WEBVTT - Hayesy On Changing His Relationship With Alcohol

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<v Speaker 1>We got ready get you every morning, every day, every

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<v Speaker 1>relationship Adelaides Jody and Hazy Joe's each.

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<v Speaker 2>And every year, I make news resolutions, and I'll tell

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<v Speaker 2>you what. I have never stuck to them ever, No,

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<v Speaker 2>absolutely ever this year and this is a bit more

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<v Speaker 2>of a serious space for me this year, a big

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<v Speaker 2>news resolution is to aggressively cut back on alcohol. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>and we often joke around about having big nights and

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<v Speaker 2>all those types of things. But I'm thirty nine years

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<v Speaker 2>old now, i have a six year old, a four

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<v Speaker 2>year old, and a one year old, and I'm at

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<v Speaker 2>the stage of my life now where I'm starting to

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<v Speaker 2>look back and I'm starting to think, am I what's

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<v Speaker 2>my relationship with alcohol like? And where's it at? Because

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<v Speaker 2>I think in theory, I would say to myself, now,

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<v Speaker 2>I have a good relationship. I rarely overdo it, but

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<v Speaker 2>when I really really dig deep and sort of discover

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<v Speaker 2>what's going on, it's probably not a very good relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm talking about to give you an example, if

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<v Speaker 2>I look back at all of the really bad things

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<v Speaker 2>that have happened in my life, whether it be personal relationships, work,

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<v Speaker 2>and particularly where I've done something really really wrong, and

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<v Speaker 2>I've had to answer for myself and try and fix things.

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<v Speaker 2>It's one hundred percent involved alcohol.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think you're on your patn alone there.

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<v Speaker 4>I think there are so many people who look back

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<v Speaker 4>at their lives and go everything that is crappy that

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<v Speaker 4>has happened can be attributed to doing something stupid.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So not just that that's the big nights, but

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm talking about for my particular lifestyle is and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a sucker for routine. I need a schedule, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm to the second with my schedule, and.

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<v Speaker 4>I have to say, you're very disciplined during the week,

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<v Speaker 4>like you won't drop and you won't touch a drop

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<v Speaker 4>of alcohol during the week, could you know?

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<v Speaker 2>And that's the thing. But Friday comes and.

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<v Speaker 3>It's me again.

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<v Speaker 2>We joke around about it, but that's what it's like

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<v Speaker 2>in my head. So if I was to have one

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<v Speaker 2>or two, maybe three beers, that's I think that's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>But that doesn't happen. So what happens in my life

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<v Speaker 2>right now, And for a lot of discussions with my

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<v Speaker 2>wife about it, because it's ruining my weekends and it's

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<v Speaker 2>ruining my only day off, and that is Saturday. And

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<v Speaker 2>I should be absolutely intently enjoying my life with my kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that five six beers?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe glass of wine? Who knows, Maybe it's the bottle.

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<v Speaker 2>So then all of a sudden on a Friday night,

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<v Speaker 2>and what am I doing at home? I'm at home

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<v Speaker 2>watching sport on the couch. I know what happens from that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not a huge, huge night, but I go to

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<v Speaker 2>bed with bloody hell extra two thousand calories in my guts.

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<v Speaker 2>The next morning, I wake up and I'm a pretty

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<v Speaker 2>useless version of myself, particularly for the morning, and the

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<v Speaker 2>kids want to do stuff, and Dad's just easing into it.

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<v Speaker 2>He's not properly hungover, but he's not at his best.

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<v Speaker 2>He's nowhere near his best. He's probably running about seventy percent.

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<v Speaker 2>I am wasting these golden years of my kid's youth,

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<v Speaker 2>six four and one, and all they want to do

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<v Speaker 2>is stuff with Mum and dad. And right now, I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like I'm wise enough to know that if I

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<v Speaker 2>advance ten years look back and be like, cheez, you're

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<v Speaker 2>going to regret that, mate, You're absolutely it's going to

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<v Speaker 2>be your biggest regret.

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<v Speaker 4>I just want to applaud you and anyone who takes

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<v Speaker 4>the time to stop and go. I need to assess

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<v Speaker 4>my relationship with alcohol, as I have done over the years.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a classic gray area drinker, so not so much

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<v Speaker 4>an alcoholic, but there are times when the consumption of

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<v Speaker 4>alcohol is abuse. And I think, for you on a

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<v Speaker 4>Friday night, it's just that because you're so heightened or

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<v Speaker 4>weak and you have to be on all week, it's

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<v Speaker 4>I get it.

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<v Speaker 3>You want that. It's almost like oblivion.

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<v Speaker 4>And so you don't have to think, you don't have

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<v Speaker 4>to worry about anything, you don't have to cope with anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's just about I'm not about to say I'm

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<v Speaker 2>off it. I'm not drinking anymore, but it's about being

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<v Speaker 2>having a relationship where I can have two beers, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>on a Friday night, and that's it. Don't need anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>There's no difference. The difference from me from two beers

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<v Speaker 2>to say seven to ten beers is the next day

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<v Speaker 2>I'm useless, and what the hell is the point of that?

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<v Speaker 2>So I can perl abuse at the sport that's happening

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<v Speaker 2>on TV on a Friday night. N I certainly pleases

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<v Speaker 2>my wife and very attractive to that. He's yelling at

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<v Speaker 2>the TV again.

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<v Speaker 4>But I do want you to have a chat with

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<v Speaker 4>a friend of mine who specializes in this area. So

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<v Speaker 4>I've taken the liberty of teeming this up for you

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<v Speaker 4>if you're open to having a conversation with her about

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<v Speaker 4>alcohol and it is essentially a poison and what that

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<v Speaker 4>might be doing to your body by putting that shit

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<v Speaker 4>volume of alcohol in your body at one given time.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Okay, you're not stitching me up, Duffman's not about

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<v Speaker 2>a cruise. It's all over. No, But thank you for

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<v Speaker 2>this because this is Yeah, I'm thirty nine years old

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<v Speaker 2>as well. It's a next it's the next stage in

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<v Speaker 2>my life.

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<v Speaker 4>And I just don't want you to feel you're alone

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<v Speaker 4>in this because alcohol abuse amongst men, women women in

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<v Speaker 4>particular is a thing, and I think there are more

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<v Speaker 4>and more.

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<v Speaker 3>People just who are sober curious what they like to say.

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<v Speaker 4>So not necessarily I'm never ever going to drink again,

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<v Speaker 4>but they will definitely take steps towards cutting back.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's go to anonymous.

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<v Speaker 4>Your husband was a bit of a drinker, yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>talk us through your story.

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<v Speaker 5>So he's been over for over a year now. He

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<v Speaker 5>was a heavy drinker, and I always didn't think that

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<v Speaker 5>it was an issue. Obviously my history always had drinking

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<v Speaker 5>in the family. Fell out the tree and kind of

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<v Speaker 5>realized that we just made cake. And not only has

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<v Speaker 5>it been great for his health, but obviously relationships around

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<v Speaker 5>him just through. So I think it's to me, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>so proud of him and it's changed our relationship. It

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<v Speaker 5>helped us and kids everything like that, energy levels of

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<v Speaker 5>through the roof. So to me, it's really difficult to

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<v Speaker 5>normalize the fact that someone chooses not to drink and

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<v Speaker 5>finding options for him. He's been through all of the

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<v Speaker 5>different and zero alcohols and sound something that he likes,

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<v Speaker 5>so that when we go out somewhere that it's a

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<v Speaker 5>beer with zero alcohol, he can still drink and yet

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<v Speaker 5>feel normal because you've got a stubby holder in your

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<v Speaker 5>hands with a beer, so that when you go out

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<v Speaker 5>people kind of judge you and looking at like, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>a zero beer, what's that about. I'd love to see

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<v Speaker 5>that the normalized.

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<v Speaker 4>Can I ask you what it's felt like to have

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<v Speaker 4>your husband Back's amazing.

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<v Speaker 5>I've got my best friend back. Sorry, I didn't realize

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<v Speaker 5>how much it was impacts me, but yeah, it's so good.

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<v Speaker 5>To see the best version of him.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well you should be super.

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<v Speaker 5>Sorry, not good RIGHTO.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just thinking anonymous because like we're pretty stubborn creatures,

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<v Speaker 2>and I especially especially when when you say that you

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<v Speaker 2>know you've spoken to him and he says, I'm fine,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have a problem. I've been have the same hope. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>I know exactly what you're talking about, yea.

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<v Speaker 5>And it came to a point where I had to

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<v Speaker 5>get my kids involved because I just couldn't do it

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<v Speaker 5>anymore because that person was not the person that I

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<v Speaker 5>fell in love with, that's for sure, and I just

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<v Speaker 5>couldn't do it anymore. So it's hard to get kids involved.

