1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:25,201 Speaker 1: Apodjake Production, Welcome back to another episode about my Mad 2 00:00:25,401 --> 00:00:30,401 Speaker 1: Mom podcast. I feel a bit stressed at the moment. 3 00:00:30,601 --> 00:00:33,280 Speaker 1: And do you know what's really funny is, Oh, this 4 00:00:33,361 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 1: is random, but I've been bitten on the ear by 5 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 1: some sort of midgi or something. I feel stressed about 6 00:00:41,801 --> 00:00:42,801 Speaker 1: it because it's making me. 7 00:00:43,241 --> 00:00:44,640 Speaker 2: Is it itchy? Itchy? 8 00:00:44,721 --> 00:00:45,641 Speaker 1: And it's like hot? 9 00:00:46,161 --> 00:00:46,641 Speaker 2: Yeah? 10 00:00:46,681 --> 00:00:49,361 Speaker 1: And then I also, Rach, have had a pimple on 11 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:54,481 Speaker 1: my nose for like weeks, like it should be gone 12 00:00:54,601 --> 00:00:56,961 Speaker 1: and it's still there. It's like indented, and I'm like, 13 00:00:57,001 --> 00:00:58,081 Speaker 1: what's going on with me? 14 00:00:58,681 --> 00:01:02,521 Speaker 3: Like, I must say, I like stressed hormonal, although on 15 00:01:02,561 --> 00:01:04,241 Speaker 3: your nose is not overly hormonal. 16 00:01:04,481 --> 00:01:07,041 Speaker 1: Jake's saying to me, you're lying about something. A pimple 17 00:01:07,121 --> 00:01:08,641 Speaker 1: on your nose, I means you're lying. 18 00:01:08,961 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 2: It's such an old wives tale. 19 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:12,881 Speaker 1: I would love to be lying about something I'm not. 20 00:01:13,041 --> 00:01:14,601 Speaker 2: I was driving here and I had the same thing. 21 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:17,601 Speaker 3: I was like, oh doing like having this hormonal breakout 22 00:01:17,601 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 3: on my chin, Like I'm bloody fifteen again, what's going on? 23 00:01:22,721 --> 00:01:23,441 Speaker 2: This is wild? 24 00:01:23,761 --> 00:01:25,961 Speaker 3: And the other thing that's wild is Gracey's got a 25 00:01:25,961 --> 00:01:28,601 Speaker 3: pimple on her nose right now, And oh, shouldn't. Oh, 26 00:01:28,601 --> 00:01:30,961 Speaker 3: I mean, I've said it now, but she's got a 27 00:01:30,961 --> 00:01:33,320 Speaker 3: pimple on her nose right now, and she really hasn't 28 00:01:33,401 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 3: had any so coming home from dance, and this is 29 00:01:36,481 --> 00:01:38,840 Speaker 3: off the back of a dance competition, she's had to 30 00:01:38,881 --> 00:01:41,161 Speaker 3: wear makeup over the weekend and then we remove it 31 00:01:41,241 --> 00:01:43,321 Speaker 3: and everything like that. But you can tell obviously that 32 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:47,441 Speaker 3: their skin is so pure that you put this stuff 33 00:01:47,481 --> 00:01:49,721 Speaker 3: on and it obviously clogs it up. So she's got 34 00:01:49,761 --> 00:01:52,721 Speaker 3: like this pimple that's like dead set right on the middle, 35 00:01:52,721 --> 00:01:56,041 Speaker 3: but it's really red. She came home from dance and 36 00:01:56,081 --> 00:01:57,681 Speaker 3: I said to her, oh my god, what have you auntie? 37 00:01:57,801 --> 00:02:00,241 Speaker 2: Nose? Did you land flat on your face tonight? Like 38 00:02:00,321 --> 00:02:01,201 Speaker 2: that's so red? 39 00:02:01,361 --> 00:02:02,081 Speaker 1: And I made a. 40 00:02:05,161 --> 00:02:07,241 Speaker 3: And I was like, are you okay, Like what's happened? 41 00:02:07,281 --> 00:02:09,521 Speaker 3: And she goes, no, I just have a pimple on 42 00:02:09,561 --> 00:02:11,081 Speaker 3: my nose, And now you've brought all. 43 00:02:10,961 --> 00:02:13,681 Speaker 2: This attention to it. And I was like, it's just 44 00:02:13,761 --> 00:02:14,121 Speaker 2: you and I. 45 00:02:14,361 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 1: Difference between teenagers having pimples now, yes, and ask back 46 00:02:18,721 --> 00:02:21,201 Speaker 1: in the day, Yeah, get a pimple, We'd be fucking 47 00:02:21,281 --> 00:02:26,321 Speaker 1: squeezing it, we'd be putting on toothpaste. