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Speaker 1: Is it fits in with podcast?

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Speaker 2: Special podcast for you tonight guys, Special podcast for you today, guys.

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Speaker 3: What I if I'll listened to it tonight?

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Speaker 4: Did you just run four words together?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Tonight or today?

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Speaker 3: You can. This is the best thing about a podcast.

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Speaker 3: You can listen to it anytime you could.

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Speaker 4: You listen to it at Sunset one about it Sunrise

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Speaker 4: Sunrise Podcast.

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Speaker 3: I've I'm going to come back in a couple of

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Speaker 3: years and listen to this podcast. Is this the Bunnings one? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: This is my favorite Bunnings one?

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Speaker 3: Great.

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Speaker 2: I want to know if you found love at Bunnings One.

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Speaker 2: Lady thinks it is the best place to find a man.

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Speaker 2: You walk in there, you see a guy who looks

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Speaker 2: like you can handle himself around the tools, and the

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Speaker 2: next thing you know, you're back in the bedroom for

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Speaker 2: about how's it going.

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Speaker 6: Well, Tom? You got caught stealing room Bunnings.

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Speaker 1: Down pots?

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Speaker 7: Well?

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Speaker 2: Thankfully?

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Speaker 6: Where did I hided?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 6: Coming up next, I shall, I will show.

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Speaker 2: My bum I shall.

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Speaker 6: And he was a good idea.

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Speaker 3: It was very interesting the way that you were walking

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Speaker 6: I think that's what gave it away.

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Speaker 3: Tom.

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Speaker 2: Do you slip?

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Speaker 3: I had a pep in my step and a no,

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Speaker 2: Great news for you being married. I don't think a

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Speaker 2: single woman has ever walked into Bunnings, looked at you

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Speaker 1: Because you know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: You'll hear it on the podcast, But I don't agree

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Speaker 1: Finding love at Manning so true?

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Speaker 2: Tom Toms.

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Speaker 3: The day that you were there, Alan Jones was there

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Speaker 3: and he was asked, don't give us one word?

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Speaker 6: How do you feel about it?

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Speaker 2: Alann Weird David enjoyed the podcast.

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Speaker 8: Everyone This is the Fits and Whipper with Cape Ritchie podcast.

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Speaker 3: The lowest paid was he could soon have a little

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Speaker 3: bit more cash in their wallets. The federal government is

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Speaker 3: looking to boost the minimum wage to fight the ongoing

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Speaker 3: cost of living crossis, which is great. I like this

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Speaker 3: because at the moment we're at twenty three dollars twenty

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Speaker 3: three per hour. That's minimum wage. That ain't twenty fourteen.

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Speaker 3: What was the most minimum of wage that you received

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Speaker 2: I think the heartbreaking thing with how expensive today is

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Speaker 2: fits is when you say twenty three dollars minimum wage

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Speaker 2: and then they go, we will be increasing the minimum

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Speaker 3: Well it's twenty yeah. Well it's an increase, isn't it.

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Speaker 3: It hasn't been done. Well, you know what labor increased

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Speaker 3: at last year, July to twenty twenty three. But before

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what did they get last So.

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Speaker 3: They got a five point seventy five percent raise in

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Speaker 3: But it needs to go up, obviously, because if you're

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Speaker 2: I remember my first job in radio, which was a

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Speaker 2: full time job. I was getting twenty four thousand a year.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what that breaks down on alli rade,

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Speaker 3: four thousand dollars a week you got from your old man.

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Speaker 2: No, well that was the thing. I mean, I was

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Speaker 2: doubling a very quickly idiot, But no, twenty four thousand

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Speaker 2: the minimum wage mail that you were on? Firstly, what

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Speaker 2: Now you were a carney mail yep, yeah.

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Speaker 9: Sure we'll call it conny. Yeah, and I got about

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Speaker 9: eleven eleven dollars an hour, which I thought was pretty good.