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<v Speaker 5>But yeah, I'm so grateful that they did help. God

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<v Speaker 5>I hope they're not watching. Yeah, and it's been an

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<v Speaker 5>amazing top month.

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<v Speaker 4>Did he go into it thinking I'm never going to

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<v Speaker 4>drink again, or I just want to scale it right

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<v Speaker 4>back and see what happens.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Yeah, that was the intent of I'm just not

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<v Speaker 5>going to have some beers for a while, and then

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<v Speaker 5>realized that he felt so much better. He will on

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<v Speaker 5>occasion like there's been time for resulter a zero bear

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<v Speaker 5>and someone's given him a normal one like oh, well

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<v Speaker 5>that's the gain or yeah, but he hasn't fallen back

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<v Speaker 5>into that circle of I'll just have another one.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>And I think that's the difference of knowing that there

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<v Speaker 5>is a zero beer that he could have that makes

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<v Speaker 5>it easier. It's an easier transition because you're not just

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<v Speaker 5>quitting it all together, like we're smoking for him.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I'm glad, and honestly didn't say that someone slipping

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<v Speaker 2>a beer. And then all of a sudden he turned

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<v Speaker 2>into Frank the tank or so.

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<v Speaker 5>We're going in the quadroon.

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<v Speaker 3>We're all shrinking, Chloe, you my love? One year sober?

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<v Speaker 3>How good?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, just just over a year now, actually about a

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<v Speaker 7>year and a half now.

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<v Speaker 8>I started same thing, drinks on the weekend. You know,

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<v Speaker 8>I unfortunately drink like an absolute fish, so just.

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<v Speaker 9>Yes, started drinking.

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<v Speaker 7>And then it turned into you know, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday,

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<v Speaker 7>and then all.

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<v Speaker 1>Of a sudden, I was, you know, getting sort of

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<v Speaker 1>plasted every single day of the week, and I went,

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<v Speaker 1>I need to sort of step back and assess here,

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<v Speaker 1>and I sort of cut down my alcohol consumption and then.

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<v Speaker 8>I sort of noticed how sort of I guess.

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<v Speaker 7>Annoying you can be when you've the night on the

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<v Speaker 7>grog and you know how much it affects you from

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<v Speaker 7>watching it from other people's perspective. You know, you sit

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<v Speaker 7>back and you go, oh, man, you know, people do

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<v Speaker 7>make some horrible, horrible decisions.

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<v Speaker 9>I don't want that to be me anymore. So why

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<v Speaker 9>am I actually even drinking at all? Yeah, I'll just

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<v Speaker 9>cut it, and I do not miss it.

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<v Speaker 8>I've you know, some people go on, I miss having

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<v Speaker 8>a drink. I do not at all.

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<v Speaker 7>You know, It's made me feel so much better. Mental

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<v Speaker 7>clarity is at an all time high. I see the

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<v Speaker 7>world in such a different way now. All my relationships

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<v Speaker 7>with everybody are so much better because I don't, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>I've not had a big night on the grog and

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<v Speaker 7>then lash out the next day, and you know when

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<v Speaker 7>your emotions are a bit all over the place and

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<v Speaker 7>you're feeling.

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<v Speaker 9>A bit hungover. So yeah, it's definitely a hard one.

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<v Speaker 4>To kick, though, Chloe, I've never ever met a sober

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<v Speaker 4>person who has said this has made my life worse,

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<v Speaker 4>not one. Every single person that gets sober says it

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<v Speaker 4>has infinitely improve their life.

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<v Speaker 3>So well done to you.

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<v Speaker 4>I think that's an amazing effort.

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<v Speaker 7>Thank you very much.

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<v Speaker 2>There go some great stories coming through as well about

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<v Speaker 2>how much better it could be and how people can

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<v Speaker 2>absolutely genuinely improve yourself. And I've said that, and I've

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<v Speaker 2>heard of people as well that go down that path,

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<v Speaker 2>and that is I want to reduce, but then you

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<v Speaker 2>end up just completely quitting. Yeah, so I want to

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<v Speaker 2>improve my relationship with our cohol. I haven't said that

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<v Speaker 2>I'll completely quit and go cold turkey because I don't

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<v Speaker 2>trust myself they have some sort of dangerous blowout as well.

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<v Speaker 4>Also, don't want to put that pressure on yourself either,

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<v Speaker 4>because you know people are watching, particularly in your job.

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<v Speaker 4>So you don't want to have to set yourself up

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<v Speaker 4>and say I'm never drinking you again.

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<v Speaker 3>Well you may well, but.

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<v Speaker 4>It's worth exploring to see, Okay, do I want to

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<v Speaker 4>significantly cut back or quit all together?

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<v Speaker 3>It's worth asking that question of yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So for example, I'm forwarded this year.

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<v Speaker 3>God you look good, mate.

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<v Speaker 2>Mate, you look My point is that, you know, My

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<v Speaker 2>point is that there'll be a hangover. Yeah, I'll have

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<v Speaker 2>a fortieth, then we'll have a couple of drinks. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to do stupid things.

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<v Speaker 4>Let me throw this into the mix for you, and

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<v Speaker 4>it's something that you probably never have considered. Women when

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<v Speaker 4>they go through perimenopause or menopause, alcohol impacts them so

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<v Speaker 4>much worse.

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<v Speaker 3>Than men like you.

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<v Speaker 4>Throw all the imbalance of hormones in there and it

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<v Speaker 4>becomes helps a real mindfield.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, No, fourteen we're talking about Well, it's stemmed from

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<v Speaker 2>me trying to improve my relationship with our cohol. We've

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<v Speaker 2>had some fantastic calls coming through Julie, good morning to you.

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<v Speaker 10>Look, I just wanted to ring and say, hain't you

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<v Speaker 10>so finally bringing this topic, you know, out into the

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<v Speaker 10>public and speaking about it. You know, it's such an

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<v Speaker 10>obvious sort of culture to go out and socialize but

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<v Speaker 10>have to drink, and then people go, why aren't you

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<v Speaker 10>drinking and having to explain all of that. So I

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<v Speaker 10>just really wanted to ring and face thank you so

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<v Speaker 10>much for talking about it this morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, Julie. It's but you're right. I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>that as well. And I can't say this enough. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not trying to really get rid of our coho or

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<v Speaker 2>anything like that. I just it is an easy culture thing, though,

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<v Speaker 2>isn't it. It's a weird which is fine, and I've

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<v Speaker 2>always grown up with it and I played footing and

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<v Speaker 2>we had some success and it was a lot of fun,

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<v Speaker 2>sort of mixing with our coals. Sometimes you take it

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<v Speaker 2>too far, but it feels like it's very much an

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<v Speaker 2>Australian thing.

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<v Speaker 4>And also, Julie Hazy, there's a lot of shame involved

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<v Speaker 4>in putting your hand up sometimes and still to this

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<v Speaker 4>day and saying I think I might have an issue here.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think the more we normalize it, Julie, the

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<v Speaker 3>better off will all be.

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<v Speaker 11>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 10>Yeah, and to be able to talk about it openly

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<v Speaker 10>and you know, and yeah, because I think there's a

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<v Speaker 10>lot of people out there that are silently suffering about it.

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<v Speaker 10>And so yeah, like I said, I just wanted to

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<v Speaker 10>say thanks for talking about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Good on, Julie. Well, thank you so much for calling.

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<v Speaker 4>I had someone say to me once who I had

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<v Speaker 4>a bit of a drinking issue, said I actually like

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<v Speaker 4>myself when I don't drink, And that was so powerful. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>because it can be a real spiral to go down

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<v Speaker 4>that path.

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<v Speaker 2>You said that before. I can't imagine something is more true. No,

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<v Speaker 2>it is here for kiffing up alcohol and regretted it Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that doesn't make sense. I won't find someone.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>I have a really beautiful friend who works in this space.

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<v Speaker 4>Her name is Isabella Ferguson. She's a registered counselor specializing

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<v Speaker 4>in alcohol. And I just thought if you were a

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<v Speaker 4>tiny bit worried, maybe it might be worthwhile to have

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<v Speaker 4>a little chat. So we say good morning to you.

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<v Speaker 12>Bella, good morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, just that sound familiar what we've just described to you.

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<v Speaker 12>Oh, it certainly does. And particularly just the age group.

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<v Speaker 12>You know, when we're hitting our late thirties, early forties,

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<v Speaker 12>we've got young kids, we start to feel it a

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<v Speaker 12>bit more. So we're looking to make some changes.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, for me, Bella, it's not Yeah, I'm not saying.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not saying I need to cut back completely. I

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<v Speaker 2>really joy a beer, so but not. I'm just I

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<v Speaker 2>think I'm abusing it, particularly on Friday night. I'd love

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<v Speaker 2>to be able to sit there and have one two

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<v Speaker 2>beers and that's it, and that's completely it, and then

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<v Speaker 2>I go to bed feeling good, I sleep well, and

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<v Speaker 2>I get up the next day. I'm absolute best at

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<v Speaker 2>the moment, for no particular reason. It's seven to ten,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe sometimes more, and for what reason, And it just

0:14:21.240 --> 0:14:24.320
<v Speaker 2>ruins my weekend. And at the moment it's I certainly

0:14:24.320 --> 0:14:27.280
<v Speaker 2>don't have a happy partner as well. So yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 2>an interesting time of my life.

