but also 597 00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:38,920 Speaker 1: you should. The game is the game. Yeah, you feel, 598 00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:41,760 Speaker 1: and you should because there's three little women behind me, 599 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:43,800 Speaker 1: and I'm just like, so, I don't want to look 600 00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:46,600 Speaker 1: back because I'm like, sorry, no, yeah, you're not going. 601 00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:48,680 Speaker 2: To look back and acknowledge that I'm doing something. 602 00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:49,720 Speaker 1: But I can't rude. 603 00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:51,880 Speaker 2: I can't go back any further because I'll have to 604 00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:53,120 Speaker 2: stand at the very very back or else. 605 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:55,120 Speaker 1: It happens no matter what, and you should not tall 606 00:28:55,240 --> 00:29:03,920 Speaker 1: enough and I should just duck the whole time. Actually 607 00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:05,800 Speaker 1: it is still like this. Yeah, you give it a 608 00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:09,160 Speaker 1: bit of quad work, but it's nice to do. Like 609 00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:12,880 Speaker 1: if you see in immediately behind you people that are 610 00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:15,080 Speaker 1: shorter than you, it is nice to be like, you 611 00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:16,480 Speaker 1: guys can go in front of me. But then it's 612 00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:19,800 Speaker 1: like all of my etiquette is used up in that 613 00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:22,880 Speaker 1: one movement and here it was behind me. Yeah, exactly exactly, 614 00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:23,600 Speaker 1: like they're behind me. 615 00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:28,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. And also another way that the crowd is kind 616 00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:30,600 Speaker 2: of like so good and you can see that is 617 00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:32,800 Speaker 2: it happened in the Illumineers, which I was surprised that 618 00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:35,920 Speaker 2: was predominant women as well. But also Lord the ability 619 00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:38,200 Speaker 2: to go in the crowd and be respected. Yeah, like 620 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:40,720 Speaker 2: at a male concert, like fucking Kendrick La Miles some ship. 621 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:43,320 Speaker 2: There's no way in the world, or I said, Rocky, 622 00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:48,120 Speaker 2: I said, if they want in the crowd, that guy's 623 00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:48,720 Speaker 2: getting moored. 624 00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:51,160 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Lord could go in the crowd. Yet that's 625 00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:53,320 Speaker 1: what she did did. She went in the crowd and 626 00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:55,280 Speaker 1: just walked through and then it split. 627 00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:58,560 Speaker 2: Like the Sea of Jesus Christ see that one. 628 00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:02,560 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, who split to see Moses. I don't know. 629 00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:04,920 Speaker 2: We're not religious, but that that scene, it felt like 630 00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:06,960 Speaker 2: that and everyone's and then it was so cool. She 631 00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:09,280 Speaker 2: went from one side to the other side and the 632 00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:11,520 Speaker 2: sea was split, and then you just see all these 633 00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:13,320 Speaker 2: little girls running through the split. 634 00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:14,080 Speaker 1: Sea to get a closer. 635 00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 2: We're not religious, we're not Do you speak for me? 636 00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:24,760 Speaker 1: I'm a swiftie. I was like, have you been keeping something? 637 00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:25,719 Speaker 2: You were talking about time? 638 00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:26,960 Speaker 1: I was thinking, like, how can I talk about it? 639 00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:28,200 Speaker 1: I was like, what should I say? 640 00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:32,200 Speaker 5: The law? 641 00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:34,080 Speaker 2: The law? But no that technic. 642 00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:36,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, very very very cool. So I recommend going to 643 00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:44,520 Speaker 1: a Lord concert. I recommend being a woman. 644 00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:47,800 Speaker 2: Are you think vallid? I mean, why not? 645 00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:59,000 Speaker 1: I was like, fucking hell, Okay, baddies, I g question 646 00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:04,440 Speaker 1: of the week, Actually, where do we come up with baddies? Um? 647 00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:09,480 Speaker 2: It was me or me big brain? Explain, explain, explain 648 00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:14,720 Speaker 2: No so umm it happened with oh no, yeah it did. 649 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:17,560 Speaker 2: So for some reason, we got a video from someone 650 00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:19,240 Speaker 2: I asked for a prompt where it was a video 651 00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:20,920 Speaker 2: and at the end she said stay bad. 652 00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 1: And then I was. 653 00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:25,880 Speaker 2: Like, wow, that's good. We kept on signing off the episode. 654 00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:27,480 Speaker 1: We stay bad, and I came to you with stay bad, 655 00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:28,720 Speaker 1: and then Baddie's stuck. 656 00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:30,520 Speaker 2: Is that exactly what happened? 657 00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:30,880 Speaker 1: Organic? 658 00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:32,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's exactly what happened. I remember the girl's face 659 00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:34,120 Speaker 2: who sent it. She had two dogs in the back 660 00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:34,479 Speaker 2: of her car. 661 00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:36,880 Speaker 1: I can't remember her name, but hell yeah, she changed 662 00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:37,760 Speaker 1: our lives anyway. 