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Speaker 3: Well, this is the thing when you are young that

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Speaker 3: You come home, you got a couple of hundred bucks

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Speaker 3: Andrew and Cronulla. Well what was the most minimum of

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Speaker 7: More than good Andrew five dollars and forty eight?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, sure, five dollars for and five Well can you

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Speaker 3: like you would have been stoked at that age. But

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Speaker 3: Would have been massive back there, remember just snagging five

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Speaker 2: I used to go down to the chemist on a

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Speaker 2: Five dollars I got from a nine till mid day

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Speaker 2: or job smashing boxes.

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Speaker 3: That was odd. Wow, what that must have been one

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Speaker 2: I think it fixing ex carage on Hello, Vick, there

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Speaker 2: you go. What was your minimum wage back Lenvick?

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Speaker 10: On the railways as a sub contractor at the saint time.

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Speaker 3: Vic, that would have been hard work as a penal

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Speaker 3: Can you remember what your your your best weekly pay was.

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Speaker 3: the week, Vic, I can.

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Speaker 7: Tell you is.

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Speaker 10: Not even one hundred dollars the week. But i'd more

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Speaker 2: Panel Bat, We'll get it.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, all right, I did that seven days of the week.

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Speaker 6: But did you know what's seven days a week? Do

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Speaker 6: you do you regret it?

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Speaker 1: Vic?

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Speaker 3: Do you look back and go I wish I went

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Speaker 10: No, don't regredit because I'm there.

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Speaker 2: You good on your vict what a great story, got

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Speaker 2: a great Aussie story? Work hard, reward so well?

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Speaker 3: I don't know seven days a week? I mean it's

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Speaker 3: that's you don't get any time to yourself, Paul Va.

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Speaker 3: But he was young at the time.

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Speaker 11: They're fitsy and with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: This is good because a woman has come out and

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Speaker 2: she's finally said that she knows the number one place

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Speaker 2: to find love if you're a single woman. Have a

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Speaker 2: listen to this, kat Richie.

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Speaker 3: If you're single and you're looking for a nice partner,

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Speaker 2: I literally just went in there to get some storage boxes.

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Speaker 3: So early in the morning, and it was just a

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Speaker 2: They're doing something handy today.

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Speaker 4: They're on the tools on a Sunday morning, or they're

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Speaker 4: getting some things for the house. If you're not from Australia,

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Speaker 4: oh no, but hello.

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Speaker 2: What I like about that is I think you can

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Speaker 4: It's not if you don't know, But that's okay because

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Speaker 4: single mothers need love to.

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Speaker 2: Of course they do, and they deserve to be loved.

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Speaker 3: And this is the thing with Bunnings. You go there

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Speaker 1: And they could end up end up costing your more money.

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Speaker 1: You asked me. You go for a sausage sandwich.

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Speaker 6: Just the warranty, your most.

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Speaker 2: You've got a return policy. I know this is a

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Speaker 2: hail Mary because we've done it before, and we've had

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Speaker 2: stories of people that have found love in supermarkets. Have

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Speaker 2: you found love in Bunnings? I mean, I am personally

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Speaker 2: in love with Bunnings, but I've never found love in Bunnings.

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Speaker 2: But if you ever bumped into somebody you've met them

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Speaker 4: Having someone shake your tin for the parentage?

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Speaker 6: Can I can? I?

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Speaker 3: Can I add one extra layer to that go on

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Speaker 3: solicit that you just gave? Then sure? Have you ever

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Speaker 3: hooked up with someone who's worked at Bunnings, Because you

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Speaker 3: know those people, they have a photogenic memory. They know

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Speaker 2: Extraordinary?

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Speaker 3: Where where the cable for the whippers snippers are? How

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Speaker 3: do you know that it's in our thirty five there's

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Speaker 6: How did you know that?

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Speaker 7: I know?

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Speaker 4: And if you can, if you can transfer that kind

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Speaker 4: of skill when you work at Bunnings and you know

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Speaker 4: where everything in that story is how to find it?

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Speaker 6: And what do you mean a spatula at home?