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<v Speaker 12>Yeah, it's a familiar story. I hear it a lot.

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<v Speaker 12>But good on you for thinking about it and thinking

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<v Speaker 12>about you know, what changes you could make to try

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<v Speaker 12>and you know, just feel better.

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<v Speaker 3>And Bella, this is.

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<v Speaker 4>A question that I often ponder. Are there two types

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<v Speaker 4>of people in this world? Is there one type that

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<v Speaker 4>can have one or two drinks and then their brain

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<v Speaker 4>says no, that's it for me. And then is there

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<v Speaker 4>another type like hazy and I can be prone to

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<v Speaker 4>just binge drinking. Is it the way you metabolize our

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<v Speaker 4>Oh what is it?

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<v Speaker 12>I don't think it's the way you metabolize it. But

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<v Speaker 12>I think it's just that they're definitely two cancer people,

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<v Speaker 12>and you're right with the way that you've summarized who

0:15:10.080 --> 0:15:12.400
<v Speaker 12>they are. You know what they are. Some people can

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<v Speaker 12>just have one or two. But there are reasons around

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<v Speaker 12>genetics about how early we started drinking and our emotional reasons,

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<v Speaker 12>so why we might be drinking, and if we just

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<v Speaker 12>keep on behaviorally exposing ourself to large amounts of alcohol.

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<v Speaker 12>Over time, naturally, our tolerance is going to increase and

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<v Speaker 12>it's just going to be harder to pull back.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and me telling my wife Bella that the reason

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing it is because I'm a really fun guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Isn't working at the age of thirty nine when we

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<v Speaker 2>first met when we were twenty five.

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<v Speaker 4>And so for someone like Hazy who has gone all right,

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<v Speaker 4>this is a bit gray area for me, what would

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<v Speaker 4>you recommend to him to start by cutting back?

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<v Speaker 12>Gosh, but there are so many ways to do this.

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<v Speaker 12>I think it's really useful to plan, say a six

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<v Speaker 12>week period where you are setting yourself some goals around

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<v Speaker 12>alcohol and then almost treating it like an experiment where

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<v Speaker 12>you're noticing, are you breaking your moderation goal? How much'll

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<v Speaker 12>you having? What are the circumstances around you drinking too much?

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<v Speaker 12>Is it around certain kinds of friends, is it when

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<v Speaker 12>you're a certain kind of day, are you stressed? Are

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<v Speaker 12>you emotionally drinking? And just kind of try and learn

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<v Speaker 12>what is going on for you?

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<v Speaker 4>One more quick one for me, So why do we

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<v Speaker 4>sleep so poorly when you have a few drinks?

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<v Speaker 3>And it doesn't even have to be that much.

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<v Speaker 4>It can be one or two glasses of red, and

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<v Speaker 4>then I just think you get the two ams, don't you?

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<v Speaker 4>You do?

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<v Speaker 12>So alcohol does not help sleep in any way, shape

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<v Speaker 12>or form. In fact, I've got some great stats. If

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<v Speaker 12>you have one drink, your sleep quality actually goes down

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<v Speaker 12>by ten percent. Two drinks that's twenty four percent, and

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<v Speaker 12>then or more it's up to forty percent. So when

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<v Speaker 12>we drink alcohol, this is what happens to our brains.

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<v Speaker 12>It crosses the blood brain barrier and it stimulates the

0:17:10.960 --> 0:17:13.680
<v Speaker 12>pleasure center of our brain. So we feel that relief,

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<v Speaker 12>that dope, meine that gabba. But then what happens is

0:17:17.680 --> 0:17:21.840
<v Speaker 12>our brain notices that there's an imbalance and it releases stimulants,

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<v Speaker 12>which is adrenaline and cortisol, which stays in your body

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<v Speaker 12>a long time. And so this is why you only

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<v Speaker 12>feel that relief for twenty minutes when you drink. The

0:17:30.440 --> 0:17:32.920
<v Speaker 12>stress hormones take the edge off, and that's why you

0:17:33.000 --> 0:17:36.480
<v Speaker 12>start getting restless and reaching for your next drink. But

0:17:36.600 --> 0:17:39.159
<v Speaker 12>what happens with sleep is the stress hormones stay in

0:17:39.200 --> 0:17:42.960
<v Speaker 12>your body for a long time. So although we might

0:17:43.040 --> 0:17:45.840
<v Speaker 12>fall into a deep sleep, that's in our body is

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<v Speaker 12>trying to get rid of the toxins. It's not the

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<v Speaker 12>good quality R E. M sleep, so that rem sleep

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<v Speaker 12>that we get, that restorative sleep that we need to

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<v Speaker 12>feel physically and emotionally. Well, it's elusive. It's really disrupted

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<v Speaker 12>with alcohol.

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<v Speaker 2>I know I'm not alone in this. Is this how

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<v Speaker 2>much is it? How much of a culture thing is

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<v Speaker 2>this in Australia? Because I feel like you speak to

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of people and it's the way that they

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<v Speaker 2>were brought up and things like that. What do you

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<v Speaker 2>think us as a whole and maybe particular males, what's

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<v Speaker 2>the relationship with alcohol in this country?

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<v Speaker 12>Yeah, it's often very culturally connected with our identity. So

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<v Speaker 12>and that's why it's often really hard to break brief

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<v Speaker 12>from alcohol because it forms part of how we socialize,

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<v Speaker 12>how we have fun and celebrate, and how we connect

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<v Speaker 12>with our mates and particularly men. Alcohol is often very

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<v Speaker 12>much paired with having a debrief, watching sport and connecting.

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<v Speaker 12>So to take that element away, which is often our

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<v Speaker 12>social safety blanket and has been paired with so many

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<v Speaker 12>aspects of our life, can be feel really difficult. And

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<v Speaker 12>there's a great fear of being ostracized and where tribal

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<v Speaker 12>human beings need our mates, so it's often the biggest

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<v Speaker 12>barrier to giving up is losing connection with our friends.

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<v Speaker 12>But yeah, it's culturally ingrained everywhere everywhere we look really well.

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<v Speaker 4>I can highly recommend if anyone who is struggling with

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<v Speaker 4>alcohol they can jump on your website and get the

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<v Speaker 4>tools that they need to help there.

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<v Speaker 2>But thank you, seriously, there's so much to take from that,

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<v Speaker 2>and I absolutely know that there's a bunch of people

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<v Speaker 2>listening right now who are in the same category. So

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<v Speaker 2>thank you because you're making a difference.

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<v Speaker 12>Oh, thank you so much. And yes, anybody else, anybody

0:19:38.880 --> 0:19:41.639
<v Speaker 12>out there who feels their drinking too much, listen to

0:19:41.680 --> 0:19:43.760
<v Speaker 12>that voice. It's worth cutting back.

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<v Speaker 4>He's been on our screen since the late eighties.

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<v Speaker 6>In the soft draw right.

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<v Speaker 3>There an Australian comedy icon.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to my pals. Would you like me depeat it?

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<v Speaker 13>I have our roller in the.

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<v Speaker 4>You see the most importantly for it from Kas and King.

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<v Speaker 13>Well, I don't know anything about church tables.

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<v Speaker 4>What if I get it wrong and you blistering your

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<v Speaker 4>funny spearing in the garden with his show? King tickets

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<v Speaker 4>and French sticks until Sunday, Please welcome Peter Ros.

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<v Speaker 13>That's exciting that introduction.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what as well, just to peel the

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<v Speaker 2>curtain back. We're lucky that you'll hear right now because

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<v Speaker 2>about forty five seconds ago, you tried to put the

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<v Speaker 2>headphones on.

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<v Speaker 3>Knock, I missed it. What happened?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I didn't.

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<v Speaker 13>I seem to have one that was I thought it

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<v Speaker 13>was dark, yeah, and it was just folding up so

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<v Speaker 13>I couldn't actually get them on my head. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 13>I just you know, I've been in the bees a

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<v Speaker 13>long time, but headphones of my mother chink in my armor.

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<v Speaker 13>I cannot I cannot do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone's got the krypton.

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<v Speaker 4>Today, just listening back to that audio there from Kath

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<v Speaker 4>and kim Man.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, you must get hit up about it all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh it's great though, but you.

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<v Speaker 4>Were every little husband across the street, you yeah, just

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<v Speaker 4>putting your place, wake out, living.

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<v Speaker 13>Real life.

