WEBVTT - EP 35 - MEN WILL LITERALLY EARN A PHD IN DECEPTION!!!

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<v Speaker 1>Coming up on relatable men will literally complain about the

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<v Speaker 1>issue instead of fixing the issue.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah wait a second, though, what I feel like I

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<v Speaker 2>know a few people, one very very personally that likes

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<v Speaker 2>to complain about issues instead of hearing any sort of

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<v Speaker 2>solution to fix set issue. Relatable, right, Jake.

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<v Speaker 1>My girlfriend actually showed me this on Instagram and it

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<v Speaker 1>really stuck with me. I'm just going to say it

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. So ask women why she hates men.

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<v Speaker 1>She'll tell you a horrifying story involving violence, abuse, and harassment.

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<v Speaker 1>Ask a man why he hates women. He'll complain about feminists,

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<v Speaker 1>girls using him for free meals, and a friend who

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<v Speaker 1>got friend zone once and she didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Put out Damn, that's so true. That's there's zero comparisons

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<v Speaker 2>there at all. When you really say something the way

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<v Speaker 2>it is, you just think that's so dumb. And I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, she showed me and I was like, what

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<v Speaker 2>the actual fuck?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, like what have women ever actually done? The man?

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<v Speaker 3>Genuine question my I was. I was talking to my

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<v Speaker 3>parents about it.

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<v Speaker 2>They heard saw some clips from our episode with Luke

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<v Speaker 2>Bateman and the clips talking about vance against women.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was talking to them about it, and my parents.

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<v Speaker 2>Are just like, yeah, we've been watching crime shows every

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<v Speaker 2>night for twenty years and they were like, ninety nine

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<v Speaker 2>percent of the episodes are about a man killing a woman.

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<v Speaker 2>It's fucked up.

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<v Speaker 1>It's honestly crazy, and then we have the nerve to

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<v Speaker 1>complain about women.

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<v Speaker 2>The Relateds podcast This is about myself Jake Craig aka Daddy,

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<v Speaker 2>And I was thinking it didn't fucking hit me, my

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<v Speaker 2>pioneer crime mister Audie Clark aka mum me. Also, what

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<v Speaker 2>are you sick today? Yeah, maybe that's why I was

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<v Speaker 2>a bit slow.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe that's why you're.

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<v Speaker 2>A bit slow.

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<v Speaker 3>You usually I don't miss now that you said that.

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<v Speaker 2>For some reason, I'm going through every single minor interaction

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<v Speaker 2>we've had before starting to record today, and I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like every single one you've just been like a tiny

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<v Speaker 2>bit lagging.

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<v Speaker 1>Like maybe maybe that's it's the world forcing me to

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<v Speaker 1>slow down.

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<v Speaker 2>Like your Wi Fi connections ship, Yeah you needed any

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<v Speaker 2>connected to ethne I do I do plug me in

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<v Speaker 2>somewhere coming up?

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<v Speaker 1>Your mum, get me an IV, get me an IV.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually I did have a funny story to start, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>You would have fucking loved this if it happened to

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<v Speaker 1>us your ego. Yes, I've just stayed in hotel room

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<v Speaker 1>in Kingscliff, yeah, half an hour from the Gold Coast.

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<v Speaker 1>And as I checked in, I noticed there was a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of kids wearing New South Wales Origin jerseys. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, yeah, the Origins been up. He only

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<v Speaker 1>knew that because you told me, no, no, it's on

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<v Speaker 1>this week.

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<v Speaker 2>Was this week?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's on Wednesday.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, okay, even that's the story of more So,

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<v Speaker 1>all these kids were there and I was like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the Origins. I knew it was around this time anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I go to check in my room and

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<v Speaker 1>the elevator waiting is I don't know who any of

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<v Speaker 1>the Origin players with Tedesco, Oh James today game Tosco

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<v Speaker 1>and some other other player from Origins, they're staying in Kingsley.

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<v Speaker 2>I was staying there.

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<v Speaker 3>They just hate Queensland. They won't stay in Queensland.

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<v Speaker 2>They just the order. I say, it's something like that. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, Oh, that's kind of cool. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know he's right now, he's one of the best player

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<v Speaker 2>in the game. Yeah, And I was like that's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>And then a day goes past and I go for

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<v Speaker 1>a walk with my headphones, my wide headphones in and

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<v Speaker 1>had on and I'm drinking a power aid because I'm sick,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I'll just go go for a

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<v Speaker 1>twenty minute walk in the sun because I hadn't been

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<v Speaker 1>out of my hotel room. And then I come back

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<v Speaker 1>and all these kids what they must do is wait

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<v Speaker 1>for the team to come around, and then they get

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<v Speaker 1>their footy balls signed. And one of the kids came

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<v Speaker 1>up to me and he goes, excuse me, have you

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<v Speaker 1>signed my ball yet?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? Ship, what did you say?

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I was like, so, dude, Like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not in the team, you should have signed it, Like yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And then I was like, fucking if I looked that big.

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<v Speaker 2>Fucking over, I looked like a fucking State of Origin

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<v Speaker 2>player that she was like six That is so funny.

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<v Speaker 3>That would have made me feel good.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. The mom like clocked it like as I said no,

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<v Speaker 2>and then she just started laughing. I saw it made me.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, I know, I know, I'm like, uh, the

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<v Speaker 2>career might be there, guys. Who am I I went

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<v Speaker 2>for so in the first game, I went for New

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<v Speaker 2>South Wales instead of Origin. This might be the first

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<v Speaker 2>time we've ever talked about footy on the podcast. Yeah yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And then second game because New South Wales won the

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<v Speaker 2>first game. In the second game, I went for Queensland. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I've got no loyalty. I live in both places now

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<v Speaker 2>because I wanted the third game to be a decider,

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<v Speaker 2>So the third game is now a decider. Queensland won

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<v Speaker 2>the second game. So who do you actually want to win?

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<v Speaker 2>I think, but my heart's saying New South Wales, like

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like the Raised and then if Queensland wins, though,

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<v Speaker 2>I can be like, you should be one of those

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<v Speaker 2>people who have like the New soth Wales jerseys on

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<v Speaker 2>and then the newth Wales Jersey on and then as

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<v Speaker 2>soon as Queensland win, just looks like I just got

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<v Speaker 2>excited and fucking blended. No Beth goes for Queensland. Her

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<v Speaker 2>dad was born there, No dog, Yeah, yeah, what I

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<v Speaker 2>should do? Maybe I should support Beth and I'll did

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<v Speaker 2>you see I saw this video? So World Cup has

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<v Speaker 2>just obviously has been everywhere on my phone. The Mexican

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<v Speaker 2>team and the English team they're actually playing as we

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<v Speaker 2>speak right now, and the Mexican citizens go for their

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<v Speaker 2>fucking team found out what hotel the English team was

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<v Speaker 2>staying in, really, and they went out on the street

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<v Speaker 2>with drums and speakers and fucking fire works and we're

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<v Speaker 2>just so they couldn't so they.

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<v Speaker 3>Couldn't sleep the night prior.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, I would get me, Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be calling on the coaching, but we've got to move.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'll player give me a helicopter out

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<v Speaker 2>of here, right, yeah, like, or just come give me

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<v Speaker 2>that sleeping pill.

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<v Speaker 1>It's funny because like that's not illegal, but it feels it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's pretty bad sportsmanship.

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<v Speaker 3>And I saw all these comments of.

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<v Speaker 2>People be in like if you got to do that

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<v Speaker 2>for your team to win, then your team is not

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be good enough to win on some ship. Like

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<v Speaker 2>that's not a win. That's just fucking bad sportsmanship. But

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<v Speaker 2>I should do that to do South Wales. Yeah, because

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<v Speaker 2>you could tell me the hotel the whole team, I assume.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but this will come out too late, guys, Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I would be a snitch.

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<v Speaker 2>Funny, but yeah, do you want to do RG question,

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<v Speaker 2>let's do it. Let's jump into the IRG question. This

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<v Speaker 2>one was good, actually, yeah, this was funny. We asked,

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<v Speaker 2>men will literally blank instead of blank, and some of.

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<v Speaker 3>Them are pretty valid.

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<v Speaker 2>In my opinion, all of mine was so valid. Do

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<v Speaker 2>you want me to go first? Please? Men will literally

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<v Speaker 2>rewrite history and facts instead of apologizing or admitting fault. Yes, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>yes they will. Yes we will, yes we will.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like because we joke on the pod honestly about like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I would admit when my girlfriend's wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>I won't admit when you're wrong. There's a difference, actually,

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<v Speaker 2>is there?

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<v Speaker 3>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 1>So like I'll rewrite history or something like that to

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<v Speaker 1>prove myself right against you, I'll do anything in my

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<v Speaker 1>power to prove it from me again, But to my girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>I could happily admit when I'm wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, that's yeah. Like, is it all right if

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<v Speaker 2>we're gaslighting each other?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think that's friendly.

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<v Speaker 2>Gas lining goes a long way. But like a friendly

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<v Speaker 2>gas lighting can same as like a little white lie.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but like gender based gas lighting isn't to be

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<v Speaker 1>stand for Yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, we won't stand for that.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a line.

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<v Speaker 1>Funny thing happening the other day, So we were in

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<v Speaker 1>a car park, me and my girlfriend and I go

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<v Speaker 1>to pull out. She goes, you can't go this way,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's a dead end. Yeah, I'm pretty sure it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>And then she goes, no, it's a dead end, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, well, I can't turn around with wait and

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<v Speaker 1>see it was right And then we turned the corner

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<v Speaker 1>and it looked like a dead end. To give her credit,

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<v Speaker 1>and she goes, told you drove a little bit firm

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<v Speaker 1>you get out. I was like, firstly, you're wrong. Secondly,

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<v Speaker 1>you celebrated too early, suck ship that nothing would have

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<v Speaker 1>felt better than that. That would have been the highest.

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<v Speaker 2>It felt great. You like that could be that that

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<v Speaker 2>could be an addiction.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that could start to be an addiction.

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<v Speaker 2>Bro, it felt great.

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<v Speaker 1>And I've had a bad run recently of like not

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<v Speaker 1>getting things right, So really I was jew.

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<v Speaker 2>That is so funny.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, that is funny.

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<v Speaker 2>All right my turn.

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<v Speaker 1>Men will literally complain about the issue instead of fixing

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<v Speaker 1>the issue.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, wait a second though, what I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I know a few people, one very very personally that

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<v Speaker 2>likes to complain about issues instead of hearing any sort

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<v Speaker 2>of solution to fix set issue.

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<v Speaker 3>It took me talking about my girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, coming at us here it's pretty well known

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<v Speaker 2>that most of the time women would just like someone

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<v Speaker 2>to listen, and maybe every now and then we like

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<v Speaker 2>to complain, And so you went logic. Yeah, I was thinking,

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<v Speaker 2>like big picture problems, So men be complaining out here,

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<v Speaker 2>but say that one's like equal, then yeah, I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like that's a bit of a double standard. There, Come on,

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<v Speaker 2>why can't we do it soon?

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<v Speaker 1>I saw one and said, men will literally ask if

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<v Speaker 1>I want water when I need to be taken to hospital.

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<v Speaker 2>Water. Men will literally ask are you okay instead of

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<v Speaker 2>calling an ambulance? Uh, men will This one's funny because

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like this. If you're if you connect the

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<v Speaker 2>dots you meet, you may think it's quite funny. Men

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<v Speaker 2>will mob I can. Men will literally buy a three

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<v Speaker 2>thousand dollars meat smoker instead of going to therapy. I

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<v Speaker 2>can connect the dots. How funny is that?

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<v Speaker 3>That's fucking so true?

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<v Speaker 1>Bro won't say names, But we have a friend so

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<v Speaker 1>our group chat of all our friends has gone dead

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<v Speaker 1>for about eight eight months.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and then all.

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<v Speaker 1>Of a sudden, this guy gets god knows how expensive

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<v Speaker 1>the meat smoker was.

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<v Speaker 3>Trager one. Yeah, I assume that is AOD brand.

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<v Speaker 2>Really, really good.

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<v Speaker 1>He starts giving us like three minute long tutorials was

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<v Speaker 1>setting up this meat smoker and then smoking meat. It's

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<v Speaker 1>funny because one of our other friends who are still

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<v Speaker 1>friends with messaged me like just personally and goes, what

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<v Speaker 1>the fuck's going on? It's like, no one gives a

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<v Speaker 1>fuck about your meat smoker made.

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<v Speaker 2>It's likely equivalent of buying a slow cooker and being like,

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<v Speaker 2>so this is how I make this. You'd leave it

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<v Speaker 2>in there for eight hours, your fucking idiot. Fuck. That

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<v Speaker 2>is funny and not like let's like, I don't I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think I've ever even had any smoked meat, or

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<v Speaker 2>we would have had some smoked brisket. It like a

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<v Speaker 2>taste good.

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<v Speaker 1>It tastes good, but it's just like so much effort

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<v Speaker 1>and expensive.