663 00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:39,560 Speaker 2: I wanted to explain to baddies anyway, because if you're 664 00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:41,120 Speaker 2: a new baddie and you don't know why you're a baddy, 665 00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:42,520 Speaker 2: we would they know why they're about it. 666 00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:45,560 Speaker 1: They're bad self explainatory anyway I do. Your question of 667 00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:48,840 Speaker 1: the week is describe your love life in makeup slash 668 00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:52,760 Speaker 1: skincare terms. Oh look, we're not the first to do this, 669 00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:57,200 Speaker 1: but I think our answers are good. Okay, my old foundation, 670 00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:59,920 Speaker 1: which was bad for my skin, keeps popping up on 671 00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:04,280 Speaker 1: my feed. Toxicainst boyfriend damn. 672 00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:09,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, ship, that's relatable, though, that is relatable. 673 00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:12,320 Speaker 1: Unfollow that ship. You're getting fucking fed ads. 674 00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:17,240 Speaker 2: I'll tell you what I hate when like you look 675 00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:19,440 Speaker 2: something up on your phone, just like you and I 676 00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:21,560 Speaker 2: are having having a conversation. You look it up and say, 677 00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:23,840 Speaker 2: you say, I've been looking at these golf clubs and 678 00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:24,520 Speaker 2: that's rounded bucks. 679 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:26,280 Speaker 1: I like, nice way, they're too hundred boxes, two hundred bucks. 680 00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:28,160 Speaker 1: I look at them once and then my whole feeds 681 00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:31,440 Speaker 1: just fucking golf clubs. Leave me alone, eh, stop stalking me. 682 00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:35,920 Speaker 1: It is very, very weird, and it's also so weird 683 00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:39,480 Speaker 1: that we all know about it, but we just don't 684 00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:40,280 Speaker 1: do anything about it. 685 00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:44,200 Speaker 2: Someone got done, some massive company got done for selling 686 00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:49,760 Speaker 2: data recently, the app where women track their period. Oh 687 00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:54,000 Speaker 2: my god, yet that's flow. Yeah, it's a huge lawsuit. Yeah, 688 00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:56,400 Speaker 2: crazy getting that shit. Girl trying to get some money, 689 00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:58,360 Speaker 2: go get some money off. Fucking hell. 690 00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:01,560 Speaker 1: A lot of women use that app Yeah, yeah, my 691 00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:03,200 Speaker 1: girlfriend used it. Yeah all right. 692 00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:06,680 Speaker 2: Describe your love life in makeup slash skincare terms in 693 00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:08,600 Speaker 2: desperate need of a facial. 694 00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:14,600 Speaker 1: Ooh, I don't want to say what immediately? What I mean, 695 00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:16,600 Speaker 1: my mind's gone to the same place. 696 00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:17,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. 697 00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:19,440 Speaker 1: Does it just mean that she wants to get come 698 00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:23,600 Speaker 1: to all level? I mean maybe maybe she's would that 699 00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:30,320 Speaker 1: be nice? I think that I think that having someone 700 00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:38,600 Speaker 1: come on your face like wouldn't be enjoyable. You do 701 00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:41,400 Speaker 1: it for you, Like, I think you're doing it because 702 00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:45,120 Speaker 1: like it's sexy. Yeah, I think I think that's the 703 00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:48,960 Speaker 1: only reason you would do it. Yeah, I've never really 704 00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:50,600 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, I would. 705 00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:53,360 Speaker 2: I don't know, because I don't think anyone actually wants 706 00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:54,280 Speaker 2: to come on their face. 707 00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:56,440 Speaker 1: And we'll get in your eye and like, yeah, apparently 708 00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:58,240 Speaker 1: it's actually really important to keep it out of your eyes. 709 00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:00,320 Speaker 1: You can really fuck your eyes up, see that? 710 00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:04,680 Speaker 2: Okay. 711 00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:09,040 Speaker 1: Describe your love life in makeup slash skincare terms. No 712 00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:12,560 Speaker 1: consistent routine, just random products being used here and there. 713 00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:22,480 Speaker 1: Oh she is having some fun. Yeah, I say you 714 00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:24,600 Speaker 1: have a roster. I'm big on that fucking around. 715 00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:30,000 Speaker 2: Okay. Describe your love life in makeup slash skincare terms. 716 00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:31,719 Speaker 2: Boy version of. 717 00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:35,680 Speaker 1: Skincare, boy version of skincare. 718 00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:37,200 Speaker 2: I have an answer for this one, by the way, 719 00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:44,439 Speaker 2: I guess try. I guess boy version of skincare would be, oh, 720 00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:48,840 Speaker 2: just whatever comes your way, you get with it. Nothing 721 00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:52,759 Speaker 2: going on. Ah, his majority of men is. 722 00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:56,040 Speaker 1: Better than what I said. Yeah, unfortunate, relatable. 723 00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:58,759 Speaker 2: Okay, this is the poor that's where it does. 724 00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:02,319 Speaker 1: What are you talking abo out that baddie who has 725 00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:06,600 Speaker 1: experienced lack of men? Yep, when it rains, it pause. 726 00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:12,600 Speaker 1: Sometimes whence you get one, you get a few. Okay, 727 00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:17,000 Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. Okay, Describe your love life and 728 00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:18,600 Speaker 1: makeup slash skincare terms. 729 00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:22,560 Speaker 2: Whenever I touch my face, it's really sticky and wet. 730 00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:27,000 Speaker 1: Whenever I touch my face is sticky and wet. 731 00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:30,200 Speaker 2: I don't have to answer this one. I think we 732 00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:31,080 Speaker 2: know what that means. 