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Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables.

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Speaker 2: My best friend is recently single, and lately she has

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Speaker 2: been sleeping around, which I'm all for. Although there has

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Speaker 2: been multiple people that I have been with before that

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Speaker 2: she would ask if she can go for them too.

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Speaker 2: I always say yes because I genuinely don't care about them,

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Speaker 2: although as the number goes up, I'm starting to feel

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Speaker 2: really uncomfortable with it, even though I have no feelings

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Speaker 2: for the guys whatsoever. The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself,

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Speaker 2: Jake Craig aka Daddy, and my partner in crime, Audie

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Speaker 2: Clark aka Mamasita. All right, Audie, this episode, I would

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Speaker 2: like to just bring something up I want. I wanted

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Speaker 2: to start yeah, all right with the top line of

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Speaker 2: the episode. Yeah, okay, I'm going to give two quick

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Speaker 2: shout outs. All right. First quick shout out is to

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Speaker 2: as to someone we know named Jordan Butler. M okay.

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Speaker 2: He messaged me on Instagram and because I follow him

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Speaker 2: mates and he goes mate like, I don't know if

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Speaker 2: you know this, but Kyle and Jackie O mentioned you

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Speaker 2: guys on their radio show What So Big. Shout out

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Speaker 2: to Kyle and Jackie Oh really right?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, how do we not know about it?

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Speaker 2: And because I mean, well I knew about it because

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Speaker 2: he told me, but I didn't know about it, right,

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Speaker 2: and so he told me the episode because they obviously

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Speaker 2: record their whole radio show every morning. Then they posted

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Speaker 2: as a podcast on Spotify post production. Yeah. Yeah, So

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Speaker 2: basically I just wanted to shouted to Johny Butler for

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Speaker 2: letting us know, and then shout out to Kylin Jackie ooe.

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Speaker 2: I suppose, not that I don't I wouldn't say I'm

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Speaker 2: a fan of them, but like they're a massive show.

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Speaker 1: Got smack though, How did we not know about this?

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Speaker 2: No one sent it to us apart from the only person.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, we'll take it. So I'm excited.

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Speaker 2: Now And basically I'm going to play a snippet of

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Speaker 2: what they How long.

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Speaker 1: Were they talking about?

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Speaker 2: It's I don't know, medium minute all time, not too long,

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Speaker 2: but like they ended like what they what they brought up,

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Speaker 2: the reason they brought us up. They ended up talking

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Speaker 2: about for a while, but it wasn't like about us.

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Speaker 2: But I'm just excited to hear fuck um, well, no

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Speaker 2: they mentioned they say the relatables, which is nice of them,

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Speaker 2: Which is very nice of them and I just don't

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Speaker 2: even I think I'm just gonna fucking say for anyone

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Speaker 2: that doesn't know, though, Kylon Jackie is the biggest radio

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Speaker 2: show in Australia. They have been for years. They both

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Speaker 2: get paid like fifteen million dollars a year. They have

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Speaker 2: this insanely huge deal, biggest radio show. I looked it

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Speaker 2: up and I think per week they're getting I don't

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Speaker 2: know about like individual downloads, but per week they are

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Speaker 2: getting over a million listens on the radio. Crazy per

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Speaker 2: week and they obviously do five a week in the

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Speaker 2: morning morning radio. But yeah, I'm just gonna play it,

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Speaker 2: and I like, we like you. Fuck, I'm just gonna

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Speaker 2: play it. Yeah, what this guy?

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Speaker 3: You might find this interesting, guys. This is from the

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Speaker 3: guys at the Relatables podcast, definitely, and they ask their

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Speaker 3: female listeners to list the subtle things girls do when

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Speaker 3: they're into a guy. And I think you, guys, I

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Speaker 3: think you guys out there are going to be quite

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Speaker 3: surprised at the things we do. Mean, you have no

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Speaker 3: idea is a sign that we're into you because we

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Speaker 3: don't read minds and we don't do the minu mini signals.

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Speaker 1: The music is just.

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Speaker 2: Like stop go people.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I realized that, but yeah, let me let's listen,

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Speaker 3: and then I will break it down a little bit.

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Speaker 2: First, subtle signs that they give when they like a guy.

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Speaker 2: I'll leave my phone and purse at the table when

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Speaker 2: I go to the bathroom, not picking up on that note,

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Speaker 2: touching his shoulder when laughing at his joke, ignoring him,

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Speaker 2: but being super engaged with his friends asking for his help.

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Speaker 2: The reason is because men have this weird ego thing

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Speaker 2: they need to feel needed. I don't care what it is.

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Speaker 2: If you're tall enough to reach said thing, pretend you're not,

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Speaker 2: if you're strong enough to open said pretend you're not. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: some about it is like me knowing that you're giving

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Speaker 2: makes me know that you like me because you want

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Speaker 2: me to feel needed. And that's what a guy needs.

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Speaker 2: God that guy would he even get any pussy with

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Speaker 4: As for anyone listening who doesn't know who Carl and

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Speaker 4: Jackie O are, they're known for what Kyl is for

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Speaker 4: being very abrupt.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, like he's been. The whole country has tried

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Speaker 2: to cancel him so many times, and you can't cancel him, like,

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Speaker 2: we know, how funny is that comment. It's the funniest

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Speaker 2: I know? And like afterwards, so Jackie O, she goes

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Speaker 2: on to kind of just defend like what we were saying.

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Speaker 2: She was like, no, no, these are the things. This

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Speaker 2: is the thing, And honestly I don't, like I don't

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Speaker 2: listen to their show. I've listened to it when I

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Speaker 2: because I just don't listen to radio anymore because we

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Speaker 2: don't do it. But like what he was saying was

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Speaker 2: like it was making me laugh. Yeah, but like at

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Speaker 2: he's just like.

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Speaker 1: He's just unhim man.

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Speaker 2: I think that's what makes him like famous.

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Speaker 4: Like people don't agree with what he has to say,

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Speaker 4: but it's entertaining and not many people can pull that off.

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Speaker 2: I think, you know what, I think you're right. I

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Speaker 2: think like I didn't agree with anything he says, yeah,

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Speaker 2: but I think is it hearing someone say it out loud?

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Speaker 2: I was like, what was holy shit? And everyone's entitled

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Speaker 2: to her own opinion, Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah it was.

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Speaker 2: And then there's like other producers in there that they

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Speaker 2: yeah no, like they were like us, like we wouldn't

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Speaker 1: How's the radio edit on it?

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Speaker 2: But I know, like radio edits are crazy.

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Speaker 1: I was like, is this us?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, when you hear the music. I was listening

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Speaker 2: told him about it. I hadn't listened to it. It

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Speaker 2: was the first time I listened to it, and so live.

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Speaker 2: I got to hear him say like does this guy

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Speaker 2: get any pussy? Blah bah blah, and me trying to Bethwood.

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Speaker 1: Dying tell you what we should do. We're so fun,

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Speaker 2: I was even saying like, I don't know I was gonna.

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Speaker 2: if we would go on that show. To be fair,

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Speaker 2: like it's the craziest show.

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Speaker 1: It's pretty vague. I feel we can hold our own, but.

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Speaker 2: I think I do know what I stand for yeah, no, exactly,

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Speaker 2: as long as we don't let the intimidation of someone

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Speaker 2: that's so much bigger than us like get to us

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Speaker 2: and and cave and then be like, Okay, you know what,

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Speaker 2: you're right, like we need to stick to what we

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Speaker 2: believe in what we've seen interview people before, and he

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Speaker 2: tries to like baite them, has a vulliume a bit

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Speaker 2: say what he wants him to say to like get

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Speaker 2: the cancelation, like it's the good content there. He also

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Speaker 2: is like just a genius in the way of that

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Speaker 2: he knows how to get listens, he knows, he knows

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Speaker 2: what he's doing. I think he's I reckon. It would

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Speaker 2: be a great conversation.

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Speaker 1: We fight for the girlipops. We have so much more content.

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Speaker 2: You, myself and Jackie O. But she was defending us.

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Speaker 2: We probably got to be three against one. I gotta say, like, yeah, dude,

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Speaker 2: there's a there's so much more content we can defend

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Speaker 2: him on too. I mean, yeah, true, I wonder if we.

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Speaker 4: Can maybe not even defend just showed the insight into

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Speaker 4: the intricacies of dating maybe and how much thought actually

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Speaker 4: goes into it and why Jake gets pussy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to show him pussy. That's wild. Well

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Speaker 2: just one, but it's a pussy. How good though? Any

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Speaker 2: publicity is good publicity? Oh yeah, I don't give it.

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Speaker 2: I think it's hilarious. Like it was even so funny.

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Speaker 2: You can hear him when she goes, she's like, I think,

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Speaker 2: I don't know what she's I think I think she said,

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Speaker 2: and then she goes, this is from the Boys at

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Speaker 2: the Relatables podcast, and he said something like, oh, I

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Speaker 2: definitely won't like something like I don't know if that's

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Speaker 2: exactly what he said, but it's just so funny. I'd

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Speaker 2: love to fucking meet him in person to see if

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Speaker 2: he's actually like that.

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Speaker 1: I wonder if he puts on a facade.

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Speaker 2: You don't know. I don't know if it's a character,

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Speaker 1: Mad chill, which is outside of it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's probably. I mean, i'd say on the radio

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Speaker 2: he's more turned on and like Off the radio, he

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Speaker 4: To be fair, yeah, he probably have a lot of

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Speaker 4: knowledge we could get out of him to become better host.