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<v Speaker 2>I know it does taste good anyway, Yeah, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Men will literally spend hours building a flat pack and

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<v Speaker 1>instead of spending ten minutes reading the instruction manual.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I'm always always been an instructions guy. What about you? Ah,

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<v Speaker 2>not always, but most of the time there's not a

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<v Speaker 2>single part of me, like sometimes I got faith in myself.

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<v Speaker 2>If somebody opens a flat pack and just looks at

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<v Speaker 2>the instruction and goes nah, and there's just like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>different size screws, different like they're all labeled with a letter,

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<v Speaker 2>depends on the complexity of it, and they're just gonna

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<v Speaker 2>go for it.

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<v Speaker 1>You're a carpenter, Bato, I would have had some more

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<v Speaker 1>faith in you.

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<v Speaker 2>No. I feel like the reason I watched reading instructions

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<v Speaker 2>is because I'm a carpenter. I want it done right first.

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<v Speaker 3>Do it once, do it right?

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<v Speaker 2>What am I paying for?

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<v Speaker 1>Mate?

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<v Speaker 2>Who waste the time reading instructions? You pay a carpenter

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<v Speaker 2>to come and do Imagine you buy, like an ikea

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<v Speaker 2>flat pack and you're like, I don't want to funk

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<v Speaker 2>with this, so you pay a carpenter to come build it,

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<v Speaker 2>and then you watch him reading the instructions and you're like,

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<v Speaker 2>what am I paying for? I could do this.

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<v Speaker 3>I can read instructions too.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought this would say both of us time. It's

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<v Speaker 2>what you do, it's your job. That's a good business.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you go to school for this?

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<v Speaker 1>If you if the podcast ever fails, you should start.

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<v Speaker 1>I care a carpenter and you go around just building

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<v Speaker 1>flat packs for everyone.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a genius I reckon that would go viral it's.

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<v Speaker 3>A fucking genius idea and you.

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<v Speaker 1>Get really because it is annoying at the start, but

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<v Speaker 1>if you do a couple, you get really good. You'd

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<v Speaker 1>come in and out, Yeah, two hundred bucks, please take

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<v Speaker 1>a bunp an hour. True, you'd be a beast at it.

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<v Speaker 1>And how cheap our care stuff is. That's the downside

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<v Speaker 1>of it, but it kind of offsets it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, my parents they they just bought an Ikea kitchen.

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<v Speaker 3>They went to Ikea and for their house, not for

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<v Speaker 3>the one there.

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<v Speaker 2>So they're like, they are they bought one because they're

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<v Speaker 2>fixing up a kitchen in the house and selling it

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<v Speaker 2>and the acts are good.

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<v Speaker 3>And my dad said, he said it looks so nice.

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<v Speaker 2>It was it's like quite a bit cheaper than getting

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<v Speaker 2>a kitchen from like an actual kitchen place. And he

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<v Speaker 2>said that the trade off is that he has to

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<v Speaker 2>build it. Yeah, but he.

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<v Speaker 3>Doesn't know how to do it. He'll have to read

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<v Speaker 3>the instructions and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>But he said, like, you can get higher end ones

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<v Speaker 2>two from my Kia and they're fucking nice. Bro.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I've talked about we have a storage issue in

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<v Speaker 1>our walk in wardrobe. We're gonna when we get back

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<v Speaker 1>from Europe and so have a bit of cash pimpered

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<v Speaker 1>out of our kia.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah that's people go on TikTok and just look up

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<v Speaker 2>like ikea walk in wardrobe storage. People have the best

0:13:47.280 --> 0:13:50.400
<v Speaker 2>ideas can buy like ten individual things that go tow.

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<v Speaker 2>Can we get the double amount of space in there?

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<v Speaker 3>Hundred percent?

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<v Speaker 2>If the way you organize it is huge. Men will

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<v Speaker 2>literally earn a PhD in reception instead of a certificate

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<v Speaker 2>in communication. True. More it's a lot more effort to

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<v Speaker 2>get a PhD than a certificate as well, So deception, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I know all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Men will literally vomit facts onto you about the field

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<v Speaker 1>you're an expert in, instead of listening to you and

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<v Speaker 1>asking questions.

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<v Speaker 2>Why is it so man coded to like go, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I know a few things about that.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I've got a few facts in my

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<v Speaker 3>head about that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's yeah, I feel like on a date, when you

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<v Speaker 1>want a date with a girl you've just met, instead

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<v Speaker 1>of going like, I'm going to ask her some questions

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<v Speaker 1>about what she likes, I'm about Wait, I know what

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<v Speaker 1>she does. I can relate to her. It's a bit egotistical.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I've seen a few tiktoks about that.

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<v Speaker 1>I might spit out a.

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<v Speaker 2>Few opinions here and there, I might question her of it.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like a no, okay. Men will literally argue until

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<v Speaker 2>their faces blue that they aren't going bald instead of

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<v Speaker 2>just embracing the shiny head.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you should embrace to day if you need

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<v Speaker 1>a sign any man out there, It doesn't look too bad.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not like.

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<v Speaker 2>Arguing that I'm not going bald, but I can't embrace

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<v Speaker 2>the shiny head. Really, what would you do if you

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<v Speaker 2>were going board? But true? So here's the thing is,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm receding they're not going bald bold. So if I

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<v Speaker 2>was going bald bald, I think I would you have

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<v Speaker 2>been wearing that hat a hell of a lot more.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, yeah no at the moment, it's because my

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<v Speaker 2>hair is too long, hated and getting a haircut on Saturday.

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<v Speaker 2>And but also part of it is like sometimes when

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<v Speaker 2>the wind's blown the right way, you can see the

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<v Speaker 2>wrong way, yeah, the wrong oh yeah, the wrong way

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<v Speaker 2>for me, the right way for everyone else watching. You

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<v Speaker 2>can really see what's going on up there. And it's

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<v Speaker 2>I saw Beth showed me this video and it was

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<v Speaker 2>like if you know a guy with a receding hairline. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>go up to him and I came like, oh, what

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<v Speaker 2>do you what do you ask the barber to like

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<v Speaker 2>get your hair to cut like that?

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<v Speaker 3>It's like that's.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't touch the top, don't touch the top, don't touch

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<v Speaker 2>the top. Yeah, like what what do you ask him

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<v Speaker 2>to give him those big hoops at?

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<v Speaker 1>That's crazy? Men will literally memorized sports statistics instead of

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<v Speaker 1>remembering their friend's birthdays.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's so true. Is that's so true?

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<v Speaker 2>What am I?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I've got to be I think I've leaned more.

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<v Speaker 2>Into like, my my interest isn't sports, what is your interest?

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<v Speaker 3>My interest is more.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I would have said movies slightly more in

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<v Speaker 2>like the movie genre books recently, but now it's sort

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<v Speaker 2>of shifted to books, anything else I have. I hold

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<v Speaker 2>interests in some things, but maybe at the moment, the moment,

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<v Speaker 2>it's Lord of the Rings because I'm rewatching it. That's fair.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very male coded. I've recently got a new obsession.

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<v Speaker 2>You might love it.

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<v Speaker 1>May my girlfriend doesn't get it. But on YouTube there's

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<v Speaker 1>YouTubers who go on abandoned railways with hand built like

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<v Speaker 1>sort of rail crafted things, and they do the building

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<v Speaker 1>process of getting like their wheels that fit on the

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<v Speaker 1>edges of the railway track, and then they go explore

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<v Speaker 1>these abandoned railway tracks.

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<v Speaker 2>That's actually sick. It's pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 1>I watched like four hour long ones. Now what, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we've been sick. I was like, this is my new obsession.

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<v Speaker 3>That's hilarious.

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<v Speaker 2>Or I watched a lot of YouTube golf that's a

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<v Speaker 2>sport that's just sort of sort of men will literally

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<v Speaker 2>snore instead of breathe. That was your snoring, going, I

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<v Speaker 2>have something to tell you actually about this. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 2>I do ask questions. I so you're gonna be happy

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<v Speaker 2>about this because I know your girlfriend doesn't really like

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<v Speaker 2>to take your advice very often, usually because it's coming

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<v Speaker 2>from you, unfortunately. And so the other day, right before you,

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<v Speaker 2>we actually had dinner, the four of us, Beth and

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<v Speaker 2>I went into the chemist and just in like a

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<v Speaker 2>passing comment, she goes, oh, that's the tape my dad

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<v Speaker 2>uses to tape his mouth shut at night. And then

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<v Speaker 2>I think she was sort of hinting, I, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>should take my mouth.

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<v Speaker 3>But then I was in my head, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was like, oh, what do he keep saying I should

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<v Speaker 2>try tape in my mouth. Eh, And I bought it

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<v Speaker 2>and for the last I guess three four nights of

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<v Speaker 2>me nights, it's been I've taped my mouth each night.

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<v Speaker 2>And Beth said it's the best thing that's worked. Really,

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<v Speaker 2>So she said a little bit every now and then

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<v Speaker 2>it's like I kind of do like a like a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit of a small still, but she said, it's

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<v Speaker 2>the thing of all the things I've tried, it's the

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<v Speaker 2>best one where that's pretty good and it doesn't hurt

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<v Speaker 2>ripping your mustache. No, no, I it's like a roll

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<v Speaker 2>of tape. It was five bucks, get this. I just

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<v Speaker 2>cut it, yeah, because and I was thinking, like Ben

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<v Speaker 2>her dad he does and skimp out on sleep. This guy,

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<v Speaker 2>fucking have you been getting? Really? I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think so. I actually really really want to try.

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<v Speaker 2>And I keep seeing these things. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>I'm getting like what's the word, I guess influenced, but

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<v Speaker 2>I keep seeing that apparently if you sleep on your back,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not good to sleep with a pillow at all.

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<v Speaker 3>Apparently you're not supposed to sleep with the pillow. You're

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<v Speaker 3>supposed to like.

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<v Speaker 2>Fillo Apparently it's supposed to like just kind of roll

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<v Speaker 2>up a towel and sleep with it under your neck,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's like the natural position and it opens up

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<v Speaker 2>your airways more because like, if you think about it,

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<v Speaker 2>sleeping with a pillow is the equivalent of like sitting

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<v Speaker 2>here and like going on your phone and neck down. True,

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<v Speaker 2>like it's bad for your posture apparently, but if you

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<v Speaker 2>sleep on your side. So here's the thing, is I

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<v Speaker 2>kind of chop and change the night. I can wake

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<v Speaker 2>up on my side or something like that. But I'd

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<v Speaker 2>like to force him on my back.

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<v Speaker 1>What if it's got like a very very skinny pillow.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I've had that in the past.

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<v Speaker 2>I was a classic dude that had like a sheet

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<v Speaker 2>of paper for a pillow, and I used to love

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<v Speaker 2>that thing and I would die on the hill that

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<v Speaker 2>it was the best thing ever. And then I've got

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<v Speaker 2>the I've got the pillow that I have now. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's a good pillow. But i've recently, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know if it's like placebo, but ever since I started

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<v Speaker 2>seeing these videos, I was like.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, when I'm on my back, I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, yeah, this really isn't that great. Okay, So I

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<v Speaker 2>might try to start sleeping with a towel, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And your point of that was to say you took

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<v Speaker 1>my advice. Yeah, oh yeah, sorry to make you feel

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<v Speaker 1>good that it took your advice. Yeah, I'm proud of

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<v Speaker 1>you and that makes me feel good. I also fucking

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<v Speaker 1>sent you mouth tape on Amazon like a game by

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<v Speaker 1>like six weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah. So my thing was, I was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>such an idiot, right, So I bought a fifty dollars

0:20:46.480 --> 0:20:50.720
<v Speaker 2>mouthpiece like a mouthguard. Yeah, and it hurt my teeth. Okay, sorry,

0:20:50.720 --> 0:20:52.880
<v Speaker 2>I didn't use it anymore. I've made I spent twenty

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<v Speaker 2>bucks on my chin strap, and I just stopped using

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<v Speaker 2>it because what it was doing was I felt like

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<v Speaker 2>it was really pulling my chin back up into my

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<v Speaker 2>fucking brain. And I was like, I just don't like this,

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<v Speaker 2>And so then.

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<v Speaker 3>I stopped everything for a bit.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was seventy bucks in the hole and that

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<v Speaker 2>he was sending me there just like pack of things

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<v Speaker 2>where you get like sixty for forty five bucks and

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<v Speaker 2>his mouth tapes, and I was like, I'm not spending

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<v Speaker 2>forty five bucks every two months. I've refused, but I

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<v Speaker 2>will spend fifty bucks. Well, I will spend seventy bucks

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<v Speaker 2>and not use it every again. And now I found

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<v Speaker 2>this mouth tape five bucks. Okay, interesting, I'm using it's good.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have sensitive skin either, No, yeah, because it's

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<v Speaker 1>probably not that like good for like your skin or bree.

