WEBVTT - WE WEREN'T EXPECTING THIS... 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:02.920 I'm sure you notice if someone was like quite pregnant. 0:00:02.920 --> 0:00:04.600 I mean, i'd we get them a chair to sit 0:00:04.640 --> 0:00:05.680 down if they were standing there. 0:00:05.800 --> 0:00:14.800 That's nice, Like it looks like it would hurt. Does hurt? Honestly? 0:00:14.880 --> 0:00:17.320 Where's Your Head At? Is a podcast that talks all 0:00:17.400 --> 0:00:21.560 things right. There's a hold on a sec. Let's give 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:25.079 this a refresh. Hi. 0:00:25.480 --> 0:00:28.080 I'm Anna and I'm Matt, and we are now too 0:00:28.200 --> 0:00:31.120 newlywed not to each other. Just a female and male 0:00:31.160 --> 0:00:33.280 best friend here for the good, the bad, and the 0:00:33.360 --> 0:00:34.400 ugly times. 0:00:34.240 --> 0:00:38.840 And exploring adulthood, family relationships, dilemmas. 0:00:38.479 --> 0:00:41.000 And whatever else we have the mental capacity to deal with. 0:00:41.360 --> 0:00:42.360 Come get the lowdown. 0:00:42.560 --> 0:00:44.280 This is your male and female perspective. 0:00:44.760 --> 0:00:51.960 So, Matt, where's your head at? Hello? How are you? Matt? 0:00:52.240 --> 0:00:55.200 I'm good, Anna, Welcome to the Gold Coast. 0:00:55.320 --> 0:00:58.720 I know I'm in the Gold Coast. We actually had 0:00:58.760 --> 0:01:02.800 a guest that was meant to be coming on in 0:01:02.840 --> 0:01:07.319 this spot. They cannot come. It was Jessica Power. Were 0:01:07.440 --> 0:01:09.919 going to say her name. Yeah, it's fine, Jessica Power. 0:01:10.000 --> 0:01:10.839 We'll get her on again. 0:01:10.880 --> 0:01:12.720 We will get her on again. We'll try to the 0:01:12.720 --> 0:01:14.560 next time. I'm in the Gold Coast. Or she's in 0:01:14.600 --> 0:01:17.760 Melbourne but her house just got broken into, so she's 0:01:17.840 --> 0:01:19.240 had to cancel last minute. 0:01:19.319 --> 0:01:21.520 We were saying that it's so wild that your house 0:01:21.560 --> 0:01:24.440 gets broken into on just a weekday at like two. 0:01:24.200 --> 0:01:25.800 Pm, in the middle of the day. 0:01:25.920 --> 0:01:28.000 And it happens. And I said that, as I said before, 0:01:28.640 --> 0:01:30.360 my sister in law's house got broken into and they 0:01:30.400 --> 0:01:33.440 stole all her husband's like photography equipment. Like literally you 0:01:33.440 --> 0:01:35.280 went up to put the kids to sleep, came down, 0:01:35.360 --> 0:01:37.160 then raided through. How scary is that. 0:01:37.240 --> 0:01:41.120 It's so violating just to have someone go through your possessions. 0:01:41.160 --> 0:01:44.800 And I feel like Matt is literally a hoarder, not 0:01:44.920 --> 0:01:47.000 a hoarder, but like, okay, I'm going to give an 0:01:47.040 --> 0:01:49.680 example for everyone. So when we record it in the 0:01:49.720 --> 0:01:53.600 Nova studios, you have to sign in and you have 0:01:53.680 --> 0:01:55.639 to take a photo, and they print out the photo 0:01:55.680 --> 0:01:58.080 on this little receipt and that's your sign in. 0:01:58.840 --> 0:02:00.600 And it's got your name and your yeah, and I 0:02:00.640 --> 0:02:01.800 take goofy photos. 0:02:02.040 --> 0:02:04.680 Yeah. And that's the type of person that is saving 0:02:04.760 --> 0:02:06.760 every single photo that he's every taken. 