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Speaker 1: Welcome back to hear me out. It is the final

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Speaker 1: episode of season one. What the helly? Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I have to said that? No, well, I need to

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Speaker 1: get that vocal stim back and cut Sleigh out of

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Speaker 1: my vocal because it's been almost see in ol and

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Speaker 1: sleighs still heavily sitting in the top five. Do you

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Speaker 1: have a vocal stim something you se?

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Speaker 2: I think it's a slave for me as well. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: like in really formal meetings, I need something to get somewhere.

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Speaker 2: I'm happy, I'm make slay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And you say it's like boys and that you're

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Speaker 1: like god slave, They're like, it's so descriptive. It really works.

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Speaker 1: So can someone try and give me a word to

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Speaker 1: replace that with? Maybe with the helly? That works. But

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Speaker 1: I just want to thank you guys for all of

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Speaker 1: the support and love I've had this year. I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: be able to do this without you, and we'll definitely

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Speaker 1: be coming back for a season two and hopefully many more.

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Speaker 1: But I'm like gobsmacked at how well this is done,

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Speaker 1: and I think it's given me a lot more faith

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Speaker 1: and trust in myself. There was always that fear of, like,

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Speaker 1: let me be honest with you, when I started Just

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Speaker 1: for Girls, it was a different ballgame, Like we had

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Speaker 1: to do a lot more on the back end, so

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Speaker 1: it was a lot maybe harder work. Now I have

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Speaker 1: my angel, my guardian angel, Blake, and he does everything

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Speaker 1: which allows me to almost just show up, relax and

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Speaker 1: not going to sit here and say this it's not

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Speaker 1: a challenging job. It's not even a little bit challenging.

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Speaker 1: But I am very grateful that you guys made it

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Speaker 1: possible by loving and supporting the show because I need

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Speaker 1: you to keep doing this. So thank you so much

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Speaker 1: everyone for everything. And I can't wait to share more

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Speaker 1: and be doing more episodes and just keep going forever

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Speaker 1: and ever and ever, and you'll just get to listen

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Speaker 1: to me forever. So you're welcome. But it is coming

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Speaker 1: up to Christmas. Oh my god, my family they never

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Speaker 1: will let me live this down, and I know they won't.

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Speaker 1: We're doing Christmas at my mum's farm this weekend, so

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Speaker 1: on the twenty first, I think it is, yeah, just

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Speaker 1: before twentieth twenty first, because my parents are separated, so

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Speaker 1: we do Christmas early with one parent this year. That's

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Speaker 1: Mum and then Christmas is Dad at the beach. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: we do Christmas and Mum. Two years ago, and I

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Speaker 1: have a really bad habit of going out on Christmas Eve,

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Speaker 1: and I think, I guess my thing is, I'm here

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Speaker 1: to warn you do not go out on Christmas Eve.

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Speaker 1: Christmas Eve Eve, yeah, great, go out in the twenty

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Speaker 1: fucking third. Do not drink alcohol on Christmas Eve. So

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Speaker 1: I remember I was out and I was with my

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Speaker 1: sister and we were at a house party two years ago.

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Speaker 1: I think my cousin ended on it. That was actually

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Speaker 1: Christmas Night a couple of years before that. No, I

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Speaker 1: don't know what I was fucking doing this night, but

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Speaker 1: all of my friends were out drinking la la la.

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Speaker 1: I got home probably, I want to say, at three

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Speaker 1: or four. Nothing fucking insane. But like, I have Christmas

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Speaker 1: lunch the next day. You know, you should not be

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Speaker 1: He was sitting I was sleeping at Dad's house. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: drive away. Holy fucking shit, what do I do. I've

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Speaker 1: Like who fucking does that?

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Speaker 2: Weird family? What a loving you up as well?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but I'm like, why wasn't I listening? And

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Speaker 2: You walking in would have been like that TikTok order.

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Speaker 1: Like like literally literally and my grandparents like, what the

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Speaker 1: I now like will never. I don't think ever drink

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Speaker 1: last couple of years on Christmas, and the food doesn't

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I would almost argue like getting drunk on

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Speaker 1: Do do Christmas night things yea, yeah, yeah, Christmas Eve

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Speaker 1: Don't drink please. It was a really bad experience and

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Speaker 1: it's really really not fun and everyone's way more fucking

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Speaker 1: Everyone's asking me if I have a boyfriend. No, next year, guys,

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Speaker 1: I said that last year, but maybe next year. It

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Speaker 1: will be next year guys, I'm meeting my soul mate.

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Speaker 2: I've never had a New Year's so I'm like, I

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Speaker 2: Never, it's always so last second you like feel like

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Speaker 1: I really want someone to have a massive fuck off

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Speaker 1: New Year's party with like hundreds of people, Like that's

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Speaker 1: After August, yeah exactly. But guys, I have a quick

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Speaker 1: move around. The constant movement like that is something that

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Speaker 2: I practiced this one album.

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Speaker 1: No. I looked in the mirror and this is what

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Speaker 1: But it was actually fun, Like it was a fun

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm seeing it everywhere.

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Speaker 2: And then when your gums will get cut and they

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Speaker 1: Oh the amount of yeah now that I think, Oh, fuck,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I've lost my retainer, but it's for grinding some

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Speaker 1: Like I know it sounds really bad, but I'm like,

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Speaker 1: Like? Are they okay? Uh?