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<v Speaker 2>Life.

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<v Speaker 3>But it just trans It's transcended. Everyone didn't it that show.

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<v Speaker 13>It was amazing. Women loved it and gay people loved

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<v Speaker 13>it first, so it got a really kind of groovy

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<v Speaker 13>kind of notch in the market, and then then by

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<v Speaker 13>second series sort of caught on and it was just

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<v Speaker 13>the way women love it, So mothers show their daughters.

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<v Speaker 13>So when people come to my show, it's a real

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<v Speaker 13>mixture of people who get old folks like me, and

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<v Speaker 13>you get lots of young lots of young girls, you know,

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<v Speaker 13>eighteen to twenty five who want to come and have

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<v Speaker 13>a look of bread.

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<v Speaker 2>So he's still alive.

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<v Speaker 3>It's still alive.

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<v Speaker 13>I'll look at it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so different.

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<v Speaker 4>I've seen a couple of outtakes from that show and

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<v Speaker 4>just you guys just paying yourselves laughing. Was it like

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<v Speaker 4>that all the time, Like was it difficult to get

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<v Speaker 4>through scenes?

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<v Speaker 13>Some days the girls were batter They would laugh, they

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<v Speaker 13>would laugh NonStop for forty five minutes at themselves. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 13>like self indulgent, and the crew are going, come on,

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<v Speaker 13>this is not not that funny. We'll give you five minutes,

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<v Speaker 13>not forty five, so I think, But of it's you know,

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<v Speaker 13>when you get super tired, you get fatigued, and you

0:22:10.720 --> 0:22:13.439
<v Speaker 13>get delirious and laughing fits. They're probably the most enjoyable

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<v Speaker 13>laughing because you're gonna have because they're almost like you're

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<v Speaker 13>getting like a weird you know, natural drug as and

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<v Speaker 13>so we've got.

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<v Speaker 2>To add a few.

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<v Speaker 3>You're almost unhinged, absolutely, but so.

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<v Speaker 2>Much fun, so much We don't want to encourage people

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<v Speaker 2>to house for you. But do you do you enjoy

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<v Speaker 2>it for people? I always wondered about this for celebrities,

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<v Speaker 2>and particularly when there's something which is really iconic and

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<v Speaker 2>it's it's so iconic when people hit you up on

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<v Speaker 2>the street.

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<v Speaker 14>Do you enjoy it or do you sort of what's

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<v Speaker 14>what's the go to point? How do you get Peter

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<v Speaker 14>Rose its peak? At its peak, I would get yelled at, hey, dad,

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<v Speaker 14>route from the bus or you know car who told you?

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<v Speaker 5>Sorry?

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<v Speaker 2>Kids mean that?

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<v Speaker 9>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 13>But generally it comes with great love and warmth. It's

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<v Speaker 13>just and I just I just embrace it because you know,

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<v Speaker 13>it's really nice. Just people can come up to you

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<v Speaker 13>every day in the street and go, I love you,

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<v Speaker 13>or my mom loves you, or my grand loves you.

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<v Speaker 13>It's really beautiful. So I just will never back off it.

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<v Speaker 13>I just love it, don't I don't necessarily seek it,

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<v Speaker 13>but I just generally embrace it when it comes.

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<v Speaker 4>It's love with him to happen and the show is

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<v Speaker 4>keen at fringe. What's your first love? I mean, you're

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<v Speaker 4>a comic first and foremost.

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<v Speaker 3>Under the stand up.

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<v Speaker 13>Yeah, I never really wanted to be a comic. I

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<v Speaker 13>never thought I just I had a friend of mine

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<v Speaker 13>in Melbourne I went to school with and he used

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<v Speaker 13>to impersonate trams and busses like the noises they made.

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<v Speaker 13>He's a bit of a square, and he decided to

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<v Speaker 13>take that weird skilly had in his bedroom into a

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<v Speaker 13>comedy club in Melbourne. This is in the early eighties,

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<v Speaker 13>and he get up there and he go, oh, this

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<v Speaker 13>is the number seventy two tram crossing Gambwell junction and

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<v Speaker 13>he just got makes tram noose.

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<v Speaker 2>People go wow, it's exactly the same.

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<v Speaker 3>That's incredible.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought, well, he can do it.

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<v Speaker 13>I can do that. So I got together another guy

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<v Speaker 13>he started bus and we worked together for a couple

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<v Speaker 13>of years in the comedy clubs and then I split

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<v Speaker 13>and we worked by myself and sort of went from

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<v Speaker 13>there and then that all my crew.

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<v Speaker 2>So my ear like eighties crew.

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<v Speaker 13>This is I'm talking about Glenn Robins, the Kath and

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<v Speaker 13>Kim Girls, Rob Stitch, all the Degeneration people were all

0:24:15.320 --> 0:24:17.600
<v Speaker 13>working live at the time, and that all tipped into

0:24:17.680 --> 0:24:19.560
<v Speaker 13>radio and TV in the late eighties. So he became

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<v Speaker 13>the god, the god people, the god parents of all comedy.

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<v Speaker 3>And you were a drama teacher. That's classic. That's og,

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<v Speaker 3>mister g.

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<v Speaker 13>I never I never got to teach. I left in

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<v Speaker 13>nine and eighty seven. I thought I was going to

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<v Speaker 13>get famous. I thought this is going to be a disaster.

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<v Speaker 13>So I went back and finished my course. Up I

0:24:34.880 --> 0:24:36.879
<v Speaker 13>deferred after three years, so I went back and finished it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I never taught.

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<v Speaker 13>I went from teachers College straight into the Comedy Company,

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<v Speaker 13>which was a big TV shape Rosader.

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<v Speaker 2>We were saying, this is your first return to the circuit.

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<v Speaker 2>So eighty seven was the last time.

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<v Speaker 13>I was doing a show called the Blood Run Free,

0:24:53.880 --> 0:24:55.760
<v Speaker 13>which was an old live show which became a TV

0:24:55.840 --> 0:24:58.680
<v Speaker 13>show in the only nineties, and we were doing the

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<v Speaker 13>tour of the festivals. Then we're on with an act

0:25:01.160 --> 0:25:04.560
<v Speaker 13>called Dug Anthony All Stars a Long Time Ago and them,

0:25:04.640 --> 0:25:06.320
<v Speaker 13>and we were like the picks of the festival at

0:25:06.680 --> 0:25:09.000
<v Speaker 13>that time. So I haven't done a proper stand up

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<v Speaker 13>show in any festival ever since his until now.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's so much fun.

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<v Speaker 7>I just love it.

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<v Speaker 13>I had did a week in Perth before I came,

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<v Speaker 13>and I'm just digging it. So much because it's a

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<v Speaker 13>room full of people who've come to see me and

0:25:20.520 --> 0:25:23.400
<v Speaker 13>they are so invested and it's so much fun. Lots

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<v Speaker 13>of chat, but lots of I've got lots of materials

0:25:25.480 --> 0:25:27.600
<v Speaker 13>through the years, so I've got plenty of to call

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<v Speaker 13>in when i need it.

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously one of the OG's and one of the absolute greats,

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<v Speaker 2>but be given in this particular space, it's been so

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<v Speaker 2>long in between drinks, nerves, how did you go?

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<v Speaker 13>No, I've done a bucket load of corporate work in

0:25:38.760 --> 0:25:41.520
<v Speaker 13>the middle and so now harder than anything you can do.

0:25:41.720 --> 0:25:43.840
<v Speaker 13>And so I'm pretty I'm pretty match fit. So I'm

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<v Speaker 13>not scared of it a thing. Nothing intimidates me, and

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<v Speaker 13>I just that's sort of at the top of my game.

0:25:48.320 --> 0:25:50.680
<v Speaker 13>I'm sixty two, so I'm not a spring chicken, and

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<v Speaker 13>I've learned a few things along the way.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'd loved Adelaide.

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<v Speaker 13>I was an Adelaide doing at Chicago last year, and

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<v Speaker 13>I just had a ball when I was here, And yeah,

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<v Speaker 13>I'm really looking forward to just being in the park

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<v Speaker 13>of the thing.

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<v Speaker 3>He Rose Sawn joined us in the studio.

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<v Speaker 4>You were just saying, I fear that your daughter's into

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<v Speaker 4>radio now like your kids never liked watching you on

0:26:07.680 --> 0:26:09.679
<v Speaker 4>the telecopre on absolutely everything growing Yew.

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<v Speaker 13>I was dominating for a while two thousands, I was

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<v Speaker 13>on Like Dog and Gong. I had had a really

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<v Speaker 13>good first late ays and I came back in two thousand,

0:26:18.240 --> 0:26:19.600
<v Speaker 13>so I was on Kathy Gim which had sort of

0:26:19.640 --> 0:26:21.840
<v Speaker 13>ran every second year, and I was doing I did

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<v Speaker 13>a lot of sorry, thank God You're here. Yeah, for

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<v Speaker 13>the first four seasons it was on. I started sort

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<v Speaker 13>of pretty good at it. So I did probably fourps

0:26:30.040 --> 0:26:31.520
<v Speaker 13>in the first series and four in the second. And

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<v Speaker 13>I had a show called Can We Help?