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Speaker 1: No, I'm just thinking of everything. Maybe in life they can.

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Speaker 4: Transmit that set of skill, want to pitch their lot

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Speaker 11: Shut upkay didc He doesn't get it and.

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Speaker 1: You're over explaining that.

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Speaker 2: I get it, but you don't want to take your

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Speaker 2: work home code. But maybe it's your passion, So that

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Speaker 2: is maybe where it plays out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Can I also quickly say, though, is it love? Is

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Speaker 4: in SuDS, Like is that person really the best person

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Speaker 1: Do you have another boy?

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Speaker 3: So you've got a family, is that correct?

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Speaker 5: You haven't thirty children in a village having Jim Barron bay.

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Speaker 11: No, he would never do that, right And Timothy Timothy

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Speaker 3: We love Loo so much on this show. She's coming

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Speaker 3: tomorrow night, Lauren, She's coming to morrow.

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Speaker 11: It is weird. But that's what I remember saying, like,

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Speaker 11: No, the weirdest thing is that you can't call them

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Speaker 5: And then we get to the commitment ceremony on the

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Speaker 5: Sunday and the experts ask off and how do you

452
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Speaker 5: look at like John mel and Alessandra in the face

453
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Speaker 5: and light at them?

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Speaker 11: You just can't. So I've got word for I was like,

455
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Speaker 11: And so then that was it.

456
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Speaker 5: And then they never really asked us about it again,

457
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Speaker 5: because if you're honest, that's that's it. Yeah, and Dad

458
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Speaker 5: saying when I said that comment at the dinner party

459
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Speaker 5: to John, I was like, Jack's not going to suck your.

460
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Speaker 11: At the end of the night. I know. I poll

461
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Speaker 11: my mom and my Mom was like, you know you're

462
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Speaker 11: handling yourself, rob anything you want to study door. He

463
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Speaker 11: goes no, and I was like, yeah, doesn't want to

464
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Speaker 11: It doesn't.

465
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Speaker 5: It was an analogy because there was none of that

466
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Speaker 5: going on by that stage.

467
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Speaker 3: Trust me, you're going to be at the dinner party

468
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Speaker 3: tomorrow bringing the dads, bring Wow. No, you will be there.

469
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Speaker 3: There will be some hard hitting questions. Ben's or he's

470
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Speaker 3: written a song for you as well, Lauren. He'll be

471
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Speaker 3: performing on the guitar. No, he's not coming. He's shut

472
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Speaker 3: off as well. We couldn't get Ben. We couldn't get Jack.

473
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Speaker 11: Didn't want to get Ben.

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Speaker 5: He was on his own press too. Are you talking

475
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Speaker 5: to anyone that would talk to him? He's calling up everyone.

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Speaker 2: Lauren, thank you for coming and we'll see you tomorrow.

477
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Speaker 11: Night The Fit and with with Kate, WHICHI podcast.

478
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Speaker 2: If I could take you back to Saturday night, guys

479
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Speaker 2: went along to the s c J. A couple of

480
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Speaker 2: tins with a good old mate by the name of

481
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Speaker 2: Cameron Daddo dropped a name from Home and Away fame.

482
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Speaker 3: He's been known for a lot more than that. To

483
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Speaker 3: be honest, I.

484
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Speaker 4: Have said, I mean, there's nothing wrong with being known

485
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Speaker 4: from home and away.

486
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Speaker 2: You're celebrating it. Very handsome man, isn't he.

487
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Speaker 4: He's done many other things.

488
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Speaker 2: Beautiful looking person camera.

489
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Speaker 3: Guys got flogged on Saturday.

490
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Speaker 2: And certainly didn't get flogged. We fell were with them

491
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Speaker 2: three quarter a time and then we fell apart.

492
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Speaker 6: We tried to rough enough a bit and it didn't work.

493
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Speaker 2: Had the Crows go mate the loss?

494
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Speaker 6: No, No, we're talking about your team with Cameron.

495
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Speaker 3: Dad.

