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Speaker 2: I wouldn't have changed the sheets.

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Speaker 1: It was wet poo.

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Speaker 1: Appy Choesday Squad just for girls gang.

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Speaker 2: We need a name, why know, we need a little slogan.

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Speaker 1: Like for example, like Happy Hour with Lucy and Nikki,

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Speaker 1: they call them parts. Yeah, where did that come from?

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Speaker 1: That's cool. Like what are some other things like Lady

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Speaker 1: Gagas fans are called little monsters, aren't they? I don't know,

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Speaker 2: You guys are just our poogies, Like we always refer

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Speaker 2: Name's Jessica girls. We struggle at the originality asspect, so

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Speaker 2: help us out. But Happy Tuesday, guys, coming live to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't keep leaving her update on my couch,

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Speaker 2: You are first time I'm traveling without you this year.

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Speaker 1: If you don't know what all your I'm going to

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Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you?

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Speaker 1: Fuck, that's so sad.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for coming to us. When I was in

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Speaker 1: You are? You are because you were only chatting to

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Speaker 2: She was an asshole first.

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Speaker 1: But she then dated him for a whole last year.

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Speaker 1: Even then, that's your if you choose to bring her

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it would have been different if you didn't take

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Speaker 1: Just hadn't been friends there for a few years.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. But then also like why would you go back

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Speaker 1: I'm sure you're a great guy out of stickers on.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah you were the were the arshole back

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Speaker 1: But I'm sure you've grown.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm sure you and Sarah just weren't meant

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Speaker 1: it's you, Tilly Siena. Chloe. Yeah, Tillie's day was coming

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Speaker 2: It's her eighteenth birthday.

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Speaker 2: Tilly, Moving to now.

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Speaker 1: Si, Chloe and I are close than ever. We haven't

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Speaker 1: I never posted that tikto, we would have never found

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, because I think you girls became a bit

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Speaker 1: I agree, Yeah, I like Chloe about that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I think you should always give people the benefit

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think you guys are the asshole you've had.

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Speaker 1: I don't even want to say troubled. I'm just one

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Speaker 2: And then it gets us in a lot of trouble.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the liars always make for everyone else because they're

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Speaker 1: they're tiring. Yeah, why you're not friends with there anymore? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, completely glad, Like you're a little bit assholey for

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, I get it. No, I don't

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Speaker 2: I kissed my friend's cousin at her birthday party. I

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Speaker 2: And because of this, many of the girls in our

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Speaker 2: you think it's unfair of me? Or am I the asshole?

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Speaker 1: You're not the asshole?

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Speaker 2: What do you have a crush on your cousin?

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Speaker 1: Why the fuck saying I have no my cousin?

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Speaker 2: I'm saying, does she have a crush on her own cousin?

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Speaker 2: Because of whoa? No? I'm like, what, babe, do you

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Speaker 1: I get why some people would. Yeah, but I think

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Speaker 1: Second cousins? Third cousins. Cousins are not off limits.

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Speaker 2: No, cousins are not off limits because.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes your cousin might be in your year and then

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Speaker 2: And also, your friend isn't mad at the cousins, so

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Speaker 1: The fact that your friends are also not having much

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Speaker 1: It's a fucking weird behavior.

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Speaker 2: You're dating. If you weren't dating, that'd be a fucking

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Speaker 1: And then she like secretly doesn't like you and like

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm getting. She's not mad at the cousins.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's being an asshole. She's just being like, I

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Speaker 1: Yeah. There's one sort of group two people that I

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Speaker 2: Oh, I know who you're talking about.

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Speaker 1: No you don't.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I'm going to transfer this information.

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Speaker 1: No you don't. I know you don't know you're talking about.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to really put this onto you. There's someone

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Speaker 2: there's people that we know and they're really close in family,

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Speaker 2: but the photos that they post together is so we know.

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Speaker 2: His hands on her ask. Yeah, if my brothers ever

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Speaker 2: what are you doing, legend, get your fucking hand, put

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Speaker 1: There's one that's worse that I'm actually not even going

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Speaker 2: It's like when the mom never likes the girlfriend because

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Speaker 1: Do you want to date your son? I've experienced one

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Speaker 1: of those. It was hell on a stick. It's embarrassing

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Speaker 2: Yeah. No, it's weird, bro, it's weird. Members If you

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Speaker 2: me involved, but like all yours. Yeah, but but like

439
00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:37,280
Speaker 2: I know my brothers. If one of their friends had

440
00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:39,480
Speaker 2: interested in me, my brother would be like, get the

441
00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:41,119
Speaker 2: fuck away from her. You're not touching it.