733 00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:38,759 Speaker 1: I think she's busy. Okay, okay, okay. Concealer hides the 734 00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:42,480 Speaker 1: patches and gives you a little glow, but that's. 735 00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:44,920 Speaker 2: All it is a brief shine. 736 00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:49,319 Speaker 1: Is it like a toxic boyfriend? I think it's kind 737 00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:51,399 Speaker 1: of like a brief situation ship vibe. 738 00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:53,360 Speaker 2: Oh and then it's gone. That's what I'm getting to 739 00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:58,680 Speaker 2: take it off. Yeah, it's gone. Yeah, yeah, it's not real. Okay, 740 00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:02,600 Speaker 2: this one, I mean I wish I could. I wish 741 00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:03,080 Speaker 2: I could do this. 742 00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:07,479 Speaker 1: Describe your love life in makeup slash skincare terms tried 743 00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:13,399 Speaker 1: and true, done in five minutes. So she's just fucking 744 00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:17,080 Speaker 1: five minutes and it's done. Ah, Clearly she's got a 745 00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:18,920 Speaker 1: guy that knows what he's doing. Damn. 746 00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:19,759 Speaker 6: Yeah. 747 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:26,160 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she's got a guy who knows what he's doing. Okay. 748 00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:31,640 Speaker 1: Describe your love life in makeup slash skincare terms trial size, 749 00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:35,759 Speaker 1: not enough to commit to, and usually gone before I 750 00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:37,000 Speaker 1: can decide if I like it. 751 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:39,800 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, let's go. 752 00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:41,480 Speaker 1: That's techy. 753 00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:45,960 Speaker 2: I like that. Yeah, I like that a lot. Creative. So, 754 00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:49,000 Speaker 2: I mean, we're all just kind of like assuming we 755 00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:50,759 Speaker 2: know what each one means. I feel like they're all 756 00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:51,799 Speaker 2: pretty self explanatory. 757 00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:56,480 Speaker 1: Yeah that's good though. That one's smart. Okay, This son's cute. 758 00:36:56,760 --> 00:37:00,239 Speaker 1: My long term brand is still keeping my skin glowing. Oh, 759 00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:02,880 Speaker 1: trusty trust. 760 00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:07,040 Speaker 2: I've been using the same charl char Cole face washed 761 00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:12,720 Speaker 2: since I was like fucking eighteen A. We're from Cole's brand, 762 00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:19,080 Speaker 2: Laurel Men Lorel. That brand can't be good Lorel Men. 763 00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:20,080 Speaker 1: No, I know it's cheap. 764 00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:24,080 Speaker 2: I remember it works, Yeah, it works, And shout out 765 00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:27,279 Speaker 2: TBH skin care. I love that moisture changed my life. 766 00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:28,520 Speaker 2: When we did a brand deal with him in like 767 00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:32,280 Speaker 2: twenty twenty three three, we got some moisturiers. 768 00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:34,200 Speaker 1: And fuck it's good. Yeah. Best still uses it. 769 00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:35,279 Speaker 2: It's so funny on it. 770 00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:36,960 Speaker 1: Yeah. And every time we've been too a couple of 771 00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:41,439 Speaker 1: places where like they make tbh's there. Yeah, and they're 772 00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:44,879 Speaker 1: always like every time I've seen them, mom, I was like, yeah, 773 00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:46,839 Speaker 1: like my girlfriend buys it, Odie buys it. And they're 774 00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:49,239 Speaker 1: like this text messages when you want some, messages when 775 00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:51,759 Speaker 1: you want some, and I'm like, don't make me bag. 776 00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:55,719 Speaker 2: Like I was like, how about how about let me 777 00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:58,480 Speaker 2: be a diva and just like make me feel special 778 00:37:58,800 --> 00:37:59,879 Speaker 2: and send it to me month. 779 00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:04,440 Speaker 1: It's crazy, tell about it's about your skincare routine. 780 00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:05,080 Speaker 2: I don't have one. 781 00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:07,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, I actually don't have one. 782 00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:09,879 Speaker 2: Can put his life. 783 00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:11,840 Speaker 1: I'm lucky to get my face wet in the shower. 784 00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:14,680 Speaker 2: Really if I like, I know, actually know I always 785 00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:16,680 Speaker 2: get my face wet in the shower. But this is 786 00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:19,200 Speaker 2: the I'm telling you. The extent of my face being 787 00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:22,239 Speaker 2: washed is. But I like, get in there, here's my back, 788 00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:23,560 Speaker 2: I get it onto my hair. I get all my 789 00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:26,279 Speaker 2: hair wet, like I got that, and then I let 790 00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:29,080 Speaker 2: it fall down my face. The waters the extent to 791 00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:31,880 Speaker 2: wash it, and then when I dry my face when 792 00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:32,440 Speaker 2: I get out. 793 00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:35,560 Speaker 1: Must be not say do you not get it like 794 00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:38,719 Speaker 1: greasy skin? I actually don't. Really no, I don't, so 795 00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:43,560 Speaker 1: I don't know good genetics. A I have the greasiert skin. Yeah, yeah, okay, No, 796 00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:46,160 Speaker 1: I don't get greasy skin. Describe your love life in 797 00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:48,040 Speaker 1: makeup slash skincare terms. 