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Speaker 4: Not even though we weren't we don't want to go

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Speaker 4: have to be the same person. He's a great host, yeah, yeah, entertainment.

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Speaker 4: I'm sure he's got some wisdom in him. But that's

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Speaker 4: a good way to start the podcat. It's harped me

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Speaker 4: up a bit, I know, how funny, like random and funny.

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Speaker 2: I know. It's just when he said it, I was like, no,

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Speaker 1: Least we're not getting rosted. Nah nah, I mean, well

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Speaker 1: you are, but I'm not.

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, he roasted me, but I mean I'm

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Speaker 2: so I don't really give a shit. So yeah, But

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Speaker 2: the next thing that I wanted to talk about, all right,

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Speaker 2: is we spoke about I don't know how long ago,

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Speaker 2: but we spoke about we did it. We did a

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Speaker 2: segment about something about like oh no, I don't know

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Speaker 2: what it was, but it was like, you said, someone

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Speaker 2: sent in. We did like an ig question and you

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Speaker 2: sent in someone sent in and you read it. I

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Speaker 2: don't want you to know. I want you to be

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Speaker 2: able to find the G spot. I don't want you

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Speaker 2: to just be like a jack rabbit. And then we

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Speaker 2: were like, well, where the fuck is it? Blah, blah,

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Speaker 2: I swear it changes every time. Yes, we were like,

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Speaker 2: but how we got to send an email from someone

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Speaker 2: how to find the G spot? Let me actually, do

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Speaker 2: you want to hear the title of this email? Friendly

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Speaker 2: G spot info in brackets? It's actually fake?

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Speaker 1: What listen?

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Speaker 4: Sometimes I wish we had like a ninety male audience,

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Speaker 4: not because I want more mail, like people listening so

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Speaker 4: we can advise them. Fact like I love I love

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Speaker 4: our Girlipop fans, but like to tell them spread the

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Speaker 4: word we need to advise.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I guess to be fair, like, maybe

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Speaker 2: a lot of the girls don't know this.

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Speaker 1: Okay, body surely so?

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Speaker 2: Hello Jake and Oddie, fan of the pod from the States,

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Speaker 2: currently in Nebraska. Let's go a little about me. I'm

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Speaker 2: You can. That's technically correct. However, that after essentially, how

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Speaker 2: It's a general area that you may not hit every time.

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't know the way. I don't know the

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Speaker 4: in my mind, that fingernail starts to grow fifty cent

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Speaker 4: Maybe it goes the size of a fucking tennis ball,

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Speaker 2: No, it could be completely wrong. It's good analogy.

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Speaker 2: I think it's a good way to think. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: And build that spot up so it gets bigger.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you know it's like, you know, it's

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Speaker 4: I was just gonna say, Kyle would be like, what

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Speaker 2: No, Kyle, we actually want to think about this, all right,

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Speaker 2: this is this is an in depth conversation about something.

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Speaker 2: But no, seriously, you've either got it or you don't.

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Speaker 2: and all that thinking you're talking about fifty cent pieces

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Speaker 2: imagine that's the way that you genuinely thought nothing against him.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, he's a human being. I guess facade.

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Speaker 2: Oh mate, Okay, but seriously, I think I like how

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Speaker 1: It's funny.

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Speaker 4: I was having a similar conversation with my girlfriend the

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Speaker 4: normally say, if you're hitting it, keep going, I'm gonna come, yeah,

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Speaker 4: The more communication the better, even though it's not that sexy,

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Speaker 2: Like me too, same, that's literally what the guys like.

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Speaker 2: She's like, that's interesting those words. Yeah, I'm about to come.

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Speaker 2: Oh ship, what am I I'm trying to think as well,

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Speaker 2: And be like, oh, that's fine. I'm just like should

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Speaker 2: Because I feel like growing yeah, I've never given it.

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Speaker 4: And it's about building that safe environment, I think, which

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Speaker 2: Nah, it's impossible like that. And I imagine the biggest

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Speaker 2: I guess it needs the dad. I don't know. I actually,

434
00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:23,600
Speaker 2: let's be it doesn't need the dad and needs the mom.

435
00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:26,800
Speaker 2: The dad's just loving it because it can. Yeah, it's

436
00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:28,600
Speaker 2: just a little bit age of support. But like so

437
00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:30,800
Speaker 2: it's just it's probably like another full year of just

438
00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:33,520
Speaker 2: like the kid, that fucking baby needs them to live.

439
00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:37,560
Speaker 4: I've seen a lot of things where talking about the

440
00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:38,760
Speaker 4: dad's not being needed.

441
00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:40,240
Speaker 1: There they obviously are, but.

442
00:20:40,320 --> 00:20:43,000
Speaker 2: Oh yeah yeah, but like the baby doesn't necessarily need

443
00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:43,320
Speaker 2: the dad.

444
00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:46,600
Speaker 4: I'm seeing a lot of things where guys like these

445
00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:50,000
Speaker 4: new age dads, like I don't know how to love

446
00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:52,520
Speaker 4: their kid. Oh, or it feels like it feels like

447
00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:55,040
Speaker 4: a roommate more than a baby.

448
00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:56,720
Speaker 2: Sing oh no, that's crazy.

449
00:20:56,720 --> 00:20:58,240
Speaker 4: There's a couple of people that came out with it

450
00:20:58,280 --> 00:21:00,399
Speaker 4: and like it's meant to be this joyful, like the

451
00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:02,760
Speaker 4: best thing that ever happens to you, which like that's

452
00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:03,800
Speaker 4: what we expected to happen.

453
00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:04,680
Speaker 2: But yeah, like some.

454
00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:06,399
Speaker 4: Famous people were coming out and just like I didn't

455
00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:09,479
Speaker 4: know how to act, like it's we're just we're just

456
00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:13,080
Speaker 4: like told to figure it out, yeap, where this baby

457
00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:14,320
Speaker 4: comes into the world and you have to care for

458
00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:16,160
Speaker 4: it and you're like, whoa, Like what's going on here?

459
00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:19,000
Speaker 4: And like that love that you expected isn't always there.

460
00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:22,000
Speaker 2: That's such you know, I never I didn't never thought

461
00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:24,560
Speaker 2: of that. So like sometimes like a baby might reject

462
00:21:24,680 --> 00:21:26,680
Speaker 2: the dad because it wants the month, so not even

463
00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:28,439
Speaker 2: that it doesn't even know what's going on, and you know,

464
00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:30,359
Speaker 2: well it's not very co's like, we.

465
00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:33,239
Speaker 4: Have this expectation that I'm gonna love this thing, like

466
00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:35,280
Speaker 4: through and through, and like a lot of men are

467
00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:38,440
Speaker 4: coming out saying like I just don't feel the way

468
00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:39,520
Speaker 4: I thought I was going to feel.

469
00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:43,080
Speaker 2: That's crazy. That's I've never seen videos that it was.

470
00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:46,040
Speaker 1: Really it was I don't want to quote do you mean.

471
00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:47,760
Speaker 2: Like did they say like I kind of had to

472
00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:48,600
Speaker 2: fall in love with it?

473
00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:49,520
Speaker 1: Pretty much?

474
00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:51,800
Speaker 4: It was Pautie piet Yeah said it. He said the

475
00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:54,080
Speaker 4: first year was the hardest year of his life. And

476
00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:56,600
Speaker 4: then really it was Jack from HAMI Shandy, don't quote

477
00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:58,440
Speaker 4: exactly what I said. If he went on the Imperfect

478
00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:01,560
Speaker 4: podcast and talked about like the first couple of months

479
00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:03,480
Speaker 4: of having a baby and the struggles of it, and

480
00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:05,640
Speaker 4: it was around the same conversation. It was actually very

481
00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:06,240
Speaker 4: eye opening.

482
00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:08,480
Speaker 2: I might listen to that. Yeah. Wow, a very.

483
00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:11,560
Speaker 4: Interesting conversation, and it's like something you just don't know

484
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:13,120
Speaker 4: or feel will happen when you have a.

485
00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:15,840
Speaker 2: Kid, No, because you expect, you expect that you're gonna

486
00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:17,760
Speaker 2: be absolutely do you expect as soon as you see

487
00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:20,080
Speaker 2: that thing. I'm sure a lot of people to see

488
00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:23,040
Speaker 2: it love love, Yeah, but some people it makes sense

489
00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:25,639
Speaker 2: also like whoa, what's going on here? Yeah, your body

490
00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:29,280
Speaker 2: needs time to adjust? Holy shit? Fair wow, which is like.

491
00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:31,280
Speaker 4: Interesting and scary, but also one of the things that like,

492
00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:33,080
Speaker 4: I feel like people would be scared to say that,

493
00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:34,639
Speaker 4: So it was very important for people to voice that.

494
00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:38,840
Speaker 2: STARSKT dads, did you love me? Like so yeah, yeah,

495
00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:41,320
Speaker 2: but just be honest, like when you first fucking with

496
00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:43,400
Speaker 2: sort of a sarmyboo thing to say, because you can't

497
00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:44,879
Speaker 2: say to like it's like, I don't know what's going

498
00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:46,240
Speaker 2: on here, I don't know what to field towards it.

499
00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:48,480
Speaker 4: But it's also like falling in love, like with a

500
00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:50,399
Speaker 4: partner for the first time. You all these emotions there

501
00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:51,399
Speaker 4: and you don't know how to deal with them. It's

502
00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:51,840
Speaker 4: the same thing.

