WEBVTT - WE'RE SLEEPING IN SEPARATE BEDS... 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:01.880 But I to use that room in that bed as 0:00:01.960 --> 0:00:04.680 my wrestling bedrace to wrestle my teddies on there. 0:00:06.559 --> 0:00:11.720 That's really sweet. I'm surprised you admitted that to the podcast. 0:00:11.920 --> 0:00:13.840 But here we have Well, I went on to become 0:00:13.920 --> 0:00:17.079 a wrestler, so that was just me training as a kid. 0:00:22.120 --> 0:00:22.960 Where's Your Head At? 0:00:23.000 --> 0:00:27.720 Is a podcast that talks all things right. Hold on 0:00:27.760 --> 0:00:32.320 a sec, let's give this a refresh. Hi. 0:00:32.720 --> 0:00:35.360 I'm Anna and I'm Matt and we are now too 0:00:35.400 --> 0:00:38.360 newlywed not to each other. Just a female and male 0:00:38.400 --> 0:00:40.519 best friend here for the good, the bad, and the 0:00:40.600 --> 0:00:41.640 ugly times. 0:00:41.479 --> 0:00:46.040 And exploring adulthood, family relationships, dilemmas. 0:00:45.680 --> 0:00:48.239 And whatever else we have the mental capacity to deal with. 0:00:48.600 --> 0:00:49.559 Come get the lowdown. 0:00:49.800 --> 0:00:51.520 This is your male and female perspective. 0:00:51.960 --> 0:00:56.720 So, Matt, Where's your Head At? 0:00:56.760 --> 0:01:02.960 Good morning, Anna, Good morning. I'm actually being listening to 0:01:03.280 --> 0:01:05.520 Matthew McConaughey's audiobook Greenlight. 0:01:05.640 --> 0:01:07.560 And did he say that on it? 0:01:07.760 --> 0:01:10.040 Not yet? Not yet. He hasn't said it yet. He's 0:01:10.040 --> 0:01:12.000 just talking about like his childhood and growing up. It's 0:01:12.000 --> 0:01:13.080 pretty interesting so far. 0:01:13.640 --> 0:01:16.679 You're on the audiobook train at the moment, Yes, I am, so. 0:01:16.680 --> 0:01:19.000 I'm still reading my goosebumps to everyone out there. So 0:01:19.040 --> 0:01:21.520 I'm reading that when I can, But when I can 0:01:21.560 --> 0:01:24.160 listen to audiobooks, I'm listening to them. The more how 0:01:24.160 --> 0:01:26.160 do I put this, more I don't want to say, 0:01:26.200 --> 0:01:28.360 like harder ones, but the more you know, in depth ones. 0:01:28.480 --> 0:01:31.400 Plus I'm listening to Matthew McConaughey. Can I complain with that? No? 0:01:31.640 --> 0:01:32.640 Is it his voice? 0:01:32.760 --> 0:01:37.720 Yeah? Yeah, it's him talking. Yeah, very he is a 0:01:37.720 --> 0:01:42.720 fun fact on this podcast. His mum and dad got 0:01:43.000 --> 0:01:45.479 married and divorced three times to themselves. 0:01:45.959 --> 0:01:50.560 That's wild. That's what you call a love hate relationship. 0:01:50.800 --> 0:01:52.680 Well yeah, he tells some stories about how they hate 0:01:52.720 --> 0:01:54.120 each other and how they loved each other. It just 0:01:54.120 --> 0:01:55.840 seemed really intense their relationship. 0:01:56.000 --> 0:01:57.200 Toxic, toxic love. 0:01:57.320 --> 0:01:59.760 Yeah, there were some toxic stories in there. But it's good, 0:01:59.800 --> 0:02:03.240 Like I'm still on Like he's not even graduated school yet. 0:02:03.360 --> 0:02:06.200 That's the start of his life story. But it gives 0:02:06.240 --> 0:02:10.280 some good inspirational not quotes, but like stories and like 0:02:10.639 --> 0:02:11.720 ways of looking at things. 0:02:11.840 --> 0:02:13.560 So something you'd recommend listening to. 0:02:13.800 --> 0:02:17.680 Definitely definitely recommend to people. I've bought some other ones 0:02:17.720 --> 0:02:20.920 on the app as well. Some more that relationship ones 0:02:20.919 --> 0:02:22.240 because I wanted to listen to them to bring them 0:02:22.240 --> 0:02:26.040 into the podcast. So there was one like I could 0:02:26.040 --> 0:02:28.119 go through. But I'll post them on their Facebook page 0:02:28.120 --> 0:02:30.040 for everyone to listen to when I'm done with them, 0:02:30.120 --> 0:02:31.960 and what I recommend sounds good. 0:02:32.240 --> 0:02:36.000 I'm just sitting here eating a blueberry muffin, minding my 0:02:36.000 --> 0:02:36.480 own business. 