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, pimples. 48 00:02:26,641 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 1: Just dry them out now, it's all, Oh, can you 49 00:02:28,881 --> 00:02:30,321 Speaker 1: give me some pimple patches? 50 00:02:30,401 --> 00:02:31,001 Speaker 2: Pimple patches? 51 00:02:31,081 --> 00:02:34,321 Speaker 3: Yeah, but see some of them are I've heard they've 52 00:02:34,361 --> 00:02:37,121 Speaker 3: actually had like the opposite reaction where it's actually like 53 00:02:37,161 --> 00:02:40,441 Speaker 3: then reacting to their skin rather than doing what it's 54 00:02:40,481 --> 00:02:42,721 Speaker 3: meant to on the pimple. Of course, they don't work, 55 00:02:43,081 --> 00:02:45,561 Speaker 3: and my kids just want me with them more money. 56 00:02:45,641 --> 00:02:48,400 Speaker 3: But baby, your kids wearing them out? Are you seeing 57 00:02:48,441 --> 00:02:51,281 Speaker 3: people wearing the patches? You can put makeup over them, 58 00:02:51,921 --> 00:02:55,361 Speaker 3: that's stupid. They look like a plastic patch with makeup 59 00:02:55,401 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 3: on top. 60 00:02:55,761 --> 00:02:57,921 Speaker 1: They're clear and then you put make Yeah, but then 61 00:02:57,960 --> 00:03:00,881 Speaker 1: they live. They lived as soon as your skin gets oily. 62 00:03:01,561 --> 00:03:02,881 Speaker 3: Do you know how many people come up to me 63 00:03:02,921 --> 00:03:04,401 Speaker 3: and if they've got one of those on their face? 64 00:03:04,481 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 3: I can't shop staring at it. 65 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:08,001 Speaker 2: What are you doing? 66 00:03:08,641 --> 00:03:10,601 Speaker 4: You're not meant to wear them on the outside of 67 00:03:10,601 --> 00:03:13,521 Speaker 4: your house. Why are you wearing that? Just stick to toothpas, 68 00:03:13,881 --> 00:03:18,881 Speaker 4: we're to bed anyway. That's my rant over pimple patches. 69 00:03:27,601 --> 00:03:31,641 Speaker 3: Am I a bad mum for taking this parenting gig online? 70 00:03:32,881 --> 00:03:33,481 Speaker 2: Oh? 71 00:03:33,601 --> 00:03:35,201 Speaker 1: Now, I don't know where you're going with this one. 72 00:03:35,241 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 1: But the amount of what comes to mind first of 73 00:03:37,761 --> 00:03:40,721 Speaker 1: all for me is the amount of times I've said, 74 00:03:40,961 --> 00:03:42,601 Speaker 1: if you carry on like that, I'm going to film 75 00:03:42,601 --> 00:03:44,641 Speaker 1: it and I'm going to put it on Instagram. Could 76 00:03:44,721 --> 00:03:47,801 Speaker 1: you imagine I'm not even allowed. I have to get 77 00:03:47,801 --> 00:03:49,841 Speaker 1: approval to be able to put photos of them. 78 00:03:50,041 --> 00:03:52,601 Speaker 3: We talk about that, We did talk about that. No, 79 00:03:52,681 --> 00:03:55,121 Speaker 3: it's not even about any of that stuff. It is 80 00:03:55,161 --> 00:03:58,841 Speaker 3: about the elusive chat GBT. 81 00:03:59,961 --> 00:04:00,201 Speaker 2: Yeah. 82 00:04:00,321 --> 00:04:02,201 Speaker 3: So I've got like a couple of friends that now 83 00:04:03,001 --> 00:04:08,001 Speaker 3: even call their GBT like I buy a name. So, like, 84 00:04:08,001 --> 00:04:09,801 Speaker 3: I'm having a chat with a girlfriend the other day 85 00:04:09,801 --> 00:04:11,601 Speaker 3: and we're chatting, and she said. 86 00:04:11,401 --> 00:04:13,241 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then I asked, Henry. 