503
00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:54,959
Speaker 2: Fuck, that's scary. That's just one more thing I now

504
00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:56,960
Speaker 2: think about. Yeah, having kids like what if I don't

505
00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:57,400
Speaker 2: like my kid?

506
00:22:58,280 --> 00:22:59,639
Speaker 4: I think you just fall in love with it, like

507
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:02,360
Speaker 4: you said, But that initial couple months are like, oh, whoa,

508
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:05,560
Speaker 4: what's going on? Humans have this mindset where like he'll

509
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 4: be right, Like I'll figure it out.

510
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:09,199
Speaker 2: True, we do have that time of mindset when like,

511
00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:10,359
Speaker 2: in reality, we've never done.

512
00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:12,399
Speaker 4: It before, Like, where's this expectation that I'm going to

513
00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:13,400
Speaker 4: fall in love it immediately?

514
00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:15,680
Speaker 2: Everyone says living life for the very first time. It's

515
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 2: like one thing I've I've for some reason I've been

516
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:19,800
Speaker 2: remembering a lot lately, is that every single person is

517
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:22,040
Speaker 2: living life for the first time. So if someone's making

518
00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 2: a mistake and it's the first time they've ever made

519
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,399
Speaker 2: said mistake, or maybe they knew it was a mistake,

520
00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:27,520
Speaker 2: like maybe they knew it was the wrong thing to do.

521
00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:30,359
Speaker 2: But also, like the whole thing about learning is like

522
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:32,080
Speaker 2: when you're a kid, you fall down to learn how

523
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:34,960
Speaker 2: to get back up. Yeah, Like if you make a

524
00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:37,320
Speaker 2: little mistake as an adult, like fuck, let yourself live

525
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:39,400
Speaker 2: because just remind yourself that this is the first time

526
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:41,359
Speaker 2: you've been on this planet. Yeah, and it's weird.

527
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:46,399
Speaker 4: This weird social media platform we've built has made people

528
00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 4: who ever following not be able to make mistakes facts,

529
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:52,560
Speaker 4: which is like.

530
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 1: Not human nature.

531
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:56,240
Speaker 4: Like I get they're in a position to influence people

532
00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 4: and they should be saying all the right things, but

533
00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 4: everyone should be able to realize that they haven't done

534
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:04,200
Speaker 4: this before either, Like they're going to be doing their

535
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:06,440
Speaker 4: best way to fucking do everything right, but they're human,

536
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 4: like they're going to fucking fall down and they got

537
00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 4: to figure it out when they get back up.

538
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:12,560
Speaker 2: Like, for instance, let's say with the podcast, you should

539
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:14,399
Speaker 2: be allowed to say, like you should be allowed to

540
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 2: believe one thing right and that thing could be wrong,

541
00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:22,440
Speaker 2: and then you get let known arguments as to why

542
00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:24,440
Speaker 2: it's wrong, and you should be allowed to change your mind,

543
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:26,600
Speaker 2: Like what you thought of something at one point in

544
00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 2: your life shouldn't define you for the rest of your life,

545
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:30,200
Speaker 2: but you should be allowed to change your mind and

546
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 2: be like I've actually changed my thoughts on this, oh,

547
00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:32,800
Speaker 2: one hundred percent.

548
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:34,800
Speaker 4: And there's definitely I see the argument's sake where there's

549
00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 4: a fine line behind like a like a dictator type

550
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:40,800
Speaker 4: person who says my way or the high way. Yeah,

551
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,160
Speaker 4: but I think if there's two people having a conversation

552
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:46,879
Speaker 4: and their opinion comes out openly and like this is

553
00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:48,560
Speaker 4: what I think. And then all this information comes in

554
00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:50,200
Speaker 4: You're like, oh, actually, I've realized that I was wrong

555
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:51,439
Speaker 4: and you could have met. When you're wrong, that's when

556
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 4: it should be okay to make mistakes.

557
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:55,240
Speaker 2: That's that's such a good point.

558
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's human nature.

559
00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:59,480
Speaker 2: What happened in the world where yeah, there's now these

560
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:02,399
Speaker 2: people that just aren't allowed to make mistakes. It's it's weird.

561
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:04,800
Speaker 2: I mean, I can understand maybe like a politician's held

562
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:07,320
Speaker 2: on a pretty high pedestal. Fair, yeah, you know, but

563
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:10,280
Speaker 2: still they're gonna make a human levels to it, like

564
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:14,840
Speaker 2: the like obviously if it affects other people, like it

565
00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:16,840
Speaker 2: goes further than just that person saying something wrong. But

566
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 2: if like fuck, if your favorite fucking famous person says

567
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:22,760
Speaker 2: I don't know something wrong about fucking how he finds

568
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:27,119
Speaker 2: his girlfriend's g spot like it's fine, yeah, exact to

569
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:28,520
Speaker 2: be fair, that's fine, And.

570
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:31,240
Speaker 4: Then he gets corrected and says, there actually isn't one spot, mate,

571
00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:33,400
Speaker 4: Like there's this thing that this build up, yeah, and

572
00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 4: like it moves around and it st different every person.

573
00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 4: He's like, oh wow, like I didn't know, like I'm

574
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:40,239
Speaker 4: sorry I didn't educate myself. Probably that's fine, But then

575
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:42,919
Speaker 4: there's fifteen news articles written on this guy saying like,

576
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 4: fucking Jake Craig doesn't know how.

577
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:50,400
Speaker 2: To find the headline, Jake Craig can't find girlfriends, spot

578
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:57,679
Speaker 2: poor girl. Carl Sandalance, it's just Carl Sandlanz offers to teach. Yeah, like,

579
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:01,760
Speaker 2: it's just funny and I don't know.

580
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,639
Speaker 4: Life is just weird concept that everyone hasn't done before

581
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 4: and we just got to figure it out exactly.

582
00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, baddies, time for a dilemma.

583
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 1: Let's go.

584
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,120
Speaker 2: You know what to do. If you want to send

585
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 2: money in they're all anonymous, you can do it in

586
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:24,159
Speaker 2: the link in the description of this video and or

587
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:26,520
Speaker 2: the link in the bio of our Instagram. Click the

588
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:29,720
Speaker 2: comeo and you scroll down. You do it. Okay. My

589
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:32,399
Speaker 2: best friend is recently single and lately she has been

590
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:36,239
Speaker 2: sleeping around, which I'm all for. Although there has been

591
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:39,119
Speaker 2: multiple people that I have been with before that she

592
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 2: would ask if she can go for them too, I

593
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:46,120
Speaker 2: always say yes. It's a relatable I always say yes

594
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 2: because I genuinely don't care about them. Although as the

595
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:53,359
Speaker 2: number goes up. I'm starting to feel really uncomfortable with it,

596
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 2: even though I have no feelings for the guys whatsoever.

597
00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:59,680
Speaker 2: Sometimes we have argued over guys because we have both

598
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:02,800
Speaker 2: been with them before, and even though I tell her

599
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:05,120
Speaker 2: I'm okay with it, it's starting to make me lose

600
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:08,480
Speaker 2: my trust in her. What do you guys think? How

601
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:12,720
Speaker 2: should I talk to her about this? Oh? Okay? Initially,

602
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:15,159
Speaker 2: when I read it the first time, right, I was

603
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:18,919
Speaker 2: thinking like, oh, well, maybe like you just haven't accepted

604
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 2: that you do like some of these guys. Nah. But

605
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 2: what I am getting at, what I'm starting to get at,

606
00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:25,879
Speaker 2: like in my head after reading it at the end,

607
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 2: was like she's losing trust in her because maybe she's thinking,

608
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:31,320
Speaker 2: like what if I get a boyfriend and all of

609
00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 2: a sudden she just wants to sleep with that guy

610
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:34,760
Speaker 2: because we've been switching guys, you know, Like.

611
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:39,520
Speaker 4: I just think that her friend isn't respecting her boundaries.

612
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 2: But she asks.

613
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 4: I still don't think that's respectful. Really asking is one thing,

614
00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:46,879
Speaker 4: but like if you slept, say we're both single, when

615
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 4: you slept with a couple of girls And then I

616
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 4: somehow was talking to them on a night out and

617
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:52,359
Speaker 4: I knew you slept with him, were like, oh I

618
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 4: slept with her like a month ago or year. I'd

619
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:55,680
Speaker 4: be like, oh, so a man did not that's off limits.

620
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 2: Really I wouldn't what if I didn't care, because she's

621
00:27:58,080 --> 00:27:59,919
Speaker 2: saying she doesn't care, because like in the friends defense,

622
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:01,680
Speaker 2: she's saying she doesn't care as that.

623
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:02,920
Speaker 1: Many fucking people in the world.

624
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:03,639
Speaker 2: Why are you sleeping?

625
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 4: Why do you want to have sex with someone that

626
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:07,840
Speaker 4: your best friend is also had sex with someone and

627
00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:08,359
Speaker 4: made a connection.

628
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 1: I don't care.

629
00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 4: Feelings aren't there. I just think out of respect, I

630
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:13,960
Speaker 4: shouldn't do it because you were in there first. I mean,

631
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 4: look fair, but I feel like that I would value

632
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 4: I value my friendship.

633
00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 2: Like she said, how do I bring this up with

634
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:23,679
Speaker 2: the friend? I would say, oh, after you go, I

635
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:24,160
Speaker 2: got something.

