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Speaker 1: I just know that, Yes, boys, hot girls do shit.

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 1: You can't, but you'd like to.

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Speaker 2: I would love to if I could. Hello God, that

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Speaker 2: was so like non energetic.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's an episode about anxiety. So I feel like

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Speaker 3: it's like fine.

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Speaker 2: And you guys are joining us from my couch today.

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Speaker 2: I feel like this is really good with our anxiety charts.

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Speaker 3: It is because it's kind of getting me right in

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Speaker 3: that headspace of how I feel after.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like we're in our hoodies, we're in our loungewear

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Speaker 2: on my couch. It's kind of a vibe.

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Speaker 1: We've got Vinnie running around.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's our special guest for today.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so same questions below, but today on our Girls Guide,

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Speaker 3: we're going to be discussing everyone's least favorite topic anxiety.

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Speaker 2: It's not my least favorite favorite, topically favorite sensitive.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, holy shit.

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Speaker 2: It's not a good feeling, and I think since becoming

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Speaker 2: friends with you, I've experienced it a lot.

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Speaker 1: Do not blame me.

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Speaker 2: I'm not blaming decisions. I'm not blaming you. But you

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Speaker 2: would be a highly influential person when it comes to

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Speaker 2: my drinking this year. I would say you seem to

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Speaker 1: Plastic because I'm fun to go out with.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, of course you are, But then I have to

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Speaker 2: deal with the repercussions are going out with the next day?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the amount of times it's like there'll be an

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Speaker 3: M but I can't deal with the backlash of what

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Speaker 3: the day after that is going to bring. Yeah, therefore

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Speaker 3: I will keep myself home.

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Speaker 2: Yes, especially if I have like a big week, Like

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Speaker 2: I really could go through a drink on Friday night, yeah,

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Speaker 2: repercussions of if I do go out. Yeah, but it

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Speaker 2: I was speaking before like if and I feel like

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Speaker 2: go out, you take a few days to recover, and

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Speaker 2: it's like picking yourself up from like.

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Speaker 1: I'm on recovering from Grand Final those two.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that was a big day for us.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I get that. I'm a Friday I like

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Speaker 3: to go out on Friday. Sound like Skina Saturday.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a Saturday kind of guy, because why do

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Speaker 1: Kind of guy, are you? Yeah? Yeah, Okay, why do

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Speaker 3: Like going out on Friday, because then it's like Saturday

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Speaker 3: I'm not feeling that anxiety anymore, and I just get

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Speaker 2: Yeah. See, I'm different because we like to do different

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Speaker 2: I ain't no way, ain't no way I'm going to

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Speaker 2: I literally could like smell the tequila coming out of

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Speaker 1: It's like all the guys on the weight machines.

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Speaker 2: And I'm just like I don't want you to look

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Speaker 3: Like intimidating to me, Like I think I actually will

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Speaker 3: Fair enough, because sometimes I'm not fucking with you. There's

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Speaker 3: And it's not that I think, oh, they're all looking

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Speaker 3: It's like we've spoken about this before, totally off topic

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Speaker 3: My anxiety shows in I don't want anyone to talk

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Speaker 1: So like you will have a hard time trying to

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Speaker 3: Is that after I drink something that a bunch of

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Speaker 3: I have good nights, and hang anxiety comes from me

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Speaker 3: even from good nights like Grand Final day for example,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So it's always good when it's to day like

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Speaker 3: It's kind of like, oh, I'm just feeling a little

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Speaker 3: that hangover it's when you there are maybe little blackouts

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Speaker 2: Pockets of memory.

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Speaker 1: Did you have that in the weekend? Not really, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And then I ended up bumping into him, and then

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Speaker 2: I wish I could tell you guys, well, like I can't.

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Speaker 2: And then I woke up in my bed alone on

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Speaker 2: don't know how I'm going to go. So then reading

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Speaker 3: Of a no no for anxiety. That is step number one.

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Speaker 3: Do not reread the messages. I'm an archiver through and

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Speaker 3: through any conversation that took place that night before, whether

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Speaker 3: the boy, will be archived.

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Speaker 1: I don't need to know what I said. I don't care.

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Speaker 1: It's irrelevant. We move.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Archive, Yeah, it's the more the things that like

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Speaker 2: some information that I probably shouldn't have. Yes, but nothing's

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Speaker 2: my actions on a night out.