87 00:04:13,521 --> 00:04:15,881 Speaker 3: I had no recollection as to who she's talking to, 88 00:04:15,961 --> 00:04:18,001 Speaker 3: and I know that she's got no new boyfriend or 89 00:04:18,001 --> 00:04:20,721 Speaker 3: anything like that, but it was something like I asked, 90 00:04:20,961 --> 00:04:23,721 Speaker 3: I'm Henry to like pull my tarot cards for the 91 00:04:23,801 --> 00:04:26,041 Speaker 3: day and tell me about like what I'm looking for 92 00:04:26,281 --> 00:04:27,081 Speaker 3: this week, and da. 93 00:04:27,121 --> 00:04:30,641 Speaker 2: Da da, And I was like, shit, have I missed something? 94 00:04:30,761 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 3: Fuck? So she's actually named the chat GBT person that 95 00:04:35,841 --> 00:04:36,921 Speaker 3: you chat. 96 00:04:36,601 --> 00:04:40,961 Speaker 1: To, right, I thank chat GPT when it's helped me. 97 00:04:40,961 --> 00:04:42,401 Speaker 2: I'm like, I always thank Siri. 98 00:04:42,801 --> 00:04:46,601 Speaker 1: I'm oh, not serious, She's fucking useless. A serious she 99 00:04:46,721 --> 00:04:49,641 Speaker 1: used to be? Okay, al Siri does is go here's 100 00:04:49,641 --> 00:04:51,041 Speaker 1: something I've found on the web and you have to 101 00:04:51,081 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 1: do your own research. 102 00:04:51,921 --> 00:04:53,161 Speaker 2: Yeah, but have you noticed. 103 00:04:52,841 --> 00:04:55,721 Speaker 3: Now that it says would you like to research this 104 00:04:56,121 --> 00:04:58,521 Speaker 3: on the net? Or like, would you like to research 105 00:04:58,561 --> 00:05:00,080 Speaker 3: this on the net or through chat GBT? 106 00:05:00,241 --> 00:05:01,081 Speaker 2: It gives you an option. 107 00:05:01,201 --> 00:05:02,561 Speaker 3: Now, I don't know if your wass the same, but 108 00:05:02,601 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 3: I've got the app of the chat GBT. 109 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 1: Because I never because I just find it useless. 110 00:05:06,961 --> 00:05:09,801 Speaker 2: She's disregarded. See how fast she does that gets rid 111 00:05:09,841 --> 00:05:12,361 Speaker 2: of her. Well, we can't do that with our kids. 112 00:05:12,481 --> 00:05:15,721 Speaker 3: So what I'm done is like I found myself the 113 00:05:15,761 --> 00:05:19,561 Speaker 3: other day in my head after having this conversation with 114 00:05:19,641 --> 00:05:23,801 Speaker 3: my friend and then my brother calls his some ridiculous 115 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 3: name and he referred to her like in third person. 116 00:05:26,401 --> 00:05:29,241 Speaker 2: I was like, sorry, you're talking about who are you 117 00:05:29,361 --> 00:05:32,121 Speaker 2: talking about? Hees taibt? And I was like, why do 118 00:05:32,161 --> 00:05:35,521 Speaker 2: you get a friendship with them? And what right. 119 00:05:35,641 --> 00:05:39,121 Speaker 1: Did you see? Sixty minutes when I know the women 120 00:05:39,281 --> 00:05:42,841 Speaker 1: were on who are dating? They're in a relationship is 121 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:46,721 Speaker 1: Ai and they got a name for them of writing 122 00:05:46,761 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 1: messages to each other and they speak every single day. 123 00:05:49,521 --> 00:05:51,681 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's my brother right now. 124 00:05:51,721 --> 00:05:54,961 Speaker 3: But my brother's married with kids, weird, so he's got 125 00:05:55,001 --> 00:05:55,561 Speaker 3: that going. 126 00:05:55,641 --> 00:05:56,801 Speaker 2: My friend's got that going. 