0:02:37.320 --> 0:02:38.080 You can have some. 0:02:38.240 --> 0:02:44.480 Actually, it's quite big breakfast. And I'm mentioning that because 0:02:45.520 --> 0:02:50.280 I got mum shamed for the first time ever already 0:02:50.840 --> 0:02:55.760 because I wasn't eating carrots and cucumbers right. So, basically, 0:02:55.880 --> 0:02:58.680 on TikTok, I posted a video saying that one of 0:02:58.680 --> 0:03:03.600 my pregnancy craby was eating hash browns. Obviously, I'm not 0:03:03.680 --> 0:03:07.519 having hundreds of hash browns, but if I'm passing McDonald's, 0:03:07.520 --> 0:03:09.760 I'll be like, oh yeah, let's get me a hash. 0:03:09.520 --> 0:03:12.840 Brown in a water. Anyway, this is the McDonald's hash 0:03:12.880 --> 0:03:14.160 brown They are good, aren't they. 0:03:14.200 --> 0:03:17.000 And I feel like when you're pregnant, not in the 0:03:17.000 --> 0:03:20.480 first timemester, only recently I've found this things taste. 0:03:20.280 --> 0:03:21.800 Better really to me. 0:03:22.040 --> 0:03:26.200 Yeah, and hash browns taste better, fruits taste better. 0:03:26.240 --> 0:03:27.680 Because all your senses are heightened. 0:03:27.800 --> 0:03:33.280 I don't know maybe maybe anyway, So I posted this video, 0:03:33.560 --> 0:03:35.800 was like, my craving is a hash brown blah blah blah. 0:03:35.800 --> 0:03:38.160 It's like lighthearted, it's a joke. It's not a joke, 0:03:38.400 --> 0:03:42.600 it is my craving. But like, yeah, you mean anyway, 0:03:43.280 --> 0:03:46.720 I get a comment from a girl and she says, 0:03:47.480 --> 0:03:51.280 I can't relate. I would never put McDonald's in my 0:03:51.360 --> 0:03:57.400 body in general, let alone whilst I'm pregnant. Very mum 0:03:57.480 --> 0:04:01.240 shamy vibes, and honestly, I I've never been mum shamed. 0:04:01.280 --> 0:04:04.920 So I saw the comment and I was just like, whatever, 0:04:05.200 --> 0:04:07.480 like you do you? The comment also went on to read, 0:04:07.760 --> 0:04:10.520 I'm thirty weeks and I've had no cravings because I've 0:04:10.560 --> 0:04:12.880 been in a calorie surplus the whole time. 0:04:13.000 --> 0:04:13.360 What's up? 0:04:13.960 --> 0:04:17.159 So she's basically, obviously is someone who tracks their calories. 0:04:17.200 --> 0:04:19.279 So like, let's just say you want to eat sixteen 0:04:19.360 --> 0:04:22.279 hundred calories in a day, she's eating more than that, 0:04:22.560 --> 0:04:25.599 and she believes that that has stopped her from getting 0:04:25.640 --> 0:04:32.280 sick whilst pregnant. Anyway, I was not expecting the amount 0:04:32.320 --> 0:04:37.680 of mothers, mums, mums to be that came to my defense. Really, 0:04:38.480 --> 0:04:44.760 so many women were so furious essentially, And I realized 0:04:44.800 --> 0:04:47.560 in that moment that you did not fuck with mums 0:04:47.640 --> 0:04:49.719 because they are not having it. 0:04:50.640 --> 0:04:52.320 So did they stick up for you and say that 0:04:52.360 --> 0:04:54.360 you can't eat McDonald's? Is there anything? 