0:21:27.040 --> 0:21:29.640
<v Speaker 2>It goes directly on my lips. Yeah, and it still

0:21:29.640 --> 0:21:32.920
<v Speaker 2>feels frone. Oh, not any of the skin surrounding. Nah. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>Because I was like, I don't want to cut my

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<v Speaker 2>mustache because that's my personality. Like if I cut my mustache, if.

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<v Speaker 1>You went full mouth, you would avoid the little there's

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<v Speaker 1>no you've got You're getting room outside of where you're

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<v Speaker 1>put in the tape. You've just been around there. It's

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<v Speaker 1>got more structure behind it. So if I was to

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<v Speaker 1>cut on my stage, because I you won't just do

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<v Speaker 1>it once. You don't have to cut your stars and

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<v Speaker 1>then can you get used? Wouldn't rip your hair out

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<v Speaker 1>it's all that sticky.

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<v Speaker 2>It'd be such a weird. It's I thought I was

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<v Speaker 2>a little I need to buy more.

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<v Speaker 1>Not I used to do it, and I woke up

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of times wgging out.

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<v Speaker 3>I haven't woken up wigging out yet.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, it keeps happening to me. So you know

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<v Speaker 2>how the bad is promen know, we constantly complain about

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<v Speaker 2>pissing in the night.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so I am was.

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<v Speaker 2>Just it was it was super It was really annoying

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<v Speaker 2>me because the only times I would ever like be

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<v Speaker 2>anxious would be when I get up to piss, and

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<v Speaker 2>then for some reason, it like like when it's late

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<v Speaker 2>at night and you're thinking, oh, I need to fall

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<v Speaker 2>back asleep, and then you can't. That's when I would

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<v Speaker 2>get anxious, and then I would struggle to fall back asleep.

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<v Speaker 2>And so just for a couple of nights in a row,

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<v Speaker 2>I just was like, if I wake up and need

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<v Speaker 2>to piss, I'm just gonna try and fall back asleep.

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<v Speaker 2>And so it's actually worked more often than not. Now

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<v Speaker 2>I don't piss in the night, but sometimes at like five,

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<v Speaker 2>you wake up and it's it's like dripping out of

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<v Speaker 2>that's that's that's even worse. Yeah, It's like I would

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<v Speaker 2>prefer to wake up at like one o'clock. Yeah, then

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<v Speaker 2>I was thinking that I was like, I prefer to

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<v Speaker 2>wake up at midnight and piss and go to bed

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<v Speaker 2>for five fucking hours or six hours or whatever. They

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<v Speaker 2>wake up at six, six thirty fucking five.

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<v Speaker 3>And so it happened to me this morning.

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<v Speaker 1>But I still get like a good seven and a

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<v Speaker 1>half eight hours of sleep. So while you got the

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<v Speaker 1>studio early man extra, a couple of hours kept me.

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<v Speaker 1>So maybe the mouth tapes working everyone's.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I'm start just sending out in voices. I

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<v Speaker 2>might start replying to emails, I might start doing just

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<v Speaker 2>start wearing. I hate it when people set you up.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, men will literally far on each other instead

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<v Speaker 1>of eating ass.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you like that I don't see is that

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<v Speaker 2>as like a bad thing. You're one of the non

0:23:51.960 --> 0:23:55.840
<v Speaker 2>ars eaters on you know. I I would dabble if

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<v Speaker 2>it was an option, But like when you're at checkout,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel God.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't see anything wrong with preferring to far on

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<v Speaker 2>someone then eat asks. I feel like there's some women

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<v Speaker 2>out there who.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, of course I agree, it's probably not.

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<v Speaker 1>And then men are out here fucking tooting on each

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<v Speaker 1>other rather look at that ship up.

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<v Speaker 2>I would understand if you said, like, men were literally

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<v Speaker 2>far on each other instead of eating pussy, because then

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<v Speaker 2>I would be like, yeah, you know, go down there

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<v Speaker 2>and eat some puss or men aren't eating pussy. I

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<v Speaker 2>think that's a thing. I think some men don't like it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to question your sexuality.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, what do you like would the first sausage

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<v Speaker 2>in your mouth? Like? Not again, not to fucking like,

0:24:45.520 --> 0:24:47.840
<v Speaker 2>each to their own, but it's like, what do you

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<v Speaker 2>mean do you also close your eyes when you're having sex?

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<v Speaker 3>Like I don't want to be rude.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if I don't know if we can

0:24:54.680 --> 0:24:57.359
<v Speaker 2>say this, but it's a good question, Like there's some

0:24:57.440 --> 0:25:01.840
<v Speaker 2>questions you need to ask for process of elimination, like Jesus.

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<v Speaker 3>Bad he is welcome back.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure you've all been very excited for this segment

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<v Speaker 2>I have. This week. We will be reading you, guys,

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<v Speaker 2>our lyrics to our Krispy Kreme jingles. Oh yeah, I actually,

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<v Speaker 2>I would like to say, because there's no better occasion

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<v Speaker 2>like the current occasion of reading out your jingle lyrics. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna eat a donut while I'm doing it. Good

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<v Speaker 2>idea popcorn? It's delicious. That one looks crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, who wants to go first?

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<v Speaker 2>Second? Best?

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<v Speaker 3>So you go first, second, the best, first, the worst?

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<v Speaker 2>You reckon that's how it goes.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, what do you want?

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<v Speaker 2>Lyrics? First on vibes, give me vibes and how you

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<v Speaker 2>got to the lyrics?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, okay, here we go.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to go.

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<v Speaker 3>So vibes.

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<v Speaker 2>I was feeling sort of new age, new era interesting.

0:25:58.720 --> 0:26:00.720
<v Speaker 2>I want to I want to lean into the sort

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<v Speaker 2>of like, you know, I'm hip, I'm young.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to give it some umph.

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<v Speaker 2>And I went for a bit of a rap style,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I like that. Yeah, yeah, no, no, no,

0:26:15.760 --> 0:26:18.560
<v Speaker 2>actually I don't like I'm channeling the inner mc jake

0:26:20.720 --> 0:26:26.720
<v Speaker 2>mc daddy as some might say. And so yeah, basically

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<v Speaker 2>that's how I got there. I was thinking, I want

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<v Speaker 2>to I want to be cool cool, and then lyrics wise,

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<v Speaker 2>I was thinking of I was trying to keep it

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<v Speaker 2>nice and short but sweet, but wanted to hit everyone

0:26:37.400 --> 0:26:38.920
<v Speaker 2>in the fields type of thing, you know. I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to kind of be like bopping their heads, and so

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<v Speaker 2>I kept it nice and short. But I've gone just

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<v Speaker 2>a couple of scenarios, and then I wanted to finish

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<v Speaker 2>off with like obviously kind of like a to Z

0:26:49.600 --> 0:26:52.840
<v Speaker 2>type scenario. You know, think of a scenario you can

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<v Speaker 2>have a Krispy Kreme just because. Okay, that's the thinking,

0:26:55.320 --> 0:26:59.160
<v Speaker 2>that's the thinking of it. Okay, so you want the lyrics, Yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So.

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<v Speaker 2>Monday morning, Friday night, nailed the job or missed the flight,

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<v Speaker 2>don't even worry. Don't even pause krispy Kreme, just be

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<v Speaker 2>cause I'm not going to show any emotions. Come on,

0:27:18.560 --> 0:27:20.879
<v Speaker 2>you know that hit and just you wait until you

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<v Speaker 2>hear production had libs. Alright, just you I see the vision. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think it's there. Ah. Do I know my jingle? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>I do, all right, So as I do, I will

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<v Speaker 1>pick up my donut. Similarly, I have thought of what

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<v Speaker 1>it actually.

0:27:45.359 --> 0:27:46.919
<v Speaker 2>Means to eat a donut.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, krispy Kreme donut might obviously, and krispy Kreme donut,

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<v Speaker 1>And for.

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<v Speaker 2>Me, it's like nostalgia. Ah, okay, your childhood. You think,

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<v Speaker 2>what's a sweet treat that I've always loved? I'm thinking

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<v Speaker 2>a krispy Kreme?

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<v Speaker 1>And like you, I thought of random at zed moments

0:28:13.359 --> 0:28:16.960
<v Speaker 1>or simple times in life where you think, well, it

0:28:16.960 --> 0:28:18.600
<v Speaker 1>would be a good time to eat a krispy Kreme

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<v Speaker 1>don't So I've gone that route to pull on the

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<v Speaker 1>heart strings a little bit and.

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<v Speaker 2>Think when you were a child. Where's your jingle? For example?

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely is your emotions?

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<v Speaker 3>You want yours to remind you of a smell?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you're welcome.

0:28:32.600 --> 0:28:35.640
<v Speaker 1>By the way, I'm pulling on the heart strings as

0:28:35.680 --> 0:28:40.360
<v Speaker 1>songs should do. Jingles should do, pull on those emotions. Okay,

0:28:41.800 --> 0:28:42.880
<v Speaker 1>mine short and sweet too?

0:28:43.080 --> 0:28:43.520
<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you ready? So the lyrics are I can't sing

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<v Speaker 2>them because you'll get scared. How good I am? So

0:28:50.600 --> 0:28:52.480
<v Speaker 2>you're just going to say them? Yeah?

0:28:52.520 --> 0:28:58.080
<v Speaker 1>So it's driving just because, smiling, just because Krispy Kreme

0:28:58.520 --> 0:28:59.920
<v Speaker 1>the sweet treat on repeat?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? All right? How good was that last light? I've

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<v Speaker 2>got notes, but I'm not going to tell you them

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<v Speaker 2>because I don't want you to improve, because there's no

0:29:12.200 --> 0:29:12.920
<v Speaker 2>room for improvement.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, Well, we'll see you next week with a

0:29:19.040 --> 0:29:23.000
<v Speaker 1>fully produced couple of jingles to see what happens. I'm

0:29:23.080 --> 0:29:31.680
<v Speaker 1>so excited for this day, all.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, dilemma. If you want to submit a dilemma, submit

0:29:34.880 --> 0:29:37.440
<v Speaker 2>it via the link in the bio or the description

0:29:38.240 --> 0:29:40.360
<v Speaker 2>this video. There is a link in the bar of Instagram.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, click on it and scroll down. You'll see it.

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<v Speaker 2>See I'm slurw today, mate, And if you want to

0:29:45.920 --> 0:29:49.760
<v Speaker 2>have your dilemma have about a ninety two percent chance

0:29:49.800 --> 0:29:52.400
<v Speaker 2>of being read. Submit it in Patreon. You have to

0:29:52.440 --> 0:29:55.920
<v Speaker 2>be a patron member for that, of course, but plug Patreon.

0:29:56.800 --> 0:30:00.520
<v Speaker 2>Well yeah, okay, hey, boys, absolutely adore the pod. This

0:30:00.600 --> 0:30:03.440
<v Speaker 2>isn't a relationship to Lemma, but as a young badd

0:30:03.480 --> 0:30:05.480
<v Speaker 2>he's still in school. What is both of your guys'

0:30:05.560 --> 0:30:09.480
<v Speaker 2>advice for someone who is unsure of their pathway after

0:30:09.520 --> 0:30:13.200
<v Speaker 2>they after they graduate. I still have one year to go,

0:30:13.720 --> 0:30:15.560
<v Speaker 2>and the fact that I don't have any plans is

0:30:15.600 --> 0:30:18.920
<v Speaker 2>worrying me. Any advice will be taken on. Thank you

0:30:18.960 --> 0:30:22.600
<v Speaker 2>so much. You boys are so genuine and inspiring. I

0:30:22.640 --> 0:30:24.760
<v Speaker 2>listen to you every day, whether it's getting ready or

0:30:24.800 --> 0:30:31.240
<v Speaker 2>doing whatever else. What is the master in kung fu? Pandacord? Oh?

0:30:31.280 --> 0:30:34.880
<v Speaker 2>Which one? That's the turtles? Master Shefu? Yeah, most of

0:30:35.560 --> 0:30:37.680
<v Speaker 2>the turtle. You can be master shefu? On to be

0:30:37.720 --> 0:30:41.520
<v Speaker 2>the turtle. Okay, okay, so master Shefu and then okay,

0:30:41.520 --> 0:30:44.520
<v Speaker 2>master Shefu I'm sure is a little like raccoon. Yeah

0:30:44.560 --> 0:30:47.640
<v Speaker 2>that could be you. Yeah, he's cool. And then I'm

0:30:47.680 --> 0:30:48.560
<v Speaker 2>the turtle. What's his name?

0:30:48.720 --> 0:30:49.640
<v Speaker 3>It's not pay lung.

0:30:49.960 --> 0:30:52.640
<v Speaker 1>No, there's heaps of like memes on him online with

0:30:52.880 --> 0:30:54.520
<v Speaker 1>yeah great one liners.

0:30:54.280 --> 0:30:56.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, yeah he's a weapone. Yeah he like fades

0:30:56.920 --> 0:30:58.800
<v Speaker 2>away into a peach tree or some shit. Everyone knows

0:30:58.840 --> 0:31:04.240
<v Speaker 2>who I'm talking about. Anyway, what's master a? Yeah that

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<v Speaker 2>is us?