798 00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:53,080 Speaker 2: I loved my mascara for four years, but. 799 00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:56,799 Speaker 1: Then someone stole it and now it's discontinued. She got 800 00:38:56,920 --> 00:39:02,279 Speaker 1: cheated on. Damn if she said it, God discontinued. I 801 00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:03,520 Speaker 1: was gonna say she got broken up with. 802 00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:05,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, shit. 803 00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:14,480 Speaker 1: Died true heavy okay, last one. Scrub your love life 804 00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:15,960 Speaker 1: and make up sah skin care terms. 805 00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:20,200 Speaker 2: My last misca was sealed, my new one opens up 806 00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:21,480 Speaker 2: and makes me feel so pretty. 807 00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:25,800 Speaker 1: Oh, the X was toxic and this one is a 808 00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:28,360 Speaker 1: green flag. That's what I take from it. 809 00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:32,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, man, it must be a good feeling when because 810 00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:33,799 Speaker 2: it takes a lot of might to break up with someone, 811 00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:36,720 Speaker 2: it does even if they are toxic. 812 00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:38,680 Speaker 1: And then you're like, damn, it was that the right decision? 813 00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:41,239 Speaker 2: And then a couple of months past, maybe six months 814 00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:43,120 Speaker 2: a year, and then another man walks into your life, 815 00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:43,640 Speaker 2: and you're. 816 00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:46,960 Speaker 1: Like, holy shit, I was right it really I did 817 00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:48,719 Speaker 1: deserve better. I deserved this shit. 818 00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:49,400 Speaker 4: I do. 819 00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:50,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, I deserve better. 820 00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:51,279 Speaker 1: They are out there. 821 00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:53,239 Speaker 2: You's gotta keep telling you. So if you deserve better 822 00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:54,160 Speaker 2: and then. 823 00:39:54,239 --> 00:40:07,879 Speaker 1: Just happy relationship, you ever know, maybe you just bad? 824 00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:10,360 Speaker 2: Is it's time for dilemmas. If you want to submit 825 00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:12,480 Speaker 2: a dilemma, it will be linked in the description and 826 00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:16,120 Speaker 2: it is completely anonymous. I like the title of this one, 827 00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:21,560 Speaker 2: Jake title, I have a chicken nugger boyfriend. Dang did 828 00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:22,400 Speaker 2: Cassie send that in? 829 00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:22,960 Speaker 1: Hey? 830 00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:24,399 Speaker 2: Hey? 831 00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:27,279 Speaker 1: Hey, hey yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm not that bad? You 832 00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:27,960 Speaker 1: like brismane? 833 00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:28,719 Speaker 2: Yeah? 834 00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:31,080 Speaker 1: I like to dabble here there. 835 00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:35,040 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm recovering from an eating disorder, and as I'm 836 00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:38,360 Speaker 2: allowing myself to enjoy and experience more food. I'm realizing 837 00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:42,520 Speaker 2: I really appreciate nice meals, trying different cuisines, and exploring 838 00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:43,480 Speaker 2: new places to eat. 839 00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:44,320 Speaker 1: Who doesn't. 840 00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:47,080 Speaker 2: Food is something I value and appreciate, but have had 841 00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:50,080 Speaker 2: a difficult and restrictive relationship with it in the past. 842 00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:53,320 Speaker 2: I try and maintain regular, nutritious meals that fuel me 843 00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:57,000 Speaker 2: and taste good, and I'm trying to incorporate the occasional 844 00:40:57,080 --> 00:41:00,920 Speaker 2: meal out the occasual meal out to reduce my about food. 845 00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:02,280 Speaker 1: I don't have control over. 846 00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:06,399 Speaker 2: My boyfriend, on the other hand, couldn't care less about 847 00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:10,320 Speaker 2: food and often forgets to eat. He only ever cooks 848 00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:14,240 Speaker 2: party pies and freezer chips at home, but ninety percent 849 00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:17,759 Speaker 2: of the time just eats fast food. I always thought 850 00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:20,480 Speaker 2: I don't care about what he eats, but it's getting 851 00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:23,440 Speaker 2: to me recently that we can't eat together because I 852 00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:27,280 Speaker 2: hate getting shitty fast food and he doesn't like anything 853 00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:32,000 Speaker 2: other than fried chicken and burgers, etc. I have tried 854 00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:34,560 Speaker 2: to initiate us cooking together to teach him, but he 855 00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:38,080 Speaker 2: gets MOPy and dejects because he feels like he's useless 856 00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:39,719 Speaker 2: at it, and I just end up doing it all 857 00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:42,239 Speaker 2: whoa stop, I want to point out weaponizing components we 858 00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:42,480 Speaker 2: go on. 859 00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:43,760 Speaker 1: Correct. 860 00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:46,959 Speaker 2: My love language is acts of service, and I would 861 00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:49,920 Speaker 2: love to occasionally come home to a meal cooked for me, 862 00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:52,399 Speaker 2: but this will never happen. I've also tried to book 863 00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:54,600 Speaker 2: a nice meal out but ended up worrying more about 864 00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:56,600 Speaker 2: how he felt out of the place in a nice 865 00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:58,520 Speaker 2: restaurant and how there was nothing on the menu he 866 00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:00,680 Speaker 2: would like and I couldn't just share the enjoyment of 867 00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:04,080 Speaker 2: new and interesting food together. In the past, it didn't 868 00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:06,400 Speaker 2: matter because I couldn't share enjoyment of food with anyone 869 00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:08,520 Speaker 2: due to my eating disorder. But as I am slowly 870 00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:11,840 Speaker 2: recovering and realizing I really value food and tastes, I 871 00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:14,400 Speaker 2: want to be able to appreciate meals together even occasionally 872 00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:17,719 Speaker 2: go to a nice restaurant. But I've realized not with him. 873 00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:20,200 Speaker 2: My boyfriend doesn't know about my eating disorder, and I 874 00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:22,560 Speaker 2: don't really want to open up to him about it either. 