0:04:54.520 --> 0:04:54.760 Yeah? 0:04:54.920 --> 0:04:55.080 Is it? 0:04:55.120 --> 0:04:55.360 Yeah? 0:04:55.640 --> 0:04:58.000 Scientific eating McDonald's. 0:04:57.520 --> 0:05:00.480 World, And like the thing is is, obviously the person 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:03.840 who's made this comment is having a really good pregnancy, Like. 0:05:04.160 --> 0:05:05.000 They're not sick. 0:05:05.520 --> 0:05:08.840 She can eat a certain amount of calories, she's obviously 0:05:09.440 --> 0:05:12.640 tracking her calories. I don't track any of my food intake, 0:05:12.680 --> 0:05:15.680 calories anything like that. I just kind of eat what 0:05:15.720 --> 0:05:18.240 I feel like or what my body's craving. 0:05:18.320 --> 0:05:20.200 But generally I eat quite healthy. 0:05:21.440 --> 0:05:23.240 But yeah, if I want to get a hash brown, 0:05:23.240 --> 0:05:25.479 I'm going to go get a hash brown. But yeah, 0:05:25.520 --> 0:05:28.440 I think it was just it's good to remind ourselves 0:05:28.520 --> 0:05:32.080 that not everyone has the same experience. So my pregnancy 0:05:32.160 --> 0:05:36.120 journey is not like her pregnancy journey. Like I'm if 0:05:36.160 --> 0:05:38.560 I'm not taking it on dan Zatron to stop me 0:05:38.960 --> 0:05:39.919 from having my head in. 0:05:39.960 --> 0:05:43.200 The toilet all day, Yeah right, Like I'm. 0:05:43.000 --> 0:05:46.600 Not living my life. So she it's good for her 0:05:46.680 --> 0:05:49.479 that she can do that, but for me, that's not possible. 0:05:49.520 --> 0:05:51.240 And for a lot of people. It's not possible, and. 0:05:51.240 --> 0:05:54.240 She shouldn't pass judgment on you because you crave a 0:05:54.360 --> 0:05:54.839 hash bran. 0:05:55.040 --> 0:05:58.000 I think that's like, how ridiculous even to say it 0:05:58.040 --> 0:06:01.760 out loud. Well, I so still to be like, I would, 0:06:01.800 --> 0:06:04.839 you know, to make someone feel guilty about that. I 0:06:04.839 --> 0:06:08.400 think it's hard enough to carry a baby, and you 0:06:08.440 --> 0:06:12.359 know all of the body changes and the highs and 0:06:12.400 --> 0:06:16.960 lows emotionally, all of the hormones spiking, you know, the 0:06:17.040 --> 0:06:19.720 sciatica pain. I could go on all of the different 0:06:19.720 --> 0:06:22.440 aches and pain throughout the body. I think if someone 0:06:22.440 --> 0:06:25.760 wants to eat a hash brown, let them live their 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:27.760 life and just focus on yourself. 0:06:27.839 --> 0:06:28.039 Right. 0:06:28.440 --> 0:06:31.679 I feel like twenty twenty five, mum shaming is out. 0:06:31.880 --> 0:06:32.560 It's not a thing. 0:06:32.680 --> 0:06:35.000 It's not a thing. We're not doing it. I'm not 0:06:35.040 --> 0:06:35.920 going to put up with it. 0:06:35.960 --> 0:06:38.960 So if anyone feels like mum shaming me again, I 0:06:39.000 --> 0:06:42.159 will be calling it out because I'm not having it. 0:06:42.920 --> 0:06:45.719 On the whole eating McDonald's thing. I saw a real 0:06:45.920 --> 0:06:50.119 or a TikTok I told you this about a motivational speaker. Yeah, 0:06:50.120 --> 0:06:53.839 and he was saying, what does Usain Bolts eat? Two 0:06:53.839 --> 0:06:57.920 weeks leading up to his race. Yeah, and he said 0:06:58.360 --> 0:07:01.280 he eats McDonald's. Really, he said he eat to take 0:07:01.320 --> 0:07:03.480 McDonald's chicken like nuggets and that because he gets the 0:07:03.560 --> 0:07:06.080 ride around of protein from it and the ride around 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:07.920 of calories and all that. But it won't make him 0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:10.720 sick because McDonald's is the most like policed and governed 0:07:10.720 --> 0:07:13.960 thing around the world that it's like, won't make you sick. Really, 0:07:14.160 --> 0:07:16.280 I don't know find that vide. I shouldn't go on 0:07:16.320 --> 0:07:18.960 this podcast saying shit that I've seen half watched in 0:07:18.960 --> 0:07:21.400 a TikTok hole, but that's what he said. 0:07:22.120 --> 0:07:24.040 Be fair. I've never got sick from McDonalds. 