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Speaker 1: Nothing.

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Speaker 3: I think I've cultivated a way that my friends don't

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Speaker 3: tell me. They don't do that, they don't go do

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Speaker 3: you know what you said? Do you know what you did?

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Speaker 3: Because I've just said, don't tell me. I don't need

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Speaker 3: to know. It's not relevant, It's never relevant. I just

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Speaker 1: Do you know what you said? Last night?

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Speaker 3: Like that is not going to help anyone. That is

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Speaker 3: not going to solve any problems except make the person

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Speaker 3: In that case, it's like you will.

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Speaker 2: Need to talk that out to talk about the next morning.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't think so either. Unluckily that hasn't been

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Speaker 1: But it's like you've gotten so much better.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if there's like something that was just funny or like,

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Speaker 2: You know, my most painful thing, and this person kept

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Speaker 2: explain this situation. I'm no longer with Mario. I was

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Speaker 2: getting a lot of dams. When I did A Q

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Speaker 2: and A and my story the other day, it like

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Speaker 2: it was a holiday romance gone rogue, do you know

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Speaker 1: Like holiday romance taken a little bit too seriously.

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Speaker 2: On his end, I think, and he kind of just

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Speaker 2: I'm just gonna tell you go straight because like honestly,

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Speaker 1: It's so bad.

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Speaker 2: But like lovely guy, lovely, lovely human being. But like

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Speaker 3: I think she was caught up in them a fun

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Speaker 3: But in mind about anxiety, it really doesn't fucking matter

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Speaker 3: So food, food is fuel. Food is fuel. I will

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Speaker 2: Drinks and calories don't count what you're drinking, and.

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Speaker 1: You go out. It's gonna be so drunk and you're

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Speaker 2: And it will make you feel better the next day.

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Speaker 3: Okay, there's a TikTok that came across my feet the

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Speaker 3: discussing would you rather questions, and I'm just gonna ask

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Speaker 1: Would you rather shot in front of them? Or clog

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Speaker 3: They would actually have to go unclog your pool out

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Speaker 1: Ah, yeah, but then you stink. I feel it.

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Speaker 2: I feel like you could easily blame the clogged toilet

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Speaker 1: The toilet you're poos floating.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but just be like I think I could play

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Speaker 2: No, you'd stink, and like a shot, you have to

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Speaker 2: and you're meeting parents. I feel like you could play

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Speaker 3: No, because I then have to see your poo floating

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Speaker 1: Pooh is a natural human Therefore, shouting is to know.

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Speaker 2: No, shouting is more embarrassing because you literally were standing

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Speaker 2: there speaking. You took a farp and anyway you could

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not answering this question. That's why I'm asking these.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna go for the clock toilet.

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Speaker 3: Would you rather send a photo of your poo to

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Speaker 1: Or have to use sam paper to wipe your ass?

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Speaker 2: Paper to wipe my ear for the rest of time,

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Speaker 2: for the rest of time, because sometimes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, why clean, that's going to fucking rip your bum.

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Speaker 2: I don't want people to see my pooh and some guys,

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Speaker 2: I bow issoes like I would.

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Speaker 3: Rather send the poof photo as fucked as that is,

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Speaker 3: because wiping my bum with sam paper forever.

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Speaker 2: You'd get used to it, though, No, you wouldn't.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna get callouses and stuff.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then the callouses build skin and then you

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Speaker 2: just get tough. I'm not fucking.

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Speaker 1: Saving you never have a clean ass again.

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Speaker 2: You would, These sad people would really get all those

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Speaker 2: molecules off. I am not sending my poo for people

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Speaker 2: to analyze in my contacts list once I've got clients

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Speaker 1: Like, I don't want to be fucking eighty.

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Speaker 2: Do you have clients that you've worked with that are

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Speaker 1: No, don't. Yeah you would, No, you would.

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Speaker 2: I'd rather that, Okay, Well, speach to their own. Are

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Speaker 2: these all pooh questions?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Let me think one. Would you rather have explosive diarrhea

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't like the feeling of being I don't

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Speaker 1: You are to know that I never am.

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Speaker 2: After a flight. Guys have always clocked up.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's that's human, that's that's just flying like that

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Speaker 3: Would you rather have a clean wipe or a silent poo?