496
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Speaker 2: Still have another win this year, that's okay. Anyway, we

497
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Speaker 2: got out of the ground.

498
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Speaker 1: I don't know what.

499
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Speaker 2: I was there with the boys with and Jack. Now,

500
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Speaker 2: when you are with your kids, there's a level of

501
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Speaker 2: responsibility that you expect from the rest of the crowd

502
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Speaker 2: when you see kids.

503
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Speaker 1: First mistake.

504
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Speaker 2: Now, I got outside the ground and I'm there. I'm

505
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Speaker 2: a very fast mover. When we're traveling, I'm like, we

506
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Speaker 2: got to go here, We've got to go there. Guys,

507
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Speaker 2: keep up with me. Now, let's go. We don't muck

508
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Speaker 2: around in.

509
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Speaker 6: Crowds that next week.

510
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Speaker 2: But warming up anyway, there was on.

511
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Speaker 6: At the end of the Map's dinner party. You will see, oh.

512
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Speaker 3: God, like that.

513
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Speaker 2: You won't even notice a flash of a pad he's gone.

514
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Speaker 4: No, I do think I'm a bit like that because

515
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Speaker 4: it can get scary. So you're like, right, hang onto

516
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Speaker 4: my hand yep, don't know. Now we are going right now,

517
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Speaker 4: see that gap and if you get lost, I'll meet

518
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Speaker 4: you there.

519
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Speaker 2: Then we bumped into another Essendon supporter and we overheard

520
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Speaker 2: this group that was walking past us. I can't believe that,

521
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Speaker 2: and the F bomb was dropped. It was at that

522
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Speaker 2: stage I turned and I went, hey, watch your language

523
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Speaker 2: in front of my kids.

524
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Speaker 3: I don't know about that one.

525
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Speaker 2: And I became that dad. So what was great. One

526
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Speaker 2: of the other guys in the group turned to his

527
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Speaker 2: mate and said, yeah, mate, watch your language, can you

528
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Speaker 2: He's got kids, And I thought, oh, that's quite mature

529
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Speaker 2: of you.

530
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Speaker 3: That's great.

531
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Speaker 2: So then there was a couple of girls that walked

532
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Speaker 2: past and they'd had a couple of sherbets, they had

533
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Speaker 2: a couple of tins and they wanted one of them

534
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Speaker 2: dropped the F bomb.

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Speaker 6: Hi, Oh you didn't again, did you just watch your

536
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Speaker 6: language in front?

537
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Speaker 4: Because you were full of confidence at this point you

538
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Speaker 4: thought people are going to keep it.

539
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Speaker 2: And what I loved was the fact that in the

540
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Speaker 2: first group, for example, number one. The other guy realized

541
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Speaker 2: that I was in the right and he jumped in

542
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Speaker 2: to be on my team against his mate and said, hey,

543
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Speaker 2: do watch your language. When I said to this these

544
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Speaker 2: two girls walking past, watch your language in front of

545
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Speaker 2: the kids.

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Speaker 6: But do you know what you've got to understand.

547
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Speaker 3: I can understand if it's a constant thing at the footy,

548
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Speaker 3: if someone's swearing constantly.

549
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Speaker 2: In front of you.

550
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Speaker 3: Also the other thing you got to work out as well.

551
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Speaker 3: Your kids are going.

552
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Speaker 6: To be hearing this at school.

553
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Speaker 2: Not a constant No.

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Speaker 4: I think it's a very good example to see your

555
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Speaker 4: parents kind of stand up for what is appropriate.

556
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Speaker 1: I think that's an important lesson.

557
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Speaker 4: I'm not saying you're not going to hear it, but

558
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Speaker 4: I think a complete acceptance of it is.

559
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Speaker 2: So when these two girls who ignored me walked past,

560
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Speaker 2: got about ten meters up the street and one of

561
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Speaker 2: them turned around and yelled out, get get trucked to

562
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Speaker 2: you to me, to Ted, to maybe Ted, maybe jacket.