875 00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:25,640 Speaker 2: I don't ever want to shame him about his diet 876 00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:28,880 Speaker 2: or choices, as I know better than anyone food can 877 00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:32,359 Speaker 2: be a personal and sensitive subject, but I can't help 878 00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:37,160 Speaker 2: feeling frustrated he only eats toddler food. Should I just 879 00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:40,000 Speaker 2: accept we will never share this in our relationship or 880 00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:42,160 Speaker 2: tell him to grow up or find someone. 881 00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:46,400 Speaker 1: Who I can actually enjoy a meal out with. Okay, 882 00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:51,560 Speaker 1: the first thing I want to say is, so you're 883 00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:56,160 Speaker 1: never gonna like shame him for his eating habits because 884 00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:59,680 Speaker 1: of course you used to have an eating disorder. Yeah, 885 00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:04,840 Speaker 1: like people need to feel shame. I'm sorry, Like, I like, 886 00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:10,440 Speaker 1: you're literally dating a child. I am so sorry. Like 887 00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:14,279 Speaker 1: I think it's fine to love chicken nuggets and love 888 00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:17,320 Speaker 1: party pies and love hot hips. Like it's totally fine 889 00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:22,920 Speaker 1: to love shit food because it tastes fucking amazing. I 890 00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:27,640 Speaker 1: love all of that stuff, but like, also be a 891 00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:32,600 Speaker 1: fucking adult, Like I'm sorry, think about what you're putting 892 00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:35,400 Speaker 1: in your body, and like think about how long you 893 00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:39,200 Speaker 1: want to be around for, and think about how shit 894 00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:45,600 Speaker 1: the food you're eating is. And fuck again, Like you said, 895 00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:49,880 Speaker 1: your love language for receiving love is acts of service. 896 00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:54,719 Speaker 1: If he knows this and then he's like not doing 897 00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:57,759 Speaker 1: it just because he doesn't like to eat anything but 898 00:43:57,920 --> 00:44:02,879 Speaker 1: fucking burgers and nuggets, yeah, like, break up with him. 899 00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:03,920 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. 900 00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:07,680 Speaker 1: Like I'm all for people having flaws, but it's like 901 00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:11,600 Speaker 1: having a floor without being able to compromise on something 902 00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:13,279 Speaker 1: is the most insane thing to me. 903 00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:16,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, and showing empathy. It's kind of like the problem 904 00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:19,759 Speaker 2: of not having enough sex. It feels like such a 905 00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:22,120 Speaker 2: shallow thing to break up with someone for when they 906 00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:25,640 Speaker 2: just don't like food whatever, basic bland palette. 907 00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:30,160 Speaker 1: But it's also fucking embarrassing, Like that's what I mean, dude, 908 00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:33,640 Speaker 1: make a proper meal, like eat a salad. I'm not 909 00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:36,840 Speaker 1: an adult. I despise people who like even we have 910 00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:38,960 Speaker 1: friends who like order burgers and I'll take like the 911 00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:41,680 Speaker 1: salad off it because they hat salad. Buddy, grow up, 912 00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:44,880 Speaker 1: you're fucking twenty six now. I get Also, like watching 913 00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:48,440 Speaker 1: a grown man pick tomatoes out of a fucking burrito 914 00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:51,799 Speaker 1: or tomatoes off of a burger. Like, Okay, you can 915 00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:54,840 Speaker 1: go sniff cocaine on the weekend. Yeah, and like drink 916 00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:57,640 Speaker 1: beer and smoke cigarettes and vape, but you can't fucking 917 00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:01,719 Speaker 1: eat a tomato. Literally, roll up. I'm just gonna let 918 00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:03,840 Speaker 1: that sit in like it's I don't know why I 919 00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:06,200 Speaker 1: find it to be like the most embarrassing thing. Oh 920 00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:07,280 Speaker 1: that is crazy. 921 00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:10,319 Speaker 2: I give you shit about being a chicken. Nugger guy whatever, 922 00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:13,440 Speaker 2: But like you will go out and you will try food. 923 00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:18,000 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, like, and I also eat healthy yeah yeah. 924 00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:19,719 Speaker 2: Like you have. 925 00:45:20,360 --> 00:45:21,640 Speaker 1: You're the first person to say that you have a 926 00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:25,000 Speaker 1: pretty nor like you just like random stuff like blandish food. 927 00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:27,560 Speaker 1: Because it's like I'm the same. If I'm just eating 928 00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:29,239 Speaker 1: day to day, I'll eat the same breakfast every day, 929 00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:31,920 Speaker 1: same munch every day, and then like eat maybe a 930 00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:34,480 Speaker 1: random dinner here and there. It would also annoy me 931 00:45:34,520 --> 00:45:35,960 Speaker 1: because I bet it feels like shit and he just 932 00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:36,520 Speaker 1: doesn't know it. 933 00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:39,239 Speaker 2: Yeah. I've always thought that about people that and like 934 00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:42,200 Speaker 2: his mood and demeanor within your relationship, you