0:07:25.000 --> 0:07:27.800 I have got sick from Subway though I was eating 0:07:27.840 --> 0:07:29.320 Subway through my pregnancy. 0:07:29.560 --> 0:07:31.320 But I'm having it for lunch. I'm gonna have it 0:07:31.320 --> 0:07:31.640 for lunch. 0:07:31.760 --> 0:07:32.800 You should eat it for lunch. 0:07:33.040 --> 0:07:33.840 I'm craving it now. 0:07:33.920 --> 0:07:34.960 You should edit it for lunch. 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:38.120 Okay, mat, we have to talk about Katie and Tim 0:07:38.320 --> 0:07:39.680 from Married at First Sight? 0:07:40.280 --> 0:07:43.080 Yes, but before we go any further, I would like 0:07:43.200 --> 0:07:47.320 to just have a PSA. I have not started watching maths. 0:07:47.360 --> 0:07:49.840 Maybe a formal apology to everyone? 0:07:50.600 --> 0:07:52.640 Did I promise We'll have to roll back the tape 0:07:52.640 --> 0:07:53.280 I think he did. 0:07:53.360 --> 0:07:54.480 He said you were going to do it. 0:07:55.240 --> 0:07:57.680 Sorry, guys, I'm sorry life got in the way where 0:07:57.760 --> 0:08:00.320 we're in the middle of severance. If anyone's been watching 0:08:00.360 --> 0:08:05.360 that very good TV show, we're watching that and just yeah, 0:08:05.480 --> 0:08:07.520 life got in the way. And I mean, I do 0:08:07.680 --> 0:08:10.040 enjoy watching Maths, but so hopefully maybe I'll get to 0:08:10.080 --> 0:08:10.920 give it another go later. 0:08:11.160 --> 0:08:13.360 Well, I'm going to tell you about this couple, O 0:08:14.040 --> 0:08:19.280 Katie and Tim. They look like a really well matched pair. 0:08:19.520 --> 0:08:21.640 I'm going to show you a photo of them, and 0:08:21.680 --> 0:08:24.360 you can tell me what your thoughts are just from 0:08:24.480 --> 0:08:26.840 looks wise alone. 0:08:27.040 --> 0:08:28.400 Yeah, from looks alone. 0:08:28.440 --> 0:08:30.760 Sure, yeah, they look like a well matched couple. You 0:08:30.800 --> 0:08:33.520 would say, yes with no information. 0:08:34.400 --> 0:08:38.480 Yeah, they look like my parents, my mate's parents. Okay, 0:08:38.679 --> 0:08:39.640 you go around to mate's house. 0:08:39.679 --> 0:08:43.400 Anyway, This guy Tim, he goes to the Bucks party 0:08:43.920 --> 0:08:46.480 and he gives this whole spiel about he's the nicest 0:08:46.520 --> 0:08:48.840 guy ever and he gets really hurt by. 0:08:48.720 --> 0:08:50.680 Women and like, what was me? 0:08:50.840 --> 0:08:52.720 And it's like a bit of a pity party, sympathy 0:08:52.800 --> 0:08:53.640 vote type of card. 0:08:53.760 --> 0:08:53.960 Right. 0:08:54.559 --> 0:08:59.319 Yeah, Katie walks down the aisle, looks like everything's going well. 0:08:59.400 --> 0:09:03.200 And then after the wedding, He's like, she's not my type. 0:09:03.800 --> 0:09:05.000 I'm not into her. 0:09:05.559 --> 0:09:10.560 Previously he said he doesn't have a type. Now night Skuy, 0:09:10.679 --> 0:09:15.160 Tim has a type. He likes short blondes or brunettes, 0:09:15.360 --> 0:09:18.640 which is really mean because the only other thing is redhead. 0:09:18.679 --> 0:09:23.840 And yeah, my mom is still telling me about this briefly. 0:09:23.880 --> 0:09:25.880 Apparently it's petite blonds or something. 0:09:25.960 --> 0:09:30.400 Yeah, apparently he likes petite blondes. He is bigger than her, 0:09:30.520 --> 0:09:32.840 so technically she's petite. 