636
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:27,159
Speaker 4: I would say, hey, I know you keep asking me

637
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:29,199
Speaker 4: if you want to have sex with the people that

638
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:31,119
Speaker 4: I've already had sex with, which is fine, and I'm

639
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:33,200
Speaker 4: voicing how I feel and I don't have any feelings

640
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 4: for them, which is okay. But I feel like it's

641
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 4: like stepping on a line where you're taking it too

642
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 4: far and you're not respecting my boundaries at all.

643
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 2: Yep, you're not very seeing our friendship very similar. I

644
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 2: was gonna say it could be as easy as sitting

645
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:51,960
Speaker 2: her down and just bring it up, like hey, like,

646
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 2: I know, I've told you I'm okay with it, and

647
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 2: I don't like the guys, like I don't want to

648
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 2: be with them, but I think for the sake of

649
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:01,920
Speaker 2: our friendship, yeah, we just shouldn't go for the same guys.

650
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 2: It's I think, like and and it's making things the

651
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 2: dirty and tricky. Yeah, you know, I think that that's

652
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 2: not a big ask because, like you said, there is

653
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 2: so many people in the world. It's not a big

654
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 2: ask at all.

655
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:17,400
Speaker 4: And I think the person sending in this dilemma is

656
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 4: questioning whether or not her emotions are valid because she

657
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 4: doesn't have feelings for them.

658
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 1: And I think they are completely valid.

659
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:27,760
Speaker 4: That's to feel this icky way even though you don't

660
00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 4: have feelings for this guy and your friends sleeping with

661
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 4: all of them, Like, I just don't see the I

662
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:33,800
Speaker 4: don't I'm just immediately if Jake slept with a girl,

663
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 4: I'm also kind of turned off them, Like I'm not

664
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:38,719
Speaker 4: as they're not attractive, but like they become more of

665
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 4: like a friend or a sibling rather than someone that

666
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:42,720
Speaker 4: I find attractive.

667
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:45,840
Speaker 2: I'm trying to think we've never slept with the same person. No,

668
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 2: and if we did, if like, I don't think I

669
00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 2: have with anyone I know. No, I know, like it's

670
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 2: friends of friends, but not like friends. No, no, you're

671
00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:59,040
Speaker 2: not someone that you can close tight group.

672
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:00,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh no, I know you have.

673
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 2: Actually okay, right, it was their first.

674
00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:07,800
Speaker 1: It was their first, not you. Oh no, no, you actually

675
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:08,760
Speaker 1: wear their first.

676
00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 2: Sorry you got I got my timelines mixed up. Were first.

677
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 2: I wouldn't do that.

678
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, I wouldn't do that. And I think that's a

679
00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:21,480
Speaker 4: good dilemma to bring up with your friend and say, like, look,

680
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 4: I value our friendships. Just let's not make the things

681
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:27,360
Speaker 4: dirty and have sex with each other's body counts who

682
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:27,720
Speaker 4: we've had.

683
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:32,479
Speaker 2: To you and I, it sounds like the easiest thing

684
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:32,960
Speaker 2: in the world.

685
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 4: And but some people, some friendships, guys and girls, really

686
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 4: value sex a lot higher than the friendship. Like a

687
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:45,800
Speaker 4: lot of people will rather flick the bean and have

688
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 4: some fun then fucking have our relationship as friends.

689
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 2: I mean, you're so right on a night out, like.

690
00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 4: I know plenty, especially the dudes do. I'm sure the

691
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 4: girls are the same, and there's no dudes do. Dudes

692
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 4: are probably more because I'm exposed to dudes. But like that,

693
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:07,880
Speaker 4: many dudes will throw like their mates under the bus

694
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:13,080
Speaker 4: to have sex. Honestly, they talk shit, they fucking go

695
00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:16,160
Speaker 4: behind their backs. They do all this tricky business just

696
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 4: to get some when in reality, I think people should

697
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 4: be valuing their friendships a lot higher than said sex,

698
00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 4: especially if your friends. I could understand if the friend

699
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 4: having sex with him said, do you care if I

700
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:31,800
Speaker 4: sleep with so and so, I'm beginning to get feelings

701
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:32,440
Speaker 4: for them.

702
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 2: Okay, then I would be see it going somewhere.

703
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:35,720
Speaker 1: Yeah.

704
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 4: Then I would be like, oh, okay, no, I don't

705
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 4: have feelings for them, Like go ahead, I'm glad you checked.

706
00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:42,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we had one night stand like it was

707
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 2: nothing like don't yeah, yeah, I'm glad you checked.

708
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:47,040
Speaker 4: But if she's just doing it also because she's on

709
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 4: a glow up error, which is completely fine, her bad

710
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:52,240
Speaker 4: error having sex with people finding herself again, Yeah, I

711
00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 4: think you should just go to a fucking different club

712
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:56,280
Speaker 4: and have sex with other random dudes.

713
00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:58,960
Speaker 2: Yeah please, yeah, bring it up with her, just say

714
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 2: to it. Look to protect our friendship. I value it

715
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 2: so much, I think we should not sleep with the

716
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 2: same people just saying it out loud. It's just not

717
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 2: a big ars. It's just really not a big ars. No,

718
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 2: because but you have to say it, just like, not

719
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 2: in an attacking way, just be like I think, don't like,

720
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 2: don't tell her that she's disrespecting you anything like that.

721
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 2: I think you have to say it because it's just you.

722
00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 2: I think you should just be like, I'm feeling affected,

723
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:19,520
Speaker 2: but I prefer our friendship over the fact.

724
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's so fair.

725
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:23,160
Speaker 2: I think so as well. Yeah, I mean, if you

726
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 2: guys are in the Facebook group, yeah, fucking let us know,

727
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:27,720
Speaker 2: because we feel like it's fair honestly.

728
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 4: And if like, if she doesn't see it's fair and

729
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 4: she doesn't value the friendship as much as you do,

730
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 4: I think that's a win finding.

731
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 1: Out as well.

732
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:35,720
Speaker 2: True.

733
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, true.

734
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:39,520
Speaker 4: If she said I want to have sex with them, like, oh, well,

735
00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:41,400
Speaker 4: like I thought we had something a bit more special.

736
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:45,520
Speaker 2: Maybe I was wrong. Yeah, get toxic, start getting with

737
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 2: like real hot dudes that she can't get with.

738
00:32:51,280 --> 00:33:00,760
Speaker 1: Oh shit, Noah, that's me or right, Jake.

739
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:06,000
Speaker 2: Not on purpose? We have become a word that I

740
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 2: don't like oh, okay, influencers. I don't care. I mean,

741
00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 2: it's just it's just a category of what I'd prefer

742
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:16,080
Speaker 2: to say on a podcast.

743
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I mean.

744
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 2: We started out wanting to be podcasters. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

745
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 2: which I mean we are, which we are, yes, yes, yes.

746
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 4: And as a subsequent which we are very fortunate to

747
00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:30,600
Speaker 4: be in the position we have become influencers due to

748
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:35,440
Speaker 4: our social media following on TikTok and Instagram. Yes, and

749
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 4: there's this weird world that we live in that some

750
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:41,959
Speaker 4: reason influencers don't like to talk about it.

751
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, what is with that? I mean, like, I guess

752
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 2: no one really likes to talk about their own like

753
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:49,280
Speaker 2: I guess salary or like just all the nitty grip.

754
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 4: But you can tell how like you can tell people

755
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:53,320
Speaker 4: how it works, people don't even Like. There's one thing

756
00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 4: that I'm realizing in life is a lot of the

757
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:57,880
Speaker 4: information you have you take for granted and people don't

758
00:33:57,920 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 4: know it, and like you just keep that information yourself.

759
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:03,040
Speaker 4: Like me, pt I take some of that information I

760
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 4: have for granted, and some people could benefit from that information.

761
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:08,239
Speaker 4: So I thought me and Jakes could have some a

762
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 4: good riveting conversation about being open about the influencer world

763
00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:16,279
Speaker 4: and brand deals and how everything works, and just I

764
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:18,400
Speaker 4: feel like it could be such a good interesting conversation.

765
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:21,879
Speaker 4: Also like tips for growing on social media because we've

766
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:22,239
Speaker 4: done it.

767
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:24,960
Speaker 2: Yeah. I always do say, like people will ask us,

768
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,719
Speaker 2: We get questions about whether or not not, whether or

769
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:31,360
Speaker 2: not sorry, just questions about maybe what we're doing to

770
00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:34,240
Speaker 2: grow the podcast or how to grow a podcast. Yeah,

771
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:36,560
Speaker 2: And I always tell people that we are in the

772
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:39,920
Speaker 2: middle of that right now. Like we I say, like,

773
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 2: we now understand how to gain a following on social media,

774
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 2: and we want to have a really big podcast. And

775
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:49,759
Speaker 2: it's not that we don't. Let we we love it

776
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,320
Speaker 2: and appreciate everything, and we think we have a great podcast.

777
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:55,759
Speaker 2: But I always say to people like, yeah, we know

778
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:57,440
Speaker 2: social media, that's like what we do. But now we're

779
00:34:57,520 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 2: working on how to learn how to make the podcast bigger.

780
00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:03,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, two different entities social media and then there's a podcast.

781
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:06,319
Speaker 4: And that line often gets blurred a lot of the time,

782
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 4: And it's the same thing when it's really two completely

783
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 4: different industries that don't even talk to each.

784
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:15,279
Speaker 2: Other, not really, Hey, like sometimes but not really. Yeah.