442
00:18:41,480 --> 00:18:44,280
Speaker 1: I think having I think it's very different an older

443
00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:47,920
Speaker 1: brother to a younger sister relationship. M Maybe yeah, because

444
00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:50,040
Speaker 1: you're like being protective. You probably know what your friends

445
00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:52,040
Speaker 1: are like. You're like, you are not fucking going near

446
00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:54,520
Speaker 1: my sister, you know. I think that's very different. Yeah,

447
00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:56,840
Speaker 1: but the mom's loving their sons.

448
00:18:56,520 --> 00:18:57,440
Speaker 2: And yeah, it's weird.

449
00:18:57,640 --> 00:18:59,640
Speaker 1: The sisters loving their brothers is weird behavior.

450
00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:04,960
Speaker 2: No, you're not the asshole? Am I the asshole for

451
00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:07,800
Speaker 2: cutting my friend off for accusing me for flirting with

452
00:19:07,840 --> 00:19:11,840
Speaker 2: her boyfriend? No, ac, Well, I've got the story.

453
00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:13,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, but that's far like.

454
00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:16,400
Speaker 2: My friend, let's call her Becka, and I had been

455
00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:19,119
Speaker 2: friends for three years as we were roommates when I

456
00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:21,679
Speaker 2: first moved to the New City years back. On my

457
00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:24,159
Speaker 2: twentieth birthday, I decided to have a birthday party at

458
00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:26,600
Speaker 2: my house where I invited all my different friend groups,

459
00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:29,640
Speaker 2: so people that they had never met before. One friend,

460
00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:32,639
Speaker 2: let's call him Dan, and Becka and Dan got on

461
00:19:32,760 --> 00:19:34,960
Speaker 2: very well at my party and she ended up going

462
00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:37,680
Speaker 2: home with him that night. They continued to see each

463
00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:40,320
Speaker 2: other and eventually started dating, which I was very happy

464
00:19:40,320 --> 00:19:42,000
Speaker 2: about because I was good friends with the both of

465
00:19:42,040 --> 00:19:44,240
Speaker 2: them and now me and my partner had a couple

466
00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:45,399
Speaker 2: to do stuff with.

467
00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:49,320
Speaker 1: Akwa's a partner to the things.

468
00:19:50,119 --> 00:19:52,159
Speaker 2: Anyways, at the end of the year, it ended up

469
00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:54,680
Speaker 2: by coincidence that we're all traveling to the same place

470
00:19:54,680 --> 00:19:57,639
Speaker 2: overseas and ended up meeting up and traveling together for

471
00:19:57,680 --> 00:20:00,000
Speaker 2: a week or so. In this time, I found Back

472
00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:01,719
Speaker 2: to be lightly unbearable.

473
00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:07,679
Speaker 1: Lightly who lightly don't really go together.

474
00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:12,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a backhanded thing, like just say she's

475
00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:15,840
Speaker 2: being unbearable Whilst traveling. She acted like a child and

476
00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:18,119
Speaker 2: wanted Dan to baby her all the time, and they

477
00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:20,679
Speaker 2: would constantly argue, and my partner and I would just

478
00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:23,120
Speaker 2: have to pretend it was not happening and sit there awkwardly.

479
00:20:23,359 --> 00:20:25,640
Speaker 2: That's a really hard situation to be in, Like traveling

480
00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:27,119
Speaker 2: with a couple is really really hard.

481
00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:29,880
Speaker 1: I was in that situation recently. We both were.

482
00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:32,840
Speaker 2: Yes, it's really hard, and like.

483
00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:35,920
Speaker 1: You just can't butt in, You can't actually sit rearly

484
00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:37,360
Speaker 1: really and defend either of them.

485
00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:39,080
Speaker 2: You just have to sit there and it like ruins

486
00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:40,320
Speaker 2: your dinner and pretend.

487
00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:40,880
Speaker 1: It's not happening.

488
00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:43,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's very odd. Now I'm going back to it.

489
00:20:43,920 --> 00:20:47,240
Speaker 2: It was really really awkward, and you like can't really

490
00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:48,520
Speaker 2: like you're not going to like counsel them.

491
00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:52,119
Speaker 1: A lot of our friends, you actually weren't to go like, guys,

492
00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:53,359
Speaker 1: you're ruining the dinner.