0:09:33.440 --> 0:09:36.959 Let's be real, you know, like, let's be real. Tim. 0:09:37.360 --> 0:09:42.120 I just hate how he's making her feel. And I think, 0:09:42.320 --> 0:09:44.640 you know, when you watch Married at First Sight and 0:09:45.360 --> 0:09:48.280 there's a few people there and you're like they really 0:09:48.320 --> 0:09:51.040 need to find love, Like the pressure is on for 0:09:51.080 --> 0:09:54.360 the producers, like they need to make this work. There's 0:09:54.360 --> 0:09:56.000 a part of me that just thinks, did they do 0:09:56.080 --> 0:09:57.880 their due diligence with this guy? 0:09:58.559 --> 0:10:02.360 Because just saying you're a nice guy, I mean sometimes 0:10:02.360 --> 0:10:03.119 when someone. 0:10:02.880 --> 0:10:05.960 Says they're a nice guy, it actually means the opposite. 0:10:06.000 --> 0:10:08.840 It's like when you claim to be something, like you 0:10:08.920 --> 0:10:12.360 just need to show people that you're a nice guy. 0:10:12.559 --> 0:10:18.400 You're not claim the nice guy anyway. He's basically completely 0:10:18.400 --> 0:10:20.959 rejected her, is giving her nothing. 0:10:21.800 --> 0:10:23.600 It's really heartbreaking to watch. 0:10:23.720 --> 0:10:25.280 Is it like they're in the same hotel room and 0:10:25.320 --> 0:10:26.200 it's like really awkward. 0:10:26.440 --> 0:10:29.240 Yeah. So after the after the wedding, she was like, 0:10:29.320 --> 0:10:30.960 do we go on the honeymoon? Then if you're not 0:10:31.000 --> 0:10:34.320 that into me, they've gone. So I'm assuming he said 0:10:34.400 --> 0:10:39.600 yes and he's just giving her nothing honeymoon somewhere cold 0:10:39.640 --> 0:10:44.080 and miserable, which was like pretty much, yeah, I know 0:10:44.440 --> 0:10:46.800 this isn't in Finland. 0:10:46.520 --> 0:10:52.600 It's somewhere in Australia cold. I think it just looks 0:10:52.600 --> 0:10:53.920 like a negative experience. 0:10:54.160 --> 0:10:59.800 Okay, And yeah, I'm really feeling for Katie because this 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:02.320 thing that pisses me off the most is he's acting 0:11:02.400 --> 0:11:04.800 like he's way better than her and he can do 0:11:04.880 --> 0:11:07.920 way better than her, and it's like you can't. 0:11:08.080 --> 0:11:10.360 Apparently a lot of the comments were rinsing him, being 0:11:10.440 --> 0:11:11.640 like you can't do better. 0:11:12.520 --> 0:11:15.160 Blonde here, Yeah, and like if you're missed a nice guy, 0:11:15.160 --> 0:11:17.240 then just give it a go, see how it, see 0:11:17.240 --> 0:11:19.760 how it unfolds. Like, obviously I would never go on 0:11:19.840 --> 0:11:22.599 married at First Sight number one because I'm married, but. 0:11:22.400 --> 0:11:23.559 Also because. 0:11:24.760 --> 0:11:30.080 You know, if you have a specific type. Yeah, but 0:11:30.160 --> 0:11:33.080 I can choose out of multiple people, Like, I'm not 0:11:33.120 --> 0:11:34.679 just gonna have someone. 0:11:34.840 --> 0:11:35.600 Did you. 0:11:39.559 --> 0:11:40.720 Almost fell off my chair? 0:11:42.480 --> 0:11:42.880 True? 0:11:42.920 --> 0:11:45.240 But like you know what I'm saying, Like I wouldn't 0:11:45.280 --> 0:11:48.240 have someone pick one person for me if I wasn't 0:11:48.240 --> 0:11:49.960 going to give it a go. So the fact that 0:11:50.000 --> 0:11:52.920 he's signed up to this experiment, agreed to give it 0:11:52.960 --> 0:11:55.720 a go, put it out there. I don't have a type, 0:11:56.120 --> 0:11:58.760 And now all of a sudden someone's walked down the aisle. 0:11:58.760 --> 0:12:02.880 Who he's like, that's not for me, Like, come on, dude, 0:12:03.440 --> 0:12:05.880 I get it that you don't just want to be 0:12:06.000 --> 0:12:07.520 matched up with someone, but you have to give it 0:12:07.520 --> 0:12:09.959 a go if you're there, that's my opinion. 