might get 935 00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:45,600 Speaker 2: annoyed because he's always fucking tie and he's always droopy 936 00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:47,400 Speaker 2: and sad, and then he's just. 937 00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:49,160 Speaker 1: Like, oh I just want to go a nap. Well, 938 00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:51,000 Speaker 1: let's just not go out tonight. I'm tire because you 939 00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:52,120 Speaker 1: fucking eat like shit. Yeah. 940 00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:54,600 Speaker 2: Like bring back shame and embarrassment and actually trying harder 941 00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:58,120 Speaker 2: in life. Yeah yeah, try harder, so harsh, but fuck 942 00:45:58,200 --> 00:45:58,640 Speaker 2: this guy. 943 00:45:58,560 --> 00:46:01,839 Speaker 1: Off, delete it. Yeah, that's my new thing, I would say. 944 00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:05,680 Speaker 2: So going back around circle, she said, should just accept 945 00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:07,680 Speaker 2: that we will never share this in our relationship. Do 946 00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:09,160 Speaker 2: I tell him to grow up? Or should I just 947 00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:11,400 Speaker 2: find someone I can actually enjoy a meal out with. 948 00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:14,360 Speaker 2: I say second one, do the second one, break up 949 00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:15,200 Speaker 2: and then find. 950 00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:17,839 Speaker 1: A new guy. I would just like to leave him hate. 951 00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:20,320 Speaker 1: And it's also because the hard thing about this relationship 952 00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:23,320 Speaker 1: is she said it used to not affect her because 953 00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:26,400 Speaker 1: she had an in disorder, but also she's grown. Growing 954 00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:28,440 Speaker 1: in a relationship, you're allowed to grow. 955 00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:30,439 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, growing in a relationship is hard to see 956 00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:32,279 Speaker 2: when you're in it, though, So you have grown, the 957 00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:34,800 Speaker 2: baddy has grown, and you realize that your boyfriend is 958 00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:37,840 Speaker 2: holding you back, which is good that you've realized it. 959 00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:40,399 Speaker 2: In the first step to doing and making it change 960 00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:42,360 Speaker 2: is realizing that. So all you can do is just 961 00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:43,000 Speaker 2: break up with it. 962 00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:46,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, Like people change all the time. Yeah, 963 00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:48,279 Speaker 1: And I bet you if you did tell him that 964 00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:51,279 Speaker 1: your palette's like so boring and he used to be like, 965 00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:52,640 Speaker 1: oh you didn't used to care, Like what do you 966 00:46:52,680 --> 00:46:54,239 Speaker 1: care now? Yeah, I wouldn't want to deal with that 967 00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:56,040 Speaker 1: conversation because. 968 00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:56,960 Speaker 2: Don't be fucking defensive. 969 00:46:57,280 --> 00:46:59,719 Speaker 1: Just once again, like it's such. It would just be 970 00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:03,720 Speaker 1: such to me watching my boyfriend fucking just eat party 971 00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:04,680 Speaker 1: pies and chips. 972 00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:07,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah as a meal, Like I don't understands 973 00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:10,680 Speaker 2: it's not hard to cook, especially in today's day and age. 974 00:47:10,719 --> 00:47:13,279 Speaker 2: Go on TikTok, look up a recipe, like there's so 975 00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:15,200 Speaker 2: many easy meals out there. I mean, I don't know, 976 00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:17,880 Speaker 2: like I've done like born ship in the past. 977 00:47:17,760 --> 00:47:21,760 Speaker 1: Spaghetti wraps, barbecue, kebabs. Fucking you can make a pizza 978 00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:22,960 Speaker 1: that's healthy if you really want to, if you have 979 00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:27,680 Speaker 1: a basic food made. Last night, I got two pieces 980 00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:31,200 Speaker 1: of gluten free bread, right, I put some pizza based 981 00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:35,920 Speaker 1: sauce on them. Love this, and then cheese companies Pepperoni 982 00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:38,319 Speaker 1: put them in the air fryer, air fryer. Why did 983 00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:40,720 Speaker 1: it taste? Like the best thing I've ever had? Remember 984 00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:42,600 Speaker 1: when we used to do when we went camping, I 985 00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:46,399 Speaker 1: had a portable grill. Oh my god, Like every day 986 00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:48,920 Speaker 1: I was like, you know what's funny is like I 987 00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:51,759 Speaker 1: was wondering why it tasted nostalgia Yeah, and I was like, 988 00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:54,440 Speaker 1: really good, I like pizza. 989 00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:56,839 Speaker 2: But like, no, I'm the same person. Like three days 990 00:47:57,040 --> 00:48:00,400 Speaker 2: prior I had the exact same really, son, I did 991 00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:03,400 Speaker 2: it just without gluten free. So funny, Okay. 992 00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:08,080 Speaker 1: The title of this one is money. He is rich 993 00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:12,320 Speaker 1: but so toxic. Loll Hi, guys recently joined Patreon and 994 00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:15,160 Speaker 1: I am absurd. Let's go. Well, here's my dilemma. Let 995 00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:15,880 Speaker 1: me know your thoughts. 996 00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:17,960 Speaker 2: I met this guy three months ago. Were hung out 997 00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:19,600 Speaker 2: for one month before we made it official. 998 00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:22,960 Speaker 1: I can't hate you know what good green flag so far, 999 00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:25,560 Speaker 1: you guys knew what you wanted like that. We saw 1000 00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:27,200 Speaker 1: each other three to four times a week. This is 1001 00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:28,680 Speaker 1: all past tense. By the way, have you broken up 1002 00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:32,120 Speaker 1: with him? Anyway? We saw each other three to four 1003 00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:34,160 Speaker 1: times a week as mine is very close to his. 1004 00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:38,200 Speaker 1: He is working full time, has very good pay, and 1005 00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:41,560 Speaker 1: I'm still studying and paying tuition myself. So we agreed 1006 00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:44,840 Speaker 1: that I will take care of groceries and the cooking 1007 00:48:44,920 --> 00:48:46,920 Speaker 1: whenever we stay home, and if we eat out, he 1008 00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:47,960 Speaker 1: will take care of everything. 