563
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Speaker 2: That's that's what I realized. Maybe telling them off isn't

564
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Speaker 2: the best way forward. Yeah, you got more. And it

565
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Speaker 2: wasn't just a it wasn't just an F bomb. It

566
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Speaker 2: was an aggressive and.

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Speaker 4: It was at the dog park on Sunday. We were

568
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Speaker 4: walking beside two blokes. One of them both had wedding rings.

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Speaker 2: Because I was still check.

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Speaker 1: One was one was.

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Speaker 4: Telling the other one that the girlfriend was having a

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Speaker 4: baby or the wife was having a baby. But rather

573
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Speaker 4: than just saying, oh, yeah, my wife's having a baby,

574
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Speaker 4: he decided to put an thrill Bob trucking in there.

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Speaker 4: And at least with May now she's nine, we'll walk

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Speaker 4: along and she'll hear it.

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Speaker 11: Look, she'll just look with like a really cheeky.

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Speaker 1: Look at me. And I said, and I'll not go, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 4: And then I say, at least Mommy never says that,

581
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Speaker 4: and then she grins.

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Speaker 2: Even I remember Dad telling a kid off at McDonald's

583
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Speaker 2: for farting once when we were growing up. What he

584
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Speaker 2: told a kid off, who was there with a mate

585
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Speaker 2: sitting not far from us, let smokey off the chain

586
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Speaker 2: And Dad said, could you not do that in front

587
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Speaker 2: of the kidd?

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Speaker 6: Well, that is do you know what?

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Speaker 3: That would fire me up even more. I would be

590
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Speaker 3: telling the whole group to brew as much.

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Speaker 4: Can you imagine can you imagine the smell melanie in

592
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Speaker 4: that while you're eating a warm apple.

593
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Speaker 6: Little David on his lapinder.

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Speaker 11: This is the fits in with Her with Kate.

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Speaker 4: Richie Podcas asked, I went to my girlfriend's house on

596
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Speaker 4: the weekend because her No, I have more than one friend,

597
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:10,680
Speaker 4: more than one sister and more than one friend.

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Speaker 1: Her name is ms Par.

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Speaker 4: But no, actually no, it wasn't miss Par. It was

600
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Speaker 4: just a random friend.

601
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Speaker 1: Was now the story I'm about to tell what?

602
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Speaker 4: I just was wandering along the Person Street in Bronti

603
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Speaker 4: and I thought this looks like a nice was it?

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Speaker 2: It was Chloe?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Chloe, Chloe.

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Speaker 4: So I went to see my friend Chloe and her

607
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Speaker 4: husband was her rumping around the kitchen. Because her rumping,

608
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Speaker 4: it's the second time I've used its week second time

609
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Speaker 4: in two days. I'm going to go with it because

610
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:55,680
Speaker 4: it means it's It's like a funny way of saying

611
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Speaker 4: that they had the and they were.

612
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Speaker 7: Her.

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Speaker 4: Chloe's husband has been roped in to being the coach

614
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Speaker 4: of a team sport, you know, some kind of football. Well,

615
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Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't know. And the thing is,

616
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Speaker 4: I don't want to give too many details because I

617
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Speaker 4: feel as though I'm now about to talk about someone's

618
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Speaker 4: life without their permission.

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Speaker 2: Okay, did Chloe's husband play the game? Does he know

620
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Speaker 2: the sport?

621
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Speaker 4: I would imagine so, and has watched a lot of

622
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Speaker 4: it and watched and up close and personal likes has

623
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Speaker 4: a lot of experience with the game. I mean it's

624
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Speaker 4: kids sport. It doesn't really how much do you actually

625
00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:47,840
Speaker 4: need to know? Well, this is the thing I didn't.

626
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Speaker 4: I thought it was cute. You say, I'm going to

627
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Speaker 4: be the coach of the team. You get to hang

628
00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 4: out with the kids. It's a really nice bonding experience.

