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Speaker 1: This is the Fits In with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: Now, this is going to be fun. Stick with me.

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Speaker 2: Here we go. We're going to hear from Debbie in

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Speaker 2: Dundas and I have got a great story about when

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Speaker 2: you have received or sent something that shouldn't have gone

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Speaker 2: to that person to and it's very awkward, and we

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Speaker 2: hear these stories all the time. But it's just worth

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Speaker 2: double checking before you reply all.

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Speaker 3: I naturally do a reply all. That's the concerning part.

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Speaker 3: I'm always a reply all guy.

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Speaker 2: I'm surprised you haven't been in this kind of well, I've.

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Speaker 3: Never inappropriate, so I don't know why that suggests I

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Speaker 3: should be canceled.

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Speaker 4: I love to run the gauntlet sometimes, write the text

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Speaker 4: messages quick as you can. There's a lot of confusion

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Speaker 4: as you do it.

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Speaker 2: And then you just said that shoot it off and

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Speaker 2: now okay, okay. What this guy did initially is like mortifying,

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Speaker 2: but his excuse is the way he's tried to talk

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Speaker 2: himself out of it is amazing. All right, this guy,

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Speaker 2: he's in the office and he has sent well he's

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Speaker 2: been sacked. Sorry, I'm getting so confused because I'm a

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Speaker 2: bit excited about the story. He's suing the San Francisco

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Speaker 2: DA's office after losing his job because of an accidental

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Speaker 2: reply all email. He's been sacked for six months and

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Speaker 2: it's come around and he's thought, well, I've been dismissed,

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Speaker 2: but it's not fair and I'm going to talk my

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Speaker 2: way out of this, and I want people to hear it.

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Speaker 2: So he sent a message to He asked a married

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Speaker 2: I'm getting excited.

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Speaker 3: Part of it.

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Speaker 2: He's basically done a reply all to the office and

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Speaker 2: has asked a married woman within the office what color

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Speaker 2: her underpants were.

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Speaker 5: That's not the wording.

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't like that word, and I don't yeah panties,

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Speaker 2: what color her panties were, before profusely apologizing in a

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Speaker 2: follow up seconds later. Now those three seconds I would

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Speaker 2: imagine when when he realized he sent the message. Oh,

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Speaker 2: the blood would run from your body, wouldn't it? Okay?

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Speaker 2: He then he's done it from the work, you know laptop.

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Speaker 2: I mean everything about it means. And this has been

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Speaker 2: his excuse. He was saying, this is what his lawyer

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Speaker 2: is telling the courts. He shouldn't be sacked because he

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Speaker 2: accidentally sent that message to the office and asked the

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Speaker 2: married woman about the color of her nickers. But what

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Speaker 2: he was actually doing was he was in a text

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Speaker 2: conversation with a friend of his who had recently lost

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Speaker 2: his father, and to lighten the mood about the death,

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Speaker 2: he just threw out because they are old school friends,

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Speaker 2: the way they normally talk to each other, what color

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Speaker 2: are your panties?

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Speaker 4: That's not like, excuse I love it.

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Speaker 2: This is the lawyer. This is the wording. It was

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Speaker 2: purely a text to friend and it was a whiz

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Speaker 2: whimsical question that was part of the plaintiffs standard jocular

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Speaker 2: repertoire with his friends.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, especially after someone's died. I know any friends of

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Speaker 3: mine that have lost their father's hostess fire off? What

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Speaker 3: color are open?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Rather than saying, how are you going? What are your undies?

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Speaker 4: I would have gone I would have gone spell checker,

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Speaker 4: I would have gone wouldn't that's changed? I was asking

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Speaker 4: what color are your parties? Or could you have gone

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Speaker 4: down another road? I know you've got to think quick

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Speaker 4: because you've seen it out there, You've thought, well, this

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Speaker 4: is my job on the line here.

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Speaker 2: I don't think he thought it much.

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Speaker 3: Rhyme with much either.

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Speaker 5: Do they.

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Speaker 3: Check that is that's a really tricky one.

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Speaker 2: Should we speak to Debbie and dundask because I think

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Speaker 2: she's had a very similar what happened encounter by guys?

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Speaker 4: Are you?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I received the chext message one weekend. It was

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Speaker 5: actually received a text message from a staff member and

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Speaker 5: I opened it up and it was a full frontal

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Speaker 5: nudity taken in by a selfie in the mirror.

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Speaker 4: Paster mirror, Debbie, do you were close to this person?

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Speaker 5: No? No, no, no, he's one of my staff. I was

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Speaker 5: his boss. So I just set back a message saying

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Speaker 5: I really don't think this is an appropriate photo. Just

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Speaker 5: send to your boss. There was quite a weight between

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Speaker 5: the reply message from him saying sorry, wrong person, and

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Speaker 5: I just set back another text saying this will never

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Speaker 5: be spoken of again.

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Speaker 4: From how much over time did you give him, Debt?

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Speaker 3: Was he looking for a payrise, Debbie?

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Speaker 5: Or the third Monday morning back was very awkward?

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Speaker 2: How do you recover from that kind of thing?

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Speaker 4: See, this is what I love about Debbie, and that

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Speaker 4: could be instant dismissal without a doubt. But Debbie understands

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Speaker 4: that this is a mistake.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's between one like that between two people,

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Speaker 2: and you can and you can never speak of that again.

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Speaker 2: If you've accidentally sent it to the offer.

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Speaker 3: You know what, You've got that over that person the

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Speaker 3: entire time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, give us a call if you have a similar story.

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Speaker 4: Georgia in the Oaks, you receive the wrong message, Georgia, Yes.

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Speaker 1: I received a message from a customer one night saying

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Speaker 1: I love you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So do you work in retail or somewhere.

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Speaker 1: I work in the heavy vehicle industry with truck and

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Speaker 1: I know he was very intoxicated at the time.

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Speaker 4: So, Georgia, there was an element of truth to it.

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Speaker 5: Did you find out afterwards?

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Speaker 1: I feel like it was. And I got to text

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Speaker 1: the next morning saying I'm sorry, wrong person.

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Speaker 2: Well it is you go to excuse Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 2: it's sometimes better to say I didn't mean to send

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Speaker 2: that to you rather than explain it. I love the person.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And Georgie, do you think he was attracted to

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Speaker 3: Do you think he was attracted to you?

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Speaker 1: There is a possive.

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Speaker 3: Georgia.

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Speaker 4: Do you still give him the old you know, when

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Speaker 4: you drive past him on the truck do you give

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Speaker 4: him the old thumbs up? Or no conversation at all?

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Speaker 1: Now, Georgia, It was very awkward for about two weeks,

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Speaker 1: but I have to see him every couple of days,

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Speaker 1: so it's kind of died down now and it's not

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Speaker 1: as awkward. We tried to forget about it, Georgia.

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Speaker 3: If I don't know whether you're in a relationship or not,

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Speaker 3: but is there any chance, I mean, would you consider

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Speaker 3: this guy if you're possibly single, would.

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Speaker 1: There be anything? I'm happily engaged.

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Speaker 3: We all say that until the Hen's night, if you

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Speaker 3: know what I mean, Georgia.

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Speaker 4: I've always thought about truckies in love, and you know,

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Speaker 4: finding love at truck stops.

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Speaker 2: And do you want to find a trucky.

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Speaker 4: You've got that beautiful, comfortable a bit behind you as

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Speaker 4: well in your truck.

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Speaker 3: It's just magnificence is the weirdest thing I've ever heard since.

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