0:02:06.920 --> 0:02:09.520 They're sitting in my car in Melbourne, just all stacked 0:02:09.600 --> 0:02:11.680 up in the glove box there and I'm just like, 0:02:11.720 --> 0:02:13.040 you know, it might be one day I might be like, 0:02:13.080 --> 0:02:14.880 oh look at all these and might turn into some 0:02:14.919 --> 0:02:15.760 sort of ass you. 0:02:15.680 --> 0:02:17.480 Never know, like like you keep things that no one 0:02:17.560 --> 0:02:19.799 else would keep, Like I've benned every single one of mine. 0:02:19.880 --> 0:02:21.160 You've kept every single one of your. 0:02:21.400 --> 0:02:23.760 You know what I did say, I regret not keeping 0:02:23.840 --> 0:02:26.320 the other day. I fucking every time I do it 0:02:26.320 --> 0:02:29.120 now and I go there, it absolutely hurts me. I 0:02:29.120 --> 0:02:32.280 didn't keep all the movie tickets from when Tammy and 0:02:32.320 --> 0:02:35.000 Ip into the movies. We go to the movies sometimes 0:02:35.240 --> 0:02:38.400 literally being twice a day, we go weekly at best. 0:02:38.440 --> 0:02:41.400 What is what is the purpose? Like is it just 0:02:41.440 --> 0:02:43.640 for that one day of your life where you're going 0:02:43.680 --> 0:02:45.760 to go back and reminisce Wow? 0:02:46.000 --> 0:02:47.720 I did having to get some of your TikTok, and 0:02:47.720 --> 0:02:50.520 it was it was like these are priceless than anything. 0:02:50.520 --> 0:02:52.280 And it was like a girl emptied bag and it 0:02:52.320 --> 0:02:54.640 was all like different stuff like that her box sorry, 0:02:54.639 --> 0:02:57.040 and it was all like different stuff, like they had 0:02:57.080 --> 0:02:59.000 like movie tickets in there, like you know how she 0:02:59.080 --> 0:03:01.480 keeps all my love notes. Yes, but you could have 0:03:01.480 --> 0:03:03.639 had like all our tickets for every movie we're being too. 0:03:03.800 --> 0:03:05.240 I do it with the corks. I write the date 0:03:05.320 --> 0:03:06.200 on them and what they were for. 0:03:06.440 --> 0:03:09.079 I mean, this is just a PSA to any burglars. 0:03:09.200 --> 0:03:12.280 Don't rob matts. It's just priceless shit. 0:03:13.320 --> 0:03:17.240 Shit, you're not You're not gonna want There's no value 0:03:17.280 --> 0:03:17.520 to it. 0:03:18.840 --> 0:03:20.440 I mean if they took them from your. 0:03:21.320 --> 0:03:22.720 Oh, I would be fuman. So if you want to 0:03:22.720 --> 0:03:24.040 piss me off stealing. 0:03:23.919 --> 0:03:27.280 No one's going to take like five thousand photos of 0:03:27.360 --> 0:03:29.639 your face and nover checking in. 0:03:30.880 --> 0:03:33.079 I mean, I'm sure there's more stuff that you'd want 0:03:33.080 --> 0:03:36.520 to steal from my house. It's of price, like what. 0:03:39.680 --> 0:03:42.720 I can't say anyway. I am in gold Host It's 0:03:42.720 --> 0:03:45.080 really nice to be here. It's a lot warmer than Melbourne, 0:03:45.240 --> 0:03:50.160 which is beautiful. I'm literally here for the day. I 0:03:50.240 --> 0:03:52.360 fly in and out, flying in and out. 0:03:52.240 --> 0:03:53.960 Just a real business woman, go get her. 0:03:54.440 --> 0:03:56.680 Yeah, I mean the baby, the baby was like kicking 0:03:56.680 --> 0:03:59.440 me like crazy on the fly. What are we doing? Mum? 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:01.200 Really couldn't light the altitude? 0:04:01.280 --> 0:04:02.440 I don't know, I don't think so. 0:04:02.800 --> 0:04:05.320 His ears were popping in the womb. 0:04:06.320 --> 0:04:07.560 Imagine if that's a thing. 0:04:07.960 --> 0:04:10.600 It could be, it could be who would know, who 0:04:10.600 --> 0:04:11.560 would remember. 0:04:12.040 --> 0:04:14.920 Who would report on it? Guys, this is going to 0:04:14.960 --> 0:04:16.160 be a really rogue episode. 0:04:16.480 --> 0:04:17.560 There's nothing planned. 