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, wait Master, she is quite impatient, young padwa. All right,

0:31:14.480 --> 0:31:18.080
<v Speaker 1>here is my advice. She said she has no plans

0:31:18.160 --> 0:31:21.920
<v Speaker 1>and it's what she say was an exact.

0:31:21.640 --> 0:31:24.040
<v Speaker 3>Wordingh stressing around a bit.

0:31:24.720 --> 0:31:27.240
<v Speaker 2>She has no plans and it's stressing her around. Yeah,

0:31:27.840 --> 0:31:31.280
<v Speaker 2>it's worrying. No plans are the best plans.

0:31:33.520 --> 0:31:35.760
<v Speaker 3>What what does Master say?

0:31:38.640 --> 0:31:45.360
<v Speaker 2>Yesterday is the past, Tomorrow is the future, Today is

0:31:45.360 --> 0:31:45.840
<v Speaker 2>the present.

0:31:46.600 --> 0:31:47.600
<v Speaker 3>No, today is a gift.

0:31:48.120 --> 0:31:52.680
<v Speaker 2>That is why they call it a present. Actually no,

0:31:52.800 --> 0:31:55.239
<v Speaker 2>semi relatable, not to me, but to my so my

0:31:55.280 --> 0:31:58.960
<v Speaker 2>younger brother. He's about to finish year eleven. He's got

0:31:58.960 --> 0:32:00.480
<v Speaker 2>one term of year eleven left and then he goes

0:32:00.480 --> 0:32:04.360
<v Speaker 2>into year twelve. And my parents they've been asking him like,

0:32:04.400 --> 0:32:08.240
<v Speaker 2>what do you want to do? You know, because what's

0:32:08.240 --> 0:32:08.640
<v Speaker 2>he's saying.

0:32:09.240 --> 0:32:11.760
<v Speaker 3>He's like, I don't know, And I asked him.

0:32:12.080 --> 0:32:13.800
<v Speaker 2>I was like, I just went out for dinner for

0:32:13.840 --> 0:32:18.360
<v Speaker 2>my mom's birthday and I asked him. I was like, oh,

0:32:18.880 --> 0:32:20.400
<v Speaker 2>what do you what are you thinking about doing? And

0:32:20.400 --> 0:32:22.680
<v Speaker 2>he's just like, I don't know. That's fair. He also

0:32:22.760 --> 0:32:25.440
<v Speaker 2>doesn't want to know. He has zero interest in anything.

0:32:25.840 --> 0:32:27.640
<v Speaker 1>Well, I feel that there's a difference. I don't want

0:32:27.640 --> 0:32:30.000
<v Speaker 1>to say he's applying at least at least this baddie.

0:32:30.080 --> 0:32:32.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he's not applying himself at least this batty is

0:32:32.800 --> 0:32:35.400
<v Speaker 2>like I want to plan. Yeah, I want to plan

0:32:35.440 --> 0:32:36.720
<v Speaker 2>and I want to figure it out, but I don't know.

0:32:36.760 --> 0:32:39.000
<v Speaker 2>And if he wants a plan, he's not fucking showing it.

0:32:39.520 --> 0:32:40.480
<v Speaker 2>I'll tell you that much.

0:32:40.880 --> 0:32:43.400
<v Speaker 1>But this is relatable because I think a lot of

0:32:43.880 --> 0:32:47.880
<v Speaker 1>young baddies out there in the schooling systems. There's a

0:32:47.880 --> 0:32:50.440
<v Speaker 1>lot of advice from a lot of people, your parents, teachers,

0:32:51.160 --> 0:32:54.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, people influencers like ourselves who are telling

0:32:54.440 --> 0:32:56.680
<v Speaker 1>you one thing or you look at their journey and

0:32:56.680 --> 0:32:59.080
<v Speaker 1>think I want that, which I guess is good. But

0:33:00.120 --> 0:33:04.400
<v Speaker 1>no one can see the world through your eyes, and

0:33:04.480 --> 0:33:06.960
<v Speaker 1>when you are that age, you haven't seen enough.

0:33:06.800 --> 0:33:08.040
<v Speaker 2>To make an informed decision.

0:33:08.360 --> 0:33:11.480
<v Speaker 1>No, So I think I could make some jokes about

0:33:11.480 --> 0:33:14.160
<v Speaker 1>what you should do, but all jokes aside. I think

0:33:14.200 --> 0:33:18.160
<v Speaker 1>you should honestly, just chill and let life do its course,

0:33:18.200 --> 0:33:20.239
<v Speaker 1>and whenever you have a passion or interest in just

0:33:20.440 --> 0:33:22.240
<v Speaker 1>slightly pursue it and see what happens.

0:33:23.080 --> 0:33:27.480
<v Speaker 3>Here is okay, this is I don't know.

0:33:27.480 --> 0:33:29.600
<v Speaker 2>I said, we've told the story before. We actually told

0:33:29.640 --> 0:33:34.600
<v Speaker 2>it last week, I think, so we both. So I

0:33:34.640 --> 0:33:36.800
<v Speaker 2>went straight out of I finished you ten and I

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<v Speaker 2>went and did a carpentry apprenticeship, which I didn't enjoy

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<v Speaker 2>but I don't regret doing.

0:33:42.200 --> 0:33:42.880
<v Speaker 3>And I didn't like that.

0:33:42.920 --> 0:33:45.880
<v Speaker 2>So then I went and worked in a bar as

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<v Speaker 2>a bartender, and then I actually didn't mind that, and

0:33:49.440 --> 0:33:51.080
<v Speaker 2>then I was kind of like, I just don't think

0:33:51.120 --> 0:33:53.280
<v Speaker 2>this is what I want to do forever though, And

0:33:54.600 --> 0:33:57.160
<v Speaker 2>then Otdie was like, let's try doing a podcast. You know,

0:33:57.240 --> 0:34:00.560
<v Speaker 2>people do four years at UNI and then they quite

0:34:00.640 --> 0:34:05.560
<v Speaker 2>often will finish UNI and do something completely different. So

0:34:05.600 --> 0:34:09.880
<v Speaker 2>it's like, why not quote unquote waste not really waste.

0:34:09.960 --> 0:34:12.120
<v Speaker 2>Why not try and get four years of experience in

0:34:13.120 --> 0:34:16.279
<v Speaker 2>something that could pay off and after four years, if

0:34:16.320 --> 0:34:19.720
<v Speaker 2>it's not working, then that's when we'll hang up the mics.

0:34:20.040 --> 0:34:24.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And luckily for us it worked. We graduated with

0:34:24.040 --> 0:34:25.080
<v Speaker 1>the Bachelor of Podcasting.

0:34:25.160 --> 0:34:26.759
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Yeah, we have a bachelor of podcast and we

0:34:26.800 --> 0:34:31.160
<v Speaker 2>have a degree in Yeah. Right, But I think I'm

0:34:31.160 --> 0:34:33.160
<v Speaker 2>trying to think, like what type of advice would I

0:34:33.200 --> 0:34:34.360
<v Speaker 2>have wanted to hear?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I think as a young.

0:34:36.040 --> 0:34:38.800
<v Speaker 1>Person, the battie listening right now, or all the batties

0:34:38.840 --> 0:34:42.360
<v Speaker 1>listening right now in a similar position, we thinking great.

0:34:42.160 --> 0:34:43.120
<v Speaker 2>But like where do I start?

0:34:43.200 --> 0:34:46.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, exactly, Yeah, And because a lot of people need structure,

0:34:46.640 --> 0:34:48.160
<v Speaker 1>I can relate to that. And I think, get a

0:34:48.160 --> 0:34:50.279
<v Speaker 1>part time job so you have enough money to live

0:34:51.160 --> 0:34:52.680
<v Speaker 1>and then stuff issuing a passion.

0:34:52.800 --> 0:34:53.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's all you.

0:34:53.600 --> 0:34:55.120
<v Speaker 3>Have to do to agree with that.

0:34:55.160 --> 0:34:55.480
<v Speaker 2>Two things.

0:34:55.600 --> 0:34:57.719
<v Speaker 1>Just makes enough money you don't need to be doing nothing. Yeah,

0:34:57.760 --> 0:34:59.480
<v Speaker 1>you won't regret that, And then you don't know what

0:34:59.520 --> 0:35:02.120
<v Speaker 1>the little could turn into. You could start to like Jake,

0:35:02.160 --> 0:35:04.560
<v Speaker 1>you started the bottom pour and beers and then you go, oh,

0:35:04.680 --> 0:35:06.680
<v Speaker 1>management's all right, and I like event management.

0:35:06.719 --> 0:35:08.239
<v Speaker 2>I could study that. Or you go, I fucking hate that.

0:35:08.320 --> 0:35:11.200
<v Speaker 2>Let me try a different job. Yeah that's it. And see,

0:35:11.560 --> 0:35:16.240
<v Speaker 2>I think a lot of people are like I assume,

0:35:16.280 --> 0:35:18.600
<v Speaker 2>like bad the baddie that's sent this in, right, I

0:35:18.640 --> 0:35:21.960
<v Speaker 2>have a feeling in your head you're kind of so

0:35:23.000 --> 0:35:26.520
<v Speaker 2>I think you know logically that you have a lot

0:35:26.520 --> 0:35:29.040
<v Speaker 2>of time, but it doesn't feel like it, and you

0:35:29.160 --> 0:35:31.120
<v Speaker 2>feel like you need to have your the rest of

0:35:31.160 --> 0:35:35.400
<v Speaker 2>your life like planned out right now. But that's just

0:35:35.520 --> 0:35:38.840
<v Speaker 2>not the case. Like it's so easy to say, but

0:35:38.960 --> 0:35:41.000
<v Speaker 2>trying to get it to a point where you truly

0:35:41.040 --> 0:35:48.360
<v Speaker 2>believe that is what's very difficult. And put it this way.

0:35:47.360 --> 0:35:49.839
<v Speaker 3>I am like.

0:35:51.600 --> 0:35:54.399
<v Speaker 2>Oddie and I are at the exact same position in life. Right,

0:35:54.880 --> 0:35:59.960
<v Speaker 2>Oddie has done he started an architecture course at university,

0:36:00.280 --> 0:36:04.720
<v Speaker 2>didn't finish it. He tried twice, right, he then then

0:36:04.920 --> 0:36:08.280
<v Speaker 2>he didn't finish, try twice and finish it because he sucks.

0:36:08.400 --> 0:36:12.000
<v Speaker 2>And then he was he did some laboring, Yeah, and

0:36:12.040 --> 0:36:16.279
<v Speaker 2>then also was like laboring sucks, obviously offered, got offered

0:36:16.280 --> 0:36:19.799
<v Speaker 2>a carp andr apprenticeship. Said no, Then did you move

0:36:19.840 --> 0:36:22.480
<v Speaker 2>from that to doing the garden maintenance? Yes? Yeah, So

0:36:22.520 --> 0:36:24.480
<v Speaker 2>then he did garden maintenance. His dad is a hort

0:36:24.520 --> 0:36:29.640
<v Speaker 2>or culturist and has like a small garden maintenance landscaping company,

0:36:29.880 --> 0:36:32.640
<v Speaker 2>and so he was doing that. And then while he

0:36:32.680 --> 0:36:36.359
<v Speaker 2>was doing that, odd he got a certificate three and

0:36:36.560 --> 0:36:41.600
<v Speaker 2>four in physical personal training personal training, right, and was like,

0:36:41.800 --> 0:36:43.319
<v Speaker 2>oh I also don't really want to do that.

0:36:43.840 --> 0:36:45.759
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, Actually, like if the podcast didn't work, I'd

0:36:45.800 --> 0:36:47.680
<v Speaker 1>probably be doing it. Yeah, it's because I like, I

0:36:47.719 --> 0:36:48.960
<v Speaker 1>found a passion for the gym.

0:36:48.800 --> 0:36:53.080
<v Speaker 2>And then we started the podcast and that worked, and

0:36:53.120 --> 0:36:56.200
<v Speaker 2>then mine is right. I left school in year ten,

0:36:57.040 --> 0:37:01.040
<v Speaker 2>I got a carpentry apprenticeship, became a license carp and

0:37:01.120 --> 0:37:03.640
<v Speaker 2>I didn't like it. You know, I went through four

0:37:03.719 --> 0:37:06.920
<v Speaker 2>years of what some people would feel like it's a

0:37:06.920 --> 0:37:10.160
<v Speaker 2>ways to take years of school and then and then

0:37:11.200 --> 0:37:13.520
<v Speaker 2>you and then I went and I was a bartender

0:37:13.560 --> 0:37:14.960
<v Speaker 2>and like I said, I worked myself way up to

0:37:15.040 --> 0:37:19.320
<v Speaker 2>management and now I am a podcaster. Like Audie and

0:37:19.360 --> 0:37:22.479
<v Speaker 2>I went through pretty different paths to get where we're going.

0:37:22.520 --> 0:37:25.800
<v Speaker 2>And we both started things and didn't finish them exactly.