785
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:18,359
Speaker 4: I bet heaps of people listening either want to grow

786
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:21,839
Speaker 4: their personal pages or is just interested in finding out

787
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 4: how the industry works.

788
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:25,959
Speaker 2: I find Yeah, do you reckon? Like maybe people don't

789
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 2: want to give insights on the industry because then it's

790
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 2: like the competition or some shit, maybe competition or like

791
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:37,320
Speaker 2: they think that. I don't know. I don't feel like

792
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 2: anyone saying like, oh, you guys don't deserve the money

793
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 2: you make would affect me at all because like they

794
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:44,720
Speaker 2: don't know the work that went into it. Like maybe

795
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:47,799
Speaker 2: some people don't want to disclose that they feel like

796
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:49,520
Speaker 2: they're making quite a bit of money for not doing

797
00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 2: that much work, but they don't think about like all

798
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 2: the work that went into growing the page or something

799
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:55,680
Speaker 2: like that. Yeah, they don't understand like where the money

800
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 2: comes from.

801
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 4: But also like fuck that, Like dumbas also just want

802
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:01,319
Speaker 4: to tell them because they can do whatever they want

803
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:03,439
Speaker 4: with the information and it's going to help. I'm more

804
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 4: happy helping one person and a couple of people getting

805
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:08,399
Speaker 4: angry because someone's making a lot of money, which we're

806
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:09,040
Speaker 4: not making.

807
00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:13,920
Speaker 2: Heaps of money. No, No, some like, okay, well what

808
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:14,799
Speaker 2: should we start with?

809
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:16,920
Speaker 4: Then I was gonna want to start with how to

810
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:19,440
Speaker 4: grow pages and then go into the background information of

811
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:20,920
Speaker 4: how to make money on social media.

812
00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:22,360
Speaker 2: Sure, yeah, we can give what we know.

813
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:26,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, so the first tip I'm kind of happy to

814
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:30,400
Speaker 4: have this, yea, honestly here at all time though, is consistency.

815
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:33,359
Speaker 2: Yeah. I was thinking about this the other day. Actually,

816
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 2: if someone was to say to me, like what should

817
00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:38,240
Speaker 2: I do, or if maybe I don't know, a podcast

818
00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 2: that's not as big as ours came to us and

819
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 2: was like, what do you think we should do? And

820
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 2: I would like, the hardest the genuinely, Oh it's so

821
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:50,760
Speaker 2: fucking lame, I reckon, you'd agree, But the hardest part

822
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:54,360
Speaker 2: is like just growing the confidence to be able to

823
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:56,719
Speaker 2: just like start posting. Well, that's also what I was

824
00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:57,080
Speaker 2: going to say.

825
00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:58,719
Speaker 4: I had a conversation with someone the other day who

826
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:02,040
Speaker 4: was trying to grow his page, and Jake and I

827
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:04,120
Speaker 4: got lucky in the fact that we had each other,

828
00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 4: So we had this little safety bubble around us where

829
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:11,480
Speaker 4: our mindsets individually also didn't care what people think, but

830
00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:13,719
Speaker 4: also this safety bubble of having each other and each

831
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:17,000
Speaker 4: other being delusional in this goal. We had helped not

832
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 4: let outside his perspective ruin our goal of becoming a

833
00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:23,279
Speaker 4: really good podcast. Yeah, so we just started posting and

834
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 4: not giving a fuck what people think, which is a

835
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 4: lot harder for an individual out there. But the first

836
00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:31,920
Speaker 4: thing is like not caring what people think and also

837
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:34,880
Speaker 4: realizing that you are the person to make the content

838
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:35,560
Speaker 4: you want to make.

839
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 1: A lot of people think like, oh, my.

840
00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:40,239
Speaker 4: Voice is an important Like why should I make a

841
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 4: fitness page? Why should I make a beauty page? Like

842
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:44,840
Speaker 4: I'm not the most beautiful, I'm not the fucking fittest.

843
00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:47,279
Speaker 4: But if you have a passion about that, you can

844
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 4: do whatever the fuck you want to do. Yeah, And

845
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:53,520
Speaker 4: it's just like getting out of this bubble of what

846
00:37:53,560 --> 00:38:00,360
Speaker 4: other people think and posting every single day or jazz much.

847
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 2: As you can. Yeah, I reckon like of anything. I

848
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:07,319
Speaker 2: do think that the best thing you can do is actually, yeah,

849
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:08,280
Speaker 2: to post every day.

850
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 1: It is, and it's it seems like a lot.

851
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:11,600
Speaker 4: You just have to set up a system in a

852
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 4: way where you can get content out that isn't isn't

853
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:17,080
Speaker 4: overly draining.

854
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:20,719
Speaker 2: Yeah. I also think like there was probably times where

855
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 2: I'm not probably sorry, there's like there's been so many

856
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:27,280
Speaker 2: times where maybe we'd I'd go to post a clip

857
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 2: for the podcast, and I like, I didn't even like

858
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:34,800
Speaker 2: the clip, but I think that like it does something

859
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 2: for you and your learning of like at least I

860
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:39,880
Speaker 2: got it out, like I said i'd post, so I posted.

861
00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:42,080
Speaker 2: And then also like if you don't like this said clip,

862
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:45,359
Speaker 2: it also just kind of helps you, maybe say, like

863
00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 2: maybe if I edited a clip and I didn't like

864
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 2: it and we thought it was gonna be good, and

865
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:50,040
Speaker 2: I can come to you and be like, look this

866
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:52,359
Speaker 2: actually it's just it's fucking shit, like yeah, and then

867
00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:54,400
Speaker 2: they just kind of you learn that like what you

868
00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:57,480
Speaker 2: do and don't like and and stuff like that. And

869
00:38:57,840 --> 00:38:59,800
Speaker 2: I had a question actually I went I was winning

870
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:01,680
Speaker 2: a row trip the other day and I did question

871
00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:04,160
Speaker 2: box on Instagram. I didn't answer the question I wish

872
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 2: I did, But one of the questions was, how do

873
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:11,680
Speaker 2: you have you gained confidence posting and being yourself on

874
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:13,960
Speaker 2: social media? Because like I guess like on my stories

875
00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:17,439
Speaker 2: and maybe if I if I ever posted TikTok pretty

876
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 2: rarely these days, but I just like we just be ourselves,

877
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:21,759
Speaker 2: like we don't give a shit anymore. Yeah, And I

878
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:23,040
Speaker 2: mean the answer is like at the start, I was

879
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:25,799
Speaker 2: fucking terrified, hated it. If I went back and watched

880
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 2: early videos of the podcast, early videos on my own

881
00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 2: TikTok page. I fucking hate them.

882
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:33,759
Speaker 4: Like it's literally just time and being exposed to what

883
00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 4: you're doing a start.

884
00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:37,880
Speaker 2: You're going to be bad at it. You're gonna fucking

885
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:40,640
Speaker 2: suck at it. Yeah, and you're not, and you're okay.

886
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:43,759
Speaker 2: Your content is not going to mean anything. It's going

887
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 2: to mean something to you maybe, but like you're like,

888
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:47,759
Speaker 2: it's not going to mean anything for the longest time

889
00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:49,239
Speaker 2: because like it's going to take a while for you

890
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 2: to find your voice. Yeah, you know, like your your

891
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:53,800
Speaker 2: personality might even change or my floorish even more. I

892
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 2: don't know.

893
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:56,120
Speaker 1: It took us like ages.

894
00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:57,439
Speaker 2: It feels like ages.

895
00:39:57,280 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 4: Maybe, I would say, over twelve months to figure out

896
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:04,680
Speaker 4: this version of the podcast where we give a male's

897
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:10,000
Speaker 4: perspective on females like lives and also like be a

898
00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:14,360
Speaker 4: voice to up the quality of men in the world. Yeah,

899
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:16,239
Speaker 4: we didn't do that, Like at the start, it was

900
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:16,760
Speaker 4: to normalize.

901
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:17,520
Speaker 2: I think that's a good thing.

902
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:19,799
Speaker 4: A good point to have is with your content, even

903
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 4: if it's shit or you just want to start, have

904
00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 4: a good meeting behind it.

905
00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:24,080
Speaker 2: That always helps. Yeah, that helps it because it also

906
00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:25,840
Speaker 2: just helps you, makes you feel like, it feels like

907
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:27,759
Speaker 2: it's got a purpose, and ours was to normalize men

908
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 2: being able to talk about their feelings.

909
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:32,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, and that grew into this version of the pod

910
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:34,399
Speaker 4: which we have now. But if you ask me two

911
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:36,120
Speaker 4: years ago before we started, if we would be talking

912
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:37,799
Speaker 4: about the stuff we talking about, I would be like, funk,

913
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:38,719
Speaker 4: I've got no idea.

914
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 2: Man, No, yeah, it's the And also if you go

915
00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:44,680
Speaker 2: back and listen to the early episodes, I would say

916
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:46,640
Speaker 2: they're probably not really anything like they are now.

917
00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 4: No, but we changed, we grow, and like we grow

918
00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:52,800
Speaker 4: as people as well as the content grows and the

919
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:55,040
Speaker 4: stuff we want to talk about changes. Yeah, I'm sure

920
00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 4: if we keep the Poty in thirty years we're going

921
00:40:56,640 --> 00:40:58,319
Speaker 4: to be talking about like fucking.

922
00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:03,319
Speaker 2: Different shit podcasts. Who knows what will fucking turn into. Yeah.