127 00:05:56,921 --> 00:06:00,041 Speaker 3: Luke my other brother. He refers to his with a 128 00:06:00,081 --> 00:06:03,441 Speaker 3: personal name. Like, they're all got friendships going with the 129 00:06:03,601 --> 00:06:06,121 Speaker 3: online gig, right. So then the other day it was 130 00:06:06,161 --> 00:06:09,081 Speaker 3: something to do with sarcasm. We both know I'm quite 131 00:06:09,081 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 3: sarcastic when your child returns serve with the sarcasm, and 132 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:16,161 Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, and you know what 133 00:06:16,201 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 3: that is. That is a self reflection because all I'm 134 00:06:18,761 --> 00:06:21,161 Speaker 3: seeing in her is what I don't like about myself, 135 00:06:21,281 --> 00:06:25,161 Speaker 3: because I'm just like, going, you fucking little turd. But 136 00:06:25,241 --> 00:06:28,841 Speaker 3: the fuck stop with the sarcasm. Like anyway, I went 137 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 3: on to chat GBT for parenting advice, okay, and then 138 00:06:34,401 --> 00:06:37,921 Speaker 3: you can put any question in there, like hey, I've 139 00:06:38,121 --> 00:06:42,241 Speaker 3: been having this problem with my child and I feel 140 00:06:42,241 --> 00:06:45,921 Speaker 3: this way about her reaction, but I'm thinking it's more 141 00:06:45,961 --> 00:06:46,320 Speaker 3: about me. 142 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:50,041 Speaker 2: And then the response is just endless. 143 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:54,001 Speaker 3: Have you taken your parenting gig online yet to talk 144 00:06:54,041 --> 00:06:58,201 Speaker 3: to your chat GBT work. 145 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:02,881 Speaker 1: I've not used it for parenting advice. No, but now 146 00:07:03,041 --> 00:07:04,721 Speaker 1: it seems an obvious answer. 147 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 3: Hey, I was like, oh, what else could you put 148 00:07:09,241 --> 00:07:11,761 Speaker 3: on there? Like so if my friend is asking her 149 00:07:12,161 --> 00:07:17,681 Speaker 3: chat GBT person for Tarot card reading, what else can 150 00:07:17,681 --> 00:07:18,521 Speaker 3: you ask them for? 151 00:07:18,641 --> 00:07:20,841 Speaker 1: Yeah, so what parenting advice has? 152 00:07:21,441 --> 00:07:21,641 Speaker 2: Well? 153 00:07:21,681 --> 00:07:25,481 Speaker 3: Obviously, like there was lots of feedback around different ways, 154 00:07:25,481 --> 00:07:27,761 Speaker 3: in different angles, and then from that angle, you know 155 00:07:27,761 --> 00:07:29,841 Speaker 3: how they always come back and go, So let me 156 00:07:29,881 --> 00:07:32,121 Speaker 3: know what you think we could take this advice to 157 00:07:32,241 --> 00:07:34,841 Speaker 3: this angle or we could go this angle kind of thing, 158 00:07:35,321 --> 00:07:37,361 Speaker 3: and then, like I think after the first one, I 159 00:07:37,401 --> 00:07:40,121 Speaker 3: was like, this is crazy. Why am I asking an 160 00:07:40,161 --> 00:07:44,521 Speaker 3: online thing for my own advice? The last line Katie 161 00:07:44,601 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 3: chat soon and keep being brilliantly bad at this parenting gig. 162 00:07:52,521 --> 00:07:55,041 Speaker 3: I was like, oh gosh, I feel really seen. 163 00:07:55,161 --> 00:08:00,881 Speaker 5: This is Google with personality, so much personality to the 164 00:08:00,921 --> 00:08:03,841 Speaker 5: point that I was like, why am I even here 165 00:08:04,081 --> 00:08:08,481 Speaker 5: doing this? Like obviously I was questioning my own parenting 166 00:08:09,201 --> 00:08:11,561 Speaker 5: behaviors at some point. 167 00:08:11,841 --> 00:08:14,081 Speaker 1: You know how We've been talking a lot about the 168 00:08:14,201 --> 00:08:18,241 Speaker 1: jobs that will not be need to be done because 169 00:08:18,841 --> 00:08:21,201 Speaker 1: AI will be able to do them, Like I even 170 00:08:21,321 --> 00:08:25,561 Speaker 1: feel like rach the role of a GP It's controversial 171 00:08:25,681 --> 00:08:28,561 Speaker 1: the role of a GP because I feel like when 172 00:08:28,561 --> 00:08:31,361 Speaker 1: I go to the GP, I have to google my 173 00:08:31,441 --> 00:08:34,121 Speaker 1: own symptoms and work it out anyway and then tell 174 00:08:34,201 --> 00:08:36,321 Speaker 1: him what's going on. And then he's just the guy 175 00:08:36,361 --> 00:08:40,401 Speaker 1: that can prescribe the antibiotics. Yea, at what point does 176 00:08:40,961 --> 00:08:42,561 Speaker 1: AI do that job. 177 00:08:42,521 --> 00:08:44,441 Speaker 2: With your doctor? You're really going to just tell you 178 00:08:44,521 --> 00:08:46,281 Speaker 2: doctor what you want from your doctor? 