0:37:25.960 --> 0:37:28.200
<v Speaker 2>And so I'm trying to say, is is like you

0:37:28.239 --> 0:37:31.399
<v Speaker 2>could right now think that I want to fucking try

0:37:31.520 --> 0:37:34.759
<v Speaker 2>architecture or I want to try school teaching, Like, go

0:37:34.880 --> 0:37:37.840
<v Speaker 2>and try it, and if you don't like it, don't

0:37:37.880 --> 0:37:41.160
<v Speaker 2>fucking do it. And don't let someone be like, oh

0:37:41.280 --> 0:37:43.040
<v Speaker 2>you started it, you need to finish it, Like, don't

0:37:43.040 --> 0:37:46.200
<v Speaker 2>be acquit at Like that's so fucking dumb to me,

0:37:46.680 --> 0:37:47.440
<v Speaker 2>So dumb.

0:37:47.600 --> 0:37:50.319
<v Speaker 1>That really resonates with me, and I think it is

0:37:50.360 --> 0:37:52.200
<v Speaker 1>easier said than done. But a lot of the time

0:37:52.239 --> 0:37:54.640
<v Speaker 1>the reason you stick something out is because you care

0:37:54.640 --> 0:37:58.839
<v Speaker 1>what other people think, or your parents especially are saying like, oh,

0:37:58.880 --> 0:38:01.320
<v Speaker 1>that's not a good idea because that's all they've ever known. Yeah,

0:38:01.440 --> 0:38:04.200
<v Speaker 1>but they don't know what life's like in twenty twenty six. No,

0:38:04.280 --> 0:38:06.680
<v Speaker 1>they did it fucking twenty five, thirty years ago. True,

0:38:07.120 --> 0:38:09.680
<v Speaker 1>we're in a different world right now, and like, you

0:38:09.719 --> 0:38:11.600
<v Speaker 1>know what's best for you, don't go and do nothing.

0:38:11.680 --> 0:38:13.279
<v Speaker 1>But if you like you sound like abat it, who's

0:38:13.280 --> 0:38:14.480
<v Speaker 1>applying yourself in life?

0:38:14.600 --> 0:38:17.879
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think you can do anything. I think as well. Yeah,

0:38:17.920 --> 0:38:20.759
<v Speaker 2>you seem like you want a plan. Yeah, and there's

0:38:20.840 --> 0:38:23.120
<v Speaker 2>nothing wrong with having a plan. And you might have

0:38:23.160 --> 0:38:24.759
<v Speaker 2>friends that are like, oh, I'm doing this, I'm in

0:38:24.760 --> 0:38:27.239
<v Speaker 2>this degree, I've got accept into this, blah blah blah.

0:38:27.360 --> 0:38:28.719
<v Speaker 2>They know exactly what they're going to do with the

0:38:28.760 --> 0:38:31.319
<v Speaker 2>rest of their life. But like they're your age.

0:38:31.719 --> 0:38:34.880
<v Speaker 1>I just wish that it is hard too, because some friends,

0:38:34.960 --> 0:38:37.240
<v Speaker 1>or they won't admit it, will say they know exactly

0:38:37.239 --> 0:38:39.799
<v Speaker 1>what they want to do and do it, and they

0:38:39.840 --> 0:38:41.520
<v Speaker 1>stick to their one path and you're like, why can't

0:38:41.520 --> 0:38:44.360
<v Speaker 1>that be me? And firstly I looked at it, and

0:38:44.400 --> 0:38:45.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I wish I was like that. But also

0:38:46.200 --> 0:38:47.720
<v Speaker 1>they could be like that, but they also.

0:38:47.520 --> 0:38:48.200
<v Speaker 3>Could be lying to you.

0:38:48.400 --> 0:38:50.799
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and they're just sticking it out because it's they

0:38:50.840 --> 0:38:52.719
<v Speaker 1>don't let you know that mental debate we just went through.

0:38:53.000 --> 0:38:54.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I just I don't know what advice that your

0:38:54.920 --> 0:38:56.960
<v Speaker 2>age would have helped me. I think hearing all of

0:38:57.000 --> 0:38:59.160
<v Speaker 2>this could have helped me a bit, but it wouldn't

0:38:59.160 --> 0:39:03.279
<v Speaker 2>have helped me make a decisonion They Okay, I want

0:39:03.280 --> 0:39:05.360
<v Speaker 2>to say any decision you make is the right decision

0:39:05.360 --> 0:39:10.279
<v Speaker 2>because it's your life, all right. Like, there's going to

0:39:10.320 --> 0:39:13.759
<v Speaker 2>be people at your age, so in like five years time,

0:39:13.760 --> 0:39:15.160
<v Speaker 2>there's going to be people that are way behind you

0:39:15.239 --> 0:39:16.719
<v Speaker 2>and people that are way ahead of you. It's just

0:39:16.760 --> 0:39:19.319
<v Speaker 2>the way it is. And it's not a fucking race.

0:39:19.440 --> 0:39:21.680
<v Speaker 2>Like there's people our age that are way ahead of us,

0:39:21.680 --> 0:39:23.440
<v Speaker 2>and there's people younger than us that are like way

0:39:23.480 --> 0:39:25.959
<v Speaker 2>ahead of us if you like, like money wise type

0:39:25.960 --> 0:39:28.480
<v Speaker 2>of thing, and then there's people our age that are

0:39:28.480 --> 0:39:31.799
<v Speaker 2>behind us. It's just it's just the way life works.

0:39:33.400 --> 0:39:36.200
<v Speaker 2>But in my like I don't know. If you want

0:39:36.200 --> 0:39:43.560
<v Speaker 2>an answer, I would say, go try and be a florist, right,

0:39:43.880 --> 0:39:45.560
<v Speaker 2>Go get a job at a florist, and see if

0:39:45.560 --> 0:39:47.520
<v Speaker 2>you like it, and if you don't, come back to

0:39:47.600 --> 0:39:49.160
<v Speaker 2>us you don't have to like it, and then I'll

0:39:49.160 --> 0:39:50.839
<v Speaker 2>give you an idea for another job and just try,

0:39:50.960 --> 0:39:53.280
<v Speaker 2>like fucking twenty of them from twenty to thirty.

0:39:53.320 --> 0:39:57.759
<v Speaker 1>I would say my piece of advice would be, your

0:39:57.800 --> 0:40:01.880
<v Speaker 1>life isn't about your career. It's about joy.

0:40:02.040 --> 0:40:03.799
<v Speaker 3>Oh, okay, here you go.

0:40:04.280 --> 0:40:06.759
<v Speaker 2>And I think a lot of people confuse that, yeah,

0:40:07.080 --> 0:40:09.680
<v Speaker 2>and really pursue the career thing. Don't make it. Don't

0:40:09.719 --> 0:40:10.080
<v Speaker 2>get me wrong.

0:40:10.120 --> 0:40:11.520
<v Speaker 1>It's really good to enjoy that and make good money,

0:40:11.560 --> 0:40:13.120
<v Speaker 1>Like obviously you get a better life out of that.

0:40:13.120 --> 0:40:17.480
<v Speaker 1>But that's not what life's about. Friendships, relationships, finding the

0:40:17.560 --> 0:40:21.040
<v Speaker 1>small little things that you love and being happy. And

0:40:21.040 --> 0:40:22.200
<v Speaker 1>that's where people go wrong.

0:40:22.640 --> 0:40:25.960
<v Speaker 2>Yes, we've been so focused on career. Yeah, it's about career.

0:40:26.440 --> 0:40:31.360
<v Speaker 2>Think about what Luke Bateman said, what are your values? Yeah,

0:40:31.440 --> 0:40:33.319
<v Speaker 2>if you're going to make, you don't want to live

0:40:33.360 --> 0:40:36.000
<v Speaker 2>your life based off goals because when you get to

0:40:36.040 --> 0:40:38.600
<v Speaker 2>that goal, you're going to have no more purpose. And

0:40:38.640 --> 0:40:40.000
<v Speaker 2>it's not, and you're going to be like, what part

0:40:40.040 --> 0:40:41.720
<v Speaker 2>of this is making me happy? I have no idea.

0:40:42.560 --> 0:40:45.360
<v Speaker 2>And then, but if you live your life based off values,

0:40:45.400 --> 0:40:47.480
<v Speaker 2>and if each decision you make is based off values,

0:40:47.520 --> 0:40:49.480
<v Speaker 2>it's like, what do you value? Do you value happiness?

0:40:49.480 --> 0:40:51.400
<v Speaker 2>Do you value money? You're allowed to value money, like,

0:40:51.440 --> 0:40:54.439
<v Speaker 2>that's fine. Do you value friendship? Do you value Take

0:40:54.440 --> 0:40:56.759
<v Speaker 2>your values and think like, I want my life to

0:40:56.800 --> 0:40:59.279
<v Speaker 2>look like this, So what's the next decision to get

0:40:59.280 --> 0:41:01.360
<v Speaker 2>me in that direction exactly?

0:41:01.400 --> 0:41:04.680
<v Speaker 1>You know what excites me is when I have kids

0:41:04.880 --> 0:41:07.080
<v Speaker 1>and my kids get to this age and they ask

0:41:07.160 --> 0:41:08.040
<v Speaker 1>me this exact question.

0:41:08.400 --> 0:41:09.600
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, hard to answer.

0:41:09.719 --> 0:41:12.279
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to be like, you have come to the

0:41:12.360 --> 0:41:15.440
<v Speaker 2>right place. You're going to say this, young Pawa, write

0:41:15.440 --> 0:41:17.520
<v Speaker 2>down this phone number and call Jake.

0:41:17.960 --> 0:41:18.440
<v Speaker 3>Are you going to.

0:41:18.440 --> 0:41:23.200
<v Speaker 1>Say you'll fucking pick up and be like fucking go

0:41:23.320 --> 0:41:23.960
<v Speaker 1>be a florist.

0:41:24.200 --> 0:41:25.880
<v Speaker 2>You're named after a flower bitch?

0:41:29.520 --> 0:41:29.960
<v Speaker 4>All right?

0:41:30.520 --> 0:41:35.000
<v Speaker 1>Title Jim dilemma This one actually it's two in real

0:41:35.040 --> 0:41:39.280
<v Speaker 1>life kind of dilemmas. This one's I reckon every person

0:41:39.320 --> 0:41:42.600
<v Speaker 1>has like experienced something similar, either from the male or

0:41:43.120 --> 0:41:46.960
<v Speaker 1>woman's side. Okay, I'm a Jim baddie. I go to

0:41:46.960 --> 0:41:49.680
<v Speaker 1>the gym most mornings and love the grind, mainly because

0:41:49.719 --> 0:41:52.520
<v Speaker 1>it's my me time, a bit of time to myself

0:41:52.560 --> 0:41:55.080
<v Speaker 1>before the day begins. Could be Cassie.

0:41:56.200 --> 0:41:57.080
<v Speaker 2>This might be Cassie.

0:41:58.840 --> 0:42:01.840
<v Speaker 1>A couple of months ago, Jim regular in Brackets, a

0:42:01.880 --> 0:42:04.319
<v Speaker 1>guy probably ten years older than me, started to strike

0:42:04.400 --> 0:42:06.799
<v Speaker 1>up a conversation with me. I would be friendly, but

0:42:06.960 --> 0:42:09.120
<v Speaker 1>keep it vague and short with my answers because I

0:42:09.160 --> 0:42:11.120
<v Speaker 1>don't know this guy and I'm not here to chat.

0:42:11.680 --> 0:42:15.080
<v Speaker 1>He persisted with this and started conversations every time I'm there.

0:42:15.480 --> 0:42:17.520
<v Speaker 1>Then one time he sees me doing some pull ups.

0:42:17.680 --> 0:42:19.360
<v Speaker 1>I used to be on my pull up grind and

0:42:19.400 --> 0:42:21.799
<v Speaker 1>could do sets of eight to ten. He came over

0:42:21.880 --> 0:42:24.760
<v Speaker 1>and told me it was impressive. I could do so many,

0:42:24.880 --> 0:42:27.040
<v Speaker 1>and he was still working on getting his first one.

0:42:27.680 --> 0:42:30.600
<v Speaker 1>I said, good for you, keep going, it will come.

0:42:31.520 --> 0:42:34.440
<v Speaker 1>He then proceeds to tell me how to do pull

0:42:34.520 --> 0:42:38.480
<v Speaker 1>ups and gives me tips and technique cues. I know

0:42:38.560 --> 0:42:41.600
<v Speaker 1>he's just trying to help, but seriously, it gave me

0:42:41.640 --> 0:42:44.920
<v Speaker 1>the ike immediately. A few weeks later, he asked if

0:42:44.960 --> 0:42:48.719
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to grab coffee sometime. I said, no, thank you,

0:42:49.040 --> 0:42:51.880
<v Speaker 1>I'd like to keep my gym life and personal life separate.

0:42:52.040 --> 0:42:53.000
<v Speaker 3>Fuck it over, baddie.