0:26:33.200 --> 0:26:34.040
<v Speaker 2>I had I was up.

0:26:34.080 --> 0:26:35.560
<v Speaker 13>There was two of us up for these jobs. So

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<v Speaker 13>there was me and Adam Hills, and so it's Adam

0:26:38.480 --> 0:26:41.159
<v Speaker 13>Hills who was going to get Spicks and Specks, And

0:26:41.280 --> 0:26:43.560
<v Speaker 13>he got Spicks and Specks and I got can We Help?

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<v Speaker 13>On the OVC, which was sixt thirty, which no one

0:26:46.800 --> 0:26:49.119
<v Speaker 13>ever watched, but I learned, at least I learned how

0:26:49.119 --> 0:26:51.159
<v Speaker 13>to present TV a little bit. But anyway, so I

0:26:51.280 --> 0:26:53.800
<v Speaker 13>was on that and they really hated that. But nobody

0:26:53.840 --> 0:26:56.720
<v Speaker 13>couldn't give a ratsas about any of them. Come on, kids,

0:26:56.760 --> 0:26:58.760
<v Speaker 13>please come on, gather around me, gather around.

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<v Speaker 2>Around me, please please.

0:27:02.160 --> 0:27:04.159
<v Speaker 13>Anybody, it's boring.

0:27:05.280 --> 0:27:07.920
<v Speaker 2>Peter rose Thorne joins us in studio, but just in

0:27:08.040 --> 0:27:10.600
<v Speaker 2>terms of just how iconic the show was kathin Kim,

0:27:10.600 --> 0:27:13.520
<v Speaker 2>of course, do you think right now do you think

0:27:13.560 --> 0:27:16.560
<v Speaker 2>where TV's at there could be another Australian show that

0:27:16.640 --> 0:27:18.960
<v Speaker 2>comes through like that or as it sort of shifted away?

0:27:19.040 --> 0:27:21.239
<v Speaker 2>Because I feel like Kathy and Kim and a few

0:27:21.280 --> 0:27:23.960
<v Speaker 2>of these shows really sort of I mean, we grew

0:27:24.080 --> 0:27:27.119
<v Speaker 2>up with them. Yeah, they helped mold us and I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know if if there's a space for shows like

0:27:29.480 --> 0:27:31.040
<v Speaker 2>that to come through again in this market. Do you

0:27:31.080 --> 0:27:32.159
<v Speaker 2>think there is? I think there is.

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<v Speaker 13>They sit on the ABC a lot. People don't really

0:27:34.760 --> 0:27:36.560
<v Speaker 13>tune into the ABC, so it's a bit of a bummer.

0:27:36.600 --> 0:27:38.960
<v Speaker 13>But it's because of the because of the platforms, you

0:27:39.040 --> 0:27:41.199
<v Speaker 13>can go anywhere anytime and go and watch anything from

0:27:41.240 --> 0:27:43.200
<v Speaker 13>all over the world that anytime you want to watch it,

0:27:43.320 --> 0:27:45.800
<v Speaker 13>so that the whole medium shifted, so you just don't

0:27:45.840 --> 0:27:47.880
<v Speaker 13>get those things where the whole family's going to get into.

0:27:48.119 --> 0:27:50.600
<v Speaker 13>I suppose something like Australian Item might be as close

0:27:50.600 --> 0:27:52.600
<v Speaker 13>as you get down those big ten pole programs or

0:27:52.640 --> 0:27:55.920
<v Speaker 13>you know the jungle thing. You know, people go whatever,

0:27:57.119 --> 0:27:58.760
<v Speaker 13>we can all kind of watch this together. Then everyone

0:27:58.840 --> 0:28:01.200
<v Speaker 13>disperses again. Yes so, but I think most of the

0:28:01.240 --> 0:28:03.640
<v Speaker 13>time people spent their time to disperse through the house,

0:28:03.720 --> 0:28:04.800
<v Speaker 13>watching their own devices.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you reckon the closest I reckon, we've come to

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<v Speaker 4>another Cathin Kim was upper middle Bogan, Yeah, pretty close.

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<v Speaker 13>Once again Robinson evolved another beauty. Yeah, absolutely, ripper. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 13>but you know, if they take, they take. It's a

0:28:15.320 --> 0:28:16.040
<v Speaker 13>bit of a guessing game.

0:28:16.080 --> 0:28:16.400
<v Speaker 2>I reckon.

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<v Speaker 13>It's really hard. It's like something trending on, you know,

0:28:19.359 --> 0:28:21.560
<v Speaker 13>on the internet. They just come from no one.

0:28:21.600 --> 0:28:22.640
<v Speaker 3>They is TikTok.

0:28:22.680 --> 0:28:26.520
<v Speaker 4>The words you were after there was it's TikTok.

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<v Speaker 13>I'd say platforms. I just got the head over the platforms,

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<v Speaker 13>which is from the other two thousand.

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<v Speaker 3>Pete Rosewan, thank you so much for joining us in

0:28:34.600 --> 0:28:36.080
<v Speaker 3>the studio. Pleasure.

0:28:36.200 --> 0:28:37.600
<v Speaker 13>Thank you for having this a lot on. There's a

0:28:37.600 --> 0:28:39.440
<v Speaker 13>lot of people in town, so I'm very gratefully you.

0:28:39.480 --> 0:28:40.080
<v Speaker 2>Said yes to me.

0:28:40.320 --> 0:28:41.640
<v Speaker 3>The show is called Keene.

0:28:41.680 --> 0:28:44.840
<v Speaker 4>It's on its spiegel zelt out the Garden. Get along

0:28:44.920 --> 0:28:47.600
<v Speaker 4>and see one of the absolute icons of Australian TV

0:28:47.720 --> 0:28:48.840
<v Speaker 4>Pete Roswan, thank you so much.

0:28:48.920 --> 0:28:51.320
<v Speaker 2>I love your It was a big old night at

0:28:51.360 --> 0:29:00.280
<v Speaker 2>the Entertainment Center last night. Kylie was back at her

0:29:00.320 --> 0:29:02.280
<v Speaker 2>best too. By the way, I don't think it's aging.

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<v Speaker 10>No, she's not.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, she's Benjamin Button. She's going. I mean,

0:29:07.040 --> 0:29:09.840
<v Speaker 3>I mean, we're not. Let's be honest, We're not under

0:29:10.080 --> 0:29:10.920
<v Speaker 3>any illusions that.

0:29:11.080 --> 0:29:14.080
<v Speaker 4>Kylie probably has some of the best skin care products

0:29:14.160 --> 0:29:16.480
<v Speaker 4>going around to preserve her gorgeous looks.

0:29:16.960 --> 0:29:19.240
<v Speaker 2>Nivia moisturizing cream, stuff like that, isn't it. That's what

0:29:19.360 --> 0:29:27.320
<v Speaker 2>I use a grapefry. We're all purpose moisturizer to. By

0:29:27.360 --> 0:29:30.760
<v Speaker 2>the way, put it everywhere. That's what face legs everywhere.

0:29:30.840 --> 0:29:33.520
<v Speaker 4>That's what everybody six year old Kylie is using to

0:29:33.640 --> 0:29:34.640
<v Speaker 4>preserve her good looks.

0:29:34.760 --> 0:29:37.200
<v Speaker 3>Nibia all day, creat back and.

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<v Speaker 4>Then had an absolute blinder at the Entertainment Center last night.

0:29:40.560 --> 0:29:44.920
<v Speaker 4>She played for Better the Devil, you know, spinning around, can't.

0:29:44.800 --> 0:29:45.479
<v Speaker 3>Get you out of my head.

0:29:45.520 --> 0:29:46.640
<v Speaker 2>It was all there the class.

0:29:46.720 --> 0:29:48.480
<v Speaker 4>That's really cool light show. I saw a couple of

0:29:48.560 --> 0:29:50.080
<v Speaker 4>clips on Instagram as well.

0:29:50.280 --> 0:29:52.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, this is the big test as well. When someone

0:29:52.280 --> 0:29:54.440
<v Speaker 2>sort of records it on their phone or something. If

0:29:54.480 --> 0:29:57.000
<v Speaker 2>you still sound good there, yea, then it means she

0:29:57.160 --> 0:29:58.800
<v Speaker 2>sounds absolutely epic in the flesh.

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<v Speaker 4>That's so.

0:30:15.960 --> 0:30:17.920
<v Speaker 2>Even from that, I reckon, you can tell that life

0:30:17.960 --> 0:30:19.840
<v Speaker 2>she would have sounded absolutely excellent, perfect.