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Speaker 2: Clean wipe? Because there's actually nothing satisfying. I don't really

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Speaker 3: We're talking about maybe public, because that will change things.

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Speaker 2: Oh, silent poo.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, that's just like normal man, Bundy, you know

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Speaker 3: you always got to do the like, yeah, I clean

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Speaker 3: ight would be nice, but like it's not common practice

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a silent pool. There's nothing better in public than

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Speaker 2: I can just imagine people sitting in their car.

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Speaker 3: Going, this is disgusting. I know, I can't believe we're

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Speaker 3: a smelly fart at work?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Smelly, you can buy that off. It's not yours.

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Speaker 1: People know it's yours. Like people would also know the

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking if we're around like play Claudia Pru and

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Speaker 2: Allowed, Yeah, my work environment, I fucking would be like,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but like, because if it's smelling and then everyone

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Speaker 2: Not actually do you guys wants nothing worse. And I've

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Speaker 2: hot pile of Larti's room, there's no aerration in there,

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Speaker 2: And I'm sitting there like doing my fucking poses, trying

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Speaker 2: oh my god, it is bad, you know, one of

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Speaker 2: the likes, and no I don't want them to think

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Speaker 3: People not people know that you're smelling it too, and

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Speaker 3: you're looking around going someone's yeah, you got it, Like

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Speaker 3: you know what else you have to do that on

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Speaker 3: an aeroplane, Yeah, fucking there's nothing better than I've actually

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Speaker 3: one knows who's fighting on an airplane.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, at least it's loud.

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Speaker 1: Unless it's loud, but it's not usually loud.

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Speaker 3: But it's like obviously the airplane fox with like everyone's guts,

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Speaker 1: Like everyone's sitting there fucking fighting the whole time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you just like, yes, you don't know where it's,

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Speaker 2: you don't know what.

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Speaker 3: Because you're also close together, so it's kind of like everyone.

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Speaker 3: I think that's the one place in the world where

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Speaker 3: as much as they want.

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Speaker 2: Let it rip on the fucking plane, guys.

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Speaker 3: We're talking about ship for the last five ten minutes.

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Speaker 3: That's all for the pooh. You guys can relax. How

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Speaker 3: I think we're done.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's good. Yeah, fighting and pooing is just such

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Speaker 2: an odd concept for the song, Like why are we

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Speaker 2: not like making it taboo like everyone does it.

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Speaker 3: Everyone does to it. I'm gonna I don't know if

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Speaker 3: we're gonna. I'm going to say this on the pod,

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Speaker 3: so we might, you know, better feeling than a hangover ship.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, We'll keeping that in because there is

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Speaker 2: fucking nothing better. There's honestly nothing better.

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Speaker 3: The grossest thing though, So someone called it to me

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Speaker 3: once and like, I just think it's the most foul

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Speaker 3: fucking name period.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's that's absolutely incredible.

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Speaker 3: But a post grog bog someone called it that once

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Speaker 1: But I think it very much gives off what it is. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: post grog bog.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a good disgusting But alas so, when you

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Speaker 3: are hangover, hungover and you do have anxiety, at least

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Speaker 3: know you have that.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, that is a good thing. That is a good

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Speaker 2: way to end this podcast. Yeah, if you have anxiety,

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Speaker 2: just go to the toilet and have bog.

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Speaker 1: It will make you feel a little bit better.

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Speaker 2: It will make you feel so much better. You release

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Speaker 2: all that stuff that you pay.

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Speaker 3: I think, yeah, the boys on this episode are going

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Speaker 3: to be going, oh, but like.

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Speaker 2: I'm not speaking boys, like I'm not speaking from a

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Speaker 2: personal experience because.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, but I know as in this is

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Speaker 3: an episode definitely for the girls. So I'm hoping that

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Speaker 3: that was the majority of listening.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well, thank you guys so much for joining us on

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Speaker 2: our Girls Guide Thursdays, where we pretty much just talk

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Speaker 2: about shit, spoken shit, and talked about actual shit.

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Speaker 1: Just know that, yes, boys, hot girls do shit.

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 1: She can't, but she liked to.

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Speaker 2: I would love to if I could.

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, we love you and we will chat

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Speaker 1: to you on Tuesday.

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Speaker 2: Boy boy