0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:20.440 We wrote some notes, we have some things that we 0:04:20.480 --> 0:04:22.880 want to tell you, guys, but it's obviously we had 0:04:22.880 --> 0:04:27.599 a guess and it's a bit rogue. This morning, I 0:04:27.680 --> 0:04:30.640 literally was so lucky to get on my flight. So 0:04:30.760 --> 0:04:35.839 when to check in, flying Jester, I know immediately asking 0:04:35.920 --> 0:04:36.719 who I was flying with. 0:04:36.920 --> 0:04:40.800 Yeah, I fly obviously a lot. Everyone knows that I 0:04:40.839 --> 0:04:42.000 fly only with Virgin. 0:04:42.120 --> 0:04:42.800 I love Virgin. 0:04:43.080 --> 0:04:46.640 But anyway, well I get the philosophy points. I'm three 0:04:46.760 --> 0:04:50.400 points off platinum secured for another year. That just goes 0:04:50.440 --> 0:04:52.760 to show how much flying I do. I don't wanted 0:04:52.839 --> 0:04:55.719 to drop that in the metal. Well I hopefully they do. 0:04:56.120 --> 0:04:58.880 They send you a little metal. It actually says swear 0:04:58.880 --> 0:05:01.680 a backtack and it's Metrol. 0:05:01.960 --> 0:05:04.239 Now that is something you don't want to get wrong. 0:05:05.760 --> 0:05:08.480 That would really I didn't. 0:05:08.279 --> 0:05:10.200 Put They said you from for everyone you go, and 0:05:10.240 --> 0:05:12.240 it was the only one I considered putting on my bag. 0:05:12.360 --> 0:05:15.360 And I was like, nah, you should. I should brag 0:05:15.400 --> 0:05:15.800 about it. 0:05:16.040 --> 0:05:18.000 I mean, you brag about it anyway. She don't need 0:05:18.040 --> 0:05:20.600 any more reason to remind yourself. 0:05:20.920 --> 0:05:22.240 Yes, But what happened to your flight. 0:05:22.480 --> 0:05:25.440 Yeah, So I basically got there an hour before it's domestic, 0:05:25.760 --> 0:05:28.080 went to check in and it was like, it's the 0:05:28.120 --> 0:05:30.440 flight's closed. You can't check in. So I go to 0:05:30.440 --> 0:05:31.159 the service desk. 0:05:31.320 --> 0:05:35.000 It shouldn't close. It shouldn't close closes when boarding starts. 0:05:35.120 --> 0:05:37.560 So what happened was when I got to the service desk, 0:05:37.640 --> 0:05:40.440 they were like, so we had a bigger plane and 0:05:40.440 --> 0:05:43.000 we're downgrading the bigger plane to a smaller plane. And 0:05:43.040 --> 0:05:45.279 then basically some people are getting kicked off the flight. 0:05:46.120 --> 0:05:48.880 The lady beside me, it was her, and to other people, 0:05:48.920 --> 0:05:51.400 they're like, you can have the last ticket to the 0:05:51.440 --> 0:05:53.560 flight that we've booked, and she was like, well, I've 0:05:53.560 --> 0:05:55.880 got to other people. We're not getting separated. And then 0:05:55.880 --> 0:05:57.400 they were like looked at me and they're like do 0:05:57.440 --> 0:06:00.000 you want it? And I was like yes, I'm in ant, 0:06:00.320 --> 0:06:03.320 like I'm flying in this morning out I got the 0:06:03.440 --> 0:06:07.320 last flight. So I'm here this morning thinking I'm the 0:06:07.400 --> 0:06:11.520 luckiest person. I'm like, I'm so lucky. Life is good. 0:06:12.040 --> 0:06:15.960 Four hour delay four hours and it wasn't even okay. 0:06:16.160 --> 0:06:17.880 If it was a four hour delay, I would be 0:06:17.880 --> 0:06:20.240 okay with it if they told me that, but they 0:06:20.240 --> 0:06:24.560 did it in thirty minute increments That kept going, so 0:06:24.600 --> 0:06:27.000 they'd be like, we'll let you know in thirty minutes, 0:06:27.120 --> 0:06:29.600 and then they another thirty minutes had passed and they're like, 0:06:29.920 --> 0:06:31.480 we'll let you know, but stay close by. 0:06:31.640 --> 0:06:35.880 I'm like a dude, I shit, you not, and I'm 0:06:36.200 --> 0:06:38.560 really I said this she on the phone. I said 0:06:38.560 --> 0:06:40.479 you on the phone. Last night, before I go to bed, 0:06:40.520 --> 0:06:42.040 I watch a sitcom everyone before I go to bed. 0:06:42.080 --> 0:06:43.720 I'm in the middle of thirty Rock at the moment. 