1009 00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,680 Speaker 2: Then we dated to where that is. 1010 00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:56,160 Speaker 1: That's insane unless they're eating out like every single day. 1011 00:48:56,600 --> 00:48:59,640 Speaker 2: I've read this weight. We dated two months and we 1012 00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:00,759 Speaker 2: only ate out two times. 1013 00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:01,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. 1014 00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:03,880 Speaker 2: The last time was when we go to a got 1015 00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:04,520 Speaker 2: to a restaurant. 1016 00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:06,360 Speaker 1: We had to scan the QR code to order, and 1017 00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:10,200 Speaker 1: he forgot his card couldn't check out, so he asked 1018 00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:11,960 Speaker 1: me to pay for the meal and he would transfer 1019 00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:14,440 Speaker 1: me when we got home, so I did. He got 1020 00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:16,480 Speaker 1: drunk that night. The next morning, we talked about what 1021 00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:18,480 Speaker 1: happened last night, and I told him the total bill 1022 00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:21,320 Speaker 1: was one thirty and as a joke, I was laughing 1023 00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:23,240 Speaker 1: and telling him that I don't mind if he transfers 1024 00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:25,440 Speaker 1: me one fifty as the fee for dragging him home 1025 00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:28,640 Speaker 1: being so drunk. He laughed back. While I was in 1026 00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:32,839 Speaker 1: the kitchen cooking CONGI for him, I saw my bank 1027 00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:35,959 Speaker 1: notice he transferred me one hundred dollars. I felt weird, 1028 00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:38,600 Speaker 1: but I was afraid to confront him. My question is 1029 00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:42,319 Speaker 1: am I unreasonable to feel icky here? Am I too materialistic? 1030 00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:44,840 Speaker 1: Because my friends said, you guys are just boyfriend and girlfriend, 1031 00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:46,720 Speaker 1: not husband and wife, so it's normal to go fifty 1032 00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:50,560 Speaker 1: to fifty? Nah, Bro, he wants a husband, that's what 1033 00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:53,240 Speaker 1: he wants. He wants a husband. He wants a husband. 1034 00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:55,719 Speaker 1: Oh no, I'm not saying he's gay. I'm just saying, 1035 00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:58,320 Speaker 1: like what he wants is a husband, like he wants 1036 00:49:58,360 --> 00:49:59,040 Speaker 1: fifty to fifty. 1037 00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:05,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. And also, just like the communication here isn't very 1038 00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:09,560 Speaker 2: streamline at all. Firstly, what you did with trying to 1039 00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:11,719 Speaker 2: make it fair is not fair at all. 1040 00:50:13,040 --> 00:50:15,240 Speaker 1: Why are you handling all the groceries? That's expensive? 1041 00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:18,120 Speaker 2: Or maybe he's paying all the rent maybe but altogether 1042 00:50:18,200 --> 00:50:18,959 Speaker 2: he's paying all the rent. 1043 00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:19,480 Speaker 1: Maybe. 1044 00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:21,920 Speaker 2: If that's the case, then but that's also even so 1045 00:50:22,160 --> 00:50:25,600 Speaker 2: confusing and convoluted, just like there's too much going on. 1046 00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:27,359 Speaker 1: If that's the case, I guess it's a little bit 1047 00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:28,080 Speaker 1: fair man. 1048 00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:29,640 Speaker 2: Maybe that's paying more than rent. 1049 00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:32,720 Speaker 1: But also like, why are you doing all the cookies? 1050 00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:33,960 Speaker 1: You shouldn't be in a relationship. 1051 00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:37,120 Speaker 2: If he transfers transfers you one hundred dollars, you feel 1052 00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:39,359 Speaker 2: bad about it and you can't say anything to him 1053 00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:41,960 Speaker 2: because it makes you feel something. I think it's why 1054 00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:43,080 Speaker 2: did you only transfer one hundred? 1055 00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:44,480 Speaker 1: If Cassie does it to me, I'll be like, you 1056 00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:45,440 Speaker 1: forgot thirty dollars? 1057 00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:50,040 Speaker 2: Yeah transfer me? Yeah, I just like expect, especially because 1058 00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:50,880 Speaker 2: you spoke about it. 1059 00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly Like if I if I said, oh, no, 1060 00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:55,040 Speaker 1: I don't worry about transfering the money, and then Beth 1061 00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:57,279 Speaker 1: transferred me one hundred instead of one thirty, I'd be like, oh, 1062 00:50:57,280 --> 00:50:58,960 Speaker 1: you didn't have to do that, but thank you? Yea yeah, 1063 00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:02,680 Speaker 1: but if we spoke about it, like, oh, yeah, the 1064 00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:05,120 Speaker 1: bill was one thirty and she transferred me one hundred, I'll. 1065 00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:06,320 Speaker 2: Be like that's so weird. 1066 00:51:06,640 --> 00:51:09,440 Speaker 1: I also don't like, and your friends may yeah, your 1067 00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:12,880 Speaker 1: friends aren't doing enabling that. Yeah, I also don't like, 1068 00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:15,040 Speaker 1: like this is a good tip for anyone out there, 1069 00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:17,560 Speaker 1: especially because he was meant to pay on the date. 1070 00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:20,319 Speaker 2: I'll transfer you when I get home. It takes fucking 1071 00:51:20,360 --> 00:51:22,640 Speaker 2: two seconds of transfer transfer me right there. And then also, 1072 00:51:22,760 --> 00:51:24,239 Speaker 2: you fucking idiot, what to me? 1073 00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:27,960 Speaker 1: Like I understand people are forgetful and stuff, but it's like, okay, 1074 00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:31,239 Speaker 1: does he not have a phone. Also, you guys made 1075 00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:33,320 Speaker 1: a point in saying that, like, yeah, you're going to 1076 00:51:33,360 --> 00:51:35,040 Speaker 1: do groceries and cooking, so when you go out, he'll 1077 00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:36,880 Speaker 1: handle all the all the bills for that. You have 1078 00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:43,240 Speaker 1: one fucking job and you forgot your card. Embarrassing, very embarrassing. 