0:30:20.040 --> 0:30:24.000
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, forty year career, it's ridiculous. Do you remember

0:30:24.080 --> 0:30:24.840
<v Speaker 3>Carli and Neighbors?

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<v Speaker 11>No?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't. But what I can say is I've seen visions.

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<v Speaker 3>She looks very different now, yes, yes, of course she does.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm not talking about I feel like even a

0:30:35.280 --> 0:30:37.080
<v Speaker 2>few years ago, maybe ten twenty years ago, I look

0:30:37.160 --> 0:30:40.040
<v Speaker 2>very very different. Did you know he's a fun fact

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<v Speaker 2>for to produce a flag? And you told me this,

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<v Speaker 2>I did.

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<v Speaker 4>What about you throwing back a fact that he's given

0:30:46.400 --> 0:30:48.040
<v Speaker 4>you back in his face?

0:30:48.120 --> 0:30:48.400
<v Speaker 3>Right now?

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<v Speaker 13>Go on there, Well, it's probably gonna work because I've

0:30:50.120 --> 0:30:50.800
<v Speaker 13>forgotten what I've told you.

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<v Speaker 2>No, No, it's okay. I'm going to hold it actually

0:30:53.080 --> 0:30:55.720
<v Speaker 2>because I reckon, Yeah, the fact that what you told

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<v Speaker 2>me it's the first question for the six fifteen venue

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<v Speaker 2>machine and Quizzy this morning.

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<v Speaker 13>This morning we were chatting in the office. I said

0:31:04.280 --> 0:31:06.959
<v Speaker 13>to you, has this for the first question of vending machine?

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't say it's a fun fact, right, okay, so, Jose,

0:31:10.240 --> 0:31:12.200
<v Speaker 2>he's what you're going to do? You drop this particular

0:31:12.280 --> 0:31:15.239
<v Speaker 2>question next. Okay, okay, I'll played the six fifteen vend

0:31:15.280 --> 0:31:17.360
<v Speaker 2>machine quiz. It is kighly related.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you want me to sell the factors my own?

0:31:20.040 --> 0:31:21.920
<v Speaker 2>Yes? Please? Okay, here's one I've come up with a

0:31:21.960 --> 0:31:23.800
<v Speaker 2>little bit earlier morning.

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<v Speaker 12>The following segment is the mature audiences only and may

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<v Speaker 12>contain how all content, graphic language and nudity, not that

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<v Speaker 12>you'll see it if easily offended.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you're about to find out.

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<v Speaker 13>Just how easily your father.

0:31:35.440 --> 0:31:41.600
<v Speaker 4>He's only money Jody and hazes six nothing. So every

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<v Speaker 4>now and then we flag an idea in our meeting

0:31:44.200 --> 0:31:46.360
<v Speaker 4>about something we'd like to talk about at Naughty at

0:31:46.400 --> 0:31:49.760
<v Speaker 4>six forty and the top line was the most googled

0:31:50.440 --> 0:31:53.120
<v Speaker 4>word relating to sex in America.

0:31:53.240 --> 0:31:55.440
<v Speaker 3>And I deliberately haven't read the article because I want

0:31:55.480 --> 0:31:56.200
<v Speaker 3>you to break it to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, here we go. Google could be such a useful tool.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the best thing about Google when it comes

0:32:02.080 --> 0:32:05.240
<v Speaker 2>to education and for youngsters or maybe people who are

0:32:05.280 --> 0:32:09.400
<v Speaker 2>mature aged, is that you do it privately. Yes, there's

0:32:09.440 --> 0:32:10.120
<v Speaker 2>no embarrassment.

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<v Speaker 5>No.

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<v Speaker 2>The problem with Google though, is that You're like, what's

0:32:13.640 --> 0:32:16.960
<v Speaker 2>this little marquee? And Google's like, oh you're in trouble.

0:32:17.240 --> 0:32:21.120
<v Speaker 2>Oh you'll be dead soon. You should never google anything

0:32:21.200 --> 0:32:24.440
<v Speaker 2>health related because it will tell you the worst possible outcomes.

0:32:24.520 --> 0:32:25.560
<v Speaker 3>He's got to do with sex?

0:32:25.920 --> 0:32:27.880
<v Speaker 2>Well, you'd be surprised, dude.

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<v Speaker 13>I'm just twelve.

0:32:30.000 --> 0:32:35.560
<v Speaker 2>I talking openly about Google. Okay. The most googled sex

0:32:35.720 --> 0:32:39.160
<v Speaker 2>questions in America? Yes, I got three for you. Okay, okay,

0:32:39.400 --> 0:32:44.920
<v Speaker 2>here's one, how to last longer during sex. I hear

0:32:44.960 --> 0:32:49.080
<v Speaker 2>that brothers and sisters. I hear that pretty reasonable question.

0:32:49.160 --> 0:32:51.040
<v Speaker 2>And that's one of those questions where you should definitely

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<v Speaker 2>do it privately.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know what anyways, I don't want to answer

0:32:54.240 --> 0:32:56.200
<v Speaker 4>on behalf of Google. But isn't it kind of out

0:32:56.240 --> 0:32:59.600
<v Speaker 4>of your control? It's a physiological reaction, isn't it If

0:32:59.600 --> 0:33:01.040
<v Speaker 4>you get to excited? What could you do?

0:33:01.280 --> 0:33:04.360
<v Speaker 2>I've been told that there are methods that you can

0:33:04.440 --> 0:33:08.000
<v Speaker 2>employ to make such events go a little bit longer. Okay,

0:33:08.080 --> 0:33:18.360
<v Speaker 2>produce a flat can confirm what are they? Here's another one,

0:33:18.640 --> 0:33:19.120
<v Speaker 2>very broad?

0:33:19.400 --> 0:33:23.480
<v Speaker 13>What is sexy?

0:33:23.480 --> 0:33:25.400
<v Speaker 2>Guys have heard about this crazy and you think called sex?

0:33:25.840 --> 0:33:28.680
<v Speaker 2>Anyone doing it or having it, Yeah, who knows. I

0:33:28.720 --> 0:33:30.040
<v Speaker 2>feel like Google's got some stuff.

0:33:30.040 --> 0:33:32.840
<v Speaker 3>I feel like it keeps the human race sustainable and alive.

0:33:34.080 --> 0:33:35.320
<v Speaker 13>What is this sex thing that.

0:33:35.360 --> 0:33:35.840
<v Speaker 3>You speak of?

0:33:36.120 --> 0:33:39.200
<v Speaker 2>And the most googled question in America when it comes

0:33:39.240 --> 0:33:42.440
<v Speaker 2>to sex is very very broad, and that is how

0:33:42.560 --> 0:33:47.760
<v Speaker 2>to have sex? The mechanics can be tricky, am I right?

0:33:48.760 --> 0:33:50.560
<v Speaker 13>Mechanics of it all?

0:33:50.880 --> 0:33:53.400
<v Speaker 2>Like you know this, that, where, etcetera.

0:33:54.200 --> 0:33:56.240
<v Speaker 4>I'm going to regret asking this question as I quite

0:33:56.320 --> 0:33:58.240
<v Speaker 4>up and do at six forty each and every morning.

0:33:59.120 --> 0:34:01.840
<v Speaker 3>How did you about sex on the farm? Did you

0:34:01.960 --> 0:34:02.680
<v Speaker 3>just go out in the back?

0:34:05.200 --> 0:34:06.280
<v Speaker 5>What do you hang on?

0:34:06.360 --> 0:34:06.840
<v Speaker 7>What do you mean?

0:34:07.720 --> 0:34:11.560
<v Speaker 2>What are you talking about? And also, this is someone,

0:34:11.680 --> 0:34:14.239
<v Speaker 2>this is this is someone throwing outrageous questions like that

0:34:14.680 --> 0:34:21.200
<v Speaker 2>who grew up in Tasmania? At least one was with

0:34:21.280 --> 0:34:22.279
<v Speaker 2>an animal? Not my uncle?

0:34:24.960 --> 0:34:27.000
<v Speaker 1>Coming up with name?

0:34:29.280 --> 0:34:33.840
<v Speaker 2>Can confirm both of those stories completely? Pop completely posps?

0:34:33.920 --> 0:34:34.520
<v Speaker 2>Can we confirm?

0:34:34.680 --> 0:34:35.800
<v Speaker 3>Yes, we can confirm.

0:34:37.560 --> 0:34:40.120
<v Speaker 2>All right, it's very good stuff. Twins down as well.

0:34:40.520 --> 0:34:43.920
<v Speaker 2>My top questions on Google? Does car closed her eyes

0:34:44.000 --> 0:34:52.040
<v Speaker 2>during sex? And whitest car always have a headache? Anyway?