179 00:08:46,641 --> 00:08:47,641 Speaker 1: Yeah, pretty much? 180 00:08:48,201 --> 00:08:51,441 Speaker 2: How do yourself diagnose yourself if you've got like something 181 00:08:51,481 --> 00:08:52,481 Speaker 2: going on internally? 182 00:08:52,921 --> 00:08:57,561 Speaker 1: Rach, my doctor's so bad that I I only still 183 00:08:57,601 --> 00:09:00,081 Speaker 1: go there just to feel bad to move. 184 00:09:03,241 --> 00:09:04,681 Speaker 2: So this is my question. 185 00:09:04,801 --> 00:09:11,641 Speaker 3: Is parenting then become in person irrelevant because because kids 186 00:09:11,681 --> 00:09:14,441 Speaker 3: will be taught how to use AI, well maybe our 187 00:09:14,481 --> 00:09:15,641 Speaker 3: schooling fucking system. 188 00:09:15,641 --> 00:09:17,441 Speaker 2: Don't get me started on how backwards it is. 189 00:09:18,441 --> 00:09:21,481 Speaker 3: Will we need to like, will we need just still 190 00:09:21,481 --> 00:09:22,121 Speaker 3: be relevant? 191 00:09:22,521 --> 00:09:25,641 Speaker 1: Someone's going to need to do the physical stuff like 192 00:09:25,841 --> 00:09:30,561 Speaker 1: actually do lunch, boat car all that kind of taxi driver? 193 00:09:31,241 --> 00:09:34,761 Speaker 1: But in terms of in terms. 194 00:09:34,561 --> 00:09:37,921 Speaker 3: Of like advice, yeah, or like I mean, like my 195 00:09:38,001 --> 00:09:39,721 Speaker 3: mum's being a bitch, what do I do? 196 00:09:39,721 --> 00:09:42,081 Speaker 1: You are the things that you to this day ask 197 00:09:42,201 --> 00:09:45,601 Speaker 1: your mum advice on right? Like as you get older 198 00:09:45,641 --> 00:09:47,801 Speaker 1: and you move into your own home, it's how do 199 00:09:47,921 --> 00:09:51,241 Speaker 1: I cook this? Or how does the oven work? Like 200 00:09:51,481 --> 00:09:55,121 Speaker 1: mums tell you information. Yeah, chachipt can do all of that. 201 00:09:55,201 --> 00:09:57,761 Speaker 2: Now, this is so crazy, man. 202 00:09:58,001 --> 00:10:03,441 Speaker 1: Chat ChiPT can be a husband or a wife or 203 00:10:03,521 --> 00:10:05,601 Speaker 1: a partner. It can be your parent. 204 00:10:05,921 --> 00:10:08,761 Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know whether I feel relieved or 205 00:10:08,881 --> 00:10:13,041 Speaker 3: whether I feel sort of like sad about that. 206 00:10:13,281 --> 00:10:14,561 Speaker 2: But at the same time, you know. 207 00:10:14,561 --> 00:10:17,801 Speaker 3: What, Katie, I could not go online or a bot 208 00:10:18,001 --> 00:10:19,081 Speaker 3: to be my partner. 209 00:10:19,321 --> 00:10:22,401 Speaker 1: It's weird, but I kind of get it if you're lonely. 210 00:10:23,081 --> 00:10:26,841 Speaker 1: I feel supported by GPT when I type in certain 211 00:10:26,881 --> 00:10:30,121 Speaker 1: things and it says to me, you did really well 212 00:10:30,161 --> 00:10:34,561 Speaker 1: with like here's what was great about your legal contract? 213 00:10:34,721 --> 00:10:36,081 Speaker 2: Yeah, well for work. 214 00:10:36,161 --> 00:10:39,241 Speaker 1: This was a great point, this was really good. This 215 00:10:39,361 --> 00:10:41,321 Speaker 1: means this blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. I'm like, 216 00:10:41,401 --> 00:10:43,841 Speaker 1: thank you so much. I feel really supported by you. 217 00:10:44,121 --> 00:10:46,081 Speaker 1: I love the fact that it said at the end, 218 00:10:46,681 --> 00:10:49,761 Speaker 1: keep being what does it say, keep being brilliantly. 219 00:10:49,321 --> 00:10:51,281 Speaker 2: Brilliantly bad at this parenting geek? 220 00:10:52,241 --> 00:10:55,601 Speaker 3: All right knows us, all right, if you say so, 221 00:10:56,001 --> 00:10:56,681 Speaker 3: we'll do it.