493
00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:54,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, just stop.

494
00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:57,680
Speaker 1: Yeah it didn't fix anything. If anything, it made the

495
00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:01,320
Speaker 1: attension higher. Yeah, it was sitting in silence first.

496
00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:04,720
Speaker 2: And you really feel like how your friendship. Your friendship

497
00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:10,080
Speaker 2: really shows when you're traveling in those environments like stress quasion.

498
00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:12,920
Speaker 2: When I would talk to Dan one on one, he

499
00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:15,560
Speaker 2: would complain about her nonsense and it would and just

500
00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:17,400
Speaker 2: be like, it is what it is. But I never

501
00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:19,439
Speaker 2: bagged her out to him because she was my friends,

502
00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:22,560
Speaker 2: so I just gave him sympathy. Good because that you're

503
00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:25,040
Speaker 2: in a hard situation because they're both your friends first.

504
00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:27,280
Speaker 1: Before even being don't go talking about one to the other.

505
00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:30,680
Speaker 2: I enjoyed being around him more than her due to

506
00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:33,080
Speaker 2: her complaining and whining, but not in a weird way.

507
00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:35,960
Speaker 2: He was easier to get along with whilst traveling.

508
00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:37,200
Speaker 1: And her did. She's boyfriend's there too.

509
00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:39,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, keep in mind my partner, who I've been with

510
00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:41,760
Speaker 2: for two years, is with us the whole time on

511
00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:44,920
Speaker 2: this trip, and it was never just meeting down alone. Yeah,

512
00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:47,800
Speaker 2: this girl's just a whiner on a ler. Anyways, we

513
00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:50,560
Speaker 2: came home from traveling eventually, and after a few weeks

514
00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:52,920
Speaker 2: went to send a message and couldn't find him on Insta,

515
00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:56,160
Speaker 2: so searched him on a friend's phone and found soon

516
00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:58,439
Speaker 2: realized I had been blocked on everything out of nowhere.

517
00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:02,040
Speaker 1: That's a bit funky. If you're my friend and you're

518
00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:04,080
Speaker 1: making your boyfriend block me, you probably don't even want

519
00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:05,200
Speaker 1: to be friends with me anymore.

520
00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:08,440
Speaker 2: And in fact is I was friends with Dan first.

521
00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:10,520
Speaker 2: Like Dan and I had a prof.

522
00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:12,320
Speaker 1: Shep expect to continue a friendship with you if she's

523
00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 1: going to the point of making a boyfriend block you, like, clearly,

524
00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:16,320
Speaker 1: you guys are going to not be friends anymore either,

525
00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:17,720
Speaker 1: because that's weird behavior.

526
00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:19,760
Speaker 2: I then messaged Becker to see what was going on,

527
00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:22,360
Speaker 2: and she basically told me that I had made advances

528
00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:24,480
Speaker 2: on him all the time and he was over it.

529
00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:27,919
Speaker 2: She's extremely jealous and insecure, in my opinion, and I

530
00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:30,240
Speaker 2: didn't want and didn't want him to have any friends

531
00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:32,199
Speaker 2: so I told her she was a bad friend for

532
00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:34,119
Speaker 2: thinking so low of me to do that, because I

533
00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:36,800
Speaker 2: knew where it was coming from, and I blocked her

534
00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:37,920
Speaker 2: and cut her off completely.

535
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:39,200
Speaker 1: No, you're not the arsehole.

536
00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:39,919
Speaker 2: Not the arsehole.

537
00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:44,000
Speaker 1: I do understand that sometimes in those situations, that can

538
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:46,960
Speaker 1: very well be the case, if, like say, you weren't

539
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:49,240
Speaker 1: there with your boyfriend and you were single, Like, yeah,

540
00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:53,080
Speaker 1: there could be the case sometimes, But in this scenario,

541
00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:57,000
Speaker 1: it sounds very much like there was actually nothing happening.

542
00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,919
Speaker 2: And it just sucks because Becker knew this going in,

543
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,480
Speaker 2: that you were already friends with Dan, like if you

544
00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:03,520
Speaker 2: started dating.

545
00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:06,920
Speaker 1: That insecure, Yeah, your boyfriend is there too, and she's

546
00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:09,080
Speaker 1: still thinking that there's something there, Like if you.

547
00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:11,920
Speaker 2: Guys would have done something before you got a boyfriend

548
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:14,440
Speaker 2: and before you introduced Becky, if you and Dan were

549
00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:15,879
Speaker 2: meant to be, you would have already been.

