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Speaker 1: It fits in with I'm so excited for this show

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Speaker 1: because everyone has their own parenting style. The other thing is,

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Speaker 1: though we don't like to be told how to pairent

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Speaker 1: our own kids. Parental Guidance start seven point thirty on

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Speaker 1: Channel nine on Monday night. Alison Langdon, the host of

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Speaker 1: the show, joins.

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Speaker 2: Us, Now, hey day, Yes, there as a guidance. It

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Speaker 2: is about to begin. My friends.

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Speaker 1: The thing that we watch with you on it in

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Speaker 1: the promo is you are crying at one point yourself.

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Speaker 1: Can you discuss what the subject was at the time,

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Speaker 1: Ali oh.

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Speaker 2: Man, I mean we covered so many big issues. I

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Speaker 2: think at the time that was where we were talking

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Speaker 2: about would your child go off with a stranger? Oh? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: And so it was pretty intense. It was pretty intense

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Speaker 2: when everyone sitting there said, look, there's no way my

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Speaker 2: kids would and then just watching how that whole challenge

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Speaker 2: played out, I wasn't the only one crying in the room.

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Speaker 2: By the way, it really full on is is there

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Speaker 2: a right way? Like?

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Speaker 3: Is there a right way to treat some kids? And

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Speaker 3: do you need to change your parenting styles to suit

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Speaker 3: another child?

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Speaker 2: Look? I reckon so and I'm just speaking from personal

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Speaker 2: experience right now the experts, Well, yeah, look, you know

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Speaker 2: what I am. I think I'm on the show because

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Speaker 2: I'm the example of a bad parent. That's what I

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Speaker 2: wrote to hang on now, I'm just an all clicked

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Speaker 2: about episode two. The reason why I was part of

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Speaker 2: this experiment.

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Speaker 1: Well see, but see, Ali, the number one thing that

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Speaker 1: I take out of this show is no one likes

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Speaker 1: to be told how to parent their own children. So

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Speaker 1: you have got so many different types of parenting styles

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Speaker 1: on the show from different families. There must do you.

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Speaker 2: Even know there were so many different styles. It's like,

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Speaker 2: you know, there's helicopter. You've got tiger parents, free range routine.

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Speaker 2: We've got parents who are nature parents, so you know

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Speaker 2: they live in.

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Speaker 1: Ten what's helicopter? What's helicopter?

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Speaker 3: Pary like that?

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Speaker 2: Oh, it's where you hold up, That's where you're constantly saying,

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Speaker 2: be careful, don't do that. Watch And I've worked out

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Speaker 2: where my husband and I Mike Narram little.

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Speaker 1: Bit helicopter right, Yeah, because I feel like I'm in

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Speaker 1: that stage at the moment, and all I'm saying to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And you know what there are and you look

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Speaker 2: at all these different parenting styles on the show, and

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Speaker 2: as you can imagine, it gets pretty heated at different

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Speaker 2: times when when you're sort of focusing in on certain techniques.

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Speaker 2: But that was one great thing that I took out

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Speaker 2: of it all. I'm definitely a better parent because of this, right,

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Speaker 2: and just trying to just just not say no and

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Speaker 2: stop and like every time I say be careful, what

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Speaker 2: message does that send to the kids? Oh, what you're

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Speaker 2: doing is really dangerous? Yep, you know, maybe they'll fall

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Speaker 2: out of the tree. Maybe well, you know, but sometimes

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Speaker 2: you've got to let go a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Well, I want to ask about the strict parenting style.

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Speaker 1: Why is Andrew and Miriam from New South Wales. Why

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Speaker 1: are they in the strict parenting style? Can you give

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Speaker 1: us an example of how strict they are.

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Speaker 2: They are very consistent with their rules and they smack,

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Speaker 2: and they smack with a wooden spirit. Wow, it's one

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Speaker 2: of the tools in the tool kids. So it's not

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Speaker 2: something they do all the time. So that is something

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Speaker 2: if they threaten it, they will carry through. And they

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Speaker 2: are also if you drop your towel, say on the

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Speaker 2: You lose the towel, there's no towel. There are natural

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Speaker 2: consequences for what you do.