629
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Speaker 4: And you just got to rock up at eight o'clock

630
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Speaker 4: on the Saturday morning. Sure he's not happy, and please

631
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 4: give us a call. Thirteen twenty four ten. If you

632
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 4: have got yourself in way.

633
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 2: Too, what's the crap role that you're got?

634
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Speaker 4: Well, maybe you're the manager. Apparently the manager's not a

635
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 4: big deal. You just got to tick the names off.

636
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Speaker 1: Is that wrong?

637
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 2: No, because you know what, Martha is the manager of

638
00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:18,760
Speaker 2: our footy team and she took on the role and

639
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 2: you now have to sign in shirts so that number

640
00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 2: goes to that person. Yeah, you've got to give an

641
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 2: update on ground. You've got to give an update on

642
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 2: ground condition and change of times usually on.

643
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 3: Usually you've got to wash the jerseys as well.

644
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Speaker 6: This is the thing.

645
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 3: You've got to organize the goal umpires, the battery umpires,

646
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Speaker 3: you have to.

647
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 1: Put the sticks in the side.

648
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Speaker 3: It's full on. It's a huge commitment. And do you

649
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 3: know what actually I so the reason why I don't

650
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 3: coach my children is because my father coached me my

651
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Speaker 3: whole junior career, Kate. And I'm not joking. My dad

652
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 3: he coached for around about thirty years, my old man

653
00:29:57,680 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 3: and we used to Dad was a sparky and work

654
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 3: so he'd started around about six in the morning and

655
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Speaker 3: he'd come home at four or five in the afternoon, Kate,

656
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Speaker 3: and then every night would be a footy training session.

657
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Speaker 3: Then on Friday nights, Mum would cook for the A

658
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Speaker 3: grade team that dad coached and they would have team

659
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Speaker 3: meetings at our house. I remember as a kid trying

660
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Speaker 3: to get to sleep, Kate, and it'd be eleven o'clock

661
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Speaker 3: at night on a Friday night and Dad's doing tactics

662
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Speaker 3: with the team before a game on a Saturday.

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Speaker 4: Were you at that point, I mean, are you really

664
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Speaker 4: taking it that seriously?

665
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Speaker 3: Yes, seven or eight. But it's a huge commitment. And

666
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Speaker 3: some people are born to do it, like I remember

667
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Speaker 3: the satisfaction that my old man got out of it.

668
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Speaker 3: But I just don't have that. I don't have one

669
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Speaker 3: of those bones in my body. Like I just don't

670
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Speaker 3: want to do it.

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Speaker 4: You want to be on the sideline though, cheering along.

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Speaker 4: This is the thing about this, my friend Chloe, her husband,

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Speaker 4: I don't think he quite knew.

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Speaker 1: What he was getting into because a no joke.

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Speaker 4: When I was at this random house on the Saturday

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Speaker 4: that night, he had to toddle off at like five

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Speaker 4: o'clock to go to a three hour to coaching. No,

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Speaker 4: he'd been her rumping up and down the wallway and

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Speaker 4: he had to toddle off to the three hours of

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Speaker 4: like a coaching coaching for coaching.

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Speaker 3: There's coaches course, there's coaching course. You needed coaching, And

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Speaker 3: then he had.

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Speaker 4: To do like it not an HR course, but then

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Speaker 4: like something to say that he was allowed to hang

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Speaker 4: around the children, And she said me with him because

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Speaker 4: he was still he wasn't that because she'd actually put

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Speaker 4: him in to do the job. And they're still looking

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Speaker 4: for a trainer who apparently runs the water on and

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Speaker 4: which I should put my hand up for but she

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Speaker 4: sent me the funniest photo of him, and the highlight

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Speaker 4: of his whole night was that he got one of

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Speaker 4: those plastic like a milk you know, the old milk

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Speaker 4: the milk oes deliver the milk the water bottle.