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Speaker 1: not my problem. That's my life. Nothing else has been

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Speaker 1: that's so exciting. Welcome me Male twenty three was in

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Speaker 1: twenty first. I don't know how I feel. Nah, nah,

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Speaker 1: you know what I think. Honest to god, it all

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Speaker 1: depends on who your fucking friends are. Yeah, Like, if

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Speaker 1: because like he wouldn't be doing shit things around his

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00:18:14,840 --> 00:18:16,760
Speaker 1: shitty friends if he was a good guy, you know

436
00:18:16,760 --> 00:18:19,720
Speaker 1: what I mean. Like people can control themselves, we adults.

437
00:18:19,760 --> 00:18:22,240
Speaker 1: But I feel like when you're younger sometimes and you're

438
00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:24,280
Speaker 1: in those relationships that won't end up like lasting, and

439
00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:27,480
Speaker 1: you know they're not your person. You always hate those

440
00:18:27,520 --> 00:18:30,440
Speaker 1: like shitty, bad influence friends. Okay, I got really fucked

441
00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:32,480
Speaker 1: up one night and ended up at the Little White Chapel,

442
00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:36,199
Speaker 1: the Little White Chapel with some chick I picked up

443
00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:39,040
Speaker 1: at the casino. Bro, you're in a five year long relationship.

444
00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:41,320
Speaker 1: Why are you picking up chicks at the casino? And

445
00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:42,960
Speaker 1: I don't want to judge you because I really want

446
00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:46,080
Speaker 1: men to continue sending stuff in. But like, dude, come on,

447
00:18:47,000 --> 00:18:49,399
Speaker 1: my mates kept egging us on to get married. Dude,

448
00:18:49,880 --> 00:18:54,080
Speaker 1: tell me this gets better. Fuck. I don't remember much

449
00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:56,359
Speaker 1: from that night, but I told my girl when she

450
00:18:56,520 --> 00:18:58,320
Speaker 1: picked me up from the airport and she flipped up

451
00:18:58,359 --> 00:19:00,800
Speaker 1: and broke up with me. She won't talk to me,

452
00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:03,040
Speaker 1: but I already blocked the chick on Insta. Are you

453
00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:06,399
Speaker 1: married to her? I must know that I had no

454
00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:08,159
Speaker 1: feelings to do it anyway, so I just thought it

455
00:19:08,200 --> 00:19:10,640
Speaker 1: was a gag. What do I do? You leave your

456
00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:13,480
Speaker 1: ex girlfriend alone and you let her move on? I'm

457
00:19:13,480 --> 00:19:16,600
Speaker 1: more really sorry. You are the asshole. Yeah, you don't

458
00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:18,840
Speaker 1: pick up chicks at the casino when you have a

459
00:19:18,840 --> 00:19:21,520
Speaker 1: five year relationship and you're sure as hell don't potentially

460
00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:24,480
Speaker 1: get married to anyone unless it's your girlfriend and you're

461
00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:25,600
Speaker 1: in Vegas. That's funny.

462
00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:30,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's a nonchalotness. I let her know, you.

463
00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:32,680
Speaker 1: Let her know she's gonna dump you. Let's put the

464
00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:35,120
Speaker 1: shoe on the other foot, Bud. Sorry, I really don't

465
00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:36,960
Speaker 1: mean to be connisenting. I do want you guys to

466
00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:39,359
Speaker 1: keep sending stuff in. But like, I'm sure even some

467
00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:40,919
Speaker 1: of you men can agree that, like, this isn't an

468
00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:43,960
Speaker 1: ideal situation. You know, she was on the other foot,

469
00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:45,880
Speaker 1: she's in Vegas with the girls, picks up a man,

470
00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:47,840
Speaker 1: takes him to the chapel, potentially wants to get married

471
00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:50,320
Speaker 1: with him, you wouldn't be too happy. I highly doubt

472
00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:52,840
Speaker 1: you would, and most people would it be. So I

473
00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:56,560
Speaker 1: think you have to take the l and maybe you're

474
00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:58,480
Speaker 1: just not the guy for her, and maybe she's not

475
00:19:58,520 --> 00:20:00,639
Speaker 1: the girl for you, because maybe one day find someone

476
00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:02,600
Speaker 1: that doesn't make you want to pick up girls at

477
00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:03,720
Speaker 1: a casino, you know what I mean.

478
00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:04,840
Speaker 2: Maybe I'm married to them.

479
00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:07,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe you could get married to the girl you

480
00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:10,159
Speaker 1: picked up and live happily ever after. You never know

481
00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:10,920
Speaker 1: how things are work.

482
00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:11,720
Speaker 2: Maybe that marriage is.

483
00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:14,560
Speaker 1: But I do think this is a valid breakup reason,

484
00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:17,320
Speaker 1: and I think you need a letter. Letter continue with

485
00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:17,920
Speaker 1: the breakup.

486
00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:20,919
Speaker 2: You know that was fully real as well, because I

487
00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:24,200
Speaker 2: had to like correct it was fully real.

488
00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:26,439
Speaker 1: I feel like this is very much fair play. But

489
00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:30,320
Speaker 1: you guys be the judge, okay, I will Okay. So

490
00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:33,960
Speaker 1: my close family, mum, dad, and siblings do Chris Kringle

491
00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:36,840
Speaker 1: for each other every year. This year, my brother has

492
00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:39,360
Speaker 1: a new girlfriend. I'll come back to that. We drew

493
00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:41,399
Speaker 1: our names a few weeks ago on preparation so that

494
00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:44,119
Speaker 1: everyone could buy stuff in time, But only recently did

495
00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:46,120
Speaker 1: my dad and brother tell us that they pulled their

496
00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:49,280
Speaker 1: own names and forgot to say anything typical. That is

497
00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:53,240
Speaker 1: so typical. If I pulled my own name in the

498
00:20:53,320 --> 00:20:56,680
Speaker 1: Chris Kringle, I'm telling whoever's making the Kris Kringle immediately

499
00:20:56,720 --> 00:20:58,520
Speaker 1: we need to redo it. I pulled my name, you know.