0:12:10.520 --> 0:12:13.480 Anyway, let me know how it goes. I might tune in, 0:12:13.520 --> 0:12:17.520 and I might, but well, I'm not promising anything because 0:12:17.520 --> 0:12:18.520 don't want to let people down. 0:12:18.520 --> 0:12:21.040 I'm not, well, you already let us down. That that's real. 0:12:22.720 --> 0:12:25.360 At what point I don't know. Yeah, I don't like 0:12:25.400 --> 0:12:26.880 reality t there, you know that. 0:12:27.280 --> 0:12:31.079 But it's so good because it's interesting seeing people's interactions, 0:12:31.120 --> 0:12:34.280 even for your own relationship to be like interesting how 0:12:34.320 --> 0:12:34.960 they interact. 0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:38.720 Okay, tal Tammy, if she puts it on, I'll watch 0:12:38.760 --> 0:12:40.640 it I'll text her right now, yeah, because I'm not 0:12:40.720 --> 0:12:41.720 going to go put it on. 0:12:44.000 --> 0:12:52.280 So, Matt, you are in Melbourne at the moment. You've 0:12:52.280 --> 0:12:56.360 been here for a week. It's been Actually i'm gonna 0:12:56.360 --> 0:12:59.200 say nice having you. This is like the second time 0:12:59.240 --> 0:13:01.600 I've seen you. So it's been nice or not that nice. 0:13:01.679 --> 0:13:03.560 Yeah, I've been I've been down yet, been down in 0:13:03.600 --> 0:13:06.079 Melbourne for the week. I'm helping my old man out 0:13:06.080 --> 0:13:10.120 with some work. He's helping him organize an expo for him. 0:13:10.920 --> 0:13:13.280 But that's funny because the last time I was down 0:13:13.320 --> 0:13:16.559 in Melbourne for more than a day, let's say without 0:13:16.600 --> 0:13:19.880 my wife, man, the internet loses their mind, don't there's 0:13:20.040 --> 0:13:24.000 articles specifically the media. Yeah, I was going to say 0:13:24.000 --> 0:13:26.200 all of them lose their mind. They think we've gotten 0:13:26.200 --> 0:13:28.800 divorced or breaking up her on the rocks, they going 0:13:28.840 --> 0:13:31.880 this huge and it's it's like when I see it 0:13:31.920 --> 0:13:33.400 or get it sent to me, I'm just like, what 0:13:33.640 --> 0:13:36.840 is going through people's minds to like get that narrative 0:13:36.960 --> 0:13:41.480 and like like we're married, happily married. I can come 0:13:41.520 --> 0:13:44.520 down and work and stay in Melbourne like I've got 0:13:44.559 --> 0:13:47.280 you know, obviously friends here work here, so like I 0:13:47.320 --> 0:13:50.960 stay here. There's nothing wrong with that. And she, my wife, 0:13:50.960 --> 0:13:53.040 grows up and sees the kids, takes them to school 0:13:53.040 --> 0:13:53.400 and all that. 0:13:53.600 --> 0:13:56.200 You have the Expo every single year you have done 0:13:56.200 --> 0:13:58.760 since I've known you, So it's not like a shock 0:13:59.120 --> 0:14:00.880 that you are here this week. 0:14:01.280 --> 0:14:03.760 But yeah, obviously people see that you guys are. 0:14:03.679 --> 0:14:06.720 In different states and I'm not going to say freak out, 0:14:06.760 --> 0:14:08.480 but they're like, oh, what's going on there? 0:14:08.600 --> 0:14:12.720 Like what's happening? So yeah, it's to clear it up, guys. 0:14:13.640 --> 0:14:15.760 Yeah, I know, it's just more than anything, you just 0:14:15.800 --> 0:14:18.400 got to laugh about it and just be like, real, 0:14:18.480 --> 0:14:19.040 this's what it is. 0:14:19.080 --> 0:14:21.520 I mean, you guys are from different states as well. 0:14:21.600 --> 0:14:22.120 This is true. 0:14:22.200 --> 0:14:23.920 Let's not forget and Tammy. 0:14:23.960 --> 0:14:26.120 As much as she would love to, like she said 0:14:26.120 --> 0:14:28.120 it before, she would love to be with you here 0:14:28.120 --> 0:14:31.160 in Melbourne, she has responsibilities on the Gold Coast. 