0:06:43.720 --> 0:06:45.960 For people watching, it's a great show. Watch it the 0:06:46.800 --> 0:06:50.920 thirty Rock. Yeah. The main character, Tina Fey, is dating 0:06:50.960 --> 0:06:54.800 Matt Damon and he's a pilot and he's She's sitting 0:06:54.839 --> 0:06:56.800 on the plane on the tar mat and they keep 0:06:56.880 --> 0:06:59.000 saying half an hour, half an hour, and then she 0:06:59.080 --> 0:07:01.400 goes off and she goes, how long is it? And 0:07:01.440 --> 0:07:02.880 he goes half an hour. She goes, no, don't give 0:07:02.920 --> 0:07:06.480 me that, my boyfriend. He goes, let's a lingo for lingo, 0:07:07.400 --> 0:07:10.320 air lingo. Half an hour is not too long. 0:07:10.360 --> 0:07:11.120 Aviation lingo. 0:07:11.960 --> 0:07:14.520 That's the word, aviation lingo. It's not too long for 0:07:14.560 --> 0:07:16.920 people to get angry, but it's long enough for people 0:07:16.960 --> 0:07:19.440 to wait. So they always say half an hour. 0:07:19.480 --> 0:07:20.840 You could have told me last night. 0:07:22.000 --> 0:07:23.560 Yeah, so I filmed that, put it up on the 0:07:23.560 --> 0:07:26.080 Facebook page. It's literally what he said, and you. 0:07:26.120 --> 0:07:29.240 Literally watched that last night. Yeah wow. I mean we 0:07:29.280 --> 0:07:32.520 got here in the end, I mean we have. Unfortunately, 0:07:32.600 --> 0:07:34.840 Jess has had her house broken into, so maybe it 0:07:34.920 --> 0:07:36.640 is a bit of an unlucky day. But who knows. 0:07:36.920 --> 0:07:38.640 I'll tell you who is lucky. People listening to this 0:07:38.680 --> 0:07:43.040 at home, so full of yourself. 0:07:43.600 --> 0:07:47.720 Anyway, I have something to thank you for because I 0:07:47.720 --> 0:07:49.960 don't know if I've spoken about this on the podcast before, 0:07:50.000 --> 0:07:53.520 but I'm like so scared of catching uber's by myself. 0:07:53.640 --> 0:07:57.640 I actually have been to therapy for it, which sounds wild. 0:07:58.360 --> 0:08:02.600 And I was hypnotized to be able to catch an 0:08:02.840 --> 0:08:04.880 uber basically. So it's like me in the car with 0:08:04.960 --> 0:08:07.440 like a random man, it's like terrifies me. I just 0:08:07.680 --> 0:08:08.760 feel very unsafe. 0:08:09.040 --> 0:08:11.200 I know a lot of women that have told me stories, 0:08:11.440 --> 0:08:14.120 even like on the weekend, having caught one, and just 0:08:14.160 --> 0:08:17.680 like the drivers are just some slazy sometimes. 0:08:17.200 --> 0:08:21.520 Some are most of them are lovely. Like It's like 0:08:21.560 --> 0:08:24.200 a couple of bad experiences can just like really trig you. 0:08:24.280 --> 0:08:28.040 But anyway, I obviously knew I was coming up here 0:08:28.080 --> 0:08:30.240 in all week I've been saying to Matt, pick me 0:08:30.320 --> 0:08:31.880 up from the airport, Kee, pick me up from the airport. 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:35.600 You don't have the car today, but you did get 0:08:35.600 --> 0:08:37.960 an uber to the airport, So I would like to 0:08:38.000 --> 0:08:40.680 thank you and appreciate that. Okay, I do appreciate that 0:08:40.720 --> 0:08:40.959 a lot. 0:08:41.040 --> 0:08:42.640 I was a bit trying to get out of it 0:08:42.679 --> 0:08:43.640 a little bit here. 0:08:43.440 --> 0:08:45.440 And there, but I could tell you where. But I 0:08:45.480 --> 0:08:49.240 was like, please, you know how to ask you for 0:08:49.280 --> 0:08:50.160 a lot as a friend. 0:08:51.920 --> 0:08:53.960 I mean, I catch an uber to the airport pretty 0:08:54.000 --> 0:08:56.920 much every week, so I was but it was fine. 0:08:57.000 --> 0:09:00.680 I got there. Actually you got me a very nice civlak. 