0:42:53.760 --> 0:42:57.040
<v Speaker 1>He immediately backtracks and says he wasn't asking me out.

0:42:57.280 --> 0:43:00.000
<v Speaker 1>He was just being friendly and wanted to welcome me

0:43:00.160 --> 0:43:02.560
<v Speaker 1>to the area in brackets, I've lived here for over

0:43:02.600 --> 0:43:09.040
<v Speaker 1>a year. After this, he tries not to let things

0:43:09.040 --> 0:43:12.560
<v Speaker 1>get awkward by continuing to initiate conversations. But I try,

0:43:13.120 --> 0:43:15.680
<v Speaker 1>and seeing you, I try and single, I'm not here

0:43:15.680 --> 0:43:17.279
<v Speaker 1>to talk and keep my headphones on.

0:43:18.200 --> 0:43:18.640
<v Speaker 2>I will be.

0:43:18.640 --> 0:43:21.400
<v Speaker 1>Polite and smile and wave, but won't take my headphones

0:43:21.440 --> 0:43:24.600
<v Speaker 1>off for a conversation. One time I noticed him nearby

0:43:24.920 --> 0:43:27.200
<v Speaker 1>but didn't notice he is trying to get my attention,

0:43:27.360 --> 0:43:29.239
<v Speaker 1>so he comes right up and flicks me with his

0:43:29.360 --> 0:43:32.560
<v Speaker 1>Jim Tower. I wish I had said something in that moment,

0:43:32.840 --> 0:43:34.880
<v Speaker 1>but just ended up letting him chat to me. I

0:43:34.920 --> 0:43:39.400
<v Speaker 1>was so annoyed and ended the conversation by saying I

0:43:39.440 --> 0:43:41.000
<v Speaker 1>was in a rush today and needed to get my

0:43:41.040 --> 0:43:44.239
<v Speaker 1>work out in. Now I think he has the message.

0:43:44.760 --> 0:43:46.759
<v Speaker 1>Now I think he has the message as he didn't

0:43:46.800 --> 0:43:49.279
<v Speaker 1>try to start a conversation. So now I think he

0:43:49.320 --> 0:43:51.840
<v Speaker 1>has a message as he doesn't try to start conversations anymore.

0:43:52.000 --> 0:43:55.920
<v Speaker 1>But he consistently floats nearby and is often standing facing

0:43:55.960 --> 0:43:58.440
<v Speaker 1>my direction. When I look over, he is looking at

0:43:58.440 --> 0:44:01.760
<v Speaker 1>the TV screen or the room, and he always seems

0:44:01.800 --> 0:44:04.759
<v Speaker 1>to just be pacing between sets between the both of us,

0:44:05.040 --> 0:44:08.680
<v Speaker 1>which makes it awkward because he also always acknowledges me.

0:44:09.160 --> 0:44:11.520
<v Speaker 1>If he comes up, I'll try a smile, but it's

0:44:11.520 --> 0:44:14.000
<v Speaker 1>always just awkward, and I try not to make eye contact,

0:44:14.239 --> 0:44:16.760
<v Speaker 1>even though I feel like he's always watching and definitely

0:44:17.200 --> 0:44:20.160
<v Speaker 1>looks like looks at me while I'm midseet.

0:44:20.400 --> 0:44:21.880
<v Speaker 2>Oh.

0:44:21.920 --> 0:44:23.840
<v Speaker 1>Look, I'm probably making this a bigger deal than it

0:44:23.880 --> 0:44:26.600
<v Speaker 1>needs to be. And I know he's just entitled to

0:44:26.640 --> 0:44:28.799
<v Speaker 1>the space as anyone else, but it does make me

0:44:28.840 --> 0:44:31.560
<v Speaker 1>feel super uncomfortable every time I go to workout and

0:44:31.640 --> 0:44:33.920
<v Speaker 1>I dread him being there. I can't just get in

0:44:33.960 --> 0:44:36.919
<v Speaker 1>the zone and do my workout. Am I the asshole here?

0:44:37.160 --> 0:44:40.000
<v Speaker 1>And should I say something or just continue to ignore him?

0:44:40.120 --> 0:44:42.799
<v Speaker 1>Aside from the odd smile, I feel rude? But I

0:44:42.840 --> 0:44:45.000
<v Speaker 1>am so icked out by this guy and he is

0:44:45.040 --> 0:44:47.040
<v Speaker 1>actually kind of ruining my safe space.

0:44:47.520 --> 0:44:53.440
<v Speaker 2>M this is sus Why is he loitering? That is

0:44:53.480 --> 0:44:55.960
<v Speaker 2>the way to put a day? Just fucking get like,

0:44:56.000 --> 0:44:57.720
<v Speaker 2>what's the what are you doing.

0:44:57.960 --> 0:45:00.680
<v Speaker 1>But I think, like I can that many bad he's

0:45:00.719 --> 0:45:04.160
<v Speaker 1>listening right now, I would have or are experiencing something similar.

0:45:04.280 --> 0:45:08.919
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's fucked. So what's with the laiter? I get

0:45:08.960 --> 0:45:10.280
<v Speaker 2>that you don't.

0:45:10.040 --> 0:45:12.120
<v Speaker 1>Want anyone to intrude on your safe place, and I

0:45:12.160 --> 0:45:14.719
<v Speaker 1>can resonate with like the gym is like my zone. Yeah,

0:45:14.760 --> 0:45:16.360
<v Speaker 1>I go in there for a purpose, even if it

0:45:16.440 --> 0:45:19.000
<v Speaker 1>is I don't work out that hard, it's my fucking time. Yeah,

0:45:19.280 --> 0:45:22.959
<v Speaker 1>I have a conversation that five minutes max. Some people

0:45:22.960 --> 0:45:24.520
<v Speaker 1>don't understand that though, I think.

0:45:24.520 --> 0:45:26.959
<v Speaker 2>But he's just like here's the thing as well, right,

0:45:28.200 --> 0:45:36.120
<v Speaker 2>is like this guy needs to understand that what he's

0:45:36.200 --> 0:45:42.080
<v Speaker 2>doing is like actually making her feel like unsafe, but

0:45:42.120 --> 0:45:44.040
<v Speaker 2>he doesn't know that. That's the thing though, is like

0:45:45.040 --> 0:45:48.799
<v Speaker 2>how fucking dumb are you? This guy's dumb as dog shit.

0:45:48.840 --> 0:45:51.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, Yeah, like you're genuine like do you not

0:45:52.040 --> 0:45:55.800
<v Speaker 2>understand what goes on in the world? Like this is

0:45:55.840 --> 0:45:57.399
<v Speaker 2>the type of guy that if you said, like women

0:45:57.440 --> 0:45:58.879
<v Speaker 2>are scared of men, he'd be the one that.

0:45:58.840 --> 0:46:01.680
<v Speaker 3>Goes like I don't hurt women.

0:46:02.000 --> 0:46:05.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like like not talking like you know what, Like

0:46:05.120 --> 0:46:06.920
<v Speaker 2>fuck seriously.

0:46:06.680 --> 0:46:08.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to like connect the dots of how can

0:46:08.640 --> 0:46:11.919
<v Speaker 1>you show this man how the world is.

0:46:11.880 --> 0:46:14.399
<v Speaker 2>Because like you're in an uncomfortable position now where it's

0:46:14.440 --> 0:46:17.680
<v Speaker 2>like you don't want to go to the gym because

0:46:17.719 --> 0:46:21.200
<v Speaker 2>he's obviously always there. He obviously tries. He just knows

0:46:21.200 --> 0:46:23.640
<v Speaker 2>what time you go and just like goes at that

0:46:23.719 --> 0:46:25.200
<v Speaker 2>time as well, or he just always went at that

0:46:25.200 --> 0:46:26.480
<v Speaker 2>time and try to struck up a convo and he

0:46:26.560 --> 0:46:29.239
<v Speaker 2>just just like sticking to his routine whatever, but like

0:46:29.840 --> 0:46:31.720
<v Speaker 2>he would know that he's like trying to stick around

0:46:31.719 --> 0:46:33.520
<v Speaker 2>and just fucking bump into you to strike up a

0:46:33.560 --> 0:46:36.600
<v Speaker 2>convo like he's doing it on but it's sus as fuck.

0:46:37.280 --> 0:46:39.399
<v Speaker 2>So he's the thing is like you probably are thinking

0:46:39.400 --> 0:46:43.200
<v Speaker 2>to yourself, oh, like he's harmless maybe blah blah blah,

0:46:43.200 --> 0:46:45.800
<v Speaker 2>Like I don't want to go to the gym management

0:46:45.880 --> 0:46:47.399
<v Speaker 2>or whatever, and just be like this situation is making

0:46:47.400 --> 0:46:50.600
<v Speaker 2>me uncomfortable. But fuck, I get this guy fucking bamed

0:46:50.600 --> 0:46:52.040
<v Speaker 2>from the gym. I think it's sas.

0:46:51.840 --> 0:46:54.680
<v Speaker 1>Dude, Yeah, yeah, I think so too, But how can

0:46:54.719 --> 0:46:58.799
<v Speaker 1>we like educate man because similarly, so I go to

0:46:58.800 --> 0:47:00.840
<v Speaker 1>the gym every day. Yeah I have a girlfriend, but

0:47:00.880 --> 0:47:02.640
<v Speaker 1>still even if I didn't have a girlfriend, I'd do

0:47:02.719 --> 0:47:04.920
<v Speaker 1>the exact same thing. I see the same girl there

0:47:04.920 --> 0:47:06.719
<v Speaker 1>every single time, and when we're there, we'll just give

0:47:06.800 --> 0:47:08.799
<v Speaker 1>like a pick. Yeah that's it, and then I move

0:47:08.840 --> 0:47:10.759
<v Speaker 1>on with my day, Like that's all it is. Because

0:47:10.760 --> 0:47:12.879
<v Speaker 1>with every single day, fucking it's three hundred and sixty

0:47:12.880 --> 0:47:16.160
<v Speaker 1>five days a year. How can you like, I know

0:47:16.200 --> 0:47:17.839
<v Speaker 1>that's what she wants and that's what I want. Yeah,

0:47:17.920 --> 0:47:20.200
<v Speaker 1>how can you convey that to like another man? Because

0:47:20.239 --> 0:47:23.200
<v Speaker 1>normally women get it quicker than dudes. Is it just

0:47:23.239 --> 0:47:25.080
<v Speaker 1>that he's attracted to her and then all of that

0:47:25.120 --> 0:47:26.480
<v Speaker 1>goes out the window. Is that I'm trying to get

0:47:26.480 --> 0:47:28.440
<v Speaker 1>the cognitive reason why he's mad He thinks this is

0:47:28.480 --> 0:47:30.319
<v Speaker 1>okay and makes her feel uncomfortable.

0:47:30.640 --> 0:47:35.160
<v Speaker 2>I reckon, all right? I assume he somehow has found

0:47:35.160 --> 0:47:40.360
<v Speaker 2>your social media. Hmm, here's what you gotta do, right, Yeah,

0:47:40.400 --> 0:47:44.800
<v Speaker 2>this dilemma that you've sent to us, film a video

0:47:45.440 --> 0:47:47.919
<v Speaker 2>and put it out on your social media, and he's

0:47:47.920 --> 0:47:48.319
<v Speaker 2>gonna and.

0:47:48.280 --> 0:47:48.920
<v Speaker 3>Ask for advice.

0:47:49.000 --> 0:47:50.440
<v Speaker 2>Just be like, what should I do in this situation?

0:47:50.520 --> 0:47:54.200
<v Speaker 2>Because like I ah na and then go and then

0:47:54.880 --> 0:47:58.239
<v Speaker 2>and then he's going to be like, oh fuck, like

0:47:59.120 --> 0:48:02.840
<v Speaker 2>that's me because you you shouldn't have to say something

0:48:02.840 --> 0:48:03.200
<v Speaker 2>to him.

0:48:03.360 --> 0:48:05.399
<v Speaker 3>No, that's the most insane thing.

0:48:05.600 --> 0:48:08.799
<v Speaker 1>But then like the option one is change your gym time,

0:48:09.120 --> 0:48:11.160
<v Speaker 1>but that's really annoying because that's your meantime before you

0:48:11.160 --> 0:48:11.800
<v Speaker 1>go to work.

0:48:11.640 --> 0:48:13.879
<v Speaker 2>And you're like going in the morning. It's an option too,

0:48:13.960 --> 0:48:16.279
<v Speaker 2>is change gyms, which sucks. But also this is because

0:48:16.320 --> 0:48:16.640
<v Speaker 2>of a man.

0:48:16.680 --> 0:48:17.960
<v Speaker 1>You kind of want to like stand on business and

0:48:18.000 --> 0:48:19.560
<v Speaker 1>be like, I'm not fucking changing because it's stupid.

0:48:19.560 --> 0:48:22.840
<v Speaker 2>I reckon tell the management to see what they say. Yeah,

0:48:22.880 --> 0:48:23.440
<v Speaker 2>it's fucked.