500
00:20:58,840 --> 00:21:00,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, are you happy with having yourself? Like?

501
00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:02,800
Speaker 1: No, you can't, it's not it's not the rule.

502
00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:04,520
Speaker 2: Now you haven't had it before. And I was like,

503
00:21:04,560 --> 00:21:05,960
Speaker 2: oh my god's the end of the world.

504
00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:09,480
Speaker 1: You don't want yourself? No, and you redo it. It's

505
00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:11,119
Speaker 1: not like it's not part of the game. You basically

506
00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:12,960
Speaker 1: weren't even in it. Then you probably won't even buy

507
00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:14,600
Speaker 1: something because you'll be like, I just want I'll just

508
00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:15,080
Speaker 1: sit out.

509
00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:16,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm myself.

510
00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:19,480
Speaker 1: Typical, therefore defeating the purpose of the whole thing. Yes,

511
00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:23,520
Speaker 1: my brother newly proposed, Oh I thought you was about

512
00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:25,600
Speaker 1: saying newly proposed to his new girlfriend. I was like, shit,

513
00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:28,240
Speaker 1: that's quick. Newly proposed that we include his girlfriend and

514
00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:31,200
Speaker 1: now Chris Kringle, which is fine, no problem, Bob's your uncle.

515
00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:33,439
Speaker 1: The other day we all redrew named out of a

516
00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:35,960
Speaker 1: little container. Then it was my turn to draw. First

517
00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:38,359
Speaker 1: of all, I pulled out myself, so redo it was.

518
00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:41,199
Speaker 1: Then I pulled out my brother's girlfriend's name, and I

519
00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:43,480
Speaker 1: lied that I got myself again just so I didn't

520
00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:46,280
Speaker 1: have to buy for her. Am I the asshole? Who

521
00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:48,320
Speaker 1: am I to know if they'll stay together? I see

522
00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:52,040
Speaker 1: it as a debt. I can't learn, no, because I

523
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:55,720
Speaker 1: get it. But you're buying a present for someone anyway,

524
00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:57,680
Speaker 1: So I almost don't see it as a debt because

525
00:21:57,720 --> 00:21:59,679
Speaker 1: the money's taking out of your account regardless of who

526
00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:02,080
Speaker 1: you buy, do you know what I mean? And I

527
00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:03,919
Speaker 1: think girls are way easier to buy for.

528
00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:07,000
Speaker 2: Almost strangers as well, Like I struggle to buy it

529
00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:07,520
Speaker 2: for my phone.

530
00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:10,919
Speaker 1: Buy her a Mecca fucking legit pack like a little

531
00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:12,520
Speaker 1: Christmas mini gift set.

532
00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:13,040
Speaker 2: Easy.

533
00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:16,400
Speaker 1: I don't think you're the asshole. I think that's it's

534
00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:19,720
Speaker 1: not bitchy because no one knew. Yes, if she knew

535
00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:22,119
Speaker 1: you returned it, then you might look like a bit

536
00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:24,359
Speaker 1: of a bitch. But no, I don't think you're an asshole.

537
00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:25,760
Speaker 1: I think it's like whatever.

538
00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:26,879
Speaker 2: Are you saying to Maybe not?

539
00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:30,160
Speaker 1: No? Yeah, I think maybe not? But is it rude? No?

540
00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:32,640
Speaker 1: Not if she doesn't know, it's not hurting anyone.

541
00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:34,560
Speaker 2: And it was almost for the best of.

542
00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:36,520
Speaker 1: The brothers, Like there's always someone I get. I'm like,

543
00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:37,640
Speaker 1: I don't want to buy for this person.

544
00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:39,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, the mum probably got her and she's like, oh my.

545
00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:41,399
Speaker 1: God, Yeah she would probably love that.

546
00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:41,840
Speaker 2: Yeah.

547
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:43,880
Speaker 1: Probably better that you got it than the boyfriend, because

548
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:46,159
Speaker 1: boys don't know how to buy gifts. Anyway, You're not

549
00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:46,960
Speaker 1: the asshole girl.

550
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:52,639
Speaker 2: Hey Lizzy, seriously, I actually purposely cut that in.

551
00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:54,760
Speaker 1: Did they really write Lizzy? Why do people always want

552
00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:59,720
Speaker 1: me Lizzie? Do I look like a Lizzie? Hey Lizzy?

553
00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:02,199
Speaker 1: Before I started that, I just have to say, oh,

554
00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:03,879
Speaker 1: it was obviously a tabo because I feel like nay,

555
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:06,119
Speaker 1: I just have to say I love the party. You

556
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:08,600
Speaker 1: look amazing girl, Keep it up. Thank you, my love.

557
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:11,399
Speaker 1: It's a bit of a long one to hear. We go. Okay,

558
00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:14,080
Speaker 1: So I'm a reformer pilates instructor. I started teaching in

559
00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:17,159
Speaker 1: September this year at a boutique studio. I'm also nineteen

560
00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:20,320
Speaker 1: years old. Slay go girl meetings, lay like that you're

561
00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:24,600
Speaker 1: a platty'splex Like, how's being nineteen slaym she's a Plati's instructor.