0:09:00.760 --> 0:09:06.079 Yet it was very nice. Thank you for that. Random 0:09:06.360 --> 0:09:09.160 it was I've walked past that place every every day 0:09:09.200 --> 0:09:10.960 and I've never really thought anything of it. But it 0:09:11.000 --> 0:09:11.360 was nice. 0:09:11.520 --> 0:09:16.120 That's good. That's good Valentine's Day. Let's talk about it. 0:09:16.160 --> 0:09:17.640 How is your Valentine's Day? 0:09:17.760 --> 0:09:20.559 It was great. So what we what Tammy and I 0:09:20.600 --> 0:09:23.240 did was we we went on a gondola ride, the 0:09:23.280 --> 0:09:25.640 Girl Coast gondoles that you recommended. That was really nice. 0:09:25.800 --> 0:09:31.000 I love those, so it's so romantic. And scenic. Yeah, 0:09:31.120 --> 0:09:32.199 how did you find the music? 0:09:32.240 --> 0:09:37.839 It's quite We called it bluetooth. So I did play 0:09:38.440 --> 0:09:41.800 a Frank Sinatra playlist. It was all lack songs like that. Yeah. 0:09:42.000 --> 0:09:43.679 Tammy was showing me like her old house or she 0:09:43.840 --> 0:09:46.880 So they were going through the canals. Did you lean 0:09:46.960 --> 0:09:51.559 on one side too much? It's a yeah, not to 0:09:51.800 --> 0:09:53.800 tell you not to. Well, at one point we're making 0:09:53.800 --> 0:09:56.240 out and Tammy might have thrown a leg over me 0:09:58.280 --> 0:10:02.320 and it literally went like we were we had to 0:10:02.320 --> 0:10:04.600 fall back, so that idea went nowhere in fact that. 0:10:04.679 --> 0:10:10.920 Was imagined then did not make it out just the 0:10:10.960 --> 0:10:14.080 coo tumbles over. That would not be a good valance. 0:10:14.840 --> 0:10:16.840 So we did that. Then we went to a restaurant. 0:10:17.640 --> 0:10:19.480 I had my steak, and then we went up and 0:10:19.520 --> 0:10:21.600 stayed at the Imperial. 0:10:22.080 --> 0:10:22.440 Lovely. 0:10:22.600 --> 0:10:23.560 It was right because all. 0:10:23.440 --> 0:10:26.640 In the same Scendi Imperial. It's cool, it's old with 0:10:26.760 --> 0:10:27.439 Sachi hotel. 0:10:27.600 --> 0:10:29.640 Yeah, it's still got all THEI suffering. 0:10:29.800 --> 0:10:31.760 Yeah, I do like it there, it's nice. 0:10:32.120 --> 0:10:34.520 Yeah, it was good, and then went what do we 0:10:34.559 --> 0:10:35.120 do on the weekend? 0:10:35.160 --> 0:10:39.120 There was your Valentine d First, My Valentine's Day was lovely, 0:10:39.480 --> 0:10:43.960 So we went to Cape Shanks right, yes, and it 0:10:44.040 --> 0:10:46.920 was actually so nice. We went to a winery as well. 0:10:47.040 --> 0:10:50.440 Obviously we Michael had one glass and I didn't drink. 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:53.120 But it was like this fourteen course lunch. It was 0:10:53.200 --> 0:10:57.880 so beautiful and I feel bad saying this, but obviously 0:10:57.960 --> 0:11:01.400 there are many how many fourteen courses. It was a 0:11:01.400 --> 0:11:04.200 fourteen course lunch, so the first five were like little, 0:11:05.080 --> 0:11:08.400 you know, just like the bite sized pieces. But yeah, 0:11:08.440 --> 0:11:11.160 it was amazing. It was incredible, and they were. 0:11:11.040 --> 0:11:13.760 One of the rest of the ten courses. 