0:48:23.480 --> 0:48:25.080
<v Speaker 1>Because normally you probably if you go to the gym

0:48:25.080 --> 0:48:27.160
<v Speaker 1>every day, I assume you're friendly with a gym staff.

0:48:28.520 --> 0:48:32.279
<v Speaker 2>I have an idea you have to start bringing a

0:48:32.320 --> 0:48:34.800
<v Speaker 2>friend of yours that I assume you don't have a boyfriend.

0:48:36.400 --> 0:48:38.080
<v Speaker 2>Start bringing a guy friend into the gym with you

0:48:38.120 --> 0:48:41.920
<v Speaker 2>a couple of times to work out. Sure, it's unfortunate,

0:48:42.000 --> 0:48:43.839
<v Speaker 2>it's very unfortunate. This shouldn't be the way it is.

0:48:44.280 --> 0:48:46.759
<v Speaker 1>But I don't reckon that will help because when the

0:48:46.840 --> 0:48:48.800
<v Speaker 1>gym friend's not there, he's still going to stand between

0:48:48.800 --> 0:48:53.040
<v Speaker 1>mid sets, because that's.

0:48:52.920 --> 0:48:54.800
<v Speaker 2>When you've got to start, like, if you're genuinely uncomfortable

0:48:54.840 --> 0:48:56.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry. I think you have to start going to

0:48:56.719 --> 0:48:57.680
<v Speaker 2>gym fucking management.

0:48:58.320 --> 0:49:00.640
<v Speaker 1>I can go to the gym manage and be like, hey,

0:49:00.640 --> 0:49:02.640
<v Speaker 1>this guy's this making me feel uncomfortable. Can you give

0:49:02.680 --> 0:49:04.480
<v Speaker 1>him an anonymous like, don't say it's come from me,

0:49:04.560 --> 0:49:05.360
<v Speaker 1>be like, hey, mate.

0:49:05.160 --> 0:49:06.400
<v Speaker 2>You feel like a few bad A few of the

0:49:06.440 --> 0:49:10.239
<v Speaker 2>women in here have been saying a few bad A

0:49:10.680 --> 0:49:11.319
<v Speaker 2>few women in here.

0:49:11.320 --> 0:49:12.600
<v Speaker 3>I said, you're a bit of a loiterer. Can you

0:49:12.640 --> 0:49:13.280
<v Speaker 3>fucking stop?

0:49:13.920 --> 0:49:15.879
<v Speaker 1>Because also, if I was a gym owner, like he's

0:49:15.880 --> 0:49:18.000
<v Speaker 1>a normal person and like I knew there was a

0:49:18.080 --> 0:49:19.360
<v Speaker 1>loiter or a fucking little.

0:49:19.160 --> 0:49:20.480
<v Speaker 3>Pedo, I fucking banner.

0:49:20.560 --> 0:49:21.399
<v Speaker 2>Yeah you can't.

0:49:21.440 --> 0:49:25.040
<v Speaker 1>There's's like I'm dismissing someone at work on fair dismissal,

0:49:25.080 --> 0:49:27.359
<v Speaker 1>Like you've got to have proof, but you wouldn't want

0:49:27.440 --> 0:49:28.080
<v Speaker 1>them to know.

0:49:28.239 --> 0:49:29.120
<v Speaker 3>Take me a call, bro.

0:49:29.360 --> 0:49:31.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, But like as a gym owner, you'll be like, well,

0:49:31.719 --> 0:49:33.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to say something to this too, because that's

0:49:33.200 --> 0:49:34.080
<v Speaker 1>the first thing I can do.

0:49:34.239 --> 0:49:34.560
<v Speaker 3>True.

0:49:34.719 --> 0:49:39.200
<v Speaker 2>Hopefully hopefully they take they have the right steps. Yeah,

0:49:39.239 --> 0:49:40.600
<v Speaker 2>so they say something, don't say it's from me.

0:49:40.680 --> 0:49:42.800
<v Speaker 1>But then he should be like, oh fuck, he's complaining

0:49:42.800 --> 0:49:43.680
<v Speaker 1>because's probably doing it too.

0:49:43.680 --> 0:49:44.080
<v Speaker 2>Other women.

0:49:44.280 --> 0:49:44.960
<v Speaker 3>He probably is.

0:49:45.280 --> 0:49:48.880
<v Speaker 2>He probably is, which is the sad truth of it. Otherwise,

0:49:48.880 --> 0:49:51.880
<v Speaker 2>he probably thinks that you fucking like him. He probably

0:49:51.880 --> 0:49:54.120
<v Speaker 2>thinks like yeah, I always like he's probably thinking like

0:49:54.120 --> 0:49:56.160
<v Speaker 2>I always chat this chick up. I reckon, I reckon.

0:49:56.320 --> 0:49:59.680
<v Speaker 2>So because the only things you can.

0:49:59.520 --> 0:50:03.040
<v Speaker 1>Start doing that don't really like affect you stop smiling

0:50:03.080 --> 0:50:06.759
<v Speaker 1>at him. Yeah, and then also like if he does

0:50:06.800 --> 0:50:08.200
<v Speaker 1>like come up to him and be like hey, I

0:50:08.239 --> 0:50:10.439
<v Speaker 1>don't even say hey, it's like sorry, set Yeah.

0:50:10.600 --> 0:50:12.680
<v Speaker 3>You can only control what you can control, and that

0:50:12.840 --> 0:50:16.200
<v Speaker 3>is I guess the way you the.

0:50:16.160 --> 0:50:18.200
<v Speaker 2>Reason she's smiling is because she's a nice person. She's

0:50:18.200 --> 0:50:19.719
<v Speaker 2>a nice person, and she probably also is just like

0:50:19.760 --> 0:50:21.239
<v Speaker 2>I just want to smile, and hopefully this guy fox

0:50:21.360 --> 0:50:22.319
<v Speaker 2>off like yeah, I.

0:50:22.280 --> 0:50:23.920
<v Speaker 3>Don't want to smile. I don't want to frown on him.

0:50:23.920 --> 0:50:24.920
<v Speaker 2>And then he can come up and be like, oh

0:50:24.920 --> 0:50:27.040
<v Speaker 2>you having a bad day, but you find any excuse

0:50:27.080 --> 0:50:27.640
<v Speaker 2>to come up and be.

0:50:27.600 --> 0:50:30.360
<v Speaker 1>Like yeah, it's fucking it's a difficult one because like

0:50:30.360 --> 0:50:32.960
<v Speaker 1>you don't want you know how, there's that saying where

0:50:33.000 --> 0:50:34.200
<v Speaker 1>like men always go like.

0:50:34.239 --> 0:50:35.319
<v Speaker 2>Oh you should smile more.

0:50:35.480 --> 0:50:37.600
<v Speaker 1>This is the reason I don't fucking smile more you

0:50:37.640 --> 0:50:39.040
<v Speaker 1>think men are interested in him.

0:50:39.040 --> 0:50:39.960
<v Speaker 2>That's so fucking dumb.

0:50:40.080 --> 0:50:41.360
<v Speaker 3>He's also probably the type where.

0:50:43.080 --> 0:50:45.360
<v Speaker 1>It's also not like it's always a little Creeperho's fucking

0:50:45.400 --> 0:50:49.000
<v Speaker 1>like older than me. There's definitely men our ways doing

0:50:49.280 --> 0:50:52.280
<v Speaker 1>disgusting things, but most of the time at gym's especially,

0:50:52.320 --> 0:50:53.080
<v Speaker 1>it's like older men.

0:50:52.960 --> 0:50:55.879
<v Speaker 2>Who are creepy. Honestly, I don't know why.

0:50:55.880 --> 0:50:59.839
<v Speaker 1>Otherwise you could, like my girlfriend would do it. Let's

0:50:59.840 --> 0:51:01.520
<v Speaker 1>say you have to, but if if someone was doing

0:51:01.520 --> 0:51:03.040
<v Speaker 1>something to her, she'd be like, dude, you'd be in

0:51:03.080 --> 0:51:03.880
<v Speaker 1>a fucking creep.

0:51:04.040 --> 0:51:05.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Cassie would too, Like you're.

0:51:05.560 --> 0:51:06.000
<v Speaker 2>Doing a creep.

0:51:06.040 --> 0:51:07.960
<v Speaker 1>You make me feel uncomfortable. This is my safe place.

0:51:08.000 --> 0:51:09.680
<v Speaker 1>I really like this gym. I don't want to change gyms.

0:51:10.040 --> 0:51:11.320
<v Speaker 1>He stop staring at me.

0:51:11.560 --> 0:51:14.759
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think if you're confident enough to do that,

0:51:14.840 --> 0:51:15.120
<v Speaker 2>do it.

0:51:15.200 --> 0:51:16.799
<v Speaker 3>And then it's a confronting thing, but do it.

0:51:16.960 --> 0:51:20.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and like obviously super scary, make sure there's other

0:51:20.719 --> 0:51:23.640
<v Speaker 1>people like around and ship, but also like you would

0:51:23.680 --> 0:51:25.120
<v Speaker 1>feel fucking amazing after.

0:51:25.719 --> 0:51:26.640
<v Speaker 3>He probably would fuck off.

0:51:26.719 --> 0:51:28.319
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he probably would fuck off. And I don't think

0:51:28.360 --> 0:51:30.319
<v Speaker 1>that's what you should have to do, but it will

0:51:30.360 --> 0:51:31.120
<v Speaker 1>solve the issue.

0:51:31.480 --> 0:51:33.000
<v Speaker 3>I'll tell you what I got you. This guy fucking

0:51:33.000 --> 0:51:33.920
<v Speaker 3>has the biggest crush on you.

0:51:34.000 --> 0:51:37.320
<v Speaker 2>Let's you should say you should suggest listening to this podcast.

0:51:38.560 --> 0:51:40.000
<v Speaker 2>If he comes to you like what have you been

0:51:40.080 --> 0:51:42.400
<v Speaker 2>up to? You like, well, this really good episode just

0:51:42.400 --> 0:51:45.279
<v Speaker 2>came out, you should, And then we're just berating him

0:51:45.280 --> 0:51:47.720
<v Speaker 2>like what a fucking crew, what a creep?

0:51:49.360 --> 0:51:50.359
<v Speaker 3>He won't go back to that gym?

0:51:50.440 --> 0:51:50.760
<v Speaker 2>No?

0:51:51.280 --> 0:51:51.880
<v Speaker 5>Probably not.

0:51:52.080 --> 0:51:54.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's an easy solution or he's been Also, you

0:51:55.000 --> 0:51:56.440
<v Speaker 1>never know with dudes like this, Like he could come

0:51:56.480 --> 0:51:57.799
<v Speaker 1>back and be like were you talking about me?

0:51:58.000 --> 0:52:00.719
<v Speaker 3>It was fucking don't know, you.

0:52:02.560 --> 0:52:05.759
<v Speaker 2>Know, the actions are so okay. The fact, you know,

0:52:05.840 --> 0:52:10.080
<v Speaker 2>fern Wood the gym's the women only gyms, the fact

0:52:10.080 --> 0:52:13.920
<v Speaker 2>that that's a thing crazy. I mean, like, if that

0:52:14.040 --> 0:52:16.920
<v Speaker 2>isn't evidence that the world we live in is so

0:52:17.200 --> 0:52:19.399
<v Speaker 2>fucking gnarly and fucked up.

0:52:19.280 --> 0:52:21.239
<v Speaker 3>For women, then I don't know what is.

0:52:21.719 --> 0:52:24.040
<v Speaker 2>I know? I know, I know, like apart apart from

0:52:24.040 --> 0:52:27.160
<v Speaker 2>the fucking literal news headlines of women getting murdered in

0:52:27.200 --> 0:52:29.920
<v Speaker 2>the Gold Coast streets by like their boyfriend, but like

0:52:30.440 --> 0:52:32.680
<v Speaker 2>that that's obviously evidence and just like the day to

0:52:32.760 --> 0:52:35.080
<v Speaker 2>day evidence of just like women and children getting murdered

0:52:35.080 --> 0:52:38.320
<v Speaker 2>by men all time. But if the fact that fern

0:52:38.360 --> 0:52:44.360
<v Speaker 2>Wood exists and is a successful fucking company is so

0:52:44.560 --> 0:52:48.319
<v Speaker 2>fucked up to me, Yeah, oh yeah, because women got

0:52:48.440 --> 0:52:51.160
<v Speaker 2>sick of going to a gym where men were fucking

0:52:51.200 --> 0:52:53.640
<v Speaker 2>just like staring at him and ship and part of

0:52:53.680 --> 0:52:55.640
<v Speaker 2>it's also like maybe intimidation, I don't know, but like

0:52:55.680 --> 0:52:59.320
<v Speaker 2>still and it's good that it's once.

0:52:59.160 --> 0:53:01.320
<v Speaker 1>Again, like you don't want that to be the solution,

0:53:01.400 --> 0:53:03.799
<v Speaker 1>but it's now a good solution where women can work

0:53:03.840 --> 0:53:06.479
<v Speaker 1>out and feel safe and feel like themselves and feel

0:53:06.480 --> 0:53:08.640
<v Speaker 1>confident and not feel threatened.