562
00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:27,560
Speaker 1: The studio I was at was giving me heaps of shifts,

563
00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:29,840
Speaker 1: which is amazing. However, it started to become too much

564
00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:32,400
Speaker 1: for me to handle. Early mornings and nights every day

565
00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:35,200
Speaker 1: is so draining on the body. I was also picking

566
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:36,960
Speaker 1: up people's shifts all the time because I had the

567
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:39,399
Speaker 1: time to One time after teaching, my boss came up

568
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:41,440
Speaker 1: and said, hey, thanks so much for covering. We've had

569
00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:44,639
Speaker 1: issues with covers in the past. First read flag. My

570
00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:46,600
Speaker 1: manager and I were in the studio one day and

571
00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:49,200
Speaker 1: she asked if I wanted to join the Sunday rotation shift,

572
00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:52,440
Speaker 1: which was every second weekend. I agreed. However, I mentioned

573
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:54,560
Speaker 1: the only day I couldn't do was Sunday, the nineteenth

574
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:56,840
Speaker 1: of October, as I had my birthday bottoms was on

575
00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:59,159
Speaker 1: the Saturday. She said, yep, all good, I'll sort it

576
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,040
Speaker 1: out for you. The eighteenth of October rolls around and

577
00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:04,360
Speaker 1: I'm out with my friends celebrating. A friend of mine

578
00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:06,760
Speaker 1: who went to the studio said to me, oh my god,

579
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:08,639
Speaker 1: I can't believe you're teaching in the morning, and I

580
00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:11,120
Speaker 1: replied saying, no, I'm not. I got it off. Then

581
00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 1: I looked at my app and there it was my

582
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,920
Speaker 1: name working at seven am. I texted my manager saying

583
00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:18,480
Speaker 1: how I had asked to get this off and how

584
00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:21,240
Speaker 1: she agreed to cover it for me. She then proceeded

585
00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:23,199
Speaker 1: to say how it was my responsibility to cover my

586
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:25,480
Speaker 1: own shifts, which I understand. However, this one I had

587
00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 1: asked her in person and she told me it was

588
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:30,359
Speaker 1: all good. They then had to cancel my Sunday class

589
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:32,879
Speaker 1: as no one could work it. Apparently she could have

590
00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:35,080
Speaker 1: but dinner. I'm thinking back to when I worked in

591
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:38,240
Speaker 1: Lulu Lemon, and which if people didn't know, I worked

592
00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 1: at Lulu Lemon for like eight months the moment they

593
00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:43,240
Speaker 1: found out I didn't like exercise back then. I don't

594
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:45,640
Speaker 1: know if I've ever told you guys this story, but

595
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:48,680
Speaker 1: everyone that worked at Lulu Lemon was like a heavy exerciser,

596
00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:51,439
Speaker 1: Like they all went for runs and pilates and like

597
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:53,400
Speaker 1: at that point in my life, I did none of that.

598
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:55,720
Speaker 1: Like I was a couch potato on my time off.

599
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,359
Speaker 1: And one of there was like a yoga class in

600
00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:00,920
Speaker 1: the morning. They'd like do morning yoga class, like clear

601
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:02,719
Speaker 1: all the racks out of the store and shit. Anyway,

602
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:04,359
Speaker 1: when the girls was like, oh, You're gonna go, and

603
00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:07,919
Speaker 1: I'm like fuck no, and she was like, oh, like

604
00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 1: what she asked me, what exercise you like to do.

605
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 1: And I'd been working there for like six months at

606
00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:13,280
Speaker 1: this point, so I thought I formed like somewhat of

607
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:14,840
Speaker 1: a friendship with this girl. So I was like, oh,

608
00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:17,000
Speaker 1: to be honest, like I don't really do much exercise,

609
00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:18,400
Speaker 1: and she was like, how did you get the job?

610
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:22,879
Speaker 1: Then I was like, oh, oh, I lied, I do

611
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:27,680
Speaker 1: F forty five every week. But I was saying when

612
00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:29,440
Speaker 1: I wanted to shift covered, yeah, I had to find

613
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:31,440
Speaker 1: someone to cover my shift myself. But I guess maybe

614
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:34,280
Speaker 1: it is different if you're telling the manager, but it

615
00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:36,400
Speaker 1: might have just been a miscommunication that she's like, yeah,

616
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 1: well good, you can get someone to cover that for you.

617
00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:41,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I feel like gym's are open weird at hours,

618
00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:43,240
Speaker 2: so it probably does have to be a manager.

619
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:46,399
Speaker 1: Yeah. The next week comes around and it gets to

620
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:49,160
Speaker 1: Thursday night, ten pm. I look at my calendar and realize, shit,

621
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:51,359
Speaker 1: I've double booked myself at two different studios at the

622
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:54,359
Speaker 1: same time. From six to seven am. I texted my

623
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 1: manager we couldn't call as they wouldn't answer off to

624
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,639
Speaker 1: five pm, and also texted the group to asking if

625
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:02,600
Speaker 1: anyone please cover my classes. Two people saw my message

626
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:04,720
Speaker 1: and no one responded. Dude, I hated that. I'm like,

627
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 1: I'd rather you tell me you can't then just read it.

628
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 1: It gets to eleven PM, and I'm thinking I only

629
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 1: have one option right now, and that is to cancel

630
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:13,600
Speaker 1: the classes. Why would she cancel both classes?

631
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 2: I thought she was canceling for a bottomless So I'm.