0:34:53.200 --> 0:34:55.640
<v Speaker 2>Novas tell your bills just around the corner? Do you

0:34:55.760 --> 0:34:57.520
<v Speaker 2>have a bill that needs to be paid, reasured by

0:34:57.560 --> 0:34:59.200
<v Speaker 2>the novaplay and hopefully we'll pay it.

0:34:59.280 --> 0:35:01.680
<v Speaker 4>In a matter of mine is white as every time

0:35:01.760 --> 0:35:03.920
<v Speaker 4>I bend over the dishwasher my husband.

0:35:03.719 --> 0:35:04.560
<v Speaker 3>Tries to have sex with me.

0:35:06.160 --> 0:35:08.480
<v Speaker 2>Why, in this culture and that is Australia, do we

0:35:08.520 --> 0:35:11.200
<v Speaker 2>feel the need and do we get entertained by really

0:35:11.400 --> 0:35:13.799
<v Speaker 2>really stitching up our friends and colleagues to the point

0:35:13.840 --> 0:35:17.239
<v Speaker 2>where they look like absolute idiots. Why does that make

0:35:17.320 --> 0:35:19.719
<v Speaker 2>us feel so good? Why does it really tickle me

0:35:19.800 --> 0:35:20.839
<v Speaker 2>in a really nice spot?

0:35:20.960 --> 0:35:23.200
<v Speaker 4>Well, because we like to connect with each other and

0:35:23.320 --> 0:35:26.759
<v Speaker 4>that's our Australian way of connection. I'm going to aggressively

0:35:26.800 --> 0:35:28.160
<v Speaker 4>take a piece out of you and make you look

0:35:28.239 --> 0:35:29.759
<v Speaker 4>stupid and then you'll like me.

0:35:29.920 --> 0:35:33.560
<v Speaker 2>It's Daria. So we've got a new producer, producer Molly.

0:35:33.560 --> 0:35:36.400
<v Speaker 2>He's doing a fantastic job. It's a big day for

0:35:36.520 --> 0:35:39.120
<v Speaker 2>Nova Adelaide today because the two bosses in town, Yeah,

0:35:39.160 --> 0:35:41.920
<v Speaker 2>the two Pizza two Pizza, Peter Charlton and Petter Colossoma.

0:35:41.960 --> 0:35:43.919
<v Speaker 2>They've got a road show thing where they go around

0:35:43.920 --> 0:35:45.440
<v Speaker 2>to different markets and just present and.

0:35:45.480 --> 0:35:47.360
<v Speaker 4>They say, this is how Nova's going to dominate the

0:35:47.440 --> 0:35:50.440
<v Speaker 4>market in twenty twenty five, and then we go have

0:35:50.520 --> 0:35:51.120
<v Speaker 4>you heard our.

0:35:51.040 --> 0:35:57.480
<v Speaker 2>Show that's a close door conversation. Yes, so this will

0:35:57.520 --> 0:35:59.279
<v Speaker 2>be and no doubt Molly gets a chance to meet

0:35:59.280 --> 0:36:02.319
<v Speaker 2>the pizza and big moment, first impressions, all those types

0:36:02.320 --> 0:36:02.600
<v Speaker 2>of things.

0:36:02.719 --> 0:36:04.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Molly's need to the company.

0:36:04.160 --> 0:36:06.120
<v Speaker 2>So we almost had you, Molly, We almost had you

0:36:08.239 --> 0:36:10.560
<v Speaker 2>through a bit of a checklist of what you need

0:36:10.640 --> 0:36:12.480
<v Speaker 2>to do when you meet the Petz for the first time,

0:36:12.520 --> 0:36:14.600
<v Speaker 2>and that is, if you see them in a group

0:36:14.640 --> 0:36:16.920
<v Speaker 2>of two, they are to be referred to as the Pistols.

0:36:22.040 --> 0:36:25.560
<v Speaker 2>And also when you meet them individually, because every Petez

0:36:25.640 --> 0:36:28.480
<v Speaker 2>nickname is pistol. Then after your first interaction you need.

0:36:28.480 --> 0:36:28.680
<v Speaker 11>To go.

0:36:32.680 --> 0:36:35.239
<v Speaker 2>To which Molly thought that was very unusual, but let's

0:36:35.320 --> 0:36:37.200
<v Speaker 2>just go with it because that's what the Pistols want.

0:36:37.480 --> 0:36:39.000
<v Speaker 4>And then coming up on Monday, we'll have a new

0:36:39.040 --> 0:36:41.000
<v Speaker 4>segment called how Molly Got fired.

0:36:42.480 --> 0:36:45.200
<v Speaker 2>A record set a record with the shortest stint as

0:36:45.239 --> 0:36:49.759
<v Speaker 2>a producer. Oh I'm mad here, guys. But then we

0:36:49.840 --> 0:36:53.120
<v Speaker 2>started talking about it as well, and Molly, to your

0:36:53.320 --> 0:36:56.880
<v Speaker 2>beautiful boyfriend, you really stitched them up the worst way possible.

0:36:57.040 --> 0:36:58.919
<v Speaker 11>Well, I first thing to say, it was an expot friend,

0:36:59.160 --> 0:36:59.680
<v Speaker 11>ex boyfriend.

0:36:59.719 --> 0:37:10.719
<v Speaker 2>Sorry, this is going well.

0:37:11.160 --> 0:37:15.320
<v Speaker 3>It was your ex boyfriend who didn't speak well. English

0:37:15.440 --> 0:37:16.600
<v Speaker 3>was his second language.

0:37:16.280 --> 0:37:19.440
<v Speaker 11>But yeah, not a lot of English, which is fine,

0:37:19.719 --> 0:37:22.360
<v Speaker 11>but obviously very easy to stitch him up. He was

0:37:22.440 --> 0:37:25.440
<v Speaker 11>German Brazilian and if you know many Germans, they're very

0:37:26.280 --> 0:37:29.160
<v Speaker 11>to the point, they're very structured, very serious. So I

0:37:29.360 --> 0:37:32.239
<v Speaker 11>told him before he met my parents that it was

0:37:32.480 --> 0:37:37.520
<v Speaker 11>customary to kiss my dad on the lips when you

0:37:37.640 --> 0:37:37.960
<v Speaker 11>meet him.

0:37:40.160 --> 0:37:43.400
<v Speaker 2>So this is where it's in Australia. We go, that's hilarious,

0:37:43.640 --> 0:37:46.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm sure in other cultures, like why would you put

0:37:46.520 --> 0:37:48.280
<v Speaker 2>your partner under such stress?

0:37:48.600 --> 0:37:50.399
<v Speaker 3>And he was like okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay.

0:37:50.480 --> 0:37:52.879
<v Speaker 11>So when I first meet him, this is a really

0:37:52.920 --> 0:37:54.759
<v Speaker 11>bad accent, but on.

0:37:54.920 --> 0:37:56.919
<v Speaker 3>The lips I kiss him on Yeah.

0:37:56.960 --> 0:37:59.080
<v Speaker 11>I'm like, you've got to be confident, you've got to

0:37:59.120 --> 0:38:03.040
<v Speaker 11>go straight in. If he senses hesitation, yeah, like it's not.

0:38:03.080 --> 0:38:04.000
<v Speaker 3>Going to be a good impression.

0:38:04.080 --> 0:38:07.480
<v Speaker 11>Keeping in mind my dad hates any sort of touching,

0:38:08.000 --> 0:38:09.080
<v Speaker 11>not an affectionate man.

0:38:09.360 --> 0:38:12.640
<v Speaker 3>So it's just and so did he go from He

0:38:12.760 --> 0:38:13.160
<v Speaker 3>went to.

0:38:13.200 --> 0:38:14.799
<v Speaker 11>Do it, and I was like, well, I better stop

0:38:14.880 --> 0:38:16.680
<v Speaker 11>this before Yeah, I don't know.

0:38:17.960 --> 0:38:22.200
<v Speaker 2>Because you know, you know that awkward moment Dad and

0:38:22.360 --> 0:38:23.120
<v Speaker 2>start kissing.

0:38:23.680 --> 0:38:27.800
<v Speaker 4>Well, this is like a really weird, weird synergy in

0:38:27.880 --> 0:38:31.600
<v Speaker 4>this situation because both the petes love being kissed.

0:38:33.800 --> 0:38:38.560
<v Speaker 6>All back to school, back to a school to approve

0:38:38.760 --> 0:38:42.719
<v Speaker 6>to dad, Dad, I'm not a kids back And it's

0:38:42.760 --> 0:38:46.520
<v Speaker 6>great because education is very very important and Mum and

0:38:46.640 --> 0:38:48.279
<v Speaker 6>Dad get a bit more me time.

0:38:48.440 --> 0:38:50.919
<v Speaker 2>Like that's just a side positive thing, I guess, yeah.