1079 00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:46,480 Speaker 1: Like I'm sure I've done it, and like that's embarrassing 1080 00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:49,880 Speaker 1: to me. Yeah, and like I said, to reiterate, it 1081 00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:52,399 Speaker 1: takes two seconds as you pay the bill. Hey, Bobe, 1082 00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:53,399 Speaker 1: how much was it one thirty? 1083 00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:57,560 Speaker 2: Sweet? Done? Yeah, if you're still with him, breakup. But 1084 00:51:57,640 --> 00:51:59,560 Speaker 2: it sounds like past tense. That whole thing was fo yeah, 1085 00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:02,360 Speaker 2: because shit's happened, but also like you know you're worth baddy, 1086 00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:03,719 Speaker 2: like you shouldn't be treated that way. No way, not 1087 00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:12,200 Speaker 2: at all, baddies, if you knew around here. We finished 1088 00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:13,960 Speaker 2: the episode with some comments from you guys. If you 1089 00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:15,680 Speaker 2: want to get a comment read, simply comment on the 1090 00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:18,359 Speaker 2: episode you are listening to say whatever you want. 1091 00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:21,279 Speaker 1: I've got Spotify to back to back. 1092 00:52:21,360 --> 00:52:24,400 Speaker 2: First one is Emma, Oddie, I completely agree with you 1093 00:52:24,600 --> 00:52:26,600 Speaker 2: what you were saying about camping and how it gives 1094 00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:29,200 Speaker 2: you and your partner an opportunity to be close to 1095 00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:33,200 Speaker 2: one another without social media and everything else, basically disconnecting 1096 00:52:33,320 --> 00:52:34,880 Speaker 2: from the rest of the world. 1097 00:52:36,239 --> 00:52:39,000 Speaker 1: One person back to back, Jessica, time for Jake to 1098 00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:42,400 Speaker 1: touch some grass? Why because they want to go camping 1099 00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:42,960 Speaker 1: and connect? 1100 00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:45,240 Speaker 2: What do you mean way tell me to touch grass 1101 00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:46,759 Speaker 2: when I don't want to go camping because you need 1102 00:52:46,800 --> 00:52:48,640 Speaker 2: to connect, saying that's so judgmental, baddies. 1103 00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:52,840 Speaker 1: There's here another one about uh completely agree with Oddie. 1104 00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:54,960 Speaker 1: Another one. 1105 00:52:58,480 --> 00:52:59,319 Speaker 2: No, no, no, I'm not. 1106 00:53:01,239 --> 00:53:03,840 Speaker 1: Tell me to touch grass. Ye judge me, you're like 1107 00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:05,919 Speaker 1: this one. Then another Emma was the first one Emma. 1108 00:53:06,440 --> 00:53:10,439 Speaker 1: It was another Emma said, I definitely want to see 1109 00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:15,600 Speaker 1: a Relatables ex jeweling go collap. Yeah, fucking you get 1110 00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:18,480 Speaker 1: on this. I want to start like talking to my girlfriend. 1111 00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:20,400 Speaker 1: What we're having sex in Spanish? Did she be some 1112 00:53:20,520 --> 00:53:21,920 Speaker 1: g Yeah? What's that? 1113 00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:24,719 Speaker 2: I'm going to be best. She's gonna get the best 1114 00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:26,840 Speaker 2: of both ords. Right, I'm gonna have one girlfriend boring, 1115 00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:34,759 Speaker 2: she's gonna have two boyfriends, one Australian one Spanish. I 1116 00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:36,720 Speaker 2: tell you what you should come back to the episode 1117 00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:40,480 Speaker 2: next week with how to say do you want me 1118 00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:43,960 Speaker 2: to suck on your toes? In Spanish? Easy? Yeah? Easy? 1119 00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:45,759 Speaker 2: Learn that bad? 1120 00:53:45,880 --> 00:53:47,000 Speaker 1: Is this time for want of you to sign off 1121 00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:48,839 Speaker 1: the episode? The link will be in the description if 1122 00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:49,719 Speaker 1: you want to get called by. 1123 00:53:49,680 --> 00:53:51,800 Speaker 2: Us today, we are calling Anna. 1124 00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:56,080 Speaker 1: Hello? Is this Anna? Yeah? 1125 00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:58,600 Speaker 2: And it's Jake and Odd from the Relatables. How are you. 1126 00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:00,239 Speaker 1: Good? 1127 00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:00,560 Speaker 2: Thank you? 1128 00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:01,439 Speaker 3: How are you guys? 1129 00:54:01,680 --> 00:54:03,040 Speaker 2: Really really good? 1130 00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:04,520 Speaker 1: Sounded so concerned. 1131 00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:10,960 Speaker 2: Yes, we're calling to see if you will do us 1132 00:54:11,040 --> 00:54:13,800 Speaker 2: the honor of signing off our episode. 1133 00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:17,400 Speaker 1: Definitely all right? 1134 00:54:17,440 --> 00:54:20,320 Speaker 2: What have you got for us? Advice? Maybe a joke? 1135 00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:22,960 Speaker 1: Something you can tell Jake to touch some grass. 1136 00:54:23,040 --> 00:54:26,759 Speaker 2: No, I'm not touching grass. I'm standing up here. You 1137 00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:29,160 Speaker 2: could go and touch some grass. It's really good for 1138 00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:30,040 Speaker 2: your mental health. 1139 00:54:32,800 --> 00:54:34,719 Speaker 1: Is that your advice? Battye? Or you got a double one? 1140 00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:38,680 Speaker 2: You can have money to go outside, take your stoops 1141 00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:44,440 Speaker 2: off and go put your sea grass. All right, let's go. 1142 00:54:45,520 --> 00:54:47,600 Speaker 1: I'll take your advice only because you said it, because 1143 00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:56,520 Speaker 1: said it so much. Fucking hell yeah, I heard it 1144 00:54:56,600 --> 00:55:00,879 Speaker 1: straight from the sauce mate. Your first guys bad get 1145 00:55:01,080 --> 00:55:03,200 Speaker 1: don't touch grass. I get that the grass 1146 00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:06,680 Speaker 2: Mm hmm