632
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:19,200
Speaker 1: Like, I'm assuming she means she has to cancel one

633
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:23,040
Speaker 1: of the two classes. We would also cancel classes if

634
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,840
Speaker 1: there were four or less people in them. Also backstory,

635
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:28,440
Speaker 1: I lost my cousin in a motorcycle accident a couple

636
00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 1: days before. Oh my god, so my head wasn't in

637
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:34,640
Speaker 1: the right place and I wasn't thinking correctly. Wow, that's

638
00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:37,080
Speaker 1: completely fair enough. I'm so sorry for your lost girl.

639
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:40,440
Speaker 1: My manager, not my boss, then goes on to say

640
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:42,240
Speaker 1: how my boss made a decision to let me go

641
00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:45,080
Speaker 1: as I've canceled too many classes and that the circumstances

642
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:48,879
Speaker 1: aren't justifiable. She basically said I can't just blame my

643
00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:50,879
Speaker 1: cousin for passing and that I should have been more

644
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:53,639
Speaker 1: on it. That is fucking crazy, that's insane, that is

645
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:56,879
Speaker 1: asshole behavior. However, I fully understand that Friday morning was

646
00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 1: my fault and I should have been more organized. But

647
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,159
Speaker 1: the whole Saturday situation was my I just felt not mine,

648
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 1: the asshole were they're too harsh. They were too harsh.

649
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:07,960
Speaker 1: I personally don't think you should be firing anyone if

650
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Speaker 1: they've had a recent passing. I think you need to

651
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,320
Speaker 1: give them, like a solid amount of time to recoup,

652
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 1: Like people passing away could affect people so much, you

653
00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 1: know what I mean. I think that's ridiculous. Double booking

654
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:22,359
Speaker 1: not ideal, but once again, you've just your head's not

655
00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:24,239
Speaker 1: in the right space. I just I think that they

656
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:26,560
Speaker 1: were being far too harsh. I think you should have

657
00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:29,400
Speaker 1: been maybe given like a little warning mentioning hey, not ideal,

658
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:31,679
Speaker 1: like please try not to cancel as many classes, but

659
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:36,479
Speaker 1: letting you go no new one. Not the asshole they

660
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:39,440
Speaker 1: are submission for. So I was away with my girlfriends

661
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:41,919
Speaker 1: for the week. Whilst I was away, my boyfriend went

662
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Speaker 1: to his hometown. There is an Asian restaurant there that

663
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 1: has the most bomb pad tie ever and it's my

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00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 1: favorite meal, like nothing compares. I asked him forget. I

665
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:51,879
Speaker 1: asked him to get it for me and bring it

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00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 1: home so I could have some. He came home on

667
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:57,320
Speaker 1: Sunday and I came home on Monday. On Sunday, he

668
00:27:57,359 --> 00:27:59,119
Speaker 1: had left the food in the car for a few hours,

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Speaker 1: and I said to him, it's chicken. It's not going

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00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:02,960
Speaker 1: to be any good now. And he said, did you

671
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 1: want a new one? And I said no, it's fine,

672
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:07,480
Speaker 1: don't waste your money. He took that as me saying

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00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 1: to throw the pad tie out. I can't of actually

674
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Speaker 1: do as well.

675
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:13,240
Speaker 2: I don't want to eating that disgusting chicken.

676
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 1: Like if someone says, oh, has it been in the

677
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:16,439
Speaker 1: car for a couple hours, is it any good? I'm

678
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:18,119
Speaker 1: kind of thinking that you don't think it's any good

679
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:19,480
Speaker 1: and that maybe you don't want to eat it. So

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00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:23,280
Speaker 1: I actually, unfortunately get where he's coming from. So when

681
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 1: I got home on Monday, I was looking for this

682
00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:26,680
Speaker 1: food and I couldn't find it, and I messed him

683
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:28,520
Speaker 1: saying where the fuck is it? And he said, you

684
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:30,680
Speaker 1: told me to throw it out. I got so mad

685
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:33,159
Speaker 1: at him because I hadn't eaten all day to save it.

686
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,480
Speaker 1: This pad tie fuck that is the worst all for

687
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 1: it to not even be there. He tried to tell

688
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 1: me I told him to throw it out because it

689
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 1: would have gone off, which I had not said. I've

690
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:45,480
Speaker 1: never been so mad at him, and it seems ridiculous

691
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 1: over food, but I have a complicated relationship with food,

692
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 1: which I just opened up to him about. Anyways, we're

693
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 1: over it now. But am I the asshole for screaming

694
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 1: out him like never before? Over as a Asian food miscommunication?

695
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Speaker 1: I will say there was a let me that would

696
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:02,680
Speaker 1: think you saying is it going to be any good now?

697
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 1: Because it's been left in a car that you kin'd

698
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Speaker 1: of mean it's not good. Personally, I wouldn't have thrown

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00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 1: it out. I would have put it in the fridge

700
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Speaker 1: and let you decide whether you wanted it or not.

701
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Speaker 1: On your side, there is nothing worse than coming home

702
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 1: waiting for a meal and not being there.

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00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 2: And I feel like being hungry. You can somewhat get

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Speaker 2: away with it.

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Speaker 1: I am in an argument, so the worst version of

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Speaker 1: myself when I'm fucking hungry, like the anger rivals any

707
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:28,360
Speaker 1: other angler ganger. It's like and if i have like

708
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Speaker 1: a frozen malonnaise in the freezer and I'm so excited

709
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 1: I've got one serving left and I can't fucking wait,

710
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 1: and I get home and my sister's fucking eating it

711
00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:38,720
Speaker 1: game on, bitch, you're in for a night of fucking hell.