0:38:51.160 --> 0:38:52.960
<v Speaker 4>But kids have been trying to get out of going

0:38:53.000 --> 0:38:56.239
<v Speaker 4>to school since the dawn of time. Like we'll take

0:38:56.239 --> 0:38:58.600
<v Speaker 4>a little trip down memory lane in just a moment

0:38:58.680 --> 0:39:01.239
<v Speaker 4>about how you may bee perhaps tried to get out

0:39:01.280 --> 0:39:03.840
<v Speaker 4>of going to Beckham Primary School, although you couldn't have

0:39:03.880 --> 0:39:05.200
<v Speaker 4>because you were the only person in.

0:39:05.200 --> 0:39:06.400
<v Speaker 3>Your ear noticed.

0:39:07.080 --> 0:39:11.080
<v Speaker 2>They certainly noticed. Have to call off school year missing

0:39:12.200 --> 0:39:14.840
<v Speaker 2>two years almost, I'm a believable sayings the school captain

0:39:14.840 --> 0:39:16.600
<v Speaker 2>two years and I wasn't there. Who was going to

0:39:16.680 --> 0:39:20.840
<v Speaker 2>lead the rest of the seven or eight kids across

0:39:20.880 --> 0:39:21.920
<v Speaker 2>the school any who?

0:39:22.320 --> 0:39:25.680
<v Speaker 4>So my kids this week have gotten very much wind

0:39:25.719 --> 0:39:29.160
<v Speaker 4>of the fact that dad's away. Dad is on a

0:39:29.239 --> 0:39:33.440
<v Speaker 4>conference in Sydney. I put that in inverted commerce. Inverted commerce,

0:39:33.440 --> 0:39:35.480
<v Speaker 4>because God knows what he's up to any who.

0:39:36.560 --> 0:39:38.200
<v Speaker 2>Well, it's probably a bit more to digest from that

0:39:38.239 --> 0:39:38.560
<v Speaker 2>as well.

0:39:41.040 --> 0:39:44.200
<v Speaker 4>Any who, he alleges it's for work. So the girls

0:39:44.239 --> 0:39:49.400
<v Speaker 4>have gone all right, we smell an opportunity. Mum is

0:39:49.520 --> 0:39:50.760
<v Speaker 4>quite soft in this space.

0:39:50.880 --> 0:39:55.040
<v Speaker 2>He's very vulnerable. Yeah, so what they've hited is a pushover.

0:39:55.400 --> 0:39:57.920
<v Speaker 4>What they've hit me up with last night when they

0:39:58.040 --> 0:40:01.840
<v Speaker 4>got home was mup, I think tomorrow would be a

0:40:01.920 --> 0:40:03.360
<v Speaker 4>good day for Summer and.

0:40:03.440 --> 0:40:04.799
<v Speaker 3>I to have the day off.

0:40:05.480 --> 0:40:07.040
<v Speaker 2>Okay, are they sick and.

0:40:08.840 --> 0:40:09.560
<v Speaker 3>Just a rest day?

0:40:10.400 --> 0:40:14.840
<v Speaker 4>Really just a let's regroup, because after all, we're seventeen

0:40:14.960 --> 0:40:15.600
<v Speaker 4>days into the.

0:40:15.600 --> 0:40:17.680
<v Speaker 2>School years and recharge.

0:40:18.760 --> 0:40:19.319
<v Speaker 3>It's a lot.

0:40:20.320 --> 0:40:22.919
<v Speaker 4>One of them is trying out for the gymnastics team.

0:40:23.000 --> 0:40:26.720
<v Speaker 4>This is Peyton, so this was her theory on having

0:40:26.760 --> 0:40:29.200
<v Speaker 4>today off school. So this I dropped them off at

0:40:29.200 --> 0:40:31.600
<v Speaker 4>Grandma's last night, obviously, because I'm not there in the morning,

0:40:31.680 --> 0:40:35.600
<v Speaker 4>so Grandma's in charge of them. Mum, please reconsider us

0:40:35.680 --> 0:40:39.800
<v Speaker 4>staying home tomorrow because my legs are so sore and

0:40:39.960 --> 0:40:43.960
<v Speaker 4>I really want them to rest for the day before

0:40:44.080 --> 0:40:47.880
<v Speaker 4>tryouts and athletics carnival. And I won't annoy you because

0:40:48.239 --> 0:40:52.000
<v Speaker 4>we'll just be home relaxing and we'll just be at home.

0:40:53.680 --> 0:40:55.960
<v Speaker 2>Double down, and we'll just be at home. It's a

0:40:56.080 --> 0:40:56.919
<v Speaker 2>very important point.

0:40:57.480 --> 0:40:58.480
<v Speaker 3>I did mention to her.

0:40:58.760 --> 0:41:00.520
<v Speaker 4>Tomorrow is a big day for mummy work because all

0:41:00.560 --> 0:41:02.239
<v Speaker 4>the big bosses are in town, so I don't have

0:41:02.320 --> 0:41:06.000
<v Speaker 4>the headspace to have you two just sitting around the house.

0:41:06.520 --> 0:41:07.600
<v Speaker 2>But what about the schoolwork.

0:41:08.160 --> 0:41:11.000
<v Speaker 4>Oh, they'll be doing that right, No, no, no, don't

0:41:11.000 --> 0:41:13.000
<v Speaker 4>get this whole situation wrong. Of course they'll be doing

0:41:13.040 --> 0:41:16.320
<v Speaker 4>schoolwork all day. They won't be watching YouTube.

0:41:16.600 --> 0:41:18.320
<v Speaker 2>So there you go. So what you are saying is

0:41:18.360 --> 0:41:22.720
<v Speaker 2>that they are absolute trailblazers and they are pioneers, because congratulations, girls,

0:41:22.840 --> 0:41:29.399
<v Speaker 2>you've just invented school from home. School from home. It's

0:41:29.440 --> 0:41:31.719
<v Speaker 2>a different generation, isn't it. I mean you've got work

0:41:31.760 --> 0:41:33.560
<v Speaker 2>from home and now you've got school from home.

0:41:33.800 --> 0:41:34.600
<v Speaker 3>S FH.

0:41:34.760 --> 0:41:36.239
<v Speaker 2>Do you think this could work?

0:41:36.520 --> 0:41:38.560
<v Speaker 4>I don't know if it'll take off with the principal.

0:41:39.280 --> 0:41:41.520
<v Speaker 4>I'm not sure that they'll be able to sell it anyway.

0:41:41.600 --> 0:41:43.960
<v Speaker 4>Neglass to say they've gone to school.

0:41:44.040 --> 0:41:47.680
<v Speaker 2>The girls are going absolutely nowhere. Yeah, that's nice. It's

0:41:47.680 --> 0:41:49.800
<v Speaker 2>a nice little idea. It's sort of it's in the

0:41:49.880 --> 0:41:52.520
<v Speaker 2>same bracket as my four year old daughter's idea of

0:41:53.160 --> 0:41:56.799
<v Speaker 2>pre and post dessert with every meal. Yeah, so that's

0:41:56.840 --> 0:41:59.719
<v Speaker 2>six desserts, six every day.

0:42:00.800 --> 0:42:03.600
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we're just out of curiosity. What's she having for dessert?

0:42:03.760 --> 0:42:06.400
<v Speaker 2>It's ice cream, ice cream, was some sort of chocolate sweet.

0:42:06.600 --> 0:42:07.560
<v Speaker 3>We're talking for breakfast.

0:42:07.920 --> 0:42:10.160
<v Speaker 2>Breakfast, absolutely, that's what I'm talking about. So she wakes

0:42:10.239 --> 0:42:12.359
<v Speaker 2>up at five in the morning. The first thing. She's

0:42:12.360 --> 0:42:14.680
<v Speaker 2>an absolute little sugar junkie. And that is one. Is

0:42:14.719 --> 0:42:17.120
<v Speaker 2>there some way that I can sort of have I

0:42:17.160 --> 0:42:19.080
<v Speaker 2>don't know, maybe of ice cream just to get me

0:42:19.160 --> 0:42:19.920
<v Speaker 2>into my porridge?

0:42:20.120 --> 0:42:20.359
<v Speaker 9>Yeah?

0:42:20.480 --> 0:42:24.440
<v Speaker 2>But then also, and I blame advertising, apparently a stable

0:42:24.520 --> 0:42:26.320
<v Speaker 2>meal and a great way to finish the evening is

0:42:26.400 --> 0:42:27.719
<v Speaker 2>a heap of nutella on toast.

0:42:28.840 --> 0:42:31.359
<v Speaker 3>It's chocolate spread, it's hazel nuts.

0:42:31.520 --> 0:42:34.799
<v Speaker 2>My gosh, I'd still rather the girls are schooling from home,

0:42:34.840 --> 0:42:35.279
<v Speaker 2>to be honest.

0:42:35.480 --> 0:42:35.680
<v Speaker 5>Yeah,