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Speaker 2: Hot Brendan Mount and you've been roped into a position

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Speaker 2: with the kids sport, have you, buddy?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I just got roped into coaching my son's poll

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Speaker 8: tag team this year. But I've been managing my son's

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Speaker 8: soccer team for the last six to seven years, and

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Speaker 8: last year was pretty tough with all the political aspects

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Speaker 8: of what goes on when kids start to get a

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Speaker 8: bit older.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Brendan, that's the thing, because the minute you take

703
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Speaker 2: on a role like this, it's not so much the

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Speaker 2: kids and the organization, it's the other parents. They're the problems.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the worst, especially when it comes to grading and

706
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Speaker 3: you've got to pick the best kids. The best is

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Speaker 3: at the start of a season, right, you get a

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Speaker 3: team together and no one really wants to put their

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Speaker 3: hand up to coach Kate, and then there's there's always

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Speaker 3: a moment where there's a group of parents around and

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Speaker 3: someone will go someone from the club will go Okay,

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Speaker 3: we need just to volunteer.

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Speaker 6: Is it anybody here.

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Speaker 3: That would like to coach an? You'll just you'll get one.

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Speaker 3: You'll get one dad or something. That all was just

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Speaker 3: slowly starting to put up their hand and instantly but like, okay,

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Speaker 3: you're the coach form and then you can see his

718
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 3: wife then go oh god, well they don't see you

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Speaker 3: the next six months.

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Speaker 2: Marriage is over.

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Speaker 11: This is the Fitting In with Her with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: Got an email from Maddie she needs help with a

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Speaker 2: message from Dan. I just got a text from my mom. Yes,

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Speaker 2: because I'm a textbot an expert, a TEXTI.

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Speaker 11: Write my reply coming love.

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Speaker 2: Maddie got a message from Dan. How's this? They went

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Speaker 2: on two dates that three months ago. It fizzled out

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Speaker 2: and they haven't spoken since, although he does occasionally heart

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Speaker 2: eze her on Insta stories.

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Speaker 6: Oh said, there's still He.

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Speaker 2: Messaged her this last night. So we're going to help

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Speaker 2: you out, Maddie because we're going to break down this

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Speaker 2: text message that Dan has sent.

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Speaker 6: So they haven't. They haven't. They haven't been speaking.

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Speaker 1: For a while.

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Speaker 3: They had a couple of dates, okay, and it's been

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Speaker 3: on and off.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Maddie's not sure if Dan is inviting her on

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Speaker 2: a date or if just wants to buy tickets.

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Speaker 6: What is it?

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Speaker 3: What does he kick off with the first line is

742
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Speaker 3: so crucial?

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Speaker 2: Hey, mad's been a little while. You looked like an

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Speaker 2: absolute ten for your birthday on insta rating system Absolute.

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Speaker 2: I've got two tickets to Ela Horn at the Howden

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Speaker 2: in May. I know you love him, so I thought

747
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Speaker 2: you'd like to see the show. You keen, don't have

748
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Speaker 2: slow hands? Let me know asap ha classic?

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Speaker 3: He wrote with a classic? Is he so?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Mattie is not sure if that's a date or

751
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:47,560
Speaker 2: if he's just trying to sell tickets.

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Speaker 11: Is Maddie a moron?

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Speaker 2: What's interesting?

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Speaker 1: I don't mean that, Maddie.

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Speaker 4: I know you're probably listening, But what I mean is

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Speaker 4: I feel like it's pretty clear.

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Speaker 1: Of course it is.

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Speaker 3: When Kate Richie talks about her on the RAI, she

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Speaker 3: is now known as Maddie the Morning.

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Speaker 4: But I didn't I was just trying to find, you know,

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Speaker 4: an emmore.

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Speaker 2: What upsets me about this is there was two dates

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Speaker 2: three months ago, and it saddens me Dan that it's

764
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Speaker 2: had to take a nice photo of Maddie on Instagram

765
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Speaker 2: for it to re spark your interest because you weren't

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Speaker 2: thinking about it, but all of a sudden, according to you,

767
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Speaker 2: she looks like a ten in her birthday photos.