0:14:31.240 --> 0:14:33.200 She can't just she has kids, she. 0:14:33.320 --> 0:14:36.000 Exactly, she has the three kids, she has two businesses, 0:14:36.480 --> 0:14:38.000 she has her whole family there. 0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:40.960 So you know, we FaceTime every night, we literally all 0:14:41.040 --> 0:14:43.640 day every day pretty much. But like you know, it's nothing, 0:14:43.800 --> 0:14:46.560 nothing wrong with it. Good And it's like a double 0:14:46.640 --> 0:14:48.360 edged sword because you said that she's got to go 0:14:48.440 --> 0:14:50.720 up for her responsibilities. But then when she comes down 0:14:50.920 --> 0:14:53.360 to Melbourne, they lose their minds as well, and they're 0:14:53.360 --> 0:14:55.040 all like, why is she there? Why isn't she with 0:14:55.080 --> 0:14:58.160 the kids. She's like running off with Matthew and all 0:14:58.160 --> 0:14:58.600 this sort. 0:14:58.440 --> 0:15:00.920 Of stuff, and really it's like, so you can't win. 0:15:00.840 --> 0:15:03.440 You can't win, you can't win. It's just yeah, it's 0:15:03.480 --> 0:15:04.000 just funny. 0:15:04.080 --> 0:15:06.480 So would you say you guys are sleeping in separate 0:15:06.480 --> 0:15:07.640 beds at the moment. 0:15:09.760 --> 0:15:15.920 Yes, we are. Let's get into the endzde. So just 0:15:16.000 --> 0:15:19.600 for everyone, Tammy and I are only sleeping in separate 0:15:19.600 --> 0:15:22.520 beds because we're in different states at the moment. Correct, 0:15:22.640 --> 0:15:24.720 Christ We still FaceTime each other from the bed and 0:15:24.760 --> 0:15:29.920 Acquack we're doing pillow talk, but we are in separate 0:15:29.960 --> 0:15:31.640 beds because they're in different states. 0:15:31.920 --> 0:15:34.200 Okay, mat So, now that we have clued all of 0:15:34.240 --> 0:15:37.440 that up, we thought that we would do an episode 0:15:37.640 --> 0:15:40.680 on sleeping in separate beds or how you sleep with 0:15:40.720 --> 0:15:45.160 your partner. There's lots of interesting facts on this. And actually, 0:15:45.960 --> 0:15:50.640 since getting pregnant, I found it really hard to get 0:15:50.680 --> 0:15:54.160 to sleep, stay asleep, whatever. So Michael and I have 0:15:54.200 --> 0:15:56.880 been doing this new thing. And it turns out it's 0:15:56.880 --> 0:16:01.720 an actual method. It's called the Scandinavian sleep method, and 0:16:01.760 --> 0:16:05.640 it basically is when couples are sharing a bed, but 0:16:05.720 --> 0:16:10.080 they each have their own separate douvet or sheet or whatever. 0:16:10.280 --> 0:16:14.600 So basically Michael is sleeping with the douvet and I'm 0:16:14.640 --> 0:16:16.560 sleeping with a sheet because I'm running really. 0:16:16.360 --> 0:16:20.600 Hot at the moment. And yeah, it's just working well 0:16:20.640 --> 0:16:21.360 for us. 0:16:21.400 --> 0:16:25.160 Well on that this this actually clears up something with me. 0:16:25.240 --> 0:16:29.600 When we were on our honeymoon Finland, the master bed 0:16:29.920 --> 0:16:32.760 had to douner covers like rolled up every time they 0:16:32.760 --> 0:16:33.600 would like clean. 0:16:33.680 --> 0:16:35.680 The roads were bed ones. 0:16:35.880 --> 0:16:37.960 Yeah, and they were like on each side of the bed, 0:16:38.240 --> 0:16:40.240 and I was just say, I never understood why. I 0:16:40.320 --> 0:16:42.360 didn't ask anyone what. I was just like, I don't know. 0:16:42.360 --> 0:16:44.080 It's part of their culture. I guess. I'm not sure 0:16:44.640 --> 0:16:46.680 why they do this, but I guess it's because of 0:16:46.720 --> 0:16:49.080 that Caandinavian sleeping method. I guess. 