712
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 1: So yes, I get you. I also get your boyfriend.

713
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Speaker 1: I don't think either of you with the ausehole.

714
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Speaker 2: And it's hard when you're arguing about really trivial things

715
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 2: like food, whatever it be. But like I said, to

716
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Speaker 2: it easy just before she spread this out, like this

717
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:52,720
Speaker 2: is one of my favorite submissions because like we all

718
00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 2: go through this. Yeah, and there's no perfect way in that.

719
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Speaker 1: And there's no food. Is like very important to me?

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Speaker 1: Did I specifically okay? Submission five? Am I the arsehole?

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Speaker 1: First of all, Isy, I love you, I'm obsessed with you,

722
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:10,360
Speaker 1: and Blakey as well. Shut out to Blake. A few

723
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Speaker 1: months ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of a

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Speaker 1: year because I was having feelings of wanting to be single,

725
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Speaker 1: but the breakup only lasted two weeks. Low fair, but

726
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 1: you probably still have those I want to be single feelings.

727
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 1: You just weren't ready to be alone yet, So I

728
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Speaker 1: think you probably should follow through with that very cup.

729
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:27,360
Speaker 1: If I'm real, I'm a big believer and you don't

730
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Speaker 1: have the I want to be single feeling, And if

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Speaker 1: it's the right person, yeah, you know you don't couldn't

732
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Speaker 1: possibly imagine your life without them. You don't want to

733
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Speaker 1: be single, you want to be with them. So I

734
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:37,840
Speaker 1: feel like the moment people start getting that in their head,

735
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Speaker 1: like friends of mine, I'm like, it's probably just you

736
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 1: should probably just break up because that's clearly not like

737
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:45,200
Speaker 1: that's not your person if you want to be single.

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Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm actually a bit scared to speak. On Hearing Out.

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Speaker 2: I forgot to say I got roasted after the pedestrian

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Speaker 2: hear me Yes, like no one agreed.

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Speaker 1: Yes.

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Speaker 2: Someone tagged me to comment yesterday and I did not

744
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Speaker 2: know what it meant. It's like, what are they saying?

745
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 2: I'm just going to take it as a compliment. Then

746
00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 2: I read it out to the office today and we

747
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:10,080
Speaker 2: did discover was a roast. They wrote to me at

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Speaker 2: Blake menace only and R away but you still have none.

749
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Speaker 2: I'm like, what are you talking.

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Speaker 1: About only an R away?

751
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Speaker 2: My last name's menace. It's missing an.

752
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Speaker 1: R manner is What the fuck were they that?

753
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 2: On hear Me Out and they tagged me and I

754
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 2: was like, I'm gonna take this as a compliment. Then

755
00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:32,480
Speaker 2: a girl had to tell me to my face say,

756
00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 2: She's like, ah, they're saying you have no manners.

757
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

758
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 2: Like, guys, it was just a hot opinion.

759
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 1: It was a hot take.

760
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Speaker 2: And I don't want to come on the podcast and

761
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Speaker 2: say something that ninety nine percent hear me.

762
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 1: Out are controversial opinion. Yea, you know they may not

763
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:49,160
Speaker 1: always be correct, but that's Blake's opinion.

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Speaker 2: And I've had a bunch of people who have since

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Speaker 2: said I disagreed with you. But now I walk past

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Speaker 2: a car or i'm driving in a pedestrians goes past me.

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Speaker 2: I've never actually thought about the manners to it or

768
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Speaker 2: how I'm gonna ask.

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Speaker 1: You now, after being not the majority vote in that

770
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Speaker 1: if you are a pedestrian and a castop for you,

771
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:09,720
Speaker 1: are you going to wave with them? Now?

772
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Speaker 2: No, because I've not been doing it. It's so ingrained

773
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:16,440
Speaker 2: in me, and I don't think I explained myself well enough.

774
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 2: I'm gonna just get into it a little bit. Now.

775
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:22,120
Speaker 2: It feels like a whole pr.

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00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 1: Like I'm like like not that. Like No, someone said

777
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Speaker 1: I didn't have to be fair. Heye, comments are scary.

778
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Speaker 2: No, the manner of saying I'm like, I have too

779
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:31,720
Speaker 2: many manners like, I'm over apologetic.

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Speaker 1: You are the most polite person ever.

781
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 2: I thank someone for like king hitting me like I'm nice.

782
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 2: But what I meant was I tunnel vision and walk

783
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 2: really fast because I'm trying to be polite to them.

784
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:44,880
Speaker 2: It's not like I don't like em. I don't give

785
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 2: them a side eye when I'm walking past. I'm like, yes,

786
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 2: so you should like, yeah, I'm like stressed, like I'm

787
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 2: winning that day right now, I've got to run. So

788
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 2: that's what I meant.

789
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Speaker 1: It's fair, don't I don't think it's a bad take.

790
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Speaker 1: I just don't think it's mine.

791
00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:01,880
Speaker 2: And I literally forgot the that I was, oh yeah,

792
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:05,680
Speaker 2: but my take there was to this submission about when

793
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 2: people say I get these I want to be single thoughts.

794
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:12,240
Speaker 2: I could be wrong, but I find that happens a

795
00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:14,040
Speaker 2: lot when people have met young.