923
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 2: So first, the thing is you evolve, because like the

924
00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:09,000
Speaker 2: podcast evolves with the humans you are, because we started

925
00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:10,560
Speaker 2: it two years ago and we're different people to who

926
00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:13,000
Speaker 2: we are two years ago. Yeah, So I think first

927
00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 2: tip is being consistent.

928
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:16,399
Speaker 4: Second tip is realizing that you're going to be shit

929
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:18,200
Speaker 4: and you've got to post no matter what because that's

930
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:22,480
Speaker 4: gonna improve your confidence and the level of quality of

931
00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:25,000
Speaker 4: content you're putting out there. Just over time, you just

932
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:28,720
Speaker 4: get better. And the final tip it seems so simple,

933
00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:31,280
Speaker 4: but also like all those tips seem simple, like obviously

934
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:32,879
Speaker 4: he's got to post all the time. It's all easier said,

935
00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 4: they're done realizing that numbers of other people aren't a

936
00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:40,520
Speaker 4: reflection of how much work you're putting in. So say,

937
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 4: social media is this weird world where if I get

938
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:45,960
Speaker 4: one hundred views or a thousand views, that's not perceived

939
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 4: as good because you're not getting the next of our video.

940
00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 1: But it's realizing that.

941
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:52,759
Speaker 4: I remember when we first started the pod, like we

942
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 4: got one hundred and fifty listens.

943
00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:57,399
Speaker 2: I was stoked. That's one hundred and fifty people. Yeah.

944
00:41:57,400 --> 00:41:59,120
Speaker 2: I think our first episode got something like forty, and

945
00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 2: we were like, well, forty people listen to it, and

946
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:03,719
Speaker 2: then it would like slowly like start to go up

947
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:04,880
Speaker 2: a bit, and I think at one point maybe it

948
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 2: was we'll get in like three sixty yeah, and I

949
00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:09,440
Speaker 2: was thinking like fuck it, oaths, like that's.

950
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:11,440
Speaker 4: Three hundred and sixty people, and you can really strip

951
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:12,959
Speaker 4: it back for what it is and if you get

952
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:16,120
Speaker 4: I don't know a hundred likes and thousand start, and

953
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 4: that one hundred people in a room liked your video.

954
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 2: Imagine if a hundred people came up to you and

955
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 2: said I like you. Yeah, it's a fucking one hundred

956
00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 2: people's crazy.

957
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,160
Speaker 4: It's adding a human side to your social media and

958
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:28,640
Speaker 4: realizing that like, don't get like let down and your

959
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 4: motivation leave because you aren't getting one, two hundred thousand,

960
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 4: a million views every time. Think about it in like

961
00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 4: a human way that that one hundred people or even

962
00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:39,759
Speaker 4: ten people like your video.

963
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:42,359
Speaker 2: That's a lot of people. Yeah, and if your social

964
00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:44,239
Speaker 2: media is so fake, man, if you fifteen people like

965
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 2: your video, you're like, oh, that's fucking obviously the shit

966
00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:48,360
Speaker 2: is video. Ever we do it, it's we're guilty of

967
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 2: It's like the shit is obviously it's a shit video.

968
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:52,839
Speaker 2: But fifteen people coming up to you on the street

969
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:54,239
Speaker 2: and saying I like you, it's like when you think

970
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:55,960
Speaker 2: about it, like it's a lot.

971
00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:58,520
Speaker 4: And and last tip before we get into it, I

972
00:42:58,560 --> 00:43:02,440
Speaker 4: don't know how business works, is that social media is.

973
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:03,480
Speaker 2: A lot of luck.

974
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:07,840
Speaker 4: Oh yes, there's a lot of luck, yep, But you

975
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 4: have to be in it to win it.

976
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 2: Yep. So if you see someone.

977
00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:12,600
Speaker 4: Be like I wish I could be them, I wish

978
00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:14,520
Speaker 4: I could be that, Then why aren't you posting? M

979
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:17,960
Speaker 4: Like honestly, if you keep putting content out there like us,

980
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 4: we don't know what's going to blow up. No one

981
00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 4: knows what's blowing up. You can give tips on the algorithm,

982
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:24,279
Speaker 4: you can do anything, but it's a lot of luck

983
00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:26,840
Speaker 4: and if you're in it, you can win it. So

984
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:29,440
Speaker 4: if you consistently post, that's how you can be.

985
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:31,960
Speaker 2: How you learn, because like, yeah, you could give ten

986
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:33,719
Speaker 2: shit videos and one good one. You're like, okay, well,

987
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:35,600
Speaker 2: well why was it that one good one? Good? And

988
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:37,799
Speaker 2: again though it is luck, like if oury first time

989
00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:40,440
Speaker 2: we had a vild video, I remember that hit a million.

990
00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:43,919
Speaker 2: We're fucking losing our minds. Oh god, I wish I could.

991
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:46,440
Speaker 2: Like we were happier then than a video hitting like

992
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:49,040
Speaker 2: ten million. Now if it ever does, it hasn't happened

993
00:43:49,040 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 2: for a while, but like we were so stoked and

994
00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:56,840
Speaker 2: thinking back on it, not even for a second. I

995
00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:58,919
Speaker 2: don't even think for one second, did we like ask

996
00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:02,759
Speaker 2: ourselves like, oh obviously that was a good video. What

997
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:04,880
Speaker 2: made a go viral? Yeah? Because we were just like

998
00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:07,759
Speaker 2: fuck yeah, like, let's just keep doing Obviously obviously what

999
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 2: we're doing is right. And then it took fucking like

1000
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:10,960
Speaker 2: months and months for it to have it again, and

1001
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 2: we were okakay, well what made this one go viral?

1002
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:16,279
Speaker 2: And again it's just it's random luck of the algorithm,

1003
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 2: Like I just don't base hard work like I could.

1004
00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 2: We could work for fucking hours on a clip that

1005
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 2: we think is going to be sick.

1006
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:24,879
Speaker 1: It's just it's a funny world.

1007
00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:26,839
Speaker 2: It was so funny thinking back on it.

1008
00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:29,600
Speaker 4: And honestly, we could have probably cut six to twelve

1009
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:31,799
Speaker 4: months of our time if we realized what worked good

1010
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 4: in that video and why it worked good. And now

1011
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 4: we sort of know a little bit more, but we still.

1012
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:36,080
Speaker 1: Don't know it.

1013
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 2: I wouldn't change it day.

1014
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:41,480
Speaker 4: What's the cliche saying it's not about the end goal,

1015
00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:42,280
Speaker 4: it's about the journey.

1016
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:43,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it really is.

1017
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:45,319
Speaker 4: Like thinking about us getting our first million views. Our

1018
00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:47,120
Speaker 4: best friend Jackie lived under us at the time, was

1019
00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:48,879
Speaker 4: coming upstairs every ten minutes when I was going like.

1020
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 2: Eight, okay, yeah, he came out and then and then

1021
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:54,759
Speaker 2: you'd scroll and refreshing and be like.

1022
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:55,320
Speaker 4: And then it came up at like nine hundred and

1023
00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:56,719
Speaker 4: eighty and we sat on the couch and then we

1024
00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:58,880
Speaker 4: all went up for jamas and got hyped. Yeah, and

1025
00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 4: it was like, it's a beautiful memory. And obviously it's

1026
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:05,799
Speaker 4: not always about fucking hitting a million views or anything, but.

1027
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:08,480
Speaker 2: No, it was just fun. It was very fun and nah,

1028
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:10,440
Speaker 2: we don't care. The best thing about.

1029
00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:12,440
Speaker 4: Social media is that, like it gives you the opportunity

1030
00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 4: like nothing else could, to monetize your passions. Yeah, which

1031
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 4: is very very exciting.

1032
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 2: True. Yeah. A lot of people say, like, if you

1033
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:20,760
Speaker 2: want to be happy, to do what you're passionate about,

1034
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:22,640
Speaker 2: and the best way to do that these days is

1035
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:24,879
Speaker 2: to actually fucking try and get a social media following. Yeah,

1036
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:26,799
Speaker 2: we're completely honest if you want to sell something or.

1037
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:28,960
Speaker 1: Some people with that, but that's what the world's coming to.

1038
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:30,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, true. I mean I don't and you don't have

1039
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:32,919
Speaker 2: to agree with it, like that's just our opinion. Yeah, fair.

1040
00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:36,440
Speaker 1: And then the other side of things is business.

1041
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:38,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I don't know, there's probably a bit of

1042
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:40,879
Speaker 4: a misconception that we're ballers.

1043
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:43,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I probably like, but.

1044
00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 2: But no, I think we're just like normal. Yeah.

1045
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:47,719
Speaker 4: So there's sick there's a couple so sick, Yeah, very

1046
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:49,279
Speaker 4: sick that we get to do this for a living. Yeah,

1047
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:52,319
Speaker 4: there's a couple avenues of income. First one is that

1048
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:54,479
Speaker 4: we don't know the TikTok creative fund, otherwise we would

1049
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:55,080
Speaker 4: be ballers.

1050
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 2: But that's actually that is like, it's crazy. If we

1051
00:45:58,080 --> 00:46:00,560
Speaker 2: had the TikTok creative fund, I think we would be Yeah,

1052
00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 2: we different people, but we'd be fucking yeah, we'd be

1053
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:05,120
Speaker 2: different people.