550
00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:19,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just I think it's insecurity. She's probably fighting

551
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:21,680
Speaker 1: with Dan is going, oh, well, what's the reason. Let

552
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:23,240
Speaker 1: me pick a reason. Oh, it's you.

553
00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:24,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like that.

554
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,359
Speaker 1: I don't like it either, and I think you can't,

555
00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 1: like if your friend's not going to trust you enough,

556
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:33,560
Speaker 1: then I don't think. I don't see you continuing to

557
00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:35,160
Speaker 1: be friends with that either. To be honest, I hope

558
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:36,720
Speaker 1: you're on that same page.

559
00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:39,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not worth it. And she obviously sounds like

560
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:40,400
Speaker 2: a wonder and complainer.

561
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:45,040
Speaker 1: So Dan doesn't seem to be doing anything funny with you.

562
00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:46,400
Speaker 1: Hi that, do you know what I mean?

563
00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 2: Yeah? And Dan's obviously just trying to keep peace, so

564
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:49,080
Speaker 2: that's why.

565
00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 1: And also his mates there like he's probably just trying

566
00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:57,160
Speaker 1: to get a break from this slightly insufferable, slightly unbearable,

567
00:23:56,440 --> 00:24:03,000
Speaker 1: but insufferable is a really fucking insult hurt if someone

568
00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:05,720
Speaker 1: very first. One of our very first insults when we

569
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 1: started this podcast was you insufferable cows?

570
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:10,679
Speaker 2: Yeah that hurts. I think I'm going to get that

571
00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:14,840
Speaker 2: in tattooed on me or my ankle. I'm an insufferable cow.

572
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 1: But yeah, definitely not the asshole girl? Am I the asshole?

573
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:25,920
Speaker 1: Lets us decide one of my best friends. Let's call

574
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:28,120
Speaker 1: her Taylor. I love when you guys give us names.

575
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:30,800
Speaker 1: It's good to think of them. Yeah, Taylor and I

576
00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:32,840
Speaker 1: have been very close for at least five years. We're

577
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,240
Speaker 1: twenty now. We used to get along like a house

578
00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 1: on fire and did everything together. As we've grown older,

579
00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:43,080
Speaker 1: everyone in our group has gradually gotten into relationships, including myself. Congratulations, girls,

580
00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 1: that's a task we cannot tend to do nowadays. We

581
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:50,040
Speaker 1: go out for fun and just have girls nights with

582
00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:52,440
Speaker 1: no intention of meeting guys. There are a few times

583
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:55,880
Speaker 1: when Taylor's actions annoyed me, but I didn't say anything.

584
00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 1: For one instance, when she expected my boyfriend to pay

585
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 1: for all of her food and uber her home. This

586
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 1: wasn't a one time thing. She's known for making everyone

587
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 1: pay for her I hate sind you people, so I

588
00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:05,919
Speaker 1: get that.

589
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 2: We both really don't like a stink When I'm drunk,

590
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 2: I think I'm Bill Gates.

591
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:13,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like that's a that's a common occurrence.

592
00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:16,840
Speaker 1: The final show happened on Taylor's birthday. A big group

593
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:19,160
Speaker 1: of us went out to celebrate. We started at her house,

594
00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:21,880
Speaker 1: then decided to hit a few bars. Taylor kept going

595
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 1: up to the bar alone and asking different guys to

596
00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:30,399
Speaker 1: buy her drinks. These guys look scared. Oh that's a

597
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 1: bit of an.

598
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:36,080
Speaker 2: Answer, Yeah, a little bit, But you were describing the situation.

599
00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 1: H I get it, But someone said that about me.

600
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,760
Speaker 1: I would jump off a bridge. She was practically forcing

601
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 1: them to buy her drinks and then would see, I

602
00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 1: actually don't ever do that. I will always pay for

603
00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:48,440
Speaker 1: my own Even if a guy offers to buy me

604
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:50,200
Speaker 1: a drinks, I'll say no.

605
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm like I'm paying. Yeah.

606
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:54,399
Speaker 1: Girls that can swindle drinks off guys, it's a talent

607
00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:55,320
Speaker 1: I've never had.

608
00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:59,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't do that. She was practically and when

609
00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:01,280
Speaker 2: they do buy as so, we fucking throw them into

610
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:03,640
Speaker 2: the garden at the lawn because we're like, what's in this?