0:11:13.280 --> 0:11:17.520 Then and then I'm not gonna take everyone through every course, 0:11:17.559 --> 0:11:19.760 but it was lovely and if you get the chance 0:11:19.760 --> 0:11:23.480 to go to Polperno Polperno Winery, definitely go. It was 0:11:23.480 --> 0:11:28.079 beautiful but it was a really nice cozy day inside. Yeah, 0:11:28.120 --> 0:11:31.040 it looked the rain was pouring down, and I was like, 0:11:31.080 --> 0:11:33.840 this is so romantic because obviously in Melbourne it's seemed 0:11:33.920 --> 0:11:36.720 so warm, so it was like the first like wintery 0:11:36.840 --> 0:11:39.480 kind of feel. But then I felt bad because I 0:11:39.520 --> 0:11:42.640 knew that fifteen minutes down the road you write a wedding, 0:11:43.120 --> 0:11:43.640 and I was. 0:11:43.720 --> 0:11:46.440 Like, we wereally around the corner. 0:11:46.640 --> 0:11:48.960 Yeah, we were fifteen minutes away from each other, which 0:11:49.000 --> 0:11:52.080 is hilarious. But yeah, I was like embracing the rain 0:11:52.160 --> 0:11:55.280 and loving it and then also simultaneously feeling really guilty 0:11:55.320 --> 0:11:57.679 because I knew that you write a wedding and someone's 0:11:57.679 --> 0:11:58.840 wedding was getting rained one. 0:11:59.360 --> 0:12:01.200 There were glimps the son, so we were lucky. There 0:12:01.200 --> 0:12:02.200 was like little bits of sun. 0:12:02.440 --> 0:12:03.120 It was up and down. 0:12:03.160 --> 0:12:04.920 It was up and up and down stair, but there 0:12:05.040 --> 0:12:07.120 was it was pouring down at some stages while we 0:12:07.160 --> 0:12:07.640 were waiting. 0:12:07.800 --> 0:12:10.880 Yeah, how was the walk down the aisle? Was that outside? 0:12:11.000 --> 0:12:12.880 That was outside? It was sunny for that bit, so 0:12:12.880 --> 0:12:15.400 we got a bit of Yeah, gotta be a something 0:12:15.400 --> 0:12:17.040 like maybe I think it was four o'clock or four 0:12:17.160 --> 0:12:18.880 thirty or something. It's like bang on. There was a 0:12:18.880 --> 0:12:20.720 bit of sun. And so they got everyone to the 0:12:20.760 --> 0:12:23.160 thing real quickly, to the altar aisle or whatever you 0:12:23.160 --> 0:12:24.840 call it, and they they did. 0:12:24.720 --> 0:12:27.160 It and then start raining on them, started. 0:12:26.880 --> 0:12:28.920 Pouring down when we had to do like the grooms 0:12:29.000 --> 0:12:30.920 and entry. Did you watch that video put it? I 0:12:30.920 --> 0:12:36.040 haven't seen it, and we have it with umbrellas clovered 0:12:36.040 --> 0:12:40.280 me straight in the face. Yeah, well it's a long day, 0:12:40.559 --> 0:12:42.360 you know, you're waiting around. It was a groomson that's 0:12:42.360 --> 0:12:43.360 the first time in a greensoon. 0:12:43.679 --> 0:12:46.960 How does it feel to be chosen to the chosen one? 0:12:47.520 --> 0:12:50.559 I mean, it's good. You get all the benefits. This 0:12:50.640 --> 0:12:51.920 is what my grooms and said. You get all the 0:12:51.920 --> 0:12:55.240 benefits of the groom, but no responsibility or nothing. 0:12:55.240 --> 0:12:56.320 You just can just have fun. 0:12:56.360 --> 0:12:59.000 You just have fun. Yes, that was good, that's awesome. 0:12:59.200 --> 0:13:04.160 Yeah, well, I about to be a bridesmaid next month. 0:13:04.320 --> 0:13:09.040 Who too, Maddie my friend it's her wedding. Yeah, it's 0:13:09.040 --> 0:13:13.560 her wedding in March, so very soon. But I just 0:13:13.559 --> 0:13:15.920 feel so bad. And I don't know if it's my 0:13:16.080 --> 0:13:19.480 algorithm a the moment, but I am being like hit 0:13:19.600 --> 0:13:22.920 with how annoying it is when someone one of your 0:13:22.920 --> 0:13:26.240 bridesmaids is pregnant at your wedding. I don't know why. 0:13:26.320 --> 0:13:29.680 It's not spy in your phone, it's just watching you 0:13:29.760 --> 0:13:30.880 and knows everything. 