0:16:49.280 --> 0:16:52.080 Yeah, it's popular in the Scandinavian country. It's like Sweden, 0:16:52.080 --> 0:16:54.040 Norway and Denmark. So that makes sense. 0:16:54.080 --> 0:16:58.240 Well, black lean's right neardy, yeah, right at the top there, 0:16:58.280 --> 0:17:00.480 So that makes sense that that cles on that well, 0:17:00.520 --> 0:17:01.680 we wouldn't use one each. 0:17:01.800 --> 0:17:03.880 We've just put it at half of one each. 0:17:04.359 --> 0:17:06.520 No, Like we're just like to, well, how mean you 0:17:06.520 --> 0:17:08.720 did say? Because when we were there, She's like, I 0:17:08.760 --> 0:17:10.240 don't want to sleep on a separate thing. I want 0:17:10.240 --> 0:17:12.160 to be like entwined and you so like we yeah, 0:17:12.240 --> 0:17:14.000 title anyway, so you can just use the one. 0:17:14.080 --> 0:17:15.439 That's the thing I reckon. 0:17:15.560 --> 0:17:18.800 Although we are sleeping in the same bed but with 0:17:18.920 --> 0:17:23.159 different sheets, it does kind of feel a little bit disconnected. 0:17:22.800 --> 0:17:24.439 It would, I feel like because you're. 0:17:24.320 --> 0:17:28.520 Not like cuddling, You're not touching at all, not really, 0:17:28.560 --> 0:17:31.320 because like Michael's got the full dinner and I'm kind 0:17:31.320 --> 0:17:32.399 of wrapped up in the sheet. 0:17:32.800 --> 0:17:34.160 Okay, but yeah. 0:17:33.920 --> 0:17:36.560 In the mornings, obviously we cuddle, and before bed we cuddle, 0:17:36.600 --> 0:17:39.200 but then during the night we separated. 0:17:39.320 --> 0:17:41.040 Do you turn around or do your face. 0:17:42.359 --> 0:17:44.119 I'm moving every five seconds. 0:17:45.560 --> 0:17:47.360 You know. It's funny you say that, because I've had 0:17:47.359 --> 0:17:49.720 that problem over the years a lot where I run 0:17:49.800 --> 0:17:52.679 hot in bed and partners run cold. 0:17:53.160 --> 0:17:55.360 Yeah. So have you spoken about this a lot? 0:17:55.480 --> 0:17:58.360 Yeah? I have. Yeah, So I've done that method before, 0:17:58.440 --> 0:18:00.840 but it wasn't that deep. Is that, like, do you 0:18:00.880 --> 0:18:02.120 know what I mean it was just like I would 0:18:02.160 --> 0:18:04.919 sort of have a sheet on and like half cuddle 0:18:05.040 --> 0:18:07.199 or something, but like it was never like an actual 0:18:07.280 --> 0:18:09.080 like talked about dress issue. 0:18:09.280 --> 0:18:11.800 Yeah, I mean, well, being pregnant, I can't even sleep 0:18:11.800 --> 0:18:14.439 on my back anymore. Like I think it's at twenty 0:18:14.480 --> 0:18:17.360 eight weeks, you have to be sleeping on one side 0:18:17.440 --> 0:18:19.720 or the other side. Like you can't sleep on your back, 0:18:19.800 --> 0:18:22.160 so I'm constantly moving from like side to side. 0:18:22.440 --> 0:18:25.760 I always said psychopaths fall asleep on their back. 0:18:26.200 --> 0:18:27.440 I love sleeping on my back. 0:18:27.760 --> 0:18:29.639 Apparently I love it. 0:18:29.960 --> 0:18:30.560 I miss it. 0:18:30.720 --> 0:18:32.800 I fall asleep on your back, though. 0:18:32.800 --> 0:18:35.600 I think so. I don't know, but I love sleeping 0:18:35.600 --> 0:18:36.000 on my back. 0:18:36.040 --> 0:18:37.840 And the fact, you know when it's like someone says 0:18:37.840 --> 0:18:39.760 to you can't do something, and then all of a sudden, 0:18:39.920 --> 0:18:41.040 it makes you want to do it more. 0:18:41.080 --> 0:18:43.720 So you're sleeping back. Apparently I sleep on my back, 0:18:43.760 --> 0:18:46.680 but I couldn't fall asleep on my back after on fall. 0:18:46.920 --> 0:18:48.520 You're on your side on my stomach. 0:18:48.960 --> 0:18:51.080 Like I never minded side sleeping until it was the 0:18:51.160 --> 0:18:53.360