611
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:07,680
Speaker 1: What is in? She was practically forcing them to buy

612
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 1: her drinks, and then she would wrap up the combo

613
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:12,960
Speaker 1: and leave as soon as she got her free drink. Okay.

614
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 1: Eventually only five of us ended up at a club.

615
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:17,720
Speaker 1: Taylor didn't hang out with us and kept hanging around

616
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 1: the bar and asking forcing guys to buy her drinks.

617
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:25,159
Speaker 2: Taylor, Taylor, your bday, be around the girls.

618
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 1: Come on, Taylor Son, Like she's interested in any of

619
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:30,439
Speaker 1: these guys. That would be different if it was like

620
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 1: she was hanging around the guy. Then it was about

621
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:34,199
Speaker 1: day and like if I was hanging around a guy

622
00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:36,040
Speaker 1: like to my birthday last weekend, you guys would have

623
00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:37,199
Speaker 1: been like, fucking go for it.

624
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:37,879
Speaker 2: Thank god.

625
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 1: If you're just trying to swindle drinks, Taylor, I'll buy

626
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:43,040
Speaker 1: your birthday drink. Come back, come back to us.

627
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:48,000
Speaker 2: Are your friends with you? Because then if you left,

628
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 2: she would complain. Everyone left me.

629
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:52,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, people started going home, but I stayed. I didn't

630
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:54,199
Speaker 1: want to leave her alone. It's a good friend. I

631
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:56,440
Speaker 1: was sober and spent most of the light sitting alone

632
00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:58,879
Speaker 1: while she talked to guys. For instance, she was talking

633
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 1: to one guy for at least an hour. I'm all

634
00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:03,639
Speaker 1: for meeting people, but come on, time and place I

635
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 1: do think out of the bar. Having drinks is a

636
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 1: time to meet.

637
00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 2: They were in a club, same shit, No time and

638
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:12,440
Speaker 2: a place. A bar is different when you can sit

639
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 2: down at a bar like Tyranny and you can sit down.

640
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:17,720
Speaker 2: If I'm out of Shock and Emerson and you're chatting

641
00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:19,359
Speaker 2: to a guy for an hour, I'm fucking leaving.

642
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:22,680
Speaker 1: That's fair. Yeah, that's fair. Wouldn't usually be annoyed about

643
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:24,119
Speaker 1: any of this happening, but it's the fact that she

644
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 1: leaves them as soon as she gets her free drink

645
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 1: that's annoying. And it was only the two of us left.

646
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:30,760
Speaker 1: I'm not against talking to people, but the club is

647
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 1: filled with all men, and most of them have only

648
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 1: one intention when they're talking to a girl. After hours,

649
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 1: we finally left the club outside of kabab Jop Classic.

650
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:43,719
Speaker 1: Taylor said earlier that someone was coming to pick us up. However,

651
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:49,359
Speaker 1: she then walked like giggling, something's coming, guys. However, she

652
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:52,640
Speaker 1: then walked into the shop and started convincings.

653
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 2: Oh no, Taylor wip out, told Bucks again, fucking bad.

654
00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 1: Babe, that's crazy.

655
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:03,399
Speaker 2: Yeah. I would have turned around been like isy fucking

656
00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:04,320
Speaker 2: buy your own kebab.

657
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:06,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I would would have had me. I would

658
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:08,879
Speaker 1: have been done with it. Yeah, because it's stingy people.

659
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,119
Speaker 2: Yes, I would have been at my wits end, like

660
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:12,359
Speaker 2: there's only so much.

661
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:14,720
Speaker 1: I would have bought you a fucking keba. Here's the

662
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:16,400
Speaker 1: We're going fucking home.

663
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 2: Yeah.

664
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:20,119
Speaker 1: I was soanding outside, freezing cold and dead sober. I

665
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:22,400
Speaker 1: went in to see what she was doing. In surprise, surprise,

666
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:24,600
Speaker 1: she was talking to more guys. Some of the guys

667
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 1: she was talking to us about I was okay, I replied, No,

668
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 1: I'm not okay, explaining that Taylor had left me alone

669
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 1: all night, forcing guys to buy her drinks. I walked

670
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:34,840
Speaker 1: out of the shop crying because I was so frustrated.

671
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 1: Taylor followed me and asked why. I said that she.

672
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 2: I tell you, well, let's.