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Speaker 1: Wow, they must be controversial on the show. There must

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Speaker 1: be a lot of other parents that are not happy

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Speaker 2: Well, as you can imagine, Well, once they sort of

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Speaker 2: raise that they smack, there was a whole lot of

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Speaker 2: came from parents who'd maybe been smacked as kids and

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Speaker 2: of a yet that's probably one of the most contentious

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Speaker 2: who does smack and who doesn't? Because I mean, I

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Speaker 2: don't know, Will you guys smack? Good kids?

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Speaker 3: I was, Yeah, I got hit so hard one time.

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Speaker 3: There was like a handprint on my bum and.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry about it. Sorry about that. That was That

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Speaker 3: That was a completely different story. It was at Level

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Speaker 3: six at the IVY. But you know the other one

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Speaker 3: that I like, that one, Yeah, that was awesome. My god,

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Speaker 3: I actually got that tattooed on my bum. You know,

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Speaker 3: the one that I find unbelieveable unbelievably effective and so

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Speaker 3: simple is the count. So guys, I need I need

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Speaker 3: you in the bar in three two doesn't.

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Speaker 1: Work with us for you, hear though, that's the thing

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Speaker 1: we do it to you regularly.

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Speaker 3: I thought we were going to the news, but it is.

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Speaker 1: I think our parents Ali were that generation it was

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Speaker 1: okay to smack and but now I wouldn't even think

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Speaker 1: about doing it with the boys. And don't get me wrong,

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Speaker 1: they roll me up so much to a certain point,

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Speaker 1: but that's the last thing on my mind to give

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Speaker 1: them a little smack on the bum.

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Speaker 2: Look, I'm with you, and I'm at the point where

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Speaker 2: I've got a two and a four year old and

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Speaker 2: they just swallop each other all the time. How do

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Speaker 2: I turn around and tell them? They would you know,

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Speaker 2: time out there? You go go sit on the step

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Speaker 2: because you just punched your sister in the eye, which

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Speaker 2: happened yesterday. If I then learn around an Ice mack

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Speaker 2: So that's my personal.

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Speaker 1: Exactly, I agree. I agree.

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Speaker 2: I also want to point out with our strict parents,

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Speaker 2: like a lot of people watching this will will resonate

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Speaker 2: with them and will agree with what they do. But

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Speaker 2: everyone on the show loves their kids and striving to

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Speaker 2: raise the very best little human beings. And all their

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Speaker 2: kids are amazing. I think that's kind of important to

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Speaker 2: point out too.

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Speaker 1: Can you just with the nature parents as well, the

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Speaker 1: ones that live in the tent. Can you give us

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Speaker 1: another example of their parenting style.

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Speaker 2: Ali, they un school, so they don't home school. They

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Speaker 2: so they've got kids who can't read or write yet

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Speaker 2: they will learn in their.

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Speaker 1: Own time, So they will learn when they're ready to learn, when.

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Speaker 2: They're ready to learn. And the thing is, they've got

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Speaker 2: like an eleven year old who can read a Harry

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Speaker 2: Potter book who couldn't read when they were nine. So

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Speaker 2: you know, there's there's a whole lot of it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and all the different techniques you'll actually take something out

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Speaker 2: of each of them. Yeah, I'm going to go and

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Speaker 2: live in a tent. I'd like to make that very

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Speaker 2: That's good.

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Speaker 3: I'm still learning to write.

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Speaker 1: I think when Mike gets home late some nights, he

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Speaker 1: has to sleep in a tent out the back, doesn't he.

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Speaker 2: I mean, mate, if he was lucky that in.

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Speaker 3: See, I'm fascinated about this great idea for a show.

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Speaker 2: This is it is fantastic girls, It's really good. I

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Speaker 2: recommend you watching it because I think you know there

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Speaker 2: is no right way, but I think you'll watch this

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Speaker 2: and you'll be a better parent because of it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, parental guidance. It starts Monday night, seven thirty on

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Speaker 1: Channel nine. Make sure you tune in Ali langdon great

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Speaker 1: to hear your voice again, love, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Good to talk to you guys. It fits in with

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Speaker 2: her