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Speaker 1: So you know a bit of her love heart eyes

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Speaker 1: every now and then.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but no real contact. He's just dropping it. He's

771
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Speaker 2: just feeding, he's keeping something on the Line's a bit

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Speaker 2: of early every now and then, or something where they

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Speaker 2: just continue to circle in the area.

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Speaker 3: You guys are missing out on the biggest point. What

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Speaker 3: is it?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, love God?

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Speaker 3: He's got no, he's got two tickets. Were they originally

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Speaker 3: bought for Maddie? Was that extra ticket originally bought for Maddie?

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Speaker 3: And has someone pulled out and now he's gone to

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Speaker 3: his second option in Maddie.

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Speaker 2: I don't think that matters.

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Speaker 4: I think if he's a second option guy, he wouldn't

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Speaker 4: be offering the extra ticket to Nile Hown in May

784
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Speaker 4: because May is a long way off. A lot could

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Speaker 4: happen between now and then.

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Speaker 2: Gim the other thing too, I agree completely.

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Speaker 4: I think he's actually honing in, like to make a

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Speaker 4: commitment that far out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know you love I know you love him.

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Speaker 2: So I thought you'd like to see the show. I

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Speaker 2: quite like the idea that he's had the presence of

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Speaker 2: mind to remember her interests.

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Speaker 4: And that giving him way too much credit. He says, Okay,

794
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Speaker 4: you look like an absolute tent. Oh thanks, thanks whatever

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Speaker 4: your name is Dan, Dan, Thanks Dan, you scored me

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Speaker 4: a ten.

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Speaker 1: I'm so lucky.

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Speaker 4: I've got two tickets to Nyle Horr and you might

799
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Speaker 4: like them. Oh thanks Dan, You're a legend. And then

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Speaker 4: he makes it. Then he makes a joke about don't

801
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Speaker 4: have slow hands? Do you mean that could be a

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Speaker 4: I know it's a reference to the song.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but he's not thinking.

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Speaker 3: But then but then ends it with a classic like

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Speaker 3: as it it's a if you don't want to put

806
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Speaker 3: your hands all over me?

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Speaker 6: It's a joke.

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Speaker 2: Because if they go along to the content, you'd be thinking,

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Speaker 2: what's going to happen during that song? Is he going

810
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Speaker 2: to start to touch my bottom? Maybe?

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Speaker 4: I don't think she's just stop. I think look, I

812
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Speaker 4: think she.

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Speaker 2: Just says, they look like Dan.

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Speaker 4: You haven't lost it. Ul niel Horn sounds good. May

815
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Speaker 4: is a long way off.

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Speaker 6: First, you're drowning here.

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Speaker 1: I would I wouldn't be jumping.

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Speaker 2: In mine would be hey, Dan, appreciate the message.

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Speaker 1: Keep you posted.

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Speaker 2: How did you get awesome? How did you get two

821
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Speaker 2: tickets to Nil Horn?

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Speaker 1: That's engaging in conversations.

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Speaker 2: Established that cake because, like FITZI said, if they were

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Speaker 2: bought for somebody else, and she's the B option even

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Speaker 2: though she's a ten according to Dan, then let's kind

826
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Speaker 2: of explore that a little bit for do.

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Speaker 6: You know what I would write?

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Speaker 3: I would write, Ah, funny, thank you very much for

829
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Speaker 3: thinking of me. Already got tickets with the girls, But

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Speaker 3: what else are you offering?

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Speaker 2: What if she wrote that sounds great.

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Speaker 1: It's not a contract negotiation, so.

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Speaker 2: It sounds great. Man, I'm already going with Steve.

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Speaker 4: No, you don't even say that you're giving you are

835
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Speaker 4: giving Dan way too much information because it fizzled out.

836
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Speaker 4: Maybe you say thanks for thinking me of me for

837
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Speaker 4: the tickets, but like I thought, you died.

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Speaker 1: That's what I would say.

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Speaker 2: With Kate Ritchie is a Nova podcast A great shows

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Speaker 2: like this downloads the Nova player, FI, the App Store

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