673
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 1: Train it in. Yeah, you're in the role. I'm annoyed

674
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:51,600
Speaker 1: because Taylor here keeps forcing boys to buy her drink. Okay,

675
00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 1: I told her the truth that we hadn't even had

676
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:56,920
Speaker 1: a ten minute conversation all night. I tried so hard

677
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 1: to stay out late with her, but I didn't really

678
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 1: want to stand behind her while she was talking to

679
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 1: a guy and asking for drinks. She responded by saying

680
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 1: that I had changed since getting a boyfriend. Keep in mind,

681
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 1: my boyfriend and I had been together for two years.

682
00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:10,640
Speaker 1: He encourages me to have fun with my friends, and

683
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:12,719
Speaker 1: I think he's honestly changed me for the better, and

684
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 1: all of my friends agree. Now, I haven't spoken to

685
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:17,920
Speaker 1: Tailor since this happened eight months ago, and I'm not

686
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 1: invited to her twenty first birthday. Am I the arsehole

687
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:23,520
Speaker 1: for calling her out? Or should I kept quiet? Should

688
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 1: I just move on? I was going to meet up

689
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:27,960
Speaker 1: with her and apologize, but everyone said it's not worth

690
00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 1: it and I should just let the friendship go for

691
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 1: the best.

692
00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you should let the go. I don't

693
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:34,719
Speaker 2: think you're the asshole. Like I've had a few Like

694
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:38,040
Speaker 2: when you're in those environments and one person's drunk and

695
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 2: one person sober, getting a message across to the drunk

696
00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:43,320
Speaker 2: person is incredibly hard for them to take it the

697
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 2: right way. Sometimes it's best to like, yeah, maybe you

698
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:49,000
Speaker 2: didn't need to say that, but like you were at

699
00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 2: your wits end, and I completely understand why you ended

700
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 2: up saying that, but like, probably in a better position,

701
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 2: you probably should have then had a conversation with her

702
00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 2: the next morning, be like hey, not on, Like Ye're

703
00:29:58,320 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 2: so over it, Like I think you were out of

704
00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 2: pa and out of line, but like it seems like

705
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 2: Taylor is I don't want to put words into her

706
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 2: mouth or like call her something. She seems like she's

707
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:09,640
Speaker 2: incredibly insecurreent. She wants the male validation and she wants

708
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 2: to know that she could do that.

709
00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: She can get a drink car, you can get a

710
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 1: kababa for guy. I also think, yeah, look, I'll go

711
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:22,720
Speaker 1: makes people annoying, but no reason for her have been

712
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 1: blatantly ignoring you for the whole night when you were

713
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 1: the one that stayed there with her.

714
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 2: You know.

715
00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 1: I also think now there's no time to bring it

716
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:33,280
Speaker 1: up because it could be very well construed as you

717
00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 1: want to come to my twenty first, that's why you're apologizing,

718
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:37,640
Speaker 1: or at least someone like Taylor seems like that's what

719
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:38,680
Speaker 1: she's gonna say.

720
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think if it was, if Taylor hasn't a

721
00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:43,680
Speaker 2: messaged you either, I don't think Taylor's like I just

722
00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:44,920
Speaker 2: think your friendships around.

723
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:46,719
Speaker 1: It doesn't seem like the friendship's been heavily missed if

724
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 1: there's been no contact man between either of you. But

725
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 1: I completely understand why you were annoyed on the night.

726
00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 1: I would have been annoyed to Sam, would have been

727
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 1: annoyed to chill out in the fire.

728
00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:57,360
Speaker 2: I probably would have done the same thing as you.

729
00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:00,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, we totally do not think you're the asshole.

730
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:03,480
Speaker 2: No, I don't think you're the arsehole. I think your

731
00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:04,320
Speaker 2: friendship's just running.

732
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 1: It's rough its course, it doesn't seem like it's necessary.

733
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,520
Speaker 1: But if she comes back and apologizes, maybe see how

734
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 1: you go. Because what she did wasn't.

735
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 2: Bad, not friendship ending. But yeah, I just think you

736
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:16,840
Speaker 2: guys have had a.

737
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:18,560
Speaker 1: Rightfully frustrating, but not the end of the world.

738
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I completely agree. Well, that is it for today's

739
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 2: episode of am I the Asshole?

740
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:27,800
Speaker 1: Some of you were yeah, some of you were not.

741
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 2: Yeah.

742
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 1: All right.

743
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:31,720
Speaker 2: We love you guys very much, and we'll see you

744
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 2: guys for a life update on Thursday.

745
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 1: All right, bye bye,