0:13:31.480 --> 0:13:33.240 But I'm starting to feel really bad about it, and 0:13:33.280 --> 0:13:35.000 it has been a bit of a nightmare. Like she 0:13:35.000 --> 0:13:38.280 still doesn't have the bridesmaid's dresses. She's ordered them and 0:13:38.360 --> 0:13:41.440 they I think they're on their way. But obviously it's 0:13:41.480 --> 0:13:44.679 super hard for me because I'm fully growing now, like 0:13:45.080 --> 0:13:47.920 I have a big bump. Would you say big bump? 0:13:48.040 --> 0:13:50.040 Yeah, I said before when you held it for a photo. 0:13:50.400 --> 0:13:53.240 Don't worry, it's not gonna it's the baby's not going 0:13:53.320 --> 0:13:54.560 to fall out to fall out. 0:13:54.920 --> 0:13:56.600 I know it's so weird when you're pregnant. I feel 0:13:56.600 --> 0:13:58.720 like you hold the belly just to show that you're pregnant. 0:13:58.760 --> 0:14:01.360 But I think people can probably well, Like I don't 0:14:01.360 --> 0:14:01.880 need to hold it. 0:14:02.480 --> 0:14:03.960 Had two sublakies at lunch. 0:14:05.200 --> 0:14:09.320 I had ten, but no, in all seriousness, yeah, I'm 0:14:09.520 --> 0:14:11.520 excited to be a bridesmaid, but yeah, I'm just being 0:14:11.600 --> 0:14:16.800 hit with pregnant bridesmaid TikTok, and I'm feeling altered or 0:14:17.440 --> 0:14:18.120 I'll alter it. 0:14:18.200 --> 0:14:20.760 Yeah, I find a lot of the bridesmaids stresses these days. 0:14:20.760 --> 0:14:23.720 This is a pure observation from just a guy. Yes, 0:14:24.160 --> 0:14:28.800 is they're just like those silky like that. Yeah, so 0:14:28.880 --> 0:14:30.920 that you could wear that pregnant. I don't know about 0:14:30.960 --> 0:14:32.000 j Justice bottom ship you can. 0:14:32.360 --> 0:14:35.240 Yeah, I think the thing is And it's something that 0:14:35.280 --> 0:14:38.240 I didn't really think of. But I feel like directly 0:14:38.640 --> 0:14:42.040 under the boob line, my stomach starting to go out there, 0:14:42.520 --> 0:14:47.240 So everything needs to be like so loose, Like I 0:14:47.280 --> 0:14:49.600 thought that I could have a you know, it's straight 0:14:49.640 --> 0:14:51.640 at the bodice and then go out at the tummy. 0:14:51.680 --> 0:14:54.280 But no, like my tummy is taking up the whole 0:14:54.800 --> 0:14:56.040 torso area now. 0:14:56.120 --> 0:14:58.200 Because you're in the last trimester. 0:14:58.160 --> 0:15:01.640 I am officially in the last trying. I'm six months pregnant. 0:15:01.800 --> 0:15:06.200 You start popping soon, really, like I think I already have. Yeah, 0:15:06.360 --> 0:15:08.960 it doesn't look like you're popping. It's because I'm sitting 0:15:09.000 --> 0:15:11.200 down as well. I think you understanding it's a lot 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:15.160 more prominent. Yeah, right, but it is funny. Like I 0:15:15.200 --> 0:15:17.560 actually haven't like really said this out loud, but I 0:15:17.640 --> 0:15:20.240 was thinking it the other day. I feel like men 0:15:20.280 --> 0:15:23.760 treat me so weirdly now, not you obviously, and not 0:15:23.800 --> 0:15:26.400 like Michael or people I know, like my dad or brother, 0:15:26.760 --> 0:15:29.680 but like men out and about like if Like the 0:15:29.720 --> 0:15:32.320 other day I was in calls and like this guy 0:15:32.440 --> 0:15:34.200 like he like looks at me in the eye, looks 0:15:34.200 --> 0:15:36.400 down at the bump and then gets People get like awkward, 0:15:36.720 --> 0:15:38.800 Like men get really awkward around me. I feel like, 0:15:39.120 --> 0:15:41.360 I don't know, I don't know if I'm just imagining it, 0:15:41.400 --> 0:15:46.480 but I feel like being pregnant, men feel uncomfortable around me. 0:15:46.560 --> 0:15:48.840 What did you do? You mean about the way awkwardly. 