0:53:08.280 --> 0:53:10.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and judged and fucking unsafe.

0:53:10.760 --> 0:53:12.840
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's like we listed a lot of solutions, but

0:53:12.880 --> 0:53:13.880
<v Speaker 1>not all of them are good ones.

0:53:15.680 --> 0:53:17.799
<v Speaker 2>You don't get the resolution. It could be the move

0:53:18.440 --> 0:53:20.439
<v Speaker 2>that's told me that she signed up a fane would

0:53:20.440 --> 0:53:21.680
<v Speaker 2>for a bit because she didn't want to go to

0:53:21.719 --> 0:53:23.719
<v Speaker 2>a gym just with a bunch of other people, like

0:53:23.960 --> 0:53:25.480
<v Speaker 2>she just wanted to go to one that was quiet,

0:53:26.040 --> 0:53:29.759
<v Speaker 2>And she said that I think that was good about

0:53:29.800 --> 0:53:32.560
<v Speaker 2>it was like there was all this like pretty decent equipment,

0:53:33.400 --> 0:53:35.799
<v Speaker 2>no one was ever using it. A lot of just

0:53:35.800 --> 0:53:38.799
<v Speaker 2>like pilates classes and different group classes. A lot of

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<v Speaker 2>equipment was just like brand new and unused. It was

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<v Speaker 2>like a fuck bonus.

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<v Speaker 1>Whether it's another good thing about women in your gym too,

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<v Speaker 1>like that gym would be one spotless clean, but also

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<v Speaker 1>they look after.

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<v Speaker 2>The equipment and put it away.

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<v Speaker 1>Every piece of weight would be like where it's meant

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<v Speaker 1>to be, where you fucking go to a world We

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<v Speaker 1>went to the World's Gym on the Gold Coast. I

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<v Speaker 1>felt like I was walking out of there with phriv.

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<v Speaker 2>I genuinely feel like you that if you are going

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<v Speaker 2>to World's Gym in Burley, you need chain with hazmat

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<v Speaker 2>soon on. If you don't want to come out of there.

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<v Speaker 2>Feels like you're in a GTA and have like COVID

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<v Speaker 2>twenty one. It's like I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Even know, Like there was like trade's army, people fucking

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<v Speaker 1>sex workers.

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<v Speaker 2>It's felt like I was in a fucking fortnight lobby

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<v Speaker 2>and everyone had a different skin.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah it was fucking s yeah yeah days, but also too,

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<v Speaker 5>like you don't want it to be this because if

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<v Speaker 5>you love your gym like one hundred percent, don't move.

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<v Speaker 2>But I always I love changing gyms. There's something about it.

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<v Speaker 2>And then yeah, it's something I go on a little

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<v Speaker 2>fucking honeymoon phase of the gym.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I understand, Like if you want to look

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<v Speaker 1>at it that way, the world is just how you

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<v Speaker 1>perceive it. I went through a phase of like I

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<v Speaker 1>I went to like four different gyms three months each

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<v Speaker 1>one while until they're like little trial membership right up.

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<v Speaker 1>And I loved it because it's like a new routine,

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<v Speaker 1>a new place to drive to, new different times, different

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<v Speaker 1>amount of music to listen to before the gym, h

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<v Speaker 1>like different and you're like.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, this is a bit of a change in routine. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>getting stuck in the stagnant and like you don't want

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<v Speaker 2>it to because of this, dude. But then it's kind

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<v Speaker 2>of like no, I'm doing this for me or like that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it is time for comments.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want to get a comment read, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what to do bad it simply comment on the episode

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<v Speaker 1>you are listening to. I've got Spotify with Jen, she said.

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<v Speaker 1>Speaking of your business segment, would you ever consider doing

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<v Speaker 1>book accessories for the Batties book club, kindle sleeves, bookmarks,

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<v Speaker 1>et cetera.

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<v Speaker 2>That's good on your bookmark to be a good start.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we could go simpler start. We really want to

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<v Speaker 1>do pajamas. I kind of just like such an effort.

0:55:32.160 --> 0:55:33.920
<v Speaker 1>It's just a lot like this. I don't want to

0:55:34.000 --> 0:55:36.440
<v Speaker 1>give you excuses, but like sampling it and finding a

0:55:36.480 --> 0:55:38.440
<v Speaker 1>supplier blah blah blah blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 3>Packing the merch on your own as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's quite it's quite a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>But in the future, I think book Club Pajamas will

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<v Speaker 1>come out when I've got like that.

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<v Speaker 2>That dog give me again?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I'll do some week stick is like when everything

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<v Speaker 1>all comes around fucking ie.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I got YouTube from at thea Selekos twelve. Admitly

0:55:58.200 --> 0:55:59.799
<v Speaker 2>she commented quite a few comments on this episode, but

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<v Speaker 2>this one's the funniest. Admit it. Y'all got a semi

0:56:02.640 --> 0:56:07.480
<v Speaker 2>when talking about Nesta and Cassians and naughty times, I did.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's probably one of the sensiest ever seines I've

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<v Speaker 1>read in a book.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh you know, okay, I saw you know how are you?

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<v Speaker 2>And I we I don't know if it was something

0:56:20.200 --> 0:56:23.680
<v Speaker 2>we said or something I read somewhere. Basically, like the

0:56:23.840 --> 0:56:29.560
<v Speaker 2>sex scenes in In a Quarter of Silver Flames, they

0:56:29.640 --> 0:56:33.520
<v Speaker 2>were like they were needed for Nesta's character development, because

0:56:33.520 --> 0:56:35.279
<v Speaker 2>she used to use sex as a thing to just

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<v Speaker 2>like not feel anything at all, and then it turned

0:56:37.600 --> 0:56:39.880
<v Speaker 2>into her and you you know, sex with cassium was

0:56:39.960 --> 0:56:41.600
<v Speaker 2>just like the most amazing thing and she's in love

0:56:41.600 --> 0:56:44.840
<v Speaker 2>and you know, mate it and all that, and I

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<v Speaker 2>I was really thinking about it, and I was like, yeah,

0:56:46.760 --> 0:56:50.719
<v Speaker 2>like look I agree. But at the same time, like

0:56:51.239 --> 0:56:53.040
<v Speaker 2>it was part of her development, being told to hold

0:56:53.040 --> 0:56:55.839
<v Speaker 2>onto the headboard, like was part of her development, being

0:56:55.920 --> 0:56:58.520
<v Speaker 2>like fucking him growling in her ear like be good

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<v Speaker 2>because you're pretty little cunt as all I think about it,

0:57:00.760 --> 0:57:03.319
<v Speaker 2>Like I was like, is that part of allow? It's

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<v Speaker 2>like if I'm going to be if I'm gonna be here,

0:57:04.880 --> 0:57:06.560
<v Speaker 2>amost will be good at it. True, that's a good Also,

0:57:06.680 --> 0:57:09.359
<v Speaker 2>like him worshiping her maybe yeah, probably a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>interesting though interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>Alright, it's time for one of you baddies to sign

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<v Speaker 1>off the episode. The link will be in the description

0:57:16.800 --> 0:57:20.800
<v Speaker 1>and emphasis on making Jake happy. You can say riddle

0:57:20.840 --> 0:57:22.400
<v Speaker 1>and we will one if.

0:57:22.360 --> 0:57:23.560
<v Speaker 2>You have a riddle next if you put I have

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<v Speaker 2>a riddle next to your name, I'll be fucking calling

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<v Speaker 2>it all right, Jake, who we got to call Ruby.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello, Hello, is this Ruby?

0:57:33.680 --> 0:57:34.120
<v Speaker 2>What was that?

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry?

0:57:34.600 --> 0:57:35.320
<v Speaker 3>Is this Ruby?

0:57:36.160 --> 0:57:36.480
<v Speaker 2>Yes?

0:57:36.760 --> 0:57:38.600
<v Speaker 3>This is Jake and I from the Relatables podcast.

0:57:38.600 --> 0:57:39.040
<v Speaker 2>How are you?

0:57:39.880 --> 0:57:40.560
<v Speaker 4>I'm great?

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<v Speaker 2>How are you?

0:57:41.160 --> 0:57:41.680
<v Speaker 4>Guys?

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<v Speaker 2>Very very good, very happy you picked up.

0:57:45.200 --> 0:57:46.800
<v Speaker 3>We were playing a bit of roulette here.

0:57:46.800 --> 0:57:48.440
<v Speaker 2>We didn't know if we'd called you or not, because

0:57:48.480 --> 0:57:50.600
<v Speaker 2>sometimes we call baddies and they don't pick up in

0:57:50.640 --> 0:57:51.120
<v Speaker 2>the past.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, Oh fun fact, I'm listening to the episode right

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<v Speaker 4>now that you guys called me on from last week.

0:57:59.360 --> 0:58:02.520
<v Speaker 2>Last Our head is in the blending.

0:58:03.640 --> 0:58:06.800
<v Speaker 4>We called too many people, have you?

0:58:06.800 --> 0:58:08.600
<v Speaker 3>You're the first one before today? I think we've called.

0:58:08.760 --> 0:58:10.880
<v Speaker 2>We've done too many episodes in the last week because

0:58:10.880 --> 0:58:11.920
<v Speaker 2>we're going away.

0:58:13.680 --> 0:58:21.000
<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, that's my luck. Have you got it anything.

0:58:19.320 --> 0:58:19.920
<v Speaker 3>Else for us?

0:58:20.160 --> 0:58:23.960
<v Speaker 2>Any life models you live? You know what? You know what?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm stumped. I'm stumped because I've waited my whole since

0:58:28.400 --> 0:58:30.760
<v Speaker 4>twenty twenty three. I listened to your guys' podcast when

0:58:30.760 --> 0:58:35.560
<v Speaker 4>you were doing cheating or not cheating segments. Oh and

0:58:35.640 --> 0:58:37.920
<v Speaker 4>ever since then, and then you started doing calls.

0:58:38.520 --> 0:58:39.040
<v Speaker 2>I've been stump.

0:58:39.080 --> 0:58:40.760
<v Speaker 4>I haven't had anything ready for you guys now, because

0:58:40.760 --> 0:58:42.160
<v Speaker 4>I had my opportunity last week.

0:58:42.400 --> 0:58:44.920
<v Speaker 2>Oh no, that's okay.

0:58:44.960 --> 0:58:47.960
<v Speaker 4>We really can't be greedy. I can't be greedy.

0:58:48.000 --> 0:58:51.240
<v Speaker 2>No, No, that's true. We really appreciate the support. That's

0:58:51.280 --> 0:58:53.040
<v Speaker 2>like two years, list't it. Yeah, that's we've got a

0:58:53.080 --> 0:58:56.640
<v Speaker 2>real bad three years. You've got a real body.

0:58:56.720 --> 0:59:00.960
<v Speaker 1>Yes, either way, Oh, thank you for picking up.

0:59:00.960 --> 0:59:02.160
<v Speaker 2>And I think we're just going to use this to

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<v Speaker 2>sign up the episode on let's go. Thank you very much,

0:59:12.840 --> 0:59:17.520
<v Speaker 2>Thank you so much. Bye. Either we need more baddies

0:59:17.560 --> 0:59:19.560
<v Speaker 2>to submit or I'm wigging our day. We need a

0:59:19.560 --> 0:59:21.680
<v Speaker 2>better system, right, but we need a way better system.

0:59:21.760 --> 0:59:24.200
<v Speaker 2>Right before, I was like, we've got Ruby and he

0:59:24.240 --> 0:59:26.439
<v Speaker 2>goes to a ring a bell. We caught her last week.

0:59:30.120 --> 0:59:32.640
<v Speaker 2>So that was definitely the week where we called like

0:59:32.760 --> 0:59:33.720
<v Speaker 2>four people.

0:59:33.480 --> 0:59:35.640
<v Speaker 3>And no one was there, and then you were getting calls.

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<v Speaker 1>Back and yeah, and you say who are going to call?

0:59:38.200 --> 0:59:41.480
<v Speaker 1>Then you say, like something, don't listen, listen until the

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<v Speaker 1>one that picks up.

0:59:42.400 --> 0:59:43.040
<v Speaker 3>That's a good point.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, picked up.

0:59:43.920 --> 0:59:45.760
<v Speaker 3>That's a good point. We appreciate you.

0:59:45.800 --> 0:59:47.960
<v Speaker 2>Bo I tell you what can solve this issue? More

0:59:48.000 --> 0:59:51.080
<v Speaker 2>baddie signing up? Yeah, please link in the description signed

0:59:51.200 --> 0:59:53.440
<v Speaker 2>up to sign off the episode of We're going to

0:59:53.440 --> 0:59:54.200
<v Speaker 2>stop calling people.

0:59:54.400 --> 0:59:56.040
<v Speaker 3>We're going to start doing it ourselves. What the fuck,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't remember how we love to stay back, like