1054
00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, we use Instagram and TikTok. Think of it as

1055
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:13,319
Speaker 4: like a funnel. So TikTok is the best platform that

1056
00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:16,080
Speaker 4: has exposure to get eyes. So this is also like, say,

1057
00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:17,640
Speaker 4: our podcast is our brand. So if you have a

1058
00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:21,720
Speaker 4: clothing brand or any type of brand out there, beauty brand,

1059
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:24,560
Speaker 4: think of our podcast as your brand. The funnel at

1060
00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:25,759
Speaker 4: the top of it is TikTok because that has the

1061
00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:29,880
Speaker 4: best exposure. So that's like the getting eyes on relatables,

1062
00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:31,760
Speaker 4: and you need a couple point of contact before people

1063
00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:34,120
Speaker 4: actually commit to listening to our podcast. Yeah, so the

1064
00:46:34,160 --> 00:46:37,480
Speaker 4: first one is TikTok where we get views and then

1065
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:39,960
Speaker 4: we also get if we get a brand deal on TikTok,

1066
00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:42,040
Speaker 4: we're going to give them figures ballpark.

1067
00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:45,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like when you have a big page, like

1068
00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:48,560
Speaker 2: it's thousands of dollars, but it's under ten thousand dollars. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

1069
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:49,000
Speaker 2: yeah yeah.

1070
00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:51,400
Speaker 4: And different brands pay for different things depending on what

1071
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:53,880
Speaker 4: they want. And some brands want a lot more, so

1072
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:56,320
Speaker 4: you charge more, and some brands give you all creative

1073
00:46:56,360 --> 00:46:57,680
Speaker 4: freedom and they charge a lot less.

1074
00:46:57,760 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I don't know. Yeah, I don't know if

1075
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:01,560
Speaker 2: giving fig is good or bad, to be honest with you,

1076
00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 2: like if we do, because like with brands in the

1077
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:04,880
Speaker 2: future we work with, we want to be able to

1078
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:06,480
Speaker 2: get the most money out of it. Yeah, but like

1079
00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 2: I mean, it doesn't really matter because like another thing,

1080
00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:11,879
Speaker 2: So to finish off your funnel. Thing is the way

1081
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:13,360
Speaker 2: we look at it. I don't know if this is correct.

1082
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:15,279
Speaker 2: This is the way we look at it. Is the

1083
00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:17,239
Speaker 2: top of your funnel. TikTok, it's the biggest one where

1084
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:18,759
Speaker 2: you get the most eyes. And then you want to

1085
00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:21,120
Speaker 2: try and transfer them from TikTok to Instagram, And then

1086
00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 2: you want to.

1087
00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 4: Go Instagram become fans because they actually follow you in

1088
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:25,600
Speaker 4: their page. This stuff pops up on their page because

1089
00:47:25,600 --> 00:47:25,920
Speaker 4: they care.

1090
00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:29,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you want to go from Instagram. That's

1091
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 2: where you will try and get them to go from

1092
00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 2: Instagram to become an actual listener for the podcast or

1093
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 2: from Instagram to maybe your website if you're trying to

1094
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 2: sell something, and then if we can get them to

1095
00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:38,719
Speaker 2: the podcast, it's up to us to keep them there.

1096
00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:40,759
Speaker 2: And then the end goal for us is actually to

1097
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 2: get obviously lots of podcast listeners, but then the end

1098
00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:44,440
Speaker 2: goal for us is to try and transfer them to

1099
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:47,319
Speaker 2: them Patreon where they pay for the content, yes, and

1100
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:49,200
Speaker 2: so that's our funnel, and then to get them to youtubes.

1101
00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:51,799
Speaker 2: It's slightly different, but it's a similar thing. Like it's

1102
00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:53,560
Speaker 2: all like we think of it as funnels.

1103
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:57,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, and like in an ideal world, if that funnel

1104
00:47:57,360 --> 00:48:01,320
Speaker 4: worked perfectly, like we go from like eight hundred thousand

1105
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:05,360
Speaker 4: on TikTok, the three hundred k on Instagram to like,

1106
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 4: I think we have sixty.

1107
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:10,399
Speaker 2: Thousand followers on Spotify. Yeah, podcast listeners, yeah, yeah, yeah,

1108
00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 2: yea yeah yeah.

1109
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 4: So you can see how the funnel really starts to

1110
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 4: like less water goes through and less water goes through.

1111
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:18,359
Speaker 1: And then in an ideal world, because someone brands.

1112
00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:22,239
Speaker 4: Like ah, like you don't always want to have too

1113
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:23,960
Speaker 4: many brands on your page because it looks like you're

1114
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:26,440
Speaker 4: a sellout. Yeah, and like in an ideal world, our

1115
00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 4: Patreon would pay for us to do this, so we

1116
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:30,759
Speaker 4: make the best content possible. Also, brand does take away

1117
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:32,400
Speaker 4: from us making content because we're building it for other

1118
00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:33,120
Speaker 4: people's brand.

1119
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:36,040
Speaker 2: Which we're appreciative of, which is good. It's a good thing.

1120
00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:39,000
Speaker 4: But in an ideal world, this funnel works perfectly and

1121
00:48:39,520 --> 00:48:41,919
Speaker 4: Patreon pays for us to talk to you guys, Yeah,

1122
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:43,080
Speaker 4: that would be ideal.

1123
00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:43,399
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1124
00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:45,680
Speaker 4: And then in the background, like the backside of us.

1125
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 4: The good thing about our business model is because we're

1126
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 4: a podcast, we edit like so it's like a full

1127
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:52,839
Speaker 4: time job of editing behind the scenes. Whereas like if

1128
00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:54,919
Speaker 4: anyone's an influencers or something like that, not taking anything

1129
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:57,720
Speaker 4: away from them, they don't have that like core of editing,

1130
00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:00,440
Speaker 4: so they have this like free time. I'm where they

1131
00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:02,640
Speaker 4: have to think of videos to do. Yep, ours is

1132
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:04,640
Speaker 4: more of a job, whereas I don't want to speak,

1133
00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:06,279
Speaker 4: I'm sure they do a lot of shit before Yeah, no,

1134
00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:07,120
Speaker 4: one hundred percent, they do.

1135
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 2: They do a lot of shit. But also like even

1136
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:11,640
Speaker 2: our manager when we were in Korea, she was in

1137
00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:14,360
Speaker 2: career with us, and she was talking about it. She

1138
00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:16,200
Speaker 2: was like, you guys are lucky because if the Internet

1139
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:18,880
Speaker 2: died tomorrow, or let's just say, like TikTok and all

1140
00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 2: that type of thing died tomorrow, Like we have a

1141
00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:23,879
Speaker 2: skill like take away anything we've done in the past

1142
00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:25,680
Speaker 2: before the podcast, Like if we had only ever done

1143
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:28,359
Speaker 2: the podcast, Like, we have a skill that we could

1144
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:31,160
Speaker 2: still make a living off of. Whereas and that skill

1145
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:33,800
Speaker 2: is production, like we know about some tech stuff, Like

1146
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:35,880
Speaker 2: we still produce everything that you guys listen to and

1147
00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:38,560
Speaker 2: or watch, like and we love doing it. It's so sick.

1148
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:41,359
Speaker 2: It's the fucking sickest thing ever. But a lot of people,

1149
00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 2: like say just someone that's an influencer, where their whole

1150
00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:47,840
Speaker 2: life is just like thinking of content which props to

1151
00:49:47,920 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 2: them is not fucking easy, and then like doing it

1152
00:49:50,600 --> 00:49:52,120
Speaker 2: and doing the bit of editing and stuff like that.

1153
00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:55,160
Speaker 2: If it's a pretty simple type of page, if the

1154
00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:57,920
Speaker 2: fucking TikTok died, then we'd.

1155
00:49:57,719 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 4: Still have skill set. Yeah, talking about Andrew as well.

1156
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:02,160
Speaker 4: It also goes into the business side of things. So

1157
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:05,480
Speaker 4: we hired a manager who was an independent or you

1158
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:07,120
Speaker 4: can go for an agency where a lot of people

1159
00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:10,080
Speaker 4: would see online where like there's big ones and a

1160
00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:12,839
Speaker 4: lot of influence have in their bio their dot name,

1161
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:15,440
Speaker 4: business name, and they're an agency and they look for

1162
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:18,800
Speaker 4: brand deals foresaid person and they put you forward. Because

1163
00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 4: so our manager is an independent, but she puts us forward.

1164
00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 4: Hey have you seen Jake and Oddie? This is what

1165
00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:23,160
Speaker 4: they're about.