796
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Speaker 1: Yeah, because they're like, I didn't get to live those

797
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 1: single years. Yeah, and it's like single years not all

798
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:21,080
Speaker 1: they're cracked up to me. And I find a lot

799
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 1: of the time people realize that and end up back

800
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 1: with their partners. But I just think if you have

801
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:28,320
Speaker 1: that inkling, it's probably just not the person. Because I

802
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:30,720
Speaker 1: think if I'm like call me a love a girl.

803
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 1: I do believe there's that true love out there and

804
00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:34,960
Speaker 1: that you will meet them and you will want nothing

805
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:37,080
Speaker 1: and no one else. Like I very much believe in that.

806
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:39,320
Speaker 1: So for me, if you have those feelings, that's just

807
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:42,600
Speaker 1: not the person. So yeah, that's my stance on that,

808
00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 1: not that anyone asks, but back to its yeah, literally

809
00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 1: all right, little backstory on that. It took him a

810
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 1: year to agree to start dating. I don't like that

811
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:54,640
Speaker 1: you've said, to agree to start dating. I was meaning

812
00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:57,880
Speaker 1: to him the theory that relationships only work if the

813
00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 1: boy loves the girl more Israel I agree with that wholeheartedly.

814
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 1: He started putting in less effort and snapping other girls

815
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:07,480
Speaker 1: m is he. I know how you feel about Snapchat. Sorry,

816
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:10,839
Speaker 1: thank you for your apology, But Snapchat's sneaky. That's my thing.

817
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:14,440
Speaker 1: It's sneaky. I think people use it to fuck around

818
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:16,920
Speaker 1: on their partners, and I hate it. I'm not giving

819
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 1: any boy that I'm interested in my fucking Snapchat. I'm sorry.

820
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 1: You can text me like, no, I don't want to

821
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 1: see a picture of the corner of your face every

822
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 1: couple hours. Thank you. After three chants of threatening to

823
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:29,799
Speaker 1: break up. I finally decided I was done. I was

824
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:32,040
Speaker 1: going out with friends most weekends and I didn't want

825
00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 1: someone holding me down. Great, this is where the Amma

826
00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 1: the asshole part comes in. Over the two weeks we

827
00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 1: were broken up, I reconnected with an x fling and

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Speaker 1: it was some of the best two weeks of my life.

829
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Speaker 1: Go girl, I feel so guilty. My boyfriend knows everything

830
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 1: that happened in the two weeks we weren't together, but

831
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Speaker 1: I can't help thinking what could have been if we

832
00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 1: stayed broken up. Although now I love and appreciate the

833
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:54,880
Speaker 1: effort my boyfriend is going to I also feel like

834
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:57,239
Speaker 1: I'm being love bombed because he's scared I'm gonna leave him.

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Speaker 1: Please help me. Aren't give your opinion. I think you

836
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:04,640
Speaker 1: should stay broken up with your boyfriend. I think you

837
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:08,080
Speaker 1: wanted to be single. He was fucking you around. You

838
00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:12,360
Speaker 1: broke up. Great, All of those things are valid. The

839
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 1: world then gave you this really amazing two weeks to

840
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 1: show to you that you've made the right decision. Here,

841
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:20,879
Speaker 1: you know this is the right decision. Stay broken up.

842
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:24,160
Speaker 1: Whether that thing xplle or not is something or not,

843
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 1: why not give it a go? Like, why would you

844
00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 1: go back to someone that's showed that they're not loyal,

845
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:31,360
Speaker 1: and like, yes, everything's great and lovely right now, but

846
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 1: how long does that really last if they couldn't last before.

847
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 1: I just don't think people change that much. Just because

848
00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:40,359
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't think you're the asshole. I

849
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 1: just don't think you should be with your boyfriend.

850
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:45,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think she's doing a bit too much

851
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:49,439
Speaker 2: in this whole situation, Like she's almost you haven't done

852
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 2: anything wrong way exploring while being single.

853
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:57,840
Speaker 1: When you broke up because your partner was messaging other people. Firstly,

854
00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:00,719
Speaker 1: that's different. I do also have a few if you

855
00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:02,839
Speaker 1: broke up with him and he was heartbroken and loved

856
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 1: you so much and like you were just not interested anymore,

857
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 1: then sometimes I do think you have to err on

858
00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:08,799
Speaker 1: the side of cause and when moving on, because you

859
00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:10,960
Speaker 1: do have to respect someone else's feelings if they love

860
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:14,120
Speaker 1: you and you've dumbed them. But he was fucking messaging

861
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 1: other girls and putting in no fucking effort, like he

862
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:19,840
Speaker 1: was going around behind your back, maybe emotionally cheating, you know, Like, yeah,

863
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:23,480
Speaker 1: so go you for having a lovely fucking two couple weeks.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that guy. And it is nice when you finally

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Speaker 2: get that energy and effort from someone you've really wanted

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00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:31,879
Speaker 2: it for. But it's like a real shame it's come.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you should feel guilty though anything. He's

868
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:36,120
Speaker 1: the cause of why that happened in the first place.

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00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:38,440
Speaker 1: He shouldn't have been stamp chatting other girls or on

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00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:42,600
Speaker 1: Snapchat at all. Number six. When I was with my ex,

871
00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 1: I had access to his Instagram. God, that's the I've

872
00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:47,840
Speaker 1: had that before.

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00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:49,800
Speaker 2: It's fucking Were you gonna say that's the best.

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00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:52,959
Speaker 1: No, it's the worst. It's so bad for your mental health.

875
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:53,799
Speaker 2: I was like, you were sick.