0:15:49.160 --> 0:15:52.200 It's not just one guy, but I noticed it specifically 0:15:52.240 --> 0:15:54.760 with him, and I'd already been thinking it, and then 0:15:54.960 --> 0:15:58.360 because he was so obviously awkward and uncomfortable around me, 0:15:58.840 --> 0:16:01.280 I was just thinking it, Like I think they just 0:16:01.560 --> 0:16:06.560 feel strange around a pregnant woman. I don't know if 0:16:06.560 --> 0:16:09.200 that's just how I don't notice. 0:16:09.840 --> 0:16:11.720 I don't notice how the women around me. To be fair, 0:16:13.040 --> 0:16:18.160 you're my wife. 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:21.280 Like, if you saw a pregnant woman, yeah, you don't 0:16:21.320 --> 0:16:23.920 notice it. So it's a hard question to ask you. Yeah, 0:16:23.920 --> 0:16:26.280 I'm sure you can notice if someone was like quite pregnant, 0:16:26.920 --> 0:16:29.960 if they were like popping, if they're like nine months. 0:16:30.240 --> 0:16:31.880 I'm picturing photos like my mom when she was like, no, 0:16:31.960 --> 0:16:34.720 I'm not pregnant with me, Like, yeah, i'd notice that. Yeah, 0:16:34.760 --> 0:16:36.840 you're massive, you're popping like out here. 0:16:37.080 --> 0:16:39.840 Yeah. But then like you wouldn't feel uncomfortable around them. 0:16:40.120 --> 0:16:41.840 I mean, i'd probably get them a chair to sit 0:16:41.880 --> 0:16:44.400 down if they were standing there. That's nice, Like it 0:16:44.440 --> 0:16:45.360 looks like it would hurt. 0:16:46.120 --> 0:16:49.640 It does hurt, honestly, Sleeping is not. It Like even 0:16:49.720 --> 0:16:51.920 I have to sleep on the side, and obviously when 0:16:51.960 --> 0:16:55.400 I sleep on the side. There's space between where the 0:16:55.400 --> 0:16:59.920 bump is and the mattress. So it's like really uncomfortable. 0:16:59.440 --> 0:17:01.320 Anyway, were you not let oh, you have to sleep 0:17:01.360 --> 0:17:01.760 on yourself. 0:17:01.760 --> 0:17:04.480 I have pregnancy pillars, but it's just still not the best. 0:17:04.560 --> 0:17:07.520 Speaking of pain, I'm not compared to your pregnancy. I'm 0:17:07.560 --> 0:17:09.560 not trying to compare it. Before anyone dives down. 0:17:09.400 --> 0:17:12.199 My throat, go on, what pain are you in? 0:17:12.240 --> 0:17:16.400 That my cyst has flared up in my my wrist again. 0:17:16.520 --> 0:17:21.600 It's so sore. Years I was on the surgery list, 0:17:21.600 --> 0:17:23.480 the waiting list to get surgery. 0:17:23.680 --> 0:17:24.560 To get it removed. 0:17:24.680 --> 0:17:28.399 Yeah, and it's so so it's flared up for some reason. 0:17:28.760 --> 0:17:30.280 You know that the old theory was you boust it 0:17:30.320 --> 0:17:31.880 with the They used to bust it with the Bible. 0:17:33.240 --> 0:17:36.159 So I did the other day and it temporarily like Bible. 0:17:36.200 --> 0:17:39.320 I literally did it, and it temporarily felt better, but 0:17:39.440 --> 0:17:41.199 then it went back to hurting like it like you 0:17:41.200 --> 0:17:42.760 know when you ease, when you put pressure on something 0:17:42.800 --> 0:17:45.080 and it eases the pain, and it feels like almost 0:17:45.760 --> 0:17:48.440 not like euphoric, like it feels like oh. 0:17:48.160 --> 0:17:50.200 Yeeah, yeah, it's like the black of bean. Yeah. 0:17:50.359 --> 0:17:51.679 And like I was like that, and then it just 0:17:51.680 --> 0:17:52.600 went back to hurting. 0:17:52.760 --> 0:17:58.040 I actually did notice anything lunch. He's kept flicking it. 0:17:58.040 --> 0:17:59.440 It's like, what are you doing? 0:18:00.080 --> 0:18:01.720 Rest? Did I do it with the edge of my phone? 0:18:01.760 --> 0:18:03.879 Yet you were doing bolt it with the edge of 0:18:03.880 --> 0:18:04.880 my phone to try. 0:18:05.400 --> 0:18:07.520 We wouldn't do that, But I mean, that's just don't 0:18:07.520 --> 0:18:08.440 you have to listen to anything. 0:18:08.440 --> 0:18:11.360