1166
00:50:23,280 --> 00:50:25,920
Speaker 2: This is their views and analytics, because this is at

1167
00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:28,960
Speaker 2: the end of the day, like it is a business still. Yeah,

1168
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:34,239
Speaker 2: and then now touching on business, is everyone thinks they're

1169
00:50:34,239 --> 00:50:37,000
Speaker 2: going to do everything properly, right, Yeah, I would like

1170
00:50:37,080 --> 00:50:38,800
Speaker 2: to point out I was one of those people. I

1171
00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:40,160
Speaker 2: thought we were going to do anything properly. You thought

1172
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:42,840
Speaker 2: we had to have my head wrapped around it. But like,

1173
00:50:43,960 --> 00:50:46,759
Speaker 2: first off, like no one does anything for you, so like,

1174
00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:51,680
Speaker 2: please do your research if you're starting a business, Like

1175
00:50:52,040 --> 00:50:55,400
Speaker 2: I even found like our accountant he like we obviously

1176
00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:58,280
Speaker 2: are going to make him money, but even he doesn't

1177
00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:00,640
Speaker 2: really tell you to do anything that's going to like

1178
00:51:00,719 --> 00:51:02,880
Speaker 2: kind of help you, if that makes sense. No, no, no,

1179
00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:04,480
Speaker 2: you sort of got to hint that you know what

1180
00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 2: you're talking about. But like one crazy thing that I

1181
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:10,040
Speaker 2: told my dad the other day was I was just

1182
00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:12,680
Speaker 2: like Oh, man, I fucking oddie and I have this

1183
00:51:12,840 --> 00:51:16,440
Speaker 2: separate account in our bank account for like the company,

1184
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:19,759
Speaker 2: and that's where we put out our tax. Yeah, and

1185
00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:21,520
Speaker 2: we hate seeing it because it's just such a big

1186
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 2: number in there because you get taxed so much. Like

1187
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:26,560
Speaker 2: we just feel like, oh, we know it's not our money,

1188
00:51:26,600 --> 00:51:28,560
Speaker 2: but blah blah blah. He was like, Oh, that's crazy

1189
00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:30,720
Speaker 2: that you're doing that, Like you would be so surprising

1190
00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:32,320
Speaker 2: the amount of people that don't know to do that

1191
00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:34,800
Speaker 2: and don't do that well being.

1192
00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:36,800
Speaker 4: Relatable in twenty twenty three or twenty four whatever, it

1193
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 4: is only fan models make a lot of money really quickly. Yeah,

1194
00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:42,920
Speaker 4: And it's the same thing if you blow up on

1195
00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 4: social media whatever. You make a lot of money really

1196
00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:47,960
Speaker 4: quickly and you spend it, yes, because you haven't set

1197
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 4: up like the key fundamentals of business.

1198
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:51,759
Speaker 2: So it's sort of like being an entrepreneur in a

1199
00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:54,279
Speaker 2: way which we just got chucked in. Yeah, and you

1200
00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:56,920
Speaker 2: just figure it out. Yeah, you make mistakes, you fuck up.

1201
00:51:56,960 --> 00:51:58,520
Speaker 4: Oh you like you might have to pay an extra

1202
00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:01,080
Speaker 4: couple grands tax here, you get fucking insurance.

1203
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:03,360
Speaker 2: You gotta do this. Wow, I didn't realize all these

1204
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:05,520
Speaker 2: costs that you had to do and where Yeah, and

1205
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 2: we're still like I reckon, we're barely surface level still,

1206
00:52:08,880 --> 00:52:11,280
Speaker 2: like fucking sounds all so shit.

1207
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:15,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, I actually I liked business in school and I'm

1208
00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:19,200
Speaker 4: enjoying learning about it and seeing that very very very

1209
00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:22,680
Speaker 4: intricate world you live in. But it's also I think

1210
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:25,640
Speaker 4: it's good if anyone wants to start out there, because

1211
00:52:26,239 --> 00:52:29,080
Speaker 4: it's sort of just like putting yourself forward, and like

1212
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:30,800
Speaker 4: when you're an employee, it's good in all and everything's

1213
00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:34,320
Speaker 4: done for you and you just get to see you

1214
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:35,800
Speaker 4: see the money in your bank account and it's a

1215
00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 4: great thing. But if you want to go one step

1216
00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:40,520
Speaker 4: further and see where all the money goes, like we

1217
00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 4: just got chucked in the deep end of that and

1218
00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:44,400
Speaker 4: you actually see where it's all going, like the funnels

1219
00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:46,560
Speaker 4: and avenues of all your money going everywhere, you're like,

1220
00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:48,800
Speaker 4: holy shit, Like how can I get this money to

1221
00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:51,480
Speaker 4: stay in my account and not go to this person's account?

1222
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:54,640
Speaker 4: Oh it's fun legally obviously, Oh no, yeah.

1223
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:56,080
Speaker 2: All legally, but like yeah, you just have to give

1224
00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:56,919
Speaker 2: your money to tax.

1225
00:52:57,040 --> 00:53:00,360
Speaker 4: It's crazy, yeah, and it's funny, But honestly, take away

1226
00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:02,240
Speaker 4: of this is if you want to start social media,

1227
00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:03,840
Speaker 4: I think just do it.

1228
00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:04,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, we say do it.

1229
00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:06,880
Speaker 4: Make a fool of yourself, because you don't know the

1230
00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:09,040
Speaker 4: end of the day. We're so appreciative of everybody listening

1231
00:53:09,120 --> 00:53:12,600
Speaker 4: right now, and we want to stay relatable. I remember

1232
00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:16,719
Speaker 4: starting this page that like I always wanted to like

1233
00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:20,719
Speaker 4: have a voice that people could relate to. Yeah, Like

1234
00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:22,600
Speaker 4: I didn't want to become that person who's just like,

1235
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:25,120
Speaker 4: oh fuck, he's got so many followers and now he

1236
00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:28,200
Speaker 4: just talks about fucking going to LA and yeah.

1237
00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:29,880
Speaker 2: You know what's funny is when we started it and

1238
00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:31,520
Speaker 2: we called it relatable, was I was always had in

1239
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:33,040
Speaker 2: the back of my head, like what if we blow

1240
00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:36,120
Speaker 2: the fuck up? And like, are you still considered relatable then?

1241
00:53:36,480 --> 00:53:37,440
Speaker 2: And I think that you can be.

1242
00:53:37,960 --> 00:53:40,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that you can bake can be. Especially

1243
00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:42,560
Speaker 4: Like the weird thing about social media is you put

1244
00:53:42,560 --> 00:53:44,480
Speaker 4: people on a pedestal for some reason or like not

1245
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:46,200
Speaker 4: a pedestal. You think they're not real, or like get

1246
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:47,799
Speaker 4: excited to see them in public, which is all cool

1247
00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:49,160
Speaker 4: and all, but like they're still normal people.

1248
00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:49,440
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1249
00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:52,120
Speaker 4: And a good thing about us in our relationship is

1250
00:53:52,200 --> 00:53:53,840
Speaker 4: like we keep each other accountable.

1251
00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:55,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's good. I feel like it's been good doing

1252
00:53:55,960 --> 00:53:59,400
Speaker 2: it with someone. Yeah, like feel semi doesn't get to

1253
00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 2: like I still feel the same as I did day one.

1254
00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:03,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, nothing's got to my head. Like people come and

1255
00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:05,279
Speaker 4: get photos for us, which we're very appreciative of. That's

1256
00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:07,960
Speaker 4: the fucking course, and it's wild. But like, nothing's and

1257
00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:09,640
Speaker 4: I hope it never does. And I think I've got

1258
00:54:09,719 --> 00:54:11,200
Speaker 4: Jake there to keep me accountable.

1259
00:54:11,239 --> 00:54:13,040
Speaker 2: It's just like I reckon, Yeah, if one of us

1260
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:14,520
Speaker 2: started to get like a big head, one.

1261
00:54:14,400 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 4: Of us say yeah, yeah, yeh yeah, someone would keep

1262
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:18,319
Speaker 4: each I think that's why a lot of you see

1263
00:54:18,320 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 4: in the industry, like the Sidemen is a good example

1264
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:22,320
Speaker 4: in England, who like a big successful YouTuber group, the

1265
00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:24,240
Speaker 4: big group of each other, who keep each other accountable

1266
00:54:24,280 --> 00:54:25,759
Speaker 4: and give each other shit when they do dumb shit.

1267
00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:27,680
Speaker 2: It's yeah, it's true, Yeah they always do.

1268
00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:31,120
Speaker 4: But if you're like an independent person who's blowing up,

1269
00:54:31,160 --> 00:54:32,879
Speaker 4: it's very easy to get caught up in the world

1270
00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 4: of fucking I'm the best. Yeah, But honestly, I hope

1271
00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:38,800
Speaker 4: that was a bit insightful. Hopefully that's what's going in

1272
00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:40,279
Speaker 4: the background for us. So we just wanted to talk

1273
00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:42,200
Speaker 4: about it and be relatable.

1274
00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:46,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, like it like yeah, true, try our best

1275
00:54:46,320 --> 00:54:55,880
Speaker 2: at least Alright, guys, we're gonna finish off with a

1276
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:59,120
Speaker 2: passage from how to Piss men off? As you guys know,

1277
00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:02,360
Speaker 2: what were we up to? I had a right to

1278
00:55:02,960 --> 00:55:05,320
Speaker 2: Carl sandals off? That would be true. This probably some

1279
00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:09,319
Speaker 2: of these might piss Carl Sandaland's off. Okay, So say

1280
00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:13,920
Speaker 2: to a man, quote, you're so frugal. Who you know?

1281
00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:18,200
Speaker 2: Frugal means like detailed, doesn't it means like cheap? Oh

1282
00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:22,560
Speaker 2: like cheap skates? Stingy. Okay, So say you're so frugal.

1283
00:55:23,440 --> 00:55:25,040
Speaker 2: This is a good trick to get a man to

1284
00:55:25,080 --> 00:55:27,560
Speaker 2: spend more money on you. The next time he's in

1285
00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:30,160
Speaker 2: line at Trader Joe's and sees that bouquet of flowers,

1286
00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:31,279
Speaker 2: he'll think, oh, i'll show you.

1287
00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:33,400
Speaker 1: Frugal good points.

1288
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:36,279
Speaker 2: Genius planning the sea, it's genius. Ah.

1289
00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:38,680
Speaker 1: We love to pisce some men off. But thank you

1290
00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 1: everybody for listening.

1291
00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:41,800
Speaker 2: We will see you on Wednesday. See you