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00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 1: He didn't know I how to access Even worse, I

877
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:59,200
Speaker 1: got access to my ex's Instagram after we broke up,

878
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 1: and it just systematically ruined my life. Every single fucking day.

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00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:07,440
Speaker 1: It was like it consumed me. I'd go on his Facebook,

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00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 1: actually it was Facebook and back then it's all we use,

881
00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:11,880
Speaker 1: and I'd search out my name in the search bar

882
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:14,080
Speaker 1: and the laptop and find out every message she'd written

883
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 1: with my name in it. And it was fucking brutal shit.

884
00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 1: He would be talking about behind my back. Oh this

885
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:20,920
Speaker 1: girl looks really hot, she sent me a snapchat. I

886
00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 1: kind of want to go over, but what about Isa?

887
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:25,719
Speaker 1: He like shit like that. I'm like, I fucking hate you.

888
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:28,920
Speaker 1: That's so destroy it anyway. It like I ended up

889
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:31,719
Speaker 1: having to log myself out because I was like, this

890
00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:33,719
Speaker 1: is fucking with my head and we're broken up at

891
00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 1: this point, so I don't need to see this shit.

892
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:38,959
Speaker 1: Morbid curiosity, some may say, but I managed to always

893
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:41,279
Speaker 1: find him stalking girls or saying gross things to his

894
00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 1: friend's men because he didn't know I had access. I

895
00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 1: would convince him I was psychic and just had a

896
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 1: feeling he was up to no good. I'd squeeze it

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00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 1: out of him, and he would fully believe that I

898
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:54,520
Speaker 1: had this insane intuition and scared and was scared of

899
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:57,719
Speaker 1: me ever finding out. And then he deleted Instagram. Am

900
00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:02,480
Speaker 1: I the asshole? No, technically it's a violation of privacy. Yeah,

901
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:05,319
Speaker 1: because oh, she's saying when I was with my ex,

902
00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:07,480
Speaker 1: so they were dating at the time, it's not that

903
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 1: big a deal. Then I was gonna say, if it's

904
00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 1: your ex, like you're broken up, you kind of can't

905
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:13,560
Speaker 1: hold this shit over his he anymore. But same as me,

906
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:15,719
Speaker 1: Like I never confronted my ex about any of the

907
00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:18,760
Speaker 1: shit I saw, because I was like, I can't see this. Firstly, Secondly,

908
00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:21,200
Speaker 1: we're not together anymore. Yeah, it was just good for

909
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 1: me to like have that ammunition of like he's the

910
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 1: fucking worst guy ever. Anyway, you are a little bit

911
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:28,879
Speaker 1: of the asshole, because if roles were reversed and some

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00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 1: guy was buying on our instagrams, we'd be like, that's

913
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:35,399
Speaker 1: fucking ass that's that's shitty. Yeah, but do I care

914
00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:38,600
Speaker 1: that you've done it? No, you know what, I've done

915
00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:38,839
Speaker 1: it too.

916
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Speaker 2: This is a strong word. What I find admirable is

917
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 2: that she has looked weather in a relationship. But she

918
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:47,399
Speaker 2: would not have been an asshole if she figured out

919
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:50,960
Speaker 2: he was cheating or doing something awful. But she had

920
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 2: enough hindsight to be like, hey, my boyfriend who I

921
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:56,759
Speaker 2: love at this time is being gross in a group

922
00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 2: man's group, and she's just played them.

923
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 1: I keep forgetting that they were together at the time.

924
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 1: I like also that you didn't say, oh, hey I

925
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:07,000
Speaker 1: saw this, You were like, I just have this sneaky

926
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:10,480
Speaker 1: feeling that you're being gross like that you're messaging girls.

927
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 1: I like that you were able to get him to

928
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:15,600
Speaker 1: say it first going, hey, I've soalked your Instagram because

929
00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 1: then they'll flip it around on you and you're fucking crazy, like, well,

930
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 1: why are you messaging other girls? Then you make me

931
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:23,920
Speaker 1: like this? This is the cycle. Yeah, men make girls crazy.

932
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:26,319
Speaker 1: I was crazy in my first relationship. Maybe some would

933
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:28,920
Speaker 1: say like people would be like I was like, oh, psycho.

934
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm only a psycho because you're fucking my

935
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:33,239
Speaker 1: best friend and you're doing all this shit behind my back.

936
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:35,720
Speaker 1: Like then in my next relationship, I wasn't a psycho

937
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:39,040
Speaker 1: adult because I didn't have any reason to be. Evidently

938
00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:40,879
Speaker 1: I did, but I wasn't aware, you know what I mean.

939
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Speaker 1: It's just like it's situational when you're craziness that.

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Speaker 2: Point thess circumstances you're under. I'm like, yeah, i'd be

941
00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:49,360
Speaker 2: a pretty poor version of myself.

942
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Speaker 1: I can't say I wouldn't do the same thing. Okay,

943
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:54,640
Speaker 1: so I would like to think I wouldn't anymore, but

944
00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:58,600
Speaker 1: I have done something similar, so I will never judge you. Okay. Guys,

945
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Speaker 1: can't believe I'm saying this. That is a rap of

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Speaker 1: Season one of him Heat. I love you. This is

947
00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:07,880
Speaker 1: so exciting and I can't wait to bring you more

948
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Speaker 1: and better on season two. Stay tuned on My Socials

949
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Speaker 1: guys to see what I Am up to over this summer.

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Speaker 1: We have so many amazing plans for next year, so

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Speaker 1: we're just getting started. Stay tuned for twenty twenty six

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